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Ep 198: Escaping the Prison of Perfectionism with Bianca Juarez

Mon, 16 Feb 2026 08:05:00 -0000

Are you exhausted from trying to look perfect and polished? I’m diving deep into the chokehold of performance and anxiety that keeps so many of us trapped. I’m calling out the Pharisee Complex—the dangerous lie that says excellence equals worthiness. It’s time to trade in that prison of perfection for the radical freedom found in grace. I’m giving you the keys today, including three practical, one-thing-only steps to embrace wholeness over flawlessness.

Key Takeaways for a Quick Win

God desires wholeness (telios), not flawlessness. Stop striving to be perfect; start pursuing maturity and completeness.
Perfectionism is a prison that limits our freedom; it’s not a personality type, it's often a protection mechanism.
Radical Repentance is the shift from a life of damage control to a life dependent on God’s grace.

Family, I love you and I’m cheering for you to walk in this new freedom. Don't keep this key to yourself! If this episode broke a chain in your life, you know someone else who needs to hear it. Do a sister a favor and tag me @biancajuarezofficial so we can set more captives free together.

Love you,

Sound Bite to Share:

Bring it messy, bring it undone.

Chapter Timestamps

00:00 Introduction to Perfectionism
02:47 The Pressure of Perfection
05:37 Understanding the Pharisee Complex
08:42 Signs of Perfectionism (Fear of Judgment, Misunderstanding Scripture, Idol of Control)
11:27 Breaking Free from Perfectionism
14:44 Practical Steps to Freedom

Resources & Links

Bianca’s Book: Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option. https://amzn.to/3MO74OC
Bible Study: Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study https://www.biancajuaerzofficial.com/gdq
All Resources: Learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/resources

Support the Podcast

Subscribe + Leave a Review: Don’t miss an episode! Find We’re Going There on Apple Podcasts and Spotify.
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Ep 197: Trading Trauma Response for Trust with Bianca Juarez

Mon, 19 Jan 2026 08:05:00 -0000

Are you constantly chasing the next achievement, but still feel like it's never enough? Do you know deep down that "high-achieving" hustle is actually wearing you out?

I’m kicking off the New Year, and I'm ready for more! But not more doing—more being. In this first episode of 2026, I'm peeling back the layers on how we, as high-achieving women, often confuse our drive with a deep-seated trauma response. That perfectionism? It's a mask. That performance-based identity? It's a stronghold, and we are dismantling it today!

I’m sharing my personal journey and the truth I had to face: "High achieving is often a trauma response."

This year, we are Trading Trauma Response for Trust! It's time to surrender control, trust God.

Key Takeaways:

Why high achievement can be a coping mechanism.
The power in surrendering control and choosing trust.
Practical ways to align your ambition with your faith.
The antidote to the "perfectionism prism."

Let's stop performing and start living on purpose! Share your biggest takeaway—or even your 'more' journey—and tag me @biancajuarezofficial, so I can cheer you on and witness the fire God is setting in your life!

Love you,

RESOURCES/LINKS

Song

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Bianca’s book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option. https://amzn.to/3MO74OC

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The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. https://www.biancajuaerzofficial.com/gdq

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Ep 196: Living in the Overflow: Believing God for MORE with Bianca Juarez

Mon, 15 Dec 2025 08:00:00 -0000

Do you dare to ask more of God, or are you afraid to sound selfish?

Hey, fam! In this bonus episode I’m dropping bombs on why settling for 'just enough' is not your design! We're talking about that word 'more'—not the greedy kind, but the abundance God literally wired inside you!

Share your abundance mindset shift with me @biancajuarezofficial.

Love you,

RESOURCES/LINKS

Takeaways

Asking for more from God is not selfish.
We are designed and destined with desire.
God wants us to believe Him for more.
Desire can be hijacked by trauma and past experiences.
The danger of desire lies in greed, not in wanting more of God.
God's nature is to provide abundantly for His children.
We should not settle for complacency in our spiritual lives.
Desire should be directed towards God, not selfish pursuits.
We are called to awaken to the more that God has for us.
Living in abundance requires action and faith.

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Bianca’s book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option. https://amzn.to/3MO74OC

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The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. https://www.biancajuaerzofficial.com/gdq

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Ep 195: Your Anchor for Personal Growth with Bianca Juarez

Mon, 08 Dec 2025 08:05:00 -0000

Friend, are you ready for a seismic shift in your life?

Stop letting the new year happen to you! It's time to get fiercely intentional. In this power-packed episode I break down the life-changing practice of choosing a #WordForTheYear. This isn’t some cute little resolution you'll forget by February—this is your anchor for personal growth, your battle cry for a life lived on purpose!

I dive deep into:

Reflection & Pause: Why looking back is the key to moving forward.
The Blessings List: Fostering that deep-rooted gratitude and positivity.
Emotional Awareness: Identifying your values to craft a word that sings to your soul.
Community & Commitment: Sharing your word to build accountability and get that much-needed support.

Your next level is waiting for you, and it all starts with one word. Listen now and set your soul on fire for the coming year!

We're building a community of intentional people. Share your word for the year in the comments on Instagram and tag @biancajuarezofficial.

Celebrating with you!

RESOURCES/LINKS

Takeaways

Reflection on the past year is crucial for future direction.
Identifying feelings helps in understanding personal values.
Creating a blessings list fosters gratitude and positivity.
Engaging in emotional awareness is essential for personal development.
Community support enhances commitment to personal goals.
Sharing your word with others creates accountability.
Intentionality in choosing a word can lead to transformative experiences.

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Bianca’s book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option. https://amzn.to/3MO74OC

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The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. https://www.biancajuaerzofficial.com/gdq

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Ep 194: Mastering Your Life, Not Just Your Clock

Mon, 17 Nov 2025 08:15:00 -0000

Be honest with yourself, friend: Are you managing your life, or is your life managing you? I'm talking about more than just a cute little calendar hack—we’re diving deep into Life Management. This is for the high-performers, the purposeful women (and men), and anyone who’s tired of being "busy" without being productive.

This episode is your call to action to stop scheduling tasks and start aligning your entire life—your time, your coin, and your connections—with your deepest values and your God-given purpose. In This Episode, We’re Breaking Down:

The Purpose Pivot: Why understanding your "why" is the ultimate key to true life management. If your foundation is solid, your house won't shake! (02:44)
Clarity is Power, Periodt! How a laser-focus on your goals simplifies every single decision you have to make. No more confusion, sis! (05:45)
The Accountability Check-In: Why discipline and intentionality are the glow-up ingredients that high performers always keep in their kitchen. (20:07)
Beyond the Grind: We talk about the non-negotiable importance of downtime, self-care, and reflection for true resilience. (30:46)
Money Moves & Meaningful Connections: Aligning your finances (stewardship!) and relationships with your core values. (40:53, 50:22)

Stop letting life happen to you. It's time to be the architect of your destiny. Grab your notes and let’s go get this life!

RESOURCES/LINKS

Bianca’s book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option. https://amzn.to/3MO74OC

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The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. https://www.biancajuaerzofficial.com/gdq

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So grateful to our sponsors!

We’re Going There is sponsored by HomeChef - For a limited time, HomeChef is offering my listeners 18 Free Meals PLUS Free Dessert for Life and of course, Free Shipping on your first box! Go to HomeChef.com/GOINGTHERE. Must be an active subscriber to receive free dessert. http://tinyurl.com/WGTHomeChef

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Ep 193: Freedom Isn't Free: A Fierce Call to Action with Bianca Juarez and Makayla Martinez

Mon, 20 Oct 2025 07:05:00 -0000

Are you truly living free, or are you just talking about it?

Join me and my co-host, Makayla Martinez, in this passionate episode as we dive deep into the real cost of freedom. Get ready to be challenged, encouraged, and empowered to wage war for your freedom. It's worth it!

In this episode, we unpack:

The True Cost of Freedom
Overcoming Shame & Negative Self-Talk
Owning Your Calendar
Desiring More (Biblically)
Embracing Your Voice
Fighting for Your Freedom

Friends, there is a spiritual war waging against our freedom. Let us know how you are finding true freedom in your life today by sharing on socials @biancajuarezofficial and @makayylay.

Love you,

RESOURCES/LINKS

Co-Host

Makayla Martinez https://www.instagram.com/makayylay/?hl=en

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Bianca’s book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option. https://amzn.to/3MO74OC

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The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. https://www.biancajuaerzofficial.com/gdq

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We're Going There is sponsored by BetterHelp - Visit BetterHelp.com/GOINGTHERE today to get 10% off your first month. http://tinyurl.com/WGTBetterHelp

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Ep 192: Dating While Called: Challenges, Boundaries & Chemistry with Cesar Delgado, Sam Tenney

Mon, 15 Sep 2025 07:00:00 -0000

Is it possible to date with purpose, passion, and purity—especially when you're serving in ministry?

In this fiery and faith-filled episode, I sit down with pastor Cesar Delgado and Sam Tenney of Revere Church, to unpack the real, raw, and sometimes ridiculous world of dating in the church. From awkward DMs to divine delays, we’re talking about what it means to pursue love while staying rooted in your calling.

Topics we dive into:

Dating while in ministry—what’s sacred, what’s messy, and what’s misunderstood
Why values alignment isn’t just cute—it’s critical
Communication, clarity, and calling: the triple threat for intentional relationships
Boundaries that protect your heart and your holiness
The beauty of waiting, healing, and letting God lead your love story

Whether you’re single, searching, or just spiritually curious, this episode will challenge you to rethink how you date, who you date, and why your relationship with God must come first. It’s spicy, it’s soulful, and it’s straight-up necessary.

Tune in, take notes, and tag your single besties—because this one’s too good to keep to yourself.

Show your appreciation to Sam and Cesar by tagging samuel_10e, @cesar_delgado, and me @biancajuarezofficial.

Love you,

RESOURCES/LINKS

Guests

Pastor Cesar Delgado, Associate Pastor, Revere Church

Sam Tenney, Guest Experience Director, Revere Church

Takeaways

The importance of being candid and real in conversations about dating.
Dating and relationships can be challenging, especially in ministry contexts.
Statistics can reveal the realities of the dating landscape.
Values alignment is crucial for successful relationships.
Clear communication is essential in dating.
Men often struggle with expressing their intentions clearly.
Women should also take responsibility for their dating expectations.
Dating should be approached with purpose and intention.
Personal values should guide relationship decisions.
Community support is vital in navigating dating challenges.

⋇ Bianca’s new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option. https://amzn.to/3MO74OC

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The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. https://www.biancajuarezofficial.com/gdq

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So grateful to our sponsors!

We're Going There is sponsored by BetterHelp - Visit BetterHelp.com/GOINGTHERE today to get 10% off your first month. http://tinyurl.com/WGTBetterHelp

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Ep 191: Healing Heartbreak: Mending a Shattered Life with Bianca Juarez

Mon, 18 Aug 2025 07:15:00 -0000

Ever ask: “Can heartbreak be holy?”

In this soul-stretching episode, I pull back the curtain on heartbreak💔—not just the romantic kind, but the quiet griefs we carry from shattered dreams, life pivots, and unmet expectations.

This is the raw and spiritually deep transformative journey from pain to purpose.

I want you to know that grief, when expressed rather than suppressed, becomes a sacred doorway to healing, wholeness, and resilience. And yes, there's space for emotional health, mental clarity, and divine comfort too.

Remember friend: healing is a choice... and God is near the brokenhearted.

Feeling seen yet? Share this episode with someone whose heartbreak needs holy hope. And if you’re walking through grief right now, lean into community and let the healing begin. You can start by tagging me on socials @biancajuarezofficial.

Love you,

RESOURCES/LINKS

Takeaways

Heartbreak isn’t limited to relationships—it’s the loss of any dream or reality.
Suppressing grief delays healing; expression is powerful and necessary.
Integrated wholeness includes emotional, psychological, and spiritual health.
Pain becomes purposeful when we use it to support others.
Community is a catalyst for healing.
Healing is not passive—it’s a brave and faith-filled choice.
God cares deeply for your pain, and eternity brings perspective to heartbreak.

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Bianca’s new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option. https://amzn.to/3MO74OC

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The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/gdq

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We're Going There is sponsored by BetterHelp - Visit BetterHelp.com/GOINGTHERE today to get 10% off your first month. http://tinyurl.com/WGTBetterHelp

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Ep 190: Burnout to Blessing - Finding Your Sabbath Rhythm

Mon, 21 Jul 2025 07:15:00 -0000

Ever feel like you're on a treadmill that won’t quit—always running, always chasing, never arriving? If you're a first-gen firestarter like me, raised with the “work hard or go hungry” grind etched into your bones, this episode is for you.

Today, we’re going there. Into the conversation hustle culture doesn’t want us to have. The one about rest. Not the performative kind, but the radical, biblical kind. The kind that reminds us: God never asked us to earn our worth. He called us to Sabbath.

This isn’t about ancient rules—it’s about sacred rhythms. Think putting your feet up after a soul-draining week. That’s kind of essential. We’re talking biblical rest, generational exhaustion, and the truth about our identity being tied to production. Spoiler alert: it’s not.

In this episode I cover:

Why hustle culture has us twisted on productivity and worth
What Sabbath teaches us about trust, provision, and identity
The 7-year vineyard principle: how rest restores fruitfulness
Why saying “no” to nonstop doing is a bold act of faith
My personal story of disconnecting from grind culture and embracing rest

Let’s unhook our calendars from chaos. Because real rest isn’t a luxury—it’s a declaration.

I trust the One who provides.

Let me know how you are making rest an essential part of your life by tagging me @biancajuarezofficial.

Love you,

RESOURCES/LINKS

Books:

A. J. Swoboda - Subversive Sabbath: The Surprising Power of Rest in a Nonstop World

John Mark Comer - The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry: How to stay emotionally healthy and spiritually alive in the chaos of the modern world

Wayne Muller - A Life of Being, Having, and Doing Enough

Takeaways

Sabbath is a critical part of my life.
Our identity is often tied to our productivity.
Rest is essential for emotional and spiritual health.
The modern work culture is leading to exhaustion.
Sabbath is a commandment that brings blessings.
We need to shift from a factory mindset to a field mindset.
Overworking leads to decreased efficiency and increased anxiety.
Finding rest is a way to honor God and ourselves.
Our worth is not defined by our achievements.
Sabbath is about loving God and enjoying life.

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Bianca’s new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option. https://amzn.to/3MO74OC

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The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/gdq

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So grateful to our sponsors!

We’re Going There is sponsored by HomeChef - For a limited time, Home Chef is offering my listeners FIFTY PERCENT OFF and free shipping for your first box PLUS free dessert for life! Go to HomeChef.com/GOINGTHERE. Must be an active subscriber to receive free dessert. http://tinyurl.com/WGTHomeChef

We're Going There is sponsored by BetterHelp - Visit BetterHelp.com/GOINGTHERE today to get 10% off your first month. http://tinyurl.com/WGTBetterHelp

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Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review!

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Ep 189: Jasmine Star on Mastering Leadership Communication

Tue, 17 Jun 2025 07:15:00 -0000

Ever wonder why some leaders inspire while others intimidate? It might just come down to communication style!

In this bonus episode, my sister Jasmine Star breaks down the Communication Animal Wheel, a brilliant framework by Evy Pompouras that helps us understand how different communication styles impact leadership and team dynamics. Whether you roar like a lion or approach with the quiet wisdom of a mouse, knowing your natural style can make all the difference in how you lead, support, and inspire others.

Jasmine shares valuable insights on conflict resolution between leadership styles and why clear communication is the backbone of any thriving organization.

She explores:

✨ Healthy vs. unhealthy leadership—recognize the signs and shift toward positive dynamics

✨ Empowering volunteers—turning passion into action and ensuring everyone feels valued

✨ Effective change management—leading with clarity and confidence during transitions

Friend, I invite you to reflect on your own communication style and how articulating your needs can strengthen both leadership and relationships. Whether you’re guiding a team, mentoring others, or simply looking to improve everyday interactions, this conversation is full of gems you won’t want to miss.

Let Jasmine and I know what your communication animal is by tagging @jasminestar and @biancajuarezofficial.

Love you,

RESOURCES/LINKS

Guest

Jasmine Star https://jasminestar.com/

Takeaways

Leaders often embody multiple communication styles.
Empowering volunteers increases engagement and retention.
Conflict between leadership styles can be managed through clarity.
Mirroring communication styles can improve interactions.
Living within organizational means is crucial for sustainability.
Building a supportive community strengthens organizational culture.

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Bianca’s new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option. https://amzn.to/3MO74OC

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The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/gdq

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So grateful to our sponsors!

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Ep 188: Jasmine Star on Building Strong Leadership Foundations

Mon, 16 Jun 2025 07:15:00 -0000

How do leadership decisions today shape the future of a church community? My twin sister Jasmine Star is in the house today! She explores the tension between running a church like an organization while honoring its deeper spiritual purpose by diving deep into church leadership.

Jasmine breaks down what works, what doesn’t, and how leadership accountability shapes a thriving community. We’ll explore:

The balance between structure and faith in church leadership
Why following well is just as important as leading
Essential leadership principles: glorifying God, empowering the team, speaking truth, and holding the line

Key Takeaways ✨ Accountability and celebration fuel leadership growth ✨ Strategic structural changes will shape the future of the church ✨ Recognizing your zone of genius can redefine your impact

Leadership isn’t just about making tough decisions—it’s about building something lasting. Show Jasmine what you are building by tagging @jasminestar and me @biancajuarezofficial.

Love you,

RESOURCES/LINKS

Guest

Jasmine Star https://jasminestar.com/

Takeaways

Emotional intelligence is a critical component of leadership.
Honesty and transparency are essential in times of crisis.
The focus should be on developing individuals, not just growing the church.
Effective leadership requires structural support.
Understanding the dynamics of leadership is crucial for community growth.
Leaders should operate within their zone of genius.
Support structures are vital for sustaining church growth.

