Big things are coming. A new brand. A bigger mission. And even more ways to help you flip the box in your own life.

So stay tuned.

If you’re feeling called to go deeper, I’d love to work with you. You can find everything at ShariLeid.com.

And if retreat has been on your heart… this is your moment.
We only have 8 private rooms… and 3 are already gone, and we haven’t even started advertising yet.

So if you’re thinking about it… don’t wait.

And if you’re looking for a speaker who will truly move your audience from disconnection to real connection… let’s talk.

Season 3 -- launches at the end of June .... get ready for a few announcement with exclusive offers leading up to our big launch! New production team and new cover -- ready, set, go!

#flipthebox #connectionexpert #retreatsforwomen

In this episode of An Imperfectly Perfect Life with Shari Leid, I sit down with Janice Burt to explore a powerful reframe: fear is not the enemy. It is information. It is direction. And when you learn how to work with it, it becomes one of your greatest advantages.

We begin with a question that makes you pause:
If today were your last day, would you be doing what you are doing right now?

From there, this conversation opens up what fear really means in your life, your relationships, your career, and your next chapter. Instead of avoiding it, what if you learned how to use fear as a tool for clarity, confidence, and forward movement?

If you have ever felt stuck, uncertain, or held back, this episode will help you shift how you see fear and how you move through it.

In this episode, we discuss:

• How to turn fear into an advantage in life and business
• Why fear often signals growth, not danger
• The role fear plays in leadership and decision making
• How to move forward even when you feel uncertain
• A simple mindset shift that changes how you take action

This is not about eliminating fear.
It is about learning how to move with it.

Because the people who learn to use fear are the ones who create what others only think about.

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#OvercomingFear #PersonalGrowth #MindsetShift #WomenInBusiness #PodcastLife

In this episode of An Imperfectly Perfect Life, Shari Leid talks with Lisa Johnson, co-founder of Been There. Got Out. Lisa spent years navigating a high-conflict divorce, representing herself against her former, much wealthier, spouse - through the chaos of a complex legal system, Lisa now works with clients around the world who are dealing with toxic relationships, legal abuse, and exhausting custody disputes.

This conversation explores what legal abuse looks like, why leaving doesn’t always bring relief, and how people can regain clarity, confidence, and agency when systems feel overwhelming and unfair. It’s an honest, validating discussion for anyone rebuilding their life after divorce, emotional trauma, or long-term conflict.

If you’ve ever wondered why getting out didn’t mean it was over, this episode will help you understand why - and what comes next.

For more information and to contact Lisa, visit her website www.beentheregotout.com

Grab my free 52 Weeks of Connection email series—one weekly challenge to help you feel more connected and build real friendships as an adult. It’s free, simple, and you can unsubscribe anytime. Sign up at:⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://zc.vg/ZDPo2⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠

And if you’re ready to go even deeper,  learn more about my Flip the Box® Women's Retreat  at⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠https://animperfectlyperfectlife.com/retreat⁠ ⁠⁠⁠

To purchase my latest book, Table For 51, visit: ⁠⁠https://a.co/d/09g7OpMd

Let’s dive in—reinvention, real talk, and a whole lot of laughter start NOW!

#retreatsforwomen #womensretreat #LifeAfterDivorce
#HighConflictDivorce
#ToxicRelationships
#LegalAbuse
#StartingOver

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And if you’re ready to go even deeper,  learn more about my Flip the Box® Women's Retreat  at⁠⁠ ⁠⁠https://animperfectlyperfectlife.com/retreat⁠ ⁠⁠

To purchase my latest book, Table For 51, visit: ⁠https://a.co/d/3vUc9SB⁠

Let’s dive in—reinvention, real talk, and a whole lot of laughter start NOW!

#retreatsforwomen #meditationteacher #meditationpractice #flipthebox #midlifegrowth #selfhelppodcast

In this episode of An Imperfectly Perfect Life, host Shari Leid sits down with Anne Bonney, keynote speaker and leadership consultant, for an honest conversation about fear, growth, and what it really takes to create an incredible year ahead.

Together, they explore how to recognize the difference between being stuck and being scared—and why fear is often a sign you’re standing at the edge of growth. Anne shares practical insights on how to bloom where you’re planted, even when life doesn’t look the way you expected it to.

This episode invites listeners to reflect on the year behind them with curiosity instead of judgment, let go of what no longer serves them, and intentionally prepare for the year ahead—not through rigid resolutions, but through clarity, courage, and alignment.

If you’re navigating change, reinvention, leadership challenges, or personal growth, this conversation offers grounded wisdom, real talk, and actionable perspective to help you move forward with confidence.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• How to tell if you’re stuck or operating from fear

• Why fear isn’t a stop sign—but a signal

• What it means to bloom where you’re planted

• How to reflect on the past year without regret

• How to prepare for an incredible year ahead with intention

Perfect for listeners interested in personal growth, leadership development, mindset shifts, and meaningful life transitions.

Grab my free 52 Weeks of Connection email series—one weekly challenge to help you feel more connected and build real friendships as an adult. It’s free, simple, and you can unsubscribe anytime. Sign up at: ⁠⁠⁠https://zc.vg/ZDPo2⁠⁠ ⁠

And if you’re ready to go even deeper,  learn more about my Flip the Box® Women's Retreat  at⁠ ⁠⁠https://animperfectlyperfectlife.com/retreat⁠ ⁠

To purchase my latest book, Table For 51, visit: https://a.co/d/3vUc9SB

Let’s dive in—reinvention, real talk, and a whole lot of laughter start NOW!

#PersonalGrowth
#FearAndGrowth
#FeelingStuck
#LifeTransitions
#MindsetShift
#IntentionalLiving
#SelfLeadership

In this episode, I’m talking about creating a container for 2026 — the emotional, energetic, and practical structure that holds your life so growth can happen without burnout or force.

A container isn’t about goals or resolutions. It’s about the environment you’re living inside. The boundaries you set. The rhythms you keep. The support you allow. When the container is strong, clarity and momentum follow naturally.

I share how I’m thinking about my own container for 2026, why support matters more than willpower, and how designing the right structure can change how you show up in your work, relationships, and leadership.

If you’re entering a new season and want it to feel grounded, intentional, and sustainable, this episode will help you rethink what it means to hold your life well.

Grab my free 52 Weeks of Connection email series—one weekly challenge to help you feel more connected and build real friendships as an adult. It’s free, simple, and you can unsubscribe anytime. Sign up at: ⁠⁠https://zc.vg/ZDPo2⁠⁠

And if you’re ready to go even deeper,  learn more about my Flip the Box® Women's Retreat  at ⁠⁠https://animperfectlyperfectlife.com/retreat⁠

To purchase my latest book, Table For 51, visit: ⁠⁠https://a.co/d/cL7uYIy⁠⁠

Let’s dive in—reinvention, real talk, and a whole lot of laughter start NOW!

#IntentionalLiving #CreatingAContainer #2026Planning #PersonalGrowthPodcast #MidlifeReinvention #FlipTheBox #womensretreat

In this end-of-year episode of An Imperfectly Perfect Life, I reflect on 2025 as a deliberate rebuilding year and share the top three lessons that shaped how I think about love, work, money, and self-trust. I also offer simple, practical tools—questions, mantras, and reflections—you can use to step into the new year with clarity and confidence.

Most of all, I share my excitement about what’s next.

My wish for 2026 is simple: to enter this next year together, with intention—moving from a year of rebuilding into a year of implementation.

If you’re ready to stop preparing and start living what you’ve learned, this episode is for you.

Grab my free 52 Weeks of Connection email series—one weekly challenge to help you feel more connected and build real friendships as an adult. It’s free, simple, and you can unsubscribe anytime. Sign up at: ⁠⁠https://zc.vg/ZDPo2⁠⁠

And if you’re ready to go even deeper,  learn more about my Flip the Box® Women's Retreat  at ⁠⁠https://animperfectlyperfectlife.com/retreat⁠

To purchase my latest book, Table For 51, visit: ⁠⁠https://a.co/d/cL7uYIy⁠⁠

Let’s dive in—reinvention, real talk, and a whole lot of laughter start NOW!

#EndOfYearReflection #LifeRebuilding #IntentionalLiving #PersonalGrowth #Reinvention #ImplementationYear #FlipTheBox #MidlifeGrowth #WomenRebuilding #PodcastReflection #NewYearIntentions #ChooseYourLife

Lisa shares how aligning your finances with your values can turn vague dreams into realistic plans, without fear, pressure, or perfection. We talk about why clarity matters more than complexity, how to make space for meaningful experiences, and how money can become a tool for freedom rather than stress.

This conversation is about living fully, planning wisely, and creating a future that feels intentional, not postponed.

To learn more about Lisa, visit https://www.onevisionretire.com/our-team

Grab my free 52 Weeks of Connection email series—one weekly challenge to help you feel more connected and build real friendships as an adult. It’s free, simple, and you can unsubscribe anytime. Sign up at: ⁠https://zc.vg/ZDPo2⁠ And if you’re ready to go even deeper,  learn more about my Flip the Box® Women's Retreat  at ⁠https://animperfectlyperfectlife.com/retreat To purchase my latest book, Table For 51, visit: ⁠https://a.co/d/cL7uYIy⁠ Let’s dive in—reinvention, real talk, and a whole lot of laughter start NOW! #AnImperfectlyPerfectLife #LifeUnscripted #Onevisionretirement #WealthMindset #FinancialWellness #PurposeDrivenLiving #RewriteYourStory #GenerationalWealth #retirementplanning

#divorceandfinances

Stoy doesn’t just talk numbers. He talks meaning.

In this conversation, Stoy shares the story behind his life’s mission is to rid the world of financial illiteracy . From his early experiences that shaped his relationship with money to the powerful moment he realized everyone who has wealth, did not build alone - they had someone(s) who help them.

We explore:

* How your personal story affects your financial life more than any spreadsheet

* The mindset shifts that lead to generational change

* Stoy’s deeply personal “aha moment” that transformed the way he leads, gives, and lives

This is not a financial episode. It’s a human one. It is an episode about identity, intention, and rewriting the narratives we inherit.

If you’ve ever felt disconnected from the traditional messages about money, this conversation will help you breathe deeper and dream bigger.

To learn more about Stoy Hall visit :https://www.blackmammoth.com/

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And if you’re ready to go even deeper,  learn more about my Flip the Box® LIVE - The Connection Conference and Flip The Box® Women's Retreat  at https://animperfectlyperfectlife.com/retreat

To purchase my latest book, Table For 51, visit: https://a.co/d/cL7uYIy

Let’s dive in—reinvention, real talk, and a whole lot of laughter start NOW!

#AnImperfectlyPerfectLife #LifeUnscripted #StoyHall #WealthMindset #FinancialWellness #PurposeDrivenLiving #RewriteYourStory #GenerationalWealth #MoneyMindset #EmpoweredLiving #FlipTheBox #WomenOver50 #ReinventionJourney #PodcastForWomen #ShariLeid

Come with me as I open the door for the very first time and talk about what this home, this city, means for my next season of reinvention, creativity, and connection. If you love new beginnings or stories of starting over - especially in mid-life - with hope and joy -- this episode is for you!

Welcome to Dallas.
Welcome to my new home.
Welcome to the next beautiful chapter.

#DallasHome #NewHomeTour #MovingToDallas #DallasLife #HomeReveal #DallasTexas #StartingOverAt50 #EmptyNesterLife #NewBeginnings #HomeJourney #LifeInDallas #FlipTheBox #ReinventionStory #WomenWhoReinvent #HomeVibes #JoyfulLiving #LifestyleVlog #DallasVlog #FreshStart #MidlifeReinvention #retreatforwomen #womensretreats

In this short reflection, I share a spoken-word meditation I wrote for you: a reminder that even in years marked by loss, transitions, new beginnings, and surprise chapters, you were never empty - only unfolding. Together, we’ll revisit the moments that shaped you, honor the strength you revealed along the way, and give thanks not for what arrived, but for what awakened within you.

Whether you're celebrating with a full table or a quiet heart this year, this meditation is a grounding space to return to yourself - to gratitude, to truth, and to the reminder that everything you need has always lived inside you.

Wishing you a warm and connected Thanksgiving.
Let’s flip the box together. 💛

#thanksgivingprayer #thanksgivingmeditation #meditation #thanksgiving2025 #flipthebox #youareenough #selfhelp

Nikki shares the story behind The Scarlet Edit: how a moment meant to define her became the catalyst for a movement helping women reclaim their narratives. Together, we talk about the weight of labels, the silence women are conditioned to carry, and the freedom that comes from owning your story rather than being owned by it.

This episode is for anyone who has ever felt misunderstood, mislabeled, or muted. It’s for every woman who’s been told who she should be - and is finally ready to decide that for herself.

Join us for a conversation that’s raw, revealing, and ultimately redemptive.
Because sometimes the most courageous thing we can do is edit the story we were never meant to keep.

To learn more about Nikki's work, please visit her website at nikki-corbett.com

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And if you’re ready to go even deeper,  learn more about my Flip the Box® LIVE - The Connection Conference and Flip The Box® Women's Retreat  at https://animperfectlyperfectlife.com/retreat

To purchase my latest book, Table For 51, visit: https://a.co/d/cL7uYIy

Let’s dive in—reinvention, real talk, and a whole lot of laughter start NOW!

