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    <description>Want to be more charismatic and confident?  We make videos to help you learn how to be more confident, how to make people laugh, how to be more likable - basically everything about exuding charisma.  Relationships in life are everything, so we want to teach you to turn on your most confident, charismatic self in the moments that matter most.For Charisma University, go to https://www.charismaoncommand.com/c-university/Thanks!Links:Charisma University: http://www.charismaoncommand.com/c-universityFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/CharismaOnCommandInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/charismaoncommand/</description>
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    <itunes:summary>Want to be more charismatic and confident?  We make videos to help you learn how to be more confident, how to make people laugh, how to be more likable - basically everything about exuding charisma.  Relationships in life are everything, so we want to teach you to turn on your most confident, charismatic self in the moments that matter most.For Charisma University, go to https://www.charismaoncommand.com/c-university/Thanks!Links:Charisma University: http://www.charismaoncommand.com/c-universityFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/CharismaOnCommandInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/charismaoncommand/</itunes:summary>
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      <![CDATA[<p>Want to be more charismatic and confident?  We make videos to help you learn how to be more confident, how to make people laugh, how to be more likable - basically everything about exuding charisma.  Relationships in life are everything, so we want to teach you to turn on your most confident, charismatic self in the moments that matter most.<br><br>For Charisma University, go to <a href="https://www.charismaoncommand.com/c-university/">https://www.charismaoncommand.com/c-university/</a><br><br>Thanks!<br><br>Links:<br>Charisma University: <a href="http://www.charismaoncommand.com/c-university">http://www.charismaoncommand.com/c-university</a><br>Facebook: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/CharismaOnCommand">https://www.facebook.com/CharismaOnCommand</a><br>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/charismaoncommand/">https://www.instagram.com/charismaoncommand/</a></p>]]>
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      <title>How To Have Fun Without Drinking</title>
      <description>"How Do I have Fun Without Drinking?"https://goo.gl/0uDf6EIt can be tough to have fun when you are learning how to not drink when everyone else is.  People will peer pressure you incessantly, implying that you're no fun or a buzzkill.  That's why it's good to come up with a plan for having fun despite not having anything to drink.So if you've watched this video (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vTkX4wfkj1A) and decided to quit drinking, take a look at these tips for having a good time when you're sober and everyone else around you isn't.  Obviously there are a million ways how to have fun without drinking, but the big question is, "How do you do it in an environment where everyone else is?"  Hopefully these musings help :-)Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert
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      <pubDate>Wed, 23 Sep 2026 15:21:49 -0000</pubDate>
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      <itunes:summary>"How Do I have Fun Without Drinking?"https://goo.gl/0uDf6EIt can be tough to have fun when you are learning how to not drink when everyone else is.  People will peer pressure you incessantly, implying that you're no fun or a buzzkill.  That's why it's good to come up with a plan for having fun despite not having anything to drink.So if you've watched this video (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vTkX4wfkj1A) and decided to quit drinking, take a look at these tips for having a good time when you're sober and everyone else around you isn't.  Obviously there are a million ways how to have fun without drinking, but the big question is, "How do you do it in an environment where everyone else is?"  Hopefully these musings help :-)Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert
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        <![CDATA[<p>"How Do I have Fun Without Drinking?"<br><a href="https://goo.gl/0uDf6E">https://goo.gl/0uDf6E</a><br>It can be tough to have fun when you are learning how to not drink when everyone else is.  People will peer pressure you incessantly, implying that you're no fun or a buzzkill.  That's why it's good to come up with a plan for having fun despite not having anything to drink.<br><br>So if you've watched this video (<a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vTkX4wfkj1A)">https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vTkX4wfkj1A)</a> and decided to quit drinking, take a look at these tips for having a good time when you're sober and everyone else around you isn't.  Obviously there are a million ways how to have fun without drinking, but the big question is, "How do you do it in an environment where everyone else is?"  Hopefully these musings help :-)<br><br>Subscribe to Charisma On Command: <a href="http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC">http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC</a><br><br>Connect With Us.<br>Website: <a href="http://www.charismaoncommand.com">http://www.charismaoncommand.com</a><br>Facebook: <a href="http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand">http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand</a><br>Periscope: @Charismaon<br><br>Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):<br>Instagram: @CharlieHoupert<br>Periscope: @CharlieHoupert</p><p> </p><p>Learn more about your ad choices. Visit <a href="https://megaphone.fm/adchoices">megaphone.fm/adchoices</a></p>]]>
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      <title>The Podcaster's Secret To Instant Connection</title>
      <description>Level up your charisma in the fastest way possible: https://bit.ly/CU-2425For the first time in history we have professional conversation havers - they’re called podcasters.  And one of the most overlooked social skills that make them successful - is the ability to connect with anyone, even when they have nothing in common.So in this video, I’ll show you 6 techniques - that the best conversationalists use, and that you can use today - to connect with anyone and begin a more meaningful relationship.0:00 - Intro0:29 - #1: Let them know this2:03 - #2: Navigate the talk towards...3:49  - #3: Parroting4:34 - #4:  Advocate for things people...6:32 - #5: Pause and take a moment7:29 - #6: Go there first9:06 - A challenge for you9:49 - The fastest way to level up your charismaSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand
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      <pubDate>Wed, 23 Sep 2026 14:19:05 -0000</pubDate>
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      <itunes:summary>Level up your charisma in the fastest way possible: https://bit.ly/CU-2425For the first time in history we have professional conversation havers - they’re called podcasters.  And one of the most overlooked social skills that make them successful - is the ability to connect with anyone, even when they have nothing in common.So in this video, I’ll show you 6 techniques - that the best conversationalists use, and that you can use today - to connect with anyone and begin a more meaningful relationship.0:00 - Intro0:29 - #1: Let them know this2:03 - #2: Navigate the talk towards...3:49  - #3: Parroting4:34 - #4:  Advocate for things people...6:32 - #5: Pause and take a moment7:29 - #6: Go there first9:06 - A challenge for you9:49 - The fastest way to level up your charismaSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand
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        <![CDATA[<p>Level up your charisma in the fastest way possible: <a href="https://bit.ly/CU-2425">https://bit.ly/CU-2425</a><br><br>For the first time in history we have professional conversation havers - they’re called podcasters.  And one of the most overlooked social skills that make them successful - is the ability to connect with anyone, even when they have nothing in common.<br><br>So in this video, I’ll show you 6 techniques - that the best conversationalists use, and that you can use today - to connect with anyone and begin a more meaningful relationship.<br><br><br>0:00 - Intro<br>0:29 - #1: Let them know this<br>2:03 - #2: Navigate the talk towards...<br>3:49  - #3: Parroting<br>4:34 - #4:  Advocate for things people...<br>6:32 - #5: Pause and take a moment<br>7:29 - #6: Go there first<br>9:06 - A challenge for you<br>9:49 - The fastest way to level up your charisma<br><br><br>Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: <br><a href="http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe">http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe</a><br><br>Connect With Us Further:<br>Website: <a href="http://www.charismaoncommand.com">http://www.charismaoncommand.com</a><br>Facebook: <a href="http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand">http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand</a><br>Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand</p><p> </p><p>Learn more about your ad choices. Visit <a href="https://megaphone.fm/adchoices">megaphone.fm/adchoices</a></p>]]>
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      <title>How To Make A Disrespectful Person Look Insecure For Insulting You</title>
      <description>Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2EbwIYhHow To Stand Up For Yourself Without Being A Jerk, Robert Downey Junior StyleWe all have had those situations in life where we KNOW someone is trying to get to us.  Maybe they keep asking embarrassing questions.  Maybe they put us down with backhandedly.  We know they are attacking us passive aggressively, but it feels like there is nothing we can do about it.  Many of us don't know how to handle this kind of conflict.In this interview with Robert Downey Junior, Krishnan Guru-Murthy continually asks about his history with drugs and jail.  In the context of the interview, the questions are out of line, yet Guru-Murthy continues to probe.  This video will show you how Robert Downey Junior handled the situation and the exact steps that you can take to deal with these kinds of passive aggressive attacks.  The good news is that you don't have to be a jerk, nor do you have to be a total door mat.  You can politely be assertive and then exit the conversation by following the 5 steps.Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert
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      <pubDate>Wed, 23 Sep 2026 13:16:21 -0000</pubDate>
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      <itunes:summary>Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2EbwIYhHow To Stand Up For Yourself Without Being A Jerk, Robert Downey Junior StyleWe all have had those situations in life where we KNOW someone is trying to get to us.  Maybe they keep asking embarrassing questions.  Maybe they put us down with backhandedly.  We know they are attacking us passive aggressively, but it feels like there is nothing we can do about it.  Many of us don't know how to handle this kind of conflict.In this interview with Robert Downey Junior, Krishnan Guru-Murthy continually asks about his history with drugs and jail.  In the context of the interview, the questions are out of line, yet Guru-Murthy continues to probe.  This video will show you how Robert Downey Junior handled the situation and the exact steps that you can take to deal with these kinds of passive aggressive attacks.  The good news is that you don't have to be a jerk, nor do you have to be a total door mat.  You can politely be assertive and then exit the conversation by following the 5 steps.Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert
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        <![CDATA[<p>Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: <br><a href="http://bit.ly/2EbwIYh">http://bit.ly/2EbwIYh</a><br><br>How To Stand Up For Yourself Without Being A Jerk, Robert Downey Junior Style<br><br>We all have had those situations in life where we KNOW someone is trying to get to us.  Maybe they keep asking embarrassing questions.  Maybe they put us down with backhandedly.  We know they are attacking us passive aggressively, but it feels like there is nothing we can do about it.  Many of us don't know how to handle this kind of conflict.<br><br>In this interview with Robert Downey Junior, Krishnan Guru-Murthy continually asks about his history with drugs and jail.  In the context of the interview, the questions are out of line, yet Guru-Murthy continues to probe.  This video will show you how Robert Downey Junior handled the situation and the exact steps that you can take to deal with these kinds of passive aggressive attacks.  <br><br>The good news is that you don't have to be a jerk, nor do you have to be a total door mat.  You can politely be assertive and then exit the conversation by following the 5 steps.<br><br>Subscribe to Charisma On Command: <a href="http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC">http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC</a><br><br>Connect With Us.<br>Website: <a href="http://www.charismaoncommand.com">http://www.charismaoncommand.com</a><br>Facebook: <a href="http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand">http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand</a><br>Periscope: @Charismaon<br><br>Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):<br>Instagram: @CharlieHoupert<br>Periscope: @CharlieHoupert</p><p> </p><p>Learn more about your ad choices. Visit <a href="https://megaphone.fm/adchoices">megaphone.fm/adchoices</a></p>]]>
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      <title>The Recurring Dream You've Been Having Is Trying To Tell You Something</title>
      <description>Candace Owens says she has recurring dreams where Charlie Kirk’s soul visits her from purgatory. In the dreams, he warns her about a betrayal and gives her a name. Candace takes the dreams literally and reaches out to the person he mentions.In this video, I explain why this is a mistake.You will learn how to interpret dreams properly using Carl Jung’s iceberg model. We break down what dreams are, what they are not, and how confusing symbols with reality leads to bad conclusions.0:00 - Intro1:49 - Carl Jung2:43 - The Consciousness Iceberg 9:44 - Step 1 10:01 - Step 210:28 - Step 311:08 - Step 4Connect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand
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      <pubDate>Wed, 23 Sep 2026 12:13:38 -0000</pubDate>
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      <itunes:author>Charisma on Command</itunes:author>
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      <itunes:summary>Candace Owens says she has recurring dreams where Charlie Kirk’s soul visits her from purgatory. In the dreams, he warns her about a betrayal and gives her a name. Candace takes the dreams literally and reaches out to the person he mentions.In this video, I explain why this is a mistake.You will learn how to interpret dreams properly using Carl Jung’s iceberg model. We break down what dreams are, what they are not, and how confusing symbols with reality leads to bad conclusions.0:00 - Intro1:49 - Carl Jung2:43 - The Consciousness Iceberg 9:44 - Step 1 10:01 - Step 210:28 - Step 311:08 - Step 4Connect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand
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        <![CDATA[<p>Candace Owens says she has recurring dreams where Charlie Kirk’s soul visits her from purgatory. In the dreams, he warns her about a betrayal and gives her a name. Candace takes the dreams literally and reaches out to the person he mentions.<br><br>In this video, I explain why this is a mistake.<br><br>You will learn how to interpret dreams properly using Carl Jung’s iceberg model. We break down what dreams are, what they are not, and how confusing symbols with reality leads to bad conclusions.<br><br><br>0:00 - Intro<br>1:49 - Carl Jung<br>2:43 - The Consciousness Iceberg <br>9:44 - Step 1 <br>10:01 - Step 2<br>10:28 - Step 3<br>11:08 - Step 4<br><br><br>Connect With Us Further:<br>Website: <a href="http://www.charismaoncommand.com">http://www.charismaoncommand.com</a><br>Facebook: <a href="http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand">http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand</a><br>Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand</p><p> </p><p>Learn more about your ad choices. Visit <a href="https://megaphone.fm/adchoices">megaphone.fm/adchoices</a></p>]]>
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      <title>How To Stay Motivated And Master Your Willpower</title>
      <description>How To Stay Motivated And Master Your Willpowerhttps://goo.gl/rsuAzZEveryone gets excited about the idea of self-improvement.  But when it comes time to actually put in the work over the long haul, things change.  We find excuses.  We don't follow through.This video explores how you can stay motivated and on track long after the initial excitement of improvement has passed.  It covers a few surprising ways to better manage your own willpower so that you stick to your resolutions and become the person you want to be.When you've mastered your willpower and learned how to stay motivated even through arduous tasks, achieving the goals you've set for yourself becomes much, much easier.  Enjoy :-)Inspired by the book Willpower by John Tierney and Roy Baumeisterhttp://amzn.to/1Ocr1JeJoin the newsletter to get tips on being more charismatic and confident in the moments that matter most: http://www.charismaoncommand.comSubscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices</description>
      <pubDate>Wed, 23 Sep 2026 11:10:54 -0000</pubDate>
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      <itunes:author>Charisma on Command</itunes:author>
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      <itunes:summary>How To Stay Motivated And Master Your Willpowerhttps://goo.gl/rsuAzZEveryone gets excited about the idea of self-improvement.  But when it comes time to actually put in the work over the long haul, things change.  We find excuses.  We don't follow through.This video explores how you can stay motivated and on track long after the initial excitement of improvement has passed.  It covers a few surprising ways to better manage your own willpower so that you stick to your resolutions and become the person you want to be.When you've mastered your willpower and learned how to stay motivated even through arduous tasks, achieving the goals you've set for yourself becomes much, much easier.  Enjoy :-)Inspired by the book Willpower by John Tierney and Roy Baumeisterhttp://amzn.to/1Ocr1JeJoin the newsletter to get tips on being more charismatic and confident in the moments that matter most: http://www.charismaoncommand.comSubscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert
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        <![CDATA[<p>How To Stay Motivated And Master Your Willpower<br><a href="https://goo.gl/rsuAzZ">https://goo.gl/rsuAzZ</a><br>Everyone gets excited about the idea of self-improvement.  But when it comes time to actually put in the work over the long haul, things change.  We find excuses.  We don't follow through.<br><br>This video explores how you can stay motivated and on track long after the initial excitement of improvement has passed.  It covers a few surprising ways to better manage your own willpower so that you stick to your resolutions and become the person you want to be.<br><br>When you've mastered your willpower and learned how to stay motivated even through arduous tasks, achieving the goals you've set for yourself becomes much, much easier.  Enjoy :-)<br><br>Inspired by the book Willpower by John Tierney and Roy Baumeister<br><a href="http://amzn.to/1Ocr1Je">http://amzn.to/1Ocr1Je</a><br><br>Join the newsletter to get tips on being more charismatic and confident in the moments that matter most: <a href="http://www.charismaoncommand.com">http://www.charismaoncommand.com</a><br><br>Subscribe to Charisma On Command: <a href="http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC">http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC</a><br><br>Connect With Us.<br>Website: <a href="http://www.charismaoncommand.com">http://www.charismaoncommand.com</a><br>Facebook: <a href="http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand">http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand</a><br>Periscope: @Charismaon<br><br>Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):<br>Instagram: @CharlieHoupert<br>Periscope: @CharlieHoupert</p><p> </p><p>Learn more about your ad choices. Visit <a href="https://megaphone.fm/adchoices">megaphone.fm/adchoices</a></p>]]>
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      <title>Wharton Business School: Entrepreneurship Speech (former private equity Associate)</title>
      <description>Went back to Wharton Business School to talk with some MBAs about entrepreneurship.  It's a bit long so feel free to skip around or watch on 1.5x ;-)Link mentioned: http://bit.ly/COC-FirstImpressionYTDIf just one person escapes investment banking because of this I will be proud!
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      <pubDate>Wed, 23 Sep 2026 10:08:10 -0000</pubDate>
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      <itunes:author>Charisma on Command</itunes:author>
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      <itunes:summary>Went back to Wharton Business School to talk with some MBAs about entrepreneurship.  It's a bit long so feel free to skip around or watch on 1.5x ;-)Link mentioned: http://bit.ly/COC-FirstImpressionYTDIf just one person escapes investment banking because of this I will be proud!
