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    <description>Welcome to BorderlinerNotes, a mental health channel focused - at present - mainly on personality disorders like Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) and Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD).The channel started as a way to make use of extra interview footage from the documentary film we made named BORDERLINE (more info / watch it at mndflds.com/borderlinethefilm). It has grown into a continued effort to offer information that might help people get a proper diagnosis and good treatment, as well as a place where clinicians and those working in the mental health field can learn to be better treaters. The goal is to democratize access to quality information, create positive change in the mental health field, and to do it artfully and with feeling. BorderlinerNotes started as extra footage from the documentary BORDERLINE and became a rare resource in mental health education. The channel films real therapy sessions and consults between licensed clinicians and people diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder and Narcissistic Personality Disorder, then releases debriefs with both therapist and client. Clinicians include DBT specialists and experts in personality disorder treatment. The goal is to give people seeking help a look at what good treatment actually looks like, and to give therapists a model for better care. Follow the show and leave a five-star rating if you find it useful.Links:MNDFLDS Video Shop: https://shop.mndflds.com/productsBorderlinerNotes Info: https://www.mndflds.com/borderlinernotesBORDERLINE the Film: https://www.mndflds.com/borderlinethefilmTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@borderlinernotesInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/borderlinernotes/Linktree: https://linktr.ee/borderlinernotesResources: https://gundersonpdi.mclean.harvard.edu/psychoeducational-resources/</description>
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    <itunes:summary>Welcome to BorderlinerNotes, a mental health channel focused - at present - mainly on personality disorders like Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) and Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD).The channel started as a way to make use of extra interview footage from the documentary film we made named BORDERLINE (more info / watch it at mndflds.com/borderlinethefilm). It has grown into a continued effort to offer information that might help people get a proper diagnosis and good treatment, as well as a place where clinicians and those working in the mental health field can learn to be better treaters. The goal is to democratize access to quality information, create positive change in the mental health field, and to do it artfully and with feeling. BorderlinerNotes started as extra footage from the documentary BORDERLINE and became a rare resource in mental health education. The channel films real therapy sessions and consults between licensed clinicians and people diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder and Narcissistic Personality Disorder, then releases debriefs with both therapist and client. Clinicians include DBT specialists and experts in personality disorder treatment. The goal is to give people seeking help a look at what good treatment actually looks like, and to give therapists a model for better care. Follow the show and leave a five-star rating if you find it useful.Links:MNDFLDS Video Shop: https://shop.mndflds.com/productsBorderlinerNotes Info: https://www.mndflds.com/borderlinernotesBORDERLINE the Film: https://www.mndflds.com/borderlinethefilmTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@borderlinernotesInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/borderlinernotes/Linktree: https://linktr.ee/borderlinernotesResources: https://gundersonpdi.mclean.harvard.edu/psychoeducational-resources/</itunes:summary>
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      <![CDATA[<p>Welcome to BorderlinerNotes, a mental health channel focused - at present - mainly on personality disorders like Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) and Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD).<br><br>The channel started as a way to make use of extra interview footage from the documentary film we made named BORDERLINE (more info / watch it at mndflds.com/borderlinethefilm). It has grown into a continued effort to offer information that might help people get a proper diagnosis and good treatment, as well as a place where clinicians and those working in the mental health field can learn to be better treaters. The goal is to democratize access to quality information, create positive change in the mental health field, and to do it artfully and with feeling. <br><br>BorderlinerNotes started as extra footage from the documentary BORDERLINE and became a rare resource in mental health education. The channel films real therapy sessions and consults between licensed clinicians and people diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder and Narcissistic Personality Disorder, then releases debriefs with both therapist and client. Clinicians include DBT specialists and experts in personality disorder treatment. The goal is to give people seeking help a look at what good treatment actually looks like, and to give therapists a model for better care. Follow the show and leave a five-star rating if you find it useful.<br><br>Links:<br>MNDFLDS Video Shop: <a href="https://shop.mndflds.com/products">https://shop.mndflds.com/products</a><br>BorderlinerNotes Info: <a href="https://www.mndflds.com/borderlinernotes">https://www.mndflds.com/borderlinernotes</a><br>BORDERLINE the Film: <a href="https://www.mndflds.com/borderlinethefilm">https://www.mndflds.com/borderlinethefilm</a><br>TikTok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@borderlinernotes">https://www.tiktok.com/@borderlinernotes</a><br>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/borderlinernotes/">https://www.instagram.com/borderlinernotes/</a><br>Linktree: <a href="https://linktr.ee/borderlinernotes">https://linktr.ee/borderlinernotes</a><br>Resources: <a href="https://gundersonpdi.mclean.harvard.edu/psychoeducational-resources/">https://gundersonpdi.mclean.harvard.edu/psychoeducational-resources/</a></p>]]>
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      <title>LIZZY - Changing Her Perspective on Her Sister (Becoming Allies)</title>
      <description>Lizzy discusses Borderline Personality Disorder from the viewpoint of a sibling who has a sister with the diagnosis.Uploaded 28-06-17For more information about the BORDERLINE film, screening dates, etc. please visit our website at http://borderlinethefilm.comOur archive of videos on BPD is expanding - be sure to subscribe to our channel here: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC0RQwa3uLto4y2R8Eg1hKTg
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      <itunes:summary>Lizzy discusses Borderline Personality Disorder from the viewpoint of a sibling who has a sister with the diagnosis.Uploaded 28-06-17For more information about the BORDERLINE film, screening dates, etc. please visit our website at http://borderlinethefilm.comOur archive of videos on BPD is expanding - be sure to subscribe to our channel here: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC0RQwa3uLto4y2R8Eg1hKTg
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      <title>LIZZY - Extreme Measures: Rebbie's Water Fast (With Special Guest Appearance by Rebbie!)</title>
      <description>Lizzy discusses Borderline Personality Disorder from the viewpoint of a sibling who has a sister with the diagnosis.Uploaded 28-06-17For more information about the BORDERLINE film, screening dates, etc. please visit our website at http://borderlinethefilm.comOur archive of videos on BPD is expanding - be sure to subscribe to our channel here: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC0RQwa3uLto4y2R8Eg1hKTg
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      <itunes:summary>Lizzy discusses Borderline Personality Disorder from the viewpoint of a sibling who has a sister with the diagnosis.Uploaded 28-06-17For more information about the BORDERLINE film, screening dates, etc. please visit our website at http://borderlinethefilm.comOur archive of videos on BPD is expanding - be sure to subscribe to our channel here: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC0RQwa3uLto4y2R8Eg1hKTg
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      <pubDate>Wed, 14 Oct 2026 13:00:00 -0000</pubDate>
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      <title>NPD Therapy in Action | Consult w/ Dr. Igor Weinberg and Jacob (NPD dx)</title>
      <description>The (over 1 hour long) extended split-screen version of this consult is available for Tier 2 channel members and at the shop, along with the other PD Project material: https://shop.mndflds.com/productsUploaded 23-03-26Become a member here: https://www.youtube.com/borderlinernotes/join**This is a consultation/conversation.  The two participants are not in therapy together and there is no patient-doctor relationship.**Psych interview / first meeting between Jacob (dx'd w/ NPD) -- aka Nameless Narcissist -- and expert clinician Dr. Igor Weinberg.  Together they dig into Jacob's narcissism, from early family background to the current persistent fear of humiliation and rejection. Themes include self-disgust, pride in callousness, dependency vs. self-reliance, exploitative patterns, paternal rejection, remaking himself into someone more desirable, controlling emotions, image management, persistent loneliness.0:00 Intro / Pathology as Identity / Pros and Cons of NPD3:55 Pride in Being Callous / Disgust w/ Dependency / Self-Reliance7:52 Exploiting People / Loss of Control / Conquest for Affirmation10:35 Working to Be Unlike His Parents and Less Disgusting14:21 Being Critical of Himself / "Greasy, Fat, Disgusting"16:54 Craving Paternal Approval and Being Rejected20:52 Family Background / Violence and Humiliation23:00 Keeping Emotions in Check / Controlling the Minefield26:52 How He Protects Himself from Humiliation and Vulnerability29:48 Struggling to Relate to Others / Keeping up the "Facade"33:14 Constant Loneliness / Safety in Being Alone35:57 Wanting to Be Understood / Risk of Rejection When People "Really Know" Him41:51 Black and White Thinking About Self and OthersIf you or someone you know is considering self-harm or suicide, it’s okay to ask for help. 24 hour support is provided by https://www.hopeline-nc.org (877.235.4525), https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org (800.273.8255), https://kidshelpphone.ca (800.668.6868).SAMHSA’s National Helpline: If you or someone you know is dealing with substance misuse or mental illness, call 1-800-662-4357 for free, confidential, 24/7, 365-day-a-year treatment referral and information service (in English and Spanish) for individuals and families facing mental and/or substance use disorders.Disclaimer: "Please be advised this video may contain sensitive information. All content found within this publication (VIDEO) is provided for informational purposes only. All cases may differ, and the information provided is a general guide. The content is not intended to be used as a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you have specific questions about a medical condition, you should consult your doctor or other qualified medical professional for assistance or questions you have regarding a medical condition. Studio Comma The, LLC and BorderlinerNotes does not recommend any specific course of medical remedy, physicians, products, opinion, or other information.  Studio Comma The, LLC and BorderlinerNotes expressly disclaims responsibility and shall have no liability whatsoever for any damages, loss, injury, or suffering as a result of reliance on the information in this publication."
