Love, Happiness, and Success For Therapists https://www.growingself.com/therapists en 1c639830-ca32-11f0-b966-55978e2a718f Hey, fellow therapists! 🌟 Welcome to 'Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists,' the podcast that's here to help you level up your career and life. As therapists, we're the ones who create a space for others to grow and connect, but I believe it's high time we started doing the same for ourselves. The world needs us! But without care and support, opportunities to grow, and a commitment to your own well-being, we become depleted... even burned out. Therapists need to be recognized, and deserve love and care too! I'm your host, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby, fellow therapist, and founder of Growing Self Counseling and Coaching, and I'm thrilled to be your guide on this journey. We've chosen a profession that's both demanding and incredibly rewarding. We're the healers, the empathetic hearts, the change-makers who make the world a better place. But let's be real—the world often forgets to give us the support and care we need. Well, that's about to change! Every week, join me as we dive into topics that matter to you and your clients. You'll get real-world strategies that will not only supercharge your therapy practice but also help you create the love and happiness you've been craving while achieving the success you've always envisioned. 'Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists,' is here to be your trusted ally, and partner in your personal and professional growth. I'm bringing you a treasure trove of enlightening podcasts, and invaluable resources that will nourish your mind, heart, and soul. You've dedicated yourself to helping others; now it's time to receive the support and strategies you deserve. Get ready to soar, my friends! đŸŒ±đŸ’• https://megaphone.imgix.net/podcasts/0f446c3a-6e0a-11f0-98d8-732a9accd0a5/image/49017650391b4eae1a2bd29b74bd019c.png?ixlib=rails-4.3.1&max-w=3000&max-h=3000&fit=crop&auto=format,compress Love, Happiness, and Success For Therapists https://www.growingself.com/therapists no episodic Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Hey, fellow therapists! 🌟 Welcome to 'Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists,' the podcast that's here to help you level up your career and life. As therapists, we're the ones who create a space for others to grow and connect, but I believe it's high time we started doing the same for ourselves. The world needs us! But without care and support, opportunities to grow, and a commitment to your own well-being, we become depleted... even burned out. Therapists need to be recognized, and deserve love and care too! I'm your host, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby, fellow therapist, and founder of Growing Self Counseling and Coaching, and I'm thrilled to be your guide on this journey. We've chosen a profession that's both demanding and incredibly rewarding. We're the healers, the empathetic hearts, the change-makers who make the world a better place. But let's be real—the world often forgets to give us the support and care we need. Well, that's about to change! Every week, join me as we dive into topics that matter to you and your clients. You'll get real-world strategies that will not only supercharge your therapy practice but also help you create the love and happiness you've been craving while achieving the success you've always envisioned. 'Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists,' is here to be your trusted ally, and partner in your personal and professional growth. I'm bringing you a treasure trove of enlightening podcasts, and invaluable resources that will nourish your mind, heart, and soul. You've dedicated yourself to helping others; now it's time to receive the support and strategies you deserve. Get ready to soar, my friends! đŸŒ±đŸ’• Hey, fellow therapists! 🌟 Welcome to 'Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists,' the podcast that's here to help you level up your career and life. As therapists, we're the ones who create a space for others to grow and connect, but I believe it's high time we started doing the same for ourselves. The world needs us! But without care and support, opportunities to grow, and a commitment to your own well-being, we become depleted... even burned out. Therapists need to be recognized, and deserve love and care too! I'm your host, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby, fellow therapist, and founder of Growing Self Counseling and Coaching, and I'm thrilled to be your guide on this journey. We've chosen a profession that's both demanding and incredibly rewarding. We're the healers, the empathetic hearts, the change-makers who make the world a better place. But let's be real—the world often forgets to give us the support and care we need. Well, that's about to change! Every week, join me as we dive into topics that matter to you and your clients. You'll get real-world strategies that will not only supercharge your therapy practice but also help you create the love and happiness you've been craving while achieving the success you've always envisioned. 'Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists,' is here to be your trusted ally, and partner in your personal and professional growth. I'm bringing you a treasure trove of enlightening podcasts, and invaluable resources that will nourish your mind, heart, and soul. You've dedicated yourself to helping others; now it's time to receive the support and strategies you deserve. Get ready to soar, my friends! đŸŒ±đŸ’•

]]> YAP Media Network | Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby drlisa@growingself.com Attachment-Based Therapy: Why Insight Alone Doesn't Change Clients | Dr. Amir Levine | E98 You've been recommending Attached for years. Your client has read it twice. They can name their attachment style, walk you through the childhood wound, and articulate exactly why they do what they do. And they are still, every few months, processing another version of the same painful cycle in their relationship. In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Amir Levine, the Columbia psychiatrist and molecular neuroscientist whose first book Attached has now sold over three million copies in 42 languages and become a permanent fixture on every therapist's clinical shelf. His follow-up, Secure, just came out from Penguin Random House, and it answers the question therapists keep asking after handing Attached to a client: how do clients actually change their attachment style? In This Episode: Why naming a client's attachment style is not enough to change it, and what the neuroscience actually says about pattern change The Cyberball paradigm and what it tells us about why our clients' brains react so powerfully to small moments of disconnection Why a 50-minute therapy hour can't compete with the thousand social interactions a client encounters before next week's session CARP, the five pillars of secure mode, and how Levine teaches clients to recognize them in others The CARP intervention script you can teach an anxious client to invite secure recruits into their life Wall Tennis With Love, the technique for right-sizing the relationships that keep pulling anxious clients off-center Why most avoidant clients are accidentally creating the very neediness they resent in others, and the Strange Situation parallel that finally helps them see it What to do when your own attachment style is showing up in the therapy room, including the framework that works for therapists with ADHD or non-traditional rhythms Why This Matters This episode is for any clinician who has ever sat across from a self-aware, hard-working client and quietly thought: I am not sure what I am supposed to do with this. The ones who have read every book, named every pattern, and still cannot move. What Amir is offering is a clinical reframe that does not ask you to throw out what you already know, but adds something most of us were never explicitly trained to do. If you have been sitting with a stuck client lately wondering whether your method is the problem or your client is the problem, this conversation is going to land somewhere specific. Resources Therapist Growth Collective, our free professional community for clinicians Practice support and consulting for therapists If this conversation opened something up for you clinically, please share it with the colleague you were thinking about as you were listening. The work we do matters, and so does the way we do it together. XO, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Growing Self Wed, 13 May 2026 09:00:00 -0000 full Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby You've been recommending Attached for years. Your client has read it twice. They can name their attachment style, walk you through the childhood wound, and articulate exactly why they do what they do. And they are still, every few months, processing another version of the same painful cycle in their relationship. In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Amir Levine, the Columbia psychiatrist and molecular neuroscientist whose first book Attached has now sold over three million copies in 42 languages and become a permanent fixture on every therapist's clinical shelf. His follow-up, Secure, just came out from Penguin Random House, and it answers the question therapists keep asking after handing Attached to a client: how do clients actually change their attachment style? In This Episode: Why naming a client's attachment style is not enough to change it, and what the neuroscience actually says about pattern change The Cyberball paradigm and what it tells us about why our clients' brains react so powerfully to small moments of disconnection Why a 50-minute therapy hour can't compete with the thousand social interactions a client encounters before next week's session CARP, the five pillars of secure mode, and how Levine teaches clients to recognize them in others The CARP intervention script you can teach an anxious client to invite secure recruits into their life Wall Tennis With Love, the technique for right-sizing the relationships that keep pulling anxious clients off-center Why most avoidant clients are accidentally creating the very neediness they resent in others, and the Strange Situation parallel that finally helps them see it What to do when your own attachment style is showing up in the therapy room, including the framework that works for therapists with ADHD or non-traditional rhythms Why This Matters This episode is for any clinician who has ever sat across from a self-aware, hard-working client and quietly thought: I am not sure what I am supposed to do with this. The ones who have read every book, named every pattern, and still cannot move. What Amir is offering is a clinical reframe that does not ask you to throw out what you already know, but adds something most of us were never explicitly trained to do. If you have been sitting with a stuck client lately wondering whether your method is the problem or your client is the problem, this conversation is going to land somewhere specific. Resources Therapist Growth Collective, our free professional community for clinicians Practice support and consulting for therapists If this conversation opened something up for you clinically, please share it with the colleague you were thinking about as you were listening. The work we do matters, and so does the way we do it together. XO, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Growing Self You've been recommending Attached for years. Your client has read it twice. They can name their attachment style, walk you through the childhood wound, and articulate exactly why they do what they do. And they are still, every few months, processing another version of the same painful cycle in their relationship.


In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Amir Levine, the Columbia psychiatrist and molecular neuroscientist whose first book Attached has now sold over three million copies in 42 languages and become a permanent fixture on every therapist's clinical shelf. His follow-up, Secure, just came out from Penguin Random House, and it answers the question therapists keep asking after handing Attached to a client: how do clients actually change their attachment style?


In This Episode:

  • Why naming a client's attachment style is not enough to change it, and what the neuroscience actually says about pattern change
  • The Cyberball paradigm and what it tells us about why our clients' brains react so powerfully to small moments of disconnection
  • Why a 50-minute therapy hour can't compete with the thousand social interactions a client encounters before next week's session
  • CARP, the five pillars of secure mode, and how Levine teaches clients to recognize them in others
  • The CARP intervention script you can teach an anxious client to invite secure recruits into their life
  • Wall Tennis With Love, the technique for right-sizing the relationships that keep pulling anxious clients off-center
  • Why most avoidant clients are accidentally creating the very neediness they resent in others, and the Strange Situation parallel that finally helps them see it
  • What to do when your own attachment style is showing up in the therapy room, including the framework that works for therapists with ADHD or non-traditional rhythms


Why This Matters

This episode is for any clinician who has ever sat across from a self-aware, hard-working client and quietly thought: I am not sure what I am supposed to do with this. The ones who have read every book, named every pattern, and still cannot move. What Amir is offering is a clinical reframe that does not ask you to throw out what you already know, but adds something most of us were never explicitly trained to do. If you have been sitting with a stuck client lately wondering whether your method is the problem or your client is the problem, this conversation is going to land somewhere specific.














Resources


If this conversation opened something up for you clinically, please share it with the colleague you were thinking about as you were listening. The work we do matters, and so does the way we do it together.

XO,

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

Growing Self

]]> 3653 no Have Them at ‘Hello’ - Secrets to New Client Engagement | LHSFT Classic You had a first meeting with a prospective therapy client that YOU thought went great
 but the client never came back. Here’s why: Therapists don’t know how to communicate their value. Why do amazing therapists struggle with ⁠therapy client engagement⁠? Spoiler alert: It’s not about your clinical skills, it's about how you connect. Engaging therapy clients isn’t just about being good at what you do; it’s about helping prospective clients see the unique value you bring. In this episode of Love Happiness and Success for Therapists, I’ll walk you through actionable steps to engage therapy clients, communicate your unique value, and grow a thriving private practice. You’ll learn how to structure consultations that naturally build trust and connection, how to address common concerns around cost, time, and readiness, and how to effectively communicate your process and unique approach to therapy. Chapters: 00:00 Introduction: Why Client Engagement Matters 00:45 The Common Struggles of Private Practice Therapists 01:47 Overcoming the Fear of Self-Promotion 03:33 Connect with Clients Before They Meet You 11:57 Helping Clients Define Their Goals 15:14 Explaining Your Therapy Process with Clarity 23:59 Tackling Client Objections Gracefully 28:18 Highlighting Your Unique Value Proposition 31:13 Mastering Post-Consultation Follow-Ups 34:12 Reflect, Refine, and Grow Your Practice 38:17 More Resources to Support You Your clients need more than what conventional therapy alone can offer. The reality? “Coaches” without formal training are scooping up the opportunities you’re missing, because they have a structured framework of change that they can communicate - and clients love it. You can learn how to do this too! In my free ⁠ “What Every Therapist Must Know About Coaching” Masterclass⁠, you’ll discover how to integrate evidence-based coaching techniques to stand out in a crowded field and enhance your therapy practice. Coaching tools can help you empower clients to achieve goals faster, deepen their engagement, and create lasting change—all while staying true to your professional integrity. 👉 ⁠ Join the Masterclass Now⁠ and take your practice to the next level! Let’s make 2025 your breakthrough year.  If you found this helpful, check out some of my other episodes for more tips and strategies to elevate your private practice! And hey, share this with your professional community—let’s help each other grow. đŸŒ± Xoxo ⁠Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby⁠ ⁠ www.growingself.com⁠ P.S. Let’s Connect! I’d love to hear your thoughts and be part of your professional journey. ⁠Connect with me on LinkedIn⁠ to join an amazing community of therapists growing and thriving together. Wed, 06 May 2026 09:00:00 -0000 full Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby You had a first meeting with a prospective therapy client that YOU thought went great
 but the client never came back. Here’s why: Therapists don’t know how to communicate their value. Why do amazing therapists struggle with ⁠therapy client engagement⁠? Spoiler alert: It’s not about your clinical skills, it's about how you connect. Engaging therapy clients isn’t just about being good at what you do; it’s about helping prospective clients see the unique value you bring. In this episode of Love Happiness and Success for Therapists, I’ll walk you through actionable steps to engage therapy clients, communicate your unique value, and grow a thriving private practice. You’ll learn how to structure consultations that naturally build trust and connection, how to address common concerns around cost, time, and readiness, and how to effectively communicate your process and unique approach to therapy. Chapters: 00:00 Introduction: Why Client Engagement Matters 00:45 The Common Struggles of Private Practice Therapists 01:47 Overcoming the Fear of Self-Promotion 03:33 Connect with Clients Before They Meet You 11:57 Helping Clients Define Their Goals 15:14 Explaining Your Therapy Process with Clarity 23:59 Tackling Client Objections Gracefully 28:18 Highlighting Your Unique Value Proposition 31:13 Mastering Post-Consultation Follow-Ups 34:12 Reflect, Refine, and Grow Your Practice 38:17 More Resources to Support You Your clients need more than what conventional therapy alone can offer. The reality? “Coaches” without formal training are scooping up the opportunities you’re missing, because they have a structured framework of change that they can communicate - and clients love it. You can learn how to do this too! In my free ⁠ “What Every Therapist Must Know About Coaching” Masterclass⁠, you’ll discover how to integrate evidence-based coaching techniques to stand out in a crowded field and enhance your therapy practice. Coaching tools can help you empower clients to achieve goals faster, deepen their engagement, and create lasting change—all while staying true to your professional integrity. 👉 ⁠ Join the Masterclass Now⁠ and take your practice to the next level! Let’s make 2025 your breakthrough year.  If you found this helpful, check out some of my other episodes for more tips and strategies to elevate your private practice! And hey, share this with your professional community—let’s help each other grow. đŸŒ± Xoxo ⁠Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby⁠ ⁠ www.growingself.com⁠ P.S. Let’s Connect! I’d love to hear your thoughts and be part of your professional journey. ⁠Connect with me on LinkedIn⁠ to join an amazing community of therapists growing and thriving together. You had a first meeting with a prospective therapy client that YOU thought went great
 but the client never came back. Here’s why: Therapists don’t know how to communicate their value.

Why do amazing therapists struggle with ⁠therapy client engagement⁠? Spoiler alert: It’s not about your clinical skills, it's about how you connect. Engaging therapy clients isn’t just about being good at what you do; it’s about helping prospective clients see the unique value you bring.

In this episode of Love Happiness and Success for Therapists, I’ll walk you through actionable steps to engage therapy clients, communicate your unique value, and grow a thriving private practice. You’ll learn how to structure consultations that naturally build trust and connection, how to address common concerns around cost, time, and readiness, and how to effectively communicate your process and unique approach to therapy.

Chapters: 00:00 Introduction: Why Client Engagement Matters 00:45 The Common Struggles of Private Practice Therapists 01:47 Overcoming the Fear of Self-Promotion 03:33 Connect with Clients Before They Meet You 11:57 Helping Clients Define Their Goals 15:14 Explaining Your Therapy Process with Clarity 23:59 Tackling Client Objections Gracefully 28:18 Highlighting Your Unique Value Proposition 31:13 Mastering Post-Consultation Follow-Ups 34:12 Reflect, Refine, and Grow Your Practice 38:17 More Resources to Support You

Your clients need more than what conventional therapy alone can offer. The reality? “Coaches” without formal training are scooping up the opportunities you’re missing, because they have a structured framework of change that they can communicate - and clients love it. You can learn how to do this too!

In my free ⁠ “What Every Therapist Must Know About Coaching” Masterclass⁠, you’ll discover how to integrate evidence-based coaching techniques to stand out in a crowded field and enhance your therapy practice. Coaching tools can help you empower clients to achieve goals faster, deepen their engagement, and create lasting change—all while staying true to your professional integrity.

👉 ⁠ Join the Masterclass Now⁠ and take your practice to the next level! Let’s make 2025 your breakthrough year. 

If you found this helpful, check out some of my other episodes for more tips and strategies to elevate your private practice! And hey, share this with your professional community—let’s help each other grow. đŸŒ±

Xoxo

⁠Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby⁠

⁠ www.growingself.com⁠

P.S. Let’s Connect! I’d love to hear your thoughts and be part of your professional journey. ⁠Connect with me on LinkedIn⁠ to join an amazing community of therapists growing and thriving together.

]]> 2523 no How to Stop Thinking About Your Therapy Clients | LHSFT Classic If you’ve been trying to figure out how to stop thinking about your therapy clients once the workday is over, you’re not alone. One of the hardest parts of being a therapist is that the session may end, but your mind keeps going. You replay what your client said, wonder what you could have done differently, and carry the emotional weight of the work into the rest of your life. In this episode, I’m revisiting a conversation about one of the most common therapist struggles and one of the biggest contributors to burnout: not being able to close the mental loop after a session. I’m talking about why therapists get stuck in post-session rumination, what that lingering activation is often telling us, and how to create more clarity so you can care deeply about your clients without carrying them with you at all hours. We’ll talk about the role of therapeutic orientation, case conceptualization, writing things down in a more intentional way, and learning how to gently redirect your attention back to the present. This conversation is a reminder that therapist self-care is not only about better boundaries. It is also about having a process that helps you trust your work, settle your mind, and return to yourself after doing deep emotional labor. Episode Breakdown: 00:00 How to stop thinking about your therapy clients after sessions 05:25 How your therapeutic orientation helps you find clarity 10:04 Why writing things down helps close the mental loop 12:39 Mental redirection and getting back to your own life 15:56 What post-session rumination may be telling you If you’ve been feeling isolated in your work, or quietly wondering how to keep caring deeply without carrying everything alone, I want you to know you’re not alone. One of the primary ways I support therapists beyond this podcast is through The Growth Collective for Therapists, a professional home I created for clinicians who want real consultation, meaningful connection, and support building a practice that feels sustainable and life-giving, not depleting. The Growth Collective brings together licensed therapists who are ready to receive the same level of care they give every day through monthly consultation, clinical supervision, CEU trainings, and practical guidance for building a stable, fulfilling private practice. If you’ve been missing community, feeling isolated in your work, or edging toward burnout, this space was built with you in mind. xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Growing Self Wed, 29 Apr 2026 09:00:00 -0000 full Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby If you’ve been trying to figure out how to stop thinking about your therapy clients once the workday is over, you’re not alone. One of the hardest parts of being a therapist is that the session may end, but your mind keeps going. You replay what your client said, wonder what you could have done differently, and carry the emotional weight of the work into the rest of your life. In this episode, I’m revisiting a conversation about one of the most common therapist struggles and one of the biggest contributors to burnout: not being able to close the mental loop after a session. I’m talking about why therapists get stuck in post-session rumination, what that lingering activation is often telling us, and how to create more clarity so you can care deeply about your clients without carrying them with you at all hours. We’ll talk about the role of therapeutic orientation, case conceptualization, writing things down in a more intentional way, and learning how to gently redirect your attention back to the present. This conversation is a reminder that therapist self-care is not only about better boundaries. It is also about having a process that helps you trust your work, settle your mind, and return to yourself after doing deep emotional labor. Episode Breakdown: 00:00 How to stop thinking about your therapy clients after sessions 05:25 How your therapeutic orientation helps you find clarity 10:04 Why writing things down helps close the mental loop 12:39 Mental redirection and getting back to your own life 15:56 What post-session rumination may be telling you If you’ve been feeling isolated in your work, or quietly wondering how to keep caring deeply without carrying everything alone, I want you to know you’re not alone. One of the primary ways I support therapists beyond this podcast is through The Growth Collective for Therapists, a professional home I created for clinicians who want real consultation, meaningful connection, and support building a practice that feels sustainable and life-giving, not depleting. The Growth Collective brings together licensed therapists who are ready to receive the same level of care they give every day through monthly consultation, clinical supervision, CEU trainings, and practical guidance for building a stable, fulfilling private practice. If you’ve been missing community, feeling isolated in your work, or edging toward burnout, this space was built with you in mind. xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Growing Self If you’ve been trying to figure out how to stop thinking about your therapy clients once the workday is over, you’re not alone. One of the hardest parts of being a therapist is that the session may end, but your mind keeps going. You replay what your client said, wonder what you could have done differently, and carry the emotional weight of the work into the rest of your life.


In this episode, I’m revisiting a conversation about one of the most common therapist struggles and one of the biggest contributors to burnout: not being able to close the mental loop after a session. I’m talking about why therapists get stuck in post-session rumination, what that lingering activation is often telling us, and how to create more clarity so you can care deeply about your clients without carrying them with you at all hours.


We’ll talk about the role of therapeutic orientation, case conceptualization, writing things down in a more intentional way, and learning how to gently redirect your attention back to the present. This conversation is a reminder that therapist self-care is not only about better boundaries. It is also about having a process that helps you trust your work, settle your mind, and return to yourself after doing deep emotional labor.


Episode Breakdown:

00:00 How to stop thinking about your therapy clients after sessions

05:25 How your therapeutic orientation helps you find clarity

10:04 Why writing things down helps close the mental loop

12:39 Mental redirection and getting back to your own life

15:56 What post-session rumination may be telling you


If you’ve been feeling isolated in your work, or quietly wondering how to keep caring deeply without carrying everything alone, I want you to know you’re not alone. One of the primary ways I support therapists beyond this podcast is through The Growth Collective for Therapists, a professional home I created for clinicians who want real consultation, meaningful connection, and support building a practice that feels sustainable and life-giving, not depleting.


The Growth Collective brings together licensed therapists who are ready to receive the same level of care they give every day through monthly consultation, clinical supervision, CEU trainings, and practical guidance for building a stable, fulfilling private practice. If you’ve been missing community, feeling isolated in your work, or edging toward burnout, this space was built with you in mind.


xoxo,

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

Growing Self

]]> 1585 no The Psychedelic Therapy Revolution | Dr. Scott Shannon | LHSFT Classic The research on psychedelic therapy is becoming too compelling to ignore. While it’s easy to dismiss this work as fringe—or assume it’s not relevant if you don’t plan to practice it—the reality is that, in the hands of skilled providers, these approaches can be profoundly effective. As therapists, it’s our responsibility to stay informed so we can have thoughtful, ethical conversations and help clients access the most powerful healing options available—even if we’re not the ones delivering them. Join me for a free CEU training with Dr. Scott Shannon on May 1st at 11am MT, where we’ll dive deeper into the world of psychedelic therapy. How can psychedelic-assisted therapy create deep, lasting transformation where conventional treatments only manage symptoms?⁠ Psychiatrist and integrative medicine pioneer Dr. Scott Shannon joins me to talk about how this emerging field is reshaping what’s possible for healing, not just for our clients, but for the future of mental health care itself. Dr. Shannon shares his decades of work exploring MDMA, psilocybin, and other psychedelic medicines as catalysts for safety, openness, and profound personal growth. We talk about how these experiences can unlock trauma healing, relational breakthroughs, and spiritual integration in ways that expand beyond traditional talk therapy. We also get into the ethics, boundaries, the training this work requires, and what it means for therapists who feel called to be part of this next frontier in care. Dr. Shannon is a psychiatrist, author, and founder of Wholeness Center, the largest integrative mental health clinic in the U.S., and a leader in psychedelic-assisted psychotherapy research and education. Episode Breakdown: 00:00 From SSRIs to MDMA Therapy: A Different Model of Care 07:36 MDMA for Couples: Safety, Openness, Breakthroughs 12:25 PTSD Protocol: Prep, Medicine Sessions, Integration, Childhood Trauma 13:33 Psychedelic Treatment Framework: Container, Catalyst, Carrier 20:07 Paths and Policy: Legalization, Medicalization, FDA Outlook 24:55 Ethics and Safety in Psychedelic-Assisted Therapy 39:53 Mystical Experience and Long-Term Outcomes 46:24 Training and Career Paths: How to Become a Psychedelic-Assisted Therapist Conversations like this remind me how much our field is growing and how important it is that we grow right along with it, in integrity and community. If you’ve been craving that kind of connection and support in your own work, come join me in ⁠The Growth Collective for Therapists⁠! It’s a space where therapists can show up as real people to talk honestly about the work, get meaningful consultation, and be part of a community that understands what it takes to do this job well and stay well. And if you want to keep this conversation going, ⁠find me on LinkedIn⁠. I’d love to hear what stood out to you from this episode and what’s inspiring your own path forward right now. xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby⁠Growing Self Thu, 23 Apr 2026 09:00:00 -0000 full Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby The research on psychedelic therapy is becoming too compelling to ignore. While it’s easy to dismiss this work as fringe—or assume it’s not relevant if you don’t plan to practice it—the reality is that, in the hands of skilled providers, these approaches can be profoundly effective. As therapists, it’s our responsibility to stay informed so we can have thoughtful, ethical conversations and help clients access the most powerful healing options available—even if we’re not the ones delivering them. Join me for a free CEU training with Dr. Scott Shannon on May 1st at 11am MT, where we’ll dive deeper into the world of psychedelic therapy. How can psychedelic-assisted therapy create deep, lasting transformation where conventional treatments only manage symptoms?⁠ Psychiatrist and integrative medicine pioneer Dr. Scott Shannon joins me to talk about how this emerging field is reshaping what’s possible for healing, not just for our clients, but for the future of mental health care itself. Dr. Shannon shares his decades of work exploring MDMA, psilocybin, and other psychedelic medicines as catalysts for safety, openness, and profound personal growth. We talk about how these experiences can unlock trauma healing, relational breakthroughs, and spiritual integration in ways that expand beyond traditional talk therapy. We also get into the ethics, boundaries, the training this work requires, and what it means for therapists who feel called to be part of this next frontier in care. Dr. Shannon is a psychiatrist, author, and founder of Wholeness Center, the largest integrative mental health clinic in the U.S., and a leader in psychedelic-assisted psychotherapy research and education. Episode Breakdown: 00:00 From SSRIs to MDMA Therapy: A Different Model of Care 07:36 MDMA for Couples: Safety, Openness, Breakthroughs 12:25 PTSD Protocol: Prep, Medicine Sessions, Integration, Childhood Trauma 13:33 Psychedelic Treatment Framework: Container, Catalyst, Carrier 20:07 Paths and Policy: Legalization, Medicalization, FDA Outlook 24:55 Ethics and Safety in Psychedelic-Assisted Therapy 39:53 Mystical Experience and Long-Term Outcomes 46:24 Training and Career Paths: How to Become a Psychedelic-Assisted Therapist Conversations like this remind me how much our field is growing and how important it is that we grow right along with it, in integrity and community. If you’ve been craving that kind of connection and support in your own work, come join me in ⁠The Growth Collective for Therapists⁠! It’s a space where therapists can show up as real people to talk honestly about the work, get meaningful consultation, and be part of a community that understands what it takes to do this job well and stay well. And if you want to keep this conversation going, ⁠find me on LinkedIn⁠. I’d love to hear what stood out to you from this episode and what’s inspiring your own path forward right now. xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby⁠Growing Self The research on psychedelic therapy is becoming too compelling to ignore. While it’s easy to dismiss this work as fringe—or assume it’s not relevant if you don’t plan to practice it—the reality is that, in the hands of skilled providers, these approaches can be profoundly effective. As therapists, it’s our responsibility to stay informed so we can have thoughtful, ethical conversations and help clients access the most powerful healing options available—even if we’re not the ones delivering them. Join me for a free CEU training with Dr. Scott Shannon on May 1st at 11am MT, where we’ll dive deeper into the world of psychedelic therapy.


How can psychedelic-assisted therapy create deep, lasting transformation where conventional treatments only manage symptoms?⁠ Psychiatrist and integrative medicine pioneer Dr. Scott Shannon joins me to talk about how this emerging field is reshaping what’s possible for healing, not just for our clients, but for the future of mental health care itself.


Dr. Shannon shares his decades of work exploring MDMA, psilocybin, and other psychedelic medicines as catalysts for safety, openness, and profound personal growth. We talk about how these experiences can unlock trauma healing, relational breakthroughs, and spiritual integration in ways that expand beyond traditional talk therapy. We also get into the ethics, boundaries, the training this work requires, and what it means for therapists who feel called to be part of this next frontier in care.


Dr. Shannon is a psychiatrist, author, and founder of Wholeness Center, the largest integrative mental health clinic in the U.S., and a leader in psychedelic-assisted psychotherapy research and education.


Episode Breakdown: 00:00 From SSRIs to MDMA Therapy: A Different Model of Care 07:36 MDMA for Couples: Safety, Openness, Breakthroughs 12:25 PTSD Protocol: Prep, Medicine Sessions, Integration, Childhood Trauma 13:33 Psychedelic Treatment Framework: Container, Catalyst, Carrier 20:07 Paths and Policy: Legalization, Medicalization, FDA Outlook 24:55 Ethics and Safety in Psychedelic-Assisted Therapy 39:53 Mystical Experience and Long-Term Outcomes 46:24 Training and Career Paths: How to Become a Psychedelic-Assisted Therapist


Conversations like this remind me how much our field is growing and how important it is that we grow right along with it, in integrity and community. If you’ve been craving that kind of connection and support in your own work, come join me in ⁠The Growth Collective for Therapists⁠!


It’s a space where therapists can show up as real people to talk honestly about the work, get meaningful consultation, and be part of a community that understands what it takes to do this job well and stay well.


And if you want to keep this conversation going, ⁠find me on LinkedIn⁠. I’d love to hear what stood out to you from this episode and what’s inspiring your own path forward right now.


xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby⁠Growing Self

]]> 3313 no Why Your Therapy Clients Think You're Weird | LHSFT Classic Therapist boundaries are essential to ethical, effective care, but from a client’s point of view, they can sometimes feel confusing, distancing, or just plain weird. A long pause. A declined social media request. No direct advice. No follow-up between sessions after something heavy. If you’ve ever felt a client pull back after one of those moments, this episode is for you. In this episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists, I’m revisiting a conversation about the subtle ways therapist boundaries can create misunderstandings in the therapeutic relationship. I’m talking through the real-world moments that can leave clients feeling confused, rejected, or unsure about what’s happening, and how to handle them with more transparency, warmth, and clarity. We’ll walk through some of the most common examples, including public encounters with clients, awkward silence in session, dual relationships, inactive file closures, not giving direct advice, and why therapists usually do not reach out between sessions. More importantly, we’ll talk about how to explain these choices clearly so clients feel safer, more respected, and more connected to the work. This conversation is a reminder that therapist boundaries are not just about ethics. They are also about trust. When clients understand the why behind the work, they are much more likely to experience therapy as collaborative, supportive, and meaningful rather than confusing or distancing. Episode Breakdown: 00:00 Why therapist boundaries can feel weird to clients 04:35 The importance of explaining boundaries early 09:20 Common therapy moments clients misunderstand 14:50 Why therapists do not give direct advice 20:35 Client autonomy, trust, and rupture repair If you’ve been feeling isolated in your work, or quietly wondering how long you can keep doing this on your own, I want you to know you’re not alone. One of the primary ways I support therapists beyond this podcast is through The Growth Collective for Therapists, a professional home I created for clinicians who want real consultation, meaningful connection, and support building a practice that feels sustainable and life-giving, not depleting. The Growth Collective brings together licensed therapists who are ready to receive the same level of care they give every day through monthly consultation, clinical supervision, CEU trainings, and practical guidance for building a stable, fulfilling private practice. If you’ve been missing community, feeling isolated in your work, or edging toward burnout, this space was built with you in mind. xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Growing Self Wed, 22 Apr 2026 09:00:00 -0000 full Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Therapist boundaries are essential to ethical, effective care, but from a client’s point of view, they can sometimes feel confusing, distancing, or just plain weird. A long pause. A declined social media request. No direct advice. No follow-up between sessions after something heavy. If you’ve ever felt a client pull back after one of those moments, this episode is for you. In this episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists, I’m revisiting a conversation about the subtle ways therapist boundaries can create misunderstandings in the therapeutic relationship. I’m talking through the real-world moments that can leave clients feeling confused, rejected, or unsure about what’s happening, and how to handle them with more transparency, warmth, and clarity. We’ll walk through some of the most common examples, including public encounters with clients, awkward silence in session, dual relationships, inactive file closures, not giving direct advice, and why therapists usually do not reach out between sessions. More importantly, we’ll talk about how to explain these choices clearly so clients feel safer, more respected, and more connected to the work. This conversation is a reminder that therapist boundaries are not just about ethics. They are also about trust. When clients understand the why behind the work, they are much more likely to experience therapy as collaborative, supportive, and meaningful rather than confusing or distancing. Episode Breakdown: 00:00 Why therapist boundaries can feel weird to clients 04:35 The importance of explaining boundaries early 09:20 Common therapy moments clients misunderstand 14:50 Why therapists do not give direct advice 20:35 Client autonomy, trust, and rupture repair If you’ve been feeling isolated in your work, or quietly wondering how long you can keep doing this on your own, I want you to know you’re not alone. One of the primary ways I support therapists beyond this podcast is through The Growth Collective for Therapists, a professional home I created for clinicians who want real consultation, meaningful connection, and support building a practice that feels sustainable and life-giving, not depleting. The Growth Collective brings together licensed therapists who are ready to receive the same level of care they give every day through monthly consultation, clinical supervision, CEU trainings, and practical guidance for building a stable, fulfilling private practice. If you’ve been missing community, feeling isolated in your work, or edging toward burnout, this space was built with you in mind. xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Growing Self Therapist boundaries are essential to ethical, effective care, but from a client’s point of view, they can sometimes feel confusing, distancing, or just plain weird. A long pause. A declined social media request. No direct advice. No follow-up between sessions after something heavy. If you’ve ever felt a client pull back after one of those moments, this episode is for you.


In this episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists, I’m revisiting a conversation about the subtle ways therapist boundaries can create misunderstandings in the therapeutic relationship. I’m talking through the real-world moments that can leave clients feeling confused, rejected, or unsure about what’s happening, and how to handle them with more transparency, warmth, and clarity.


We’ll walk through some of the most common examples, including public encounters with clients, awkward silence in session, dual relationships, inactive file closures, not giving direct advice, and why therapists usually do not reach out between sessions. More importantly, we’ll talk about how to explain these choices clearly so clients feel safer, more respected, and more connected to the work.


This conversation is a reminder that therapist boundaries are not just about ethics. They are also about trust. When clients understand the why behind the work, they are much more likely to experience therapy as collaborative, supportive, and meaningful rather than confusing or distancing.


Episode Breakdown:

00:00 Why therapist boundaries can feel weird to clients

04:35 The importance of explaining boundaries early

09:20 Common therapy moments clients misunderstand

14:50 Why therapists do not give direct advice

20:35 Client autonomy, trust, and rupture repair


If you’ve been feeling isolated in your work, or quietly wondering how long you can keep doing this on your own, I want you to know you’re not alone. One of the primary ways I support therapists beyond this podcast is through The Growth Collective for Therapists, a professional home I created for clinicians who want real consultation, meaningful connection, and support building a practice that feels sustainable and life-giving, not depleting.


The Growth Collective brings together licensed therapists who are ready to receive the same level of care they give every day through monthly consultation, clinical supervision, CEU trainings, and practical guidance for building a stable, fulfilling private practice. If you’ve been missing community, feeling isolated in your work, or edging toward burnout, this space was built with you in mind.


xoxo,

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

Growing Self

]]> 1721 no Marketing for Therapists: What It Really Takes to Get Clients | Jenny Arroyo | E97 Marketing for therapists is harder than it should be and most aren’t getting clients. In this episode, I'm sitting down with marketing specialist Jenny Arroyo to unpack what actually drives client growth in private practice and why so many therapists struggle to gain traction despite being excellent clinicians. Jenny Arroyo is the founder and owner of Strategy Solutions. Her journey into the world of business growth is fueled by a genuine passion for helping others succeed. Together, we’re talking about private practice marketing in a way that feels practical, honest, and reassuring for therapists who want to grow without feeling forced into a version of marketing that does not fit who they are. We talk about why private practice marketing feels so difficult for so many therapists, what may be getting lost on your website, why social media does not have to feel performative, and how AI is changing the way prospective clients search for support. We also get into authority, differentiation, and the quiet truth underneath all of this: private practice marketing is often less about doing more and more about helping the right people quickly understand who you are, what you do, and why they might want to work with you. If you are excellent at the clinical side of the work but feel less confident about visibility, messaging, or growth, this conversation will give you a lot to think about. It is full of grounded ideas you can take back to your practice right away. Episode Breakdown: 00:00 Why Marketing Is So Hard for Therapists 09:03 What Private Practice Marketing Actually Requires 14:54 Social Media Without Feeling Performative 19:21 How AI Is Changing Private Practice Marketing 25:29 How to Stand Out and Attract the Right Clients 29:56 Private Pay, Authority, and Why Clients Choose You If this conversation is stirring up bigger questions about your own practice, I hope it helps you remember that struggling with private practice marketing is not a sign that you’re failing. Most therapists were never taught how to build a business, and there is a lot to figure out along the way. And if you’ve been feeling isolated in your work, second-guessing yourself with clients, or wanting more support as you grow, I’d love to invite you into the Growth Collective for Therapists. It’s a professional home for clinicians who want real consultation, meaningful connection, and thoughtful support as they build a practice that feels sustainable and life-giving. Inside the Growth Collective, licensed therapists come together for monthly consultation, clinical supervision, CEU trainings, and practical guidance for building a stable, fulfilling private practice. If you’ve been craving community, feeling stretched thin, or looking for a place to keep growing, this space was created with you in mind. xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Growing Self Wed, 15 Apr 2026 09:00:00 -0000 full Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Marketing for therapists is harder than it should be and most aren’t getting clients. In this episode, I'm sitting down with marketing specialist Jenny Arroyo to unpack what actually drives client growth in private practice and why so many therapists struggle to gain traction despite being excellent clinicians. Jenny Arroyo is the founder and owner of Strategy Solutions. Her journey into the world of business growth is fueled by a genuine passion for helping others succeed. Together, we’re talking about private practice marketing in a way that feels practical, honest, and reassuring for therapists who want to grow without feeling forced into a version of marketing that does not fit who they are. We talk about why private practice marketing feels so difficult for so many therapists, what may be getting lost on your website, why social media does not have to feel performative, and how AI is changing the way prospective clients search for support. We also get into authority, differentiation, and the quiet truth underneath all of this: private practice marketing is often less about doing more and more about helping the right people quickly understand who you are, what you do, and why they might want to work with you. If you are excellent at the clinical side of the work but feel less confident about visibility, messaging, or growth, this conversation will give you a lot to think about. It is full of grounded ideas you can take back to your practice right away. Episode Breakdown: 00:00 Why Marketing Is So Hard for Therapists 09:03 What Private Practice Marketing Actually Requires 14:54 Social Media Without Feeling Performative 19:21 How AI Is Changing Private Practice Marketing 25:29 How to Stand Out and Attract the Right Clients 29:56 Private Pay, Authority, and Why Clients Choose You If this conversation is stirring up bigger questions about your own practice, I hope it helps you remember that struggling with private practice marketing is not a sign that you’re failing. Most therapists were never taught how to build a business, and there is a lot to figure out along the way. And if you’ve been feeling isolated in your work, second-guessing yourself with clients, or wanting more support as you grow, I’d love to invite you into the Growth Collective for Therapists. It’s a professional home for clinicians who want real consultation, meaningful connection, and thoughtful support as they build a practice that feels sustainable and life-giving. Inside the Growth Collective, licensed therapists come together for monthly consultation, clinical supervision, CEU trainings, and practical guidance for building a stable, fulfilling private practice. If you’ve been craving community, feeling stretched thin, or looking for a place to keep growing, this space was created with you in mind. xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Growing Self Marketing for therapists is harder than it should be and most aren’t getting clients.


In this episode, I'm sitting down with marketing specialist Jenny Arroyo to unpack what actually drives client growth in private practice and why so many therapists struggle to gain traction despite being excellent clinicians.


Jenny Arroyo is the founder and owner of Strategy Solutions. Her journey into the world of business growth is fueled by a genuine passion for helping others succeed. Together, we’re talking about private practice marketing in a way that feels practical, honest, and reassuring for therapists who want to grow without feeling forced into a version of marketing that does not fit who they are.


We talk about why private practice marketing feels so difficult for so many therapists, what may be getting lost on your website, why social media does not have to feel performative, and how AI is changing the way prospective clients search for support. We also get into authority, differentiation, and the quiet truth underneath all of this: private practice marketing is often less about doing more and more about helping the right people quickly understand who you are, what you do, and why they might want to work with you.


If you are excellent at the clinical side of the work but feel less confident about visibility, messaging, or growth, this conversation will give you a lot to think about. It is full of grounded ideas you can take back to your practice right away.


Episode Breakdown:

00:00 Why Marketing Is So Hard for Therapists

09:03 What Private Practice Marketing Actually Requires

14:54 Social Media Without Feeling Performative

19:21 How AI Is Changing Private Practice Marketing

25:29 How to Stand Out and Attract the Right Clients

29:56 Private Pay, Authority, and Why Clients Choose You


If this conversation is stirring up bigger questions about your own practice, I hope it helps you remember that struggling with private practice marketing is not a sign that you’re failing. Most therapists were never taught how to build a business, and there is a lot to figure out along the way.


And if you’ve been feeling isolated in your work, second-guessing yourself with clients, or wanting more support as you grow, I’d love to invite you into the Growth Collective for Therapists. It’s a professional home for clinicians who want real consultation, meaningful connection, and thoughtful support as they build a practice that feels sustainable and life-giving.


Inside the Growth Collective, licensed therapists come together for monthly consultation, clinical supervision, CEU trainings, and practical guidance for building a stable, fulfilling private practice. If you’ve been craving community, feeling stretched thin, or looking for a place to keep growing, this space was created with you in mind.


xoxo,

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

Growing Self

]]> 2789 no New Frontiers in Somatic Interventions: Where Cuddlists Go That Somatic Therapy Can’t (And What Your Clients Might Need You To Know) | E96 Somatic therapy is changing trauma treatment—but what happens when therapists can’t provide it? In this episode, I'm chatting with Keeley and Michelle, practitioners of a consent-based relational touch modality, to explore a provocative question: what do we do when our clients need experiences we ethically cannot provide? This is a rich conversation about the gap between insight and lived experience. We talk about why somatic therapy for trauma can be so powerful, and why there are moments when even excellent therapy, strong psychoeducation, and all the right language around boundaries still do not create the kind of embodied, relational experience a client may be longing for. If you’ve ever wondered what is somatic therapy when it moves beyond talking and into something more experiential, this episode opens up a fascinating and sometimes uncomfortable question. Keeley and Michelle walk us into the world of consent-based relational touch work and explain how it can support clients healing from relational trauma, childhood sexual abuse, grief, loneliness, people-pleasing, avoidant attachment, and disconnection from their own bodies. We also talk about ethics, referral decisions, and the responsibility we carry as clinicians when we introduce clients to any modality that asks them to be vulnerable in a new way. Keeley has practiced as a full-time Cuddle Therapist since 2015, supporting clients in both individual and group settings. She is a certified Cuddle Party facilitator and has taken every training program that exists for professional cuddlers. She continues her education in IFS, EFT, somatic experiencing, embodiment practices, the Wheel of Consent, and racial equity. In 2017, she became the Director of CuddleXpo, the first-ever professional cuddlers convention. Michelle Renee has been a pioneering force in the field of professional cuddling since joining Cuddlist as a Cuddle Therapist at its inception in late 2015. She is a certified Cuddle Party facilitator and trained surrogate partner, bringing deep experience to the intersection of relational touch and therapeutic practice. From 2016 to 2020, Michelle served as Cuddlist’s Director of Operations. In 2023, she returned to Cuddlist leadership as Director of Training and officially became a co-owner in early 2025. Episode Breakdown: 00:00 Why This Conversation Matters 08:20 What Cuddlist Work Actually Is 12:05 Somatic Therapy, Trauma, and Safe Relational Touch 24:28 What Happens in a Session 32:55 Boundaries, Consent, and Bodily Autonomy 38:12 Neurodivergence, Sensory Needs, and Relational Safety 41:36 When Therapists Might Consider a Referral 55:00 Ethics, Risk, and Safe Referrals And if this conversation stirred something in you, professionally or personally, I want to offer you a gentle next step. Sometimes the most important shift is not figuring it all out alone, but finding the right kind of support. At Growing Self, thousands of people have transformed themselves, their relationships, or their careers with the help of the right counselor or coach, and you can too. Answer three quick questions so we can help you book your free consultation meeting with the right expert. It’s private, secure, only takes a couple of minutes, and it’s here for you whenever you’re ready. xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Growing Self Wed, 08 Apr 2026 09:00:00 -0000 full Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Somatic therapy is changing trauma treatment—but what happens when therapists can’t provide it? In this episode, I'm chatting with Keeley and Michelle, practitioners of a consent-based relational touch modality, to explore a provocative question: what do we do when our clients need experiences we ethically cannot provide? This is a rich conversation about the gap between insight and lived experience. We talk about why somatic therapy for trauma can be so powerful, and why there are moments when even excellent therapy, strong psychoeducation, and all the right language around boundaries still do not create the kind of embodied, relational experience a client may be longing for. If you’ve ever wondered what is somatic therapy when it moves beyond talking and into something more experiential, this episode opens up a fascinating and sometimes uncomfortable question. Keeley and Michelle walk us into the world of consent-based relational touch work and explain how it can support clients healing from relational trauma, childhood sexual abuse, grief, loneliness, people-pleasing, avoidant attachment, and disconnection from their own bodies. We also talk about ethics, referral decisions, and the responsibility we carry as clinicians when we introduce clients to any modality that asks them to be vulnerable in a new way. Keeley has practiced as a full-time Cuddle Therapist since 2015, supporting clients in both individual and group settings. She is a certified Cuddle Party facilitator and has taken every training program that exists for professional cuddlers. She continues her education in IFS, EFT, somatic experiencing, embodiment practices, the Wheel of Consent, and racial equity. In 2017, she became the Director of CuddleXpo, the first-ever professional cuddlers convention. Michelle Renee has been a pioneering force in the field of professional cuddling since joining Cuddlist as a Cuddle Therapist at its inception in late 2015. She is a certified Cuddle Party facilitator and trained surrogate partner, bringing deep experience to the intersection of relational touch and therapeutic practice. From 2016 to 2020, Michelle served as Cuddlist’s Director of Operations. In 2023, she returned to Cuddlist leadership as Director of Training and officially became a co-owner in early 2025. Episode Breakdown: 00:00 Why This Conversation Matters 08:20 What Cuddlist Work Actually Is 12:05 Somatic Therapy, Trauma, and Safe Relational Touch 24:28 What Happens in a Session 32:55 Boundaries, Consent, and Bodily Autonomy 38:12 Neurodivergence, Sensory Needs, and Relational Safety 41:36 When Therapists Might Consider a Referral 55:00 Ethics, Risk, and Safe Referrals And if this conversation stirred something in you, professionally or personally, I want to offer you a gentle next step. Sometimes the most important shift is not figuring it all out alone, but finding the right kind of support. At Growing Self, thousands of people have transformed themselves, their relationships, or their careers with the help of the right counselor or coach, and you can too. Answer three quick questions so we can help you book your free consultation meeting with the right expert. It’s private, secure, only takes a couple of minutes, and it’s here for you whenever you’re ready. xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Growing Self Somatic therapy is changing trauma treatment—but what happens when therapists can’t provide it?


In this episode, I'm chatting with Keeley and Michelle, practitioners of a consent-based relational touch modality, to explore a provocative question: what do we do when our clients need experiences we ethically cannot provide?


This is a rich conversation about the gap between insight and lived experience. We talk about why somatic therapy for trauma can be so powerful, and why there are moments when even excellent therapy, strong psychoeducation, and all the right language around boundaries still do not create the kind of embodied, relational experience a client may be longing for. If you’ve ever wondered what is somatic therapy when it moves beyond talking and into something more experiential, this episode opens up a fascinating and sometimes uncomfortable question.


Keeley and Michelle walk us into the world of consent-based relational touch work and explain how it can support clients healing from relational trauma, childhood sexual abuse, grief, loneliness, people-pleasing, avoidant attachment, and disconnection from their own bodies. We also talk about ethics, referral decisions, and the responsibility we carry as clinicians when we introduce clients to any modality that asks them to be vulnerable in a new way.


Keeley has practiced as a full-time Cuddle Therapist since 2015, supporting clients in both individual and group settings. She is a certified Cuddle Party facilitator and has taken every training program that exists for professional cuddlers. She continues her education in IFS, EFT, somatic experiencing, embodiment practices, the Wheel of Consent, and racial equity. In 2017, she became the Director of CuddleXpo, the first-ever professional cuddlers convention.


Michelle Renee has been a pioneering force in the field of professional cuddling since joining Cuddlist as a Cuddle Therapist at its inception in late 2015. She is a certified Cuddle Party facilitator and trained surrogate partner, bringing deep experience to the intersection of relational touch and therapeutic practice. From 2016 to 2020, Michelle served as Cuddlist’s Director of Operations. In 2023, she returned to Cuddlist leadership as Director of Training and officially became a co-owner in early 2025.


Episode Breakdown:

00:00 Why This Conversation Matters

08:20 What Cuddlist Work Actually Is

12:05 Somatic Therapy, Trauma, and Safe Relational Touch

24:28 What Happens in a Session

32:55 Boundaries, Consent, and Bodily Autonomy

38:12 Neurodivergence, Sensory Needs, and Relational Safety

41:36 When Therapists Might Consider a Referral

55:00 Ethics, Risk, and Safe Referrals


And if this conversation stirred something in you, professionally or personally, I want to offer you a gentle next step. Sometimes the most important shift is not figuring it all out alone, but finding the right kind of support. At Growing Self, thousands of people have transformed themselves, their relationships, or their careers with the help of the right counselor or coach, and you can too. Answer three quick questions so we can help you book your free consultation meeting with the right expert. It’s private, secure, only takes a couple of minutes, and it’s here for you whenever you’re ready.


xoxo,

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

Growing Self

]]> 4781 no Be a Better Therapist: Signs You're Moving Too Fast (Or Too Slow) | LHSFT Classic Sometimes, being a better therapist has less to do with learning a new intervention and more to do with paying attention to the pace of the work. Are you moving too fast with clients, or not moving things forward enough? I’m revisiting this episode because therapy pacing is one of the most common and overlooked reasons clients get stuck, lose momentum, or start to wonder whether therapy is really helping. In this episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists, I’m talking about how to recognize when you may be pushing clients too hard, how your own reactions can quietly influence the pace of therapy, and what it looks like when the work slows down so much that it starts to lose traction. We’ll also talk about client readiness, the difference between insight and action, and how to find a pace that feels both thoughtful and productive. This conversation is a reminder that being a better therapist is not about doing more. It’s about learning when to challenge, when to pause, and how to stay attuned to what each client actually needs from you. Episode Breakdown: 00:00 How to be a better therapist through therapy pacing 05:10 Moving too fast in therapy 11:40 When slower therapy is the right call 18:35 Moving too slow in therapy 23:10 Finding the right pace with clients If you’ve been feeling isolated in your work, second-guessing yourself with clients, or wanting more support as you grow, I want you to know you’re not alone. One of the primary ways I support therapists beyond this podcast is through The Growth Collective for Therapists, a professional home I created for clinicians who want real consultation, meaningful connection, and support building a practice that feels sustainable and life-giving. The Growth Collective brings together licensed therapists who are ready to receive the same level of care they give every day through monthly consultation, clinical supervision, CEU trainings, and practical guidance for building a stable, fulfilling private practice. If you’ve been missing community, feeling stretched thin, or wanting a place to keep growing, this space was created with you in mind. xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Growing Self Wed, 01 Apr 2026 09:00:00 -0000 full Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Sometimes, being a better therapist has less to do with learning a new intervention and more to do with paying attention to the pace of the work. Are you moving too fast with clients, or not moving things forward enough? I’m revisiting this episode because therapy pacing is one of the most common and overlooked reasons clients get stuck, lose momentum, or start to wonder whether therapy is really helping. In this episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists, I’m talking about how to recognize when you may be pushing clients too hard, how your own reactions can quietly influence the pace of therapy, and what it looks like when the work slows down so much that it starts to lose traction. We’ll also talk about client readiness, the difference between insight and action, and how to find a pace that feels both thoughtful and productive. This conversation is a reminder that being a better therapist is not about doing more. It’s about learning when to challenge, when to pause, and how to stay attuned to what each client actually needs from you. Episode Breakdown: 00:00 How to be a better therapist through therapy pacing 05:10 Moving too fast in therapy 11:40 When slower therapy is the right call 18:35 Moving too slow in therapy 23:10 Finding the right pace with clients If you’ve been feeling isolated in your work, second-guessing yourself with clients, or wanting more support as you grow, I want you to know you’re not alone. One of the primary ways I support therapists beyond this podcast is through The Growth Collective for Therapists, a professional home I created for clinicians who want real consultation, meaningful connection, and support building a practice that feels sustainable and life-giving. The Growth Collective brings together licensed therapists who are ready to receive the same level of care they give every day through monthly consultation, clinical supervision, CEU trainings, and practical guidance for building a stable, fulfilling private practice. If you’ve been missing community, feeling stretched thin, or wanting a place to keep growing, this space was created with you in mind. xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Growing Self Sometimes, being a better therapist has less to do with learning a new intervention and more to do with paying attention to the pace of the work. Are you moving too fast with clients, or not moving things forward enough? I’m revisiting this episode because therapy pacing is one of the most common and overlooked reasons clients get stuck, lose momentum, or start to wonder whether therapy is really helping.


In this episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists, I’m talking about how to recognize when you may be pushing clients too hard, how your own reactions can quietly influence the pace of therapy, and what it looks like when the work slows down so much that it starts to lose traction. We’ll also talk about client readiness, the difference between insight and action, and how to find a pace that feels both thoughtful and productive.


This conversation is a reminder that being a better therapist is not about doing more. It’s about learning when to challenge, when to pause, and how to stay attuned to what each client actually needs from you.


Episode Breakdown:

00:00 How to be a better therapist through therapy pacing

05:10 Moving too fast in therapy

11:40 When slower therapy is the right call

18:35 Moving too slow in therapy

23:10 Finding the right pace with clients


If you’ve been feeling isolated in your work, second-guessing yourself with clients, or wanting more support as you grow, I want you to know you’re not alone. One of the primary ways I support therapists beyond this podcast is through The Growth Collective for Therapists, a professional home I created for clinicians who want real consultation, meaningful connection, and support building a practice that feels sustainable and life-giving.


The Growth Collective brings together licensed therapists who are ready to receive the same level of care they give every day through monthly consultation, clinical supervision, CEU trainings, and practical guidance for building a stable, fulfilling private practice. If you’ve been missing community, feeling stretched thin, or wanting a place to keep growing, this space was created with you in mind.


xoxo,

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

Growing Self

]]> 1779 no Therapists Under Attack: 8 Scams Targeting Therapists and How to Avoid Them | LHSFT Classic Therapists are being targeted by scams in ways that are becoming increasingly sophisticated and difficult to detect. These therapist scams often involve threats to your license, your clients, or your private practice, and they are designed to create urgency so you act quickly without verifying. If you’ve ever had a moment where something felt off but serious enough that you thought, “What if this is real?” this episode is for you. This week on Love, Happiness, and Success For Therapists, I’m revisiting an important conversation about the growing number of scams targeting therapists and private practice owners. These are not rare or hypothetical situations. They are real scenarios that have impacted clinicians in my own practice, including one where a therapist was pressured into handing over money after receiving a call from someone posing as law enforcement. We walk through eight common scams that therapists are facing right now, including fake insurance requests, phishing scams disguised as tech support, fraudulent credentialing services, misleading training and collaboration offers, and internal business scams like payroll diversion. I’ll also help you understand why therapists are uniquely vulnerable to these tactics, and what patterns to watch for so you can recognize them early. This conversation is a reminder that therapist safety, client data protection, and private practice security are essential parts of ethical care. Knowing how to pause, verify, and reality-check before responding can protect not only your business, but the people who trust you with their information. Episode Breakdown: 00:00 Therapist scams: why clinicians are being targeted 01:30 The “scary police officer” scam targeting therapists 04:30 Fake insurance scams and client data risks 07:00 Tech, telehealth, and phishing scams in private practice 11:00 Fake trainings, collaborations, and credentialing scams 14:30 EHR risks: the SimplePractice con explained 17:30 Therapist consultation and connection as protection 19:30 How therapists can protect their private practice As you’re thinking about your own practice, I want you to remember that you don’t have to navigate situations like this on your own. One of the most important protections we have as therapists is connection with other professionals who can help us reality-check, consult, and stay informed. That’s exactly why I created The Growth Collective for Therapists, a professional community for clinicians who want ongoing consultation, practical support, and a space to build a sustainable, secure private practice. And if you’d like to stay connected, come find me on LinkedIn. I share updates, resources, and insights about what therapists need to know, and I’d love to hear what’s coming up for you in your work. xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Growing Self Wed, 25 Mar 2026 09:00:00 -0000 full Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Therapists are being targeted by scams in ways that are becoming increasingly sophisticated and difficult to detect. These therapist scams often involve threats to your license, your clients, or your private practice, and they are designed to create urgency so you act quickly without verifying. If you’ve ever had a moment where something felt off but serious enough that you thought, “What if this is real?” this episode is for you. This week on Love, Happiness, and Success For Therapists, I’m revisiting an important conversation about the growing number of scams targeting therapists and private practice owners. These are not rare or hypothetical situations. They are real scenarios that have impacted clinicians in my own practice, including one where a therapist was pressured into handing over money after receiving a call from someone posing as law enforcement. We walk through eight common scams that therapists are facing right now, including fake insurance requests, phishing scams disguised as tech support, fraudulent credentialing services, misleading training and collaboration offers, and internal business scams like payroll diversion. I’ll also help you understand why therapists are uniquely vulnerable to these tactics, and what patterns to watch for so you can recognize them early. This conversation is a reminder that therapist safety, client data protection, and private practice security are essential parts of ethical care. Knowing how to pause, verify, and reality-check before responding can protect not only your business, but the people who trust you with their information. Episode Breakdown: 00:00 Therapist scams: why clinicians are being targeted 01:30 The “scary police officer” scam targeting therapists 04:30 Fake insurance scams and client data risks 07:00 Tech, telehealth, and phishing scams in private practice 11:00 Fake trainings, collaborations, and credentialing scams 14:30 EHR risks: the SimplePractice con explained 17:30 Therapist consultation and connection as protection 19:30 How therapists can protect their private practice As you’re thinking about your own practice, I want you to remember that you don’t have to navigate situations like this on your own. One of the most important protections we have as therapists is connection with other professionals who can help us reality-check, consult, and stay informed. That’s exactly why I created The Growth Collective for Therapists, a professional community for clinicians who want ongoing consultation, practical support, and a space to build a sustainable, secure private practice. And if you’d like to stay connected, come find me on LinkedIn. I share updates, resources, and insights about what therapists need to know, and I’d love to hear what’s coming up for you in your work. xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Growing Self Therapists are being targeted by scams in ways that are becoming increasingly sophisticated and difficult to detect. These therapist scams often involve threats to your license, your clients, or your private practice, and they are designed to create urgency so you act quickly without verifying. If you’ve ever had a moment where something felt off but serious enough that you thought, “What if this is real?” this episode is for you.


This week on Love, Happiness, and Success For Therapists, I’m revisiting an important conversation about the growing number of scams targeting therapists and private practice owners. These are not rare or hypothetical situations. They are real scenarios that have impacted clinicians in my own practice, including one where a therapist was pressured into handing over money after receiving a call from someone posing as law enforcement.


We walk through eight common scams that therapists are facing right now, including fake insurance requests, phishing scams disguised as tech support, fraudulent credentialing services, misleading training and collaboration offers, and internal business scams like payroll diversion. I’ll also help you understand why therapists are uniquely vulnerable to these tactics, and what patterns to watch for so you can recognize them early.


This conversation is a reminder that therapist safety, client data protection, and private practice security are essential parts of ethical care. Knowing how to pause, verify, and reality-check before responding can protect not only your business, but the people who trust you with their information.


Episode Breakdown:

00:00 Therapist scams: why clinicians are being targeted

01:30 The “scary police officer” scam targeting therapists

04:30 Fake insurance scams and client data risks

07:00 Tech, telehealth, and phishing scams in private practice

11:00 Fake trainings, collaborations, and credentialing scams

14:30 EHR risks: the SimplePractice con explained

17:30 Therapist consultation and connection as protection

19:30 How therapists can protect their private practice


As you’re thinking about your own practice, I want you to remember that you don’t have to navigate situations like this on your own. One of the most important protections we have as therapists is connection with other professionals who can help us reality-check, consult, and stay informed. That’s exactly why I created The Growth Collective for Therapists, a professional community for clinicians who want ongoing consultation, practical support, and a space to build a sustainable, secure private practice.


And if you’d like to stay connected, come find me on LinkedIn. I share updates, resources, and insights about what therapists need to know, and I’d love to hear what’s coming up for you in your work.


xoxo,

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

Growing Self

]]> 1464 no Life Hacks for Therapists: Ending Sessions on Time | LHSFT Classic If ending therapy sessions on time feels harder than it should, you’re not imagining things. Many thoughtful, dedicated therapists struggle with this, especially when meaningful work is happening in the room or when a client brings up something important right as the session is ending. But learning how to end therapy sessions on time is a professional skill that quietly shapes your boundaries, your energy, and the sustainability of your career. In this episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists, I’m revisiting a conversation about why ending therapy sessions on time can be surprisingly difficult for even experienced clinicians. Over years of supervising therapists and running my own practice, I’ve seen how easily session boundaries can start to drift. Most of the time it happens for compassionate reasons. We care about our clients, we want to help, and sometimes the work is just getting interesting right when the clock runs out. But when therapy sessions consistently run over time, it can create ripple effects that many therapists don’t anticipate. Clients may begin to expect extra time. Our schedules become compressed and stressful. Breaks disappear. And over time, what feels like a small act of generosity can quietly contribute to therapist burnout, administrative overwhelm, and a sense that the workday never quite has enough breathing room. We also talk about the real reasons therapists struggle with therapist time management and session boundaries. We explore the emotional dynamics that make it hard to wrap up sessions, including empathy, discomfort around money, imposter syndrome, and the classic “doorknob moment” when a client reveals something significant just as the session is ending. I also share practical strategies therapists can use to maintain clear therapy session boundaries without feeling abrupt or uncaring. Because ending therapy sessions on time isn’t about being rigid. It’s about creating a professional container that supports your clients, protects your energy, and allows you to sustain this work over the long term. Episode Breakdown: 00:00 Why ending therapy sessions on time is harder than it seems 05:40 Why empathy makes it hard for therapists to end sessions on time 11:20 The “doorknob moment” and managing last-minute disclosures 16:30 How poor session boundaries contribute to therapist burnout 22:10 Administrative stress and the importance of time between sessions 25:45 Practical strategies for ending therapy sessions on time If you’ve been feeling isolated in your work or quietly wondering how long you can keep doing this on your own, this work was never meant to be done alone. One of the ways I support therapists beyond this podcast is through The Growth Collective for Therapists, a professional home for clinicians who want meaningful consultation, real connection, and support building a practice that feels sustainable rather than depleting. Through monthly consultation, clinical supervision, CEU trainings, and practical guidance for private practice, The Growth Collective brings together therapists who are ready to receive the same level of care they offer their clients every day. If you’ve been missing community or feeling the early edges of burnout, this space was built with you in mind. xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Growing Self Wed, 18 Mar 2026 09:00:00 -0000 full Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby If ending therapy sessions on time feels harder than it should, you’re not imagining things. Many thoughtful, dedicated therapists struggle with this, especially when meaningful work is happening in the room or when a client brings up something important right as the session is ending. But learning how to end therapy sessions on time is a professional skill that quietly shapes your boundaries, your energy, and the sustainability of your career. In this episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists, I’m revisiting a conversation about why ending therapy sessions on time can be surprisingly difficult for even experienced clinicians. Over years of supervising therapists and running my own practice, I’ve seen how easily session boundaries can start to drift. Most of the time it happens for compassionate reasons. We care about our clients, we want to help, and sometimes the work is just getting interesting right when the clock runs out. But when therapy sessions consistently run over time, it can create ripple effects that many therapists don’t anticipate. Clients may begin to expect extra time. Our schedules become compressed and stressful. Breaks disappear. And over time, what feels like a small act of generosity can quietly contribute to therapist burnout, administrative overwhelm, and a sense that the workday never quite has enough breathing room. We also talk about the real reasons therapists struggle with therapist time management and session boundaries. We explore the emotional dynamics that make it hard to wrap up sessions, including empathy, discomfort around money, imposter syndrome, and the classic “doorknob moment” when a client reveals something significant just as the session is ending. I also share practical strategies therapists can use to maintain clear therapy session boundaries without feeling abrupt or uncaring. Because ending therapy sessions on time isn’t about being rigid. It’s about creating a professional container that supports your clients, protects your energy, and allows you to sustain this work over the long term. Episode Breakdown: 00:00 Why ending therapy sessions on time is harder than it seems 05:40 Why empathy makes it hard for therapists to end sessions on time 11:20 The “doorknob moment” and managing last-minute disclosures 16:30 How poor session boundaries contribute to therapist burnout 22:10 Administrative stress and the importance of time between sessions 25:45 Practical strategies for ending therapy sessions on time If you’ve been feeling isolated in your work or quietly wondering how long you can keep doing this on your own, this work was never meant to be done alone. One of the ways I support therapists beyond this podcast is through The Growth Collective for Therapists, a professional home for clinicians who want meaningful consultation, real connection, and support building a practice that feels sustainable rather than depleting. Through monthly consultation, clinical supervision, CEU trainings, and practical guidance for private practice, The Growth Collective brings together therapists who are ready to receive the same level of care they offer their clients every day. If you’ve been missing community or feeling the early edges of burnout, this space was built with you in mind. xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Growing Self If ending therapy sessions on time feels harder than it should, you’re not imagining things. Many thoughtful, dedicated therapists struggle with this, especially when meaningful work is happening in the room or when a client brings up something important right as the session is ending. But learning how to end therapy sessions on time is a professional skill that quietly shapes your boundaries, your energy, and the sustainability of your career.


In this episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists, I’m revisiting a conversation about why ending therapy sessions on time can be surprisingly difficult for even experienced clinicians. Over years of supervising therapists and running my own practice, I’ve seen how easily session boundaries can start to drift. Most of the time it happens for compassionate reasons. We care about our clients, we want to help, and sometimes the work is just getting interesting right when the clock runs out.


But when therapy sessions consistently run over time, it can create ripple effects that many therapists don’t anticipate. Clients may begin to expect extra time. Our schedules become compressed and stressful. Breaks disappear. And over time, what feels like a small act of generosity can quietly contribute to therapist burnout, administrative overwhelm, and a sense that the workday never quite has enough breathing room.


We also talk about the real reasons therapists struggle with therapist time management and session boundaries. We explore the emotional dynamics that make it hard to wrap up sessions, including empathy, discomfort around money, imposter syndrome, and the classic “doorknob moment” when a client reveals something significant just as the session is ending. I also share practical strategies therapists can use to maintain clear therapy session boundaries without feeling abrupt or uncaring.


Because ending therapy sessions on time isn’t about being rigid. It’s about creating a professional container that supports your clients, protects your energy, and allows you to sustain this work over the long term.


Episode Breakdown:

00:00 Why ending therapy sessions on time is harder than it seems

05:40 Why empathy makes it hard for therapists to end sessions on time

11:20 The “doorknob moment” and managing last-minute disclosures

16:30 How poor session boundaries contribute to therapist burnout

22:10 Administrative stress and the importance of time between sessions

25:45 Practical strategies for ending therapy sessions on time


If you’ve been feeling isolated in your work or quietly wondering how long you can keep doing this on your own, this work was never meant to be done alone. One of the ways I support therapists beyond this podcast is through The Growth Collective for Therapists, a professional home for clinicians who want meaningful consultation, real connection, and support building a practice that feels sustainable rather than depleting. Through monthly consultation, clinical supervision, CEU trainings, and practical guidance for private practice, The Growth Collective brings together therapists who are ready to receive the same level of care they offer their clients every day. If you’ve been missing community or feeling the early edges of burnout, this space was built with you in mind.


xoxo,

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

Growing Self

]]> 1964 no Therapists in Therapy: Blind Spots & Boundaries | Dr. Bill Doherty | E95 Therapists in therapy often overthink, overanalyze—and miss their own blind spots. What happens when the helper becomes the client? In this candid conversation, I'm sitting down with Dr. Bill Doherty to explore why therapy for therapists can be uniquely challenging, and how our professional training can actually interfere with intimacy, boundaries, and relational intelligence. If you’ve ever wondered whether therapists need therapy too, the answer is yes, but the experience of being a therapist as a client can be complicated. Therapists are trained to understand emotions, analyze patterns, and help others grow. But when it comes to our own relationships, that same training can create unexpected blind spots. We may overanalyze our partners, confuse psychological insight with vulnerability, or assume we already understand our own story. Dr. Doherty brings decades of experience to this conversation about relational intelligence, boundaries, and the occupational hazards of being a therapist. We talk about why therapists sometimes struggle to see their own role in relationship patterns, how psychological language can accidentally become a weapon in conflict, and why therapists can have higher expectations for intimacy than everyday relationships can realistically sustain. If you’re a therapist, coach, or someone who spends a lot of time helping others grow, this conversation may invite you to reflect on your own patterns, and what it looks like to stay humble, curious, and open to growth. Dr. Bill Doherty is an educator, researcher, couple and family therapist, author, consultant, and community organizer. He is also the co-founder of Braver Angels, a national nonprofit working to reduce political polarization across American society. Episode Breakdown: 00:00 Why Therapists Need Therapy Too 02:08 When the Therapist Becomes the Client 11:14 Emotional Intelligence vs. Relational Intelligence 17:29 The Blind Spot: How We Co-Create Relationship Patterns 22:08 Boundaries Over “The Perfect Conversation” 27:42 Why Therapists May Struggle in Their Own Relationships 40:30 When Insight Turns Into a Weapon 46:07 The Mindset That Makes Therapy Work for Therapists If today’s conversation had you reflecting on your own blind spots as a therapist, or reminded you how hard it can be to see ourselves clearly inside our relationships, I’d love to invite you into something special. It’s called the Growth Collective, a professional development community for therapists who want to keep growing personally and professionally. Inside, we have thoughtful conversations about relational intelligence, clinical growth, and the real challenges that come with doing this work. It’s a space where therapists can reflect, learn, and support each other as humans, not just as professionals. xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Growing Self Wed, 11 Mar 2026 09:00:00 -0000 full Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Therapists in therapy often overthink, overanalyze—and miss their own blind spots. What happens when the helper becomes the client? In this candid conversation, I'm sitting down with Dr. Bill Doherty to explore why therapy for therapists can be uniquely challenging, and how our professional training can actually interfere with intimacy, boundaries, and relational intelligence. If you’ve ever wondered whether therapists need therapy too, the answer is yes, but the experience of being a therapist as a client can be complicated. Therapists are trained to understand emotions, analyze patterns, and help others grow. But when it comes to our own relationships, that same training can create unexpected blind spots. We may overanalyze our partners, confuse psychological insight with vulnerability, or assume we already understand our own story. Dr. Doherty brings decades of experience to this conversation about relational intelligence, boundaries, and the occupational hazards of being a therapist. We talk about why therapists sometimes struggle to see their own role in relationship patterns, how psychological language can accidentally become a weapon in conflict, and why therapists can have higher expectations for intimacy than everyday relationships can realistically sustain. If you’re a therapist, coach, or someone who spends a lot of time helping others grow, this conversation may invite you to reflect on your own patterns, and what it looks like to stay humble, curious, and open to growth. Dr. Bill Doherty is an educator, researcher, couple and family therapist, author, consultant, and community organizer. He is also the co-founder of Braver Angels, a national nonprofit working to reduce political polarization across American society. Episode Breakdown: 00:00 Why Therapists Need Therapy Too 02:08 When the Therapist Becomes the Client 11:14 Emotional Intelligence vs. Relational Intelligence 17:29 The Blind Spot: How We Co-Create Relationship Patterns 22:08 Boundaries Over “The Perfect Conversation” 27:42 Why Therapists May Struggle in Their Own Relationships 40:30 When Insight Turns Into a Weapon 46:07 The Mindset That Makes Therapy Work for Therapists If today’s conversation had you reflecting on your own blind spots as a therapist, or reminded you how hard it can be to see ourselves clearly inside our relationships, I’d love to invite you into something special. It’s called the Growth Collective, a professional development community for therapists who want to keep growing personally and professionally. Inside, we have thoughtful conversations about relational intelligence, clinical growth, and the real challenges that come with doing this work. It’s a space where therapists can reflect, learn, and support each other as humans, not just as professionals. xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Growing Self Therapists in therapy often overthink, overanalyze—and miss their own blind spots.


What happens when the helper becomes the client? In this candid conversation, I'm sitting down with Dr. Bill Doherty to explore why therapy for therapists can be uniquely challenging, and how our professional training can actually interfere with intimacy, boundaries, and relational intelligence.


If you’ve ever wondered whether therapists need therapy too, the answer is yes, but the experience of being a therapist as a client can be complicated. Therapists are trained to understand emotions, analyze patterns, and help others grow. But when it comes to our own relationships, that same training can create unexpected blind spots. We may overanalyze our partners, confuse psychological insight with vulnerability, or assume we already understand our own story.


Dr. Doherty brings decades of experience to this conversation about relational intelligence, boundaries, and the occupational hazards of being a therapist. We talk about why therapists sometimes struggle to see their own role in relationship patterns, how psychological language can accidentally become a weapon in conflict, and why therapists can have higher expectations for intimacy than everyday relationships can realistically sustain. If you’re a therapist, coach, or someone who spends a lot of time helping others grow, this conversation may invite you to reflect on your own patterns, and what it looks like to stay humble, curious, and open to growth.


Dr. Bill Doherty is an educator, researcher, couple and family therapist, author, consultant, and community organizer. He is also the co-founder of Braver Angels, a national nonprofit working to reduce political polarization across American society.


Episode Breakdown:

00:00 Why Therapists Need Therapy Too

02:08 When the Therapist Becomes the Client

11:14 Emotional Intelligence vs. Relational Intelligence

17:29 The Blind Spot: How We Co-Create Relationship Patterns

22:08 Boundaries Over “The Perfect Conversation”

27:42 Why Therapists May Struggle in Their Own Relationships

40:30 When Insight Turns Into a Weapon

46:07 The Mindset That Makes Therapy Work for Therapists


If today’s conversation had you reflecting on your own blind spots as a therapist, or reminded you how hard it can be to see ourselves clearly inside our relationships, I’d love to invite you into something special.


It’s called the Growth Collective, a professional development community for therapists who want to keep growing personally and professionally. Inside, we have thoughtful conversations about relational intelligence, clinical growth, and the real challenges that come with doing this work. It’s a space where therapists can reflect, learn, and support each other as humans, not just as professionals.


xoxo,

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

Growing Self

]]> 3717 no Are You OVERSHARING With Your Therapy Clients? | LHSFT Classic Have you ever walked out of a session wondering if you talked about yourself a little too much? Therapist self-disclosure can be powerful when it’s brief, intentional, and clearly in service of the client. A thoughtful share can normalize an experience or strengthen rapport. But oversharing in therapy is different. When your stories start taking up too much space, when clients feel responsible for your emotions, or when the focus subtly shifts away from their process, therapy boundaries begin to blur. In this episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists, I’m revisiting an honest conversation about oversharing in therapy and how it can quietly impact client retention, trust, and even your professional reputation. Therapist self-disclosure is not inherently problematic, but it must always serve the client’s growth — not the therapist’s unmet needs. When boundary drift goes unnoticed, therapy client dropout, strained alliances, and ethical concerns can follow. We’ll walk through real-world examples of how this shows up in practice, from grief disclosures that unintentionally overshadow a client’s pain to subtle validation-seeking that shifts emotional labor onto the client. We’ll explore the difference between empathy and self-centering, and talk about why therapist burnout, isolation, or emotional depletion can sometimes leak into the room without us fully realizing it. Most importantly, we’ll focus on how to protect client-centered care. That means staying grounded in your code of ethics, seeking consultation, monitoring patterns in your practice, and building feedback-informed systems so you know how clients are actually experiencing you. Oversharing in therapy often happens gradually, which is why reflection and structured support matter. As you listen, consider this: Are your disclosures enhancing the work, or competing with it? Episode Breakdown: 00:00 The fine line between self-disclosure and oversharing 04:30 When personal stories overshadow clients 10:15 Subtle boundary drift and validation-seeking 15:40 Client retention and ethical considerations 19:10 Burnout, unmet needs, and emotional leakage 22:00 Best practices for protecting therapy boundaries If this conversation has you reflecting on your own practice, especially around self-disclosure, boundaries, or the subtle impact of burnout, you don’t have to navigate that growth alone. One of the primary ways I support therapists beyond this podcast is through The Growth Collective for Therapists, a professional home for clinicians who want thoughtful consultation, meaningful mentorship, and support building a practice that feels sustainable, ethical, and aligned over the long term. xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Growing Self Wed, 04 Mar 2026 10:00:00 -0000 full Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Have you ever walked out of a session wondering if you talked about yourself a little too much? Therapist self-disclosure can be powerful when it’s brief, intentional, and clearly in service of the client. A thoughtful share can normalize an experience or strengthen rapport. But oversharing in therapy is different. When your stories start taking up too much space, when clients feel responsible for your emotions, or when the focus subtly shifts away from their process, therapy boundaries begin to blur. In this episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists, I’m revisiting an honest conversation about oversharing in therapy and how it can quietly impact client retention, trust, and even your professional reputation. Therapist self-disclosure is not inherently problematic, but it must always serve the client’s growth — not the therapist’s unmet needs. When boundary drift goes unnoticed, therapy client dropout, strained alliances, and ethical concerns can follow. We’ll walk through real-world examples of how this shows up in practice, from grief disclosures that unintentionally overshadow a client’s pain to subtle validation-seeking that shifts emotional labor onto the client. We’ll explore the difference between empathy and self-centering, and talk about why therapist burnout, isolation, or emotional depletion can sometimes leak into the room without us fully realizing it. Most importantly, we’ll focus on how to protect client-centered care. That means staying grounded in your code of ethics, seeking consultation, monitoring patterns in your practice, and building feedback-informed systems so you know how clients are actually experiencing you. Oversharing in therapy often happens gradually, which is why reflection and structured support matter. As you listen, consider this: Are your disclosures enhancing the work, or competing with it? Episode Breakdown: 00:00 The fine line between self-disclosure and oversharing 04:30 When personal stories overshadow clients 10:15 Subtle boundary drift and validation-seeking 15:40 Client retention and ethical considerations 19:10 Burnout, unmet needs, and emotional leakage 22:00 Best practices for protecting therapy boundaries If this conversation has you reflecting on your own practice, especially around self-disclosure, boundaries, or the subtle impact of burnout, you don’t have to navigate that growth alone. One of the primary ways I support therapists beyond this podcast is through The Growth Collective for Therapists, a professional home for clinicians who want thoughtful consultation, meaningful mentorship, and support building a practice that feels sustainable, ethical, and aligned over the long term. xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Growing Self Have you ever walked out of a session wondering if you talked about yourself a little too much?