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Ep 187: Feeling Seen Amidst A Chaotic World with Bianca Juarez

Mon, 19 May 2025 07:15:00 -0000

You ever feel like you're surrounded by a million "likes" and "followers" but still feel completely... invisible? Like, are we just screaming into the void of the internet, or is somebody actually seeing us? And speaking of being seen, has God really noticed all the hard work you're putting in? It's a lot, I know!

In this episode I aim to convey that:

You are SEEN by God, especially when you feel invisible.
Don't look to people for validation. Go to El-Roi!
Even in the desert moments, God is there.
Your cry to be seen? God hears it.

The next time you feel unseen, turn to God and say, "El-Roi, you are the God who sees me." You are NOT alone, my friend.

If this episode touched your heart like a good mariachi song, share it with your friends and leave a review! And don’t forget to tag me @biancajuarezofficial. We need to lift each other up. And remember, God sees you, even when you feel like nobody else does.

Until next time,

RESOURCES/LINKS

Takeaways

Feeling alone in a crowd is a common experience.
The desire for validation is deeply rooted in human psychology.
Leadership can be a challenging journey filled with uncertainty.
Hagar's story illustrates the struggle of feeling unseen.
Being seen by God can provide profound comfort and validation.
The need to be recognized is essential for emotional well-being.
Isolation can lead to feelings of anxiety and depression.
God's recognition is more important than human validation.
The journey of faith often involves waiting and uncertainty.
We are all seen by God, even in our darkest moments.

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Ep 186: The Counterintuitive Secret to Living A Blessed Life with Bianca Juarez

Mon, 21 Apr 2025 07:15:00 -0000

Want to unlock a life of true blessing? What if I told you the key might surprise you?

In today’s episode, I'm getting real about something that's transformed my life: biblical generosity. I know, talking about money can feel awkward, but I truly believe this message is vital.

I want to share with you a conversation I had with my twin sister, Jasmine, that changed my perspective on giving. I'll also dive into what scripture says about generosity and how it's not just about finances, but about a heart surrendered to God. I've seen firsthand how obedience in this area leads to incredible blessings, and I want to share that with you.

In this episode, I'm exploring:

What the Bible really says about tithing (10% giving)
Understanding offerings and generosity that go beyond the tithe
The concept of sowing seeds with faith and expectation
Sacrificial giving—what it means to give "above and beyond"
Why the heart behind your giving matters most
How I've experienced blessings through obedience and generosity in my own life

I hope this episode encourages you to live generously and to seek those real, deep blessings that come from God. Remember, you're loved, you're valued, and you're doing amazing! Now go make some tacos and be a blessing to someone today!

Have questions or want to share a photo of your tacos, tag me @biancajuarezofficial.

Love you,

RESOURCES/LINKS

A Test To Change Your Life // How To Be Rich // Tithing // Bianca Juarez https://youtu.be/dcDBukciGH0?si=KVB1X2HnIfZI3koe

In the Name of Love Ministries https://www.biancaolthoff.com/about/

Takeaways

Living a blessed life involves obeying God.
Generosity is a key principle in living a blessed life.
Tithing is considered the baseline of generosity.
Understanding the concept of sowing and reaping is crucial.
Generosity should come from a willing heart.
Above and beyond giving demonstrates deep commitment.
It's important to give with the right intentions.
Scripture encourages us to give generously.
The act of giving reflects our relationship with God.
Living generously can lead to spiritual and material blessings.

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Ep 185: Another Year Older, Another Year… Not Knowing Everything with Bianca Juarez

Mon, 07 Apr 2025 07:30:00 -0000

It's my birthday! 🎉 And to make it special, I wanted to share what's actually been going on in my heart. It's been a journey of realizing, like, really realizing, some big things about my relationship with God.

Have you ever had a teaching moment completely flipped upside down? I’ve got a story for you! I was all set to teach on Luke 11, feeling pretty confident, and then BOOM! Lisa Harper drops a truth bomb that totally flipped my perspective. I.Got.Schooled. In the best possible way.

I talk about this and so much more in this episode. I’m also sharing about:

Turns Out, I Don't Know It All: The biggest surprise? Realizing how much I don't know. Age doesn't magically equal wisdom, y'all!
What's This "Orphan Spirit" Thing?: Ever felt abandoned, alone, or like you're not good enough? That might be an "orphan spirit" talking. It's when we look for validation and provision everywhere but from God.
Hello, Sonship/Daughtership!: Claiming my identity as God's child? Game changer. It's about knowing I belong, and you do too!
Chatting with God, Like, For Real: I'm learning to be totally honest with God. The good, the bad, the ugly—all of it.
The Perks of Being a Child of God: Freedom from fear? Confidence? Boldness? Yes, please! That's what comes with knowing who I am in Him.
And Yes, There Will Be Sourdough: Click here for my sourdough recipe. Because, priorities!😉

I do have this one Birthday Wish: Would you guys pray for me as I write my new book on wholeness? I really want to walk in my identity as God’s chosen child and sometimes, well, it’s tough.

Let's keep the conversation going! What resonates with you? I'd love to hear your thoughts. You can tag me on social media @biancajuarezofficial.

XO,

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Bianca’s Sourdough Recipe

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Ep 184: How To Identify Your Core Values? / What You Value Matters / A Series On Personal Growth Day 3 Ft DeAnza Jarrett

Wed, 19 Mar 2025 07:30:00 -0000

Ever wondered what truly drives your decisions and actions? What if understanding your core values could unlock a more fulfilling life? In today’s final episode of the Personal Growth Series, we delve into the transformative power of core values and how they can guide you towards purpose and self-discovery.

DeAnza Jarrett and I explore the journey of identifying, applying, and reevaluating your core values for personal growth and stronger relationships. Core values are the fundamental beliefs that shape who we are and how we live. Understanding your core values is crucial, not just for personal fulfillment, but also for building strong relationships and achieving professional success.

Don’t forget:

Understanding your core values is a lifelong journey of self-discovery
Living in alignment with your values leads to greater authenticity and fulfillment
Core values impact all areas of your life, from personal relationships to professional success
Regularly re-evaluating your values is essential for growth and adaptation
Your values can serve as a powerful compass for decision-making

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What are YOUR core values? Take some time this week to reflect on what truly matters to you. Share your insights by tagging me on social media @biancajuarezofficial.

XO,

RESOURCES/LINKS

Guest

DeAnza Jarrett, Vice President, The Paterson Group https://www.patersongroup.com/bianca

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/paterson-center/

Takeaways

Core values are essential for guiding decisions and actions.
Identifying core values can lead to greater self-awareness.
Core values inform priorities, not the other way around.
Having a clear vision for the future is crucial for personal growth.
Core values can help establish necessary boundaries in relationships.
It's important to honor and respect each other's core values.

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Ep 183: Why Do I Always Feel Tired? / Building a Replenishment Cycle / A Series on Personal Growth Day 2 Ft DeAnza Jarrett

Tue, 18 Mar 2025 07:30:00 -0000

Are you running on empty? Like you're giving so much but have nothing left for yourself? What if there was a way to truly refuel and find balance in life? Join my friend DeAnza Jarrett and I for Day 2 of the Personal Growth series as we discuss the essential concept of replenishment – what it is, why it matters, and how to make it a regular part of your life.

What I want is for you to walk away understanding the vital concept of replenishment and its profound impact on our overall well-being. Guess what friend… replenishment is not a luxury, it is a necessity for thriving.

This episode is jam packed with actionable steps and practical handles to help you:

Understand the replenishment cycle and its relevance to different life stages
Identify and prioritize replenishment activities across all areas of well-being (physical, intellectual, emotional, and spiritual)
Acquire Biblical insights on the importance of rest, restoration, and balance
Gain strategies for integrating replenishment into daily routines and overcoming common obstacles
Recognize the difference between superficial self-care and deep, meaningful replenishment

Follow this link: http://www.patersongroup.com/bianca to get access to all of the FREE resources provided by the Paterson Group.

Join the conversation! Share your own replenishment strategies and experiences by tagging me on social media @biancajuarezofficial. What are your go-to activities for recharging your mind, body, and spirit?

Love,

RESOURCES/LINKS

Guest

DeAnza Jarrett, Vice President, The Paterson Group https://www.patersongroup.com/bianca

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/paterson-center/

Free Harvard Courses https://pll.harvard.edu/catalog/free?page=5

Takeaways

Identify where you're at before trying to fix it.
Replenishment is not just about self-care; it's about refueling all areas of life.
Disciplines are different from replenishment; both are necessary.
Replenishment can take on different cadences: daily, weekly, quarterly, and annually.
Integrate replenishment into your life, even in busy stages.
Invite others into your replenishment activities when possible.
Make replenishment a priority to avoid burnout.

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Ep 182: How Do I Grow Personally / Building After Disappointment / A Series on Personal Growth Day 1 Ft DeAnza Jarrett

Mon, 17 Mar 2025 07:30:00 -0000

Ever feel like you're wandering aimlessly, unsure of your next step? Feeling stuck in neutral, with no idea how to shift gears? Do you get that sense of being on a path, but not knowing where it leads? I invite you to tune in to this 3-day series on Personal Growth to help you navigate life's pivots and gain clarity through life planning.

I am joined by my friend DeAnza Jarrett from the Paterson Group to discuss the challenges faced during pivotal moments in life. Our conversation emphasizes the powerful concepts of personal restoration, rediscovering your identity, and the transformative potential of structured life planning. We explore how pivotal life moments can often leave us feeling lost and adrift, and how the right framework can provide the clarity and direction we crave.

One powerful tool that DeAnza shares with us is the Four Helpful Lists:

What is Right
What is Wrong
What is Confused
What is Missing

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We hope this episode empowers you to take control of your journey and create a life filled with purpose and intention. What pivotal moment in your life has shaped who you are today? Share your thoughts by tagging me on social media @biancajuarezofficial.

Don’t forget to subscribe to We’re Going There podcast on your favorite platform for more insightful conversations on personal growth and development!

Love you friends!

RESOURCES/LINKS

Guest

DeAnza Jarrett, Vice President, The Paterson Group https://www.patersongroup.com/bianca

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/paterson-center/

Takeaways

You don't have to navigate life's challenges alone.
Restoration requires intentional planning and support.
Understanding your identity is crucial during pivot points.
Perspective is essential before making any plans.
The four helpful lists can clarify your current situation.

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Ep 181: Leading Through the Fire: Finding Strength and Purpose in Pain with Bianca Juarez

Mon, 17 Feb 2025 08:10:00 -0000

Have you ever felt like your leadership journey was more about enduring pain than achieving success?

In this sneak peek of a leadership development session held at Revere Church, I explore the challenges and pain often associated with leadership. It emphasizes that pain can be a catalyst for growth and the importance of developing healthy coping mechanisms. Drawing inspiration from biblical figures like David, the session highlights finding strength in faith and building a supportive community.

My focus is to encourage everyone to embrace their leadership journey, acknowledging pain, and seeking growth through faith and connection with others. Some key topics include:

The role of community during crises
Pursuing purpose amidst pain
Addressing personal pain
The value of trust
Balancing discipleship with individual beliefs
The impact of presence

Finding God's guidance during difficult times can bring peace and help overcome the fear of pain and of having to prove yourself to others. Carefully consider the cost of discipleship, but also know that the rewards of faithfulness are always worth the challenges.

Share your challenges and also your victories by tagging me @biancajuarezofficial.

XO,

RESOURCES/LINKS

Leadership Pain: The Classroom for Growth by Samuel Chand https://www.amazon.com/Leadership-Pain-Classroom-Samuel-Chand/dp/0718031598

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Your vision must push you past your pain.

Takeaways

Leading through pain is possible and necessary.
You are qualified to lead if you show up.
Pain is an integral part of growth and leadership.
Sacrifice is essential for effective leadership.
Your threshold of pain determines your growth potential.
Strengthening oneself in the Lord is crucial during tough times.
Coping mechanisms can be healthy or unhealthy; identify yours.
Building a supportive community is vital for leadership.
Vision must be strong enough to push through pain.
Change occurs when desire outweighs fear.
The people of God are essential during crises.

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Honor Anyways // Cesar Delgado // Mark 6:1-6

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Ep 180: Healing Through Silence: Finding Peace in Stillness with Bianca Juarez

Mon, 27 Jan 2025 08:30:00 -0000

Can silence be a source of healing? Are you ready to embrace the power of silence in your life?

Friends, I’m excited to introduce the profound concept of a "theology of silence". I have discovered the transformative power of finding strength in the face of betrayal through stillness and silence.

It is so important to learn to share our stories from a place of healing and wholeness, rather than from a position of woundedness. Using the life of King David as a powerful example, I discuss the vital lessons of:

Integrity: Maintaining moral and ethical standards even amidst trials.
Honor: Honor up, honor down, and honor all around.
Surrender: The profound power of yielding to God's will, even in the face of betrayal and challenges.

I want to encourage you to reflect on your own journey of healing and consider the role of silence in your lives.

Share your story of how you are overcoming challenges and finding healing and tag and me @biancajuarezofficial.

Love you,

RESOURCES/LINKS

Revere Church

Quote

We honor up, we honor down, we honor all around.

Takeaways

Sharing stories from a healed place is crucial.
Honor others regardless of their behavior.
The Lord will fight for you; you only need to be still.
Betrayal can come from both authority figures and peers.
Integrity is essential in leadership.
Silence can be a powerful response to injustice.
Love covers a multitude of sins.

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New Season, New Format: Monthly Episodes and Deeper Dives

Fri, 10 Jan 2025 08:00:00 -0000

We're switching things up in 2025 to dive deeper into conversations and more!

What to Expect?

Monthly Episodes: Longer, more in-depth conversations on topics God is calling the host to address.
Spiritual Growth: Honest conversations and practical handles for navigating life's challenges.

My ask is that you pray for me and for the podcast mission. I believe that God is doing a powerful work of transformation through the conversations that are being downloaded.

Don’t forget to share and subscribe. For more information on Revere Church visit: reverechurch.com.

Love you,

RESOURCES/LINKS

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Bianca’s new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option. https://amzn.to/3MO74OC

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The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/gdq

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Ep 179: Conflict Unraveled: Navigating Difficult Conversations with Confidence with Lauren Bronson Petrous and Bianca Juarez

Mon, 23 Dec 2024 08:30:00 -0000

Have you ever found yourself dreading a difficult conversation, unsure of how to approach it without causing more harm than good?

This is our last episode of 2024, friends! Join Lauren and I as we dive deep into the art and science of conflict resolution. We explore why conflicts are inevitable and how we can handle them with confidence and grace.

Key Highlights:

Roots of Conflict
Facing Fears
Conflict Styles
Gender Dynamics
The BRAVE Framework

Key Takeaways:

The importance of understanding and affirming needs during conflicts.
Practical tips for voicing your needs effectively without escalating the situation.
Embracing discomfort as a part of the conflict resolution process.
Ending conversations with clarity to ensure mutual understanding.

Join us for an enlightening conversation packed with practical tools and insights that will help you navigate difficult conversations, foster healthier relationships, and promote personal growth.

Show your appreciation to my co-host Lauren by tagging us @laurenbronsonpetrous and me @biancajuarezofficial.

Love you friends,

RESOURCES/LINKS

Co-Host

Lauren Bronson Petrous https://boundlessandco.com/about

Craig Groeschel Leadership Podcast: Mastering Hard Conversations https://youtu.be/kpRd_NseuDM?si=65R2iNdwLUhMScnt

Takeaways

Conflict is inevitable, but how we handle it makes all the difference.

Understanding your values is crucial for effective conflict resolution.

Many people avoid conflict due to fear of rejection or misunderstanding.

Identifying whether you are a 'turtle' or 'porcupine' can help you understand your conflict style.

Conflict is a healthy part of relationships and should be approached with intention.

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Ep 178: Beyond Resolutions: Crafting a Word to Shape Your Year with Bianca Juarez

Mon, 16 Dec 2024 08:30:00 -0000

Feeling lost or overwhelmed as the new year approaches? Discover how choosing a "Word for the Year" can provide clarity, direction, and intention for your life.

Friends, I’m back with our annual word for the year episode. My heart is to guide you through the process so that you can discover your own word, which I believe will benefit your personal and spiritual growth.

The 5 Steps to discovering your word are:

Evaluate: Reflect on the past year, identify areas for growth, and cultivate gratitude.
Think: Connect with your feelings and emotions through meditation, prayer, or silence.
Create a List: Write down 10 words, images, or feelings that resonate with your vision for the year.
Refine: Highlight the words that stand out and evoke strong emotions.
Decide: Commit to your chosen word and use it as an anchor throughout the year.

I believe that if you invest time in this transformative exercise, your word will be a tool for setting intentions, finding direction, and aligning your life with your deepest values and aspirations.

This is a personal journey. Take the time to reflect, feel, and choose a word that will empower and inspire you in the coming year. And don’t forget to share your word with me on social media by tagging me @biancajuarezofficial.

I’m grateful for you and wish you a blessed new year!

RESOURCES/LINKS

FREE PDF: 5 Steps To Choosing Your Word https://www.dropbox.com/scl/fi/p2taw61kbogbo47bfst69/5-STEPS-TO-CHOOSING-YOUR-WORD.png?rlkey=grxejkcaf0sxnm5ibvdnp83g6&st=otajvsbo&dl=0

Quote

If we don't reflect on where we've been, it'll be hard to determine where we're going.

Takeaways

Reflection on the past year is crucial for future planning.
Evaluating feelings helps in identifying what truly matters.
Creating a list of intentions can clarify goals for the year.
Being committed to the process is essential for success.
It's important to celebrate blessings from the past year.
The word for the year can serve as an anchor during challenges.
Engaging in this practice can foster a deeper connection with faith.