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      <pubDate>Wed, 14 Oct 2026 12:05:00 -0000</pubDate>
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      <itunes:summary>The (over 1 hour long) extended split-screen version of this consult is available for Tier 2 channel members and at the shop, along with the other PD Project material: https://shop.mndflds.com/productsUploaded 23-03-26Become a member here: https://www.youtube.com/borderlinernotes/join**This is a consultation/conversation.  The two participants are not in therapy together and there is no patient-doctor relationship.**Psych interview / first meeting between Jacob (dx'd w/ NPD) -- aka Nameless Narcissist -- and expert clinician Dr. Igor Weinberg.  Together they dig into Jacob's narcissism, from early family background to the current persistent fear of humiliation and rejection. Themes include self-disgust, pride in callousness, dependency vs. self-reliance, exploitative patterns, paternal rejection, remaking himself into someone more desirable, controlling emotions, image management, persistent loneliness.0:00 Intro / Pathology as Identity / Pros and Cons of NPD3:55 Pride in Being Callous / Disgust w/ Dependency / Self-Reliance7:52 Exploiting People / Loss of Control / Conquest for Affirmation10:35 Working to Be Unlike His Parents and Less Disgusting14:21 Being Critical of Himself / "Greasy, Fat, Disgusting"16:54 Craving Paternal Approval and Being Rejected20:52 Family Background / Violence and Humiliation23:00 Keeping Emotions in Check / Controlling the Minefield26:52 How He Protects Himself from Humiliation and Vulnerability29:48 Struggling to Relate to Others / Keeping up the "Facade"33:14 Constant Loneliness / Safety in Being Alone35:57 Wanting to Be Understood / Risk of Rejection When People "Really Know" Him41:51 Black and White Thinking About Self and OthersIf you or someone you know is considering self-harm or suicide, it’s okay to ask for help. 24 hour support is provided by https://www.hopeline-nc.org (877.235.4525), https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org (800.273.8255), https://kidshelpphone.ca (800.668.6868).SAMHSA’s National Helpline: If you or someone you know is dealing with substance misuse or mental illness, call 1-800-662-4357 for free, confidential, 24/7, 365-day-a-year treatment referral and information service (in English and Spanish) for individuals and families facing mental and/or substance use disorders.Disclaimer: "Please be advised this video may contain sensitive information. All content found within this publication (VIDEO) is provided for informational purposes only. All cases may differ, and the information provided is a general guide. The content is not intended to be used as a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you have specific questions about a medical condition, you should consult your doctor or other qualified medical professional for assistance or questions you have regarding a medical condition. Studio Comma The, LLC and BorderlinerNotes does not recommend any specific course of medical remedy, physicians, products, opinion, or other information.  Studio Comma The, LLC and BorderlinerNotes expressly disclaims responsibility and shall have no liability whatsoever for any damages, loss, injury, or suffering as a result of reliance on the information in this publication."
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        <![CDATA[<p>The (over 1 hour long) extended split-screen version of this consult is available for Tier 2 channel members and at the shop, along with the other PD Project material: <a href="https://shop.mndflds.com/products">https://shop.mndflds.com/products</a><br><br>Uploaded 23-03-26<br><br>Become a member here: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/borderlinernotes/join">https://www.youtube.com/borderlinernotes/join</a><br><br>**This is a consultation/conversation.  The two participants are not in therapy together and there is no patient-doctor relationship.**<br><br>Psych interview / first meeting between Jacob (dx'd w/ NPD) -- aka Nameless Narcissist -- and expert clinician Dr. Igor Weinberg.  Together they dig into Jacob's narcissism, from early family background to the current persistent fear of humiliation and rejection. Themes include self-disgust, pride in callousness, dependency vs. self-reliance, exploitative patterns, paternal rejection, remaking himself into someone more desirable, controlling emotions, image management, persistent loneliness.<br><br>0:00 Intro / Pathology as Identity / Pros and Cons of NPD<br>3:55 Pride in Being Callous / Disgust w/ Dependency / Self-Reliance<br>7:52 Exploiting People / Loss of Control / Conquest for Affirmation<br>10:35 Working to Be Unlike His Parents and Less Disgusting<br>14:21 Being Critical of Himself / "Greasy, Fat, Disgusting"<br>16:54 Craving Paternal Approval and Being Rejected<br>20:52 Family Background / Violence and Humiliation<br>23:00 Keeping Emotions in Check / Controlling the Minefield<br>26:52 How He Protects Himself from Humiliation and Vulnerability<br>29:48 Struggling to Relate to Others / Keeping up the "Facade"<br>33:14 Constant Loneliness / Safety in Being Alone<br>35:57 Wanting to Be Understood / Risk of Rejection When People "Really Know" Him<br>41:51 Black and White Thinking About Self and Others<br><br>If you or someone you know is considering self-harm or suicide, it’s okay to ask for help. 24 hour support is provided by <a href="https://www.hopeline-nc.org">https://www.hopeline-nc.org</a> (877.235.4525), <a href="https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org">https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org</a> (800.273.8255), <a href="https://kidshelpphone.ca">https://kidshelpphone.ca</a> (800.668.6868).<br><br>SAMHSA’s National Helpline: <br>If you or someone you know is dealing with substance misuse or mental illness, call 1-800-662-4357 for free, confidential, 24/7, 365-day-a-year treatment referral and information service (in English and Spanish) for individuals and families facing mental and/or substance use disorders.<br><br>Disclaimer: "Please be advised this video may contain sensitive information. All content found within this publication (VIDEO) is provided for informational purposes only. All cases may differ, and the information provided is a general guide. The content is not intended to be used as a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you have specific questions about a medical condition, you should consult your doctor or other qualified medical professional for assistance or questions you have regarding a medical condition. Studio Comma The, LLC and BorderlinerNotes does not recommend any specific course of medical remedy, physicians, products, opinion, or other information.  Studio Comma The, LLC and BorderlinerNotes expressly disclaims responsibility and shall have no liability whatsoever for any damages, loss, injury, or suffering as a result of reliance on the information in this publication."</p><p> </p><p>Learn more about your ad choices. Visit <a href="https://megaphone.fm/adchoices">megaphone.fm/adchoices</a></p>]]>
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      <title>What's Underneath "High-Functioning" BPD | Interview w/ Tiffany (BPD dx)</title>
      <description>The 54-minute-long extended split-screen version of this interview w/ Tiffany is available for Tier 2 channel members and at the shop, along with the other PD Project material: https://shop.mndflds.com/productsUploaded 04-05-26Become a member here: https://www.youtube.com/borderlinernotes/joinExtended Split-Screen Version: https://youtu.be/FWgiqp7UWN0Tiffany (dx'd w/ BPD) details how her “high-functioning” exterior covers a history of suicidality, self-harm, and chaotic relationships. She describes the invalidation of clinicians and peers, a seven-year abusive relationship, leapfrogging to new attachments to avoid being alone, and the way feeling unliked can rapidly escalate to suicidal thinking. Throughout, she emphasizes the exhaustion of wanting to be seen and believed as a full person, not just an MD.0:00 Isolation Hides BPD Symptoms / Not Having Friends2:32 “Seven-year relationship” ≠ Wellness; Leapfrog to New Relationship3:49 Always Having to Prove She Has BPD / The Cutting Incident / The Criteria7:14 Not Getting Help / The Belt Attempt / People Don't Want to Believe Her9:42 Suicidality / What Prevents Her From Doing It13:09 What Triggers Suicidality / Invalidating Environments / Feeling Unliked16:18 Losing Relationships / Toxic friendship patterns, passivity, and resentment21:36 Choosing bad relationships to avoid being alone; Self-Respect24:19 Still Having HopeIf you or someone you know is considering self-harm or suicide, it’s okay to ask for help. 24 hour support is provided by https://www.hopeline-nc.org (877.235.4525), https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org (800.273.8255), https://kidshelpphone.ca (800.668.6868).SAMHSA’s National Helpline: If you or someone you know is dealing with substance misuse or mental illness, call 1-800-662-4357 for free, confidential, 24/7, 365-day-a-year treatment referral and information service (in English and Spanish) for individuals and families facing mental and/or substance use disorders.If you are impacted by BPD/personality dysfunction and are looking for a list of Psychoeducation resources, visit: https://gundersonpdi.mclean.harvard.edu/psychoeducational-resources/Disclaimer: "Please be advised this video may contain sensitive information. All content found within this publication (VIDEO) is provided for informational purposes only. All cases may differ, and the information provided is a general guide. The content is not intended to be used as a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you have specific questions about a medical condition, you should consult your doctor or other qualified medical professional for assistance or questions you have regarding a medical condition. Studio Comma The, LLC and BorderlinerNotes does not recommend any specific course of medical remedy, physicians, products, opinion, or other information.  Studio Comma The, LLC and BorderlinerNotes expressly disclaims responsibility and shall have no liability whatsoever for any damages, loss, injury, or suffering as a result of reliance on the information in this publication."