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        <![CDATA[<p>Went back to Wharton Business School to talk with some MBAs about entrepreneurship.  <br><br>It's a bit long so feel free to skip around or watch on 1.5x ;-)<br><br>Link mentioned: <a href="http://bit.ly/COC-FirstImpressionYTD">http://bit.ly/COC-FirstImpressionYTD</a><br><br>If just one person escapes investment banking because of this I will be proud!</p><p> </p><p>Learn more about your ad choices. Visit <a href="https://megaphone.fm/adchoices">megaphone.fm/adchoices</a></p>]]>
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      <title>Charisma Has 4 Levels. Most People Never Get Past 2.</title>
      <description>In Stage 2? Here’s your next step: https://bit.ly/020-25In this video, I break down the 4 stages of growth that guide all of my content going forward. Each stage needs a different approach — and knowing where you are helps you get the most out of my advice. Watch this to understand how my videos fit into your journey.01:24 - Stage 102:34 - Stage 204:21 - Stage 306:58 - Stage 408:20 - What do you do with this?Connect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandOr if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertInstagram: @IamBenAltman
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      <pubDate>Wed, 23 Sep 2026 09:14:00 -0000</pubDate>
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      <itunes:author>Charisma on Command</itunes:author>
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      <itunes:summary>In Stage 2? Here’s your next step: https://bit.ly/020-25In this video, I break down the 4 stages of growth that guide all of my content going forward. Each stage needs a different approach — and knowing where you are helps you get the most out of my advice. Watch this to understand how my videos fit into your journey.01:24 - Stage 102:34 - Stage 204:21 - Stage 306:58 - Stage 408:20 - What do you do with this?Connect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandOr if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertInstagram: @IamBenAltman
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        <![CDATA[<p>In Stage 2? Here’s your next step: <a href="https://bit.ly/020-25">https://bit.ly/020-25</a><br><br><br>In this video, I break down the 4 stages of growth that guide all of my content going forward. Each stage needs a different approach — and knowing where you are helps you get the most out of my advice. Watch this to understand how my videos fit into your journey.<br><br><br>01:24 - Stage 1<br>02:34 - Stage 2<br>04:21 - Stage 3<br>06:58 - Stage 4<br>08:20 - What do you do with this?<br><br><br>Connect With Us Further:<br>Website: <a href="http://www.charismaoncommand.com">http://www.charismaoncommand.com</a><br>Facebook: <a href="http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand">http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand</a><br>Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand<br><br>Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music):<br>Instagram: @CharlieHoupert<br>Instagram: @IamBenAltman</p><p> </p><p>Learn more about your ad choices. Visit <a href="https://megaphone.fm/adchoices">megaphone.fm/adchoices</a></p>]]>
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      <title>The Quickest Way To Make ANYONE Laugh</title>
      <description>Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time:  https://goo.gl/2pFTj7How To Make Someone Laugh (The Easiest Way)This video breaks down of the easiest way how to make someone laugh.  You don't have to be clever. You don't have to have good comedic timing.  You don't funny or complicated jokes.  In fact, it's almost so easy to do that it is frustrating.  But hey, it works.  Even Ellen can't contain her laughter.So if you want to maThe nice thing is, once you've made somebody laugh, they are more likely to open up and connect with you.  You're more likely to make a friend.  So when you want to make somebody laugh, remember: it doesn't take a brilliant joke.  It just takes someone who is really into the joke they are telling!  (featuring Ellen Degeneres and Julia Roberts)Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert
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      <pubDate>Wed, 23 Sep 2026 09:05:27 -0000</pubDate>
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      <itunes:author>Charisma on Command</itunes:author>
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      <itunes:summary>Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time:  https://goo.gl/2pFTj7How To Make Someone Laugh (The Easiest Way)This video breaks down of the easiest way how to make someone laugh.  You don't have to be clever. You don't have to have good comedic timing.  You don't funny or complicated jokes.  In fact, it's almost so easy to do that it is frustrating.  But hey, it works.  Even Ellen can't contain her laughter.So if you want to maThe nice thing is, once you've made somebody laugh, they are more likely to open up and connect with you.  You're more likely to make a friend.  So when you want to make somebody laugh, remember: it doesn't take a brilliant joke.  It just takes someone who is really into the joke they are telling!  (featuring Ellen Degeneres and Julia Roberts)Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert
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        <![CDATA[<p>Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time:  <a href="https://goo.gl/2pFTj7">https://goo.gl/2pFTj7</a><br><br>How To Make Someone Laugh (The Easiest Way)<br><br>This video breaks down of the easiest way how to make someone laugh.  You don't have to be clever. You don't have to have good comedic timing.  You don't funny or complicated jokes.  In fact, it's almost so easy to do that it is frustrating.  But hey, it works.  Even Ellen can't contain her laughter.<br><br>So if you want to maThe nice thing is, once you've made somebody laugh, they are more likely to open up and connect with you.  You're more likely to make a friend.  So when you want to make somebody laugh, remember: it doesn't take a brilliant joke.  It just takes someone who is really into the joke they are telling!  (featuring Ellen Degeneres and Julia Roberts)<br><br>Subscribe to Charisma On Command: <a href="http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC">http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC</a><br><br>Connect With Us.<br>Website: <a href="http://www.charismaoncommand.com">http://www.charismaoncommand.com</a><br>Facebook: <a href="http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand">http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand</a><br>Periscope: @Charismaon<br><br>Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):<br>Instagram: @CharlieHoupert<br>Periscope: @CharlieHoupert</p><p> </p><p>Learn more about your ad choices. Visit <a href="https://megaphone.fm/adchoices">megaphone.fm/adchoices</a></p>]]>
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      <title>How To Instantly Make Someone Like You</title>
      <description>How To Make People Like You - Bruce Lee Charisma BreakdownGet the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time:  http://bit.ly/2nN0H2CPeople like people who are like them.  When you enter into a state of feeling that "sameness" with someone, you've entered into rapport.That's the short answer of how to get people to like you.  In practice, there are many small things you can do to enter into rapport with someone.  From smiling genuinely, to nodding while they speak, to focusing first on agreements.  Bruce Lee's charisma demonstrates a number of these traits and I break 'em all down in this video so that you learn exactly how to make people like you.  Use these charisma tips in your own life to make friends quickly and connect with the people you'd like to get to know.Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert
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      <pubDate>Wed, 23 Sep 2026 08:02:43 -0000</pubDate>
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      <itunes:summary>How To Make People Like You - Bruce Lee Charisma BreakdownGet the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time:  http://bit.ly/2nN0H2CPeople like people who are like them.  When you enter into a state of feeling that "sameness" with someone, you've entered into rapport.That's the short answer of how to get people to like you.  In practice, there are many small things you can do to enter into rapport with someone.  From smiling genuinely, to nodding while they speak, to focusing first on agreements.  Bruce Lee's charisma demonstrates a number of these traits and I break 'em all down in this video so that you learn exactly how to make people like you.  Use these charisma tips in your own life to make friends quickly and connect with the people you'd like to get to know.Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert
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        <![CDATA[<p>How To Make People Like You - Bruce Lee Charisma Breakdown<br>Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time:  <a href="http://bit.ly/2nN0H2C">http://bit.ly/2nN0H2C</a><br><br>People like people who are like them.  When you enter into a state of feeling that "sameness" with someone, you've entered into rapport.<br><br>That's the short answer of how to get people to like you.  In practice, there are many small things you can do to enter into rapport with someone.  From smiling genuinely, to nodding while they speak, to focusing first on agreements.  <br><br>Bruce Lee's charisma demonstrates a number of these traits and I break 'em all down in this video so that you learn exactly how to make people like you.  Use these charisma tips in your own life to make friends quickly and connect with the people you'd like to get to know.<br><br>Subscribe to Charisma On Command: <a href="http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC">http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC</a><br><br>Connect With Us.<br>Website: <a href="http://www.charismaoncommand.com">http://www.charismaoncommand.com</a><br>Facebook: <a href="http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand">http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand</a><br>Periscope: @Charismaon<br><br>Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):<br>Instagram: @CharlieHoupert<br>Periscope: @CharlieHoupert</p><p> </p><p>Learn more about your ad choices. Visit <a href="https://megaphone.fm/adchoices">megaphone.fm/adchoices</a></p>]]>
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      <title>The One Belief That Erases Social Fear</title>
      <description>Unlock your natural, consistent charisma: https://bit.ly/45oSK8fThere is ONE mindset that erases social fear. If you have it, you will walk through life with total confidence and comfort, like you own the world.In today’s video, I want to break down the belief that IShowSpeed has, because with it, you will feel completely socially free.0:00 - Intro1:09 - The Core Mindset1:48 - Treat people with enthusiasm 2:56 - Balance enthusiasm with playful banter 4:06 -  The danger to teasing4:55 - Reenforcing the core mindset5:38 - All of us have natural charisma6:03 - Today's mission7:12 - Unlock your natural, consistent charismaConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand
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      <pubDate>Wed, 23 Sep 2026 07:00:00 -0000</pubDate>
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      <itunes:author>Charisma on Command</itunes:author>
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      <itunes:summary>Unlock your natural, consistent charisma: https://bit.ly/45oSK8fThere is ONE mindset that erases social fear. If you have it, you will walk through life with total confidence and comfort, like you own the world.In today’s video, I want to break down the belief that IShowSpeed has, because with it, you will feel completely socially free.0:00 - Intro1:09 - The Core Mindset1:48 - Treat people with enthusiasm 2:56 - Balance enthusiasm with playful banter 4:06 -  The danger to teasing4:55 - Reenforcing the core mindset5:38 - All of us have natural charisma6:03 - Today's mission7:12 - Unlock your natural, consistent charismaConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand
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        <![CDATA[<p>Unlock your natural, consistent charisma: <a href="https://bit.ly/45oSK8f">https://bit.ly/45oSK8f</a><br><br>There is ONE mindset that erases social fear. If you have it, you will walk through life with total confidence and comfort, like you own the world.<br><br>In today’s video, I want to break down the belief that IShowSpeed has, because with it, you will feel completely socially free.<br><br><br>0:00 - Intro<br>1:09 - The Core Mindset<br>1:48 - Treat people with enthusiasm <br>2:56 - Balance enthusiasm with playful banter <br>4:06 -  The danger to teasing<br>4:55 - Reenforcing the core mindset<br>5:38 - All of us have natural charisma<br>6:03 - Today's mission<br>7:12 - Unlock your natural, consistent charisma<br><br><br>Connect With Us Further:<br>Website: <a href="http://www.charismaoncommand.com">http://www.charismaoncommand.com</a><br>Facebook: <a href="http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand">http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand</a><br>Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand</p><p> </p><p>Learn more about your ad choices. Visit <a href="https://megaphone.fm/adchoices">megaphone.fm/adchoices</a></p>]]>
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      <title>How To Be Extremely Captivating To Those Around You</title>
      <description>Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2nRAxuABody Language Tips - Tony Robbins Charisma Breakdown Tony Robbins is a master of body language.  These body language tips will break down how he is able to communicate so effectively by using his body in ways that most people don't during speeches or presentations. By the way, if you haven't been to an event, check him out.  He is the most charismatic man I have ever seen in person and a huge portion of that is because of his emphatic body language, which is on full display in this video.  If you want to learn how to inspire a crowd of 7,000 people, there is no one better to learn from than Tony.Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert
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      <pubDate>Wed, 23 Sep 2026 05:57:16 -0000</pubDate>
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      <itunes:author>Charisma on Command</itunes:author>
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      <itunes:summary>Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2nRAxuABody Language Tips - Tony Robbins Charisma Breakdown Tony Robbins is a master of body language.  These body language tips will break down how he is able to communicate so effectively by using his body in ways that most people don't during speeches or presentations. By the way, if you haven't been to an event, check him out.  He is the most charismatic man I have ever seen in person and a huge portion of that is because of his emphatic body language, which is on full display in this video.  If you want to learn how to inspire a crowd of 7,000 people, there is no one better to learn from than Tony.Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert
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        <![CDATA[<p>Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: <a href="http://bit.ly/2nRAxuA">http://bit.ly/2nRAxuA</a><br><br>Body Language Tips - Tony Robbins Charisma Breakdown <br><br>Tony Robbins is a master of body language.  These body language tips will break down how he is able to communicate so effectively by using his body in ways that most people don't during speeches or presentations. <br><br>By the way, if you haven't been to an event, check him out.  He is the most charismatic man I have ever seen in person and a huge portion of that is because of his emphatic body language, which is on full display in this video.  If you want to learn how to inspire a crowd of 7,000 people, there is no one better to learn from than Tony.<br><br>Subscribe to Charisma On Command: <a href="http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC">http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC</a><br><br>Connect With Us.<br>Website: <a href="http://www.charismaoncommand.com">http://www.charismaoncommand.com</a><br>Facebook: <a href="http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand">http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand</a><br>Periscope: @Charismaon<br><br>Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):<br>Instagram: @CharlieHoupert<br>Periscope: @CharlieHoupert</p><p> </p><p>Learn more about your ad choices. Visit <a href="https://megaphone.fm/adchoices">megaphone.fm/adchoices</a></p>]]>
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      <title>Speak Up Confidently And Stop Getting Ignored</title>
      <description>Master your confidence step by step with Charisma University:https://bit.ly/43aLj3GWhen people interrupt you, it’s easy to feel small, overlooked, or ignored. But you don’t need to be loud to make others listen. In this video, you’ll learn four simple ways to stop people cutting you off, command attention, and speak with quiet authority.0:00 - Intro0:28 - Preface with a hype line2:01 - Use gravity pauses2:59 - Use gravity gestures4:25 - Finish your sentenceSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account:http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand
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      <pubDate>Wed, 23 Sep 2026 04:54:32 -0000</pubDate>
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      <itunes:author>Charisma on Command</itunes:author>
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      <itunes:summary>Master your confidence step by step with Charisma University:https://bit.ly/43aLj3GWhen people interrupt you, it’s easy to feel small, overlooked, or ignored. But you don’t need to be loud to make others listen. In this video, you’ll learn four simple ways to stop people cutting you off, command attention, and speak with quiet authority.0:00 - Intro0:28 - Preface with a hype line2:01 - Use gravity pauses2:59 - Use gravity gestures4:25 - Finish your sentenceSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account:http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand
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        <![CDATA[<p>Master your confidence step by step with Charisma University:<br><a href="https://bit.ly/43aLj3G">https://bit.ly/43aLj3G</a><br><br>When people interrupt you, it’s easy to feel small, overlooked, or ignored. But you don’t need to be loud to make others listen. In this video, you’ll learn four simple ways to stop people cutting you off, command attention, and speak with quiet authority.<br><br><br>0:00 - Intro<br>0:28 - Preface with a hype line<br>2:01 - Use gravity pauses<br>2:59 - Use gravity gestures<br>4:25 - Finish your sentence<br><br><br>Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account:<br><a href="http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe">http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe</a><br><br>Connect With Us Further:<br>Website: <a href="http://www.charismaoncommand.com">http://www.charismaoncommand.com</a><br>Facebook: <a href="http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand">http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand</a><br>Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand</p><p> </p><p>Learn more about your ad choices. Visit <a href="https://megaphone.fm/adchoices">megaphone.fm/adchoices</a></p>]]>
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      <title>How To Get Better At Public Speaking Fast</title>
      <description>The fastest way I know to become a better communicator, storyteller, and leader:https://bit.ly/006-26-FordMost people think great speeches are about confidence, natural talent, or finding the perfect words. But if you study the speeches people remember for years, from Harrison Ford to Steve Jobs, they all follow the same underlying structure. In this video, you'll learn a simple five-step framework for giving speeches that capture attention, connect emotionally, and leave people thinking differently, whether you're giving a wedding toast, leading a team, interviewing for a job, or getting called up to speak with zero preparation.0:00 - Intro1:12 - F: Start with humor2:52 - A: Acknowledgements3:41 - R: Relate to the audience7:02 - T: The Takeaway9:13 - S: Your signoff10:00 - Improve your confidence &amp; charismaSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandCredits:Written by Charlie HoupertEdited by Sousa MarãesDirected by Andre Ringkjeob
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      <pubDate>Wed, 23 Sep 2026 03:51:49 -0000</pubDate>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <itunes:author>Charisma on Command</itunes:author>
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      <itunes:summary>The fastest way I know to become a better communicator, storyteller, and leader:https://bit.ly/006-26-FordMost people think great speeches are about confidence, natural talent, or finding the perfect words. But if you study the speeches people remember for years, from Harrison Ford to Steve Jobs, they all follow the same underlying structure. In this video, you'll learn a simple five-step framework for giving speeches that capture attention, connect emotionally, and leave people thinking differently, whether you're giving a wedding toast, leading a team, interviewing for a job, or getting called up to speak with zero preparation.0:00 - Intro1:12 - F: Start with humor2:52 - A: Acknowledgements3:41 - R: Relate to the audience7:02 - T: The Takeaway9:13 - S: Your signoff10:00 - Improve your confidence &amp; charismaSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandCredits:Written by Charlie HoupertEdited by Sousa MarãesDirected by Andre Ringkjeob
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        <![CDATA[<p>The fastest way I know to become a better communicator, storyteller, and leader:<br><a href="https://bit.ly/006-26-Ford">https://bit.ly/006-26-Ford</a><br><br><br>Most people think great speeches are about confidence, natural talent, or finding the perfect words. But if you study the speeches people remember for years, from Harrison Ford to Steve Jobs, they all follow the same underlying structure. In this video, you'll learn a simple five-step framework for giving speeches that capture attention, connect emotionally, and leave people thinking differently, whether you're giving a wedding toast, leading a team, interviewing for a job, or getting called up to speak with zero preparation.<br><br><br>0:00 - Intro<br>1:12 - F: Start with humor<br>2:52 - A: Acknowledgements<br>3:41 - R: Relate to the audience<br>7:02 - T: The Takeaway<br>9:13 - S: Your signoff<br>10:00 - Improve your confidence &amp; charisma<br><br><br>Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: <br><a href="http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe">http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe</a><br><br>Connect With Us Further:<br>Website: <a href="http://www.charismaoncommand.com">http://www.charismaoncommand.com</a><br>Facebook: <a href="http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand">http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand</a><br>Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand<br><br><br>Credits:<br>Written by Charlie Houpert<br>Edited by Sousa Marães<br>Directed by Andre Ringkjeob</p><p> </p><p>Learn more about your ad choices. Visit <a href="https://megaphone.fm/adchoices">megaphone.fm/adchoices</a></p>]]>
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      <title>This Scene Will Change How You Handle Conflict</title>
      <description>Build real confidence in conversations, relationships, and high-pressure moments with Charisma University: https://bit.ly/013-26-MikeThere are two kinds of calm. One gets you treated like a doormat. The other earns respect and makes people think twice before pushing you. This Better Call Saul scene shows the difference.0:00 - Intro2:05 - Be Explicit3:14 - Be Interested In Whether, Not Why3:56 - Don't Take Full ResponsibilitySubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandCredits:Edited by Akash RajpurohitWritten by Charlie HoupertDirected by Andre Ringkjoeb
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      <pubDate>Wed, 23 Sep 2026 02:49:05 -0000</pubDate>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <itunes:author>Charisma on Command</itunes:author>
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      <itunes:summary>Build real confidence in conversations, relationships, and high-pressure moments with Charisma University: https://bit.ly/013-26-MikeThere are two kinds of calm. One gets you treated like a doormat. The other earns respect and makes people think twice before pushing you. This Better Call Saul scene shows the difference.0:00 - Intro2:05 - Be Explicit3:14 - Be Interested In Whether, Not Why3:56 - Don't Take Full ResponsibilitySubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandCredits:Edited by Akash RajpurohitWritten by Charlie HoupertDirected by Andre Ringkjoeb
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        <![CDATA[<p>Build real confidence in conversations, relationships, and high-pressure moments with Charisma University: <a href="https://bit.ly/013-26-Mike">https://bit.ly/013-26-Mike</a><br><br><br>There are two kinds of calm. One gets you treated like a doormat. The other earns respect and makes people think twice before pushing you. This Better Call Saul scene shows the difference.<br><br><br>0:00 - Intro<br>2:05 - Be Explicit<br>3:14 - Be Interested In Whether, Not Why<br>3:56 - Don't Take Full Responsibility<br><br><br>Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: <br><a href="http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe">http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe</a><br><br>Connect With Us Further:<br>Website: <a href="http://www.charismaoncommand.com">http://www.charismaoncommand.com</a><br>Facebook: <a href="http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand">http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand</a><br>Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand<br><br>Credits:<br>Edited by Akash Rajpurohit<br>Written by Charlie Houpert<br>Directed by Andre Ringkjoeb</p><p> </p><p>Learn more about your ad choices. Visit <a href="https://megaphone.fm/adchoices">megaphone.fm/adchoices</a></p>]]>
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      <title>3 Body Language Habits That Make People Dislike You</title>
      <description>Get our best tip to turning on confidence in just 60 seconds:https://goo.gl/D6dy72Chris Evans Charisma - What Your Hands Say About YouSee how Chris Evans comes across as more likable and charismatic simply by the way he uses his hands when he speaks.  The power of gesticulating can't be underestimated.  When you compare Chris Evans to Jonah Hill, it's impossible not to feel that Chris looks far more confident.  And it's not immediately evident, but a large part of that comes down to how they use their hands when speaking.So check it out: these 3 tips are easy to implement and will help you look more confident talking with your hands.Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert
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      <pubDate>Wed, 23 Sep 2026 01:46:21 -0000</pubDate>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <itunes:author>Charisma on Command</itunes:author>
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      <itunes:summary>Get our best tip to turning on confidence in just 60 seconds:https://goo.gl/D6dy72Chris Evans Charisma - What Your Hands Say About YouSee how Chris Evans comes across as more likable and charismatic simply by the way he uses his hands when he speaks.  The power of gesticulating can't be underestimated.  When you compare Chris Evans to Jonah Hill, it's impossible not to feel that Chris looks far more confident.  And it's not immediately evident, but a large part of that comes down to how they use their hands when speaking.So check it out: these 3 tips are easy to implement and will help you look more confident talking with your hands.Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert
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        <![CDATA[<p>Get our best tip to turning on confidence in just 60 seconds:<br><a href="https://goo.gl/D6dy72">https://goo.gl/D6dy72</a><br><br>Chris Evans Charisma - What Your Hands Say About You<br><br>See how Chris Evans comes across as more likable and charismatic simply by the way he uses his hands when he speaks.  The power of gesticulating can't be underestimated.  When you compare Chris Evans to Jonah Hill, it's impossible not to feel that Chris looks far more confident.  And it's not immediately evident, but a large part of that comes down to how they use their hands when speaking.<br><br>So check it out: these 3 tips are easy to implement and will help you look more confident talking with your hands.<br><br>Subscribe to Charisma On Command: <a href="http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC">http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC</a><br><br>Connect With Us.<br>Website: <a href="http://www.charismaoncommand.com">http://www.charismaoncommand.com</a><br>Facebook: <a href="http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand">http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand</a><br>Periscope: @Charismaon<br><br>Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):<br>Instagram: @CharlieHoupert<br>Periscope: @CharlieHoupert</p><p> </p><p>Learn more about your ad choices. Visit <a href="https://megaphone.fm/adchoices">megaphone.fm/adchoices</a></p>]]>
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      <title>How To Make Eye Contact - Bill Clinton Charisma Breakdown</title>
      <description>How To Make Eye Contact - Bill Clinton Charisma BreakdownHow to make eye contact - learn from one of the masters... Bill Clinton.  The 1992 Presidential debate was a huge turning point in the race and Clinton's superb eye contact is what so endeared him to voters.When you break down Bill Clinton's charisma it's obvious that there is a lot more going on than eye contact.  But by focusing on these 3 simple charismatic tips to improve your eye contact, you'll find that your ability to connect with people immediately jumps.  Bill Clinton used it to advance his campaign all the way to the Presidency - so you should be able to use it to make a few friends :-)Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert
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      <pubDate>Wed, 23 Sep 2026 00:43:38 -0000</pubDate>
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      <itunes:author>Charisma on Command</itunes:author>
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      <itunes:summary>How To Make Eye Contact - Bill Clinton Charisma BreakdownHow to make eye contact - learn from one of the masters... Bill Clinton.  The 1992 Presidential debate was a huge turning point in the race and Clinton's superb eye contact is what so endeared him to voters.When you break down Bill Clinton's charisma it's obvious that there is a lot more going on than eye contact.  But by focusing on these 3 simple charismatic tips to improve your eye contact, you'll find that your ability to connect with people immediately jumps.  Bill Clinton used it to advance his campaign all the way to the Presidency - so you should be able to use it to make a few friends :-)Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert
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        <![CDATA[<p>How To Make Eye Contact - Bill Clinton Charisma Breakdown<br><br>How to make eye contact - learn from one of the masters... Bill Clinton.  The 1992 Presidential debate was a huge turning point in the race and Clinton's superb eye contact is what so endeared him to voters.<br><br>When you break down Bill Clinton's charisma it's obvious that there is a lot more going on than eye contact.  But by focusing on these 3 simple charismatic tips to improve your eye contact, you'll find that your ability to connect with people immediately jumps.  Bill Clinton used it to advance his campaign all the way to the Presidency - so you should be able to use it to make a few friends :-)<br><br>Subscribe to Charisma On Command: <a href="http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC">http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC</a><br><br>Connect With Us.<br>Website: <a href="http://www.charismaoncommand.com">http://www.charismaoncommand.com</a><br>Facebook: <a href="http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand">http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand</a><br>Periscope: @Charismaon<br><br>Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):<br>Instagram: @CharlieHoupert<br>Periscope: @CharlieHoupert</p><p> </p><p>Learn more about your ad choices. Visit <a href="https://megaphone.fm/adchoices">megaphone.fm/adchoices</a></p>]]>
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      <title>How To Make Someone Realize They Can't Control You</title>
      <description>The fastest way I know to build calm, grounded confidence in high-stakes moments: https://bit.ly/007-26-DraperThis Mad Men scene is a masterclass in grounded confidence. Don Draper does not argue, defend himself, or try to convince anyone of his worth. He simply accepts the other person’s choice, states his own, and stays in control. In this video, we break down how to use that same energy in conflict, sales, leadership, dating, and any moment where you feel tempted to prove yourself.This video covers principle 4 of the 6 charismatic mindsets: you don’t need to convince anyone of anything. If you want the full framework for staying calm, honest, and grounded when it counts, watch all 6 here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rWFwUwMoMl80:00 - Intro0:14 - The situation1:00  - Where Don shines2:58 - 1. Slow Down Your Response3:13 - 2. Accept their choice, then name yours3:44 - 3. Invite them to a solution6:36 - The best way I know to work on thisSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandCredits:Written by CharlieEdited by Akash RajpurohitDirected by Andre Ringkjoeb
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      <pubDate>Tue, 22 Sep 2026 23:40:54 -0000</pubDate>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <itunes:author>Charisma on Command</itunes:author>
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      <itunes:summary>The fastest way I know to build calm, grounded confidence in high-stakes moments: https://bit.ly/007-26-DraperThis Mad Men scene is a masterclass in grounded confidence. Don Draper does not argue, defend himself, or try to convince anyone of his worth. He simply accepts the other person’s choice, states his own, and stays in control. In this video, we break down how to use that same energy in conflict, sales, leadership, dating, and any moment where you feel tempted to prove yourself.This video covers principle 4 of the 6 charismatic mindsets: you don’t need to convince anyone of anything. If you want the full framework for staying calm, honest, and grounded when it counts, watch all 6 here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rWFwUwMoMl80:00 - Intro0:14 - The situation1:00  - Where Don shines2:58 - 1. Slow Down Your Response3:13 - 2. Accept their choice, then name yours3:44 - 3. Invite them to a solution6:36 - The best way I know to work on thisSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandCredits:Written by CharlieEdited by Akash RajpurohitDirected by Andre Ringkjoeb
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        <![CDATA[<p>The fastest way I know to build calm, grounded confidence in high-stakes moments: <a href="https://bit.ly/007-26-Draper">https://bit.ly/007-26-Draper</a><br><br><br>This Mad Men scene is a masterclass in grounded confidence. Don Draper does not argue, defend himself, or try to convince anyone of his worth. He simply accepts the other person’s choice, states his own, and stays in control. In this video, we break down how to use that same energy in conflict, sales, leadership, dating, and any moment where you feel tempted to prove yourself.<br><br><br>This video covers principle 4 of the 6 charismatic mindsets: you don’t need to convince anyone of anything. If you want the full framework for staying calm, honest, and grounded when it counts, watch all 6 here: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rWFwUwMoMl8">https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rWFwUwMoMl8</a><br><br><br>0:00 - Intro<br>0:14 - The situation<br>1:00  - Where Don shines<br>2:58 - 1. Slow Down Your Response<br>3:13 - 2. Accept their choice, then name yours<br>3:44 - 3. Invite them to a solution<br>6:36 - The best way I know to work on this<br><br><br>Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: <br><a href="http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe">http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe</a><br><br>Connect With Us Further:<br>Website: <a href="http://www.charismaoncommand.com">http://www.charismaoncommand.com</a><br>Facebook: <a href="http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand">http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand</a><br>Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand<br><br>Credits:<br>Written by Charlie<br>Edited by Akash Rajpurohit<br>Directed by Andre Ringkjoeb</p><p> </p><p>Learn more about your ad choices. Visit <a href="https://megaphone.fm/adchoices">megaphone.fm/adchoices</a></p>]]>
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      <title>The One Social Skill That Beats All The Others</title>
      <description>Want to become more charismatic and confident in any conversation?👉 https://bit.ly/014-26-MatthewStoryWatch the full podcast episode here:👉 https://youtu.be/QMzxNfX-uAgMost people answer questions by explaining. Great storytellers turn their answers into moments you can see and feel. In this video, Charlie breaks down how Matthew McConaughey uses storytelling to hold attention, connect with people, and make ordinary answers memorable.You’ll learn why Matthew spent 47% of his interview telling stories, compared with Charlie’s 24%, and how to turn your own experiences into stories people actually want to hear.__________________0:00 The Secret Skill of Charismatic Leaders2:06 Mastering the Art of the Hook5:06 Building the Emotional Roller Coaster9:22 The Power of the False Ending13:22 The Confidence to Tell Your Story__________________Subscribe to Charisma On Command:http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand
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      <pubDate>Tue, 22 Sep 2026 22:38:10 -0000</pubDate>
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      <itunes:author>Charisma on Command</itunes:author>
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      <itunes:summary>Want to become more charismatic and confident in any conversation?👉 https://bit.ly/014-26-MatthewStoryWatch the full podcast episode here:👉 https://youtu.be/QMzxNfX-uAgMost people answer questions by explaining. Great storytellers turn their answers into moments you can see and feel. In this video, Charlie breaks down how Matthew McConaughey uses storytelling to hold attention, connect with people, and make ordinary answers memorable.You’ll learn why Matthew spent 47% of his interview telling stories, compared with Charlie’s 24%, and how to turn your own experiences into stories people actually want to hear.__________________0:00 The Secret Skill of Charismatic Leaders2:06 Mastering the Art of the Hook5:06 Building the Emotional Roller Coaster9:22 The Power of the False Ending13:22 The Confidence to Tell Your Story__________________Subscribe to Charisma On Command:http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand
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        <![CDATA[<p>Want to become more charismatic and confident in any conversation?<br>👉 <a href="https://bit.ly/014-26-MatthewStory">https://bit.ly/014-26-MatthewStory</a><br><br>Watch the full podcast episode here:<br>👉 <a href="https://youtu.be/QMzxNfX-uAg">https://youtu.be/QMzxNfX-uAg</a><br><br><br>Most people answer questions by explaining. Great storytellers turn their answers into moments you can see and feel. In this video, Charlie breaks down how Matthew McConaughey uses storytelling to hold attention, connect with people, and make ordinary answers memorable.<br><br>You’ll learn why Matthew spent 47% of his interview telling stories, compared with Charlie’s 24%, and how to turn your own experiences into stories people actually want to hear.<br><br>__________________<br><br>0:00 The Secret Skill of Charismatic Leaders<br>2:06 Mastering the Art of the Hook<br>5:06 Building the Emotional Roller Coaster<br>9:22 The Power of the False Ending<br>13:22 The Confidence to Tell Your Story<br><br>__________________<br><br><br>Subscribe to Charisma On Command:<br><a href="http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe">http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe</a><br><br>Connect With Us Further:<br>Website: <a href="http://www.charismaoncommand.com">http://www.charismaoncommand.com</a><br>Facebook: <a href="http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand">http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand</a><br>Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand</p><p> </p><p>Learn more about your ad choices. Visit <a href="https://megaphone.fm/adchoices">megaphone.fm/adchoices</a></p>]]>
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      <title>How To Be Charming When Talking To People</title>
      <description>Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2EbqMm1Jennifer Lawrence - Funny, Self-Deprecating StoriesJennifer Lawrence is the most famous actress in the world.  Scroll through the comments on any of her interviews and they are filled with people who support her and sing her praises.  She is considered extremely funny and grounded.  Yet despite her fame, Jennifer Lawrence has never garnered the type of hate that many accomplished people do.  And a huge piece of that is in the stories she tells.  In her interviews, she makes herself appear vulnerable and down to earth when she reveals embarrassing stories from her past.  They might seem like simple anecdotes, but they endear her fans to her.Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert
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      <pubDate>Tue, 22 Sep 2026 21:35:27 -0000</pubDate>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <itunes:author>Charisma on Command</itunes:author>
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      <itunes:summary>Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2EbqMm1Jennifer Lawrence - Funny, Self-Deprecating StoriesJennifer Lawrence is the most famous actress in the world.  Scroll through the comments on any of her interviews and they are filled with people who support her and sing her praises.  She is considered extremely funny and grounded.  Yet despite her fame, Jennifer Lawrence has never garnered the type of hate that many accomplished people do.  And a huge piece of that is in the stories she tells.  In her interviews, she makes herself appear vulnerable and down to earth when she reveals embarrassing stories from her past.  They might seem like simple anecdotes, but they endear her fans to her.Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert
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        <![CDATA[<p>Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: <br><a href="http://bit.ly/2EbqMm1">http://bit.ly/2EbqMm1</a><br>Jennifer Lawrence - Funny, Self-Deprecating Stories<br><br>Jennifer Lawrence is the most famous actress in the world.  Scroll through the comments on any of her interviews and they are filled with people who support her and sing her praises.  She is considered extremely funny and grounded.  <br><br>Yet despite her fame, Jennifer Lawrence has never garnered the type of hate that many accomplished people do.  And a huge piece of that is in the stories she tells.  In her interviews, she makes herself appear vulnerable and down to earth when she reveals embarrassing stories from her past.  They might seem like simple anecdotes, but they endear her fans to her.<br><br>Subscribe to Charisma On Command: <a href="http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC">http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC</a><br><br>Connect With Us.<br>Website: <a href="http://www.charismaoncommand.com">http://www.charismaoncommand.com</a><br>Facebook: <a href="http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand">http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand</a><br>Periscope: @Charismaon<br><br>Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):<br>Instagram: @CharlieHoupert<br>Periscope: @CharlieHoupert</p><p> </p><p>Learn more about your ad choices. Visit <a href="https://megaphone.fm/adchoices">megaphone.fm/adchoices</a></p>]]>
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      <title>How To Not Drink: Dealing With Peer Pressure</title>
      <description>Get the Video on The 4 Emotions to Make An Amazing First Impression: http://bit.ly/2slu28YAs soon as you've decided that you don't want to drink, you can probably expect a million people to start hassling you.  This is the hardest part of learning how to not drink: dealing with the peer pressure.  The good news is that you can use these tips to tell people you don't want to drink in a way that gets them to stop bothering you AND commands their respect.Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert
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      <pubDate>Tue, 22 Sep 2026 20:32:43 -0000</pubDate>
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      <itunes:author>Charisma on Command</itunes:author>
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      <itunes:summary>Get the Video on The 4 Emotions to Make An Amazing First Impression: http://bit.ly/2slu28YAs soon as you've decided that you don't want to drink, you can probably expect a million people to start hassling you.  This is the hardest part of learning how to not drink: dealing with the peer pressure.  The good news is that you can use these tips to tell people you don't want to drink in a way that gets them to stop bothering you AND commands their respect.Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert
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        <![CDATA[<p>Get the Video on The 4 Emotions to Make An Amazing First Impression: <br><a href="http://bit.ly/2slu28Y">http://bit.ly/2slu28Y</a><br><br>As soon as you've decided that you don't want to drink, you can probably expect a million people to start hassling you.  This is the hardest part of learning how to not drink: dealing with the peer pressure.  The good news is that you can use these tips to tell people you don't want to drink in a way that gets them to stop bothering you AND commands their respect.<br><br>Subscribe to Charisma On Command: <a href="http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC">http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC</a><br><br>Connect With Us.<br>Website: <a href="http://www.charismaoncommand.com">http://www.charismaoncommand.com</a><br>Facebook: <a href="http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand">http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand</a><br>Periscope: @Charismaon<br><br>Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):<br>Instagram: @CharlieHoupert<br>Periscope: @CharlieHoupert</p><p> </p><p>Learn more about your ad choices. Visit <a href="https://megaphone.fm/adchoices">megaphone.fm/adchoices</a></p>]]>
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      <itunes:duration>468</itunes:duration>
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      <title>Stop Doing This When You Speak</title>
      <description>Master your confidence step by step with Charisma University:https://bit.ly/026-25There is one common mistake that kills your confidence. It makes you look weak, it makes you feel smaller, and it pushes people away. In this video, we’ll use Ned Fulmer’s recent podcast with his ex-wife Ariel Fulmer, to show the habit that destroys both your confidence and people’s trust.0:00 - Intro 0:16 - Context0:41 - His voice is constricted1:47 - What you should do instead 2:31 - Do this when you start to feel constricted 4:35 - Want more tips like this?Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand
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      <pubDate>Tue, 22 Sep 2026 19:30:00 -0000</pubDate>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <itunes:author>Charisma on Command</itunes:author>
      <itunes:image href="https://megaphone.imgix.net/podcasts/90e2f034-a1e6-11f1-8a5e-b7fa4f5661ee/image/a6e25c9d588b4b35bc063048aa8d17c5.jpg?ixlib=rails-4.3.1&amp;max-w=3000&amp;max-h=3000&amp;fit=crop&amp;auto=format,compress"/>
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      <itunes:summary>Master your confidence step by step with Charisma University:https://bit.ly/026-25There is one common mistake that kills your confidence. It makes you look weak, it makes you feel smaller, and it pushes people away. In this video, we’ll use Ned Fulmer’s recent podcast with his ex-wife Ariel Fulmer, to show the habit that destroys both your confidence and people’s trust.0:00 - Intro 0:16 - Context0:41 - His voice is constricted1:47 - What you should do instead 2:31 - Do this when you start to feel constricted 4:35 - Want more tips like this?Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand
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        <![CDATA[<p>Master your confidence step by step with Charisma University:<br><a href="https://bit.ly/026-25">https://bit.ly/026-25</a><br><br><br>There is one common mistake that kills your confidence. It makes you look weak, it makes you feel smaller, and it pushes people away. In this video, we’ll use Ned Fulmer’s recent podcast with his ex-wife Ariel Fulmer, to show the habit that destroys both your confidence and people’s trust.<br><br><br>0:00 - Intro <br>0:16 - Context<br>0:41 - His voice is constricted<br>1:47 - What you should do instead <br>2:31 - Do this when you start to feel constricted <br>4:35 - Want more tips like this?<br><br><br>Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: <br><a href="http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe">http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe</a><br><br>Connect With Us Further:<br>Website: <a href="http://www.charismaoncommand.com">http://www.charismaoncommand.com</a><br>Facebook: <a href="http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand">http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand</a><br>Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand</p><p> </p><p>Learn more about your ad choices. Visit <a href="https://megaphone.fm/adchoices">megaphone.fm/adchoices</a></p>]]>
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      <itunes:duration>476</itunes:duration>
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      <title>Daily Tip: What your Body Language says about your Charisma</title>
      <description>Inspire, Impress, And Energize Everyone You Meethttps://goo.gl/janZ3FDaily Tip: What your Body Language says about your CharismaSubscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert
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      <pubDate>Tue, 22 Sep 2026 17:27:16 -0000</pubDate>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <itunes:author>Charisma on Command</itunes:author>
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      <itunes:summary>Inspire, Impress, And Energize Everyone You Meethttps://goo.gl/janZ3FDaily Tip: What your Body Language says about your CharismaSubscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert
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        <![CDATA[<p>Inspire, Impress, And Energize Everyone You Meet<br><a href="https://goo.gl/janZ3F">https://goo.gl/janZ3F</a><br>Daily Tip: What your Body Language says about your Charisma<br><br>Subscribe to Charisma On Command: <a href="http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC">http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC</a><br><br>Connect With Us.<br>Website: <a href="http://www.charismaoncommand.com">http://www.charismaoncommand.com</a><br>Facebook: <a href="http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand">http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand</a><br>Periscope: @Charismaon<br><br>Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):<br>Instagram: @CharlieHoupert<br>Periscope: @CharlieHoupert</p><p> </p><p>Learn more about your ad choices. Visit <a href="https://megaphone.fm/adchoices">megaphone.fm/adchoices</a></p>]]>
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      <title>Charisma Breakdown: How To Be Charismatic In Groups</title>
      <description>Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time:    http://bit.ly/2EsiXrrWill Smith Charisma Breakdown: How To Be Charismatic In Groups Group interactions can be so difficult when trying to exude confidence and charisma.  Unlike a 1:1 conversation you might find it hard to get a word in.  You might find it hard to hold people's attention.  This is totally normal, but it doesn't make it any more fun when you're a shrinking wallflower.The good news is that there are clear ways how to be more charismatic in groups.  And Will Smith provides an amazing firsthand example.  He manages to come across as genuine and likeable while steering the conversation.  Take a look and be sure to implement these charisma tips in your own life! Check out our book : http://www.amazon.com/dp/B00MX95J48/Or if you want more on strong presentation skills: http://www.charismaoncommand.com/oral-presentation-tips/?utm_source=youtube&amp;utm_medium=videodesc&amp;utm_campaign=blogSubscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices</description>
      <pubDate>Tue, 22 Sep 2026 16:24:32 -0000</pubDate>
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      <itunes:author>Charisma on Command</itunes:author>
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      <itunes:summary>Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time:    http://bit.ly/2EsiXrrWill Smith Charisma Breakdown: How To Be Charismatic In Groups Group interactions can be so difficult when trying to exude confidence and charisma.  Unlike a 1:1 conversation you might find it hard to get a word in.  You might find it hard to hold people's attention.  This is totally normal, but it doesn't make it any more fun when you're a shrinking wallflower.The good news is that there are clear ways how to be more charismatic in groups.  And Will Smith provides an amazing firsthand example.  He manages to come across as genuine and likeable while steering the conversation.  Take a look and be sure to implement these charisma tips in your own life! Check out our book : http://www.amazon.com/dp/B00MX95J48/Or if you want more on strong presentation skills: http://www.charismaoncommand.com/oral-presentation-tips/?utm_source=youtube&amp;utm_medium=videodesc&amp;utm_campaign=blogSubscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert
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        <![CDATA[<p>Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time:    <a href="http://bit.ly/2EsiXrr">http://bit.ly/2EsiXrr</a><br><br>Will Smith Charisma Breakdown: How To Be Charismatic In Groups <br><br>Group interactions can be so difficult when trying to exude confidence and charisma.  Unlike a 1:1 conversation you might find it hard to get a word in.  You might find it hard to hold people's attention.  This is totally normal, but it doesn't make it any more fun when you're a shrinking wallflower.<br><br>The good news is that there are clear ways how to be more charismatic in groups.  And Will Smith provides an amazing firsthand example.  He manages to come across as genuine and likeable while steering the conversation.  Take a look and be sure to implement these charisma tips in your own life! <br><br>Check out our book : <a href="http://www.amazon.com/dp/B00MX95J48/">http://www.amazon.com/dp/B00MX95J48/</a><br><br>Or if you want more on strong presentation skills: <a href="http://www.charismaoncommand.com/oral-presentation-tips/?utm_source=youtube&amp;utm_medium=videodesc&amp;utm_campaign=blog">http://www.charismaoncommand.com/oral-presentation-tips/?utm_source=youtube&amp;utm_medium=videodesc&amp;utm_campaign=blog</a><br><br>Subscribe to Charisma On Command: <a href="http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC">http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC</a><br><br>Connect With Us.<br>Website: <a href="http://www.charismaoncommand.com">http://www.charismaoncommand.com</a><br>Facebook: <a href="http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand">http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand</a><br>Periscope: @Charismaon<br><br>Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):<br>Instagram: @CharlieHoupert<br>Periscope: @CharlieHoupert</p><p> </p><p>Learn more about your ad choices. Visit <a href="https://megaphone.fm/adchoices">megaphone.fm/adchoices</a></p>]]>
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      <title>How To Give Advice That People Actually Listen To</title>
      <description>A 'Trick' That Gives You INSANE Confidence: https://bit.ly/2DxyfvUElliott Hulse is an extraordinary motivational speaker.  He gives advice in such a way that his viewers are inspired not only to listen to the end of his videos, but to change their lives.  And on a crowded platform like Youtube, Elliott manages to speak for upwards of 10 minutes, with long pauses while captivating his audience the entire time.  Not many speakers are have the confidence to pull that off.We all have moment's in our lives where people come to us for advice.  Yet oftentimes, despite our best efforts, that advice goes unheeded.  We can change that.  By following Elliott Hulse's charismatic techniques and intelligent structure we can learn to "open up" our listener so that they are receptive to the advice we have to give.  So check it out and learn how to give advice that actually motivates people to change.Link to confidence tip: http://bit.ly/COC-ConfidenceYTDLink to Elliott Hulse's final video in breakdown: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-Xgjb8spwewSubscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert
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      <pubDate>Tue, 22 Sep 2026 15:21:49 -0000</pubDate>
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      <itunes:author>Charisma on Command</itunes:author>
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      <itunes:summary>A 'Trick' That Gives You INSANE Confidence: https://bit.ly/2DxyfvUElliott Hulse is an extraordinary motivational speaker.  He gives advice in such a way that his viewers are inspired not only to listen to the end of his videos, but to change their lives.  And on a crowded platform like Youtube, Elliott manages to speak for upwards of 10 minutes, with long pauses while captivating his audience the entire time.  Not many speakers are have the confidence to pull that off.We all have moment's in our lives where people come to us for advice.  Yet oftentimes, despite our best efforts, that advice goes unheeded.  We can change that.  By following Elliott Hulse's charismatic techniques and intelligent structure we can learn to "open up" our listener so that they are receptive to the advice we have to give.  So check it out and learn how to give advice that actually motivates people to change.Link to confidence tip: http://bit.ly/COC-ConfidenceYTDLink to Elliott Hulse's final video in breakdown: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-Xgjb8spwewSubscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert
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        <![CDATA[<p>A 'Trick' That Gives You INSANE Confidence: <a href="https://bit.ly/2DxyfvU">https://bit.ly/2DxyfvU</a><br><br>Elliott Hulse is an extraordinary motivational speaker.  He gives advice in such a way that his viewers are inspired not only to listen to the end of his videos, but to change their lives.  And on a crowded platform like Youtube, Elliott manages to speak for upwards of 10 minutes, with long pauses while captivating his audience the entire time.  Not many speakers are have the confidence to pull that off.<br><br>We all have moment's in our lives where people come to us for advice.  Yet oftentimes, despite our best efforts, that advice goes unheeded.  We can change that.  By following Elliott Hulse's charismatic techniques and intelligent structure we can learn to "open up" our listener so that they are receptive to the advice we have to give.  So check it out and learn how to give advice that actually motivates people to change.<br><br>Link to confidence tip: <a href="http://bit.ly/COC-ConfidenceYTD">http://bit.ly/COC-ConfidenceYTD</a><br><br>Link to Elliott Hulse's final video in breakdown: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-Xgjb8spwew">https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-Xgjb8spwew</a><br><br>Subscribe to Charisma On Command: <a href="http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC">http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC</a><br><br>Connect With Us.<br>Website: <a href="http://www.charismaoncommand.com">http://www.charismaoncommand.com</a><br>Facebook: <a href="http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand">http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand</a><br>Periscope: @Charismaon<br><br>Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):<br>Instagram: @CharlieHoupert<br>Periscope: @CharlieHoupert</p><p> </p><p>Learn more about your ad choices. Visit <a href="https://megaphone.fm/adchoices">megaphone.fm/adchoices</a></p>]]>
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      <title>The 3 Traits That Make You Impossible to Ignore</title>
      <description>Build the confidence and charisma to express yourself authentically:👉 https://bit.ly/015-26-MamdaniZohran Mamdani and Donald Trump have completely different personalities, politics, and values. But both used a similar charisma playbook to overcome opponents with more money, status, and establishment support.In this video, we break down the three traits that made them impossible to ignore: the courage to risk ridicule, the conviction to stay on offense, and a consistent emotional identity. You’ll learn why charisma begins when you stop choosing social safety over honest self-expression, plus how to apply that principle in your career, relationships, and social life without copying anyone else’s personality.0:00 The Unlikely Rise of a Political Outsider0:35 The Surprising Parallel Between Two Rivals4:01 The Courage to Be Disliked7:25 The Power of a Consistent Emotional Signature11:17 The Choice Between Safety and Self-ExpressionSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand
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      <pubDate>Tue, 22 Sep 2026 14:19:05 -0000</pubDate>
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      <itunes:author>Charisma on Command</itunes:author>
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      <itunes:summary>Build the confidence and charisma to express yourself authentically:👉 https://bit.ly/015-26-MamdaniZohran Mamdani and Donald Trump have completely different personalities, politics, and values. But both used a similar charisma playbook to overcome opponents with more money, status, and establishment support.In this video, we break down the three traits that made them impossible to ignore: the courage to risk ridicule, the conviction to stay on offense, and a consistent emotional identity. You’ll learn why charisma begins when you stop choosing social safety over honest self-expression, plus how to apply that principle in your career, relationships, and social life without copying anyone else’s personality.0:00 The Unlikely Rise of a Political Outsider0:35 The Surprising Parallel Between Two Rivals4:01 The Courage to Be Disliked7:25 The Power of a Consistent Emotional Signature11:17 The Choice Between Safety and Self-ExpressionSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand
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        <![CDATA[<p>Build the confidence and charisma to express yourself authentically:<br>👉 <a href="https://bit.ly/015-26-Mamdani">https://bit.ly/015-26-Mamdani</a><br><br><br>Zohran Mamdani and Donald Trump have completely different personalities, politics, and values. But both used a similar charisma playbook to overcome opponents with more money, status, and establishment support.<br><br>In this video, we break down the three traits that made them impossible to ignore: the courage to risk ridicule, the conviction to stay on offense, and a consistent emotional identity. You’ll learn why charisma begins when you stop choosing social safety over honest self-expression, plus how to apply that principle in your career, relationships, and social life without copying anyone else’s personality.<br><br><br>0:00 The Unlikely Rise of a Political Outsider<br>0:35 The Surprising Parallel Between Two Rivals<br>4:01 The Courage to Be Disliked<br>7:25 The Power of a Consistent Emotional Signature<br>11:17 The Choice Between Safety and Self-Expression<br><br><br>Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: <br><a href="http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe">http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe</a><br><br>Connect With Us Further:<br>Website: <a href="http://www.charismaoncommand.com">http://www.charismaoncommand.com</a><br>Facebook: <a href="http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand">http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand</a><br>Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand</p><p> </p><p>Learn more about your ad choices. Visit <a href="https://megaphone.fm/adchoices">megaphone.fm/adchoices</a></p>]]>
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      <title>Why People Tell Him Things They’ve Never Said Before</title>
      <description>The fastest way to learn to express yourself confidently: https://bit.ly/028-25Diary Of A CEO Podcast: @TheDiaryOfACEO My Diary Of A CEO Episode: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zg4Ta7vXiIMMost people think charisma is about how you talk. But the real superpower lies in how you listen.In this video, we break down the subtle listening habits that make Steven Bartlett one of the most captivating conversationalists alive. You’ll learn how to hold silence, guide emotion, and create moments where people feel seen in ways they rarely do.0:00 - Intro1:14 - #1: Steven almost never interrupts3:52 - #2: Offer the least invasive support possible7:00 - #3: Offer an empathetic mirror8:51 - #4: Ask chunky questions9:32 - #5: Presence matters more than techniqueSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account:http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand
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      <pubDate>Tue, 22 Sep 2026 13:16:21 -0000</pubDate>
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      <itunes:author>Charisma on Command</itunes:author>
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      <itunes:summary>The fastest way to learn to express yourself confidently: https://bit.ly/028-25Diary Of A CEO Podcast: @TheDiaryOfACEO My Diary Of A CEO Episode: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zg4Ta7vXiIMMost people think charisma is about how you talk. But the real superpower lies in how you listen.In this video, we break down the subtle listening habits that make Steven Bartlett one of the most captivating conversationalists alive. You’ll learn how to hold silence, guide emotion, and create moments where people feel seen in ways they rarely do.0:00 - Intro1:14 - #1: Steven almost never interrupts3:52 - #2: Offer the least invasive support possible7:00 - #3: Offer an empathetic mirror8:51 - #4: Ask chunky questions9:32 - #5: Presence matters more than techniqueSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account:http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand
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        <![CDATA[<p>The fastest way to learn to express yourself confidently: <a href="https://bit.ly/028-25">https://bit.ly/028-25</a><br><br>Diary Of A CEO Podcast: @TheDiaryOfACEO <br>My Diary Of A CEO Episode: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zg4Ta7vXiIM">https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zg4Ta7vXiIM</a><br><br><br>Most people think charisma is about how you talk. But the real superpower lies in how you listen.<br><br>In this video, we break down the subtle listening habits that make Steven Bartlett one of the most captivating conversationalists alive. You’ll learn how to hold silence, guide emotion, and create moments where people feel seen in ways they rarely do.<br><br><br>0:00 - Intro<br>1:14 - #1: Steven almost never interrupts<br>3:52 - #2: Offer the least invasive support possible<br>7:00 - #3: Offer an empathetic mirror<br>8:51 - #4: Ask chunky questions<br>9:32 - #5: Presence matters more than technique<br><br><br>Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account:<br><a href="http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe">http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe</a><br><br>Connect With Us Further:<br>Website: <a href="http://www.charismaoncommand.com">http://www.charismaoncommand.com</a><br>Facebook: <a href="http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand">http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand</a><br>Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand</p><p> </p><p>Learn more about your ad choices. Visit <a href="https://megaphone.fm/adchoices">megaphone.fm/adchoices</a></p>]]>
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      <title>How to stop blowing it on dates</title>
      <description>Link to 3 tips video: https://goo.gl/rH8DvbOne of the most common questions I get from guys is: "I thought the date went great....but she didn't want a second date.  Why not?"  That's what this video covers: how to get a second date.There are a million reasons why she may not want to see you again, but outside of serious compatibility issues, there are 3 main reasons it might be.  Once you know what they are, you can pay attention to how you might be making these 3 mistakes and avoid them in the future.Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert
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      <pubDate>Tue, 22 Sep 2026 13:14:00 -0000</pubDate>
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      <itunes:author>Charisma on Command</itunes:author>
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      <itunes:summary>Link to 3 tips video: https://goo.gl/rH8DvbOne of the most common questions I get from guys is: "I thought the date went great....but she didn't want a second date.  Why not?"  That's what this video covers: how to get a second date.There are a million reasons why she may not want to see you again, but outside of serious compatibility issues, there are 3 main reasons it might be.  Once you know what they are, you can pay attention to how you might be making these 3 mistakes and avoid them in the future.Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert
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        <![CDATA[<p>Link to 3 tips video: <a href="https://goo.gl/rH8Dvb">https://goo.gl/rH8Dvb</a><br><br>One of the most common questions I get from guys is: "I thought the date went great....but she didn't want a second date.  Why not?"  That's what this video covers: how to get a second date.<br><br>There are a million reasons why she may not want to see you again, but outside of serious compatibility issues, there are 3 main reasons it might be.  Once you know what they are, you can pay attention to how you might be making these 3 mistakes and avoid them in the future.<br><br>Subscribe to Charisma On Command: <a href="http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC">http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC</a><br><br>Connect With Us.<br>Website: <a href="http://www.charismaoncommand.com">http://www.charismaoncommand.com</a><br>Facebook: <a href="http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand">http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand</a><br>Periscope: @Charismaon<br><br>Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):<br>Instagram: @CharlieHoupert<br>Periscope: @CharlieHoupert</p><p> </p><p>Learn more about your ad choices. Visit <a href="https://megaphone.fm/adchoices">megaphone.fm/adchoices</a></p>]]>
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      <title>Stop Playing The Social Script. Do This Instead</title>
      <description>The fastest way I know to become more naturally magnetic, confident, and authentic: https://bit.ly/008-26-LoganLoTSMost people hold back the parts of themselves that would actually make them more charismatic. They try to act cool, hide their enthusiasm, and stay trapped in safe social scripts.In this video, we break down what Love on the Spectrum teaches about real charisma, from saying the honest thing, to making simple jokes, to expressing appreciation without needing anything back. You’ll learn how to be more charming without acting fake, and how to bring more of your real personality into every interaction.0:00 - Intro0:46 - Literal jokes2:07 - Cocky jokes2:58 - Tension diffusers3:56 - Honest appreciation5:24 - The fastest way to become more charismaticConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandCredits:Written by Charlie HoupertEdited by Akash RajpurohitDirected by Andre Ringkjoeb
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      <pubDate>Tue, 22 Sep 2026 12:13:38 -0000</pubDate>
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      <itunes:author>Charisma on Command</itunes:author>
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      <itunes:summary>The fastest way I know to become more naturally magnetic, confident, and authentic: https://bit.ly/008-26-LoganLoTSMost people hold back the parts of themselves that would actually make them more charismatic. They try to act cool, hide their enthusiasm, and stay trapped in safe social scripts.In this video, we break down what Love on the Spectrum teaches about real charisma, from saying the honest thing, to making simple jokes, to expressing appreciation without needing anything back. You’ll learn how to be more charming without acting fake, and how to bring more of your real personality into every interaction.0:00 - Intro0:46 - Literal jokes2:07 - Cocky jokes2:58 - Tension diffusers3:56 - Honest appreciation5:24 - The fastest way to become more charismaticConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandCredits:Written by Charlie HoupertEdited by Akash RajpurohitDirected by Andre Ringkjoeb
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        <![CDATA[<p>The fastest way I know to become more naturally magnetic, confident, and authentic: <a href="https://bit.ly/008-26-LoganLoTS">https://bit.ly/008-26-LoganLoTS</a><br><br><br>Most people hold back the parts of themselves that would actually make them more charismatic. They try to act cool, hide their enthusiasm, and stay trapped in safe social scripts.<br><br>In this video, we break down what Love on the Spectrum teaches about real charisma, from saying the honest thing, to making simple jokes, to expressing appreciation without needing anything back. You’ll learn how to be more charming without acting fake, and how to bring more of your real personality into every interaction.<br><br><br>0:00 - Intro<br>0:46 - Literal jokes<br>2:07 - Cocky jokes<br>2:58 - Tension diffusers<br>3:56 - Honest appreciation<br>5:24 - The fastest way to become more charismatic<br><br><br>Connect With Us Further:<br>Website: <a href="http://www.charismaoncommand.com">http://www.charismaoncommand.com</a><br>Facebook: <a href="http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand">http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand</a><br>Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand<br><br>Credits:<br>Written by Charlie Houpert<br>Edited by Akash Rajpurohit<br>Directed by Andre Ringkjoeb</p><p> </p><p>Learn more about your ad choices. Visit <a href="https://megaphone.fm/adchoices">megaphone.fm/adchoices</a></p>]]>
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      <title>Daily Tip: Charismatic Body Language Exercises</title>
      <description>Inspire, Impress, And Energize Everyone You MeetLink to tip to strengthen your frame &amp; build confidence: https://goo.gl/OJ4dxkDaily Tip: Charismatic Body Language ExercisesDeadlift tutorial: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m8ghzmmF_FASubscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert
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      <pubDate>Tue, 22 Sep 2026 11:10:54 -0000</pubDate>
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      <itunes:author>Charisma on Command</itunes:author>
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      <itunes:summary>Inspire, Impress, And Energize Everyone You MeetLink to tip to strengthen your frame &amp; build confidence: https://goo.gl/OJ4dxkDaily Tip: Charismatic Body Language ExercisesDeadlift tutorial: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m8ghzmmF_FASubscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert
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        <![CDATA[<p>Inspire, Impress, And Energize Everyone You Meet<br>Link to tip to strengthen your frame &amp; build confidence: <br><a href="https://goo.gl/OJ4dxk">https://goo.gl/OJ4dxk</a><br><br>Daily Tip: Charismatic Body Language Exercises<br><br>Deadlift tutorial: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m8ghzmmF_FA">https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m8ghzmmF_FA</a><br><br>Subscribe to Charisma On Command: <a href="http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC">http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC</a><br><br>Connect With Us.<br>Website: <a href="http://www.charismaoncommand.com">http://www.charismaoncommand.com</a><br>Facebook: <a href="http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand">http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand</a><br>Periscope: @Charismaon<br><br>Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):<br>Instagram: @CharlieHoupert<br>Periscope: @CharlieHoupert</p><p> </p><p>Learn more about your ad choices. Visit <a href="https://megaphone.fm/adchoices">megaphone.fm/adchoices</a></p>]]>
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      <itunes:duration>401</itunes:duration>
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      <title>How To Actually Tell Better Stories</title>
      <description>Public Speaking tips are something we get asked for all the time.  I think it's because Public Speaking applies to so many things, whether it's speaking to a group of friends, presenting at work, or speaking from a stage, the skill set is the same. https://goo.gl/LSuAmNThere's a TON that goes into being good at public speaking.  Some tips include speaking in the present so that people can follow your stories emotions, gesticulating, speaking with emotion, and on and on.But in this video, I cover a little known trick to telling stories that captivate.  Because if you can captivate your listener, you will be seen as an amazing speaker.Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert
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      <pubDate>Tue, 22 Sep 2026 10:08:10 -0000</pubDate>
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      <itunes:author>Charisma on Command</itunes:author>
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      <itunes:summary>Public Speaking tips are something we get asked for all the time.  I think it's because Public Speaking applies to so many things, whether it's speaking to a group of friends, presenting at work, or speaking from a stage, the skill set is the same. https://goo.gl/LSuAmNThere's a TON that goes into being good at public speaking.  Some tips include speaking in the present so that people can follow your stories emotions, gesticulating, speaking with emotion, and on and on.But in this video, I cover a little known trick to telling stories that captivate.  Because if you can captivate your listener, you will be seen as an amazing speaker.Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert
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        <![CDATA[<p>Public Speaking tips are something we get asked for all the time.  I think it's because Public Speaking applies to so many things, whether it's speaking to a group of friends, presenting at work, or speaking from a stage, the skill set is the same. <a href="https://goo.gl/LSuAmN">https://goo.gl/LSuAmN</a><br><br>There's a TON that goes into being good at public speaking.  Some tips include speaking in the present so that people can follow your stories emotions, gesticulating, speaking with emotion, and on and on.<br><br>But in this video, I cover a little known trick to telling stories that captivate.  Because if you can captivate your listener, you will be seen as an amazing speaker.<br><br>Subscribe to Charisma On Command: <a href="http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC">http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC</a><br><br>Connect With Us.<br>Website: <a href="http://www.charismaoncommand.com">http://www.charismaoncommand.com</a><br>Facebook: <a href="http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand">http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand</a><br>Periscope: @Charismaon<br><br>Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):<br>Instagram: @CharlieHoupert<br>Periscope: @CharlieHoupert</p><p> </p><p>Learn more about your ad choices. Visit <a href="https://megaphone.fm/adchoices">megaphone.fm/adchoices</a></p>]]>
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      <title>4 Jokes That Make Women Notice You</title>
      <description>Master your confidence and charisma step by step with Charisma University: https://bit.ly/3LCkP5gWe all know women like men who can make them laugh.But you may not realize there are 4 specific types of jokes that women absolutely love.So in this video you’ll learn how to use these 4 to create a fun flirty conversations with anyone you’re interested in0:00 - Intro0:22 - The Ice Breaker1:30 - Build a fake world3:38 - Portable Jokes4:49 - Innuendo5:17 - Innuendo Level 15:50 - Innuendo Level 26:53 - Innuendo Level 38:00 - The core mindsetSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account:http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand
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      <pubDate>Tue, 22 Sep 2026 09:05:27 -0000</pubDate>
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      <itunes:summary>Master your confidence and charisma step by step with Charisma University: https://bit.ly/3LCkP5gWe all know women like men who can make them laugh.But you may not realize there are 4 specific types of jokes that women absolutely love.So in this video you’ll learn how to use these 4 to create a fun flirty conversations with anyone you’re interested in0:00 - Intro0:22 - The Ice Breaker1:30 - Build a fake world3:38 - Portable Jokes4:49 - Innuendo5:17 - Innuendo Level 15:50 - Innuendo Level 26:53 - Innuendo Level 38:00 - The core mindsetSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account:http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand
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        <![CDATA[<p>Master your confidence and charisma step by step with Charisma University: <a href="https://bit.ly/3LCkP5g">https://bit.ly/3LCkP5g</a><br><br><br>We all know women like men who can make them laugh.<br><br>But you may not realize there are 4 specific types of jokes that women absolutely love.<br><br>So in this video you’ll learn how to use these 4 to create a fun flirty conversations with anyone you’re interested in<br><br><br>0:00 - Intro<br>0:22 - The Ice Breaker<br>1:30 - Build a fake world<br>3:38 - Portable Jokes<br>4:49 - Innuendo<br>5:17 - Innuendo Level 1<br>5:50 - Innuendo Level 2<br>6:53 - Innuendo Level 3<br>8:00 - The core mindset<br><br><br>Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account:<br><a href="http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe">http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe</a><br><br>Connect With Us Further:<br>Website: <a href="http://www.charismaoncommand.com">http://www.charismaoncommand.com</a><br>Facebook: <a href="http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand">http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand</a><br>Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand</p><p> </p><p>Learn more about your ad choices. Visit <a href="https://megaphone.fm/adchoices">megaphone.fm/adchoices</a></p>]]>
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      <title>Daily Tip: Charismatic Body Language Evaluation</title>
      <description>Inspire, Impress, And Energize Everyone You Meethttps://goo.gl/XTcjzHDaily Tip: Charismatic Body Language EvaluationSubscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert
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      <pubDate>Tue, 22 Sep 2026 08:02:43 -0000</pubDate>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <itunes:author>Charisma on Command</itunes:author>
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      <itunes:summary>Inspire, Impress, And Energize Everyone You Meethttps://goo.gl/XTcjzHDaily Tip: Charismatic Body Language EvaluationSubscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert
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        <![CDATA[<p>Inspire, Impress, And Energize Everyone You Meet<br><a href="https://goo.gl/XTcjzH">https://goo.gl/XTcjzH</a><br>Daily Tip: Charismatic Body Language Evaluation<br><br>Subscribe to Charisma On Command: <a href="http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC">http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC</a><br><br>Connect With Us.<br>Website: <a href="http://www.charismaoncommand.com">http://www.charismaoncommand.com</a><br>Facebook: <a href="http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand">http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand</a><br>Periscope: @Charismaon<br><br>Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):<br>Instagram: @CharlieHoupert<br>Periscope: @CharlieHoupert</p><p> </p><p>Learn more about your ad choices. Visit <a href="https://megaphone.fm/adchoices">megaphone.fm/adchoices</a></p>]]>
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      <title>How To Influence People With Your Word Choice</title>
      <description>Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time:  http://bit.ly/2simGTtHow To Influence People (And What Not to Do)Want to know how to influence people?  Well, first it is helpful to know what NOT to do.  This clip breaks down two different persuasive strategies used on The Voice by Ricky Martin and Joel Madden.  You'll learn how self-esteem plays a role in convincing people to do the things you'd like them to do and how to frame your reasons so that people are more influenced by what you have to say.Make sure to implement these charismatic tips in your own life so that people respond to you positively when you make requests of them.Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices</description>
      <pubDate>Tue, 22 Sep 2026 07:00:00 -0000</pubDate>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <itunes:author>Charisma on Command</itunes:author>
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      <itunes:summary>Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time:  http://bit.ly/2simGTtHow To Influence People (And What Not to Do)Want to know how to influence people?  Well, first it is helpful to know what NOT to do.  This clip breaks down two different persuasive strategies used on The Voice by Ricky Martin and Joel Madden.  You'll learn how self-esteem plays a role in convincing people to do the things you'd like them to do and how to frame your reasons so that people are more influenced by what you have to say.Make sure to implement these charismatic tips in your own life so that people respond to you positively when you make requests of them.Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert
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        <![CDATA[<p>Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time:  <a href="http://bit.ly/2simGTt">http://bit.ly/2simGTt</a><br><br>How To Influence People (And What Not to Do)<br><br>Want to know how to influence people?  Well, first it is helpful to know what NOT to do.  This clip breaks down two different persuasive strategies used on The Voice by Ricky Martin and Joel Madden.  You'll learn how self-esteem plays a role in convincing people to do the things you'd like them to do and how to frame your reasons so that people are more influenced by what you have to say.<br><br>Make sure to implement these charismatic tips in your own life so that people respond to you positively when you make requests of them.<br><br>Subscribe to Charisma On Command: <a href="http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC">http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC</a><br><br>Connect With Us.<br>Website: <a href="http://www.charismaoncommand.com">http://www.charismaoncommand.com</a><br>Facebook: <a href="http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand">http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand</a><br>Periscope: @Charismaon<br><br>Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):<br>Instagram: @CharlieHoupert<br>Periscope: @CharlieHoupert</p><p> </p><p>Learn more about your ad choices. Visit <a href="https://megaphone.fm/adchoices">megaphone.fm/adchoices</a></p>]]>
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      <title>When Someone Intimidates You, Do This...</title>
      <description>Build the confidence to stay calm, present, and charismatic in any social setting:👉 https://bit.ly/017-26-VonTysonWhy did Mike Tyson go into an interview expecting to dislike Theo Von, then end up telling him, “I love you”? In this video, we break down what Theo did differently with Tyson compared to his infamous interview with Bill Burr, and why one conversation created connection while the other fell apart.You’ll learn how to stop getting trapped in your own head, listen without slipping into performance mode, ask deeper questions without making things awkward, and handle tense moments without becoming defensive. Most importantly, you’ll see how staying physically calm can make all of these skills much easier when you’re nervous or desperate to make a good impression.0:00 The Art of Navigating Intimidating Conversations0:58 How to Handle Someone Who Intimidates You2:43 The Power of Pausing and Reflective Listening5:35 Building Intimacy Through Incremental Questions12:16 Using Body Language to Stay Calm and PresentSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices</description>
      <pubDate>Tue, 22 Sep 2026 05:57:16 -0000</pubDate>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <itunes:author>Charisma on Command</itunes:author>
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      <itunes:summary>Build the confidence to stay calm, present, and charismatic in any social setting:👉 https://bit.ly/017-26-VonTysonWhy did Mike Tyson go into an interview expecting to dislike Theo Von, then end up telling him, “I love you”? In this video, we break down what Theo did differently with Tyson compared to his infamous interview with Bill Burr, and why one conversation created connection while the other fell apart.You’ll learn how to stop getting trapped in your own head, listen without slipping into performance mode, ask deeper questions without making things awkward, and handle tense moments without becoming defensive. Most importantly, you’ll see how staying physically calm can make all of these skills much easier when you’re nervous or desperate to make a good impression.0:00 The Art of Navigating Intimidating Conversations0:58 How to Handle Someone Who Intimidates You2:43 The Power of Pausing and Reflective Listening5:35 Building Intimacy Through Incremental Questions12:16 Using Body Language to Stay Calm and PresentSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand
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        <![CDATA[<p>Build the confidence to stay calm, present, and charismatic in any social setting:<br>👉 <a href="https://bit.ly/017-26-VonTyson">https://bit.ly/017-26-VonTyson</a><br><br><br>Why did Mike Tyson go into an interview expecting to dislike Theo Von, then end up telling him, “I love you”? In this video, we break down what Theo did differently with Tyson compared to his infamous interview with Bill Burr, and why one conversation created connection while the other fell apart.<br><br>You’ll learn how to stop getting trapped in your own head, listen without slipping into performance mode, ask deeper questions without making things awkward, and handle tense moments without becoming defensive. Most importantly, you’ll see how staying physically calm can make all of these skills much easier when you’re nervous or desperate to make a good impression.<br><br><br>0:00 The Art of Navigating Intimidating Conversations<br>0:58 How to Handle Someone Who Intimidates You<br>2:43 The Power of Pausing and Reflective Listening<br>5:35 Building Intimacy Through Incremental Questions<br>12:16 Using Body Language to Stay Calm and Present<br><br><br>Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: <br><a href="http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe">http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe</a><br><br>Connect With Us Further:<br>Website: <a href="http://www.charismaoncommand.com">http://www.charismaoncommand.com</a><br>Facebook: <a href="http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand">http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand</a><br>Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand</p><p> </p><p>Learn more about your ad choices. Visit <a href="https://megaphone.fm/adchoices">megaphone.fm/adchoices</a></p>]]>
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      <title>Sydney Sweeney Controversy Reveals Something Darker About Us</title>
      <description>Want to build real prestige and improve the way people see you? Join Charisma University here: https://bit.ly/CU2325Check out more of Rob Henderson’s work here: https://substack.com/@robkhendersonSometimes outrage is not really about politics or beliefs, but about hidden strategies we use to compete for attraction and status. In this video, I dive into the controversy around Sydney Sweeney’s American Eagle ad with insights from psychologist and author Rob Henderson. Through the lens of evolutionary psychology, he reveals four cunning strategies driving outrage, rivalry, and reputation attacks. Beneath all of that lies an even bigger trap, the universal status game that shapes our lives, often without us realizing it.0:00 - Intro1:54 - Lower Rivals Eligibility2:51 - Police and Limit What Rivals Can Offer 4:53 - Align With High Status Individuals to Improve Own Position 6:13 - Develop Skills That Benefit the Coalition6:55 - Two Strategies To Gain Status8:15 - The Direct Route8:41 - The Indirect Route9:20 - Learn To Make More REAL ConnectionsSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandVideo editing:Andre RingkjoebChristopher Lazzeri
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      <pubDate>Tue, 22 Sep 2026 04:54:32 -0000</pubDate>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <itunes:author>Charisma on Command</itunes:author>
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      <itunes:summary>Want to build real prestige and improve the way people see you? Join Charisma University here: https://bit.ly/CU2325Check out more of Rob Henderson’s work here: https://substack.com/@robkhendersonSometimes outrage is not really about politics or beliefs, but about hidden strategies we use to compete for attraction and status. In this video, I dive into the controversy around Sydney Sweeney’s American Eagle ad with insights from psychologist and author Rob Henderson. Through the lens of evolutionary psychology, he reveals four cunning strategies driving outrage, rivalry, and reputation attacks. Beneath all of that lies an even bigger trap, the universal status game that shapes our lives, often without us realizing it.0:00 - Intro1:54 - Lower Rivals Eligibility2:51 - Police and Limit What Rivals Can Offer 4:53 - Align With High Status Individuals to Improve Own Position 6:13 - Develop Skills That Benefit the Coalition6:55 - Two Strategies To Gain Status8:15 - The Direct Route8:41 - The Indirect Route9:20 - Learn To Make More REAL ConnectionsSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandVideo editing:Andre RingkjoebChristopher Lazzeri
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices</itunes:summary>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Want to build real prestige and improve the way people see you? Join Charisma University here: <a href="https://bit.ly/CU2325">https://bit.ly/CU2325</a><br><br>Check out more of Rob Henderson’s work here: <a href="https://substack.com/@robkhenderson">https://substack.com/@robkhenderson</a><br><br><br>Sometimes outrage is not really about politics or beliefs, but about hidden strategies we use to compete for attraction and status. In this video, I dive into the controversy around Sydney Sweeney’s American Eagle ad with insights from psychologist and author Rob Henderson. Through the lens of evolutionary psychology, he reveals four cunning strategies driving outrage, rivalry, and reputation attacks. Beneath all of that lies an even bigger trap, the universal status game that shapes our lives, often without us realizing it.<br><br><br>0:00 - Intro<br>1:54 - Lower Rivals Eligibility<br>2:51 - Police and Limit What Rivals Can Offer <br>4:53 - Align With High Status Individuals to Improve Own Position <br>6:13 - Develop Skills That Benefit the Coalition<br>6:55 - Two Strategies To Gain Status<br>8:15 - The Direct Route<br>8:41 - The Indirect Route<br>9:20 - Learn To Make More REAL Connections<br><br><br>Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: <br><a href="http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe">http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe</a><br><br>Connect With Us Further:<br>Website: <a href="http://www.charismaoncommand.com">http://www.charismaoncommand.com</a><br>Facebook: <a href="http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand">http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand</a><br>Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand<br><br>Video editing:<br>Andre Ringkjoeb<br>Christopher Lazzeri</p><p> </p><p>Learn more about your ad choices. Visit <a href="https://megaphone.fm/adchoices">megaphone.fm/adchoices</a></p>]]>
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      <title>Unlock The Forgotten Masculine Power Modern Men Crave</title>
      <description>Join the in person event waiting list:https://charismaoncommand.activehosted.com/f/70Some men seem to see what’s coming. They spot where the market will move, guess how competitors will act, and position themselves to win.In this video, I’ll show you how to build that skill, read patterns, predict outcomes, and influence what happens next. To do so, we’re going to dive into what depth psychology calls the archetype of the Magician.0:00 - Intro2:02 - Unlearn what you have learned3:29 - Enter non ordinary states of consciousness5:02 -  Surrender to something larger9:18 - It's not about you11:15 - Join my in person event Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices</description>
      <pubDate>Tue, 22 Sep 2026 03:51:49 -0000</pubDate>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <itunes:author>Charisma on Command</itunes:author>
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      <itunes:summary>Join the in person event waiting list:https://charismaoncommand.activehosted.com/f/70Some men seem to see what’s coming. They spot where the market will move, guess how competitors will act, and position themselves to win.In this video, I’ll show you how to build that skill, read patterns, predict outcomes, and influence what happens next. To do so, we’re going to dive into what depth psychology calls the archetype of the Magician.0:00 - Intro2:02 - Unlearn what you have learned3:29 - Enter non ordinary states of consciousness5:02 -  Surrender to something larger9:18 - It's not about you11:15 - Join my in person event Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand
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        <![CDATA[<p>Join the in person event waiting list:<br><a href="https://charismaoncommand.activehosted.com/f/70">https://charismaoncommand.activehosted.com/f/70</a><br><br>Some men seem to see what’s coming. They spot where the market will move, guess how competitors will act, and position themselves to win.<br><br>In this video, I’ll show you how to build that skill, read patterns, predict outcomes, and influence what happens next. To do so, we’re going to dive into what depth psychology calls the archetype of the Magician.<br><br><br>0:00 - Intro<br>2:02 - Unlearn what you have learned<br>3:29 - Enter non ordinary states of consciousness<br>5:02 -  Surrender to something larger<br>9:18 - It's not about you<br>11:15 - Join my in person event<br> <br><br>Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: <br><a href="http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe">http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe</a><br><br>Connect With Us Further:<br>Website: <a href="http://www.charismaoncommand.com">http://www.charismaoncommand.com</a><br>Facebook: <a href="http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand">http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand</a><br>Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand</p><p> </p><p>Learn more about your ad choices. Visit <a href="https://megaphone.fm/adchoices">megaphone.fm/adchoices</a></p>]]>
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      <title>How To Be Confident Under Pressure (Even if You're Shy)</title>
      <description>The fastest way I know to build your confidence and social skills:👉 https://bit.ly/016-26-IndePressure can destroy your confidence when you need it most. Your mind goes blank, you stumble over your words, and opportunities slip away.In this video, we break down how Inde Navarrette stays charismatic in high-pressure moments, despite being naturally shy. You’ll learn how to prime yourself for confidence, mirror the energy in any room, and turn nervousness into connection.You’ll also discover why admitting you’re nervous can make you look more confident, and how to stop holding back so you can express yourself freely at work, on dates, and in your social life.0:00 - Intro1:10 - Priming4:00 - Energy Mirroring5:29 - Announce Your NervesSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand
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      <pubDate>Tue, 22 Sep 2026 02:49:05 -0000</pubDate>
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      <itunes:author>Charisma on Command</itunes:author>
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      <itunes:summary>The fastest way I know to build your confidence and social skills:👉 https://bit.ly/016-26-IndePressure can destroy your confidence when you need it most. Your mind goes blank, you stumble over your words, and opportunities slip away.In this video, we break down how Inde Navarrette stays charismatic in high-pressure moments, despite being naturally shy. You’ll learn how to prime yourself for confidence, mirror the energy in any room, and turn nervousness into connection.You’ll also discover why admitting you’re nervous can make you look more confident, and how to stop holding back so you can express yourself freely at work, on dates, and in your social life.0:00 - Intro1:10 - Priming4:00 - Energy Mirroring5:29 - Announce Your NervesSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand
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        <![CDATA[<p>The fastest way I know to build your confidence and social skills:<br>👉 <a href="https://bit.ly/016-26-Inde">https://bit.ly/016-26-Inde</a><br><br><br>Pressure can destroy your confidence when you need it most. Your mind goes blank, you stumble over your words, and opportunities slip away.<br><br>In this video, we break down how Inde Navarrette stays charismatic in high-pressure moments, despite being naturally shy. You’ll learn how to prime yourself for confidence, mirror the energy in any room, and turn nervousness into connection.<br><br>You’ll also discover why admitting you’re nervous can make you look more confident, and how to stop holding back so you can express yourself freely at work, on dates, and in your social life.<br><br><br>0:00 - Intro<br>1:10 - Priming<br>4:00 - Energy Mirroring<br>5:29 - Announce Your Nerves<br><br><br>Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: <br><a href="http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe">http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe</a><br><br>Connect With Us Further:<br>Website: <a href="http://www.charismaoncommand.com">http://www.charismaoncommand.com</a><br>Facebook: <a href="http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand">http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand</a><br>Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand</p><p> </p><p>Learn more about your ad choices. Visit <a href="https://megaphone.fm/adchoices">megaphone.fm/adchoices</a></p>]]>
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      <title>The Masculine Move Most Men Are Too Afraid to Make</title>
      <description>Build the confidence to take direct action in conversations, dating, and real life: https://bit.ly/009-26-DDvsReacherMost men think attraction works like this: become successful, get in shape, build status, then wait for women to notice. But that fantasy keeps a lot of men stuck. In this video, you’ll learn the difference between indirect attraction and direct action, using Jack Reacher and Matt Murdock as examples.You’ll see the attraction signals most men miss, how to flirt without being awkward, and why what you want is usually on the other side of fear. This isn’t just about dating. It’s about the same pattern that keeps men from starting the business, writing the book, making the move, or going after the life they actually want.0:00 - Intro0:29 - The Fantasy Holding Men Back1:34 - Indirect Attraction vs Direct Action2:47 - The Signals Most Men Miss4:02 - The 12 Stages of Intimacy6:00 - Why Reacher Gets Stuck7:00 - The Right Way to Flirt10:25 - Build the confidence to take direct actionSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand
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      <pubDate>Tue, 22 Sep 2026 01:46:21 -0000</pubDate>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <itunes:author>Charisma on Command</itunes:author>
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      <itunes:summary>Build the confidence to take direct action in conversations, dating, and real life: https://bit.ly/009-26-DDvsReacherMost men think attraction works like this: become successful, get in shape, build status, then wait for women to notice. But that fantasy keeps a lot of men stuck. In this video, you’ll learn the difference between indirect attraction and direct action, using Jack Reacher and Matt Murdock as examples.You’ll see the attraction signals most men miss, how to flirt without being awkward, and why what you want is usually on the other side of fear. This isn’t just about dating. It’s about the same pattern that keeps men from starting the business, writing the book, making the move, or going after the life they actually want.0:00 - Intro0:29 - The Fantasy Holding Men Back1:34 - Indirect Attraction vs Direct Action2:47 - The Signals Most Men Miss4:02 - The 12 Stages of Intimacy6:00 - Why Reacher Gets Stuck7:00 - The Right Way to Flirt10:25 - Build the confidence to take direct actionSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand
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        <![CDATA[<p>Build the confidence to take direct action in conversations, dating, and real life: <br><a href="https://bit.ly/009-26-DDvsReacher">https://bit.ly/009-26-DDvsReacher</a><br><br><br>Most men think attraction works like this: become successful, get in shape, build status, then wait for women to notice. But that fantasy keeps a lot of men stuck. In this video, you’ll learn the difference between indirect attraction and direct action, using Jack Reacher and Matt Murdock as examples.<br><br>You’ll see the attraction signals most men miss, how to flirt without being awkward, and why what you want is usually on the other side of fear. This isn’t just about dating. It’s about the same pattern that keeps men from starting the business, writing the book, making the move, or going after the life they actually want.<br><br><br>0:00 - Intro<br>0:29 - The Fantasy Holding Men Back<br>1:34 - Indirect Attraction vs Direct Action<br>2:47 - The Signals Most Men Miss<br>4:02 - The 12 Stages of Intimacy<br>6:00 - Why Reacher Gets Stuck<br>7:00 - The Right Way to Flirt<br>10:25 - Build the confidence to take direct action<br><br><br>Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: <br><a href="http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe">http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe</a><br><br>Connect With Us Further:<br>Website: <a href="http://www.charismaoncommand.com">http://www.charismaoncommand.com</a><br>Facebook: <a href="http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand">http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand</a><br>Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand</p><p> </p><p>Learn more about your ad choices. Visit <a href="https://megaphone.fm/adchoices">megaphone.fm/adchoices</a></p>]]>
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      <title>How To Stick To Your New Years Resolutions</title>
      <description>Get our best tip to turning on confidence in just 60 seconds: http://bit.ly/COC-ConfidenceYTDSo I made an early resolution that I hope you'll like: more YouTube videos!!Specifically I am going to create and release a video at least once a week.  Let me know in the comments if there is something specifically you'd like me to cover.Happy 2016 - excited to make these videos a serious priority :-)Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert
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      <pubDate>Tue, 22 Sep 2026 00:43:38 -0000</pubDate>
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      <itunes:author>Charisma on Command</itunes:author>
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      <itunes:summary>Get our best tip to turning on confidence in just 60 seconds: http://bit.ly/COC-ConfidenceYTDSo I made an early resolution that I hope you'll like: more YouTube videos!!Specifically I am going to create and release a video at least once a week.  Let me know in the comments if there is something specifically you'd like me to cover.Happy 2016 - excited to make these videos a serious priority :-)Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert
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        <![CDATA[<p>Get our best tip to turning on confidence in just 60 seconds: <a href="http://bit.ly/COC-ConfidenceYTD">http://bit.ly/COC-ConfidenceYTD</a><br><br>So I made an early resolution that I hope you'll like: more YouTube videos!!<br><br>Specifically I am going to create and release a video at least once a week.  Let me know in the comments if there is something specifically you'd like me to cover.<br><br>Happy 2016 - excited to make these videos a serious priority :-)<br><br>Subscribe to Charisma On Command: <a href="http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC">http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC</a><br><br>Connect With Us.<br>Website: <a href="http://www.charismaoncommand.com">http://www.charismaoncommand.com</a><br>Facebook: <a href="http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand">http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand</a><br>Periscope: @Charismaon<br><br>Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):<br>Instagram: @CharlieHoupert<br>Periscope: @CharlieHoupert</p><p> </p><p>Learn more about your ad choices. Visit <a href="https://megaphone.fm/adchoices">megaphone.fm/adchoices</a></p>]]>