Therapist self-disclosure can be powerful when it’s brief, intentional, and clearly in service of the client. A thoughtful share can normalize an experience or strengthen rapport. But oversharing in therapy is different. When your stories start taking up too much space, when clients feel responsible for your emotions, or when the focus subtly shifts away from their process, therapy boundaries begin to blur.


In this episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists, I’m revisiting an honest conversation about oversharing in therapy and how it can quietly impact client retention, trust, and even your professional reputation. Therapist self-disclosure is not inherently problematic, but it must always serve the client’s growth — not the therapist’s unmet needs. When boundary drift goes unnoticed, therapy client dropout, strained alliances, and ethical concerns can follow.


We’ll walk through real-world examples of how this shows up in practice, from grief disclosures that unintentionally overshadow a client’s pain to subtle validation-seeking that shifts emotional labor onto the client. We’ll explore the difference between empathy and self-centering, and talk about why therapist burnout, isolation, or emotional depletion can sometimes leak into the room without us fully realizing it.


Most importantly, we’ll focus on how to protect client-centered care. That means staying grounded in your code of ethics, seeking consultation, monitoring patterns in your practice, and building feedback-informed systems so you know how clients are actually experiencing you. Oversharing in therapy often happens gradually, which is why reflection and structured support matter.


As you listen, consider this: Are your disclosures enhancing the work, or competing with it?


Episode Breakdown:

00:00 The fine line between self-disclosure and oversharing

04:30 When personal stories overshadow clients

10:15 Subtle boundary drift and validation-seeking

15:40 Client retention and ethical considerations

19:10 Burnout, unmet needs, and emotional leakage

22:00 Best practices for protecting therapy boundaries


If this conversation has you reflecting on your own practice, especially around self-disclosure, boundaries, or the subtle impact of burnout, you don’t have to navigate that growth alone. One of the primary ways I support therapists beyond this podcast is through The Growth Collective for Therapists, a professional home for clinicians who want thoughtful consultation, meaningful mentorship, and support building a practice that feels sustainable, ethical, and aligned over the long term.


xoxo,

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

Growing Self

]]> 1575 no Private Practice: When the Dream Turns Into a Nightmare | E94 Private practice can feel like the ultimate goal — until it becomes financially and ethically overwhelming.⁠ So many therapists dream of starting a private therapy practice for freedom, flexibility, and a higher private practice therapist salary. But what happens when the reality of private practice therapy doesn’t match the expectation? In this episode, I’m breaking down the private practice business fundamentals most therapists were never taught — and why misunderstanding them can quietly turn the dream of starting a private therapy practice into a nightmare. Using a simple “airplane model” framework, I explain what actually keeps a therapy business in the air — and what causes it to crash. If you’ve been wondering how to start a private therapy practice without burning out, under-earning, or compromising your ethics, this conversation is for you. After 20 years as a private practice therapist and founder of Growing Self Counseling & Coaching, I’ve learned (sometimes the hard way) that doing great clinical work is only a small fraction of what it takes to run a sustainable private therapy practice. Cash flow, operations, marketing for therapists, sales conversations, and understanding what it truly costs to earn revenue all determine whether you build something stable, or something fragile. And if you’re considering starting a private therapy practice, this episode will help you slow down and think clearly before you leap — so you can build something aligned, informed, and sustainable. Episode Breakdown: 00:00 The Airplane Rule: If You Run Out of Gas, the Business Crashes 03:10 Why Private Practice Feels Like the “Holy Grail” for Therapists 07:40 The Fuel Tank: Cash Flow and Private Practice Therapist Salary Realities 15:25 The Fuselage: Operations, Overhead, and What It Costs to Earn Revenue 23:40 Marketing for Therapists vs. Sales (And Why They’re Not the Same) 34:10 Ethical Risks When Your Practice Isn’t Financially Stable 42:15 Insurance-Based Models vs. Full Fee Private Practice Therapy 52:00 Employment, Supported Group Practice, or Starting a Private Therapy Practice — Choosing Your Path If you’d like more support as you build a sustainable career as a private practice therapist, I’d love to invite you to ⁠The Growth Collective for Therapists ⁠— a professional home where you can receive consultation, community, and guidance around marketing for therapists, business fundamentals, and ethical growth. You don’t have to figure this out alone. xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby ⁠Growing Self⁠ Shopify — The all-in-one platform for building and growing your online business. Visit⁠ shopify.com/lhs⁠ to explore their tools and access exclusive listener discounts. Wed, 25 Feb 2026 13:15:00 -0000 full Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Private practice can feel like the ultimate goal — until it becomes financially and ethically overwhelming.⁠ So many therapists dream of starting a private therapy practice for freedom, flexibility, and a higher private practice therapist salary. But what happens when the reality of private practice therapy doesn’t match the expectation? In this episode, I’m breaking down the private practice business fundamentals most therapists were never taught — and why misunderstanding them can quietly turn the dream of starting a private therapy practice into a nightmare. Using a simple “airplane model” framework, I explain what actually keeps a therapy business in the air — and what causes it to crash. If you’ve been wondering how to start a private therapy practice without burning out, under-earning, or compromising your ethics, this conversation is for you. After 20 years as a private practice therapist and founder of Growing Self Counseling & Coaching, I’ve learned (sometimes the hard way) that doing great clinical work is only a small fraction of what it takes to run a sustainable private therapy practice. Cash flow, operations, marketing for therapists, sales conversations, and understanding what it truly costs to earn revenue all determine whether you build something stable, or something fragile. And if you’re considering starting a private therapy practice, this episode will help you slow down and think clearly before you leap — so you can build something aligned, informed, and sustainable. Episode Breakdown: 00:00 The Airplane Rule: If You Run Out of Gas, the Business Crashes 03:10 Why Private Practice Feels Like the “Holy Grail” for Therapists 07:40 The Fuel Tank: Cash Flow and Private Practice Therapist Salary Realities 15:25 The Fuselage: Operations, Overhead, and What It Costs to Earn Revenue 23:40 Marketing for Therapists vs. Sales (And Why They’re Not the Same) 34:10 Ethical Risks When Your Practice Isn’t Financially Stable 42:15 Insurance-Based Models vs. Full Fee Private Practice Therapy 52:00 Employment, Supported Group Practice, or Starting a Private Therapy Practice — Choosing Your Path If you’d like more support as you build a sustainable career as a private practice therapist, I’d love to invite you to ⁠The Growth Collective for Therapists ⁠— a professional home where you can receive consultation, community, and guidance around marketing for therapists, business fundamentals, and ethical growth. You don’t have to figure this out alone. xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby ⁠Growing Self⁠ Shopify — The all-in-one platform for building and growing your online business. Visit⁠ shopify.com/lhs⁠ to explore their tools and access exclusive listener discounts. Private practice can feel like the ultimate goal — until it becomes financially and ethically overwhelming.⁠


So many therapists dream of starting a private therapy practice for freedom, flexibility, and a higher private practice therapist salary. But what happens when the reality of private practice therapy doesn’t match the expectation? In this episode, I’m breaking down the private practice business fundamentals most therapists were never taught — and why misunderstanding them can quietly turn the dream of starting a private therapy practice into a nightmare.


Using a simple “airplane model” framework, I explain what actually keeps a therapy business in the air — and what causes it to crash.


If you’ve been wondering how to start a private therapy practice without burning out, under-earning, or compromising your ethics, this conversation is for you.


After 20 years as a private practice therapist and founder of Growing Self Counseling & Coaching, I’ve learned (sometimes the hard way) that doing great clinical work is only a small fraction of what it takes to run a sustainable private therapy practice. Cash flow, operations, marketing for therapists, sales conversations, and understanding what it truly costs to earn revenue all determine whether you build something stable, or something fragile.


And if you’re considering starting a private therapy practice, this episode will help you slow down and think clearly before you leap — so you can build something aligned, informed, and sustainable.


Episode Breakdown:

00:00 The Airplane Rule: If You Run Out of Gas, the Business Crashes

03:10 Why Private Practice Feels Like the “Holy Grail” for Therapists

07:40 The Fuel Tank: Cash Flow and Private Practice Therapist Salary Realities

15:25 The Fuselage: Operations, Overhead, and What It Costs to Earn Revenue

23:40 Marketing for Therapists vs. Sales (And Why They’re Not the Same)

34:10 Ethical Risks When Your Practice Isn’t Financially Stable

42:15 Insurance-Based Models vs. Full Fee Private Practice Therapy

52:00 Employment, Supported Group Practice, or Starting a Private Therapy Practice — Choosing Your Path


If you’d like more support as you build a sustainable career as a private practice therapist, I’d love to invite you to ⁠The Growth Collective for Therapists ⁠— a professional home where you can receive consultation, community, and guidance around marketing for therapists, business fundamentals, and ethical growth. You don’t have to figure this out alone.


xoxo,

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

⁠Growing Self⁠


Shopify — The all-in-one platform for building and growing your online business. Visit⁠ shopify.com/lhs⁠ to explore their tools and access exclusive listener discounts.

]]> 3494 no Therapist Career Planning: Building a Sustainable Practice Over Time | E93 Therapist burnout isn’t a personal failure, it’s often a therapist career planning problem. Let’s fix it. If part of you has been thinking, “Something about this isn’t sustainable,” I want to talk about that. Most of us were trained to be competent clinicians. Very few of us were trained in therapist career planning. We weren’t taught how to build a sustainable therapy career that supports our nervous system, finances, relationships, and long-term wellbeing. And 10 or 15 years in, many therapists quietly start wondering whether this path still fits. In this episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists, we explore what sustainable therapist career planning actually looks like. We talk about therapist burnout and career change—not as a dramatic exit from the profession, but as an invitation to redesign it. You’ll learn how to think about your career in seasons, how to choose a therapy niche without trapping yourself, and why clarity often comes from experimentation rather than overthinking. We’ll also have an honest conversation about private practice vs agency therapist roles. The “obvious” answer isn’t always the sustainable one. A sustainable therapy career is about more than hourly rate—it’s about structure, lifestyle, emotional bandwidth, and long-term viability. For therapists considering expansion, we’ll discuss coaching certification for therapists, supervision, education, and other multidimensional paths that can make your work feel energizing again—when they’re aligned with who you are. Episode Breakdown: 00:00 Therapist Burnout and Therapist Career Planning 10:13 Therapist Career Planning Beyond Traditional Therapy 19:49 How to Choose a Therapy Niche and Align With Your Values 29:49 Private Practice vs Agency Therapist: Identity and Expansion 39:51 Building a Sustainable Therapy Career and Moving Forward If part of you felt seen in this conversation, especially around therapist burnout or wondering what’s next, you don’t have to hold that alone. One of the primary ways I support therapists beyond this podcast is through The Growth Collective for Therapists, a professional home I created for clinicians who want real consultation, meaningful connection, and support building a sustainable therapy career that feels life-giving, not depleting. The Growth Collective brings together licensed therapists who are ready to receive the same level of care they give every day. Inside, you’ll find monthly consultation, clinical supervision, CEU trainings, and practical guidance for building a stable, fulfilling private practice or navigating therapist career planning with clarity and confidence. If you’ve been missing community, feeling isolated in your work, or quietly edging toward therapist burnout, this space was built with you in mind. And if this episode resonated, share it with a colleague who may be quietly asking the same questions. We are all in this together. xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Growing Self Wed, 18 Feb 2026 10:00:00 -0000 full Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Therapist burnout isn’t a personal failure, it’s often a therapist career planning problem. Let’s fix it. If part of you has been thinking, “Something about this isn’t sustainable,” I want to talk about that. Most of us were trained to be competent clinicians. Very few of us were trained in therapist career planning. We weren’t taught how to build a sustainable therapy career that supports our nervous system, finances, relationships, and long-term wellbeing. And 10 or 15 years in, many therapists quietly start wondering whether this path still fits. In this episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists, we explore what sustainable therapist career planning actually looks like. We talk about therapist burnout and career change—not as a dramatic exit from the profession, but as an invitation to redesign it. You’ll learn how to think about your career in seasons, how to choose a therapy niche without trapping yourself, and why clarity often comes from experimentation rather than overthinking. We’ll also have an honest conversation about private practice vs agency therapist roles. The “obvious” answer isn’t always the sustainable one. A sustainable therapy career is about more than hourly rate—it’s about structure, lifestyle, emotional bandwidth, and long-term viability. For therapists considering expansion, we’ll discuss coaching certification for therapists, supervision, education, and other multidimensional paths that can make your work feel energizing again—when they’re aligned with who you are. Episode Breakdown: 00:00 Therapist Burnout and Therapist Career Planning 10:13 Therapist Career Planning Beyond Traditional Therapy 19:49 How to Choose a Therapy Niche and Align With Your Values 29:49 Private Practice vs Agency Therapist: Identity and Expansion 39:51 Building a Sustainable Therapy Career and Moving Forward If part of you felt seen in this conversation, especially around therapist burnout or wondering what’s next, you don’t have to hold that alone. One of the primary ways I support therapists beyond this podcast is through The Growth Collective for Therapists, a professional home I created for clinicians who want real consultation, meaningful connection, and support building a sustainable therapy career that feels life-giving, not depleting. The Growth Collective brings together licensed therapists who are ready to receive the same level of care they give every day. Inside, you’ll find monthly consultation, clinical supervision, CEU trainings, and practical guidance for building a stable, fulfilling private practice or navigating therapist career planning with clarity and confidence. If you’ve been missing community, feeling isolated in your work, or quietly edging toward therapist burnout, this space was built with you in mind. And if this episode resonated, share it with a colleague who may be quietly asking the same questions. We are all in this together. xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Growing Self Therapist burnout isn’t a personal failure, it’s often a therapist career planning problem. Let’s fix it. If part of you has been thinking, “Something about this isn’t sustainable,” I want to talk about that.


Most of us were trained to be competent clinicians. Very few of us were trained in therapist career planning. We weren’t taught how to build a sustainable therapy career that supports our nervous system, finances, relationships, and long-term wellbeing. And 10 or 15 years in, many therapists quietly start wondering whether this path still fits.


In this episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists, we explore what sustainable therapist career planning actually looks like. We talk about therapist burnout and career change—not as a dramatic exit from the profession, but as an invitation to redesign it. You’ll learn how to think about your career in seasons, how to choose a therapy niche without trapping yourself, and why clarity often comes from experimentation rather than overthinking.


We’ll also have an honest conversation about private practice vs agency therapist roles. The “obvious” answer isn’t always the sustainable one. A sustainable therapy career is about more than hourly rate—it’s about structure, lifestyle, emotional bandwidth, and long-term viability.


For therapists considering expansion, we’ll discuss coaching certification for therapists, supervision, education, and other multidimensional paths that can make your work feel energizing again—when they’re aligned with who you are.


Episode Breakdown:

00:00 Therapist Burnout and Therapist Career Planning

10:13 Therapist Career Planning Beyond Traditional Therapy

19:49 How to Choose a Therapy Niche and Align With Your Values

29:49 Private Practice vs Agency Therapist: Identity and Expansion

39:51 Building a Sustainable Therapy Career and Moving Forward


If part of you felt seen in this conversation, especially around therapist burnout or wondering what’s next, you don’t have to hold that alone. One of the primary ways I support therapists beyond this podcast is through The Growth Collective for Therapists, a professional home I created for clinicians who want real consultation, meaningful connection, and support building a sustainable therapy career that feels life-giving, not depleting.


The Growth Collective brings together licensed therapists who are ready to receive the same level of care they give every day. Inside, you’ll find monthly consultation, clinical supervision, CEU trainings, and practical guidance for building a stable, fulfilling private practice or navigating therapist career planning with clarity and confidence. If you’ve been missing community, feeling isolated in your work, or quietly edging toward therapist burnout, this space was built with you in mind.


And if this episode resonated, share it with a colleague who may be quietly asking the same questions. We are all in this together.


xoxo,

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

Growing Self

]]> 3278 no Dating Coaching for Therapists: How to Help Clients Find Healthy Relationships | E92 https://www.growingself.com/dating-coaching-for-therapists/ Dating coaching for therapists is becoming a common clinical need, yet most of us were never trained to offer step-by-step support when clients want help with dating. Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby is joined by evidence-based dating coach Tim Molnar to talk about practical, ethical tools therapists can use when helping clients build healthy relationships. Many therapists feel confident helping clients unpack attachment patterns, anxiety, trauma histories, and relational dynamics. But when a client says, “I feel ready to date. Now what do I actually do?” insight alone often isn’t enough. This is where therapists helping clients with dating can start to feel uncertain about scope, competence, and next steps. In this episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists, Tim brings a behavioral science lens to dating and shares coaching-informed frameworks that help therapists recognize when a client is facing a skills gap rather than a clinical barrier. We talk about how dating clients in therapy can benefit from practical structure, values-aligned action, and clear next steps — without therapy drifting into coaching or crossing ethical lines. We also explore coaching vs therapy, how to thoughtfully build therapist coaching skills, and how to know when referral to evidence-based dating coaching is the most supportive and ethical option. This conversation is especially relevant for therapists navigating questions of therapist scope of practice when dating becomes a primary focus of the work. Episode Breakdown: 00:00 Why dating coaching for therapists has become a common clinical challenge 03:03 When insight isn’t enough and clients want practical dating support 08:53 Skills gaps vs clinical issues when dating stalls 16:22 Turning dating goals into specific, actionable steps 19:01 Reducing rejection anxiety with evidence-based tools 29:43 Online dating burnout and the case for real-world strategies 38:59 Coaching vs therapy, scope of practice, and ethical referrals This episode touches a place many therapists recognize, even if we don’t always say it out loud. We’re often expected to hold complexity, offer clarity, and navigate ethical gray areas without much guidance ourselves. If you want more connection, consultation, and support around these kinds of questions, you can learn more at growingself.com/therapists. And if you’re curious about expanding your skill set with clear ethical boundaries, you can also learn more about coaching certification for therapists here. As always, I invite you to notice where you feel confident offering direction, and where you may be defaulting to insight when a client is actually asking for guidance. Getting clearer about that distinction can make a meaningful difference, for your clients and for you. xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Growing Self Wed, 11 Feb 2026 10:00:00 -0000 full Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Dating coaching for therapists is becoming a common clinical need, yet most of us were never trained to offer step-by-step support when clients want help with dating. Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby is joined by evidence-based dating coach Tim Molnar to talk about practical, ethical tools therapists can use when helping clients build healthy relationships. Many therapists feel confident helping clients unpack attachment patterns, anxiety, trauma histories, and relational dynamics. But when a client says, “I feel ready to date. Now what do I actually do?” insight alone often isn’t enough. This is where therapists helping clients with dating can start to feel uncertain about scope, competence, and next steps. In this episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists, Tim brings a behavioral science lens to dating and shares coaching-informed frameworks that help therapists recognize when a client is facing a skills gap rather than a clinical barrier. We talk about how dating clients in therapy can benefit from practical structure, values-aligned action, and clear next steps — without therapy drifting into coaching or crossing ethical lines. We also explore coaching vs therapy, how to thoughtfully build therapist coaching skills, and how to know when referral to evidence-based dating coaching is the most supportive and ethical option. This conversation is especially relevant for therapists navigating questions of therapist scope of practice when dating becomes a primary focus of the work. Episode Breakdown: 00:00 Why dating coaching for therapists has become a common clinical challenge 03:03 When insight isn’t enough and clients want practical dating support 08:53 Skills gaps vs clinical issues when dating stalls 16:22 Turning dating goals into specific, actionable steps 19:01 Reducing rejection anxiety with evidence-based tools 29:43 Online dating burnout and the case for real-world strategies 38:59 Coaching vs therapy, scope of practice, and ethical referrals This episode touches a place many therapists recognize, even if we don’t always say it out loud. We’re often expected to hold complexity, offer clarity, and navigate ethical gray areas without much guidance ourselves. If you want more connection, consultation, and support around these kinds of questions, you can learn more at growingself.com/therapists. And if you’re curious about expanding your skill set with clear ethical boundaries, you can also learn more about coaching certification for therapists here. As always, I invite you to notice where you feel confident offering direction, and where you may be defaulting to insight when a client is actually asking for guidance. Getting clearer about that distinction can make a meaningful difference, for your clients and for you. xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Growing Self Dating coaching for therapists is becoming a common clinical need, yet most of us were never trained to offer step-by-step support when clients want help with dating. Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby is joined by evidence-based dating coach Tim Molnar to talk about practical, ethical tools therapists can use when helping clients build healthy relationships.


Many therapists feel confident helping clients unpack attachment patterns, anxiety, trauma histories, and relational dynamics. But when a client says, “I feel ready to date. Now what do I actually do?” insight alone often isn’t enough. This is where therapists helping clients with dating can start to feel uncertain about scope, competence, and next steps.


In this episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists, Tim brings a behavioral science lens to dating and shares coaching-informed frameworks that help therapists recognize when a client is facing a skills gap rather than a clinical barrier. We talk about how dating clients in therapy can benefit from practical structure, values-aligned action, and clear next steps — without therapy drifting into coaching or crossing ethical lines.


We also explore coaching vs therapy, how to thoughtfully build therapist coaching skills, and how to know when referral to evidence-based dating coaching is the most supportive and ethical option. This conversation is especially relevant for therapists navigating questions of therapist scope of practice when dating becomes a primary focus of the work.


Episode Breakdown:

00:00 Why dating coaching for therapists has become a common clinical challenge

03:03 When insight isn’t enough and clients want practical dating support

08:53 Skills gaps vs clinical issues when dating stalls

16:22 Turning dating goals into specific, actionable steps

19:01 Reducing rejection anxiety with evidence-based tools

29:43 Online dating burnout and the case for real-world strategies

38:59 Coaching vs therapy, scope of practice, and ethical referrals


This episode touches a place many therapists recognize, even if we don’t always say it out loud. We’re often expected to hold complexity, offer clarity, and navigate ethical gray areas without much guidance ourselves.


If you want more connection, consultation, and support around these kinds of questions, you can learn more at growingself.com/therapists. And if you’re curious about expanding your skill set with clear ethical boundaries, you can also learn more about coaching certification for therapists here.


As always, I invite you to notice where you feel confident offering direction, and where you may be defaulting to insight when a client is actually asking for guidance. Getting clearer about that distinction can make a meaningful difference, for your clients and for you.


xoxo,

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

Growing Self

]]> 3355 no Help Your Therapy Clients Uncover Their Genius — with Patrick Lencioni | E91 What if your client’s self-esteem struggles aren’t about deficits — but about being in the wrong role? Many therapists work with clients who feel chronically discouraged, stuck in career dissatisfaction, or locked into exhausting power struggles with their partners. Often, these clients come in believing something is “wrong” with them — when in reality, they’re operating far outside their natural strengths. In this feed-drop episode, I’m sharing a conversation with Patrick Lencioni, creator of the Working Genius assessment, about a framework that helps clients quickly identify where they shine — and where things will always feel harder, no matter how much effort they apply. This is one of my favorite tools right now for: Supporting clients with low self-esteem Helping couples understand recurring conflict patterns Normalizing frustration without diagnosing it Creating forward momentum in career and life decisions You’ll hear how Working Genius brings clarity to: Why capable people feel incompetent in certain environments How different “genius types” clash in relationships and work How therapists can use this tool to depersonalize conflict and shame If you’re a therapist or counselor looking for a fast, accessible assessment that clients actually get, this episode will give you a new lens you can start using immediately. 🎧 Try it yourself. Patrick was so kind to create a special discount offer exclusively for my listeners.  Visit workinggenius.com and use code LHS for a reduced cost. Feel free to share that access code with your clients too so they don't have to pay full price for this assessment if you want to try it out. Tune in to get all the details about how to use this assessment, the kind of change it creates, and the different types of genius that are often undervalued in our culture. If this sparks ideas for your work, come find me on LinkedIn. I’d love to hear how you’re using it. Xo,  Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Wed, 04 Feb 2026 10:00:00 -0000 full Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby What if your client’s self-esteem struggles aren’t about deficits — but about being in the wrong role? Many therapists work with clients who feel chronically discouraged, stuck in career dissatisfaction, or locked into exhausting power struggles with their partners. Often, these clients come in believing something is “wrong” with them — when in reality, they’re operating far outside their natural strengths. In this feed-drop episode, I’m sharing a conversation with Patrick Lencioni, creator of the Working Genius assessment, about a framework that helps clients quickly identify where they shine — and where things will always feel harder, no matter how much effort they apply. This is one of my favorite tools right now for: Supporting clients with low self-esteem Helping couples understand recurring conflict patterns Normalizing frustration without diagnosing it Creating forward momentum in career and life decisions You’ll hear how Working Genius brings clarity to: Why capable people feel incompetent in certain environments How different “genius types” clash in relationships and work How therapists can use this tool to depersonalize conflict and shame If you’re a therapist or counselor looking for a fast, accessible assessment that clients actually get, this episode will give you a new lens you can start using immediately. 🎧 Try it yourself. Patrick was so kind to create a special discount offer exclusively for my listeners.  Visit workinggenius.com and use code LHS for a reduced cost. Feel free to share that access code with your clients too so they don't have to pay full price for this assessment if you want to try it out. Tune in to get all the details about how to use this assessment, the kind of change it creates, and the different types of genius that are often undervalued in our culture. If this sparks ideas for your work, come find me on LinkedIn. I’d love to hear how you’re using it. Xo,  Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby What if your client’s self-esteem struggles aren’t about deficits — but about being in the wrong role?

Many therapists work with clients who feel chronically discouraged, stuck in career dissatisfaction, or locked into exhausting power struggles with their partners. Often, these clients come in believing something is “wrong” with them — when in reality, they’re operating far outside their natural strengths.

In this feed-drop episode, I’m sharing a conversation with Patrick Lencioni, creator of the Working Genius assessment, about a framework that helps clients quickly identify where they shine — and where things will always feel harder, no matter how much effort they apply.

This is one of my favorite tools right now for:

  • Supporting clients with low self-esteem

  • Helping couples understand recurring conflict patterns

  • Normalizing frustration without diagnosing it

  • Creating forward momentum in career and life decisions

You’ll hear how Working Genius brings clarity to:

  • Why capable people feel incompetent in certain environments

  • How different “genius types” clash in relationships and work

  • How therapists can use this tool to depersonalize conflict and shame

If you’re a therapist or counselor looking for a fast, accessible assessment that clients actually get, this episode will give you a new lens you can start using immediately.

🎧 Try it yourself. Patrick was so kind to create a special discount offer exclusively for my listeners.  Visit workinggenius.com and use code LHS for a reduced cost. Feel free to share that access code with your clients too so they don't have to pay full price for this assessment if you want to try it out.

Tune in to get all the details about how to use this assessment, the kind of change it creates, and the different types of genius that are often undervalued in our culture. If this sparks ideas for your work, come find me on LinkedIn. I’d love to hear how you’re using it.

Xo, 

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

]]> 4299 no What Your Clients Really Think About Therapy | E90 https://www.growingself.com/what-your-clients-really-think-about-therapy There's a mismatch of expectations between therapists and their clients. A lot of therapy clients—especially the high-functioning ones—walk into therapy thinking, “Great. I’m hiring someone who can help me make meaningful changes in my real life.” They’re looking for clarity, strategy, momentum, and better outcomes. But many therapists (often without realizing it) meet them through a clinical-treatment lens: we start assessing, conceptualizing, and listening for pathology, assuming the “real work” is deeper healing, insight, or excavation of old pain. And for these clients, that can feel like we’re missing the point. They didn’t come in to be analyzed—they came in to get unstuck. When the process doesn’t match their goals, therapy can quickly start to feel slow, irrelevant, or not worth the investment. The fix isn’t “do therapy better.” It’s recognizing that different clients need different kinds of help—and being willing to broaden how you work. When we expand our toolkit with more directive, skills-based, and coaching-informed interventions (while staying inside ethical boundaries), we can meet these clients where they actually are—and help them create the change they came for. In this episode, you’ll learn: Why clients may disengage when therapy doesn’t work for their stated goals Common mismatches between therapist training and client expectations in therapy How scope of competence impacts therapy outcomes and ethical decision-making The limitations of insight-oriented therapy for non-clinical or highly functional clients Thanks for tuning in to this episode and sharing it with other clinicians in your professional circle who you think might need to hear it. I'll be so interested to hear what you think about this episode. Connect with me on LinkedIn and let's continue the conversation! Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby More free resources to support your Love, Happiness, and Success as a therapist at GrowingSelf.com! Wed, 28 Jan 2026 10:00:00 -0000 full Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby There's a mismatch of expectations between what your clients want, and what therapists frequently do... There's a mismatch of expectations between therapists and their clients. A lot of therapy clients—especially the high-functioning ones—walk into therapy thinking, “Great. I’m hiring someone who can help me make meaningful changes in my real life.” They’re looking for clarity, strategy, momentum, and better outcomes. But many therapists (often without realizing it) meet them through a clinical-treatment lens: we start assessing, conceptualizing, and listening for pathology, assuming the “real work” is deeper healing, insight, or excavation of old pain. And for these clients, that can feel like we’re missing the point. They didn’t come in to be analyzed—they came in to get unstuck. When the process doesn’t match their goals, therapy can quickly start to feel slow, irrelevant, or not worth the investment. The fix isn’t “do therapy better.” It’s recognizing that different clients need different kinds of help—and being willing to broaden how you work. When we expand our toolkit with more directive, skills-based, and coaching-informed interventions (while staying inside ethical boundaries), we can meet these clients where they actually are—and help them create the change they came for. In this episode, you’ll learn: Why clients may disengage when therapy doesn’t work for their stated goals Common mismatches between therapist training and client expectations in therapy How scope of competence impacts therapy outcomes and ethical decision-making The limitations of insight-oriented therapy for non-clinical or highly functional clients Thanks for tuning in to this episode and sharing it with other clinicians in your professional circle who you think might need to hear it. I'll be so interested to hear what you think about this episode. Connect with me on LinkedIn and let's continue the conversation! Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby More free resources to support your Love, Happiness, and Success as a therapist at GrowingSelf.com! There's a mismatch of expectations between therapists and their clients. A lot of therapy clients—especially the high-functioning ones—walk into therapy thinking, “Great. I’m hiring someone who can help me make meaningful changes in my real life.” They’re looking for clarity, strategy, momentum, and better outcomes.

But many therapists (often without realizing it) meet them through a clinical-treatment lens: we start assessing, conceptualizing, and listening for pathology, assuming the “real work” is deeper healing, insight, or excavation of old pain. And for these clients, that can feel like we’re missing the point. They didn’t come in to be analyzed—they came in to get unstuck. When the process doesn’t match their goals, therapy can quickly start to feel slow, irrelevant, or not worth the investment.

The fix isn’t “do therapy better.” It’s recognizing that different clients need different kinds of help—and being willing to broaden how you work. When we expand our toolkit with more directive, skills-based, and coaching-informed interventions (while staying inside ethical boundaries), we can meet these clients where they actually are—and help them create the change they came for.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

  • Why clients may disengage when therapy doesn’t work for their stated goals

  • Common mismatches between therapist training and client expectations in therapy

  • How scope of competence impacts therapy outcomes and ethical decision-making

  • The limitations of insight-oriented therapy for non-clinical or highly functional clients


    Thanks for tuning in to this episode and sharing it with other clinicians in your professional circle who you think might need to hear it. I'll be so interested to hear what you think about this episode.


    Connect with me on LinkedIn and let's continue the conversation!

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

More free resources to support your Love, Happiness, and Success as a therapist at GrowingSelf.com!


]]> 2297 How to Discover Your Niche as a Therapist | LHSFT Classic https://www.growingself.com/find-your-niche-as-a-therapist/ If you don’t have a clear answer to the question, “What kind of therapist am I?”, your work may feel harder than it needs to be. Discovering your niche as a therapist isn’t about branding or boxing yourself in. It’s about professional clarity, clinical confidence, and building a practice that feels focused rather than scattered. Many therapists default to being generalists, especially early in their careers, without realizing how much that diffusion can erode satisfaction, effectiveness, and long-term sustainability. If you’ve ever felt unsure how to describe your work, or noticed that doing a little bit of everything leaves you drained or unfocused, this conversation is for you. In this episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists, I’m revisiting an essential conversation about why therapy specialization is a core part of ethical professional development, not a marketing trend. I walk through a realistic, thoughtful process for clarifying your niche over time, including self-assessment, gaining experience, pursuing training, and communicating your expertise with intention and integrity. We also talk about how personal values, lived experience, and natural strengths shape professional identity, why niche clarity often evolves across a career, and how coaching psychology can complement therapy for clinicians who are drawn to growth-oriented work. This episode is an invitation to move out of diffusion and into alignment, in a way that supports both you and the clients who rely on your expertise. Episode Breakdown: 00:00 Why discovering your niche as a therapist matters 01:50 How therapy specialization supports confidence and career satisfaction 06:25 Step 1: Self-assessment and career clarity as a therapist 10:16 Step 2: Gaining experience before choosing a therapist niche 12:24 Step 3: Training, certification, and therapist credibility 16:56 Step 4: Communicating your therapist niche ethically in private practice 21:32 Ethical considerations for therapists on social media 23:46 Resources and encouragement as your therapist niche evolves If you’re in the middle of figuring out who you are as a therapist and where your work is headed, I want you to know this process takes time, and you don’t have to rush it. One of the primary ways I support therapists beyond this podcast is through The Growth Collective for Therapists, a professional home for clinicians who want thoughtful consultation, meaningful mentorship, and support building a practice that feels sustainable and aligned over the long term. xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie BobbyGrowing Self Wed, 07 Jan 2026 10:00:00 -0000 full 1 Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby If you don’t have a clear answer to the question, “What kind of therapist am I?”, your work may feel harder than it needs to be. Discovering your niche as a therapist isn’t about branding or boxing yourself in. It’s about professional clarity, clinical confidence, and building a practice that feels focused rather than scattered. Many therapists default to being generalists, especially early in their careers, without realizing how much that diffusion can erode satisfaction, effectiveness, and long-term sustainability. If you’ve ever felt unsure how to describe your work, or noticed that doing a little bit of everything leaves you drained or unfocused, this conversation is for you. In this episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists, I’m revisiting an essential conversation about why therapy specialization is a core part of ethical professional development, not a marketing trend. I walk through a realistic, thoughtful process for clarifying your niche over time, including self-assessment, gaining experience, pursuing training, and communicating your expertise with intention and integrity. We also talk about how personal values, lived experience, and natural strengths shape professional identity, why niche clarity often evolves across a career, and how coaching psychology can complement therapy for clinicians who are drawn to growth-oriented work. This episode is an invitation to move out of diffusion and into alignment, in a way that supports both you and the clients who rely on your expertise. Episode Breakdown: 00:00 Why discovering your niche as a therapist matters 01:50 How therapy specialization supports confidence and career satisfaction 06:25 Step 1: Self-assessment and career clarity as a therapist 10:16 Step 2: Gaining experience before choosing a therapist niche 12:24 Step 3: Training, certification, and therapist credibility 16:56 Step 4: Communicating your therapist niche ethically in private practice 21:32 Ethical considerations for therapists on social media 23:46 Resources and encouragement as your therapist niche evolves If you’re in the middle of figuring out who you are as a therapist and where your work is headed, I want you to know this process takes time, and you don’t have to rush it. One of the primary ways I support therapists beyond this podcast is through The Growth Collective for Therapists, a professional home for clinicians who want thoughtful consultation, meaningful mentorship, and support building a practice that feels sustainable and aligned over the long term. xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie BobbyGrowing Self If you don’t have a clear answer to the question, “What kind of therapist am I?”, your work may feel harder than it needs to be. Discovering your niche as a therapist isn’t about branding or boxing yourself in. It’s about professional clarity, clinical confidence, and building a practice that feels focused rather than scattered.


Many therapists default to being generalists, especially early in their careers, without realizing how much that diffusion can erode satisfaction, effectiveness, and long-term sustainability. If you’ve ever felt unsure how to describe your work, or noticed that doing a little bit of everything leaves you drained or unfocused, this conversation is for you.


In this episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists, I’m revisiting an essential conversation about why therapy specialization is a core part of ethical professional development, not a marketing trend. I walk through a realistic, thoughtful process for clarifying your niche over time, including self-assessment, gaining experience, pursuing training, and communicating your expertise with intention and integrity.


We also talk about how personal values, lived experience, and natural strengths shape professional identity, why niche clarity often evolves across a career, and how coaching psychology can complement therapy for clinicians who are drawn to growth-oriented work. This episode is an invitation to move out of diffusion and into alignment, in a way that supports both you and the clients who rely on your expertise.


Episode Breakdown:
00:00 Why discovering your niche as a therapist matters
01:50 How therapy specialization supports confidence and career satisfaction
06:25 Step 1: Self-assessment and career clarity as a therapist
10:16 Step 2: Gaining experience before choosing a therapist niche
12:24 Step 3: Training, certification, and therapist credibility
16:56 Step 4: Communicating your therapist niche ethically in private practice
21:32 Ethical considerations for therapists on social media
23:46 Resources and encouragement as your therapist niche evolves


If you’re in the middle of figuring out who you are as a therapist and where your work is headed, I want you to know this process takes time, and you don’t have to rush it. One of the primary ways I support therapists beyond this podcast is through The Growth Collective for Therapists, a professional home for clinicians who want thoughtful consultation, meaningful mentorship, and support building a practice that feels sustainable and aligned over the long term.


xoxo,
Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby
Growing Self

]]> 1708 no The Baby’s Fine... But She’s Not: What Therapists Need to Know about Perinatal Mental Health | E89 https://www.growingself.com/perinatal-mental-health-for-therapists/ Perinatal mental health is one of the most important clinical issues therapists encounter and one of the most frequently overlooked. When a client is pregnant or newly postpartum, distress is often minimized as “just part of the transition,” even when something more serious is happening beneath the surface. If you’ve ever wondered whether you’re asking the right questions, or worried you might be missing something with a pregnant or postpartum client, this episode is for you. In this episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists, I’m joined by my colleague Catherine Fredrickson, LMFT, a perinatal mental health–certified therapist at Growing Self. Catherine brings both clinical expertise and lived experience to a grounded, practical conversation about how perinatal mental health concerns actually show up in the therapy room. We talk about how to assess for perinatal mood and anxiety disorders, how to differentiate between expected hormonal shifts and clinically significant symptoms, and the subtle language cues that can signal deeper distress, including disconnection, self-blame, and feelings of unworthiness as a parent. This conversation is a reminder that perinatal mental health is not a niche specialty but a core clinical competency for therapists working with adults, couples, and families. Episode Breakdown: 00:00 Why perinatal mental health is often missed in therapy 06:09 How therapists can get trained in perinatal mental health (PSI and more) 09:12 The “it’s just pregnancy” myth and perinatal mental health statistics 12:21 Perinatal mental health assessment: what therapists should ask and screen for 16:30 Hormonal shifts vs. perinatal mental health disorders 24:55 Supporting perinatal mental health through planning and social support 27:23 Perinatal mental health and couples after baby 34:35 Perinatal mental health in military families and solo parenting If you’ve been feeling isolated in your work, or quietly wondering how long you can keep doing this on your own, I want you to know you’re not alone. One of the primary ways I support therapists beyond this podcast is through The Growth Collective for Therapists, a professional home I created for clinicians who want real consultation, meaningful connection, and support building a practice that feels sustainable and life-giving, not depleting. The Growth Collective brings together licensed therapists who are ready to receive the same level of care they give every day through monthly consultation, clinical supervision, CEU trainings, and practical guidance for building a stable, fulfilling private practice. If you’ve been missing community, feeling isolated in your work, or edging toward burnout, this space was built with you in mind. xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie BobbyGrowing Self Wed, 31 Dec 2025 10:00:00 -0000 full 1 89 Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Perinatal mental health is one of the most important clinical issues therapists encounter and one of the most frequently overlooked. When a client is pregnant or newly postpartum, distress is often minimized as “just part of the transition,” even when something more serious is happening beneath the surface. If you’ve ever wondered whether you’re asking the right questions, or worried you might be missing something with a pregnant or postpartum client, this episode is for you. In this episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists, I’m joined by my colleague Catherine Fredrickson, LMFT, a perinatal mental health–certified therapist at Growing Self. Catherine brings both clinical expertise and lived experience to a grounded, practical conversation about how perinatal mental health concerns actually show up in the therapy room. We talk about how to assess for perinatal mood and anxiety disorders, how to differentiate between expected hormonal shifts and clinically significant symptoms, and the subtle language cues that can signal deeper distress, including disconnection, self-blame, and feelings of unworthiness as a parent. This conversation is a reminder that perinatal mental health is not a niche specialty but a core clinical competency for therapists working with adults, couples, and families. Episode Breakdown: 00:00 Why perinatal mental health is often missed in therapy 06:09 How therapists can get trained in perinatal mental health (PSI and more) 09:12 The “it’s just pregnancy” myth and perinatal mental health statistics 12:21 Perinatal mental health assessment: what therapists should ask and screen for 16:30 Hormonal shifts vs. perinatal mental health disorders 24:55 Supporting perinatal mental health through planning and social support 27:23 Perinatal mental health and couples after baby 34:35 Perinatal mental health in military families and solo parenting If you’ve been feeling isolated in your work, or quietly wondering how long you can keep doing this on your own, I want you to know you’re not alone. One of the primary ways I support therapists beyond this podcast is through The Growth Collective for Therapists, a professional home I created for clinicians who want real consultation, meaningful connection, and support building a practice that feels sustainable and life-giving, not depleting. The Growth Collective brings together licensed therapists who are ready to receive the same level of care they give every day through monthly consultation, clinical supervision, CEU trainings, and practical guidance for building a stable, fulfilling private practice. If you’ve been missing community, feeling isolated in your work, or edging toward burnout, this space was built with you in mind. xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie BobbyGrowing Self Perinatal mental health is one of the most important clinical issues therapists encounter and one of the most frequently overlooked. When a client is pregnant or newly postpartum, distress is often minimized as “just part of the transition,” even when something more serious is happening beneath the surface. If you’ve ever wondered whether you’re asking the right questions, or worried you might be missing something with a pregnant or postpartum client, this episode is for you.


In this episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists, I’m joined by my colleague Catherine Fredrickson, LMFT, a perinatal mental health–certified therapist at Growing Self. Catherine brings both clinical expertise and lived experience to a grounded, practical conversation about how perinatal mental health concerns actually show up in the therapy room. We talk about how to assess for perinatal mood and anxiety disorders, how to differentiate between expected hormonal shifts and clinically significant symptoms, and the subtle language cues that can signal deeper distress, including disconnection, self-blame, and feelings of unworthiness as a parent.


This conversation is a reminder that perinatal mental health is not a niche specialty but a core clinical competency for therapists working with adults, couples, and families.


Episode Breakdown:
00:00 Why perinatal mental health is often missed in therapy
06:09 How therapists can get trained in perinatal mental health (PSI and more)
09:12 The “it’s just pregnancy” myth and perinatal mental health statistics
12:21 Perinatal mental health assessment: what therapists should ask and screen for
16:30 Hormonal shifts vs. perinatal mental health disorders
24:55 Supporting perinatal mental health through planning and social support
27:23 Perinatal mental health and couples after baby

34:35 Perinatal mental health in military families and solo parenting


If you’ve been feeling isolated in your work, or quietly wondering how long you can keep doing this on your own, I want you to know you’re not alone. One of the primary ways I support therapists beyond this podcast is through The Growth Collective for Therapists, a professional home I created for clinicians who want real consultation, meaningful connection, and support building a practice that feels sustainable and life-giving, not depleting.


The Growth Collective brings together licensed therapists who are ready to receive the same level of care they give every day through monthly consultation, clinical supervision, CEU trainings, and practical guidance for building a stable, fulfilling private practice. If you’ve been missing community, feeling isolated in your work, or edging toward burnout, this space was built with you in mind.


xoxo,
Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby
Growing Self

]]> 2810 no When Being a Therapist Feels Heavy— with Dr. Diana Hill | E88 https://www.growingself.com/acceptance-commitment-therapy-for-therapists If you’re a therapist who uses acceptance commitment therapy with clients but quietly struggles to apply those same principles to your own life or practice, this conversation is for you. Acceptance commitment therapy offers powerful tools for values-based living, psychological flexibility, and sustainable change, yet many therapists find it surprisingly hard to turn that wisdom inward. In this episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists, I’m joined by clinical psychologist Dr. Diana Hill, a world-recognized expert in acceptance commitment therapy, to talk about why therapists so often mismanage their energy, undervalue their own genius, and stay stuck in versions of their work that no longer fit. We explore how ACT principles can help therapists evolve without burning out, abandoning the profession, or losing what makes this work meaningful. Diana shares how stories about who we’re “supposed” to be as therapists can quietly limit growth, why flexibility with identity matters just as much as flexibility with thoughts, and how the future of therapy will increasingly reward depth, attunement, and humanity over rigid protocols. We also talk candidly about career evolution, second chapters, and what it looks like to build a practice that supports your life rather than consumes it. Episode Breakdown: 00:00 Why therapists struggle to follow their own advice and how acceptance commitment therapy helps 03:24 The “leftovers” problem: energy depletion, burnout, and clients sensing it 05:15 Getting flexible with the stories that keep you stuck in one version of your career 07:30 Therapist genius, identity, and why this matters in a changing field 11:48 What can’t be replaced: attunement, challenge, and real change moments 22:47 Wings clipped vs. wings weighed down: overcommitting and the “buffet” trap 28:03 Process-based therapy and moving beyond manuals 35:09 The two common therapist traps: “shoulds” and undervaluing your work 39:09 Why therapists leave the profession and what actually supports sustainability If you’re feeling pulled toward a second chapter in your work as a therapist, or simply craving more support, clarity, and room to breathe, I want you to know you don’t have to figure this out alone. One of the primary ways I support therapists who want to stay engaged, energized, and genuinely fulfilled in this profession is through The Growth Collective for Therapists. It’s a professional home I created for therapists who want real consultation, thoughtful mentorship, and community with people who truly understand the weight and responsibility of this work. It offers the support of a high-quality group practice without giving up your independence, values, or financial autonomy, so you can build a career that feels sustainable and alive over the long haul. And if you’d like to stay connected, come find me on LinkedIn. I truly enjoy hearing what this work brings up for you and where you’re feeling ready to grow next. xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie BobbyGrowing Self Wed, 24 Dec 2025 10:00:00 -0000 full 1 88 Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby If you’re a therapist who uses acceptance commitment therapy with clients but quietly struggles to apply those same principles to your own life or practice, this conversation is for you. Acceptance commitment therapy offers powerful tools for values-based living, psychological flexibility, and sustainable change, yet many therapists find it surprisingly hard to turn that wisdom inward. In this episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists, I’m joined by clinical psychologist Dr. Diana Hill, a world-recognized expert in acceptance commitment therapy, to talk about why therapists so often mismanage their energy, undervalue their own genius, and stay stuck in versions of their work that no longer fit. We explore how ACT principles can help therapists evolve without burning out, abandoning the profession, or losing what makes this work meaningful. Diana shares how stories about who we’re “supposed” to be as therapists can quietly limit growth, why flexibility with identity matters just as much as flexibility with thoughts, and how the future of therapy will increasingly reward depth, attunement, and humanity over rigid protocols. We also talk candidly about career evolution, second chapters, and what it looks like to build a practice that supports your life rather than consumes it. Episode Breakdown: 00:00 Why therapists struggle to follow their own advice and how acceptance commitment therapy helps 03:24 The “leftovers” problem: energy depletion, burnout, and clients sensing it 05:15 Getting flexible with the stories that keep you stuck in one version of your career 07:30 Therapist genius, identity, and why this matters in a changing field 11:48 What can’t be replaced: attunement, challenge, and real change moments 22:47 Wings clipped vs. wings weighed down: overcommitting and the “buffet” trap 28:03 Process-based therapy and moving beyond manuals 35:09 The two common therapist traps: “shoulds” and undervaluing your work 39:09 Why therapists leave the profession and what actually supports sustainability If you’re feeling pulled toward a second chapter in your work as a therapist, or simply craving more support, clarity, and room to breathe, I want you to know you don’t have to figure this out alone. One of the primary ways I support therapists who want to stay engaged, energized, and genuinely fulfilled in this profession is through The Growth Collective for Therapists. It’s a professional home I created for therapists who want real consultation, thoughtful mentorship, and community with people who truly understand the weight and responsibility of this work. It offers the support of a high-quality group practice without giving up your independence, values, or financial autonomy, so you can build a career that feels sustainable and alive over the long haul. And if you’d like to stay connected, come find me on LinkedIn. I truly enjoy hearing what this work brings up for you and where you’re feeling ready to grow next. xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie BobbyGrowing Self If you’re a therapist who uses acceptance commitment therapy with clients but quietly struggles to apply those same principles to your own life or practice, this conversation is for you. Acceptance commitment therapy offers powerful tools for values-based living, psychological flexibility, and sustainable change, yet many therapists find it surprisingly hard to turn that wisdom inward.


In this episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists, I’m joined by clinical psychologist Dr. Diana Hill, a world-recognized expert in acceptance commitment therapy, to talk about why therapists so often mismanage their energy, undervalue their own genius, and stay stuck in versions of their work that no longer fit. We explore how ACT principles can help therapists evolve without burning out, abandoning the profession, or losing what makes this work meaningful.


Diana shares how stories about who we’re “supposed” to be as therapists can quietly limit growth, why flexibility with identity matters just as much as flexibility with thoughts, and how the future of therapy will increasingly reward depth, attunement, and humanity over rigid protocols. We also talk candidly about career evolution, second chapters, and what it looks like to build a practice that supports your life rather than consumes it.


Episode Breakdown:
00:00 Why therapists struggle to follow their own advice and how acceptance commitment therapy helps
03:24 The “leftovers” problem: energy depletion, burnout, and clients sensing it
05:15 Getting flexible with the stories that keep you stuck in one version of your career
07:30 Therapist genius, identity, and why this matters in a changing field
11:48 What can’t be replaced: attunement, challenge, and real change moments
22:47 Wings clipped vs. wings weighed down: overcommitting and the “buffet” trap
28:03 Process-based therapy and moving beyond manuals
35:09 The two common therapist traps: “shoulds” and undervaluing your work
39:09 Why therapists leave the profession and what actually supports sustainability


If you’re feeling pulled toward a second chapter in your work as a therapist, or simply craving more support, clarity, and room to breathe, I want you to know you don’t have to figure this out alone. One of the primary ways I support therapists who want to stay engaged, energized, and genuinely fulfilled in this profession is through The Growth Collective for Therapists.


It’s a professional home I created for therapists who want real consultation, thoughtful mentorship, and community with people who truly understand the weight and responsibility of this work. It offers the support of a high-quality group practice without giving up your independence, values, or financial autonomy, so you can build a career that feels sustainable and alive over the long haul.


And if you’d like to stay connected, come find me on LinkedIn. I truly enjoy hearing what this work brings up for you and where you’re feeling ready to grow next.


xoxo,
Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby
Growing Self

]]> 3199 no Why Therapists Need to Grow Too | LHS Classic https://www.growingself.com/why-therapists-need-to-grow-too/ If you’ve ever noticed this work starting to feel heavier, flatter, or more draining than it used to, this is for you. “Why therapists need to grow too” is a question many clinicians never stop to ask, even though the answer is often at the heart of burnout, boredom, and long-term career dissatisfaction. When growth slows, even deeply meaningful work can begin to feel exhausting. This week on Love, Happiness, and Success For Therapists, I’m revisiting an essential conversation about why intentional personal and professional growth is critical for a sustainable, satisfying career as a therapist. Over the years, I’ve seen how easy it is for growth to quietly stall once you’re licensed and established, even for deeply committed clinicians. Self-care matters, but it isn’t enough on its own. What truly restores energy and engagement over time is learning, stretching, being challenged, and continuing to develop both clinically and personally. I share what I’ve seen over decades of practice about how stagnation shows up for therapists, how it affects our clients, and why checking the continuing education box is not the same as pursuing growth that is genuinely life-giving. We explore mentorship, consultation, self-of-the-therapist work, and new learning as powerful ways to reconnect with curiosity, confidence, and purpose in your work. We also talk about how growth looks different for different therapists. For some, that means new clinical modalities or specialization. For others, it may involve coaching psychology, research, leadership, or deeper self-reflection with trusted mentors. There is no single right path, but there is a shared responsibility to keep evolving alongside the clients who place their trust in us. Episode Breakdown: 00:00 Why Therapists Need to Grow Too 02:23 Growth, Energy, and Long-Term Career Satisfaction 04:49 What Happens When Therapists Stop Learning 07:07 Why Therapist Growth Matters for Clients 09:27 Mentorship, Feedback, and Finding New Professional Energy 16:37 Self-of-the-Therapist Work and Sustainable Practice 19:01 Growth as a Powerful Protection Against Burnout As you’re thinking about your own growth as a therapist, I want you to know this work was never meant to be done alone. One of the most meaningful ways I support clinicians who want to stay engaged, energized, and genuinely fulfilled over the long haul is through The Growth Collective for Therapists. It’s a professional home I created for therapists who want real consultation, thoughtful mentorship, and a community that understands the weight and responsibility of this work. If you’re ready to invest in your own growth with the same care you bring to your clients, I’d love to share this space with you. And if you’d like to stay connected, come find me on LinkedIn! I truly enjoy hearing what this work brings up for you and where you’re feeling ready to grow next. xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie BobbyGrowing Self Wed, 17 Dec 2025 10:00:00 -0000 full 1 Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby If you’ve ever noticed this work starting to feel heavier, flatter, or more draining than it used to, this is for you. “Why therapists need to grow too” is a question many clinicians never stop to ask, even though the answer is often at the heart of burnout, boredom, and long-term career dissatisfaction. When growth slows, even deeply meaningful work can begin to feel exhausting. This week on Love, Happiness, and Success For Therapists, I’m revisiting an essential conversation about why intentional personal and professional growth is critical for a sustainable, satisfying career as a therapist. Over the years, I’ve seen how easy it is for growth to quietly stall once you’re licensed and established, even for deeply committed clinicians. Self-care matters, but it isn’t enough on its own. What truly restores energy and engagement over time is learning, stretching, being challenged, and continuing to develop both clinically and personally. I share what I’ve seen over decades of practice about how stagnation shows up for therapists, how it affects our clients, and why checking the continuing education box is not the same as pursuing growth that is genuinely life-giving. We explore mentorship, consultation, self-of-the-therapist work, and new learning as powerful ways to reconnect with curiosity, confidence, and purpose in your work. We also talk about how growth looks different for different therapists. For some, that means new clinical modalities or specialization. For others, it may involve coaching psychology, research, leadership, or deeper self-reflection with trusted mentors. There is no single right path, but there is a shared responsibility to keep evolving alongside the clients who place their trust in us. Episode Breakdown: 00:00 Why Therapists Need to Grow Too 02:23 Growth, Energy, and Long-Term Career Satisfaction 04:49 What Happens When Therapists Stop Learning 07:07 Why Therapist Growth Matters for Clients 09:27 Mentorship, Feedback, and Finding New Professional Energy 16:37 Self-of-the-Therapist Work and Sustainable Practice 19:01 Growth as a Powerful Protection Against Burnout As you’re thinking about your own growth as a therapist, I want you to know this work was never meant to be done alone. One of the most meaningful ways I support clinicians who want to stay engaged, energized, and genuinely fulfilled over the long haul is through The Growth Collective for Therapists. It’s a professional home I created for therapists who want real consultation, thoughtful mentorship, and a community that understands the weight and responsibility of this work. If you’re ready to invest in your own growth with the same care you bring to your clients, I’d love to share this space with you. And if you’d like to stay connected, come find me on LinkedIn! I truly enjoy hearing what this work brings up for you and where you’re feeling ready to grow next. xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie BobbyGrowing Self If you’ve ever noticed this work starting to feel heavier, flatter, or more draining than it used to, this is for you. “Why therapists need to grow too” is a question many clinicians never stop to ask, even though the answer is often at the heart of burnout, boredom, and long-term career dissatisfaction. When growth slows, even deeply meaningful work can begin to feel exhausting.


This week on Love, Happiness, and Success For Therapists, I’m revisiting an essential conversation about why intentional personal and professional growth is critical for a sustainable, satisfying career as a therapist. Over the years, I’ve seen how easy it is for growth to quietly stall once you’re licensed and established, even for deeply committed clinicians. Self-care matters, but it isn’t enough on its own. What truly restores energy and engagement over time is learning, stretching, being challenged, and continuing to develop both clinically and personally.


I share what I’ve seen over decades of practice about how stagnation shows up for therapists, how it affects our clients, and why checking the continuing education box is not the same as pursuing growth that is genuinely life-giving. We explore mentorship, consultation, self-of-the-therapist work, and new learning as powerful ways to reconnect with curiosity, confidence, and purpose in your work.


We also talk about how growth looks different for different therapists. For some, that means new clinical modalities or specialization. For others, it may involve coaching psychology, research, leadership, or deeper self-reflection with trusted mentors. There is no single right path, but there is a shared responsibility to keep evolving alongside the clients who place their trust in us.


Episode Breakdown:
00:00 Why Therapists Need to Grow Too
02:23 Growth, Energy, and Long-Term Career Satisfaction
04:49 What Happens When Therapists Stop Learning
07:07 Why Therapist Growth Matters for Clients
09:27 Mentorship, Feedback, and Finding New Professional Energy
16:37 Self-of-the-Therapist Work and Sustainable Practice
19:01 Growth as a Powerful Protection Against Burnout


As you’re thinking about your own growth as a therapist, I want you to know this work was never meant to be done alone. One of the most meaningful ways I support clinicians who want to stay engaged, energized, and genuinely fulfilled over the long haul is through The Growth Collective for Therapists. It’s a professional home I created for therapists who want real consultation, thoughtful mentorship, and a community that understands the weight and responsibility of this work. If you’re ready to invest in your own growth with the same care you bring to your clients, I’d love to share this space with you.


And if you’d like to stay connected, come find me on LinkedIn! I truly enjoy hearing what this work brings up for you and where you’re feeling ready to grow next.


xoxo,
Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby
Growing Self

]]> 1606 no Beyond Mindfulness: How Therapists Can Use Hypnosis to Transform Client Outcomes (with Dr. David Spiegel) | E87 https://courses.growingself.com/ceu-trainings-for-therapists Clinical hypnosis may be the closest thing we have to an “easy button” for helping clients follow through on the changes they want to make. This time of year, therapists and coaches see a surge of motivated clients. They're setting big goals for the new year, dreaming about who they want to become, and walking into sessions full of intention. But what happens next is all too familiar: action stalls, patterns repeat, and clients feel stuck between what they want to do and what they actually do. In this episode, I'm sitting down with Dr. David Spiegel, Stanford professor, past president of the American College of Psychiatrists, and author of over 400 peer-reviewed studies on clinical hypnosis. We’re exploring a powerful, research-backed tool that bridges the gap between intention and action and helps clients create real change. We talk about the science of clinical hypnosis and how it can shift thought patterns, physiological responses, and entrenched behaviors, why it works when insight alone doesn’t, and how technology is making it accessible to everyone. Dr. Spiegel also guides me (and you) through a live mini-session so you can feel what this approach is like yourself. Episode Breakdown: 00:00 Why Therapists Should Be Using Clinical Hypnosis 03:12 What Clinical Hypnosis Is and How It Works 07:26 How Hypnosis Changes Thoughts, Feelings, and Behavior 11:16 Hypnotizability: Who Benefits Most From Hypnosis 16:47 Why Hypnosis Fails and What Makes It Effective 23:58 Hypnosis vs Meditation for Behavior Change 27:47 Rapid Results With Self-Hypnosis Techniques 31:53 Inside the Reveri App and Scalable Clinical Hypnosis 34:19 The Neuroscience Behind Hypnosis and Mind-Body Change 39:09 Evidence for Hypnosis in Anxiety, Pain, and Medical Care 49:01 Guided Self-Hypnosis Session for Reducing Phone Use 57:50 Dr. Lisa’s Results Using Reveri for Better Sleep 59:55 Free CEU Training on Clinical Hypnosis for Therapists Dr. Spiegel’s work reframes hypnosis from a fringe intervention to an accessible, evidence-based technique that can help clients reduce anxiety, sleep better, and finally take the action they’re ready for. And the best news? Dr. David Spiegel is joining us for a free, 1-hour CEU-accredited training on clinical hypnosis on January 9th at 10am MT, exclusively for therapists. Dr. Spiegel has been teaching this to medical students and psychiatrists at Stanford for 40 years, he’s presented on this topic at the World Economic Forum in Davos, and he’s now making his time available for YOU. You’ll walk away with: A solid understanding of how clinical hypnosis supports neuroplasticity and mind-body connection The clinically proven uses of hypnosis for stress relief, pain management, addiction, sleep challenges, performance anxiety, and habit change Why clinical hypnosis works when other approaches don’t How technology is making hypnosis more accessible than ever 🔗 Register for the free clinical hypnosis CEU: https://courses.growingself.com/ceu-trainings-for-therapists Whether your clients want to reduce stress, change habits, or step into a new version of themselves in the new year, this is a training you won’t want to miss. Let’s learn from the best. I’ll see you there! xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie BobbyGrowing Self Wed, 10 Dec 2025 10:00:00 -0000 full 1 87 Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Clinical hypnosis may be the closest thing we have to an “easy button” for helping clients follow through on the changes they want to make. This time of year, therapists and coaches see a surge of motivated clients. They're setting big goals for the new year, dreaming about who they want to become, and walking into sessions full of intention. But what happens next is all too familiar: action stalls, patterns repeat, and clients feel stuck between what they want to do and what they actually do. In this episode, I'm sitting down with Dr. David Spiegel, Stanford professor, past president of the American College of Psychiatrists, and author of over 400 peer-reviewed studies on clinical hypnosis. We’re exploring a powerful, research-backed tool that bridges the gap between intention and action and helps clients create real change. We talk about the science of clinical hypnosis and how it can shift thought patterns, physiological responses, and entrenched behaviors, why it works when insight alone doesn’t, and how technology is making it accessible to everyone. Dr. Spiegel also guides me (and you) through a live mini-session so you can feel what this approach is like yourself. Episode Breakdown: 00:00 Why Therapists Should Be Using Clinical Hypnosis 03:12 What Clinical Hypnosis Is and How It Works 07:26 How Hypnosis Changes Thoughts, Feelings, and Behavior 11:16 Hypnotizability: Who Benefits Most From Hypnosis 16:47 Why Hypnosis Fails and What Makes It Effective 23:58 Hypnosis vs Meditation for Behavior Change 27:47 Rapid Results With Self-Hypnosis Techniques 31:53 Inside the Reveri App and Scalable Clinical Hypnosis 34:19 The Neuroscience Behind Hypnosis and Mind-Body Change 39:09 Evidence for Hypnosis in Anxiety, Pain, and Medical Care 49:01 Guided Self-Hypnosis Session for Reducing Phone Use 57:50 Dr. Lisa’s Results Using Reveri for Better Sleep 59:55 Free CEU Training on Clinical Hypnosis for Therapists Dr. Spiegel’s work reframes hypnosis from a fringe intervention to an accessible, evidence-based technique that can help clients reduce anxiety, sleep better, and finally take the action they’re ready for. And the best news? Dr. David Spiegel is joining us for a free, 1-hour CEU-accredited training on clinical hypnosis on January 9th at 10am MT, exclusively for therapists. Dr. Spiegel has been teaching this to medical students and psychiatrists at Stanford for 40 years, he’s presented on this topic at the World Economic Forum in Davos, and he’s now making his time available for YOU. You’ll walk away with: A solid understanding of how clinical hypnosis supports neuroplasticity and mind-body connection The clinically proven uses of hypnosis for stress relief, pain management, addiction, sleep challenges, performance anxiety, and habit change Why clinical hypnosis works when other approaches don’t How technology is making hypnosis more accessible than ever 🔗 Register for the free clinical hypnosis CEU: https://courses.growingself.com/ceu-trainings-for-therapists Whether your clients want to reduce stress, change habits, or step into a new version of themselves in the new year, this is a training you won’t want to miss. Let’s learn from the best. I’ll see you there! xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie BobbyGrowing Self Clinical hypnosis may be the closest thing we have to an “easy button” for helping clients follow through on the changes they want to make. This time of year, therapists and coaches see a surge of motivated clients. They're setting big goals for the new year, dreaming about who they want to become, and walking into sessions full of intention. But what happens next is all too familiar: action stalls, patterns repeat, and clients feel stuck between what they want to do and what they actually do.


In this episode, I'm sitting down with Dr. David Spiegel, Stanford professor, past president of the American College of Psychiatrists, and author of over 400 peer-reviewed studies on clinical hypnosis. We’re exploring a powerful, research-backed tool that bridges the gap between intention and action and helps clients create real change.


We talk about the science of clinical hypnosis and how it can shift thought patterns, physiological responses, and entrenched behaviors, why it works when insight alone doesn’t, and how technology is making it accessible to everyone. Dr. Spiegel also guides me (and you) through a live mini-session so you can feel what this approach is like yourself.


Episode Breakdown:
00:00 Why Therapists Should Be Using Clinical Hypnosis
03:12 What Clinical Hypnosis Is and How It Works
07:26 How Hypnosis Changes Thoughts, Feelings, and Behavior
11:16 Hypnotizability: Who Benefits Most From Hypnosis
16:47 Why Hypnosis Fails and What Makes It Effective
23:58 Hypnosis vs Meditation for Behavior Change
27:47 Rapid Results With Self-Hypnosis Techniques
31:53 Inside the Reveri App and Scalable Clinical Hypnosis
34:19 The Neuroscience Behind Hypnosis and Mind-Body Change
39:09 Evidence for Hypnosis in Anxiety, Pain, and Medical Care
49:01 Guided Self-Hypnosis Session for Reducing Phone Use
57:50 Dr. Lisa’s Results Using Reveri for Better Sleep
59:55 Free CEU Training on Clinical Hypnosis for Therapists


Dr. Spiegel’s work reframes hypnosis from a fringe intervention to an accessible, evidence-based technique that can help clients reduce anxiety, sleep better, and finally take the action they’re ready for.


And the best news? Dr. David Spiegel is joining us for a free, 1-hour CEU-accredited training on clinical hypnosis on January 9th at 10am MT, exclusively for therapists. Dr. Spiegel has been teaching this to medical students and psychiatrists at Stanford for 40 years, he’s presented on this topic at the World Economic Forum in Davos, and he’s now making his time available for YOU.


You’ll walk away with:

  • A solid understanding of how clinical hypnosis supports neuroplasticity and mind-body connection

  • The clinically proven uses of hypnosis for stress relief, pain management, addiction, sleep challenges, performance anxiety, and habit change

  • Why clinical hypnosis works when other approaches don’t

  • How technology is making hypnosis more accessible than ever


🔗 Register for the free clinical hypnosis CEU: https://courses.growingself.com/ceu-trainings-for-therapists


Whether your clients want to reduce stress, change habits, or step into a new version of themselves in the new year, this is a training you won’t want to miss.


Let’s learn from the best. I’ll see you there!


xoxo,
Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby
Growing Self

]]> 3852 no How to Become an Organizational Consultant and Executive Coach: A Career Guide for Therapists | E86 https://www.growingself.com/therapist-to-organizational-consultant If you’re a therapist who’s quietly thinking, “I cannot do 30 more years of back-to-back sessions
 but I don’t know what else is possible,” you are so not alone. Also, you have tons of transferable skills and deep knowledge that could be deployed to help not just individuals, but organizations flourish and thrive. Most therapists are never exposed to organizational consulting or executive coaching. However, this can be a really exciting and lucrative career path for professional therapists. In fact, becoming an organizational consultant or executive coach is one path that opens far more doors than most clinicians realize. If this idea just lit something up inside of you, I am so glad that you are here for today's episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists. I’m talking with psychologist and trusted leadership advisor Dr. Shannon Sheehan Jennings (Dr. J), a PsyD in Business Psychology who supports mid-market CEOs with the “sticky human stuff” behind growth and change: hard conversations, power dynamics, trust ruptures, and decisions that actually stick. Dr. Shannon walks us through her own pivot from therapist to organizational consultant, what executive coaching really looks like in the wild (small businesses vs. big corporate settings), and the specific business concepts you’ll want to learn so you can take your existing clinical skills into boardrooms, leadership teams, and workplace systems with confidence and integrity as an organizational consultant or executive coach. Episode Breakdown: 00:00 Why Work Systems “Suck” (and Why Therapists Are Needed in Organizations) 01:48 Dr. Shannon’s Journey from Therapist to Organizational Consultant 08:20 How Therapists Help Leaders, Teams, and Workplace Systems 16:20 First Steps for Therapists Becoming Organizational Consultants and Executive Coaches 20:10 What Executive Coaching Really Involves in Small Business vs Corporate Settings 30:36 Coaching vs Therapy, Ethics, and Staying Within Your Scope 46:20 Community, Networking, and Next-Step Resources for Therapists Pivoting Careers We also talk honestly about coaching vs. therapy, scope of practice, and how to protect both yourself and the public in a largely unregulated coaching and organizational consulting landscape, while still giving yourself permission to grow past the therapy room and into the kind of work that lights you up. If you’re craving more support as you sort out your next professional chapter, including a possible move into work as an organizational consultant or executive coach, I’d love to invite you to The Growth Collective for Therapists - a space I created so you don’t have to do this work in isolation anymore. It’s a genuine professional home for therapists who want real consultation, real community, and guidance for building a career that feels sustainable and alive. And if you’d like to stay connected, come find me on LinkedIn! I truly enjoy hearing your thoughts, questions, and ideas about how we as therapists can step into leadership, coaching, and organizational life in a bigger way. xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie BobbyGrowing Self Wed, 03 Dec 2025 10:00:00 -0000 full 1 86 Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby If you’re a therapist who’s quietly thinking, “I cannot do 30 more years of back-to-back sessions
 but I don’t know what else is possible,” you are so not alone. Also, you have tons of transferable skills and deep knowledge that could be deployed to help not just individuals, but organizations flourish and thrive. Most therapists are never exposed to organizational consulting or executive coaching. However, this can be a really exciting and lucrative career path for professional therapists. In fact, becoming an organizational consultant or executive coach is one path that opens far more doors than most clinicians realize. If this idea just lit something up inside of you, I am so glad that you are here for today's episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists. I’m talking with psychologist and trusted leadership advisor Dr. Shannon Sheehan Jennings (Dr. J), a PsyD in Business Psychology who supports mid-market CEOs with the “sticky human stuff” behind growth and change: hard conversations, power dynamics, trust ruptures, and decisions that actually stick. Dr. Shannon walks us through her own pivot from therapist to organizational consultant, what executive coaching really looks like in the wild (small businesses vs. big corporate settings), and the specific business concepts you’ll want to learn so you can take your existing clinical skills into boardrooms, leadership teams, and workplace systems with confidence and integrity as an organizational consultant or executive coach. Episode Breakdown: 00:00 Why Work Systems “Suck” (and Why Therapists Are Needed in Organizations) 01:48 Dr. Shannon’s Journey from Therapist to Organizational Consultant 08:20 How Therapists Help Leaders, Teams, and Workplace Systems 16:20 First Steps for Therapists Becoming Organizational Consultants and Executive Coaches 20:10 What Executive Coaching Really Involves in Small Business vs Corporate Settings 30:36 Coaching vs Therapy, Ethics, and Staying Within Your Scope 46:20 Community, Networking, and Next-Step Resources for Therapists Pivoting Careers We also talk honestly about coaching vs. therapy, scope of practice, and how to protect both yourself and the public in a largely unregulated coaching and organizational consulting landscape, while still giving yourself permission to grow past the therapy room and into the kind of work that lights you up. If you’re craving more support as you sort out your next professional chapter, including a possible move into work as an organizational consultant or executive coach, I’d love to invite you to The Growth Collective for Therapists - a space I created so you don’t have to do this work in isolation anymore. It’s a genuine professional home for therapists who want real consultation, real community, and guidance for building a career that feels sustainable and alive. And if you’d like to stay connected, come find me on LinkedIn! I truly enjoy hearing your thoughts, questions, and ideas about how we as therapists can step into leadership, coaching, and organizational life in a bigger way. xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie BobbyGrowing Self If you’re a therapist who’s quietly thinking, “I cannot do 30 more years of back-to-back sessions
 but I don’t know what else is possible,” you are so not alone. Also, you have tons of transferable skills and deep knowledge that could be deployed to help not just individuals, but organizations flourish and thrive. Most therapists are never exposed to organizational consulting or executive coaching. However, this can be a really exciting and lucrative career path for professional therapists. In fact, becoming an organizational consultant or executive coach is one path that opens far more doors than most clinicians realize.


If this idea just lit something up inside of you, I am so glad that you are here for today's episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists.


I’m talking with psychologist and trusted leadership advisor Dr. Shannon Sheehan Jennings (Dr. J), a PsyD in Business Psychology who supports mid-market CEOs with the “sticky human stuff” behind growth and change: hard conversations, power dynamics, trust ruptures, and decisions that actually stick. Dr. Shannon walks us through her own pivot from therapist to organizational consultant, what executive coaching really looks like in the wild (small businesses vs. big corporate settings), and the specific business concepts you’ll want to learn so you can take your existing clinical skills into boardrooms, leadership teams, and workplace systems with confidence and integrity as an organizational consultant or executive coach.


Episode Breakdown:
00:00 Why Work Systems “Suck” (and Why Therapists Are Needed in Organizations)
01:48 Dr. Shannon’s Journey from Therapist to Organizational Consultant
08:20 How Therapists Help Leaders, Teams, and Workplace Systems
16:20 First Steps for Therapists Becoming Organizational Consultants and Executive Coaches
20:10 What Executive Coaching Really Involves in Small Business vs Corporate Settings
30:36 Coaching vs Therapy, Ethics, and Staying Within Your Scope
46:20 Community, Networking, and Next-Step Resources for Therapists Pivoting Careers


We also talk honestly about coaching vs. therapy, scope of practice, and how to protect both yourself and the public in a largely unregulated coaching and organizational consulting landscape, while still giving yourself permission to grow past the therapy room and into the kind of work that lights you up.


If you’re craving more support as you sort out your next professional chapter, including a possible move into work as an organizational consultant or executive coach, I’d love to invite you to The Growth Collective for Therapists - a space I created so you don’t have to do this work in isolation anymore. It’s a genuine professional home for therapists who want real consultation, real community, and guidance for building a career that feels sustainable and alive.


And if you’d like to stay connected, come find me on LinkedIn! I truly enjoy hearing your thoughts, questions, and ideas about how we as therapists can step into leadership, coaching, and organizational life in a bigger way.


xoxo,
Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby
Growing Self

]]> 3706 no Hero Spotlight: A Home Within (with Candice Simonds) | LHSFT Classic https://www.growingself.com/hero-spotlight-a-home-within/ Holidays can bring up a lot - gratitude, tenderness, loneliness, longing. It’s a season that puts belonging under a spotlight. That’s why this felt like the right time to bring back this conversation about A Home Within and the impact of being one steady, caring adult in the life of a young person who hasn’t had that before. Many young people in foster care grow up without one consistent adult who stays. In this conversation, Candice Simonds, Chief Program Officer at A Home Within, shares how their model changes that by pairing youth with therapists who can remain a steady presence without insurance limits or agency cutoffs. We talk about how A Home Within began, what repeated loss does to young people, and why one long-term, caring relationship can shift a life. Candice also shares how the organization supports therapists through consultation groups, CEUs, and community so no one is holding this work alone. Their long-term research is hopeful: less anxiety and depression, more stability, more possibility. We also name the hard reality that without support, many former foster youth end up unhoused or involved in the justice system. Through it all, Candice points out the resilience she sees in her clients and why this work continues to matter so deeply. Episode Breakdown: 00:00 A Home Within and Its Mission 02:32 How A Home Within Began and Why the Mission Matters 09:37 Dr. Lisa’s Experience Supporting a Young Adult Aging Out of Foster Care 13:51 How A Home Within Supports Therapists Through Community and Consultation 21:03 Long-Term Outcomes for Foster Youth With Consistent Therapy 38:42 How Therapists Can Get Involved With A Home Within Conversations like this always remind me how much heart therapists bring to their work and how much we hold behind the scenes. Being that steady person for someone else is sacred work, but it can also feel incredibly lonely when you don’t have your own circle of support. That’s why I created The Growth Collective for Therapists. It’s a place where you don’t have to be the strong one all the time. A place to think through hard cases with people who truly get it, to feel grounded again, and to have colleagues who care about you as a whole person, not just as a clinician. If you’ve been craving that kind of connection and steadiness in your own professional life, I’d love to welcome you in.  And if you want to stay connected in a simpler way, come find me on LinkedIn! I love hearing from fellow therapists who believe in relational, heart-forward work. xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie BobbyGrowing Self Wed, 26 Nov 2025 10:00:00 -0000 full 1 Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Holidays can bring up a lot - gratitude, tenderness, loneliness, longing. It’s a season that puts belonging under a spotlight. That’s why this felt like the right time to bring back this conversation about A Home Within and the impact of being one steady, caring adult in the life of a young person who hasn’t had that before. Many young people in foster care grow up without one consistent adult who stays. In this conversation, Candice Simonds, Chief Program Officer at A Home Within, shares how their model changes that by pairing youth with therapists who can remain a steady presence without insurance limits or agency cutoffs. We talk about how A Home Within began, what repeated loss does to young people, and why one long-term, caring relationship can shift a life. Candice also shares how the organization supports therapists through consultation groups, CEUs, and community so no one is holding this work alone. Their long-term research is hopeful: less anxiety and depression, more stability, more possibility. We also name the hard reality that without support, many former foster youth end up unhoused or involved in the justice system. Through it all, Candice points out the resilience she sees in her clients and why this work continues to matter so deeply. Episode Breakdown: 00:00 A Home Within and Its Mission 02:32 How A Home Within Began and Why the Mission Matters 09:37 Dr. Lisa’s Experience Supporting a Young Adult Aging Out of Foster Care 13:51 How A Home Within Supports Therapists Through Community and Consultation 21:03 Long-Term Outcomes for Foster Youth With Consistent Therapy 38:42 How Therapists Can Get Involved With A Home Within Conversations like this always remind me how much heart therapists bring to their work and how much we hold behind the scenes. Being that steady person for someone else is sacred work, but it can also feel incredibly lonely when you don’t have your own circle of support. That’s why I created The Growth Collective for Therapists. It’s a place where you don’t have to be the strong one all the time. A place to think through hard cases with people who truly get it, to feel grounded again, and to have colleagues who care about you as a whole person, not just as a clinician. If you’ve been craving that kind of connection and steadiness in your own professional life, I’d love to welcome you in.  And if you want to stay connected in a simpler way, come find me on LinkedIn! I love hearing from fellow therapists who believe in relational, heart-forward work. xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie BobbyGrowing Self Holidays can bring up a lot - gratitude, tenderness, loneliness, longing. It’s a season that puts belonging under a spotlight. That’s why this felt like the right time to bring back this conversation about A Home Within and the impact of being one steady, caring adult in the life of a young person who hasn’t had that before.


Many young people in foster care grow up without one consistent adult who stays. In this conversation, Candice Simonds, Chief Program Officer at A Home Within, shares how their model changes that by pairing youth with therapists who can remain a steady presence without insurance limits or agency cutoffs.


We talk about how A Home Within began, what repeated loss does to young people, and why one long-term, caring relationship can shift a life. Candice also shares how the organization supports therapists through consultation groups, CEUs, and community so no one is holding this work alone.


Their long-term research is hopeful: less anxiety and depression, more stability, more possibility. We also name the hard reality that without support, many former foster youth end up unhoused or involved in the justice system. Through it all, Candice points out the resilience she sees in her clients and why this work continues to matter so deeply.