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      <pubDate>Wed, 14 Oct 2026 12:00:00 -0000</pubDate>
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      <itunes:summary>The 54-minute-long extended split-screen version of this interview w/ Tiffany is available for Tier 2 channel members and at the shop, along with the other PD Project material: https://shop.mndflds.com/productsUploaded 04-05-26Become a member here: https://www.youtube.com/borderlinernotes/joinExtended Split-Screen Version: https://youtu.be/FWgiqp7UWN0Tiffany (dx'd w/ BPD) details how her “high-functioning” exterior covers a history of suicidality, self-harm, and chaotic relationships. She describes the invalidation of clinicians and peers, a seven-year abusive relationship, leapfrogging to new attachments to avoid being alone, and the way feeling unliked can rapidly escalate to suicidal thinking. Throughout, she emphasizes the exhaustion of wanting to be seen and believed as a full person, not just an MD.0:00 Isolation Hides BPD Symptoms / Not Having Friends2:32 “Seven-year relationship” ≠ Wellness; Leapfrog to New Relationship3:49 Always Having to Prove She Has BPD / The Cutting Incident / The Criteria7:14 Not Getting Help / The Belt Attempt / People Don't Want to Believe Her9:42 Suicidality / What Prevents Her From Doing It13:09 What Triggers Suicidality / Invalidating Environments / Feeling Unliked16:18 Losing Relationships / Toxic friendship patterns, passivity, and resentment21:36 Choosing bad relationships to avoid being alone; Self-Respect24:19 Still Having HopeIf you or someone you know is considering self-harm or suicide, it’s okay to ask for help. 24 hour support is provided by https://www.hopeline-nc.org (877.235.4525), https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org (800.273.8255), https://kidshelpphone.ca (800.668.6868).SAMHSA’s National Helpline: If you or someone you know is dealing with substance misuse or mental illness, call 1-800-662-4357 for free, confidential, 24/7, 365-day-a-year treatment referral and information service (in English and Spanish) for individuals and families facing mental and/or substance use disorders.If you are impacted by BPD/personality dysfunction and are looking for a list of Psychoeducation resources, visit: https://gundersonpdi.mclean.harvard.edu/psychoeducational-resources/Disclaimer: "Please be advised this video may contain sensitive information. All content found within this publication (VIDEO) is provided for informational purposes only. All cases may differ, and the information provided is a general guide. The content is not intended to be used as a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you have specific questions about a medical condition, you should consult your doctor or other qualified medical professional for assistance or questions you have regarding a medical condition. Studio Comma The, LLC and BorderlinerNotes does not recommend any specific course of medical remedy, physicians, products, opinion, or other information.  Studio Comma The, LLC and BorderlinerNotes expressly disclaims responsibility and shall have no liability whatsoever for any damages, loss, injury, or suffering as a result of reliance on the information in this publication."
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        <![CDATA[<p>The 54-minute-long extended split-screen version of this interview w/ Tiffany is available for Tier 2 channel members and at the shop, along with the other PD Project material: <a href="https://shop.mndflds.com/products">https://shop.mndflds.com/products</a><br><br>Uploaded 04-05-26<br><br>Become a member here: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/borderlinernotes/join">https://www.youtube.com/borderlinernotes/join</a><br>Extended Split-Screen Version: <a href="https://youtu.be/FWgiqp7UWN0">https://youtu.be/FWgiqp7UWN0</a><br><br>Tiffany (dx'd w/ BPD) details how her “high-functioning” exterior covers a history of suicidality, self-harm, and chaotic relationships. She describes the invalidation of clinicians and peers, a seven-year abusive relationship, leapfrogging to new attachments to avoid being alone, and the way feeling unliked can rapidly escalate to suicidal thinking. Throughout, she emphasizes the exhaustion of wanting to be seen and believed as a full person, not just an MD.<br><br>0:00 Isolation Hides BPD Symptoms / Not Having Friends<br>2:32 “Seven-year relationship” ≠ Wellness; Leapfrog to New Relationship<br>3:49 Always Having to Prove She Has BPD / The Cutting Incident / The Criteria<br>7:14 Not Getting Help / The Belt Attempt / People Don't Want to Believe Her<br>9:42 Suicidality / What Prevents Her From Doing It<br>13:09 What Triggers Suicidality / Invalidating Environments / Feeling Unliked<br>16:18 Losing Relationships / Toxic friendship patterns, passivity, and resentment<br>21:36 Choosing bad relationships to avoid being alone; Self-Respect<br>24:19 Still Having Hope<br><br>If you or someone you know is considering self-harm or suicide, it’s okay to ask for help. 24 hour support is provided by <a href="https://www.hopeline-nc.org">https://www.hopeline-nc.org</a> (877.235.4525), <a href="https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org">https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org</a> (800.273.8255), <a href="https://kidshelpphone.ca">https://kidshelpphone.ca</a> (800.668.6868).<br><br>SAMHSA’s National Helpline: <br>If you or someone you know is dealing with substance misuse or mental illness, call 1-800-662-4357 for free, confidential, 24/7, 365-day-a-year treatment referral and information service (in English and Spanish) for individuals and families facing mental and/or substance use disorders.<br><br>If you are impacted by BPD/personality dysfunction and are looking for a list of Psychoeducation resources, visit: <a href="https://gundersonpdi.mclean.harvard.edu/psychoeducational-resources/">https://gundersonpdi.mclean.harvard.edu/psychoeducational-resources/</a><br><br>Disclaimer: "Please be advised this video may contain sensitive information. All content found within this publication (VIDEO) is provided for informational purposes only. All cases may differ, and the information provided is a general guide. The content is not intended to be used as a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you have specific questions about a medical condition, you should consult your doctor or other qualified medical professional for assistance or questions you have regarding a medical condition. Studio Comma The, LLC and BorderlinerNotes does not recommend any specific course of medical remedy, physicians, products, opinion, or other information.  Studio Comma The, LLC and BorderlinerNotes expressly disclaims responsibility and shall have no liability whatsoever for any damages, loss, injury, or suffering as a result of reliance on the information in this publication."</p><p> </p><p>Learn more about your ad choices. Visit <a href="https://megaphone.fm/adchoices">megaphone.fm/adchoices</a></p>]]>
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      <title>Debrief w/ Dr. Igor Weinberg After His Consult w/ Jacob (NPD dx)</title>
      <description>The 10-minute extended split-screen version of this debrief is available for Tier 2 channel members and at the shop, along with the other PD Project material: https://shop.mndflds.com/productsUploaded 13-04-26Become a member here: https://www.youtube.com/borderlinernotes/joinThe session being discussed is here: https://youtu.be/JWd-HZiw80UDr. Igor Weinberg reflects on his session with Jacob (dx'd with NPD), which he found enjoyable and hopeful, focusing on his own strategy of staying curious and being aware of the context of the conversation, and on Jacob's ability to reflect in a new way on polarities he introduced in the session.0:00 Staying Curious About Jacob's Pathology / Sensitive to Context2:26 Enjoying the Conversation / Why It Was Productive and Hopeful4:05 Introducing Curiosity Instead of CertaintyIf you or someone you know is considering self-harm or suicide, it’s okay to ask for help. 24 hour support is provided by https://www.hopeline-nc.org (877.235.4525), https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org (800.273.8255), https://kidshelpphone.ca (800.668.6868).SAMHSA’s National Helpline: If you or someone you know is dealing with substance misuse or mental illness, call 1-800-662-4357 for free, confidential, 24/7, 365-day-a-year treatment referral and information service (in English and Spanish) for individuals and families facing mental and/or substance use disorders.Disclaimer: "Please be advised this video may contain sensitive information. All content found within this publication (VIDEO) is provided for informational purposes only. All cases may differ, and the information provided is a general guide. The content is not intended to be used as a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you have specific questions about a medical condition, you should consult your doctor or other qualified medical professional for assistance or questions you have regarding a medical condition. Studio Comma The, LLC and BorderlinerNotes does not recommend any specific course of medical remedy, physicians, products, opinion, or other information.  Studio Comma The, LLC and BorderlinerNotes expressly disclaims responsibility and shall have no liability whatsoever for any damages, loss, injury, or suffering as a result of reliance on the information in this publication."