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      <title>How To Be The Center Of Attention</title>
      <description>Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2nSrMjPWhy People Love Will Smith (And Not Jaden)Will Smith is one of the most charismatic men alive.  His son, Jaden, is not.  In this interview with Graham Norton, we can break down exactly why.  It's the difference between being an inclusive competent leader and struggling to keep up.In this interview you'll see how the leadership dynamic plays out in a group.  Will Smith very quickly winds up as the de facto leader, while Jaden gets cut off and has trouble getting a word in.  The good news is that it isn't impossible to move upwards from the position of being trampled over in conversation.  Watch this video and learn how to be a leader in a way that makes people happy to have you around.Book: http://www.amazon.com/dp/B00MX95J48/Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert
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      <pubDate>Mon, 21 Sep 2026 23:40:54 -0000</pubDate>
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      <itunes:author>Charisma on Command</itunes:author>
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      <itunes:summary>Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2nSrMjPWhy People Love Will Smith (And Not Jaden)Will Smith is one of the most charismatic men alive.  His son, Jaden, is not.  In this interview with Graham Norton, we can break down exactly why.  It's the difference between being an inclusive competent leader and struggling to keep up.In this interview you'll see how the leadership dynamic plays out in a group.  Will Smith very quickly winds up as the de facto leader, while Jaden gets cut off and has trouble getting a word in.  The good news is that it isn't impossible to move upwards from the position of being trampled over in conversation.  Watch this video and learn how to be a leader in a way that makes people happy to have you around.Book: http://www.amazon.com/dp/B00MX95J48/Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert
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        <![CDATA[<p>Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: <br><a href="http://bit.ly/2nSrMjP">http://bit.ly/2nSrMjP</a><br><br>Why People Love Will Smith (And Not Jaden)<br><br>Will Smith is one of the most charismatic men alive.  His son, Jaden, is not.  In this interview with Graham Norton, we can break down exactly why.  It's the difference between being an inclusive competent leader and struggling to keep up.<br><br>In this interview you'll see how the leadership dynamic plays out in a group.  Will Smith very quickly winds up as the de facto leader, while Jaden gets cut off and has trouble getting a word in.  The good news is that it isn't impossible to move upwards from the position of being trampled over in conversation.  Watch this video and learn how to be a leader in a way that makes people happy to have you around.<br><br>Book: <a href="http://www.amazon.com/dp/B00MX95J48/">http://www.amazon.com/dp/B00MX95J48/</a><br><br>Subscribe to Charisma On Command: <a href="http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC">http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC</a><br><br>Connect With Us.<br>Website: <a href="http://www.charismaoncommand.com">http://www.charismaoncommand.com</a><br>Facebook: <a href="http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand">http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand</a><br>Periscope: @Charismaon<br><br>Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):<br>Instagram: @CharlieHoupert<br>Periscope: @CharlieHoupert</p><p> </p><p>Learn more about your ad choices. Visit <a href="https://megaphone.fm/adchoices">megaphone.fm/adchoices</a></p>]]>
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      <title>How To Become An Effective Leader</title>
      <description>Link to confidence tip: https://goo.gl/DCY7nASteve Jobs Leadership Skills Breakdown - How To Motivate PeopleWhen Steve Jobs returned as the CEO of Apple in 1997, the company was on the verge of bankruptcy.  Today, Apple is the most profitable company on the planet, thanks in huge part to Steve Jobs leadership.  He was able to motivate employees, turn the company around, and preside over huge developments like the iMac, iPod, iPhone, and iPad.  But Steve Jobs is unique in that despite clearly being an effective leader, he was not particularly likeable.  Steve Jobs presentation and interview skills were legendary though.  In this video we break down exactly what it was that made Steve Jobs such a powerful leader by examining his interviews and speeches.  The goal is to use the lessons from his life to learn how to motivate employees and the people in our lives.Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert
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      <pubDate>Mon, 21 Sep 2026 22:38:10 -0000</pubDate>
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      <itunes:author>Charisma on Command</itunes:author>
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      <itunes:summary>Link to confidence tip: https://goo.gl/DCY7nASteve Jobs Leadership Skills Breakdown - How To Motivate PeopleWhen Steve Jobs returned as the CEO of Apple in 1997, the company was on the verge of bankruptcy.  Today, Apple is the most profitable company on the planet, thanks in huge part to Steve Jobs leadership.  He was able to motivate employees, turn the company around, and preside over huge developments like the iMac, iPod, iPhone, and iPad.  But Steve Jobs is unique in that despite clearly being an effective leader, he was not particularly likeable.  Steve Jobs presentation and interview skills were legendary though.  In this video we break down exactly what it was that made Steve Jobs such a powerful leader by examining his interviews and speeches.  The goal is to use the lessons from his life to learn how to motivate employees and the people in our lives.Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert
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        <![CDATA[<p>Link to confidence tip: <a href="https://goo.gl/DCY7nA">https://goo.gl/DCY7nA</a><br><br>Steve Jobs Leadership Skills Breakdown - How To Motivate People<br><br>When Steve Jobs returned as the CEO of Apple in 1997, the company was on the verge of bankruptcy.  Today, Apple is the most profitable company on the planet, thanks in huge part to Steve Jobs leadership.  He was able to motivate employees, turn the company around, and preside over huge developments like the iMac, iPod, iPhone, and iPad.  <br><br>But Steve Jobs is unique in that despite clearly being an effective leader, he was not particularly likeable.  Steve Jobs presentation and interview skills were legendary though.  In this video we break down exactly what it was that made Steve Jobs such a powerful leader by examining his interviews and speeches.  The goal is to use the lessons from his life to learn how to motivate employees and the people in our lives.<br><br>Subscribe to Charisma On Command: <a href="http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC">http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC</a><br><br>Connect With Us.<br>Website: <a href="http://www.charismaoncommand.com">http://www.charismaoncommand.com</a><br>Facebook: <a href="http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand">http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand</a><br>Periscope: @Charismaon<br><br>Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):<br>Instagram: @CharlieHoupert<br>Periscope: @CharlieHoupert</p><p> </p><p>Learn more about your ad choices. Visit <a href="https://megaphone.fm/adchoices">megaphone.fm/adchoices</a></p>]]>
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      <title>How Charles Manson Controlled His Followers (Toxic Partners Do This Too)</title>
      <description>The best way I know to quickly improve your confidence: https://bit.ly/CU-2525It’s a scary truth that the most powerful psychological tricks cult leaders use to brainwash their followers can just as effectively be used by toxic partners, manipulative friends, and predatory organizations against people like you and me.That’s why in this video, we’re breaking down each of those tricks - so hopefully you can spot the red flags and avoid falling victim to them too. 0:00 - Intro1:06 - They impersonate the family unit3:02 - They isolate you from your real family unit4:31 - They twist language to disguise what's happening5:52 - They demonize asking questions7:24 - They reward blind obedience9:21 - They use fake reciprocitySubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand
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      <pubDate>Mon, 21 Sep 2026 21:35:27 -0000</pubDate>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <itunes:author>Charisma on Command</itunes:author>
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      <itunes:summary>The best way I know to quickly improve your confidence: https://bit.ly/CU-2525It’s a scary truth that the most powerful psychological tricks cult leaders use to brainwash their followers can just as effectively be used by toxic partners, manipulative friends, and predatory organizations against people like you and me.That’s why in this video, we’re breaking down each of those tricks - so hopefully you can spot the red flags and avoid falling victim to them too. 0:00 - Intro1:06 - They impersonate the family unit3:02 - They isolate you from your real family unit4:31 - They twist language to disguise what's happening5:52 - They demonize asking questions7:24 - They reward blind obedience9:21 - They use fake reciprocitySubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand
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        <![CDATA[<p>The best way I know to quickly improve your confidence: <a href="https://bit.ly/CU-2525">https://bit.ly/CU-2525</a><br><br>It’s a scary truth that the most powerful psychological tricks cult leaders use to brainwash their followers can just as effectively be used by toxic partners, manipulative friends, and predatory organizations against people like you and me.<br><br>That’s why in this video, we’re breaking down each of those tricks - so hopefully you can spot the red flags and avoid falling victim to them too. <br><br><br>0:00 - Intro<br>1:06 - They impersonate the family unit<br>3:02 - They isolate you from your real family unit<br>4:31 - They twist language to disguise what's happening<br>5:52 - They demonize asking questions<br>7:24 - They reward blind obedience<br>9:21 - They use fake reciprocity<br><br><br>Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: <br><a href="http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe">http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe</a><br><br>Connect With Us Further:<br>Website: <a href="http://www.charismaoncommand.com">http://www.charismaoncommand.com</a><br>Facebook: <a href="http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand">http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand</a><br>Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand</p><p> </p><p>Learn more about your ad choices. Visit <a href="https://megaphone.fm/adchoices">megaphone.fm/adchoices</a></p>]]>
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      <title>4 Body Language Habits That Put You In The Top 1%</title>
      <description>The fastest way to level up your confidence and charisma: http://bit.ly/3J5ixuiWhen it comes to having attractive, captivating body language there’s only 4 things you need to know - and if you do them, these 4 will immediately take you into the top 1% of communicators.  0:00 - Intro0:11 - Reveal your vitals2:01 - Verbally own your experience 3:01 - Develop strong eye contact 4:55 - Practice charisma as an opportunity to feel good Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand
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      <pubDate>Mon, 21 Sep 2026 20:32:43 -0000</pubDate>
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      <itunes:summary>The fastest way to level up your confidence and charisma: http://bit.ly/3J5ixuiWhen it comes to having attractive, captivating body language there’s only 4 things you need to know - and if you do them, these 4 will immediately take you into the top 1% of communicators.  0:00 - Intro0:11 - Reveal your vitals2:01 - Verbally own your experience 3:01 - Develop strong eye contact 4:55 - Practice charisma as an opportunity to feel good Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand
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        <![CDATA[<p>The fastest way to level up your confidence and charisma: <a href="http://bit.ly/3J5ixui">http://bit.ly/3J5ixui</a><br><br>When it comes to having attractive, captivating body language there’s only 4 things you need to know - and if you do them, these 4 will immediately take you into the top 1% of communicators.  <br><br><br>0:00 - Intro<br>0:11 - Reveal your vitals<br>2:01 - Verbally own your experience <br>3:01 - Develop strong eye contact <br>4:55 - Practice charisma as an opportunity to feel good <br><br><br>Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: <br><a href="http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe">http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe</a><br><br>Connect With Us Further:<br>Website: <a href="http://www.charismaoncommand.com">http://www.charismaoncommand.com</a><br>Facebook: <a href="http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand">http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand</a><br>Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand</p><p> </p><p>Learn more about your ad choices. Visit <a href="https://megaphone.fm/adchoices">megaphone.fm/adchoices</a></p>]]>
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      <title>The One Thing That Saved James Gunn’s Career</title>
      <description>Learn the social skills to build powerful connections: https://bit.ly/CU-2225When James Gunn lost his career overnight, he thought it was all over. But what happened next completely changed how he saw himself and the people around him. In this video, we break down his story and the simple lesson you can use to turn your worst moment into your strongest comeback.0:00 - Intro0:37 - James Gunn's Worst Moment1:48 - Wait a second...3:02 - The Buffer Against Feeling Loved4:03  - A Practical Takeaway5:48 - Learn To Build Powerful ConnectionsSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand
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      <pubDate>Mon, 21 Sep 2026 19:30:00 -0000</pubDate>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <itunes:author>Charisma on Command</itunes:author>
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      <itunes:summary>Learn the social skills to build powerful connections: https://bit.ly/CU-2225When James Gunn lost his career overnight, he thought it was all over. But what happened next completely changed how he saw himself and the people around him. In this video, we break down his story and the simple lesson you can use to turn your worst moment into your strongest comeback.0:00 - Intro0:37 - James Gunn's Worst Moment1:48 - Wait a second...3:02 - The Buffer Against Feeling Loved4:03  - A Practical Takeaway5:48 - Learn To Build Powerful ConnectionsSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand
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        <![CDATA[<p>Learn the social skills to build powerful connections: <a href="https://bit.ly/CU-2225">https://bit.ly/CU-2225</a><br><br><br>When James Gunn lost his career overnight, he thought it was all over. But what happened next completely changed how he saw himself and the people around him. In this video, we break down his story and the simple lesson you can use to turn your worst moment into your strongest comeback.<br><br><br>0:00 - Intro<br>0:37 - James Gunn's Worst Moment<br>1:48 - Wait a second...<br>3:02 - The Buffer Against Feeling Loved<br>4:03  - A Practical Takeaway<br>5:48 - Learn To Build Powerful Connections<br><br><br>Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: <br><a href="http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe">http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe</a><br><br>Connect With Us Further:<br>Website: <a href="http://www.charismaoncommand.com">http://www.charismaoncommand.com</a><br>Facebook: <a href="http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand">http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand</a><br>Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand</p><p> </p><p>Learn more about your ad choices. Visit <a href="https://megaphone.fm/adchoices">megaphone.fm/adchoices</a></p>]]>
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      <title>STOP DRINKING: Why alcohol kills self-improvement</title>
      <description>I get a lot of questions about the steps to take to be more charismatic.  And this one always surprises people: STOP DRINKING! https://goo.gl/RyWH6VIt seems like improvement is something you do between the gym and work.  But the truth is, every social interaction is a chance to learn something.  Except when you're drunk, that goes out the window.  Rather than dealing with social anxiety, we tend to numb it. Rather than learning how to "turn on" a raucous sense of humor, we rely on alcohol do free up spontaneity.  We sacrifice self-improvement for the the quick fix of a drunk buzz.So I know it may seem unrelated, but stopping your habit of drinking is one of the fastest ways to boost your charisma.  Plus there's a lot of other benefits of not drinking that you get to enjoy as well, like waking up without a splitting headache :-)Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert
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      <pubDate>Mon, 21 Sep 2026 18:08:10 -0000</pubDate>
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      <itunes:author>Charisma on Command</itunes:author>
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      <itunes:summary>I get a lot of questions about the steps to take to be more charismatic.  And this one always surprises people: STOP DRINKING! https://goo.gl/RyWH6VIt seems like improvement is something you do between the gym and work.  But the truth is, every social interaction is a chance to learn something.  Except when you're drunk, that goes out the window.  Rather than dealing with social anxiety, we tend to numb it. Rather than learning how to "turn on" a raucous sense of humor, we rely on alcohol do free up spontaneity.  We sacrifice self-improvement for the the quick fix of a drunk buzz.So I know it may seem unrelated, but stopping your habit of drinking is one of the fastest ways to boost your charisma.  Plus there's a lot of other benefits of not drinking that you get to enjoy as well, like waking up without a splitting headache :-)Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert
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        <![CDATA[<p>I get a lot of questions about the steps to take to be more charismatic.  And this one always surprises people: STOP DRINKING! <a href="https://goo.gl/RyWH6V">https://goo.gl/RyWH6V</a><br><br>It seems like improvement is something you do between the gym and work.  But the truth is, every social interaction is a chance to learn something.  Except when you're drunk, that goes out the window.  Rather than dealing with social anxiety, we tend to numb it. Rather than learning how to "turn on" a raucous sense of humor, we rely on alcohol do free up spontaneity.  We sacrifice self-improvement for the the quick fix of a drunk buzz.<br><br>So I know it may seem unrelated, but stopping your habit of drinking is one of the fastest ways to boost your charisma.  Plus there's a lot of other benefits of not drinking that you get to enjoy as well, like waking up without a splitting headache :-)<br><br>Subscribe to Charisma On Command: <a href="http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC">http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC</a><br><br>Connect With Us.<br>Website: <a href="http://www.charismaoncommand.com">http://www.charismaoncommand.com</a><br>Facebook: <a href="http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand">http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand</a><br>Periscope: @Charismaon<br><br>Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):<br>Instagram: @CharlieHoupert<br>Periscope: @CharlieHoupert</p><p> </p><p>Learn more about your ad choices. Visit <a href="https://megaphone.fm/adchoices">megaphone.fm/adchoices</a></p>]]>
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      <title>If You Only Watch One Charisma Video, Make It This</title>
      <description>Click here to build your charisma with daily reps👉 https://bit.ly/010-26-7PrinciplesCharisma is not something you’re born with. It’s a set of social skills you can train, rep by rep, until confidence, connection, and self-expression become second nature. In this video, Charlie shares the 7 principles that helped him build his charisma from the ground up, and how you can start doing the same.0:00 - Intro0:36 - Charisma is a muscle2:44 - Charisma has 5 types4:55 - Confidence is "I'll be okay"6:05 - You are always broadcasting7:43 - Trying to be liked backfires9:22 - The leader humanizes first10:41 - Fear is the wallSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandCredits:Written by Indy FullstopEdited by Akash RajpurohitDirected by Andre Rinkjoeb
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      <pubDate>Mon, 21 Sep 2026 17:46:21 -0000</pubDate>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <itunes:author>Charisma on Command</itunes:author>
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      <itunes:summary>Click here to build your charisma with daily reps👉 https://bit.ly/010-26-7PrinciplesCharisma is not something you’re born with. It’s a set of social skills you can train, rep by rep, until confidence, connection, and self-expression become second nature. In this video, Charlie shares the 7 principles that helped him build his charisma from the ground up, and how you can start doing the same.0:00 - Intro0:36 - Charisma is a muscle2:44 - Charisma has 5 types4:55 - Confidence is "I'll be okay"6:05 - You are always broadcasting7:43 - Trying to be liked backfires9:22 - The leader humanizes first10:41 - Fear is the wallSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandCredits:Written by Indy FullstopEdited by Akash RajpurohitDirected by Andre Rinkjoeb
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        <![CDATA[<p>Click here to build your charisma with daily reps<br>👉 <a href="https://bit.ly/010-26-7Principles">https://bit.ly/010-26-7Principles</a><br><br><br>Charisma is not something you’re born with. It’s a set of social skills you can train, rep by rep, until confidence, connection, and self-expression become second nature. In this video, Charlie shares the 7 principles that helped him build his charisma from the ground up, and how you can start doing the same.<br><br><br>0:00 - Intro<br>0:36 - Charisma is a muscle<br>2:44 - Charisma has 5 types<br>4:55 - Confidence is "I'll be okay"<br>6:05 - You are always broadcasting<br>7:43 - Trying to be liked backfires<br>9:22 - The leader humanizes first<br>10:41 - Fear is the wall<br><br><br>Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: <br><a href="http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe">http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe</a><br><br>Connect With Us Further:<br>Website: <a href="http://www.charismaoncommand.com">http://www.charismaoncommand.com</a><br>Facebook: <a href="http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand">http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand</a><br>Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand<br><br>Credits:<br>Written by Indy Fullstop<br>Edited by Akash Rajpurohit<br>Directed by Andre Rinkjoeb</p><p> </p><p>Learn more about your ad choices. Visit <a href="https://megaphone.fm/adchoices">megaphone.fm/adchoices</a></p>]]>
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      <title>How To Build Unwavering Confidence</title>
      <description>How To Be More Confident - Conor McGregor Confidence BreakdownGet INSANE Confidence, Instantly!  https://bit.ly/2N3xkCCConor McGregor is one of the most confident athletes of all time.  He routinely calls his shot and speaks with a conviction that victory is a total certainty.  That's how he earned the nickname "Mystic Mac."Conor McGregor's confidence has led him to one UFC belt and another on the horizon.  In this video I am examine some of his thought processes that lead him to have such superhuman confidence and prove that anyone can learn how to be more confident.  Use these charismatic tips in your own life to look more confident and feel more confident as well.Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert
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      <pubDate>Mon, 21 Sep 2026 17:27:16 -0000</pubDate>
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      <itunes:author>Charisma on Command</itunes:author>
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      <itunes:summary>How To Be More Confident - Conor McGregor Confidence BreakdownGet INSANE Confidence, Instantly!  https://bit.ly/2N3xkCCConor McGregor is one of the most confident athletes of all time.  He routinely calls his shot and speaks with a conviction that victory is a total certainty.  That's how he earned the nickname "Mystic Mac."Conor McGregor's confidence has led him to one UFC belt and another on the horizon.  In this video I am examine some of his thought processes that lead him to have such superhuman confidence and prove that anyone can learn how to be more confident.  Use these charismatic tips in your own life to look more confident and feel more confident as well.Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert
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        <![CDATA[<p>How To Be More Confident - Conor McGregor Confidence Breakdown<br><br>Get INSANE Confidence, Instantly!  <a href="https://bit.ly/2N3xkCC">https://bit.ly/2N3xkCC</a><br><br>Conor McGregor is one of the most confident athletes of all time.  He routinely calls his shot and speaks with a conviction that victory is a total certainty.  That's how he earned the nickname "Mystic Mac."<br><br>Conor McGregor's confidence has led him to one UFC belt and another on the horizon.  In this video I am examine some of his thought processes that lead him to have such superhuman confidence and prove that anyone can learn how to be more confident.  Use these charismatic tips in your own life to look more confident and feel more confident as well.<br><br>Subscribe to Charisma On Command: <a href="http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC">http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC</a><br><br>Connect With Us.<br>Website: <a href="http://www.charismaoncommand.com">http://www.charismaoncommand.com</a><br>Facebook: <a href="http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand">http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand</a><br>Periscope: @Charismaon<br><br>Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):<br>Instagram: @CharlieHoupert<br>Periscope: @CharlieHoupert</p><p> </p><p>Learn more about your ad choices. Visit <a href="https://megaphone.fm/adchoices">megaphone.fm/adchoices</a></p>]]>
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      <title>How To Show Up For Someone In A Rough Time</title>