#animperfectlyperfectlife #flipthebox #tablefor51 #keynotespeaker #emceepro #personallifecoach #mindsetcoach #connectioncoach #friendshipexpert #retreatsforwomen

Together, Shari and Alan explore what it means to keep showing up when no one’s watching, how to rewrite your story, and how to build a life that aligns with who you’re becoming, not who you’ve been.

Whether you’re building a business, striving to level up professionally or personally (or both), or just ready to stop playing small, this episode will leave you inspired to take one small, consistent step toward your next level, today.

For more information about Alan, check out https://www.nextleveluniverse.com/

Subscribe on YouTube at youtube.com/sharileid 

💌 And don’t forget to grab my free 52 Weeks of Connection email series—one weekly challenge to help you feel more connected and build real friendships as an adult. It’s free, simple, and you can unsubscribe anytime. Sign up at: https://zc.vg/ZDPo2

And if you’re ready to go even deeper,  learn more about the Flip The Box® Women's Retreat  visit https://animperfectlyperfectlife.com/retreat

To purchase my latest book, Table For 51, visit: https://a.co/d/cL7uYIy

Let’s dive in—reinvention, real talk, and a whole lot of laughter start NOW!

#animperfectlyperfectlife #flipthebox #tablefor51 #keynotespeaker #emceepro #personallifecoach #mindsetcoach #connectioncoach #friendshipexpert #retreatsforwomen#businesspodcast

To contact Lirone - please visit her website at: https://lironeglikman.com/

🎥 Want to watch my journey? Subscribe on YouTube at youtube.com/sharileid 

💌 And don’t forget to grab my free 52 Weeks of Connection email series—one weekly challenge to help you feel more connected and build real friendships as an adult. It’s free, simple, and you can unsubscribe anytime. Sign up at: https://zc.vg/ZDPo2

And if you’re ready to go even deeper,  learn more about my Flip the Box® LIVE - The Connection Conference and Flip The Box® Women's Retreat  at https://animperfectlyperfectlife.com/retreat

To purchase my latest book, Table For 51, visit: https://a.co/d/cL7uYIy

Let’s dive in—reinvention, real talk, and a whole lot of laughter start NOW!

#animperfectlyperfectlife #flipthebox #tablefor51 #keynotespeaker #emceepro #personallifecoach #mindsetcoach #connectioncoach #friendshipexpert #retreatsforwomen

To contact Wendy, visit https://wendyvalentine.com/womenwakingup

Grab my free 52 Weeks of Connection email series—one weekly challenge to help you feel more connected and build real friendships as an adult. It’s free, simple, and you can unsubscribe anytime. Sign up at: https://zc.vg/ZDPo2

And if you’re ready to go even deeper,  learn more about my Flip the Box® LIVE - The Connection Conference and Flip The Box® Women's Retreat  at https://animperfectlyperfectlife.com/retreat

To purchase my latest book, Table For 51, visit: https://a.co/d/cL7uYIy

Let’s dive in—reinvention, real talk, and a whole lot of laughter start NOW!

#animperfectlyperfectlife #sharileid #newbeginnings #theartofreinvention #lilfecoach #midlifecoach #selfhelp #livewithpurpose #divorce #tablefor51 #50statesproject #flipthebox #keynotespeaker #connectioncoach #belonging #creatingbelonging #keynotespeaker #relocation

🎥 Want to watch my journey? Subscribe on YouTube at youtube.com/sharileid 

💌 And don’t forget to grab my free 52 Weeks of Connection email series—one weekly challenge to help you feel more connected and build real friendships as an adult. It’s free, simple, and you can unsubscribe anytime. Sign up at: https://zc.vg/ZDPo2

And if you’re ready to go even deeper,  learn more about my Flip the Box® LIVE - The Connection Conference and Flip The Box® Women's Retreat  at https://animperfectlyperfectlife.com/retreat

To purchase my latest book, Table For 51, visit: https://a.co/d/cL7uYIy

Let’s dive in—reinvention, real talk, and a whole lot of laughter start NOW!

#animperfectlyperfectlife #sharileid #newbeginnings #theartofreinvention #lilfecoach #midlifecoach #selfhelp #livewithpurpose #divorce #tablefor51 #50statesproject #flipthebox #keynotespeaker #connectioncoach #belonging #creatingbelonging #keynotespeaker #relocation

Ready to "flip the box" on your own life? Join me on this journey and discover that what seems like the end might actually be the most exciting beginning. Register for my upcoming women's retreat in Frisco, Texas this March—or follow along as I prepare for my first major conference in 2026. Your second act might just be your greatest yet!

🎥 Want to watch my journey? Subscribe on YouTube at youtube.com/sharileid 

💌 And don’t forget to grab my free 52 Weeks of Connection email series—one weekly challenge to help you feel more connected and build real friendships as an adult. It’s free, simple, and you can unsubscribe anytime. Sign up at: https://zc.vg/ZDPo2

And if you’re ready to go even deeper,  learn more about my Flip the Box® LIVE - The Connection Conference and Flip The Box® Women's Retreat  at https://animperfectlyperfectlife.com/retreat

To purchase my latest book, Table For 51, visit: https://a.co/d/cL7uYIy

Let’s dive in—reinvention, real talk, and a whole lot of laughter start NOW!

#animperfectlyperfectlife #sharileid #newbeginnings #theartofreinvention #lilfecoach #midlifecoach #selfhelp #livewithpurpose #divorce #tablefor51 #50statesproject #flipthebox #keynotespeaker #connectioncoach #belonging #creatingbelonging #keynotespeaker #relocation

In this episode of An Imperfectly Perfect Life – Life Unscripted, I peel back the curtain on the grief, anger, and loss that surfaced during what should have been a happy milestone. As a motivational coach, it’s not always easy to show the hard emotions — but this story is about why honoring them matters.

Because sometimes, the only way to step into a new chapter is by fully acknowledging the one you’ve closed.

Ready to "flip the box" on your own life? Join me on this journey and discover that what seems like the end might actually be the most exciting beginning.

Register for my upcoming women's retreat in Frisco, Texas this March—or follow along as I prepare for my first major conference in 2026. Your second act might just be your greatest yet!

🎥 Want to watch my journey? Subscribe on YouTube at youtube.com/sharileid 

💌 And don’t forget to grab my free 52 Weeks of Connection email series—one weekly challenge to help you feel more connected and build real friendships as an adult. It’s free, simple, and you can unsubscribe anytime. Sign up at: https://zc.vg/ZDPo2

And if you’re ready to go even deeper,  learn more about my Flip the Box® LIVE - The Connection Conference and Flip The Box® Women's Retreat  at https://animperfectlyperfectlife.com/working-together

To purchase my latest book, Table For 51, visit: https://a.co/d/cL7uYIy

Let’s dive in—reinvention, real talk, and a whole lot of laughter start NOW!

#animperfectlyperfectlife #sharileid #newbeginnings #theartofreinvention #lilfecoach #midlifecoach #selfhelp #livewithpurpose #divorce #flipthebox #keynotespeaker #connectioncoach #belonging #creatingbelonging #keynotespeaker #relocation #womensretreat

Wondering if 50 is too late to start something new? Let me shatter that myth right now. After decades as a stay-at-home mom, I completely reinvented my career at 50—and the results have exceeded my wildest expectations.

My journey began with a simple project: sitting down with 50 women before my 50th birthday to share what I'd learned from them. This experience unexpectedly became my first book, "The 50-50 Friendship Flow." One book led to another, then another, and another—each opening doors I never imagined possible. Soon I found myself on the Today Show, featured in People Magazine and appearing across major networks nationwide.

What makes this transformation even more remarkable? I once abandoned my law career because debilitating anxiety made it impossible for me to speak in court. My fear was so extreme that even introducing myself at a PTA meeting would trigger shaking and voice cracking. Yet today, professional speaking has become my "bread and butter." The turning point? A champagne-inspired decision to try stand-up comedy that miraculously cured decades of speaking fear.

My story illustrates something powerful: sometimes the doors that close in your life are making room for everything you've ever prayed for. Whether you're returning to work after raising children, navigating post-divorce transitions, or simply craving meaningful change—your age isn't a limitation but your greatest advantage. The wisdom, resilience, and self-knowledge you've gained create the perfect foundation for success.

Ready to "flip the box" on your own life? Join me on this journey and discover that what seems like the end might actually be the most exciting beginning. Register for my upcoming women's retreat in Frisco, Texas this March—or follow along as I prepare for my first major conference in 2026. Your second act might just be your greatest yet!

🎥 Want to watch my journey? Subscribe on YouTube at youtube.com/sharileid 

💌 And don’t forget to grab my free 52 Weeks of Connection email series—one weekly challenge to help you feel more connected and build real friendships as an adult. It’s free, simple, and you can unsubscribe anytime. Sign up at: https://zc.vg/ZDPo2

And if you’re ready to go even deeper,  learn more about my Flip the Box® LIVE - The Connection Conference and Flip The Box® Women's Retreat  at https://animperfectlyperfectlife.com/working-together

To purchase my latest book, Table For 51, visit: https://a.co/d/cL7uYIy

Let’s dive in—reinvention, real talk, and a whole lot of laughter start NOW!

#animperfectlyperfectlife #sharileid #newbeginnings #theartofreinvention #lilfecoach #midlifecoach #selfhelp #livewithpurpose #divorce #tablefor51 #50statesproject #flipthebox #keynotespeaker #connectioncoach #belonging #creatingbelonging #keynotespeaker #relocation

What happens when you start dating again after 27 years of marriage? Spoiler: it’s awkward, hilarious, a little cringey… and surprisingly fun.

In this episode of An Imperfectly Perfect Life with Shari Leid, I pull back the curtain on what it’s really like to date in midlife — from fish photo profiles 🐟 to first-date experiments and everything in between.

Along the way, I share pieces of my own dating journey and bring in wisdom (and laughs) from:
 ✨ Justina Chen – award-winning YA author, who knows all about the messy magic of love.
✨ Connie Curlette – psychotherapist and relationship coach, with real tools for navigating dating in midlife.

Whether you’re single, married, divorced, or just here for the laughs, you’ll walk away with stories, strategies, and maybe even a little hope for your own imperfectly perfect adventures.

Grab your coffee or your wine 🍷 (no judgment here) and join me — because dating after divorce? It’s not just about finding someone new. It’s about finding yourself again.

🎥 Want to watch my journey? Subscribe on YouTube at youtube.com/sharileid 

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And if you’re ready to go even deeper,  learn more about my Flip the Box® LIVE - The Connection Conference and Flip The Box® Women's Retreat  at https://animperfectlyperfectlife.com/working-together

To purchase my latest book, Table For 51, visit: https://a.co/d/cL7uYIy

Let’s dive in—reinvention, real talk, and a whole lot of laughter start NOW!

#animperfectlyperfectlife #sharileid #newbeginnings #theartofreinvention #lilfecoach #midlifecoach #selfhelp #livewithpurpose #divorce #tablefor51 #50statesproject #flipthebox #keynotespeaker #connectioncoach #belonging #creatingbelonging #keynotespeaker #relocation

Returning to the workforce after years as a stay-at-home parent can feel like jumping into the deep end without knowing how to swim. Where do you even begin? How do you translate your life experience into marketable skills? And most importantly, who are you now compared to who you were when you last collected a paycheck?

Executive coach Tammy Gooler Loeb joins us with transformative insights that flip the script on career transitions. Rather than seeing yourself as "starting over," Tammy encourages embracing everything you've done—including raising children—as valuable experience that shapes who you are today. The conversation dives deep into understanding your current values, creating a personal mission statement, and developing a three-tiered approach to job seeking that balances dreams with practical realities.

We explore the surprisingly fuzzy boundaries of today's workplace, including navigating unexpected social dynamics that can catch midlife job-seekers off guard. Tammy shares wisdom on establishing clear boundaries while remaining authentic, and how to prepare for uncomfortable situations before they arise. The discussion reveals how the integration of work and personal life represents a significant shift from previous generations, offering opportunities for greater fulfillment when your career aligns with your overall life purpose.

Perhaps most powerful is Tammy's reminder that the stories we tell ourselves fundamentally change our experiences. If you view yourself as "too old" or "inexperienced," these narratives will limit your opportunities. Instead, recognizing your unique value allows you to approach transitions with confidence in what you genuinely have to offer.

Whether you're contemplating a return to work, facing unexpected life changes, or simply seeking greater alignment between your values and career, this conversation offers practical guidance rooted in self-understanding. Listen now to discover how working "from the inside out" creates the foundation for meaningful work at any life stage.

To learn more about Tammy, purchase her book, "Work From The Inside Out" or learn about her podcast visit her website at: Tammygoolerloeb.com

🎥 Want to watch my journey? Subscribe on YouTube at youtube.com/sharileid 

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And if you’re ready to go even deeper,  learn more about my Flip the Box® LIVE - The Connection Conference and Flip The Box® Women's Retreat  at https://animperfectlyperfectlife.com/working-together

To purchase my latest book, Table For 51, visit: https://a.co/d/cL7uYIy

Let’s dive in—reinvention, real talk, and a whole lot of laughter start NOW!