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      <pubDate>Wed, 14 Oct 2026 11:00:00 -0000</pubDate>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <itunes:author>BorderlinerNotes</itunes:author>
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      <itunes:summary>The 10-minute extended split-screen version of this debrief is available for Tier 2 channel members and at the shop, along with the other PD Project material: https://shop.mndflds.com/productsUploaded 13-04-26Become a member here: https://www.youtube.com/borderlinernotes/joinThe session being discussed is here: https://youtu.be/JWd-HZiw80UDr. Igor Weinberg reflects on his session with Jacob (dx'd with NPD), which he found enjoyable and hopeful, focusing on his own strategy of staying curious and being aware of the context of the conversation, and on Jacob's ability to reflect in a new way on polarities he introduced in the session.0:00 Staying Curious About Jacob's Pathology / Sensitive to Context2:26 Enjoying the Conversation / Why It Was Productive and Hopeful4:05 Introducing Curiosity Instead of CertaintyIf you or someone you know is considering self-harm or suicide, it’s okay to ask for help. 24 hour support is provided by https://www.hopeline-nc.org (877.235.4525), https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org (800.273.8255), https://kidshelpphone.ca (800.668.6868).SAMHSA’s National Helpline: If you or someone you know is dealing with substance misuse or mental illness, call 1-800-662-4357 for free, confidential, 24/7, 365-day-a-year treatment referral and information service (in English and Spanish) for individuals and families facing mental and/or substance use disorders.Disclaimer: "Please be advised this video may contain sensitive information. All content found within this publication (VIDEO) is provided for informational purposes only. All cases may differ, and the information provided is a general guide. The content is not intended to be used as a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you have specific questions about a medical condition, you should consult your doctor or other qualified medical professional for assistance or questions you have regarding a medical condition. Studio Comma The, LLC and BorderlinerNotes does not recommend any specific course of medical remedy, physicians, products, opinion, or other information.  Studio Comma The, LLC and BorderlinerNotes expressly disclaims responsibility and shall have no liability whatsoever for any damages, loss, injury, or suffering as a result of reliance on the information in this publication."
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        <![CDATA[<p>The 10-minute extended split-screen version of this debrief is available for Tier 2 channel members and at the shop, along with the other PD Project material: <a href="https://shop.mndflds.com/products">https://shop.mndflds.com/products</a><br><br>Uploaded 13-04-26<br><br>Become a member here: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/borderlinernotes/join">https://www.youtube.com/borderlinernotes/join</a><br>The session being discussed is here: <a href="https://youtu.be/JWd-HZiw80U">https://youtu.be/JWd-HZiw80U</a><br><br>Dr. Igor Weinberg reflects on his session with Jacob (dx'd with NPD), which he found enjoyable and hopeful, focusing on his own strategy of staying curious and being aware of the context of the conversation, and on Jacob's ability to reflect in a new way on polarities he introduced in the session.<br><br>0:00 Staying Curious About Jacob's Pathology / Sensitive to Context<br>2:26 Enjoying the Conversation / Why It Was Productive and Hopeful<br>4:05 Introducing Curiosity Instead of Certainty<br><br>If you or someone you know is considering self-harm or suicide, it’s okay to ask for help. 24 hour support is provided by <a href="https://www.hopeline-nc.org">https://www.hopeline-nc.org</a> (877.235.4525), <a href="https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org">https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org</a> (800.273.8255), <a href="https://kidshelpphone.ca">https://kidshelpphone.ca</a> (800.668.6868).<br><br>SAMHSA’s National Helpline: <br>If you or someone you know is dealing with substance misuse or mental illness, call 1-800-662-4357 for free, confidential, 24/7, 365-day-a-year treatment referral and information service (in English and Spanish) for individuals and families facing mental and/or substance use disorders.<br><br>Disclaimer: "Please be advised this video may contain sensitive information. All content found within this publication (VIDEO) is provided for informational purposes only. All cases may differ, and the information provided is a general guide. The content is not intended to be used as a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you have specific questions about a medical condition, you should consult your doctor or other qualified medical professional for assistance or questions you have regarding a medical condition. Studio Comma The, LLC and BorderlinerNotes does not recommend any specific course of medical remedy, physicians, products, opinion, or other information.  Studio Comma The, LLC and BorderlinerNotes expressly disclaims responsibility and shall have no liability whatsoever for any damages, loss, injury, or suffering as a result of reliance on the information in this publication."</p><p> </p><p>Learn more about your ad choices. Visit <a href="https://megaphone.fm/adchoices">megaphone.fm/adchoices</a></p>]]>
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      <title>REGINA - Getting Her Diagnosis</title>
      <description>Watch the documentary film about BPD starring Regina here: http://borderlinethefilm.comUploaded 20-04-17Regina discusses Borderline Personality Disorder from the point of view of someone with the diagnosis.Our archive of videos on BPD is expanding - be sure to subscribe to our channel here: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC0RQwa3uLto4y2R8Eg1hKTg
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      <pubDate>Wed, 14 Oct 2026 10:00:00 -0000</pubDate>
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      <itunes:author>BorderlinerNotes</itunes:author>
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      <itunes:summary>Watch the documentary film about BPD starring Regina here: http://borderlinethefilm.comUploaded 20-04-17Regina discusses Borderline Personality Disorder from the point of view of someone with the diagnosis.Our archive of videos on BPD is expanding - be sure to subscribe to our channel here: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC0RQwa3uLto4y2R8Eg1hKTg
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        <![CDATA[<p>Watch the documentary film about BPD starring Regina here: <a href="http://borderlinethefilm.com">http://borderlinethefilm.com</a><br><br>Uploaded 20-04-17<br><br>Regina discusses Borderline Personality Disorder from the point of view of someone with the diagnosis.<br><br>Our archive of videos on BPD is expanding - be sure to subscribe to our channel here: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC0RQwa3uLto4y2R8Eg1hKTg">https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC0RQwa3uLto4y2R8Eg1hKTg</a></p><p> </p><p>Learn more about your ad choices. Visit <a href="https://megaphone.fm/adchoices">megaphone.fm/adchoices</a></p>]]>
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      <title>BPD/NPD Therapy In Action | DBT Group Consult w/ Dr. Foertsch and Jacob, Tiffany, Tessa</title>
      <description>The extended split-screen version of this group consult is available for Tier 2 channel members: https://youtu.be/17f-oALke4sBecome a member here: https://www.youtube.com/borderlinernotes/joinUploaded 21-09-26**This is a  group consultation/conversation.  The participants are not in therapy together and there is no patient-doctor relationship.**Dialectical Behavior Therapy Introductory Group w/ expert DBT clinician Dr. Christine Foertsch and participants Jacob (NPD dx), Tiffany (BPD dx) and Tessa (NPD dx).  Covers three main components: reviewing homework, practicing mindfulness, and learning about radical acceptance.0:00 Intro and Homework Setup1:21 Tessa's Homework: Mindfulness of Others, Anxiety6:46 Tiffany's Homework: Radical Acceptance and Friendships11:30 Jacob's Homework: Invalidation, Self-Validation and Motivation16:43 Guided Mindfulness Practice: Speaking and Listening21:10 Reflections on Mindfulness Practice25:47 Learning a Skill: Radical Acceptance / What Is It?27:37 Acceptance vs. Fighting Reality34:21 Why Adopt Radical Acceptance?36:53 How -- Steps to Radical AcceptanceDisclaimer: "Please be advised this video may contain sensitive information. All content found within this publication (VIDEO) is provided for informational purposes only. All cases may differ, and the information provided is a general guide. The content is not intended to be used as a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you have specific questions about a medical condition, you should consult your doctor or other qualified medical professional for assistance or questions you have regarding a medical condition. Studio Comma The, LLC and BorderlinerNotes does not recommend any specific course of medical remedy, physicians, products, opinion, or other information.  Studio Comma The, LLC and BorderlinerNotes expressly disclaims responsibility and shall have no liability whatsoever for any damages, loss, injury, or suffering as a result of reliance on the information in this publication."
