The Queer Stuff Pod

Life Update: Fire, Breakup, Switzerland? | Q & A

Mon, 07 Apr 2025 07:00:00 -0000

In this Q&A-style episode, I answer your questions about the wild start to my 2025—from losing my home in a fire to unexpectedly moving to Switzerland and starting a new chapter as head of media at an aid organization.

I’m covering everything: how I ended up here, what life near Lake Lucerne is really like, and the ups and downs of adjusting to a new country and culture, and what’s next for me and the podcast.

Timestamps:

00:00:00 - Introduction
00:01:09 - Podcast break
00:03:13 - Switzerland job
00:04:04 - Permanent move
00:04:39 - Swiss men & relationships
00:05:55 - Swiss visa & yodeling
00:06:51 - Sarge
00:08:03 - Favorite country
00:09:02 - Finding a job in europe
00:10:40 - Haircut
00:11:20 - Swiss living expenses
00:12:09 - Andrés update
00:12:25 - Swiss language barrier
00:13:41 - Adoption update
00:14:42 - Favorite food
00:15:40 - Culture shock
00:17:16 - Learning German
00:17:40 - What’s next?

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Identity, Hollywood, + Embracing the Mess | Brandon Kyle Goodman

Mon, 31 Mar 2025 07:00:00 -0000

On this episode of Queer Stuff Pod, I’m joined by the brilliant Brandon Kyle Goodman—actor, writer, and all-around icon—who never shies away from life’s messiest moments. Brandon talks about identity, career ups and downs, and what it means to embrace every part of yourself, even the chaotic ones.

From making it in Hollywood to cutting off toxic people, Brandon gets into the highs and lows of life with humor and honesty. Nothing is off-limits in this conversation about identity, boundaries, and finding joy in the mess.

Topics Discussed:

How do you set boundaries and go no-contact with toxic people?
How do humor and vulnerability help in discussing serious topics?
What’s the messiest story Brandon has ever heard
What advice does Brandon have for folks entering the entertainment industry

Timestamps:

00:00:00 - Introduction
00:01:08 - Who The Hell Are You!
00:04:27 - Tell Me Something Messy
00:06:18 - Sex positivity
00:08:33 - Most memorable interview
00:09:43 - We contain multitudes
00:10:52 - Navigating challenges with humor
00:13:51 - Messiest story
00:14:46 - Going no contact
00:19:51 - Identifying with suffering
00:22:57 - You can do hard things
00:24:51 - Making time for yourself
00:28:49 - From Queens to Georgia
00:31:20 - Max’s expulsion
00:32:34 - NYU Tisch
00:35:30 - DEI
00:38:11 - Recession core & stand up
00:40:01 - Sketch vs standup comedy
00:42:05 - Job security
00:43:01 - Message for marginalized folks
00:46:17 - Fight Me! Clone f*cking

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The Funny Side of Fitness | Raneir Pollard

Mon, 24 Mar 2025 07:00:00 -0000

26: Comedian and fitness pro Raneir Pollard joins the show to share his journey from college friend to Guinness World Record holder. He talks about breaking a burpee record while wearing stilettos, his work as a celebrity trainer, and his unique approach to fitness with humor.

We explore his worst performances, balancing comedy and fitness, and his thoughts on body positivity and the fitness influencer culture. Raneir also discusses how virtual reality is revolutionizing workouts and the importance of staying motivated in both comedy and fitness.

Topics Discussed:

How did Raneir Pollard become a Guinness World Record holder?
What challenges did Raneir face during his worst performances?
How does Raneir balance comedy with fitness?
What is Supernatural VR Fitness, and how does it relate to fitness?
How does body positivity affect Raneir’s approach to fitness?
What are common scams in the fitness industry and how to spot them?
How does Raneir stay motivated in his comedy and fitness careers?

Timestamps:

00:00:00 - Introduction
00:01:57 - Who Is Raneir Pollard?
00:05:40 - How Raneir Realized He Was Funny
00:09:13 - Raneir’s Worst Shows
00:13:12 - Pre-Show Rituals
00:14:59 - Earning a Guinness World Record
00:16:28 - Teaching 20 Fitness Classes a Week
00:19:18 - Fitness Influencers & Parasocial Relationships
00:21:33 - Supernatural VR Fitness
00:24:59 - Cardio & Comedy
00:25:36 - Fitness Instructor Challenges
00:26:47 - Body Positivity in Fitness
00:28:58 - Spotting Fitness Scams
00:31:21 - Advice for Beginners in Fitness
00:34:59 - Structuring Your Workouts
00:36:47 - Intensity of VR Workouts
00:37:58 - Staying Motivated
00:40:19 - Best Raneir Workout
00:41:32 - FIGHT ME! - Vampirism?

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TV, Fashion, and the 7-Year Life Cycle | Darren Kennedy

Mon, 17 Mar 2025 07:00:00 -0000

TV presenter, style expert, and entrepreneur Darren Kennedy joins me to share his journey from radio to television, his most disastrous interviews, and how he found his place in the fashion industry. We also explore the inspiration behind his podcast The Number, his approach to personal style, and his documentary Gay Daddy.

