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Vocal Tips - Neil deGrasse Tyson Charisma Breakdown

Tue, 03 Nov 2026 16:53:45 -0000

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Vocal Tips - Neil deGrasse Tyson Charisma Breakdown:
Neil deGrasse Tyson's voice is like butter. He has the rare ability to talk about science in a way that makes people want to know more. And it's not necessarily because the subject is so interesting. After all, most of us weren't riveted in 9th grade biology.

Neil is so captivating because his voice is so damn fun to listen to. And the good news is, we can learn to speak like he does. So check out these vocal tips and implement them in your own life. That way you'll be able to hook people's attention.

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How To Get Better At Public Speaking Fast

Tue, 03 Nov 2026 16:50:00 -0000

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Most people think great speeches are about confidence, natural talent, or finding the perfect words. But if you study the speeches people remember for years, from Harrison Ford to Steve Jobs, they all follow the same underlying structure. In this video, you'll learn a simple five-step framework for giving speeches that capture attention, connect emotionally, and leave people thinking differently, whether you're giving a wedding toast, leading a team, interviewing for a job, or getting called up to speak with zero preparation.

0:00 - Intro
1:12 - F: Start with humor
2:52 - A: Acknowledgements
3:41 - R: Relate to the audience
7:02 - T: The Takeaway
9:13 - S: Your signoff
10:00 - Improve your confidence & charisma

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Trying to Get Respect Doesn’t Work, This Does

Tue, 03 Nov 2026 16:40:00 -0000

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Most people lose respect in ways they don’t even notice. They try too hard to look confident, dominate conversations, or prove their worth, but those moves usually backfire.

In this video, you’ll learn the respect killing habits that make people take you less seriously, how Tommy Shelby avoids them, and how to build real self-respect so you can stay calm under pressure, stop chasing approval, and become someone people naturally respect.

0:00 - Intro
0:20 - The 3 respect killing moves
0:40 - Respect killer #1
1:22 - The body language that earns respect
2:07 - Why fake confidence backfires
2:51 - Respect killer #2
3:40 - How Tommy Shelby stays calm
4:01 - The 3 to 5 second pause
5:03 - The Joffrey Rule
5:51 - Respect Killer #3
6:51 - How to handle underhanded comments
7:31 - When to walk away
8:30 - The deeper reason people lose respect
9:41 - How to build self-respect
11:17 - The fastest way to become more charismatic

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6 Habits That Make You Fun to Be Around

Tue, 03 Nov 2026 16:37:30 -0000

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How To Be The Life Of ANY Party - feat. Jim Carrey

If you want to be the life of the party, there are really only two things you need to do

First, you need to be able to captivate people who you might not know

And second, you need to be able to make people with senses of humor laugh

The problem is you might not know how to captivate strangers or make people with different senses of humor laugh. Wit might get some people but be lost on others. Amazing storytelling can hook a group, but it can be hard to get people to listen in the first place.

So in this video, I want to cover 6 easy ways to become the life of the party and make people with lots of different senses of humor laugh. These are things ANYONE can do, you don’t have to be a comedic genius

To illustrate these principles, we’ll be looking at Jim Carrey, because his style lends itself to learning quickly. We'll learn to:

1) Create a character
2) Use specificity
3) Commit
4) Use surprise
5) Find the funny philosophy

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The One Social Skill That Beats All The Others

Tue, 03 Nov 2026 16:26:15 -0000

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Most people answer questions by explaining. Great storytellers turn their answers into moments you can see and feel. In this video, Charlie breaks down how Matthew McConaughey uses storytelling to hold attention, connect with people, and make ordinary answers memorable.

You’ll learn why Matthew spent 47% of his interview telling stories, compared with Charlie’s 24%, and how to turn your own experiences into stories people actually want to hear.

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0:00 The Secret Skill of Charismatic Leaders
2:06 Mastering the Art of the Hook
5:06 Building the Emotional Roller Coaster
9:22 The Power of the False Ending
13:22 The Confidence to Tell Your Story

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Dwayne Johnson Has Unbeatable Confidence… HERE’S WHY!

Tue, 03 Nov 2026 16:25:00 -0000

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The 5 Charismatic Habits Of The Rock (Dwayne Johnson)

Dwayne Johnson (aka The Rock) has been successful in 3 very different careers. He was an excellent football player at Miami (until he injured himself). Then he made the transition to the WWE where he became famous as "The Rock." And then he made an even more incredible career leap to movies, starring in the Fast and Furious franchise. Now he is moving into the comedy real in a new movie called Central Intelligence with Kevin Hart.

To be successful in all of those careers, particular the second two, where he was the most successful, you need a great deal of charisma. The wrestling fans need to like you. People need to want to see your movies. And Dwayne "The Rock" Johnson has been able to accomplish that.

So in this video we explore what makes Dwayne Johnson so charismatic. Starting back in his WWE days we can see exactly how he learned to gesticulate, to command the attention of a crowd and then moving on, we see how he also learned to show leadership and vulnerability.

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This Scene Will Change How You Handle Conflict

Tue, 03 Nov 2026 16:12:30 -0000

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There are two kinds of calm. One gets you treated like a doormat. The other earns respect and makes people think twice before pushing you. This Better Call Saul scene shows the difference.

0:00 - Intro
2:05 - Be Explicit
3:14 - Be Interested In Whether, Not Why
3:56 - Don't Take Full Responsibility

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Become A Master Of Influence

Tue, 03 Nov 2026 16:12:30 -0000

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Game of Thrones: How Power Really Works

Game of Thrones is all about power games. What many people don't realize is that behind those power games are clashes of the way people see the world. There are clashes of frames. The people who can control these frames (like Tyrion Lannister and Tywin Lannister) tend to win over the Game of Thrones people who struggle more often (like Robb Stark).

There are tons of ways you can use this understanding of frames in your normal life. We'll look at three in this video

Note: the spoilers go up only through season 4, so if you haven't seen all the way to season 6, you are still good to watch

1) Breaking frames for persuasion (Tyrion vs. Shagga)
2) Frames in insults (Tyrion vs Robb Stark and Robb Stark vs. Jaime Lannister)
3) Frames to create options (Tyrion vs. Tywin and Tyrion vs. Lysa Arryn)

Let me know how you feel about these fictional breakdowns! I have never done one in the past and would love your feedback. Especially let me know if you like Game of Thrones related breakdowns, because there is a lot more I could potentially cover (like Tyrion's charisma and persuasive abilities)

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Avoid These Body Language Mistakes to Be Liked

Tue, 03 Nov 2026 16:00:00 -0000

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Today, we're delving into 5 pitfalls that can diminish your charisma, and what you should do instead, to steer clear of these mistakes.

⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰

0:00 - #1: Scanning the room
0:27 - #2: Don't let someone interrupt while someone else is talking to you
1:13 - #3: Trapping
1:37 - #4: Communicating shame
2:12 - #5: The eyebrow flash

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How To Be Confident Under Pressure (Even if You're Shy)

Tue, 03 Nov 2026 15:58:45 -0000

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Pressure can destroy your confidence when you need it most. Your mind goes blank, you stumble over your words, and opportunities slip away.

In this video, we break down how Inde Navarrette stays charismatic in high-pressure moments, despite being naturally shy. You’ll learn how to prime yourself for confidence, mirror the energy in any room, and turn nervousness into connection.

You’ll also discover why admitting you’re nervous can make you look more confident, and how to stop holding back so you can express yourself freely at work, on dates, and in your social life.

0:00 - Intro
1:10 - Priming
4:00 - Energy Mirroring
5:29 - Announce Your Nerves

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The Masculine Move Most Men Are Too Afraid to Make

Tue, 03 Nov 2026 15:47:30 -0000

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Most men think attraction works like this: become successful, get in shape, build status, then wait for women to notice. But that fantasy keeps a lot of men stuck. In this video, you’ll learn the difference between indirect attraction and direct action, using Jack Reacher and Matt Murdock as examples.

You’ll see the attraction signals most men miss, how to flirt without being awkward, and why what you want is usually on the other side of fear. This isn’t just about dating. It’s about the same pattern that keeps men from starting the business, writing the book, making the move, or going after the life they actually want.

0:00 - Intro
0:29 - The Fantasy Holding Men Back
1:34 - Indirect Attraction vs Direct Action
2:47 - The Signals Most Men Miss
4:02 - The 12 Stages of Intimacy
6:00 - Why Reacher Gets Stuck
7:00 - The Right Way to Flirt
10:25 - Build the confidence to take direct action

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100,000 Subscriber Thank You + Giveaway

Tue, 03 Nov 2026 15:45:00 -0000

100,000 Subscriber Thank You + Giveaway

Didn't think I'd get to do this soon! We just hit 100,000 subscribers earlier this week and I wanted to thank everyone who has watched, subscribed, and shared our channel.

Aside from just extending our thanks, we're offering 10 of our subscribers a chance to win a brand new module on Dealing With Conflict. It will cover how to come out of those difficult situations getting what you want while still maintaining a strong relationship.

So if you're interested in participating, here's how:

1) Share your favorite video of ours on Facebook
2) Make sure to tag Charisma on Command

That's it. We'll add your submission up to 3 times for 3 shares over the next week. The giveaway ends Thursday April 21st. We'll randomly choose the 10 winners then and contact them in the following days.

Thanks for making this possible :-)

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How To Take Control Of Any Conversation Without Trying

Tue, 03 Nov 2026 15:35:00 -0000

How To Talk To People - Bruce Lee Charisma Breakdown (Part 2)
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Learning how to talk to people is a super important skill, but one we are never taught in school. In fact, sometimes we get so wrapped up trying to make small talk that we lose the opportunity to really connect with someone. Bruce Lee doesn't make that mistake in this interview.

This video will show you how to talk to people and how to lead a conversation towards topics that make you more likely to make a lasting connection. There are lots of ways, but this is one that will present itself as soon as the other person starts asking questions. You'll be able to build rapport quickly and potentially walk away with a new friend.

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6 Mindsets That Make You Incredibly Charismatic

Tue, 03 Nov 2026 15:31:15 -0000

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6 Mindsets That Will Make You Magnetic

When it comes to charisma, you can learn a lot of surface level stuff. Body language, eye contact, tonality, all of these things can be tweaked to make you appear more confident, charismatic, and magnetic. But when it comes to making long-lasting change, you need to change the beliefs and mindsets that underpin all your actions. Only when you've done this will your charisma begin to emanate more naturally.

In this video we boil the 12 charismatic convictions (from the book Charisma on Command) down to 6 beliefs. If you can internalize these beliefs, you will find yourself behaving in ways that draw people to you.

Those charismatic beliefs are

1. No matter what, I will be okay
2. I care more about my character than my reputation
3. I have impeccable honesty and integrity
4. I don't need to convince anyone of anything
5. I share my purpose proactively
6. I go there first in humanizing interaction

If you can incorporate those convictions into your life, you will become much more charismatic in all of your interactions and magnetic to the type of people who you want in your life.

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The Recurring Dream You've Been Having Is Trying To Tell You Something

Tue, 03 Nov 2026 15:22:30 -0000

Candace Owens says she has recurring dreams where Charlie Kirk’s soul visits her from purgatory. In the dreams, he warns her about a betrayal and gives her a name. Candace takes the dreams literally and reaches out to the person he mentions.

In this video, I explain why this is a mistake.

You will learn how to interpret dreams properly using Carl Jung’s iceberg model. We break down what dreams are, what they are not, and how confusing symbols with reality leads to bad conclusions.

0:00 - Intro
1:49 - Carl Jung
2:43 - The Consciousness Iceberg
9:44 - Step 1
10:01 - Step 2
10:28 - Step 3
11:08 - Step 4

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How To Recover After You Betray People

Tue, 03 Nov 2026 15:17:30 -0000

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Sometimes, the harder we try to make people like us, the more we push them away. Whether it's trying to seem cool, covering up a mistake, or shifting blame, certain phrases can turn a minor slip-up into a lasting loss of respect.

In this video, we break down five common behaviors that can make people dislike you—and how to handle these moments better.

Timestamps:
0:00 - Intro
0:43 - Phrase #1
2:25 - Phrase #2
3:28 - Phrase #3
4:38 - Phrase #4
5:56 - Boundary Poking
7:08 - Phrase #5
7:56 - How to redeem yourself
11:05 - The fastest way to improve your confidence and charisma

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3 Simple Voice Tweaks To Captivate Anyone

Tue, 03 Nov 2026 15:10:00 -0000

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3 Simple Voice Tweaks To Captivate Anyone

Neil deGrasse Tyson is an amazing speaker. He's one of the select group of science educators that appeal to mainstream America. Truly, some of the topics he covers are fascinating. But the truth is that the majority of his appeal comes from the way in which he speaks.