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Ep 177: Gatekeeping Not Allowed: Let’s Talk About Our Favorite Things with Bianca Juarez Olthoff and Lauren Bronson Petrous

Mon, 02 Dec 2024 08:30:00 -0000

Have you ever wondered what your favorite podcast host can't-live-without items are? Yes, I finally agreed to the episode that I’ve been dreading to do - the favorite things episode.

In this heartwarming and hilarious episode, Lauren and I got to ditch the gatekeeping and spill the tea on our absolute favorite things. From morning rituals and must-have beauty products to go-to recipes and inspiring books, this episode is a peek into the life of your favorite podcast host and my co-host/BFF Lauren.

Join the Conversation! We want to hear from you! Share your favorite things, morning rituals, or dream dinner guests on social media using the hashtag #FriendsDontGatekeep. Don’t forget to tag us @biancaolthoff and @laurenbronsonpetrous and you will be entered to win some of our favorite things! Details below.

Share the love and subscribe, rate, and review the podcast!

XO,

RESOURCES/LINKS

Co-host

Lauren Bronson Petrous https://boundlessandco.com/

Favorite Things List: https://www.dropbox.com/scl/fi/dv5ds7sqwxf0wqvttksbj/WGT-Ep-177-Favorite-Things-List.pdf?rlkey=pewgctmobkmxvh0vz9mhf9scr&st=u9s3h5mu&dl=0

Giveaway rules:

1. Eligibility:

Open to everyone.
Must be 12 years or older.

2. How to Enter:

Follow: Follow Bianca @biancaolthoff and Lauren @laurenbronsonpetrous on Instagram account.
Like: Like the post associated with this episode.

3. Prize:

5 lucky winners will receive:
1 Travel-size Grande Lash MD Lash Serum
1 Travel-size Caudalie Face Spray, and 1 "Grit Don't Quit" book.
The prize is non-transferable and has no cash value.

4. Winner Selection:

The winner will be selected at random.
The winner will be notified via Instagram direct message.

5. Deadline:

The giveaway starts on Monday, December 2nd at 1am PST through Monday, December 9th at 1pm PST

6. Additional Terms:

By entering the giveaway, you agree to ITNOL's rules.
ITNOL reserves the right to modify or cancel the giveaway at any time.
ITNOL is not responsible for lost, late, or misdirected entries.

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Ep 176: Cultivating Gratitude in a World of Want with Bianca Juarez Olthoff

Mon, 25 Nov 2024 08:30:00 -0000

Have you ever felt overwhelmed by the hustle and bustle of the holiday season? Let's take a moment to pause, reflect, and focus on the simple joys of life.

Gratitude matters and it is more than just a fleeting feeling of thankfulness. It's a powerful practice that can transform your life. By cultivating gratitude, you can:

Reduce stress and anxiety: Focusing on the positive aspects of your life can help ease stress and anxiety.
Improve your physical health: Studies have shown that gratitude can boost your immune system, lower blood pressure, and improve sleep quality.
Enhance your relationships: Expressing gratitude to loved ones can strengthen your bonds and deepen your connections.
Increase your overall happiness: By focusing on what you have, rather than what you lack, you can cultivate a greater sense of happiness and fulfillment.

Practical Tips to Practice Gratitude

Keep a gratitude journal: Write down three things you're grateful for each day.
Meditate on gratitude: Spend a few minutes each day focusing on the things you're grateful for.
Express gratitude to others: Let people know how much you appreciate them.
Volunteer your time: Giving back to your community can boost your sense of gratitude.
Practice mindfulness: Pay attention to the present moment and appreciate the small things.

I invite you to join us in a gratitude challenge. For the next week, commit to practicing gratitude daily. Share your experiences and reflections with us on social media using the hashtag #Gr8ful. Let's inspire each other to live a life of gratitude and joy. Don’t forget to tag me @biancaolthoff.

Wishing you a blessed and grateful holiday season!

RESOURCES/LINKS

Takeaways

Thanksgiving is a time to embrace gratitude.
Desiring more can lead to emptiness and dissatisfaction.
Gratitude is a powerful tool for joy and fulfillment.
Practicing gratitude can transform our lives.
Contentment is not wanting more, but appreciating what we have.
Complaining can destroy our sense of gratitude.
Gratitude should be a daily practice, not just a holiday sentiment.
We are responsible for cultivating our own gratitude.
Sharing our gratitude with others enhances its impact.
The holiday season is an opportunity to reflect on our blessings.

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Ep 175: The Evolution of Friendship: Growing Together, Growing Apart with Bianca Juarez Olthoff and Lauren Bronson Petrous

Mon, 18 Nov 2024 08:30:00 -0000

What does true friendship mean to you? How do you know when it's time to let go of a friendship?

Friend, I LOVE you! And I know that friendship is so important in our lives. That's why my BFF Lauren and I dive deep into the intricacies of friendship. We explore how to nurture, grow, and gracefully let go of relationships as we journey through life's different stages.

We share personal insights on the complexities of relationships, emphasizing the importance of recognizing when it's time to let go of friendships that no longer serve us.

Some key takeaways are:

Intentionality is key: Friendship requires effort and conscious nurturing to thrive.
Vulnerability is essential: Sharing our true selves with others deepens our connections.
Friendships evolve: As we grow and change, our relationships may naturally shift or end.
It's okay to let go: Sometimes, holding onto friendships that are no longer fulfilling can be detrimental to our well-being.

Losing a friendship can be emotionally challenging, and it's important to allow ourselves to grieve. Share the dynamics of your relationships by tagging me @biancaolthoff and @laurenbronsonpetrous.

XO,

RESOURCES/LINKS

Co-Host

Lauren Bronson Petrous https://boundlessandco.com/

Watch the video on Youtube: https://youtu.be/SfVNmRE0cd4

Resources

Podcast Episode with Lysa Terkeurst Ep 100: Setting Clear Boundaries, Communicating Our Needs To Others and A Million Little Funerals with Lysa TerKeurst https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep-100-setting-clear-boundaries-communicating-our-needs/id1529509063?i=1000586081202
Book by Lysa Terkeurst Good Boundaries and Goodbyes: Loving Others Without Losing the Best of Who You Are https://www.p31bookstore.com/collections/lysa-terkeurst-books-and-bible-studies

Takeaways

Intentionality is key in maintaining friendships.
Vulnerability allows for deeper connections between friends.
It's important to evaluate friendships regularly.
Friendship requires risk and investment.
Not everyone is meant to stay in your life forever.
A friend audit can help clarify relationship dynamics. I stay too long in relationships.
Friendships can be categorized as weeds, flowers, or trees.
Seasonal friendships are valid and should be honored.
Adaptability is crucial in friendships.
Friendship is a choice, not an obligation.
Boundaries are essential in protecting relationships.
Mourning the end of a friendship is a necessary process.

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The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/gdq

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Ep 174: Resilience Redefined: Strategies to Overcome Adversity and Flourish with Bianca Juarez Olthoff and Lauren Bronson Petrous

Mon, 11 Nov 2024 08:30:00 -0000

Have you ever faced a crisis that tested your resilience and self-awareness? Are you needing to find peace amidst the chaos of significant life changes?

Joining me today again is my co-host and dear friend Lauren and together we explore the profound themes of mind shifts, grief, and new beginnings. This episode was very difficult to do, but I opened up about my personal journey through a major crisis following my divorce.

We talk about important topics like:

Leadership in Crisis: Bianca shares the raw and real challenges she faced while leading her church through a turbulent period.
The Role of Therapy: The conversation delves into the necessity of therapy and its transformative power in processing grief and loss.
Resilience and Self-Care: Bianca's journey emphasizes the importance of taking time for self-care and seeking help when needed, providing inspiration for others navigating their own struggles.
Identity and Community: The episode highlights the importance of maintaining one’s identity outside of the church and the power of community in fostering personal growth.
Intentional Relationships: The dialogue underscores the significance of intentional relationships and leadership development.
Finding Peace Amidst Chaos: Bianca discusses her journey of self-discovery, grieving, and finding excitement in new beginnings within her church community.

Friend, I want to highlight the importance of community support, self-awareness, and resilience during challenging times.

Let us know if this episode has helped you find strength and hope through adversity by tagging and me @biancaolthoff and @laurenbronsonpetrous

Love,

RESOURCES/LINKS

Co-host

Lauren Bronson Petrous https://boundlessandco.com/

Watch the video on Youtube https://youtu.be/hg4QEoHYJyw

Takeaways

Community support is crucial during challenging times.
Leadership requires integrity and self-awareness.
Therapy can provide necessary tools for healing.
Loss can transform you into a stronger individual.
It's important to have accountability in leadership.
Navigating crises requires both personal and professional strategies. It's essential to have guardrails around your identity.
Grieving is a necessary process that should not be rushed.
New beginnings can emerge from grief and loss.
Peace can coexist with chaos and uncertainty.
Being vulnerable about struggles can foster deeper connections.

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Bianca’s new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option https://amzn.to/3MO74OC

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The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available https://www.biancaolthoff.com/gdq

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Ep 173: Single Again, Healing From Heartbreak, Embracing Wholeness with Bianca Juarez Olthoff

Tue, 22 Oct 2024 07:30:00 -0000

Have you ever felt lost or alone after a significant life change? Are you ready to find strength and resilience in the face of adversity? In this emotional conversation with my friend and co-host Lauren Bronson Petrous, I share how I’ve had to navigate a significant life change, my experience with divorce and the subsequent journey of self-discovery and healing.

I’ve experienced many challenges while making difficult decisions, but holding on to God's provision and support during tough times throughout the healing process has kept me going.

Some of the topics that we will highlight are:

Navigating significant life changes
The journey of self-discovery and healing
The role of faith and community in difficult times
Lessons learned from aloneness and personal growth
Distinguishing between secrecy and privacy
Challenges and healing in the aftermath of divorce
The importance of accountability and community support
Experiencing God's provision and support
Embracing wholeness after loss

Friend, change is hard, especially when it is thrust upon you. I want to encourage you to embrace change and growth through life's toughest moments, using faith, community, and self-awareness as powerful tools for healing and personal development. If you are on a similar path to finding hope, let us know by tagging Lauren and I at @laurenbronsonpetrous & @biancaolthoff.

XO,

RESOURCES/LINKS

Co-host

Lauren Bronson Petrous boundlessandco.com

Takeaways

Faith plays a crucial role in accepting life's changes.
It's important to distinguish between secrecy and privacy.
You cannot force someone to change; it takes two for a healthy relationship.
Healing requires accountability and community support.
God can be a provider and protector in times of need.
Being alone can reveal deeper truths about oneself.
Embracing wholeness is essential after experiencing loss.

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Ep 172: Alone Doesn't Mean Lonely and The Power of Solitude with Bianca Juarez Olthoff and Lauren Bronson Petrous

Mon, 21 Oct 2024 07:30:00 -0000

Have you ever wrestled with being alone? How can a season of solitude be a catalyst for personal growth?

I am in a very difficult season of forced aloneness and I wanted to share my story with you. Thankfully my good friend Lauren Bronson Petrous is joining me as my co-host and we delve into the importance of changing our perspectives on aloneness. We emphasize that being alone does not equate to being lonely and explore the power of solitude for self-discovery, personal growth, and emotional health, while addressing societal perceptions of being alone.

Our goal is to underscore the significance of self-awareness and the journey of understanding one's identity, particularly in a culture that often prioritizes community and partnership. Some key topics are:

Redefining aloneness and its importance
The power of solitude for self-discovery and personal growth
Societal perceptions of being alone versus being lonely
The role of self-awareness in personal and professional success
Intentional solitude as a catalyst for growth and resilience
Insights from the Bible on the value of aloneness
Scientific support for the benefits of solitude
Empowerment and liberation through being alone
Balancing community and self-understanding
Profound personal insights gained from forced aloneness

We want to encourage you to embrace the transformative power of aloneness, using it as a tool for self-discovery, growth, and empowerment. Let us know how you are embracing aloneness by tagging Lauren and I at @laurenbronsonpetrous & @biancaolthoff.

Love you,

RESOURCES/LINKS

Co-host

Lauren Bronson Petrous boundlessandco.com

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Want to stay connected, join the community today.

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Ep 171: Personal Conversation With My Dad on Generational Leadership, Hispanic Heritage Month with Pancho Juarez

Mon, 14 Oct 2024 07:30:00 -0000

How do experiences from different generations influence leadership styles in the church?

Friends, in this bonus interview by Amy Ayala, I get the privilege to have a conversation with someone who is not only a wonderful teacher and preacher, but also my father, Pastor Pancho Juarez. My dad has had a very unique journey as an immigrant and a pastor in the United States. He has gone through many challenges and triumphs while leading a church in East Los Angeles, The Ark Montebello.

We discuss the importance of cultural identity, and also reflect on the sacrifices made in ministry. One of the highlights of our conversation is when we get to discuss the generational legacy of faith and resilience that my dad has modeled as the leader in our family. We also touch on the impact that our shared experiences have had on our leadership styles and community-building efforts.

Our goal is to encourage future generations of leaders, particularly those from immigrant backgrounds, to embrace their unique stories and continue their calling with tenacity and faith.

Key Topics:

The unique journey of immigrant pastors in the U.S.
Challenges and triumphs of church leadership
The importance of cultural identity in ministry
Generational legacy of faith and resilience
Impact of experiences on leadership styles
Encouragement for future generations of leaders

Friends, we want you to embrace your unique story and continue your calling with unwavering faith and resilience. Let us know where you’re at on your remarkable journey of faith by tagging Pastor Pancho @thearkmontebello and me @biancaolthoff.

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Pancho Juarez

The Ark Montebello

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Embracing cultural identity to build stronger communities.

Takeaways

Pastor Bianca attributes her leadership qualities to her father's sacrifices.
The journey of immigrant pastors is filled with challenges but also immense rewards.
Cultural identity plays a significant role in their ministry approach.
The importance of resilience and grit in church planting is emphasized.
Ministry is a privilege that comes with both joy and pain.
The cost of ministry includes personal sacrifices and emotional challenges.
Encouragement for future leaders to embrace their unique backgrounds.
The significance of community building in a thriving church environment.
The conversation highlights the importance of mentorship and legacy.
Faith and the Holy Spirit empower them to overcome obstacles.

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Ep 170: Empowering Growth, Embracing Hope, and Leading with Integrity with Jordan Montgomery and Bianca Juarez Olthoff

Mon, 23 Sep 2024 08:00:00 -0000

Have you ever felt like a leader but didn't know it? Bianca sits down with Jordan Montgomery, the host of the Growth Over Goals podcast. Together, they explore Bianca’s remarkable journey as a leader, delving into the challenges she faced growing up as a first-generation American and the valuable lessons she has learned along the way.

Key Discussion Points:

Bianca’s Leadership Journey: Bianca shares her personal story, highlighting the obstacles she overcame and the pivotal moments that shaped her path to becoming a recognized leader.
Challenges of a First-Generation American: Insights into the unique challenges Bianca faced and how these experiences influenced her leadership style.
Leadership Insights: Bianca emphasizes the importance of time and patience in developing leadership skills, encouraging young leaders to serve others and prioritize personal growth.
Health and Boundaries: The significance of maintaining personal health and setting boundaries to ensure effective leadership and overall well-being.
Hope and Redemption: Bianca discusses the role of hope and redemption in leadership, sharing her perspective on overcoming adversity and inspiring others.
Upcoming Projects: Bianca gives a sneak peek into her upcoming projects, offering listeners a glimpse of what’s on the horizon for her.

This episode is packed with valuable insights and practical advice for aspiring leaders. This is a testament to the power of resilience, hope, and the importance of serving others in the journey of leadership.

Friends, listen now to gain inspiration and actionable tips for your own leadership journey. Follow @jordanmmontgomery and me @biancaolthoff.

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Guest

Jordan Montgomery

Takeaways

Bianca identifies as a leader only in the last five years.

She faced significant challenges growing up in East LA.

Time is essential for developing leadership skills.

Young leaders often overlook the importance of patience.

Setting boundaries is crucial for maintaining health.

Soul health is a game changer for leaders.

Rest and recovery are vital for productivity.

Serving others can lead to personal growth.

Redemption and healing are always possible.

The health of a leader reflects the health of their organization.

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Ep 169: Breaking Free from Pride, Awareness of God's Boundaries, and Biblical Humility with Joel Muddamalle

Mon, 26 Aug 2024 08:00:00 -0000

Has pride ever impacted your life? Ready to recognize and address hidden pride in your heart?

Bible teacher, theologian, author, podcaster, book coach, husband and father of four, Dr. Joel Muddamalle and I discuss the profound topics of humility and pride. Dr. Joel shares his personal journey, revealing how a humiliating childhood experience shaped his understanding of humility and its significance. He explains that biblical humility is rooted in recognizing God and our true identity as His royal children. Pride, on the other hand, is the elevation of self, leading to chaos and confusion. Dr. Joel emphasizes that humility acts as a protection, prevention, and preservation, and that curiosity without limits can be destructive.

The conversation shifts to the crucial role of boundaries and limits in the context of curiosity and desire. Dr. Joel explains how God established boundaries in the pre-fallen world to safeguard Adam and Eve from self-destruction. He clarifies that limits are not punitive but rather a means to prevent us from becoming enslaved to unholy desires.

Dr. Muddamalle also explores the concept of hidden pride, which can corrupt the fruit of the Spirit and lead to destructive behavior. He highlights the importance of humility in overcoming pride and accepting our limits and weaknesses.

Key Points:

Humility: A foundational understanding rooted in recognizing God and our identity as His children.
Pride: The elevation of self, leading to chaos and confusion.
Boundaries and Limits: Essential for protecting us from self-destruction and enslavement to unholy desires.
Hidden Pride: A subtle form of pride that can corrupt the fruit of the Spirit.
The Power of Humility: Overcoming pride, accepting limits, and embracing our weaknesses.

Tag Joel @muddamalle and I @biancaolthoff to let us know what practical handles you are applying in your daily life.

XO,

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Guest

Dr. Joel Muddamalle muddamalle.com

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Hidden pride is so deceptive because the conversation is happening in the chambers of the human heart.