Episode Breakdown:
00:00 A Home Within and Its Mission
02:32 How A Home Within Began and Why the Mission Matters
09:37 Dr. Lisa’s Experience Supporting a Young Adult Aging Out of Foster Care
13:51 How A Home Within Supports Therapists Through Community and Consultation
21:03 Long-Term Outcomes for Foster Youth With Consistent Therapy
38:42 How Therapists Can Get Involved With A Home Within


Conversations like this always remind me how much heart therapists bring to their work and how much we hold behind the scenes. Being that steady person for someone else is sacred work, but it can also feel incredibly lonely when you don’t have your own circle of support.


That’s why I created The Growth Collective for Therapists. It’s a place where you don’t have to be the strong one all the time. A place to think through hard cases with people who truly get it, to feel grounded again, and to have colleagues who care about you as a whole person, not just as a clinician.


If you’ve been craving that kind of connection and steadiness in your own professional life, I’d love to welcome you in. 


And if you want to stay connected in a simpler way, come find me on LinkedIn! I love hearing from fellow therapists who believe in relational, heart-forward work.


xoxo,
Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby
Growing Self

]]> 2604 no The Psychedelic Therapy Revolution — with Dr. Scott Shannon | E85 https://www.growingself.com/mdma-therapy-psychedelic-treatment/ How can psychedelic-assisted therapy create deep, lasting transformation where conventional treatments only manage symptoms? Psychiatrist and integrative medicine pioneer Dr. Scott Shannon joins me to talk about how this emerging field is reshaping what’s possible for healing, not just for our clients, but for the future of mental health care itself. Dr. Shannon shares his decades of work exploring MDMA, psilocybin, and other psychedelic medicines as catalysts for safety, openness, and profound personal growth. We talk about how these experiences can unlock trauma healing, relational breakthroughs, and spiritual integration in ways that expand beyond traditional talk therapy. We also get into the ethics, boundaries, the training this work requires, and what it means for therapists who feel called to be part of this next frontier in care. Dr. Shannon is a psychiatrist, author, and founder of Wholeness Center, the largest integrative mental health clinic in the U.S., and a leader in psychedelic-assisted psychotherapy research and education. Episode Breakdown: 00:00 From SSRIs to MDMA Therapy: A Different Model of Care 07:36 MDMA for Couples: Safety, Openness, Breakthroughs 12:25 PTSD Protocol: Prep, Medicine Sessions, Integration, Childhood Trauma 13:33 Psychedelic Treatment Framework: Container, Catalyst, Carrier 20:07 Paths and Policy: Legalization, Medicalization, FDA Outlook 24:55 Ethics and Safety in Psychedelic-Assisted Therapy 39:53 Mystical Experience and Long-Term Outcomes 46:24 Training and Career Paths: How to Become a Psychedelic-Assisted Therapist Conversations like this remind me how much our field is growing and how important it is that we grow right along with it, in integrity and community. If you’ve been craving that kind of connection and support in your own work, come join me in The Growth Collective for Therapists! It’s a space where therapists can show up as real people to talk honestly about the work, get meaningful consultation, and be part of a community that understands what it takes to do this job well and stay well. And if you want to keep this conversation going, find me on LinkedIn. I’d love to hear what stood out to you from this episode and what’s inspiring your own path forward right now. xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie BobbyGrowing Self Wed, 19 Nov 2025 10:00:00 -0000 full 1 85 Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby How can psychedelic-assisted therapy create deep, lasting transformation where conventional treatments only manage symptoms? Psychiatrist and integrative medicine pioneer Dr. Scott Shannon joins me to talk about how this emerging field is reshaping what’s possible for healing, not just for our clients, but for the future of mental health care itself. Dr. Shannon shares his decades of work exploring MDMA, psilocybin, and other psychedelic medicines as catalysts for safety, openness, and profound personal growth. We talk about how these experiences can unlock trauma healing, relational breakthroughs, and spiritual integration in ways that expand beyond traditional talk therapy. We also get into the ethics, boundaries, the training this work requires, and what it means for therapists who feel called to be part of this next frontier in care. Dr. Shannon is a psychiatrist, author, and founder of Wholeness Center, the largest integrative mental health clinic in the U.S., and a leader in psychedelic-assisted psychotherapy research and education. Episode Breakdown: 00:00 From SSRIs to MDMA Therapy: A Different Model of Care 07:36 MDMA for Couples: Safety, Openness, Breakthroughs 12:25 PTSD Protocol: Prep, Medicine Sessions, Integration, Childhood Trauma 13:33 Psychedelic Treatment Framework: Container, Catalyst, Carrier 20:07 Paths and Policy: Legalization, Medicalization, FDA Outlook 24:55 Ethics and Safety in Psychedelic-Assisted Therapy 39:53 Mystical Experience and Long-Term Outcomes 46:24 Training and Career Paths: How to Become a Psychedelic-Assisted Therapist Conversations like this remind me how much our field is growing and how important it is that we grow right along with it, in integrity and community. If you’ve been craving that kind of connection and support in your own work, come join me in The Growth Collective for Therapists! It’s a space where therapists can show up as real people to talk honestly about the work, get meaningful consultation, and be part of a community that understands what it takes to do this job well and stay well. And if you want to keep this conversation going, find me on LinkedIn. I’d love to hear what stood out to you from this episode and what’s inspiring your own path forward right now. xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie BobbyGrowing Self How can psychedelic-assisted therapy create deep, lasting transformation where conventional treatments only manage symptoms? Psychiatrist and integrative medicine pioneer Dr. Scott Shannon joins me to talk about how this emerging field is reshaping what’s possible for healing, not just for our clients, but for the future of mental health care itself.


Dr. Shannon shares his decades of work exploring MDMA, psilocybin, and other psychedelic medicines as catalysts for safety, openness, and profound personal growth. We talk about how these experiences can unlock trauma healing, relational breakthroughs, and spiritual integration in ways that expand beyond traditional talk therapy. We also get into the ethics, boundaries, the training this work requires, and what it means for therapists who feel called to be part of this next frontier in care.


Dr. Shannon is a psychiatrist, author, and founder of Wholeness Center, the largest integrative mental health clinic in the U.S., and a leader in psychedelic-assisted psychotherapy research and education.


Episode Breakdown:
00:00 From SSRIs to MDMA Therapy: A Different Model of Care
07:36 MDMA for Couples: Safety, Openness, Breakthroughs
12:25 PTSD Protocol: Prep, Medicine Sessions, Integration, Childhood Trauma
13:33 Psychedelic Treatment Framework: Container, Catalyst, Carrier
20:07 Paths and Policy: Legalization, Medicalization, FDA Outlook
24:55 Ethics and Safety in Psychedelic-Assisted Therapy
39:53 Mystical Experience and Long-Term Outcomes
46:24 Training and Career Paths: How to Become a Psychedelic-Assisted Therapist


Conversations like this remind me how much our field is growing and how important it is that we grow right along with it, in integrity and community. If you’ve been craving that kind of connection and support in your own work, come join me in The Growth Collective for Therapists!


It’s a space where therapists can show up as real people to talk honestly about the work, get meaningful consultation, and be part of a community that understands what it takes to do this job well and stay well.


And if you want to keep this conversation going, find me on LinkedIn. I’d love to hear what stood out to you from this episode and what’s inspiring your own path forward right now.


xoxo,
Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby
Growing Self

]]> 3433 no How Therapists Can Drive Systemic Change: Tackling Systemic Issues in Mental Health Through Advocacy | E84 https://www.growingself.com/therapists-systemic-change-mental-health Therapists hold the power to transform not only individual lives but the systems that shape mental health care itself. In this episode, I’m joined by Gino Titus-Luciano, a licensed mental health counselor, nationally certified counselor, and the CEO of Kokua Mental Health & Wellness Group. As president of the Hawaii Counselors Association, Gino has spent years advocating for systemic change in mental health, and he brings so much insight into what that actually looks like - from expanding telehealth access to supporting the next generation of therapists. We talk about how systemic issues in mental health (like underfunded internships, rigid policies, and burnout) affect both clients and clinicians, and how meaningful advocacy starts with us. Gino shares examples of how small policy shifts can open big doors for access and equity, and how we can all engage in systemic advocacy in our own ways: through community, policy, education, and mentorship. We also explore how supervision, consultation, and community keep us grounded and ethical in this work. And if you’ve been feeling the weight of isolation in private practice, I think this one will really speak to you. Episode Breakdown: 00:00 Why a Systemic Lens in Therapy Matters 03:03 When Systems Fail Clients: Beyond Symptom Management 07:09 Policy Win: Expanding Telehealth Access in Hawaii 11:21 Internship & Workforce Reform: Funding, Training, Shortage 15:15 Burnout and Exploitation: Fixing Systemic Issues in Mental Health 21:49 How Therapists Engage in Systemic Advocacy (Orgs, Policy, Culture) 36:18 Supervision That Prevents Burnout: Separate Self vs. Clinician 48:03 Get Involved: Hawaii Counseling Association Trainings & Advocacy 53:00 Join the Growth Collective for Therapists I’d love to invite you to join The Growth Collective For Therapists - a space I created so you don’t have to do this work in isolation anymore. You’ll find a genuine professional home where therapists can show up as real people, not just clinicians. It’s a place for deep consultation, honest connection, and meaningful continuing education that supports your growth in every sense - personally, professionally, and emotionally. If you’ve ever wished for a trusted circle of colleagues to lean on, to talk through hard cases, to celebrate wins, or to simply remind you that you’re not alone in this work, this is that space. The Growth Collective was designed to care for you the way you care for others - with warmth, integrity, and community. And if you’d like to stay connected, come find me on LinkedIn. I love hearing your thoughts, reflections, and ideas about how we can all be part of systemic change in our field. xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie BobbyGrowing Self Wed, 12 Nov 2025 10:00:00 -0000 full 1 84 Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Therapists hold the power to transform not only individual lives but the systems that shape mental health care itself. In this episode, I’m joined by Gino Titus-Luciano, a licensed mental health counselor, nationally certified counselor, and the CEO of Kokua Mental Health & Wellness Group. As president of the Hawaii Counselors Association, Gino has spent years advocating for systemic change in mental health, and he brings so much insight into what that actually looks like - from expanding telehealth access to supporting the next generation of therapists. We talk about how systemic issues in mental health (like underfunded internships, rigid policies, and burnout) affect both clients and clinicians, and how meaningful advocacy starts with us. Gino shares examples of how small policy shifts can open big doors for access and equity, and how we can all engage in systemic advocacy in our own ways: through community, policy, education, and mentorship. We also explore how supervision, consultation, and community keep us grounded and ethical in this work. And if you’ve been feeling the weight of isolation in private practice, I think this one will really speak to you. Episode Breakdown: 00:00 Why a Systemic Lens in Therapy Matters 03:03 When Systems Fail Clients: Beyond Symptom Management 07:09 Policy Win: Expanding Telehealth Access in Hawaii 11:21 Internship & Workforce Reform: Funding, Training, Shortage 15:15 Burnout and Exploitation: Fixing Systemic Issues in Mental Health 21:49 How Therapists Engage in Systemic Advocacy (Orgs, Policy, Culture) 36:18 Supervision That Prevents Burnout: Separate Self vs. Clinician 48:03 Get Involved: Hawaii Counseling Association Trainings & Advocacy 53:00 Join the Growth Collective for Therapists I’d love to invite you to join The Growth Collective For Therapists - a space I created so you don’t have to do this work in isolation anymore. You’ll find a genuine professional home where therapists can show up as real people, not just clinicians. It’s a place for deep consultation, honest connection, and meaningful continuing education that supports your growth in every sense - personally, professionally, and emotionally. If you’ve ever wished for a trusted circle of colleagues to lean on, to talk through hard cases, to celebrate wins, or to simply remind you that you’re not alone in this work, this is that space. The Growth Collective was designed to care for you the way you care for others - with warmth, integrity, and community. And if you’d like to stay connected, come find me on LinkedIn. I love hearing your thoughts, reflections, and ideas about how we can all be part of systemic change in our field. xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie BobbyGrowing Self Therapists hold the power to transform not only individual lives but the systems that shape mental health care itself.


In this episode, I’m joined by Gino Titus-Luciano, a licensed mental health counselor, nationally certified counselor, and the CEO of Kokua Mental Health & Wellness Group. As president of the Hawaii Counselors Association, Gino has spent years advocating for systemic change in mental health, and he brings so much insight into what that actually looks like - from expanding telehealth access to supporting the next generation of therapists.


We talk about how systemic issues in mental health (like underfunded internships, rigid policies, and burnout) affect both clients and clinicians, and how meaningful advocacy starts with us. Gino shares examples of how small policy shifts can open big doors for access and equity, and how we can all engage in systemic advocacy in our own ways: through community, policy, education, and mentorship.


We also explore how supervision, consultation, and community keep us grounded and ethical in this work. And if you’ve been feeling the weight of isolation in private practice, I think this one will really speak to you.


Episode Breakdown:
00:00 Why a Systemic Lens in Therapy Matters
03:03 When Systems Fail Clients: Beyond Symptom Management
07:09 Policy Win: Expanding Telehealth Access in Hawaii
11:21 Internship & Workforce Reform: Funding, Training, Shortage
15:15 Burnout and Exploitation: Fixing Systemic Issues in Mental Health
21:49 How Therapists Engage in Systemic Advocacy (Orgs, Policy, Culture)
36:18 Supervision That Prevents Burnout: Separate Self vs. Clinician
48:03 Get Involved: Hawaii Counseling Association Trainings & Advocacy
53:00 Join the Growth Collective for Therapists


I’d love to invite you to join The Growth Collective For Therapists - a space I created so you don’t have to do this work in isolation anymore. You’ll find a genuine professional home where therapists can show up as real people, not just clinicians. It’s a place for deep consultation, honest connection, and meaningful continuing education that supports your growth in every sense - personally, professionally, and emotionally.


If you’ve ever wished for a trusted circle of colleagues to lean on, to talk through hard cases, to celebrate wins, or to simply remind you that you’re not alone in this work, this is that space. The Growth Collective was designed to care for you the way you care for others - with warmth, integrity, and community.


And if you’d like to stay connected, come find me on LinkedIn. I love hearing your thoughts, reflections, and ideas about how we can all be part of systemic change in our field.


xoxo,
Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby
Growing Self

]]> 3675 no What Therapists Need to Know About the Gut–Brain Axis | E83 https://www.growingself.com/physiological-psychology-gut-brain-mental-health Your client’s mood might be shaped as much by their gut and their screen as by their thoughts. We talk so much about emotions, attachment, and insight in therapy - but what if physiology and media are quietly steering the wheel? In this episode, I’m joined by Dr. Tatyana El-Kour, a psychologist and registered dietitian who studies how media and technology shape our everyday choices. Together, we’re unpacking how the gut-brain axis and digital exposure affect mental health, and why understanding these forces matters for our work as therapists. Dr. Tatyana shares her “Three Ps” framework (plate, physiology, and platform), a simple, science-backed way to think about how nutrition, stress, and media interact to influence mood and behavior. We explore how inflammation, poor sleep, and doomscrolling can drive anxiety and irritability, and how even small “circuit breakers” like more fiber, deep breathing, or curating your digital feed can help restore balance. This is an invitation to expand your clinical lens - to look beyond the purely psychological and consider the full system your clients live in: body, brain, and the world around them. Episode Breakdown: 00:00 Why Therapists Must Look Beyond Psychology 01:40 The Gut–Brain Axis Explained for Therapists 05:40 The “Three Ps” Framework: Plate, Physiology, and Platform 08:20 How Therapists Can Expand Client Assessments 16:20 Simple Circuit Breakers for the Gut–Brain Loop 21:10 Digital Diets and Algorithmic Hygiene 27:10 The Future of Gut–Brain Research in Mental Health I’d love to keep learning together. You can explore our free CEU trainings library to watch on-demand trainings and sign up for upcoming live webinars. These are my way of supporting you in deepening your work, while also earning CEUs that actually feel meaningful. And if you’d like to stay connected and get updates when new free CEU trainings for therapists are released, come join my For Therapists newsletter. I’ll share resources, reflections, and real conversations about what it means to grow in this field, personally and professionally. Connect with me on LinkedIn - it’s one of my favorite spaces to connect with colleagues, share reflections, and hear what’s inspiring you lately. And if something from this episode is staying with you, I’d love to hear about it. Let’s talk - tell me what came up for you, what questions you’re sitting with, or what you’d love for me to explore in a future episode.  This podcast is for us, and your voice always matters here. xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie BobbyGrowing Self Wed, 05 Nov 2025 10:00:00 -0000 full 1 83 Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Your client’s mood might be shaped as much by their gut and their screen as by their thoughts. We talk so much about emotions, attachment, and insight in therapy - but what if physiology and media are quietly steering the wheel? In this episode, I’m joined by Dr. Tatyana El-Kour, a psychologist and registered dietitian who studies how media and technology shape our everyday choices. Together, we’re unpacking how the gut-brain axis and digital exposure affect mental health, and why understanding these forces matters for our work as therapists. Dr. Tatyana shares her “Three Ps” framework (plate, physiology, and platform), a simple, science-backed way to think about how nutrition, stress, and media interact to influence mood and behavior. We explore how inflammation, poor sleep, and doomscrolling can drive anxiety and irritability, and how even small “circuit breakers” like more fiber, deep breathing, or curating your digital feed can help restore balance. This is an invitation to expand your clinical lens - to look beyond the purely psychological and consider the full system your clients live in: body, brain, and the world around them. Episode Breakdown: 00:00 Why Therapists Must Look Beyond Psychology 01:40 The Gut–Brain Axis Explained for Therapists 05:40 The “Three Ps” Framework: Plate, Physiology, and Platform 08:20 How Therapists Can Expand Client Assessments 16:20 Simple Circuit Breakers for the Gut–Brain Loop 21:10 Digital Diets and Algorithmic Hygiene 27:10 The Future of Gut–Brain Research in Mental Health I’d love to keep learning together. You can explore our free CEU trainings library to watch on-demand trainings and sign up for upcoming live webinars. These are my way of supporting you in deepening your work, while also earning CEUs that actually feel meaningful. And if you’d like to stay connected and get updates when new free CEU trainings for therapists are released, come join my For Therapists newsletter. I’ll share resources, reflections, and real conversations about what it means to grow in this field, personally and professionally. Connect with me on LinkedIn - it’s one of my favorite spaces to connect with colleagues, share reflections, and hear what’s inspiring you lately. And if something from this episode is staying with you, I’d love to hear about it. Let’s talk - tell me what came up for you, what questions you’re sitting with, or what you’d love for me to explore in a future episode.  This podcast is for us, and your voice always matters here. xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie BobbyGrowing Self Your client’s mood might be shaped as much by their gut and their screen as by their thoughts.


We talk so much about emotions, attachment, and insight in therapy - but what if physiology and media are quietly steering the wheel? In this episode, I’m joined by Dr. Tatyana El-Kour, a psychologist and registered dietitian who studies how media and technology shape our everyday choices. Together, we’re unpacking how the gut-brain axis and digital exposure affect mental health, and why understanding these forces matters for our work as therapists.


Dr. Tatyana shares her “Three Ps” framework (plate, physiology, and platform), a simple, science-backed way to think about how nutrition, stress, and media interact to influence mood and behavior. We explore how inflammation, poor sleep, and doomscrolling can drive anxiety and irritability, and how even small “circuit breakers” like more fiber, deep breathing, or curating your digital feed can help restore balance.


This is an invitation to expand your clinical lens - to look beyond the purely psychological and consider the full system your clients live in: body, brain, and the world around them.


Episode Breakdown:
00:00 Why Therapists Must Look Beyond Psychology
01:40 The Gut–Brain Axis Explained for Therapists
05:40 The “Three Ps” Framework: Plate, Physiology, and Platform
08:20 How Therapists Can Expand Client Assessments
16:20 Simple Circuit Breakers for the Gut–Brain Loop
21:10 Digital Diets and Algorithmic Hygiene
27:10 The Future of Gut–Brain Research in Mental Health


I’d love to keep learning together. You can explore our free CEU trainings library to watch on-demand trainings and sign up for upcoming live webinars. These are my way of supporting you in deepening your work, while also earning CEUs that actually feel meaningful.


And if you’d like to stay connected and get updates when new free CEU trainings for therapists are released, come join my For Therapists newsletter. I’ll share resources, reflections, and real conversations about what it means to grow in this field, personally and professionally.


Connect with me on LinkedIn - it’s one of my favorite spaces to connect with colleagues, share reflections, and hear what’s inspiring you lately. And if something from this episode is staying with you, I’d love to hear about it. Let’s talk - tell me what came up for you, what questions you’re sitting with, or what you’d love for me to explore in a future episode. 


This podcast is for us, and your voice always matters here.


xoxo,
Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby
Growing Self

]]> 2166 no Beyond the Brain: How Metabolic Psychiatry Is Transforming Mental Health Care | LHSFT Classic https://www.growingself.com/metabolic-psychiatry/ This episode originally aired on May 21, 2025 (Episode 67), and I’m bringing it back because it changes the way we treat our clients’ mental health diagnoses. Metabolic psychiatry invites us to look beyond the mind - to the brain, the body, and the biological energy systems that make healing possible. I’m joined by Nicole Laurent, a licensed mental health counselor, founder of the Brain Fog Recovery Program, and a leading voice in metabolic psychiatry, to explore how chronic inflammation, insulin resistance, and mitochondrial dysfunction may be driving the mental health symptoms we’ve been trying to treat with insight and coping skills alone. Nicole breaks down what a medical ketogenic diet can do that medications can’t, and why more clients with anxiety, depression, bipolar disorder, and even schizophrenia are experiencing full psychiatric recovery when metabolic interventions are part of a coordinated treatment plan. We also talk about her personal recovery journey, what therapists need to know before discussing ketogenic interventions, and how to practice ethically and within scope when clients bring this into the therapy room. Episode Breakdown: 00:00 What Full Psychiatric Recovery Really Looks Like 02:55 Understanding Metabolic Psychiatry: A Clinical Overview 11:20 How Metabolic Dysfunction Drives Mental Health Symptoms 15:43 What Ketogenic Diets Do That Medications Can’t 22:42 Nicole’s Personal Story of Cognitive Recovery 27:07 Real-Life Transformations: From Surviving to Thriving 31:10 Scope of Practice, Ethics, and Building Treatment Teams 43:12 GLP-1 Medications vs. Ketogenic Intervention 46:41 What Makes a Medical Ketogenic Diet Different 50:50 How Nicole’s Nonprofit Expands Access to Care If this topic made you rethink how you understand “treatment resistance,” you’ll want to stay in touch because Nicole is joining me for a free CEU webinar on Metabolic Psychiatry this November. We’ll dig deeper into the science, the ethics, and how to start thinking metabolically in your own clinical practice. It’s one of the most important conversations we can be having right now, and I’d love for you to be part of it! If we’re not already connected on LinkedIn, let’s fix that! I share new opportunities, therapist reflections, and honest behind-the-scenes thoughts on the work we do. I’d also love to stay in touch and hear how these ideas are landing for you. What did it bring up for you? Are you starting to see your clients, or even yourself, through a new lens? Share your reflections with me - let’s talk! xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie BobbyGrowing Self Wed, 29 Oct 2025 11:40:00 -0000 full 1 Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby This episode originally aired on May 21, 2025 (Episode 67), and I’m bringing it back because it changes the way we treat our clients’ mental health diagnoses. Metabolic psychiatry invites us to look beyond the mind - to the brain, the body, and the biological energy systems that make healing possible. I’m joined by Nicole Laurent, a licensed mental health counselor, founder of the Brain Fog Recovery Program, and a leading voice in metabolic psychiatry, to explore how chronic inflammation, insulin resistance, and mitochondrial dysfunction may be driving the mental health symptoms we’ve been trying to treat with insight and coping skills alone. Nicole breaks down what a medical ketogenic diet can do that medications can’t, and why more clients with anxiety, depression, bipolar disorder, and even schizophrenia are experiencing full psychiatric recovery when metabolic interventions are part of a coordinated treatment plan. We also talk about her personal recovery journey, what therapists need to know before discussing ketogenic interventions, and how to practice ethically and within scope when clients bring this into the therapy room. Episode Breakdown: 00:00 What Full Psychiatric Recovery Really Looks Like 02:55 Understanding Metabolic Psychiatry: A Clinical Overview 11:20 How Metabolic Dysfunction Drives Mental Health Symptoms 15:43 What Ketogenic Diets Do That Medications Can’t 22:42 Nicole’s Personal Story of Cognitive Recovery 27:07 Real-Life Transformations: From Surviving to Thriving 31:10 Scope of Practice, Ethics, and Building Treatment Teams 43:12 GLP-1 Medications vs. Ketogenic Intervention 46:41 What Makes a Medical Ketogenic Diet Different 50:50 How Nicole’s Nonprofit Expands Access to Care If this topic made you rethink how you understand “treatment resistance,” you’ll want to stay in touch because Nicole is joining me for a free CEU webinar on Metabolic Psychiatry this November. We’ll dig deeper into the science, the ethics, and how to start thinking metabolically in your own clinical practice. It’s one of the most important conversations we can be having right now, and I’d love for you to be part of it! If we’re not already connected on LinkedIn, let’s fix that! I share new opportunities, therapist reflections, and honest behind-the-scenes thoughts on the work we do. I’d also love to stay in touch and hear how these ideas are landing for you. What did it bring up for you? Are you starting to see your clients, or even yourself, through a new lens? Share your reflections with me - let’s talk! xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie BobbyGrowing Self This episode originally aired on May 21, 2025 (Episode 67), and I’m bringing it back because it changes the way we treat our clients’ mental health diagnoses. Metabolic psychiatry invites us to look beyond the mind - to the brain, the body, and the biological energy systems that make healing possible.


I’m joined by Nicole Laurent, a licensed mental health counselor, founder of the Brain Fog Recovery Program, and a leading voice in metabolic psychiatry, to explore how chronic inflammation, insulin resistance, and mitochondrial dysfunction may be driving the mental health symptoms we’ve been trying to treat with insight and coping skills alone.


Nicole breaks down what a medical ketogenic diet can do that medications can’t, and why more clients with anxiety, depression, bipolar disorder, and even schizophrenia are experiencing full psychiatric recovery when metabolic interventions are part of a coordinated treatment plan. We also talk about her personal recovery journey, what therapists need to know before discussing ketogenic interventions, and how to practice ethically and within scope when clients bring this into the therapy room.


Episode Breakdown:
00:00 What Full Psychiatric Recovery Really Looks Like
02:55 Understanding Metabolic Psychiatry: A Clinical Overview
11:20 How Metabolic Dysfunction Drives Mental Health Symptoms
15:43 What Ketogenic Diets Do That Medications Can’t
22:42 Nicole’s Personal Story of Cognitive Recovery
27:07 Real-Life Transformations: From Surviving to Thriving
31:10 Scope of Practice, Ethics, and Building Treatment Teams
43:12 GLP-1 Medications vs. Ketogenic Intervention
46:41 What Makes a Medical Ketogenic Diet Different
50:50 How Nicole’s Nonprofit Expands Access to Care


If this topic made you rethink how you understand “treatment resistance,” you’ll want to stay in touch because Nicole is joining me for a free CEU webinar on Metabolic Psychiatry this November. We’ll dig deeper into the science, the ethics, and how to start thinking metabolically in your own clinical practice. It’s one of the most important conversations we can be having right now, and I’d love for you to be part of it!


If we’re not already connected on LinkedIn, let’s fix that! I share new opportunities, therapist reflections, and honest behind-the-scenes thoughts on the work we do. I’d also love to stay in touch and hear how these ideas are landing for you. What did it bring up for you? Are you starting to see your clients, or even yourself, through a new lens? Share your reflections with me - let’s talk!


xoxo,
Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby
Growing Self

]]> 3612 no The Entrepreneurial Mindset Therapists Were Never Taught (But Need) | E82 https://www.growingself.com/entrepreneurial-mindset-for-therapists Are you a therapist struggling to figure out how to run a business? Valid! Most of us became therapists to help people, not to run a business. But, ironically, close to 50% of therapists are doing exactly that. If you’re in private practice without an entrepreneurial mindset, it’s easy to get overwhelmed, overworked, and wonder if this was a terrible idea. Help is here: We’re getting advice from a business legend, and you’re going to love her perspective. In this episode, I’m talking with Melissa Bernstein, the creative force behind Melissa & Doug and now founder of the wellness brand Lifelines, about what it really takes to build a private practice that’s not just sustainable, but joyful and aligned with who you are. We talk about offloading the parts of your business that drain you (yes, even if you’re just starting out), how to build a team as a solo practitioner, and the mindset shift that helps therapists stop trying to be everything to everyone. Melissa also shares her own mental health journey and how it led her to create sensory-based tools that help regulate the nervous system and how therapists are using them to support their clients and expand their practices. This conversation is full of heart, hope, and wisdom for any therapist who’s ready to rethink how they work. If you’ve been feeling stuck or secretly burned out, I hope this episode cracks open a new path for you! Episode Breakdown: 00:00 The Hidden Challenges of Private Practice 05:18 Melissa Bernstein’s Journey to Purpose-Driven Entrepreneurship 08:33 Why Therapists Burn Out in Private Practice 10:30 Building a Support Team (Even If You're Solo) 17:20 Regulating the Nervous System with Sensory Tools 29:05 Helping Clients Carry Therapy Into Daily Life 38:22 Creative Revenue Streams for Private Practice 44:00 Tapping Into Your Entrepreneurial Mindset as a Therapist If this episode left you thinking, “I needed to hear that,” come connect with me on LinkedIn where I share behind-the-scenes reflections, resources, and conversations with other therapists who are reimagining what’s possible in this field. Lastly, I’d genuinely love to know what’s on your mind after this one. What part of Melissa’s story resonated with you? What are you dreaming about building next? Let’s talk! Your thoughts and questions shape where we go next, and this space was made for us. xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie BobbyGrowing Self Wed, 22 Oct 2025 09:00:00 -0000 full 1 82 Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Are you a therapist struggling to figure out how to run a business? Valid! Most of us became therapists to help people, not to run a business. But, ironically, close to 50% of therapists are doing exactly that. If you’re in private practice without an entrepreneurial mindset, it’s easy to get overwhelmed, overworked, and wonder if this was a terrible idea. Help is here: We’re getting advice from a business legend, and you’re going to love her perspective. In this episode, I’m talking with Melissa Bernstein, the creative force behind Melissa & Doug and now founder of the wellness brand Lifelines, about what it really takes to build a private practice that’s not just sustainable, but joyful and aligned with who you are. We talk about offloading the parts of your business that drain you (yes, even if you’re just starting out), how to build a team as a solo practitioner, and the mindset shift that helps therapists stop trying to be everything to everyone. Melissa also shares her own mental health journey and how it led her to create sensory-based tools that help regulate the nervous system and how therapists are using them to support their clients and expand their practices. This conversation is full of heart, hope, and wisdom for any therapist who’s ready to rethink how they work. If you’ve been feeling stuck or secretly burned out, I hope this episode cracks open a new path for you! Episode Breakdown: 00:00 The Hidden Challenges of Private Practice 05:18 Melissa Bernstein’s Journey to Purpose-Driven Entrepreneurship 08:33 Why Therapists Burn Out in Private Practice 10:30 Building a Support Team (Even If You're Solo) 17:20 Regulating the Nervous System with Sensory Tools 29:05 Helping Clients Carry Therapy Into Daily Life 38:22 Creative Revenue Streams for Private Practice 44:00 Tapping Into Your Entrepreneurial Mindset as a Therapist If this episode left you thinking, “I needed to hear that,” come connect with me on LinkedIn where I share behind-the-scenes reflections, resources, and conversations with other therapists who are reimagining what’s possible in this field. Lastly, I’d genuinely love to know what’s on your mind after this one. What part of Melissa’s story resonated with you? What are you dreaming about building next? Let’s talk! Your thoughts and questions shape where we go next, and this space was made for us. xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie BobbyGrowing Self Are you a therapist struggling to figure out how to run a business? Valid! Most of us became therapists to help people, not to run a business. But, ironically, close to 50% of therapists are doing exactly that. If you’re in private practice without an entrepreneurial mindset, it’s easy to get overwhelmed, overworked, and wonder if this was a terrible idea.


Help is here: We’re getting advice from a business legend, and you’re going to love her perspective.


In this episode, I’m talking with Melissa Bernstein, the creative force behind Melissa & Doug and now founder of the wellness brand Lifelines, about what it really takes to build a private practice that’s not just sustainable, but joyful and aligned with who you are.


We talk about offloading the parts of your business that drain you (yes, even if you’re just starting out), how to build a team as a solo practitioner, and the mindset shift that helps therapists stop trying to be everything to everyone. Melissa also shares her own mental health journey and how it led her to create sensory-based tools that help regulate the nervous system and how therapists are using them to support their clients and expand their practices.


This conversation is full of heart, hope, and wisdom for any therapist who’s ready to rethink how they work. If you’ve been feeling stuck or secretly burned out, I hope this episode cracks open a new path for you!


Episode Breakdown:
00:00 The Hidden Challenges of Private Practice
05:18 Melissa Bernstein’s Journey to Purpose-Driven Entrepreneurship
08:33 Why Therapists Burn Out in Private Practice
10:30 Building a Support Team (Even If You're Solo)
17:20 Regulating the Nervous System with Sensory Tools
29:05 Helping Clients Carry Therapy Into Daily Life
38:22 Creative Revenue Streams for Private Practice
44:00 Tapping Into Your Entrepreneurial Mindset as a Therapist


If this episode left you thinking, “I needed to hear that,” come connect with me on LinkedIn where I share behind-the-scenes reflections, resources, and conversations with other therapists who are reimagining what’s possible in this field.


Lastly, I’d genuinely love to know what’s on your mind after this one. What part of Melissa’s story resonated with you? What are you dreaming about building next? Let’s talk! Your thoughts and questions shape where we go next, and this space was made for us.


xoxo,
Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby
Growing Self

]]> 3234 no Politics in Therapy? Dr. Bill Doherty has advice... | E81 https://www.growingself.com/counseling-across-political-divides Relationships are breaking under the weight of political differences, and more clients are bringing these divides into the therapy room. So what do we do when values-based conflict becomes the problem in the relationship - and the therapist is part of the system too? In this episode, I’m joined by Dr. Bill Doherty: Professor Emeritus at the University of Minnesota, creator of the discernment counseling model, and co-founder of Braver Angels - a national initiative that brings liberals and conservatives together to bridge America’s political divide. Together, we unpack what it takes to stay steady and clinically effective when you’re working with couples, individuals, or families caught in ideological conflict. From understanding the macro-forces of affective polarization to the subtle ways therapists may reinforce it in the room, Dr. Doherty offers an honest, deeply human, and skillful path forward. We talk about the self-of-therapist work required to manage our own reactivity, the ethical tension between neutrality and our personal values, and how to avoid misattunement that can subtly harm the very relationships we’re trying to help. You’ll also hear real consultation examples and learn about the free resources Braver Angels offers to therapists ready to deepen their competencies in this area. Episode Breakdown: 00:00 When Political Conflict Enters the Therapy Room 02:10 Understanding Affective Polarization and Its Impact on Relationships 05:26 The Three Therapist Challenges in Politically Charged Cases 10:54 Hidden Bias in Consultation Groups and Clinical Culture 12:57 How Braver Angels Helps Heal Political Division 18:59 Internalized Polarization: What It Is and Why It Matters 21:19 A Real-World Case: Reframing Ideological Conflict with Curiosity 45:31 Setting Boundaries Without Demonizing Clients or Loved Ones 48:53 Courageous Citizenship and the Therapist’s Role in Divided Times 59:19 Free Tools to Support Clients Caught in Political Conflict If you’re still turning this over in your mind (like I have been), you’ll want to keep the conversation going. When you sign up for my For Therapists newsletter, I’ll send you more interviews with thought leaders like Dr. Doherty, along with fresh insights, real tools, and honest reflections to help you grow - both as a clinician and as a person. Come say hi on LinkedIn! I share behind-the-scenes updates, new episodes, and the kind of therapist-to-therapist support I wish more of us had. If something from this conversation is still sitting with you or showing up in your work, I’d truly love to hear about it. Let’s stay in this together. xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie BobbyGrowing Self Wed, 15 Oct 2025 09:00:00 -0000 full 1 81 Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Relationships are breaking under the weight of political differences, and more clients are bringing these divides into the therapy room. So what do we do when values-based conflict becomes the problem in the relationship - and the therapist is part of the system too? In this episode, I’m joined by Dr. Bill Doherty: Professor Emeritus at the University of Minnesota, creator of the discernment counseling model, and co-founder of Braver Angels - a national initiative that brings liberals and conservatives together to bridge America’s political divide. Together, we unpack what it takes to stay steady and clinically effective when you’re working with couples, individuals, or families caught in ideological conflict. From understanding the macro-forces of affective polarization to the subtle ways therapists may reinforce it in the room, Dr. Doherty offers an honest, deeply human, and skillful path forward. We talk about the self-of-therapist work required to manage our own reactivity, the ethical tension between neutrality and our personal values, and how to avoid misattunement that can subtly harm the very relationships we’re trying to help. You’ll also hear real consultation examples and learn about the free resources Braver Angels offers to therapists ready to deepen their competencies in this area. Episode Breakdown: 00:00 When Political Conflict Enters the Therapy Room 02:10 Understanding Affective Polarization and Its Impact on Relationships 05:26 The Three Therapist Challenges in Politically Charged Cases 10:54 Hidden Bias in Consultation Groups and Clinical Culture 12:57 How Braver Angels Helps Heal Political Division 18:59 Internalized Polarization: What It Is and Why It Matters 21:19 A Real-World Case: Reframing Ideological Conflict with Curiosity 45:31 Setting Boundaries Without Demonizing Clients or Loved Ones 48:53 Courageous Citizenship and the Therapist’s Role in Divided Times 59:19 Free Tools to Support Clients Caught in Political Conflict If you’re still turning this over in your mind (like I have been), you’ll want to keep the conversation going. When you sign up for my For Therapists newsletter, I’ll send you more interviews with thought leaders like Dr. Doherty, along with fresh insights, real tools, and honest reflections to help you grow - both as a clinician and as a person. Come say hi on LinkedIn! I share behind-the-scenes updates, new episodes, and the kind of therapist-to-therapist support I wish more of us had. If something from this conversation is still sitting with you or showing up in your work, I’d truly love to hear about it. Let’s stay in this together. xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie BobbyGrowing Self Relationships are breaking under the weight of political differences, and more clients are bringing these divides into the therapy room. So what do we do when values-based conflict becomes the problem in the relationship - and the therapist is part of the system too?


In this episode, I’m joined by Dr. Bill Doherty: Professor Emeritus at the University of Minnesota, creator of the discernment counseling model, and co-founder of Braver Angels - a national initiative that brings liberals and conservatives together to bridge America’s political divide.


Together, we unpack what it takes to stay steady and clinically effective when you’re working with couples, individuals, or families caught in ideological conflict. From understanding the macro-forces of affective polarization to the subtle ways therapists may reinforce it in the room, Dr. Doherty offers an honest, deeply human, and skillful path forward.


We talk about the self-of-therapist work required to manage our own reactivity, the ethical tension between neutrality and our personal values, and how to avoid misattunement that can subtly harm the very relationships we’re trying to help. You’ll also hear real consultation examples and learn about the free resources Braver Angels offers to therapists ready to deepen their competencies in this area.


Episode Breakdown:
00:00 When Political Conflict Enters the Therapy Room
02:10 Understanding Affective Polarization and Its Impact on Relationships
05:26 The Three Therapist Challenges in Politically Charged Cases
10:54 Hidden Bias in Consultation Groups and Clinical Culture
12:57 How Braver Angels Helps Heal Political Division
18:59 Internalized Polarization: What It Is and Why It Matters
21:19 A Real-World Case: Reframing Ideological Conflict with Curiosity
45:31 Setting Boundaries Without Demonizing Clients or Loved Ones
48:53 Courageous Citizenship and the Therapist’s Role in Divided Times
59:19 Free Tools to Support Clients Caught in Political Conflict


If you’re still turning this over in your mind (like I have been), you’ll want to keep the conversation going. When you sign up for my For Therapists newsletter, I’ll send you more interviews with thought leaders like Dr. Doherty, along with fresh insights, real tools, and honest reflections to help you grow - both as a clinician and as a person.


Come say hi on LinkedIn! I share behind-the-scenes updates, new episodes, and the kind of therapist-to-therapist support I wish more of us had. If something from this conversation is still sitting with you or showing up in your work, I’d truly love to hear about it.


Let’s stay in this together.


xoxo,
Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby
Growing Self

]]> 3722 no How to Know When It’s Time to Quit Being a Therapist | E80 https://www.growingself.com/when-to-exit-therapy-profession/ I’ll be honest with you. I’ve had moments in my own career where I sat with that quiet, terrifying thought: I don’t know if I want to be a therapist anymore. If you’ve ever felt that, you know how disorienting it is. You’ve invested so much of yourself into this path, and suddenly the work that once gave you meaning begins to feel heavy, lonely, or even incompatible with who you are becoming. That’s why I’m so grateful to have Dr. Jen Blanchette back with me for this conversation. She’s the host of The Therapist Burnout Podcast, left private practice in 2023, and now helps therapists who want to close their practices and figure out their next steps. Considering leaving your therapy practice is bigger than burnout. It touches your integrity, your grief, and the permission you give yourself to change. Jen shares her own story of reaching this truth in the aftermath of the pandemic, why the private practice dream can quietly become a trap, and the deeply emotional process of exiting the profession - not just logistically, but at the level of identity. I’ve lived through every stage Dr. Jen talks about in this episode, and I know how isolating it feels. My hope is that this conversation helps you feel less alone and reminds you that walking away is not a failure. Sometimes it’s the bravest and healthiest choice you can make for yourself and for your clients. Episode Breakdown: 00:00 “I Don’t Know If I Want to Be a Therapist Anymore” 01:20 The Existential Crisis of Leaving the Therapy Profession 05:30 Shame, Expectations, and the Myth of Private Practice Success 09:41 Clinical Stagnation and Ethical Questions in Long-Term Work 11:37 Isolation, Burnout, and the Hidden Admin Load 15:48 When Caregiving at Work and Home Drains Everything 23:20 Bridge Jobs, Finances, and Finding a Way Forward 31:02 Grieving Your Therapist Identity and Saying Goodbye to Clients 37:02 How to Ethically Exit: When Private Practice No Longer Fits And because I know how hard this crossroads can be, I want to give you something that might help. Jen and I are hosting a free CEU training! We’ll walk you through how to know if it’s time to leave, the steps to close a practice responsibly, and ways to begin imagining what could come next. Don’t miss out: 🎓 How to Ethically Exit: When Private Practice No Longer Fits đŸ—“ïž October 17 | 11am MT / 1pm ET  👉 Reserve your spot now! If we’re not connected yet on LinkedIn, come say hi! That’s where I share behind-the-scenes reflections and continue conversations like this with thoughtful therapists like you. And if this episode stirred something in you, I’d truly love to hear from you. Share what’s on your heart, suggest a future topic, or just let me know you’re out there - let’s talk! xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie BobbyGrowing Self Wed, 08 Oct 2025 09:00:00 -0000 full 1 80 Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby I’ll be honest with you. I’ve had moments in my own career where I sat with that quiet, terrifying thought: I don’t know if I want to be a therapist anymore. If you’ve ever felt that, you know how disorienting it is. You’ve invested so much of yourself into this path, and suddenly the work that once gave you meaning begins to feel heavy, lonely, or even incompatible with who you are becoming. That’s why I’m so grateful to have Dr. Jen Blanchette back with me for this conversation. She’s the host of The Therapist Burnout Podcast, left private practice in 2023, and now helps therapists who want to close their practices and figure out their next steps. Considering leaving your therapy practice is bigger than burnout. It touches your integrity, your grief, and the permission you give yourself to change. Jen shares her own story of reaching this truth in the aftermath of the pandemic, why the private practice dream can quietly become a trap, and the deeply emotional process of exiting the profession - not just logistically, but at the level of identity. I’ve lived through every stage Dr. Jen talks about in this episode, and I know how isolating it feels. My hope is that this conversation helps you feel less alone and reminds you that walking away is not a failure. Sometimes it’s the bravest and healthiest choice you can make for yourself and for your clients. Episode Breakdown: 00:00 “I Don’t Know If I Want to Be a Therapist Anymore” 01:20 The Existential Crisis of Leaving the Therapy Profession 05:30 Shame, Expectations, and the Myth of Private Practice Success 09:41 Clinical Stagnation and Ethical Questions in Long-Term Work 11:37 Isolation, Burnout, and the Hidden Admin Load 15:48 When Caregiving at Work and Home Drains Everything 23:20 Bridge Jobs, Finances, and Finding a Way Forward 31:02 Grieving Your Therapist Identity and Saying Goodbye to Clients 37:02 How to Ethically Exit: When Private Practice No Longer Fits And because I know how hard this crossroads can be, I want to give you something that might help. Jen and I are hosting a free CEU training! We’ll walk you through how to know if it’s time to leave, the steps to close a practice responsibly, and ways to begin imagining what could come next. Don’t miss out: 🎓 How to Ethically Exit: When Private Practice No Longer Fits đŸ—“ïž October 17 | 11am MT / 1pm ET  👉 Reserve your spot now! If we’re not connected yet on LinkedIn, come say hi! That’s where I share behind-the-scenes reflections and continue conversations like this with thoughtful therapists like you. And if this episode stirred something in you, I’d truly love to hear from you. Share what’s on your heart, suggest a future topic, or just let me know you’re out there - let’s talk! xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie BobbyGrowing Self I’ll be honest with you. I’ve had moments in my own career where I sat with that quiet, terrifying thought: I don’t know if I want to be a therapist anymore. If you’ve ever felt that, you know how disorienting it is. You’ve invested so much of yourself into this path, and suddenly the work that once gave you meaning begins to feel heavy, lonely, or even incompatible with who you are becoming.


That’s why I’m so grateful to have Dr. Jen Blanchette back with me for this conversation. She’s the host of The Therapist Burnout Podcast, left private practice in 2023, and now helps therapists who want to close their practices and figure out their next steps.


Considering leaving your therapy practice is bigger than burnout. It touches your integrity, your grief, and the permission you give yourself to change. Jen shares her own story of reaching this truth in the aftermath of the pandemic, why the private practice dream can quietly become a trap, and the deeply emotional process of exiting the profession - not just logistically, but at the level of identity.


I’ve lived through every stage Dr. Jen talks about in this episode, and I know how isolating it feels. My hope is that this conversation helps you feel less alone and reminds you that walking away is not a failure. Sometimes it’s the bravest and healthiest choice you can make for yourself and for your clients.


Episode Breakdown:
00:00 “I Don’t Know If I Want to Be a Therapist Anymore”
01:20 The Existential Crisis of Leaving the Therapy Profession
05:30 Shame, Expectations, and the Myth of Private Practice Success
09:41 Clinical Stagnation and Ethical Questions in Long-Term Work
11:37 Isolation, Burnout, and the Hidden Admin Load
15:48 When Caregiving at Work and Home Drains Everything
23:20 Bridge Jobs, Finances, and Finding a Way Forward
31:02 Grieving Your Therapist Identity and Saying Goodbye to Clients
37:02 How to Ethically Exit: When Private Practice No Longer Fits


And because I know how hard this crossroads can be, I want to give you something that might help. Jen and I are hosting a free CEU training! We’ll walk you through how to know if it’s time to leave, the steps to close a practice responsibly, and ways to begin imagining what could come next. Don’t miss out:


🎓 How to Ethically Exit: When Private Practice No Longer Fits
đŸ—“ïž October 17 | 11am MT / 1pm ET 
👉 Reserve your spot now!


If we’re not connected yet on LinkedIn, come say hi! That’s where I share behind-the-scenes reflections and continue conversations like this with thoughtful therapists like you. And if this episode stirred something in you, I’d truly love to hear from you. Share what’s on your heart, suggest a future topic, or just let me know you’re out there - let’s talk!


xoxo,
Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby
Growing Self

]]> 2665 no Self-Care for Counselors: Why It’s Part of the Job | E79 https://www.growingself.com/self-care-for-counselors/ Therapists, it’s not a “maybe” to prioritize self-care - it’s part of our JOB! We can’t be of service to others (or have this be a sustainable career path) if we don’t. In this episode, we’re getting real about what self-care for counselors actually means in practice. Not the Instagram version but the deep daily practices that keep  you grounded, present, and well enough to keep showing up for others and for yourself. We’ll talk through how to recognize your personal red flags - those subtle dashboard lights that tell you something’s off - and what it looks like to build a sustainable self-care system around five essential pillars: space, physical well-being, mental clarity, social connection, and personal alignment. This is to help you reconnect with your own needs, create stronger boundaries between life and work, and remember why self-care isn’t a luxury in this field - it’s a clinical responsibility. Episode Breakdown: 00:00 Why Self-Care Is Essential for Counselors 04:52 Recognizing Early Warning Signs of Burnout 11:42 Building a Daily Self-Care System That Works 14:05 The Five Pillars of Self-Care for Counselors 30:05 Aligning Your Career with Your Values I know how easy it is to put yourself last when you're a helper. If this episode nudged you to start tuning back in to you, I made something I hope will help: Take the Flourish + Thrive Quiz. This free, research-informed quiz is designed to help you get real about where you’re thriving - and where your reserves might be running low. It’ll give you personalized insight into how you”re doing, along with reflection prompts to help you reconnect with your values and your “why.” Want a tool to help you take action, not just reflect? Come connect with me on LinkedIn, and I’ll personally send you my Self-Care Action Plan Workbook - the same one I use with my supervisees. It’s totally free, thoughtfully designed, and gives you a gentle structure to start building your own sustainable self-care system. Just message me and I’ll send it your way. And if you're sitting with something this episode brought up
 let’s talk. This podcast is for you, and your voice matters here. You can share what’s on your heart, what support you’re craving, or what you’d love to explore in future episodes by filling out this quick form. I’d truly love to hear from you! xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie BobbyGrowing Self Wed, 01 Oct 2025 09:00:00 -0000 full 1 79 Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Therapists, it’s not a “maybe” to prioritize self-care - it’s part of our JOB! We can’t be of service to others (or have this be a sustainable career path) if we don’t. In this episode, we’re getting real about what self-care for counselors actually means in practice. Not the Instagram version but the deep daily practices that keep  you grounded, present, and well enough to keep showing up for others and for yourself. We’ll talk through how to recognize your personal red flags - those subtle dashboard lights that tell you something’s off - and what it looks like to build a sustainable self-care system around five essential pillars: space, physical well-being, mental clarity, social connection, and personal alignment. This is to help you reconnect with your own needs, create stronger boundaries between life and work, and remember why self-care isn’t a luxury in this field - it’s a clinical responsibility. Episode Breakdown: 00:00 Why Self-Care Is Essential for Counselors 04:52 Recognizing Early Warning Signs of Burnout 11:42 Building a Daily Self-Care System That Works 14:05 The Five Pillars of Self-Care for Counselors 30:05 Aligning Your Career with Your Values I know how easy it is to put yourself last when you're a helper. If this episode nudged you to start tuning back in to you, I made something I hope will help: Take the Flourish + Thrive Quiz. This free, research-informed quiz is designed to help you get real about where you’re thriving - and where your reserves might be running low. It’ll give you personalized insight into how you”re doing, along with reflection prompts to help you reconnect with your values and your “why.” Want a tool to help you take action, not just reflect? Come connect with me on LinkedIn, and I’ll personally send you my Self-Care Action Plan Workbook - the same one I use with my supervisees. It’s totally free, thoughtfully designed, and gives you a gentle structure to start building your own sustainable self-care system. Just message me and I’ll send it your way. And if you're sitting with something this episode brought up
 let’s talk. This podcast is for you, and your voice matters here. You can share what’s on your heart, what support you’re craving, or what you’d love to explore in future episodes by filling out this quick form. I’d truly love to hear from you! xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie BobbyGrowing Self Therapists, it’s not a “maybe” to prioritize self-care - it’s part of our JOB! We can’t be of service to others (or have this be a sustainable career path) if we don’t.


In this episode, we’re getting real about what self-care for counselors actually means in practice. Not the Instagram version but the deep daily practices that keep  you grounded, present, and well enough to keep showing up for others and for yourself.


We’ll talk through how to recognize your personal red flags - those subtle dashboard lights that tell you something’s off - and what it looks like to build a sustainable self-care system around five essential pillars: space, physical well-being, mental clarity, social connection, and personal alignment.


This is to help you reconnect with your own needs, create stronger boundaries between life and work, and remember why self-care isn’t a luxury in this field - it’s a clinical responsibility.


Episode Breakdown:
00:00 Why Self-Care Is Essential for Counselors
04:52 Recognizing Early Warning Signs of Burnout
11:42 Building a Daily Self-Care System That Works
14:05 The Five Pillars of Self-Care for Counselors
30:05 Aligning Your Career with Your Values


I know how easy it is to put yourself last when you're a helper. If this episode nudged you to start tuning back in to you, I made something I hope will help: Take the Flourish + Thrive Quiz. This free, research-informed quiz is designed to help you get real about where you’re thriving - and where your reserves might be running low. It’ll give you personalized insight into how you”re doing, along with reflection prompts to help you reconnect with your values and your “why.”


Want a tool to help you take action, not just reflect? Come connect with me on LinkedIn, and I’ll personally send you my Self-Care Action Plan Workbook - the same one I use with my supervisees. It’s totally free, thoughtfully designed, and gives you a gentle structure to start building your own sustainable self-care system. Just message me and I’ll send it your way.


And if you're sitting with something this episode brought up
 let’s talk. This podcast is for you, and your voice matters here. You can share what’s on your heart, what support you’re craving, or what you’d love to explore in future episodes by filling out this quick form. I’d truly love to hear from you!


xoxo,
Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby
Growing Self

]]> 2261 no Personality Matters: An Integrated Theory of Wholeness with Dr. Dan Siegel | E78 https://www.growingself.com/patterns-of-personality Can we really change our personalities? Dr. Dan Siegel says “NO” but also that nobody needs to. We can help our clients heal, grow, and unleash the fullest of their potential by helping them lean into who and what they really ARE. Crazy but true: We therapists are not taught how to work with personality in therapy. Unless you have a “personality disordered” individual (as we used to call it back in the day) we don’t tailor our interventions or our conceptualization to accommodate someone’s intrinsic way of being. Who else is ready to change this? (Lisa raises hand!) Well, help is here: In this episode, I’m joined by Dr. Dan Siegel to explore his Patterns of Developmental Pathways (PDP) model: a science-based framework that weaves together neuroscience, attachment, and developmental psychology to help us understand personality more deeply and work with it more effectively. We unpack the nine core patterns, explore how to differentiate temperament from attachment conditioning, and look at how healing at the right level can help clients shift from limitation to possibility. Whether you’re new to PDP or already exploring it, this conversation will expand your clinical lens and give you tools you can use right away. Episode Breakdown: 00:00 Freeing Personality from the Prison of Pathology 05:51 The Nine Patterns of Personality 25:59 Emotions, Energy, and the Body’s Personality Response 35:25 Mapping Personality to Clinical Strengths 44:59 Dr. Dan Siegel’s Personal PDP Pattern 01:04:15 Flexibility and Growth Through PDP Integration If this episode lit you up, I hope you’ll check out my Free CEU Trainings for Therapists! These on-demand workshops (each worth 1–2 CEUs) are designed to support your growth—both as a clinician and as a human. You can also stay in the loop about live CEU events, new podcast episodes, and exclusive resources by subscribing to my For Therapists newsletter. It’s the best way to get fresh ideas, practical tools, and meaningful support for the work you do. I’d love to connect with you on LinkedIn, where I share reflections, behind-the-scenes updates, and continue the conversations we start here. And if something from this conversation is staying with you, whether it’s showing up in your clinical work or sparking something new, I’d truly love to hear about it. This podcast is a space for us, so don’t be a stranger. Let’s talk! xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Growing Self P.S. This is Dr. Siegel’s second time joining me on the podcast - don’t miss Episode #39, where we explore the foundations of attachment styles and how they connect to the PDP model. Wed, 24 Sep 2025 09:00:00 -0000 full 1 78 Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Can we really change our personalities? Dr. Dan Siegel says “NO” but also that nobody needs to. We can help our clients heal, grow, and unleash the fullest of their potential by helping them lean into who and what they really ARE. Crazy but true: We therapists are not taught how to work with personality in therapy. Unless you have a “personality disordered” individual (as we used to call it back in the day) we don’t tailor our interventions or our conceptualization to accommodate someone’s intrinsic way of being. Who else is ready to change this? (Lisa raises hand!) Well, help is here: In this episode, I’m joined by Dr. Dan Siegel to explore his Patterns of Developmental Pathways (PDP) model: a science-based framework that weaves together neuroscience, attachment, and developmental psychology to help us understand personality more deeply and work with it more effectively. We unpack the nine core patterns, explore how to differentiate temperament from attachment conditioning, and look at how healing at the right level can help clients shift from limitation to possibility. Whether you’re new to PDP or already exploring it, this conversation will expand your clinical lens and give you tools you can use right away. Episode Breakdown: 00:00 Freeing Personality from the Prison of Pathology 05:51 The Nine Patterns of Personality 25:59 Emotions, Energy, and the Body’s Personality Response 35:25 Mapping Personality to Clinical Strengths 44:59 Dr. Dan Siegel’s Personal PDP Pattern 01:04:15 Flexibility and Growth Through PDP Integration If this episode lit you up, I hope you’ll check out my Free CEU Trainings for Therapists! These on-demand workshops (each worth 1–2 CEUs) are designed to support your growth—both as a clinician and as a human. You can also stay in the loop about live CEU events, new podcast episodes, and exclusive resources by subscribing to my For Therapists newsletter. It’s the best way to get fresh ideas, practical tools, and meaningful support for the work you do. I’d love to connect with you on LinkedIn, where I share reflections, behind-the-scenes updates, and continue the conversations we start here. And if something from this conversation is staying with you, whether it’s showing up in your clinical work or sparking something new, I’d truly love to hear about it. This podcast is a space for us, so don’t be a stranger. Let’s talk! xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Growing Self P.S. This is Dr. Siegel’s second time joining me on the podcast - don’t miss Episode #39, where we explore the foundations of attachment styles and how they connect to the PDP model. Can we really change our personalities? Dr. Dan Siegel says “NO” but also that nobody needs to. We can help our clients heal, grow, and unleash the fullest of their potential by helping them lean into who and what they really ARE.


Crazy but true: We therapists are not taught how to work with personality in therapy. Unless you have a “personality disordered” individual (as we used to call it back in the day) we don’t tailor our interventions or our conceptualization to accommodate someone’s intrinsic way of being.


Who else is ready to change this? (Lisa raises hand!) Well, help is here: In this episode, I’m joined by Dr. Dan Siegel to explore his Patterns of Developmental Pathways (PDP) model: a science-based framework that weaves together neuroscience, attachment, and developmental psychology to help us understand personality more deeply and work with it more effectively. We unpack the nine core patterns, explore how to differentiate temperament from attachment conditioning, and look at how healing at the right level can help clients shift from limitation to possibility.


Whether you’re new to PDP or already exploring it, this conversation will expand your clinical lens and give you tools you can use right away.


Episode Breakdown:

00:00 Freeing Personality from the Prison of Pathology

05:51 The Nine Patterns of Personality

25:59 Emotions, Energy, and the Body’s Personality Response

35:25 Mapping Personality to Clinical Strengths

44:59 Dr. Dan Siegel’s Personal PDP Pattern

01:04:15 Flexibility and Growth Through PDP Integration


If this episode lit you up, I hope you’ll check out my Free CEU Trainings for Therapists! These on-demand workshops (each worth 1–2 CEUs) are designed to support your growth—both as a clinician and as a human.


You can also stay in the loop about live CEU events, new podcast episodes, and exclusive resources by subscribing to my For Therapists newsletter. It’s the best way to get fresh ideas, practical tools, and meaningful support for the work you do.


I’d love to connect with you on LinkedIn, where I share reflections, behind-the-scenes updates, and continue the conversations we start here. And if something from this conversation is staying with you, whether it’s showing up in your clinical work or sparking something new, I’d truly love to hear about it. This podcast is a space for us, so don’t be a stranger. Let’s talk!


xoxo,

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

Growing Self


P.S. This is Dr. Siegel’s second time joining me on the podcast - don’t miss Episode #39, where we explore the foundations of attachment styles and how they connect to the PDP model.

]]> 4479 no Therapists Who Coach: Are You Playing with Fire? | LHSFT Classic https://www.growingself.com/therapists-coaching-without-certification/ This episode first aired on December 4, 2024 (Episode 44). We’re revisiting it because many therapists continue to experiment with coaching without realizing the risks. What begins as a way to broaden your work can expose you and your clients to real vulnerabilities if you’re not equipped with the right training. In this episode, I unpack the differences between therapy and coaching, the pitfalls of offering coaching without preparation, and what it takes to step into this role with clarity and confidence. Lots of therapists are adding “coach” to their title without going through coach training first. It may feel like a natural extension of therapy, but the reality is that coaching and therapy are not the same thing. And if you’ve ever wondered, do you need a license to be a life coach? - this episode will help you understand why the answer is complicated, especially for therapists. I’ll explore why calling yourself a coach without certification can put your practice, your reputation, and your clients at risk. I’ll walk you through the key distinctions between the two disciplines, the ethical and legal challenges therapists face when blurring those lines, and the steps you can take to integrate coaching into your work in a way that’s both professional and protective. Episode Breakdown: 00:00 Introduction: The Risks of DIY Coaching 01:59 Risks of Coaching Without Training 05:01 Why Coaching Certification Matters 09:06 Choosing the Right Coaching Credential (BCC vs. ICF) 14:09 Legal Issues and Protecting Your Practice 18:06 The Reputation of Uncertified Coaches 20:12 Evidence-Based Coaching and Client Outcomes 27:05 Free Resource: Therapist’s Guide to Coaching If this conversation resonates, I encourage you to explore Coaching Certification For Therapists (BCC-Accredited). This credential was designed specifically for therapists and builds on the foundation of our clinical training while aligning with the ethical standards we already uphold. Pursuing certification strengthens your competence, clarifies the boundaries between therapy and coaching, and equips you with evidence-based tools to create the kind of results your clients are truly seeking. I’d also love to keep this dialogue going with you. What questions came up for you while listening? Have you ever wrestled with how to draw the line between therapy and coaching, or whether it’s time to pursue additional training? Share your reflections with me. Let’s talk! And if you know another therapist who would benefit from this discussion, consider passing it along. That’s how we strengthen our professional community together. If this podcast resonated with you, please share it with your colleagues or professional network so we can keep supporting one another. And if we haven’t already connected, I’d love to meet you on LinkedIn and continue exchanging ideas and resources in real time. xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Growing Self Wed, 17 Sep 2025 09:00:00 -0000 full 1 Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby This episode first aired on December 4, 2024 (Episode 44). We’re revisiting it because many therapists continue to experiment with coaching without realizing the risks. What begins as a way to broaden your work can expose you and your clients to real vulnerabilities if you’re not equipped with the right training. In this episode, I unpack the differences between therapy and coaching, the pitfalls of offering coaching without preparation, and what it takes to step into this role with clarity and confidence. Lots of therapists are adding “coach” to their title without going through coach training first. It may feel like a natural extension of therapy, but the reality is that coaching and therapy are not the same thing. And if you’ve ever wondered, do you need a license to be a life coach? - this episode will help you understand why the answer is complicated, especially for therapists. I’ll explore why calling yourself a coach without certification can put your practice, your reputation, and your clients at risk. I’ll walk you through the key distinctions between the two disciplines, the ethical and legal challenges therapists face when blurring those lines, and the steps you can take to integrate coaching into your work in a way that’s both professional and protective. Episode Breakdown: 00:00 Introduction: The Risks of DIY Coaching 01:59 Risks of Coaching Without Training 05:01 Why Coaching Certification Matters 09:06 Choosing the Right Coaching Credential (BCC vs. ICF) 14:09 Legal Issues and Protecting Your Practice 18:06 The Reputation of Uncertified Coaches 20:12 Evidence-Based Coaching and Client Outcomes 27:05 Free Resource: Therapist’s Guide to Coaching If this conversation resonates, I encourage you to explore Coaching Certification For Therapists (BCC-Accredited). This credential was designed specifically for therapists and builds on the foundation of our clinical training while aligning with the ethical standards we already uphold. Pursuing certification strengthens your competence, clarifies the boundaries between therapy and coaching, and equips you with evidence-based tools to create the kind of results your clients are truly seeking. I’d also love to keep this dialogue going with you. What questions came up for you while listening? Have you ever wrestled with how to draw the line between therapy and coaching, or whether it’s time to pursue additional training? Share your reflections with me. Let’s talk! And if you know another therapist who would benefit from this discussion, consider passing it along. That’s how we strengthen our professional community together. If this podcast resonated with you, please share it with your colleagues or professional network so we can keep supporting one another. And if we haven’t already connected, I’d love to meet you on LinkedIn and continue exchanging ideas and resources in real time. xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Growing Self This episode first aired on December 4, 2024 (Episode 44). We’re revisiting it because many therapists continue to experiment with coaching without realizing the risks. What begins as a way to broaden your work can expose you and your clients to real vulnerabilities if you’re not equipped with the right training. In this episode, I unpack the differences between therapy and coaching, the pitfalls of offering coaching without preparation, and what it takes to step into this role with clarity and confidence.


Lots of therapists are adding “coach” to their title without going through coach training first. It may feel like a natural extension of therapy, but the reality is that coaching and therapy are not the same thing. And if you’ve ever wondered, do you need a license to be a life coach? - this episode will help you understand why the answer is complicated, especially for therapists. I’ll explore why calling yourself a coach without certification can put your practice, your reputation, and your clients at risk.


I’ll walk you through the key distinctions between the two disciplines, the ethical and legal challenges therapists face when blurring those lines, and the steps you can take to integrate coaching into your work in a way that’s both professional and protective.


Episode Breakdown:

00:00 Introduction: The Risks of DIY Coaching

01:59 Risks of Coaching Without Training

05:01 Why Coaching Certification Matters

09:06 Choosing the Right Coaching Credential (BCC vs. ICF)

14:09 Legal Issues and Protecting Your Practice

18:06 The Reputation of Uncertified Coaches

20:12 Evidence-Based Coaching and Client Outcomes

27:05 Free Resource: Therapist’s Guide to Coaching


If this conversation resonates, I encourage you to explore Coaching Certification For Therapists (BCC-Accredited). This credential was designed specifically for therapists and builds on the foundation of our clinical training while aligning with the ethical standards we already uphold. Pursuing certification strengthens your competence, clarifies the boundaries between therapy and coaching, and equips you with evidence-based tools to create the kind of results your clients are truly seeking.


I’d also love to keep this dialogue going with you. What questions came up for you while listening? Have you ever wrestled with how to draw the line between therapy and coaching, or whether it’s time to pursue additional training? Share your reflections with me. Let’s talk! And if you know another therapist who would benefit from this discussion, consider passing it along. That’s how we strengthen our professional community together.


If this podcast resonated with you, please share it with your colleagues or professional network so we can keep supporting one another. And if we haven’t already connected, I’d love to meet you on LinkedIn and continue exchanging ideas and resources in real time.


xoxo,

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

Growing Self

]]> 1995 no Professional Will for Therapists: An Ethical Responsibility You Can’t Ignore | E77 https://www.growingself.com/professional-will-for-therapists What would happen to your clients if you died tomorrow? The New York Times recently highlighted just how devastating it can be when a therapist falls ill or dies without a plan in place. Clients are left confused, abandoned, and without the closure they deserve. It’s a hard question, but one every therapist has an ethical obligation to face. Psychologist Dr. Robyn Miller—Founder of TheraClosure, the first psychotherapist professional executor service—knows this firsthand. When her closest colleague became terminally ill, she stepped in as practice executor—supporting clients, managing records, and grieving her best friend all at once. That experience inspired her to help others create a professional will for therapists that protects clients, families, and the legacy of their work. In this episode, we explore why having a professional will isn’t optional—it’s part of our ethical duty as clinicians. We’ll talk about the logistics of professional wills, the emotional burden of asking loved ones to step in, and why a real plan is more than just a name on a form. So let me ask you: Do you have an ethical plan in place if you were suddenly unable to practice? Have you ever asked someone to be your backup—without realizing what you were really asking of them? What would it feel like to know your clients, your records, and your legacy are truly protected? We’re therapists. We know how to sit with hard things. Let’s not leave this one in the shadows. Episode Breakdown: 00:00 Ethical Guidelines & Continuity of Care 05:03 When a Therapist Dies: A Colleague’s Story 08:49 Breaking the News to Patients 15:05 Patient Reactions & Clinical Risk 18:18 Business Logistics & Record Retention 23:06 Why Friends and Family Shouldn’t Be Executors 30:29 Costs & Contracting a Professional Executor 40:10 Continuity of Care Plan Options 44:46 TheraClosure: Professional Will for Therapists If this conversation stayed with you, I’d love for you to check out my Free CEU Trainings For Licensed Therapists. These resources are here to support you—not just in your clinical work, but as a whole person navigating a complicated profession. And if we’re not connected yet, please come find me on LinkedIn. It’s my favorite place to continue these kinds of conversations with thoughtful therapists like you. I also want to spotlight the incredible work of my guest, Dr. Robyn Miller. She’s the founder of TheraClosure, the first psychotherapist professional executor service, where she helps therapists create ethical plans for continuity of care. You can connect with Dr. Robyn on LinkedIn and follow her on Instagram. Lastly, I’d also love to hear what’s working for you, what could be better, and what’s on your wishlist for future episodes. Share your thoughts—let’s talk! xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Growing Self Wed, 10 Sep 2025 09:00:00 -0000 full 1 77 Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby What would happen to your clients if you died tomorrow? The New York Times recently highlighted just how devastating it can be when a therapist falls ill or dies without a plan in place. Clients are left confused, abandoned, and without the closure they deserve. It’s a hard question, but one every therapist has an ethical obligation to face. Psychologist Dr. Robyn Miller—Founder of TheraClosure, the first psychotherapist professional executor service—knows this firsthand. When her closest colleague became terminally ill, she stepped in as practice executor—supporting clients, managing records, and grieving her best friend all at once. That experience inspired her to help others create a professional will for therapists that protects clients, families, and the legacy of their work. In this episode, we explore why having a professional will isn’t optional—it’s part of our ethical duty as clinicians. We’ll talk about the logistics of professional wills, the emotional burden of asking loved ones to step in, and why a real plan is more than just a name on a form. So let me ask you: Do you have an ethical plan in place if you were suddenly unable to practice? Have you ever asked someone to be your backup—without realizing what you were really asking of them? What would it feel like to know your clients, your records, and your legacy are truly protected? We’re therapists. We know how to sit with hard things. Let’s not leave this one in the shadows. Episode Breakdown: 00:00 Ethical Guidelines & Continuity of Care 05:03 When a Therapist Dies: A Colleague’s Story 08:49 Breaking the News to Patients 15:05 Patient Reactions & Clinical Risk 18:18 Business Logistics & Record Retention 23:06 Why Friends and Family Shouldn’t Be Executors 30:29 Costs & Contracting a Professional Executor 40:10 Continuity of Care Plan Options 44:46 TheraClosure: Professional Will for Therapists If this conversation stayed with you, I’d love for you to check out my Free CEU Trainings For Licensed Therapists. These resources are here to support you—not just in your clinical work, but as a whole person navigating a complicated profession. And if we’re not connected yet, please come find me on LinkedIn. It’s my favorite place to continue these kinds of conversations with thoughtful therapists like you. I also want to spotlight the incredible work of my guest, Dr. Robyn Miller. She’s the founder of TheraClosure, the first psychotherapist professional executor service, where she helps therapists create ethical plans for continuity of care. You can connect with Dr. Robyn on LinkedIn and follow her on Instagram. Lastly, I’d also love to hear what’s working for you, what could be better, and what’s on your wishlist for future episodes. Share your thoughts—let’s talk! xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Growing Self What would happen to your clients if you died tomorrow?


The New York Times recently highlighted just how devastating it can be when a therapist falls ill or dies without a plan in place. Clients are left confused, abandoned, and without the closure they deserve.


It’s a hard question, but one every therapist has an ethical obligation to face. Psychologist Dr. Robyn Miller—Founder of TheraClosure, the first psychotherapist professional executor service—knows this firsthand. When her closest colleague became terminally ill, she stepped in as practice executor—supporting clients, managing records, and grieving her best friend all at once. That experience inspired her to help others create a professional will for therapists that protects clients, families, and the legacy of their work.


In this episode, we explore why having a professional will isn’t optional—it’s part of our ethical duty as clinicians. We’ll talk about the logistics of professional wills, the emotional burden of asking loved ones to step in, and why a real plan is more than just a name on a form.


So let me ask you:

  • Do you have an ethical plan in place if you were suddenly unable to practice?

  • Have you ever asked someone to be your backup—without realizing what you were really asking of them?

  • What would it feel like to know your clients, your records, and your legacy are truly protected?


We’re therapists. We know how to sit with hard things. Let’s not leave this one in the shadows.


Episode Breakdown:

00:00 Ethical Guidelines & Continuity of Care

05:03 When a Therapist Dies: A Colleague’s Story

08:49 Breaking the News to Patients

15:05 Patient Reactions & Clinical Risk

18:18 Business Logistics & Record Retention

23:06 Why Friends and Family Shouldn’t Be Executors

30:29 Costs & Contracting a Professional Executor

40:10 Continuity of Care Plan Options

44:46 TheraClosure: Professional Will for Therapists


If this conversation stayed with you, I’d love for you to check out my Free CEU Trainings For Licensed Therapists. These resources are here to support you—not just in your clinical work, but as a whole person navigating a complicated profession.


And if we’re not connected yet, please come find me on LinkedIn. It’s my favorite place to continue these kinds of conversations with thoughtful therapists like you.


I also want to spotlight the incredible work of my guest, Dr. Robyn Miller. She’s the founder of TheraClosure, the first psychotherapist professional executor service, where she helps therapists create ethical plans for continuity of care. You can connect with Dr. Robyn on LinkedIn and follow her on Instagram.


Lastly, I’d also love to hear what’s working for you, what could be better, and what’s on your wishlist for future episodes. Share your thoughts—let’s talk!


xoxo,

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

Growing Self

]]> 3452 no When to Let Therapy Clients Go | LHSFT Classic https://www.growingself.com/when-to-let-therapy-clients-go/ This episode first aired on January 31, 2024 (Episode 3). We’re revisiting it because deciding when to let a client go is one of the most nuanced — and often unspoken — challenges therapists face. The reflections in this conversation are just as relevant today as they were when it was first released, offering guidance, perspective, and a reminder that you’re not navigating these decisions alone. How do you know when to let therapy clients go? This can be a tough call to make! But to practice ethically, we all need to know when to make it. Our mission is to help people grow, heal, and create positive change in their lives. When we can’t fulfill that mission, for whatever reason, it’s important that we acknowledge that, with compassion and courage. But sometimes it’s not so straightforward. How do you know if your client is making progress? How do you know when you’re the right person to help them, and when you’re not? That’s what we’re talking about on this episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists. Episode Breakdown: 00:00 The Challenge of Letting Clients Go 03:05 Ethical Considerations in Therapy 05:05 Recognizing Client Progress and Stagnation 11:05 Making Thoughtful Referrals With Compassion 12:12 Empathy and Unconditional Positive Regard 15:13 Counter-Transference and Therapist Growth 17:17 Therapist Safety and Boundary Violations 20:24 Navigating Toxic Work Environments 24:00 When Therapy Turns Into Casual Conversation 27:05 Coaching vs. Therapy: Key Differences 31:01 Compassion, Responsibility, and Letting Go 33:09 Resources and Support for Therapists If this conversation resonates, I’d love for you to explore my Free CEU Training Library for Therapists. It’s filled with on-demand trainings to support your growth as both a clinician and a person. You’re also welcome to connect with me on LinkedIn so we can continue exchanging ideas and resources in real time. If you’d like ongoing support and inspiration, you can also join my newsletter created especially for therapists. It’s a space where I share weekly podcast updates, practical tools for your work, free resources, and encouragement for you in this meaningful — and often demanding — career. And I’d love to keep this dialogue going with you. What questions are on your mind after listening? What situations have challenged you in deciding whether to continue or refer a client? Share your reflections with me. Let’s talk! And if you know another therapist who might find this episode meaningful, consider passing it along. That’s how we build a stronger, more supportive professional community together! xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Growing Self Wed, 03 Sep 2025 09:00:00 -0000 full 1 Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby This episode first aired on January 31, 2024 (Episode 3). We’re revisiting it because deciding when to let a client go is one of the most nuanced — and often unspoken — challenges therapists face. The reflections in this conversation are just as relevant today as they were when it was first released, offering guidance, perspective, and a reminder that you’re not navigating these decisions alone. How do you know when to let therapy clients go? This can be a tough call to make! But to practice ethically, we all need to know when to make it. Our mission is to help people grow, heal, and create positive change in their lives. When we can’t fulfill that mission, for whatever reason, it’s important that we acknowledge that, with compassion and courage. But sometimes it’s not so straightforward. How do you know if your client is making progress? How do you know when you’re the right person to help them, and when you’re not? That’s what we’re talking about on this episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists. Episode Breakdown: 00:00 The Challenge of Letting Clients Go 03:05 Ethical Considerations in Therapy 05:05 Recognizing Client Progress and Stagnation 11:05 Making Thoughtful Referrals With Compassion 12:12 Empathy and Unconditional Positive Regard 15:13 Counter-Transference and Therapist Growth 17:17 Therapist Safety and Boundary Violations 20:24 Navigating Toxic Work Environments 24:00 When Therapy Turns Into Casual Conversation 27:05 Coaching vs. Therapy: Key Differences 31:01 Compassion, Responsibility, and Letting Go 33:09 Resources and Support for Therapists If this conversation resonates, I’d love for you to explore my Free CEU Training Library for Therapists. It’s filled with on-demand trainings to support your growth as both a clinician and a person. You’re also welcome to connect with me on LinkedIn so we can continue exchanging ideas and resources in real time. If you’d like ongoing support and inspiration, you can also join my newsletter created especially for therapists. It’s a space where I share weekly podcast updates, practical tools for your work, free resources, and encouragement for you in this meaningful — and often demanding — career. And I’d love to keep this dialogue going with you. What questions are on your mind after listening? What situations have challenged you in deciding whether to continue or refer a client? Share your reflections with me. Let’s talk! And if you know another therapist who might find this episode meaningful, consider passing it along. That’s how we build a stronger, more supportive professional community together! xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Growing Self This episode first aired on January 31, 2024 (Episode 3). We’re revisiting it because deciding when to let a client go is one of the most nuanced — and often unspoken — challenges therapists face. The reflections in this conversation are just as relevant today as they were when it was first released, offering guidance, perspective, and a reminder that you’re not navigating these decisions alone.


How do you know when to let therapy clients go? This can be a tough call to make! But to practice ethically, we all need to know when to make it. Our mission is to help people grow, heal, and create positive change in their lives. When we can’t fulfill that mission, for whatever reason, it’s important that we acknowledge that, with compassion and courage.


But sometimes it’s not so straightforward. How do you know if your client is making progress? How do you know when you’re the right person to help them, and when you’re not? That’s what we’re talking about on this episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists.