In this video, we cover three simple vocal tips that will make you a more captivating speaker. You'll learn how to use your voice in a way that gets people leaning forward and hoping you tell them more.

Those tips are, in short

1. Take longer, deeper breaths to lower your voice
2. Strategically use silence to hook people's attention
3. Develop vocal range in terms of speed, cadence, and style

Enjoy, and let us know if you're enjoying the throwback videos!

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How To Persuade And Influence People

Tue, 03 Nov 2026 15:03:45 -0000

Barack Obama Charisma Breakdown - How To Influence People
https://goo.gl/SaV6sp Barack Obama's most important job is to influence people. As president, there is very little ha can do on his own. So his main job becomes to persuade people to see his views when it comes to political decisions.

In the wake of the tragedy at Umpqua Community College in Oregon, Barack Obama demonstrated a 5 step process on how to influence in those situations where you absolutely must convince people to change their behavior. Obama is a powerful, charismatic speaker and this example is great for becoming more influential in the workplace.

If you're interested in other videos that cover the topic of influence, but in a more social context, check out Ricky Martin on the Voice: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dqragS38hCk

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6 Things Nice Guys Do That Kill Attraction

Tue, 03 Nov 2026 14:57:30 -0000

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Alec Baldwin’s interview with his wife spirals as she loses all respect for him on camera. But what most people missed is how his 'nice guy' behavior quietly led to this. In this video, we break down 6 common habits that make women lose attraction—and how to stop doing them.

0:00 - Intro
2:55 - Apologizing to escape discomfort
3:27 - Over explaining and rambling
4:42 - Seeking approval
6:46 - Roping in other people
9:08 - Resentment
12:51 - Compliment sandwiching

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The Quiet Skill That Attracts Feminine Women

Tue, 03 Nov 2026 14:50:00 -0000

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I used to think being attractive was all about confidence, teasing, and strong body language, but I was missing something deeper. In this video, I break down the 3 traits of grounded masculinity that most men overlook. These are the traits that make women feel emotionally safe, connected, and irresistibly drawn in.

0:00 – Why Typical Attraction Advice Falls Short
2:39 – Containment: The Balance Between Holding Space and Setting Limits
4:18 – Empathetic Attunement: Feeling Without Getting Lost
7:08 – Grounding Someone in the Now (Not the Logic)

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How To Be Miserable For The Rest Of Your Life

Tue, 03 Nov 2026 14:45:00 -0000

What would make you happier? Winning the lottery? Or becoming paraplegic?

What’s crazy is that a year after winning the lottery versus using the use of their legs, people from both groups rate their happiness as the same.

This is called impact bias: we overestimate which things will make us happy and for how long.

What’s crazy is this isn’t just a quirk of lottery winners - so many people spend their lives in a pursuit of happiness that is not that impactful and fleeting. You get the a job that you desperately want that once you arrive isn’t as glamorous as you thought, you get a phone, a computer, or a car, and for 2 weeks you notice how new and cool it is, but before you know it it’s just another thing.

There are ways to avoid this trap though.

I have spent literally years studying people, their happiness, and applying the lessons to myself.

What you see is that there are certain approaches that work and certain that don’t.

There are 5 things and I’m calling it the happiness ladder, because I tend to see it correspond to phases of our lives and people tend to move from one level to the next in order. My hope is that this video gives you a shortcut to the top.

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Sydney Sweeney Controversy Reveals Something Darker About Us

Tue, 03 Nov 2026 14:36:15 -0000

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Sometimes outrage is not really about politics or beliefs, but about hidden strategies we use to compete for attraction and status. In this video, I dive into the controversy around Sydney Sweeney’s American Eagle ad with insights from psychologist and author Rob Henderson. Through the lens of evolutionary psychology, he reveals four cunning strategies driving outrage, rivalry, and reputation attacks. Beneath all of that lies an even bigger trap, the universal status game that shapes our lives, often without us realizing it.

0:00 - Intro
1:54 - Lower Rivals Eligibility
2:51 - Police and Limit What Rivals Can Offer
4:53 - Align With High Status Individuals to Improve Own Position
6:13 - Develop Skills That Benefit the Coalition
6:55 - Two Strategies To Gain Status
8:15 - The Direct Route
8:41 - The Indirect Route
9:20 - Learn To Make More REAL Connections

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3 Body Language Habits That Make People Dislike You

Tue, 03 Nov 2026 14:32:30 -0000

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Chris Evans Charisma - What Your Hands Say About You

See how Chris Evans comes across as more likable and charismatic simply by the way he uses his hands when he speaks. The power of gesticulating can't be underestimated. When you compare Chris Evans to Jonah Hill, it's impossible not to feel that Chris looks far more confident. And it's not immediately evident, but a large part of that comes down to how they use their hands when speaking.

So check it out: these 3 tips are easy to implement and will help you look more confident talking with your hands.

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Why Successful People Seek Out Rejection

Tue, 03 Nov 2026 14:22:30 -0000

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Failure might delay your dreams, but fear will kill them. Because fear leads to inaction.

So in today’s video, you’ll learn 7 tricks to help silence that voice in your head that fears rejection.

That way you can go into any conversation with confidence, knowing you’ll feel completely unphased even if you do get rejected

⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰

0:00 - Intro
0:23 - #1: You are not your first impression
1:05 - #2: Rejection is inevitable. Shame is optional
2:09 - #3: Life is a numbers game
2:45 - #4: Amp up your carrot/stick motivation
3:15 - #5: Rejections are good for you
5:24 - #6: See rejection as a sign that you aren't a good match
5:49 - #7: Focus on becoming the type of person who has options

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The One Belief That Erases Social Fear

Tue, 03 Nov 2026 14:20:00 -0000

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There is ONE mindset that erases social fear. If you have it, you will walk through life with total confidence and comfort, like you own the world.

In today’s video, I want to break down the belief that IShowSpeed has, because with it, you will feel completely socially free.