Takeaways

Biblical humility starts with an awareness of God and our identity as royal children of God.
Pride is the elevation of self and leads to chaos and confusion.
Humility is a protection, prevention, and preservation.
Curiosity without limits is chaotic. Boundaries and limits were established by God in the pre-fall world to protect us from self-destruction.
Limits are not a punishment, but a way to prevent us from becoming enslaved to unholy desires.
Hidden pride corrupts the fruit of the Spirit and leads to destructive behavior.
Humility is the antidote to pride and helps us accept our limits and weaknesses.
Anxiety and shame can be addressed through humility and accepting our weaknesses.

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Ep 168: Building Confidence, Making Aligned Decisions, and Embracing the Unexpected with Stephanie May Wilson

Mon, 19 Aug 2024 07:30:00 -0000

Do you feel overwhelmed and unsure of how to create a life that you love? Are you ready to take small steps to make it happen?

My friend Stephanie May Wilson, a writer, speaker, and podcaster, and I talk about the unique challenges and pressures women face in their 20s and 30s, a time Stephanie calls the "everything era." This is a period marked by significant life decisions, societal expectations, and a whole lot of figuring it out.

Stephanie shares her own experiences navigating this tricky terrain and offers some valuable takeaways:

Embrace the Power of Choice: The 'everything era' is YOUR time to take the reins and create the life YOU want. It's about aligning your decisions with your values, even when those values don't always align with traditional expectations.
Transition to the "I Get to Create It Now Era": Life throws curveballs. Embrace those detours as opportunities for personal growth and course correction. Each challenge is a chance to refine your vision and build the life you love.
Don't Be Afraid of Disagreements: Navigating this phase can lead to conflicts with loved ones, especially when it comes to life choices. Use these disagreements as opportunities for open communication and mutual understanding.

Listen in as Stephanie shares her personal journey of embracing the "I get to create it now era" and how a move to Spain opened up a whole new chapter of her life.

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Stephanie May Wilson stephaniemaywilson.com

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The 'everything era' is a time of uncertainty and pressure to figure out life.

Takeaways

The 'everything era' refers to the period in a woman's life, typically in her 20s and 30s, when she is making significant life decisions and facing societal pressures.
It's important to define what success and happiness mean to you personally, rather than conforming to societal expectations.
The transition from the 'everything era' to the 'I get to create it now era' is a defining moment for personal growth and decision-making.
You have the power to decide how you want to live your life and make choices that align with your values and desires.
When life doesn't go as expected, you have options: you can quit, keep moving forward, change tactics, or ask for help.
Surround yourself with a supportive inner circle who can provide guidance and advice, but ultimately trust yourself to make the best decisions for your life.
Creating a life you love may involve making intentional decisions that fit for a season but may not be permanent.
Taking control of your own life and making decisions that align with your values and desires can lead to personal fulfillment and happiness.

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Book: The Cost of Control: Why We Crave It, the Anxiety It Gives Us, and the Real Power God Promises

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Ep 167: The Cost of Control, Finding Freedom, and Building Stronger Relationships with Sharon Hodde Miller

Mon, 12 Aug 2024 07:00:00 -0000

Are you gripping the reins too tightly? Have you ever felt the need to control every aspect of your life, only to realize that control is just an illusion?

Today I speak to Sharon Hodde Miller, Pastor, Speaker, Author, and PhD about the often-unacknowledged desire for control. Together, we explore the seductive nature of control, how it often creates illusions of security, and the hidden costs of clinging to it.

Some takeaways from our conversation are:

Control is an Illusion: We might think we have more control than we actually do, but true control is often fleeting. Exploring the limitations of our influence can be a liberating step.
Surrender & Agency: Letting go of control doesn't mean giving up agency. It’s about finding the sweet spot between healthy boundaries and trust, recognizing that relinquishing control can lead to greater peace and flexibility.
Cost of Control: Clinging to control can manifest in anxiety, stress, and unhealthy relationships. Sharon highlights the benefits of surrendering control and embracing the power of trust in fostering healthy connections.

We also discuss the theological and cultural roots of our obsession with control. Sharon offers practical advice for exercising agency instead of constant control. She also challenges us to embrace the benefits of surrendering control in our personal lives and relationships.

Let us know how you are letting go of control by tagging us at @sharonhmiller and me @biancaolthoff.

XO,

RESOURCES/LINKS

Guest

Sharon Hodde Miller

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The most free we ever were was not in the absence of boundaries, but because of them.

Takeaways

Control promises security and peace, but it ultimately betrays us, causing anxiety, complexity, and division.
The desire for control has theological roots in the story of Adam and Eve and cultural roots in a society that constantly promises control.
Letting go of control is important because it costs us more than it gains us.
Instead of control, God gives us agency and influence to exercise within the boundaries He has set.
Restoring boundaries, such as limiting phone usage, can help us exercise agency and let go of control.
Surrendering control can strengthen relationships and build trust.

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Ep 166: The Power of Holiness, Living Set Apart, and Transforming Your Life with Jackie Hill Perry

Mon, 05 Aug 2024 08:00:00 -0000

How do we understand and live out holiness in our daily lives? Do you believe it's possible to live a truly holy life in a world full of distractions?

Author, poet, bible teacher, and hip-hop artist Jackie Hill Perry is on the show and together we explore:

The true meaning of holiness
The motivations that drive us to pursue a holy life
The essential role of the Holy Spirit in the process of sanctification

We candidly discuss the challenges and obstacles that often hinder our pursuit of holiness and the vital importance of understanding God's holiness in building a deeper trust in Him.

Remember that holiness isn’t about perfection; it’s about surrendering to the One who is perfectly holy. May this conversation inspire you to seek God’s holiness in every aspect of your life. Let Jackie know how much you appreciate her wisdom by tagging her @jackiehillperry and me @biancaolthoff.

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RESOURCES/LINKS

Guest

Jackie Hill Perry https://jackiehillperry.com/

Books: https://www.amazon.com/stores/Jackie-Hill-Perry/author/B07HGTR8XC?ref=ap_rdr&isDramIntegrated=true&shoppingPortalEnabled=true

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We don't want to be like God in terms of His holiness, we want to be like God in terms of His authority.

Takeaways

Holiness is a decision of our will and is based on our conduct, comportment, and character.
The Holy Spirit plays a crucial role in sanctification by changing our hearts, giving us power over sin, and illuminating the Scriptures.
Understanding God's holiness is essential in building trust in Him.
The book on holiness by Jackie Hill Perry is recommended for all Christians, especially those who struggle with trusting God.

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Ep 165: Conquering The Critic Within, Speaking Truth With Confidence, and Using Insecurity as Fuel with Bianca Juarez Olthoff

Mon, 29 Jul 2024 08:00:00 -0000

Have you ever had feelings of insecurity and inadequacy? Ever felt like an imposter when surrounded by big names?

Friends, today I get real about feeling like a fraud. That’s why I delve into the concept of imposter syndrome and that nagging inner voice that questions our abilities and worthiness.

Some of the insights that I want you to walk away with are how to:

Overcome insecurity and use it as a tool for growth
Recognize your inner saboteur and challenge its negativity
Use feelings of insecurity as a springboard for action, not self-deprecation

I’ve had to battle with self-doubt and the voices in my head that whisper I’m not good enough. I want us to use self-doubt as a tool for growth, not a weapon of self-destruction. Ask yourself ‘If not me, then who? If not now, then when?’

Unleash your Godfidence to find your voice; The world needs your message! Let us know how you are taming your inner saboteur by tagging me @biancaolthoff.

XO,

RESOURCES/LINKS

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The beauty of that voice of insecurity is an earnest recognition that I'm not everything. But the dark side of that voice is when we let that voice convince us that we're nothing.

Takeaways

Imposter syndrome is common and can make us doubt our abilities and feel like frauds.
The voice of insecurity can be used as a tool for self-reflection and growth.
Humility is a choice and allows us to recognize our limitations while still using our gifts.
We should remind ourselves that we are called to fulfill a purpose and use our voices.
Asking 'If not me, then who? If not now, then when?' can help overcome self-doubt and take action.

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Ep 164: Navigating Hollywood, Choosing Authenticity, and God's Sense of Humor with Yvonne Orji

Mon, 22 Jul 2024 08:00:00 -0000

Are you ready to laugh and be inspired? Actress, comedian and author of ‘Bamboozled by Jesus’, Yvonne Orji joins me for a conversation that will challenge your perception of faith and leave you smiling.

Friend, you are going to LOVE Yvonne's wit and infectious personality while also gaining insights into finding your purpose and living a joyful life. Yvonne and I discuss what it means to:

Understand and experience God’s favor

Choose authenticity over societal expectations

Rethink what it means to have faith and a relationship with God

I hope that Yvonne’s inspiring story helps you gain a fresh perspective on faith, comedy, and personal growth. Show your love by tagging @yvonneorji and me @biancaolthoff.

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Guest

Yvonne Orji https://www.yvonneorji.com/

The wait is sexy | Yvonne Orji | TEDxWilmingtonSalon

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If I know who I am and God called me to be here, then clearly who I am is good enough for here.

Takeaways

God has a sense of humor and wants us to have a relationship with Him.

The perception of God as vengeful is often based on out-of-context scripture and human perception.

Yvonne Orji discovered her calling in comedy and uses humor to reach people.

Yvonne's book, 'Bamboozled by Jesus,' shares her journey of faith and how she turned losses into wins. Believe in yourself and your abilities, even when others may doubt you.

Stay true to your values and don't compromise them for success.

Favor is when God opens doors and blesses you in unexpected ways.

Don't settle for less than you deserve in relationships; wait for someone who appreciates and supports you fully.

Success is not always measured by societal standards; trust in God's plan for your life.

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Ep 163: Resetting Your Life, Breaking Free From Busyness, and Embracing Sabbath Rest with John Mark Comer

Mon, 15 Jul 2024 08:00:00 -0000

Do you ever feel like you're going through the motions in your spiritual life? Many of us crave a deeper connection with God, but where do we start? Today, I chat with John Mark Comer about the power of spiritual disciplines, the practices that can unlock real transformation in your faith.

We discuss the following key points:

Spiritual Formation: John Mark Comer defines spiritual formation as the process of becoming someone with a greater capacity to receive and give love in relationship with God and others.
Spiritual Disciplines: Discussed as "means of grace" that allow us to surrender to God's transformative work. They are practices, not performances, used to offer our bodies to God.
Fasting: Highlighted as a way to let go of control and identify the things that control us.
Sabbath: Examined as a challenge to our busy culture, teaching the importance of rest and stillness. Comer shares his personal experience with Sabbath and its transformative power in his life.
The Three Enemies of Peace: Identified by the desert fathers and mothers as the world, the flesh, and the devil. These enemies hinder our ability to experience true peace.
Following Jesus: Acknowledged as not an easy path, but the way to true joy and peace.
Sin and Happiness: The impact of sin on our capacity for happiness is discussed. Trusting in God's definition of goodness is highlighted as essential.

John Mark also shares his experience growing up in a church that emphasized the importance of Sabbath and how it has shaped his family's life.

Let us know how you are deepening your relationship with God by tagging us @biancaolthoff and @johnmarkcomer.

XO,

RESOURCES/LINKS

Guest

John Mark Comer https://johnmarkcomer.com/

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Working fasting into my regular life has been one of the most transformative things I've ever done.

Takeaways

Spiritual disciplines are means of grace that allow us to offer our bodies to God and surrender to His transformative work.
Fasting helps us let go of control and reveals the things that control us.
Sabbath challenges our culture of busyness and teaches us the importance of rest and stillness.
Both fasting and Sabbath are practices that can lead to spiritual transformation and a deeper relationship with God. Sabbath is a transformative practice that can bring emotional and relational healing and shape the rhythm of our lives.
The three enemies of peace identified by the desert fathers and mothers are the world, the flesh, and the devil.
Following Jesus is not easy, but it is the way to true joy and peace.
Sin sabotages our capacity for happiness by appealing to our God-given desire for happiness through deceptive ideas.
Trusting in God's definition of goodness and following His pathway to life leads to freedom and a deeper experience of love and joy

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Ep 162: Breaking the Busy Trap, Strategies for Boundaries, and Avoiding the Stress Spiral with Carey Nieuwhof

Mon, 08 Jul 2024 09:00:00 -0000

Feeling overwhelmed by the fast pace of life, constant pressures and never-ending to-do list? You're not alone.

I get to dive deep into the challenges of navigating today's fast-paced world with former lawyer turned pastor turned podcaster, Carey Nieuwhof.

Listen and learn how to:

Prioritize your relationships and protect your time
Maximize your productivity through focused work
Manage your energy for optimal performance
Break free from the stress cycle
Implement effective strategies for taking breaks that recharge you

This episode is packed with actionable tips and insights to help you thrive in today's demanding environment. Show your appreciation to Carey by tagging him @careynieuwhof and me @biancaolthoff.

Until next time,

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Guest

Carey Nieuwhof https://careynieuwhof.com/

Book: Leading Change Without Losing It: Five Strategies That Can Revolutionize How You Lead Change When Facing Opposition

Podcast: The Carey Nieuwhof Leadership Podcast

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You know how to do a vacation. Well, but time off won't heal you because the problem is how you spend your time on.

Takeaways

Our relational circles have expanded due to technology, leading to overwhelm and burnout.
Setting boundaries and prioritizing relationships are essential for managing the constant pressure of life.
Managing energy and identifying peak productivity hours can help optimize productivity and prevent burnout.
Creating a daily routine that includes self-care practices and intentional social interactions can contribute to overall well-being and balance. Prioritize your 'green zone' to optimize your time, energy, and efforts.
Eliminate distractions and focus on deep work to produce your best work.
Manage interruptions and develop a disciplined approach to work.
Take extended breaks to rest and rejuvenate, allowing for personal growth and increased productivity.

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Ep 161: Discovering Your Voice, Embracing the Challenge, and Conquering Your Fears with Craig Groeschel

Mon, 01 Jul 2024 09:10:00 -0000

Have you ever felt called to start something new, but fear held you back? Is it really possible to be successful without feeling 100% ready?

In today’s episode we share with you the interview that I had the honor to be part of with Pastor Craig Groeschel. We discuss

The art of starting a business
Recognizing the need for systems and structures
Overcoming assumptions and embracing your unique leadership style

Starting a new business or ministry comes with its challenges and surprises. I encourage you to put your faith into action and NEVER GIVE UP! Having the right people around you will shape your journey in a positive way.

Friend, you have a unique voice that has the power to create change, so take the courage to start something today! Let us know what you’re starting by tagging us at @craiggroeschel and @biancaolthoff.

XO,

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Guest

Craig Groeschel

Leadership Podcast https://www.life.church/leadershippodcast/

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Whenever the road gets tough, people are going to quit.

Takeaways

Have a strong conviction and belief in what you are meant to do.

Surround yourself with people who compliment your weaknesses and push you to think differently.

Have faith and a sense of hope that you will succeed.

Don't let the lack of a team or resources hold you back from starting something.

Embrace your unique voice and be true to yourself.

Failure is a part of the journey, but resilience is key to success.

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Ep 160: Finding Strength When You're Weary, Unlocking Joy in Every Season, Maximizing Your Potential with Priscilla Shirer

Mon, 24 Jun 2024 08:00:00 -0000

Ever feel like you're stuck in a season of life that just doesn't feel right? Wondering if God's promises still hold true?

Buckle up for an inspiring conversation with Priscilla Shirer, a powerhouse woman of faith who is a communicator, author, Bible teacher, and actress! Priscilla opens up about her journey to becoming the woman of God and influential communicator she is today. She shares the story of her early involvement in ministry and how God has been faithful throughout her life.

Priscilla shares words of encouragement and shares more on the following:

Lessons learned through seasons of disappointment and loss
Words of wisdom for those feeling discouraged or burnt out
Finding joy and purpose in every season
The Power of Ephesians 3:20

There is joy to be found in EVERY season of life. Share this episode with someone who needs a boost of encouragement! Tag @priscillashirer and me @biancaolthoff and let us know what season you are in right now?

Love you,

RESOURCES/LINKS

Guest

Priscilla Shirer https://www.goingbeyond.com/ministry/biography/

Link to all of Priscilla’s Books: https://www.goingbeyond.com/product-category/books/

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I get to ask questions of God without questioning God.

Takeaways

Treasuring each season of life and finding joy in the present moment is important.

Studying the Word of God is a lifelong pursuit that can be influenced by mentors and family.

God's ability to exceed our expectations and do immeasurably more than we can ask or imagine is a source of hope and trust.

Seasons of disappointment and loss can be opportunities for growth and a deeper understanding of God's plans.

Having mentors and role models can provide guidance and inspiration in our own journeys.

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Ep 159: Marked for Greatness, Unlocking Your Power in Christ and Living With Purpose with Bianca Juarez Olthoff

Mon, 17 Jun 2024 08:00:00 -0000

Are you fulfilling your God given destiny and unlocking your power? How have you embraced your calling with boldness and authority?

In this episode, I share a teaching from the book of Mark given at The Father’s House Orange County. In it I delve into the theme of being marked for power and purpose. We are marked by God, and with this divine marking comes the power to overcome any bondage or sin.

Some of the key takeaways are:

Being Marked by God: Exploring the profound concept that each one of us is marked by God, instilled with a unique purpose and the power to fulfill it.
Lessons from the book of Mark: The book of Mark presents a radical explanation of the supernatural power of Jesus and the power that we, as disciples, possess.
The Authority of Jesus: I focus on the authority of Jesus, particularly his ability to cast out demons, showcasing the extent of his divine power.
Confronting Spirits: I encourage you to recognize and confront the spirits that may be tormenting you, emphasizing the importance of acknowledging these challenges in order to overcome them.
Embrace Your Calling: I urge you to embrace your calling with boldness and authority, stepping into the power that has been bestowed upon you.