#animperfectlyperfectlife #sharileid #newbeginnings #theartofreinvention #lilfecoach #midlifecoach #selfhelp #livewithpurpose #divorce #tablefor51 #50statesproject #flipthebox #keynotespeaker #connectioncoach #belonging #creatingbelonging #keynotespeaker #relocation

What truly prepares us for life's biggest transitions? In this deeply personal episode, I'm sharing audio from my YouTube vlog that follows my journey from Seattle to Dallas – but it's about so much more than a change in location.

After nearly 30 years of marriage, I find myself building a completely new life: establishing community in a strange city, launching a career, creating a conference from scratch, and rediscovering who I am as a single woman in my 50s. The experience has shown me that our past challenges actually equip us for current ones in unexpected ways.

My childhood as an adopted only child taught me to walk into rooms alone. A devastating car accident at 22 revealed humor as my default stress response. My breast cancer journey transformed my perspective on what truly matters. These experiences weren't just random hardships – they were preparation for this season of reinvention.

I take you through my practical city selection process (with some brutally honest observations about dating prospects in different locations), the emotional challenge of decluttering decades of possessions, and the inevitable mishaps that come with any major life change. Through it all runs a thread of finding purpose in transition and embracing the "imperfectly perfect" moments.

Whether you're facing your own major life transition or simply appreciate honest storytelling about reinvention later in life, this episode offers both practical insights and emotional resonance. Watch the full video version on my YouTube channel at youtube.com/ShariLeid under the "vlogs" playlist, and join me next week when I tackle dating apps after 27 years of marriage!

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And if you’re ready to go even deeper,  learn more about my Flip the Box® LIVE - The Connection Conference  Learn more about the conference at https://animperfectlyperfectlife.com/working-together

To purchase my latest book, Table For 51, visit: https://a.co/d/cL7uYIy

Let’s dive in—reinvention, real talk, and a whole lot of laughter start NOW!

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Starting over is never easy, but it's often where our most profound growth happens. Welcome to Season 3 of "An Imperfectly Perfect Life," where I'm taking you along on my journey of reinvention after divorce, transitioning from stay-at-home motherhood, and relocating to Dallas—a city where I currently have zero established connections.

Feeling overwhelmed by change? You're not alone. My secret weapon against paralysis is asking, "What's the easiest next step?" These small, consistent actions don't just change outcomes—they transform how we see ourselves and our possibilities. From practical moving strategies like dedicated daily time blocks and digital organization tools to psychological techniques like mentally placing myself in Dallas before physically arriving, I'm sharing my real-time process of rebuilding from the ground up.

Creating community in a new environment is perhaps the greatest challenge of relocation. As someone who professionally advises others on building meaningful connections, I'm now putting my expertise to the personal test. By proactively researching and contacting organizations aligned with my interests—from professional speaking groups to dance communities—I'm laying groundwork for future relationships before even arriving. This season has already brought unexpected opportunities: an invitation to the prestigious Renaissance Weekend think tank, joining a major speakers bureau, and evolving my small retreat concept into "Flip the Box Live: The Connection Conference" scheduled for 2026. Join our waitlist and access the 52-week friendship challenge through the links in our show notes. What's your easiest next step toward the future you're dreaming of? Share your journey with us!

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And if you’re ready to go even deeper,  learn more about my Flip the Box® LIVE - The Connection Conference  Learn more about the conference at https://animperfectlyperfectlife.com/working-together

To purchase my latest book, Table For 51, visit: https://a.co/d/cL7uYIy

Let’s dive in—reinvention, real talk, and a whole lot of laughter start NOW!

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Michael Neece shares his powerful perspective on kindness as a transformative force in both personal relationships and professional environments. He demonstrates how small acts of kindness create ripples of connection, trust, and opportunity in ways we can't always predict.

• Defining kindness versus being a pushover – kindness benefits others while recognizing we're fortunate to have each other
• How kindness transforms workplace culture by creating psychological safety for innovation and creativity
• Personal story of navigating divorce, family crisis, and loss through a practice of kindness
• Leadership requires vulnerability – when leaders admit mistakes, they model kindness that inspires team engagement
• The importance of being kind to yourself and embracing your unique "weirdness" (from wyrd meaning fate/destiny)
• Finding silver linings and practicing gratitude even during life's most challenging moments

This week's challenge: Practice three acts of kindness – one for yourself, one for a family member or friend, and one for a stranger. These small gestures can transform your perspective and ripple outward to create meaningful change.

To learn more about Michael, visit his website at OurFuture is Kind (www.ourfutureiskind.com)

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And if you’re ready to go even deeper,  learn more about my Flip the Box® LIVE - The Connection Conference  Learn more about the conference at https://animperfectlyperfectlife.com/working-together

To purchase my latest book, Table For 51, visit: https://a.co/d/cL7uYIy

Let’s dive in—reinvention, real talk, and a whole lot of laughter start NOW!

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Reinvention doesn't come with a roadmap. At 55, I'm uprooting my entire life in Seattle – the only city I've ever truly called home – to start fresh in Dallas. This journey of saying goodbye to familiar streets isn't just about changing ZIP codes; it's about honoring who I was so I can fully become who I'm meant to be.

Join me as I revisit the landmarks of my life: my childhood home in what was once America's most diverse ZIP code, where my Japanese-American father bought our house for $18,000 in 1967 despite racial covenants limiting where he could live. The elementary school I attended briefly before mandatory busing changed Seattle's educational landscape. The church where I married, which I hadn't visited since my wedding day. Each place holds pieces of my story – some joyful, some painful, all formative.

What struck me most was how unplanned detours led me to places of profound transition rather than just happy memories. Standing in front of my childhood home, dramatically changed from when I lived there, I realized how many of my childhood friends didn't make it out – lost to drugs, incarceration, or worse. Yet these reflections weren't just about nostalgia; they revealed how far I've come and reminded me that confidence isn't avoiding challenges but knowing you can handle whatever life throws your way.

Whether you're contemplating your own major life change or simply curious about how we navigate transitions, this episode offers both practical wisdom and emotional resonance. I share tools for your own journey of reinvention and invite you to walk alongside me as we learn from each other. After all, we're better together on this twisting, imperfect, perfectly wonderful journey called life. Ready to embrace new beginnings? Subscribe now and let's build something beautiful out of change.

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And if you’re ready to go even deeper,  learn more about my Flip the Box® Retreats for women—three unforgettable days designed to bring you home to yourself. While most retreats take you away, these retreats are about helping you reconnect with who you are, what you want, and the life you’re meant to live.  Learn more about the retreats at https://animperfectlyperfectlife.com/working-together

To purchase my latest book, Table For 51, visit: https://a.co/d/cL7uYIy

Let’s dive in—reinvention, real talk, and a whole lot of laughter start NOW!

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Ever wondered if you're too giving in relationships? That nagging feeling that you're always putting others first might not just be generosity—it could be codependency.

The revelation hit me hard. As someone who prided myself on independence—building businesses, attending law school, traveling solo—how could I possibly be codependent? That was for "weak" people, right? Wrong. In this deeply personal episode, I'm joined by licensed psychotherapist Connie Curlett to unpack what codependency actually means and why successful, capable people often struggle with it most.

Connie breaks down how codependency manifests as giving too much while receiving too little, driven by an underlying fear of abandonment. We explore the critical difference between genuine support and codependent behavior (hint: it's all about internal versus external motivation), and why setting healthy boundaries feels so terrifying when you've been conditioned to prioritize others' comfort above your own needs.

This conversation offers revelatory insights for anyone questioning their relationship patterns. Whether you're recovering from divorce, rebuilding your identity, or simply wondering why your relationships leave you feeling depleted, Connie provides practical strategies for healing—from increasing self-compassion to recognizing when fear is driving your decisions. She explains why others might resist when you begin setting boundaries and offers guidance on staying the course despite pushback.

Ready to become the star of your own life rather than perpetually playing supporting roles in others' stories? This episode provides the roadmap for moving from codependency toward authentic connection—with yourself and others. Your journey to healthier relationships starts here.

To reach Connie, visit her website at Conniecurlett.com

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💌 And don’t forget to grab my free 52 Weeks of Connection email series—one weekly challenge to help you feel more connected and build real friendships as an adult. It’s free, simple, and you can unsubscribe anytime. Sign up at: https://zc.vg/ZDPo2

And if you’re ready to go even deeper,  learn more about my Flip the Box® Retreats for women—three unforgettable days designed to bring you home to yourself. While most retreats take you away, these retreats are about helping you reconnect with who you are, what you want, and the life you’re meant to live.  Learn more about the retreats at https://animperfectlyperfectlife.com/working-together

To purchase my latest book, Table For 51, visit: https://a.co/d/cL7uYIy

Let’s dive in—reinvention, real talk, and a whole lot of laughter start NOW!

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Season 3 kicks off with a bang! I’m answering YOUR burning questions about my midlife plot twist—moving from Seattle to Dallas after my divorce, starting over in a brand‑new city, and launching a YouTube series to show you exactly what reinvention really looks like.

From the fears and ridiculous mistakes to the lessons I’ve learned (and the pitfalls you should avoid), this Q&A episode is raw, honest, and just a little bit funny—because if we can’t laugh at the messy parts, we’re doing it wrong.

🎥 Want to watch my journey? Subscribe on YouTube at youtube.com/sharileid 

💌 And don’t forget to grab my free 52 Weeks of Connection email series—one weekly challenge to help you feel more connected and build real friendships as an adult. It’s free, simple, and you can unsubscribe anytime. Sign up at: https://zc.vg/ZDPo2

And if you’re ready to go even deeper,  learn more about my Flip the Box® Retreats for women—three unforgettable days designed to bring you home to yourself. While most retreats take you away, these retreats are about helping you reconnect with who you are, what you want, and the life you’re meant to live.  Learn more about the retreats at https://animperfectlyperfectlife.com/working-together

Let’s dive in—reinvention, real talk, and a whole lot of laughter start NOW!

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Ready for some big news? I've decided to trade in my lifelong home of Seattle for a brand-new chapter in Dallas, Texas! This isn't just a change of address—it's a complete reinvention at age 55.

When I ended my 27-year marriage a few years ago, I wasn't sure if I'd even qualify for a mortgage after decades as a stay-at-home mom with no paycheck history. The thought of not having my own home—a place where I could paint my walls without worry—genuinely scared me. But here I am, not only qualifying for that mortgage but building a new life in a community where my two Labradors will have their own neighborhood dog park and I'll create connections with neighbors all starting fresh together.

The journey from stay-at-home mom to appearing on the Today Show, writing for major publications, and launching a meaningful career didn't happen magically. It required connection, curiosity, and courage—three elements that have opened unexpected doors at every turn. And now I want to share what I've learned through my "Flip the Box" three-day retreats for women navigating major life transitions. Whether you're experiencing divorce, becoming an empty nester, pivoting careers, or simply feeling that quiet knowing that you're meant for more—this retreat isn't about escaping your life but coming home to it.

Not ready for a retreat? I'm also offering 52 weeks of free connection tools—science-backed actions delivered weekly to help deepen your relationships with others and yourself. And this fall, I'll be taking you along virtually as I make my move, documenting the real-time transformation on YouTube and through more podcast episodes. You'll see the fears, struggles, mistakes, and triumphs as they happen. Because if there's one thing I've learned, it's that sometimes doors have to close to make room for answered prayers. Ready to flip the box with me? Check out the links in the show notes to connect!

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The journey of selling a home isn't always tied to joyful life milestones. For many, it happens during challenging transitions like divorce, health issues, or major life changes. In this enlightening conversation with Jen Cameron, managing partner at The Agency Seattle, we explore the nuanced process of selling homes during difficult times.

Jen brings her wealth of experience working with divorcing couples to the table, sharing how a skilled agent creates strategies tailored to complex situations. "Hope is not a strategy," she emphasizes, revealing that 90% of a successful home sale happens before the property ever hits the market. While many sellers focus on commission rates when interviewing agents, Jen suggests asking instead about their specific strategy for your home and what sets them apart from others.

For those navigating divorce while selling property, timing doesn't have to align perfectly with legal proceedings. Jen explains how home sale proceeds can go into trust accounts while other aspects finalize, creating flexibility during an already stressful time. She also addresses the importance of proper staging, noting that personal belongings rarely make effective staging elements, no matter how beloved they might be to the seller.

What truly distinguishes exceptional agents is their ability to handle special circumstances with sensitivity. Whether accommodating special needs family members, health concerns, or emotional triggers, Jen describes how customized showing protocols can protect sellers while still maximizing property exposure. Her practice of vetting potential buyers before showings ensures only serious, qualified prospects enter your home.

The takeaway is clear: knowledge is power in real estate transactions. Consulting with a professional early—sometimes a year before listing—provides invaluable guidance and removes unnecessary stress from the process. By finding an agent who understands your unique situation and creates a strategy before the sign goes in the yard, you transform what could be an overwhelming experience into a manageable one with optimal results.

To connect with Jen, please visit his website The Agency Seattle  and/or contact Jen via email at jen.cameron@theagencyre.com

To connect with Shari visit www.animperfectlyperfctlife.com

For media and speaking inquiries please contact Shari's publicist, Kourtney Jason, at Kourtney@pacificandcourt.com

To purchase Shari's latest book, Table For 51 - Lessons Learned While Sharing Meals Across America please visit Simon and Schuster for buying options. 