Topics Discussed:

Darren Kennedy’s journey from radio to TV and fashion
His most memorable and disastrous celebrity interviews
The inspiration behind his podcast The Number
The Gay Daddy documentary and LGBTQ+ representation in media
Tips on personal style and men’s grooming with Kennedy & Co

Timestamps:

00:00:00 - Introduction
00:01:37 - Who is Darren Kennedy?
00:06:08 - The power of work ethic
00:08:40 - Breaking into radio
00:10:10 - Darren’s worst interviews
00:11:45 - Shifting from radio to TV
00:12:53 - Entering the fashion world
00:16:53 - Irish vs. American TV
00:19:14 - Creating unscripted shows
00:22:10 - The story behind The Number podcast
00:25:22 - Darren’s lucky numbers and their meaning
00:28:39 - How to make people feel comfortable
00:32:45 - Inside the Gay Daddy documentary
00:35:25 - Being a “family-friendly” gay
00:35:52 - Mastering personal style
00:37:15 - The story behind Kennedy & Co
00:40:16 - Where to find Darren
00:41:22 - What happened to Darren’s foot?
00:43:45 - FIGHT ME: Handwashing

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All Things Bottoming | Alex Hall

Mon, 10 Mar 2025 07:00:00 -0000

24: I sit down with Alex Hall, co-founder and host of The Bottom’s Digest, to talk all things bottoming. As a sexual health educator and body autonomy activist, Alex is on a mission to make sex education accessible, no matter where you’re from or what you’re into.

We get into the biggest bottoming barriers, from physical challenges to common myths. Alex shares expert tips on safe douching, trigger foods, and his signature "butt clock technique."

Topics Discussed:

The origins of The Bottom’s Digest
Common bottoming myths and misconceptions
Preventing and healing from anal fissures
Diet, digestion, and trigger foods
Safe douching and timing techniques
The "butt clock technique" explained
Challenges in sex education and advocacy
Why humor is key in talking about sexual health

Timestamps:

00:00:00 - Introduction
00:02:20 - Who The Hell Are You?
00:08:25 - Starting Bottom’s Digest
00:11:45 - Bottoming barriers
00:13:33 - Anyone can bottom!
00:15:17 - Sex education
00:19:49 - Anal fissures & healing from injury
00:21:39 - Staying humorous
00:26:49 - Trigger foods
00:28:32 - Douching guide
00:32:40 - Platinum/gold stars & bisexuality
00:35:01 - Douche timing
00:36:25 - The butt clock technique
00:37:48 - Don’t douche too far!!
00:42:02 - Challenges to sex education and advocacy
00:45:17 - Fight me

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Out & Proud In Corporate America | Blake Danner

Mon, 03 Mar 2025 08:00:00 -0000

23: What does it take to build some of the most talked-about hotels in the world — and do it while proudly representing the LGBTQ+ community at the top levels of corporate leadership? Blake Danner, COO of aka Hotels and Hotel Residences, joins us to share his journey from nightclub-loving hotel rookie to the executive suite, shaping brands like NoMad, The Line, and Freehand along the way.

Blake opens up about the risks that shaped his career, the power of mentorship, and what it means to lead authentically — even in industries not always known for diversity. Whether you’re chasing a career in hospitality or just love bold leadership stories, this episode is packed with real talk and hard-earned advice.

Topics Discussed:

Breaking into hospitality
Lessons from building iconic hotel brands
Being out in corporate America
Mentorship & diversity in leadership
Leading teams through crisis
Career advice for young professionals

Timestamps:

00:00:00 - Introduction
00:01:36 - Who the Hell Are You?
00:05:57 - Why Work in Hotels?
00:08:31 - Blake’s First Job
00:11:33 - Risk-Taking & Delano Hotels
00:13:56 - Dallas vs. New York Nightlife in the 90s
00:15:59 - Coming Out in Corporate America
00:19:59 - Max & Blake’s Friendship
00:22:30 - Leading People in the Corporate World
00:25:06 - Being a Visible Queer Leader
00:29:58 - Advice for Young Professionals
00:33:37 - Biggest Mistakes in Corporate America
00:35:27 - Managing Hotels Through COVID
00:38:24 - Keeping Employees Happy and Motivated
00:40:15 - Why Blake Joined AKA Hotels
00:43:42 - Mentoring & Fostering Growth in Others
00:45:36 - Fight Me! New York vs LA

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Where In The World Is Chris Colfer?

Mon, 24 Feb 2025 16:20:00 -0000

22: Chris Colfer is a Golden Globe-winning actor, bestselling author, screenwriter, and producer, known for his role as Kurt Hummel on Glee, for which he earned numerous accolades, including a Golden Globe and two Emmy nominations. He is the author of the Land of Stories series, which has sold millions of copies worldwide and spent over 100 weeks on the New York Times bestseller list. In 2024, he launched a new middle grade series, Roswell Johnson Saves the World!, which became an instant bestseller. Colfer is also an award-winning audio narrator and has narrated all of his books, including the bestselling Stranger than Fanfiction. His other projects include Netflix's Ridley Jones and the upcoming animated musical feature The Potters. Based in Los Angeles, Colfer's work spans television, film, and literature, with a unique blend of humor, heart, and imagination.

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Timestamps:

00:00:00 - Introduction
00:02:11 - Who The Hell Are You
00:08:24 - Being a baby gay and becoming an actor
00:10:43 - Breaking into television and booking Glee
00:16:20 - Self tapes and auditioning
00:17:32 - Glee and coming out on Chelsea Handler
00:19:53 - Getting outed in a magazine
00:21:14 - Being closeted on television
00:24:47 - Challenges that come with activism
00:28:20 - SNL and bucket list career moments
00:29:18 - Best parts of Glee
00:30:46 - Dating as an out actor
00:34:29 - Slash Fiction
00:36:33 - “The Land of Stories”
00:39:38 - How writing saved his life
00:41:00 - Creative energy and writing strategy
00:44:46 - Most challenging writing project
00:46:50 - Advice regarding social anxiety
00:48:34 - Fight Me!