Episode Breakdown:

00:00 The Challenge of Letting Clients Go

03:05 Ethical Considerations in Therapy

05:05 Recognizing Client Progress and Stagnation

11:05 Making Thoughtful Referrals With Compassion

12:12 Empathy and Unconditional Positive Regard

15:13 Counter-Transference and Therapist Growth

17:17 Therapist Safety and Boundary Violations

20:24 Navigating Toxic Work Environments

24:00 When Therapy Turns Into Casual Conversation

27:05 Coaching vs. Therapy: Key Differences

31:01 Compassion, Responsibility, and Letting Go

33:09 Resources and Support for Therapists


If this conversation resonates, I’d love for you to explore my Free CEU Training Library for Therapists. It’s filled with on-demand trainings to support your growth as both a clinician and a person. You’re also welcome to connect with me on LinkedIn so we can continue exchanging ideas and resources in real time.


If you’d like ongoing support and inspiration, you can also join my newsletter created especially for therapists. It’s a space where I share weekly podcast updates, practical tools for your work, free resources, and encouragement for you in this meaningful — and often demanding — career.


And I’d love to keep this dialogue going with you. What questions are on your mind after listening? What situations have challenged you in deciding whether to continue or refer a client? Share your reflections with me. Let’s talk! And if you know another therapist who might find this episode meaningful, consider passing it along. That’s how we build a stronger, more supportive professional community together!


xoxo,

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

Growing Self

]]> 2217 no Abused Early Career Therapists: The Reality of Toxic Mental Health Internships and What to Do | E76 https://www.growingself.com/mental-health-internships/ Toxic mental health internships are quietly breaking down early career therapists before their careers even begin. In this episode, I’m talking with my brilliant friend and colleague Dr. Ambra Born about one of the hardest, least-discussed realities in our profession: what happens when training programs don’t protect their students. We’re opening up about what it’s like to feel overworked, underpaid, unsupported — and then told to be grateful for it. If you’ve ever felt undervalued in your early career
 if you worked in a system that took more than it gave
 if you’re still carrying the weight of being dismissed or diminished during training — I want you to know, you are not alone. Ambra and I get into the systemic issues that allow this to happen, the risks across different settings (yes, even private practice), and what a truly supportive training environment should look like. We also talk about what healing can look like if that wasn’t your story — and how becoming a mentor or advocate can be one of the most powerful ways to take your worth back. So let me ask you this: Have you ever looked back at your training and thought, “That wasn’t okay”? Do you catch yourself overgiving or saying yes when you should say no — because of how you were shaped early on? What kind of support do you wish you’d had? If that hits home, this conversation is for you. You deserved better. And it’s not too late. Episode Breakdown: 00:00 The Hidden Dangers of Mental Health Internships 01:35 Dr. Ambra Born on Supporting Early Career Therapists 03:36 Exploitation and Structural Issues in Training Programs 07:18 Why Medical Models Don’t Work for Therapists 13:31 Creating Human-Centered Training Environments 17:10 Financial Struggles and Systemic Barriers for Trainees 26:37 Red Flags of Toxic Training Sites 43:08 Healing and Advocacy: Building a Better Future If this episode struck a chord, I’d love to invite you to join my newsletter for therapists. It’s a community created just for us — with weekly podcast updates, free resources, thoughtful tools for your work, and support for you as a clinician and as a human. And if we’re not already connected, come say hi on LinkedIn! It’s where I share new episodes, behind-the-scenes reflections, and hear what’s on your mind. I also want to shout out the incredible work Dr. Ambra Born is doing. She’s the co-founder and executive director of Reaching Hope, a trauma-informed mental health nonprofit in Colorado. You can also follow them on Instagram at @reaching_hope_colorado. Lastly, I’d love to hear from you. What topics would you like to explore in future episodes? What support are you craving right now? Let’s talk! And if this episode meant something to you, share it with a friend or colleague. We make this profession stronger when we lift each other up. xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Growing Self Wed, 27 Aug 2025 09:00:00 -0000 full 1 76 Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Toxic mental health internships are quietly breaking down early career therapists before their careers even begin. In this episode, I’m talking with my brilliant friend and colleague Dr. Ambra Born about one of the hardest, least-discussed realities in our profession: what happens when training programs don’t protect their students. We’re opening up about what it’s like to feel overworked, underpaid, unsupported — and then told to be grateful for it. If you’ve ever felt undervalued in your early career
 if you worked in a system that took more than it gave
 if you’re still carrying the weight of being dismissed or diminished during training — I want you to know, you are not alone. Ambra and I get into the systemic issues that allow this to happen, the risks across different settings (yes, even private practice), and what a truly supportive training environment should look like. We also talk about what healing can look like if that wasn’t your story — and how becoming a mentor or advocate can be one of the most powerful ways to take your worth back. So let me ask you this: Have you ever looked back at your training and thought, “That wasn’t okay”? Do you catch yourself overgiving or saying yes when you should say no — because of how you were shaped early on? What kind of support do you wish you’d had? If that hits home, this conversation is for you. You deserved better. And it’s not too late. Episode Breakdown: 00:00 The Hidden Dangers of Mental Health Internships 01:35 Dr. Ambra Born on Supporting Early Career Therapists 03:36 Exploitation and Structural Issues in Training Programs 07:18 Why Medical Models Don’t Work for Therapists 13:31 Creating Human-Centered Training Environments 17:10 Financial Struggles and Systemic Barriers for Trainees 26:37 Red Flags of Toxic Training Sites 43:08 Healing and Advocacy: Building a Better Future If this episode struck a chord, I’d love to invite you to join my newsletter for therapists. It’s a community created just for us — with weekly podcast updates, free resources, thoughtful tools for your work, and support for you as a clinician and as a human. And if we’re not already connected, come say hi on LinkedIn! It’s where I share new episodes, behind-the-scenes reflections, and hear what’s on your mind. I also want to shout out the incredible work Dr. Ambra Born is doing. She’s the co-founder and executive director of Reaching Hope, a trauma-informed mental health nonprofit in Colorado. You can also follow them on Instagram at @reaching_hope_colorado. Lastly, I’d love to hear from you. What topics would you like to explore in future episodes? What support are you craving right now? Let’s talk! And if this episode meant something to you, share it with a friend or colleague. We make this profession stronger when we lift each other up. xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Growing Self Toxic mental health internships are quietly breaking down early career therapists before their careers even begin.


In this episode, I’m talking with my brilliant friend and colleague Dr. Ambra Born about one of the hardest, least-discussed realities in our profession: what happens when training programs don’t protect their students.


We’re opening up about what it’s like to feel overworked, underpaid, unsupported — and then told to be grateful for it. If you’ve ever felt undervalued in your early career
 if you worked in a system that took more than it gave
 if you’re still carrying the weight of being dismissed or diminished during training — I want you to know, you are not alone.


Ambra and I get into the systemic issues that allow this to happen, the risks across different settings (yes, even private practice), and what a truly supportive training environment should look like. We also talk about what healing can look like if that wasn’t your story — and how becoming a mentor or advocate can be one of the most powerful ways to take your worth back.


So let me ask you this: Have you ever looked back at your training and thought, “That wasn’t okay”? Do you catch yourself overgiving or saying yes when you should say no — because of how you were shaped early on? What kind of support do you wish you’d had?


If that hits home, this conversation is for you. You deserved better. And it’s not too late.


Episode Breakdown:

00:00 The Hidden Dangers of Mental Health Internships

01:35 Dr. Ambra Born on Supporting Early Career Therapists

03:36 Exploitation and Structural Issues in Training Programs

07:18 Why Medical Models Don’t Work for Therapists

13:31 Creating Human-Centered Training Environments

17:10 Financial Struggles and Systemic Barriers for Trainees

26:37 Red Flags of Toxic Training Sites

43:08 Healing and Advocacy: Building a Better Future


If this episode struck a chord, I’d love to invite you to join my newsletter for therapists. It’s a community created just for us — with weekly podcast updates, free resources, thoughtful tools for your work, and support for you as a clinician and as a human.


And if we’re not already connected, come say hi on LinkedIn! It’s where I share new episodes, behind-the-scenes reflections, and hear what’s on your mind.


I also want to shout out the incredible work Dr. Ambra Born is doing. She’s the co-founder and executive director of Reaching Hope, a trauma-informed mental health nonprofit in Colorado. You can also follow them on Instagram at @reaching_hope_colorado.


Lastly, I’d love to hear from you. What topics would you like to explore in future episodes? What support are you craving right now? Let’s talk! And if this episode meant something to you, share it with a friend or colleague. We make this profession stronger when we lift each other up.


xoxo,

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

Growing Self

]]> 3099 no Why Therapy Clients Ghost | LHSFT Classic https://www.growingself.com/why-therapy-clients-ghost/ This episode originally aired on February 14, 2024 (Episode 5), and we’re bringing it back because ghosting is one of those challenges every therapist encounters at some point in their career. It’s an important conversation worth revisiting, both for the insight it offers and the reminder that you’re not alone in navigating it. Have you ever been ghosted by a therapy client? This unfortunate experience is something that every therapist goes through eventually. And just like in any other relationship, when a therapy client ghosts, it can leave you feeling a little haunted. You might wonder if it was something you said, or worry that your therapy client is not okay. Most of all, you’ll be asking yourself — How can I avoid this kind of thing in the future? If you’ve been here before, then this episode is for you! We’re talking about why therapy clients ghost, how to process it when a client stops coming to therapy without saying goodbye, and how you can use this experience to grow, personally and professionally. Episode Breakdown: 00:00 Why Therapy Clients Ghost 01:15 The Role of Trust in Building Strong Client Relationships 04:49 Creating Emotional Safety and Open Communication in Sessions 07:20 Recognizing Relational Patterns That Lead to Ghosting 10:06 When Missteps and Ruptures Cause Clients to Leave 12:05 The Importance of Consultation and Professional Support 14:05 Why Clients Feel Stuck and How to Re-Engage Them 18:32 Therapy Limitations and the Shift Toward Coaching 20:30 Coaching vs. Traditional Therapy: What Clinicians Need to Know 24:15 Free Resources and Growth Opportunities for Therapists As you’re listening, remember you don’t have to navigate these challenges alone. My Free CEU Trainings For Therapists is always available with on-demand resources designed to support both your clinical work and your personal wellbeing. You can explore it anytime, and if we’re not yet connected on LinkedIn, let’s change that. It’s one of my favorite spaces to continue these conversations with colleagues. And since this podcast is created with you in mind, I’d love to know what’s on your heart. What questions do you have, what topics do you want me to unpack in future episodes? Let’s talk! Share your thoughts with me, and if you know another therapist who would benefit from this conversation, send them this episode so our community of support keeps growing. xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Growing Self Wed, 20 Aug 2025 09:00:00 -0000 full 1 Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby This episode originally aired on February 14, 2024 (Episode 5), and we’re bringing it back because ghosting is one of those challenges every therapist encounters at some point in their career. It’s an important conversation worth revisiting, both for the insight it offers and the reminder that you’re not alone in navigating it. Have you ever been ghosted by a therapy client? This unfortunate experience is something that every therapist goes through eventually. And just like in any other relationship, when a therapy client ghosts, it can leave you feeling a little haunted. You might wonder if it was something you said, or worry that your therapy client is not okay. Most of all, you’ll be asking yourself — How can I avoid this kind of thing in the future? If you’ve been here before, then this episode is for you! We’re talking about why therapy clients ghost, how to process it when a client stops coming to therapy without saying goodbye, and how you can use this experience to grow, personally and professionally. Episode Breakdown: 00:00 Why Therapy Clients Ghost 01:15 The Role of Trust in Building Strong Client Relationships 04:49 Creating Emotional Safety and Open Communication in Sessions 07:20 Recognizing Relational Patterns That Lead to Ghosting 10:06 When Missteps and Ruptures Cause Clients to Leave 12:05 The Importance of Consultation and Professional Support 14:05 Why Clients Feel Stuck and How to Re-Engage Them 18:32 Therapy Limitations and the Shift Toward Coaching 20:30 Coaching vs. Traditional Therapy: What Clinicians Need to Know 24:15 Free Resources and Growth Opportunities for Therapists As you’re listening, remember you don’t have to navigate these challenges alone. My Free CEU Trainings For Therapists is always available with on-demand resources designed to support both your clinical work and your personal wellbeing. You can explore it anytime, and if we’re not yet connected on LinkedIn, let’s change that. It’s one of my favorite spaces to continue these conversations with colleagues. And since this podcast is created with you in mind, I’d love to know what’s on your heart. What questions do you have, what topics do you want me to unpack in future episodes? Let’s talk! Share your thoughts with me, and if you know another therapist who would benefit from this conversation, send them this episode so our community of support keeps growing. xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Growing Self This episode originally aired on February 14, 2024 (Episode 5), and we’re bringing it back because ghosting is one of those challenges every therapist encounters at some point in their career. It’s an important conversation worth revisiting, both for the insight it offers and the reminder that you’re not alone in navigating it.


Have you ever been ghosted by a therapy client? This unfortunate experience is something that every therapist goes through eventually. And just like in any other relationship, when a therapy client ghosts, it can leave you feeling a little haunted.


You might wonder if it was something you said, or worry that your therapy client is not okay. Most of all, you’ll be asking yourself — How can I avoid this kind of thing in the future?


If you’ve been here before, then this episode is for you! We’re talking about why therapy clients ghost, how to process it when a client stops coming to therapy without saying goodbye, and how you can use this experience to grow, personally and professionally.


Episode Breakdown:

00:00 Why Therapy Clients Ghost

01:15 The Role of Trust in Building Strong Client Relationships

04:49 Creating Emotional Safety and Open Communication in Sessions

07:20 Recognizing Relational Patterns That Lead to Ghosting

10:06 When Missteps and Ruptures Cause Clients to Leave

12:05 The Importance of Consultation and Professional Support

14:05 Why Clients Feel Stuck and How to Re-Engage Them

18:32 Therapy Limitations and the Shift Toward Coaching

20:30 Coaching vs. Traditional Therapy: What Clinicians Need to Know

24:15 Free Resources and Growth Opportunities for Therapists


As you’re listening, remember you don’t have to navigate these challenges alone. My Free CEU Trainings For Therapists is always available with on-demand resources designed to support both your clinical work and your personal wellbeing. You can explore it anytime, and if we’re not yet connected on LinkedIn, let’s change that. It’s one of my favorite spaces to continue these conversations with colleagues.


And since this podcast is created with you in mind, I’d love to know what’s on your heart. What questions do you have, what topics do you want me to unpack in future episodes? Let’s talk! Share your thoughts with me, and if you know another therapist who would benefit from this conversation, send them this episode so our community of support keeps growing.


xoxo,

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

Growing Self

]]> 1769 no How Being a Therapist Changes Your Life | E75 https://www.growingself.com/being-a-therapist/ Ever notice how this work changes you in ways you never saw coming? I’m not just talking about your skills in the therapy room. I mean how it rewires your social life, shapes your relationships, and even shifts the way you see the world. In this episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists, I’m getting real about the pros and cons of being a therapist, from the hilarious moments (like when someone at a party freezes the second they hear what you do) to the harder stuff, like managing boundaries when friends overshare or feeling pressure to always have it “together.” We’ll talk about how this profession can deepen your compassion, expand your tolerance for life’s gray areas, and connect you to a bigger sense of purpose. We’ll also explore how it can leave you isolated, burnt out, or disconnected from your own feelings if you’re not paying attention. Most importantly, I’ll share why having real, non-judgy friendships with other therapists is essential for staying well in this work. Episode Breakdown: 00:00 Why This Work Changes You 02:03 Overcoming Therapist Isolation and Building Community 04:24 Social Shifts When People Learn You’re a Therapist 08:09 Setting Boundaries and Managing Oversharing 12:01 How Therapy Work Deepens Compassion and Understanding 14:03 Burnout Risks and Essential Self-Care Competencies 18:01 Identity, Pressure, and the “Have It All Together” Trap 21:08 Why Friendships with Other Therapists Matter 24:57 Positive Ways the Profession Transforms You So, how has being a therapist changed you? Have you noticed shifts in your social life or even in how you see yourself? Are you giving as much attention to your own well-being as you do to your clients? If this episode hits home, I’d love for you to check out my Free CEU Training Library For Therapists. It’s full of on-demand resources to help you strengthen yourself as a clinician and as a human. And let’s connect on LinkedIn so we can keep these conversations going. I also want to hear from you. Your feedback, your questions about past episodes, and the topics you’d love me to cover next are always welcome! Share your thoughts with me here. If this episode resonated with you, think of a colleague, friend, or fellow therapist who might appreciate it too, and pass it along so we can keep these meaningful conversations moving through our community! xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Growing Self Wed, 13 Aug 2025 11:00:00 -0000 full 1 75 Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Ever notice how this work changes you in ways you never saw coming? I’m not just talking about your skills in the therapy room. I mean how it rewires your social life, shapes your relationships, and even shifts the way you see the world. In this episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists, I’m getting real about the pros and cons of being a therapist, from the hilarious moments (like when someone at a party freezes the second they hear what you do) to the harder stuff, like managing boundaries when friends overshare or feeling pressure to always have it “together.” We’ll talk about how this profession can deepen your compassion, expand your tolerance for life’s gray areas, and connect you to a bigger sense of purpose. We’ll also explore how it can leave you isolated, burnt out, or disconnected from your own feelings if you’re not paying attention. Most importantly, I’ll share why having real, non-judgy friendships with other therapists is essential for staying well in this work. Episode Breakdown: 00:00 Why This Work Changes You 02:03 Overcoming Therapist Isolation and Building Community 04:24 Social Shifts When People Learn You’re a Therapist 08:09 Setting Boundaries and Managing Oversharing 12:01 How Therapy Work Deepens Compassion and Understanding 14:03 Burnout Risks and Essential Self-Care Competencies 18:01 Identity, Pressure, and the “Have It All Together” Trap 21:08 Why Friendships with Other Therapists Matter 24:57 Positive Ways the Profession Transforms You So, how has being a therapist changed you? Have you noticed shifts in your social life or even in how you see yourself? Are you giving as much attention to your own well-being as you do to your clients? If this episode hits home, I’d love for you to check out my Free CEU Training Library For Therapists. It’s full of on-demand resources to help you strengthen yourself as a clinician and as a human. And let’s connect on LinkedIn so we can keep these conversations going. I also want to hear from you. Your feedback, your questions about past episodes, and the topics you’d love me to cover next are always welcome! Share your thoughts with me here. If this episode resonated with you, think of a colleague, friend, or fellow therapist who might appreciate it too, and pass it along so we can keep these meaningful conversations moving through our community! xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Growing Self Ever notice how this work changes you in ways you never saw coming? I’m not just talking about your skills in the therapy room. I mean how it rewires your social life, shapes your relationships, and even shifts the way you see the world.



In this episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists, I’m getting real about the pros and cons of being a therapist, from the hilarious moments (like when someone at a party freezes the second they hear what you do) to the harder stuff, like managing boundaries when friends overshare or feeling pressure to always have it “together.”



We’ll talk about how this profession can deepen your compassion, expand your tolerance for life’s gray areas, and connect you to a bigger sense of purpose. We’ll also explore how it can leave you isolated, burnt out, or disconnected from your own feelings if you’re not paying attention. Most importantly, I’ll share why having real, non-judgy friendships with other therapists is essential for staying well in this work.



Episode Breakdown:

00:00 Why This Work Changes You

02:03 Overcoming Therapist Isolation and Building Community

04:24 Social Shifts When People Learn You’re a Therapist

08:09 Setting Boundaries and Managing Oversharing

12:01 How Therapy Work Deepens Compassion and Understanding

14:03 Burnout Risks and Essential Self-Care Competencies

18:01 Identity, Pressure, and the “Have It All Together” Trap

21:08 Why Friendships with Other Therapists Matter

24:57 Positive Ways the Profession Transforms You



So, how has being a therapist changed you? Have you noticed shifts in your social life or even in how you see yourself? Are you giving as much attention to your own well-being as you do to your clients?



If this episode hits home, I’d love for you to check out my Free CEU Training Library For Therapists. It’s full of on-demand resources to help you strengthen yourself as a clinician and as a human. And let’s connect on LinkedIn so we can keep these conversations going.



I also want to hear from you. Your feedback, your questions about past episodes, and the topics you’d love me to cover next are always welcome! Share your thoughts with me here. If this episode resonated with you, think of a colleague, friend, or fellow therapist who might appreciate it too, and pass it along so we can keep these meaningful conversations moving through our community!



xoxo,

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

Growing Self

]]> 1905 no AI, Ethics, and Therapy: What Every Clinician Needs to Know Right Now | E74 https://www.growingself.com/ai-for-therapists Is your therapy practice future-ready
 or are your AI tools quietly writing your client notes — and maybe rewriting your ethics policy, too? If you’re a therapist trying to make sense of what the heck is going on with AI in our field right now, this episode is for you. Whether you’re using AI daily, avoiding it like a bad EHR platform, or somewhere in between, you need to hear this conversation. In today’s episode of Love, Happiness & Success for Therapists, I sit down with Dr. Rachel Wood. She's a licensed therapist with a PhD in Cyberpsychology. We talk about how AI is already reshaping the way we practice therapy — and why we, as ethical clinicians, need to step up and lead this transformation, not just react to it. We talk about the practical realities of using AI in therapy (yes, including note-writing), the invisible risks no one’s warning you about (AI hallucinations, anyone?), and how our clients — especially Gen Z — are forming deep, emotionally meaningful relationships with AI companions. It's happening right now
 and it’s impacting your work, whether you see it or not. This is one of the most important, eye-opening conversations I’ve had all year, and I hope you’ll join us for it. Timestamps: 00:00 – Your New Role: Ethical Leadership in the Age of AI 01:17 – What AI Companionship Really Looks Like for Clients 04:11 – How Therapists Are Already Using AI (Whether They Realize It or Not) 09:15 – AI “Hallucinations” in Clinical Documentation (and Why It Matters) 1 7:36 – Informed Consent + Data Privacy: What You Need to Rethink Today 24:39 – “I’m Not Into AI” Isn’t Enough Anymore 26:02 – AI as Therapist, BFF, or Boyfriend? What’s Actually Happening with Clients 36:49 – Working With AI in Session: Ethical, Empowered Possibilities 40:00 – New Assessment Questions You Should Be Asking Your Clients 44:28 – What an AI Policy for Your Practice Needs to Include If this episode lit up your brain the way it did mine, you have to check out the Free CEU Training with myself and Dr. Rachel Wood. Therapists + AI: Navigating Ethics, Boundaries, and Client Safety. We go even deeper into the clinical realities of AI and therapy — including how clients are forming emotional bonds with chatbots, the ethical risks of AI-generated notes, and so much more about what all of this means for our practices, our clients, and our profession. You'll earn 1.5 CEU credit (by completing a short knowledge check), and get practical tools to: Update your informed consent Adjust your intake assessments Create AI policies for your practice Hold space for the big existential questions therapists are facing right now 👉 Access the Free CE Training here — and stay part of this incredibly important conversation This is just the beginning of the conversation. If you want more insights on ethical innovation, therapist support, and how to grow professionally without burning out, let’s stay in touch. I share industry news, updates on free CEU webinars, and info on the latest episode of the Love, Happiness, and Success For Therapists podcasts over on LinkedIn. We’re having great conversations — and I’d love to hear your thoughts on all of this. 👉 Connect with me here Xoxo Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby www.growingself.com P.S. If you found this episode helpful, would you share it with a therapist friend or colleague? We need each other more than ever as we navigate this strange, exciting, and important new frontier in mental health care. Wed, 23 Jul 2025 20:00:00 -0000 full 1 74 Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Is your therapy practice future-ready
 or are your AI tools quietly writing your client notes — and maybe rewriting your ethics policy, too? If you’re a therapist trying to make sense of what the heck is going on with AI in our field right now, this episode is for you. Whether you’re using AI daily, avoiding it like a bad EHR platform, or somewhere in between, you need to hear this conversation. In today’s episode of Love, Happiness & Success for Therapists, I sit down with Dr. Rachel Wood. She's a licensed therapist with a PhD in Cyberpsychology. We talk about how AI is already reshaping the way we practice therapy — and why we, as ethical clinicians, need to step up and lead this transformation, not just react to it. We talk about the practical realities of using AI in therapy (yes, including note-writing), the invisible risks no one’s warning you about (AI hallucinations, anyone?), and how our clients — especially Gen Z — are forming deep, emotionally meaningful relationships with AI companions. It's happening right now
 and it’s impacting your work, whether you see it or not. This is one of the most important, eye-opening conversations I’ve had all year, and I hope you’ll join us for it. Timestamps: 00:00 – Your New Role: Ethical Leadership in the Age of AI 01:17 – What AI Companionship Really Looks Like for Clients 04:11 – How Therapists Are Already Using AI (Whether They Realize It or Not) 09:15 – AI “Hallucinations” in Clinical Documentation (and Why It Matters) 1 7:36 – Informed Consent + Data Privacy: What You Need to Rethink Today 24:39 – “I’m Not Into AI” Isn’t Enough Anymore 26:02 – AI as Therapist, BFF, or Boyfriend? What’s Actually Happening with Clients 36:49 – Working With AI in Session: Ethical, Empowered Possibilities 40:00 – New Assessment Questions You Should Be Asking Your Clients 44:28 – What an AI Policy for Your Practice Needs to Include If this episode lit up your brain the way it did mine, you have to check out the Free CEU Training with myself and Dr. Rachel Wood. Therapists + AI: Navigating Ethics, Boundaries, and Client Safety. We go even deeper into the clinical realities of AI and therapy — including how clients are forming emotional bonds with chatbots, the ethical risks of AI-generated notes, and so much more about what all of this means for our practices, our clients, and our profession. You'll earn 1.5 CEU credit (by completing a short knowledge check), and get practical tools to: Update your informed consent Adjust your intake assessments Create AI policies for your practice Hold space for the big existential questions therapists are facing right now 👉 Access the Free CE Training here — and stay part of this incredibly important conversation This is just the beginning of the conversation. If you want more insights on ethical innovation, therapist support, and how to grow professionally without burning out, let’s stay in touch. I share industry news, updates on free CEU webinars, and info on the latest episode of the Love, Happiness, and Success For Therapists podcasts over on LinkedIn. We’re having great conversations — and I’d love to hear your thoughts on all of this. 👉 Connect with me here Xoxo Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby www.growingself.com P.S. If you found this episode helpful, would you share it with a therapist friend or colleague? We need each other more than ever as we navigate this strange, exciting, and important new frontier in mental health care. Is your therapy practice future-ready
 or are your AI tools quietly writing your client notes — and maybe rewriting your ethics policy, too?

If you’re a therapist trying to make sense of what the heck is going on with AI in our field right now, this episode is for you. Whether you’re using AI daily, avoiding it like a bad EHR platform, or somewhere in between, you need to hear this conversation.

In today’s episode of Love, Happiness & Success for Therapists, I sit down with Dr. Rachel Wood. She's a licensed therapist with a PhD in Cyberpsychology. We talk about how AI is already reshaping the way we practice therapy — and why we, as ethical clinicians, need to step up and lead this transformation, not just react to it.

We talk about the practical realities of using AI in therapy (yes, including note-writing), the invisible risks no one’s warning you about (AI hallucinations, anyone?), and how our clients — especially Gen Z — are forming deep, emotionally meaningful relationships with AI companions. It's happening right now
 and it’s impacting your work, whether you see it or not.

This is one of the most important, eye-opening conversations I’ve had all year, and I hope you’ll join us for it.

Timestamps:

00:00 – Your New Role: Ethical Leadership in the Age of AI

01:17 – What AI Companionship Really Looks Like for Clients

04:11 – How Therapists Are Already Using AI (Whether They Realize It or Not)

09:15 – AI “Hallucinations” in Clinical Documentation (and Why It Matters) 1

7:36 – Informed Consent + Data Privacy: What You Need to Rethink Today

24:39 – “I’m Not Into AI” Isn’t Enough Anymore

26:02 – AI as Therapist, BFF, or Boyfriend? What’s Actually Happening with Clients

36:49 – Working With AI in Session: Ethical, Empowered Possibilities

40:00 – New Assessment Questions You Should Be Asking Your Clients

44:28 – What an AI Policy for Your Practice Needs to Include

If this episode lit up your brain the way it did mine, you have to check out the Free CEU Training with myself and Dr. Rachel Wood. Therapists + AI: Navigating Ethics, Boundaries, and Client Safety.

We go even deeper into the clinical realities of AI and therapy — including how clients are forming emotional bonds with chatbots, the ethical risks of AI-generated notes, and so much more about what all of this means for our practices, our clients, and our profession.

You'll earn 1.5 CEU credit (by completing a short knowledge check), and get practical tools to:

  • Update your informed consent
  • Adjust your intake assessments
  • Create AI policies for your practice
  • Hold space for the big existential questions therapists are facing right now

👉 Access the Free CE Training here — and stay part of this incredibly important conversation

This is just the beginning of the conversation. If you want more insights on ethical innovation, therapist support, and how to grow professionally without burning out, let’s stay in touch.

I share industry news, updates on free CEU webinars, and info on the latest episode of the Love, Happiness, and Success For Therapists podcasts over on LinkedIn. We’re having great conversations — and I’d love to hear your thoughts on all of this.

👉 Connect with me here


Xoxo

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

www.growingself.com

P.S. If you found this episode helpful, would you share it with a therapist friend or colleague? We need each other more than ever as we navigate this strange, exciting, and important new frontier in mental health care.

]]> 3018 no Subpoenaed as a Therapist: How to Stay Legal, Ethical, and Sane | LHSFT Classic https://www.growingself.com/therapist-subpoena This one is SO important... we're doing it again. After originally posting this episode earlier in the year, I've had so many messages from therapist colleagues about how helpful and important this info was, I wanted to put it back at the top. Additionally, I have created a free cheat sheet with the changes that I made to my own disclosure statement after recording this interview (because I too, learned a lot) and I'm happy to share this with you. DM me on Linkedin or just shoot me an email (drlisa@growingself.com). xo, Lisa = There's something none of us want to deal with, but absolutely need to be prepared for: getting subpoenaed to testify in court. The moment that letter lands on your desk, the panic sets in—What can I say? What can’t I say? How do I protect my client’s confidentiality while also following the law? And of course, the biggest worry of all: What if I mess this up? Breathe. I’m here to help! I brought in family law expert Rich Harris—an attorney who knows this world inside and out—to break it all down for you. In this episode, we’re talking about what to do when you get served with a subpoena, how to avoid big legal mistakes, and steps to safeguard yourself before this happens. Don't wait until you're in the hot seat—listen now so you can be prepared, protected, and empowered. Timestamps: 00:00 Getting Subpoenaed is So Stressful! 00:42 Meet Our Legal Expert: Rich Harris 02:05 Your First Steps After Receiving a Subpoena 03:22 Do You Really Have to Testify? Here’s the Truth 08:07 How to Protect Client Confidentiality Like a Pro 12:15 The #1 Mistake Therapists Make With Legal Cases 15:18 Subpoenas in Custody Cases—What You Need to Know 20:53 How to Challenge an Improper Subpoena 26:43 Scam Alert! The Dangerous Hoax Targeting Therapists 30:18 Court Testimony Tips: How to Stay Calm and Confident 34:21 What to Say (and Not Say) If You Have to Testify 41:52 Want to Become a Custody Evaluator? Here’s How! 47:16 Legal Resources I hope this episode helps ease any legal anxiety you might have.  There's more where that came from so let's stay connected. Subscribe to the podcast, and I can also keep you up to date with more helpful industry info with my newsletter: Sign up here  And hey—let’s stay connected on LinkedIn too! It’s a great space to stay in the loop, ask questions, and be part of a community of therapists who get it. Plus, you never know when that one post might save you from a professional headache down the road. Let’s connect —I’d love to see you in my network! Xoxo Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby P.S. Know a therapist who could use this info? Share this episode with them!      Wed, 16 Jul 2025 23:00:00 -0000 full 1 Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby This one is SO important... we're doing it again. After originally posting this episode earlier in the year, I've had so many messages from therapist colleagues about how helpful and important this info was, I wanted to put it back at the top. Additionally, I have created a free cheat sheet with the changes that I made to my own disclosure statement after recording this interview (because I too, learned a lot) and I'm happy to share this with you. DM me on Linkedin or just shoot me an email (drlisa@growingself.com). xo, Lisa = There's something none of us want to deal with, but absolutely need to be prepared for: getting subpoenaed to testify in court. The moment that letter lands on your desk, the panic sets in—What can I say? What can’t I say? How do I protect my client’s confidentiality while also following the law? And of course, the biggest worry of all: What if I mess this up? Breathe. I’m here to help! I brought in family law expert Rich Harris—an attorney who knows this world inside and out—to break it all down for you. In this episode, we’re talking about what to do when you get served with a subpoena, how to avoid big legal mistakes, and steps to safeguard yourself before this happens. Don't wait until you're in the hot seat—listen now so you can be prepared, protected, and empowered. Timestamps: 00:00 Getting Subpoenaed is So Stressful! 00:42 Meet Our Legal Expert: Rich Harris 02:05 Your First Steps After Receiving a Subpoena 03:22 Do You Really Have to Testify? Here’s the Truth 08:07 How to Protect Client Confidentiality Like a Pro 12:15 The #1 Mistake Therapists Make With Legal Cases 15:18 Subpoenas in Custody Cases—What You Need to Know 20:53 How to Challenge an Improper Subpoena 26:43 Scam Alert! The Dangerous Hoax Targeting Therapists 30:18 Court Testimony Tips: How to Stay Calm and Confident 34:21 What to Say (and Not Say) If You Have to Testify 41:52 Want to Become a Custody Evaluator? Here’s How! 47:16 Legal Resources I hope this episode helps ease any legal anxiety you might have.  There's more where that came from so let's stay connected. Subscribe to the podcast, and I can also keep you up to date with more helpful industry info with my newsletter: Sign up here  And hey—let’s stay connected on LinkedIn too! It’s a great space to stay in the loop, ask questions, and be part of a community of therapists who get it. Plus, you never know when that one post might save you from a professional headache down the road. Let’s connect —I’d love to see you in my network! Xoxo Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby P.S. Know a therapist who could use this info? Share this episode with them!      This one is SO important... we're doing it again. After originally posting this episode earlier in the year, I've had so many messages from therapist colleagues about how helpful and important this info was, I wanted to put it back at the top.

Additionally, I have created a free cheat sheet with the changes that I made to my own disclosure statement after recording this interview (because I too, learned a lot) and I'm happy to share this with you. DM me on Linkedin or just shoot me an email (drlisa@growingself.com).

xo, Lisa

= There's something none of us want to deal with, but absolutely need to be prepared for: getting subpoenaed to testify in court. The moment that letter lands on your desk, the panic sets in—What can I say? What can’t I say? How do I protect my client’s confidentiality while also following the law? And of course, the biggest worry of all: What if I mess this up?

Breathe. I’m here to help! I brought in family law expert Rich Harris—an attorney who knows this world inside and out—to break it all down for you. In this episode, we’re talking about what to do when you get served with a subpoena, how to avoid big legal mistakes, and steps to safeguard yourself before this happens.

Don't wait until you're in the hot seat—listen now so you can be prepared, protected, and empowered.

Timestamps: 00:00 Getting Subpoenaed is So Stressful! 00:42 Meet Our Legal Expert: Rich Harris 02:05 Your First Steps After Receiving a Subpoena 03:22 Do You Really Have to Testify? Here’s the Truth 08:07 How to Protect Client Confidentiality Like a Pro 12:15 The #1 Mistake Therapists Make With Legal Cases 15:18 Subpoenas in Custody Cases—What You Need to Know 20:53 How to Challenge an Improper Subpoena 26:43 Scam Alert! The Dangerous Hoax Targeting Therapists 30:18 Court Testimony Tips: How to Stay Calm and Confident 34:21 What to Say (and Not Say) If You Have to Testify 41:52 Want to Become a Custody Evaluator? Here’s How! 47:16 Legal Resources

I hope this episode helps ease any legal anxiety you might have.  There's more where that came from so let's stay connected. Subscribe to the podcast, and I can also keep you up to date with more helpful industry info with my newsletter: Sign up here 

And hey—let’s stay connected on LinkedIn too! It’s a great space to stay in the loop, ask questions, and be part of a community of therapists who get it. Plus, you never know when that one post might save you from a professional headache down the road. Let’s connect —I’d love to see you in my network!

Xoxo

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

P.S. Know a therapist who could use this info? Share this episode with them! 

 

 

]]> 2840 no Why Coaches Can Charge More Than Therapists | E73 https://www.growingself.com/life-coaching-income Ever wondered how a coach with zero credentials is charging triple what you make—and people are lining up to pay them?! It's enough to make any seasoned, licensed, ethics-loving therapist want to throw their DSM across the room. In this juicy episode of Love, Happiness & Success for Therapists, I’m pulling back the curtain on why life coaching income so often leaves therapist rates in the dust.  Coaches are NOT more skilled or more capable of change work. They’re just playing an entirely different game. A game that rewards confidence, clarity, marketing savvy, and outcomes over credentials and clinical nuance. And guess what? You can learn to play that game too—without compromising your values, your license, or your integrity. I’m sharing: The major reasons coaches earn more than therapists (and how to shift that narrative) How to talk about your services in a way that commands higher rates (ethically) Why the coaching model unlocks new freedom, flexibility, and actual income potential And most importantly, how you can start using this knowledge to your advantage—today. If you’re a therapist who’s tired of being undervalued, underpaid, and boxed in by the medical model, I made this episode for you. Timestamps: 00:00 – Why Coaches Are In Your Lane (and Earning More) 04:01 – Coaching vs. Therapy: What's Really Different? 04:45 – Coaches Are Killing It (Here's Why) 08:43 – You Did the Work—So Why Are You Paid Less? 17:16 – Coaches Sell Outcomes. Therapists Sell... What, Exactly? 26:14 – The Marketing Mindset Shift Therapists Need 28:58 – Free CEU Resources to Get You Started 31:50 – The Invisible Impact of Therapist Identity 36:29 – What’s Ethical in Marketing? Let’s Talk. 41:39 – Getting Credentialed Changes Everything 52:03 – How Therapists Can Command Higher Rates Too If you’re serious about growing your income, expanding your impact, and doing it all without compromising your clinical integrity, now is the time to get your coaching credential. My BCC-accredited Coaching Certification for Therapists is designed exclusively for licensed professionals. You’ll learn evidence-based coaching models, how to ethically differentiate coaching from therapy, how to create offers that reflect your true value, and so much more. And here’s the exciting part: our next cohort starts soon (like, really soon). Don’t miss your chance to join this transformational experience.  👉 Head to my Coaching Certification For Therapists enrollment page to save your spot. Your future self will thank you for it when you’re doing the work that lights you up while attracting your dream clients, earning more, and achieving it all on your own terms. And if we’re not already connected, let’s fix that! Come say hi to me on LinkedIn and join a growing community of big-hearted clinicians who are reimagining what’s possible in this profession. I’d love to hear your story and support you in whatever way I can. Xoxo Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby PS: If this episode sparked something in you, please share it with your colleagues, grad school friends, and therapist groups. Let’s help each other rise. đŸ’Ș   Wed, 09 Jul 2025 22:00:00 -0000 full 1 73 Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Ever wondered how a coach with zero credentials is charging triple what you make—and people are lining up to pay them?! It's enough to make any seasoned, licensed, ethics-loving therapist want to throw their DSM across the room. In this juicy episode of Love, Happiness & Success for Therapists, I’m pulling back the curtain on why life coaching income so often leaves therapist rates in the dust.  Coaches are NOT more skilled or more capable of change work. They’re just playing an entirely different game. A game that rewards confidence, clarity, marketing savvy, and outcomes over credentials and clinical nuance. And guess what? You can learn to play that game too—without compromising your values, your license, or your integrity. I’m sharing: The major reasons coaches earn more than therapists (and how to shift that narrative) How to talk about your services in a way that commands higher rates (ethically) Why the coaching model unlocks new freedom, flexibility, and actual income potential And most importantly, how you can start using this knowledge to your advantage—today. If you’re a therapist who’s tired of being undervalued, underpaid, and boxed in by the medical model, I made this episode for you. Timestamps: 00:00 – Why Coaches Are In Your Lane (and Earning More) 04:01 – Coaching vs. Therapy: What's Really Different? 04:45 – Coaches Are Killing It (Here's Why) 08:43 – You Did the Work—So Why Are You Paid Less? 17:16 – Coaches Sell Outcomes. Therapists Sell... What, Exactly? 26:14 – The Marketing Mindset Shift Therapists Need 28:58 – Free CEU Resources to Get You Started 31:50 – The Invisible Impact of Therapist Identity 36:29 – What’s Ethical in Marketing? Let’s Talk. 41:39 – Getting Credentialed Changes Everything 52:03 – How Therapists Can Command Higher Rates Too If you’re serious about growing your income, expanding your impact, and doing it all without compromising your clinical integrity, now is the time to get your coaching credential. My BCC-accredited Coaching Certification for Therapists is designed exclusively for licensed professionals. You’ll learn evidence-based coaching models, how to ethically differentiate coaching from therapy, how to create offers that reflect your true value, and so much more. And here’s the exciting part: our next cohort starts soon (like, really soon). Don’t miss your chance to join this transformational experience.  👉 Head to my Coaching Certification For Therapists enrollment page to save your spot. Your future self will thank you for it when you’re doing the work that lights you up while attracting your dream clients, earning more, and achieving it all on your own terms. And if we’re not already connected, let’s fix that! Come say hi to me on LinkedIn and join a growing community of big-hearted clinicians who are reimagining what’s possible in this profession. I’d love to hear your story and support you in whatever way I can. Xoxo Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby PS: If this episode sparked something in you, please share it with your colleagues, grad school friends, and therapist groups. Let’s help each other rise. đŸ’Ș   Ever wondered how a coach with zero credentials is charging triple what you make—and people are lining up to pay them?! It's enough to make any seasoned, licensed, ethics-loving therapist want to throw their DSM across the room.

In this juicy episode of Love, Happiness & Success for Therapists, I’m pulling back the curtain on why life coaching income so often leaves therapist rates in the dust. 

Coaches are NOT more skilled or more capable of change work. They’re just playing an entirely different game. A game that rewards confidence, clarity, marketing savvy, and outcomes over credentials and clinical nuance.

And guess what? You can learn to play that game too—without compromising your values, your license, or your integrity.

I’m sharing:

  • The major reasons coaches earn more than therapists (and how to shift that narrative)

  • How to talk about your services in a way that commands higher rates (ethically)

  • Why the coaching model unlocks new freedom, flexibility, and actual income potential

  • And most importantly, how you can start using this knowledge to your advantage—today.

If you’re a therapist who’s tired of being undervalued, underpaid, and boxed in by the medical model, I made this episode for you.

Timestamps:

00:00 – Why Coaches Are In Your Lane (and Earning More) 04:01 – Coaching vs. Therapy: What's Really Different? 04:45 – Coaches Are Killing It (Here's Why) 08:43 – You Did the Work—So Why Are You Paid Less? 17:16 – Coaches Sell Outcomes. Therapists Sell... What, Exactly? 26:14 – The Marketing Mindset Shift Therapists Need 28:58 – Free CEU Resources to Get You Started 31:50 – The Invisible Impact of Therapist Identity 36:29 – What’s Ethical in Marketing? Let’s Talk. 41:39 – Getting Credentialed Changes Everything 52:03 – How Therapists Can Command Higher Rates Too

If you’re serious about growing your income, expanding your impact, and doing it all without compromising your clinical integrity, now is the time to get your coaching credential.

My BCC-accredited Coaching Certification for Therapists is designed exclusively for licensed professionals. You’ll learn evidence-based coaching models, how to ethically differentiate coaching from therapy, how to create offers that reflect your true value, and so much more.

And here’s the exciting part: our next cohort starts soon (like, really soon). Don’t miss your chance to join this transformational experience. 

👉 Head to my Coaching Certification For Therapists enrollment page to save your spot.

Your future self will thank you for it when you’re doing the work that lights you up while attracting your dream clients, earning more, and achieving it all on your own terms.

And if we’re not already connected, let’s fix that! Come say hi to me on LinkedIn and join a growing community of big-hearted clinicians who are reimagining what’s possible in this profession. I’d love to hear your story and support you in whatever way I can.

Xoxo Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

PS: If this episode sparked something in you, please share it with your colleagues, grad school friends, and therapist groups. Let’s help each other rise. đŸ’Ș

 

]]> 3250 no “Do You Take Insurance?” How to Talk to Clients About Self Pay Therapy | E72 https://www.growingself.com/self-pay-therapy/ Ever had a dream client vanish the second you said, “I don’t take insurance”?  In this episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists, I’m breaking down one of the most frustrating, deflating, and pivotal conversations we have in private practice: how to talk to therapy clients about insurance and self-pay therapy (without spiraling, apologizing, or selling yourself short). I walk you through exactly how to handle that record-scratch moment with clarity, confidence, and integrity—so you can stop losing ideal clients and start owning your value. We’ll explore why the insurance model was never built for growth work, how to frame your services outside of the medical model, and how self-pay therapy and coaching can be transformational for both you and your clients. Whether you’re a seasoned pro or just getting started, this conversation will help you rethink the way you show up, speak up, and set yourself up for long-term success. Timestamps: 00:00 – The Insurance Dilemma 02:38 – Empowering Therapists: Navigating Insurance Questions 04:47 – Why Don’t Some Therapists Take Insurance? 06:03 – The Disconnect Between Client Needs and Insurance 07:11 – Ethical Considerations and Challenges 16:47 – Are Self Pay Therapy Clients More Motivated? (Yes. Here's why.) 18:11 – How to Stop Feeling Guilty For Charging Self Pay Rates 25:12 – How to Communicate Your Value 38:36 – Can I Build a Practice Without Taking Insurance? 39:58 – How to Become a Certified Coach as a Therapist 46:36 – Clarity and Confidence in Practice If you’re longing for a practice that aligns with your passion for growth work—it might be time for a new approach. In my BCC-Accredited Coaching Certification for Therapists, I guide licensed clinicians just like you to: Ethically expand beyond the limitations of the insurance model Work confidently with self-pay clients who are motivated and ready to change Learn the language, structure, and mindset of transformational coaching psychology Build a sustainable practice doing the work you actually want to do with your dream clients. This program rewards up to 50 CE hours. Come learn how to create a thriving, ethical, and fulfilling practice from someone who’s walked this road. 👉Enroll by 7/14 to take advantage of our current Expert Experience Summer Bonus: a free month of coaching client referrals to your private practice. Learn more here. And hey—if we haven’t connected on LinkedIn yet, let’s do so! I’d love to follow your journey, cheer you on, and swap notes on what’s working (and what’s not) in our evolving world of therapy and coaching. Come say hi and connect with me right here. Xoxo Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby www.growingself.com P.S. If this episode made you nod, scribble notes, or rethink your client scripts, share it with a fellow therapist or drop it in your favorite consultation group. Let’s rise together. 💛   Wed, 02 Jul 2025 22:00:00 -0000 full 1 72 Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Ever had a dream client vanish the second you said, “I don’t take insurance”?  In this episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists, I’m breaking down one of the most frustrating, deflating, and pivotal conversations we have in private practice: how to talk to therapy clients about insurance and self-pay therapy (without spiraling, apologizing, or selling yourself short). I walk you through exactly how to handle that record-scratch moment with clarity, confidence, and integrity—so you can stop losing ideal clients and start owning your value. We’ll explore why the insurance model was never built for growth work, how to frame your services outside of the medical model, and how self-pay therapy and coaching can be transformational for both you and your clients. Whether you’re a seasoned pro or just getting started, this conversation will help you rethink the way you show up, speak up, and set yourself up for long-term success. Timestamps: 00:00 – The Insurance Dilemma 02:38 – Empowering Therapists: Navigating Insurance Questions 04:47 – Why Don’t Some Therapists Take Insurance? 06:03 – The Disconnect Between Client Needs and Insurance 07:11 – Ethical Considerations and Challenges 16:47 – Are Self Pay Therapy Clients More Motivated? (Yes. Here's why.) 18:11 – How to Stop Feeling Guilty For Charging Self Pay Rates 25:12 – How to Communicate Your Value 38:36 – Can I Build a Practice Without Taking Insurance? 39:58 – How to Become a Certified Coach as a Therapist 46:36 – Clarity and Confidence in Practice If you’re longing for a practice that aligns with your passion for growth work—it might be time for a new approach. In my BCC-Accredited Coaching Certification for Therapists, I guide licensed clinicians just like you to: Ethically expand beyond the limitations of the insurance model Work confidently with self-pay clients who are motivated and ready to change Learn the language, structure, and mindset of transformational coaching psychology Build a sustainable practice doing the work you actually want to do with your dream clients. This program rewards up to 50 CE hours. Come learn how to create a thriving, ethical, and fulfilling practice from someone who’s walked this road. 👉Enroll by 7/14 to take advantage of our current Expert Experience Summer Bonus: a free month of coaching client referrals to your private practice. Learn more here. And hey—if we haven’t connected on LinkedIn yet, let’s do so! I’d love to follow your journey, cheer you on, and swap notes on what’s working (and what’s not) in our evolving world of therapy and coaching. Come say hi and connect with me right here. Xoxo Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby www.growingself.com P.S. If this episode made you nod, scribble notes, or rethink your client scripts, share it with a fellow therapist or drop it in your favorite consultation group. Let’s rise together. 💛   Ever had a dream client vanish the second you said, “I don’t take insurance”? 

In this episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists, I’m breaking down one of the most frustrating, deflating, and pivotal conversations we have in private practice: how to talk to therapy clients about insurance and self-pay therapy (without spiraling, apologizing, or selling yourself short).

I walk you through exactly how to handle that record-scratch moment with clarity, confidence, and integrity—so you can stop losing ideal clients and start owning your value. We’ll explore why the insurance model was never built for growth work, how to frame your services outside of the medical model, and how self-pay therapy and coaching can be transformational for both you and your clients.

Whether you’re a seasoned pro or just getting started, this conversation will help you rethink the way you show up, speak up, and set yourself up for long-term success.

Timestamps: 00:00 – The Insurance Dilemma 02:38 – Empowering Therapists: Navigating Insurance Questions 04:47 – Why Don’t Some Therapists Take Insurance? 06:03 – The Disconnect Between Client Needs and Insurance 07:11 – Ethical Considerations and Challenges 16:47 – Are Self Pay Therapy Clients More Motivated? (Yes. Here's why.) 18:11 – How to Stop Feeling Guilty For Charging Self Pay Rates 25:12 – How to Communicate Your Value 38:36 – Can I Build a Practice Without Taking Insurance? 39:58 – How to Become a Certified Coach as a Therapist 46:36 – Clarity and Confidence in Practice

If you’re longing for a practice that aligns with your passion for growth work—it might be time for a new approach.

In my BCC-Accredited Coaching Certification for Therapists, I guide licensed clinicians just like you to:

  • Ethically expand beyond the limitations of the insurance model

  • Work confidently with self-pay clients who are motivated and ready to change

  • Learn the language, structure, and mindset of transformational coaching psychology

  • Build a sustainable practice doing the work you actually want to do with your dream clients.

This program rewards up to 50 CE hours. Come learn how to create a thriving, ethical, and fulfilling practice from someone who’s walked this road.

👉Enroll by 7/14 to take advantage of our current Expert Experience Summer Bonus: a free month of coaching client referrals to your private practice. Learn more here.

And hey—if we haven’t connected on LinkedIn yet, let’s do so! I’d love to follow your journey, cheer you on, and swap notes on what’s working (and what’s not) in our evolving world of therapy and coaching. Come say hi and connect with me right here.

Xoxo

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

www.growingself.com

P.S. If this episode made you nod, scribble notes, or rethink your client scripts, share it with a fellow therapist or drop it in your favorite consultation group. Let’s rise together. 💛

 

]]> 2907 no Can Therapists Give Advice? How to Empower Clients While Staying Ethical | E71 https://www.growingself.com/can-therapists-give-advice Ever had a client look at you, desperate for help, and ask, “What should I do?” Today, I’m pulling back the curtain on a dilemma that I hear from therapists all the time: “My clients are stuck, they need direction, and they’re asking me for advice. But I’m supposed to stay neutral, right?”  On one hand, we want to help, but on the other, we’ve been trained to stay neutral and let the client find their own answers. So can therapists give advice? What’s the right move when your client is stuck and clearly craving direction? In this episode of Love, Happiness and Success For Therapists, we're diving into the inner conflict therapists face between sticking to our non-directive, empathetic listening style and providing the more concrete guidance that many clients are asking for. I’ll also show how evidence-based coaching can complement therapy in a powerful way and provide that direction in your sessions. You’ll get clear, actionable steps on how to navigate this tricky balance—without stepping outside of your ethical boundaries. You don’t want to miss this! Timestamps: 00:00 - Introduction: The Therapist's Dilemma 02:49 - What Is the Role of a Therapist? 06:35 - Why Do Therapists Struggle to Be More Direct? 09:16 - How to Balance Client Expectations with Therapeutic Boundaries 15:19 - Is Coaching the Solution? 20:24 - What's the Difference Between Therapy and Coaching? 27:38 - How Can Therapists Become Certified Coaches? 34:29 - Resources for Therapists and Coaches If you’re feeling inspired by what I’ve shared and you’re ready to give your clients the directive support that they need, I’d love to invite you to take the next step in your professional development with my BCC-Accredited Coaching Certification for Therapists.  This program is designed specifically for therapists like you who want to build coaching competencies while staying within the ethical boundaries of your practice. You’ll receive 30 CEU credits for completing the certification and walk away with the skills to deliver more actionable, client-centered guidance that will help your clients get the results they’re asking for.  👉 Transform your practice by learning how to coach. If you want to stay updated on the latest podcast episodes, learn about upcoming free CEU webinars, and be a part of a supportive professional network, I’d love to connect with you on LinkedIn! Find me at Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby. I share research, training opportunities, and news updates to help you grow, develop new skills, and thrive! Xoxo Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby www.growingself.com PS: If you found this episode valuable, think about someone in your professional community who could benefit from this conversation. Share it with them, and let’s keep the discussion going!   Wed, 25 Jun 2025 22:00:00 -0000 full 1 71 Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Ever had a client look at you, desperate for help, and ask, “What should I do?” Today, I’m pulling back the curtain on a dilemma that I hear from therapists all the time: “My clients are stuck, they need direction, and they’re asking me for advice. But I’m supposed to stay neutral, right?”  On one hand, we want to help, but on the other, we’ve been trained to stay neutral and let the client find their own answers. So can therapists give advice? What’s the right move when your client is stuck and clearly craving direction? In this episode of Love, Happiness and Success For Therapists, we're diving into the inner conflict therapists face between sticking to our non-directive, empathetic listening style and providing the more concrete guidance that many clients are asking for. I’ll also show how evidence-based coaching can complement therapy in a powerful way and provide that direction in your sessions. You’ll get clear, actionable steps on how to navigate this tricky balance—without stepping outside of your ethical boundaries. You don’t want to miss this! Timestamps: 00:00 - Introduction: The Therapist's Dilemma 02:49 - What Is the Role of a Therapist? 06:35 - Why Do Therapists Struggle to Be More Direct? 09:16 - How to Balance Client Expectations with Therapeutic Boundaries 15:19 - Is Coaching the Solution? 20:24 - What's the Difference Between Therapy and Coaching? 27:38 - How Can Therapists Become Certified Coaches? 34:29 - Resources for Therapists and Coaches If you’re feeling inspired by what I’ve shared and you’re ready to give your clients the directive support that they need, I’d love to invite you to take the next step in your professional development with my BCC-Accredited Coaching Certification for Therapists.  This program is designed specifically for therapists like you who want to build coaching competencies while staying within the ethical boundaries of your practice. You’ll receive 30 CEU credits for completing the certification and walk away with the skills to deliver more actionable, client-centered guidance that will help your clients get the results they’re asking for.  👉 Transform your practice by learning how to coach. If you want to stay updated on the latest podcast episodes, learn about upcoming free CEU webinars, and be a part of a supportive professional network, I’d love to connect with you on LinkedIn! Find me at Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby. I share research, training opportunities, and news updates to help you grow, develop new skills, and thrive! Xoxo Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby www.growingself.com PS: If you found this episode valuable, think about someone in your professional community who could benefit from this conversation. Share it with them, and let’s keep the discussion going!   Ever had a client look at you, desperate for help, and ask, “What should I do?” Today, I’m pulling back the curtain on a dilemma that I hear from therapists all the time: “My clients are stuck, they need direction, and they’re asking me for advice. But I’m supposed to stay neutral, right?” 

On one hand, we want to help, but on the other, we’ve been trained to stay neutral and let the client find their own answers. So can therapists give advice? What’s the right move when your client is stuck and clearly craving direction?

In this episode of Love, Happiness and Success For Therapists, we're diving into the inner conflict therapists face between sticking to our non-directive, empathetic listening style and providing the more concrete guidance that many clients are asking for.

I’ll also show how evidence-based coaching can complement therapy in a powerful way and provide that direction in your sessions. You’ll get clear, actionable steps on how to navigate this tricky balance—without stepping outside of your ethical boundaries. You don’t want to miss this!

Timestamps: 00:00 - Introduction: The Therapist's Dilemma 02:49 - What Is the Role of a Therapist? 06:35 - Why Do Therapists Struggle to Be More Direct? 09:16 - How to Balance Client Expectations with Therapeutic Boundaries 15:19 - Is Coaching the Solution? 20:24 - What's the Difference Between Therapy and Coaching? 27:38 - How Can Therapists Become Certified Coaches? 34:29 - Resources for Therapists and Coaches

If you’re feeling inspired by what I’ve shared and you’re ready to give your clients the directive support that they need, I’d love to invite you to take the next step in your professional development with my BCC-Accredited Coaching Certification for Therapists. 

This program is designed specifically for therapists like you who want to build coaching competencies while staying within the ethical boundaries of your practice. You’ll receive 30 CEU credits for completing the certification and walk away with the skills to deliver more actionable, client-centered guidance that will help your clients get the results they’re asking for. 

👉 Transform your practice by learning how to coach.

If you want to stay updated on the latest podcast episodes, learn about upcoming free CEU webinars, and be a part of a supportive professional network, I’d love to connect with you on LinkedIn! Find me at Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby. I share research, training opportunities, and news updates to help you grow, develop new skills, and thrive!

Xoxo

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

www.growingself.com

PS: If you found this episode valuable, think about someone in your professional community who could benefit from this conversation. Share it with them, and let’s keep the discussion going!

 

]]> 2427 no Fake Therapy: How 7 Cups Stole Real Therapists’ Identities to Scam Clients | E70 http://www.growingself.com/fake-therapy-7-cups Therapists, what if I told you your photo, credentials, and carefully crafted bio might be sitting on a website you never signed up for—used to funnel therapy-seeking clients into fake therapy phishing scams?  I know you might be thinking, “That could never happen to me
” But it’s a rapidly increasing issue that’s affecting therapists across the country right this second. And it could happen to you too. In this episode of Love, Happiness and Success for Therapists, I’m digging into the disturbing world of fake therapy platforms, profile scraping, and the deceptive tactics being used by some online therapy sites.  Joining me are powerhouse investigative journalists Rebecca Ruiz of Mashable and Lauren Krouse of Everyday Health, who have been on the frontlines of uncovering how these scams operate (particularly, 7 Cups online therapy) and how they’re hurting both clinicians and clients alike. If you’re in private practice, or even just listing your services online, you must listen to this. Timestamps: 04:11 – The Moment You Realize: “That’s My Face—On a Site I Never Signed Up For” 08:32 – Chatrooms Masquerading as Mental Health Care 13:50 – Real Therapists, Real Rage: The Emotional Toll of Being Impersonated 19:45 – How Big Tech and SEO Are Silencing Ethical Therapists 27:12 – Take Back Your Identity: What You Can Do Right Now 36:07 – It’s Bigger Than 7 Cups: AI, Fake Licenses, and the Future of Therapy If you're now frantically Googling your name—please know that you are not alone in this. I’m committed to helping ethical therapists like you stay informed and protected in this rapidly evolving landscape. I talk about issues like these in my For Therapists Newsletter—which includes updates on new interviews with experts in our field, strategies for navigating the business of private practice, self-care tips for therapists, and updates on urgent news like the 7 Cups fake therapy situation.  You’ll always be in the loop with the latest on how to protect your practice, support your clients, and thrive in this evolving digital landscape. I hope you check it out.  👉 Sign up to get crucial updates just for therapists. And let’s stay in conversation. I share breaking updates, announcements about my free CEU trainings for therapists, and thoughtful discussions on LinkedIn almost daily. Connect with me there so we can continue to educate, advocate, and elevate this profession together. 👉 You can find me on LinkedIn here.  Xoxo Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby www.growingself.com P.S. If you found this article helpful, I hope you’ll take a moment to share it with a colleague or your professional community. This information could protect someone else’s career—or their clients’ well-being. Let’s keep each other safe out there. 💛   Wed, 18 Jun 2025 22:00:00 -0000 full 1 70 Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Therapists, what if I told you your photo, credentials, and carefully crafted bio might be sitting on a website you never signed up for—used to funnel therapy-seeking clients into fake therapy phishing scams?  I know you might be thinking, “That could never happen to me
” But it’s a rapidly increasing issue that’s affecting therapists across the country right this second. And it could happen to you too. In this episode of Love, Happiness and Success for Therapists, I’m digging into the disturbing world of fake therapy platforms, profile scraping, and the deceptive tactics being used by some online therapy sites.  Joining me are powerhouse investigative journalists Rebecca Ruiz of Mashable and Lauren Krouse of Everyday Health, who have been on the frontlines of uncovering how these scams operate (particularly, 7 Cups online therapy) and how they’re hurting both clinicians and clients alike. If you’re in private practice, or even just listing your services online, you must listen to this. Timestamps: 04:11 – The Moment You Realize: “That’s My Face—On a Site I Never Signed Up For” 08:32 – Chatrooms Masquerading as Mental Health Care 13:50 – Real Therapists, Real Rage: The Emotional Toll of Being Impersonated 19:45 – How Big Tech and SEO Are Silencing Ethical Therapists 27:12 – Take Back Your Identity: What You Can Do Right Now 36:07 – It’s Bigger Than 7 Cups: AI, Fake Licenses, and the Future of Therapy If you're now frantically Googling your name—please know that you are not alone in this. I’m committed to helping ethical therapists like you stay informed and protected in this rapidly evolving landscape. I talk about issues like these in my For Therapists Newsletter—which includes updates on new interviews with experts in our field, strategies for navigating the business of private practice, self-care tips for therapists, and updates on urgent news like the 7 Cups fake therapy situation.  You’ll always be in the loop with the latest on how to protect your practice, support your clients, and thrive in this evolving digital landscape. I hope you check it out.  👉 Sign up to get crucial updates just for therapists. And let’s stay in conversation. I share breaking updates, announcements about my free CEU trainings for therapists, and thoughtful discussions on LinkedIn almost daily. Connect with me there so we can continue to educate, advocate, and elevate this profession together. 👉 You can find me on LinkedIn here.  Xoxo Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby www.growingself.com P.S. If you found this article helpful, I hope you’ll take a moment to share it with a colleague or your professional community. This information could protect someone else’s career—or their clients’ well-being. Let’s keep each other safe out there. 💛   Therapists, what if I told you your photo, credentials, and carefully crafted bio might be sitting on a website you never signed up for—used to funnel therapy-seeking clients into fake therapy phishing scams? 

I know you might be thinking, “That could never happen to me
” But it’s a rapidly increasing issue that’s affecting therapists across the country right this second. And it could happen to you too.

In this episode of Love, Happiness and Success for Therapists, I’m digging into the disturbing world of fake therapy platforms, profile scraping, and the deceptive tactics being used by some online therapy sites. 

Joining me are powerhouse investigative journalists Rebecca Ruiz of Mashable and Lauren Krouse of Everyday Health, who have been on the frontlines of uncovering how these scams operate (particularly, 7 Cups online therapy) and how they’re hurting both clinicians and clients alike.

If you’re in private practice, or even just listing your services online, you must listen to this.

Timestamps: 04:11 – The Moment You Realize: “That’s My Face—On a Site I Never Signed Up For” 08:32 – Chatrooms Masquerading as Mental Health Care 13:50 – Real Therapists, Real Rage: The Emotional Toll of Being Impersonated 19:45 – How Big Tech and SEO Are Silencing Ethical Therapists 27:12 – Take Back Your Identity: What You Can Do Right Now 36:07 – It’s Bigger Than 7 Cups: AI, Fake Licenses, and the Future of Therapy

If you're now frantically Googling your name—please know that you are not alone in this. I’m committed to helping ethical therapists like you stay informed and protected in this rapidly evolving landscape.

I talk about issues like these in my For Therapists Newsletter—which includes updates on new interviews with experts in our field, strategies for navigating the business of private practice, self-care tips for therapists, and updates on urgent news like the 7 Cups fake therapy situation. 

You’ll always be in the loop with the latest on how to protect your practice, support your clients, and thrive in this evolving digital landscape. I hope you check it out. 

👉 Sign up to get crucial updates just for therapists.

And let’s stay in conversation. I share breaking updates, announcements about my free CEU trainings for therapists, and thoughtful discussions on LinkedIn almost daily. Connect with me there so we can continue to educate, advocate, and elevate this profession together.

👉 You can find me on LinkedIn here. 

Xoxo Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby www.growingself.com

P.S. If you found this article helpful, I hope you’ll take a moment to share it with a colleague or your professional community. This information could protect someone else’s career—or their clients’ well-being. Let’s keep each other safe out there. 💛

 

]]> 1714 no Ethical Dilemmas: When Therapy Clients Refer Their Friends! | LHSFT Classic E14 https://www.growingself.com/when-therapy-clients-refer-their-friends Have you ever gotten that really sweet message from a client saying, “Hey, I told my friend about you—they’re reaching out!” and felt
 conflicted? On the one hand, it’s a huge compliment. On the other? It throws you right into the middle of an ethical tightrope walk. When therapy clients refer their friends, it can feel like walking a fine line between appreciation and professional chaos. In this episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists, I’ll share a behind-the-scenes story from my own practice where a client referred a friend—who happened to be their business partner—and how things unraveled when their relationship did.  I’ll also unpack the professional risks, the emotional tug-of-war, and the subtle ethical conflicts that can arise when our good intentions collide with real-world complexity. Plus, how to set therapeutic boundaries and redirect referrals. Timestamps: 00:00 - The Ethical Grey Area of Friend Referrals 03:49 - Handling Referrals from Clients 07:29 - Redirecting Personal Referrals 15:15 - Handling Unexpected Client Connections 19:00 - Practicing Ethical Boundaries 20:41 - Gray Areas and Subtle Ethical Dilemmas If navigating tricky situations like when therapy clients refer their friends makes you crave more thoughtful guidance, you’re not alone—and I’ve got you. Every week in my Newsletter For Therapists, I share real-world insights, practical strategies, and honest reflections just like this one to help you grow into the most grounded, ethical, and empowered version of your therapist self. It’s a space for support, connection, and learning—because you deserve to feel confident in your clinical decisions. 👉 Sign up for the newsletter here and let’s keep growing together. And hey, if this topic hit home for you, come connect with me on LinkedIn! Let’s keep the conversation going and build a professional community where we can show up, support each other, and thrive.  Xoxo Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby www.growingself.com P.S. — If you know a friend or colleague who'd benefit from this chat, send it over to them. It could be exactly what they need to hear to get out of a sticky situation.   Wed, 11 Jun 2025 22:10:00 -0000 full 1 Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Have you ever gotten that really sweet message from a client saying, “Hey, I told my friend about you—they’re reaching out!” and felt
 conflicted? On the one hand, it’s a huge compliment. On the other? It throws you right into the middle of an ethical tightrope walk. When therapy clients refer their friends, it can feel like walking a fine line between appreciation and professional chaos. In this episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists, I’ll share a behind-the-scenes story from my own practice where a client referred a friend—who happened to be their business partner—and how things unraveled when their relationship did.  I’ll also unpack the professional risks, the emotional tug-of-war, and the subtle ethical conflicts that can arise when our good intentions collide with real-world complexity. Plus, how to set therapeutic boundaries and redirect referrals. Timestamps: 00:00 - The Ethical Grey Area of Friend Referrals 03:49 - Handling Referrals from Clients 07:29 - Redirecting Personal Referrals 15:15 - Handling Unexpected Client Connections 19:00 - Practicing Ethical Boundaries 20:41 - Gray Areas and Subtle Ethical Dilemmas If navigating tricky situations like when therapy clients refer their friends makes you crave more thoughtful guidance, you’re not alone—and I’ve got you. Every week in my Newsletter For Therapists, I share real-world insights, practical strategies, and honest reflections just like this one to help you grow into the most grounded, ethical, and empowered version of your therapist self. It’s a space for support, connection, and learning—because you deserve to feel confident in your clinical decisions. 👉 Sign up for the newsletter here and let’s keep growing together. And hey, if this topic hit home for you, come connect with me on LinkedIn! Let’s keep the conversation going and build a professional community where we can show up, support each other, and thrive.  Xoxo Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby www.growingself.com P.S. — If you know a friend or colleague who'd benefit from this chat, send it over to them. It could be exactly what they need to hear to get out of a sticky situation.   Have you ever gotten that really sweet message from a client saying, “Hey, I told my friend about you—they’re reaching out!” and felt
 conflicted? On the one hand, it’s a huge compliment. On the other? It throws you right into the middle of an ethical tightrope walk. When therapy clients refer their friends, it can feel like walking a fine line between appreciation and professional chaos.

In this episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists, I’ll share a behind-the-scenes story from my own practice where a client referred a friend—who happened to be their business partner—and how things unraveled when their relationship did. 

I’ll also unpack the professional risks, the emotional tug-of-war, and the subtle ethical conflicts that can arise when our good intentions collide with real-world complexity. Plus, how to set therapeutic boundaries and redirect referrals.

Timestamps: 00:00 - The Ethical Grey Area of Friend Referrals 03:49 - Handling Referrals from Clients 07:29 - Redirecting Personal Referrals 15:15 - Handling Unexpected Client Connections 19:00 - Practicing Ethical Boundaries 20:41 - Gray Areas and Subtle Ethical Dilemmas

If navigating tricky situations like when therapy clients refer their friends makes you crave more thoughtful guidance, you’re not alone—and I’ve got you. Every week in my Newsletter For Therapists, I share real-world insights, practical strategies, and honest reflections just like this one to help you grow into the most grounded, ethical, and empowered version of your therapist self. It’s a space for support, connection, and learning—because you deserve to feel confident in your clinical decisions. 👉 Sign up for the newsletter here and let’s keep growing together.

And hey, if this topic hit home for you, come connect with me on LinkedIn! Let’s keep the conversation going and build a professional community where we can show up, support each other, and thrive. 

Xoxo Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby www.growingself.com

P.S. — If you know a friend or colleague who'd benefit from this chat, send it over to them. It could be exactly what they need to hear to get out of a sticky situation.

 

]]> 1575 no The Internal Family Systems (IFS) Revolution — with Dr. Dick Schwartz | LHSFT Classic E48 https://www.growingself.com/internal-family-systems-training   Ever felt like you’re missing that one tool in your therapy toolkit that could help your clients truly heal and reconnect with their best selves? Well, in today’s episode of Love, Happiness and Success for Therapists, I’m chatting with Dr. Dick Schwartz, founder of the Internal Family Systems (IFS) model, about the power of IFS and how it can be a game-changer for your clients. IFS is more than just a therapy model—it's a transformative approach that helps clients access their own core Self, heal their internal wounds, and lead their lives with compassion, confidence, and calm. It's about connecting with the different "parts" of our psyche and fostering self-leadership.  You’ll leave this episode with a deeper understanding of IFS and how it can benefit both your clients and your practice. Whether you’re just starting out or already familiar with IFS, this conversation is packed with wisdom, insights, and actionable steps that you can start applying right away. Timestamps: 00:00 - Introduction to Internal Family Systems (IFS) 01:07 - Understanding the Core Concepts of IFS 06:03 - The Role of the Therapist in IFS 08:55 - Challenges and Insights in IFS Therapy 19:48 - Outcome Research and Broader Applications 25:12 - Legacy Burdens and Cultural Impact 29:14 - Resources and Training for Therapists 33:47 - Conclusion and Final Thoughts I learned so much from this episode, and I hope you did, too. My mission is to empower, inspire, and care for therapists like you by sharing meaningful conversations, evidence-based insights, and practical tools to help you thrive personally and professionally.  Let’s stay connected so I can keep you in the loop about new episodes, resources, and ideas that make a difference in your life. Sign up for my newsletter right here and join a community that’s all about lifting each other up. You give so much to others—it’s time someone’s here to support you. Also, if you found this helpful, pass it along to your professional community—we’re all in this together. ❀ Xoxo Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby www.growingself.com PS: I’d love to connect with you on LinkedIn and be part of this amazing therapist community! Join me here: Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby on LinkedIn. Fri, 06 Jun 2025 23:00:00 -0000 full 1 Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby   Ever felt like you’re missing that one tool in your therapy toolkit that could help your clients truly heal and reconnect with their best selves? Well, in today’s episode of Love, Happiness and Success for Therapists, I’m chatting with Dr. Dick Schwartz, founder of the Internal Family Systems (IFS) model, about the power of IFS and how it can be a game-changer for your clients. IFS is more than just a therapy model—it's a transformative approach that helps clients access their own core Self, heal their internal wounds, and lead their lives with compassion, confidence, and calm. It's about connecting with the different "parts" of our psyche and fostering self-leadership.  You’ll leave this episode with a deeper understanding of IFS and how it can benefit both your clients and your practice. Whether you’re just starting out or already familiar with IFS, this conversation is packed with wisdom, insights, and actionable steps that you can start applying right away. Timestamps: 00:00 - Introduction to Internal Family Systems (IFS) 01:07 - Understanding the Core Concepts of IFS 06:03 - The Role of the Therapist in IFS 08:55 - Challenges and Insights in IFS Therapy 19:48 - Outcome Research and Broader Applications 25:12 - Legacy Burdens and Cultural Impact 29:14 - Resources and Training for Therapists 33:47 - Conclusion and Final Thoughts I learned so much from this episode, and I hope you did, too. My mission is to empower, inspire, and care for therapists like you by sharing meaningful conversations, evidence-based insights, and practical tools to help you thrive personally and professionally.  Let’s stay connected so I can keep you in the loop about new episodes, resources, and ideas that make a difference in your life. Sign up for my newsletter right here and join a community that’s all about lifting each other up. You give so much to others—it’s time someone’s here to support you. Also, if you found this helpful, pass it along to your professional community—we’re all in this together. ❀ Xoxo Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby www.growingself.com PS: I’d love to connect with you on LinkedIn and be part of this amazing therapist community! Join me here: Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby on LinkedIn.  

Ever felt like you’re missing that one tool in your therapy toolkit that could help your clients truly heal and reconnect with their best selves? Well, in today’s episode of Love, Happiness and Success for Therapists, I’m chatting with Dr. Dick Schwartz, founder of the Internal Family Systems (IFS) model, about the power of IFS and how it can be a game-changer for your clients.

IFS is more than just a therapy model—it's a transformative approach that helps clients access their own core Self, heal their internal wounds, and lead their lives with compassion, confidence, and calm. It's about connecting with the different "parts" of our psyche and fostering self-leadership. 

You’ll leave this episode with a deeper understanding of IFS and how it can benefit both your clients and your practice. Whether you’re just starting out or already familiar with IFS, this conversation is packed with wisdom, insights, and actionable steps that you can start applying right away.

Timestamps:

  • 00:00 - Introduction to Internal Family Systems (IFS)

  • 01:07 - Understanding the Core Concepts of IFS

  • 06:03 - The Role of the Therapist in IFS

  • 08:55 - Challenges and Insights in IFS Therapy

  • 19:48 - Outcome Research and Broader Applications

  • 25:12 - Legacy Burdens and Cultural Impact

  • 29:14 - Resources and Training for Therapists

  • 33:47 - Conclusion and Final Thoughts

I learned so much from this episode, and I hope you did, too. My mission is to empower, inspire, and care for therapists like you by sharing meaningful conversations, evidence-based insights, and practical tools to help you thrive personally and professionally. 

Let’s stay connected so I can keep you in the loop about new episodes, resources, and ideas that make a difference in your life. Sign up for my newsletter right here and join a community that’s all about lifting each other up. You give so much to others—it’s time someone’s here to support you.

Also, if you found this helpful, pass it along to your professional community—we’re all in this together. ❀

Xoxo

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

www.growingself.com

PS: I’d love to connect with you on LinkedIn and be part of this amazing therapist community! Join me here: Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby on LinkedIn.

]]> 2000 no Helping Therapy Clients (and YOU!) Find Career Clarity and Purpose ft. Suzy Welch | E69 https://www.growingself.com/career-strategist-therapist/ You’re a therapist, not a career strategist, right? That’s what I told myself for years—until the zillionth client sat across from me, looked me dead in the eye, and asked, “What should I do with my life?” Cue the record scratch. Let’s be real: we’re trained to hold emotional space, diagnose, treat, and heal — but when it comes to career development and professional identity? Most of us are flying blind. In this episode, I sit down with the brilliant Suzy Welch — NYU professor, bestselling author, and creator of the Becoming You methodology — to talk about how therapists can help our clients (and ourselves!) find professional clarity, direction, and purpose. We’re talking values alignment, cognitive aptitudes, career mismatches, and that giant existential "Now what?" moment clients bring to our couch. Timestamps: 00:00 - The Noble Work of Therapy 00:38 - The Career Coaching Gap in Therapist Training 01:09 - Meet Suzy Welch: Author, Educator, Career Strategist 02:57 - How “Becoming You” Was Born — and Who It’s For 05:27 - Values, Aptitudes & Purpose: A New Career Coaching Framework 08:24 - Why Most Therapists Are “Winging It” in Career Coaching (and how to stop) 13:10 - Values Mismatch at Work: The Invisible Career Saboteur 15:48 - Coaching ≠ Therapy: Why You Need Both Skill Sets 20:42 - How to Close the Values Gap for You and Your Clients 22:35 - Why Career Coaching Belongs in Therapy Rooms 23:55 - Real-World Tools for Therapists That Create Breakthroughs 25:19 - Becoming You Methodology: Tools, Testing & Transformation 26:26 - Career Discovery for Clients—and Yourself 30:18 - The Emotional Toll of Therapy & Why Specialization Matters 32:34 - Burnout, Vicarious Trauma, and Therapist Career Fit 36:37 - Your Career Deserves Purpose Too 42:37 - Where to Learn More: Trainings, Tools, and Next Steps If you’ve ever felt stuck when clients bring career questions into the therapy room, this conversation will blow your mind and expand your skillset. I’ve also got something for you to get clear on your own career path. I created a free CEU training, 4 Steps to Finding Your Niche as a Therapist to help support us therapists in our own professional development. It’s all about helping you get clear, confident, and aligned. Because before we coach clients through their next chapter, we have to write our own.  👉 You can sign up right here and earn 1 CEU credit when you complete the training and the knowledge check. And hey—let’s stay connected. You can find me on LinkedIn, where I share lots of behind-the-scenes insights, podcast updates, and the occasional nerdy therapist meme. Xoxo Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby www.growingself.com P.S. Know a therapist, coach, or clinician who would love this episode? Be a good colleague and share it with your professional community! 💌 Wed, 04 Jun 2025 21:50:00 -0000 full 1 69 Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby You’re a therapist, not a career strategist, right? That’s what I told myself for years—until the zillionth client sat across from me, looked me dead in the eye, and asked, “What should I do with my life?” Cue the record scratch. Let’s be real: we’re trained to hold emotional space, diagnose, treat, and heal — but when it comes to career development and professional identity? Most of us are flying blind. In this episode, I sit down with the brilliant Suzy Welch — NYU professor, bestselling author, and creator of the Becoming You methodology — to talk about how therapists can help our clients (and ourselves!) find professional clarity, direction, and purpose. We’re talking values alignment, cognitive aptitudes, career mismatches, and that giant existential "Now what?" moment clients bring to our couch. Timestamps: 00:00 - The Noble Work of Therapy 00:38 - The Career Coaching Gap in Therapist Training 01:09 - Meet Suzy Welch: Author, Educator, Career Strategist 02:57 - How “Becoming You” Was Born — and Who It’s For 05:27 - Values, Aptitudes & Purpose: A New Career Coaching Framework 08:24 - Why Most Therapists Are “Winging It” in Career Coaching (and how to stop) 13:10 - Values Mismatch at Work: The Invisible Career Saboteur 15:48 - Coaching ≠ Therapy: Why You Need Both Skill Sets 20:42 - How to Close the Values Gap for You and Your Clients 22:35 - Why Career Coaching Belongs in Therapy Rooms 23:55 - Real-World Tools for Therapists That Create Breakthroughs 25:19 - Becoming You Methodology: Tools, Testing & Transformation 26:26 - Career Discovery for Clients—and Yourself 30:18 - The Emotional Toll of Therapy & Why Specialization Matters 32:34 - Burnout, Vicarious Trauma, and Therapist Career Fit 36:37 - Your Career Deserves Purpose Too 42:37 - Where to Learn More: Trainings, Tools, and Next Steps If you’ve ever felt stuck when clients bring career questions into the therapy room, this conversation will blow your mind and expand your skillset. I’ve also got something for you to get clear on your own career path. I created a free CEU training, 4 Steps to Finding Your Niche as a Therapist to help support us therapists in our own professional development. It’s all about helping you get clear, confident, and aligned. Because before we coach clients through their next chapter, we have to write our own.  👉 You can sign up right here and earn 1 CEU credit when you complete the training and the knowledge check. And hey—let’s stay connected. You can find me on LinkedIn, where I share lots of behind-the-scenes insights, podcast updates, and the occasional nerdy therapist meme. Xoxo Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby www.growingself.com P.S. Know a therapist, coach, or clinician who would love this episode? Be a good colleague and share it with your professional community! 💌 You’re a therapist, not a career strategist, right? That’s what I told myself for years—until the zillionth client sat across from me, looked me dead in the eye, and asked, “What should I do with my life?” Cue the record scratch.