Friend, I want you to recognize the power within you, confront the spirits that torment you, and embrace your divine calling with boldness and authority. Remember, you are marked by God for a unique purpose. Step into your power and fulfill your destiny.

You are MARKED for power and purpose. Embrace it! Let me know how you are stepping into your authority, confronting your challenges, and boldly embracing your calling by tagging me @biancaolthoff.

Love you,

RESOURCES/LINKS

MARK’D Series

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I want you to know that you are marked and that you have power to do what God's called you to do.

Takeaways

We are marked by God and have the power to overcome any bondage or sin.
The book of Mark emphasizes the supernatural power of Jesus and the power we possess as disciples.
We have the authority to confront and cast out the spirits that may be tormenting us.
Embracing our calling requires stepping out of our comfort zone and confronting the spirits that hold us back.

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Book: The Garden Within: Where the War with Your Emotions Ends and Your Most Powerful Life Begins

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Ep158: From Rejection to Reconciliation, Healing Wounds and Building a More Inclusive Church with Dr. Anita Phillips

Mon, 10 Jun 2024 08:00:00 -0000

Have you ever experienced the pain of exclusion and rejection, particularly within the church?

Gird your loins friends because in today’s enlightening conversation with Dr. Anita Phillips we discuss the issues of race, exclusion and rejection that are often overlooked within the church. We also talk about the role that our emotions play in having healthy conversations and the impact they can have in leading to greater understanding and acceptance.

We discuss and dive deep into some key points that can help us reflect in our own experiences and attitudes like:

Psychological safety and belonging
Understanding the role of trauma and healing
The need for humility, empathy, and intentional action in healing
Regulating our emotions so that they don’t tell us what is right but our Bible does

Dr. Anita’s words serve as a powerful reminder that the church, like any community, must continually strive for growth, inclusivity, and understanding. Through open conversations like this one, we can all learn, grow, and work towards a better future.

Show Dr. Anita some love! Let us know how you are overcoming your own challenges by tagging us @dranitaphillips and @biancaolthoff.

XO,

RESOURCES/LINKS

Guest

Dr. Anita Phillips

In The Light with Dr Anita Phillips // The Betrayal Podcast Episode

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The absence of humility is destroying us and it's necessary. Humility is the healing balm that is missing.

Takeaways

Experiencing rejection activates the same part of the brain as physical pain, highlighting the emotional toll of exclusion.

Creating psychological safety and a sense of belonging is crucial for individuals to take risks and reach out to others.

The church must address issues of race and create a safe space for healing and reconciliation.

Curiosity about different perspectives and cultures can lead to a deeper understanding of God and a more inclusive church.

Humility, empathy, and intentional action are necessary to heal and transform the church.

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Ep 157: Engaging With The Holy Spirit, Discovering Purpose, and Sharing His Love with Alex Seeley

Mon, 03 Jun 2024 08:00:00 -0000

Imagine waking up each day and having a fresh encounter with the Holy Spirit. How would that empower you in your daily life and ministry?

My good friend Alex Seeley has had profound experiences with the Holy Spirit since she was a young girl. She shares some of her stories and we discuss:

The impact of the Holy Spirit in our lives
The blessings that come from living in relationship with Holy Spirit

Nurturing a relationship and seeking a fresh encounter with the Holy Spirit brings empowerment, renewed strength and inspiration. What blessings have you discovered from living in an ongoing relationship with the Holy Spirit? Share your insights by tagging Alex @alexseeley and me @biancaolthoff.

Love you,

RESOURCES/LINKS

Guest

Alex Seeley

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I'm on mission to bring Jesus to a generation. And the most beautiful thing is, when they see that God sees them, it opens their heart and disarms them. And that's really what the Holy Spirit does.

Takeaways

Encountering the Holy Spirit brings a tangible and transformative presence into one's life.
Living in relationship with the Holy Spirit brings blessings of peace, freedom, and fearlessness.
Asking for a fresh encounter with the Holy Spirit empowers believers for ministry and service.
The Holy Spirit enables believers to be used by God to bring healing, prophecy, and love to others.

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Ep 156: Your Plan For Pain // Leading Through Pain Series with Bianca Juarez Olthoff

Wed, 24 Apr 2024 07:00:00 -0000

Do you have a “game plan for crisis”? Is your goal to finish well in life?

Just as athletes prepare for unexpected challenges, we should also anticipate the potential for crisis in our lives and be ready with strategies. Rest and rehabilitation are two strategies that Jesus used to intentionally take time for rest and healing. This serves as a reminder that rest is not a sign of weakness but a necessary part of our well-being.

I shared a framework with my church team that has helped me build a plan to navigate adversity. It is the acronym CHIME which stands for Connection, Hope, Identity, Meaning, and Empowerment. This intentional approach helps us face challenges head-on.

Friend, I invite you to reflect on your own lives, consider your responses to crises, and intentionally build resilience. Let me know how your plan for pain is coming along by tagging me @biancaolthoff

XO,

RESOURCES/LINKS

Assignment

Build a plan for pain using the CHIME framework: Connection, Hope, Identity, Meaning, and Empowerment.

Quote

If you don't turn your pain into purpose or meaning, it will be a stumbling block that you can't get over.

Takeaways

Having a game plan for crisis is essential for finishing well in life.
It is important to be prepared for potential crises such as loss, death, unemployment, divorce, illness, and more.
Rest and rehabilitation are both necessary for our well-being and growth.
Knowing when to rest and when to seek rehabilitation is crucial for maintaining our physical, emotional, and spiritual health.
Jesus' example shows the importance of taking time for rest and solitude, as well as seeking God's presence and guidance. Take care of yourself and don't rely on others to fix or heal you.
Build a plan for pain using the CHIME framework: Connection, Hope, Identity, Meaning, and Empowerment.
Know who you are and find purpose in your pain.
Rely on the empowerment of the Holy Spirit.
Create a plan for your pain to have handles for healing.

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Ep 155: Healing From Trauma // Leading Through Pain Series with Bianca Juarez Olthoff

Tue, 23 Apr 2024 07:00:00 -0000

Do you know how to acknowledge and process trauma effectively? Are you in need of strategies to help you through the process?

You know I love to talk about how my “Bible Boyfriend” Paul The Apostle had grit, resilience and endurance. But what I had never spoken about before was all of the painful trauma that he had also experienced. Despite being beaten, battered, bludgeoned, and abused many times, Paul found the strength in God to lead in the midst of his trauma.

Ignoring or denying the existence of trauma in our lives is risky and can hinder our healing. That is why vulnerability is key to be able to address the trauma that we’re going through. Practice trauma-informed leadership by:

Understanding what trauma is and what it is not
Having honest and vulnerable conversations about pain
Starting the healing process with trusted individuals

Trauma impacts different aspects of our lives and it impacts those around us too. Don’t allow unhealthy coping mechanisms to keep you stuck in the pain. Seek help from professionals and prayerfully go to God for comfort.

Friend, acknowledging and processing trauma is crucial. Ignoring or denying it only prolongs the healing process. Are you finding purpose in your pain? Let me know by tagging me @biancaolthoff

Love you,

RESOURCES/LINKS

Assignment

Create a life map: Identify the trauma in your life over the past 10 years.

Quote

The idea of being vulnerable feels terrifying, but we will never heal what we conceal.

Takeaways

Trauma is our response to a painful event, and it can be physical, emotional, spiritual, or mental.
It is important to acknowledge and process trauma rather than ignoring or denying it.
There are three types of trauma: acute, chronic, and complex.
The healing process involves processing the pain with trusted people, prayerfully seeking God's comfort, and finding purpose in the trauma.

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Ep 154: Commitment to Healing // Leading Through Pain Series with Bianca Juarez Olthoff

Mon, 22 Apr 2024 07:00:00 -0000

Have you ever found yourself avoiding pain instead of facing it? I’ve been there too, friend.

That is why I am sharing a three-part series on healing through pain. In today’s episode, I want to start by emphasizing the importance of acknowledging and embracing pain rather than avoiding it.

It is important to build a strong foundation and develop daily disciplines to navigate pain effectively. We do this by identifying the root cause of pain. You can not solve the pain unless you:

Acknowledge that there’s a problem: Name the pain.
Diagnose the problem: What’s the issue behind the issue? What’s the feeling behind the feeling?
Treat the problem: What needs to be fixed? Who can or should speak into this? What is the root? What is needed to heal?
Revisit: Be committed to the healing process.

Are you interested in your healing or are you committed to your healing? Identify the pain, sit in the pain and the pain will lose its power. Let’s be honest about where we’re at while being intentional about our healing. Let me know where you’re at by tagging me @biancaolthoff

XO,

RESOURCES/LINKS

Homework

Identify where your pain is coming from:
Pain of growth
Pain of self
Pain of circumstance
What is the root cause of your pain?

Quote

The number one thing that I see, people bailing out of their calling, their vocation or ministry or quitting a church, is pain.

Takeaways

Pain should be acknowledged and embraced rather than avoided.
Building a strong foundation and developing daily disciplines are crucial for leading through pain.
Identifying the root cause of pain is essential for effective healing.
Treating the problem requires a holistic approach, considering both spiritual and practical aspects.
Commitment to the healing process is necessary for long-term growth and well-being.

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ReLeader: How To Fix What You Didn't Break

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Ep 153: BONUS The Role of a Re-Leader and The Impact of Rebuilders in Leadership with Jon Chasteen and Bianca Juarez Olthoff

Mon, 15 Apr 2024 07:00:00 -0000

What happens when a crisis in leadership affects an organization? Is the opportunity for restoration and rebuilding possible? Yes it is!

Dr. Jon Chasteen is on the podcast today. He is a husband and father, an author, the Lead Pastor of Victory.Church, and the Former University & Seminary President. Our conversation helps us understand better:

How we can rebuild after a leadership crisis
The role and challenges of a Re-Leader
The impact of foundation building
Planting seeds for future generations
Overcoming weariness and burnout

The challenges of rebuilding are real. It is important that we don’t despise the small beginnings because they will lead to the rewards of re-leading in marriage, business, and other aspects of life. Fixing what you didn’t break is hard. Navigating it can make us feel weary or stuck in the process. Remember, doing hard things with perseverance allows God to show up and bring transformation.

Not only is my friend Jon teaching us how to shift our mindset to view crisis as an opportunity for growth and improvement, we are also getting strategies on how to do hard things, lead through a mess, and find strength to keep moving forward.

Restoration is possible, friend! Let us know how you are making progress rebuilding your life by tagging us @biancaolthoff and @jonchasteen

XO,

RESOURCES/LINKS

Guest

Jon Chasteen http://releader.co

Quote

And the real question for every, really every real eater is am I willing to plant a tree and build something that I may never taste the fruit of it.

Takeaways

Re-leading requires patience and trust-building.

Don't despise small beginnings; they are essential for growth.

Re-leading can be challenging and discouraging, but it is a calling.

Zoom out and envision the long-term impact of your re-leading journey.

Doing hard things allows God to show up and bring transformation.

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Ep 152: BONUS The Transformative Power of Vulnerability, Revival and Authentic Community with Jennie Allen and Bianca Juarez Olthoff

Mon, 08 Apr 2024 07:00:00 -0000

Are you holding back in being vulnerable with others? Is not being part of an authentic community a factor?

I had a deep discussion with my friend Jennie Allen on all things emotions and vulnerability. Jennie is founder and visionary of IF:Gathering, a writer, podcaster and public speaker who will be sharing with us:

There is power in friendship
How to pursue God-Sized dreams
Creating space for vulnerability
Emotional intelligence and spiritual maturity
Healing through confession
Living wholeheartedly and authentically

Friends, finding and being part of an authentic community is HUGE because it contributes to personal transformation and growth. And transformation begins by being vulnerable. And if you can’t find a community like that follow Jennie’s advice and start your own. You can do this!

Jennie’s heart for revival and vulnerability is contagious! Let us know how you are being transformed by tagging me @biancaolthoff and @jennieallen.

Love you,

RESOURCES/LINKS

Guest

Jennie Allen jennieallen.com

Instagram: @jennieallen

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Because I wasn't comfortable with emotions in myself, I wouldn't allow myself to feel them and because I wouldn't feel them, I would keep getting stuck in places that God wanted to free me.

Takeaways

Authentic friendships and support are essential for pursuing God-sized dreams.
Emotional intelligence and spiritual maturity are key to personal growth and revival.
Confession and vulnerability lead to healing and freedom.
Living wholeheartedly involves embracing and processing emotions.

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Ep 151: BONUS Speaking Truth Unashamedly, Confession and Accountability with Tim Ross and Bianca Juarez Olthoff

Mon, 01 Apr 2024 07:00:00 -0000

Have you ever been misinterpreted or criticized by something you said? Are you trying to navigate the challenges of cancel-culture while maintaining your commitment to speaking the truth?

My friend Tim Ross, and my guest on today’s show, is a podcaster, social media influencer, author, and preacher who’s had his experiences with controversy and conflict, both in public and on social media.

Tim shares how he remains unashamed in speaking the truth. He also provides insights on:

Responding to criticism
Handling conflict in a mature and loving manner
Addressing strong language and misinterpretation

Anyone who has a public platform knows that there will always be online criticism and sometimes controversy. Knowing when not to engage is important.

Having a space for people to be seen, heard, known, and loved is important for healing from this and other types of trauma. Therapy and confession are a crucial role in the healing process.

Show your appreciation to Tim by tagging him @Upsetthegram and me @biancaolthoff.

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RESOURCES/LINKS

Guest

Tim Ross upsettheworld.com

The Basement Podcast

Tim Ross Instagram

Tim Ross YouTube

B-Side App (Apple) (Google Play)

Quote

Confession is literally good for the soul. It's absolutely good for the soul. And there's a lot of people that confess vertically, but they don't do it horizontally, and therefore they actually don't get healed.

Takeaways

Dealing with controversy and conflict requires a strong sense of identity and purpose.
Navigating cancel-culture involves staying true to one's beliefs and not being swayed by public opinion.
Responding to criticism and controversy should be done with maturity, love, and a willingness to engage in dialogue.
Using strong language can be effective in conveying strong emotions, but it is important to consider the context and potential misinterpretation.

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Ep 150: Navigating Personal Challenges, Finding Hope and Restoration with Brandi Wilson and Bianca Juarez Olthoff

Mon, 25 Mar 2024 07:00:00 -0000

Are you going through a personal crisis that has been made public? Have you faced scrutiny because of it? Going through challenges and painful experiences is difficult. But know this, friend: YOU ARE NOT ALONE.

Brandi Wilson is an author, coach, speaker, and my friend. We will listen to her personal journey of going through divorce and starting over. She discusses the challenges she faced as a pastor's wife and the public fallout of her marriage ending.

For someone going through a divorce, maintaining a sense of self and direction amidst the turmoil of the process can be shattering. That’s why it’s important to take time for healing and to prioritize personal growth after a divorce.

Finding hope and sense of restoration after the end of a significant relationship is possible. Healing will come and restoration is found in Jesus. Tag me @biancaolthoff and @lovebrandiwilson to share your experience.

Love you,

RESOURCES/LINKS

Brandi Wilson https://lovebrandiwilson.com/

Books - Better Than Ok: Finding Hope and Healing After Your Marriage Ends

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A role in a title can be taken away, but no one can take God's call on your life but Him.

Takeaways

Divorce can be a challenging and painful experience, but it also offers an opportunity for personal growth and starting over.
Supporting friends going through divorce requires empathy, patience, and allowing them to grieve and heal at their own pace.
It is important to avoid speaking negatively about the ex-spouse in front of children and to create a safe and honest environment for them.
Before starting to date again after divorce, it is crucial to take time to heal, seek therapy if needed, and focus on personal growth.
God is with you in the midst of divorce and can bring healing, restoration, and a new beginning.

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Ep 149: Food as a Source of Joy And the Power of Bringing People Together with Aarti Sequeira and Bianca Juarez Olthoff

Mon, 18 Mar 2024 07:00:00 -0000

Did you know that food has the ability to elevate moods and foster connections? Are you ready to find healing and restoration in the kitchen?

My friend and renowned chef, Aarti Sequeira, shares how she found her passion for cooking and how it can be a source of peace, connection, and healing. Find out how:

Food can lift spirits and bring people together
Cooking as a reflection of life
Finding peace in the kitchen

You know that it’s always a party when Aarti is around! She shares a recipe for Persian Spinach and Eggs and encourages listeners to cook and share your creations with us by tagging me @biancaolthoff and @aartipaartipics

RESOURCES/LINKS

Guest

Aarti Sequeira

Books

My Family Recipe Journal

An American Kitchen with an Indian Soul

Ep 42: Soul Food for Your Ears with Aarti Sequeira

Persian Spinach and Eggs Recipe Video

Persian Spinach and Eggs (Nargesi)

Ingredients:

1 red onion, finely chopped
1 pound of baby spinach (or regular spinach), washed and drained
1/2 teaspoon turmeric
Salt and pepper, to taste
1 to 2 large eggs per person

Instructions:

Heat olive oil in a large pan over medium heat.
Sauté the chopped onion until it turns light and translucent.
Add the spinach to the pan and cook until wilted (about 10 minutes). You might need to add the spinach in two batches.
Cook until excess water evaporates.
Season with turmeric, salt, and pepper.
Create small wells in the spinach using a spoon and crack the eggs into these wells.
Cover the pan and cook for a few minutes until the eggs reach your desired doneness.
Serve the Persian Spinach and Eggs on its own or with some bread (such as lavash, barbari, Turkish pide, or pita bread).

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I'm constantly amazed, flabbergasted, humbled by the fact that, you know, the first thing that Jesus did for his disciples after he resurrected was to cook for them.

Takeaways

New beginnings can lead to unexpected and fulfilling paths.
Mistakes in cooking can often lead to delicious surprises.
Cooking can be a source of peace, connection, and healing.
Food has the power to lift spirits and bring people together.
The transformative way that cooking brings joy to our lives.