      <description>The fastest way to build the confidence and charisma to make friends as an adult:https://bit.ly/002-26Most people want to help a friend who is struggling, but they get it wrong. They give advice too fast, push too hard, or try to carry emotional burdens that are not theirs to carry, which can actually hurt the friendship.In this video, you will learn how to support a friend in hard times, build deeper connections, and become someone people trust, using Samwise Gamgee as the example of what real friendship and support look like when life gets tough.0:00 - Intro0:47 - Offer help before they ask1:25 -  Offer help without hooks4:37 -  Honor their boundaries7:23 -  Support them without this...8:55 - See them as mid-storySubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandOr if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertInstagram: @IamBenAltman
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      <pubDate>Mon, 21 Sep 2026 17:24:32 -0000</pubDate>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <itunes:author>Charisma on Command</itunes:author>
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      <itunes:summary>The fastest way to build the confidence and charisma to make friends as an adult:https://bit.ly/002-26Most people want to help a friend who is struggling, but they get it wrong. They give advice too fast, push too hard, or try to carry emotional burdens that are not theirs to carry, which can actually hurt the friendship.In this video, you will learn how to support a friend in hard times, build deeper connections, and become someone people trust, using Samwise Gamgee as the example of what real friendship and support look like when life gets tough.0:00 - Intro0:47 - Offer help before they ask1:25 -  Offer help without hooks4:37 -  Honor their boundaries7:23 -  Support them without this...8:55 - See them as mid-storySubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandOr if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertInstagram: @IamBenAltman
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        <![CDATA[<p>The fastest way to build the confidence and charisma to make friends as an adult:<br><a href="https://bit.ly/002-26">https://bit.ly/002-26</a><br><br><br>Most people want to help a friend who is struggling, but they get it wrong. They give advice too fast, push too hard, or try to carry emotional burdens that are not theirs to carry, which can actually hurt the friendship.<br><br>In this video, you will learn how to support a friend in hard times, build deeper connections, and become someone people trust, using Samwise Gamgee as the example of what real friendship and support look like when life gets tough.<br><br><br>0:00 - Intro<br>0:47 - Offer help before they ask<br>1:25 -  Offer help without hooks<br>4:37 -  Honor their boundaries<br>7:23 -  Support them without this...<br>8:55 - See them as mid-story<br><br><br>Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: <br><a href="http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe">http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe</a><br><br>Connect With Us Further:<br>Website: <a href="http://www.charismaoncommand.com">http://www.charismaoncommand.com</a><br>Facebook: <a href="http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand">http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand</a><br>Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand<br><br>Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music):<br>Instagram: @CharlieHoupert<br>Instagram: @IamBenAltman</p><p> </p><p>Learn more about your ad choices. Visit <a href="https://megaphone.fm/adchoices">megaphone.fm/adchoices</a></p>]]>
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      <title>How to Apologize Without Shame: The Upright Apology</title>
      <description>Learn more about Charisma University: https://bit.ly/021-25Most apologies, whether public or personal, feel fake because they are. This video breaks down why apologies often miss the mark, how shame gets in the way of real growth, and what it takes to make a genuine, meaningful apology.My podcast with Joe Hudson:https://youtu.be/KxiPnflbwJI?si=ocYol2HiZU3DpIB3Joe Hudson's YouTube channel:‪@ArtofAccomplishment‬ Get $300 off Joe Hudson's Connection Course:https://www.artofaccomplishment.com/charisma-on-command0:00 - Intro1:30 - The problem2:28 - How this applies to your life3:02 - A real apology 3:19 - How can we fix it?3:54 - The Shame "Hot Potato"6:14 - The problem with shame5:52 - Why I made this video7:34 - The 4 steps to an upright apology9:26 - How to further improve relationshipsSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand
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      <pubDate>Mon, 21 Sep 2026 17:14:00 -0000</pubDate>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <itunes:author>Charisma on Command</itunes:author>
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      <itunes:summary>Learn more about Charisma University: https://bit.ly/021-25Most apologies, whether public or personal, feel fake because they are. This video breaks down why apologies often miss the mark, how shame gets in the way of real growth, and what it takes to make a genuine, meaningful apology.My podcast with Joe Hudson:https://youtu.be/KxiPnflbwJI?si=ocYol2HiZU3DpIB3Joe Hudson's YouTube channel:‪@ArtofAccomplishment‬ Get $300 off Joe Hudson's Connection Course:https://www.artofaccomplishment.com/charisma-on-command0:00 - Intro1:30 - The problem2:28 - How this applies to your life3:02 - A real apology 3:19 - How can we fix it?3:54 - The Shame "Hot Potato"6:14 - The problem with shame5:52 - Why I made this video7:34 - The 4 steps to an upright apology9:26 - How to further improve relationshipsSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand
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        <![CDATA[<p>Learn more about Charisma University: <a href="https://bit.ly/021-25">https://bit.ly/021-25</a><br><br><br>Most apologies, whether public or personal, feel fake because they are. This video breaks down why apologies often miss the mark, how shame gets in the way of real growth, and what it takes to make a genuine, meaningful apology.<br><br><br>My podcast with Joe Hudson:<br><a href="https://youtu.be/KxiPnflbwJI?si=ocYol2HiZU3DpIB3">https://youtu.be/KxiPnflbwJI?si=ocYol2HiZU3DpIB3</a><br><br>Joe Hudson's YouTube channel:<br>‪@ArtofAccomplishment‬ <br><br>Get $300 off Joe Hudson's Connection Course:<br><a href="https://www.artofaccomplishment.com/charisma-on-command">https://www.artofaccomplishment.com/charisma-on-command</a><br><br><br>0:00 - Intro<br>1:30 - The problem<br>2:28 - How this applies to your life<br>3:02 - A real apology <br>3:19 - How can we fix it?<br>3:54 - The Shame "Hot Potato"<br>6:14 - The problem with shame<br>5:52 - Why I made this video<br>7:34 - The 4 steps to an upright apology<br>9:26 - How to further improve relationships<br><br><br>Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: <br><a href="http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe">http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe</a><br><br>Connect With Us Further:<br>Website: <a href="http://www.charismaoncommand.com">http://www.charismaoncommand.com</a><br>Facebook: <a href="http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand">http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand</a><br>Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand</p><p> </p><p>Learn more about your ad choices. Visit <a href="https://megaphone.fm/adchoices">megaphone.fm/adchoices</a></p>]]>
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      <title>How To Take Control Of Any Conversation Without Trying</title>
      <description>How To Talk To People - Bruce Lee Charisma Breakdown (Part 2) Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time:  http://bit.ly/2ENXozaLearning how to talk to people is a super important skill, but one we are never taught in school.  In fact, sometimes we get so wrapped up trying to make small talk that we lose the opportunity to really connect with someone. Bruce Lee doesn't make that mistake in this interview.  This video will show you how to talk to people and how to lead a conversation towards topics that make you more likely to make a lasting connection.  There are lots of ways, but this is one that will present itself as soon as the other person starts asking questions.  You'll be able to build rapport quickly and potentially walk away with a new friend.Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert
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      <pubDate>Mon, 21 Sep 2026 17:02:43 -0000</pubDate>
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      <itunes:summary>How To Talk To People - Bruce Lee Charisma Breakdown (Part 2) Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time:  http://bit.ly/2ENXozaLearning how to talk to people is a super important skill, but one we are never taught in school.  In fact, sometimes we get so wrapped up trying to make small talk that we lose the opportunity to really connect with someone. Bruce Lee doesn't make that mistake in this interview.  This video will show you how to talk to people and how to lead a conversation towards topics that make you more likely to make a lasting connection.  There are lots of ways, but this is one that will present itself as soon as the other person starts asking questions.  You'll be able to build rapport quickly and potentially walk away with a new friend.Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert
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        <![CDATA[<p>How To Talk To People - Bruce Lee Charisma Breakdown (Part 2) <br>Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time:  <a href="http://bit.ly/2ENXoza">http://bit.ly/2ENXoza</a><br><br>Learning how to talk to people is a super important skill, but one we are never taught in school.  In fact, sometimes we get so wrapped up trying to make small talk that we lose the opportunity to really connect with someone. Bruce Lee doesn't make that mistake in this interview.  <br><br>This video will show you how to talk to people and how to lead a conversation towards topics that make you more likely to make a lasting connection.  There are lots of ways, but this is one that will present itself as soon as the other person starts asking questions.  You'll be able to build rapport quickly and potentially walk away with a new friend.<br><br>Subscribe to Charisma On Command: <a href="http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC">http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC</a><br><br>Connect With Us.<br>Website: <a href="http://www.charismaoncommand.com">http://www.charismaoncommand.com</a><br>Facebook: <a href="http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand">http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand</a><br>Periscope: @Charismaon<br><br>Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):<br>Instagram: @CharlieHoupert<br>Periscope: @CharlieHoupert</p><p> </p><p>Learn more about your ad choices. Visit <a href="https://megaphone.fm/adchoices">megaphone.fm/adchoices</a></p>]]>
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      <title>How To Build Good Habits That Stick - Maneesh Sethi talks to Charisma on Command</title>
      <description>How To Build Good Habits That Stick - Maneesh Sethi talks to Charisma on CommandSubscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert
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      <pubDate>Mon, 21 Sep 2026 16:40:54 -0000</pubDate>
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      <itunes:author>Charisma on Command</itunes:author>
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      <itunes:summary>How To Build Good Habits That Stick - Maneesh Sethi talks to Charisma on CommandSubscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert
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        <![CDATA[<p>How To Build Good Habits That Stick - Maneesh Sethi talks to Charisma on Command<br><br>Subscribe to Charisma On Command: <a href="http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC">http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC</a><br><br>Connect With Us.<br>Website: <a href="http://www.charismaoncommand.com">http://www.charismaoncommand.com</a><br>Facebook: <a href="http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand">http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand</a><br>Periscope: @Charismaon<br><br>Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):<br>Instagram: @CharlieHoupert<br>Periscope: @CharlieHoupert</p><p> </p><p>Learn more about your ad choices. Visit <a href="https://megaphone.fm/adchoices">megaphone.fm/adchoices</a></p>]]>
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      <title>Vocal Tips - Neil deGrasse Tyson Charisma Breakdown</title>
      <description>Get our best tip to turning on confidence in just 60 seconds:https://goo.gl/lWf9gAVocal Tips - Neil deGrasse Tyson Charisma Breakdown:Neil deGrasse Tyson's voice is like butter.  He has the rare ability to talk about science in a way that makes people want to know more.  And it's not necessarily because the subject is so interesting.  After all, most of us weren't riveted in 9th grade biology.Neil is so captivating because his voice is so damn fun to listen to.  And the good news is, we can learn to speak like he does.  So check out these vocal tips and implement them in your own life.  That way you'll be able to hook people's attention.Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert
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      <pubDate>Mon, 21 Sep 2026 16:24:32 -0000</pubDate>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <itunes:author>Charisma on Command</itunes:author>
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      <itunes:summary>Get our best tip to turning on confidence in just 60 seconds:https://goo.gl/lWf9gAVocal Tips - Neil deGrasse Tyson Charisma Breakdown:Neil deGrasse Tyson's voice is like butter.  He has the rare ability to talk about science in a way that makes people want to know more.  And it's not necessarily because the subject is so interesting.  After all, most of us weren't riveted in 9th grade biology.Neil is so captivating because his voice is so damn fun to listen to.  And the good news is, we can learn to speak like he does.  So check out these vocal tips and implement them in your own life.  That way you'll be able to hook people's attention.Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert
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        <![CDATA[<p>Get our best tip to turning on confidence in just 60 seconds:<br><a href="https://goo.gl/lWf9gA">https://goo.gl/lWf9gA</a><br><br>Vocal Tips - Neil deGrasse Tyson Charisma Breakdown:<br>Neil deGrasse Tyson's voice is like butter.  He has the rare ability to talk about science in a way that makes people want to know more.  And it's not necessarily because the subject is so interesting.  After all, most of us weren't riveted in 9th grade biology.<br><br>Neil is so captivating because his voice is so damn fun to listen to.  And the good news is, we can learn to speak like he does.  So check out these vocal tips and implement them in your own life.  That way you'll be able to hook people's attention.<br><br>Subscribe to Charisma On Command: <a href="http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC">http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC</a><br><br>Connect With Us.<br>Website: <a href="http://www.charismaoncommand.com">http://www.charismaoncommand.com</a><br>Facebook: <a href="http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand">http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand</a><br>Periscope: @Charismaon<br><br>Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):<br>Instagram: @CharlieHoupert<br>Periscope: @CharlieHoupert</p><p> </p><p>Learn more about your ad choices. Visit <a href="https://megaphone.fm/adchoices">megaphone.fm/adchoices</a></p>]]>
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      <title>How To Persuade And Influence People</title>
      <description>Barack Obama Charisma Breakdown - How To Influence People https://goo.gl/SaV6sp   Barack Obama's most important job is to influence people.  As president, there is very little ha can do on his own.  So his main job becomes to persuade people to see his views when it comes to political decisions.In the wake of the tragedy at Umpqua Community College in Oregon, Barack Obama demonstrated a 5 step process on how to influence in those situations where you absolutely must convince people to change their behavior.  Obama is a powerful, charismatic speaker and this example is great for becoming more influential in the workplace.If you're interested in other videos that cover the topic of influence, but in a more social context, check out Ricky Martin on the Voice: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dqragS38hCkSubscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert
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      <pubDate>Mon, 21 Sep 2026 16:19:05 -0000</pubDate>
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      <itunes:author>Charisma on Command</itunes:author>
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      <itunes:summary>Barack Obama Charisma Breakdown - How To Influence People https://goo.gl/SaV6sp   Barack Obama's most important job is to influence people.  As president, there is very little ha can do on his own.  So his main job becomes to persuade people to see his views when it comes to political decisions.In the wake of the tragedy at Umpqua Community College in Oregon, Barack Obama demonstrated a 5 step process on how to influence in those situations where you absolutely must convince people to change their behavior.  Obama is a powerful, charismatic speaker and this example is great for becoming more influential in the workplace.If you're interested in other videos that cover the topic of influence, but in a more social context, check out Ricky Martin on the Voice: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dqragS38hCkSubscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert
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        <![CDATA[<p>Barack Obama Charisma Breakdown - How To Influence People <br><a href="https://goo.gl/SaV6sp">https://goo.gl/SaV6sp</a>   Barack Obama's most important job is to influence people.  As president, there is very little ha can do on his own.  So his main job becomes to persuade people to see his views when it comes to political decisions.<br><br>In the wake of the tragedy at Umpqua Community College in Oregon, Barack Obama demonstrated a 5 step process on how to influence in those situations where you absolutely must convince people to change their behavior.  Obama is a powerful, charismatic speaker and this example is great for becoming more influential in the workplace.<br><br>If you're interested in other videos that cover the topic of influence, but in a more social context, check out Ricky Martin on the Voice: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dqragS38hCk">https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dqragS38hCk</a><br><br>Subscribe to Charisma On Command: <a href="http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC">http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC</a><br><br>Connect With Us.<br>Website: <a href="http://www.charismaoncommand.com">http://www.charismaoncommand.com</a><br>Facebook: <a href="http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand">http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand</a><br>Periscope: @Charismaon<br><br>Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):<br>Instagram: @CharlieHoupert<br>Periscope: @CharlieHoupert</p><p> </p><p>Learn more about your ad choices. Visit <a href="https://megaphone.fm/adchoices">megaphone.fm/adchoices</a></p>]]>
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      <title>5 Lies About Being A Man You Probably Still Believe</title>
      <description>Get Joe's free transformation guide + $300 off his upcoming Connection Course. Just use the discount code CHARISMA at checkout.  This only is available when the cohorts are about to launch: https://www.artofaccomplishment.com/course/the-connection-courseOr if checkout isn't open, join the email list to be notified of upcoming Connection course cohorts: http://s.artofaccomplishment.com/iVRQ3hMost men are taught a very narrow version of masculinity: be tough, be dominant, never show weakness, and always stay in control. But Joe Hudson argues that a lot of those ideas are actually keeping men disconnected, reactive, and less powerful than they could be. In this video, we break down 5 lies modern men believe about masculinity, and what real strength looks like instead.0:00 - Intro1:37 - Lie 18:12 - Lie 214:41 - Lie 321:09 - Lie 427:11 - Lie 5Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand
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      <pubDate>Mon, 21 Sep 2026 15:57:16 -0000</pubDate>
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      <itunes:author>Charisma on Command</itunes:author>
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      <itunes:summary>Get Joe's free transformation guide + $300 off his upcoming Connection Course. Just use the discount code CHARISMA at checkout.  This only is available when the cohorts are about to launch: https://www.artofaccomplishment.com/course/the-connection-courseOr if checkout isn't open, join the email list to be notified of upcoming Connection course cohorts: http://s.artofaccomplishment.com/iVRQ3hMost men are taught a very narrow version of masculinity: be tough, be dominant, never show weakness, and always stay in control. But Joe Hudson argues that a lot of those ideas are actually keeping men disconnected, reactive, and less powerful than they could be. In this video, we break down 5 lies modern men believe about masculinity, and what real strength looks like instead.0:00 - Intro1:37 - Lie 18:12 - Lie 214:41 - Lie 321:09 - Lie 427:11 - Lie 5Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand
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        <![CDATA[<p>Get Joe's free transformation guide + $300 off his upcoming Connection Course. Just use the discount code CHARISMA at checkout.  This only is available when the cohorts are about to launch: <a href="https://www.artofaccomplishment.com/course/the-connection-course">https://www.artofaccomplishment.com/course/the-connection-course</a><br><br>Or if checkout isn't open, join the email list to be notified of upcoming Connection course cohorts: <a href="http://s.artofaccomplishment.com/iVRQ3h">http://s.artofaccomplishment.com/iVRQ3h</a><br><br><br>Most men are taught a very narrow version of masculinity: be tough, be dominant, never show weakness, and always stay in control. But Joe Hudson argues that a lot of those ideas are actually keeping men disconnected, reactive, and less powerful than they could be. In this video, we break down 5 lies modern men believe about masculinity, and what real strength looks like instead.<br><br><br>0:00 - Intro<br>1:37 - Lie 1<br>8:12 - Lie 2<br>14:41 - Lie 3<br>21:09 - Lie 4<br>27:11 - Lie 5<br><br><br>Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: <br><a href="http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe">http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe</a><br><br>Connect With Us Further:<br>Website: <a href="http://www.charismaoncommand.com">http://www.charismaoncommand.com</a><br>Facebook: <a href="http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand">http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand</a><br>Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand</p><p> </p><p>Learn more about your ad choices. Visit <a href="https://megaphone.fm/adchoices">megaphone.fm/adchoices</a></p>]]>
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      <title>It's actually pretty easy to flirt with women</title>
      <description>Link to 3 tips video: https://goo.gl/VVVAjERussell Brand flirting with women is a sight to behold....As men, we're never really taught how to flirt with women.  That's a problem.  Because many men get caught in the trap of "creep flirting" where they come on too strong.  Other's stick to the "goofball guy" and wind up in the friend zone.The style of interaction that Russell Brand and Craig Ferguson demonstrate in this video will actually teach you how to flirt with women.  It's not the ONLY way,  but it is a great way to show interest without creeping anyone out.So check out Russell Brand's special version of "push pull" and see if it matches your style of flirting.   Also, pay close attention to the moments when the women start to fall for Russell.  They will teach you a lot about flirting with women.Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert
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      <pubDate>Mon, 21 Sep 2026 15:35:27 -0000</pubDate>
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      <itunes:summary>Link to 3 tips video: https://goo.gl/VVVAjERussell Brand flirting with women is a sight to behold....As men, we're never really taught how to flirt with women.  That's a problem.  Because many men get caught in the trap of "creep flirting" where they come on too strong.  Other's stick to the "goofball guy" and wind up in the friend zone.The style of interaction that Russell Brand and Craig Ferguson demonstrate in this video will actually teach you how to flirt with women.  It's not the ONLY way,  but it is a great way to show interest without creeping anyone out.So check out Russell Brand's special version of "push pull" and see if it matches your style of flirting.   Also, pay close attention to the moments when the women start to fall for Russell.  They will teach you a lot about flirting with women.Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert
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        <![CDATA[<p>Link to 3 tips video: <a href="https://goo.gl/VVVAjE">https://goo.gl/VVVAjE</a><br><br>Russell Brand flirting with women is a sight to behold....As men, we're never really taught how to flirt with women.  That's a problem.  Because many men get caught in the trap of "creep flirting" where they come on too strong.  Other's stick to the "goofball guy" and wind up in the friend zone.<br><br>The style of interaction that Russell Brand and Craig Ferguson demonstrate in this video will actually teach you how to flirt with women.  It's not the ONLY way,  but it is a great way to show interest without creeping anyone out.<br><br>So check out Russell Brand's special version of "push pull" and see if it matches your style of flirting.   Also, pay close attention to the moments when the women start to fall for Russell.  They will teach you a lot about flirting with women.<br><br>Subscribe to Charisma On Command: <a href="http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC">http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC</a><br><br>Connect With Us.<br>Website: <a href="http://www.charismaoncommand.com">http://www.charismaoncommand.com</a><br>Facebook: <a href="http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand">http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand</a><br>Periscope: @Charismaon<br><br>Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):<br>Instagram: @CharlieHoupert<br>Periscope: @CharlieHoupert</p><p> </p><p>Learn more about your ad choices. Visit <a href="https://megaphone.fm/adchoices">megaphone.fm/adchoices</a></p>]]>
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      <title>How To Make People Like You Immediately</title>
      <description>One Simple Tip To Make People Like You - Tom Hiddleston Charisma Breakdownhttps://goo.gl/qgN8BYWatch Tom Hiddleston and Grae Drake banter back and forth and learn how you can boost your charisma just by shifting the way you crack jokes.  It's a simple technique that you can use to make just about anyone like you, guy or girl.  After all, we like people who make us feel good about ourselves, and this tip will do that for you.Subscribe to Charisma On Command. https://goo.gl/qgN8BYConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert
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      <pubDate>Mon, 21 Sep 2026 15:21:49 -0000</pubDate>
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      <itunes:author>Charisma on Command</itunes:author>