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Dogs, Clout & Coming Out | Joey Graceffa

Mon, 17 Feb 2025 08:00:00 -0000

21: Today, I’m joined by none other than Joey Graceffa. With over 2.9 billion views and a career spanning back to 2007, Joey has built an empire of engaging content, from gaming and vlogs to his hit web series Escape the Night. Joey shares his experience coming out online, his creative inspirations, and his journey as a writer.

Episode Highlights:

Joey’s rise to YouTube fame & Escape the Night
Coming out online & the “Are You Gay” quiz
Writing In Real Life & Children of Eden
Mental health, self-care & online fame
Vlogging, breakups & digital legacy

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Timestamps:

00:00:00 - Introduction
00:02:09 - Who The Hell Are You?
00:08:04 - Starting youtube
00:09:41 - Escape the night
00:11:59 - How to start a youtube channel
00:13:57 - Coming out on youtube
00:14:51 - Creative inspiration
00:18:57 - Joey’s memoir
00:20:43 - Children Of Eden
00:21:44 - Special Ed & Gifted classes
00:23:41 - The BIG 3 zodiac signs
00:24:16 - Mental health & self care
00:26:51 - Are you gay quiz
00:30:01 - Joey’s coming out journey
00:31:45 - Vlogging & the break up video
00:34:47 - Dream collabs & legacy
00:36:04 - Take doggie supplements
00:37:31 - Fight Me!

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From Army Officer to Bodybuilder | Roberto Portales

Mon, 10 Feb 2025 08:00:00 -0000

20: In today’s episode, I'm joined by Roberto, a Tampa native and fellow Florida man. Roberto’s journey is nothing short of incredible—he's a West Point grad, a former Army Officer, and a leader in counterintelligence. After his time in the military, he dove into the fitness world, even launching his own app to help others get in shape. These days, he works as an IT Services Client Executive for a global tech company (and yes, he’s still in incredible shape, ready to flex at any moment). When he’s not working or hitting the gym, Roberto also dabbles in acting for commercials, TV, and film.

Today, we're talking about everything from military life to body-building, and everything in between. Tune in for some great insights and a whole lot of fun!

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Timestamps:

00:00:00 - Introduction
00:01:30 - Who the Hell Are You?!
00:06:12 - West Point Experience
00:10:55 - Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell
00:12:06 - West Point vs Naval Academy
00:13:33 - Key Takeaways from Army Life
00:14:44 - Transitioning to Civilian Life
00:18:30 - Command Time vs Staff Time
00:21:03 - Corporate Speak & Military Skills Crossover
00:22:46 - Veteran Hiring Insights
00:23:22 - Struggles Finding Work After the Military
00:26:58 - Getting Into Bodybuilding
00:31:34 - The Role of Performance Enhancers
00:35:41 - Crafting Your Ideal Workout Routine
00:40:57 - Workout Splits & Gym Playlist
00:42:26 - Nutrition, Meal Prep & Staying on Track
00:43:07 - Chest Training & Building Muscle
00:46:58 - Fight Me!

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Queer Travel Guide | AMA

Mon, 03 Feb 2025 08:00:00 -0000

In today’s episode, I’m talking all about travel! You’ve asked about everything from the logistics of frequent flying to how I maintain some sense of stability while constantly on the go. This episode is all about practical tips and how I manage to make travel work—both for my career and my personal life.

We’ll discuss:

How I balance work and travel
The best ways to handle turbulence
My approach to booking flights
Who watches Sarge when I’m away
How I pack for long trips

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Timestamps:

00:00:00 - Introduction
00:01:21 - Window vs aisle seat
00:02:03 - Travel with me? + booking
00:03:03 - Travel nonnegotiables
00:03:54 - Who watches Sarge?
00:06:30 - Which airline is the best?
00:07:06 - Mexico and New Zealand
00:07:30 - Turbulence & staying hydrated
00:09:40 - Travel itinerary
00:11:05 - Work vs vacation
00:12:14 - Rainbow surf & gay bars
00:13:08 - Underwear & threesomes?
00:13:59 - Hawaii
00:15:37 - Working internationally
00:16:04 - First class is a scam + packing
00:17:02 - Travel wish list
00:18:01 - How to pack a suitcase

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What To Do Post-Election | Brian Sims

Mon, 27 Jan 2025 08:00:00 -0000

In this episode, I chat with Brian Sims, a pioneering LGBTQ+ advocate and former Pennsylvania state legislator, who continues the fight for equality as the CEO of Agenda PAC. Brian shares his experiences as the first openly LGBTQ+ member of the Pennsylvania General Assembly, and as the only NCAA football captain to come out publicly while still active.

We discuss his journey through politics, the importance of staying true to your values, and navigating challenges like discrimination and anti-queer legislation. Brian also reflects on the significance of intersectionality, the need for genuine allyship, and his advice for those wanting to get into politics.

Highlights:

Breaking barriers as an LGBTQ+ leader in politics and sports
The challenges of being openly queer in traditionally conservative spaces
Intersectionality and its role in advocacy
How to engage with anti-equality politicians
Staying grounded while leading a movement
Advice for aspiring political activists

Listen now for a powerful conversation on leadership, equality, and making change in the world.