0:00 - Intro
1:09 - The Core Mindset
1:48 - Treat people with enthusiasm
2:56 - Balance enthusiasm with playful banter
4:06 - The danger to teasing
4:55 - Reenforcing the core mindset
5:38 - All of us have natural charisma
6:03 - Today's mission
7:12 - Unlock your natural, consistent charisma

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How To Be Charming When Talking To People

Tue, 03 Nov 2026 14:08:45 -0000

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Jennifer Lawrence - Funny, Self-Deprecating Stories

Jennifer Lawrence is the most famous actress in the world. Scroll through the comments on any of her interviews and they are filled with people who support her and sing her praises. She is considered extremely funny and grounded.

Yet despite her fame, Jennifer Lawrence has never garnered the type of hate that many accomplished people do. And a huge piece of that is in the stories she tells. In her interviews, she makes herself appear vulnerable and down to earth when she reveals embarrassing stories from her past. They might seem like simple anecdotes, but they endear her fans to her.

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How To Be The Center Of Attention

Tue, 03 Nov 2026 14:07:30 -0000

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Why People Love Will Smith (And Not Jaden)

Will Smith is one of the most charismatic men alive. His son, Jaden, is not. In this interview with Graham Norton, we can break down exactly why. It's the difference between being an inclusive competent leader and struggling to keep up.

In this interview you'll see how the leadership dynamic plays out in a group. Will Smith very quickly winds up as the de facto leader, while Jaden gets cut off and has trouble getting a word in. The good news is that it isn't impossible to move upwards from the position of being trampled over in conversation. Watch this video and learn how to be a leader in a way that makes people happy to have you around.

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How To Stay Motivated And Master Your Willpower

Tue, 03 Nov 2026 13:55:00 -0000

How To Stay Motivated And Master Your Willpower
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Everyone gets excited about the idea of self-improvement. But when it comes time to actually put in the work over the long haul, things change. We find excuses. We don't follow through.

This video explores how you can stay motivated and on track long after the initial excitement of improvement has passed. It covers a few surprising ways to better manage your own willpower so that you stick to your resolutions and become the person you want to be.

When you've mastered your willpower and learned how to stay motivated even through arduous tasks, achieving the goals you've set for yourself becomes much, much easier. Enjoy :-)

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How To Deal With Negative Comments From Family and Friends

Tue, 03 Nov 2026 13:55:00 -0000

6 Tips To Deal With The Negative Comments That Come With Self Improvement
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When we make positive changes and pursue self improvement, we sometimes attract negative comments from our friends and loved ones. It doesn't matter if you start taking your fitness seriously, starting a business, or implementing the charisma tips you see on this channel, whenever you start to grow there are inevitably people who would like to see you stay the same

In this video I want to teach you how to deal with negative comments and hopefully turn that negativity to positivity. There are 6 tips I cover are

1. Use the toddler technique
2. Purposely misinterpret passive aggressive questions
3. Answer their questions with vulnerability
4. Use the 1 sentence rebuttal
5. Don't recruit; live it
6. Find one other person

Those 6 things have been a huge help in removing negativity from my own life. I hope you find them helpful in removing negative comments and negative friends from yours.

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The Art Of Funny Storytelling

Tue, 03 Nov 2026 13:42:30 -0000

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Kevin Hart's 3 Secrets To Hilarious Storytelling

Kevin Hart is one of the funniest men alive. Whether in interviews with Ellen Degeneres or George Lopez, or his standup specials, he tells absolutely hilarious stories. In fact, most of his standup routine consists of him telling stories. But he does it in such a way that hooks an audience and never lets go, partially because he is able to include so many jokes.

It's not that Kevin Hart's life is inherently more interesting than the rest of ours. He is just a better storyteller. The good news is that storytelling is not something you're born with or you're not. Anyone can learn to tell the kind of funny stories that made Kevin famous. You just need to know the most important pieces.

While there are many storytelling techniques and styles that will enable you to captivate an audience, ultimately, the best storytellers share a few things in common: they get attention, they commit, and they are constantly refining their craft. These fundamentals can be used in any kind of story but they are especially useful for funny stories

So if you want to know how to tell a story better or you are just are interested in what makes Kevin Hart's stories so engaging, check out the video.

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Speak Up Confidently And Stop Getting Ignored

Tue, 03 Nov 2026 13:41:15 -0000

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When people interrupt you, it’s easy to feel small, overlooked, or ignored. But you don’t need to be loud to make others listen. In this video, you’ll learn four simple ways to stop people cutting you off, command attention, and speak with quiet authority.

0:00 - Intro
0:28 - Preface with a hype line
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The 3 Mindsets That Secretly Ruin Your Happiness

Tue, 03 Nov 2026 13:30:00 -0000

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This video is about how to be happier for the rest of your life, starting today.

We’re going to cover 3 common mindsets that lead to unhappiness. Most people don’t even realize they have these mindsets, or if they do, they don’t know how to stop them.

We’ll also discuss some lessons from Stoicism so that you can feel more joy every day.

⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰

0:00 - Intro
0:16 - #1: Unmet desire
4:12 - #2: Isolated upward comparison
7:26 - #3: Expectations

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How to Be Loved for Your Quiet Presence

Tue, 03 Nov 2026 13:27:30 -0000

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The most underrated social skill is so subtle it often goes unnoticed—but it has the power to change lives, including yours. In this video, I reveal the transformative art of "holding space," a skill that's not about fixing, advising, or encouraging, but simply being present for someone in their moments of vulnerability.

Through Theo Von's deeply empathetic interaction with Sean Strickland, who shares harrowing stories of his past, we explore how this skill can create profound connections. You'll learn to recognize dissociation, switch conversational modes, and offer support without an agenda.

0:00 - Intro
0:11 - Here is the skill
0:46 - Disconnected emotions
1:32 - The underlying emotions break through
1:57 - Switch conversational modes
3:49 - Just listen
4:45 - Encourage emotional exploration

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Daily Tip: Charismatic Body Language Exercises

Tue, 03 Nov 2026 13:17:30 -0000

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How to Apologize Without Shame: The Upright Apology

Tue, 03 Nov 2026 13:13:45 -0000

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Most apologies, whether public or personal, feel fake because they are. This video breaks down why apologies often miss the mark, how shame gets in the way of real growth, and what it takes to make a genuine, meaningful apology.