To purchase the transformational online course Flip The Box For Yourself click here and enter code <podcast> for $20 off

To watch the video version of this podcast, please visit our channel at Youtube/sharileid

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Have you ever questioned whether alcohol enhances your social connections or simply masks discomfort? When Alysse Bryson first went dancing sober, she had a startling realization: "I don't know why I ever thought I was a good dancer!" This moment of clarity exemplifies the journey many face when exploring life without alcohol.

In this compelling conversation, Alysse shares insights from her personal recovery journey and her work as founder of The Sober Curator, an online platform offering resources for alcohol-free living. We dive deep into what codependency really means—not weakness or dependency, but "a pattern of self-defeating, learned behaviors that result in a diminished capacity to initiate or participate in loving relationships." This understanding transforms how we view relationship dynamics when addiction is present.

The concept of having "no off button" provides a window into the neurological reality of addiction. As Alysse explains, "Once I start consuming, whatever the substance is, I can't stop. I literally can't stop." This isn't about willpower or moral failing; it's a fundamental neurological difference that those without addiction struggle to comprehend. Her analogy of trying to eat just half a Girl Scout cookie helps bridge this understanding gap.

Our discussion explores how alcohol impacts authentic connection, from dating to workplace culture. With the non-alcoholic beverage sector exploding and celebrities openly discussing sobriety, societal attitudes are shifting. Alysse boldly predicts that by 2030, alcohol consumption might carry similar social awareness as cigarette smoking does today—not eliminated, but recognized for its health implications.

Whether you're sober, sober-curious, or simply interested in understanding addiction's impact on relationships, this episode offers valuable perspective on creating genuine connections in a culture where alcohol often takes center stage. Try going to your next social event without drinking—you might discover, as many do, that authentic connection actually gets easier with practice.

To connect with Alysse, please visit his website The Sober Curator and/or Alyssebryson.com

To connect with Shari visit www.animperfectlyperfctlife.com

For media and speaking inquiries please contact Shari's publicist, Kourtney Jason, at Kourtney@pacificandcourt.com

To purchase Shari's latest book, Table For 51 - Lessons Learned While Sharing Meals Across America please visit Simon and Schuster for buying options. 

To purchase the transformational online course Flip The Box For Yourself click here and enter code <podcast> for $20 off

To watch the video version of this podcast, please visit our channel at Youtube/sharileid

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Financial protection after divorce isn't just about dividing assets—it's about creating a secure foundation for your future. Randy Carver, certified divorce financial analyst, joins me to share crucial steps that can make all the difference between post-divorce struggle and prosperity.

We begin by exploring six essential financial moves everyone should make after finalizing their divorce. Randy explains why understanding your new financial reality requires first determining what you truly need versus what you want. "People sometimes get so caught up in the money they put the cart before the horse," he cautions, recommending a thoughtful approach similar to planning a meaningful trip—you need to know your destination before choosing transportation.

The conversation takes a revealing turn when Randy shares alarming stories of people who overlooked critical details with devastating consequences. One woman lost her deceased husband's life insurance proceeds to his ex-wife because beneficiary designations were never updated. Another faced unexpected tax burdens after accepting pre-tax retirement assets while her ex-spouse received already-taxed cash. These cautionary tales highlight why working with specialists like Certified Divorce Financial Analysts can prevent costly oversights.

For those contemplating new relationships, Randy offers five protective strategies for entering second marriages. Beyond prenuptial agreements, he shares surprising insights about maintaining separate assets, updating estate plans to protect children from previous marriages, and navigating the complex healthcare implications of remarriage. His matter-of-fact advice—"Sometimes maintaining a legal separation may be more financially prudent than actually getting married"—challenges conventional thinking about relationships later in life.

Perhaps most valuable are the unexpected nuggets of wisdom sprinkled throughout our discussion. Did you know unmarried partners need renter's insurance when moving into a partner's home? Or that remarriage after 60 can eliminate eligibility for a deceased spouse's pension or Social Security benefits? Through practical examples and clear explanations, Randy transforms complex financial concepts into actionable strategies anyone can implement.

Whether you're newly divorced, considering remarriage, or simply planning ahead, this episode provides the financial knowledge you didn't know you needed. As Randy wisely notes, "It's never the bus you see coming that hits you"—making preparation your most powerful tool for protecting your financial future.

To connect with Randy, please visit his website Carver Financial Services

To connect with Shari visit www.animperfectlyperfctlife.com

For media and speaking inquiries please contact Shari's publicist, Kourtney Jason, at Kourtney@pacificandcourt.com

To purchase Shari's latest book, Table For 51 - Lessons Learned While Sharing Meals Across America please visit Simon and Schuster for buying options. 

To watch the video version of this podcast, please visit our channel at  youtube.com/sharileid

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Ready for a major life change? That moment when you realize the place you've called home your entire life might not be where you're meant to stay forever can be both terrifying and exhilarating. Today, I'm pulling back the curtain on my months-long journey to find a new city to call home.

After traveling across the US in 2023, I discovered something surprising – not only could many places feel like home with intentional effort, but the cost of living throughout the country made Seattle's expenses seem astronomical by comparison. This revelation sparked a methodical search process based on specific criteria: a strong professional speaking community, proximity to a major airport, significantly lower cost of living, and yes, even social opportunities for someone in my stage of life looking for meaningful connections.

My quest narrowed to four potential cities: Henderson, Scottsdale, Denver, and Dallas. To help announce my final decision, I've invited my real estate agent Janeil McCandless to help me reveal what city emerged as the perfect fit. We discuss that inexplicable feeling when a place "just feels right" – that gift of discernment many women experience when house-hunting. Janelle reveals her process of watching clients' body language and facial expressions to understand their true preferences, sometimes before they can articulate them themselves.

We also dive into practical aspects of relocating that often get overlooked: the importance of early mortgage pre-approval, insurance considerations specific to different regions, and the invaluable "white glove" services that can transform the typically stressful moving experience into something manageable. Janelle shares insider tips about everything from timing inspections to checking neighborhood traffic patterns at different hours.
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Whether you're contemplating a move yourself or simply curious about what drives major life transitions, this episode offers both emotional insights and practical wisdom for navigating change. Join me as I embark on this exciting new chapter and discover what happens when you follow your intuition to a place that could become home.

To connect with Janeil, please visit her on Instagram at:  https://www.instagram.com/janeilmccandless_realtor/

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To connect with Shari visit www.animperfectlyperfctlife.com

For media and speaking inquiries please contact Shari's publicist, Kourtney Jason, at Kourtney@pacificandcourt.com

To purchase Shari's latest book, Table For 51 - Lessons Learned While Sharing Meals Across America please visit Simon and Schuster for buying options. 

To purchase the transformational online course Flip The Box For Yourself click here and enter code <podcast> for $20 off

To watch the video version of this podcast, please visit our channel at  youtube.com/sharileid

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Dive deep into the fascinating world of mature dating and relationships with our special guest Glen Gilbert, host of "The Glen Gilbert Connection" podcast. Glen brings his opinions on modern relationships among seasoned adults to this candid, entertaining conversation that touches on everything from prenuptial agreements to the reasons many men in their 50s and 60s approach remarriage with caution.

Whether you're dating after divorce, considering a serious relationship later in life, or simply curious about relationship dynamics beyond the typical dating advice aimed at younger generations, this episode delivers valuable insights with warmth and humor.

If you've ever wondered why relationships seem to get more complex—not less—as we age, or if you're curious about the practical considerations that sometimes overshadow romantic ideals in mature relationships, you'll find this conversation enlightening. 

Subscribe, share with friends navigating similar life stages, and join us for more unscripted discussions that embrace the perfectly imperfect nature of relationships and life.

To listen to Glen's Podcast, The Glen Gilbert Connection, please visit https://1150kknw.com/podcasts/the-glen-gilbert-connection/

To connect with Shari visit www.animperfectlyperfctlife.com

For media and speaking inquiries please contact Shari's publicist, Kourtney Jason, at Kourtney@pacificandcourt.com

To purchase Shari's latest book, Table For 51 - Lessons Learned While Sharing Meals Across America please visit Simon and Schuster for buying options. 

To purchase the transformational online course Flip The Box For Yourself click here and enter code <podcast> for $20 off

To watch the video version of this podcast, please visit our channel at  youtube.com/sharileid

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Fear after divorce is not a warning—it's a sign you're stepping into the life you've been praying for. This heartfelt episode explores the challenging yet transformative journey of rebuilding after a long marriage ends.

Standing alone for the first time in decades can feel terrifying. When your support systems have changed and you're solely responsible for crafting your future, that fear often masquerades as love, tempting you to cling to what's familiar rather than what's right. But what if we've misunderstood fear completely? What if that uncomfortable feeling isn't a stop sign but a green light indicating you've leveled up?

I share a profound personal moment when I discovered my past self had created a roadmap for my current journey without even knowing it. Reading through my own book of quotes, I realized the wisdom I needed most had been within me all along—like a love letter from my former self to the woman I am becoming. This clarity revealed that the miracles I had been praying for weren't distant wishes but present realities I simply needed to recognize.

For everyone sitting in that place of uncertainty after marriage, I offer three powerful reflections: Where are you confusing fear with love? How might fear actually be evidence of your expansion? What miracles are already sitting quietly in your life? These questions help transform what feels like breakdown into breakthrough, revealing that you aren't losing your life—you're stepping into your real one.

Ready to reframe your fear and discover the freedom that awaits on the other side? Listen now, and remember: you're not breaking down, you're breaking through, and you're more ready than you think.

To work with Shari Leid, visit www.animperfectlyperfctlife.com

For media and speaking inquiries please contact Shari's publicist, Kourtney Jason, at Kourtney@pacificandcourt.com

To purchase Shari's latest book, Table For 51 - Lessons Learned While Sharing Meals Across America please visit Simon and Schuster for buying options. 

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To purchase the transformational online course Flip The Box For Yourself click here and enter code <podcast> for $100 off

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Stepping away from a decades-long marriage isn't simply ending a relationship—it's reimagining your entire future during what should be your golden years. In this deeply personal and enlightening conversation, family law attorney and former judge Michelle Locke shares her professional and personal insights into the unique challenges of ending long-term marriages.

Michelle brings both legal expertise and firsthand experience to the table, having recently navigated her own divorce. She dismantles the often-intimidating landscape of "gray divorce" (her preferred term: "long-term marriage dissolution") with practical wisdom about financial realities, legal considerations, and emotional transitions that differ significantly from divorces earlier in life.

Discover why consulting an attorney months before filing could save you thousands, the crucial importance of developing your "Plan B" financial scenario, and how legal approaches vary dramatically between states. Michelle explains how expert guidance helps navigate complex asset division for retirement accounts, businesses, and even digital properties like iTunes libraries worth thousands. She offers candid advice about attorney selection, communication pitfalls during proceedings, and the often-overlooked post-divorce checklist that many discover too late.

Beyond the legalities, Michelle shares the profound personal transformation that awaits on the other side of divorce. "Peace is priceless," she explains, describing how many clients find unexpected happiness and authenticity despite having fewer material possessions. Whether you're contemplating divorce, currently navigating proceedings, or rebuilding post-divorce, you'll find valuable strategies and genuine hope in this conversation.

Ready to understand what divorce after decades might mean for your future? In the midst of a gray divorce? On the other end - post divorce? Listen now, and discover why knowledge truly is power during this pivotal life transition.

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What if the traumas and challenges you've faced aren't just obstacles to overcome, but the source of your greatest leadership strengths? In this transformative conversation, I sit down with Corinne Kavanaugh, an audacious resilience expert who flips conventional wisdom on its head.

Corinne shares her powerful journey from a childhood marked by her mother's untreated bipolar disorder to becoming an author, entrepreneur, and Harvard graduate. Rather than hiding her past, she's now helping others recognize how their own difficult experiences have equipped them with exceptional leadership capabilities. The research backs this up – trauma integration creates leaders with heightened empathy and emotional intelligence because they understand pain and struggle firsthand.

We explore practical frameworks for "flipping the box" on how we view our challenges. From Cognitive Behavioral Therapy techniques that reframe limiting beliefs to post-traumatic growth questions that accelerate healing, Corinne offers actionable tools that anyone can apply. 

For business leaders, Corinne provides game-changing perspective on hiring and team building. Rather than viewing candidates with difficult backgrounds as "damaged goods," she explains why these individuals often make exceptional leaders precisely because of their resilience. Their neural pathways for crisis management are well-developed, allowing them to quickly shift from challenge to opportunity.

Whether you're navigating personal trauma, leading a team through difficult times, or supporting someone on their healing journey, this episode offers a profound reframing that will transform how you view life's challenges. Tune in to discover how being "audaciously resilient" can become your greatest superpower.

More information about Corinne can be found on her website

Please follow her on Instagram for her latest updates @corinnecava

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When survival mode ends, real healing begins. After navigating through my divorce after 27 years of marriage, I've discovered that the aftermath—this "pivot year"—is actually more challenging and raw than the divorce process itself. Why? Because during a crisis, we operate on adrenaline and necessity. It's only when the dust settles that we truly feel the weight of our transformation.