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Timestamps:

00:00:00 - Introduction
00:02:46 - Who The Hell Are You?
00:09:15 - Closeted legislatures
00:11:14 - Choosing to stay closeted
00:12:13 - Discrimination and representation
00:15:25 - Challenges of getting elected
00:20:57 - Staying calm when debating
00:22:06 - Brain’s campaign
00:23:53 - Sticking to the issues, not being defined by your queerness/identity
00:25:30 - Intersectionality
00:28:08 - Allyship & avoiding white savior complex
00:29:47 - Handling antiqueer legislators
00:36:11 - Staying grounded - reword
00:38:30 - Leaving office
00:40:58 - Marriage equalities
00:43:46 - Post election advice
00:47:02 - Advice for getting into politics
00:48:44 - Fight Me!!!

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Busting Skincare Myths: Accutane, Retinol, + Acne Treatment | CLEARSTEM

Mon, 20 Jan 2025 08:00:00 -0000

In this episode, I’m joined by Danielle Gronich and Kayleigh Christina, the co-founders of CLEARSTEM Skincare, to talk about everything from acne myths and skincare scams to gut health and the importance of clean, effective ingredients. Danielle, a licensed clinical esthetician, and Kayleigh, an integrative health practitioner, share their expert insights on managing acne, debunking common skincare misconceptions, and why it’s so important to be mindful of what’s in the products we use. We also discuss the impact of diet on skin health and how they approach both acne and anti-aging without using pore-clogging ingredients.

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Timestamps:

00:00:00 - Introduction
00:02:23 - Who The Hell Are You?
00:07:58 - What kids today know about skincare
00:09:51 - Acne commercials & sharing bathrooms
00:10:57 - Sharing bathrooms
00:11:45 - Educating about acne
00:16:28 - Acne myths and social media
00:19:02 - Skincare scams and red flags
00:21:27 - What is acne?
00:23:44 - The future of clean skincare
00:26:48 - Why CLEARSTEM?
00:29:23 - Voting with your dollar
00:30:27 - Issues with acne prescriptions
00:33:43 - Managing cystic acne
00:35:09 - Acne education
00:35:18 - Gut health, sugar, and skin
00:37:50 - Skin health musts
00:40:19 - Antiaging skincare at a young age
00:45:21 - HOT PEOPLE GET ACNE
00:47:20 - Fight Me!

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Sex, Relationships + Personal Growth | Zach Noe Towers

Mon, 06 Jan 2025 16:09:00 -0000

In this episode, stand-up comedian Zach Noe Towers opens up about his bold and unapologetic approach to comedy, podcasting, and life. Zach, co-host of Confidently Insecure, shares insights into his journey from musical theater to comedy, how sobriety has influenced his career, and his unfiltered takes on sex, relationships, and personal growth. He also talks about what it’s like to push boundaries on stage, work with big names like Taylor Tomlinson and Bob The Drag Queen, and offers advice to aspiring comedians.

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Timestamps:

00:00:00 - Introduction
00:02:40 - Who The Hell Are You?
00:10:58 - Deciding to work in entertainment
00:12:13 - Sobriety
00:13:02 - Musical Theatre Degree and experimentation
00:17:21 - Getting into show business
00:19:18 - Writing for different genres and platforms
00:24:19 - Hosting different red carpets
00:29:24 - Unapologetic and raw comedy
00:31:48 - Overstepping and pushing boundaries
00:33:43 - Comedy idols
00:34:43 - Podcasting
00:36:33 - Fetishes and plague
00:40:25 - Advice for inspiring comedians
00:41:57 - Where to find Zach

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All Love Is Equal: Photographing Queer Love Around The Globe | Braden Summers

Tue, 17 Dec 2024 08:00:00 -0000

In this episode, we’re joined by Braden Summers, a commercial photographer renowned for his cinematic style and thought-provoking visual storytelling. Braden shares his journey of capturing queer relationships, particularly through his iconic All Love is Equal series, which reimagines classic romantic imagery with LGBTQ+ couples. He discusses the intersection of high-fashion aesthetics, inclusivity, and emotional resonance, and how he’s pushing the boundaries of representation in both commercial and creative photography. Plus, we explore his creative process, challenges, and the stories behind his most impactful projects. Tune in for a conversation about art, identity, and the power of visual storytelling.

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Timestamps:

00:00:00 - Introduction
00:01:12 - Who The Hell Are You?
00:05:59 - San Francisco, diversity, and creative vision
00:07:44 - Art school takeaways
00:10:40 - Artistic vision and inspiration
00:12:30 - Mistakes and experimentation
00:14:47 - First job
00:17:12 - All Love Is Equal campaign
00:21:53 - Viralty, The Advocate, and Buzzfeed
00:23:34 - Crowd sourcing
00:28:20 - Casting difficulties
00:32:25 - Creating dreamlike images and feedback
00:35:21 - Creating moments of intimacy
00:38:35 - Real couples vs models
00:40:59 - Composing images
00:43:57 - Creative control
00:48:05 - Braden’s new projects
00:49:10 - Fight Me!

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Adoption Journey | Max & Andrés AMA

Mon, 09 Dec 2024 08:00:00 -0000

In today’s episode, I’m joined by my partner, Andrés, to talk about our adoption journey. We’ll share where we are in the process, the challenges we’ve faced, and answer some of your questions about what it’s really like. From navigating agencies to dealing with the emotional ups and downs, we’re giving you an honest look at the highs, lows, and everything in between.