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Ep 148: Finding Your Voice as a Women in Ministry and Leadership with Bianca Juarez Olthoff

Mon, 11 Mar 2024 07:00:00 -0000

Do you have a calling as a woman in ministry or in leadership and are facing opposition and resistance? If God called you, He will make a way!

I’m always in awe at the stories that I hear from other women in ministry. Some knew their calling from early on. Others, like me, found themselves “unintentionally” entering into ministry and how my ambitions and desires changed over time because of God’s call in my life. No one said this would be easy. That’s why I share my stories in order to encourage you. I remember how I:

Faced rejection from seminary
Was asked to step down from leadership roles
Encountered opposition and resistance along the way
Understood my calling and committed to personal growth

Despite the challenges, I want you to know that if God calls you, He will make a way. My commitment is to God and to sharing His word. Don’t let difficulties discourage you from pursuing your calling. Stay away from comparison and surround yourself with truth-tellers that will help you persevere and not give up.

Friend, it all starts with you. Remember: Be what you want to see! Share your story of perseverance by tagging me @biancaolthoff.

RESOURCES/LINKS

Bianca Juarez Olthoff - Women in Ministry

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Don't compare your calling to someone else's. Do what the Lord has called you to do and let Him do the rest.

Takeaways

God's calling often unfolds gradually and unexpectedly, and it may require us to step out of our comfort zones.
Rejection and opposition can be discouraging, but they should not deter us from pursuing our calling.
Women in ministry often face unique challenges and may encounter resistance from both men and women.
If God calls you, He will make a way for you to fulfill your purpose.
Preaching the word of God should be the focus, regardless of gender or societal expectations. Representation and inclusion are crucial in leadership spaces, and efforts should be made to invite and welcome diverse voices.
Men should take responsibility for creating an inclusive and respectful environment for women in leadership.
Women in leadership face unique challenges, including the pressure to navigate communication and appearance expectations.
Leadership is not easy, but it requires perseverance and a commitment to personal growth.
Women should find their voice and be patient, understanding that their calling may take time to fully develop.
Surrounding oneself with truth-tellers and receiving constructive criticism is essential for personal and leadership growth.
Individuals should strive to be the change they want to see in the world, creating a more inclusive and equitable environment.

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Ep 147: Unlocking Your Emotional Superpower And Understanding Your Programming with Mike Foster and Bianca Juarez Olthoff

Mon, 04 Mar 2024 10:00:00 -0000

Do you need massive clarity on how to thrive? If you are ready for a framework that will help you to live authentically by unlocking your highest emotional need, this is the episode for you!

My guest today is best-selling author, speaker, and executive coach Mike Foster. He will help us understand the power of our primal questions. We go over:

Shifting from the scramble to the primal truth
How our highest emotional needs drive our behavior
How identifying our primal question can lead to personal growth and transformation

Mike explains the seven primal questions and shares a simple yet powerful way to uncover your hidden programming, emotional needs, and supernatural gifts. He also shares the importance of understanding ourselves and others in order to build healthier relationships.

Share with us how you are embracing your primal power by tagging us @biancaolthoff and @mikefoster2000

XO,

RESOURCES/LINKS

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We spend a lot of time cutting branches instead of dealing with the roots and really dealing with the core of who we are and really understanding that.

Takeaways

Understanding our primal question can lead to personal growth and transformation.
Identifying our highest emotional need allows us to make better choices and live in our truth.
Recognizing the primal questions of others can help us build healthier relationships.
Living in the truth of our primal question empowers us to overcome challenges and pursue our purpose.

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Ep 146: Facing Trauma, Finding Healing Through Grieving, And Uncollapsible Soul with Mike Noriega and Bianca Juarez Olthoff

Mon, 26 Feb 2024 06:10:00 -0000

How can faith help you heal from trauma and rebuild your life? What are some of the benefits of grieving and reframing pain after a collapse?

My guest today is my friend Mike Noriega who shares his experience of starting over after facing trauma. Mike shares his story of the collapse of a building in Surfside, Florida, which resulted in the loss of his grandmother.

He discusses the concept of:

What is an uncollapsible soul
Finding healing through grieving
Finding comfort and strength in faith during this difficult time

Mike opens up about the collapse of his marriage and the healing process he went through. He emphasizes the importance of grief, community, and reframing pain in the journey of rebuilding after a collapse.

Let Mike and I know how you are navigating difficult times by tagging us @biancaolthoff and @themikenoriega

Love,

RESOURCES/LINKS

Guest

Mike Noriega

Website: uncollapsablesoul.com

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When you can go through things that will break your heart, but not allow them to break your spirit, when you don't allow something to go from being a life season to a life sentence, that's how you make your soul uncollapsible.

Takeaways

Facing trauma and starting over requires strength and faith.
An uncollapsible soul is one that can endure pain and loss without losing hope or purpose.
Grief and healing are essential steps in the process of rebuilding after a collapse.
Community and connection play a crucial role in finding support and healing.

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Ep 145: The Power Of Faith And Community And Ordinary Angels with Andrew Erwin and Bianca Juarez Olthoff

Mon, 19 Feb 2024 08:00:00 -0000

Are you drawn to underdog stories like I am? Have you ever witnessed ordinary people who find themselves in extraordinary circumstances and rise to the occasion?

You don’t want to miss out on this episode where I talk to Andy Erwin, producer of the film Ordinary Angels, about the uplifting and emotional film based on this true story. This is a story of a hairdresser who becomes a hero and a friend to a widowed father and his two daughters.

Andrew and I discuss:

The shift in faith-based films
The impact of telling authentic stories
The criticism and challenges faced by Christian films

Friends, we get the scoop on the story behind the film Ordinary Angels and how it came to be. Andrew tells us about the involvement of Dave Matthews and John Berg in championing the project. He also touches on the message of the film, which focuses on finding purpose and the church as a place of hope.

I love to see excellence portrayed in faith-based films. That’s why I loved watching Ordinary Angels in theaters, and I hope you go watch it too! If you've seen the film, head on over to Instagram and let’s show Andrew some love. You can use #OrdinaryAngelsMovie and tag me @biancaolthoff and @KingdomStoryCompany

Love,

RESOURCES/LINKS

Ordinary Angels will be available in theaters nationwide on February 23, 2024

OrdinaryAngels.movie

Official Trailer

Starring: Hilary Swank, Alan Ritchson, Nancy Travis, Tamala Jones, Drew Powell, Amy Acker, Skywalker Hughes, Emily Mitchell

Directed by: Jon Gunn

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All of us are messy. All of us are desperately in need of redemption and hope.

Takeaways

Faith-based films are experiencing a shift towards more authentic storytelling.
The film 'Ordinary Angels' was inspired by a true story and championed by Dave Matthews and John Berg.
The film explores the themes of purpose and the church as a place of hope.
Christian films should strive for authenticity and not shy away from portraying real-life struggles.

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Necessary Endings // When to Say Good Bye // Boundary Lines // Bianca Olthoff

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Ep 144: How To Say Goodbye // Draw The Line Series with Bianca Juarez Olthoff

Thu, 15 Feb 2024 06:00:00 -0000

Are there things in your life today that don’t align with your vision of tomorrow? What do you need to leave behind as you move forward into the future that God has for you?

It’s hard to let go of things. Trust me, I know. It is important to realize that in order for us to experience personal growth and find spiritual success, we need to have necessary endings in our lives.

Boundaries are necessary, and so are endings. That’s why today we will explore:

The need to manage expectations and investments in our relationships
The concept of pruning and setting boundaries
The emotional epidemic of entitlement
The dangers of enabling others

If there is a relationship or a situation that is holding you back from reaching your best self, it’s time to let it go. Trust God and His plan for your life.

If this series has made an impact in your life, share it with me by tagging me @biancaolthoff

I Love you, friend,

RESOURCES/LINKS

Quote

If somebody says that they love you, but they reject your boundaries, they're not for you.

Takeaways

Endings are hard, but they are necessary for growth and spiritual success.
Setting boundaries is an act of love and self-care.
Evaluate your expectations and investments in relationships.
Letting go of relationships and situations that no longer fit your future is essential for personal growth and fulfilling God's plan for your life.

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Ep 143: How To Have Sexual Boundaries // Draw The Line Series with Bianca Juarez Olthoff

Wed, 14 Feb 2024 06:00:00 -0000

Do you find it hard to make sense of the different views on sex in culture? Is it time for you to reevaluate your view of sex? Join me on today’s episode to have an open and honest conversation on… sex.

Society keeps sending mixed signals on what sex is all about. I want us to discuss the topic of sexual boundaries but from a Biblical perspective. It's high time we redeem the narrative that the enemy has stolen from us! That is why we will explore:

God's original, good, and divine design for sex
Biblical view of sex vs. Cultural view
Freedom from sexual shame

We all need practical handles on sexual boundaries in marriage and for singles. Because of that, I’m highlighting the importance of respect, communication, accountability, and non-sexual intimacy.

Sex was God's idea! He intended it for our good. Don’t let the enemy steal that from you. I want you to know that whatever has happened in your life, you can find forgiveness through Jesus and develop a personal intimate relationship with Him.

If you found this topic helpful, let me know by tagging me @biancaolthoff

Love you friend,

RESOURCES/LINKS

Quote

I don't want social media. I don't want pop culture. I don't want the ivory tower of academia to define what sex is. No. Sex was God's idea.

Takeaways

Sexual boundaries are for our benefit and not a burden.
Open and honest conversations about sex are necessary in order to break free from shame and cultural narratives.
In marriage, it is important to have regular communication about sexual expectations and desires.
For singles, setting personal boundaries and seeking accountability are key to maintaining purity.
Sex does not guarantee intimacy, and true intimacy is built on emotional and verbal communion.

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Ep 142: How To Have Friendship Boundaries // Draw The Line Series with Bianca Juarez Olthoff

Tue, 13 Feb 2024 06:00:00 -0000

Have you turned your boundary line into a boundary wall? If you find yourself lonely because of unrealistic boundaries, today you can take a sledge hammer and Bring.The.Wall.Down.

I want us to have a real talk and address the issues of isolation and loneliness that many people experience. I want to emphasize:

The importance of community and relationships
The need for boundaries in friendships
The challenges that come with maintaining healthy relationships
The different levels of friendships
Friendship is not codependency

In some cases we can find ourselves looking at our friends and thinking; “what the heck?” That’s because we don’t have a clear definition of what “friend" means and we’ve given access to the wrong people into our friendship circles. I want you to walk away knowing what friendship IS and IS NOT.

Remember that true friendship and fulfillment can be found in Jesus.

Tag me @biancaolthoff and let me know what healthy lines you’ve drawn in your life.

Love you,

RESOURCES/LINKS

TFHOC Miseducation of Love Series

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People should be loved biblically, valued equally, but treated differently.

Takeaways

The benefits of community and relationships help against loneliness and isolation

Different levels of friendship: casual, close & core

The importance of investing in healthy friendships

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Ep 141: How To Have Personal Boundaries // Draw The Line Series with Bianca Juarez Olthoff

Mon, 12 Feb 2024 06:00:00 -0000

Do you know how to establish healthy boundaries in your life? Are your boundaries clear to you and to others? Today we start a new series on just that!

This week, I’ll be discussing the importance of drawing clear boundaries and how they can elevate your life. There have been instances where I have allowed my boundaries to be crossed - like a tiny incident I had at an airport. That and other experiences have taught me to be very aware of when my boundaries are being crossed. In this episode, you will walk away knowing:

The need for clear boundaries
Finding healing through grieving
How God created boundaries to bring order out of chaos
Consequences for broken boundaries

We will also explore the different types of boundaries, including physical: sexual, emotional, spiritual, and financial boundaries. Establishing healthy boundaries can lead to personal growth, healthier relationships, and a stronger sense of self.

I encourage you to evaluate your own boundaries and seek God's guidance in establishing healthy boundaries in your life. Let me know what are some of the healthy boundaries you have established by tagging me @biancaolthoff

Love,

RESOURCES/LINKS

Takeaways

Boundaries are not meant to limit us, but to elevate us.
Boundaries define who we are and what we are willing to accept.
Different types of boundaries include physical, sexual, emotional, spiritual, and financial boundaries.
Setting and maintaining boundaries requires self-awareness, communication, and the guidance of the Holy Spirit.
Establishing healthy boundaries can lead to personal growth, healthier relationships, and a stronger sense of self.

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Ep 140: Finding Me After Losing Myself, Taking The Shame Off, And Walking In Purpose And Freedom with Real Talk Kim / Kimberly Jones and Bianca Juarez Olthoff

Mon, 05 Feb 2024 08:00:00 -0000

Have you ever felt like you don’t know who you are or what you are meant to do in life? Do you struggle with shame, guilt, or fear of rejection from others? If you answered yes to any of these questions, then you don’t want to miss this conversation with Real Talk Kim.

Kimberly Jones, a.k.a Real Talk Kim, is a preacher, podcaster, author, and speaker. Throughout our conversation she will share powerful words of encouragement and inspiration for those who feel lost and disconnected from themselves. You will walk away with practical handles on how to:

Move forward, let go of shame, and seek approval from God rather than people
Learn how to embrace new beginnings and transform your pain into purpose
Discover transformation and how to walk in your purpose

Healing from past loss and trauma can be a daunting task. We believe in the power of transformation through self-love and forgiveness. God uses our hot mess and turns it into our message.

Embrace your new beginning and step into your calling! Share with us how you have been inspired, challenged, and empowered by tagging me @biancaolthoff and @realtalkkim

Love you,

RESOURCES/LINKS

Guest

Real Talk Kim aka Kimberly Jones: realtalkkim.com

Instagram: @realtalkkim

Book: You Gotta Get Up

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Start in the middle of your mess. Just don't stay there putting a bandaid on your life. Get up, if you don't like your life, change it.

Takeaways

Learn how to turn your pain into purpose and live a fulfilling life
Believe that God has a plan for you and that He is not finished with you yet
Hear some real talk from a woman who has overcome loss, trauma, and addiction and is now a pastor, author, and speaker

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Ep 139: Rebuilding After Rejection, Knowing Your Worth and Value, And Even If with Anthony Evans and Bianca Juarez Olthoff

Mon, 29 Jan 2024 08:00:00 -0000

Are you coping with rejection and failure in your life? What if they are actually blessings in disguise? I have the privilege to discuss this with my guest today, none other than Gospel artist, producer, worship leader, artist, and author Anthony Evans.

Anthony shares his journey in music and writing, emphasizing the importance of seeking help and knowing one's worth. He also talks about:

Overcoming rejection
The intersection of faith and therapy
Stepping into opportunities outside of the church
Knowing when to say yes to new opportunities

Trusting in God’s plan when you don’t understand it is difficult. But that’s exactly what Anthony has done and encourages us to do. You might not be able to see it right away, but your sacrifice will have a positive impact in other people’s lives. Don’t give up now.

Friends, you have immense worth to God and to me. Let us know how you are valuing your life today by tagging me @BiancaOlthoff and @anthonyevansjr.

Love,

RESOURCES/LINKS

Guest

Anthony Evans: anthony-evans.com

Instagram: @anthonyevansjr

REVIVE - Hit single: Even If

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Once you have a solid view on what you're worth as a child of God, then you don't put yourself on sale.

Takeaways

Value yourself and see yourself the way God sees you.
Seek therapy to complement your faith journey.
Rejection can lead to unexpected opportunities and growth.
Know your worth and don't compromise your values.
Step outside of the church to make a broader impact.
Listen to your inner peace when making decisions.
Even in difficult times, continue to worship and trust God's plan.
Art comes at a cost, but it can transform hearts and souls.

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Ep 138: Dealing With Church Hurt, Offense Journal, And Ramming The Gate with Larry Brey Bianca Juarez Olthoff

Mon, 22 Jan 2024 08:00:00 -0000

Have you ever experienced church hurt? Is there an offense that has been causing you bitterness? If this is your case, I want you to know that I’m so sorry for the hurt that you have experienced.

My friend, Pastor Larry Brey, from Elevation Church, and I sat down to discuss the topic of church hurt and how to overcome it. Our goal is to parse out the realities of:

Dealing with and overcoming Church hurt
Recognizing offenses and processing them early
Practicing gratitude and focusing on personal growth

Church hurt is real. It could stem from a misunderstanding or something else. Please remember, the church didn’t hurt you, a person did. That’s why it is important to speak up and share your hurt. It is also equally important to listen and understand what others are saying and feeling.

Gratitude and offense journals are two practical ways to help you process this hurt. Tag me @BiancaOlthoff and @lbrey and let us know how this practice is making a difference in your life.

Love you,

RESOURCES/LINKS

Guest

Pastor Larry Brey

TFHOC Sermon: First Things First

IG:https://www.instagram.com/lbrey/?hl=en

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Any seed that is planted in silence will grow a fruit of bitterness.

Takeaways

Burying the past hurts and not letting them define your identity.
Use an offense journal to process and deal with offenses.
Take responsibility for your own actions and apologize when necessary.
Practice gratitude and focus on personal growth.

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Ep 137: Reframing our Relationship with Food - Day 5 The Weighting Game Series with Leslie Schilling and Bianca Juarez Olthoff

Fri, 19 Jan 2024 08:00:00 -0000

How can you view eating and food as a gift rather than a burden? What are some healthy behaviors that you can adopt outside of diet culture? Today's episode concludes a week-long exploration of dismantling diet culture and shifting the focus from weight loss to health.

All good things come to an end, but Leslie and I close out the series by giving you practical tips for health and wellbeing. We will be emphasizing the importance of:

Fueling your body
Reframing eating and food as a gift from God
Putting health into a positive perspective
Seeking help if you are struggling with disordered eating

Our hope is that you walk away from this series feeling loved, valued, and grateful for the wonderful body that you live in. You don’t need to conform to certain body standards imposed by others. But hear me when I say that if you are in a place where you are stuck or struggling, please, please, please seek help. You don’t have to walk through this alone. Self-care is important and professional help is available. Love and embrace your body and yourself just the way you are!