This episode marks a turning point in my journey as I face the reality of leaving Seattle, the only home I've known, because I'm priced out of the market. With two Labrador dogs and a desire to maintain a landing place for my adult children, I'm narrowing down to just two potential cities where I can build a completely new life. At this crossroads, I'm embracing the terrifying freedom of being able to go anywhere while navigating the responsibility of creating stability entirely on my own—perhaps for the first time since my twenties.

Drawing from my personal story of being found as an infant in a cardboard box, I'm expanding my "flipping the box" philosophy beyond sharing meals with strangers to completely reinventing myself, my career, and my approach to community. This isn't just about thinking outside the box—it's about transforming our limitations into tables of opportunity. As I share the unfiltered reality of creating community from scratch and establishing financial independence, I invite you to witness this journey of rediscovery in real-time.

I've created a 12-week course called "Flip the Box for Yourself," designed to help you enrich your existing relationships and forge meaningful new connections. Use code "PODCAST" to receive $100 off, and join me for weekly office hours where we can support each other through our parallel journeys. Whether you're weathering your own major life transition or simply seeking more authentic connections, I'd love to have you alongside me as we navigate the perfectly imperfect process of rebuilding.

Access the Flip The Box For Yourself 12 Week Course here 

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Join us as we discuss:  

Who am I outside of work? Our conversation explores this universal struggle to separate personal identity from professional accomplishments. Gentrix candidly shares how she missed countless family milestones while working "weekend overnights" in the relentless grind of media production. The layoff, initially devastating, ultimately offered her the gift of reconsidering priorities that eight years of hustle culture had obscured.

Her story resonates with anyone who's experienced career upheaval or questioned their life's direction. Through launching her podcast "Outside of Work," Gentrix begins reclaiming neglected relationships and discovering opportunities beyond her narrow professional focus. "I had blinders on like a racehorse, but now they're off – anything is possible." From starting a notary business to contemplating entrepreneurship in her native Kenya, Gentrick demonstrates how career disruption often reveals possibilities previously invisible to us.

Whether you're facing job loss, retirement, empty nesting, or simply questioning your life's trajectory, this episode offers valuable perspective on defining yourself beyond your titles. Join us for this powerful conversation about identity, priorities, and discovering that sometimes, as Shari puts it, "We allow good to stop us from becoming great."

Ready to expand your perspective? Subscribe now and share your own journey of self-discovery with us!

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Life’s transitions can be tough, especially when faced with heartbreak or significant changes. In this episode, we uncover the profound impact that friendships have on our emotional wellbeing. Join us as we explore the concept of "picket fence friends" and how leaning on our social circles can help us heal during challenging times. We discuss the science behind the "tend and befriend" response, showcasing how our bodies are biologically wired to seek connection in moments of stress.

This episode is packed with practical advice for building a robust support system. We highlight the importance of choosing the right friends, setting open communication, and allowing yourself to be supported. You’ll learn actionable steps to forge those meaningful connections and how they can turn heartbreak into healing. 

By the end of our conversation, you’ll have the tools to establish your metaphorical picket fence, ensuring you never face life’s challenges alone. Remember, healing is a community effort; don’t miss the chance to reach out to your friends. Join us for an uplifting discussion that reminds us of the power of connection and community in overcoming adversity. Subscribe to stay updated on future episodes, and don’t hesitate to share this with someone who might need their own picket fence right now!

Build Your Own Picket Fence

Step 1: Choose your fence posts wisely.
These should be the people who:
✅ Love you unconditionally, but will call you out when needed.
✅ Don’t let you wallow, but also don’t force you to “move on” too fast.
✅ Know how to send the perfect meme at the perfect time.

Step 2: Make the official call.
Send the group text. Be honest. It might feel awkward, but I promise, your real friends want to be there for you.

Step 3: Commit to the process.
This isn’t just about texting them when you feel sad. Let them check in. Let them show up. Let yourself be supported.

Step 4: When you’re ready, become someone else’s fence post.
Because the best part? Once you’ve built your fence, you realize just how powerful it is—and suddenly, you become part of someone else’s.

Shari's new book Table For 51 can be purchased now on Amazon - Purchases here and read about her travels through the US, her tough decision to divorce and her story of unexpectedly falling in love with a man who made her feel what home felt like. 

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Reinvention is a messy, beautiful journey that requires people to create instead of waiting for change. Throughout the episode, we explore the importance of community, taking the first step towards change, and recognizing that everyone holds power within themselves to reinvent.

• Explores the host's personal journey of constant reinvention 
• Highlights the significance of creating community over waiting for it 
• Encourages listeners to stop waiting for permission to change 
• Discusses the vital role of embracing imperfection in change 
• Emphasizes that the journey of reinvention is ongoing and necessary 
• Invitation to take the first step towards personal growth 

If this episode spoke to you, share it with someone who needs to hear it. If you're ready to take that next step towards reinvention, let's get in touch.

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This week, we delve into the importance of intentional living through daily reflection and connection. Shari shares personal strategies for meaningful beginnings and ends to each day, encouraging mindfulness and personal growth. 

• Starting the day with a purposeful question 
• Significance of gratitude in daily life 
• Ending the day with a self-reflective inquiry 
• Connection through shared meals and community 
• Introducing the book *Table for 51* 
• Encouraging listeners to share personal reflection questions

For information about Shari Leid, please visit her website, An Imperfectly Perfect Life, LLC

For media inquiries, contact Shari's publicist Kourtney Jason Kourtney@pacificandcourt.com

For speaking engagement bookings, contact Shari's Director of Development Nat Measley  Nat@sharispeaks.com

For coaching with Shari, please book a free Discovery Call 

Table For 51, Shari's newest book is now available for pre-sale!  Order here

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Blended family life can present unexpected challenges, requiring compassion and communication. Through personal stories and expert insights, we explore the realities of stepfamily dynamics, emphasizing the importance of setting expectations and boundaries for a harmonious family life.

• Common challenges faced by stepparents 
• Importance of realistic expectations in blended families 
• Navigating high-conflict relationships with ex-partners 
• Discussing finances and gift-giving in stepfamilies 
• Role of communication in fostering understanding 
• Strategies for managing relationships with adult children 
• Value of pre-marital stepfamily coaching 
• Resources available for stepfamilies 
• Conclusion on the journey of blended family life and its rewards

Cameron Normand, JD is CEO of Stepfamily Solutions and host of The Stepmom Diaries podcast. Through her coaching, courses, magazine and events, she has helped thousands of stepmoms and stepfamilies navigate their blended family lives. She also runs the premier Stepfamily Coach Academy, which certifies stepfamily coaches through a research and expert-backed curriculum. Cameron is a Certified Stepparent Coach and has been featured on CBS Los Angeles, the CW Austin and in The Cut, Business Insider, CNET, Kiplinger, ScaryMommy, and the Today Parenting Team, among others. 

Previously, Cameron spent 23 years working in politics first as a young lawyer on Capitol Hill, then leading policy strategy in various leadership roles at two of the world’s top movie studios. After becoming a stepmom of four, she realized that the tools to help blended families were few and far between. So at at the peak of her career, she walked away from politics to start a company that would fill the void.

Cameron serves on several non-profit boards and was named one of the Washington Business Journal’s “Women Who Mean Business.” Cameron received her BA from the University of South Carolina and her JD from Emory University School of Law, and is currently pursuing a Masters in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from the College of William & Mary. She is a stepmom of four and is married to a retired Army veteran.

In her spare time, Cameron lives for pop culture, travel, and working to train her stubborn puppy, Ernest Hemingwoof.

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For coaching with Shari, please book a free Discovery Call here

 Table For 51, Shari's newest book is now available for pre-sale!  Order here!

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What if -- I told you that there is no such thing as a wrong turn?


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Style is more than just clothes—it's a bridge to self-expression and personal growth. Join me as I chat with the remarkable Tannya Bernadette, founder of the Closet Edit, whose journey of launching her fashion business at the youthful age of 22 is nothing short of inspiring. For over 16 years, Tanya has been empowering individuals to discover joy in their existing wardrobes, challenging the notion that happiness in style comes from constant shopping. Together, we unravel the joys of rediscovering forgotten pieces and the playful challenge of mixing and matching outfits from what's already in your closet.

Reflecting on my own transformative journey post-divorce, I share how moving homes became a catalyst for evaluating my wardrobe and embracing life's new chapters through fashion. Tannya and I delve into the synergy between wardrobe and personal evolution, highlighting how style can mirror life's transitions. Whether you're navigating life changes or simply looking to refresh your wardrobe perspective, this episode offers fresh insights and a creative push to reconnect with your personal style narrative.

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This episode dives into the refreshing approach to dating after divorce, featuring Shari Leid and Justina Chen, who explore the idea of dating as a playful journey rather than a pressure-filled hunt. With Justina's 21-date challenge as a focal point, they discuss building confidence, understanding desires, and fostering authentic connections in today's dating landscape.

• Introduction to Shari and Justina’s friendship
• Justina’s dating journey: 21-date challenge explained
• Shari's experience with first dates following the dissolution of a 27 year marriage
• Changing the mindset around dating and connections
• Discovering personal preferences and desires in dating
• The importance of fun and playfulness in romantic exploration
• Navigating complexities when children are involved
• Building trust and openness in the age of dating apps
• Looking beyond superficial qualities to essential characteristics
• Encouragement to engage openly in the dating process

Today's guest, click here or visit Jusinachen.com to learn more about Justina Chen's work, book, and to learn how to contact Justina for speaking engagements, workshops, and consultation work.

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After 26 years of marriage, facing the world of dating at 54 felt like stepping into an alternate universe. But what I discovered was not just about finding a partner; it was about rediscovering myself. Join me, Shari Leid, as I wrap up the first season of "An Imperfectly Perfect Life: Life Unscripted" and share the roller coaster ride of my divorce and the unexpected love that followed. This episode is a heartfelt reflection on closing chapters, embracing new beginnings, and the magic of speaking your truth. Settle in as I recount the journey from legal separation to the Halloween dissolution settlement and the transformation that led to a new relationship status that now graces my Facebook profile.

As we look forward to the next season, I offer a glimpse into my adventures in dating and the realizations that came with it. I’ll reveal what it was like to navigate the dating scene with a curious heart and a fresh perspective. From questioning if I was dateable to meeting genuine, kind-hearted men, I learned that there’s no shortage of good guys out there. Season two promises to share these stories along with dating advice that’s grounded in real-life experiences. So grab something cozy and join me for a candid conversation about life’s unscripted adventures, infused with laughter, lessons, and hope for what lies ahead.

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As I stand on the brink of a personal reinvention, I find myself asking: what does it truly mean to embrace the beautiful chaos of life? With the end of my 27-year marriage looming, this could be the final episode before I take a brief hiatus before launching the second season of this podcast -- which will have a whole new look, video, and interviews. My journey has been anything but predictable, and this episode offers a candid look into how I've learned to transform life’s curveballs into new beginnings. From my upcoming TEDx talk in Eustis, Florida, to the exciting evolution of the Flip the Box movement, I'm sharing the stories and insights that have shaped my path as a reinvention coach.

Join me, Shari Leid, as we laugh, reflect, and perhaps get a little lost together in this adventure called life. My speaking agent recently referred to me  as "disarmingly weird," which I absolutely loved believe its in that authenticity and vulnerability that the magic happens. This conversation invites you into the raw and real moments of reinvention, where resilience is our guide. Grab something cozy and settle in as we explore how life's detours can lead us to the most unexpected and rewarding destinations. Whether you're amid your own life transition or just along for the ride, there’s humor, inspiration, and perhaps a few tips waiting for you here.

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Have you ever faced a life-altering change and wondered how to navigate the uncertain road ahead? Join me, Shari Leid, as I open up about my personal journey through the ups and downs of life after a 26-year marriage. I share my candid experiences of saying goodbye to my dream home, stepping into the dating world in my fifties, and handling unexpected negative encounters. Throughout this episode, you'll discover the three powerful strategies that have helped me maintain a positive outlook and keep my focus, even when life feels unscripted and overwhelming.

Embrace the beauty of imperfection with me as we explore how life's imperfect moments can truly define who we are. Hear how these experiences have inspired me to live with authenticity and courage, encouraging you to continue writing your own story with love and daring. This conversation is not only a reflection on personal growth but also a beacon of hope and resilience for anyone facing similar challenges. Connect with me at imperfectlyperfectlife.com for more conversations that inspire, and don't forget to subscribe and leave a review to share your thoughts.

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Ever wondered how to reclaim your life and identity after a divorce in your 40s, 50s, 60s, or even 70s? Discover the secret weapons you need to navigate this unexpected chapter with grace and humor. Join Shari Leid as she reveals the three essential friends everyone needs: the one who spots your blind spots, the invaluable connector, and the friend who keeps you laughing. From dodging emotional potholes to embracing your new identity, this episode promises to be your guide through the messy, yet transformative journey of post-divorce life.

Shari makes the daunting topic of divorce surprisingly (almost) enjoyable. Learn why having a friend who can see what you can't is crucial, how a well-connected buddy can help you rebuild, and why laughter truly is the best medicine during tough times. Whether you're sorting out the logistics of your new life or dipping your toes back into the dating pool, Shari's insights and the power of friendship will light your way to a brighter, more fulfilling future. Grab your favorite beverage and get ready for a conversation that's as enlightening as it is entertaining!