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Timestamps:

00:00:00 - Introduction
00:01:44 - Where we are in the adoption process
00:02:24 - Adoption process length and where we are
00:03:16 - Hardest part of the process
00:08:06 - Deciding to adopt
00:10:06 - Infant newborn domestic adoption
00:12:25 - Our expectations
00:16:59 - Adoption agencies vs consultants
00:19:35 - Adoption cost
00:20:55 - Public & private adoption, age, and other preferences
00:24:33 - Adoption challenges
00:31:30 - Going back to phase one
00:35:42 - Vetting as a same sex couple
00:38:45 - Motivation
00:41:48 - Fight me

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Finding The Right Therapist, Mastering Communication, + Living Your Best Life | Matthew Dempsey

Mon, 02 Dec 2024 08:00:00 -0000

In this episode, Matthew Dempsey, a Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor, gives us a behind-the-scenes look at therapy and mental health. With years of experience, he talks about creating a safe space for clients, how to approach therapy, and why finding a supportive community matters. He also discusses the misuse of therapeutic terms, the ever-evolving nature of psychology, and beating the stigma around therapy. It’s a real, down-to-earth conversation about building better connections and taking care of your mental well-being.

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00:00:00 - Introduction
00:01:22 - Who The Hell Are You?
00:09:13 - Becoming a counselor
00:11:51 - Working with LGBTQ
00:13:31 - Identity, therapeutic practice, bullying
00:15:26 - Creating a safe space
00:19:00 - Finding a therapist and communicating with others
00:23:44 - Dark humor and direct communication
00:29:37 - Social media as a resource
00:31:54 - Beyond coming out
00:35:57 - Misusing therapeutic terms
00:40:05 - Finding queer community
00:43:12 - Changes in psychology
00:45:26 - Stigma around therapy and other resources
00:49:18 - FIGHT ME!

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A-List Dancer and Choreographer On: How to Make It In The Industry + Finding Your Voice | Dexter Carr

Mon, 18 Nov 2024 15:53:00 -0000

Ever wondered how a young talent from Miami makes a leap to the grandeur of Broadway? Join us as we explore Dexter Carr’s remarkable journey from his early days dancing with entertainment icons like Chris Brown, Beyonce and Janet Jackson to gracing Broadway stages in "Bring it On" and "In the Heights." Dexter shares invaluable insights into the transformative shift from the exhilarating world of professional dance to the theatrical demands of Broadway. His story is a vibrant testament to the resilience and creativity needed to thrive in the arts, providing a unique perspective on the supportive nature of the dance community versus the competitiveness of the entertainment industry.

Dexter opens up about the highs and lows of his career, including the challenges of imposter syndrome and the ever-evolving landscape of auditions and networking. He reflects on his experiences choreographing for megastars like Janet Jackson and Nicki Minaj, and how social media has become a critical tool for building connections and sustaining a career. With a focus on empowerment, Dexter delves into his role in projects like Megan Thee Stallion's reality series "Playground," which gives dancers a voice beyond being background performers. His insights encourage aspiring dancers to embrace their uniqueness and find strength in community and collaboration.

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Timestamps:

00:00:00 - Introduction

00:01:56 - Who The Hell Are You: Rapid Fire Questions

00:07:30 - What Drew Dexter to Dance?

00:08:09 - Male Cheerleading as a Cover Up For Being in the Closet

00:08:43 - Auditioning for Chris Brown as a Dancer

00:10:00 - Being Chris Browns Body Double

00:10:37 - Dexter Transitioning from Pop Music to Broadway and Musical Theatre

00:12:52 - Learning How to Tour and Not Party on the Road

00:14:06 - How Does Dexter’s Personality Influence His Work and Creative Process

00:15:05 - Most Memorable Moments in Dexters Career

00:15:48 - Advice from Lin Manuel during “In the Heights”

00:19:34 - Dexter’s New Hulu Series, “Playground” Produced by Megan Thee Stallion

00:22:11 - What Impact Will the Playground Have on Aspiring Dancers?

00:23:12 - How To FInd Your Voice as a Dancer

00:23:50 - How to Adapt to Working with Different Artists

00:25:22 - Choreographing for The Nicki Minaj Tour

00:28:03 - How to Stay In the Game

00:29:00 - When Did Dexter Parents Stop Making Him Get a Real Job?

00:30:37 - Behind the Scenes with Janet Jackson

00:33:12 - How Do You Adapt Choreography To Each Project?

00:34:44 - Max’s Episode of Glee

00:35:20 - Current Projects that Dexter is Excited About

00:37:30 - Kaos

00:38:44 - What is Outlet By Dexter?

00:39:51 - TikTok Advice and How To Get TikTok Fame?

00:41:00 - How to Not Get Burnout on TikTok

00:42:11 - Nike App

00:43:40 - Dexter’s Advice for Other Dancers

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What I REALLY Eat to Stay Healthy: Diet, Abs, and My Fitness Routine! | Ask Me Anything

Mon, 11 Nov 2024 08:00:00 -0000

In this episode, I’m answering your questions about wellness and fitness. From workout routines and diet tips to those tough days when motivation is low, I’m sharing how I stay on track with my health. I’ll talk about everything from strength training and cardio to dealing with cravings and finding balance between exercise, diet, and mental well-being. Plus, get ready for some forbidden food confessions and the real talk on how I maintain my fitness and self-care routine.