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      <pubDate>Wed, 14 Oct 2026 09:00:00 -0000</pubDate>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <itunes:author>BorderlinerNotes</itunes:author>
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      <itunes:summary>The extended split-screen version of this group consult is available for Tier 2 channel members: https://youtu.be/17f-oALke4sBecome a member here: https://www.youtube.com/borderlinernotes/joinUploaded 21-09-26**This is a  group consultation/conversation.  The participants are not in therapy together and there is no patient-doctor relationship.**Dialectical Behavior Therapy Introductory Group w/ expert DBT clinician Dr. Christine Foertsch and participants Jacob (NPD dx), Tiffany (BPD dx) and Tessa (NPD dx).  Covers three main components: reviewing homework, practicing mindfulness, and learning about radical acceptance.0:00 Intro and Homework Setup1:21 Tessa's Homework: Mindfulness of Others, Anxiety6:46 Tiffany's Homework: Radical Acceptance and Friendships11:30 Jacob's Homework: Invalidation, Self-Validation and Motivation16:43 Guided Mindfulness Practice: Speaking and Listening21:10 Reflections on Mindfulness Practice25:47 Learning a Skill: Radical Acceptance / What Is It?27:37 Acceptance vs. Fighting Reality34:21 Why Adopt Radical Acceptance?36:53 How -- Steps to Radical AcceptanceDisclaimer: "Please be advised this video may contain sensitive information. All content found within this publication (VIDEO) is provided for informational purposes only. All cases may differ, and the information provided is a general guide. The content is not intended to be used as a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you have specific questions about a medical condition, you should consult your doctor or other qualified medical professional for assistance or questions you have regarding a medical condition. Studio Comma The, LLC and BorderlinerNotes does not recommend any specific course of medical remedy, physicians, products, opinion, or other information.  Studio Comma The, LLC and BorderlinerNotes expressly disclaims responsibility and shall have no liability whatsoever for any damages, loss, injury, or suffering as a result of reliance on the information in this publication."
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        <![CDATA[<p>The extended split-screen version of this group consult is available for Tier 2 channel members: <a href="https://youtu.be/17f-oALke4s">https://youtu.be/17f-oALke4s</a><br>Become a member here: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/borderlinernotes/join">https://www.youtube.com/borderlinernotes/join</a><br><br>Uploaded 21-09-26<br><br>**This is a  group consultation/conversation.  The participants are not in therapy together and there is no patient-doctor relationship.**<br><br>Dialectical Behavior Therapy Introductory Group w/ expert DBT clinician Dr. Christine Foertsch and participants Jacob (NPD dx), Tiffany (BPD dx) and Tessa (NPD dx).  Covers three main components: reviewing homework, practicing mindfulness, and learning about radical acceptance.<br><br>0:00 Intro and Homework Setup<br>1:21 Tessa's Homework: Mindfulness of Others, Anxiety<br>6:46 Tiffany's Homework: Radical Acceptance and Friendships<br>11:30 Jacob's Homework: Invalidation, Self-Validation and Motivation<br>16:43 Guided Mindfulness Practice: Speaking and Listening<br>21:10 Reflections on Mindfulness Practice<br>25:47 Learning a Skill: Radical Acceptance / What Is It?<br>27:37 Acceptance vs. Fighting Reality<br>34:21 Why Adopt Radical Acceptance?<br>36:53 How -- Steps to Radical Acceptance<br><br>Disclaimer: "Please be advised this video may contain sensitive information. All content found within this publication (VIDEO) is provided for informational purposes only. All cases may differ, and the information provided is a general guide. The content is not intended to be used as a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you have specific questions about a medical condition, you should consult your doctor or other qualified medical professional for assistance or questions you have regarding a medical condition. Studio Comma The, LLC and BorderlinerNotes does not recommend any specific course of medical remedy, physicians, products, opinion, or other information.  Studio Comma The, LLC and BorderlinerNotes expressly disclaims responsibility and shall have no liability whatsoever for any damages, loss, injury, or suffering as a result of reliance on the information in this publication."</p><p> </p><p>Learn more about your ad choices. Visit <a href="https://megaphone.fm/adchoices">megaphone.fm/adchoices</a></p>]]>
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      <title>LIZZY - Her Sister's Epic Fight for Recovery</title>
      <description>Lizzy discusses Borderline Personality Disorder from the viewpoint of a sibling who has a sister with the diagnosis.Uploaded 28-06-17For more information about the BORDERLINE film, screening dates, etc. please visit our website at http://borderlinethefilm.comOur archive of videos on BPD is expanding - be sure to subscribe to our channel here: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC0RQwa3uLto4y2R8Eg1hKTg
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      <pubDate>Wed, 14 Oct 2026 08:00:00 -0000</pubDate>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <itunes:author>BorderlinerNotes</itunes:author>
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      <itunes:summary>Lizzy discusses Borderline Personality Disorder from the viewpoint of a sibling who has a sister with the diagnosis.Uploaded 28-06-17For more information about the BORDERLINE film, screening dates, etc. please visit our website at http://borderlinethefilm.comOur archive of videos on BPD is expanding - be sure to subscribe to our channel here: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC0RQwa3uLto4y2R8Eg1hKTg
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        <![CDATA[<p>Lizzy discusses Borderline Personality Disorder from the viewpoint of a sibling who has a sister with the diagnosis.<br><br>Uploaded 28-06-17<br><br>For more information about the BORDERLINE film, screening dates, etc. please visit our website at <a href="http://borderlinethefilm.com">http://borderlinethefilm.com</a><br><br>Our archive of videos on BPD is expanding - be sure to subscribe to our channel here: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC0RQwa3uLto4y2R8Eg1hKTg">https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC0RQwa3uLto4y2R8Eg1hKTg</a></p><p> </p><p>Learn more about your ad choices. Visit <a href="https://megaphone.fm/adchoices">megaphone.fm/adchoices</a></p>]]>
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      <itunes:duration>325</itunes:duration>
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      <title>LIZZY and REBBIE - REFUSE to Do the Interviewer's Exercise</title>
      <description>Lizzy discusses Borderline Personality Disorder from the viewpoint of a sibling who has a sister with the diagnosis.Uploaded 28-06-17For more information about the BORDERLINE film, screening dates, etc. please visit our website at http://borderlinethefilm.comOur archive of videos on BPD is expanding - be sure to subscribe to our channel here: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC0RQwa3uLto4y2R8Eg1hKTg
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      <pubDate>Wed, 14 Oct 2026 07:00:00 -0000</pubDate>
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      <itunes:summary>Lizzy discusses Borderline Personality Disorder from the viewpoint of a sibling who has a sister with the diagnosis.Uploaded 28-06-17For more information about the BORDERLINE film, screening dates, etc. please visit our website at http://borderlinethefilm.comOur archive of videos on BPD is expanding - be sure to subscribe to our channel here: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC0RQwa3uLto4y2R8Eg1hKTg
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      <description>David discusses Borderline Personality Disorder from the viewpoint of someone who has the diagnosis. Uploaded 20-04-17For more information about the BORDERLINE film, screening dates, etc. please visit our website at http://borderlinethefilm.comOur archive of videos on BPD is expanding - be sure to subscribe to our channel here: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC0RQwa3uLto4y2R8Eg1hKTg
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      <pubDate>Wed, 14 Oct 2026 06:05:00 -0000</pubDate>
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      <itunes:summary>David discusses Borderline Personality Disorder from the viewpoint of someone who has the diagnosis. Uploaded 20-04-17For more information about the BORDERLINE film, screening dates, etc. please visit our website at http://borderlinethefilm.comOur archive of videos on BPD is expanding - be sure to subscribe to our channel here: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC0RQwa3uLto4y2R8Eg1hKTg