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      <itunes:summary>One Simple Tip To Make People Like You - Tom Hiddleston Charisma Breakdownhttps://goo.gl/qgN8BYWatch Tom Hiddleston and Grae Drake banter back and forth and learn how you can boost your charisma just by shifting the way you crack jokes.  It's a simple technique that you can use to make just about anyone like you, guy or girl.  After all, we like people who make us feel good about ourselves, and this tip will do that for you.Subscribe to Charisma On Command. https://goo.gl/qgN8BYConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert
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        <![CDATA[<p>One Simple Tip To Make People Like You - Tom Hiddleston Charisma Breakdown<br><a href="https://goo.gl/qgN8BY">https://goo.gl/qgN8BY</a><br>Watch Tom Hiddleston and Grae Drake banter back and forth and learn how you can boost your charisma just by shifting the way you crack jokes.  It's a simple technique that you can use to make just about anyone like you, guy or girl.  After all, we like people who make us feel good about ourselves, and this tip will do that for you.<br><br>Subscribe to Charisma On Command. <a href="https://goo.gl/qgN8BY">https://goo.gl/qgN8BY</a><br><br>Connect With Us.<br>Website: <a href="http://www.charismaoncommand.com">http://www.charismaoncommand.com</a><br>Facebook: <a href="http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand">http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand</a><br>Periscope: @Charismaon<br><br>Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):<br>Instagram: @CharlieHoupert<br>Periscope: @CharlieHoupert</p><p> </p><p>Learn more about your ad choices. Visit <a href="https://megaphone.fm/adchoices">megaphone.fm/adchoices</a></p>]]>
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      <title>How To Quietly Take Control of a Room</title>
      <description>The fastest way I know to build your social confidence:https://bit.ly/003-26Dr K is about to win over this chaotic room in 13 minutes, going from the ignored outsider to the person everyone loves.He does it using five techniques most people get wrong, but anyone can learn.0:00 - Intro1:11 - Find out what people respond to1:58 - Join the chaos3:37 - Make the agreement explicit6:03 - Change HOW you talk about it8:12 - Take them somewhere new11:24 - The fastest way to build your social confidenceConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandCredits:Written by Visko MatichEdited by Akash Rajpurohit Directed by Andre Ringkjoeb
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      <pubDate>Mon, 21 Sep 2026 15:13:38 -0000</pubDate>
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      <itunes:author>Charisma on Command</itunes:author>
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      <itunes:summary>The fastest way I know to build your social confidence:https://bit.ly/003-26Dr K is about to win over this chaotic room in 13 minutes, going from the ignored outsider to the person everyone loves.He does it using five techniques most people get wrong, but anyone can learn.0:00 - Intro1:11 - Find out what people respond to1:58 - Join the chaos3:37 - Make the agreement explicit6:03 - Change HOW you talk about it8:12 - Take them somewhere new11:24 - The fastest way to build your social confidenceConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandCredits:Written by Visko MatichEdited by Akash Rajpurohit Directed by Andre Ringkjoeb
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        <![CDATA[<p>The fastest way I know to build your social confidence:<br><a href="https://bit.ly/003-26">https://bit.ly/003-26</a><br><br><br>Dr K is about to win over this chaotic room in 13 minutes, going from the ignored outsider to the person everyone loves.<br><br>He does it using five techniques most people get wrong, but anyone can learn.<br><br><br>0:00 - Intro<br>1:11 - Find out what people respond to<br>1:58 - Join the chaos<br>3:37 - Make the agreement explicit<br>6:03 - Change HOW you talk about it<br>8:12 - Take them somewhere new<br>11:24 - The fastest way to build your social confidence<br><br><br>Connect With Us Further:<br>Website: <a href="http://www.charismaoncommand.com">http://www.charismaoncommand.com</a><br>Facebook: <a href="http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand">http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand</a><br>Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand<br><br><br>Credits:<br>Written by Visko Matich<br>Edited by Akash Rajpurohit <br>Directed by Andre Ringkjoeb</p><p> </p><p>Learn more about your ad choices. Visit <a href="https://megaphone.fm/adchoices">megaphone.fm/adchoices</a></p>]]>
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      <title>Public Speaking: How To Make An Audience Love You In 90 Seconds</title>
      <description>6 Public Speaking Tips To Hook Any AudiencePublic speaking is hard.  We all know it. But if you master a few basic public speaking tips and techniques, you can absolutely hook any audience.  https://goo.gl/IpBEnOIn this video you'll get the public speaking training to hook an audience n 30 seconds.  The public speaking skills to tell stories that have people hanging on every word.  And the techniques to nail a finale that moves people to action.Public speaking shakes a lot of people's confidence, but if you use these tips and techniques, you'll be on your way to giving presentations that TED would be proud of :-)You  can watch the full speech here:https://youtu.be/Iqq1roF4C8sFor the written version: http://www.charismaoncommand.com/oral-presentation-tips/?utm_source=youtube&amp;utm_medium=videodesc&amp;utm_campaign=blogSubscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert
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      <pubDate>Mon, 21 Sep 2026 14:51:49 -0000</pubDate>
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      <itunes:summary>6 Public Speaking Tips To Hook Any AudiencePublic speaking is hard.  We all know it. But if you master a few basic public speaking tips and techniques, you can absolutely hook any audience.  https://goo.gl/IpBEnOIn this video you'll get the public speaking training to hook an audience n 30 seconds.  The public speaking skills to tell stories that have people hanging on every word.  And the techniques to nail a finale that moves people to action.Public speaking shakes a lot of people's confidence, but if you use these tips and techniques, you'll be on your way to giving presentations that TED would be proud of :-)You  can watch the full speech here:https://youtu.be/Iqq1roF4C8sFor the written version: http://www.charismaoncommand.com/oral-presentation-tips/?utm_source=youtube&amp;utm_medium=videodesc&amp;utm_campaign=blogSubscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert
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        <![CDATA[<p>6 Public Speaking Tips To Hook Any Audience<br>Public speaking is hard.  We all know it. But if you master a few basic public speaking tips and techniques, you can absolutely hook any audience.  <a href="https://goo.gl/IpBEnO">https://goo.gl/IpBEnO</a><br><br>In this video you'll get the public speaking training to hook an audience n 30 seconds.  The public speaking skills to tell stories that have people hanging on every word.  And the techniques to nail a finale that moves people to action.<br><br>Public speaking shakes a lot of people's confidence, but if you use these tips and techniques, you'll be on your way to giving presentations that TED would be proud of :-)<br><br>You  can watch the full speech here:<br><a href="https://youtu.be/Iqq1roF4C8s">https://youtu.be/Iqq1roF4C8s</a><br><br>For the written version: <a href="http://www.charismaoncommand.com/oral-presentation-tips/?utm_source=youtube&amp;utm_medium=videodesc&amp;utm_campaign=blog">http://www.charismaoncommand.com/oral-presentation-tips/?utm_source=youtube&amp;utm_medium=videodesc&amp;utm_campaign=blog</a><br><br>Subscribe to Charisma On Command: <a href="http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC">http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC</a><br><br>Connect With Us.<br>Website: <a href="http://www.charismaoncommand.com">http://www.charismaoncommand.com</a><br>Facebook: <a href="http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand">http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand</a><br>Periscope: @Charismaon<br><br>Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):<br>Instagram: @CharlieHoupert<br>Periscope: @CharlieHoupert</p><p> </p><p>Learn more about your ad choices. Visit <a href="https://megaphone.fm/adchoices">megaphone.fm/adchoices</a></p>]]>
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      <title>How To Compliment Anyone Without Sounding Fake</title>
      <description>The fastest way to improve your confidence and charisma:https://bit.ly/001-26If you want people to love being around you, there is almost nothing like delivering great compliments. But most people don’t realize there are 3 levels of compliments that lead to better and better connection. They stay stuck on the first level, and too many level 1 compliments can make people feel uncomfortable.0:00 - Intro0:28 - Level 1: Social Flow Compliments2:50 - Level 2:  MC Compliments4:42 - Level 3: Heartfelt Compliments6:59 - The essential mindset7:36 - Try this challenge Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandOr if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertInstagram: @IamBenAltman
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      <pubDate>Mon, 21 Sep 2026 14:30:00 -0000</pubDate>
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      <itunes:summary>The fastest way to improve your confidence and charisma:https://bit.ly/001-26If you want people to love being around you, there is almost nothing like delivering great compliments. But most people don’t realize there are 3 levels of compliments that lead to better and better connection. They stay stuck on the first level, and too many level 1 compliments can make people feel uncomfortable.0:00 - Intro0:28 - Level 1: Social Flow Compliments2:50 - Level 2:  MC Compliments4:42 - Level 3: Heartfelt Compliments6:59 - The essential mindset7:36 - Try this challenge Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandOr if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertInstagram: @IamBenAltman
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        <![CDATA[<p>The fastest way to improve your confidence and charisma:<br><a href="https://bit.ly/001-26">https://bit.ly/001-26</a><br><br>If you want people to love being around you, there is almost nothing like delivering great compliments. <br><br>But most people don’t realize there are 3 levels of compliments that lead to better and better connection. They stay stuck on the first level, and too many level 1 compliments can make people feel uncomfortable.<br><br><br>0:00 - Intro<br>0:28 - Level 1: Social Flow Compliments<br>2:50 - Level 2:  MC Compliments<br>4:42 - Level 3: Heartfelt Compliments<br>6:59 - The essential mindset<br>7:36 - Try this challenge<br> <br><br>Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: <br><a href="http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe">http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe</a><br><br>Connect With Us Further:<br>Website: <a href="http://www.charismaoncommand.com">http://www.charismaoncommand.com</a><br>Facebook: <a href="http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand">http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand</a><br>Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand<br><br>Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music):<br>Instagram: @CharlieHoupert<br>Instagram: @IamBenAltman</p><p> </p><p>Learn more about your ad choices. Visit <a href="https://megaphone.fm/adchoices">megaphone.fm/adchoices</a></p>]]>
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      <title>Stop Trying to Look Confident, Do This Instead</title>
      <description>The fastest way I know to build secure confidence and social skills:https://bit.ly/012-26-CenaMost people think confidence means looking strong, staying composed, and hiding anything that could make them seem weak. But the harder you try to control how others see you, the more fragile your confidence becomes. In this video, we break down John Cena’s five signs of secure confidence, and why they are the opposite of what most people expect.You’ll see why genuine enthusiasm draws people in, how silliness can signal deep self-acceptance, and why sharing your struggles can make others respect you more. Because real confidence isn’t about protecting a perfect image. It’s being comfortable enough to let people see your full range.0:00 - What is secure confidence?1:53 - Sign 13:27 - Sign 26:04 - Sign 37:35 - Sign 49:05 - Sign 5Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand
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      <pubDate>Mon, 21 Sep 2026 14:19:05 -0000</pubDate>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <itunes:author>Charisma on Command</itunes:author>
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      <itunes:summary>The fastest way I know to build secure confidence and social skills:https://bit.ly/012-26-CenaMost people think confidence means looking strong, staying composed, and hiding anything that could make them seem weak. But the harder you try to control how others see you, the more fragile your confidence becomes. In this video, we break down John Cena’s five signs of secure confidence, and why they are the opposite of what most people expect.You’ll see why genuine enthusiasm draws people in, how silliness can signal deep self-acceptance, and why sharing your struggles can make others respect you more. Because real confidence isn’t about protecting a perfect image. It’s being comfortable enough to let people see your full range.0:00 - What is secure confidence?1:53 - Sign 13:27 - Sign 26:04 - Sign 37:35 - Sign 49:05 - Sign 5Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand
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        <![CDATA[<p>The fastest way I know to build secure confidence and social skills:<br><a href="https://bit.ly/012-26-Cena">https://bit.ly/012-26-Cena</a><br><br><br>Most people think confidence means looking strong, staying composed, and hiding anything that could make them seem weak. But the harder you try to control how others see you, the more fragile your confidence becomes. In this video, we break down John Cena’s five signs of secure confidence, and why they are the opposite of what most people expect.<br><br>You’ll see why genuine enthusiasm draws people in, how silliness can signal deep self-acceptance, and why sharing your struggles can make others respect you more. Because real confidence isn’t about protecting a perfect image. It’s being comfortable enough to let people see your full range.<br><br><br>0:00 - What is secure confidence?<br>1:53 - Sign 1<br>3:27 - Sign 2<br>6:04 - Sign 3<br>7:35 - Sign 4<br>9:05 - Sign 5<br><br><br>Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: <br><a href="http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe">http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe</a><br><br>Connect With Us Further:<br>Website: <a href="http://www.charismaoncommand.com">http://www.charismaoncommand.com</a><br>Facebook: <a href="http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand">http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand</a><br>Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand</p><p> </p><p>Learn more about your ad choices. Visit <a href="https://megaphone.fm/adchoices">megaphone.fm/adchoices</a></p>]]>
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      <title>How To Instantly Get A More Attractive Smile</title>
      <description>Discover The 4 Necessary Emotions To A Killer First Impression:  http://bit.ly/2nM4cpOHow To Smile Perfectly For MenWill Smith has one of the most winning smiles on the planet.  How does he do it?  And can you learn how to smile better?  You can.  There are 3 key tips that lead to people finding your smile more attractive and Will Smith demonstrates them all.  Two of them are in your direct, immediate control.  And the third comes from learning how to smile genuinely so that you activate the muscles under the eye, which signals that you are being real.  When you've mastered all three, you'll be able to smile batter and smile perfectly.So whether you want to learn how to smile for pictures or you'd just like to have a good smile in your normal life, practice these tips.  They'll make those pearly whites shine even more and help you come across as more genuine.Check out our book:http://www.amazon.com/dp/B00MX95J48/Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert
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      <pubDate>Mon, 21 Sep 2026 14:08:10 -0000</pubDate>
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      <itunes:author>Charisma on Command</itunes:author>
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      <itunes:summary>Discover The 4 Necessary Emotions To A Killer First Impression:  http://bit.ly/2nM4cpOHow To Smile Perfectly For MenWill Smith has one of the most winning smiles on the planet.  How does he do it?  And can you learn how to smile better?  You can.  There are 3 key tips that lead to people finding your smile more attractive and Will Smith demonstrates them all.  Two of them are in your direct, immediate control.  And the third comes from learning how to smile genuinely so that you activate the muscles under the eye, which signals that you are being real.  When you've mastered all three, you'll be able to smile batter and smile perfectly.So whether you want to learn how to smile for pictures or you'd just like to have a good smile in your normal life, practice these tips.  They'll make those pearly whites shine even more and help you come across as more genuine.Check out our book:http://www.amazon.com/dp/B00MX95J48/Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert
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        <![CDATA[<p>Discover The 4 Necessary Emotions To A Killer First Impression:  <a href="http://bit.ly/2nM4cpO">http://bit.ly/2nM4cpO</a><br>How To Smile Perfectly For Men<br><br>Will Smith has one of the most winning smiles on the planet.  How does he do it?  And can you learn how to smile better?  <br><br>You can.  There are 3 key tips that lead to people finding your smile more attractive and Will Smith demonstrates them all.  Two of them are in your direct, immediate control.  And the third comes from learning how to smile genuinely so that you activate the muscles under the eye, which signals that you are being real.  When you've mastered all three, you'll be able to smile batter and smile perfectly.<br><br>So whether you want to learn how to smile for pictures or you'd just like to have a good smile in your normal life, practice these tips.  They'll make those pearly whites shine even more and help you come across as more genuine.<br><br>Check out our book:<br><a href="http://www.amazon.com/dp/B00MX95J48/">http://www.amazon.com/dp/B00MX95J48/</a><br><br>Subscribe to Charisma On Command: <a href="http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC">http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC</a><br><br>Connect With Us.<br>Website: <a href="http://www.charismaoncommand.com">http://www.charismaoncommand.com</a><br>Facebook: <a href="http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand">http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand</a><br>Periscope: @Charismaon<br><br>Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):<br>Instagram: @CharlieHoupert<br>Periscope: @CharlieHoupert</p><p> </p><p>Learn more about your ad choices. Visit <a href="https://megaphone.fm/adchoices">megaphone.fm/adchoices</a></p>]]>
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      <title>This Simple Trick Makes People Love Talking to You</title>
      <description>The fastest way I know to stop having boring conversations and become more magnetic:https://bit.ly/004-26Most people are stuck having the same boring conversations on repeat. They play it safe, ignore the obvious, and stay trapped in rigid social scripts that kill connection and charisma.In this video, you’ll learn the conversation techniques Ryan Gosling uses to instantly make interactions more fun, magnetic, and memorable, so you can stop running out of things to say, connect faster, and become someone people genuinely love talking to.0:00 - Intro0:21 - Why conversations feel repetitive1:10 - Escape the frame2:07 - Follow the shiny thing2:50 - Open the circle4:22 - Imply friendship fast4:46 - Acknowledge others emotions7:00 - The fastest way to become more charismaticConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandCredits:Written by Joe CordleEdited by Simba MahachiDirected by Andre Ringkjoeb
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      <pubDate>Mon, 21 Sep 2026 13:46:21 -0000</pubDate>
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      <itunes:summary>The fastest way I know to stop having boring conversations and become more magnetic:https://bit.ly/004-26Most people are stuck having the same boring conversations on repeat. They play it safe, ignore the obvious, and stay trapped in rigid social scripts that kill connection and charisma.In this video, you’ll learn the conversation techniques Ryan Gosling uses to instantly make interactions more fun, magnetic, and memorable, so you can stop running out of things to say, connect faster, and become someone people genuinely love talking to.0:00 - Intro0:21 - Why conversations feel repetitive1:10 - Escape the frame2:07 - Follow the shiny thing2:50 - Open the circle4:22 - Imply friendship fast4:46 - Acknowledge others emotions7:00 - The fastest way to become more charismaticConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandCredits:Written by Joe CordleEdited by Simba MahachiDirected by Andre Ringkjoeb
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        <![CDATA[<p>The fastest way I know to stop having boring conversations and become more magnetic:<br><a href="https://bit.ly/004-26">https://bit.ly/004-26</a><br><br><br>Most people are stuck having the same boring conversations on repeat. They play it safe, ignore the obvious, and stay trapped in rigid social scripts that kill connection and charisma.<br><br>In this video, you’ll learn the conversation techniques Ryan Gosling uses to instantly make interactions more fun, magnetic, and memorable, so you can stop running out of things to say, connect faster, and become someone people genuinely love talking to.<br><br><br>0:00 - Intro<br>0:21 - Why conversations feel repetitive<br>1:10 - Escape the frame<br>2:07 - Follow the shiny thing<br>2:50 - Open the circle<br>4:22 - Imply friendship fast<br>4:46 - Acknowledge others emotions<br>7:00 - The fastest way to become more charismatic<br><br><br>Connect With Us Further:<br>Website: <a href="http://www.charismaoncommand.com">http://www.charismaoncommand.com</a><br>Facebook: <a href="http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand">http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand</a><br>Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand<br><br><br>Credits:<br>Written by Joe Cordle<br>Edited by Simba Mahachi<br>Directed by Andre Ringkjoeb</p><p> </p><p>Learn more about your ad choices. Visit <a href="https://megaphone.fm/adchoices">megaphone.fm/adchoices</a></p>]]>
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      <title>This Is Not Confidence</title>
      <description>The fastest way I know to build your confidence and social skills:https://bit.ly/KevVsClavMost people think confidence comes from fixing everything they dislike about themselves. But the more you treat yourself like a problem to solve, the easier it becomes to believe you’ll never be enough. In this video, we compare Kevin Hart and Clavicular to reveal two very different ways of responding to insecurity.You’ll see how Kevin turned the thing he once felt ashamed of into one of his greatest sources of charisma, why appearance-based self-improvement can become an endless checklist, and what real confidence looks like when you stop managing how everyone sees you. Because confidence isn’t having nothing to feel insecure about. It’s no longer needing to hide it.Timestamps:0:00 Everyone Has An Insecurity1:52 Kevin Hart's Height Complex3:04 The Mask: Lil Kev The Bastard5:02 "Comedy Isn't For You"6:33 The Characters We All Play7:43 Mindset #6: I Go First8:28 Nothing Left To Protect10:23 The Other Path: Looksmaxing13:51 The Checklist That Never Ends15:12 Kevin vs. Clavicular16:29 Try This YourselfSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account:http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand
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      <pubDate>Mon, 21 Sep 2026 13:24:32 -0000</pubDate>
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      <itunes:summary>The fastest way I know to build your confidence and social skills:https://bit.ly/KevVsClavMost people think confidence comes from fixing everything they dislike about themselves. But the more you treat yourself like a problem to solve, the easier it becomes to believe you’ll never be enough. In this video, we compare Kevin Hart and Clavicular to reveal two very different ways of responding to insecurity.You’ll see how Kevin turned the thing he once felt ashamed of into one of his greatest sources of charisma, why appearance-based self-improvement can become an endless checklist, and what real confidence looks like when you stop managing how everyone sees you. Because confidence isn’t having nothing to feel insecure about. It’s no longer needing to hide it.Timestamps:0:00 Everyone Has An Insecurity1:52 Kevin Hart's Height Complex3:04 The Mask: Lil Kev The Bastard5:02 "Comedy Isn't For You"6:33 The Characters We All Play7:43 Mindset #6: I Go First8:28 Nothing Left To Protect10:23 The Other Path: Looksmaxing13:51 The Checklist That Never Ends15:12 Kevin vs. Clavicular16:29 Try This YourselfSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account:http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand
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        <![CDATA[<p>The fastest way I know to build your confidence and social skills:<br><a href="https://bit.ly/KevVsClav">https://bit.ly/KevVsClav</a><br><br><br>Most people think confidence comes from fixing everything they dislike about themselves. But the more you treat yourself like a problem to solve, the easier it becomes to believe you’ll never be enough. In this video, we compare Kevin Hart and Clavicular to reveal two very different ways of responding to insecurity.<br><br>You’ll see how Kevin turned the thing he once felt ashamed of into one of his greatest sources of charisma, why appearance-based self-improvement can become an endless checklist, and what real confidence looks like when you stop managing how everyone sees you. Because confidence isn’t having nothing to feel insecure about. It’s no longer needing to hide it.<br><br><br>Timestamps:<br>0:00 Everyone Has An Insecurity<br>1:52 Kevin Hart's Height Complex<br>3:04 The Mask: Lil Kev The Bastard<br>5:02 "Comedy Isn't For You"<br>6:33 The Characters We All Play<br>7:43 Mindset #6: I Go First<br>8:28 Nothing Left To Protect<br>10:23 The Other Path: Looksmaxing<br>13:51 The Checklist That Never Ends<br>15:12 Kevin vs. Clavicular<br>16:29 Try This Yourself<br><br><br>Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account:<br><a href="http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe">http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe</a><br><br>Connect With Us Further:<br>Website: <a href="http://www.charismaoncommand.com">http://www.charismaoncommand.com</a><br>Facebook: <a href="http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand">http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand</a><br>Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand</p><p> </p><p>Learn more about your ad choices. Visit <a href="https://megaphone.fm/adchoices">megaphone.fm/adchoices</a></p>]]>
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