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0:00 - Intro
1:30 - The problem
2:28 - How this applies to your life
3:02 - A real apology
3:19 - How can we fix it?
3:54 - The Shame "Hot Potato"
6:14 - The problem with shame
5:52 - Why I made this video
7:34 - The 4 steps to an upright apology
9:26 - How to further improve relationships

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The Secret Of Bill Clinton's Charisma

Tue, 03 Nov 2026 13:05:00 -0000

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The Secret Of Bill Clinton's Incredible Eye Contact

Bill Clinton may have the most famously captivating eye contact of anyone alive. On all sides of the political spectrum, people have noted that when Bill Clinton spoke to them, it felt as if they were the only person in the room. Even Newt Gingrich, his political nemesis, said he was "one of the most charming, effective people I have negotiated with." It may have won him the presidency in the 1992 town hall debate against George Bush Sr. and Ross Perot.

A huge component of that charm and charisma comes from the engaging way Clinton makes eye contact. And that is the main focus of this video. We'll explore how he is able to convey many emotions with his gaze. Especially a sense of power and genuine connection that come from his intense, narrow eyes. You'll also see how he breaks eye contact in a way that makes people feel heard and be able to contrast that with George Bush Sr. who lost the 1992 debate and maybe the election because of the way he handled this question.

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How To Persuade Anyone

Tue, 03 Nov 2026 13:00:00 -0000

Donald Trump Is Actually A Master Psychologist
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Could Donald Trump really win in 2016??

It seems like a ridiculous question, but Donald Trump's 2016 campaign has defied all the expectations from the pundits. Initially considered a joke candidate, he now leads the Republican pack in most national polls and the polls for the most important caucuses.

At the same time, a huge portion of America would be mortified if Trump were to win. He's made remarks about Muslims and Mexicans that many have found offensive and those same people are baffled about how he could be the Republican frontrunner.

It's no accident though. Trump has an incredible amount of charisma and an intuitive understanding of human psychology. We'll dive into how he's used it to garner support in what many thought was an impossible campaign. We'll see Donald Trump can take the nomination for presidency in 2016.

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How To Instantly Become More Persuasive

Tue, 03 Nov 2026 12:52:30 -0000

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Trump vs Brand: The Power Of Word Choice

Donald Trump and Russell Brand are two very influential people with devoted followings. Yet they have nearly opposite styles of speaking. Trump uses simple words. His announcement speech for his presidential bid came in at a 4th grade reading level according to the Flesch - Kincaid readability test. Russell Brand, on the other hand, speaks using words that you're unlikely to ever hear in normal conversation and may need a thesaurus just to understand.

So after watching how effective Trump has been in his campaign I began to ask myself: which is better? Big words or small ones? Short words or long words? Have I been mistaken in trying to expand my vocabulary?

In this video, I explore the different speaking styles of Trump and Brand and try to answer those questions.

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How To Show Up For Someone In A Rough Time

Tue, 03 Nov 2026 12:46:15 -0000

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Most people want to help a friend who is struggling, but they get it wrong. They give advice too fast, push too hard, or try to carry emotional burdens that are not theirs to carry, which can actually hurt the friendship.

In this video, you will learn how to support a friend in hard times, build deeper connections, and become someone people trust, using Samwise Gamgee as the example of what real friendship and support look like when life gets tough.

0:00 - Intro
0:47 - Offer help before they ask
1:25 - Offer help without hooks
4:37 - Honor their boundaries
7:23 - Support them without this...
8:55 - See them as mid-story

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How To Win Any Negotiation (Even From A Weak Position)

Tue, 03 Nov 2026 12:40:00 -0000

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Zelensky’s negotiation with Trump went off the rails. In this video, we break down the key mistakes, what he could have done differently, and how you can win high-stakes negotiations.

0:00 - Intro
0:35 - Caveat
1:04 - Who makes the first offer?
2:08 - Zelenskyy fumbled this essential point
3:55 - Do not beg to get your needs met
4:30 - Employ the "friendly f***k no"
5:32 - Don't push back in other ways
7:16 - The part where things break down
8:07 - The Karen Technique
8:24 - Zelenskyy gets into it with Vance
9:26 - How to recover from these moments
10:45 - Unprocessed contempt
12:15 - Always have a second option
13:27 - Zelenskyy's Fox interview
14:09 - Remember that you can walk out
14:46 - Learn to master your soft power skills

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How Charles Manson Controlled His Followers (Toxic Partners Do This Too)

Tue, 03 Nov 2026 12:32:30 -0000

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It’s a scary truth that the most powerful psychological tricks cult leaders use to brainwash their followers can just as effectively be used by toxic partners, manipulative friends, and predatory organizations against people like you and me.

That’s why in this video, we’re breaking down each of those tricks - so hopefully you can spot the red flags and avoid falling victim to them too.

0:00 - Intro
1:06 - They impersonate the family unit
3:02 - They isolate you from your real family unit
4:31 - They twist language to disguise what's happening
5:52 - They demonize asking questions
7:24 - They reward blind obedience
9:21 - They use fake reciprocity

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The Power Dynamic: How To Command More Respect

Tue, 03 Nov 2026 12:27:30 -0000

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Why Tyrion Will Win The Game Of Thrones

Game of Thrones is extremely violent. Yet despite all the bloodiness, most of the power that you see characters like Tywin Lannister or Daenerys Targaryen wield is not through physical force. Rather it comes from mini-conflicts of body language, eye contact, and tonality. Specifically, there is a battle to control the 4 W's.

I believe the person to win the Game of Thrones will be the one that best takes control of these 4W's. And one of the best candidates to win is Tyrion Lannister. He may never sit the Iron Throne himself, but I believe that given his incredible command of power, he will be by the ruler's side. Here are the four W's that make Tyrion so special

1) When: In this scene Daenerys completely controls the when as Tyrion and Jorah are there at her leisure. She also takes command of the silence.

2) Who: Tyrion is great at making himself appear more important. Tywin Lannister is also great at this as he snatches the power from Joffrey, despite the fact that Joffrey Baratheon is king.

3) What: Tyrion does an excellent job of controlling what Dany focuses on

4) Where: Daenerys' power is completely dependant on where she is - when she finds herself in front of Khal Moro in season 6, it's basically at zero

So those are the four W's that I believe will win to Tyrion winning the Game of Thrones. Hope you enjoy!