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      <itunes:summary>Lizzy discusses Borderline Personality Disorder from the viewpoint of a sibling who has a sister with the diagnosis.Uploaded 28-06-17For more information about the BORDERLINE film, screening dates, etc. please visit our website at http://borderlinethefilm.comOur archive of videos on BPD is expanding - be sure to subscribe to our channel here: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC0RQwa3uLto4y2R8Eg1hKTg
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      <pubDate>Wed, 14 Oct 2026 05:00:00 -0000</pubDate>
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      <description>David discusses Borderline Personality Disorder from the viewpoint of someone who has the diagnosis. Uploaded 20-04-17For more information about the BORDERLINE film, screening dates, etc. please visit our website at http://borderlinethefilm.comOur archive of videos on BPD is expanding - be sure to subscribe to our channel here: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC0RQwa3uLto4y2R8Eg1hKTg
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      <pubDate>Wed, 14 Oct 2026 04:00:00 -0000</pubDate>
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      <itunes:summary>David discusses Borderline Personality Disorder from the viewpoint of someone who has the diagnosis. Uploaded 20-04-17For more information about the BORDERLINE film, screening dates, etc. please visit our website at http://borderlinethefilm.comOur archive of videos on BPD is expanding - be sure to subscribe to our channel here: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC0RQwa3uLto4y2R8Eg1hKTg
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      <title>BRUCE - Trying to Be a Parent  Interpretations and Signifiers</title>
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      <pubDate>Wed, 14 Oct 2026 03:00:00 -0000</pubDate>
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      <itunes:summary>Bruce discusses Borderline Personality Disorder from the viewpoint of a father who has a daughter with the BPD diagnosis. Uploaded 13-06-17For more information about the BORDERLINE film, screening dates, etc. please visit our website at http://borderlinethefilm.comOur archive of videos on BPD is expanding - be sure to subscribe to our channel here: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC0RQwa3uLto4y2R8Eg1hKTg
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      <title>BPD Therapy in Action | Consult w/ Dr. Karen Jacob and Tiffany (BPD dx)</title>
      <description>The (51-minute-long) extended split-screen version of this conversation is available for Tier 2 channel members and at the shop, along with the other PD Project material: https://shop.mndflds.com/productsUploaded 18-05-26Become a member here: https://www.youtube.com/borderlinernotes/join**This is a consultation/conversation.  The two participants are not in therapy together and there is no patient-doctor relationship.**Psych interview / first meeting between Tiffany (dx'd w/ BPD) and expert clinician Dr. Karen Jacob.  Main themes include people-pleasing and loneliness, fear of judgment, a sense of badness, invalidation, the mismatch between a "high-functioning" exterior and persistent internal suffering, and the inability to let yourself be known and loved by yourself and others.0:00 Intro / Setup / How This Can Be Most Helpful2:49 Background Story: Not Fitting In / Toxic Relationships / Not Having Friends / No Sense of Self / Other-Focus / Getting BPD Diagnosis10:28 Being Seen as "High-functioning" vs Feeling Persistent Distress15:48 Feeling Judged / Fighting for Self-Worth20:08 People-pleasing and Not Having Friends / Loneliness24:00 Feeling Something is "Inherently Wrong" With Me26:46 "High-Functioning" Outside Doesn't Match Internal Feeling30:15 Self-Judgment / Hiding Yourself Makes Real Love Impossible32:52 Suicidality, Feeling of Badness, Wrapping UpDr. Jacob’s book “The Feelings Toolbox” is available at https://no-quam.com/The Suicide and Crisis Lifeline: 988For resources about BPD: https://gundersonpdi.mclean.harvard.edu/psychoeducational-resources/If you or someone you know is considering self-harm or suicide, it’s okay to ask for help. 24 hour support is provided by https://www.hopeline-nc.org (877.235.4525), https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org (800.273.8255), https://kidshelpphone.ca (800.668.6868).SAMHSA’s National Helpline: If you or someone you know is dealing with substance misuse or mental illness, call 1-800-662-4357 for free, confidential, 24/7, 365-day-a-year treatment referral and information service (in English and Spanish) for individuals and families facing mental and/or substance use disorders.Disclaimer: "Please be advised this video may contain sensitive information. All content found within this publication (VIDEO) is provided for informational purposes only. All cases may differ, and the information provided is a general guide. The content is not intended to be used as a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you have specific questions about a medical condition, you should consult your doctor or other qualified medical professional for assistance or questions you have regarding a medical condition. Studio Comma The, LLC and BorderlinerNotes does not recommend any specific course of medical remedy, physicians, products, opinion, or other information.  Studio Comma The, LLC and BorderlinerNotes expressly disclaims responsibility and shall have no liability whatsoever for any damages, loss, injury, or suffering as a result of reliance on the information in this publication."
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      <itunes:summary>The (51-minute-long) extended split-screen version of this conversation is available for Tier 2 channel members and at the shop, along with the other PD Project material: https://shop.mndflds.com/productsUploaded 18-05-26Become a member here: https://www.youtube.com/borderlinernotes/join**This is a consultation/conversation.  The two participants are not in therapy together and there is no patient-doctor relationship.**Psych interview / first meeting between Tiffany (dx'd w/ BPD) and expert clinician Dr. Karen Jacob.  Main themes include people-pleasing and loneliness, fear of judgment, a sense of badness, invalidation, the mismatch between a "high-functioning" exterior and persistent internal suffering, and the inability to let yourself be known and loved by yourself and others.0:00 Intro / Setup / How This Can Be Most Helpful2:49 Background Story: Not Fitting In / Toxic Relationships / Not Having Friends / No Sense of Self / Other-Focus / Getting BPD Diagnosis10:28 Being Seen as "High-functioning" vs Feeling Persistent Distress15:48 Feeling Judged / Fighting for Self-Worth20:08 People-pleasing and Not Having Friends / Loneliness24:00 Feeling Something is "Inherently Wrong" With Me26:46 "High-Functioning" Outside Doesn't Match Internal Feeling30:15 Self-Judgment / Hiding Yourself Makes Real Love Impossible32:52 Suicidality, Feeling of Badness, Wrapping UpDr. Jacob’s book “The Feelings Toolbox” is available at https://no-quam.com/The Suicide and Crisis Lifeline: 988For resources about BPD: https://gundersonpdi.mclean.harvard.edu/psychoeducational-resources/If you or someone you know is considering self-harm or suicide, it’s okay to ask for help. 24 hour support is provided by https://www.hopeline-nc.org (877.235.4525), https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org (800.273.8255), https://kidshelpphone.ca (800.668.6868).SAMHSA’s National Helpline: If you or someone you know is dealing with substance misuse or mental illness, call 1-800-662-4357 for free, confidential, 24/7, 365-day-a-year treatment referral and information service (in English and Spanish) for individuals and families facing mental and/or substance use disorders.Disclaimer: "Please be advised this video may contain sensitive information. All content found within this publication (VIDEO) is provided for informational purposes only. All cases may differ, and the information provided is a general guide. The content is not intended to be used as a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you have specific questions about a medical condition, you should consult your doctor or other qualified medical professional for assistance or questions you have regarding a medical condition. Studio Comma The, LLC and BorderlinerNotes does not recommend any specific course of medical remedy, physicians, products, opinion, or other information.  Studio Comma The, LLC and BorderlinerNotes expressly disclaims responsibility and shall have no liability whatsoever for any damages, loss, injury, or suffering as a result of reliance on the information in this publication."