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Timestamps:

00:00:00 - Introductions
00:03:26 - Keeping It Simple
00:03:51 - Weight
00:04:19 - Simone Biles
00:04:39 - Workout Routine
00:05:07 - Starting a Wellness Routine
00:05:37 - Strength Training
00:06:46 - Cardio Tips
00:07:36 - Recovering from Sickness
00:08:08 - Nutrition for Running
00:08:49 - Belly Fat
00:10:04 - Staying Motivated
00:10:33 - Advice for Fitness Beginners and Building Abs
00:10:55 - Diet Tips for Bottoming
00:11:40 - Calorie Counting and a Typical Dinner
00:15:18 - Eating the Rainbow
00:16:32 - Healthy Desserts
00:17:15 - Healthy Recipes
00:17:58 - Calorie Restriction and Foods to Avoid
00:18:39 - Changing Your Diet and Eating Before Bed
00:19:19 - Gaining Weight and Self-Care
00:20:27 - Forbidden Foods
00:21:54 - Calorie Deficit
00:22:50 - Alcohol & Sobriety
00:24:50 - Objectification
00:25:24 - Sleep Routine
00:27:46 - Diet, Exercise, Mental Health, and Sleep

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The Art of Podcasting, Comedy, and Trolling | H. Alan Scott

Mon, 04 Nov 2024 08:00:00 -0000

Welcome to Stuff Every Queer Kid Should Know! Today, I’m super excited to chat with H. Alan Scott, a talented writer, comedian, and podcaster you might know from Newsweek's The Parting Shot and *Out on the Lanai. We’ll explore the world of podcasting, talking about how to find your voice and connect with your audience. H. Alan will share his journey from writing to comedy and how he uses humor to tackle some pretty serious stuff. So, tune in for a fun and inspiring conversation that might just spark your own creative journey!

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Timestamps:

00:00:00 - Introduction
00:02:04 - Who The Hell Are You?
00:10:26 - Starting Out as a Writer
00:11:16 - Tackling Serious Topics
00:17:03 - Finding Inspiration
00:19:30 - Connecting with Your Audience
00:21:13 - Navigating Social Media
00:23:26 - Hate Watching
00:25:49 - Owning Mistakes and Knowing When You're Wrong
00:26:15 - Finding Laughter and Humor in Everything
00:28:15 - The Internet's Impact on Perception
00:30:57 - Understanding the Neurospicy Spectrum
00:33:51 - Navigating Mental Health: Depression & Anxiety
00:34:40 - Comedy & Mental Health, Punching Down vs. Up
00:39:28 - Waiting Tables at the Improv
00:41:06 - You Don’t Need To Speak To Everyone
00:43:12 - Out On The Lanai
00:44:07 - Live Shows and Which Golden Girl Are You?
00:48:51 - Tips for Aspiring Podcasters
00:51:53 - Confronting Imposter Syndrome
00:52:46 - Structuring Your Podcast
00:56:57 - Engaging with Trolls
00:01:02 - Fight Me

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Abercrombie Modeling, Coming Out, + Navigating Fashion Week | Betsy Volk

Mon, 28 Oct 2024 07:00:00 -0000

Welcome back to Stuff Every Queer Kid Should Know! Today we’re joined by the fabulous Betsy Volk, a model and adventurer whose journey is as inspiring as it is exciting. At just 27, Betsy has been navigating the modeling world since she was 16, moving from the Midwest to Los Angeles and traveling the globe while embracing her authentic self as a member of the LGBTQ+ community. Join us as we explore her experiences in the fashion industry, her adventurous lifestyle, and her journey of self-discovery—from her early days with Abercrombie to her candid reflections on coming out and personal growth. Whether you're a budding model or just seeking connection and inspiration, this episode is packed with insights and real talk you won't want to miss!

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Timestamps:

00:00:00 - Introduction
00:01:40 - Who the Hell Are You?
00:07:37 - Starting Out in the Modeling Industry
00:08:33 - Abercrombie Modeling
00:09:25 - How Agencies Work
00:10:40 - The Abercrombie Campus
00:14:59 - Betsy & Max's Adventures
00:15:47 - Max’s Crashpads & Bicoastal Living
00:20:02 - Betsy's LA Move
00:24:35 - International Travel
00:28:05 - Promoter Dinners
00:30:41 - Coming Out
00:31:44 - Pride Campaign
00:35:15 - Living in London
00:37:36 - Model Housing and Drama
00:39:47 - Advice for Young Models
00:41:37 - Social Media and Modeling
00:42:44 - Staying Grounded
00:44:01 - TikTok
00:46:28 - Betsy’s F*ckboy Era
00:48:25 - Room Raiders
00:49:39 - FIGHT ME!

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Polyamory, Break Ups, + Love At First Sight | Relationship AMA

Mon, 21 Oct 2024 07:00:00 -0000

Welcome to Stuff Every Queer Kid Should Know! In this episode, I’m pleased to welcome back my partner, Andres, as we answer your questions about relationships. We’ll discuss a range of topics, from the nuances of polyamory to the importance of communication in love. I’ll address your questions—like what makes us the cutest couple ever—while we explore the challenges of navigating relationships, including wedding and family planning. So, grab a snack or a stress ball, and join us for an insightful conversation about love, connection, and personal growth.