Let’s be real: we’re trained to hold emotional space, diagnose, treat, and heal — but when it comes to career development and professional identity? Most of us are flying blind.

In this episode, I sit down with the brilliant Suzy Welch — NYU professor, bestselling author, and creator of the Becoming You methodology — to talk about how therapists can help our clients (and ourselves!) find professional clarity, direction, and purpose.

We’re talking values alignment, cognitive aptitudes, career mismatches, and that giant existential "Now what?" moment clients bring to our couch. Timestamps: 00:00 - The Noble Work of Therapy 00:38 - The Career Coaching Gap in Therapist Training 01:09 - Meet Suzy Welch: Author, Educator, Career Strategist 02:57 - How “Becoming You” Was Born — and Who It’s For 05:27 - Values, Aptitudes & Purpose: A New Career Coaching Framework 08:24 - Why Most Therapists Are “Winging It” in Career Coaching (and how to stop) 13:10 - Values Mismatch at Work: The Invisible Career Saboteur 15:48 - Coaching ≠ Therapy: Why You Need Both Skill Sets 20:42 - How to Close the Values Gap for You and Your Clients 22:35 - Why Career Coaching Belongs in Therapy Rooms 23:55 - Real-World Tools for Therapists That Create Breakthroughs 25:19 - Becoming You Methodology: Tools, Testing & Transformation 26:26 - Career Discovery for Clients—and Yourself 30:18 - The Emotional Toll of Therapy & Why Specialization Matters 32:34 - Burnout, Vicarious Trauma, and Therapist Career Fit 36:37 - Your Career Deserves Purpose Too 42:37 - Where to Learn More: Trainings, Tools, and Next Steps

If you’ve ever felt stuck when clients bring career questions into the therapy room, this conversation will blow your mind and expand your skillset. I’ve also got something for you to get clear on your own career path.

I created a free CEU training, 4 Steps to Finding Your Niche as a Therapist to help support us therapists in our own professional development. It’s all about helping you get clear, confident, and aligned. Because before we coach clients through their next chapter, we have to write our own. 

👉 You can sign up right here and earn 1 CEU credit when you complete the training and the knowledge check.

And hey—let’s stay connected. You can find me on LinkedIn, where I share lots of behind-the-scenes insights, podcast updates, and the occasional nerdy therapist meme.

Xoxo Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby www.growingself.com

P.S. Know a therapist, coach, or clinician who would love this episode? Be a good colleague and share it with your professional community! 💌

]]> 3062 no Dr. Dan Siegel’s New Approach to Attachment Therapy | LHSFT Classic E39 https://growingself.com/attachment-style-therapy Ever wonder how to truly help your clients build more secure attachment styles? This episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists is for you! I’m sitting down with the brilliant Dr. Daniel Siegel—one of the world’s leading experts in attachment science and childhood development. Together, we’re unpacking the latest research and ideas you can take straight into your practice. Dr. Siegel’s approach goes beyond the basics of attachment theory, blending personality, temperament, and attachment into a powerful framework that creates truly personalized client experiences. This episode is full of actionable insights that’ll not only expand your therapeutic toolkit but also inspire new ways of thinking about the work you do. ✹ Here’s a sneak peek of what we cover: 00:00 — Why Attachment Styles Matter More Than Ever 00:24 — Meet Dr. Siegel: The Mind Behind the Research 03:15 — Moving Beyond Theory: Practical Tools for Attachment and Development 04:30 — Yes, We’re Talking Enneagram in Therapy! 06:43 — Integrating Enneagram & Neurobiology—It’s a Thing 09:39 — Research-Backed Applications You Can Use Today 11:08 — How Personality & Temperament Shape Attachment Styles 15:54 — Real-World Strategies to Transform Your Practice If you’re ready to unlock new therapeutic strategies and create real breakthroughs with your clients, this is an episode you can’t miss. Hit subscribe now so you never miss a beat—and share this episode with other therapists who’d love these insights too. And let’s stay connected on LinkedIn! Join me here to keep the conversation going and be part of an amazing network of therapists. Fri, 30 May 2025 22:00:00 -0000 full 1 Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Ever wonder how to truly help your clients build more secure attachment styles? This episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists is for you! I’m sitting down with the brilliant Dr. Daniel Siegel—one of the world’s leading experts in attachment science and childhood development. Together, we’re unpacking the latest research and ideas you can take straight into your practice. Dr. Siegel’s approach goes beyond the basics of attachment theory, blending personality, temperament, and attachment into a powerful framework that creates truly personalized client experiences. This episode is full of actionable insights that’ll not only expand your therapeutic toolkit but also inspire new ways of thinking about the work you do. ✹ Here’s a sneak peek of what we cover: 00:00 — Why Attachment Styles Matter More Than Ever 00:24 — Meet Dr. Siegel: The Mind Behind the Research 03:15 — Moving Beyond Theory: Practical Tools for Attachment and Development 04:30 — Yes, We’re Talking Enneagram in Therapy! 06:43 — Integrating Enneagram & Neurobiology—It’s a Thing 09:39 — Research-Backed Applications You Can Use Today 11:08 — How Personality & Temperament Shape Attachment Styles 15:54 — Real-World Strategies to Transform Your Practice If you’re ready to unlock new therapeutic strategies and create real breakthroughs with your clients, this is an episode you can’t miss. Hit subscribe now so you never miss a beat—and share this episode with other therapists who’d love these insights too. And let’s stay connected on LinkedIn! Join me here to keep the conversation going and be part of an amazing network of therapists. Ever wonder how to truly help your clients build more secure attachment styles?

This episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists is for you! I’m sitting down with the brilliant Dr. Daniel Siegel—one of the world’s leading experts in attachment science and childhood development. Together, we’re unpacking the latest research and ideas you can take straight into your practice.

Dr. Siegel’s approach goes beyond the basics of attachment theory, blending personality, temperament, and attachment into a powerful framework that creates truly personalized client experiences. This episode is full of actionable insights that’ll not only expand your therapeutic toolkit but also inspire new ways of thinking about the work you do.

✹ Here’s a sneak peek of what we cover:

00:00 — Why Attachment Styles Matter More Than Ever 00:24 — Meet Dr. Siegel: The Mind Behind the Research 03:15 — Moving Beyond Theory: Practical Tools for Attachment and Development 04:30 — Yes, We’re Talking Enneagram in Therapy! 06:43 — Integrating Enneagram & Neurobiology—It’s a Thing 09:39 — Research-Backed Applications You Can Use Today 11:08 — How Personality & Temperament Shape Attachment Styles 15:54 — Real-World Strategies to Transform Your Practice

If you’re ready to unlock new therapeutic strategies and create real breakthroughs with your clients, this is an episode you can’t miss. Hit subscribe now so you never miss a beat—and share this episode with other therapists who’d love these insights too.

And let’s stay connected on LinkedIn! Join me here to keep the conversation going and be part of an amazing network of therapists.

]]> 2238 no How to Start a Private Therapy Practice (Without Burning Out or Going Broke) | E68 https://www.growingself.com/how-to-start-a-private-practice/ You’re craving more freedom, better clients, and real income... but is private practice actually the dream you think it is? In this episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on what it really takes to start a successful private therapy practice—and trust me, it’s not what most therapists expect. Whether you're yearning for more freedom, higher income, or a deeper impact, going solo can be amazing... if you make intentional, informed decisions from day one. I’ll walk you through the crucial questions every therapist needs to answer before jumping into private practice, share the pros and cons of insurance vs. private pay, and unpack the coaching-vs-therapy conversation that so many clinicians miss (at their own risk). This is the conversation I wish someone had with me before I started Growing Self. So consider this your honest, heartfelt, experienced guide to launching a practice that truly supports your life, your energy, and your goals. Timestamps: 00:00 – Do You Want a Private Practice or a Business? 02:15 – What Private Practice Really Involves 12:38 – Door #1: Insurance-Based Practice 17:59 – Door #2: Self-Pay Private Practice 25:10 – Marketing Mistakes Therapists Make 27:05 – Therapy vs. Coaching: Know the Difference 30:35 – What to Do Before You Launch 41:44 – How to Find Your Niche As a Therapist If you’re seriously thinking about starting a private practice, please don’t wing it. Join me in my free CEU training: 4 Steps to Discovering Your Niche as a Therapist. I created it to help you get crystal clear on who you are as a practitioner, who you want to serve, and how to attract your dream clients. It's everything I wish I’d known when I started my private practice. You’ll also receive one CEU credit for completing the training and acing the knowledge check.  👉 Access the Free CEU Training: 4 Steps to Finding Your Niche as a Therapist Also, if you’re in the messy middle of your professional evolution, or if you're just craving more real-talk conversations about the behind-the-scenes of life as a therapist—let’s stay connected. I hang out on LinkedIn more than I probably should (hey, it's where the smart, soulful professionals are). That’s where I share exclusive content for therapists, updates on my latest free CEU trainings, insights into private practice success, and the occasional nerdy deep dive into clinical ethics, coaching, or how to market yourself without selling your soul. I’d love to hear from you!  👉 Come find me on LinkedIn! Xoxo Dr. Lisa Marie Bobbywww.growingself.com P.S. If you found this episode helpful, please share it with a colleague, your supervision group, or anyone else dreaming of going solo. Let’s raise the bar together.   Wed, 28 May 2025 22:00:00 -0000 full 1 68 Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby You’re craving more freedom, better clients, and real income... but is private practice actually the dream you think it is? In this episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on what it really takes to start a successful private therapy practice—and trust me, it’s not what most therapists expect. Whether you're yearning for more freedom, higher income, or a deeper impact, going solo can be amazing... if you make intentional, informed decisions from day one. I’ll walk you through the crucial questions every therapist needs to answer before jumping into private practice, share the pros and cons of insurance vs. private pay, and unpack the coaching-vs-therapy conversation that so many clinicians miss (at their own risk). This is the conversation I wish someone had with me before I started Growing Self. So consider this your honest, heartfelt, experienced guide to launching a practice that truly supports your life, your energy, and your goals. Timestamps: 00:00 – Do You Want a Private Practice or a Business? 02:15 – What Private Practice Really Involves 12:38 – Door #1: Insurance-Based Practice 17:59 – Door #2: Self-Pay Private Practice 25:10 – Marketing Mistakes Therapists Make 27:05 – Therapy vs. Coaching: Know the Difference 30:35 – What to Do Before You Launch 41:44 – How to Find Your Niche As a Therapist If you’re seriously thinking about starting a private practice, please don’t wing it. Join me in my free CEU training: 4 Steps to Discovering Your Niche as a Therapist. I created it to help you get crystal clear on who you are as a practitioner, who you want to serve, and how to attract your dream clients. It's everything I wish I’d known when I started my private practice. You’ll also receive one CEU credit for completing the training and acing the knowledge check.  👉 Access the Free CEU Training: 4 Steps to Finding Your Niche as a Therapist Also, if you’re in the messy middle of your professional evolution, or if you're just craving more real-talk conversations about the behind-the-scenes of life as a therapist—let’s stay connected. I hang out on LinkedIn more than I probably should (hey, it's where the smart, soulful professionals are). That’s where I share exclusive content for therapists, updates on my latest free CEU trainings, insights into private practice success, and the occasional nerdy deep dive into clinical ethics, coaching, or how to market yourself without selling your soul. I’d love to hear from you!  👉 Come find me on LinkedIn! Xoxo Dr. Lisa Marie Bobbywww.growingself.com P.S. If you found this episode helpful, please share it with a colleague, your supervision group, or anyone else dreaming of going solo. Let’s raise the bar together.   You’re craving more freedom, better clients, and real income... but is private practice actually the dream you think it is?

In this episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on what it really takes to start a successful private therapy practice—and trust me, it’s not what most therapists expect.

Whether you're yearning for more freedom, higher income, or a deeper impact, going solo can be amazing... if you make intentional, informed decisions from day one. I’ll walk you through the crucial questions every therapist needs to answer before jumping into private practice, share the pros and cons of insurance vs. private pay, and unpack the coaching-vs-therapy conversation that so many clinicians miss (at their own risk).

This is the conversation I wish someone had with me before I started Growing Self. So consider this your honest, heartfelt, experienced guide to launching a practice that truly supports your life, your energy, and your goals.

Timestamps: 00:00 – Do You Want a Private Practice or a Business? 02:15 – What Private Practice Really Involves 12:38 – Door #1: Insurance-Based Practice 17:59 – Door #2: Self-Pay Private Practice 25:10 – Marketing Mistakes Therapists Make 27:05 – Therapy vs. Coaching: Know the Difference 30:35 – What to Do Before You Launch 41:44 – How to Find Your Niche As a Therapist

If you’re seriously thinking about starting a private practice, please don’t wing it. Join me in my free CEU training: 4 Steps to Discovering Your Niche as a Therapist. I created it to help you get crystal clear on who you are as a practitioner, who you want to serve, and how to attract your dream clients. It's everything I wish I’d known when I started my private practice. You’ll also receive one CEU credit for completing the training and acing the knowledge check. 

👉 Access the Free CEU Training: 4 Steps to Finding Your Niche as a Therapist

Also, if you’re in the messy middle of your professional evolution, or if you're just craving more real-talk conversations about the behind-the-scenes of life as a therapist—let’s stay connected.

I hang out on LinkedIn more than I probably should (hey, it's where the smart, soulful professionals are). That’s where I share exclusive content for therapists, updates on my latest free CEU trainings, insights into private practice success, and the occasional nerdy deep dive into clinical ethics, coaching, or how to market yourself without selling your soul. I’d love to hear from you! 

👉 Come find me on LinkedIn! Xoxo Dr. Lisa Marie Bobbywww.growingself.com

P.S. If you found this episode helpful, please share it with a colleague, your supervision group, or anyone else dreaming of going solo. Let’s raise the bar together.

 

]]> 2866 no Beyond the Brain: How Metabolic Psychiatry Is Transforming Mental Health Care | E67 https://www.growingself.com/metabolic-psychiatry What if your clients' biggest mental health breakthroughs didn’t come from the couch
 but from their body’s cells? That’s the jaw-dropping question we’re exploring in this powerful episode about metabolic psychiatry—a revolutionary approach that connects brain health to metabolic health, and uses targeted ketogenic interventions to help clients fully recover from conditions like depression, anxiety, PTSD, bipolar disorder, and more. I sat down with the brilliant Nicole Laurent, LMHC, a leading voice in metabolic psychiatry, to unpack how what’s happening in our bodies—particularly in our mitochondria—can have a bigger impact on mental health than we ever imagined. If you’ve ever felt frustrated that traditional talk therapy wasn’t enough for your clients, you need to hear this. Nicole’s work is game-changing—and yes, life-saving. Timestamps: 00:29 – What Therapists Are Missing About Mental Health 03:14 – What Is Metabolic Psychiatry, Really? 05:37 – Brain Fog, Insulin Resistance, and Mitochondrial Dysfunction 09:28 – My Personal Health Journey That Changed Everything 13:13 – Nutritional Psychology vs. Metabolic Psychiatry 15:08 – Why Ketogenic Diets Are So Powerful for the Brain 18:12 – Root Causes of Depression and Anxiety: A New Framework 21:57 – Nicole’s Transformation and The Birth of Her Practice 30:17 – Ketogenic Therapy in Practice: What It Actually Looks Like 30:42 – How Therapists Can Ethically Collaborate on This Work 34:54 – What a Metabolic Psychiatry Treatment Team Includes 36:49 – Debunking the “Chemical Imbalance” Myth 40:30 – Recovery Is Possible: Beyond Managing Symptoms 54:10 – Resources For Therapists If you loved this conversation and want more like it, be sure to sign up for my For Therapist’s weekly newsletter. It’s where I share new episodes, research highlights, thoughtful tools, and free professional development resources—all designed to support your growth and fulfillment as a clinician. You’ll be the first to know what’s new, what’s next, and how to bring it into your practice in a meaningful way. And hey—come connect with me on LinkedIn. I love connecting with thoughtful, forward-thinking therapists like you who are committed to evolving our field together. Send me a request, share your thoughts on the episode, and let’s keep the conversation going. Together, we can create a new era of therapy—one that honors both the mind and the body.  Xoxo Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby www.growingself.com P.S. If you know a friend or colleague who would love to learn more about metabolic psychiatry, send this episode their way. It could be the thing that changes their clients’ outcomes. Wed, 21 May 2025 22:13:00 -0000 full 1 67 Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby What if your clients' biggest mental health breakthroughs didn’t come from the couch
 but from their body’s cells? That’s the jaw-dropping question we’re exploring in this powerful episode about metabolic psychiatry—a revolutionary approach that connects brain health to metabolic health, and uses targeted ketogenic interventions to help clients fully recover from conditions like depression, anxiety, PTSD, bipolar disorder, and more. I sat down with the brilliant Nicole Laurent, LMHC, a leading voice in metabolic psychiatry, to unpack how what’s happening in our bodies—particularly in our mitochondria—can have a bigger impact on mental health than we ever imagined. If you’ve ever felt frustrated that traditional talk therapy wasn’t enough for your clients, you need to hear this. Nicole’s work is game-changing—and yes, life-saving. Timestamps: 00:29 – What Therapists Are Missing About Mental Health 03:14 – What Is Metabolic Psychiatry, Really? 05:37 – Brain Fog, Insulin Resistance, and Mitochondrial Dysfunction 09:28 – My Personal Health Journey That Changed Everything 13:13 – Nutritional Psychology vs. Metabolic Psychiatry 15:08 – Why Ketogenic Diets Are So Powerful for the Brain 18:12 – Root Causes of Depression and Anxiety: A New Framework 21:57 – Nicole’s Transformation and The Birth of Her Practice 30:17 – Ketogenic Therapy in Practice: What It Actually Looks Like 30:42 – How Therapists Can Ethically Collaborate on This Work 34:54 – What a Metabolic Psychiatry Treatment Team Includes 36:49 – Debunking the “Chemical Imbalance” Myth 40:30 – Recovery Is Possible: Beyond Managing Symptoms 54:10 – Resources For Therapists If you loved this conversation and want more like it, be sure to sign up for my For Therapist’s weekly newsletter. It’s where I share new episodes, research highlights, thoughtful tools, and free professional development resources—all designed to support your growth and fulfillment as a clinician. You’ll be the first to know what’s new, what’s next, and how to bring it into your practice in a meaningful way. And hey—come connect with me on LinkedIn. I love connecting with thoughtful, forward-thinking therapists like you who are committed to evolving our field together. Send me a request, share your thoughts on the episode, and let’s keep the conversation going. Together, we can create a new era of therapy—one that honors both the mind and the body.  Xoxo Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby www.growingself.com P.S. If you know a friend or colleague who would love to learn more about metabolic psychiatry, send this episode their way. It could be the thing that changes their clients’ outcomes. What if your clients' biggest mental health breakthroughs didn’t come from the couch
 but from their body’s cells?

That’s the jaw-dropping question we’re exploring in this powerful episode about metabolic psychiatry—a revolutionary approach that connects brain health to metabolic health, and uses targeted ketogenic interventions to help clients fully recover from conditions like depression, anxiety, PTSD, bipolar disorder, and more.

I sat down with the brilliant Nicole Laurent, LMHC, a leading voice in metabolic psychiatry, to unpack how what’s happening in our bodies—particularly in our mitochondria—can have a bigger impact on mental health than we ever imagined. If you’ve ever felt frustrated that traditional talk therapy wasn’t enough for your clients, you need to hear this. Nicole’s work is game-changing—and yes, life-saving. Timestamps: 00:29 – What Therapists Are Missing About Mental Health 03:14 – What Is Metabolic Psychiatry, Really? 05:37 – Brain Fog, Insulin Resistance, and Mitochondrial Dysfunction 09:28 – My Personal Health Journey That Changed Everything 13:13 – Nutritional Psychology vs. Metabolic Psychiatry 15:08 – Why Ketogenic Diets Are So Powerful for the Brain 18:12 – Root Causes of Depression and Anxiety: A New Framework 21:57 – Nicole’s Transformation and The Birth of Her Practice 30:17 – Ketogenic Therapy in Practice: What It Actually Looks Like 30:42 – How Therapists Can Ethically Collaborate on This Work 34:54 – What a Metabolic Psychiatry Treatment Team Includes 36:49 – Debunking the “Chemical Imbalance” Myth 40:30 – Recovery Is Possible: Beyond Managing Symptoms 54:10 – Resources For Therapists If you loved this conversation and want more like it, be sure to sign up for my For Therapist’s weekly newsletter. It’s where I share new episodes, research highlights, thoughtful tools, and free professional development resources—all designed to support your growth and fulfillment as a clinician. You’ll be the first to know what’s new, what’s next, and how to bring it into your practice in a meaningful way.

And hey—come connect with me on LinkedIn. I love connecting with thoughtful, forward-thinking therapists like you who are committed to evolving our field together. Send me a request, share your thoughts on the episode, and let’s keep the conversation going. Together, we can create a new era of therapy—one that honors both the mind and the body. 

Xoxo Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby www.growingself.com

P.S. If you know a friend or colleague who would love to learn more about metabolic psychiatry, send this episode their way. It could be the thing that changes their clients’ outcomes.

]]> 3742 no Treat the Pain AND Grow the Good: Applying Positive Psychology in Therapy Sessions | E66 https://www.growingself.com/principles-of-positive-psychology-and-well-being What if your therapy sessions could do more than heal pain—what if they could help your clients flourish? In this energizing episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists, I sat down with two powerhouse guests—Dr. Nick Holton and Dr. Adam Wright—to dive deep into the principles of positive psychology and well-being, and how we can use them to support our clients’ growth in powerful, practical ways. We’re talking about going beyond symptom management. This is about strengths, meaning, motivation, and helping people move from stuck to soaring. Whether you’re a seasoned clinician or just starting out, this conversation will get you thinking in fresh, exciting directions. Timestamps: 00:00 - Positive Psychology in Therapy 00:41 - Meet the Experts: Dr. Nick Holton and Dr. Adam Wright 02:10 - The Paradigm Shift: Integrating Positive Psychology 04:33 - Why Therapists Resist Positive Psychology 07:45 - Busting the Myths About Positive Psychology 12:46 - From Symptom Relief to Strength-Building 18:17 - Mindset Magic: How Thinking Changes Feeling 23:24 - Adam Wright's Journey: From Philosophy to Therapy 25:01 - Diving into Clinical Psychology and Counseling 26:52 - The Intersection of Coaching and Therapy 28:59 - The Science of Thriving: Why Positive Psych Works 36:43 - Tools You Can Use Today: WHOOP, WARM, and More 43:45 - Resources to Supercharge Your Practice If you’ve been feeling stuck, uninspired, or boxed in by your training, I hope this conversation opened new doors for you. Learning how to apply positive psychology into your sessions can breathe fresh air into your practice. And if you have a desire to go deeper, get more tools, or expand your services—then you are going to love my Coaching Certification for Therapists (CCE accredited). This certification is designed specifically for licensed therapists like you who want to ethically and confidently integrate coaching psychology into their work—all while attaining 30 credit hours for their BCC credential and licensure renewal. Whether you're looking to balance out your caseload with your dream clients, build a coaching arm to your practice, or just want to broaden your skillset, this program gives you everything you need to grow and thrive. 👉Click here to learn more and apply to enroll. Also, come connect with me on LinkedIn. I share more insights from interviews with experts, info on my free CEU webinars, and occasional nerdy rants about all things therapy and coaching. I’d love to connect with you there and hear your thoughts. Xoxo Dr. Lisa Marie Bobbywww.growingself.com P.S. Know a colleague who needs this perspective shift? Share this episode with your supervision group, therapist Facebook crew, or favorite Slack channel. Let’s spread the good stuff!   Wed, 14 May 2025 22:00:00 -0000 full 1 66 Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby What if your therapy sessions could do more than heal pain—what if they could help your clients flourish? In this energizing episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists, I sat down with two powerhouse guests—Dr. Nick Holton and Dr. Adam Wright—to dive deep into the principles of positive psychology and well-being, and how we can use them to support our clients’ growth in powerful, practical ways. We’re talking about going beyond symptom management. This is about strengths, meaning, motivation, and helping people move from stuck to soaring. Whether you’re a seasoned clinician or just starting out, this conversation will get you thinking in fresh, exciting directions. Timestamps: 00:00 - Positive Psychology in Therapy 00:41 - Meet the Experts: Dr. Nick Holton and Dr. Adam Wright 02:10 - The Paradigm Shift: Integrating Positive Psychology 04:33 - Why Therapists Resist Positive Psychology 07:45 - Busting the Myths About Positive Psychology 12:46 - From Symptom Relief to Strength-Building 18:17 - Mindset Magic: How Thinking Changes Feeling 23:24 - Adam Wright's Journey: From Philosophy to Therapy 25:01 - Diving into Clinical Psychology and Counseling 26:52 - The Intersection of Coaching and Therapy 28:59 - The Science of Thriving: Why Positive Psych Works 36:43 - Tools You Can Use Today: WHOOP, WARM, and More 43:45 - Resources to Supercharge Your Practice If you’ve been feeling stuck, uninspired, or boxed in by your training, I hope this conversation opened new doors for you. Learning how to apply positive psychology into your sessions can breathe fresh air into your practice. And if you have a desire to go deeper, get more tools, or expand your services—then you are going to love my Coaching Certification for Therapists (CCE accredited). This certification is designed specifically for licensed therapists like you who want to ethically and confidently integrate coaching psychology into their work—all while attaining 30 credit hours for their BCC credential and licensure renewal. Whether you're looking to balance out your caseload with your dream clients, build a coaching arm to your practice, or just want to broaden your skillset, this program gives you everything you need to grow and thrive. 👉Click here to learn more and apply to enroll. Also, come connect with me on LinkedIn. I share more insights from interviews with experts, info on my free CEU webinars, and occasional nerdy rants about all things therapy and coaching. I’d love to connect with you there and hear your thoughts. Xoxo Dr. Lisa Marie Bobbywww.growingself.com P.S. Know a colleague who needs this perspective shift? Share this episode with your supervision group, therapist Facebook crew, or favorite Slack channel. Let’s spread the good stuff!   What if your therapy sessions could do more than heal pain—what if they could help your clients flourish?

In this energizing episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists, I sat down with two powerhouse guests—Dr. Nick Holton and Dr. Adam Wright—to dive deep into the principles of positive psychology and well-being, and how we can use them to support our clients’ growth in powerful, practical ways.

We’re talking about going beyond symptom management. This is about strengths, meaning, motivation, and helping people move from stuck to soaring. Whether you’re a seasoned clinician or just starting out, this conversation will get you thinking in fresh, exciting directions.

Timestamps: 00:00 - Positive Psychology in Therapy 00:41 - Meet the Experts: Dr. Nick Holton and Dr. Adam Wright 02:10 - The Paradigm Shift: Integrating Positive Psychology 04:33 - Why Therapists Resist Positive Psychology 07:45 - Busting the Myths About Positive Psychology 12:46 - From Symptom Relief to Strength-Building 18:17 - Mindset Magic: How Thinking Changes Feeling 23:24 - Adam Wright's Journey: From Philosophy to Therapy 25:01 - Diving into Clinical Psychology and Counseling 26:52 - The Intersection of Coaching and Therapy 28:59 - The Science of Thriving: Why Positive Psych Works 36:43 - Tools You Can Use Today: WHOOP, WARM, and More 43:45 - Resources to Supercharge Your Practice

If you’ve been feeling stuck, uninspired, or boxed in by your training, I hope this conversation opened new doors for you. Learning how to apply positive psychology into your sessions can breathe fresh air into your practice.

And if you have a desire to go deeper, get more tools, or expand your services—then you are going to love my Coaching Certification for Therapists (CCE accredited). This certification is designed specifically for licensed therapists like you who want to ethically and confidently integrate coaching psychology into their work—all while attaining 30 credit hours for their BCC credential and licensure renewal.

Whether you're looking to balance out your caseload with your dream clients, build a coaching arm to your practice, or just want to broaden your skillset, this program gives you everything you need to grow and thrive.

👉Click here to learn more and apply to enroll.

Also, come connect with me on LinkedIn. I share more insights from interviews with experts, info on my free CEU webinars, and occasional nerdy rants about all things therapy and coaching. I’d love to connect with you there and hear your thoughts.

Xoxo Dr. Lisa Marie Bobbywww.growingself.com

P.S. Know a colleague who needs this perspective shift? Share this episode with your supervision group, therapist Facebook crew, or favorite Slack channel. Let’s spread the good stuff!

 

]]> 2865 no How to Use the Enneagram to Transform Your Therapy Sessions | E65 https://www.growingself.com/enneagram-therapist Ever wish you had a magic wand that could help your clients gain deep insight into themselves—fast? Well, using the Enneagram in therapy might be the next best thing. In this episode of Love, Happiness & Success for Therapists, I’m joined by the brilliant Ian Morgan Cron—bestselling author of The Road Back to You and mastermind behind one of the most research-backed, clinically reliable Enneagram assessments available today. If you’ve ever dismissed the Enneagram as fluffy pop psychology, this conversation will totally change your perspective. We’re diving into the clinical power of the Enneagram: how it helps us understand the “why” behind our clients’ behaviors, how it mirrors personality dimensions in the DSM, and how you can use it ethically and effectively in your therapy or coaching practice. We also unpack how it can shorten the time it takes to gain therapeutic traction—yes, please. Timestamps: 00:00 – Personality Assessments: The Therapist’s Toolkit 00:57 – Meet Ian Morgan Cron: Therapist, Author, Enneagram Wizard 02:37 – Enneagram 101 06:00 – The Clinical Edge: Why the Enneagram Belongs in Therapy 17:19 – Developing a Reliable Enneagram Assessment 21:48 – That Time I Got Mistyped as an Enneagram Three 30:06 – Using the Enneagram to Deepen Relationships 31:45 – Don’t Box Me In! Balancing Respect and Growth 35:07 – Using the Enneagram for Personal Growth 35:40 – Traits vs. Types: A Helpful Visual Metaphor 36:54 – Fast-Tracking Insight in Therapy 38:57 – Grief, Growth, and My Personal Journey 44:56 – Getting Started as an Enneagram Therapist 48:16 – Resources to Go Deeper If this got your wheels turning and your therapist heart buzzing, let’s keep the conversation going. Sign up for my newsletter for therapists — it’s where I share fresh ideas, personal insights, and evidence-based strategies to help you grow into the most effective, thriving version of your professional self. And hey — let’s connect on LinkedIn, too. I’d love to hear your take on this episode and how you're using the Enneagram in your work. You can also find out when I’m hosting free CEU webinars for therapists and join in on crucial topics affecting our field of work.  Xoxo Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby www.growingself.com P.S. Know someone who could use this? Share it with a colleague or your professional network—we’re all better when we grow together.   Wed, 07 May 2025 22:05:00 -0000 full 1 65 Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Ever wish you had a magic wand that could help your clients gain deep insight into themselves—fast? Well, using the Enneagram in therapy might be the next best thing. In this episode of Love, Happiness & Success for Therapists, I’m joined by the brilliant Ian Morgan Cron—bestselling author of The Road Back to You and mastermind behind one of the most research-backed, clinically reliable Enneagram assessments available today. If you’ve ever dismissed the Enneagram as fluffy pop psychology, this conversation will totally change your perspective. We’re diving into the clinical power of the Enneagram: how it helps us understand the “why” behind our clients’ behaviors, how it mirrors personality dimensions in the DSM, and how you can use it ethically and effectively in your therapy or coaching practice. We also unpack how it can shorten the time it takes to gain therapeutic traction—yes, please. Timestamps: 00:00 – Personality Assessments: The Therapist’s Toolkit 00:57 – Meet Ian Morgan Cron: Therapist, Author, Enneagram Wizard 02:37 – Enneagram 101 06:00 – The Clinical Edge: Why the Enneagram Belongs in Therapy 17:19 – Developing a Reliable Enneagram Assessment 21:48 – That Time I Got Mistyped as an Enneagram Three 30:06 – Using the Enneagram to Deepen Relationships 31:45 – Don’t Box Me In! Balancing Respect and Growth 35:07 – Using the Enneagram for Personal Growth 35:40 – Traits vs. Types: A Helpful Visual Metaphor 36:54 – Fast-Tracking Insight in Therapy 38:57 – Grief, Growth, and My Personal Journey 44:56 – Getting Started as an Enneagram Therapist 48:16 – Resources to Go Deeper If this got your wheels turning and your therapist heart buzzing, let’s keep the conversation going. Sign up for my newsletter for therapists — it’s where I share fresh ideas, personal insights, and evidence-based strategies to help you grow into the most effective, thriving version of your professional self. And hey — let’s connect on LinkedIn, too. I’d love to hear your take on this episode and how you're using the Enneagram in your work. You can also find out when I’m hosting free CEU webinars for therapists and join in on crucial topics affecting our field of work.  Xoxo Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby www.growingself.com P.S. Know someone who could use this? Share it with a colleague or your professional network—we’re all better when we grow together.   Ever wish you had a magic wand that could help your clients gain deep insight into themselves—fast? Well, using the Enneagram in therapy might be the next best thing.

In this episode of Love, Happiness & Success for Therapists, I’m joined by the brilliant Ian Morgan Cron—bestselling author of The Road Back to You and mastermind behind one of the most research-backed, clinically reliable Enneagram assessments available today. If you’ve ever dismissed the Enneagram as fluffy pop psychology, this conversation will totally change your perspective.

We’re diving into the clinical power of the Enneagram: how it helps us understand the “why” behind our clients’ behaviors, how it mirrors personality dimensions in the DSM, and how you can use it ethically and effectively in your therapy or coaching practice. We also unpack how it can shorten the time it takes to gain therapeutic traction—yes, please.

Timestamps: 00:00 – Personality Assessments: The Therapist’s Toolkit 00:57 – Meet Ian Morgan Cron: Therapist, Author, Enneagram Wizard 02:37 – Enneagram 101 06:00 – The Clinical Edge: Why the Enneagram Belongs in Therapy 17:19 – Developing a Reliable Enneagram Assessment 21:48 – That Time I Got Mistyped as an Enneagram Three 30:06 – Using the Enneagram to Deepen Relationships 31:45 – Don’t Box Me In! Balancing Respect and Growth 35:07 – Using the Enneagram for Personal Growth 35:40 – Traits vs. Types: A Helpful Visual Metaphor 36:54 – Fast-Tracking Insight in Therapy 38:57 – Grief, Growth, and My Personal Journey 44:56 – Getting Started as an Enneagram Therapist 48:16 – Resources to Go Deeper If this got your wheels turning and your therapist heart buzzing, let’s keep the conversation going. Sign up for my newsletter for therapists — it’s where I share fresh ideas, personal insights, and evidence-based strategies to help you grow into the most effective, thriving version of your professional self. And hey — let’s connect on LinkedIn, too. I’d love to hear your take on this episode and how you're using the Enneagram in your work. You can also find out when I’m hosting free CEU webinars for therapists and join in on crucial topics affecting our field of work. 

Xoxo

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

www.growingself.com

P.S. Know someone who could use this? Share it with a colleague or your professional network—we’re all better when we grow together.

 

]]> 3322 no “What If I’m Doing It Wrong?” Untangling Therapist Performance Anxiety | E64 https://www.growingself.com/therapist-performance-anxiety Ever walk out of a session thinking, “Was that okay? Did I do it right? Did I help enough?” If so, you are so not alone.  In this episode of Love, Happiness, and Success For Therapists, I’m diving deep into therapist performance anxiety — the kind of internal pressure that doesn’t just keep us up at night, but can actually interfere with the quality of our clinical work.  From subtle fears about being "good enough" to the quiet panic that creeps in when clients stall out, I’m unpacking how this anxiety shows up, what it does to our clinical judgment, and why it's a hidden threat to both our clients and our own well-being. Timestamps: 00:00 – Introduction: Therapist Performance Anxiety 01:04 – When Caring Becomes a Liability 06:13 – The Story of Sarah 14:52 – Financial Anxiety in Private Practice 31:19 – Strategies to Manage Performance Anxiety 39:35 – CEU Trainings for Therapists If performance anxiety is making you second-guess whether you’re “doing it right,” you’re not alone. This is particularly true for therapists who are in or headed into the realm of coaching. The waters between therapy and coaching can get murky which creates ethical dilemmas that most of us aren’t trained to identify.  My free CEU training Think You’re Coaching? 8 Red Flags You’re Actually Doing Therapy is designed to clear that uncertainty. When you're not sure where the line is between coaching and therapy — or you're worried you’ve already crossed it — anxiety starts calling the shots. This training will help you get crystal clear on what’s what, so you can show up grounded, ethical, and effective in your work. Even better? When you complete the training and pass the quick quiz, you’ll earn 1 CEU and a certificate — totally free. Check out the training here.  And hey, let’s stay connected. If this topic resonated with you, I would love to continue the conversation and support your growth. Join our amazing community of growth-minded clinicians by connecting with me on LinkedIn. I share insights, free CEU trainings, and sometimes a little healthy debate. Come say hi — I’m always cheering you on. 💛 Xoxo Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby www.growingself.com   Wed, 30 Apr 2025 21:37:00 -0000 full 1 64 Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Ever walk out of a session thinking, “Was that okay? Did I do it right? Did I help enough?” If so, you are so not alone.  In this episode of Love, Happiness, and Success For Therapists, I’m diving deep into therapist performance anxiety — the kind of internal pressure that doesn’t just keep us up at night, but can actually interfere with the quality of our clinical work.  From subtle fears about being "good enough" to the quiet panic that creeps in when clients stall out, I’m unpacking how this anxiety shows up, what it does to our clinical judgment, and why it's a hidden threat to both our clients and our own well-being. Timestamps: 00:00 – Introduction: Therapist Performance Anxiety 01:04 – When Caring Becomes a Liability 06:13 – The Story of Sarah 14:52 – Financial Anxiety in Private Practice 31:19 – Strategies to Manage Performance Anxiety 39:35 – CEU Trainings for Therapists If performance anxiety is making you second-guess whether you’re “doing it right,” you’re not alone. This is particularly true for therapists who are in or headed into the realm of coaching. The waters between therapy and coaching can get murky which creates ethical dilemmas that most of us aren’t trained to identify.  My free CEU training Think You’re Coaching? 8 Red Flags You’re Actually Doing Therapy is designed to clear that uncertainty. When you're not sure where the line is between coaching and therapy — or you're worried you’ve already crossed it — anxiety starts calling the shots. This training will help you get crystal clear on what’s what, so you can show up grounded, ethical, and effective in your work. Even better? When you complete the training and pass the quick quiz, you’ll earn 1 CEU and a certificate — totally free. Check out the training here.  And hey, let’s stay connected. If this topic resonated with you, I would love to continue the conversation and support your growth. Join our amazing community of growth-minded clinicians by connecting with me on LinkedIn. I share insights, free CEU trainings, and sometimes a little healthy debate. Come say hi — I’m always cheering you on. 💛 Xoxo Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby www.growingself.com   Ever walk out of a session thinking, “Was that okay? Did I do it right? Did I help enough?” If so, you are so not alone. 

In this episode of Love, Happiness, and Success For Therapists, I’m diving deep into therapist performance anxiety — the kind of internal pressure that doesn’t just keep us up at night, but can actually interfere with the quality of our clinical work. 

From subtle fears about being "good enough" to the quiet panic that creeps in when clients stall out, I’m unpacking how this anxiety shows up, what it does to our clinical judgment, and why it's a hidden threat to both our clients and our own well-being.

Timestamps: 00:00 – Introduction: Therapist Performance Anxiety 01:04 – When Caring Becomes a Liability 06:13 – The Story of Sarah 14:52 – Financial Anxiety in Private Practice 31:19 – Strategies to Manage Performance Anxiety 39:35 – CEU Trainings for Therapists

If performance anxiety is making you second-guess whether you’re “doing it right,” you’re not alone. This is particularly true for therapists who are in or headed into the realm of coaching. The waters between therapy and coaching can get murky which creates ethical dilemmas that most of us aren’t trained to identify. 

My free CEU training Think You’re Coaching? 8 Red Flags You’re Actually Doing Therapy is designed to clear that uncertainty. When you're not sure where the line is between coaching and therapy — or you're worried you’ve already crossed it — anxiety starts calling the shots. This training will help you get crystal clear on what’s what, so you can show up grounded, ethical, and effective in your work.

Even better? When you complete the training and pass the quick quiz, you’ll earn 1 CEU and a certificate — totally free. Check out the training here. 

And hey, let’s stay connected. If this topic resonated with you, I would love to continue the conversation and support your growth. Join our amazing community of growth-minded clinicians by connecting with me on LinkedIn. I share insights, free CEU trainings, and sometimes a little healthy debate. Come say hi — I’m always cheering you on. 💛

Xoxo

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

www.growingself.com

 

]]> 2566 no Don’t Go It Alone! Therapist Isolation and Building a Community | E63 https://www.growingself.com/therapist-isolation If you’ve ever ended your day feeling emotionally drained from and completely alone after a day full of therapy client sessions, this episode is for you.   In this personal and powerfully important episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists, I’m getting real about something that affects so many of us—therapist isolation. It’s the quiet, slow leak in our energy that nobody warns you about in grad school, but it’s there... draining your joy, dulling your spark, and making your once-passionate career feel heavy and unsustainable. We’ll talk about how working in isolation chips away at your confidence, creativity, and even your ethics over time. I’ll share stories from my own early years in solo private practice (before Growing Self became the big, vibrant group it is now), and what finally helped me reconnect, re-engage, and grow again. Because here’s the truth: you were never meant to do this alone. Timestamps: 00:00 – The Hidden Hazard of Isolation in Therapy  00:59 – Why Therapist Work Is Emotionally Expensive  03:31 – What Isolation Does to Our Clients (Not Just Us)  09:51 – My Own Story: From Lonely to Supported  14:51 – Simple Strategies to Rebuild Connection  15:45 – Coaching Certification: Education and Community  21:08 – How to Find (or Create) Your Therapist Tribe  37:13 – Final Words You Might Just Need to Hear Today If this episode speaks to you, I’d love to keep this conversation going and support you with tools, ideas, and free CE trainings to help you stay healthy, connected, and growing. Sign up for my weekly newsletter to get resources delivered straight to your inbox—designed with real therapists like you in mind. And let’s connect on LinkedIn! Click here to find me—I love hearing from other therapists, and it’s a wonderful way to stay plugged into a professional community that actually supports your growth. Xoxo Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby www.growingself.com P.S. Know a fellow therapist who might be feeling the weight of this too? Share this episode with them. Let’s start breaking the cycle of isolation—together.   Wed, 23 Apr 2025 22:00:00 -0000 full 1 63 Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby If you’ve ever ended your day feeling emotionally drained from and completely alone after a day full of therapy client sessions, this episode is for you.   In this personal and powerfully important episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists, I’m getting real about something that affects so many of us—therapist isolation. It’s the quiet, slow leak in our energy that nobody warns you about in grad school, but it’s there... draining your joy, dulling your spark, and making your once-passionate career feel heavy and unsustainable. We’ll talk about how working in isolation chips away at your confidence, creativity, and even your ethics over time. I’ll share stories from my own early years in solo private practice (before Growing Self became the big, vibrant group it is now), and what finally helped me reconnect, re-engage, and grow again. Because here’s the truth: you were never meant to do this alone. Timestamps: 00:00 – The Hidden Hazard of Isolation in Therapy  00:59 – Why Therapist Work Is Emotionally Expensive  03:31 – What Isolation Does to Our Clients (Not Just Us)  09:51 – My Own Story: From Lonely to Supported  14:51 – Simple Strategies to Rebuild Connection  15:45 – Coaching Certification: Education and Community  21:08 – How to Find (or Create) Your Therapist Tribe  37:13 – Final Words You Might Just Need to Hear Today If this episode speaks to you, I’d love to keep this conversation going and support you with tools, ideas, and free CE trainings to help you stay healthy, connected, and growing. Sign up for my weekly newsletter to get resources delivered straight to your inbox—designed with real therapists like you in mind. And let’s connect on LinkedIn! Click here to find me—I love hearing from other therapists, and it’s a wonderful way to stay plugged into a professional community that actually supports your growth. Xoxo Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby www.growingself.com P.S. Know a fellow therapist who might be feeling the weight of this too? Share this episode with them. Let’s start breaking the cycle of isolation—together.   If you’ve ever ended your day feeling emotionally drained from and completely alone after a day full of therapy client sessions, this episode is for you.  

In this personal and powerfully important episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists, I’m getting real about something that affects so many of us—therapist isolation. It’s the quiet, slow leak in our energy that nobody warns you about in grad school, but it’s there... draining your joy, dulling your spark, and making your once-passionate career feel heavy and unsustainable.

We’ll talk about how working in isolation chips away at your confidence, creativity, and even your ethics over time. I’ll share stories from my own early years in solo private practice (before Growing Self became the big, vibrant group it is now), and what finally helped me reconnect, re-engage, and grow again. Because here’s the truth: you were never meant to do this alone.

Timestamps: 00:00 – The Hidden Hazard of Isolation in Therapy  00:59 – Why Therapist Work Is Emotionally Expensive  03:31 – What Isolation Does to Our Clients (Not Just Us)  09:51 – My Own Story: From Lonely to Supported  14:51 – Simple Strategies to Rebuild Connection  15:45 – Coaching Certification: Education and Community  21:08 – How to Find (or Create) Your Therapist Tribe  37:13 – Final Words You Might Just Need to Hear Today

If this episode speaks to you, I’d love to keep this conversation going and support you with tools, ideas, and free CE trainings to help you stay healthy, connected, and growing. Sign up for my weekly newsletter to get resources delivered straight to your inbox—designed with real therapists like you in mind.

And let’s connect on LinkedIn! Click here to find me—I love hearing from other therapists, and it’s a wonderful way to stay plugged into a professional community that actually supports your growth.

Xoxo

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

www.growingself.com

P.S. Know a fellow therapist who might be feeling the weight of this too? Share this episode with them. Let’s start breaking the cycle of isolation—together.

 

]]> 2612 no Waitlists, Results & Rave Reviews: 4 Habits of Highly Effective Therapists | E62 https://www.growingself.com/habits-of-highly-effective-therapists   What separates the therapists who thrive—with waitlists, rave reviews, and real client transformations—from the ones who are always one cancellation away from burnout? (And nope, it’s not just about credentials, cozy office decor, or who has the fanciest website.) In this episode of Love, Happiness & Success for Therapists, I’m spilling the tea on the four habits of highly effective therapists. These habits are the real reason some clinicians get results that change lives—while others are stuck wondering why clients keep “taking a break.” As someone who’s trained and supervised many clinicians over the years at Growing Self, I can tell you these habits are not about talent or luck. They’re practical, learnable, and you can start applying them today. Whether you're a seasoned pro or brand new to the field, if you’re ready to grow your impact, boost client outcomes, and feel more confident in your work, this episode is your roadmap. Timestamps: 00:00 - The Secret Sauce of Exceptional Therapists 03:46 - Habit 1: Crystal Clear Case Conceptualizations 14:03 - Habit 2: Mastering Evidence-Based Theories of Change 21:04 - Habit 3: Specializing in Specific Client Issues 31:10 - Habit 4: Flexibility in Therapeutic Approaches 38:14 - Resources and Next Steps If Habit #4 resonated with you especially... Let's go even deeper. As therapists, many of us are being asked to coach—but without the formal training, it’s easy to blur the lines and unknowingly slip into therapy mode with non-clinical clients. That’s why I created a free CE training just for licensed therapists like you: “Think You’re Coaching? 8 Red Flags You’re Actually Doing Therapy” This training will help you spot scope-of-practice risks, grow your coaching skills ethically, and feel confident in how you're showing up for your clients. And yes, it includes one CE credit! And hey—if you’re on LinkedIn and want to stay connected for more resources, trainings, and real talk about the business and heart of being a therapist, let’s connect! Here’s my LinkedIn profile—I’d love to hear from you. Xoxo Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby www.growingself.com P.S. Know another therapist who could use this wisdom? Send this episode their way or share it with your consultation group. We rise higher when we grow together.   Wed, 16 Apr 2025 22:00:00 -0000 full 1 62 Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby   What separates the therapists who thrive—with waitlists, rave reviews, and real client transformations—from the ones who are always one cancellation away from burnout? (And nope, it’s not just about credentials, cozy office decor, or who has the fanciest website.) In this episode of Love, Happiness & Success for Therapists, I’m spilling the tea on the four habits of highly effective therapists. These habits are the real reason some clinicians get results that change lives—while others are stuck wondering why clients keep “taking a break.” As someone who’s trained and supervised many clinicians over the years at Growing Self, I can tell you these habits are not about talent or luck. They’re practical, learnable, and you can start applying them today. Whether you're a seasoned pro or brand new to the field, if you’re ready to grow your impact, boost client outcomes, and feel more confident in your work, this episode is your roadmap. Timestamps: 00:00 - The Secret Sauce of Exceptional Therapists 03:46 - Habit 1: Crystal Clear Case Conceptualizations 14:03 - Habit 2: Mastering Evidence-Based Theories of Change 21:04 - Habit 3: Specializing in Specific Client Issues 31:10 - Habit 4: Flexibility in Therapeutic Approaches 38:14 - Resources and Next Steps If Habit #4 resonated with you especially... Let's go even deeper. As therapists, many of us are being asked to coach—but without the formal training, it’s easy to blur the lines and unknowingly slip into therapy mode with non-clinical clients. That’s why I created a free CE training just for licensed therapists like you: “Think You’re Coaching? 8 Red Flags You’re Actually Doing Therapy” This training will help you spot scope-of-practice risks, grow your coaching skills ethically, and feel confident in how you're showing up for your clients. And yes, it includes one CE credit! And hey—if you’re on LinkedIn and want to stay connected for more resources, trainings, and real talk about the business and heart of being a therapist, let’s connect! Here’s my LinkedIn profile—I’d love to hear from you. Xoxo Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby www.growingself.com P.S. Know another therapist who could use this wisdom? Send this episode their way or share it with your consultation group. We rise higher when we grow together.    

What separates the therapists who thrive—with waitlists, rave reviews, and real client transformations—from the ones who are always one cancellation away from burnout? (And nope, it’s not just about credentials, cozy office decor, or who has the fanciest website.)

In this episode of Love, Happiness & Success for Therapists, I’m spilling the tea on the four habits of highly effective therapists. These habits are the real reason some clinicians get results that change lives—while others are stuck wondering why clients keep “taking a break.”

As someone who’s trained and supervised many clinicians over the years at Growing Self, I can tell you these habits are not about talent or luck. They’re practical, learnable, and you can start applying them today.

Whether you're a seasoned pro or brand new to the field, if you’re ready to grow your impact, boost client outcomes, and feel more confident in your work, this episode is your roadmap.

Timestamps:

00:00 - The Secret Sauce of Exceptional Therapists 03:46 - Habit 1: Crystal Clear Case Conceptualizations 14:03 - Habit 2: Mastering Evidence-Based Theories of Change 21:04 - Habit 3: Specializing in Specific Client Issues 31:10 - Habit 4: Flexibility in Therapeutic Approaches 38:14 - Resources and Next Steps

If Habit #4 resonated with you especially... Let's go even deeper. As therapists, many of us are being asked to coach—but without the formal training, it’s easy to blur the lines and unknowingly slip into therapy mode with non-clinical clients. That’s why I created a free CE training just for licensed therapists like you: “Think You’re Coaching? 8 Red Flags You’re Actually Doing Therapy” This training will help you spot scope-of-practice risks, grow your coaching skills ethically, and feel confident in how you're showing up for your clients. And yes, it includes one CE credit! And hey—if you’re on LinkedIn and want to stay connected for more resources, trainings, and real talk about the business and heart of being a therapist, let’s connect! Here’s my LinkedIn profile—I’d love to hear from you.

Xoxo

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

www.growingself.com

P.S. Know another therapist who could use this wisdom? Send this episode their way or share it with your consultation group. We rise higher when we grow together.

 

]]> 2820 no Why Therapy Clients Are Hiring Coaches (And Leaving Therapy Behind) | E61 https://www.growingself.com/therapy-clients-hiring-coaches Your therapy clients are cheating on you with coaches. There, I said it. I know, it stings. But as a fellow therapist, supervisor, and coaching educator
 you need to know what’s really going on out there and why therapy clients are hiring coaches. Because what you don’t see? It might just be quietly reshaping your practice right under your feet. In this episode of Love, Happiness & Success for Therapists, I’m pulling back the curtain on why therapy clients are hiring coaches, what’s really happening in the field, and the exact skills today’s therapists need to stay relevant, effective, and aligned with their ethical standards. We’ll talk about the awkward conversations happening in coaching internships, the shift you’ve probably already started to feel in your private practice, and how to pivot—powerfully and ethically—into the kind of transformational helper your clients are craving. Because let’s be real: awareness and insight are amazing. But they don’t always change lives. And if your client is still stuck in the same patterns six months in, they’re already wondering if someone else can help them move forward. Here’s how to make sure that someone is still you. Timestamps: 00:00 - The Truth About Therapy Clients and Coaches 02:52 - What’s Actually Changing in the Therapy World 04:15 - The Coaching Dilemma Therapists Are Facing 07:05 - Why Your Clients Want More Than Insight 09:23 - What Traditional Therapy Can’t Always Deliver 19:36 - The Ethical Tightrope: Beneficence and Client Outcomes 22:51 - The Opportunity: Coaching Psychology Done Right 27:51 - Coaching Certification for Therapists If this episode gave you a little jolt (in a good way), I want to invite you into something more. Check out the Coaching Certification for Therapists. I created this program for therapists who want to grow, adapt, and expand their skill set with research-backed coaching psychology. It’s a clear path to helping high-functioning, growth-oriented clients—without compromising your integrity or clinical background. And hey — let’s connect on LinkedIn, too. You can find out when I’m hosting NBCC accredited CEU webinars and join in on crucial topics affecting our field of work. I also share my latest findings dedicated to helping us therapists create growth, happiness and success in our lives. I love connecting with thoughtful professionals like you. Come say hi, share your thoughts, and let me know what resonated with you. Xoxo Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby www.growingself.com P.S. If this episode gave you insight, clarity, or even just a much-needed “a-ha!” moment, please share it with a fellow therapist or colleague. You never know who’s secretly wondering the same things you are—and who might really need to hear this today.   Wed, 09 Apr 2025 22:00:00 -0000 full 1 61 Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Your therapy clients are cheating on you with coaches. There, I said it. I know, it stings. But as a fellow therapist, supervisor, and coaching educator
 you need to know what’s really going on out there and why therapy clients are hiring coaches. Because what you don’t see? It might just be quietly reshaping your practice right under your feet. In this episode of Love, Happiness & Success for Therapists, I’m pulling back the curtain on why therapy clients are hiring coaches, what’s really happening in the field, and the exact skills today’s therapists need to stay relevant, effective, and aligned with their ethical standards. We’ll talk about the awkward conversations happening in coaching internships, the shift you’ve probably already started to feel in your private practice, and how to pivot—powerfully and ethically—into the kind of transformational helper your clients are craving. Because let’s be real: awareness and insight are amazing. But they don’t always change lives. And if your client is still stuck in the same patterns six months in, they’re already wondering if someone else can help them move forward. Here’s how to make sure that someone is still you. Timestamps: 00:00 - The Truth About Therapy Clients and Coaches 02:52 - What’s Actually Changing in the Therapy World 04:15 - The Coaching Dilemma Therapists Are Facing 07:05 - Why Your Clients Want More Than Insight 09:23 - What Traditional Therapy Can’t Always Deliver 19:36 - The Ethical Tightrope: Beneficence and Client Outcomes 22:51 - The Opportunity: Coaching Psychology Done Right 27:51 - Coaching Certification for Therapists If this episode gave you a little jolt (in a good way), I want to invite you into something more. Check out the Coaching Certification for Therapists. I created this program for therapists who want to grow, adapt, and expand their skill set with research-backed coaching psychology. It’s a clear path to helping high-functioning, growth-oriented clients—without compromising your integrity or clinical background. And hey — let’s connect on LinkedIn, too. You can find out when I’m hosting NBCC accredited CEU webinars and join in on crucial topics affecting our field of work. I also share my latest findings dedicated to helping us therapists create growth, happiness and success in our lives. I love connecting with thoughtful professionals like you. Come say hi, share your thoughts, and let me know what resonated with you. Xoxo Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby www.growingself.com P.S. If this episode gave you insight, clarity, or even just a much-needed “a-ha!” moment, please share it with a fellow therapist or colleague. You never know who’s secretly wondering the same things you are—and who might really need to hear this today.   Your therapy clients are cheating on you with coaches. There, I said it. I know, it stings. But as a fellow therapist, supervisor, and coaching educator
 you need to know what’s really going on out there and why therapy clients are hiring coaches. Because what you don’t see? It might just be quietly reshaping your practice right under your feet.

In this episode of Love, Happiness & Success for Therapists, I’m pulling back the curtain on why therapy clients are hiring coaches, what’s really happening in the field, and the exact skills today’s therapists need to stay relevant, effective, and aligned with their ethical standards.

We’ll talk about the awkward conversations happening in coaching internships, the shift you’ve probably already started to feel in your private practice, and how to pivot—powerfully and ethically—into the kind of transformational helper your clients are craving.

Because let’s be real: awareness and insight are amazing. But they don’t always change lives. And if your client is still stuck in the same patterns six months in, they’re already wondering if someone else can help them move forward.

Here’s how to make sure that someone is still you.

Timestamps: 00:00 - The Truth About Therapy Clients and Coaches 02:52 - What’s Actually Changing in the Therapy World 04:15 - The Coaching Dilemma Therapists Are Facing 07:05 - Why Your Clients Want More Than Insight 09:23 - What Traditional Therapy Can’t Always Deliver 19:36 - The Ethical Tightrope: Beneficence and Client Outcomes 22:51 - The Opportunity: Coaching Psychology Done Right 27:51 - Coaching Certification for Therapists

If this episode gave you a little jolt (in a good way), I want to invite you into something more. Check out the Coaching Certification for Therapists. I created this program for therapists who want to grow, adapt, and expand their skill set with research-backed coaching psychology. It’s a clear path to helping high-functioning, growth-oriented clients—without compromising your integrity or clinical background.

And hey — let’s connect on LinkedIn, too. You can find out when I’m hosting NBCC accredited CEU webinars and join in on crucial topics affecting our field of work. I also share my latest findings dedicated to helping us therapists create growth, happiness and success in our lives. I love connecting with thoughtful professionals like you. Come say hi, share your thoughts, and let me know what resonated with you.

Xoxo

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

www.growingself.com

P.S. If this episode gave you insight, clarity, or even just a much-needed “a-ha!” moment, please share it with a fellow therapist or colleague. You never know who’s secretly wondering the same things you are—and who might really need to hear this today.

 

]]> 2293 no How Financial Therapy Can Heal Money Shame for You and Your Clients | E60 https://www.growingself.com/therapists-guide-to-financial-therapy/   Ever feel like money stress is the third wheel in your therapy sessions—or your own life? You’re not alone. In this episode of Love, Happiness & Success for Therapists, I sat down with the incredibly wise and wonderfully down-to-earth Jillian Knight, LMFT, who opened my eyes to the transformative power of financial therapy. We talked about what financial therapy actually is, why it’s different from traditional therapy, and how this niche is helping clients heal. From financial trauma to the emotional minefield of pricing your services as a therapist, this episode is a refreshingly honest conversation about money—something most of us therapists were definitely not trained to handle in grad school. Whether you’re curious about specializing, craving more clarity around your own money mindset, or just want to stop discounting your rates before anyone even asks (yes, we talked about that), this one’s for you. Timestamps: 00:00 – Meet Jillian: Therapist, money whisperer, and all-around badass 02:46 – Why financial advisors and therapists teamed up to create a new field 05:24 – Real talk on burnout and the danger of being a therapy generalist 09:35 – Jillian’s journey from “I’m never doing therapy again” to finding her niche 21:43 – The systems that shape our relationship with money 28:06 – Trauma responses... but make it financial 😳 32:14 – Shame, scarcity, and the magic of self-compassion in money work 35:33 – Why so many therapists feel weird about charging what they’re worth 47:00 – Jillian’s mission to bring financial therapy to the world 50:00 – Where to find her (and maybe even bring her in to speak to your crew) If this conversation around financial therapy sparked something for you—whether it was curiosity, validation, or even that little internal ugh that says “Oof, I needed to hear this”—you’re not alone. So many therapists carry silent stress around money, career direction, or even just feeling like they’re supposed to have it all figured out by now. You don’t. None of us do. That’s why we’re here—learning and growing together. If you're looking for more support, insight, and real talk like this, I’d love for you to join me on the journey. My weekly newsletter for therapists is a space where I share new podcast episodes, helpful resources, and personal reflections to support your growth as a therapist—professionally and personally. You can sign up here: https://courses.growingself.com Also, if you’re on LinkedIn, I’d truly love to connect with you. It’s one of my favorite places to build relationships with fellow therapists and like-hearted professionals. Come say hi and let me know what resonated with you: Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby on LinkedIn. Xoxo Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby www.growingself.com P.S. If this convo lit you up, please share it with a colleague or your professional community. You never know who needs to hear this message today. 💛 Wed, 02 Apr 2025 22:00:00 -0000 full 1 60 Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby   Ever feel like money stress is the third wheel in your therapy sessions—or your own life? You’re not alone. In this episode of Love, Happiness & Success for Therapists, I sat down with the incredibly wise and wonderfully down-to-earth Jillian Knight, LMFT, who opened my eyes to the transformative power of financial therapy. We talked about what financial therapy actually is, why it’s different from traditional therapy, and how this niche is helping clients heal. From financial trauma to the emotional minefield of pricing your services as a therapist, this episode is a refreshingly honest conversation about money—something most of us therapists were definitely not trained to handle in grad school. Whether you’re curious about specializing, craving more clarity around your own money mindset, or just want to stop discounting your rates before anyone even asks (yes, we talked about that), this one’s for you. Timestamps: 00:00 – Meet Jillian: Therapist, money whisperer, and all-around badass 02:46 – Why financial advisors and therapists teamed up to create a new field 05:24 – Real talk on burnout and the danger of being a therapy generalist 09:35 – Jillian’s journey from “I’m never doing therapy again” to finding her niche 21:43 – The systems that shape our relationship with money 28:06 – Trauma responses... but make it financial 😳 32:14 – Shame, scarcity, and the magic of self-compassion in money work 35:33 – Why so many therapists feel weird about charging what they’re worth 47:00 – Jillian’s mission to bring financial therapy to the world 50:00 – Where to find her (and maybe even bring her in to speak to your crew) If this conversation around financial therapy sparked something for you—whether it was curiosity, validation, or even that little internal ugh that says “Oof, I needed to hear this”—you’re not alone. So many therapists carry silent stress around money, career direction, or even just feeling like they’re supposed to have it all figured out by now. You don’t. None of us do. That’s why we’re here—learning and growing together. If you're looking for more support, insight, and real talk like this, I’d love for you to join me on the journey. My weekly newsletter for therapists is a space where I share new podcast episodes, helpful resources, and personal reflections to support your growth as a therapist—professionally and personally. You can sign up here: https://courses.growingself.com Also, if you’re on LinkedIn, I’d truly love to connect with you. It’s one of my favorite places to build relationships with fellow therapists and like-hearted professionals. Come say hi and let me know what resonated with you: Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby on LinkedIn. Xoxo Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby www.growingself.com P.S. If this convo lit you up, please share it with a colleague or your professional community. You never know who needs to hear this message today. 💛  

Ever feel like money stress is the third wheel in your therapy sessions—or your own life? You’re not alone. In this episode of Love, Happiness & Success for Therapists, I sat down with the incredibly wise and wonderfully down-to-earth Jillian Knight, LMFT, who opened my eyes to the transformative power of financial therapy.

We talked about what financial therapy actually is, why it’s different from traditional therapy, and how this niche is helping clients heal. From financial trauma to the emotional minefield of pricing your services as a therapist, this episode is a refreshingly honest conversation about money—something most of us therapists were definitely not trained to handle in grad school.

Whether you’re curious about specializing, craving more clarity around your own money mindset, or just want to stop discounting your rates before anyone even asks (yes, we talked about that), this one’s for you. Timestamps: 00:00 – Meet Jillian: Therapist, money whisperer, and all-around badass 02:46 – Why financial advisors and therapists teamed up to create a new field 05:24 – Real talk on burnout and the danger of being a therapy generalist 09:35 – Jillian’s journey from “I’m never doing therapy again” to finding her niche 21:43 – The systems that shape our relationship with money 28:06 – Trauma responses... but make it financial 😳 32:14 – Shame, scarcity, and the magic of self-compassion in money work 35:33 – Why so many therapists feel weird about charging what they’re worth 47:00 – Jillian’s mission to bring financial therapy to the world 50:00 – Where to find her (and maybe even bring her in to speak to your crew)

If this conversation around financial therapy sparked something for you—whether it was curiosity, validation, or even that little internal ugh that says “Oof, I needed to hear this”—you’re not alone. So many therapists carry silent stress around money, career direction, or even just feeling like they’re supposed to have it all figured out by now. You don’t. None of us do. That’s why we’re here—learning and growing together.

If you're looking for more support, insight, and real talk like this, I’d love for you to join me on the journey. My weekly newsletter for therapists is a space where I share new podcast episodes, helpful resources, and personal reflections to support your growth as a therapist—professionally and personally. You can sign up here: https://courses.growingself.com

Also, if you’re on LinkedIn, I’d truly love to connect with you. It’s one of my favorite places to build relationships with fellow therapists and like-hearted professionals. Come say hi and let me know what resonated with you: Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby on LinkedIn.

Xoxo

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

www.growingself.com

P.S. If this convo lit you up, please share it with a colleague or your professional community. You never know who needs to hear this message today. 💛

]]> 2850 no The Marketing Secrets Every Therapist Needs to Know (But Was Never Taught) | E59 https://www.growingself.com/marketing-for-therapists What if I told you that the key to a thriving therapy practice isn’t more clinical training—it’s gaining essential marketing skills? Yep, I said it. As therapists, most of us were trained to serve, not sell—but when you’re running your own private practice, knowing how to connect with the people who need you is essential. And trust me, marketing for therapists doesn’t have to feel gross, pushy, or fake. In this episode of Love, Happiness & Success for Therapists, I sit down with the incredible Candice Thompson, LMFT, who built a booming private practice in Silicon Valley and grew her professional presence on LinkedIn by 10X—all while staying rooted in authenticity and clinical integrity.  We dive deep into the real-world marketing strategies that work (and what doesn’t), the mindset blocks that keep too many talented therapists struggling, and how to get past the “ick” factor around sales. If you’ve been quietly panicking about your empty calendar—or feeling conflicted about promoting your work—this episode is for you. Timestamps: 00:00 - The Unspoken Truth About Therapy Skills 03:01 - The Reality of Private Practice 05:44 - Overcoming Resistance: Embracing Marketing and Sales 09:17 - Building Confidence: The Journey from Imposter Syndrome to Mastery 16:39 - Finding Your Niche: Aligning Passion with Practice 21:05 - Industry Trends: Navigating the Competitive Landscape 25:53 - The Power of Authentic Relationships in Marketing 28:23 - Pricing Strategies for Therapists 32:48 - Marketing Strategies for New Private Practices 34:24 - Building Professional Relationships and Networking 38:28 - Leveraging LinkedIn for Professional Growth 40:25 - Ethical Concerns in Mental Health Tech 43:04 - Future of the Coaching Industry and Regulation 46:05 - Practical Advice for Therapists 49:49 - Connecting with Candice Thompson This episode is packed with insights that will transform how you think about your role as a therapist and an entrepreneur. You’re not just a healer—you’re a solopreneur with a mission. You have something unique to offer the world. And learning how to share that — not in a pushy, salesy way, but in a real and resonant way — is part of your path. If this conversation inspired you, I’d love to keep supporting your journey. I send out a monthly e-newsletter for therapists filled with thoughtful resources, practical tips, and the occasional love note reminding you that you’re doing just fine. You can get connected here! And if you’re active on LinkedIn, I’d love to get in touch personally! That’s where I share more expert insights, professional conversations, and upcoming trainings for therapists. Find me here: linkedin.com/in/drlisabobby Xoxo Dr. Lisa Marie Bobbywww.growingself.com P.S. If you know someone who could benefit from this episode, I invite you to share it with your colleagues or professional network. It’s such an important part of building sustainable, thriving careers as therapists! Let’s help each other learn and grow. Wed, 26 Mar 2025 22:00:00 -0000 full 1 59 Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby What if I told you that the key to a thriving therapy practice isn’t more clinical training—it’s gaining essential marketing skills? Yep, I said it. As therapists, most of us were trained to serve, not sell—but when you’re running your own private practice, knowing how to connect with the people who need you is essential. And trust me, marketing for therapists doesn’t have to feel gross, pushy, or fake. In this episode of Love, Happiness & Success for Therapists, I sit down with the incredible Candice Thompson, LMFT, who built a booming private practice in Silicon Valley and grew her professional presence on LinkedIn by 10X—all while staying rooted in authenticity and clinical integrity.  We dive deep into the real-world marketing strategies that work (and what doesn’t), the mindset blocks that keep too many talented therapists struggling, and how to get past the “ick” factor around sales. If you’ve been quietly panicking about your empty calendar—or feeling conflicted about promoting your work—this episode is for you. Timestamps: 00:00 - The Unspoken Truth About Therapy Skills 03:01 - The Reality of Private Practice 05:44 - Overcoming Resistance: Embracing Marketing and Sales 09:17 - Building Confidence: The Journey from Imposter Syndrome to Mastery 16:39 - Finding Your Niche: Aligning Passion with Practice 21:05 - Industry Trends: Navigating the Competitive Landscape 25:53 - The Power of Authentic Relationships in Marketing 28:23 - Pricing Strategies for Therapists 32:48 - Marketing Strategies for New Private Practices 34:24 - Building Professional Relationships and Networking 38:28 - Leveraging LinkedIn for Professional Growth 40:25 - Ethical Concerns in Mental Health Tech 43:04 - Future of the Coaching Industry and Regulation 46:05 - Practical Advice for Therapists 49:49 - Connecting with Candice Thompson This episode is packed with insights that will transform how you think about your role as a therapist and an entrepreneur. You’re not just a healer—you’re a solopreneur with a mission. You have something unique to offer the world. And learning how to share that — not in a pushy, salesy way, but in a real and resonant way — is part of your path. If this conversation inspired you, I’d love to keep supporting your journey. I send out a monthly e-newsletter for therapists filled with thoughtful resources, practical tips, and the occasional love note reminding you that you’re doing just fine. You can get connected here! And if you’re active on LinkedIn, I’d love to get in touch personally! That’s where I share more expert insights, professional conversations, and upcoming trainings for therapists. Find me here: linkedin.com/in/drlisabobby Xoxo Dr. Lisa Marie Bobbywww.growingself.com P.S. If you know someone who could benefit from this episode, I invite you to share it with your colleagues or professional network. It’s such an important part of building sustainable, thriving careers as therapists! Let’s help each other learn and grow. What if I told you that the key to a thriving therapy practice isn’t more clinical training—it’s gaining essential marketing skills? Yep, I said it. As therapists, most of us were trained to serve, not sell—but when you’re running your own private practice, knowing how to connect with the people who need you is essential. And trust me, marketing for therapists doesn’t have to feel gross, pushy, or fake.

In this episode of Love, Happiness & Success for Therapists, I sit down with the incredible Candice Thompson, LMFT, who built a booming private practice in Silicon Valley and grew her professional presence on LinkedIn by 10X—all while staying rooted in authenticity and clinical integrity. 

We dive deep into the real-world marketing strategies that work (and what doesn’t), the mindset blocks that keep too many talented therapists struggling, and how to get past the “ick” factor around sales. If you’ve been quietly panicking about your empty calendar—or feeling conflicted about promoting your work—this episode is for you.

Timestamps: 00:00 - The Unspoken Truth About Therapy Skills 03:01 - The Reality of Private Practice 05:44 - Overcoming Resistance: Embracing Marketing and Sales 09:17 - Building Confidence: The Journey from Imposter Syndrome to Mastery 16:39 - Finding Your Niche: Aligning Passion with Practice 21:05 - Industry Trends: Navigating the Competitive Landscape 25:53 - The Power of Authentic Relationships in Marketing 28:23 - Pricing Strategies for Therapists 32:48 - Marketing Strategies for New Private Practices 34:24 - Building Professional Relationships and Networking 38:28 - Leveraging LinkedIn for Professional Growth 40:25 - Ethical Concerns in Mental Health Tech 43:04 - Future of the Coaching Industry and Regulation 46:05 - Practical Advice for Therapists 49:49 - Connecting with Candice Thompson

This episode is packed with insights that will transform how you think about your role as a therapist and an entrepreneur. You’re not just a healer—you’re a solopreneur with a mission. You have something unique to offer the world. And learning how to share that — not in a pushy, salesy way, but in a real and resonant way — is part of your path.

If this conversation inspired you, I’d love to keep supporting your journey. I send out a monthly e-newsletter for therapists filled with thoughtful resources, practical tips, and the occasional love note reminding you that you’re doing just fine. You can get connected here!

And if you’re active on LinkedIn, I’d love to get in touch personally! That’s where I share more expert insights, professional conversations, and upcoming trainings for therapists. Find me here: linkedin.com/in/drlisabobby

Xoxo Dr. Lisa Marie Bobbywww.growingself.com

P.S. If you know someone who could benefit from this episode, I invite you to share it with your colleagues or professional network. It’s such an important part of building sustainable, thriving careers as therapists! Let’s help each other learn and grow.

]]> 3165 no How Child-Centered Play Therapy (CCPT) Can Change Your Work with Kids | E58 https://www.growingself.com/ccpt   Therapists, have you ever wondered how to truly make an impact in the lives of children through therapy? If so, you're in for a treat! In this episode of Love, Happiness, and Success For Therapists, I sit down with Dr. Brenna Hicks, a psychologist who specializes in Child-Centered Play Therapy (CCPT). Whether you're just starting out or looking to specialize further, this approach could be the key to unlocking the full potential of your work with kids. We dive into the foundational principles of CCPT and how it fosters emotional regulation, self-control, and the healing power of relationships. Play therapy can be a game changer in helping kids develop the skills they need to thrive, and this episode will leave you with a clear understanding of how it works and why it’s so effective. Timestamps: 00:39 – Meet Dr. Brenna Hicks: From Geriatrics to Play Therapy 01:58 – How a Simple Shift in Perspective Led to Play Therapy 05:31 – The Impact of Labels on Kids’ Development 08:23 – Play Therapy: How It Transforms Children’s Lives 09:37 – The Evidence Behind Child-Centered Play Therapy 12:12 – What is Child-Centered Play Therapy? 21:02 – Why CCPT Works Across Ages and Issues 29:57 – The Role of Vulnerability in Child Development 30:39 – Creating a Safe Environment for Kids’ Growth 32:06 – Navigating Modern Challenges: Screen Time and More 37:37 – Techniques and Benefits of CCPT 40:53 – Why Specializing is Key for Therapists 53:28 – Resources and Support for Play Therapy Clinicians If you loved this interview with Dr. Brenna Hicks, there’s more where that came from! You can sign up for my weekly newsletter to be the first to know about new podcast episodes featuring interviews with fellow therapists and experts, as well as practical advice for personal and professional growth in our field. It’s all about making sure you feel supported, informed, and confident as you grow in your work.  If you’re looking to take the conversation further, I’d love to connect with you on LinkedIn! Whether you have a specific question or just want to engage in a deeper conversation about therapy, self-care, or growing a successful practice, I’m here to chat. We’re in this together, and having a supportive network is the best way to stay grounded and inspired. I’d be so happy to hear from you. Xoxo Dr. Lisa Marie Bobbywww.growingself.com P.S. If you know a colleague or someone in your professional community who could benefit from this episode, please share it with them! You never know who might need to hear these insights today. Wed, 19 Mar 2025 22:00:00 -0000 full 1 58 Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby   Therapists, have you ever wondered how to truly make an impact in the lives of children through therapy? If so, you're in for a treat! In this episode of Love, Happiness, and Success For Therapists, I sit down with Dr. Brenna Hicks, a psychologist who specializes in Child-Centered Play Therapy (CCPT). Whether you're just starting out or looking to specialize further, this approach could be the key to unlocking the full potential of your work with kids. We dive into the foundational principles of CCPT and how it fosters emotional regulation, self-control, and the healing power of relationships. Play therapy can be a game changer in helping kids develop the skills they need to thrive, and this episode will leave you with a clear understanding of how it works and why it’s so effective. Timestamps: 00:39 – Meet Dr. Brenna Hicks: From Geriatrics to Play Therapy 01:58 – How a Simple Shift in Perspective Led to Play Therapy 05:31 – The Impact of Labels on Kids’ Development 08:23 – Play Therapy: How It Transforms Children’s Lives 09:37 – The Evidence Behind Child-Centered Play Therapy 12:12 – What is Child-Centered Play Therapy? 21:02 – Why CCPT Works Across Ages and Issues 29:57 – The Role of Vulnerability in Child Development 30:39 – Creating a Safe Environment for Kids’ Growth 32:06 – Navigating Modern Challenges: Screen Time and More 37:37 – Techniques and Benefits of CCPT 40:53 – Why Specializing is Key for Therapists 53:28 – Resources and Support for Play Therapy Clinicians If you loved this interview with Dr. Brenna Hicks, there’s more where that came from! You can sign up for my weekly newsletter to be the first to know about new podcast episodes featuring interviews with fellow therapists and experts, as well as practical advice for personal and professional growth in our field. It’s all about making sure you feel supported, informed, and confident as you grow in your work.  If you’re looking to take the conversation further, I’d love to connect with you on LinkedIn! Whether you have a specific question or just want to engage in a deeper conversation about therapy, self-care, or growing a successful practice, I’m here to chat. We’re in this together, and having a supportive network is the best way to stay grounded and inspired. I’d be so happy to hear from you. Xoxo Dr. Lisa Marie Bobbywww.growingself.com P.S. If you know a colleague or someone in your professional community who could benefit from this episode, please share it with them! You never know who might need to hear these insights today.  