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5 Lies About Being A Man You Probably Still Believe

Tue, 03 Nov 2026 12:18:45 -0000

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Most men are taught a very narrow version of masculinity: be tough, be dominant, never show weakness, and always stay in control. But Joe Hudson argues that a lot of those ideas are actually keeping men disconnected, reactive, and less powerful than they could be. In this video, we break down 5 lies modern men believe about masculinity, and what real strength looks like instead.

0:00 - Intro
1:37 - Lie 1
8:12 - Lie 2
14:41 - Lie 3
21:09 - Lie 4
27:11 - Lie 5

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How To Permanently Reduce Stress

Tue, 03 Nov 2026 12:15:00 -0000

How To Eliminate Stress

Stress sucks. Not only does it take an emotional toll, but if you live long enough with stress it can literally kill you.

So it doesn’t matter, if it’s from your job, your relationship, your financial situation, or getting in an airplane, for your health and your sanity, you have to know how to reduce and even eliminate stress. I want to cover the 3 levers you have to stop stressing out, but first you need to the big misunderstanding people have about stress.

Whatever stress you might have is NOT coming from the activities in your life. It’s coming from our habits. It’s coming from a mindset, which is this:

Stress comes from needing something to happen that you don’t think you can control (and that you think could go badly).

The good news is that understanding stress like this gives three options to combat it.

1. Stop needing things. Fear setting can help with this
2. Increase your feeling of control. Use tree planning as opposed to stick planning.
3. Create the habit of optimism. NLP swish patterns will help here.

Happy stress hunting!

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This Needs To STOP: Copyright BS

Tue, 03 Nov 2026 12:05:00 -0000

Ugh. I wish this video didn't exist

Our video on Conor McGregor received a takedown notice despite the fact that everything on it was commentary and fell within the bounds of fair use. Which means it was ripped off YouTube fraudulently because the owner of one of the clips has too much damn power.

This abuse has been happening on YouTube more and more. Fair Use is getting destroyed and it sucks.

I don't know how, but I'd like to figure how to fight back rather than just by complaining about it.

If you have any ideas and you want to reach out to me, you can contact me via YouTube messenger or via email at charlie@charismaoncommand.com

Hopefully, together we can end this shit.

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4 Jokes That Make Women Notice You

Tue, 03 Nov 2026 12:02:30 -0000

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We all know women like men who can make them laugh.

But you may not realize there are 4 specific types of jokes that women absolutely love.

So in this video you’ll learn how to use these 4 to create a fun flirty conversations with anyone you’re interested in

0:00 - Intro
0:22 - The Ice Breaker
1:30 - Build a fake world
3:38 - Portable Jokes
4:49 - Innuendo
5:17 - Innuendo Level 1
5:50 - Innuendo Level 2
6:53 - Innuendo Level 3
8:00 - The core mindset

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Daily Tip: Charismatic Body Language Evaluation

Tue, 03 Nov 2026 11:51:15 -0000

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How To Be The Funniest Person In The Room

Tue, 03 Nov 2026 11:50:00 -0000

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Robin Williams' #1 Tip To Becoming Funnier

Robin Williams was absolutely hilarious. His mental quickness was second to none and people often commented on what a raw natural comedic talent he was.

The truth is though, Robin Williams honed his skills over many years. And one of those skills in particular can be applied by anyone to make themselves funnier almost immediately. It's a humor technique called playing a character and it can make even things that are unfunny seem hilarious.

So check out this tip and use it in your own jokes and stories. I can't promise you'll become as funny as Robin Williams, but if you do it with conviction, you'll see people respond with way more laughter than you may be used to.

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The 3 Traits That Make You Impossible to Ignore

Tue, 03 Nov 2026 11:37:30 -0000

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Zohran Mamdani and Donald Trump have completely different personalities, politics, and values. But both used a similar charisma playbook to overcome opponents with more money, status, and establishment support.

In this video, we break down the three traits that made them impossible to ignore: the courage to risk ridicule, the conviction to stay on offense, and a consistent emotional identity. You’ll learn why charisma begins when you stop choosing social safety over honest self-expression, plus how to apply that principle in your career, relationships, and social life without copying anyone else’s personality.

0:00 The Unlikely Rise of a Political Outsider
0:35 The Surprising Parallel Between Two Rivals
4:01 The Courage to Be Disliked
7:25 The Power of a Consistent Emotional Signature
11:17 The Choice Between Safety and Self-Expression

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Why Modern Men Are Lost (The Missing Energy)

Tue, 03 Nov 2026 11:37:30 -0000

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In today’s video, I dive into why so many modern men feel lost, lonely, and disconnected—and reveal how the forgotten masculine archetypes, especially the warrior, hold the key to reclaiming our purpose, power, and inner fire.

0:00 - Intro
0:58 - Archetypes explained
1:46 - The final masculine archetype
2:25 - Part I: Channel Your Aggression
4:04 - Part II: Embrace Solitude
5:25 - Part III: Take Risks
6:50 - Part IV: Wield The Fire of Death

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How To Become An Effective Leader

Tue, 03 Nov 2026 11:25:00 -0000

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Steve Jobs Leadership Skills Breakdown - How To Motivate People

When Steve Jobs returned as the CEO of Apple in 1997, the company was on the verge of bankruptcy. Today, Apple is the most profitable company on the planet, thanks in huge part to Steve Jobs leadership. He was able to motivate employees, turn the company around, and preside over huge developments like the iMac, iPod, iPhone, and iPad.

But Steve Jobs is unique in that despite clearly being an effective leader, he was not particularly likeable. Steve Jobs presentation and interview skills were legendary though. In this video we break down exactly what it was that made Steve Jobs such a powerful leader by examining his interviews and speeches. The goal is to use the lessons from his life to learn how to motivate employees and the people in our lives.

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The “Mature” Habit That Quietly Destroys Relationships

Tue, 03 Nov 2026 11:23:45 -0000

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In a recent interview, Anthony Hopkins is asked about his estranged daughter. At first, he avoids the question. Then he gives an answer that reveals far more than he likely intends.

The language he uses shuts down vulnerability and blocks connection. This video breaks down why those kinds of phrases feel protective in the moment, and why they quietly damage the relationships you care about most.