Timestamps:

00:00:00 - Introduction
00:01:15 - Who The Hell Are You?
00:06:40 - Polyamory
00:07:09 - Taking a break
00:08:10 - How long have we been together?
00:08:42 - Family planning
00:09:19 - Wedding planning & love at first sight
00:12:13 - How we met
00:14:36 - First date
00:19:02 - Falling in love
00:22:37 - Secret to a long relationship
00:24:48 - What we love about each other
00:26:11 - Favorite position in bed
00:27:07 - Scam accounts and catfishes
00:28:16 - Relationship challenges
00:29:04 - Handling conflict in relationships
00:33:06 - Finding time for each other
00:36:12 - Fight Me!

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Appealing To The Straights, Queer Representation + The Cecil Hotel | Brandon Rogers

Mon, 14 Oct 2024 07:00:00 -0000

Welcome back to another episode of Stuff Every Queer Kid Should Know! Today, we’re joined by the incredibly talented Brandon Rogers, a comedian and YouTube sensation with over 10 million followers. We explore his journey in sketch comedy, the challenges of virality, and the importance of queer representation in media. From his iconic characters to his award-winning series Blame the Hero, Brandon shares insights on burnout, personal growth, and the creative process behind his work. Tune in for a lively discussion that’s as entertaining as it is enlightening!

Timestamps:

00:00:00 - Introduction
00:01:56 - Who The Hell Are You?
00:08:06 - Video virality and career goals
00:09:45 - Burn out in entertainment
00:13:10 - Queer representation in media
00:17:20 - Appealing to the straights
00:18:37 - Growing up closeted
00:22:02 - Max’s…family dynamic
00:25:24 - Brandon’s first videos and core memories
00:29:21 - Are we in a simulation?
00:31:08 - Hot Banana Stud
00:32:05 - Brandon’s connection to the Cecil Hotel
00:36:12 - Comedy writing
00:39:01 - Know where the line is
00:41:34 - Keeping up with the content monster
00:45:08 - The evolution of youtube
00:46:17 - Helluva Boss & John Waters
00:49:45 - Billboards on Sunset Blvd
00:52:16 - Class Acts
00:53:48 - Fight Me

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Celebrity Photographer On: Self Love, Coming Out, Social Change, Colorism + Homophobia | Henry Jimenez

Mon, 07 Oct 2024 07:00:00 -0000

Welcome back to Stuff Every Queer Kid Should Know! In today’s episode, we’re exploring the vibrant world of creative vision with the talented Henry Jimenez. At just 24, Henry has made waves in fashion and celebrity photography, using his art to challenge norms and advocate for social change. Join us as we discuss his journey from a young boy in Comalcalco, Mexico, to a dynamic force in Los Angeles, touching on topics like colorism, identity, and the power of storytelling. Whether you’re an aspiring creative or just looking for inspiration, this episode is packed with insights and advice you won’t want to miss!

Timestamps:

00:00:00 - Introduction
00:01:48 - Who The Hell Are You
00:09:01 - Henry’s backstory
00:11:05 - Colorism on TV
00:12:36 - Photographing celebrities
00:13:16 - Mexican heritage and living in LA
00:15:26 - Machismo, homophobia, and coming out
00:17:53 - Religion
00:21:54 - Feeling like an outsider
00:23:51 - Henry coming out to his mom
00:29:15 - Max’s coming out story
00:31:08 - Henry’s childhood and triggers
00:33:40 - Max’s father
00:35:21 - Artistic vision and Henry’s Angels
00:36:59 - Feeling beautiful
00:38:33 - Growing up in the panhandle
00:41:19 - Colorism around the world
00:42:45 - Collaboration
00:44:35 - Advice for aspiring creatives
00:45:09 - Ignoring the haters
00:46:38 - What’s next for Henry
00:47:50 - Fight me

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Coming Out, Dating Apps, Alligator Attacks, + Shoe Size? | Solo

Mon, 30 Sep 2024 07:00:00 -0000

Welcome to today’s Ask Me Anything episode, where I tackle the intriguing questions you've sent me on Instagram! From my shoe size (a surprisingly popular topic) to the mystery of Sarge's backup food guy, we’ll cover it all. We’ll also discuss coming out in theater school, dealing with bullies, navigating dating apps, and even how to escape an alligator attack! Get ready for a fun mix of curiosities, confessions, and some relationship advice.

Timestamps:

00:00:00 - Introduction
00:01:03 - Shoe Size?
00:01:25 - Sarge
00:01:46 - Traveling
00:03:46 - Coming out in theater school
00:08:08 - Bullying
00:09:13 - When to come out
00:09:55 - How to run away from an alligator
00:10:50 - Social media & boundaries
00:13:31 - Dating apps
00:18:48 - Finding “the one”
00:20:25 - Relationship Advice
00:21:16 - Marriage
00:21:35 - Therapy
00:21:44 - Writing and publishing
00:22:40 - Bottoming
00:23:33 - Max’s Underpants
00:23:55 - Financial advice
00:24:58 - Diet
00:25:34 - Only Fans
00:26:55 - The future
00:27:13 - Skincare Routine
00:28:01 - Adoption
00:28:40 - Fight me!

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Tik Tok Fame, Embracing the Chaos, Highs And Lows Of Stardom + Max’s Haunted House? | Spencewuah

Mon, 23 Sep 2024 07:00:00 -0000

Welcome back to Stuff Every Queer Kid Should Know! In today’s episode, we’re thrilled to welcome Spencer Hunt, better known as Spencewuah, a TikTok sensation famous for their "Daily Scream" series. Join us as Spencwuah shares the highs and lows of stardom in the digital age, the unofficial 6th borough, and the time someone used their photos to catfish. Stay tuned for dating horror stories, chaotic meet and greets and advice for aspiring content creators. Also…I think my house is #haunted?