Therapists, have you ever wondered how to truly make an impact in the lives of children through therapy? If so, you're in for a treat! In this episode of Love, Happiness, and Success For Therapists, I sit down with Dr. Brenna Hicks, a psychologist who specializes in Child-Centered Play Therapy (CCPT). Whether you're just starting out or looking to specialize further, this approach could be the key to unlocking the full potential of your work with kids.

We dive into the foundational principles of CCPT and how it fosters emotional regulation, self-control, and the healing power of relationships. Play therapy can be a game changer in helping kids develop the skills they need to thrive, and this episode will leave you with a clear understanding of how it works and why it’s so effective.

Timestamps: 00:39 – Meet Dr. Brenna Hicks: From Geriatrics to Play Therapy 01:58 – How a Simple Shift in Perspective Led to Play Therapy 05:31 – The Impact of Labels on Kids’ Development 08:23 – Play Therapy: How It Transforms Children’s Lives 09:37 – The Evidence Behind Child-Centered Play Therapy 12:12 – What is Child-Centered Play Therapy? 21:02 – Why CCPT Works Across Ages and Issues 29:57 – The Role of Vulnerability in Child Development 30:39 – Creating a Safe Environment for Kids’ Growth 32:06 – Navigating Modern Challenges: Screen Time and More 37:37 – Techniques and Benefits of CCPT 40:53 – Why Specializing is Key for Therapists 53:28 – Resources and Support for Play Therapy Clinicians

If you loved this interview with Dr. Brenna Hicks, there’s more where that came from! You can sign up for my weekly newsletter to be the first to know about new podcast episodes featuring interviews with fellow therapists and experts, as well as practical advice for personal and professional growth in our field. It’s all about making sure you feel supported, informed, and confident as you grow in your work. 

If you’re looking to take the conversation further, I’d love to connect with you on LinkedIn! Whether you have a specific question or just want to engage in a deeper conversation about therapy, self-care, or growing a successful practice, I’m here to chat. We’re in this together, and having a supportive network is the best way to stay grounded and inspired. I’d be so happy to hear from you.

Xoxo Dr. Lisa Marie Bobbywww.growingself.com

P.S. If you know a colleague or someone in your professional community who could benefit from this episode, please share it with them! You never know who might need to hear these insights today.

]]> 3443 no Coaching Ethics for Therapists: The Do’s, Don’ts, and Ethical Traps to Avoid | E57 https://www.growingself.com/coaching-ethics-for-therapists   If you’re a therapist who coaches, you already know this space is full of gray areas. Where does therapy end and coaching begin? What’s ethical, what’s not, and how do you avoid stepping into a professional minefield? In this episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists, I’m diving into the trickiest ethical dilemmas therapists face when adding coaching to their practice. From insurance pitfalls to scope creep and dual relationships, I’ll break down what you need to watch out for—and how to keep your practice ethical, professional, and compliant. Timestamps: 00:00 - Why Ethics Matter in Coaching 02:46 - The Insurance Trap: Are You Unknowingly Committing Fraud? 04:46 - Scope Creep: When Coaching Becomes Therapy 08:42 - The Boundary Blender: Dual Relationships & Conflicts of Interest 10:13 - Marketing Ethics: What Therapists Can and Can’t Do 16:33 - Certification vs. Experience: Do Therapists Need Coaching Credentials? 20:49 - The Importance of Professional Consultation and Supervision 28:21 - How to Build an Ethical, Sustainable Coaching Practice 30:42 - Coaching For Therapists Resources If you’re ready to add coaching into your practice the right way, my Coaching Masterclass is for you. You’ll learn how to navigate ethical pitfalls, market yourself correctly, and build a thriving, integrity-driven coaching business. Check it out! I hope it helps.  And hey, if we’re not already connected on LinkedIn, let’s fix that! I’m always sharing insights and (let’s be real) probably stirring up a few debates in the therapy world. I’d love to see you there!  Xoxo Dr. Lisa Marie Bobbywww.growingself.com P.S. If you found this episode helpful, be sure to share this episode with a therapist or coaching colleague! The more we talk about these challenges, the stronger our profession becomes. Wed, 12 Mar 2025 22:00:00 -0000 full 1 57 Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby   If you’re a therapist who coaches, you already know this space is full of gray areas. Where does therapy end and coaching begin? What’s ethical, what’s not, and how do you avoid stepping into a professional minefield? In this episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists, I’m diving into the trickiest ethical dilemmas therapists face when adding coaching to their practice. From insurance pitfalls to scope creep and dual relationships, I’ll break down what you need to watch out for—and how to keep your practice ethical, professional, and compliant. Timestamps: 00:00 - Why Ethics Matter in Coaching 02:46 - The Insurance Trap: Are You Unknowingly Committing Fraud? 04:46 - Scope Creep: When Coaching Becomes Therapy 08:42 - The Boundary Blender: Dual Relationships & Conflicts of Interest 10:13 - Marketing Ethics: What Therapists Can and Can’t Do 16:33 - Certification vs. Experience: Do Therapists Need Coaching Credentials? 20:49 - The Importance of Professional Consultation and Supervision 28:21 - How to Build an Ethical, Sustainable Coaching Practice 30:42 - Coaching For Therapists Resources If you’re ready to add coaching into your practice the right way, my Coaching Masterclass is for you. You’ll learn how to navigate ethical pitfalls, market yourself correctly, and build a thriving, integrity-driven coaching business. Check it out! I hope it helps.  And hey, if we’re not already connected on LinkedIn, let’s fix that! I’m always sharing insights and (let’s be real) probably stirring up a few debates in the therapy world. I’d love to see you there!  Xoxo Dr. Lisa Marie Bobbywww.growingself.com P.S. If you found this episode helpful, be sure to share this episode with a therapist or coaching colleague! The more we talk about these challenges, the stronger our profession becomes.  

If you’re a therapist who coaches, you already know this space is full of gray areas. Where does therapy end and coaching begin? What’s ethical, what’s not, and how do you avoid stepping into a professional minefield? In this episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists, I’m diving into the trickiest ethical dilemmas therapists face when adding coaching to their practice.

From insurance pitfalls to scope creep and dual relationships, I’ll break down what you need to watch out for—and how to keep your practice ethical, professional, and compliant.

Timestamps: 00:00 - Why Ethics Matter in Coaching 02:46 - The Insurance Trap: Are You Unknowingly Committing Fraud? 04:46 - Scope Creep: When Coaching Becomes Therapy 08:42 - The Boundary Blender: Dual Relationships & Conflicts of Interest 10:13 - Marketing Ethics: What Therapists Can and Can’t Do 16:33 - Certification vs. Experience: Do Therapists Need Coaching Credentials? 20:49 - The Importance of Professional Consultation and Supervision 28:21 - How to Build an Ethical, Sustainable Coaching Practice 30:42 - Coaching For Therapists Resources

If you’re ready to add coaching into your practice the right way, my Coaching Masterclass is for you. You’ll learn how to navigate ethical pitfalls, market yourself correctly, and build a thriving, integrity-driven coaching business. Check it out! I hope it helps. 

And hey, if we’re not already connected on LinkedIn, let’s fix that! I’m always sharing insights and (let’s be real) probably stirring up a few debates in the therapy world. I’d love to see you there! 

Xoxo Dr. Lisa Marie Bobbywww.growingself.com

P.S. If you found this episode helpful, be sure to share this episode with a therapist or coaching colleague! The more we talk about these challenges, the stronger our profession becomes.

]]> 2284 no Are Mental Health Coaches Replacing Therapists?! | E56 https://www.growingself.com/mental-health-coaching-replacing-therapists   Imagine spending years in graduate school, racking up thousands of hours in supervision, investing in continuing education—only to find out that companies are now hiring unqualified mental health coaches instead of licensed therapists
 for a fraction of the pay. Sound unfair? It is. And it’s happening right now. Let’s talk about what this means for our profession and what we can do about it. In this episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists, I dive into a jaw-dropping trend that’s reshaping the mental health industry: the rise of mental health coaching as a cheaper alternative to therapy. With big corporations jumping on this bandwagon, therapists everywhere need to be paying attention. We’ll cover: - What mental health coaching really is (and what it isn’t) - How corporations are replacing therapists with under-qualified “coaches” - Why this shift is dangerous for clients and for our profession - What therapists can do to protect their careers and reclaim this space Timestamps: 00:00 - Wait, What?! Big Companies Are Hiring Coaches Instead of Therapists?! 01:34 - The Rise of Mental Health Coaches 02:52 - The Future of Mental Health Care 05:39 - The Differences Between Therapy and Mental Health Coaching 11:40 - How This Impacts Therapists, Your Career, and Your Growth 13:10 - What We Can Do To Fight Back (And Why We Must!) 18:11 - Coaching Certification for Therapists and Resources I know this is frustrating. You’ve worked hard to build your skills, develop your expertise, and serve your clients with integrity. It’s infuriating to see big companies sidestep ethical, evidence-based care in favor of cost-cutting alternatives. But here’s the good news: we are not powerless. The more we educate ourselves and take action, the more we can shape the future of our field. If you’re wondering how you can ethically integrate coaching into your practice (without crossing ethical lines or diminishing your value), check out my free masterclass: The Therapist’s Guide to Coaching. In this training, I break down exactly how therapists can use coaching as a powerful, evidence-based tool for non-clinical clients—helping you expand your impact, attract dream clients, and stay aligned with best practices. I’d love to hear your thoughts on this! Let’s keep the conversation going—connect with me on LinkedIn and be part of this amazing community of therapists who are standing up for our profession. Xoxo Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby www.growingself.com P.S. I encourage you to share this episode with your fellow therapists. The more we talk about this issue, the more awareness we create! Wed, 05 Mar 2025 23:00:00 -0000 full 1 56 Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby   Imagine spending years in graduate school, racking up thousands of hours in supervision, investing in continuing education—only to find out that companies are now hiring unqualified mental health coaches instead of licensed therapists
 for a fraction of the pay. Sound unfair? It is. And it’s happening right now. Let’s talk about what this means for our profession and what we can do about it. In this episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists, I dive into a jaw-dropping trend that’s reshaping the mental health industry: the rise of mental health coaching as a cheaper alternative to therapy. With big corporations jumping on this bandwagon, therapists everywhere need to be paying attention. We’ll cover: - What mental health coaching really is (and what it isn’t) - How corporations are replacing therapists with under-qualified “coaches” - Why this shift is dangerous for clients and for our profession - What therapists can do to protect their careers and reclaim this space Timestamps: 00:00 - Wait, What?! Big Companies Are Hiring Coaches Instead of Therapists?! 01:34 - The Rise of Mental Health Coaches 02:52 - The Future of Mental Health Care 05:39 - The Differences Between Therapy and Mental Health Coaching 11:40 - How This Impacts Therapists, Your Career, and Your Growth 13:10 - What We Can Do To Fight Back (And Why We Must!) 18:11 - Coaching Certification for Therapists and Resources I know this is frustrating. You’ve worked hard to build your skills, develop your expertise, and serve your clients with integrity. It’s infuriating to see big companies sidestep ethical, evidence-based care in favor of cost-cutting alternatives. But here’s the good news: we are not powerless. The more we educate ourselves and take action, the more we can shape the future of our field. If you’re wondering how you can ethically integrate coaching into your practice (without crossing ethical lines or diminishing your value), check out my free masterclass: The Therapist’s Guide to Coaching. In this training, I break down exactly how therapists can use coaching as a powerful, evidence-based tool for non-clinical clients—helping you expand your impact, attract dream clients, and stay aligned with best practices. I’d love to hear your thoughts on this! Let’s keep the conversation going—connect with me on LinkedIn and be part of this amazing community of therapists who are standing up for our profession. Xoxo Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby www.growingself.com P.S. I encourage you to share this episode with your fellow therapists. The more we talk about this issue, the more awareness we create!  

Imagine spending years in graduate school, racking up thousands of hours in supervision, investing in continuing education—only to find out that companies are now hiring unqualified mental health coaches instead of licensed therapists
 for a fraction of the pay. Sound unfair? It is. And it’s happening right now. Let’s talk about what this means for our profession and what we can do about it.

In this episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists, I dive into a jaw-dropping trend that’s reshaping the mental health industry: the rise of mental health coaching as a cheaper alternative to therapy. With big corporations jumping on this bandwagon, therapists everywhere need to be paying attention.

We’ll cover: - What mental health coaching really is (and what it isn’t) - How corporations are replacing therapists with under-qualified “coaches” - Why this shift is dangerous for clients and for our profession - What therapists can do to protect their careers and reclaim this space

Timestamps: 00:00 - Wait, What?! Big Companies Are Hiring Coaches Instead of Therapists?! 01:34 - The Rise of Mental Health Coaches 02:52 - The Future of Mental Health Care 05:39 - The Differences Between Therapy and Mental Health Coaching 11:40 - How This Impacts Therapists, Your Career, and Your Growth 13:10 - What We Can Do To Fight Back (And Why We Must!) 18:11 - Coaching Certification for Therapists and Resources

I know this is frustrating. You’ve worked hard to build your skills, develop your expertise, and serve your clients with integrity. It’s infuriating to see big companies sidestep ethical, evidence-based care in favor of cost-cutting alternatives. But here’s the good news: we are not powerless. The more we educate ourselves and take action, the more we can shape the future of our field.

If you’re wondering how you can ethically integrate coaching into your practice (without crossing ethical lines or diminishing your value), check out my free masterclass: The Therapist’s Guide to Coaching. In this training, I break down exactly how therapists can use coaching as a powerful, evidence-based tool for non-clinical clients—helping you expand your impact, attract dream clients, and stay aligned with best practices.

I’d love to hear your thoughts on this! Let’s keep the conversation going—connect with me on LinkedIn and be part of this amazing community of therapists who are standing up for our profession.

Xoxo Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby www.growingself.com

P.S. I encourage you to share this episode with your fellow therapists. The more we talk about this issue, the more awareness we create!

]]> 1902 no Help! My Client Says ‘Therapy Isn’t Working’—Now What? | E55 https://www.growingself.com/therapy-isn't-working-for-client Ever had that gut-wrenching moment when a client looks you in the eye and says, "Therapy isn’t working for me"? It's like a punch to the professional solar plexus, right? I get it. When therapy stalls, it can trigger our self-doubt and imposter syndrome. But here’s the truth: this isn’t a failure—it’s a turning point.  In this episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists, I dive deep into navigating these challenging conversations and turning them into opportunities for growth—for both you and your client.  Together, we’ll explore why clients sometimes feel stuck, how to assess what’s really going on, and most importantly—what you can do to re-engage them in the process. Because let’s be real: simply throwing another CBT worksheet at them and hoping for the best isn’t the answer (been there, done that). Timestamps: 00:00 – The Dreaded Client Confession: "I don't think this is working." 01:43 – Reflecting on your therapeutic approach. 07:42 – The Eclectic Conundrum: When having too many tools leads to confusion. 12:00 – Roadmaps Over Randomness: Establishing a clear theory of change. 15:14 – Coaching vs. Therapy: Bridging the gap for non-clinical clients. 21:57 – Action Steps: Practical tips to enhance your practice. 29:58 – Resources for thriving as a therapist Therapy is an evolving process—for our clients and for us. If a client isn’t making progress, it doesn’t mean you’re a bad therapist. It means there’s an opportunity to fine-tune your approach, clarify expectations, or expand your skill set. In many cases, therapists are using a therapy model for clients who would actually benefit from coaching psychology. If someone is struggling with general life satisfaction, career transitions, or goal-setting—but doesn’t meet diagnostic criteria for a mental health condition—traditional therapy might not be what they need. Instead, a structured coaching approach can help them develop clarity, motivation, and action-oriented change. Coaching psychology is a real, evidence-based approach that therapists can (and should) be trained in. If you’re curious about strengthening your ability to work with coaching clients—or just want to feel more confident when a client is struggling—check out my Therapist’s Guide to Coaching Masterclass. It’s free, packed with insights, and a game-changer for therapists in private practice. Don't let these moments shake your confidence. Instead, let's use them as catalysts for professional evolution. If this episode was helpful for you, check out my other podcast episodes for therapists and connect with me on LinkedIn! I’m always sharing tidbits of info over there. I’d love to hear from you.  Xoxo Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby www.growingself.com P.S. Pass this episode along to a colleague or friend who could use this advice today. Let’s help each other grow.   Wed, 26 Feb 2025 23:04:00 -0000 full 1 55 Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Ever had that gut-wrenching moment when a client looks you in the eye and says, "Therapy isn’t working for me"? It's like a punch to the professional solar plexus, right? I get it. When therapy stalls, it can trigger our self-doubt and imposter syndrome. But here’s the truth: this isn’t a failure—it’s a turning point.  In this episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists, I dive deep into navigating these challenging conversations and turning them into opportunities for growth—for both you and your client.  Together, we’ll explore why clients sometimes feel stuck, how to assess what’s really going on, and most importantly—what you can do to re-engage them in the process. Because let’s be real: simply throwing another CBT worksheet at them and hoping for the best isn’t the answer (been there, done that). Timestamps: 00:00 – The Dreaded Client Confession: "I don't think this is working." 01:43 – Reflecting on your therapeutic approach. 07:42 – The Eclectic Conundrum: When having too many tools leads to confusion. 12:00 – Roadmaps Over Randomness: Establishing a clear theory of change. 15:14 – Coaching vs. Therapy: Bridging the gap for non-clinical clients. 21:57 – Action Steps: Practical tips to enhance your practice. 29:58 – Resources for thriving as a therapist Therapy is an evolving process—for our clients and for us. If a client isn’t making progress, it doesn’t mean you’re a bad therapist. It means there’s an opportunity to fine-tune your approach, clarify expectations, or expand your skill set. In many cases, therapists are using a therapy model for clients who would actually benefit from coaching psychology. If someone is struggling with general life satisfaction, career transitions, or goal-setting—but doesn’t meet diagnostic criteria for a mental health condition—traditional therapy might not be what they need. Instead, a structured coaching approach can help them develop clarity, motivation, and action-oriented change. Coaching psychology is a real, evidence-based approach that therapists can (and should) be trained in. If you’re curious about strengthening your ability to work with coaching clients—or just want to feel more confident when a client is struggling—check out my Therapist’s Guide to Coaching Masterclass. It’s free, packed with insights, and a game-changer for therapists in private practice. Don't let these moments shake your confidence. Instead, let's use them as catalysts for professional evolution. If this episode was helpful for you, check out my other podcast episodes for therapists and connect with me on LinkedIn! I’m always sharing tidbits of info over there. I’d love to hear from you.  Xoxo Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby www.growingself.com P.S. Pass this episode along to a colleague or friend who could use this advice today. Let’s help each other grow.   Ever had that gut-wrenching moment when a client looks you in the eye and says, "Therapy isn’t working for me"? It's like a punch to the professional solar plexus, right? I get it. When therapy stalls, it can trigger our self-doubt and imposter syndrome. But here’s the truth: this isn’t a failure—it’s a turning point. 

In this episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists, I dive deep into navigating these challenging conversations and turning them into opportunities for growth—for both you and your client. 

Together, we’ll explore why clients sometimes feel stuck, how to assess what’s really going on, and most importantly—what you can do to re-engage them in the process. Because let’s be real: simply throwing another CBT worksheet at them and hoping for the best isn’t the answer (been there, done that).

Timestamps:

  • 00:00 – The Dreaded Client Confession: "I don't think this is working."

  • 01:43 – Reflecting on your therapeutic approach.

  • 07:42 – The Eclectic Conundrum: When having too many tools leads to confusion.

  • 12:00 – Roadmaps Over Randomness: Establishing a clear theory of change.

  • 15:14 – Coaching vs. Therapy: Bridging the gap for non-clinical clients.

  • 21:57 – Action Steps: Practical tips to enhance your practice.

  • 29:58 – Resources for thriving as a therapist

Therapy is an evolving process—for our clients and for us. If a client isn’t making progress, it doesn’t mean you’re a bad therapist. It means there’s an opportunity to fine-tune your approach, clarify expectations, or expand your skill set.

In many cases, therapists are using a therapy model for clients who would actually benefit from coaching psychology. If someone is struggling with general life satisfaction, career transitions, or goal-setting—but doesn’t meet diagnostic criteria for a mental health condition—traditional therapy might not be what they need. Instead, a structured coaching approach can help them develop clarity, motivation, and action-oriented change.

Coaching psychology is a real, evidence-based approach that therapists can (and should) be trained in. If you’re curious about strengthening your ability to work with coaching clients—or just want to feel more confident when a client is struggling—check out my Therapist’s Guide to Coaching Masterclass. It’s free, packed with insights, and a game-changer for therapists in private practice.

Don't let these moments shake your confidence. Instead, let's use them as catalysts for professional evolution. If this episode was helpful for you, check out my other podcast episodes for therapists and connect with me on LinkedIn! I’m always sharing tidbits of info over there. I’d love to hear from you. 

Xoxo

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

www.growingself.com

P.S. Pass this episode along to a colleague or friend who could use this advice today. Let’s help each other grow.

 

]]> 2214 no Why You’re Probably Committing Therapy Insurance Fraud (And How to Stop) | E54 https://growingself.com/therapy-insurance-fraud Therapists, we need to have a real conversation about insurance fraud. I know, I know. You’re probably thinking, "Lisa, I would NEVER do that!" But hear me out
 many private practice therapists are accidentally stepping over the ethical line when billing insurance. And it’s way more common than we like to admit. In this episode, I’m peeling back the curtain on the unspoken truth about therapist insurance fraud—why it happens, the systemic pressures that push therapists into ethical gray areas, and most importantly, what you can do to stay on the right side of it (without losing clients or revenue). Timestamps: 00:00 - The Hidden Issue of Insurance Fraud in Therapy 02:29 - The Dilemma of Non-Clinical Clients 05:35 - The Problem with Fudging Diagnoses 06:25 - The Impact on Couples Therapy 15:46 - The Ethical Stand Against Pathologizing 17:58 - The Solution: Coaching Psychology 22:24 - The Benefits of Becoming a Board Certified Coach 26:47 - Free Resources for Therapists If this conversation has you rethinking how you structure your practice, I’m here to help with a solution! Many therapists feel stuck in the insurance model, wrestling with ethical gray areas just to make things work. But here’s the truth: there’s a better way.  Therapists who implement a coaching model into their practice not only avoid the ethical dilemma of insurance fraud, but also end up working with highly-motivated, growth-oriented clients and thriving personally, professionally, and financially. It’s a huge win all around.  If you’re a therapist who’s curious about coaching and how it can transform your practice, check out my free Masterclass: The Therapist’s Guide to Coaching. It’s designed to help you confidently integrate coaching into your work, attract and serve motivated clients (who don’t need a mental health diagnosis), and run a profitable, sustainable practice without being tied to restrictive insurance policies. If you want to build a practice that aligns with your values, this is for you.  Also, check out my other LHS For Therapists podcast episodes for more therapist-focused professional development content. Every week I share my insights, research, and interviews with experts in our field so you can thrive as a therapist. You can also connect with me on LinkedIn! It’s a great way to build community and support for yourself as a therapist. I'd love to hear from you! Xoxo Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby www.growingself.com P.S. If this episode resonated with you, please share it with a fellow therapist—this is a conversation we all need to be having.   Wed, 19 Feb 2025 23:00:00 -0000 full 1 54 Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Therapists, we need to have a real conversation about insurance fraud. I know, I know. You’re probably thinking, "Lisa, I would NEVER do that!" But hear me out
 many private practice therapists are accidentally stepping over the ethical line when billing insurance. And it’s way more common than we like to admit. In this episode, I’m peeling back the curtain on the unspoken truth about therapist insurance fraud—why it happens, the systemic pressures that push therapists into ethical gray areas, and most importantly, what you can do to stay on the right side of it (without losing clients or revenue). Timestamps: 00:00 - The Hidden Issue of Insurance Fraud in Therapy 02:29 - The Dilemma of Non-Clinical Clients 05:35 - The Problem with Fudging Diagnoses 06:25 - The Impact on Couples Therapy 15:46 - The Ethical Stand Against Pathologizing 17:58 - The Solution: Coaching Psychology 22:24 - The Benefits of Becoming a Board Certified Coach 26:47 - Free Resources for Therapists If this conversation has you rethinking how you structure your practice, I’m here to help with a solution! Many therapists feel stuck in the insurance model, wrestling with ethical gray areas just to make things work. But here’s the truth: there’s a better way.  Therapists who implement a coaching model into their practice not only avoid the ethical dilemma of insurance fraud, but also end up working with highly-motivated, growth-oriented clients and thriving personally, professionally, and financially. It’s a huge win all around.  If you’re a therapist who’s curious about coaching and how it can transform your practice, check out my free Masterclass: The Therapist’s Guide to Coaching. It’s designed to help you confidently integrate coaching into your work, attract and serve motivated clients (who don’t need a mental health diagnosis), and run a profitable, sustainable practice without being tied to restrictive insurance policies. If you want to build a practice that aligns with your values, this is for you.  Also, check out my other LHS For Therapists podcast episodes for more therapist-focused professional development content. Every week I share my insights, research, and interviews with experts in our field so you can thrive as a therapist. You can also connect with me on LinkedIn! It’s a great way to build community and support for yourself as a therapist. I'd love to hear from you! Xoxo Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby www.growingself.com P.S. If this episode resonated with you, please share it with a fellow therapist—this is a conversation we all need to be having.   Therapists, we need to have a real conversation about insurance fraud.

I know, I know. You’re probably thinking, "Lisa, I would NEVER do that!" But hear me out
 many private practice therapists are accidentally stepping over the ethical line when billing insurance. And it’s way more common than we like to admit.

In this episode, I’m peeling back the curtain on the unspoken truth about therapist insurance fraud—why it happens, the systemic pressures that push therapists into ethical gray areas, and most importantly, what you can do to stay on the right side of it (without losing clients or revenue).

Timestamps:

00:00 - The Hidden Issue of Insurance Fraud in Therapy

02:29 - The Dilemma of Non-Clinical Clients

05:35 - The Problem with Fudging Diagnoses

06:25 - The Impact on Couples Therapy

15:46 - The Ethical Stand Against Pathologizing

17:58 - The Solution: Coaching Psychology

22:24 - The Benefits of Becoming a Board Certified Coach

26:47 - Free Resources for Therapists

If this conversation has you rethinking how you structure your practice, I’m here to help with a solution! Many therapists feel stuck in the insurance model, wrestling with ethical gray areas just to make things work. But here’s the truth: there’s a better way. 

Therapists who implement a coaching model into their practice not only avoid the ethical dilemma of insurance fraud, but also end up working with highly-motivated, growth-oriented clients and thriving personally, professionally, and financially. It’s a huge win all around. 

If you’re a therapist who’s curious about coaching and how it can transform your practice, check out my free Masterclass: The Therapist’s Guide to Coaching. It’s designed to help you confidently integrate coaching into your work, attract and serve motivated clients (who don’t need a mental health diagnosis), and run a profitable, sustainable practice without being tied to restrictive insurance policies. If you want to build a practice that aligns with your values, this is for you. 

Also, check out my other LHS For Therapists podcast episodes for more therapist-focused professional development content. Every week I share my insights, research, and interviews with experts in our field so you can thrive as a therapist. You can also connect with me on LinkedIn! It’s a great way to build community and support for yourself as a therapist. I'd love to hear from you!

Xoxo

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

www.growingself.com

P.S. If this episode resonated with you, please share it with a fellow therapist—this is a conversation we all need to be having.

 

]]> 1882 no Therapist Scope of Competence: Recognizing When You’re Out of Your Depth | E53 https://www.growingself.com/therapist-scope-of-competence Therapists, have you ever sat across from a client and thought, “Am I really equipped to help with this?” Maybe you’re nodding and empathizing on the outside while mentally Googling a treatment strategy or a diagnosis after they leave. If so, you’re not alone. I’ve been there! In this episode of Love, Happiness, and Success For Therapists, I’m diving into one of the most important—and often overlooked—topics for therapists: understanding your scope of competence. We’ll talk about how to recognize when you’re stretching beyond your expertise, why it matters for you and your clients, and how to confidently navigate those gray areas we all face. Timestamps: 0:00 - The “Am I Winging It?” Moment Every Therapist Faces 1:46 - Why Saying No Can Be the Best Gift You Give Your Clients 5:22 - Developing a Clear Roadmap 10:12 - Handling Client Evolution 17:44 - Warning Signs of Overstepping Boundaries 29:16 - How to Build a Dream Team Referral Network 35:05 - Why Self-Reflection Is Your #1 Tool for Staying Ethical and Effective Understanding your scope of competence as a therapist can be tricky. Therapists like you do incredible work. But let’s be honest—it’s hard to navigate sometimes! That’s why I created this podcast and my weekly For Therapists newsletter. I’m here to support you, just like you support your clients. In my weekly newsletter, I gather advice from my interviews with industry experts, the latest research on therapeutic modalities, and strategies for personal and professional growth to help you be the best therapist you can be—without burning out in the process.  If you’d like that steady stream of professional insights, free resources, and a little extra emotional support, sign up for my newsletter here. It's such an honor for me to be able to support you all and the amazing work that you do with your clients. You give so much—let me give back to you. I’d also love to connect with you on LinkedIn! I’m always sharing my thoughts and experiences and chatting with other therapists over there. It’s a great way to build community and support with people who get it. I hope I see you there!  Xoxo Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby www.growingself.com P.S. If you enjoyed this episode, check out some of my others and share it with your professional community—because we all know a colleague who could use a little clarity in this area. Wed, 12 Feb 2025 23:00:00 -0000 full 1 53 Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Therapists, have you ever sat across from a client and thought, “Am I really equipped to help with this?” Maybe you’re nodding and empathizing on the outside while mentally Googling a treatment strategy or a diagnosis after they leave. If so, you’re not alone. I’ve been there! In this episode of Love, Happiness, and Success For Therapists, I’m diving into one of the most important—and often overlooked—topics for therapists: understanding your scope of competence. We’ll talk about how to recognize when you’re stretching beyond your expertise, why it matters for you and your clients, and how to confidently navigate those gray areas we all face. Timestamps: 0:00 - The “Am I Winging It?” Moment Every Therapist Faces 1:46 - Why Saying No Can Be the Best Gift You Give Your Clients 5:22 - Developing a Clear Roadmap 10:12 - Handling Client Evolution 17:44 - Warning Signs of Overstepping Boundaries 29:16 - How to Build a Dream Team Referral Network 35:05 - Why Self-Reflection Is Your #1 Tool for Staying Ethical and Effective Understanding your scope of competence as a therapist can be tricky. Therapists like you do incredible work. But let’s be honest—it’s hard to navigate sometimes! That’s why I created this podcast and my weekly For Therapists newsletter. I’m here to support you, just like you support your clients. In my weekly newsletter, I gather advice from my interviews with industry experts, the latest research on therapeutic modalities, and strategies for personal and professional growth to help you be the best therapist you can be—without burning out in the process.  If you’d like that steady stream of professional insights, free resources, and a little extra emotional support, sign up for my newsletter here. It's such an honor for me to be able to support you all and the amazing work that you do with your clients. You give so much—let me give back to you. I’d also love to connect with you on LinkedIn! I’m always sharing my thoughts and experiences and chatting with other therapists over there. It’s a great way to build community and support with people who get it. I hope I see you there!  Xoxo Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby www.growingself.com P.S. If you enjoyed this episode, check out some of my others and share it with your professional community—because we all know a colleague who could use a little clarity in this area. Therapists, have you ever sat across from a client and thought, “Am I really equipped to help with this?” Maybe you’re nodding and empathizing on the outside while mentally Googling a treatment strategy or a diagnosis after they leave. If so, you’re not alone. I’ve been there!

In this episode of Love, Happiness, and Success For Therapists, I’m diving into one of the most important—and often overlooked—topics for therapists: understanding your scope of competence. We’ll talk about how to recognize when you’re stretching beyond your expertise, why it matters for you and your clients, and how to confidently navigate those gray areas we all face.

Timestamps:

  • 0:00 - The “Am I Winging It?” Moment Every Therapist Faces
  • 1:46 - Why Saying No Can Be the Best Gift You Give Your Clients
  • 5:22 - Developing a Clear Roadmap
  • 10:12 - Handling Client Evolution
  • 17:44 - Warning Signs of Overstepping Boundaries
  • 29:16 - How to Build a Dream Team Referral Network
  • 35:05 - Why Self-Reflection Is Your #1 Tool for Staying Ethical and Effective

Understanding your scope of competence as a therapist can be tricky. Therapists like you do incredible work. But let’s be honest—it’s hard to navigate sometimes! That’s why I created this podcast and my weekly For Therapists newsletter. I’m here to support you, just like you support your clients.

In my weekly newsletter, I gather advice from my interviews with industry experts, the latest research on therapeutic modalities, and strategies for personal and professional growth to help you be the best therapist you can be—without burning out in the process. 

If you’d like that steady stream of professional insights, free resources, and a little extra emotional support, sign up for my newsletter here. It's such an honor for me to be able to support you all and the amazing work that you do with your clients. You give so much—let me give back to you.

I’d also love to connect with you on LinkedIn! I’m always sharing my thoughts and experiences and chatting with other therapists over there. It’s a great way to build community and support with people who get it. I hope I see you there! 

Xoxo

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

www.growingself.com

P.S. If you enjoyed this episode, check out some of my others and share it with your professional community—because we all know a colleague who could use a little clarity in this area.

]]> 2762 no How Sleep Therapy Can Supercharge Client Outcomes | E51 https://growingself.com/Sleep-Therapy What if the key to helping your therapy clients with anxiety, depression, or ADHD might actually be sleep? In this episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists, I’m diving deep into the connection between sleep and mental health and the power of sleep therapy with the brilliant Dr. Michelle Okun, an expert in sleep psychology. We break down the incredible science behind how sleep affects everything from mood and memory to stress and physical health—and how therapists like us can integrate sleep awareness into our practice to achieve better, faster outcomes for our clients. Chapters: 00:00 - The Overlooked Importance of Sleep in Therapy  01:44 - Meet Dr. Michelle Okun: Sleep Psychology Expert  03:54 - The Impact of Sleep on Mental Health  07:59 - Understanding Sleep Disorders and Their Effects  12:48 - Clinical Practices for Assessing Sleep Issues  25:46 - The Role of Sleep Studies in Treatment  48:32 - Therapist Self-Care: The Importance of Sleep  53:00 - Enhancing Therapy Through Sleep Awareness I learned so much from this episode. I hope you did too. If this was helpful for you, there's more where that came from! Each week I'm sharing critical info every modern therapist must know, and talking to thought leaders in our field. This is all for you! Sign up for my newsletter so you stay in the loop. Also, let’s connect on LinkedIn! It’s a place where us therapists can come together to share insights, support one another, and learn actionable strategies to elevate your practice. I’d love to hear from you!  Xoxo Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby www.growingself.com P.S. Share this episode with your professional community—it could be the advice one of your colleagues is looking for!   Wed, 29 Jan 2025 23:00:00 -0000 full 1 51 Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby What if the key to helping your therapy clients with anxiety, depression, or ADHD might actually be sleep? In this episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists, I’m diving deep into the connection between sleep and mental health and the power of sleep therapy with the brilliant Dr. Michelle Okun, an expert in sleep psychology. We break down the incredible science behind how sleep affects everything from mood and memory to stress and physical health—and how therapists like us can integrate sleep awareness into our practice to achieve better, faster outcomes for our clients. Chapters: 00:00 - The Overlooked Importance of Sleep in Therapy  01:44 - Meet Dr. Michelle Okun: Sleep Psychology Expert  03:54 - The Impact of Sleep on Mental Health  07:59 - Understanding Sleep Disorders and Their Effects  12:48 - Clinical Practices for Assessing Sleep Issues  25:46 - The Role of Sleep Studies in Treatment  48:32 - Therapist Self-Care: The Importance of Sleep  53:00 - Enhancing Therapy Through Sleep Awareness I learned so much from this episode. I hope you did too. If this was helpful for you, there's more where that came from! Each week I'm sharing critical info every modern therapist must know, and talking to thought leaders in our field. This is all for you! Sign up for my newsletter so you stay in the loop. Also, let’s connect on LinkedIn! It’s a place where us therapists can come together to share insights, support one another, and learn actionable strategies to elevate your practice. I’d love to hear from you!  Xoxo Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby www.growingself.com P.S. Share this episode with your professional community—it could be the advice one of your colleagues is looking for!   What if the key to helping your therapy clients with anxiety, depression, or ADHD might actually be sleep? In this episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists, I’m diving deep into the connection between sleep and mental health and the power of sleep therapy with the brilliant Dr. Michelle Okun, an expert in sleep psychology.

We break down the incredible science behind how sleep affects everything from mood and memory to stress and physical health—and how therapists like us can integrate sleep awareness into our practice to achieve better, faster outcomes for our clients.

Chapters:

00:00 - The Overlooked Importance of Sleep in Therapy 

01:44 - Meet Dr. Michelle Okun: Sleep Psychology Expert 

03:54 - The Impact of Sleep on Mental Health 

07:59 - Understanding Sleep Disorders and Their Effects 

12:48 - Clinical Practices for Assessing Sleep Issues 

25:46 - The Role of Sleep Studies in Treatment 

48:32 - Therapist Self-Care: The Importance of Sleep 

53:00 - Enhancing Therapy Through Sleep Awareness

I learned so much from this episode. I hope you did too. If this was helpful for you, there's more where that came from! Each week I'm sharing critical info every modern therapist must know, and talking to thought leaders in our field. This is all for you! Sign up for my newsletter so you stay in the loop.

Also, let’s connect on LinkedIn! It’s a place where us therapists can come together to share insights, support one another, and learn actionable strategies to elevate your practice. I’d love to hear from you! 

Xoxo

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

www.growingself.com

P.S. Share this episode with your professional community—it could be the advice one of your colleagues is looking for!

 

]]> 2913 no When Helping Others Starts to Hurt You: Managing Therapist Burnout | E50 https://growingself.com/therapist-burnout Therapists, are you feeling exhausted, unmotivated, or questioning your place in the field? Burnout is more than just feeling tired—it’s a profound, deeply personal experience that can derail our careers, our health, and our relationships. In this episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists, I’m sitting down with Dr. Jen Blanchette. Together, we dive deep into the reality of therapist burnout—what it looks like, why it happens, and how we, as therapists, can start the process of recovery. You’ll learn to spot the early signs of therapist burnout, understand the deeper factors behind it, and tackle challenges like clinical grief and compassion fatigue. You'll come away with practical strategies to set boundaries, build support systems, and create space for real rest, so you can regain your energy, focus, and passion. Plus, we'll explore ways to pivot within the field and add joy back into your practice! Timestamps: 00:00: What is Therapist Burnout? Recognizing the signs 00:40: Meet Dr. Jen Blanchette – A psychologist and burnout expert 06:09: Why burnout thrives in silence 09:43: Coping as a therapist 18:29: Burnout Symptoms 25:45: Rest and Recovery 28:27: When to pivot professionally 30:27: The Power of Community 34:28: End-stage burnout and what’s next 43:21: Your Identity Beyond Work  If anything we’ve talked about today hits close to home, I want you to know that you don’t have to figure this out alone. Truly, there are steps you can take to start feeling better and moving forward—and I’m here to help. I created this free Flourish and Thrive: Banishing Burnout Quiz to help therapists just like you on their path to success and wellness. It will show you what’s working, what’s not, and how to pivot toward a career and life that fulfills you. It’s quick, free, and packed with insights tailored just for you. Take a moment for yourself today—you deserve to thrive. Also, let’s stay connected! I’m always sharing tips, resources, and inspiration to help therapists grow and succeed. Come say hi on LinkedIn—you can follow me here. I’d love to hear from you. Xoxo Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby www.growingself.com PS: Don’t forget to leave a comment and share your burnout journey (or questions!). Let’s keep this conversation going. 😊 Wed, 22 Jan 2025 23:00:00 -0000 full 1 50 Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Therapists, are you feeling exhausted, unmotivated, or questioning your place in the field? Burnout is more than just feeling tired—it’s a profound, deeply personal experience that can derail our careers, our health, and our relationships. In this episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists, I’m sitting down with Dr. Jen Blanchette. Together, we dive deep into the reality of therapist burnout—what it looks like, why it happens, and how we, as therapists, can start the process of recovery. You’ll learn to spot the early signs of therapist burnout, understand the deeper factors behind it, and tackle challenges like clinical grief and compassion fatigue. You'll come away with practical strategies to set boundaries, build support systems, and create space for real rest, so you can regain your energy, focus, and passion. Plus, we'll explore ways to pivot within the field and add joy back into your practice! Timestamps: 00:00: What is Therapist Burnout? Recognizing the signs 00:40: Meet Dr. Jen Blanchette – A psychologist and burnout expert 06:09: Why burnout thrives in silence 09:43: Coping as a therapist 18:29: Burnout Symptoms 25:45: Rest and Recovery 28:27: When to pivot professionally 30:27: The Power of Community 34:28: End-stage burnout and what’s next 43:21: Your Identity Beyond Work  If anything we’ve talked about today hits close to home, I want you to know that you don’t have to figure this out alone. Truly, there are steps you can take to start feeling better and moving forward—and I’m here to help. I created this free Flourish and Thrive: Banishing Burnout Quiz to help therapists just like you on their path to success and wellness. It will show you what’s working, what’s not, and how to pivot toward a career and life that fulfills you. It’s quick, free, and packed with insights tailored just for you. Take a moment for yourself today—you deserve to thrive. Also, let’s stay connected! I’m always sharing tips, resources, and inspiration to help therapists grow and succeed. Come say hi on LinkedIn—you can follow me here. I’d love to hear from you. Xoxo Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby www.growingself.com PS: Don’t forget to leave a comment and share your burnout journey (or questions!). Let’s keep this conversation going. 😊 Therapists, are you feeling exhausted, unmotivated, or questioning your place in the field? Burnout is more than just feeling tired—it’s a profound, deeply personal experience that can derail our careers, our health, and our relationships.

In this episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists, I’m sitting down with Dr. Jen Blanchette. Together, we dive deep into the reality of therapist burnout—what it looks like, why it happens, and how we, as therapists, can start the process of recovery.

You’ll learn to spot the early signs of therapist burnout, understand the deeper factors behind it, and tackle challenges like clinical grief and compassion fatigue. You'll come away with practical strategies to set boundaries, build support systems, and create space for real rest, so you can regain your energy, focus, and passion. Plus, we'll explore ways to pivot within the field and add joy back into your practice!

Timestamps: 00:00: What is Therapist Burnout? Recognizing the signs 00:40: Meet Dr. Jen Blanchette – A psychologist and burnout expert 06:09: Why burnout thrives in silence 09:43: Coping as a therapist 18:29: Burnout Symptoms 25:45: Rest and Recovery 28:27: When to pivot professionally 30:27: The Power of Community 34:28: End-stage burnout and what’s next 43:21: Your Identity Beyond Work 

If anything we’ve talked about today hits close to home, I want you to know that you don’t have to figure this out alone. Truly, there are steps you can take to start feeling better and moving forward—and I’m here to help.

I created this free Flourish and Thrive: Banishing Burnout Quiz to help therapists just like you on their path to success and wellness. It will show you what’s working, what’s not, and how to pivot toward a career and life that fulfills you. It’s quick, free, and packed with insights tailored just for you. Take a moment for yourself today—you deserve to thrive.

Also, let’s stay connected! I’m always sharing tips, resources, and inspiration to help therapists grow and succeed. Come say hi on LinkedIn—you can follow me here. I’d love to hear from you.

Xoxo

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

www.growingself.com

PS: Don’t forget to leave a comment and share your burnout journey (or questions!). Let’s keep this conversation going. 😊

]]> 2840 no Have Them at ‘Hello’ - Secrets to New Client Engagement | E49 https://www.growingself.com/therapy-client-engagement/   You had a first meeting with a prospective therapy client that YOU thought went great
 but the client never came back. Here’s why: Therapists don’t know how to communicate their value. Why do amazing therapists struggle with therapy client engagement? Spoiler alert: It’s not about your clinical skills, it's about how you connect. Engaging therapy clients isn’t just about being good at what you do; it’s about helping prospective clients see the unique value you bring. In this episode of Love Happiness and Success for Therapists, I’ll walk you through actionable steps to engage therapy clients, communicate your unique value, and grow a thriving private practice. You’ll learn how to structure consultations that naturally build trust and connection, how to address common concerns around cost, time, and readiness, and how to effectively communicate your process and unique approach to therapy. Chapters: 00:00 Introduction: Why Client Engagement Matters 00:45 The Common Struggles of Private Practice Therapists 01:47 Overcoming the Fear of Self-Promotion 03:33 Connect with Clients Before They Meet You 11:57 Helping Clients Define Their Goals 15:14 Explaining Your Therapy Process with Clarity 23:59 Tackling Client Objections Gracefully 28:18 Highlighting Your Unique Value Proposition 31:13 Mastering Post-Consultation Follow-Ups 34:12 Reflect, Refine, and Grow Your Practice 38:17 More Resources to Support You Your clients need more than what conventional therapy alone can offer. The reality? “Coaches” without formal training are scooping up the opportunities you’re missing, because they have a structured framework of change that they can communicate - and clients love it. You can learn how to do this too! In my free “What Every Therapist Must Know About Coaching” Masterclass, you’ll discover how to integrate evidence-based coaching techniques to stand out in a crowded field and enhance your therapy practice. Coaching tools can help you empower clients to achieve goals faster, deepen their engagement, and create lasting change—all while staying true to your professional integrity. 👉 Join the Masterclass Now and take your practice to the next level! Let’s make 2025 your breakthrough year.  If you found this helpful, check out some of my other episodes for more tips and strategies to elevate your private practice! And hey, share this with your professional community—let’s help each other grow. đŸŒ± Xoxo Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby www.growingself.com P.S. Let’s Connect! I’d love to hear your thoughts and be part of your professional journey. Connect with me on LinkedIn to join an amazing community of therapists growing and thriving together. Wed, 15 Jan 2025 23:00:00 -0000 full 1 49 Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby   You had a first meeting with a prospective therapy client that YOU thought went great
 but the client never came back. Here’s why: Therapists don’t know how to communicate their value. Why do amazing therapists struggle with therapy client engagement? Spoiler alert: It’s not about your clinical skills, it's about how you connect. Engaging therapy clients isn’t just about being good at what you do; it’s about helping prospective clients see the unique value you bring. In this episode of Love Happiness and Success for Therapists, I’ll walk you through actionable steps to engage therapy clients, communicate your unique value, and grow a thriving private practice. You’ll learn how to structure consultations that naturally build trust and connection, how to address common concerns around cost, time, and readiness, and how to effectively communicate your process and unique approach to therapy. Chapters: 00:00 Introduction: Why Client Engagement Matters 00:45 The Common Struggles of Private Practice Therapists 01:47 Overcoming the Fear of Self-Promotion 03:33 Connect with Clients Before They Meet You 11:57 Helping Clients Define Their Goals 15:14 Explaining Your Therapy Process with Clarity 23:59 Tackling Client Objections Gracefully 28:18 Highlighting Your Unique Value Proposition 31:13 Mastering Post-Consultation Follow-Ups 34:12 Reflect, Refine, and Grow Your Practice 38:17 More Resources to Support You Your clients need more than what conventional therapy alone can offer. The reality? “Coaches” without formal training are scooping up the opportunities you’re missing, because they have a structured framework of change that they can communicate - and clients love it. You can learn how to do this too! In my free “What Every Therapist Must Know About Coaching” Masterclass, you’ll discover how to integrate evidence-based coaching techniques to stand out in a crowded field and enhance your therapy practice. Coaching tools can help you empower clients to achieve goals faster, deepen their engagement, and create lasting change—all while staying true to your professional integrity. 👉 Join the Masterclass Now and take your practice to the next level! Let’s make 2025 your breakthrough year.  If you found this helpful, check out some of my other episodes for more tips and strategies to elevate your private practice! And hey, share this with your professional community—let’s help each other grow. đŸŒ± Xoxo Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby www.growingself.com P.S. Let’s Connect! I’d love to hear your thoughts and be part of your professional journey. Connect with me on LinkedIn to join an amazing community of therapists growing and thriving together.  

You had a first meeting with a prospective therapy client that YOU thought went great
 but the client never came back. Here’s why: Therapists don’t know how to communicate their value.

Why do amazing therapists struggle with therapy client engagement? Spoiler alert: It’s not about your clinical skills, it's about how you connect. Engaging therapy clients isn’t just about being good at what you do; it’s about helping prospective clients see the unique value you bring.

In this episode of Love Happiness and Success for Therapists, I’ll walk you through actionable steps to engage therapy clients, communicate your unique value, and grow a thriving private practice. You’ll learn how to structure consultations that naturally build trust and connection, how to address common concerns around cost, time, and readiness, and how to effectively communicate your process and unique approach to therapy.

Chapters: 00:00 Introduction: Why Client Engagement Matters 00:45 The Common Struggles of Private Practice Therapists 01:47 Overcoming the Fear of Self-Promotion 03:33 Connect with Clients Before They Meet You 11:57 Helping Clients Define Their Goals 15:14 Explaining Your Therapy Process with Clarity 23:59 Tackling Client Objections Gracefully 28:18 Highlighting Your Unique Value Proposition 31:13 Mastering Post-Consultation Follow-Ups 34:12 Reflect, Refine, and Grow Your Practice 38:17 More Resources to Support You

Your clients need more than what conventional therapy alone can offer. The reality? “Coaches” without formal training are scooping up the opportunities you’re missing, because they have a structured framework of change that they can communicate - and clients love it. You can learn how to do this too!

In my free “What Every Therapist Must Know About Coaching” Masterclass, you’ll discover how to integrate evidence-based coaching techniques to stand out in a crowded field and enhance your therapy practice. Coaching tools can help you empower clients to achieve goals faster, deepen their engagement, and create lasting change—all while staying true to your professional integrity.

👉 Join the Masterclass Now and take your practice to the next level! Let’s make 2025 your breakthrough year. 

If you found this helpful, check out some of my other episodes for more tips and strategies to elevate your private practice! And hey, share this with your professional community—let’s help each other grow. đŸŒ±

Xoxo

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

www.growingself.com

P.S. Let’s Connect! I’d love to hear your thoughts and be part of your professional journey. Connect with me on LinkedIn to join an amazing community of therapists growing and thriving together.

]]> 2583 no Setting Goals for Us Therapists, Not Just Our Clients | E47 https://www.growingself.com/goal-setting-for-therapists   Therapists, let’s get real—when was the last time you focused on YOUR goals? In this episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists, I’m turning the spotlight on you. We’ll dive into the transformative power of therapist goal-setting—not just for your practice, but for designing a life that feels balanced, fulfilling, and truly aligned with your values. Here’s the deal: If you’ve been putting everyone else’s needs first (sound familiar?), it’s time to check in with yourself. Together, we’ll walk through a simple process to reflect on where you are, where you want to go, and how to actually make it happen. Plus, I’ll share practical tips for avoiding burnout and reigniting your passion for the work you love. 💡 Timestamps: 00:00 - Introduction: Focusing on Therapist Goals 01:27 - The Importance of Self-Care for Therapists 03:30 - Personal and Professional Inventory 04:56 - Emotional and Physical Well-being 07:49 - Continued Development and Support Systems 13:01 - Quality of Life and Work-Life Balance 14:45 - Professional Growth and Specialization 33:11 - Setting and Achieving Specific Goals 37:27 - Conclusion and Resources If you’re ready to grow in your career, check out my Therapists’ Guide to Coaching 2-Part Training. You’ll get a step-by-step guide to clarifying your professional goals, detailed instructions on how to become a certified coach, and education requirements, timelines, and recommended programs to get you there. Adding coaching to your practice can be a game changer in achieving the success and satisfaction you’re looking for. I hope you check it out.  Love this kind of content? Hit the Subscribe button and share this episode with your professional community. Let’s help each other grow and thrive. đŸŒ± Happy New Year! Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby www.growingself.com PS: Let’s connect! Join me on LinkedIn and be part of this amazing therapist community: Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Wed, 01 Jan 2025 23:00:00 -0000 full 1 47 Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby   Therapists, let’s get real—when was the last time you focused on YOUR goals? In this episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists, I’m turning the spotlight on you. We’ll dive into the transformative power of therapist goal-setting—not just for your practice, but for designing a life that feels balanced, fulfilling, and truly aligned with your values. Here’s the deal: If you’ve been putting everyone else’s needs first (sound familiar?), it’s time to check in with yourself. Together, we’ll walk through a simple process to reflect on where you are, where you want to go, and how to actually make it happen. Plus, I’ll share practical tips for avoiding burnout and reigniting your passion for the work you love. 💡 Timestamps: 00:00 - Introduction: Focusing on Therapist Goals 01:27 - The Importance of Self-Care for Therapists 03:30 - Personal and Professional Inventory 04:56 - Emotional and Physical Well-being 07:49 - Continued Development and Support Systems 13:01 - Quality of Life and Work-Life Balance 14:45 - Professional Growth and Specialization 33:11 - Setting and Achieving Specific Goals 37:27 - Conclusion and Resources If you’re ready to grow in your career, check out my Therapists’ Guide to Coaching 2-Part Training. You’ll get a step-by-step guide to clarifying your professional goals, detailed instructions on how to become a certified coach, and education requirements, timelines, and recommended programs to get you there. Adding coaching to your practice can be a game changer in achieving the success and satisfaction you’re looking for. I hope you check it out.  Love this kind of content? Hit the Subscribe button and share this episode with your professional community. Let’s help each other grow and thrive. đŸŒ± Happy New Year! Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby www.growingself.com PS: Let’s connect! Join me on LinkedIn and be part of this amazing therapist community: Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby  

Therapists, let’s get real—when was the last time you focused on YOUR goals? In this episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists, I’m turning the spotlight on you. We’ll dive into the transformative power of therapist goal-setting—not just for your practice, but for designing a life that feels balanced, fulfilling, and truly aligned with your values.

Here’s the deal: If you’ve been putting everyone else’s needs first (sound familiar?), it’s time to check in with yourself. Together, we’ll walk through a simple process to reflect on where you are, where you want to go, and how to actually make it happen. Plus, I’ll share practical tips for avoiding burnout and reigniting your passion for the work you love. 💡

Timestamps:

00:00 - Introduction: Focusing on Therapist Goals

01:27 - The Importance of Self-Care for Therapists

03:30 - Personal and Professional Inventory

04:56 - Emotional and Physical Well-being

07:49 - Continued Development and Support Systems

13:01 - Quality of Life and Work-Life Balance

14:45 - Professional Growth and Specialization

33:11 - Setting and Achieving Specific Goals

37:27 - Conclusion and Resources

If you’re ready to grow in your career, check out my Therapists’ Guide to Coaching 2-Part Training. You’ll get a step-by-step guide to clarifying your professional goals, detailed instructions on how to become a certified coach, and education requirements, timelines, and recommended programs to get you there. Adding coaching to your practice can be a game changer in achieving the success and satisfaction you’re looking for. I hope you check it out. 

Love this kind of content? Hit the Subscribe button and share this episode with your professional community. Let’s help each other grow and thrive. đŸŒ±

Happy New Year!

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

www.growingself.com

PS: Let’s connect! Join me on LinkedIn and be part of this amazing therapist community: Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

]]> 2455 no My Mental Health EHR Was Stealing My Data | LHSFT Classic E28 https://www.growingself.com/mental-health-EHR đŸ”„ Is Your Mental Health EHR Software SABOTAGING Your Therapy Practice? đŸ”„ Hey there, fabulous therapists!  What if the very tools you trust to safeguard your therapy practice are secretly working against you? That’s the exact realization I came to one Saturday morning while reading my mental health EHR provider’s Terms of Service—coffee in one hand, highlighter in the other. What I uncovered left me shocked, angry, and determined to take action. In this episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists, I’m sharing my journey from that unsettling discovery to successfully migrating my practice to a trustworthy platform. I’ll expose the hidden dangers lurking in EHR agreements, including data exploitation, intellectual property grabs, and third-party mishaps, while giving you actionable tips to protect your practice. Timestamps to Guide Your Journey: 00:00 Introduction: A Shocking Discovery 01:17 The Terms of Service Nightmare Begins 02:43 Uncovering the Exploitation 04:14 The EHR System’s Hidden Agendas 10:00 Taking Action: The Radical Steps 15:08 The Migration Challenge 18:24 Sharing the Experience 22:15 The Power of Collective Action 24:09 Practical Tips for Therapists 27:13 Conclusion and Resources As I mentioned in this episode, this experience was just one of many (too many) that I've dealt with in recent years. Unfortunately there are a number of scams targeting therapists, and more than one of my colleagues has gotten duped by them. I share all the details plus the action plan I put in place to harden my practice in this email series: 8 Scams Targeting Therapists. I hope you access it to keep yourself and your practice safe!  🔔 Subscribe to this channel for more essential insights tailored for therapists. If you found this video helpful, share it with your professional community to help us all stay informed and empowered. Xoxo Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby www.growingself.com PS: Want to connect more personally? Join me on LinkedIn and become part of an amazing community of therapists committed to thriving together. Let’s continue this conversation and grow stronger, together. 😊   Thu, 26 Dec 2024 23:00:00 -0000 full 1 Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby đŸ”„ Is Your Mental Health EHR Software SABOTAGING Your Therapy Practice? đŸ”„ Hey there, fabulous therapists!  What if the very tools you trust to safeguard your therapy practice are secretly working against you? That’s the exact realization I came to one Saturday morning while reading my mental health EHR provider’s Terms of Service—coffee in one hand, highlighter in the other. What I uncovered left me shocked, angry, and determined to take action. In this episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists, I’m sharing my journey from that unsettling discovery to successfully migrating my practice to a trustworthy platform. I’ll expose the hidden dangers lurking in EHR agreements, including data exploitation, intellectual property grabs, and third-party mishaps, while giving you actionable tips to protect your practice. Timestamps to Guide Your Journey: 00:00 Introduction: A Shocking Discovery 01:17 The Terms of Service Nightmare Begins 02:43 Uncovering the Exploitation 04:14 The EHR System’s Hidden Agendas 10:00 Taking Action: The Radical Steps 15:08 The Migration Challenge 18:24 Sharing the Experience 22:15 The Power of Collective Action 24:09 Practical Tips for Therapists 27:13 Conclusion and Resources As I mentioned in this episode, this experience was just one of many (too many) that I've dealt with in recent years. Unfortunately there are a number of scams targeting therapists, and more than one of my colleagues has gotten duped by them. I share all the details plus the action plan I put in place to harden my practice in this email series: 8 Scams Targeting Therapists. I hope you access it to keep yourself and your practice safe!  🔔 Subscribe to this channel for more essential insights tailored for therapists. If you found this video helpful, share it with your professional community to help us all stay informed and empowered. Xoxo Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby www.growingself.com PS: Want to connect more personally? Join me on LinkedIn and become part of an amazing community of therapists committed to thriving together. Let’s continue this conversation and grow stronger, together. 😊   đŸ”„ Is Your Mental Health EHR Software SABOTAGING Your Therapy Practice? đŸ”„


Hey there, fabulous therapists! 

What if the very tools you trust to safeguard your therapy practice are secretly working against you? That’s the exact realization I came to one Saturday morning while reading my mental health EHR provider’s Terms of Service—coffee in one hand, highlighter in the other. What I uncovered left me shocked, angry, and determined to take action.

In this episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists, I’m sharing my journey from that unsettling discovery to successfully migrating my practice to a trustworthy platform. I’ll expose the hidden dangers lurking in EHR agreements, including data exploitation, intellectual property grabs, and third-party mishaps, while giving you actionable tips to protect your practice.

Timestamps to Guide Your Journey:

  • 00:00 Introduction: A Shocking Discovery

  • 01:17 The Terms of Service Nightmare Begins

  • 02:43 Uncovering the Exploitation

  • 04:14 The EHR System’s Hidden Agendas

  • 10:00 Taking Action: The Radical Steps

  • 15:08 The Migration Challenge

  • 18:24 Sharing the Experience

  • 22:15 The Power of Collective Action

  • 24:09 Practical Tips for Therapists

  • 27:13 Conclusion and Resources

As I mentioned in this episode, this experience was just one of many (too many) that I've dealt with in recent years. Unfortunately there are a number of scams targeting therapists, and more than one of my colleagues has gotten duped by them. I share all the details plus the action plan I put in place to harden my practice in this email series: 8 Scams Targeting Therapists. I hope you access it to keep yourself and your practice safe! 

🔔 Subscribe to this channel for more essential insights tailored for therapists. If you found this video helpful, share it with your professional community to help us all stay informed and empowered.

Xoxo

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

www.growingself.com

PS: Want to connect more personally? Join me on LinkedIn and become part of an amazing community of therapists committed to thriving together. Let’s continue this conversation and grow stronger, together. 😊

 

]]> 1978 no New Therapy Client, or Mystery Shopper? | E46 https://www.growingself.com/therapy-mystery-shopper   Could your next therapy client be a mystery shopper on a secret spy mission? Yes, it’s a real thing—surprise! đŸ€Ż When I found out someone was secretly in therapy to review my practice for an article, I didn’t know whether to laugh, cry, or check if I’d entered an episode of Black Mirror. But here’s the deal: therapy mystery shoppers are real, and it’s something every therapist needs to know about. In this podcast, I’m sharing the full story—what happened to me, why it matters to your practice, and, most importantly, how you can protect yourself and your clients. We’ll talk ethics, trust, and practical strategies so you can handle anything with professionalism and confidence. đŸ’Ș Chapters: 00:00 Hook: What if your client is secretly reviewing you? 02:55 When it happened to me: The full story 05:03 The trust shake-up: Why this feels so unsettling 06:39 Why every therapist should care (even if it hasn’t happened to you yet) 15:42 Red flags: How to spot a mystery shopper 18:47 Protect your practice: Actionable strategies 22:02 Growth mindset: Turning surprises into opportunities 24:51 Wrap-up: Keeping your practice strong and confident Weird stuff happens—trust me, I’ve faced it all. From therapy mystery shoppers to scams targeting therapists, if you want to protect your practice, I’ve got you covered. When you sign up for my 8 Scams Targeting Therapists email series, I’ll share my personal experiences with you and lay out clear, actionable steps you can implement today to keep your practice safe. You don’t have to figure this out on your own. If you found this episode helpful, don’t forget to hit that SUBSCRIBE button for more tips to protect, grow, and thrive in your practice. And please share this podcast with your professional community—because the best way we protect ourselves is by looking out for each other. Xoxo Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby www.growingself.com P.S. Let’s connect! Join our amazing therapist community over on LinkedIn. I’d love to hear your thoughts, stories, and questions! Wed, 18 Dec 2024 23:00:00 -0000 full 1 46 Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby   Could your next therapy client be a mystery shopper on a secret spy mission? Yes, it’s a real thing—surprise! đŸ€Ż When I found out someone was secretly in therapy to review my practice for an article, I didn’t know whether to laugh, cry, or check if I’d entered an episode of Black Mirror. But here’s the deal: therapy mystery shoppers are real, and it’s something every therapist needs to know about. In this podcast, I’m sharing the full story—what happened to me, why it matters to your practice, and, most importantly, how you can protect yourself and your clients. We’ll talk ethics, trust, and practical strategies so you can handle anything with professionalism and confidence. đŸ’Ș Chapters: 00:00 Hook: What if your client is secretly reviewing you? 02:55 When it happened to me: The full story 05:03 The trust shake-up: Why this feels so unsettling 06:39 Why every therapist should care (even if it hasn’t happened to you yet) 15:42 Red flags: How to spot a mystery shopper 18:47 Protect your practice: Actionable strategies 22:02 Growth mindset: Turning surprises into opportunities 24:51 Wrap-up: Keeping your practice strong and confident Weird stuff happens—trust me, I’ve faced it all. From therapy mystery shoppers to scams targeting therapists, if you want to protect your practice, I’ve got you covered. When you sign up for my 8 Scams Targeting Therapists email series, I’ll share my personal experiences with you and lay out clear, actionable steps you can implement today to keep your practice safe. You don’t have to figure this out on your own. If you found this episode helpful, don’t forget to hit that SUBSCRIBE button for more tips to protect, grow, and thrive in your practice. And please share this podcast with your professional community—because the best way we protect ourselves is by looking out for each other. Xoxo Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby www.growingself.com P.S. Let’s connect! Join our amazing therapist community over on LinkedIn. I’d love to hear your thoughts, stories, and questions!  

Could your next therapy client be a mystery shopper on a secret spy mission? Yes, it’s a real thing—surprise! đŸ€Ż

When I found out someone was secretly in therapy to review my practice for an article, I didn’t know whether to laugh, cry, or check if I’d entered an episode of Black Mirror. But here’s the deal: therapy mystery shoppers are real, and it’s something every therapist needs to know about.

In this podcast, I’m sharing the full story—what happened to me, why it matters to your practice, and, most importantly, how you can protect yourself and your clients. We’ll talk ethics, trust, and practical strategies so you can handle anything with professionalism and confidence. đŸ’Ș

Chapters:

00:00 Hook: What if your client is secretly reviewing you? 02:55 When it happened to me: The full story 05:03 The trust shake-up: Why this feels so unsettling 06:39 Why every therapist should care (even if it hasn’t happened to you yet) 15:42 Red flags: How to spot a mystery shopper 18:47 Protect your practice: Actionable strategies 22:02 Growth mindset: Turning surprises into opportunities 24:51 Wrap-up: Keeping your practice strong and confident

Weird stuff happens—trust me, I’ve faced it all. From therapy mystery shoppers to scams targeting therapists, if you want to protect your practice, I’ve got you covered. When you sign up for my 8 Scams Targeting Therapists email series, I’ll share my personal experiences with you and lay out clear, actionable steps you can implement today to keep your practice safe. You don’t have to figure this out on your own.

If you found this episode helpful, don’t forget to hit that SUBSCRIBE button for more tips to protect, grow, and thrive in your practice. And please share this podcast with your professional community—because the best way we protect ourselves is by looking out for each other.

Xoxo

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

www.growingself.com

P.S. Let’s connect! Join our amazing therapist community over on LinkedIn. I’d love to hear your thoughts, stories, and questions!

]]> 1871 no The 5 Biggest Mistakes Therapists Make (Without Even Realizing It) | E45 https://www.growingself.com/common-therapist-mistakes/   Are you currently making some of the biggest therapist mistakes right now, without even realizing it?  Chances are that you might be making common therapy mistakes that could harm your practice—or your clients, and that’s why we need to talk about this!  Trust me, I’ve been there, and as a clinical supervisor, I’ve seen it all. In this podcast, we’ll cover the most common therapist missteps (that you might not even realize you’re making!) and actionable strategies to avoid them.   From building a solid therapeutic alliance to mastering boundaries and practicing self-care, I’m sharing the real talk, personal insights, and free resources you need to thrive in your career. Whether you're just starting out or a seasoned pro, this podcast is packed with value you don’t want to miss.  Timestamps   00:00 - Introduction: The surprising challenges therapists face   00:57 - Missing signs of a ruptured therapeutic alliance   02:06 - How to ask clients for feedback   05:12 - Boundaries that are too loose—or too rigid   11:53 - Why therapists must prioritize their own wellness   18:13 - Avoid these private practice pitfalls   26:16 - Actionable takeaways and free resources   If any of these mistakes hit home, know this: you’re not alone, and you’re not doomed! Awareness is the first step to change. If you’d like to know where you stand in your practice, take my Banishing Burnout Assessment to discover whether you’re on a path to professional success and satisfaction or heading toward burnout. Let’s ensure you’re flourishing, not just surviving. Don’t forget to subscribe to this channel for weekly insights, and if you found this helpful, share it with your professional community—we’re all in this together.   Xoxo Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby  growingself.com P.S. Let’s connect on LinkedIn! Join our amazing community of therapists and professionals: Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby. Wed, 11 Dec 2024 23:00:00 -0000 full 1 45 Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby   Are you currently making some of the biggest therapist mistakes right now, without even realizing it?  Chances are that you might be making common therapy mistakes that could harm your practice—or your clients, and that’s why we need to talk about this!  Trust me, I’ve been there, and as a clinical supervisor, I’ve seen it all. In this podcast, we’ll cover the most common therapist missteps (that you might not even realize you’re making!) and actionable strategies to avoid them.   From building a solid therapeutic alliance to mastering boundaries and practicing self-care, I’m sharing the real talk, personal insights, and free resources you need to thrive in your career. Whether you're just starting out or a seasoned pro, this podcast is packed with value you don’t want to miss.  Timestamps   00:00 - Introduction: The surprising challenges therapists face   00:57 - Missing signs of a ruptured therapeutic alliance   02:06 - How to ask clients for feedback   05:12 - Boundaries that are too loose—or too rigid   11:53 - Why therapists must prioritize their own wellness   18:13 - Avoid these private practice pitfalls   26:16 - Actionable takeaways and free resources   If any of these mistakes hit home, know this: you’re not alone, and you’re not doomed! Awareness is the first step to change. If you’d like to know where you stand in your practice, take my Banishing Burnout Assessment to discover whether you’re on a path to professional success and satisfaction or heading toward burnout. Let’s ensure you’re flourishing, not just surviving. Don’t forget to subscribe to this channel for weekly insights, and if you found this helpful, share it with your professional community—we’re all in this together.   Xoxo Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby  growingself.com P.S. Let’s connect on LinkedIn! Join our amazing community of therapists and professionals: Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby.  

Are you currently making some of the biggest therapist mistakes right now, without even realizing it? 

Chances are that you might be making common therapy mistakes that could harm your practice—or your clients, and that’s why we need to talk about this!  Trust me, I’ve been there, and as a clinical supervisor, I’ve seen it all. In this podcast, we’ll cover the most common therapist missteps (that you might not even realize you’re making!) and actionable strategies to avoid them.  

From building a solid therapeutic alliance to mastering boundaries and practicing self-care, I’m sharing the real talk, personal insights, and free resources you need to thrive in your career. Whether you're just starting out or a seasoned pro, this podcast is packed with value you don’t want to miss. 

Timestamps  

00:00 - Introduction: The surprising challenges therapists face  

00:57 - Missing signs of a ruptured therapeutic alliance  

02:06 - How to ask clients for feedback  

05:12 - Boundaries that are too loose—or too rigid  

11:53 - Why therapists must prioritize their own wellness  

18:13 - Avoid these private practice pitfalls  

26:16 - Actionable takeaways and free resources  

If any of these mistakes hit home, know this: you’re not alone, and you’re not doomed! Awareness is the first step to change. If you’d like to know where you stand in your practice, take my Banishing Burnout Assessment to discover whether you’re on a path to professional success and satisfaction or heading toward burnout. Let’s ensure you’re flourishing, not just surviving.

Don’t forget to subscribe to this channel for weekly insights, and if you found this helpful, share it with your professional community—we’re all in this together.  

Xoxo

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby 

growingself.com

P.S. Let’s connect on LinkedIn! Join our amazing community of therapists and professionals: Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby.

]]> 1808 no Therapists Who Coach: Are You Playing with Fire? | E44 https://www.growingself.com/therapists-coaching-without-certification   Therapists, Are You Coaching Without Certification? You NEED to listen to this! 🚹   Lots of therapists out there are adding “coach” to their title, but without going through any coach training first. They say, "Coaching seems simple, I can just add that to my title, right?" Hold up. You could
 but should you?  In this episode, I’m diving into why calling yourself a coach without proper certification is like jumping into a helicopter with only a driver’s license—it’s risky, dangerous, and could seriously hurt your career, your reputation, and your clients. đŸ’„Â Â  I’ll break down the real differences between therapy and coaching (hint: they’re NOT the same thing) and share the key steps to safely and successfully incorporate coaching into your practice—ethically and professionally. 🌟   Time Stamps: 01:55 – Coaching vs. Therapy: Key Differences 05:34 – Why Certification Matters   07:53 – Blending Coaching with Therapy 09:35 – Choosing the Best Coaching Credential   13:37 – How to Protect Yourself and Your Clients   26:50 – Free Resources to Get Started  If you’re feeling inspired, I’ve got something to help you take the next step. My 2-Part Video Training: Therapist’s Guide to Coaching is a free resource that breaks everything down into actionable steps. You’ll get detailed instructions on how to become a certified coach as well as education requirements, timelines, and recommended programs.  🔔  If this podcast resonated with you, please share it with your colleagues or professional network. Let’s help each other grow! 💌  P.S. I’d love to connect with you on LinkedIn and be part of your professional journey. Let’s build something amazing together. Wed, 04 Dec 2024 23:00:00 -0000 full 1 44 Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby   Therapists, Are You Coaching Without Certification? You NEED to listen to this! 🚹   Lots of therapists out there are adding “coach” to their title, but without going through any coach training first. They say, "Coaching seems simple, I can just add that to my title, right?" Hold up. You could
 but should you?  In this episode, I’m diving into why calling yourself a coach without proper certification is like jumping into a helicopter with only a driver’s license—it’s risky, dangerous, and could seriously hurt your career, your reputation, and your clients. đŸ’„Â Â  I’ll break down the real differences between therapy and coaching (hint: they’re NOT the same thing) and share the key steps to safely and successfully incorporate coaching into your practice—ethically and professionally. 🌟   Time Stamps: 01:55 – Coaching vs. Therapy: Key Differences 05:34 – Why Certification Matters   07:53 – Blending Coaching with Therapy 09:35 – Choosing the Best Coaching Credential   13:37 – How to Protect Yourself and Your Clients   26:50 – Free Resources to Get Started  If you’re feeling inspired, I’ve got something to help you take the next step. My 2-Part Video Training: Therapist’s Guide to Coaching is a free resource that breaks everything down into actionable steps. You’ll get detailed instructions on how to become a certified coach as well as education requirements, timelines, and recommended programs.  🔔  If this podcast resonated with you, please share it with your colleagues or professional network. Let’s help each other grow! 💌  P.S. I’d love to connect with you on LinkedIn and be part of your professional journey. Let’s build something amazing together.  

Therapists, Are You Coaching Without Certification? You NEED to listen to this! 🚹  

Lots of therapists out there are adding “coach” to their title, but without going through any coach training first. They say, "Coaching seems simple, I can just add that to my title, right?" Hold up. You could
 but should you? 

In this episode, I’m diving into why calling yourself a coach without proper certification is like jumping into a helicopter with only a driver’s license—it’s risky, dangerous, and could seriously hurt your career, your reputation, and your clients. đŸ’„Â Â 

I’ll break down the real differences between therapy and coaching (hint: they’re NOT the same thing) and share the key steps to safely and successfully incorporate coaching into your practice—ethically and professionally. 🌟  

Time Stamps:

01:55 – Coaching vs. Therapy: Key Differences

05:34 – Why Certification Matters  

07:53 – Blending Coaching with Therapy

09:35 – Choosing the Best Coaching Credential  

13:37 – How to Protect Yourself and Your Clients  

26:50 – Free Resources to Get Started 

If you’re feeling inspired, I’ve got something to help you take the next step. My 2-Part Video Training: Therapist’s Guide to Coaching is a free resource that breaks everything down into actionable steps. You’ll get detailed instructions on how to become a certified coach as well as education requirements, timelines, and recommended programs. 

🔔  If this podcast resonated with you, please share it with your colleagues or professional network. Let’s help each other grow!

💌  P.S. I’d love to connect with you on LinkedIn and be part of your professional journey. Let’s build something amazing together.

]]> 1918 no Managing Compassion Fatigue with High Intensity Therapy Clients | E43 https://www.growingself.com/compassion-fatigue-high-intensity-therapy-clients Ever left a session feeling like you’ve just run an emotional marathon? High-intensity clients are inspiring, but they can also be overwhelming, especially if you're an empathic therapist.  In today’s episode, we’re diving deep into practical tools to manage the emotional demands of high-intensity clients while protecting your energy and keeping burnout at bay. Trust me, if you've ever found yourself exhausted after a session, this is the episode for you! Together, we’ll explore the strategies to help you thrive as a therapist, including ways to balance your caseload, set boundaries, and manage emotional intensity. From my own journey as a therapist and clinical supervisor, I’ll share actionable steps and resources to help you create a sustainable, fulfilling career. Chapters: 00:39: Understanding High-Intensity Clients 00:58: Challenges for Empathic Therapists 02:49: Strategies for Managing Emotional Intensity 05:39: Finding Your Niche and Career Path 17:11: The Importance of Boundaries 19:39: Building a Support System 23:36: Balancing Your Caseload 26:45 Resources for Longevity You give so much to others—it’s time to give yourself a moment of care. I created the Banishing Burnout Assessment to help you pause, reflect, and take charge of your professional and personal wellness. Click the link, and in a few quick questions, you’ll have the insights and tools you need to flourish in your practice. I hope it helps on your journey toward thriving. If this episode resonates with you, make sure to subscribe to the channel for more info on growing in your therapy practice. And share it with your professional community — we’re in this together!P.S. Want to stay connected? Let’s connect on LinkedIn and keep building this amazing community. Join me on LinkedIn here! Wed, 27 Nov 2024 23:00:00 -0000 full 1 43 Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Ever left a session feeling like you’ve just run an emotional marathon? High-intensity clients are inspiring, but they can also be overwhelming, especially if you're an empathic therapist.  In today’s episode, we’re diving deep into practical tools to manage the emotional demands of high-intensity clients while protecting your energy and keeping burnout at bay. Trust me, if you've ever found yourself exhausted after a session, this is the episode for you! Together, we’ll explore the strategies to help you thrive as a therapist, including ways to balance your caseload, set boundaries, and manage emotional intensity. From my own journey as a therapist and clinical supervisor, I’ll share actionable steps and resources to help you create a sustainable, fulfilling career. Chapters: 00:39: Understanding High-Intensity Clients 00:58: Challenges for Empathic Therapists 02:49: Strategies for Managing Emotional Intensity 05:39: Finding Your Niche and Career Path 17:11: The Importance of Boundaries 19:39: Building a Support System 23:36: Balancing Your Caseload 26:45 Resources for Longevity You give so much to others—it’s time to give yourself a moment of care. I created the Banishing Burnout Assessment to help you pause, reflect, and take charge of your professional and personal wellness. Click the link, and in a few quick questions, you’ll have the insights and tools you need to flourish in your practice. I hope it helps on your journey toward thriving. If this episode resonates with you, make sure to subscribe to the channel for more info on growing in your therapy practice. And share it with your professional community — we’re in this together!P.S. Want to stay connected? Let’s connect on LinkedIn and keep building this amazing community. Join me on LinkedIn here! Ever left a session feeling like you’ve just run an emotional marathon? High-intensity clients are inspiring, but they can also be overwhelming, especially if you're an empathic therapist. 

In today’s episode, we’re diving deep into practical tools to manage the emotional demands of high-intensity clients while protecting your energy and keeping burnout at bay. Trust me, if you've ever found yourself exhausted after a session, this is the episode for you!

Together, we’ll explore the strategies to help you thrive as a therapist, including ways to balance your caseload, set boundaries, and manage emotional intensity. From my own journey as a therapist and clinical supervisor, I’ll share actionable steps and resources to help you create a sustainable, fulfilling career.

Chapters:

00:39: Understanding High-Intensity Clients

00:58: Challenges for Empathic Therapists

02:49: Strategies for Managing Emotional Intensity

05:39: Finding Your Niche and Career Path

17:11: The Importance of Boundaries

19:39: Building a Support System

23:36: Balancing Your Caseload

26:45 Resources for Longevity

You give so much to others—it’s time to give yourself a moment of care. I created the Banishing Burnout Assessment to help you pause, reflect, and take charge of your professional and personal wellness. Click the link, and in a few quick questions, you’ll have the insights and tools you need to flourish in your practice. I hope it helps on your journey toward thriving.

If this episode resonates with you, make sure to subscribe to the channel for more info on growing in your therapy practice. And share it with your professional community — we’re in this together!P.S. Want to stay connected? Let’s connect on LinkedIn and keep building this amazing community. Join me on LinkedIn here!