0:00 - Intro
0:32 - Shut down phrases
1:15 - The real problem
2:21 - The staircase of vulnerability
3:49 - Go First
4:04 - Show Care
5:04 - Just Listen
5:27 - Acknowledge Your Part
6:03 - Share Your Story
7:23 - Stop Treating Yourself Harshly

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How To Build Unwavering Confidence

Tue, 03 Nov 2026 11:12:30 -0000

How To Be More Confident - Conor McGregor Confidence Breakdown

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Conor McGregor is one of the most confident athletes of all time. He routinely calls his shot and speaks with a conviction that victory is a total certainty. That's how he earned the nickname "Mystic Mac."

Conor McGregor's confidence has led him to one UFC belt and another on the horizon. In this video I am examine some of his thought processes that lead him to have such superhuman confidence and prove that anyone can learn how to be more confident. Use these charismatic tips in your own life to look more confident and feel more confident as well.

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The One Thing That Saved James Gunn’s Career

Tue, 03 Nov 2026 11:10:00 -0000

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When James Gunn lost his career overnight, he thought it was all over. But what happened next completely changed how he saw himself and the people around him. In this video, we break down his story and the simple lesson you can use to turn your worst moment into your strongest comeback.

0:00 - Intro
0:37 - James Gunn's Worst Moment
1:48 - Wait a second...
3:02 - The Buffer Against Feeling Loved
4:03 - A Practical Takeaway
5:48 - Learn To Build Powerful Connections

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Make Anyone Feel Incredible With These 6 Tricks

Tue, 03 Nov 2026 11:00:00 -0000

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In today’s video, you’ll learn how to be extremely likable, whether you’re an energetic extrovert or a soft spoken introvert.

We’ll cover how to make an amazing first impression AND how to turn that first impression into deep relationships with people that love and admire you.

⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰

0:00 - Intro

0:11 - #1: Charismatic body language
- Listening With Warm, Soft Eye Contact.
- A Duchenne Smile.
- Speaking Through A Smile.
- Expansive Gestures.

1:34 - #2: Capture attention
- A Pre-Story Laugh.
- A One Line Hook.

2:54 - #3: Making someone feel good around you
- Laugh When Someone Makes A Joke.
- Adding A Light Platonic Touch And Compliment.
- Be Universally Kind.
- Playful Teasing.

6:31 - #4: Be a shield in their shield wall

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The Masculine Archetype That Builds Quiet Power

Tue, 03 Nov 2026 10:56:15 -0000

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This video explores the archetype of the king, its defining traits, and how embodying that mature king energy can boost your self-confidence.

0:00 - Intro
0:39 - #1) The King has little interest in changing other people's minds
1:55 - #2 ) King Energy inspires people around to feel confidence
4:18 - #3) Kings define themselves by what they love
7:16 - The Burden Test
8:18 - How to offer support
8:36 - You must be committed to clear seeing
12:07 - Want more?

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The Debate Skill Jordan Peterson Forgot

Tue, 03 Nov 2026 10:47:30 -0000

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My original Jordan Peterson video:
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Jordan Peterson has delivered some of the internet’s most iconic debate moments. But his Surrounded video doesn’t quite reach that same level.

Many will dissect the substance of the debate—the semantic haze, the definitions, the back-and-forth. That’s not where I want to focus.

What matters most in a debate, if your goal is to actually change someone’s mind, isn’t clever semantics, gotcha moments, or even airtight logic. It’s the emotional connection you build through rapport and charisma. That human link is what opens the door to real persuasion.

0:00 - Intro
1:04 - Focus on amusement
3:06 - Use a receptive style of listening
6:41 - The Anti NBA Rule
10:11 - This makes everything easier

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5 Steps To Stop Caring What People Think

Tue, 03 Nov 2026 10:42:30 -0000

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The number one regret of people who are dying is "I wish I'd had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me."

So let’s spend this video going through how you can do just that.

⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰

0:00 - Intro
1:00 - #1: Find your fire
2:25 - #2: Create an inner circle
3:10 - #3: Decide your core values
4:47 - #4: Leave the validation casino
7:09 - #5: Self acceptance

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Why Trump Will SMASH Hillary

Tue, 03 Nov 2026 10:35:00 -0000

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Why Donald Trump Will SMASH Hillary Clinton

Donald Trump is going to beat Hillary Clinton and be the next President of the United States.

Let me be clear. This isn’t a pro-Trump video. I’m not voting for Trump. But after watching hours of footage of both Trump and Hillary, I have seen an incredible pattern that convinced me to bet $1000 of my own money that Trump would be president. Even though I am not voting for him. That’s how confident I am.

Not because I want him to, but because he is head and shoulder above Hillary when it comes to campaigning and you may not have realized why it’s working so well.

So let’s rewind one year to see how Trump got to where he is and how that can show us where he’s going. Because as soon as Trump announced, a lot of people thought it was a joke.

First he was seen as a joke....
Then he started making outlandish statements, dominating the news cycle....
Then he took down his republican rivals one by one, naming them Weak Jeb, Little Marco, and Lyin' Ted...
And now he has set his sights on Hillary Clinton.

Hillary, in the meantime, has demonstrated an ineffective strategy. Her slogan, "Love trumps hate," has Trump's name in it. Her talking points typically come back to the fact that she is a woman, which Trump has labeled "playing the woman card."

It has caused her to slip to the point where she and Trump are at a dead heat in the polls. Some even have him up.

If this continues, it won't even be close come Election Day in November.

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It's actually pretty easy to flirt with women

Tue, 03 Nov 2026 10:28:45 -0000

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Russell Brand flirting with women is a sight to behold....As men, we're never really taught how to flirt with women. That's a problem. Because many men get caught in the trap of "creep flirting" where they come on too strong. Other's stick to the "goofball guy" and wind up in the friend zone.

The style of interaction that Russell Brand and Craig Ferguson demonstrate in this video will actually teach you how to flirt with women. It's not the ONLY way, but it is a great way to show interest without creeping anyone out.

So check out Russell Brand's special version of "push pull" and see if it matches your style of flirting. Also, pay close attention to the moments when the women start to fall for Russell. They will teach you a lot about flirting with women.

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Stop Doing This When You Speak

Tue, 03 Nov 2026 10:22:30 -0000

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There is one common mistake that kills your confidence. It makes you look weak, it makes you feel smaller, and it pushes people away. In this video, we’ll use Ned Fulmer’s recent podcast with his ex-wife Ariel Fulmer, to show the habit that destroys both your confidence and people’s trust.