Timestamps:

00:00:00 - Introduction
00:01:31 - Who the hell are you
00:09:29 - Rise to chaotic tik tok fame
00:14:23 - Catfishing & number leak
00:16:05 - The unofficial 6th burrough & New Jersey
00:22:07 - Florida vs Jersey
00:23:01 - Ghosting & cat parenting
00:27:11 - The Daily Scream & working at Starbucks
00:32:45 - Haunted House
00:33:41 - The REAL Spencewauh Hunt
00:35:28 - Meet & greets
00:39:28 - Content creation
00:42:14 - Tik Tok fame
00:43:24 - Cancellation, fake tweets, internet fame
00:48:49 - Being authentic on social media
00:53:07 - FIGHT ME!

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Only Fans, Self-Love, Burnout, Celebrity Glam + Queer Advocacy | Kyle Krieger

Mon, 16 Sep 2024 04:00:00 -0000

Welcome back to another episode! Today, we’re thrilled to host Kyle Krieger, a Los Angeles-based celebrity hairstylist to a beloved online personality with over 2 million followers. Kyle discusses sustainable creativity, sharing insights on how he balances his creative passions with self-care, handles burnout, and remains grounded. We also explore his advocacy for LGBTQ+ causes and his unique approach to creative projects, including his work on OnlyFans. Tune in for a candid conversation about creativity, self-love, and community connection!

Timestamps:

00:00:00 - Introduction
00:01:16 - Who the hell are you?
00:07:27 - Starting as a content creator
00:09:00 - From celebrity hair styling to content creation
00:11:29 - Struggling with self esteem
00:14:10 - Handling burnout
00:20:55 - Staying grounded
00:23:44 - Refilling your cup
00:25:20 - The limitations of creative projects
00:29:39 - Picking projects to pursue
00:31:36 - Queer advocacy
00:33:22 - Connecting with community
00:38:58 - Creative control and Only Fans
00:40:41 - Committing to Only Fans
00:45:18 - Boundaries & Only Fans
00:47:44 - FIGHT ME!

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Adoption Announcement, Surrogacy, Being Gay In The US Military | Andrés Camilo

Mon, 09 Sep 2024 05:00:00 -0000

Ep. #2 In this episode of Stuff Every Queer Kid Should Know, I'm thrilled to welcome my fiancé and incredibly talented guest, Andrés Camilo. We’ll explore his fascinating journey from growing up in Medellín to serving as a US Army Veteran, and how he channels his experiences into his visual art and social media presence. Today, we’re tackling the complex topic of family planning—covering everything from surrogacy and adoption to the ethical and emotional aspects involved. Whether you're considering parenthood yourself or just here to learn more about Andrés, this episode is packed with insights and personal reflections. Join us for a heartfelt conversation about love, creativity, and building a future together.

Timestamps:

00:01:28 - Who the hell are you?
00:06:18 - Andrés’ backstory and art
00:09:21 - Military experience
00:14:33 - Authenticity and social media
00:15:59 - Storytelling & the creative process
00:18:42 - Creating reels and tiktoks
00:20:20 - Advice for aspiring artists
00:21:53 - Important relationship conversations
00:23:58 - Deciding we are ready for children
00:24:58 - Surrogacy
00:32:22 - Do your research
00:33:26 - Interviewing with different agencies
00:37:14 - Ethics and communication
00:41:39 - The adoption process
00:44:57 - Matching with a birth mother
00:46:18 - Waiting to get matched
00:49:36 - Preparing for parenthood
00:50:26 - Tips for family planning
00:53:16 - FIGHT ME!

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Queer American History, Gay Villains, History of Pride Parades + Gay Representation | Dr. Eric Cervini

Mon, 09 Sep 2024 04:00:00 -0000

Ep. #1 Welcome to the debut episode of Stuff Every Queer Kid Should Know, I’m thrilled to welcome the remarkable Dr. Eric Cervini, author of The Deviant’s War. We explore Queer American history, uncovering the pivotal figures and events that have shaped our community. Dr. Cervini shares insights from his award-winning book and Emmy-nominated docu-series, The Book of Queer. Tune in as we discuss everything from early LGBTQ+ activism to gay rights and wrongs, and discover how these moments continue to influence us today.

Topics Discussed:

00:01:46 - Who the hell are you?
00:05:35 - Balancing all your career aspirations
00:06:37 - Dr. Eric Cervini
00:07:23 - From Texas to Harvard
00:08:22 - Spanish & french lesson
00:09:07 - Political activism
00:14:52 - Texas campaign incident
00:16:54 - Gay representation
00:19:51 - Harvey Milk
00:21:24 - The Mattachine Society
00:25:25 - The history of Pride parades
00:27:14 - Frank Kameny
00:31:45 - The Dowdy Trial
00:36:57 - Allstora & book publishing
00:43:39 - The Book Of Queer
00:47:05 - Queer Historians
00:49:29 - Akhnaten & gay villains
00:50:21 - Queer role models throughout history
00:54:18 - Neurodivergence throughout history
00:56:29 - The importance of intersectionality
00:58:48 - Ways to get involved
01:01:53 - FIGHT ME!

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