]]> 1861 no Inside CFI Investigations: What Therapists Need to Know with Stephanie Randall | E42 https://www.growingself.com/therapists-in-child-and-family-investigations Therapists: Ever wonder how to best support therapy clients when the legal system gets involved? If your clients are going through custody disputes, or if you’re a marriage and family therapist working on custody evaluations, understanding the role of a Child and Family Investigator (CFI) is essential.  It’s also essential for you to know about the dark side of child and family investigations: Not all CFI’s are qualified, or ethical. And, their recommendations can have a huge impact on the trajectory of your client’s lives
 for better or for worse.  In this episode, I sit down with Stephanie Randall, an experienced family law attorney and CFI, to give you the inside scoop on how CFIs work, their impact on custody cases, and how therapists can be true advocates for their clients. Get ready to learn the tips and insights that will help you guide clients through one of the most challenging processes they may ever face.  Chapters:  00:31 Understanding the Role of Child and Family Investigators 01:43 Introducing Stephanie Randall: Expert Insights 03:23 The CFI Process Explained 11:26 Therapists' Role in Legal Proceedings 18:10 Challenges and Ethical Considerations for Therapists 24:06 Concerns About Untrustworthy CFIs 34:45 Understanding Investigation Requirements 34:56 Challenges in Reporting and Public Awareness 35:44 The Role and Impact of CFIs 39:22 Therapists as Allies in the System 41:03 Empowering Clients and Addressing Safety 44:31 Navigating Co-Parenting and Legal Systems 45:49 Recognizing and Reporting Abuse 56:03 Advocacy and Systemic Change Be sure to subscribe to this channel for more insights like these, and share this episode with your professional community to spread the knowledge!  P.S. I'd love to stay connected with you! Join me on LinkedIn, where we can share ideas, support each other, and keep growing together. Let’s build an amazing community—one connection at a time! Wed, 20 Nov 2024 23:00:00 -0000 full 1 42 Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Therapists: Ever wonder how to best support therapy clients when the legal system gets involved? If your clients are going through custody disputes, or if you’re a marriage and family therapist working on custody evaluations, understanding the role of a Child and Family Investigator (CFI) is essential.  It’s also essential for you to know about the dark side of child and family investigations: Not all CFI’s are qualified, or ethical. And, their recommendations can have a huge impact on the trajectory of your client’s lives
 for better or for worse.  In this episode, I sit down with Stephanie Randall, an experienced family law attorney and CFI, to give you the inside scoop on how CFIs work, their impact on custody cases, and how therapists can be true advocates for their clients. Get ready to learn the tips and insights that will help you guide clients through one of the most challenging processes they may ever face.  Chapters:  00:31 Understanding the Role of Child and Family Investigators 01:43 Introducing Stephanie Randall: Expert Insights 03:23 The CFI Process Explained 11:26 Therapists' Role in Legal Proceedings 18:10 Challenges and Ethical Considerations for Therapists 24:06 Concerns About Untrustworthy CFIs 34:45 Understanding Investigation Requirements 34:56 Challenges in Reporting and Public Awareness 35:44 The Role and Impact of CFIs 39:22 Therapists as Allies in the System 41:03 Empowering Clients and Addressing Safety 44:31 Navigating Co-Parenting and Legal Systems 45:49 Recognizing and Reporting Abuse 56:03 Advocacy and Systemic Change Be sure to subscribe to this channel for more insights like these, and share this episode with your professional community to spread the knowledge!  P.S. I'd love to stay connected with you! Join me on LinkedIn, where we can share ideas, support each other, and keep growing together. Let’s build an amazing community—one connection at a time! Therapists: Ever wonder how to best support therapy clients when the legal system gets involved? If your clients are going through custody disputes, or if you’re a marriage and family therapist working on custody evaluations, understanding the role of a Child and Family Investigator (CFI) is essential. 

It’s also essential for you to know about the dark side of child and family investigations: Not all CFI’s are qualified, or ethical. And, their recommendations can have a huge impact on the trajectory of your client’s lives
 for better or for worse. 

In this episode, I sit down with Stephanie Randall, an experienced family law attorney and CFI, to give you the inside scoop on how CFIs work, their impact on custody cases, and how therapists can be true advocates for their clients. Get ready to learn the tips and insights that will help you guide clients through one of the most challenging processes they may ever face. 

Chapters: 

00:31 Understanding the Role of Child and Family Investigators

01:43 Introducing Stephanie Randall: Expert Insights

03:23 The CFI Process Explained

11:26 Therapists' Role in Legal Proceedings

18:10 Challenges and Ethical Considerations for Therapists

24:06 Concerns About Untrustworthy CFIs

34:45 Understanding Investigation Requirements

34:56 Challenges in Reporting and Public Awareness

35:44 The Role and Impact of CFIs

39:22 Therapists as Allies in the System

41:03 Empowering Clients and Addressing Safety

44:31 Navigating Co-Parenting and Legal Systems

45:49 Recognizing and Reporting Abuse

56:03 Advocacy and Systemic Change

Be sure to subscribe to this channel for more insights like these, and share this episode with your professional community to spread the knowledge!  P.S. I'd love to stay connected with you! Join me on LinkedIn, where we can share ideas, support each other, and keep growing together. Let’s build an amazing community—one connection at a time!

]]> 3614 no Therapists Under Attack: 8 Scams Targeting Therapists and How to Avoid Them | E41 https://www.growingself.com/scams-targeting-therapists Therapists, did you know that there are 8 scams specifically targeting YOU? In this episode of Love Happiness and Success for Therapists, I share eye-opening stories from my practice and reveal the top scams aimed at therapists—things I never imagined would happen until they started affecting people in my own practice.  From "police officers" threatening your license to fake clients requesting sessions, scammers have found shockingly creative ways to target mental health professionals. Check out the  Timestamps: - 00:00 Introduction: Scams Targeting Therapists - 00:33 The Scary Police Officer Scam - 03:32 The Fake Client Scam - 04:38 The Fake Insurance Rep Scam - 05:42 The Fake Tech Scam - 08:26 The Fake Collaboration Scam - 09:35 The Fake Training Scam - 10:35 The Fake Credentialing Scam - 12:35 The Simple Practice Con - 15:57 Staying Safe: Tips and Final Thoughts I have so much more information to share about these including real stories about when each of these happened in my practice, and the playbook I developed for my organization in response. Get the WHOLE story and my personal "private practice protection" strategies right here. Make sure to subscribe for more resources like this and share with your network to keep others informed! Let’s look out for each other.  P.S. I’d love to connect on LinkedIn to continue this conversation. Come be a part of an amazing community of growth-minded professionals! I’d love to hear from you.     Wed, 13 Nov 2024 22:42:00 -0000 full 1 41 Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Therapists, did you know that there are 8 scams specifically targeting YOU? In this episode of Love Happiness and Success for Therapists, I share eye-opening stories from my practice and reveal the top scams aimed at therapists—things I never imagined would happen until they started affecting people in my own practice.  From "police officers" threatening your license to fake clients requesting sessions, scammers have found shockingly creative ways to target mental health professionals. Check out the  Timestamps: - 00:00 Introduction: Scams Targeting Therapists - 00:33 The Scary Police Officer Scam - 03:32 The Fake Client Scam - 04:38 The Fake Insurance Rep Scam - 05:42 The Fake Tech Scam - 08:26 The Fake Collaboration Scam - 09:35 The Fake Training Scam - 10:35 The Fake Credentialing Scam - 12:35 The Simple Practice Con - 15:57 Staying Safe: Tips and Final Thoughts I have so much more information to share about these including real stories about when each of these happened in my practice, and the playbook I developed for my organization in response. Get the WHOLE story and my personal "private practice protection" strategies right here. Make sure to subscribe for more resources like this and share with your network to keep others informed! Let’s look out for each other.  P.S. I’d love to connect on LinkedIn to continue this conversation. Come be a part of an amazing community of growth-minded professionals! I’d love to hear from you.     Therapists, did you know that there are 8 scams specifically targeting YOU?

In this episode of Love Happiness and Success for Therapists, I share eye-opening stories from my practice and reveal the top scams aimed at therapists—things I never imagined would happen until they started affecting people in my own practice. 

From "police officers" threatening your license to fake clients requesting sessions, scammers have found shockingly creative ways to target mental health professionals. Check out the 

Timestamps:

- 00:00 Introduction: Scams Targeting Therapists

- 00:33 The Scary Police Officer Scam

- 03:32 The Fake Client Scam

- 04:38 The Fake Insurance Rep Scam

- 05:42 The Fake Tech Scam

- 08:26 The Fake Collaboration Scam

- 09:35 The Fake Training Scam

- 10:35 The Fake Credentialing Scam

- 12:35 The Simple Practice Con

- 15:57 Staying Safe: Tips and Final Thoughts

I have so much more information to share about these including real stories about when each of these happened in my practice, and the playbook I developed for my organization in response. Get the WHOLE story and my personal "private practice protection" strategies right here.

Make sure to subscribe for more resources like this and share with your network to keep others informed! Let’s look out for each other. 

P.S. I’d love to connect on LinkedIn to continue this conversation. Come be a part of an amazing community of growth-minded professionals! I’d love to hear from you.

 

 

]]> 1464 no Staying Strong: Professional Self Care For Therapists | E40 https://growingself.com/self-care-for-therapists Therapists, this one’s for you. We’re living in intense times, and it’s no secret that showing up for others can feel especially hard when our own emotional reserves are running low. How do we stay present, compassionate, and fully engaged with our clients when we’re also grappling with our own fears, frustrations, or even grief? And then there’s this: What happens when our job is to hold unconditionally positive regard for people whose perspectives or values may be wildly different from our own? It’s tough. It can feel like an impossible balancing act. But it’s also an invitation—a doorway, if you will. A chance for reflection, recalibration, and maybe even a professional pivot. In today’s episode, we’ll explore what it means to take care of ourselves as therapists so we can keep caring for others. We’ll talk about practical strategies for emotional resilience and self-care, sure. But we’ll also dive deeper—into the tension between our personal values and professional roles, and how navigating this can actually help us grow, both personally and professionally. Here’s what we’ll cover: 1:07 – The Therapist's Struggle: How do we stay professionally present when we’re personally stretched thin? 5:28 – Self-Care Strategies for Therapists: Small, powerful practices to protect your emotional bandwidth. 9:53 – Boundaries and Tough Decisions: Why safeguarding your energy isn’t selfish—it’s essential. 12:41 – Navigating Differences: How to hold space for clients with vastly different views, and what this work can teach us. 16:05 – Aligning Work with Your Values: When is it time to consider a professional pivot? 21:47 – Growth Through Challenge: Using this moment as a catalyst for deeper empathy and professional evolution. You’re doing hard, meaningful work, and it’s okay—necessary, even—to acknowledge your limits. Let’s talk about how we can support ourselves, and each other, to stay strong and keep growing. I hope this episode offers you some comfort, clarity, and the tools to keep thriving as a therapist. You can check out the full article on my website along with other resources for supporting therapists. If you found this helpful, please share it with your colleagues and subscribe for more supportive content like this. đŸ’Ș P.S. Let’s stay connected! Join our professional community on LinkedIn here: https://www.linkedin.com/in/drlisabobby/   Wed, 06 Nov 2024 23:00:00 -0000 full 1 40 Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Therapists, this one’s for you. We’re living in intense times, and it’s no secret that showing up for others can feel especially hard when our own emotional reserves are running low. How do we stay present, compassionate, and fully engaged with our clients when we’re also grappling with our own fears, frustrations, or even grief? And then there’s this: What happens when our job is to hold unconditionally positive regard for people whose perspectives or values may be wildly different from our own? It’s tough. It can feel like an impossible balancing act. But it’s also an invitation—a doorway, if you will. A chance for reflection, recalibration, and maybe even a professional pivot. In today’s episode, we’ll explore what it means to take care of ourselves as therapists so we can keep caring for others. We’ll talk about practical strategies for emotional resilience and self-care, sure. But we’ll also dive deeper—into the tension between our personal values and professional roles, and how navigating this can actually help us grow, both personally and professionally. Here’s what we’ll cover: 1:07 – The Therapist's Struggle: How do we stay professionally present when we’re personally stretched thin? 5:28 – Self-Care Strategies for Therapists: Small, powerful practices to protect your emotional bandwidth. 9:53 – Boundaries and Tough Decisions: Why safeguarding your energy isn’t selfish—it’s essential. 12:41 – Navigating Differences: How to hold space for clients with vastly different views, and what this work can teach us. 16:05 – Aligning Work with Your Values: When is it time to consider a professional pivot? 21:47 – Growth Through Challenge: Using this moment as a catalyst for deeper empathy and professional evolution. You’re doing hard, meaningful work, and it’s okay—necessary, even—to acknowledge your limits. Let’s talk about how we can support ourselves, and each other, to stay strong and keep growing. I hope this episode offers you some comfort, clarity, and the tools to keep thriving as a therapist. You can check out the full article on my website along with other resources for supporting therapists. If you found this helpful, please share it with your colleagues and subscribe for more supportive content like this. đŸ’Ș P.S. Let’s stay connected! Join our professional community on LinkedIn here: https://www.linkedin.com/in/drlisabobby/   Therapists, this one’s for you. We’re living in intense times, and it’s no secret that showing up for others can feel especially hard when our own emotional reserves are running low. How do we stay present, compassionate, and fully engaged with our clients when we’re also grappling with our own fears, frustrations, or even grief?

And then there’s this: What happens when our job is to hold unconditionally positive regard for people whose perspectives or values may be wildly different from our own? It’s tough. It can feel like an impossible balancing act. But it’s also an invitation—a doorway, if you will. A chance for reflection, recalibration, and maybe even a professional pivot.

In today’s episode, we’ll explore what it means to take care of ourselves as therapists so we can keep caring for others. We’ll talk about practical strategies for emotional resilience and self-care, sure. But we’ll also dive deeper—into the tension between our personal values and professional roles, and how navigating this can actually help us grow, both personally and professionally.

Here’s what we’ll cover:

1:07 – The Therapist's Struggle: How do we stay professionally present when we’re personally stretched thin?

5:28 – Self-Care Strategies for Therapists: Small, powerful practices to protect your emotional bandwidth.

9:53 – Boundaries and Tough Decisions: Why safeguarding your energy isn’t selfish—it’s essential.

12:41 – Navigating Differences: How to hold space for clients with vastly different views, and what this work can teach us.

16:05 – Aligning Work with Your Values: When is it time to consider a professional pivot?

21:47 – Growth Through Challenge: Using this moment as a catalyst for deeper empathy and professional evolution.

You’re doing hard, meaningful work, and it’s okay—necessary, even—to acknowledge your limits. Let’s talk about how we can support ourselves, and each other, to stay strong and keep growing.

I hope this episode offers you some comfort, clarity, and the tools to keep thriving as a therapist. You can check out the full article on my website along with other resources for supporting therapists.

If you found this helpful, please share it with your colleagues and subscribe for more supportive content like this. đŸ’Ș

P.S. Let’s stay connected! Join our professional community on LinkedIn here: https://www.linkedin.com/in/drlisabobby/

 

]]> 1684 no Walking the Talk: Why Therapists Need To Work On Themselves, Too | E38 https://www.growingself.com/why-therapists-need-therapy 🛑 Therapists, can we have a moment? Be honest — are you actually supporting yourself the way you guide your clients to? Or are you skating by with “I should know this already” vibes? If you’ve ever felt like your own personal growth is falling to the bottom of the priority list (even while telling clients to “put themselves first” đŸ€Šâ€â™€ïž), this one’s for you. In this episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists, we’re diving deep into why therapists need their own therapy, personal growth, and coaching. Because let's face it: helping others thrive takes a lot out of you. Without the right support system? Hello, burnout. đŸ’„ Chapters: 🌀 The "Why" Behind Therapist Burnout – Discover the real reasons therapists hit a wall (spoiler: it’s not just about bubble baths). 🧠 Triggers, Vicarious Trauma, and Emotional Overload – Learn how ignoring your own emotions can sneakily affect your client work. 📉 Signs You're Headed for Burnout – Are you feeling disengaged, annoyed, or emotionally distant? Let’s unpack what that means for you. 🎒 What "Doing the Work" Looks Like – Therapy, coaching, retreats, mentorship – we explore what might actually help you feel balanced. đŸ€ Therapists Coaching Therapists? Yes, Please. – Why the coaching model might just be the missing piece in your professional and personal growth. ✹ Whether you're already doing the work or need a nudge to get started, this episode offers insights, humor, and some tough-love reminders that it’s okay to not have it all together. Stay connected with me on LinkedIn — let’s build a community that lifts each other up. đŸŒ± Click here to connect. 🎧 Don’t miss this deep-dive into self-care, personal growth, and walking the walk as a helping professional. Hit play now – because your well-being is just as important as your clients’. xo,  Dr. Lisa Wed, 16 Oct 2024 22:00:00 -0000 full 1 38 Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby 🛑 Therapists, can we have a moment? Be honest — are you actually supporting yourself the way you guide your clients to? Or are you skating by with “I should know this already” vibes? If you’ve ever felt like your own personal growth is falling to the bottom of the priority list (even while telling clients to “put themselves first” đŸ€Šâ€â™€ïž), this one’s for you. In this episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists, we’re diving deep into why therapists need their own therapy, personal growth, and coaching. Because let's face it: helping others thrive takes a lot out of you. Without the right support system? Hello, burnout. đŸ’„ Chapters: 🌀 The "Why" Behind Therapist Burnout – Discover the real reasons therapists hit a wall (spoiler: it’s not just about bubble baths). 🧠 Triggers, Vicarious Trauma, and Emotional Overload – Learn how ignoring your own emotions can sneakily affect your client work. 📉 Signs You're Headed for Burnout – Are you feeling disengaged, annoyed, or emotionally distant? Let’s unpack what that means for you. 🎒 What "Doing the Work" Looks Like – Therapy, coaching, retreats, mentorship – we explore what might actually help you feel balanced. đŸ€ Therapists Coaching Therapists? Yes, Please. – Why the coaching model might just be the missing piece in your professional and personal growth. ✹ Whether you're already doing the work or need a nudge to get started, this episode offers insights, humor, and some tough-love reminders that it’s okay to not have it all together. Stay connected with me on LinkedIn — let’s build a community that lifts each other up. đŸŒ± Click here to connect. 🎧 Don’t miss this deep-dive into self-care, personal growth, and walking the walk as a helping professional. Hit play now – because your well-being is just as important as your clients’. xo,  Dr. Lisa 🛑 Therapists, can we have a moment? Be honest — are you actually supporting yourself the way you guide your clients to? Or are you skating by with “I should know this already” vibes? If you’ve ever felt like your own personal growth is falling to the bottom of the priority list (even while telling clients to “put themselves first” đŸ€Šâ€â™€ïž), this one’s for you.

In this episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists, we’re diving deep into why therapists need their own therapy, personal growth, and coaching. Because let's face it: helping others thrive takes a lot out of you. Without the right support system? Hello, burnout. đŸ’„

Chapters: 🌀 The "Why" Behind Therapist Burnout – Discover the real reasons therapists hit a wall (spoiler: it’s not just about bubble baths).

🧠 Triggers, Vicarious Trauma, and Emotional Overload – Learn how ignoring your own emotions can sneakily affect your client work.

📉 Signs You're Headed for Burnout – Are you feeling disengaged, annoyed, or emotionally distant? Let’s unpack what that means for you.

🎒 What "Doing the Work" Looks Like – Therapy, coaching, retreats, mentorship – we explore what might actually help you feel balanced.

đŸ€ Therapists Coaching Therapists? Yes, Please. – Why the coaching model might just be the missing piece in your professional and personal growth.

✹ Whether you're already doing the work or need a nudge to get started, this episode offers insights, humor, and some tough-love reminders that it’s okay to not have it all together.

Stay connected with me on LinkedIn — let’s build a community that lifts each other up. đŸŒ± Click here to connect.

🎧 Don’t miss this deep-dive into self-care, personal growth, and walking the walk as a helping professional. Hit play now – because your well-being is just as important as your clients’.

xo, 

Dr. Lisa

]]> 1959 no Power Dynamics Can RUIN Therapy: Avoid These Pitfalls | E37 https://www.growingself.com//Power-Dynamics-in-Therapy Ever feel like something’s “off” in your therapeutic relationships but can’t quite put your finger on it? The answer might lie in hidden power dynamics that could be impacting your clients in ways you didn’t realize. In today’s episode, *The Hidden Power Dynamics in Therapy*, I’m diving into the subtle, often unnoticed imbalances that naturally occur between therapist and client—and more importantly, what you can do to manage them effectively so that they don't sabotage the work. I’ll walk you through practical strategies to create more equitable relationships, promote client autonomy, and avoid the common pitfalls of disempowerment and dependency. With over 50 therapists under my supervision, I’ve seen firsthand how even well-meaning professionals can fall into these traps. I’ll also be sharing personal insights and tools you can start using in your next session. Join me for this vital conversation and let’s work together to ensure we’re empowering our clients in every way possible AND avoiding the pitfalls that can ruin therapy (and even get you in hot water as a therapist).   What You’ll Learn:   03:24:Why Power Differentials Are Unavoidable 11:21: The Consequences of Unmanaged Power Dynamics 22:26: Strategies for Reducing Imbalances in Your Sessions 25:00: How to Collaborate and Be Transparent with Clients  32:11: Final Thoughts & Free Resources for Therapists  I can’t wait for you to tune in! Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby And don’t forget! I have a *FREE* 2-part training just for therapists, where I’ll show you how to get clear about your professional trajectory, and integrate coaching techniques into your practice for even more effective results. You can access it at growingself.com/coaching       Wed, 09 Oct 2024 22:00:00 -0000 full 1 37 Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Ever feel like something’s “off” in your therapeutic relationships but can’t quite put your finger on it? The answer might lie in hidden power dynamics that could be impacting your clients in ways you didn’t realize. In today’s episode, *The Hidden Power Dynamics in Therapy*, I’m diving into the subtle, often unnoticed imbalances that naturally occur between therapist and client—and more importantly, what you can do to manage them effectively so that they don't sabotage the work. I’ll walk you through practical strategies to create more equitable relationships, promote client autonomy, and avoid the common pitfalls of disempowerment and dependency. With over 50 therapists under my supervision, I’ve seen firsthand how even well-meaning professionals can fall into these traps. I’ll also be sharing personal insights and tools you can start using in your next session. Join me for this vital conversation and let’s work together to ensure we’re empowering our clients in every way possible AND avoiding the pitfalls that can ruin therapy (and even get you in hot water as a therapist).   What You’ll Learn:   03:24:Why Power Differentials Are Unavoidable 11:21: The Consequences of Unmanaged Power Dynamics 22:26: Strategies for Reducing Imbalances in Your Sessions 25:00: How to Collaborate and Be Transparent with Clients  32:11: Final Thoughts & Free Resources for Therapists  I can’t wait for you to tune in! Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby And don’t forget! I have a *FREE* 2-part training just for therapists, where I’ll show you how to get clear about your professional trajectory, and integrate coaching techniques into your practice for even more effective results. You can access it at growingself.com/coaching       Ever feel like something’s “off” in your therapeutic relationships but can’t quite put your finger on it? The answer might lie in hidden power dynamics that could be impacting your clients in ways you didn’t realize.

In today’s episode, *The Hidden Power Dynamics in Therapy*, I’m diving into the subtle, often unnoticed imbalances that naturally occur between therapist and client—and more importantly, what you can do to manage them effectively so that they don't sabotage the work.

I’ll walk you through practical strategies to create more equitable relationships, promote client autonomy, and avoid the common pitfalls of disempowerment and dependency.

With over 50 therapists under my supervision, I’ve seen firsthand how even well-meaning professionals can fall into these traps. I’ll also be sharing personal insights and tools you can start using in your next session.

Join me for this vital conversation and let’s work together to ensure we’re empowering our clients in every way possible AND avoiding the pitfalls that can ruin therapy (and even get you in hot water as a therapist).

 

What You’ll Learn:

 

03:24:Why Power Differentials Are Unavoidable

11:21: The Consequences of Unmanaged Power Dynamics

22:26: Strategies for Reducing Imbalances in Your Sessions

25:00: How to Collaborate and Be Transparent with Clients 

32:11: Final Thoughts & Free Resources for Therapists 

I can’t wait for you to tune in!

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

And don’t forget! I have a *FREE* 2-part training just for therapists, where I’ll show you how to get clear about your professional trajectory, and integrate coaching techniques into your practice for even more effective results. You can access it at growingself.com/coaching

 

 

 

]]> 2106 no Are You OVERSHARING With Your Therapy Clients? | E36 https://www.growingself.com/self-disclosure-in-therapy Do you talk about yourself too much in therapy?? Therapists, we’ve all been there. You want to connect with your client, show empathy, and maybe even share a bit of your own story to create that bond. But could your personal anecdotes be doing more harm than good? In today's episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists, we’re diving into the delicate balance of self-disclosure in therapy. How much is too much, and how do we ensure our personal shares are actually helping, not hurting, our clients' progress? If you’ve ever found yourself wondering where to draw the line between therapeutic empathy and oversharing, this episode is for you. We'll explore real-life examples where well-meaning therapists let their personal stories take center stage—leading to client disengagement, boundary issues, and even professional consequences. In this episode, I’ll guide you through: 00:53: The ‘Let’s Talk About Me’ Scenario When a therapist’s own grief overshadows their client’s healing process—where the session turns from support to storytelling. 02:51: The Fitness Enthusiast's Misstep How a seemingly helpful share about personal fitness goals left a client feeling inadequate, anxious, and ultimately disconnected. 04:31: Validation Gone Wrong The dangers of seeking client approval—when a therapist inadvertently puts the focus on their own choices rather than the client’s growth. 05:59: Family Drama in Therapy What happens when a therapist's overshare about their own relationship problems creates discomfort and confusion for the client. 07:40: The Rise of Life Coaches and Boundaries How the 'tell-all' culture in amateur coaching differs from the professional standards we as therapists must adhere to. 08:22: Boundaries and Ethical Guidelines: Keeping It Professional A look at the strict ethical codes (APA, ACA) governing self-disclosure and how to use them to maintain your integrity in practice. 11:37: Potential Pitfalls and Client Retention Wondering why clients are ghosting or disengaging? It could be your oversharing. Learn how to spot red flags in your own practice. 17:08: Best Practices for Therapists From seeking consultation to structuring sessions for client feedback, I’ll share actionable steps to ensure your self-disclosure is always in service of the client. Whether you’re a seasoned therapist or just starting out, maintaining clear, professional boundaries is essential for both client outcomes and your own career longevity. Let’s make sure we’re always showing up in the most helpful, effective way for the people who trust us with their growth. Want more? Head over to GrowingSelf.com/therapists for articles, podcasts, and resources to keep you at the top of your game. And hey, don’t forget to subscribe to this podcast to get notified when there's a new episode chock full of perspective and tips to support your personal and professional wellbeing as a therapist.  xo,  Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby P.S. Have we connected yet on Linkedin? If not, join the conversation! https://www.linkedin.com/in/drlisabobby/ Wed, 02 Oct 2024 22:00:00 -0000 full 1 36 Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Do you talk about yourself too much in therapy?? Therapists, we’ve all been there. You want to connect with your client, show empathy, and maybe even share a bit of your own story to create that bond. But could your personal anecdotes be doing more harm than good? In today's episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists, we’re diving into the delicate balance of self-disclosure in therapy. How much is too much, and how do we ensure our personal shares are actually helping, not hurting, our clients' progress? If you’ve ever found yourself wondering where to draw the line between therapeutic empathy and oversharing, this episode is for you. We'll explore real-life examples where well-meaning therapists let their personal stories take center stage—leading to client disengagement, boundary issues, and even professional consequences. In this episode, I’ll guide you through: 00:53: The ‘Let’s Talk About Me’ Scenario When a therapist’s own grief overshadows their client’s healing process—where the session turns from support to storytelling. 02:51: The Fitness Enthusiast's Misstep How a seemingly helpful share about personal fitness goals left a client feeling inadequate, anxious, and ultimately disconnected. 04:31: Validation Gone Wrong The dangers of seeking client approval—when a therapist inadvertently puts the focus on their own choices rather than the client’s growth. 05:59: Family Drama in Therapy What happens when a therapist's overshare about their own relationship problems creates discomfort and confusion for the client. 07:40: The Rise of Life Coaches and Boundaries How the 'tell-all' culture in amateur coaching differs from the professional standards we as therapists must adhere to. 08:22: Boundaries and Ethical Guidelines: Keeping It Professional A look at the strict ethical codes (APA, ACA) governing self-disclosure and how to use them to maintain your integrity in practice. 11:37: Potential Pitfalls and Client Retention Wondering why clients are ghosting or disengaging? It could be your oversharing. Learn how to spot red flags in your own practice. 17:08: Best Practices for Therapists From seeking consultation to structuring sessions for client feedback, I’ll share actionable steps to ensure your self-disclosure is always in service of the client. Whether you’re a seasoned therapist or just starting out, maintaining clear, professional boundaries is essential for both client outcomes and your own career longevity. Let’s make sure we’re always showing up in the most helpful, effective way for the people who trust us with their growth. Want more? Head over to GrowingSelf.com/therapists for articles, podcasts, and resources to keep you at the top of your game. And hey, don’t forget to subscribe to this podcast to get notified when there's a new episode chock full of perspective and tips to support your personal and professional wellbeing as a therapist.  xo,  Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby P.S. Have we connected yet on Linkedin? If not, join the conversation! https://www.linkedin.com/in/drlisabobby/ Do you talk about yourself too much in therapy??

Therapists, we’ve all been there. You want to connect with your client, show empathy, and maybe even share a bit of your own story to create that bond. But could your personal anecdotes be doing more harm than good? In today's episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists, we’re diving into the delicate balance of self-disclosure in therapy. How much is too much, and how do we ensure our personal shares are actually helping, not hurting, our clients' progress?

If you’ve ever found yourself wondering where to draw the line between therapeutic empathy and oversharing, this episode is for you. We'll explore real-life examples where well-meaning therapists let their personal stories take center stage—leading to client disengagement, boundary issues, and even professional consequences.

In this episode, I’ll guide you through:

00:53: The ‘Let’s Talk About Me’ Scenario When a therapist’s own grief overshadows their client’s healing process—where the session turns from support to storytelling.

02:51: The Fitness Enthusiast's Misstep How a seemingly helpful share about personal fitness goals left a client feeling inadequate, anxious, and ultimately disconnected.

04:31: Validation Gone Wrong The dangers of seeking client approval—when a therapist inadvertently puts the focus on their own choices rather than the client’s growth.

05:59: Family Drama in Therapy What happens when a therapist's overshare about their own relationship problems creates discomfort and confusion for the client.

07:40: The Rise of Life Coaches and Boundaries How the 'tell-all' culture in amateur coaching differs from the professional standards we as therapists must adhere to.

08:22: Boundaries and Ethical Guidelines: Keeping It Professional A look at the strict ethical codes (APA, ACA) governing self-disclosure and how to use them to maintain your integrity in practice.

11:37: Potential Pitfalls and Client Retention Wondering why clients are ghosting or disengaging? It could be your oversharing. Learn how to spot red flags in your own practice.

17:08: Best Practices for Therapists From seeking consultation to structuring sessions for client feedback, I’ll share actionable steps to ensure your self-disclosure is always in service of the client.

Whether you’re a seasoned therapist or just starting out, maintaining clear, professional boundaries is essential for both client outcomes and your own career longevity. Let’s make sure we’re always showing up in the most helpful, effective way for the people who trust us with their growth.

Want more? Head over to GrowingSelf.com/therapists for articles, podcasts, and resources to keep you at the top of your game. And hey, don’t forget to subscribe to this podcast to get notified when there's a new episode chock full of perspective and tips to support your personal and professional wellbeing as a therapist. 

xo, 

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

P.S. Have we connected yet on Linkedin? If not, join the conversation! https://www.linkedin.com/in/drlisabobby/

]]> 1575 no Is Your License at Risk? The 5 Ethical Mistakes You’re Probably Making That Could Get You in Trouble | E35 https://www.growingself.com/avoid-ethical-violations-in-therapy-practice "Is Your Practice a Legal Time Bomb?" As ethical, caring therapists with the best of intentions, we never set out to cross boundaries or make missteps in our practice. But the truth is, even the most well-meaning therapists can stumble into dangerous territory and even serious ethical violations—often for things we never thought would be an issue
 until it’s too late. We both know you’re a fantastic therapist, but I’d love for you to take a moment and reflect: could there be something in your current process that has the potential to get you in trouble down the road? In the latest Love, Happiness & Success for Therapists podcast, I’m breaking down the ethical landmines that blow up in therapists’ faces all the time. You may think you’re covering your bases, but these hidden aspects could be the ones that catch you off guard. 👇 Here’s what you think you know—but with a twist 👇 You know you shouldn’t abandon clients
 but are you unintentionally doing it in ways you’ve never considered? You know your caseload needs managing
 but what hidden oversights in documentation could cause a massive issue? You know about boundaries
 but what about the subtle boundary crossings that might not seem like a big deal—until they are? You know dual relationships are a no-no
 but do you know the sneaky ways these can happen without even realizing it? You’re confident in your scope of competence
 but how can you be sure you’re not accidentally stepping out of it without knowing? 💡 Why this matters: No one plans on being grieved or losing their license, but the smallest oversights can create the biggest problems. This episode is about uncovering those hidden risks and making sure you’re truly protected. If you found this episode helpful, don’t forget to subscribe to this podcast so you never miss out on more tips for growing your practice and protecting your career. And hey, if you know other therapists who could use some help dodging those ethical landmines, share this episode with them! Xo, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby P.S. Let’s keep this conversation going! Connect with me on LinkedIn here to connect with me and be part of an amazing community of like-minded professionals. Wed, 18 Sep 2024 22:00:00 -0000 full 1 35 Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby "Is Your Practice a Legal Time Bomb?" As ethical, caring therapists with the best of intentions, we never set out to cross boundaries or make missteps in our practice. But the truth is, even the most well-meaning therapists can stumble into dangerous territory and even serious ethical violations—often for things we never thought would be an issue
 until it’s too late. We both know you’re a fantastic therapist, but I’d love for you to take a moment and reflect: could there be something in your current process that has the potential to get you in trouble down the road? In the latest Love, Happiness & Success for Therapists podcast, I’m breaking down the ethical landmines that blow up in therapists’ faces all the time. You may think you’re covering your bases, but these hidden aspects could be the ones that catch you off guard. 👇 Here’s what you think you know—but with a twist 👇 You know you shouldn’t abandon clients
 but are you unintentionally doing it in ways you’ve never considered? You know your caseload needs managing
 but what hidden oversights in documentation could cause a massive issue? You know about boundaries
 but what about the subtle boundary crossings that might not seem like a big deal—until they are? You know dual relationships are a no-no
 but do you know the sneaky ways these can happen without even realizing it? You’re confident in your scope of competence
 but how can you be sure you’re not accidentally stepping out of it without knowing? 💡 Why this matters: No one plans on being grieved or losing their license, but the smallest oversights can create the biggest problems. This episode is about uncovering those hidden risks and making sure you’re truly protected. If you found this episode helpful, don’t forget to subscribe to this podcast so you never miss out on more tips for growing your practice and protecting your career. And hey, if you know other therapists who could use some help dodging those ethical landmines, share this episode with them! Xo, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby P.S. Let’s keep this conversation going! Connect with me on LinkedIn here to connect with me and be part of an amazing community of like-minded professionals. "Is Your Practice a Legal Time Bomb?"

As ethical, caring therapists with the best of intentions, we never set out to cross boundaries or make missteps in our practice. But the truth is, even the most well-meaning therapists can stumble into dangerous territory and even serious ethical violations—often for things we never thought would be an issue
 until it’s too late.

We both know you’re a fantastic therapist, but I’d love for you to take a moment and reflect: could there be something in your current process that has the potential to get you in trouble down the road?

In the latest Love, Happiness & Success for Therapists podcast, I’m breaking down the ethical landmines that blow up in therapists’ faces all the time. You may think you’re covering your bases, but these hidden aspects could be the ones that catch you off guard.

👇 Here’s what you think you know—but with a twist 👇

  • You know you shouldn’t abandon clients
 but are you unintentionally doing it in ways you’ve never considered?

  • You know your caseload needs managing
 but what hidden oversights in documentation could cause a massive issue?

  • You know about boundaries
 but what about the subtle boundary crossings that might not seem like a big deal—until they are?

  • You know dual relationships are a no-no
 but do you know the sneaky ways these can happen without even realizing it?

  • You’re confident in your scope of competence
 but how can you be sure you’re not accidentally stepping out of it without knowing?

💡 Why this matters: No one plans on being grieved or losing their license, but the smallest oversights can create the biggest problems. This episode is about uncovering those hidden risks and making sure you’re truly protected.

If you found this episode helpful, don’t forget to subscribe to this podcast so you never miss out on more tips for growing your practice and protecting your career. And hey, if you know other therapists who could use some help dodging those ethical landmines, share this episode with them!

Xo, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

P.S. Let’s keep this conversation going! Connect with me on LinkedIn here to connect with me and be part of an amazing community of like-minded professionals.

]]> 2509 no Yes You CAN See Around Corners — Always Be Assessing! | E34 https://www.growingself.com/ongoing-assessment-in-therapy Therapists aren't psychics, but they can seem that way. Why? The best of the best never stop assessing! Think you truly know your long-term clients? What if I told you there’s a key you’re missing to unlock their next breakthrough? Staying comfortable with your clients could be the one thing holding them back—let’s change that. As therapists, we love building deep, meaningful relationships with our clients over time—but staying comfortable with your clients could be the one thing holding them back. Complacency in therapy is more common than you think, and the biggest mistake seasoned therapists make is getting too comfortable. Here’s how to avoid it and keep your clients growing. In today’s episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists, I’m diving into why ongoing assessment is the key to unlocking deeper growth for your clients—and, more importantly, for you. If you’ve stopped assessing your long-term clients, you’re missing the hidden layers of growth that could transform their journey. In this episode, we’ll cover: [00:00] The power of long-term client relationships—and the hidden risks they carry. [00:56] Why continuous assessment is crucial for staying in tune with your clients' evolving needs. [02:17] Strategies to avoid getting complacent and stay connected to your clients’ goals. [06:15] The ethical responsibility we have as therapists to assess whether we’re still truly helping our clients. [18:16] How to spot—and address—client dependency before it becomes unhealthy. [21:01] Monitoring shifts in your clients' identity, values, and goals so you can keep the work relevant and effective. [23:02] The critical importance of addressing addictive behaviors that may surface over time. This episode is packed with actionable insights that will help you stay sharp, ethical, and deeply connected to your clients as they grow and change. Discover how continuous assessment keeps your clients (and you) thriving. If you want to continue being the transformative guide your clients need, hit play now. This isn’t just about helping them—it’s about making sure you continue to love, enjoy, and grow in your work too. Let’s dive in! Warmly, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby P.S. Are we connected yet on Linkedin? Join the conversation! Wed, 11 Sep 2024 22:00:00 -0000 full 1 34 Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Therapists aren't psychics, but they can seem that way. Why? The best of the best never stop assessing! Think you truly know your long-term clients? What if I told you there’s a key you’re missing to unlock their next breakthrough? Staying comfortable with your clients could be the one thing holding them back—let’s change that. As therapists, we love building deep, meaningful relationships with our clients over time—but staying comfortable with your clients could be the one thing holding them back. Complacency in therapy is more common than you think, and the biggest mistake seasoned therapists make is getting too comfortable. Here’s how to avoid it and keep your clients growing. In today’s episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists, I’m diving into why ongoing assessment is the key to unlocking deeper growth for your clients—and, more importantly, for you. If you’ve stopped assessing your long-term clients, you’re missing the hidden layers of growth that could transform their journey. In this episode, we’ll cover: [00:00] The power of long-term client relationships—and the hidden risks they carry. [00:56] Why continuous assessment is crucial for staying in tune with your clients' evolving needs. [02:17] Strategies to avoid getting complacent and stay connected to your clients’ goals. [06:15] The ethical responsibility we have as therapists to assess whether we’re still truly helping our clients. [18:16] How to spot—and address—client dependency before it becomes unhealthy. [21:01] Monitoring shifts in your clients' identity, values, and goals so you can keep the work relevant and effective. [23:02] The critical importance of addressing addictive behaviors that may surface over time. This episode is packed with actionable insights that will help you stay sharp, ethical, and deeply connected to your clients as they grow and change. Discover how continuous assessment keeps your clients (and you) thriving. If you want to continue being the transformative guide your clients need, hit play now. This isn’t just about helping them—it’s about making sure you continue to love, enjoy, and grow in your work too. Let’s dive in! Warmly, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby P.S. Are we connected yet on Linkedin? Join the conversation! Therapists aren't psychics, but they can seem that way. Why? The best of the best never stop assessing! Think you truly know your long-term clients? What if I told you there’s a key you’re missing to unlock their next breakthrough? Staying comfortable with your clients could be the one thing holding them back—let’s change that.

As therapists, we love building deep, meaningful relationships with our clients over time—but staying comfortable with your clients could be the one thing holding them back. Complacency in therapy is more common than you think, and the biggest mistake seasoned therapists make is getting too comfortable. Here’s how to avoid it and keep your clients growing.

In today’s episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists, I’m diving into why ongoing assessment is the key to unlocking deeper growth for your clients—and, more importantly, for you. If you’ve stopped assessing your long-term clients, you’re missing the hidden layers of growth that could transform their journey.

In this episode, we’ll cover:

  • [00:00] The power of long-term client relationships—and the hidden risks they carry.

  • [00:56] Why continuous assessment is crucial for staying in tune with your clients' evolving needs.

  • [02:17] Strategies to avoid getting complacent and stay connected to your clients’ goals.

  • [06:15] The ethical responsibility we have as therapists to assess whether we’re still truly helping our clients.

  • [18:16] How to spot—and address—client dependency before it becomes unhealthy.

  • [21:01] Monitoring shifts in your clients' identity, values, and goals so you can keep the work relevant and effective.

  • [23:02] The critical importance of addressing addictive behaviors that may surface over time.

This episode is packed with actionable insights that will help you stay sharp, ethical, and deeply connected to your clients as they grow and change. Discover how continuous assessment keeps your clients (and you) thriving. If you want to continue being the transformative guide your clients need, hit play now.

This isn’t just about helping them—it’s about making sure you continue to love, enjoy, and grow in your work too.

Let’s dive in!

Warmly, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

P.S. Are we connected yet on Linkedin? Join the conversation!

]]> 1740 no Every Therapist Faces Imposter Syndrome: Here’s How to Deal | E33 https://www.growingself.com/therapist-imposter-syndrome Unfortunatly, feeling like a fraud sometimes is part of the experience of being a therapist. Even a good, competent, highly effective therapist!  If that anxious whisper of “Am I even helping anyone?” has floated through your mind, 1) you're not alone and 2) I'm so glad you're here today for this conversation!  In this episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists, I’m diving deep into therapist imposter syndrome—that sneaky self-doubt that makes you question your competence and wonder if you're doing enough for your clients. Here’s the thing: Imposter syndrome isn’t a reflection of your abilities; it’s a sign of how much you care about your work. And guess what? If you felt completely confident all the time, you’d stop growing, and your clients might not get the best version of you. In this episode, we’re breaking it all down: where imposter syndrome comes from, why it's so common in our profession, and—most importantly—how you can manage it and use it as a tool for your own professional evolution. I’m sharing actionable strategies that help turn imposter syndrome into an engine for growth, so you can show up for your clients with renewed confidence and authenticity. 🔑 Here’s what we’ll cover: Why every thoughtful therapist experiences imposter syndrome How to reframe those self-doubts into something positive Building a growth mindset that keeps you evolving as a therapist The importance of community, mentorship, and reflection in managing imposter syndrome Practical tips you can start using right now to manage those nagging thoughts Don’t let imposter syndrome paralyze you—let it push you to grow. Tune in to learn how to navigate this common struggle, find your confidence, and keep showing up for your clients in the best possible way. 👉 For more therapist resources and tips, visit growingself.com/therapists and let’s definitely connect on LinkedIn! xoxo,  Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby #TherapistLife #ImposterSyndrome #MentalHealthProfessionals #TherapistGrowth #ProfessionalDevelopment #TherapyCareer   Wed, 04 Sep 2024 22:54:00 -0000 full 1 33 Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Unfortunatly, feeling like a fraud sometimes is part of the experience of being a therapist. Even a good, competent, highly effective therapist!  If that anxious whisper of “Am I even helping anyone?” has floated through your mind, 1) you're not alone and 2) I'm so glad you're here today for this conversation!  In this episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists, I’m diving deep into therapist imposter syndrome—that sneaky self-doubt that makes you question your competence and wonder if you're doing enough for your clients. Here’s the thing: Imposter syndrome isn’t a reflection of your abilities; it’s a sign of how much you care about your work. And guess what? If you felt completely confident all the time, you’d stop growing, and your clients might not get the best version of you. In this episode, we’re breaking it all down: where imposter syndrome comes from, why it's so common in our profession, and—most importantly—how you can manage it and use it as a tool for your own professional evolution. I’m sharing actionable strategies that help turn imposter syndrome into an engine for growth, so you can show up for your clients with renewed confidence and authenticity. 🔑 Here’s what we’ll cover: Why every thoughtful therapist experiences imposter syndrome How to reframe those self-doubts into something positive Building a growth mindset that keeps you evolving as a therapist The importance of community, mentorship, and reflection in managing imposter syndrome Practical tips you can start using right now to manage those nagging thoughts Don’t let imposter syndrome paralyze you—let it push you to grow. Tune in to learn how to navigate this common struggle, find your confidence, and keep showing up for your clients in the best possible way. 👉 For more therapist resources and tips, visit growingself.com/therapists and let’s definitely connect on LinkedIn! xoxo,  Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby #TherapistLife #ImposterSyndrome #MentalHealthProfessionals #TherapistGrowth #ProfessionalDevelopment #TherapyCareer   Unfortunatly, feeling like a fraud sometimes is part of the experience of being a therapist. Even a good, competent, highly effective therapist! 

If that anxious whisper of “Am I even helping anyone?” has floated through your mind, 1) you're not alone and 2) I'm so glad you're here today for this conversation!

 In this episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists, I’m diving deep into therapist imposter syndrome—that sneaky self-doubt that makes you question your competence and wonder if you're doing enough for your clients.

Here’s the thing: Imposter syndrome isn’t a reflection of your abilities; it’s a sign of how much you care about your work. And guess what? If you felt completely confident all the time, you’d stop growing, and your clients might not get the best version of you.

In this episode, we’re breaking it all down: where imposter syndrome comes from, why it's so common in our profession, and—most importantly—how you can manage it and use it as a tool for your own professional evolution. I’m sharing actionable strategies that help turn imposter syndrome into an engine for growth, so you can show up for your clients with renewed confidence and authenticity.

🔑 Here’s what we’ll cover:

  • Why every thoughtful therapist experiences imposter syndrome

  • How to reframe those self-doubts into something positive

  • Building a growth mindset that keeps you evolving as a therapist

  • The importance of community, mentorship, and reflection in managing imposter syndrome

  • Practical tips you can start using right now to manage those nagging thoughts

Don’t let imposter syndrome paralyze you—let it push you to grow. Tune in to learn how to navigate this common struggle, find your confidence, and keep showing up for your clients in the best possible way.

👉 For more therapist resources and tips, visit growingself.com/therapists and let’s definitely connect on LinkedIn!

xoxo, 

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

#TherapistLife #ImposterSyndrome #MentalHealthProfessionals #TherapistGrowth #ProfessionalDevelopment #TherapyCareer

 

]]> 2159 no Why Your Therapy Clients Think You’re Weird | E32 https://www.growingself.com/therapeutic-boundaries-for-therapists Did you know that our healthy, appropriate therapeutic boundaries have the potential to cause hurt feelings, emotional barriers, and even ruptures in our relationships with clients? 😬 It’s true! Even though these boundaries are vital for ethical practice, they can leave clients feeling hurt, frustrated, or confused if we’re not handling them with care and intention. In this episode, I’m diving deep into how therapeutic boundaries for therapists—from declining social media requests to maintaining client autonomy—can unintentionally create emotional distance if we’re not communicating about them properly. I’m sharing strategies to prevent these ruptures by being proactive and transparent about why we set boundaries and how they protect both us and our clients. 💡 By addressing these moments head-on, you can turn potential ruptures into opportunities for connection, trust, and growth. 🙌 👇 Timestamps 👇 00:00 Understanding Client Perceptions 01:02 Introduction to Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby 02:12 Common Therapist Boundaries 02:40 Navigating Social Media and Public Encounters 03:45 Proactive Communication and Transparency 07:14 The Role of Silence in Therapy 08:24 Dual Relationships and Boundaries 10:36 The Importance of Not Giving Direct Advice 12:32 Coaching vs. Therapy 17:14 Respecting Client Autonomy 17:56 Addressing Potential Ruptures 20:35 Final Thoughts and Resources   This episode is packed with actionable strategies to help you handle therapeutic boundaries for therapists intentionally, ensuring they don’t become the source of misunderstandings or ruptures. You’ll learn how to maintain strong, trusting relationships with your clients while holding firm to ethical practices. Let’s talk about how to turn these “weird” moments into opportunities for growth and connection. Listen now! đŸ”„ Xoxo,  Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby PS: Let’s stick together and be friends on Linkedin! PPS: Have you FOLLOWED Love, Happiness, and Success For Therapists on your podcast player yet? Do it now so you don't miss an episode!  Wed, 28 Aug 2024 22:00:00 -0000 full 1 32 Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Did you know that our healthy, appropriate therapeutic boundaries have the potential to cause hurt feelings, emotional barriers, and even ruptures in our relationships with clients? 😬 It’s true! Even though these boundaries are vital for ethical practice, they can leave clients feeling hurt, frustrated, or confused if we’re not handling them with care and intention. In this episode, I’m diving deep into how therapeutic boundaries for therapists—from declining social media requests to maintaining client autonomy—can unintentionally create emotional distance if we’re not communicating about them properly. I’m sharing strategies to prevent these ruptures by being proactive and transparent about why we set boundaries and how they protect both us and our clients. 💡 By addressing these moments head-on, you can turn potential ruptures into opportunities for connection, trust, and growth. 🙌 👇 Timestamps 👇 00:00 Understanding Client Perceptions 01:02 Introduction to Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby 02:12 Common Therapist Boundaries 02:40 Navigating Social Media and Public Encounters 03:45 Proactive Communication and Transparency 07:14 The Role of Silence in Therapy 08:24 Dual Relationships and Boundaries 10:36 The Importance of Not Giving Direct Advice 12:32 Coaching vs. Therapy 17:14 Respecting Client Autonomy 17:56 Addressing Potential Ruptures 20:35 Final Thoughts and Resources   This episode is packed with actionable strategies to help you handle therapeutic boundaries for therapists intentionally, ensuring they don’t become the source of misunderstandings or ruptures. You’ll learn how to maintain strong, trusting relationships with your clients while holding firm to ethical practices. Let’s talk about how to turn these “weird” moments into opportunities for growth and connection. Listen now! đŸ”„ Xoxo,  Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby PS: Let’s stick together and be friends on Linkedin! PPS: Have you FOLLOWED Love, Happiness, and Success For Therapists on your podcast player yet? Do it now so you don't miss an episode!  Did you know that our healthy, appropriate therapeutic boundaries have the potential to cause hurt feelings, emotional barriers, and even ruptures in our relationships with clients? 😬 It’s true! Even though these boundaries are vital for ethical practice, they can leave clients feeling hurt, frustrated, or confused if we’re not handling them with care and intention.

In this episode, I’m diving deep into how therapeutic boundaries for therapists—from declining social media requests to maintaining client autonomy—can unintentionally create emotional distance if we’re not communicating about them properly. I’m sharing strategies to prevent these ruptures by being proactive and transparent about why we set boundaries and how they protect both us and our clients. 💡

By addressing these moments head-on, you can turn potential ruptures into opportunities for connection, trust, and growth. 🙌

👇 Timestamps 👇 00:00 Understanding Client Perceptions 01:02 Introduction to Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby 02:12 Common Therapist Boundaries 02:40 Navigating Social Media and Public Encounters 03:45 Proactive Communication and Transparency 07:14 The Role of Silence in Therapy 08:24 Dual Relationships and Boundaries 10:36 The Importance of Not Giving Direct Advice 12:32 Coaching vs. Therapy 17:14 Respecting Client Autonomy 17:56 Addressing Potential Ruptures 20:35 Final Thoughts and Resources

 

This episode is packed with actionable strategies to help you handle therapeutic boundaries for therapists intentionally, ensuring they don’t become the source of misunderstandings or ruptures. You’ll learn how to maintain strong, trusting relationships with your clients while holding firm to ethical practices.

Let’s talk about how to turn these “weird” moments into opportunities for growth and connection. Listen now! đŸ”„

Xoxo, 

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

PS: Let’s stick together and be friends on Linkedin!

PPS: Have you FOLLOWED Love, Happiness, and Success For Therapists on your podcast player yet? Do it now so you don't miss an episode! 

]]> 1721 no How to Remain Non-Judgmental in the Face of Major Values Conflicts | E31 https://www.growingself.com/therapists-values-conflicts Ever found yourself feeling personally triggered by your clients, or silently (perhaps guiltily) feeling judgmental about their values or life choices? Perhaps your client is having an affair, or engaged in criminal activity, or is behaving in ways that are destructive to others. It's normal to have feelings about this! You're not alone—and this episode will change the way you handle it. In this episode of Love, Happiness, and Success For Therapist, we’re diving into a topic that’s so essential to our work: how to remain non-judgmental when your clients’ values conflict with your own. I know it can feel challenging sometimes—believe me, we’ve all been there! But here’s the thing: when you really dig into this work, it not only makes you a better therapist, but it also helps you grow emotionally and personally in ways you didn’t expect. đŸŒ± The magic of practicing unconditional positive regard is that it stretches you. It makes you more tolerant, more accepting, and honestly, more compassionate in your personal relationships, too. This episode is all about leaning into that discomfort, embracing your clients’ unique journeys, and using it as a tool for your own growth. Let’s explore together how mastering non-judgmental support can foster deeper empathy and help you build stronger relationships in both your professional and personal life. Ready to level up? Let’s dive in! Timestamps:  00:00 – How Values Conflicts Impact Therapists AND Clients 05:05 - Therapists Are Human! 12:30 - The First Step: Self Awareness 14:55 - Authentic Curiosity 18:15 - Working Within Cognitive Dissonance 23:18 - Professional Path Choices 33:03 – Practical Tips for Counselors 33:14 – Supporting Clients on Their Journey 33:26 – Embracing Non-Judgmental Support 33:54 – Personal Growth Through Professional Practice 34:28 – Fostering Tolerance and Perspective Hit play, get comfy, and let's grow together! 🌟 #TherapistLife #UnconditionalPositiveRegard #PersonalGrowth #Empathy #TherapyJourney Xo,  Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby PS: We therapists need to stick together. Let’s be friends on Linkedin! Wed, 21 Aug 2024 22:00:00 -0000 full 1 31 Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Ever found yourself feeling personally triggered by your clients, or silently (perhaps guiltily) feeling judgmental about their values or life choices? Perhaps your client is having an affair, or engaged in criminal activity, or is behaving in ways that are destructive to others. It's normal to have feelings about this! You're not alone—and this episode will change the way you handle it. In this episode of Love, Happiness, and Success For Therapist, we’re diving into a topic that’s so essential to our work: how to remain non-judgmental when your clients’ values conflict with your own. I know it can feel challenging sometimes—believe me, we’ve all been there! But here’s the thing: when you really dig into this work, it not only makes you a better therapist, but it also helps you grow emotionally and personally in ways you didn’t expect. đŸŒ± The magic of practicing unconditional positive regard is that it stretches you. It makes you more tolerant, more accepting, and honestly, more compassionate in your personal relationships, too. This episode is all about leaning into that discomfort, embracing your clients’ unique journeys, and using it as a tool for your own growth. Let’s explore together how mastering non-judgmental support can foster deeper empathy and help you build stronger relationships in both your professional and personal life. Ready to level up? Let’s dive in! Timestamps:  00:00 – How Values Conflicts Impact Therapists AND Clients 05:05 - Therapists Are Human! 12:30 - The First Step: Self Awareness 14:55 - Authentic Curiosity 18:15 - Working Within Cognitive Dissonance 23:18 - Professional Path Choices 33:03 – Practical Tips for Counselors 33:14 – Supporting Clients on Their Journey 33:26 – Embracing Non-Judgmental Support 33:54 – Personal Growth Through Professional Practice 34:28 – Fostering Tolerance and Perspective Hit play, get comfy, and let's grow together! 🌟 #TherapistLife #UnconditionalPositiveRegard #PersonalGrowth #Empathy #TherapyJourney Xo,  Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby PS: We therapists need to stick together. Let’s be friends on Linkedin! Ever found yourself feeling personally triggered by your clients, or silently (perhaps guiltily) feeling judgmental about their values or life choices? Perhaps your client is having an affair, or engaged in criminal activity, or is behaving in ways that are destructive to others. It's normal to have feelings about this!

You're not alone—and this episode will change the way you handle it.

In this episode of Love, Happiness, and Success For Therapist, we’re diving into a topic that’s so essential to our work: how to remain non-judgmental when your clients’ values conflict with your own. I know it can feel challenging sometimes—believe me, we’ve all been there! But here’s the thing: when you really dig into this work, it not only makes you a better therapist, but it also helps you grow emotionally and personally in ways you didn’t expect. đŸŒ±

The magic of practicing unconditional positive regard is that it stretches you. It makes you more tolerant, more accepting, and honestly, more compassionate in your personal relationships, too. This episode is all about leaning into that discomfort, embracing your clients’ unique journeys, and using it as a tool for your own growth.

Let’s explore together how mastering non-judgmental support can foster deeper empathy and help you build stronger relationships in both your professional and personal life. Ready to level up? Let’s dive in!

Timestamps: 

00:00 – How Values Conflicts Impact Therapists AND Clients

05:05 - Therapists Are Human!

12:30 - The First Step: Self Awareness

14:55 - Authentic Curiosity

18:15 - Working Within Cognitive Dissonance

23:18 - Professional Path Choices

33:03 – Practical Tips for Counselors

33:14 – Supporting Clients on Their Journey

33:26 – Embracing Non-Judgmental Support

33:54 – Personal Growth Through Professional Practice

34:28 – Fostering Tolerance and Perspective

Hit play, get comfy, and let's grow together! 🌟 #TherapistLife #UnconditionalPositiveRegard #PersonalGrowth #Empathy #TherapyJourney

Xo, 

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

PS: We therapists need to stick together. Let’s be friends on Linkedin!

]]> 2303 no How to Succeed Financially as a Therapist | E30 https://www.growingself.com/therapist-salary Hey there, fabulous therapists! Are you tired of feeling overworked and underpaid? If you're ready to finally break free from financial stress and build the prosperous career you deserve, you’re in the right place. Today, I'm diving into powerful, actionable tips to help you boost your income and achieve financial success as a therapist — starting right now. I’ll walk you through the best-paying therapy jobs and specializations, explore different employment options, and show you how to thrive in private practice. Whether you're considering advanced degrees, curious about high-paying roles like neuropsychology or industrial/organizational psychology, or simply wanting to explore new avenues, I’ve got you covered. And if you’re thinking about starting your own private practice? Yes, it’s challenging, but it's also one of the most rewarding paths you can take—both financially and personally. I’ll share what you need to know about the business side of things, from choosing a niche to building your online presence and growing a referral network. Plus, I'll reveal additional revenue streams that can complement your practice, so you can create a career that not only aligns with your values but also brings you joy and financial peace of mind. Let’s dig deep, get inspired, and start creating the prosperous, fulfilling career you’ve always dreamed of. Remember, your financial well-being is just as important as the amazing work you do for others. Stick with me, and let’s make this happen together! Timestamps: 0:00 - Introduction and Why This Matters 1:32 - The Best-Paying Therapy Jobs and Specializations 4:15 - Exploring Different Employment Options 7:48 - Thriving in Private Practice: What You Need to Know 11:02 - Advanced Degrees: Are They Worth It? 13:35 - Building Your Private Practice: Niche, Marketing, and More 16:20 - Additional Revenue Streams for Therapists 19:55 - Balancing Career Success with Personal Values 22:18 - Free Resources to Support Your Journey All for you!    Xo, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby   PS. Here’s the link to that free resource I shared with you today: https://www.growingself.com/coach. I hope it helps you get clarity about your career path, and your financial prosperity as a therapist.    Wed, 14 Aug 2024 22:00:00 -0000 full 1 30 Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Hey there, fabulous therapists! Are you tired of feeling overworked and underpaid? If you're ready to finally break free from financial stress and build the prosperous career you deserve, you’re in the right place. Today, I'm diving into powerful, actionable tips to help you boost your income and achieve financial success as a therapist — starting right now. I’ll walk you through the best-paying therapy jobs and specializations, explore different employment options, and show you how to thrive in private practice. Whether you're considering advanced degrees, curious about high-paying roles like neuropsychology or industrial/organizational psychology, or simply wanting to explore new avenues, I’ve got you covered. And if you’re thinking about starting your own private practice? Yes, it’s challenging, but it's also one of the most rewarding paths you can take—both financially and personally. I’ll share what you need to know about the business side of things, from choosing a niche to building your online presence and growing a referral network. Plus, I'll reveal additional revenue streams that can complement your practice, so you can create a career that not only aligns with your values but also brings you joy and financial peace of mind. Let’s dig deep, get inspired, and start creating the prosperous, fulfilling career you’ve always dreamed of. Remember, your financial well-being is just as important as the amazing work you do for others. Stick with me, and let’s make this happen together! Timestamps: 0:00 - Introduction and Why This Matters 1:32 - The Best-Paying Therapy Jobs and Specializations 4:15 - Exploring Different Employment Options 7:48 - Thriving in Private Practice: What You Need to Know 11:02 - Advanced Degrees: Are They Worth It? 13:35 - Building Your Private Practice: Niche, Marketing, and More 16:20 - Additional Revenue Streams for Therapists 19:55 - Balancing Career Success with Personal Values 22:18 - Free Resources to Support Your Journey All for you!    Xo, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby   PS. Here’s the link to that free resource I shared with you today: https://www.growingself.com/coach. I hope it helps you get clarity about your career path, and your financial prosperity as a therapist.    Hey there, fabulous therapists! Are you tired of feeling overworked and underpaid? If you're ready to finally break free from financial stress and build the prosperous career you deserve, you’re in the right place. Today, I'm diving into powerful, actionable tips to help you boost your income and achieve financial success as a therapist — starting right now.

I’ll walk you through the best-paying therapy jobs and specializations, explore different employment options, and show you how to thrive in private practice. Whether you're considering advanced degrees, curious about high-paying roles like neuropsychology or industrial/organizational psychology, or simply wanting to explore new avenues, I’ve got you covered.

And if you’re thinking about starting your own private practice? Yes, it’s challenging, but it's also one of the most rewarding paths you can take—both financially and personally. I’ll share what you need to know about the business side of things, from choosing a niche to building your online presence and growing a referral network.

Plus, I'll reveal additional revenue streams that can complement your practice, so you can create a career that not only aligns with your values but also brings you joy and financial peace of mind.

Let’s dig deep, get inspired, and start creating the prosperous, fulfilling career you’ve always dreamed of. Remember, your financial well-being is just as important as the amazing work you do for others. Stick with me, and let’s make this happen together!

Timestamps:

0:00 - Introduction and Why This Matters

1:32 - The Best-Paying Therapy Jobs and Specializations

4:15 - Exploring Different Employment Options

7:48 - Thriving in Private Practice: What You Need to Know

11:02 - Advanced Degrees: Are They Worth It?

13:35 - Building Your Private Practice: Niche, Marketing, and More

16:20 - Additional Revenue Streams for Therapists

19:55 - Balancing Career Success with Personal Values

22:18 - Free Resources to Support Your Journey

All for you! 

 

Xo, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

 

PS. Here’s the link to that free resource I shared with you today: https://www.growingself.com/coach. I hope it helps you get clarity about your career path, and your financial prosperity as a therapist. 

 

]]> 1723 no How to Get More Therapy Clients | E29 https://www.growingself.com/get-more-therapy-clients What shocked me the most about starting a private practice? My success had NOTHING to do with therapy. It had to do with understanding marketing basics and knowing how to run a business! I was TOTALLY unprepared. 🎉 Are you struggling to fill your therapy practice? Do you want to get more therapy clients, but feeling overwhelmed by the daunting task of attracting more clients? 🌟 Well. my friend, this episode of "Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists!” is for you!! 🚀 In this power-packed session, we're unveiling the ultimate secrets to transforming your private practice and ensuring your caseload is overflowing with eager clients. 🏆 đŸ”„ Here's what you'll uncover: 00:00 Introduction: The Ultimate Guide to Attracting More Therapy Clients 01:41 Game-Changing Marketing Strategies for Therapists 03:51 Elevate Your Digital Footprint: Building a Magnetic Online Presence 06:32 Networking Secrets: Building a Referral Powerhouse 09:31 Ethical Mastery: Navigating Client Referrals with Integrity 11:20 Client Retention Magic: Keep Your Caseload Overflowing 16:55 Finding Your Niche: The Power of Specialization 24:21 Smart Strategies: Financial and Practical Tips for Success 28:40 Wrapping Up: Essential Resources and Next Steps 💡 This isn't just another marketing talk—this is your ticket to a thriving, successful practice. Whether you're a seasoned therapist or just starting, these tips will revolutionize how you attract and retain clients. 📱 Don't miss out! Hit play now and embark on your journey to practice success. If you find this episode helpful, share it with a colleague, subscribe to our channel, and leave your questions in the comments. Let's keep the conversation going and support each other in achieving love, happiness, and success! 🌈 🔗 Stay connected: Subscribe to Love Happiness and Success For Therapists on your podcast app Subscribe to my channel on YouTube Connect with me on Linkedin Leave a comment with your thoughts and questions on the blog: https://www.growingself.com/get-more-therapy-clients Let's make your therapy practice the talk of the town! 🌟✹ Xoxo,  Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby   P.S. I shared a BUNCH of free resources with you in this episode. Access them all, right here: https://www.growingself.com/therapists   Wed, 07 Aug 2024 22:00:00 -0000 full 1 29 Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby What shocked me the most about starting a private practice? My success had NOTHING to do with therapy. It had to do with understanding marketing basics and knowing how to run a business! I was TOTALLY unprepared. 🎉 Are you struggling to fill your therapy practice? Do you want to get more therapy clients, but feeling overwhelmed by the daunting task of attracting more clients? 🌟 Well. my friend, this episode of "Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists!” is for you!! 🚀 In this power-packed session, we're unveiling the ultimate secrets to transforming your private practice and ensuring your caseload is overflowing with eager clients. 🏆 đŸ”„ Here's what you'll uncover: 00:00 Introduction: The Ultimate Guide to Attracting More Therapy Clients 01:41 Game-Changing Marketing Strategies for Therapists 03:51 Elevate Your Digital Footprint: Building a Magnetic Online Presence 06:32 Networking Secrets: Building a Referral Powerhouse 09:31 Ethical Mastery: Navigating Client Referrals with Integrity 11:20 Client Retention Magic: Keep Your Caseload Overflowing 16:55 Finding Your Niche: The Power of Specialization 24:21 Smart Strategies: Financial and Practical Tips for Success 28:40 Wrapping Up: Essential Resources and Next Steps 💡 This isn't just another marketing talk—this is your ticket to a thriving, successful practice. Whether you're a seasoned therapist or just starting, these tips will revolutionize how you attract and retain clients. 📱 Don't miss out! Hit play now and embark on your journey to practice success. If you find this episode helpful, share it with a colleague, subscribe to our channel, and leave your questions in the comments. Let's keep the conversation going and support each other in achieving love, happiness, and success! 🌈 🔗 Stay connected: Subscribe to Love Happiness and Success For Therapists on your podcast app Subscribe to my channel on YouTube Connect with me on Linkedin Leave a comment with your thoughts and questions on the blog: https://www.growingself.com/get-more-therapy-clients Let's make your therapy practice the talk of the town! 🌟✹ Xoxo,  Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby   P.S. I shared a BUNCH of free resources with you in this episode. Access them all, right here: https://www.growingself.com/therapists   What shocked me the most about starting a private practice? My success had NOTHING to do with therapy. It had to do with understanding marketing basics and knowing how to run a business! I was TOTALLY unprepared.

🎉 Are you struggling to fill your therapy practice? Do you want to get more therapy clients, but feeling overwhelmed by the daunting task of attracting more clients? 🌟

Well. my friend, this episode of "Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists!” is for you!! 🚀 In this power-packed session, we're unveiling the ultimate secrets to transforming your private practice and ensuring your caseload is overflowing with eager clients. 🏆

đŸ”„ Here's what you'll uncover:

  • 00:00 Introduction: The Ultimate Guide to Attracting More Therapy Clients

  • 01:41 Game-Changing Marketing Strategies for Therapists

  • 03:51 Elevate Your Digital Footprint: Building a Magnetic Online Presence

  • 06:32 Networking Secrets: Building a Referral Powerhouse

  • 09:31 Ethical Mastery: Navigating Client Referrals with Integrity

  • 11:20 Client Retention Magic: Keep Your Caseload Overflowing

  • 16:55 Finding Your Niche: The Power of Specialization

  • 24:21 Smart Strategies: Financial and Practical Tips for Success

  • 28:40 Wrapping Up: Essential Resources and Next Steps

💡 This isn't just another marketing talk—this is your ticket to a thriving, successful practice. Whether you're a seasoned therapist or just starting, these tips will revolutionize how you attract and retain clients.

📱 Don't miss out! Hit play now and embark on your journey to practice success. If you find this episode helpful, share it with a colleague, subscribe to our channel, and leave your questions in the comments. Let's keep the conversation going and support each other in achieving love, happiness, and success! 🌈

🔗 Stay connected:

Let's make your therapy practice the talk of the town! 🌟✹

Xoxo, 

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

 

P.S. I shared a BUNCH of free resources with you in this episode. Access them all, right here: https://www.growingself.com/therapists

 

]]> 2012 no How to Discover Your Niche as a Therapist | E27 https://www.growingself.com/find-your-niche-as-a-therapist What Kind Of Therapist are YOU? 🚀 In this episode of "Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists," we're diving DEEP into the secrets of finding your niche as a therapist! 🎯 Are you tired of being a generalist, doing a little bit of everything and struggling to stand out in a competitive market? Say NO MORE! I’m Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby, and I’m here to guide you through the FIVE POWERFUL STEPS to clarify your niche, become a true authority, and a trustworthy guide to the clients for whom you can do the most GOOD. 💖 đŸ”„ What We’re Discussing đŸ”„ 00:00 - Why You MUST Specialize as a Therapist 02:45 - Why Being a Generalist Hurts Your Practice 07:30 - The Journey to Specialization as a Therapist 13:20 - Step 1: Self-Assessment and Reflection 19:45 - Step 2: Gaining Experience 24:10 - Step 3: Continuing Education 30:35 - Step 4: Marketing Your Niche 36:50 - The Ongoing Journey and Regular Self-Evaluation 42:15 - FREE Two-Part Training on Coaching Certification for Therapists This episode is PACKED with valuable insights, personal stories, and actionable tips that will transform your professional life. If you’re ready to step into your power, create a fulfilling career, and become the go-to expert in your field, you CAN’T afford to miss this! ✹ CALL TO ACTION ✹ Are you curious about coaching certification for therapists? Do you want to create a career that not only meets your professional goals but also brings you joy and satisfaction? 🌟 I’ve created the ULTIMATE GUIDE just for you – a FREE two-part training on coaching certification for therapists! This guide will help you gain clarity on your long-term professional goals, explore the world of coaching, and create an action plan to achieve your dreams. 🔗 CLICK HERE to take the free two-part training and get your hands on the ultimate guide to coaching certification for therapists: growingself.com/coach 🔗 Don’t forget to LIKE, COMMENT, and SUBSCRIBE for more life-changing insights and professional tips. Let's create a career and life you LOVE! 🌈 #TherapistLife #FindYourNiche #CoachingCertification #ProfessionalGrowth #LoveHappinessSuccess   Wed, 24 Jul 2024 22:00:00 -0000 full 1 27 Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby What Kind Of Therapist are YOU? 🚀 In this episode of "Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists," we're diving DEEP into the secrets of finding your niche as a therapist! 🎯 Are you tired of being a generalist, doing a little bit of everything and struggling to stand out in a competitive market? Say NO MORE! I’m Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby, and I’m here to guide you through the FIVE POWERFUL STEPS to clarify your niche, become a true authority, and a trustworthy guide to the clients for whom you can do the most GOOD. 💖 đŸ”„ What We’re Discussing đŸ”„ 00:00 - Why You MUST Specialize as a Therapist 02:45 - Why Being a Generalist Hurts Your Practice 07:30 - The Journey to Specialization as a Therapist 13:20 - Step 1: Self-Assessment and Reflection 19:45 - Step 2: Gaining Experience 24:10 - Step 3: Continuing Education 30:35 - Step 4: Marketing Your Niche 36:50 - The Ongoing Journey and Regular Self-Evaluation 42:15 - FREE Two-Part Training on Coaching Certification for Therapists This episode is PACKED with valuable insights, personal stories, and actionable tips that will transform your professional life. If you’re ready to step into your power, create a fulfilling career, and become the go-to expert in your field, you CAN’T afford to miss this! ✹ CALL TO ACTION ✹ Are you curious about coaching certification for therapists? Do you want to create a career that not only meets your professional goals but also brings you joy and satisfaction? 🌟 I’ve created the ULTIMATE GUIDE just for you – a FREE two-part training on coaching certification for therapists! This guide will help you gain clarity on your long-term professional goals, explore the world of coaching, and create an action plan to achieve your dreams. 🔗 CLICK HERE to take the free two-part training and get your hands on the ultimate guide to coaching certification for therapists: growingself.com/coach 🔗 Don’t forget to LIKE, COMMENT, and SUBSCRIBE for more life-changing insights and professional tips. Let's create a career and life you LOVE! 🌈 #TherapistLife #FindYourNiche #CoachingCertification #ProfessionalGrowth #LoveHappinessSuccess   What Kind Of Therapist are YOU? 🚀

In this episode of "Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists," we're diving DEEP into the secrets of finding your niche as a therapist! 🎯 Are you tired of being a generalist, doing a little bit of everything and struggling to stand out in a competitive market? Say NO MORE! I’m Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby, and I’m here to guide you through the FIVE POWERFUL STEPS to clarify your niche, become a true authority, and a trustworthy guide to the clients for whom you can do the most GOOD. 💖

đŸ”„ What We’re Discussing đŸ”„

00:00 - Why You MUST Specialize as a Therapist 02:45 - Why Being a Generalist Hurts Your Practice 07:30 - The Journey to Specialization as a Therapist 13:20 - Step 1: Self-Assessment and Reflection 19:45 - Step 2: Gaining Experience 24:10 - Step 3: Continuing Education 30:35 - Step 4: Marketing Your Niche 36:50 - The Ongoing Journey and Regular Self-Evaluation 42:15 - FREE Two-Part Training on Coaching Certification for Therapists

This episode is PACKED with valuable insights, personal stories, and actionable tips that will transform your professional life. If you’re ready to step into your power, create a fulfilling career, and become the go-to expert in your field, you CAN’T afford to miss this!

✹ CALL TO ACTION ✹

Are you curious about coaching certification for therapists? Do you want to create a career that not only meets your professional goals but also brings you joy and satisfaction? 🌟 I’ve created the ULTIMATE GUIDE just for you – a FREE two-part training on coaching certification for therapists! This guide will help you gain clarity on your long-term professional goals, explore the world of coaching, and create an action plan to achieve your dreams.

🔗 CLICK HERE to take the free two-part training and get your hands on the ultimate guide to coaching certification for therapists: growingself.com/coach 🔗

Don’t forget to LIKE, COMMENT, and SUBSCRIBE for more life-changing insights and professional tips. Let's create a career and life you LOVE! 🌈

#TherapistLife #FindYourNiche #CoachingCertification #ProfessionalGrowth #LoveHappinessSuccess

 

]]> 1708 no Is Therapy Helping Your Clients? How To Tell For Sure... | E26 https://www.growingself.com/is-therapy-working-for-clients Ever wondered if your therapy is truly helping your clients? Not gonna lie: I've had those moments myself! I believe that all excellent therapists, more than anything, want to help people. That's why, in this episode, we’re diving into a topic that’s near and dear to all of our hearts: how to know if our therapy is actually making a difference in the lives of our clients. Join me as we explore essential strategies to measure therapy effectiveness and ensure our clients’ progress. I’ll be sharing tips on setting clear goals, conducting regular check-ins, observing behavioral changes, and knowing when our clients are ready to graduate from therapy. Plus, we’ll discuss how integrating coaching psychology can enhance your practice and make you an even more effective therapist. Ready to transform your therapy practice and make a bigger impact? Tune in and let’s get started!   00:00 Introduction: Is Therapy Really Helping? 00:38 Understanding Therapy's Ambiguity 02:03 Tips for Effective Therapy 03:17 Goal Setting and Progress Tracking 04:29 Regular Check-ins and Feedback 05:27 Behavioral Changes as Progress Indicators 08:02 Graduation from Therapy 09:15 Coaching Psychology for Therapists 12:37 Free Resources and Conclusion   💡 Don't miss this episode— it's only by doing our OWN work that we will truly help our clients thrive! 💡 xoxo,  Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby GrowingSelf.com P.S. For more resources and FREE training opportunities, visit growingself.com/therapist       Wed, 17 Jul 2024 22:00:00 -0000 full 1 26 Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Ever wondered if your therapy is truly helping your clients? Not gonna lie: I've had those moments myself! I believe that all excellent therapists, more than anything, want to help people. That's why, in this episode, we’re diving into a topic that’s near and dear to all of our hearts: how to know if our therapy is actually making a difference in the lives of our clients. Join me as we explore essential strategies to measure therapy effectiveness and ensure our clients’ progress. I’ll be sharing tips on setting clear goals, conducting regular check-ins, observing behavioral changes, and knowing when our clients are ready to graduate from therapy. Plus, we’ll discuss how integrating coaching psychology can enhance your practice and make you an even more effective therapist. Ready to transform your therapy practice and make a bigger impact? Tune in and let’s get started!   00:00 Introduction: Is Therapy Really Helping? 00:38 Understanding Therapy's Ambiguity 02:03 Tips for Effective Therapy 03:17 Goal Setting and Progress Tracking 04:29 Regular Check-ins and Feedback 05:27 Behavioral Changes as Progress Indicators 08:02 Graduation from Therapy 09:15 Coaching Psychology for Therapists 12:37 Free Resources and Conclusion   💡 Don't miss this episode— it's only by doing our OWN work that we will truly help our clients thrive! 💡 xoxo,  Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby GrowingSelf.com P.S. For more resources and FREE training opportunities, visit growingself.com/therapist       Ever wondered if your therapy is truly helping your clients? Not gonna lie: I've had those moments myself!

I believe that all excellent therapists, more than anything, want to help people. That's why, in this episode, we’re diving into a topic that’s near and dear to all of our hearts: how to know if our therapy is actually making a difference in the lives of our clients.

Join me as we explore essential strategies to measure therapy effectiveness and ensure our clients’ progress. I’ll be sharing tips on setting clear goals, conducting regular check-ins, observing behavioral changes, and knowing when our clients are ready to graduate from therapy. Plus, we’ll discuss how integrating coaching psychology can enhance your practice and make you an even more effective therapist.

Ready to transform your therapy practice and make a bigger impact? Tune in and let’s get started!

 

00:00 Introduction: Is Therapy Really Helping?