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Ever felt like you're walking on a tightrope during a heated argument, just waiting to fall off? Today, we promise you'll master the delicate art of debating with grace and keeping your cool. Join Shari on "An Imperfectly Perfect Life: Life Unscripted" as she shares personal anecdotes and practical strategies for navigating conflicts without losing your mind or your manners. From political spats at family gatherings to the emotionally charged exchanges of a divorce, Shari guides you through staying firm in your beliefs while respecting others. 

Shari reveals the secret to becoming the calm, collected person in any debate: letting go of the need to win. See how this transformative mindset can lighten your emotional load and lead to more meaningful conversations. With tips on clear thinking and genuine engagement, this episode equips you to handle any disagreement gracefully. 

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Ever wondered how to transform the chaos of a major life transition into a springboard for a new beginning? Picture this: you're standing amidst the rubble of a broken relationship, feeling overwhelmed. Now, imagine turning that rubble into stepping stones for a brighter future. Join me, Shari Leid, as we explore how to embrace being an "actionist" during life's most challenging moments, like divorce. We’ll break down the difference between merely talking about change and actually living it by taking concrete steps forward. This episode is packed with candid conversations and personal insights on navigating big emotions and making meaningful progress, no matter how small.

Just like rock climbing, where every climber's path to the summit is unique, your journey through life's transitions will be distinctly yours. Embracing imperfections and finding your own way forward is what truly counts. Together, we'll highlight the importance of doing what you can with what you have, right where you are. Tune in for a relatable, encouraging, and laughter-filled chat that reminds you that every imperfect step is a vital part of the journey. Grab something cozy, settle in, and let’s make progress together.

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How about if feeling like an imposter can actually be a sign you're on the verge of something incredible? That’s right! Today, we're dissecting the powerful phenomenon of imposter syndrome and how it often signals personal growth rather than inadequacy. As we step out of our comfort zones, particularly through life-altering events like divorce, we find ourselves embracing new identities and reinventing our life scripts. We'll guide you through acknowledging imposter syndrome, surrounding yourself with supportive allies, and rejecting the unattainable pursuit of perfection. Understand that feeling like an imposter is simply a testament to your bravery and readiness for extraordinary things.

Be sure to connect with Shari at imperfectlyperfectlife.com, and remember to subscribe and leave your thoughts with a review. Celebrate the beauty of an unscripted life and stay tuned for more inspiring adventures!

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Have you ever faced a door closing and felt the weight of uncertainty about the future? I certainly have. In this heartfelt episode of "An Imperfectly Perfect Life Life Unscripted," I share my journey through the end of a long-term marriage and how a shift in perspective transformed adversity into a landscape full of opportunities. Together, we'll explore the incredible power of focusing on open doors rather than closed ones, and how training our minds to see possibilities can reshape our reality. From personal stories to actionable insights, we'll uncover the hidden blessings that come from embracing life's unscripted moments.

It's the imperfect moments that truly define us. We delve into the power of authenticity and how embracing our imperfections can enrich our lives. 

Don't forget to subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with someone who needs a little encouragement. Let's continue living our unscripted lives with guts, love, and a touch of daring.

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What's the secret to turning life's messiest moments into opportunities for growth and reinvention? Join Shari Leid, as she shares her personal journey through editing her fourth book, "Table For 51," and discover how editing a book parallels editing our lives. Alongside this, you'll hear the compelling story of Lisa, a listener who transformed her life after a tough divorce. By going back to school, pursuing her passions, and rediscovering love, Lisa’s story is a testament to the resilience and beauty found in life's unfiltered moments. This episode is an invitation to embrace imperfections and view every life edit as a chance to craft an authentic, purposeful story.

Together, we explore how embracing life's imperfections can lead to a richer, more fulfilling life. Tune in to gain insights and inspiration, and join our community at "An Imperfectly Perfect Life" to continue writing your story with courage, love, and a touch of daring. Let's celebrate the messy beauty of life together!

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Can you truly balance living in the moment while planning for the future? Join me, Shari Leid, as I unpack this complex dance, drawing from my personal journey of navigating divorce and major life changes. From selling the family home to moving into a rental property, I share how these experiences taught me to appreciate everyday beauty without losing sight of what's ahead. 

Discover the importance of being fully engaged in the present and how small, seemingly insignificant moments can add up to a happier life. We'll delve into mindfulness practices that help reduce stress and anxiety about the future, and I'll share personal rituals like journaling and starting my day with uplifting songs. Whether you’re dealing with a tough transition or simply seeking more balance, this episode is packed with insights and practical tips to help you along your journey. Tune in to find out how to master the art of living unscripted!

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Imagine uprooting from being a homeowner for over 25 years and stepping into the unknown of a rental property. That's exactly what I experienced, and in this heartfelt episode of "An Imperfectly Perfect Life: Life Unscripted," I share the emotional highs and lows of this significant transition. From the exhaustion and anxiety of moving day to the unexpected moments of growth that followed, I recount every step of the journey. Discover how I found solace in creating a home out of any space and the newfound confidence this journey instilled in me. Together, we’ll explore six essential strategies for transforming a rental into a personal sanctuary amidst life's big changes.

Have you ever considered how your living space shapes your well-being and daily life? Join me as we uncover the profound impact our surroundings have on our mood, health, and productivity. In this episode, we delve into the science behind a well-organized, aesthetically pleasing environment and its ability to boost mental well-being. Creating safe, inviting areas for social interactions and personalized spaces for everyone in the household is crucial. By the end of our conversation, you’ll gain valuable insights on how to craft a home that not only reflects your identity but also enhances your overall happiness and quality of life.

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What if pain isn't the root of your unhappiness? In this heartfelt episode of "An Imperfectly Perfect Life Life Unscripted," I, Shari Leid, share my personal journey to uncover a transformative truth: our lack of growth, not the pain itself, is what leaves us feeling unfulfilled. We'll explore how embracing painful moments and seeking the lessons within them can lead to significant personal development. Through the lens of my own experiences, I reveal how some of the most challenging times can catalyze our greatest triumphs.

Join me as I guide you through five actionable steps to turn the pain of a breakup or divorce into a powerful opportunity for growth. From identifying your emotions to redefining your value in all types of relationships, these steps will help you navigate your feelings and come out stronger on the other side. Discover how to transform your challenges into moments of self-improvement and fulfillment. So, grab your coziest blanket, settle in, and let's embark on this inspiring journey together.

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Ever wondered how humor can be a lifeline during turbulent times? Picture this: You're navigating the emotional minefield of divorce, and suddenly you discover a quirky feature in Word called the "good news voice" that turns your dire emails into hilarious monologues. In episode 26 of "An Imperfectly Perfect Life: Life Unscripted," I, Shari Leid, share this gem and many more to help you find levity amidst life's chaos.

From the bittersweet act of leaving a dream home to adjusting to a rental space, I share my personal journey, hoping it resonates and offers solace and laughter to those going through similar transitions. Tune in for practical advice on downsizing emotionally and physically, sprinkled with anecdotes that underscore the power of humor in healing. Grab a cozy spot and join me on this heartfelt rollercoaster as we explore resilience, reinvention, and finding joy in life's imperfections.

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Ever felt overwhelmed by the whirlwind of life's major milestones and unexpected turns? This week on An Imperfectly Perfect Life Life Unscripted, I share my recent roller coaster ride—celebrating my son's graduation in LA, embarking on a mother-daughter adventure at Bottle Rock in Napa, and selling my house in a jaw-dropping 36 hours. Discover how these experiences, coupled with the joy and chaos of relocating with two big Labradors, have shaped my days and tested my resilience. I open up about the stress of finding a new home that fits my family's needs and how I've managed to stay grounded through it all.

You'll also hear about my personal strategies for handling life's pressures, including the surprising addition of two new theme songs that uplift my mornings—"Counting my Blessings" by Shep Schulter and "Good Day" by Forrest Frank. We'll explore the different ways we respond to stress (fight, flight, tend, and befriend) and how music and mindfulness can help us navigate tough times. Whether you're in need of some practical stress management tips or simply a dose of inspiration, this episode promises to deliver heart, humor, and a whole lot of real talk. Tune in and join me on this unscripted journey!

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In this thought-provoking episode of "An Imperfectly Perfect Life – Life Unscripted," join our host as they delve into the complex world of divorce from a legal perspective, drawing on their own experiences as a former attorney. Whether you're contemplating divorce or just seeking information, this episode offers a compassionate guide to navigating the legal landscape with integrity. Our host discusses the importance of feeling comfortable and informed when consulting with an attorney, shares advice on selecting the right lawyer for your situation, and provides a comprehensive list of crucial questions to ask to ensure you're fully prepared for the process ahead. Tune in to learn how to handle your divorce proceedings with confidence and grace, ensuring you make decisions that align with your values and long-term well-being. This episode is a must-listen for anyone facing the daunting prospect of divorce, offering both guidance and reassurance on this challenging journey. Join us for an insightful session that promises to empower and inform. Don't forget to check out our exclusive 1-day VIP coaching sessions that could transform your approach to life's challenges. We're on a short break after this episode, but we'll return soon with more life-changing content!

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Struggling with the thought of ending your marriage? You're not alone. Let me, Shari Leid, be your confidante as we explore the delicate intricacies of deciding whether to stay or part ways. Through my personal experiences and the essential considerations of friendship, teamwork, and mutual respect, I'll help you weigh the gravity of this decision. It's a journey of reflection, and I'm here to navigate it with you, sharing insights on preserving the beauty of life's messy moments, even when they include something as complex as divorce.

Questions:

1.  **New Friend Test** - If you met your spouse today, would you want to be friends with them? 

2. **Teamwork** - Could you see yourself working on a project with your spouse? Do you function well together? 

3. **Mutual Respect** - Do you respect your spouse? And do you feel respected by them?

4. **Quality Time** - Do you enjoy spending time together, just the two of you, focusing on one another?

5. **Physical Attraction** - Are you physically attracted to your spouse? If not, why? In addition to compatibility and friendship, attraction needs to be there.  

6. **Fear or Love** - Are you staying in this marriage out of love, or is it because of fear?

7. **Missing Piece** - Do you miss your spouse when they’re not around because you genuinely enjoy their company?

8. **Safety Check** - Does your spouse make you feel safe? Secure? Loved?

9. **Long-term Vision** - Can you picture yourself living this way every day for the rest of your life?

10. **Lessons for Kids** - What is your relationship teaching your kids? Are they witnessing a healthy relationship?

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Navigating the labyrinth of love and partnership, we grapple with the question: can the imperfect dance of a romantic relationship be choreographed to happiness? This week's episode of "An Imperfectly Perfect Life, Life Unscripted" is the grand finale of our series 'Creating Your Happiness Blueprint', where I, Shari Leid, draws from the threads of self-worth and the fabric of family and friendships to this week - stitching together the tapestry of those romantic partnerships and the role they play in our happiness blueprint.

Prepare to unlock the secrets of a joyous partnership through four actionable steps, as we dissect the essence of a healthy romantic relationship. We delve into the power of communication, respect, and mutual understanding, alongside the art of maintaining one's individuality within the duo. Come along as we demystify the daily acts of kindness and deep connection that construct a blissful bond, and remember, the path to happiness in love isn't paved with grand gestures, but with the small, consistent steps we take together.

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The echoes of my father's inspiring career pivot from Boeing engineer to a beloved math teacher for deaf students serves as a testament to the transformative power of meaningful work. His story and the many others we've shared underscore the immense satisfaction that comes from aligning our work with what stirs our spirits. Throughout this episode, we discuss not only how to craft a happiness blueprint in our professional lives but also the importance of sprinkling seeds of purpose through volunteer work. As we wrap up part 4 of this 5 part series - creating a happiness blueprint -  we explore together how these small yet intentional acts of service can sprout into a garden of joy and fulfillment, enriching both our lives and the community around us.

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Circled by strangers in a new city, with the daunting task of building a community from scratch - that was my reality before life's twists kept me anchored in Seattle. But the blueprint for happiness I had sketched was too precious to shelve, and that's what we're sharing with you today. Step into episode 20 of "An Imperfectly Perfect Life: Life Unscripted," where we strip down to the core joys and complexities of friendships. We're not just talking about any connections; we're diving into how to forge and deepen the ones that truly light up our lives.

Imagine this: you're armed with a plan, ready to conquer the challenge of making friends in unfamiliar territory, from Toastmasters to tango classes, and even a documentary film festival. Though my own plans took a detour, the strategies remained invaluable. Join me, Shari, as I unfold the lessons learned and guide you through the art of  friendships - an endeavor that's less about chance and more about strategy. Whether you're starting over or simply looking to enrich your circle, this episode promises to equip you with the practical steps to create a community that resonates with your heart.

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Ever encounter that one family member who never fails to push your buttons, turning gatherings into gauntlets? Well, you're not alone, and this conversation is the life raft you didn't know you needed. Join me, Shari, as we pull back the curtain on the genuine essence of family dynamics, where I'm sharing practical tools that promise to change the way you navigate the choppy seas of relative relations. It's a candid look at family happiness, stripped of any pretense, and full of transformative insights for dealing with those challenging personalities that can make or break a family feast.