Thank you for joining us for this entire week of The Weighting Game series. And remember, you don’t have to allow diet culture and societal pressures to dictate how you view your body.

Share your food freedom journey with us by tagging me @biancaolthoff and @leslieschilling.

Love you friends,

RESOURCES/LINKS

Guest

Leslie Schilling: https://www.leslieschilling.com/

Quote

If you've been driving around for a decade with your gas light on, I invite you to eat breakfast.

Takeaways

Reframe eating and food as a gift from God
Overcome the fear of falling back into diet culture
Focus on regular and adequate eating, hydration, movement, and self-care
Seek help if struggling with disordered eating

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Ep 136: Addressing Toxic Detoxes - Day 4 The Weighting Game Series with Leslie Schilling and Bianca Juarez Olthoff

Thu, 18 Jan 2024 08:00:00 -0000

Are you ready to detox from toxic detoxes? Embracing food freedom begins by getting rid of practices that can be toxic to our bodies.

Our bodies are wise and intricate miracles. In order for us to function optimally, we need to be aware of diet culture by:

Listening to our bodies
Rebuilding a healthy relationship with food
Owning our worth and having guilt-free progress

Friend, you know yourself better than anyone else! Self-care is possible when you get in touch with your body outside of diet culture and trust it. Paying attention to your surroundings and the messages that you are listening to is key to taking your next steps toward food freedom.

Let us know how you are owning your worth beyond a number on a scale by tagging us @biancaolthoff and @leslieschilling. Don’t miss tomorrow’s episode. It is the last day, Day 5 of The Weighting Game series!

Love,

RESOURCES/LINKS

Guest

Leslie Schilling: https://www.leslieschilling.com/

Quote

Trust in a very wise body.

Takeaways

Detoxing from toxic practices and diet culture is essential for embracing food freedom.
Trusting our bodies' natural processes and listening to our internal cues is key to recalibrating our sense of health.
Intuitive eating is a self-care framework that helps us make peace with food and make choices that align with our values.
We owe no one a number on the scale and have the right to refuse unnecessary weight checks.
Detoxing toxic practices involves renouncing diet culture and embracing our worth beyond societal body standards.

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Ep 135: Dismantling Diet Culture - Day 3 The Weighting Game Series with Leslie Schilling and Bianca Juarez Olthoff

Wed, 17 Jan 2024 08:00:00 -0000

Are you aware of diet culture infiltrating safe spaces like school or church? Everyone is on a journey of their own. I want to make sure that as we talk about the impact of diet culture in the church, that we do it from a place of love, kindness, grace, health, and healing.

I believe that we can have meaningful conversations around the topic of weight by:

Being receptive to the needs of others
Extending grace and not shaming or judging others
Considering everyone’s individual circumstances

Friends, as you continue to walk with God, remember that He is compassionate and gracious. Ask Him to guide you as you grow in relationship with Him and learn to separate yourself from diet culture. Food is a gift from God!

Tag me @biancaolthoff and @leslieschilling and let us know how this conversation has transformed your mindset around food.

Love,

RESOURCES/LINKS

Guest

Leslie Schilling: https://www.leslieschilling.com/

Quote

Is it really biblical to be chasing a number on the scale?

Takeaways

Diet culture has infiltrated the church and made it an unsafe place for discussions about body image and health.
The 'body as a temple' verse has been misused to shame and judge others based on their appearance.
Fasting can be practiced in a healthy and holy way, but it is important to consider individual circumstances and avoid harmful behaviors.
Alternative fasting options, such as abstaining from social media or comparison, can be just as meaningful and impactful.
Self-discipline should be redefined as honoring hunger and taking care of our bodies, rather than pursuing a specific body size.
Toxic detoxes should be avoided, and emotional eating should be addressed with the help of therapy or other forms of support.

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Ep 134: Finding Happiness Beyond Weight Loss - Day 2 The Weighting Game Series with Leslie Schilling and Bianca Juarez Olthoff

Tue, 16 Jan 2024 08:00:00 -0000

Does it seem like everywhere you go someone is asking you for your weight? Are you tired of obsessing over the number on your weight scale? Real talk - I’m tired too!

Let’s be honest friends, talking about weight issues is uncomfortable. That’s why Registered Dietitian and Nutrition Therapist is back with us for day 2 of The Weighting Game series. Today we discuss:

The issues with the scale
Bodies are miracles, not math
Weight-centric training and health
The flaws of BMI and Body Fat Percentage
Recognizing disordered eating and body grief
Determining health and wholeness beyond numbers

There are so many dangers in pursuing an unrealistic body image. We need to recognize that body diversity is important in our society and that there is no one-size-fits-all definition of health. Overall health and well-being start with healthy connections and relationships. Let’s make it a goal to prioritize holistic health and freedom from diet culture.

You are not alone, friend. Tag me @biancaolthoff and @leslieschilling and share how you are finding food freedom in your life.

Love,

RESOURCES/LINKS

Guest

Leslie Schilling: https://www.leslieschilling.com/

Quote

We have to come to grips with the fact that you may never be in the body that this culture promised you.

Takeaways

Weight-centric training and the focus on the number on the scale can be harmful and perpetuate diet culture.
Health is multifaceted and cannot be determined solely by weight or body size.
Body diversity is important, and there is no one-size-fits-all definition of health.
Connections and relationships play a significant role in overall health and well-being.
BMI is not an accurate or reliable measure of health, and body fat percentage should be considered instead.
Disordered eating can manifest in various ways and is not limited to extreme cases.
Determining health and wholeness should involve regular nourishment, movement, good relationships, and self-care.
The goal is to prioritize holistic health and freedom from the constraints of diet culture.

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Ep 133: Defining Diet Culture - Day 1 The Weighting Game Series with Leslie Schilling and Bianca Juarez Olthoff

Mon, 15 Jan 2024 08:00:00 -0000

Is diet culture managing your life without you knowing it? Friends, we are starting this new year with a series of conversations around… food and diet. Today is day 1 of a new series called The Weighting Game.

Registered Dietician and Nutrition Specialist Leslie Schilling is my guest for the next five days where we will discuss the pervasive influence of diet culture in our lives. Today we explore:

The definition of diet culture
Negative relationship with food
Addressing skeptics
Diet culture in safe places
Gluttony as a heart problem

Diet culture has infiltrated many aspects of society, including our homes, medical visits, schools, and even churches. It is so important that we learn about the negative impact of diet culture in our communities and around body image and self-worth. You know I love a good challenge, and this conversation will challenge our traditional beliefs about food and eating.

Stay tuned till the end, friends, and take a quiz with me to help you assess your own relationship with diet culture. Tag me @biancaolthoff and @leslieschilling and let us know if diet culture is at the driver seat of your life. Come back tomorrow for Day 2 of The Weighting Game series!

Love you friends,

RESOURCES/LINKS

GuestLeslie Schilling: https://www.leslieschilling.com/

Quote

Diet culture is this system of beliefs that elevates thin bodies, also elevates certain types of foods, and equates thinness with health and worthiness and beauty. And it touches every part of our culture, everywhere we go.

Takeaways

Diet culture is a system of beliefs that equates thinness with health, worthiness, and beauty.
Diet culture permeates various aspects of society, including our homes, medical visits, schools, and churches.
Body diversity should be celebrated, and thinness should not be equated with beauty or worthiness.
Gluttony is a heart problem, not a problem of what or how much we eat.
Recognizing and challenging diet culture can lead to freedom and a healthier relationship with food.

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Ep 132: Perspectives, Self-Evaluation, And New Possibilities with Bianca Juarez Olthoff

Mon, 08 Jan 2024 16:18:00 -0000

Is it time for you to take a leap of faith and experience new things this year? Are you ready to orient your life toward what God has been calling you to? I’m glad you’re here, friend, because I want you to know that this can be your best year yet!

To have a successful year, we need to do some soul searching and examine ourselves. This is what I want you to know that:

New beginnings are possible
Self-evaluation is important
Common excuses can sabotage our future
Stepping out in faith is necessary

I want to be your guide as you go through the process of self-evaluation and consider who you are, where you are, and what you have. Feelings of inadequacy and lack of control can creep into our lives and keep us from finishing well. Let me help you assess where we are right now and begin your quest toward your new beginning.

Tag me @BiancaOlthoff as you declare boldly what the new is for you.

Love you friends,

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TAKEAWAYS

With every rising of the sun and setting of the moon, God gives us a new beginning.

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It's Time To Shine In Season Nine

Mon, 01 Jan 2024 08:00:00 -0000

It's time for the new! Yes, it's a new year and a new season for We're Going There. We all need a great do-over at some point in life.

Our guests come from different backgrounds giving their learnings and life lessons on how to start again. From Food Network star and chef Aarti Sequeira, to award winning gospel singer Anthony Evans Jr. From the straight up truth talking Real Talk Kim to the eye opening questions from counselor and coach Mike Foster.

Share this podcast with your friends and let's get others to join in the community of We're Going There. Don't forget to let me know how this season's conversations impact you by tagging me @BiancaOlthoff

Love,

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BONUS Ep 131: Five Steps To Choosing Your Word Or Phrase For The Year with Bianca Juarez Olthoff

Mon, 11 Dec 2023 09:00:00 -0000

Are you committed to starting the new year strong? In this bonus episode, I’m sharing my practice of choosing a word or phrase for the year. It's important to end the year strong and set oneself up for a strong new year.

That’s why I will be going through the five steps of choosing a word, which include evaluating the past year, thinking about what is needed in life, creating a list of words, visualizing and refining, and finally, committing to the chosen word. I share my personal example of choosing the word 'whole' for the upcoming year and encourage you to go through the process with me.

Takeaways

Ending the year strong is important for setting oneself up for a strong new year.
Choosing a word or phrase for the year can provide clarity and direction.
The five steps to choosing a word are: evaluate, think, create a list, visualize, and refine and commit.
Commitment to the chosen word is crucial for the practice to be effective.

Don’t forget to tag me @BiancaOlthoff to let me know what your word for 2024 is.

Love you friends,

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BONUS Ep 130: Perspective And Attitude Shift To Find Gratitude In Every Season with Melanie Nyema and Bianca Olthoff

Mon, 20 Nov 2023 09:00:00 -0000

Has it become difficult for you to be grateful? Are you ready to shift into a positive state of thinking? In this episode, my best friend Melanie Nyema and I chat about the gratitude practice that has positively shifted our attitudes and helped us walk through life in a different way.

We explore:

Finding gratitude in hard times
Strengthening relationships with gratitude
Cultivating a powerful attitude of gratitude

Expressing our gratitude can be difficult at times, but doing so will improve our physical, mental, and emotional well-being. Life is full of changes and transitions, and every season has its own beauty and purpose. Why not embrace and enjoy life by celebrating what we currently have and creating positive and meaningful memories with the ones we love.

Share your stories of gratitude or your Gr8tful list by tagging me @BiancaOlthoff and @MelanieNyema. Can’t wait for the next season of the podcast!

Love you friends,

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GUEST: Melanie Nyema

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BONUS Ep 129: The Power of Giving, Believing in the Impossible, Faith For Women and Girls with Bianca Olthoff

Mon, 13 Nov 2023 09:00:00 -0000

Is there a burning desire in your heart to help the less fortunate? Are you ready to sponsor women and girls around the world? I had the privilege of partnering with Convoy of Hope and being part of an event in Puerto Rico to do just that.

We were able to open up the Word of God together and speak to the potential of young girls as individuals. The girls had space and margin to write about their dreams. I too was reminded of my BIG dream:

• Empower young girls and women

• Give back to local communities and churches

• Resource the island to become a hub for the Caribbean

Even though we have not hit the goal yet, we will keep moving towards it. It is our job to believe and it is God’s job to execute it. You can still sponsor a girl for only $25 a year or the amount that God puts in your heart by visiting: convoyofhope.org/bianca

Remember, your dream might seem wildly impossible and you might be disappointed that you have not reached your goal, but know that our God is able and that He is the God of the impossible.

I am grateful for the generous donations of all of you who have already sponsored a girl. Share your stories of hope with us by tagging @BiancaOlthoff and @convoywomen

Love you,

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Ep 128: Jenna Kutcher on Living With Ease, Embracing New Beginnings and Living A Blended Life

Mon, 16 Oct 2023 06:00:00 -0000

Do you want to start something new? Are you looking for ways to simplify your life? Does it ever feel like you’re struggling to balance all the things in your life? Sometimes it can feel like there’s too much to do and not enough time. But there may be a way to live with more ease. In this podcast, Jenna Kutcher joins me to talk about:

• Embracing new beginnings

• Life transitions and making changes

• The importance of knowing what you do and don’t want

• Learning to live with more ease

Jenna is an entrepreneur, mother and writer with a refreshing perspective and outlook on life. She’s transitioned through different seasons of life including launching her own business and becoming a mother. Jenna’s walked through some tough seasons, and she’s handled them with grace and embraced a life of ease. Throughout this podcast, Jenna talks about integrated living, embracing ease and how focusing on her well being changed her life for the better.

As you listen, I hope you start to think about your ideal ways of living. God wants you to thrive and not just survive, friend. Be sure to tag us @biancaolthoff and @jennakutcher, we love to learn more about how this episode spoke to you!

Love you friends,

RESOURCES/LINKS

GUEST

Jenna Kutcher

The Goal Digger Podcast

Jenna's Quotes

• Grief is meant to be a passenger and not in the driver's seat.

• The waiting season is just as important as what it is that we are waiting for.

• Balance is not a state that should be maintained.

• I want my life to feel successful, not look successful.

• Insignificance throws off our identity.

• My body is not my enemy, it is my best friend.

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Ep 127: Mike Todd On Being Damaged But Not Destroyed, Confronting Difficulty, God's Redemption And Living A Transformed Life

Mon, 09 Oct 2023 08:00:58 -0000

Do you feel like parts of your life are damaged? Are you looking for hope and redemption? Are you wondering if God can still use you after all you've been through? We all face hard moments, and even though we can feel damaged, we are not destroyed. No one lives this truth out better than Mike Todd, who is joining me in this podcast to talk about:

• Confronting the hard things we've faced in life

• Remembering that God can use the good and the bad

• Being honest with ourselves and others in our healing journey

• Living a life of freedom and transformation

Mike Todd is an author and the pastor of Transformation Church, and he lives a life full of faith. He lives out his calling with confidence and always keeps it real. Mike talks about some of the difficult seasons that he's walked through publicly, and the lessons he's learned during that time. Mike has healed and he's written about it all in his latest book, Damaged But Not Destroyed. Throughout this episode, Mike tells me about his journey of faith, walking in his calling and the power of therapy. This podcast is a reminder that there is power in your story and in your vulnerability.

As you listen, I hope that you remember that God is bigger than any problem you face. Be strong and courageous, for God is with you wherever you go! Be sure to tag us @biancaolthoff and @iammiketodd, we'd love to learn about how this episode spoke to you.

Love you,

RESOURCES/LINKS

GUEST

Mike Todd

Book: Damaged But Not Destroyed

Quotes by Mike Todd

God will never heal what you won't reveal.
God can take all of our damage and turn it into destiny.
God does not bless who you pretend to be. He blesses who you really are.
What's not transformed, is transferred.

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Ep 126: Questioning God, Finding Peace In Uncertainty and Pursuing Your Dreams with Lisa Whittle

Mon, 02 Oct 2023 08:00:00 -0000

Have you found yourself asking God why certain things have happened? Are you walking through an unexpected situation? Do you wonder if you'll ever pursue your God-given dreams? Sometimes life throws us curve balls and we can end up in moments we don't foresee. It can be confusing but God can handle our frustration and difficult questions. In this podcast, Lisa Whittle joins me to talk about:

Moments of questioning God's plan
Dealing with unexpected problems
Resting in God's peace during moments of uncertainty
Not being limited by ourselves and other people's opinions

Lisa is a writer, speaker and Bible teacher who has been in ministry for nearly 20 years. She's experienced a lot in life, in church and in relationships. Throughout this podcast, Lisa tells me about how she's dealt with failure and overcome disappointment, and how she invited God into all of those moments. She talks about finding peace in the midst of uncertainty and the beauty that can be found in waiting seasons. Lisa also reminds us about the importance of pursuing our God-given dreams and not worrying about other people's opinions.

As you listen, I hope you feel empowered and you're reminded that if God is for you, no one can be against you. Be sure to tag us @biancaolthoff and @lisawhittle, we'd love to learn more about how this episode spoke to you!

Love you,
B

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GUEST

Lisa Whittle

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Ep 125: How To Spend Time With God, Renewing Our Faith and The Beauty In Bible Stories with Lisa Harper

Mon, 25 Sep 2023 18:58:54 -0000

Do you want to spend more time with God? Are you looking for a fresh perspective on the Bible? Are you in a season where you're trying to reconnect with the Lord? Sometimes there are moments when we feel disconnected from our faith, but there are plenty of ways to renew our faith. In this podcast, Lisa Harper joins me to talk about:
• Her relationship with God through different stages of life
• Spending time with the Lord
• The beauty and love found in Bible stories
• Renewing your faith
Lisa is a writer, speaker and Bible teacher who has walked with Jesus for most of her life. She knows a lot about the Bible and communicates the word of God with ease. Lisa tells me about her journey of faith and how her relationship with God has changed throughout her life. We can all go through seasons where we feel spiritually dry or distant from our faith, and Lisa's perspective is refreshing and practical. Throughout this episode, Lisa talks about how we can learn to see God in a new way and shares simple ways we can spend time with him each day. We also talk about what we've learned from reading the Bible and how it's strengthened our individual faiths.
As you listen, I hope you're reminded that God is with you in each and every moment of your day. God loves you and is with you in all things.
Be sure to tag us @biancaolthoff and @lisadharper, we'd love to learn about the ways you spend time with God!