00:38 Understanding Therapy's Ambiguity

02:03 Tips for Effective Therapy

03:17 Goal Setting and Progress Tracking

04:29 Regular Check-ins and Feedback

05:27 Behavioral Changes as Progress Indicators

08:02 Graduation from Therapy

09:15 Coaching Psychology for Therapists

12:37 Free Resources and Conclusion

 

💡 Don't miss this episode— it's only by doing our OWN work that we will truly help our clients thrive! 💡

xoxo, 

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

GrowingSelf.com

P.S. For more resources and FREE training opportunities, visit growingself.com/therapist

 

 

 

]]> 1069 no Therapists on TikTok: The Good, The Bad, and The Ugly | E25 https://www.growingself.com/therapists-on-social-media Are you a “very online” therapist? Or are you thinking about becoming one, in order to support your therapy private practice? Well, my friend, there is much to discuss! In today's episode of Love, Happiness and Success For Therapists, we explore the dynamic and sometimes controversial world of therapists on social media. With platforms like TikTok and YouTube becoming popular avenues for mental health advice, how do we therapists navigate these waters while maintaining our ethical standards and professional boundaries? Is it ethical for therapists to share their clients’ stories on social media? What are the benefits and drawbacks of therapists offering mental health advice on TikTok and YouTube? How can therapists maintain professional boundaries while being active on social media? What ethical considerations should therapists keep in mind when creating online content? How do social media influencers impact the work of licensed therapists? What are the risks and liabilities for therapists engaging with clients in public online forums? Tune in for a comprehensive discussion that will help you understand the landscape and make informed decisions about your online presence, as a therapist. For more insightful episodes, or to connect with me, visit Growing Self - Therapists. All the best, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby   PS: Considering expanding your skill set by becoming a certified coach? Take advantage of my free two-part training series to get clear on your professional trajectory and discover if becoming a certified coach is right for you, AND get a free, step by step guide to learn exactly how to do it. All 100% FREE, and for YOU, so I hope you take advantage of it. Access this free training at GrowingSelf.com/coach     Thu, 11 Jul 2024 00:00:00 -0000 full 1 25 Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Are you a “very online” therapist? Or are you thinking about becoming one, in order to support your therapy private practice? Well, my friend, there is much to discuss! In today's episode of Love, Happiness and Success For Therapists, we explore the dynamic and sometimes controversial world of therapists on social media. With platforms like TikTok and YouTube becoming popular avenues for mental health advice, how do we therapists navigate these waters while maintaining our ethical standards and professional boundaries? Is it ethical for therapists to share their clients’ stories on social media? What are the benefits and drawbacks of therapists offering mental health advice on TikTok and YouTube? How can therapists maintain professional boundaries while being active on social media? What ethical considerations should therapists keep in mind when creating online content? How do social media influencers impact the work of licensed therapists? What are the risks and liabilities for therapists engaging with clients in public online forums? Tune in for a comprehensive discussion that will help you understand the landscape and make informed decisions about your online presence, as a therapist. For more insightful episodes, or to connect with me, visit Growing Self - Therapists. All the best, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby   PS: Considering expanding your skill set by becoming a certified coach? Take advantage of my free two-part training series to get clear on your professional trajectory and discover if becoming a certified coach is right for you, AND get a free, step by step guide to learn exactly how to do it. All 100% FREE, and for YOU, so I hope you take advantage of it. Access this free training at GrowingSelf.com/coach     Are you a “very online” therapist? Or are you thinking about becoming one, in order to support your therapy private practice? Well, my friend, there is much to discuss!

In today's episode of Love, Happiness and Success For Therapists, we explore the dynamic and sometimes controversial world of therapists on social media. With platforms like TikTok and YouTube becoming popular avenues for mental health advice, how do we therapists navigate these waters while maintaining our ethical standards and professional boundaries?

  • Is it ethical for therapists to share their clients’ stories on social media?

  • What are the benefits and drawbacks of therapists offering mental health advice on TikTok and YouTube?

  • How can therapists maintain professional boundaries while being active on social media?

  • What ethical considerations should therapists keep in mind when creating online content?

  • How do social media influencers impact the work of licensed therapists?

  • What are the risks and liabilities for therapists engaging with clients in public online forums?

Tune in for a comprehensive discussion that will help you understand the landscape and make informed decisions about your online presence, as a therapist.

For more insightful episodes, or to connect with me, visit Growing Self - Therapists.

All the best, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

 

PS: Considering expanding your skill set by becoming a certified coach? Take advantage of my free two-part training series to get clear on your professional trajectory and discover if becoming a certified coach is right for you, AND get a free, step by step guide to learn exactly how to do it. All 100% FREE, and for YOU, so I hope you take advantage of it. Access this free training at GrowingSelf.com/coach

 

 

]]> 3086 no Be a Better Therapist... By Learning How to Coach! | E24 https://www.growingself.com/be-a-better-therapist-by-learning-to-coach/ Are you a therapist who's interested in coaching? If so, this episode is for you! We're talking about how learning how to coach can boost your career as a therapist, make your work more fun, and ultimately, make you a better therapist.  Therapists who know how to apply coaching psychology are in high demand, and for good reason. They not only help their clients clarify their goals and obstacles, they help them create real results in their lives. But many therapists haven't learned about the power of evidence-based coaching and how it dovetails perfectly with their skillset. By learning how to coach, you can expand your client base, increase your income, and build a caseload that's truly enjoyable.  Tune in to learn:  01:26 The Power of Coaching Psychology 02:12 Incorporating Coaching into Therapy 05:01 Differences Between Therapy and Coaching 13:54 The Importance of Coaching Certification for Therapists 26:59 Where to Get Certified to Coach   And more! I hope you'll join me, and that this episode inspires you to embrace the coach within!   xoxo,    Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby  P.S. — You can stay tuned for updates about the coaching certification at Growing Self here: https://www.growingself.com/coaching-certification-preview/  Wed, 26 Jun 2024 17:51:00 -0000 full 1 24 Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Are you a therapist who's interested in coaching? If so, this episode is for you! We're talking about how learning how to coach can boost your career as a therapist, make your work more fun, and ultimately, make you a better therapist.  Therapists who know how to apply coaching psychology are in high demand, and for good reason. They not only help their clients clarify their goals and obstacles, they help them create real results in their lives. But many therapists haven't learned about the power of evidence-based coaching and how it dovetails perfectly with their skillset. By learning how to coach, you can expand your client base, increase your income, and build a caseload that's truly enjoyable.  Tune in to learn:  01:26 The Power of Coaching Psychology 02:12 Incorporating Coaching into Therapy 05:01 Differences Between Therapy and Coaching 13:54 The Importance of Coaching Certification for Therapists 26:59 Where to Get Certified to Coach   And more! I hope you'll join me, and that this episode inspires you to embrace the coach within!   xoxo,    Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby  P.S. — You can stay tuned for updates about the coaching certification at Growing Self here: https://www.growingself.com/coaching-certification-preview/  Are you a therapist who's interested in coaching? If so, this episode is for you! We're talking about how learning how to coach can boost your career as a therapist, make your work more fun, and ultimately, make you a better therapist. 

Therapists who know how to apply coaching psychology are in high demand, and for good reason. They not only help their clients clarify their goals and obstacles, they help them create real results in their lives. But many therapists haven't learned about the power of evidence-based coaching and how it dovetails perfectly with their skillset. By learning how to coach, you can expand your client base, increase your income, and build a caseload that's truly enjoyable. 

Tune in to learn: 

01:26 The Power of Coaching Psychology 02:12 Incorporating Coaching into Therapy 05:01 Differences Between Therapy and Coaching 13:54 The Importance of Coaching Certification for Therapists 26:59 Where to Get Certified to Coach   And more! I hope you'll join me, and that this episode inspires you to embrace the coach within!   xoxo,    Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby 

P.S. — You can stay tuned for updates about the coaching certification at Growing Self here: https://www.growingself.com/coaching-certification-preview/ 

]]> 2083 no Case Note Magic! Making Documentation Quick & Easy | E23 https://www.growingself.com/mastering-the-art-of-case-notes-and-documentation/ No one becomes a therapist because they love case notes... but it is an important part of the job. And if you don't have a solid strategy, it can feel like the bane of your exsitence. So let's talk about how to make this not-so-fun task a little bit easier!  On today's episode of Love, Happiness and Success for Therapists, we're talking about how you can streamline your documentation process, find a note-taking system that works for you, and spend more time doing the work you actually love. Documentation can be boring, but it's not all drudgery. I'm sharing some tips that will make case notes genuinely helpful, and — dare I say — FUN. There's really nothing like the feeling of having it all together at work. Good notes help you clarify your thoughts, keep your clients straight, and provide you with a clear map of the best path forward.   Plus, good note taking habits can significantly cut down on your admin time, and allow you to spend less of your free time thinking about work. It truly has so many benefits! Tune in to learn:  03:22 The Importance of Case Notes and Documentation 04:16 Strategy 1: Concurrent Note Taking and Treatment Planning 10:10 Strategy 2: Time Blocking 12:39 Strategy 3: Short Break Method 15:23 Deepening the Case Notes Experience 25:13 Exploring Your Options And more! I hope you'll join me.  xoxo,  Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby  P.S. — Are you at risk of therapist burnout? Take my free quiz and find out! https://s.pointerpro.com/flourish  Wed, 19 Jun 2024 17:38:00 -0000 full 1 23 Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby No one becomes a therapist because they love case notes... but it is an important part of the job. And if you don't have a solid strategy, it can feel like the bane of your exsitence. So let's talk about how to make this not-so-fun task a little bit easier!  On today's episode of Love, Happiness and Success for Therapists, we're talking about how you can streamline your documentation process, find a note-taking system that works for you, and spend more time doing the work you actually love. Documentation can be boring, but it's not all drudgery. I'm sharing some tips that will make case notes genuinely helpful, and — dare I say — FUN. There's really nothing like the feeling of having it all together at work. Good notes help you clarify your thoughts, keep your clients straight, and provide you with a clear map of the best path forward.   Plus, good note taking habits can significantly cut down on your admin time, and allow you to spend less of your free time thinking about work. It truly has so many benefits! Tune in to learn:  03:22 The Importance of Case Notes and Documentation 04:16 Strategy 1: Concurrent Note Taking and Treatment Planning 10:10 Strategy 2: Time Blocking 12:39 Strategy 3: Short Break Method 15:23 Deepening the Case Notes Experience 25:13 Exploring Your Options And more! I hope you'll join me.  xoxo,  Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby  P.S. — Are you at risk of therapist burnout? Take my free quiz and find out! https://s.pointerpro.com/flourish  No one becomes a therapist because they love case notes... but it is an important part of the job. And if you don't have a solid strategy, it can feel like the bane of your exsitence. So let's talk about how to make this not-so-fun task a little bit easier! 

On today's episode of Love, Happiness and Success for Therapists, we're talking about how you can streamline your documentation process, find a note-taking system that works for you, and spend more time doing the work you actually love.

Documentation can be boring, but it's not all drudgery. I'm sharing some tips that will make case notes genuinely helpful, and — dare I say — FUN. There's really nothing like the feeling of having it all together at work. Good notes help you clarify your thoughts, keep your clients straight, and provide you with a clear map of the best path forward.  

Plus, good note taking habits can significantly cut down on your admin time, and allow you to spend less of your free time thinking about work. It truly has so many benefits!

Tune in to learn: 

  • 03:22 The Importance of Case Notes and Documentation
  • 04:16 Strategy 1: Concurrent Note Taking and Treatment Planning
  • 10:10 Strategy 2: Time Blocking
  • 12:39 Strategy 3: Short Break Method
  • 15:23 Deepening the Case Notes Experience
  • 25:13 Exploring Your Options

And more! I hope you'll join me. 

xoxo, 

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby 

P.S. — Are you at risk of therapist burnout? Take my free quiz and find out! https://s.pointerpro.com/flourish 

]]> 1786 no When Your Client’s Struggles Hit Too Close to Home | E22 https://www.growingself.com/too-close-to-home/ As therapists, we know how to put our stuff aside and focus on what our client needs to heal and grow. But how are you supposed to do that when your client is struggling with something that hits too close to home for you?  As a longtime therapist myself, and a clinical supervisor, I know this happens all the time. Therapists are human too. Just like our clients, we also have breakups, and miscarriages, and conflict with loved ones. And we sometimes find ourselves in the strange position of counseling someone who is going through something we're going through ourselves.   It can be emotionally triggering! And the best way to proceed isn't always clear. Sometimes we can practice healthy boundaries and compartmentalize our feelings well enough to remain effective. And sometimes, we're too rattled to continue working with the client ethically.  The next time this happens to you, I want you to feel confident in your ability to handle it. That's why I created this episode of Love, Happiness and Success for Therapists.  Tune in to learn about:  05:31 Navigating Personal Challenges as a Therapist 11:39 The Importance of a Strong Support System 19:01 Empathy vs. Impairment 27:48 Self-Monitoring and Boundaries 31:16 Knowing When to Refer 33:17 The Courage of Referring And more.  I hope you'll join me! xoxo,  Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby  P.S. — Are you at risk of therapist burnout? Take my free quiz and find out: https://s.pointerpro.com/flourish    Wed, 12 Jun 2024 17:58:00 -0000 full 1 22 Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby As therapists, we know how to put our stuff aside and focus on what our client needs to heal and grow. But how are you supposed to do that when your client is struggling with something that hits too close to home for you?  As a longtime therapist myself, and a clinical supervisor, I know this happens all the time. Therapists are human too. Just like our clients, we also have breakups, and miscarriages, and conflict with loved ones. And we sometimes find ourselves in the strange position of counseling someone who is going through something we're going through ourselves.   It can be emotionally triggering! And the best way to proceed isn't always clear. Sometimes we can practice healthy boundaries and compartmentalize our feelings well enough to remain effective. And sometimes, we're too rattled to continue working with the client ethically.  The next time this happens to you, I want you to feel confident in your ability to handle it. That's why I created this episode of Love, Happiness and Success for Therapists.  Tune in to learn about:  05:31 Navigating Personal Challenges as a Therapist 11:39 The Importance of a Strong Support System 19:01 Empathy vs. Impairment 27:48 Self-Monitoring and Boundaries 31:16 Knowing When to Refer 33:17 The Courage of Referring And more.  I hope you'll join me! xoxo,  Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby  P.S. — Are you at risk of therapist burnout? Take my free quiz and find out: https://s.pointerpro.com/flourish    As therapists, we know how to put our stuff aside and focus on what our client needs to heal and grow. But how are you supposed to do that when your client is struggling with something that hits too close to home for you? 

As a longtime therapist myself, and a clinical supervisor, I know this happens all the time. Therapists are human too. Just like our clients, we also have breakups, and miscarriages, and conflict with loved ones. And we sometimes find ourselves in the strange position of counseling someone who is going through something we're going through ourselves.  

It can be emotionally triggering! And the best way to proceed isn't always clear. Sometimes we can practice healthy boundaries and compartmentalize our feelings well enough to remain effective. And sometimes, we're too rattled to continue working with the client ethically. 

The next time this happens to you, I want you to feel confident in your ability to handle it. That's why I created this episode of Love, Happiness and Success for Therapists. 

Tune in to learn about: 

  • 05:31 Navigating Personal Challenges as a Therapist
  • 11:39 The Importance of a Strong Support System
  • 19:01 Empathy vs. Impairment
  • 27:48 Self-Monitoring and Boundaries
  • 31:16 Knowing When to Refer
  • 33:17 The Courage of Referring

And more. 

I hope you'll join me!

xoxo, 

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby 

P.S. — Are you at risk of therapist burnout? Take my free quiz and find out: https://s.pointerpro.com/flourish 

 

]]> 2224 no The Robots Are Coming! Therapy in the Age of AI | E21 https://www.growingself.com/the-future-of-therapy/ Therapists: Could you be replaced by a robot? It's not the plot of a science fiction novel. It's happening now, and the technology is getting better every day. So what will therapy look like in the age of Artificial Intelligence, and more importantly, how can YOU future-proof your career as a therapist in this brave new world? That's what we're talking about on today's episode! AI "therapists" can already provide the passive talk therapy experience that so many clinicians offer. It's time to adapt... and the sooner, the better. If you to take this opportunity to differentiate yourself and build upon your skillset, I believe you'll have everything you need to thrive as a therapist in in the age of AI.  Tune into this episode to learn about:  00:00 The Future of Therapy  04:10 The Impact of AI on Traditional Therapy 08:26 The Shift in Non-Directive Talk Therapy 10:13 Changes in Clinical Mental Health Treatment 13:04 The Role of Coaching in the Future of Therapy 18:26 The Advantages of Coaching  24:22 The Future of Therapy: Building on High Ground And so much more. I hope you'll join me! xoxo,  Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby  P.S. — Are you at risk of therapist burnout? Take my free quiz and find out: https://s.pointerpro.com/flourish  Wed, 05 Jun 2024 18:00:00 -0000 full 1 21 Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Therapists: Could you be replaced by a robot? It's not the plot of a science fiction novel. It's happening now, and the technology is getting better every day. So what will therapy look like in the age of Artificial Intelligence, and more importantly, how can YOU future-proof your career as a therapist in this brave new world? That's what we're talking about on today's episode! AI "therapists" can already provide the passive talk therapy experience that so many clinicians offer. It's time to adapt... and the sooner, the better. If you to take this opportunity to differentiate yourself and build upon your skillset, I believe you'll have everything you need to thrive as a therapist in in the age of AI.  Tune into this episode to learn about:  00:00 The Future of Therapy  04:10 The Impact of AI on Traditional Therapy 08:26 The Shift in Non-Directive Talk Therapy 10:13 Changes in Clinical Mental Health Treatment 13:04 The Role of Coaching in the Future of Therapy 18:26 The Advantages of Coaching  24:22 The Future of Therapy: Building on High Ground And so much more. I hope you'll join me! xoxo,  Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby  P.S. — Are you at risk of therapist burnout? Take my free quiz and find out: https://s.pointerpro.com/flourish  Therapists: Could you be replaced by a robot? It's not the plot of a science fiction novel. It's happening now, and the technology is getting better every day. So what will therapy look like in the age of Artificial Intelligence, and more importantly, how can YOU future-proof your career as a therapist in this brave new world? That's what we're talking about on today's episode!

AI "therapists" can already provide the passive talk therapy experience that so many clinicians offer. It's time to adapt... and the sooner, the better. If you to take this opportunity to differentiate yourself and build upon your skillset, I believe you'll have everything you need to thrive as a therapist in in the age of AI. 

Tune into this episode to learn about: 

  • 00:00 The Future of Therapy 
  • 04:10 The Impact of AI on Traditional Therapy
  • 08:26 The Shift in Non-Directive Talk Therapy
  • 10:13 Changes in Clinical Mental Health Treatment
  • 13:04 The Role of Coaching in the Future of Therapy
  • 18:26 The Advantages of Coaching 
  • 24:22 The Future of Therapy: Building on High Ground

And so much more. I hope you'll join me!

xoxo, 

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby 

P.S. — Are you at risk of therapist burnout? Take my free quiz and find out: https://s.pointerpro.com/flourish 

]]> 1631 no How to Have ‘The Money Talk’ with Therapy Clients | E20 https://www.growingself.com/talking-about-money-with-therapy-clients/ Are you a therapist who wants to raise your rates, but the prospect of discussing it with new and existing clients makes you think twice? Talking about money with therapy clients can be awkward — but it's a necessary skill that all therapists need to develop, and this episode will show you the way.  Why is money such a fraught topic, especially in the therapeutic relationship? Because we genuinely care about our clients. And sometimes, pushing for more money can feel unkind, or like it cheapens the relationship somehow. In reality, money is the boundary that our professional relationships require to remain healthy and balanced.  If you dread "The Money Talk," changing your mindset about money and its role in your career is step one. This episode will help! Tune in to learn:  01:04 Why talking about money can feel so difficult 04:18 The root causes of discomfort around money 06:13 Challenges for therapists transitioning into private practice 09:31 Legitimate concerns about filling a private practice 10:58 Imposter syndrome and your finances 16:02 Conflict avoidance and peacemaking tendencies 21:40 Cultural and family influences on money 25:31 Strategies for talking about money with confidence You are a highly educated, skilled professional whose work literally changes the trajectory of people's lives. You deserve to make a good living. I hope this episode inspires you to make it happen! xoxo,  Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby  P.S. — Are you at risk of therapist burnout? Take my free quiz and find out:  https://s.pointerpro.com/flourish    Wed, 29 May 2024 15:29:00 -0000 full 1 20 Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Are you a therapist who wants to raise your rates, but the prospect of discussing it with new and existing clients makes you think twice? Talking about money with therapy clients can be awkward — but it's a necessary skill that all therapists need to develop, and this episode will show you the way.  Why is money such a fraught topic, especially in the therapeutic relationship? Because we genuinely care about our clients. And sometimes, pushing for more money can feel unkind, or like it cheapens the relationship somehow. In reality, money is the boundary that our professional relationships require to remain healthy and balanced.  If you dread "The Money Talk," changing your mindset about money and its role in your career is step one. This episode will help! Tune in to learn:  01:04 Why talking about money can feel so difficult 04:18 The root causes of discomfort around money 06:13 Challenges for therapists transitioning into private practice 09:31 Legitimate concerns about filling a private practice 10:58 Imposter syndrome and your finances 16:02 Conflict avoidance and peacemaking tendencies 21:40 Cultural and family influences on money 25:31 Strategies for talking about money with confidence You are a highly educated, skilled professional whose work literally changes the trajectory of people's lives. You deserve to make a good living. I hope this episode inspires you to make it happen! xoxo,  Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby  P.S. — Are you at risk of therapist burnout? Take my free quiz and find out:  https://s.pointerpro.com/flourish    Are you a therapist who wants to raise your rates, but the prospect of discussing it with new and existing clients makes you think twice? Talking about money with therapy clients can be awkward — but it's a necessary skill that all therapists need to develop, and this episode will show you the way. 

Why is money such a fraught topic, especially in the therapeutic relationship? Because we genuinely care about our clients. And sometimes, pushing for more money can feel unkind, or like it cheapens the relationship somehow. In reality, money is the boundary that our professional relationships require to remain healthy and balanced. 

If you dread "The Money Talk," changing your mindset about money and its role in your career is step one. This episode will help! Tune in to learn: 

  • 01:04 Why talking about money can feel so difficult
  • 04:18 The root causes of discomfort around money
  • 06:13 Challenges for therapists transitioning into private practice
  • 09:31 Legitimate concerns about filling a private practice
  • 10:58 Imposter syndrome and your finances
  • 16:02 Conflict avoidance and peacemaking tendencies
  • 21:40 Cultural and family influences on money
  • 25:31 Strategies for talking about money with confidence

You are a highly educated, skilled professional whose work literally changes the trajectory of people's lives. You deserve to make a good living. I hope this episode inspires you to make it happen!

xoxo, 

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby 

P.S. — Are you at risk of therapist burnout? Take my free quiz and find out:  https://s.pointerpro.com/flourish 

 ]]> 2475 no Why Therapists Need to Be Leaders | E19 https://www.growingself.com/why-therapists-need-to-be-leaders/ One of the most difficult things about being a therapist is the sense of helpless we can feel about helping our clients create positive change. It's true that our clients are the experts on themselves and we can't do the work of growth for them — but I believe we have more opportunities to lead than we realize.  When you embrace your expertise and your role as a leader in therapy, new avenues open up to you. It's the doorway not only to feeling more satisfied with your work, but also to helping your clients in the way they really want to be helped.  On today's episode, we're talking about how you can become a leader in the therapy room, guiding your clients in a positive direction rather than feeling like you have to take a backseat to their process.  Tune in to learn:  00:00 The Impact of Embracing Leadership in Therapy 03:18 The Controversy of Therapists as Leaders 07:56 The Role of Therapists in Providing Guidance 10:54 Different Theoretical Orientations and Leadership 17:23 Striking a Balance Between Autonomy and Guidance 20:16 The Therapist's Role in Facilitating Growth 23:38 Leadership Questions for Therapists 29:19 Developing an Ethical and Positive Leadership Stance 32:34 Staying Connected to Your Why 35:48 The Intersection of Coaching and Therapy And more. I hope you'll join me! xoxo,  Dr. Lisa P.S. — Are you at risk of therapist burnout? Take my free quiz and find out:  https://s.pointerpro.com/flourish  Wed, 22 May 2024 17:52:00 -0000 full 1 19 Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby One of the most difficult things about being a therapist is the sense of helpless we can feel about helping our clients create positive change. It's true that our clients are the experts on themselves and we can't do the work of growth for them — but I believe we have more opportunities to lead than we realize.  When you embrace your expertise and your role as a leader in therapy, new avenues open up to you. It's the doorway not only to feeling more satisfied with your work, but also to helping your clients in the way they really want to be helped.  On today's episode, we're talking about how you can become a leader in the therapy room, guiding your clients in a positive direction rather than feeling like you have to take a backseat to their process.  Tune in to learn:  00:00 The Impact of Embracing Leadership in Therapy 03:18 The Controversy of Therapists as Leaders 07:56 The Role of Therapists in Providing Guidance 10:54 Different Theoretical Orientations and Leadership 17:23 Striking a Balance Between Autonomy and Guidance 20:16 The Therapist's Role in Facilitating Growth 23:38 Leadership Questions for Therapists 29:19 Developing an Ethical and Positive Leadership Stance 32:34 Staying Connected to Your Why 35:48 The Intersection of Coaching and Therapy And more. I hope you'll join me! xoxo,  Dr. Lisa P.S. — Are you at risk of therapist burnout? Take my free quiz and find out:  https://s.pointerpro.com/flourish  One of the most difficult things about being a therapist is the sense of helpless we can feel about helping our clients create positive change. It's true that our clients are the experts on themselves and we can't do the work of growth for them — but I believe we have more opportunities to lead than we realize. 

When you embrace your expertise and your role as a leader in therapy, new avenues open up to you. It's the doorway not only to feeling more satisfied with your work, but also to helping your clients in the way they really want to be helped. 

On today's episode, we're talking about how you can become a leader in the therapy room, guiding your clients in a positive direction rather than feeling like you have to take a backseat to their process. 

Tune in to learn: 

  • 00:00 The Impact of Embracing Leadership in Therapy
  • 03:18 The Controversy of Therapists as Leaders
  • 07:56 The Role of Therapists in Providing Guidance
  • 10:54 Different Theoretical Orientations and Leadership
  • 17:23 Striking a Balance Between Autonomy and Guidance
  • 20:16 The Therapist's Role in Facilitating Growth
  • 23:38 Leadership Questions for Therapists
  • 29:19 Developing an Ethical and Positive Leadership Stance
  • 32:34 Staying Connected to Your Why
  • 35:48 The Intersection of Coaching and Therapy

And more. I hope you'll join me!

xoxo, 

Dr. Lisa

P.S. — Are you at risk of therapist burnout? Take my free quiz and find out: 

https://s.pointerpro.com/flourish 

]]> 2466 no Life Hacks for Therapists: Ending Sessions on Time | E18 https://www.growingself.com/ending-therapy-sessions-on-time/ Ending therapy sessions on time... it's something that all therapists have to master. And it can be harder than it sounds! When your client is getting into something important, the last thing you want to do is cut them off.  But drawing that boundary around your time is about more than just running a tight ship around your practice (although that's important, too). It's about creating a safe container in the therapy session and keeping the dynamics of the relationship professional.  So how can you get better at ending your sessions on time, without making your clients feel rushed out? This episode will show you the way! Tune in to learn:  00:00 Why Ending Therapy Sessions on Time Matters 04:26 The Challenges of Ending Sessions on Time 07:16 How Money Factors Into It 09:35 The 'Doorknob Moment' and Managing Time 13:28 Building Trust and Maintaining Professional Boundaries 15:25 Preventing Burnout and Practicing Self-Care 18:41 Managing Administrative Tasks and Minimizing Stress 23:41 Strategies for Ending Sessions on Time 26:26 Developing a Closing Routine 27:25 Exploring Emotions and Seeking Support And more! I hope you'll join me and that you'll take some valuable tips from the conversation.  xoxo,  Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby  P.S. — Are you at risk of therapist burnout? Take my free quiz and find out: https://s.pointerpro.com/flourish  Wed, 15 May 2024 17:23:00 -0000 full 1 18 Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Ending therapy sessions on time... it's something that all therapists have to master. And it can be harder than it sounds! When your client is getting into something important, the last thing you want to do is cut them off.  But drawing that boundary around your time is about more than just running a tight ship around your practice (although that's important, too). It's about creating a safe container in the therapy session and keeping the dynamics of the relationship professional.  So how can you get better at ending your sessions on time, without making your clients feel rushed out? This episode will show you the way! Tune in to learn:  00:00 Why Ending Therapy Sessions on Time Matters 04:26 The Challenges of Ending Sessions on Time 07:16 How Money Factors Into It 09:35 The 'Doorknob Moment' and Managing Time 13:28 Building Trust and Maintaining Professional Boundaries 15:25 Preventing Burnout and Practicing Self-Care 18:41 Managing Administrative Tasks and Minimizing Stress 23:41 Strategies for Ending Sessions on Time 26:26 Developing a Closing Routine 27:25 Exploring Emotions and Seeking Support And more! I hope you'll join me and that you'll take some valuable tips from the conversation.  xoxo,  Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby  P.S. — Are you at risk of therapist burnout? Take my free quiz and find out: https://s.pointerpro.com/flourish  Ending therapy sessions on time... it's something that all therapists have to master. And it can be harder than it sounds! When your client is getting into something important, the last thing you want to do is cut them off. 

But drawing that boundary around your time is about more than just running a tight ship around your practice (although that's important, too). It's about creating a safe container in the therapy session and keeping the dynamics of the relationship professional. 

So how can you get better at ending your sessions on time, without making your clients feel rushed out? This episode will show you the way! Tune in to learn: 

  • 00:00 Why Ending Therapy Sessions on Time Matters
  • 04:26 The Challenges of Ending Sessions on Time
  • 07:16 How Money Factors Into It
  • 09:35 The 'Doorknob Moment' and Managing Time
  • 13:28 Building Trust and Maintaining Professional Boundaries
  • 15:25 Preventing Burnout and Practicing Self-Care
  • 18:41 Managing Administrative Tasks and Minimizing Stress
  • 23:41 Strategies for Ending Sessions on Time
  • 26:26 Developing a Closing Routine
  • 27:25 Exploring Emotions and Seeking Support

And more! I hope you'll join me and that you'll take some valuable tips from the conversation. 

xoxo, 

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby 

P.S. — Are you at risk of therapist burnout? Take my free quiz and find out: https://s.pointerpro.com/flourish 

]]> 1964 no Is It Time to Let Go of the Medical Model? | E17 https://www.growingself.com/rethinking-the-medical-model-in-therapy Therapist friends, I have some advice — if you are primarily focused on the diagnosis and treatment of mental health conditions, the future of your career as a therapist is at risk. Moving away from the medical model is the best way to future-proof your career while building a thriving practice. On today's episode, I'm going to tell you why that is and how you can take action.  There are already AI programs that can do much of what we were taught to do in counseling school when it comes to recognizing mental health symptoms and devising treatment plans. And if your business model relies on insurance billing, you should know that insurance companies are already finding ways to avoid paying therapists to do this work.  What does that mean for you? It means it's time to broaden your skillset and your practice to focus on concerns that the medical model was never designed to address: Personal growth, healthy relationships, life satisfaction, goal attainment and career success. Taking this opportunity to move beyond the medical model will help you connect with a wider range of clients, prosper in private practice, and prepare for our new technological reality.  Tune in to learn how. We'll be exploring:  00:00 The Rise of AI in Therapy 03:24 The Impact on Therapists 07:38 The Role of Insurance Companies 09:53 The Power of New Technologies 14:00 The Ethical Dilemma of Insurance Billing 16:23 Pivoting Away from the Medical Model 18:14 The Advantages of Coaching 22:53 The Future of Coaching And more. I hope you'll join me!  xoxo,  Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby  P.S. — Are you at risk of therapist burnout? Take my free quiz and find out: https://s.pointerpro.com/flourish  Wed, 08 May 2024 18:02:00 -0000 full 1 17 Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Therapist friends, I have some advice — if you are primarily focused on the diagnosis and treatment of mental health conditions, the future of your career as a therapist is at risk. Moving away from the medical model is the best way to future-proof your career while building a thriving practice. On today's episode, I'm going to tell you why that is and how you can take action.  There are already AI programs that can do much of what we were taught to do in counseling school when it comes to recognizing mental health symptoms and devising treatment plans. And if your business model relies on insurance billing, you should know that insurance companies are already finding ways to avoid paying therapists to do this work.  What does that mean for you? It means it's time to broaden your skillset and your practice to focus on concerns that the medical model was never designed to address: Personal growth, healthy relationships, life satisfaction, goal attainment and career success. Taking this opportunity to move beyond the medical model will help you connect with a wider range of clients, prosper in private practice, and prepare for our new technological reality.  Tune in to learn how. We'll be exploring:  00:00 The Rise of AI in Therapy 03:24 The Impact on Therapists 07:38 The Role of Insurance Companies 09:53 The Power of New Technologies 14:00 The Ethical Dilemma of Insurance Billing 16:23 Pivoting Away from the Medical Model 18:14 The Advantages of Coaching 22:53 The Future of Coaching And more. I hope you'll join me!  xoxo,  Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby  P.S. — Are you at risk of therapist burnout? Take my free quiz and find out: https://s.pointerpro.com/flourish  Therapist friends, I have some advice — if you are primarily focused on the diagnosis and treatment of mental health conditions, the future of your career as a therapist is at risk. Moving away from the medical model is the best way to future-proof your career while building a thriving practice. On today's episode, I'm going to tell you why that is and how you can take action. 

There are already AI programs that can do much of what we were taught to do in counseling school when it comes to recognizing mental health symptoms and devising treatment plans. And if your business model relies on insurance billing, you should know that insurance companies are already finding ways to avoid paying therapists to do this work. 

What does that mean for you? It means it's time to broaden your skillset and your practice to focus on concerns that the medical model was never designed to address: Personal growth, healthy relationships, life satisfaction, goal attainment and career success. Taking this opportunity to move beyond the medical model will help you connect with a wider range of clients, prosper in private practice, and prepare for our new technological reality. 

Tune in to learn how. We'll be exploring: 

  • 00:00 The Rise of AI in Therapy
  • 03:24 The Impact on Therapists
  • 07:38 The Role of Insurance Companies
  • 09:53 The Power of New Technologies
  • 14:00 The Ethical Dilemma of Insurance Billing
  • 16:23 Pivoting Away from the Medical Model
  • 18:14 The Advantages of Coaching
  • 22:53 The Future of Coaching

And more. I hope you'll join me! 

xoxo, 

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby 

P.S. — Are you at risk of therapist burnout? Take my free quiz and find out: https://s.pointerpro.com/flourish 

]]> 1729 no Uncovering Your Blindspots: Cultural Competence in Therapy | E16 https://www.growingself.com/uncovering-blindspots-cultural-competence-in-therapy All therapists have blindspots, and learning to recognize them is deep personal and professional growth work. It will make you more empathetic, more insightful, and more insightful, not only as a therapist, but also as a human.   But the thing about blindspots is... we can't see them! Uncovering your blind spots to become a more culturally competent therapist is a process of self-exploration that will unearth perspectives and conditioning that you're not even aware of yet. It requires openness and courage, and it strengthens your capacity for self-reflection and connection to others.  That exploratory process is what we're talking about on this episode of Love, Happiness and Success for Therapists. My guest is Dr. Diane Estrada, a veteran of the craft and my long-time mentor. Diane brings so much heart and wisdom to her practice, as well as to her work helping others become the best therapists they can be. She's a treasure, and I'm so excited that I get to share her with you! Tune in to learn:  02:10 The Impact of Cultural and Identity Biases in Therapy 04:01 How to Develop Self-Awareness as a Therapist 12:08 Recognizing the Influence of Eurocentric Models 23:33 Reckoning with Feelings of Anger and Resentment 28:01 Seeing the Presence of Culture and Belief Systems 35:52 Practices for Growth and Development 39:52 The Importance of Checks and Balances 40:59 The Challenge of Engaging in Difficult Conversations 42:07 Understanding Your Clients' Context 43:30 Creating Courageous Space 44:18 Balancing Emotional Safety and Growth 45:08 Overcoming the Discomfort of Addressing Race   And more!   I hope you'll join us, and that you'll find our conversation as insightful and helpful as I did.    With love,    Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby    P.S. — Are you at risk of therapist burnout? Take my free quiz and find out: https://s.pointerpro.com/flourish   Wed, 01 May 2024 20:00:00 -0000 full 1 16 Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby All therapists have blindspots, and learning to recognize them is deep personal and professional growth work. It will make you more empathetic, more insightful, and more insightful, not only as a therapist, but also as a human.   But the thing about blindspots is... we can't see them! Uncovering your blind spots to become a more culturally competent therapist is a process of self-exploration that will unearth perspectives and conditioning that you're not even aware of yet. It requires openness and courage, and it strengthens your capacity for self-reflection and connection to others.  That exploratory process is what we're talking about on this episode of Love, Happiness and Success for Therapists. My guest is Dr. Diane Estrada, a veteran of the craft and my long-time mentor. Diane brings so much heart and wisdom to her practice, as well as to her work helping others become the best therapists they can be. She's a treasure, and I'm so excited that I get to share her with you! Tune in to learn:  02:10 The Impact of Cultural and Identity Biases in Therapy 04:01 How to Develop Self-Awareness as a Therapist 12:08 Recognizing the Influence of Eurocentric Models 23:33 Reckoning with Feelings of Anger and Resentment 28:01 Seeing the Presence of Culture and Belief Systems 35:52 Practices for Growth and Development 39:52 The Importance of Checks and Balances 40:59 The Challenge of Engaging in Difficult Conversations 42:07 Understanding Your Clients' Context 43:30 Creating Courageous Space 44:18 Balancing Emotional Safety and Growth 45:08 Overcoming the Discomfort of Addressing Race   And more!   I hope you'll join us, and that you'll find our conversation as insightful and helpful as I did.    With love,    Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby    P.S. — Are you at risk of therapist burnout? Take my free quiz and find out: https://s.pointerpro.com/flourish   All therapists have blindspots, and learning to recognize them is deep personal and professional growth work. It will make you more empathetic, more insightful, and more insightful, not only as a therapist, but also as a human.  

But the thing about blindspots is... we can't see them! Uncovering your blind spots to become a more culturally competent therapist is a process of self-exploration that will unearth perspectives and conditioning that you're not even aware of yet. It requires openness and courage, and it strengthens your capacity for self-reflection and connection to others. 

That exploratory process is what we're talking about on this episode of Love, Happiness and Success for Therapists. My guest is Dr. Diane Estrada, a veteran of the craft and my long-time mentor. Diane brings so much heart and wisdom to her practice, as well as to her work helping others become the best therapists they can be. She's a treasure, and I'm so excited that I get to share her with you!

Tune in to learn: 

  • 02:10 The Impact of Cultural and Identity Biases in Therapy
  • 04:01 How to Develop Self-Awareness as a Therapist
  • 12:08 Recognizing the Influence of Eurocentric Models
  • 23:33 Reckoning with Feelings of Anger and Resentment
  • 28:01 Seeing the Presence of Culture and Belief Systems
  • 35:52 Practices for Growth and Development
  • 39:52 The Importance of Checks and Balances
  • 40:59 The Challenge of Engaging in Difficult Conversations
  • 42:07 Understanding Your Clients' Context
  • 43:30 Creating Courageous Space
  • 44:18 Balancing Emotional Safety and Growth
  • 45:08 Overcoming the Discomfort of Addressing Race
  And more!   I hope you'll join us, and that you'll find our conversation as insightful and helpful as I did.    With love,    Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby    P.S. — Are you at risk of therapist burnout? Take my free quiz and find out: https://s.pointerpro.com/flourish  ]]> 2569 no Hero Spotlight: A Home Within feat. Candice Simonds | E15 https://www.growingself.com/hero-spotlight-a-home-within/ This week on Love, Happiness and Success for Therapists, we are spotlighting an organization that is making a positive difference in the lives of current and former foster care children: A Home Within.  A Home Within is a collective of volunteer therapists who offer no-cost therapy to current and former foster care children, for as long as they need it. This is the kind of transformative, meaningful work that we all want to be a part of, and I'm so honored to have the opportunity to shine a light on this fantastic organization.  My guest is Candice Simonds, chief program officer and a volunteer with A Home Within. Candice is sharing tips on working with people impacted by foster care, helping clients overcome a difficult childhood, and how you can use your therapist superpowers to become a beacon of hope for disadvantaged kids in your community.  Tune in to hear:  08:19 The Importance of This Work 15:42 Supporting Clinicians and Clients 25:26 Community Experience for Home Within Volunteers 26:41 Therapist Choice and Caseloads 28:20 Long-Term Trajectories and Outcomes 29:20 Research and Client Needs 32:10 Positive Impact of Therapy 33:06 Building Safety and Engagement 39:33 Creating an Environment of Healing and Joy 40:57 Resilience and Hope 42:21 The Power of Love 44:37 Being Part of the Solution 47:28 How to Get Involved And more! I hope you'll join us for this enlightening conversation, and consider joining this amazing group of therapists.    xoxo,  Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby    P.S. — Are you at risk of therapist burnout? Take my free quiz and find out: https://s.pointerpro.com/flourish    Wed, 24 Apr 2024 18:00:00 -0000 full 1 15 Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby This week on Love, Happiness and Success for Therapists, we are spotlighting an organization that is making a positive difference in the lives of current and former foster care children: A Home Within.  A Home Within is a collective of volunteer therapists who offer no-cost therapy to current and former foster care children, for as long as they need it. This is the kind of transformative, meaningful work that we all want to be a part of, and I'm so honored to have the opportunity to shine a light on this fantastic organization.  My guest is Candice Simonds, chief program officer and a volunteer with A Home Within. Candice is sharing tips on working with people impacted by foster care, helping clients overcome a difficult childhood, and how you can use your therapist superpowers to become a beacon of hope for disadvantaged kids in your community.  Tune in to hear:  08:19 The Importance of This Work 15:42 Supporting Clinicians and Clients 25:26 Community Experience for Home Within Volunteers 26:41 Therapist Choice and Caseloads 28:20 Long-Term Trajectories and Outcomes 29:20 Research and Client Needs 32:10 Positive Impact of Therapy 33:06 Building Safety and Engagement 39:33 Creating an Environment of Healing and Joy 40:57 Resilience and Hope 42:21 The Power of Love 44:37 Being Part of the Solution 47:28 How to Get Involved And more! I hope you'll join us for this enlightening conversation, and consider joining this amazing group of therapists.    xoxo,  Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby    P.S. — Are you at risk of therapist burnout? Take my free quiz and find out: https://s.pointerpro.com/flourish    This week on Love, Happiness and Success for Therapists, we are spotlighting an organization that is making a positive difference in the lives of current and former foster care children: A Home Within. 

A Home Within is a collective of volunteer therapists who offer no-cost therapy to current and former foster care children, for as long as they need it. This is the kind of transformative, meaningful work that we all want to be a part of, and I'm so honored to have the opportunity to shine a light on this fantastic organization. 

My guest is Candice Simonds, chief program officer and a volunteer with A Home Within. Candice is sharing tips on working with people impacted by foster care, helping clients overcome a difficult childhood, and how you can use your therapist superpowers to become a beacon of hope for disadvantaged kids in your community. 

Tune in to hear: 

  • 08:19 The Importance of This Work
  • 15:42 Supporting Clinicians and Clients
  • 25:26 Community Experience for Home Within Volunteers
  • 26:41 Therapist Choice and Caseloads
  • 28:20 Long-Term Trajectories and Outcomes
  • 29:20 Research and Client Needs
  • 32:10 Positive Impact of Therapy
  • 33:06 Building Safety and Engagement
  • 39:33 Creating an Environment of Healing and Joy
  • 40:57 Resilience and Hope
  • 42:21 The Power of Love
  • 44:37 Being Part of the Solution
  • 47:28 How to Get Involved
And more! I hope you'll join us for this enlightening conversation, and consider joining this amazing group of therapists.    xoxo,  Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby    P.S. — Are you at risk of therapist burnout? Take my free quiz and find out: https://s.pointerpro.com/flourish 

 

]]> 2544 no Coping with Vicarious Trauma | E13 https://www.growingself.com/how-to-deal-with-vicarious-trauma/ Vicarious trauma: It's an occupational hazard for us as therapists. It's also something that we're all exposed to sooner or later.  We sit with our clients' most difficult life experiences every single day. We care so much... and sometimes our empathetic hearts lead us to take on the emotional residue of the stories we hear.  But there are things you can do to avoid becoming vicariously traumatized, and to cope with vicarious trauma once it's already set in. That's what we're talking about on today's episode.  My guest is Dr. Lisa Corbin, a therapist, educator, and thought leader on preventing and managing vicarious trauma. Dr. Lisa C. is sharing some sage advice that will keep you happy, healthy and effective, throughout your career. You won't want to miss it! You'll learn:  00:00 What Is Vicarious Trauma?  10:06 Dr. Lisa Corbin's Personal Experience with Vicarious Trauma 19:04 Recognizing and Addressing Vicarious Trauma 25:08 What to Do About Traumatized Colleagues 39:36 Acceptance and Self-Care 40:51 Physical Rituals and Grounding Exercises 42:21 Supporting Each Other as Therapists 43:15 Infusing Trauma Discussions into Supervision 44:23 Spirituality and Religion as Coping Mechanisms 45:48 Invoking Higher Power to Help 46:43 Sharing Traumatic Experiences with Colleagues 50:28 Increasing Awareness and Seeking Support I hope you'll join me! xoxo,  Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby P.S. — Are you at risk of therapist burnout? Take my free quiz and find out: https://s.pointerpro.com/flourish Wed, 10 Apr 2024 18:00:00 -0000 full 1 13 Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Vicarious trauma: It's an occupational hazard for us as therapists. It's also something that we're all exposed to sooner or later.  We sit with our clients' most difficult life experiences every single day. We care so much... and sometimes our empathetic hearts lead us to take on the emotional residue of the stories we hear.  But there are things you can do to avoid becoming vicariously traumatized, and to cope with vicarious trauma once it's already set in. That's what we're talking about on today's episode.  My guest is Dr. Lisa Corbin, a therapist, educator, and thought leader on preventing and managing vicarious trauma. Dr. Lisa C. is sharing some sage advice that will keep you happy, healthy and effective, throughout your career. You won't want to miss it! You'll learn:  00:00 What Is Vicarious Trauma?  10:06 Dr. Lisa Corbin's Personal Experience with Vicarious Trauma 19:04 Recognizing and Addressing Vicarious Trauma 25:08 What to Do About Traumatized Colleagues 39:36 Acceptance and Self-Care 40:51 Physical Rituals and Grounding Exercises 42:21 Supporting Each Other as Therapists 43:15 Infusing Trauma Discussions into Supervision 44:23 Spirituality and Religion as Coping Mechanisms 45:48 Invoking Higher Power to Help 46:43 Sharing Traumatic Experiences with Colleagues 50:28 Increasing Awareness and Seeking Support I hope you'll join me! xoxo,  Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby P.S. — Are you at risk of therapist burnout? Take my free quiz and find out: https://s.pointerpro.com/flourish Vicarious trauma: It's an occupational hazard for us as therapists. It's also something that we're all exposed to sooner or later. 

We sit with our clients' most difficult life experiences every single day. We care so much... and sometimes our empathetic hearts lead us to take on the emotional residue of the stories we hear. 

But there are things you can do to avoid becoming vicariously traumatized, and to cope with vicarious trauma once it's already set in. That's what we're talking about on today's episode. 

My guest is Dr. Lisa Corbin, a therapist, educator, and thought leader on preventing and managing vicarious trauma. Dr. Lisa C. is sharing some sage advice that will keep you happy, healthy and effective, throughout your career. You won't want to miss it!

You'll learn: 

  • 00:00 What Is Vicarious Trauma? 
  • 10:06 Dr. Lisa Corbin's Personal Experience with Vicarious Trauma
  • 19:04 Recognizing and Addressing Vicarious Trauma
  • 25:08 What to Do About Traumatized Colleagues
  • 39:36 Acceptance and Self-Care
  • 40:51 Physical Rituals and Grounding Exercises
  • 42:21 Supporting Each Other as Therapists
  • 43:15 Infusing Trauma Discussions into Supervision
  • 44:23 Spirituality and Religion as Coping Mechanisms
  • 45:48 Invoking Higher Power to Help
  • 46:43 Sharing Traumatic Experiences with Colleagues
  • 50:28 Increasing Awareness and Seeking Support

I hope you'll join me!

xoxo, 

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

P.S. — Are you at risk of therapist burnout? Take my free quiz and find out: https://s.pointerpro.com/flourish

]]> 2787 no What Therapists Need to Know About Coaching | E12 https://www.growingself.com/what-therapists-should-know-about-coaching/ Being a therapist is incredibly rewarding, especially when you get to do what you do best: Help people grow. And the best way to help your clients break through barriers and achieve the next step in their evolution is by learning how to coach. Why? That's what we're talking about on today's episode of Love, Happiness and Success for Therapists! Tune in to learn about: 02:26 The Need for Coaching in Therapy  05:04 How to Incorporate Coaching into Therapy 08:20 Differences Between Therapy and Coaching 11:08 Coaching for Growth and Positive Change 13:25 The Effectiveness of Coaching 16:15 How to Get Started And so much more! I hope this episode inspires you to take the next step in YOUR professional growth by adding a coaching credential to your skill set. I know you'll be glad you did — and so will your clients when they experience the real-world results that you can help them create.   xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby P.S. — Are you at risk of therapist burnout? Take my free quiz and find out: https://s.pointerpro.com/flourish  Wed, 03 Apr 2024 19:23:00 -0000 full 1 12 Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Being a therapist is incredibly rewarding, especially when you get to do what you do best: Help people grow. And the best way to help your clients break through barriers and achieve the next step in their evolution is by learning how to coach. Why? That's what we're talking about on today's episode of Love, Happiness and Success for Therapists! Tune in to learn about: 02:26 The Need for Coaching in Therapy  05:04 How to Incorporate Coaching into Therapy 08:20 Differences Between Therapy and Coaching 11:08 Coaching for Growth and Positive Change 13:25 The Effectiveness of Coaching 16:15 How to Get Started And so much more! I hope this episode inspires you to take the next step in YOUR professional growth by adding a coaching credential to your skill set. I know you'll be glad you did — and so will your clients when they experience the real-world results that you can help them create.   xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby P.S. — Are you at risk of therapist burnout? Take my free quiz and find out: https://s.pointerpro.com/flourish  Being a therapist is incredibly rewarding, especially when you get to do what you do best: Help people grow. And the best way to help your clients break through barriers and achieve the next step in their evolution is by learning how to coach. Why? That's what we're talking about on today's episode of Love, Happiness and Success for Therapists!

Tune in to learn about:

  • 02:26 The Need for Coaching in Therapy 
  • 05:04 How to Incorporate Coaching into Therapy
  • 08:20 Differences Between Therapy and Coaching
  • 11:08 Coaching for Growth and Positive Change
  • 13:25 The Effectiveness of Coaching
  • 16:15 How to Get Started

And so much more!

I hope this episode inspires you to take the next step in YOUR professional growth by adding a coaching credential to your skill set. I know you'll be glad you did — and so will your clients when they experience the real-world results that you can help them create.  

xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

P.S. — Are you at risk of therapist burnout? Take my free quiz and find out: https://s.pointerpro.com/flourish 

]]> 1368 no Why Therapists Are So Vulnerable to Burnout | E11 https://www.growingself.com/why-therapists-are-vulnerable-to-burnout/ Burnout is an occupational hazard for us as therapists. Our caring hearts make us great at what we do... but when you combine high levels of empathy with complex cases, overwhelming workloads, and unsupportive environments, you have a recipe for burnout and exhaustion.  Unfortunately, many therapists leave the profession after a bad experience with burnout. But it doesn't have to be this way. There are skills and strategies that protect therapists from burnout and allow you to build a thriving career with your wellbeing at the center. And that's what we're talking about on today's episode!  We're discussing:  Why therapists are uniquely vulnerable to burnout.  Strategies to prevent burnout before it starts.  How to know if you're in an environment where your wellbeing is not supported.  How to manage the symptoms of therapist burnout once it has set in.  How to build a balanced, sustainable career as a therapist.  All of that and more for you on today's show, dear listener. I hope you'll tune in.  And, if you want to know about YOUR unique risk factors for burnout, I've created a free quiz for you! You can take it here: https://s.pointerpro.com/flourish xoxo,  Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby  Wed, 27 Mar 2024 20:14:00 -0000 full 1 11 Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Burnout is an occupational hazard for us as therapists. Our caring hearts make us great at what we do... but when you combine high levels of empathy with complex cases, overwhelming workloads, and unsupportive environments, you have a recipe for burnout and exhaustion.  Unfortunately, many therapists leave the profession after a bad experience with burnout. But it doesn't have to be this way. There are skills and strategies that protect therapists from burnout and allow you to build a thriving career with your wellbeing at the center. And that's what we're talking about on today's episode!  We're discussing:  Why therapists are uniquely vulnerable to burnout.  Strategies to prevent burnout before it starts.  How to know if you're in an environment where your wellbeing is not supported.  How to manage the symptoms of therapist burnout once it has set in.  How to build a balanced, sustainable career as a therapist.  All of that and more for you on today's show, dear listener. I hope you'll tune in.  And, if you want to know about YOUR unique risk factors for burnout, I've created a free quiz for you! You can take it here: https://s.pointerpro.com/flourish xoxo,  Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby  Burnout is an occupational hazard for us as therapists. Our caring hearts make us great at what we do... but when you combine high levels of empathy with complex cases, overwhelming workloads, and unsupportive environments, you have a recipe for burnout and exhaustion. 

Unfortunately, many therapists leave the profession after a bad experience with burnout. But it doesn't have to be this way. There are skills and strategies that protect therapists from burnout and allow you to build a thriving career with your wellbeing at the center. And that's what we're talking about on today's episode! 

We're discussing: 

  • Why therapists are uniquely vulnerable to burnout. 
  • Strategies to prevent burnout before it starts. 
  • How to know if you're in an environment where your wellbeing is not supported. 
  • How to manage the symptoms of therapist burnout once it has set in. 
  • How to build a balanced, sustainable career as a therapist. 

All of that and more for you on today's show, dear listener. I hope you'll tune in. 

And, if you want to know about YOUR unique risk factors for burnout, I've created a free quiz for you! You can take it here: https://s.pointerpro.com/flourish

xoxo, 

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby 

]]> 2168 no Why Therapists Need to Grow, Too | E10 https://www.growingself.com/why-therapists-need-to-grow-too/ As therapists, we are laser-focused on helping our clients achieve personal growth. But we can't neglect our own never-ending growth journeys. Continuing to invest in our growth keeps us engaged, healthy, and sharp. It helps us help our clients, and it leads to a more satisfying and fulfilling career for us. So how can we embrace our own growth, while continuing to nurture growth in others? That's what we're talking about on today's episode of Love, Happiness and Success for Therapists! I hope you'll join me! xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby P.S. — Are you at risk of therapist burnout? Take my free quiz and find out: https://s.pointerpro.com/flourish Wed, 20 Mar 2024 20:00:00 -0000 full 1 10 Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby As therapists, we are laser-focused on helping our clients achieve personal growth. But we can't neglect our own never-ending growth journeys. Continuing to invest in our growth keeps us engaged, healthy, and sharp. It helps us help our clients, and it leads to a more satisfying and fulfilling career for us. So how can we embrace our own growth, while continuing to nurture growth in others? That's what we're talking about on today's episode of Love, Happiness and Success for Therapists! I hope you'll join me! xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby P.S. — Are you at risk of therapist burnout? Take my free quiz and find out: https://s.pointerpro.com/flourish As therapists, we are laser-focused on helping our clients achieve personal growth. But we can't neglect our own never-ending growth journeys.

Continuing to invest in our growth keeps us engaged, healthy, and sharp. It helps us help our clients, and it leads to a more satisfying and fulfilling career for us.

So how can we embrace our own growth, while continuing to nurture growth in others? That's what we're talking about on today's episode of Love, Happiness and Success for Therapists!

I hope you'll join me!

xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

P.S. — Are you at risk of therapist burnout? Take my free quiz and find out: https://s.pointerpro.com/flourish

]]> 1595 no Should You Start a Private Practice? | E9 https://www.growingself.com/should-you-start-a-private-practice/ Ever think about starting your own private therapy practice? It's an exciting fork in the road — but there are many important issues to think through first! When I started my own private therapy practice, I had no idea how much work would actually be involved. That's part of why I founded Growing Self Counseling and Coaching — I wanted to create an alternative for therapists who wanted the advantages of private practice, without the common pitfalls, such as:  Trouble building and maintaining a caseload Administrative work Billing & Insurance claims Isolation Marketing And more... But of course, private practice offers many advantages as well. And, there are some alternatives that offer the best of both worlds. So how can you decide which route is right for you? That's what we're talking about on this episode of Love, Happiness and Success for Therapists.  Join me! xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby P.S. — Are you at risk of therapist burnout? Take my free quiz and find out: https://s.pointerpro.com/flourish      Wed, 13 Mar 2024 20:00:00 -0000 full 1 9 Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Ever think about starting your own private therapy practice? It's an exciting fork in the road — but there are many important issues to think through first! When I started my own private therapy practice, I had no idea how much work would actually be involved. That's part of why I founded Growing Self Counseling and Coaching — I wanted to create an alternative for therapists who wanted the advantages of private practice, without the common pitfalls, such as:  Trouble building and maintaining a caseload Administrative work Billing & Insurance claims Isolation Marketing And more... But of course, private practice offers many advantages as well. And, there are some alternatives that offer the best of both worlds. So how can you decide which route is right for you? That's what we're talking about on this episode of Love, Happiness and Success for Therapists.  Join me! xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby P.S. — Are you at risk of therapist burnout? Take my free quiz and find out: https://s.pointerpro.com/flourish      Ever think about starting your own private therapy practice? It's an exciting fork in the road — but there are many important issues to think through first!

When I started my own private therapy practice, I had no idea how much work would actually be involved. That's part of why I founded Growing Self Counseling and Coaching — I wanted to create an alternative for therapists who wanted the advantages of private practice, without the common pitfalls, such as: 

  • Trouble building and maintaining a caseload
  • Administrative work
  • Billing & Insurance claims
  • Isolation
  • Marketing
  • And more...

But of course, private practice offers many advantages as well. And, there are some alternatives that offer the best of both worlds.

So how can you decide which route is right for you? That's what we're talking about on this episode of Love, Happiness and Success for Therapists. 

Join me!

xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

P.S. — Are you at risk of therapist burnout? Take my free quiz and find out: https://s.pointerpro.com/flourish 

 

 

]]> 2394 no How to Stop Working Harder Than Your Therapy Clients! | E8 https://www.growingself.com/therapists-cant-do-the-work-for-their-clients/ Have you ever fallen into the trap of feeling like you're working harder than your therapy clients? I think all clinicians experience this at some point in our careers! It's natural for us to want to see our clients grow, and even to push them along sometimes at a pace they're not quite ready for. But this always backfires. You can't do the work for your therapy clients, you can only support them as they navigate their own obstacles.  So how can you stop working harder than your therapy clients and start placing the responsibility back where it belongs? That's what we're talking about on the latest episode of Love, Happiness and Success for Therapists. I hope you'll tune in! xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby P.S. — Take my "are you at risk of therapist burnout" quiz and get free tools and strategies to support your wellbeing: https://s.pointerpro.com/flourish  Wed, 06 Mar 2024 21:00:00 -0000 full 1 8 Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Have you ever fallen into the trap of feeling like you're working harder than your therapy clients? I think all clinicians experience this at some point in our careers! It's natural for us to want to see our clients grow, and even to push them along sometimes at a pace they're not quite ready for. But this always backfires. You can't do the work for your therapy clients, you can only support them as they navigate their own obstacles.  So how can you stop working harder than your therapy clients and start placing the responsibility back where it belongs? That's what we're talking about on the latest episode of Love, Happiness and Success for Therapists. I hope you'll tune in! xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby P.S. — Take my "are you at risk of therapist burnout" quiz and get free tools and strategies to support your wellbeing: https://s.pointerpro.com/flourish  Have you ever fallen into the trap of feeling like you're working harder than your therapy clients?

I think all clinicians experience this at some point in our careers! It's natural for us to want to see our clients grow, and even to push them along sometimes at a pace they're not quite ready for. But this always backfires. You can't do the work for your therapy clients, you can only support them as they navigate their own obstacles. 

So how can you stop working harder than your therapy clients and start placing the responsibility back where it belongs? That's what we're talking about on the latest episode of Love, Happiness and Success for Therapists.

I hope you'll tune in!

xoxo,

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

P.S. — Take my "are you at risk of therapist burnout" quiz and get free tools and strategies to support your wellbeing: https://s.pointerpro.com/flourish 

]]> 1595 no Be a Better Therapist: Signs You're Moving Too Fast (or Too Slow) | E7 https://www.growingself.com/moving-too-fast-with-a-therapy-client/ Something that we are all vulnerable to as therapists can be moving too fast with our clients, or in some cases, moving too slow.  We want to help our therapy clients experience results: healthier relationships, higher self-esteem, more success in their careers, and more contentment in their lives. But when we push them into the deep end of the personal growth pool before they're ready, their progress stalls.  So how can you know if you're moving too fast with a client? And, what are some signs that your client is ready for more of a challenge? That's what we're talking about on this episode of Love, Happiness and Success for Therapists. I hope it helps you set the pace that's just right for you and your clients. That's when the magic happens!  xoxo,  Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby  P.S. — In this episode we talked about how using evidence-based coaching psychology techniques can help you find that sweet spot. If you want to learn more about coaching certification for therapists, take this totally FREE two part training to find out what it is, how it works, and whether or not it's for you: https://www.growingself.com/coach Wed, 28 Feb 2024 10:00:00 -0000 full 1 7 Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Something that we are all vulnerable to as therapists can be moving too fast with our clients, or in some cases, moving too slow.  We want to help our therapy clients experience results: healthier relationships, higher self-esteem, more success in their careers, and more contentment in their lives. But when we push them into the deep end of the personal growth pool before they're ready, their progress stalls.  So how can you know if you're moving too fast with a client? And, what are some signs that your client is ready for more of a challenge? That's what we're talking about on this episode of Love, Happiness and Success for Therapists. I hope it helps you set the pace that's just right for you and your clients. That's when the magic happens!  xoxo,  Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby  P.S. — In this episode we talked about how using evidence-based coaching psychology techniques can help you find that sweet spot. If you want to learn more about coaching certification for therapists, take this totally FREE two part training to find out what it is, how it works, and whether or not it's for you: https://www.growingself.com/coach Something that we are all vulnerable to as therapists can be moving too fast with our clients, or in some cases, moving too slow. 

We want to help our therapy clients experience results: healthier relationships, higher self-esteem, more success in their careers, and more contentment in their lives. But when we push them into the deep end of the personal growth pool before they're ready, their progress stalls. 

So how can you know if you're moving too fast with a client? And, what are some signs that your client is ready for more of a challenge? That's what we're talking about on this episode of Love, Happiness and Success for Therapists.

I hope it helps you set the pace that's just right for you and your clients. That's when the magic happens! 

xoxo, 

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby 

P.S. — In this episode we talked about how using evidence-based coaching psychology techniques can help you find that sweet spot. If you want to learn more about coaching certification for therapists, take this totally FREE two part training to find out what it is, how it works, and whether or not it's for you: https://www.growingself.com/coach

]]> 1779 no Why Therapy Clients Get Stuck (and What to Do About It) | E6 https://www.growingself.com/why-therapy-clients-get-stuck/ When your clients get stuck, it's so frustrating, for you AND for them. You are there to be their guide, leading them toward growth, healing, and positive change. They are in real need, and looking to you to help them feel better and achieve their goals. So when your sessions feel like they're sputtering out, or even going in reverse, it can feel like you're just as stuck as they are.  So how can you figure out why exactly your therapy client is getting stuck so you can both start moving forward again? That's what we're talking about on this episode of Love, Happiness and Success for Therapists! You'll learn about the most common culprits that get clients stuck, how to figure out what's going on with your client, how to talk to them about their progress, when you might not be the right therapist for the job, and so much more.  I hope you'll join me! xoxo,  Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby P.S. — How are YOU doing? Take my "Are You At Risk of Burnout" quiz and get tools and resources to support your wellbeing.  Wed, 21 Feb 2024 23:00:00 -0000 full 1 6 Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby When your clients get stuck, it's so frustrating, for you AND for them. You are there to be their guide, leading them toward growth, healing, and positive change. They are in real need, and looking to you to help them feel better and achieve their goals. So when your sessions feel like they're sputtering out, or even going in reverse, it can feel like you're just as stuck as they are.  So how can you figure out why exactly your therapy client is getting stuck so you can both start moving forward again? That's what we're talking about on this episode of Love, Happiness and Success for Therapists! You'll learn about the most common culprits that get clients stuck, how to figure out what's going on with your client, how to talk to them about their progress, when you might not be the right therapist for the job, and so much more.  I hope you'll join me! xoxo,  Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby P.S. — How are YOU doing? Take my "Are You At Risk of Burnout" quiz and get tools and resources to support your wellbeing.  When your clients get stuck, it's so frustrating, for you AND for them. You are there to be their guide, leading them toward growth, healing, and positive change. They are in real need, and looking to you to help them feel better and achieve their goals. So when your sessions feel like they're sputtering out, or even going in reverse, it can feel like you're just as stuck as they are. 

So how can you figure out why exactly your therapy client is getting stuck so you can both start moving forward again? That's what we're talking about on this episode of Love, Happiness and Success for Therapists!

You'll learn about the most common culprits that get clients stuck, how to figure out what's going on with your client, how to talk to them about their progress, when you might not be the right therapist for the job, and so much more. 

I hope you'll join me!

xoxo, 

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

P.S. — How are YOU doing? Take my "Are You At Risk of Burnout" quiz and get tools and resources to support your wellbeing. 

]]> 1789 no Why Therapy Clients Ghost | E5 https://www.growingself.com/why-therapy-clients-ghost/ Have you ever been ghosted by a therapy client? This unfortunate experience is something that every therapist goes through eventually. And just like in any other relationship, when a therapy client ghosts, it can leave you feeling a little haunted.  You might wonder if it was something you said, or worry that your therapy client is not okay. Most of all, you'll be asking yourself — How can I avoid this kind of thing in the future?  If you've been here before, then this episode is for you! We're talking about why therapy clients ghost, how to process it when a client stops coming to therapy without saying goodbye, and how you can use this experience to grow, personally and professionally.  I hope you'll join me! xoxo,  Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby  P.S. — Are you headed for therapist burnout? Take my free quiz and get a personalized action plan for supporting your wellbeing: https://s.pointerpro.com/flourish Wed, 14 Feb 2024 20:34:00 -0000 full 1 5 Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Have you ever been ghosted by a therapy client? This unfortunate experience is something that every therapist goes through eventually. And just like in any other relationship, when a therapy client ghosts, it can leave you feeling a little haunted.  You might wonder if it was something you said, or worry that your therapy client is not okay. Most of all, you'll be asking yourself — How can I avoid this kind of thing in the future?  If you've been here before, then this episode is for you! We're talking about why therapy clients ghost, how to process it when a client stops coming to therapy without saying goodbye, and how you can use this experience to grow, personally and professionally.  I hope you'll join me! xoxo,  Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby  P.S. — Are you headed for therapist burnout? Take my free quiz and get a personalized action plan for supporting your wellbeing: https://s.pointerpro.com/flourish Have you ever been ghosted by a therapy client? This unfortunate experience is something that every therapist goes through eventually. And just like in any other relationship, when a therapy client ghosts, it can leave you feeling a little haunted. 

You might wonder if it was something you said, or worry that your therapy client is not okay. Most of all, you'll be asking yourself — How can I avoid this kind of thing in the future? 

If you've been here before, then this episode is for you! We're talking about why therapy clients ghost, how to process it when a client stops coming to therapy without saying goodbye, and how you can use this experience to grow, personally and professionally. 

I hope you'll join me!

xoxo, 

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby 

P.S. — Are you headed for therapist burnout? Take my free quiz and get a personalized action plan for supporting your wellbeing: https://s.pointerpro.com/flourish

]]> 1769 no Healthy Boundaries for Therapists | E4 https://www.growingself.com/healthy-boundaries-for-therapists/ As therapists, we know that healthy boundaries are essential... but when it comes to setting our own boundaries — with clients, with our work, and with ourselves — we can struggle just as much as the people we seek to serve.  Why is setting boundaries as a therapist so hard? First, we put our hearts and souls into what we do for a living! We can't just shut that off when the clock strikes five, and so we continue to feel emotionally engaged with our work outside of our working hours. Depending on our situation, you may even be putting in non-billable hours when you're supposed to be off the clock.  Second, the relationship between therapist and client is an usual blend of personal and professional, which means that maintaining appropriate boundaries requires a lot of thought and intention, more so than in other relationships.  And finally, many of us find ourselves in work environments where healthy boundaries are not encouraged or supported, and going against the grain requires a lot of courage, when it's possible at all.  Despite the challenge, we have to fight for our boundaries. We deserve to have balance, safety, and space to decompress — without that, we're of no use to anyone!  So, how can you create healthy boundaries in your therapy practice? That's what we're talking about on today's episode of "Love, Happiness and Success for Therapists!" I hope you find these ideas helpful, and that they make you feel seen and supported.  xoxo,  Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby  P.S. — I'm sure you're well aware that burnout is a major occupational hazard for us therapists, and having healthy boundaries is a protective factor. But, there are others! Are you heading towards burnout, in other domains? Take this quiz and find out: https://su.vc/flourish Wed, 07 Feb 2024 21:00:00 -0000 full 1 4 Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby As therapists, we know that healthy boundaries are essential... but when it comes to setting our own boundaries — with clients, with our work, and with ourselves — we can struggle just as much as the people we seek to serve.  Why is setting boundaries as a therapist so hard? First, we put our hearts and souls into what we do for a living! We can't just shut that off when the clock strikes five, and so we continue to feel emotionally engaged with our work outside of our working hours. Depending on our situation, you may even be putting in non-billable hours when you're supposed to be off the clock.  Second, the relationship between therapist and client is an usual blend of personal and professional, which means that maintaining appropriate boundaries requires a lot of thought and intention, more so than in other relationships.  And finally, many of us find ourselves in work environments where healthy boundaries are not encouraged or supported, and going against the grain requires a lot of courage, when it's possible at all.  Despite the challenge, we have to fight for our boundaries. We deserve to have balance, safety, and space to decompress — without that, we're of no use to anyone!  So, how can you create healthy boundaries in your therapy practice? That's what we're talking about on today's episode of "Love, Happiness and Success for Therapists!" I hope you find these ideas helpful, and that they make you feel seen and supported.  xoxo,  Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby  P.S. — I'm sure you're well aware that burnout is a major occupational hazard for us therapists, and having healthy boundaries is a protective factor. But, there are others! Are you heading towards burnout, in other domains? Take this quiz and find out: https://su.vc/flourish As therapists, we know that healthy boundaries are essential... but when it comes to setting our own boundaries — with clients, with our work, and with ourselves — we can struggle just as much as the people we seek to serve. 

Why is setting boundaries as a therapist so hard? First, we put our hearts and souls into what we do for a living! We can't just shut that off when the clock strikes five, and so we continue to feel emotionally engaged with our work outside of our working hours. Depending on our situation, you may even be putting in non-billable hours when you're supposed to be off the clock. 

Second, the relationship between therapist and client is an usual blend of personal and professional, which means that maintaining appropriate boundaries requires a lot of thought and intention, more so than in other relationships. 

And finally, many of us find ourselves in work environments where healthy boundaries are not encouraged or supported, and going against the grain requires a lot of courage, when it's possible at all. 

Despite the challenge, we have to fight for our boundaries. We deserve to have balance, safety, and space to decompress — without that, we're of no use to anyone! 

So, how can you create healthy boundaries in your therapy practice? That's what we're talking about on today's episode of "Love, Happiness and Success for Therapists!" I hope you find these ideas helpful, and that they make you feel seen and supported. 

xoxo, 

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby 

P.S. — I'm sure you're well aware that burnout is a major occupational hazard for us therapists, and having healthy boundaries is a protective factor. But, there are others! Are you heading towards burnout, in other domains? Take this quiz and find out: https://su.vc/flourish

]]> 1946 no When to Let Therapy Clients Go | E3 https://www.growingself.com/when-to-let-therapy-clients-go/ How do you know when to let therapy clients go? This can be a tough call to make! But to practice ethically, we all need to know when to make it. Our mission is to help people grow, heal, and create positive change in their lives. When we can't fulfill that mission, for whatever reason, it's important that we acknowledge that, with compassion and courage.  But sometimes it's not so straight forward. How do you know if your client is making progress? How do you know when you're the right person to help them, and when you're not? That's what we're talking about on today's episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists.  Join me! xoxo,  Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby  P.S. — Learn how to flourish and thrive as a therapist with my free quiz: https://su.vc/flourish Wed, 31 Jan 2024 21:00:00 -0000 full 1 3 Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby How do you know when to let therapy clients go? This can be a tough call to make! But to practice ethically, we all need to know when to make it. Our mission is to help people grow, heal, and create positive change in their lives. When we can't fulfill that mission, for whatever reason, it's important that we acknowledge that, with compassion and courage.  But sometimes it's not so straight forward. How do you know if your client is making progress? How do you know when you're the right person to help them, and when you're not? That's what we're talking about on today's episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists.  Join me! xoxo,  Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby  P.S. — Learn how to flourish and thrive as a therapist with my free quiz: https://su.vc/flourish How do you know when to let therapy clients go? This can be a tough call to make! But to practice ethically, we all need to know when to make it. Our mission is to help people grow, heal, and create positive change in their lives. When we can't fulfill that mission, for whatever reason, it's important that we acknowledge that, with compassion and courage. 

But sometimes it's not so straight forward. How do you know if your client is making progress? How do you know when you're the right person to help them, and when you're not? That's what we're talking about on today's episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists. 

Join me!

xoxo, 

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby 

P.S. — Learn how to flourish and thrive as a therapist with my free quiz: https://su.vc/flourish

]]> 2055 no How to Stop Thinking About Your Therapy Clients | E2 https://www.growingself.com/how-to-stop-thinking-about-your-therapy-clients/ Ever feel like you can't stop thinking about your therapy clients? So many clinicians struggle with this! It's really a testament to how much we care about the people we serve. Even when we're not in session with them, we're mentally working over their problems and looking for solutions to help them move forward.  But unfortunately, this is not good for us! We need to shut off, mentally decompress, and focus on our own lives when we're not working with clients. This is not only what you deserve, it's how you recharge so that you can do your best work in session. So how can you learn to stop thinking about your therapy clients outside of work?  This episode will show you the way! I'm discussing the skills and strategies that have helped me, as well as the talented clinicians on my team at Growing Self Counseling and Coaching. I hope they'll help you too.  xoxo,  Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby  P.S. — You can take my "How to Flourish and Thrive as a Therapist" Quiz here: https://su.vc/flourish Wed, 24 Jan 2024 21:00:00 -0000 full 1 2 Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Ever feel like you can't stop thinking about your therapy clients? So many clinicians struggle with this! It's really a testament to how much we care about the people we serve. Even when we're not in session with them, we're mentally working over their problems and looking for solutions to help them move forward.  But unfortunately, this is not good for us! We need to shut off, mentally decompress, and focus on our own lives when we're not working with clients. This is not only what you deserve, it's how you recharge so that you can do your best work in session. So how can you learn to stop thinking about your therapy clients outside of work?  This episode will show you the way! I'm discussing the skills and strategies that have helped me, as well as the talented clinicians on my team at Growing Self Counseling and Coaching. I hope they'll help you too.  xoxo,  Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby  P.S. — You can take my "How to Flourish and Thrive as a Therapist" Quiz here: https://su.vc/flourish Ever feel like you can't stop thinking about your therapy clients? So many clinicians struggle with this! It's really a testament to how much we care about the people we serve. Even when we're not in session with them, we're mentally working over their problems and looking for solutions to help them move forward. 

But unfortunately, this is not good for us! We need to shut off, mentally decompress, and focus on our own lives when we're not working with clients. This is not only what you deserve, it's how you recharge so that you can do your best work in session. So how can you learn to stop thinking about your therapy clients outside of work? 

This episode will show you the way! I'm discussing the skills and strategies that have helped me, as well as the talented clinicians on my team at Growing Self Counseling and Coaching. I hope they'll help you too. 

xoxo, 

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby 

P.S. — You can take my "How to Flourish and Thrive as a Therapist" Quiz here: https://su.vc/flourish

]]> 1525 no Being a Therapist... The Struggle Is Real! | E1 https://www.growingself.com/i-hate-being-a-therapist/ No matter how much you care about your clients or your craft, being a therapist can be a struggle! Between isolation, burnout, financial stressors, and being exposed to other people's trauma day after day, it's no wonder so many clinicians leave the profession. But when you have healthy boundaries, a balanced workload, and most of all, a supportive community, being a therapist can be a joy — which is exactly what it should be.  Introducing Love, Happiness and Success for Therapists. I'm your host, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby, a fellow therapist and the founder and clinical director of Growing Self Counseling and Coaching. As therapists, we know how to create a space for growth and connection for others. Now it's time we created one for ourselves! Every week, I'm bringing you episodes on topics that matter to YOU — like how to prosper financially as a therapist while maintaining work-life balance, how to deal when clients ghost, and why your clients are getting stuck (and what you should do about it). This podcast is dedicated to your growth and empowerment. Being a therapist can be a struggle, but it does not have to be. So let's explore our opportunities, overcome our obstacles, and build something better, together.  xoxo,  Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby  P.S. — You can take my "How to Flourish and Thrive as a Therapist" Quiz here: https://su.vc/flourish Wed, 17 Jan 2024 20:37:00 -0000 full 1 1 Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby No matter how much you care about your clients or your craft, being a therapist can be a struggle! Between isolation, burnout, financial stressors, and being exposed to other people's trauma day after day, it's no wonder so many clinicians leave the profession. But when you have healthy boundaries, a balanced workload, and most of all, a supportive community, being a therapist can be a joy — which is exactly what it should be.  Introducing Love, Happiness and Success for Therapists. I'm your host, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby, a fellow therapist and the founder and clinical director of Growing Self Counseling and Coaching. As therapists, we know how to create a space for growth and connection for others. Now it's time we created one for ourselves! Every week, I'm bringing you episodes on topics that matter to YOU — like how to prosper financially as a therapist while maintaining work-life balance, how to deal when clients ghost, and why your clients are getting stuck (and what you should do about it). This podcast is dedicated to your growth and empowerment. Being a therapist can be a struggle, but it does not have to be. So let's explore our opportunities, overcome our obstacles, and build something better, together.  xoxo,  Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby  P.S. — You can take my "How to Flourish and Thrive as a Therapist" Quiz here: https://su.vc/flourish No matter how much you care about your clients or your craft, being a therapist can be a struggle! Between isolation, burnout, financial stressors, and being exposed to other people's trauma day after day, it's no wonder so many clinicians leave the profession. But when you have healthy boundaries, a balanced workload, and most of all, a supportive community, being a therapist can be a joy — which is exactly what it should be. 

Introducing Love, Happiness and Success for Therapists. I'm your host, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby, a fellow therapist and the founder and clinical director of Growing Self Counseling and Coaching. As therapists, we know how to create a space for growth and connection for others. Now it's time we created one for ourselves!

Every week, I'm bringing you episodes on topics that matter to YOU — like how to prosper financially as a therapist while maintaining work-life balance, how to deal when clients ghost, and why your clients are getting stuck (and what you should do about it). This podcast is dedicated to your growth and empowerment. Being a therapist can be a struggle, but it does not have to be. So let's explore our opportunities, overcome our obstacles, and build something better, together. 

xoxo, 

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby 

P.S. — You can take my "How to Flourish and Thrive as a Therapist" Quiz here: https://su.vc/flourish

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