No guests, no filters, just real talk on how to upgrade your happiness blueprint with a good dose of self-worth and hindsight. I'm letting you in on personal anecdotes, the kind that showcase the power of seeing ourselves as the adults we are now, rather than the children we once were. It's about embracing the entirety of who we've become and using that self-recognition to rewrite our interactions with family. So kick back, get comfortable, and let's unravel the complexities of family joy, because this episode isn't just about finding happiness—it's about creating it, one family gathering at a time.

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Embark on a transformative expedition to the heart of self-worth and its profound impact on our quest for happiness. Channeling the wisdom of Dr. Stan Tatkin's "Wired for Love," I recount the intimate voyage from being adrift like a wave to finding my grounding as an anchor, uncovering the undeniable truth that joy is our birthright. In the first chapter of our five-part series, we unravel the tapestry of self-perception, resilience, and the power of adversity, sharing candid tales of personal battles and breakthroughs that spotlight the potency of acknowledging one's inherent value.

As we chart the course to elevate your self-worth, you're invited to participate in a curated collection of eight life-affirming strategies. From the art of crafting personal affirmations to the cathartic release of journaling, each step is a celebration of the self. I'll guide you through setting boundaries with finesse, transforming self-critique into self-cherishing, and cultivating a spirit of gratitude that magnifies your unique gifts. Together, we'll toast to every victory and engrain the mantra "I am the prize" into the fabric of our lives, steering us toward a radiant future where happiness flourishes, unfettered by the need for external approval.

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Dive into "An Imperfectly Perfect Life: Life Unscripted," where host Shari Leid shares her raw and real experiences navigating through life's major upheavals. From tackling a divorce after 26 years, selling her family home, to the uncertainties of setting new roots, all while parenting young adults and caring for two big dogs, Shari explores the essence of maintaining happiness amidst chaos. This podcast episode lays the groundwork for the upcoming 5-part series which is a heartfelt journey into finding joy and beauty in life's imperfections, proving that happiness is not about achieving perfection but embracing the messiness of life with open arms.

Throughout this compelling series, Shari offers a real-time insight into her life changes, focusing on critical aspects of happiness such as self-worth, family dynamics, friendships, work, and romantic relationships. "An Imperfectly Perfect Life: Life Unscripted" is more than a story; it's a conversation about thriving in turbulence and seeing opportunity in chaos. Join Shari as she shares her secrets to living a life filled with happiness, reminding us that happiness is not found in the destination but along the journey of everyday life. 

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Embarking on a quest for balance amidst life's tumultuous waves. This episode wraps up our three-part series on achieving a harmonious life, and trust me, it's a conversation you won't want to miss. Expect a blend of laughter and learning as we dissect the art of boundary setting—those that flex without fracturing—ensuring you can face life's buffet with confidence and poise.

Let's peel back the layers of what it means to live a life aligned with your true self. We kick things off by flipping the script on traditional notions of balance—it's not a one-size-fits-all approach, but rather a personalized alignment of actions and identity. I'll take you through the steps of identifying your non-negotiables and teach you how to craft boundaries that stand firm yet allow growth. If you're ready to sketch out a roadmap to your imperfectly perfect life, then grab your notepad and let's navigate this journey together.

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Ever felt like you're donning a pair of jeans that just doesn't fit right? That's the discomfort we tackle in our latest heart-to-heart, where I, Shari Leid, guide you through the essential second step towards crafting a life that's in perfect harmony with your authentic self. We're not just talking small tweaks; we're overhauling your wardrobe of daily actions to ensure they truly represent who you are at your core. It's about creating a life that fits as perfectly as your favorite pair of jeans - snug in all the right places and giving you the confidence to strut your stuff.

This episode is a cozy blanket for your soul, offering you the tools to align your life's various facets, from career choices to personal relationships, with your deepest values. We use the concept of the 'wheel of life' as our dashboard as we navigate Step 2 of this three week series into the journey towards living a life that feels not just balanced but full of purpose and joy. It's a cruise down the fast lane towards a life where every aspect resonates with your true identity. So, if you're ready to shed the overwhelming, stuck feelings and embrace the beautiful mess of living authentically, this is your sign to tune in and transform your life, one impactful shift at a time.

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In the kickoff episode of our enlightening three-week series, we embark on a transformative journey towards achieving a genuinely balanced life amidst the chaos of daily commitments. This episode delves into the critical first step of this journey: a profound exploration of self-identity. We uncover the often overlooked truth that the path to balance doesn't involve adding more to our overflowing plates but rather, requires a deep understanding of our inner selves.

Through personal anecdotes and reflective insights, we examine the complexities of answering the seemingly simple question, "Who are you?" beyond the superficial titles and roles we play in society. This episode invites you to embark on an introspective quest to discover your values, passions, and dreams, urging you to see this process as an intimate opportunity to learn about yourself as if you were a new, intriguing friend.

Highlighting the significance of self-discovery in navigating life's inevitable transitions, such as career shifts or personal losses, we share touching stories that illustrate the stabilizing power of a solid sense of self. The narrative is enriched with a set of daily journaling prompts designed to guide you through a week of self-exploration, encouraging a deep dive into what truly makes you feel alive, confronts your fears, and brings you joy.

This episode is an invitation to embrace the journey of self-awareness as an ongoing adventure, influenced by life's experiences and relationships. It underscores the importance of dedicating time to truly understand oneself, laying a strong foundation for making decisions that foster a balanced and fulfilling life.

Join us as we step forward on this path to discovering an imperfectly perfect balanced life, highlighting the importance of growth, exploration, and the enduring impact of self-knowledge.

This week's homework - daily journal prompts:

Thursday: What and who makes me feel most alive?
Friday: Reflect on your greatest setbacks. What unexpected gains did they bring?Saturday: Think about the best job you've ever had. What made it so special?
Sunday: Who do you admire the most and why?
Monday: Recall the last time you felt pure joy. Who were you with, and what were you doing?
Tuesday: What would you do if fear wasn't holding you back?
Wednesday: What do you dislike most about your day-to-day life, and why?

To work one-on-one with Shari, book your free Discovery session via Zoom now! 

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Ever feel like you're chasing the white rabbit of balance down a never-ending hole? Join me, Shari Leid as we chuck the traditional pie-chart approach and get real about crafting a life that actually tastes as good as it looks. In this heart-to-heart chat, we'll break down the Wheel of Life, but with a twist that's less about scoring life areas and more about savoring them. Discover why a balanced life might not mean what you think and how authenticity and alignment are the secret ingredients.

Get cozy and ready to laugh, learn, and maybe even shed a tear as we talk about the three steps to a life that's not just evenly sliced, but deliciously fulfilling. Lean in as we lay the roadmap to a 3 week series filled with practical advice on understanding your identity, aligning your actions, and the art of setting boundaries with a side of flexibility. We're stepping away from the one-size-fits-all approach and instead, embracing the chaos with open arms and an open heart. Prepare to walk away feeling a little lighter and a lot more prepared for whatever life dishes out next.

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When life threw me a curveball, I caught it with both hands and dared to ask, "What's next?" Join me, Shari Leid, as we explore the silver linings of life's toughest moments, from the heartaches of divorce to the hidden opportunities it can reveal. We'll share a hearty laugh and dish out some real talk on how those imperfect moments are really the ones that shape us. Together, we're learning to rock our imperfections and discover growth in places we never thought to look.

Embrace the mantra "It's not happening to me, it's happening for me," and let's navigate through life's stormiest seas with guts, love, and a wink, because as Shari Leid reminds us, it's the imperfectly perfect moments that make life truly worth living.

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Welcome back to "An Imperfectly Perfect Life – Life Unscripted," the podcast where we embrace life's messes and find the beauty in transformation. As your host, I'm walking alongside you through my own journey of ending a 26-year marriage and embarking on a personal renaissance. This podcast is my way of sharing the tools and insights that are guiding me through this metamorphosis, with the hope of easing your path to reinvention. We're wrapping up our "Envision a Fuller Life" series, where we've been crafting personal mission statement to serve as our north stars through life's upheavals and our daily existence. And, in a twist of fate, today's episode, focusing on crafting our PARTNER Vision, lands on Valentine's Day—a serendipitous reminder of the love we're navigating towards and the growth we're embracing.

In this final stretch, we're not just dreaming up an ideal partner; we're diving deep to ensure our future relationships are not repeats of the past but are built on mutual respect, understanding, and shared dreams. This PARTNER Vision is about recognizing our completeness alone and seeking a partner who enriches our lives, not completes it. It's about honest introspection into our relationship histories, acknowledging our roles in past patterns, and realizing our power to choose differently. We focus on the essentials: physical attraction, the depth of respect you'd share with a close friend, and the kind of compatibility that makes for an unstoppable team. This journey isn't about finding a flawless partner but about choosing someone who complements the complete individual you already are. As we conclude this series, I hope you feel empowered to navigate life's transitions with grace and to craft relationships that add joy, growth, and fulfillment to your life's narrative.

Envision a Fuller Life series homework - Crafting your personal mission statement:

Week 1: The You Vision: Draft the first two sentences of your personal mission statement:

 I, [Your Name], am committed to living a life that reflects my deepest values of [Core Value 1], [Core Value 2], and [Core Value 3]. I understand that my journey is unique and pledge to approach each day with [Quality or Trait 1] and [Quality or Trait 2].

Week 2: The Friendship Vision: Draft the next 3 sentences of your personal mission statement: 

In my personal life, I aspire to cultivate and nourish friendships that are rooted in (insert 3 values). I will invest time and energy into activities with friends that contribute positively to my personal growth by supporting me in (this way). My friendship love language, how I receive love from my friends is through (insert example ) and how they receive love from me is through (insert example).

Week 3: The World Vision:  Draft the next powerful sentence of your personal mission statement:

In my pursuit of a [Core Value] world, I envision a future where [Desired Change] is not just an ideal, but a reality for all. I am dedicated to fostering [Specific Area of Impact] in my community and beyond, ensuring that every individual has the opportunity to [Specific Benefit or Experience]

Week 4: The Partner Vision: Draft the final portion of your mission statement:

My partner is the perfect mix of  [Qualities of attraction] that is more than just a physical attraction, but a friendship rich in connection with genuine respect and a lot of laughs. Our relationship is anchored in [Qualities of friendship], a true refuge where I can be myself , we share unwavering

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As Shari Leid, your guide through the twists and turns of a life lived fully, I'm here to tell you about the compass that has steadied my sails during the stormiest of times: a personal mission statement. Join me on a journey of self-discovery where we'll harness the power of our deepest values to navigate life's challenges, like my own story of clarity found amidst the chaos of divorce. It's not just about surviving the squalls but thriving by intentionally crafting your life's purpose to reflect who you truly are and who you aspire to be. This episode is an open invitation to anchor in the truth of your being and to build your personal mission statement that not only resonates with the core of your spirit but also will become your guiding light.

You've stumbled upon a podcast that is about celebrating the beautifully unpredictable nature of life in 'An Imperfectly Perfect Life - Life Unscripted.' It's about embracing the plot twists with laughter, weaving sincerity throughout the chapters, and authoring an extraordinary tale that's entirely your own. With each tick of the timepiece, we're gifted an opportunity to pen our joy, our love, and the uniquely splendid narrative of our existence. So, I invite you to join this heartfelt expedition, where we let go of the script and live out loud, crafting every spontaneous moment into a masterpiece of our own design.

Homework for Envision a Fuller Life Series;

Week 1: The You Vision: Draft the first two sentences of your personal mission statement:

 I, [Your Name], am committed to living a life that reflects my deepest values of [Core Value 1], [Core Value 2], and [Core Value 3]. I understand that my journey is unique and pledge to approach each day with [Quality or Trait 1] and [Quality or Trait 2].

Week 2: The Friendship Vision: Draft the next 3 sentences of your personal mission statement:

In my personal life, I aspire to cultivate and nourish friendships that are rooted in (insert 3 values). I will invest time and energy into activities with friends that contribute positively to my personal growth by supporting me in (this way). My friendship love language, how I receive love from my friends is through (insert example ) and how they receive love from me is through (insert example).

Week 3: The World Vision:  Draft the next powerful sentence of your personal mission statement;

In my pursuit of a [Core Value] world, I envision a future where [Desired Change] is not just an ideal, but a reality for all. I am dedicated to fostering [Specific Area of Impact] in my community and beyond, ensuring that every individual has the opportunity to [Specific Benefit or Experience]

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Welcome back to "An Imperfectly Perfect Life - Life Unscripted," the podcast where personal growth, life's lessons, and deep connections converge to guide your transformative journey.

Today, we embark on part two of a four-part series designed to reshape your perspective and revitalize your aspirations. As your life coach, I'm here to guide you, especially through the tumultuous phase of divorce. Our series, "Envision a Fuller Life," began last week with Part One: The You Vision. It was the crucial foundation that set the stage for this week's episode and the upcoming phases: The Friendship Vision, The World Vision, and The Partner Vision. 

This week, we merge your Friendship Vision with your You Vision in the drafting of your Personal Mission Statement. What's this Friendship Vision all about? It's not just about amassing friends like seashells on a beach; it's about nurturing connections that align with your values, fuel your growth, and remind you that you're never alone.

Today, we're diving deep into creating friendships that are more than just quick snacks; they're like a warm, hearty soup for your soul. We'll ponder questions like, "Who earns a spot on your dream team of friends?" and "Which hangouts leave you feeling charged up, and which ones have you reaching for that emergency shot of espresso, or maybe even tequila?"