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      <itunes:summary>The (2hr 8min long) full interview w/ Dr. Jacob (which includes this topic as well as teaching emotion regulation) is available for Tier 2 channel members.Become a member here: https://www.youtube.com/borderlinernotes/joinUploaded 08-06-26Dr. Karen Jacob discusses Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) and Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) as a clinical psychologist who runs The Gunderson Residence, a residential treatment program for personality disorders.  How to diagnose NPD, why narcissism is on the rise, possible treatments (MBT/TFP).Dr. Jacob’s book “The Feelings Toolbox” is available at https://no-quam.com/00:00 Tease / Intro02:20 The Continuum of Personality Disorders / Overlapping ASPD, Malignant Narcissism, Narcissism, BPD / Social Media Influence / Missed Diagnosis08:58 Diagnosing NPD / Self-worth / External Factors / Standards / NPD Causes / Severity and Impairment16:57 NPD vs BPD / How Do They Feel Different To The Therapist? / Not Feeling Loveable24:39 Bringing Your True Self To The Therapy (as a Therapist) / Do You Need to Like or Love Who You're Treating?29:07 What's The Most Important Factor For Improvement?32:27 Self-Assessment and Getting Help / TFP vs MBT / PDs Are Not a Death SentenceThe Suicide and Crisis Lifeline: 988For resources about BPD: https://gundersonpdi.mclean.harvard.edu/psychoeducational-resources/If you or someone you know is considering self-harm or suicide, it’s okay to ask for help. 24 hour support is provided by https://www.hopeline-nc.org (877.235.4525), https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org (800.273.8255), https://kidshelpphone.ca (800.668.6868).SAMHSA’s National Helpline: If you or someone you know is dealing with substance misuse or mental illness, call 1-800-662-4357 for free, confidential, 24/7, 365-day-a-year treatment referral and information service (in English and Spanish) for individuals and families facing mental and/or substance use disorders.Disclaimer: "Please be advised this video may contain sensitive information. All content found within this publication (VIDEO) is provided for informational purposes only. All cases may differ, and the information provided is a general guide. The content is not intended to be used as a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you have specific questions about a medical condition, you should consult your doctor or other qualified medical professional for assistance or questions you have regarding a medical condition. Studio Comma The, LLC and BorderlinerNotes does not recommend any specific course of medical remedy, physicians, products, opinion, or other information.  Studio Comma The, LLC and BorderlinerNotes expressly disclaims responsibility and shall have no liability whatsoever for any damages, loss, injury, or suffering as a result of reliance on the information in this publication."
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      <itunes:summary>Liz discusses Borderline Personality Disorder from the viewpoint of a daughter who has a mother with the diagnosis. Uploaded 27-06-17For more information about the BORDERLINE film, screening dates, etc. please visit our website at http://borderlinethefilm.comOur archive of videos on BPD is expanding - be sure to subscribe to our channel here: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC0RQwa3uLto4y2R8Eg1hKTg
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      <itunes:summary>The 28-minute extended split-screen version of this conversation is available for Tier 2 channel members: https://youtu.be/LGmIKY5hHrcBecome a member here: https://www.youtube.com/borderlinernotes/joinThe consult being discussed is here: https://youtu.be/ZyBvkq50pXcUploaded 31-08-26Jacob debriefs his session with Dr. Ruth Lewis, commenting on her empathic approach, his difficulty accepting positive comments about his character, and the feelings of altruism he has experienced since starting his social media presence.0:00 Caught Off Guard by Dr. Lewis's Empathic Approach0:49 External Features vs. Character Affirmations4:14 Selfishness vs. Altruism / Craving AttentionDisclaimer: "Please be advised this video may contain sensitive information. All content found within this publication (VIDEO) is provided for informational purposes only. All cases may differ, and the information provided is a general guide. The content is not intended to be used as a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you have specific questions about a medical condition, you should consult your doctor or other qualified medical professional for assistance or questions you have regarding a medical condition. Studio Comma The, LLC and BorderlinerNotes does not recommend any specific course of medical remedy, physicians, products, opinion, or other information.  Studio Comma The, LLC and BorderlinerNotes expressly disclaims responsibility and shall have no liability whatsoever for any damages, loss, injury, or suffering as a result of reliance on the information in this publication."
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      <title>Debrief w/ Tessa After Her Consult w/ Dr. Igor Weinberg</title>
      <description>The 17-minute extended split-screen version of this debrief is available for Tier 2 channel members and at the shop, along with the other PD Project material: https://shop.mndflds.com/productsUploaded 27-07-26Become a member here: https://www.youtube.com/borderlinernotes/joinThe session being discussed is here: https://youtu.be/rVNmGthqbmUTessa (dx'd w/ NPD) debriefs her intro session with Dr. Igor Weinberg, feeling very positively about his lack of judgment, the way the session flowed, feeling listened to, and gaining a new image of breaking out of the prison of her struggles.0:00 Therapists as Guides / Feeling Listened to / Igor's Understanding2:11 Letting Go of Wanting to Impress / Igor's Non-judgment3:04 The Question of "Her" Celebrity Being Flawed4:08 What She'll Take Away From The Session / Breaking Free5:55 Reconnecting with Her ParentsDisclaimer: "Please be advised this video may contain sensitive information. All content found within this publication (VIDEO) is provided for informational purposes only. All cases may differ, and the information provided is a general guide. The content is not intended to be used as a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you have specific questions about a medical condition, you should consult your doctor or other qualified medical professional for assistance or questions you have regarding a medical condition. Studio Comma The, LLC and BorderlinerNotes does not recommend any specific course of medical remedy, physicians, products, opinion, or other information.  Studio Comma The, LLC and BorderlinerNotes expressly disclaims responsibility and shall have no liability whatsoever for any damages, loss, injury, or suffering as a result of reliance on the information in this publication."
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      <itunes:summary>The 17-minute extended split-screen version of this debrief is available for Tier 2 channel members and at the shop, along with the other PD Project material: https://shop.mndflds.com/productsUploaded 27-07-26Become a member here: https://www.youtube.com/borderlinernotes/joinThe session being discussed is here: https://youtu.be/rVNmGthqbmUTessa (dx'd w/ NPD) debriefs her intro session with Dr. Igor Weinberg, feeling very positively about his lack of judgment, the way the session flowed, feeling listened to, and gaining a new image of breaking out of the prison of her struggles.0:00 Therapists as Guides / Feeling Listened to / Igor's Understanding2:11 Letting Go of Wanting to Impress / Igor's Non-judgment3:04 The Question of "Her" Celebrity Being Flawed4:08 What She'll Take Away From The Session / Breaking Free5:55 Reconnecting with Her ParentsDisclaimer: "Please be advised this video may contain sensitive information. All content found within this publication (VIDEO) is provided for informational purposes only. All cases may differ, and the information provided is a general guide. The content is not intended to be used as a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you have specific questions about a medical condition, you should consult your doctor or other qualified medical professional for assistance or questions you have regarding a medical condition. Studio Comma The, LLC and BorderlinerNotes does not recommend any specific course of medical remedy, physicians, products, opinion, or other information.  Studio Comma The, LLC and BorderlinerNotes expressly disclaims responsibility and shall have no liability whatsoever for any damages, loss, injury, or suffering as a result of reliance on the information in this publication."