0:00 - Intro
0:16 - Context
0:41 - His voice is constricted
1:47 - What you should do instead
2:31 - Do this when you start to feel constricted
4:35 - Want more tips like this?

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6 Flirting Habits Women Actually Love

Tue, 03 Nov 2026 10:15:00 -0000

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In today’s video, you’ll learn 6 habits that instantly make you more attractive.

We’ll do this by breaking down some clips of Jack Harlow, because he has an easy, authentic style of flirting that many women find extremely attractive.

⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰

0:00 - Intro
0:21 - #1: Approach without hesitation
1:59 - #2: Assume good intent
3:37 - #3: Use the push/pull method
5:27 - #4: Be honest in situations where a lot of guys would lie
6:12 - #5: Don't be desperate for a romantic connection
6:57 - #6: Have standards beyond beauty

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How A Small Insecurity Can Grow Into Narcissism

Tue, 03 Nov 2026 10:10:00 -0000

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Elon Musk recently pretended to be one of the best in the world at a video game—only for the truth to come out. But this isn’t just about a lie; it’s about the sad pipeline of toxic shame, where the fear of not being enough leads to deception, compulsive validation-seeking, and, in some cases, malignant narcissism. This video breaks down how it happens—and how to break free.

0:00 - Intro
0:29 - Elon Musk was caught pretending
1:00 - The context
3:39 - The psychology behind Toxic Shame
5:20 - Where Toxic Shame comes from
6:06 - The opposite of Toxic Shame
6:20 - It can get worse...
7:18 - How to address Toxic Shame
9:12 - Want to level up your confidence and charisma?

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How To Make People Like You Immediately

Tue, 03 Nov 2026 10:01:15 -0000

One Simple Tip To Make People Like You - Tom Hiddleston Charisma Breakdown
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Watch Tom Hiddleston and Grae Drake banter back and forth and learn how you can boost your charisma just by shifting the way you crack jokes. It's a simple technique that you can use to make just about anyone like you, guy or girl. After all, we like people who make us feel good about ourselves, and this tip will do that for you.

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How To Be Extremely Captivating To Those Around You

Tue, 03 Nov 2026 09:57:30 -0000

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Body Language Tips - Tony Robbins Charisma Breakdown

Tony Robbins is a master of body language. These body language tips will break down how he is able to communicate so effectively by using his body in ways that most people don't during speeches or presentations.

By the way, if you haven't been to an event, check him out. He is the most charismatic man I have ever seen in person and a huge portion of that is because of his emphatic body language, which is on full display in this video. If you want to learn how to inspire a crowd of 7,000 people, there is no one better to learn from than Tony.

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Wharton Business School: Entrepreneurship Speech (former private equity Associate)

Tue, 03 Nov 2026 09:47:30 -0000

Went back to Wharton Business School to talk with some MBAs about entrepreneurship.

It's a bit long so feel free to skip around or watch on 1.5x ;-)

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If just one person escapes investment banking because of this I will be proud!

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6 Psychological Tricks To Read Anyone

Tue, 03 Nov 2026 09:45:00 -0000

How To Read ANYONE
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Today we are going to cover the skill of reading people. Which is an awesome skill - to be able to know what someone is thinking or feeling will save you a lot of grief. You won’t look silly talking to someone who is not interested, you’ll get a better of idea of who is interested and isn’t saying anything.

But we won’t stop there

Because one of the most amazing things that developing your ability to read an individual does is that it enables you to improve. And I saw in the comments, a lot of you were asking what I studied to be able to do the charisma breakdowns - truly there was no class - it was just a matter of doing these steps over and over. And there is a science to it.

So let’s get into

1. Increase self-awareness
2. Find where their attention is (eye contact is huge)
3. Get good at identifying micro-expressions, potentially use this site: http://www.microexpressionstest.com/m...
4. Identify common patterns
5. Make predictions based on people's body language
6. Experiment in your own life

Hope you find that helpful in identifying the body language to read people.

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Daily Tip: What your Body Language says about your Charisma

Tue, 03 Nov 2026 09:33:45 -0000

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How To Make Eye Contact - Bill Clinton Charisma Breakdown

Tue, 03 Nov 2026 09:32:30 -0000

How To Make Eye Contact - Bill Clinton Charisma Breakdown

How to make eye contact - learn from one of the masters... Bill Clinton. The 1992 Presidential debate was a huge turning point in the race and Clinton's superb eye contact is what so endeared him to voters.

When you break down Bill Clinton's charisma it's obvious that there is a lot more going on than eye contact. But by focusing on these 3 simple charismatic tips to improve your eye contact, you'll find that your ability to connect with people immediately jumps. Bill Clinton used it to advance his campaign all the way to the Presidency - so you should be able to use it to make a few friends :-)

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How To Stick To Your New Years Resolutions

Tue, 03 Nov 2026 09:20:00 -0000

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So I made an early resolution that I hope you'll like: more YouTube videos!!

Specifically I am going to create and release a video at least once a week. Let me know in the comments if there is something specifically you'd like me to cover.

Happy 2016 - excited to make these videos a serious priority :-)

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How To Flirt With A Girl Without Being Creepy

Tue, 03 Nov 2026 09:20:00 -0000

How to approach and flirt with women that you like without being creepy.
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The first ever study of creepiness was done just a few weeks ago, and it had a really interesting result that men and women think of creepiness differently. Men think of creepiness as taxidermy, scary movies and clowns. Women have those same associations plus one more... Women also associate creepiness with men.

Somewhere in the course of every mans life while he was flirting he has done something creepy. The reason is that men don't have the same understanding of creepy that women do when flirting.

How to Flirt Time-Stamp Guide:
0:47 The Goldilocks rule of eye contact when flirting and approaching
2:04 Warm Up to social interaction (start making brief eye contact with everyone)
2:44 Add a smile, wave or high five and speak to the women who smile back
3:50 When flirting combine your compliments with jokes to release tension
5:05 1-3 Second touches on the arm are enough to indicate interest without being creepy
6:25 Pay attention to how receptive she is to physical contact and respond accordingly
8:05 Critical Flirting tip avoid making her feel trapped by positioning your own back to the wall

Link to Russell Brand Flirting Breakdown:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0kaR6-MIV8k

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