We'll explore the art of being the kind of friend you wish to have, whether you're the superhero or the trusty sidekick. And we'll navigate the dance of investing time and energy because, let's face it, some of us are ready for a Netflix marathon, while others are all about those quick TikTok laughs.

This exploration paves the way for a richer, more authentic life, laying a sturdy foundation for the subsequent visions we'll build together.

Join us next week for Part 3: The World Vision, as we continue crafting your fuller life. And don't forget, exciting news awaits—I've just launched a brand-new website and am eager to support your journey in 2024. Let's make it a pivotal year together! 

Tune in for the next enriching episode of "An Imperfectly Perfect Life - Life Unscripted." Cherish this week and the introspective journey it brings. 

Homework:

Week 1: The You Vision: Draft the first two sentences of your personal mission statement:

 I, [Your Name], am committed to living a life that reflects my deepest values of [Core Value 1], [Core Value 2], and [Core Value 3]. I understand that my journey is unique and pledge to approach each day with [Quality or Trait 1] and [Quality or Trait 2].

Week 2: The Friendship Vision: Draft the next 3 sentences of your personal mission statement:

In my personal life, I aspire to cultivate and nourish friendships that are rooted in (insert 3 values). I will invest time and energy into activities with friends that contribute positively to my personal growth by supporting me in (this way). My friendship love language, how I receive love from my friends is through (insert example ) and how they receive love from me is through (insert example).

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Welcome back to "An Imperfectly Perfect Life - Life Unscripted," the podcast where personal growth, life's lessons, and deep connections converge to guide your transformative journey.

Today, we embark on a transformative four-part series designed to reshape your perspective and revitalize your aspirations. As your life coach, I'm here to guide you, especially through the tumultuous phase of divorce. Our series, "Envision a Fuller Life," starts with Part One: The You Vision. This crucial foundation sets the stage for the upcoming phases: The Friendship Vision, The World Vision, and The Partner Vision.. 

In this episode, we tackle the creation of a Personal Mission Statement, a reflective journey demanding introspection into your core values, passions, and aspirations. This living document serves as the cornerstone of your self-identity and future decisions. 

We'll explore questions like: 

• What are my core values and passions? 
• How do my past challenges shape my worldview? 
• What does a balanced life of success and significance look like to me? 
• How can I envision growth in my personal and professional life? 

This week's homework: 

• Draft the first two sentences of your personal mission statement:
•  I, [Your Name], am committed to living a life that reflects my deepest values of [Core Value 1], [Core Value 2], and [Core Value 3]. I understand that my journey is unique and pledge to approach each day with [Quality or Trait 1] and [Quality or Trait 2].

This exploration paves the way for a richer, more authentic life, laying a sturdy foundation for the subsequent visions we'll build together.

Join us next week for Part 2: The Friendship Vision, as we continue crafting your fuller life. And don't forget, exciting news awaits—I've just launched a brand-new website and am eager to support your journey in 2024. Let's make it a pivotal year together! 

Tune in for the next enriching episode of "An Imperfectly Perfect Life - Life Unscripted." Cherish this week and the introspective journey it brings. 

#animperfectlyperfectlife #sharileid #newbeginnings #theartofreinvention #lilfecoach #midlifecoach #selfhelp #livewithpurpose #divorce #tablefor51 #50statesproject #flipthebox #keynotespeaker #connectioncoach #belonging #creatingbelonging #keynotespeaker #relocation

Are you feeling like you're on a tumultuous ride through the ups and downs of divorce? Strap in for a journey with Shari Leid, your guide in mastering the art of detaching from the outcomes of your divorce. Say goodbye to the pain of clinging to expectations, and welcome the freedom that comes from embracing the unknown and the unexpected twists in your life story. With Shari's wisdom, you'll learn to find humor in the face of life's curveballs, transforming your divorce journey into a source of strength and resilience.

In this candid episode, we delve into more than just the challenges of divorce; we explore the surprising joys and opportunities it can bring. Become the master of your own story, skillfully navigating emotional challenges with the practical strategies Shari provides, designed to keep you level-headed. This isn't about erasing the past but about celebrating new beginnings and the beauty of life's imperfectly perfect chapters. From lowering your expectations of your former partner to learning the delicate balance of letting go of minor issues, this podcast is an emotional survival kit, akin to a heartfelt conversation with a close friend.

Prepare for authentic conversations, a hint of playful mischief, and maybe even a few unexpected moments of happiness. Join us as Shari Leid transforms the way you view divorce, turning it into an opportunity for growth, new beginnings, and self-reinvention.

To book  a free 45 minute discovery session  with Shari  -- please visit www.animperfectlyperfectlife.com 

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Peel off those sticky labels and join me, Shari Leid, as we redefine what it means to be, well, us. In the wild aftermath of seismic life shifts,  there's a spectrum of emotions and a quest to rediscover our identity. This episode is a raw, candid exploration of how we're often shoved into boxes with labels—some of which can stick with us longer than we'd like. I'll take you through my first solo flight at a Christmas party since my marriage ended, sharing the humor and discomfort that comes with being a plus-one to your old self.

As your navigator through re-authored personal narratives, I'll encourage you to grab the pen and start writing your own story. It's about moving past the labels and stepping into a space where you can be fabulously, imperfectly perfect - understanding what makes you unique - or dare I say, weird - as you uncover your identity as this stage of life. With anecdotes that will have you nodding along and insights to light the path, this conversation is for anyone who’s ever felt confined by a label. Whether you're an empty nester, recently divorced, or someone forging a new path later in life, let's toast to the growth, confidence, and liberation that come with focusing on the journey of discovery our unique identities, shedding the labels that can hold us back.

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In this heartening episode of "Life Unscripted," host Shari Leid delves into the intricacies of navigating life's transformative journeys, with a special focus on those experiencing divorce in 2024. However, the insights and resolutions discussed are universally applicable to anyone facing challenging times.

Shari starts by debunking traditional goal-setting, advocating instead for behavior-based resolutions that align with desired emotional states. She emphasizes the possibility of simultaneous joy and grief, using her own life as an example of finding happiness amidst the logistical and emotional complexities of divorce.

The episode unfolds in a series of thoughtful segments:

1. Hydrate Your Body and Soul: Shari discusses the importance of water not just for physical health but as a source of emotional nourishment.
2. Share a Smile, Share a Moment: The power of a smile and human connections is highlighted, encouraging listeners to find joy in everyday interactions.
3. Meditate to Find Clarity: Meditation is presented as a tool for emotional steadiness, particularly useful during the ups and downs of divorce.
4. Nurture Meaningful Friendships: The role of friendships in providing support through tough times is explored.
5. Emotions as Insights: Emotions are reframed as valuable insights rather than defining aspects of identity.
6. Discover Opportunity in Setbacks: Shari encourages a perspective shift to view setbacks as opportunities for growth and new beginnings.
7. Reframe Challenges as Growth: The importance of breaking down challenges into manageable steps and finding the silver lining in difficulties is discussed.
8. Release the Need to Fix: The episode touches on the liberation found in letting go of the compulsion to fix everything.
9. Build a Support Toolbox: Shari talks about the importance of seeking help and building a support system.
10. Healthy Boundaries: Setting healthy boundaries is highlighted as a key to self-worth and personal well-being.
11. Live in the Present: The benefits of living in the present and not being weighed down by past or future worries are emphasized.
12. Organize for Clarity: Organizational strategies for bringing order and clarity to life are discussed.

The episode concludes with Shari reinforcing the idea that these resolutions are meant to guide listeners through their transformative journeys, empowering them to face life's challenges with resilience and grace. She invites listeners to engage with her one-on-one coaching sessions for personalized guidance.

The episode is a blend of personal anecdotes, practical advice, and empathetic guidance, offering listeners a roadmap for navigating the complexities of transformation and change in 2024.

To work with Shari one-on-one visit An Imperfectly Perfect Life

To find out more about Paula Rizzo who is mentioned as the list expert in this episode, visit her at List Producer

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Navigating the social labyrinth during and after a divorce can feel like trying to untangle a set of headphones that’s been in your pocket all day. That's why we're toasting to fresh starts and the art of maintaining friendships amidst life's unexpected curveballs. Shari here, and in our latest heart-to-heart, we're tackling the tricky dynamics of post-divorce friend circles with the same ease as balancing two brimming cups of coffee. You’re not alone if your social scene looks more like a complex Venn diagram these days, and I'm spilling the secrets on keeping those friendships flourishing without a drop of drama.

As your go-to friendship expert, I'm diving headfirst into the world of boundaries and balance because let's face it, it’s okay for your friends to stay pals with your ex. We'll laugh, share stories, and maybe shed a tear or two as we address the juggling act of friendships both during and post-split. So, plug in, pour yourself a drink, and get ready for a real talk that promises to leave you feeling empowered to navigate those friendships with grace and maybe even a dash of mischief. No guests, just us, and an honest conversation that’s all about embracing our fabulously, imperfectly perfect lives.

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What happens when your life takes an unexpected turn? You push through with a sprinkle of humor and a whole lot of self-awareness. That’s exactly what I did when I found myself navigating through the emotional labyrinth of divorce. I discovered the subtle, yet crucial differences between emotions and feelings, and how they deeply impact our communication style. This episode is a candid concoction of my personal anecdotes, a bit of banter, and a lot of learning. I'll take you through my journey of using these emotions and feelings as alarm bells to detach, communicate more effectively, and ultimately embrace my beautifully imperfect life.

As we are heading into the holiday season, let's unwrap some joy and resilience. I promise you that I’ll be there with you, sharing my goal of living in joy, regardless of life's curveballs. Let's learn together how to transform our challenges into opportunities for growth. So, whether you are dealing with a personal upheaval such as divorce, looking for ways to manage your emotions and feelings better, or simply love stories of resilience and transformation, you are in the right place. Let's laugh a little, learn a lot, and find joy in our wonderfully imperfect lives, shall we?

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Sharí, applying her professional skills as a life coach to her own life, shares her journey of self-coaching. She brings in themes from her week, emphasizing this week -  the power of perspective with mantras like "You See What You’re Looking For." This approach helps to shift focus from loss to opportunity, encouraging a positive outlook on life's challenges.

Today's podcast includes stories from Sharí's "50 States Project," where she dined with strangers across the U.S., learning unique life lessons. Shari shares a story about Megan, a makeup artist from Virginia who adopted her husbands last name when they married and how she humorously encounters cultural mix-ups, exemplifying how people see what they are looking for.

Sharí shares personal experiences that serve as examples of transforming daily tasks into moments of joy and appreciation. She advocates for a mindset shift from catabolic (destructive) to anabolic (constructive) states.

Call to Action: Sharí encourages listeners to experiment with changing their perspectives, to find hidden opportunities in difficult situations, and to seek joy in simple things. She stresses the importance of building happiness and relationships over the fleeting joy that comes from acquiring material things.

Conclusion: The podcast closes on a note of hope, reminding listeners that every day presents an opportunity for rediscovery and reinvention, emphasizing the mantra, "You see what you are looking for," helping listeners to find joy even during challenging transitions.

Shari Leid, is a former litigate who currently operates An Imperfectly Perfect Life, LLC, a professional mindset coaching business primarily serving clients who feel stuck and helping them to create the life of their dreams. She is a national speaker and author of The Friendship Series, including The 50/50 Friendship Flow: Life Lessons From and For My Girlfriends, Make Your Mess Your Message: More Life Lessons From and For My Girlfriends and Ask Yourself This: Ultimate Life Lessons From and For My Girlfriends (September 2022). Throughout 2023, she traveled to all 50 states where she shared a meal with a stranger in every state. The 50 States Project kicked off in Albuquerque, New Mexico in January 2023  and wrapped up in Nebraska at the end of September 2023. Shari is currently writing about her journey which will be published in February 2025. She has been seen on ABC, NBC, CBS, FOX, CTV and featured in Huff Post, Real Simple, Pure Wow, Woman’s World, Toronto Sun, and Shondaland, Yahoo News, Buzzfeed, and Apple News, and AARP.

To work with Shari visit www.animperfectlyperfectlife.com
For media inquiries contact Kourtney Jason at Kourtney@pacificandcourt.com

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Hello! Welcome to An Imperfectly Perfect Life – Life Unscripted. I'm Shari Leid, and I’m here to guide you through an adventure – one that's part life coaching, part laughter, and all about transformation.

This Podcast is beginning just a few days before by 54th birthday - while I am in process of ending a 26-year marriage, I’m turning the page to a new chapter – but here’s the twist: this podcast isn’t about the end. It's about beginnings, opportunities, and the joy of crafting the next act of our lives with a little more wisdom and a lot of heart.

Every episode is a journey into the art of reinvention. We’ll chat about the rollercoaster of emotions, sprinkle in some practical life hacks, and share stories that’ll make you laugh and think. It’s like a heart-to-heart with your best friend.

Whether you're navigating similar life changes or just love a good story of triumph and transformation, this is your spot. We're here to explore, to learn, and most importantly, to find joy in the unexpected.

So, let's open our hearts, share some laughs, and embark on this incredible journey together. Welcome to An Imperfectly Perfect Life – Life Unscripted, where every moment is an opportunity to fully embrace and love your imperfectly perfect life.

Let the adventure begin!

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