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        <![CDATA[<p>The 17-minute extended split-screen version of this debrief is available for Tier 2 channel members and at the shop, along with the other PD Project material: <a href="https://shop.mndflds.com/products">https://shop.mndflds.com/products</a><br><br>Uploaded 27-07-26<br><br>Become a member here: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/borderlinernotes/join">https://www.youtube.com/borderlinernotes/join</a><br>The session being discussed is here: <a href="https://youtu.be/rVNmGthqbmU">https://youtu.be/rVNmGthqbmU</a><br><br>Tessa (dx'd w/ NPD) debriefs her intro session with Dr. Igor Weinberg, feeling very positively about his lack of judgment, the way the session flowed, feeling listened to, and gaining a new image of breaking out of the prison of her struggles.<br><br>0:00 Therapists as Guides / Feeling Listened to / Igor's Understanding<br>2:11 Letting Go of Wanting to Impress / Igor's Non-judgment<br>3:04 The Question of "Her" Celebrity Being Flawed<br>4:08 What She'll Take Away From The Session / Breaking Free<br>5:55 Reconnecting with Her Parents<br><br>Disclaimer: "Please be advised this video may contain sensitive information. All content found within this publication (VIDEO) is provided for informational purposes only. All cases may differ, and the information provided is a general guide. The content is not intended to be used as a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you have specific questions about a medical condition, you should consult your doctor or other qualified medical professional for assistance or questions you have regarding a medical condition. Studio Comma The, LLC and BorderlinerNotes does not recommend any specific course of medical remedy, physicians, products, opinion, or other information.  Studio Comma The, LLC and BorderlinerNotes expressly disclaims responsibility and shall have no liability whatsoever for any damages, loss, injury, or suffering as a result of reliance on the information in this publication."</p><p> </p><p>Learn more about your ad choices. Visit <a href="https://megaphone.fm/adchoices">megaphone.fm/adchoices</a></p>]]>
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      <itunes:summary>Watch the documentary film about BPD starring Regina here: http://borderlinethefilm.comUploaded 20-04-17Regina discusses Borderline Personality Disorder from the point of view of someone with the diagnosis.Our archive of videos on BPD is expanding - be sure to subscribe to our channel here: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC0RQwa3uLto4y2R8Eg1hKTg
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      <pubDate>Mon, 12 Oct 2026 07:00:00 -0000</pubDate>
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      <itunes:summary>Julie discusses Borderline Personality Disorder from the viewpoint of a mother who has a daughter with the BPD diagnosis. Uploaded 08-06-17For more information about the BORDERLINE film, screening dates, etc. please visit our website at http://borderlinethefilm.comOur archive of videos on BPD is expanding - be sure to subscribe to our channel here: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC0RQwa3uLto4y2R8Eg1hKTg
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      <itunes:summary>David discusses Borderline Personality Disorder from the viewpoint of someone who has the diagnosis. Uploaded 20-04-17For more information about the BORDERLINE film, screening dates, etc. please visit our website at http://borderlinethefilm.comOur archive of videos on BPD is expanding - be sure to subscribe to our channel here: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC0RQwa3uLto4y2R8Eg1hKTg
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      <itunes:summary>Barbara discusses Borderline Personality Disorder from the viewpoint of someone who has the diagnosis. Uploaded 19-05-17For more information about the BORDERLINE film, screening dates, etc. please visit our website at http://borderlinethefilm.comOur archive of videos on BPD is expanding - be sure to subscribe to our channel here: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC0RQwa3uLto4y2R8Eg1hKTg
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      <description>Substance abuse is common in the BPD population.  The substance here is codeine.Uploaded 23-05-17Taharah discusses Borderline Personality Disorder from the viewpoint of someone who has the diagnosis. For more information about the BORDERLINE film, screening dates, etc. please visit our website at http://borderlinethefilm.comOur archive of videos on BPD is expanding - be sure to subscribe to our channel here: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC0RQwa3uLto4y2R8Eg1hKTg
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      <itunes:summary>Substance abuse is common in the BPD population.  The substance here is codeine.Uploaded 23-05-17Taharah discusses Borderline Personality Disorder from the viewpoint of someone who has the diagnosis. For more information about the BORDERLINE film, screening dates, etc. please visit our website at http://borderlinethefilm.comOur archive of videos on BPD is expanding - be sure to subscribe to our channel here: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC0RQwa3uLto4y2R8Eg1hKTg
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        <![CDATA[<p>Substance abuse is common in the BPD population.  The substance here is codeine.<br><br>Uploaded 23-05-17<br><br>Taharah discusses Borderline Personality Disorder from the viewpoint of someone who has the diagnosis. <br><br>For more information about the BORDERLINE film, screening dates, etc. please visit our website at <a href="http://borderlinethefilm.com">http://borderlinethefilm.com</a><br><br>Our archive of videos on BPD is expanding - be sure to subscribe to our channel here: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC0RQwa3uLto4y2R8Eg1hKTg">https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC0RQwa3uLto4y2R8Eg1hKTg</a></p><p> </p><p>Learn more about your ad choices. Visit <a href="https://megaphone.fm/adchoices">megaphone.fm/adchoices</a></p>]]>
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      <itunes:summary>Liz discusses Borderline Personality Disorder from the viewpoint of a daughter who has a mother with the diagnosis. Uploaded 28-06-17For more information about the BORDERLINE film, screening dates, etc. please visit our website at http://borderlinethefilm.comOur archive of videos on BPD is expanding - be sure to subscribe to our channel here: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC0RQwa3uLto4y2R8Eg1hKTg
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      <description>The 17-minute extended split-screen version of this debrief is available for Tier 2 channel members and at the shop, along with the other PD Project material: https://shop.mndflds.com/productsUploaded 13-04-26Become a member here: https://www.youtube.com/borderlinernotes/joinThe session being discussed is here: https://youtu.be/JWd-HZiw80UJacob reflects on his session with Dr. Igor Weinberg, focusing on how he didn't need to lead Igor to conclusions about his narcissism or employ other strategies he usually uses in therapy sessions to avoid being invalidated or "manipulated" by the clinician.0:00 Balancing Motivations / Impression-Management1:19 Needing to Lead the Clinician to Conclusions3:42 The Fencing Match of Therapy / Laughing Off Emotions4:46 The Main Takeaway: Some Clinicians Are CompetentIf you or someone you know is considering self-harm or suicide, it’s okay to ask for help. 24 hour support is provided by https://www.hopeline-nc.org (877.235.4525), https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org (800.273.8255), https://kidshelpphone.ca (800.668.6868).SAMHSA’s National Helpline: If you or someone you know is dealing with substance misuse or mental illness, call 1-800-662-4357 for free, confidential, 24/7, 365-day-a-year treatment referral and information service (in English and Spanish) for individuals and families facing mental and/or substance use disorders.Disclaimer: "Please be advised this video may contain sensitive information. All content found within this publication (VIDEO) is provided for informational purposes only. All cases may differ, and the information provided is a general guide. The content is not intended to be used as a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you have specific questions about a medical condition, you should consult your doctor or other qualified medical professional for assistance or questions you have regarding a medical condition. Studio Comma The, LLC and BorderlinerNotes does not recommend any specific course of medical remedy, physicians, products, opinion, or other information.  Studio Comma The, LLC and BorderlinerNotes expressly disclaims responsibility and shall have no liability whatsoever for any damages, loss, injury, or suffering as a result of reliance on the information in this publication."
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      <itunes:summary>The 17-minute extended split-screen version of this debrief is available for Tier 2 channel members and at the shop, along with the other PD Project material: https://shop.mndflds.com/productsUploaded 13-04-26Become a member here: https://www.youtube.com/borderlinernotes/joinThe session being discussed is here: https://youtu.be/JWd-HZiw80UJacob reflects on his session with Dr. Igor Weinberg, focusing on how he didn't need to lead Igor to conclusions about his narcissism or employ other strategies he usually uses in therapy sessions to avoid being invalidated or "manipulated" by the clinician.0:00 Balancing Motivations / Impression-Management1:19 Needing to Lead the Clinician to Conclusions3:42 The Fencing Match of Therapy / Laughing Off Emotions4:46 The Main Takeaway: Some Clinicians Are CompetentIf you or someone you know is considering self-harm or suicide, it’s okay to ask for help. 24 hour support is provided by https://www.hopeline-nc.org (877.235.4525), https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org (800.273.8255), https://kidshelpphone.ca (800.668.6868).SAMHSA’s National Helpline: If you or someone you know is dealing with substance misuse or mental illness, call 1-800-662-4357 for free, confidential, 24/7, 365-day-a-year treatment referral and information service (in English and Spanish) for individuals and families facing mental and/or substance use disorders.Disclaimer: "Please be advised this video may contain sensitive information. All content found within this publication (VIDEO) is provided for informational purposes only. All cases may differ, and the information provided is a general guide. The content is not intended to be used as a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you have specific questions about a medical condition, you should consult your doctor or other qualified medical professional for assistance or questions you have regarding a medical condition. Studio Comma The, LLC and BorderlinerNotes does not recommend any specific course of medical remedy, physicians, products, opinion, or other information.  Studio Comma The, LLC and BorderlinerNotes expressly disclaims responsibility and shall have no liability whatsoever for any damages, loss, injury, or suffering as a result of reliance on the information in this publication."
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