Love you,

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GUEST

Lisa Harper: https://www.lisaharper.org/

Podcast: Lisa Harper’s Back Porch Theology https://www.lisaharper.org/backporchtheology

Quotes from Lisa

God is not a proposition to be studied, He is a person with whom we engage.
Theology is not even a subject matter, it's a lifestyle. Theology is having conversations about God.

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Ep 124: The Art Of Overcoming, Dealing With Little Disappointments and Healing Your Hurt with Tim Timberlake

Mon, 18 Sep 2023 09:00:00 -0000

Are you dealing with a season of disappointment? Do you wonder if there's a way to overcome hardship? Looking for some hope and healing? Things don't always work out how we planned, but we can rest knowing that God is in control. In this podcast, Tim Timberlake joins me to talk about:

How to deal with difficult seasons of life
Overcoming hardship through healing
Finding purpose and wisdom in our disappointment
Hope for a positive future after facing a setback

Tim is an author, pastor and speaker who is passionate about giving people hope after facing disappointment. He's walked through some tough seasons of life, from divorce at a young age to dealing with grief, but his outlook is one we can learn from. Tim shares the wisdom he's gained from overcoming difficult moments. Throughout this episode, Tim dives into the art of overcoming and reminds us that we can find rest when we give things to God. He also shares encouragement for anyone who is walking through a hard season of life.

As you listen, remember that whatever you're facing, there's a God who knows you and sees you. Greater is ahead than what's behind. You've got this!

You can tag us @biancaolthoff and @timtimberlake, we'd love to learn more about how this episode spoke to you.

Love you,

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GUEST

Tim Timberlake

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Season Eight Is Going To Be Great!

Mon, 11 Sep 2023 21:20:01 -0000

Welcome to Season 8 of We're Going There!

Our theme this season is resilience, grit, and perseverance. We hope you enjoy every conversation and take away practical handles to help you get back up!

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Ep 123: Knowing Yourself, Spiritual Discipline Rhythms and Living Redeemed with Hosanna Wong

Mon, 11 Sep 2023 08:45:00 -0000

Do you ever question your identity? Are you looking for ways to actively stay connected to God? Is it possible to not be defined by your past? As we grow in our faith, we learn to see ourselves the way God sees us, but it's not always easy. In this podcast, Hosanna Wong joins me to talk about:

The power of knowing our God given identity
The importance of actively spending time with God and reading the Bible
Finding our own spiritual disciplines
Embracing rest and creating our own Sabbaths

Hosanna is a spoken word artist, writer and a close friend of mine! She's spent most of her life fighting for identity inside and outside of the church, and she's got wisdom to share with us. Hosanna speaks about the importance of staying connected and rooted in the word of God. Throughout this episode, Hosanna talks about spiritual disciplines and shares practical ways to incorporate them into our daily lives. We also share our thoughts on taking a Sabbath and how we've embraced regular moments of rest.

As you listen, I hope you're reminded of your God given identity, and remember the importance of spending time with God. Remember you're wonderfully and fearfully made, child of God!

Be sure to tag us @hosanna.wong and @biancaolthoff we'd love to learn about your God given name and identity.

Love you friends,

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GUEST

Hosanna Wong

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Ep 122: Women's Empowerment, Walking In Purpose and Convoy Of Hope with Kimarie Page

Mon, 04 Sep 2023 08:00:00 -0000

Do you want to give back in some way? Are you wondering how you can help empower women around the world? Do you want to learn more about the incredible work of Christian non-profits? In this podcast, Kimarie Page (Vice President of Development Resources at Convoy of Hope) joins me to talk about:

• Stories of impact from Convoy of Hope
• The importance of empowering young women
• Ways we can give back and help others
• The power of local communities and churches

I'm so excited to share this conversation with you, it's something I've been dreaming about for a long time! Kimarie is an incredible woman with a heart to help others. In her role at Convoy of Hope, Kimarie helps to lead and love people who are in need. She's travelled the world and seen God show up in incredible ways. Throughout this episode, Kimarie shares stories of impact from Convoy of Hope - she also talks about how women have been resourced and equipped to live empowered lives.

As you listen, I hope you're inspired by these incredible stories and encouraged by the great work that people like Kimarie do. You can be part of it too, by donating here: https://convoyofhope.org/bianca/

I'm grateful for you and can't wait to see what lasting impact our WGT listeners make. Share by tagging us @biancaolthoff and @convoywomen @convoyofhope

Love you,
B

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Kimarie Page, Vice President of Development Resources at Convoy of Hope

Empower a girl of a woman by donating here: ⁠https://convoyofhope.org/bianca/

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Ep 121: Knowing When To Quit, Life Transitions and Leaving With Excellence with Amy Ayala and Bianca Juarez Olthoff

Mon, 28 Aug 2023 08:00:00 -0000

Do you feel like quitting something? Are you trying to discern if a season is ending? Is there a way to transition out of places well? Sometimes leaving is better than staying, whether it's in a church, job or relationship, but it's not always easy to go. In this podcast, I talk about:

> Knowing when it's time to quit

> The importance of self-awareness

> Discerning your season and life transitions

> Leaving situations and relationships with excellence

Quitting is something no one likes to do, especially when it feels like you may have failed in some way. (I hate quitting, really, I even wrote a book called Grit, Don't Quit!) But sometimes, knowing when to leave something can create space for the new thing that God wants to do in your life. In this episode, I delve into one of the topics in my book and reflect on my own experiences of life transitions.

As you listen, there may be some tough questions that you have to ask yourself but sometimes you need to take a step of faith and trust God's timing! Remember that while leaving can be hard, there are still new people to meet, new places to explore and new experiences to have.

The best is yet to come, friend! Don't forget to tag me @biancaolthoff, I'd love to learn more about how this episode spoke to you.

Love you,

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LAST CHANCE TO Pre-Order Bianca’s new book GRIT DON’T QUIT

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Ep 120: Understanding Emotions, Identifying Triggers, and Responding To Trauma with Kobe Campbell

Mon, 21 Aug 2023 08:16:00 -0000

Is there a past trauma affecting your life? Are you unsure how to respond to triggers that catch you off guard? You don’t have to go through this alone. Healing, redemption, and restoration are possible and Kobe Campbell will walk us through:

- How to deal with uncomfortable emotions

- Learning to identify the need behind our feelings

- Developing an accurate view of who we are called to be

Kobe teaches us to care about our mental and emotional health before we are in a crisis. When you are experiencing an emotion, it is indicating a need. Feelings are the check engine light of the soul. Pay attention to your feelings, they’re trying to tell you something. Healing from trauma is a process and we can lean on God and on professionals to help us through it.

Friend, you have the capacity to heal. Hold on to the good moments because healing can happen to you too! Tag me @BiancaOlthoff and @KobeCampbell_ and share with us how you are experiencing transformation!

Love you friends,

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Book: Why Am I Like This: How To Break Cycles, Heal From Trauma, And Restore Your Faith

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The Healing Circle Podcast

Kobe’s Quotes

Emotions are like the check engine light of the soul.

We live in the stories we tell ourselves.

You have to care about your mental and emotional health before you are in crisis.

There's a difference between feeling a strong emotion that is uncomfortable and being triggered.

Anger is an emotion that tells us that something sacred has been violated and that something needs to be protected.

An overlooked means of wounding someone is with words.

The words that people speak over us create the perception that we have of ourselves, and we live out of that perception.

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Ep 119: Finding Your Uniqueness, Principles Of Success and Harnessing Self-Discipline with Rory Vaden

Mon, 14 Aug 2023 09:00:00 -0000

Do you have something special to offer the world? Are you wondering how you can live a life of impact? Is self-discipline something you wrestle with? Greatness isn't made overnight, it's built over time, and Rory Vaden has some useful principles that can help you get there. In this conversation, we talk about:

Our God given individuality
The power of self-discipline
The importance of gaining clarity and having vision for your life
Making the right choices daily and the long-term impact

Rory is an author, speaker and visionary who helps people create strong personal brands. He talks about the power of finding our uniqueness and embracing how God made you. Rory reminds us of the importance of self-discipline and how it is a tool that can help us create the life we want to live. Throughout this podcast, we talk about having vision and goals for your life, and how it can bring clarity in our pursuit of success.

As you listen, I hope you're taking notes and getting ready to apply this incredible advice from Rory, because it really can help you become a greater version of yourself.

You're wonderfully and fearfully made, never forget that! You can tag us @biancaolthoff and @roryvaden, we'd love to learn more about how this episode spoke to you.

Love you,

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Rory Vaden

Rory's Books

Rory on The Jasmine Star Show: How to Discover Your Uniqueness and Gain the Recognition You Deserve with Rory Vaden

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How To Multiply Your Time | Rory Vaden TedTalk

Quotables

Easy short-term choices lead to difficult long-term consequences.

Difficult short-term choices lead to easy long-term consequences.

Procrastination and indulgence are really nothing more than creditors that charge us interest.

The shortest most guaranteed path to greatness is to do the things you know you should be doing even when you don't feel like doing them.

The amount of our endurance is directly proportionate to the clarity of our vision.

Discipline goes dormant in the absence of a dream.

Success is never owned, it's rented, and the rent is due every day.

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Ep 118: Embracing Self Compassion, Replacing Broken Soundtracks, and Resilience In Motherhood with Alli Worthington

Mon, 07 Aug 2023 09:21:00 -0000

Are you overwhelmed by your day-to-day schedule? Do you want to live a life with more compassion? Have you wondered if there's a way to manage all of your commitments? Life can be busy, but you can handle it, and Alli Worthington has some great advice! In this conversation, we talk about:

• Modern motherhood

• Putting yourself first and checking your emotional health

• Practical ways to take care of yourself

• The importance of friendship

Alli is a wife, mom and entrepreneur, she's also been a great friend to me. Alli talks about the reality of being a modern woman and why it's important to address our mindset. She explains the power of shifting our perspective and how it can help with our wellbeing. We also talk about the ways our emotional health can impact all of our relationships and how to love and lead from a place of overflow.

As you listen, I hope you remember that it's okay to put yourself first, you can't pour from an empty cup, so make sure you're full and whole. And even when it feels difficult, remember that you can replace the broken soundtracks, because God is working things out for you!

You are brilliant and capable friend, never forget that! You can tag us @biancaolthoff and @alliworthington, we'd love to learn more about how this episode spoke to you.

Love you,

RESOURCES/LINKS

Alli Worthington’s website

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Remaining You While Raising Them

Alli’s Quotes:

We are going to get burned out if we are not taking care of ourselves.

Self care has been hijacked by pedicures and bubble baths, but real self-care is conversations with friends, going for walks, and taking care of the little things that you need everyday.

God is always working things out for me.

Joyce Meyer quote: The greatest gift that you can give your loved ones is the healthiest version of you.

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Ep 117: New Things Brewing, Choosing To Remain, & Remembering That I Am Called with Bianca Juárez Olthoff

Mon, 31 Jul 2023 09:26:00 -0000

What if I told you that though life might feel like a dumpster bin fire right now, you can choose to remain and not quit. If you know me, I don't want to see anyone give up. In this season of We’re Going There, we will be exploring the theme of Resilience and how to develop the grit to press on. I want us to share practical tools and handles for you as we unpack together:

What it means to be resilient
What it means to be gritty
What it looks like to persevere
How you can care for yourself

Life can get hard and I know that many of you out there are dealing with a lot of hurt and pain. I want you to remember that you are called to great things and you are stronger than you think. Choose to remain. Choose to love. Choose to have joy. Push off the feeling of quitting - GRIT DON’T QUIT!

I’m excited for this new season, friends! Tag me @BiancaOlthoff and let me know how strong and gritty you really are!

Love you friends,

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Ep 116: Birthdays, Not Being Defined By Your Pain and Jabez's Prayer Request with Bianca Juarez Olthoff

Mon, 10 Apr 2023 07:00:00 -0000

Are you walking through a difficult season of life? Do you ever feel like people are focused on what's wrong, instead of what's right? Have you been asking God to bless you with something? We see all of this in Jabez's story, and I'll be diving deep into scripture for today's podcast.

In this episode, I talk about:

My birthday and reflecting on this last year
Jabez's story and the lessons we can learn from him
God answering prayers in the midst of our pain
Preparing for God's blessings

Nestled into two verses of scripture, in 1 Chronicles 4:9-10, we meet a man by the name of Jabez. He was a man named after pain, but he wasn't defined by it. In this podcast, I want to tell you more about the prayer that Jabez prayed and what we can learn from it. The people around Jabez discounted him but God never did, in fact, we see that Jabez was a man of honor who prepared for what he prayed for.

As you listen, I hope you remember that God is for you and wants to see you win! When we pray, God hears us and goes before us. God is with you in the good and the bad. Jabez had a God-done-did-it testimony and I'm praying the same for you and for me in this next season. In the meantime, you can tag me @biancaolthoff, I'd love to learn about what God has done, is doing and will do for you!

Love you, B

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Jabez was more honorable than his brothers. His mother had named him Jabez, saying, “I gave birth to him in pain.” Jabez cried out to the God of Israel, “Oh, that you would bless me and enlarge my territory! Let your hand be with me and keep me from harm so that I will be free from pain.” And God granted his request. 1 Chronicles 4:9-10 NIV

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Ep 115: Bootcamp Recap, New Experiences and Online Christian Dating with Meagan Blanchette and Bianca Olthoff

Mon, 03 Apr 2023 07:00:00 -0000

Did you listen to the dating bootcamp? Have you taken on the 30-day challenge? Are you online dating as a Christian? Dating can be hard work, but I've put together a helpful series to make it easier. After taking on the We're Going There dating challenge, Meagan is back with updates! In this podcast, we talk about: Preparing to date well as a Christian Looking for a relationship in the digital age Lessons learned in the dating process The dos and don'ts of dating apps Meagan took my advice, did the homework and went on multiple dates! In this episode, we unpack Meagan's dating adventures and what she's learned. We talk about her new experiences and the confidence Meagan gained from dating online. I also share my perspective on how to sparkle as a single person and how to interact on dating apps. As you listen, I hope this encourages you to see singleness and Christianity in a new way. (It's only weird if you're weird!) If you're single, take notes and remember that while dating isn't always easy, it is possible to have a great experience. And if you're taken, listen in and see what you can learn, it could help you to support your friends in their singleness. I love LOVE and want Christians to date well. Sparkle for Jesus, believe in your God-given confidence and show the world what you've got to offer! Have you taken on the 30-day dating challenge yet? You can tag @biancaolthoff and @meaganherself we’d love to learn more about your experience. Love you, B RESOURCES/LINKS Follow Meagan @meaganherself or Season of You Podcast Dating Bootcamp Day 1 Dating Bootcamp Day 2 Dating Bootcamp Day 3 WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.”

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Ep 114: God’s Ability and Power, Dreaming and Hoping Again with Bianca Olthoff

Mon, 27 Mar 2023 07:00:00 -0000

What are you facing in life that is currently holding you back from hoping and dreaming? Are you feeling stuck or overwhelmed and you are not able to face reality? What is it going to take for you to realize that something good is possible for you? I get it!

Sometimes life can get overwhelming, and you might find yourself wondering why there are so many things against you. Life can get tough, but guess what, YOU are tough! Something that I’ve learned over the years is that everything that happens, good or bad, is all part of God’s purpose in forming your dreams. The things that you go through are all part of your purpose.

God is able to align all of your victories and failures to His dream for you. Allow God to use His unlimited resources and power to get you through every season of life. Start hoping again now! Is it your time to have a praise party? Tag me @BiancaOlthoff and let’s party together, friends!

Love,

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Now to him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to his power that is at work within us, to him be glory in the church and in Christ Jesus throughout all generations, for ever and ever! Amen. Ephesians 3:20-21 NIV WGT

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Ep 113: Roadmap to Dreaming Big, Reframing Your Pain and Living In Your God DNA with Havilah Cunnington

Mon, 13 Mar 2023 07:00:00 -0000

Has disappointment ever set in because of something you had to lay down? Are you hesitant to dream big again? Are you finding it difficult to have hope for the future? If you have ever felt lost and wondered how to move forward in your journey after facing the loss of a dream, you’re not alone. If you are overwhelmed or afraid to hear the voice of God, this podcast is for you. Havilah Cunnington is a podcaster, creative, teaching pastor, wife, mom, and my Bible twin. Today she shares practical handles to help others learn how to hear from God and do big things. At the tender age of 17 she realized she could hear the voice of God. Even though this was a new and scary experience, she decided to develop her ability to help others. We will also talk more about: Dreaming about big things again Attributes to a God dream Markers that point us directly to the purpose of God Reframing and redefining our pain Havilah has learned to use her pain to help others on their journey. Take some time to allow yourself to dream again. Your pain is not wasted, give it a purpose. Start your roadmap to an exciting new adventure and DREAM BIG again! Did you find out what your marker for hearing from God is - Hearer, Seer, Knower or Feeler? Tag @HavilahCunnington and @BiancaOlthoff and let us know what it is. Love you, B RESOURCES/LINKS Havilah Cunnington: Website Books WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.”

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Ep 112: Leading As A Woman, Feminine Sensitivity, and Next Gen Leadership with Bianca Olthoff, Makayla Martinez and Valerie Ortega

Mon, 06 Mar 2023 09:00:00 -0000

Have you ever doubted your gifts and abilities because you are a woman? Has it ever been difficult to rise to a leadership position in your career, as an entrepreneur or as a woman in ministry?

Makayla and Valerie are young women with careers and businesses who also volunteer in ministry positions at The Father’s House OC. In this episode we touch on:

Struggles using your gifts
Navigating overwhelm when serving
Rising up to your potential calling

I thought that being sensitive was a weakness that I had to repress. That, my friend, is a lie from the pit of hell. I want to encourage women to continue to use their gifts wherever God has placed them for their good and the benefit of the Kingdom of God. I will continue to share my story to help women go places that I never could.

Don’t be ashamed of how God fashioned you. Maybe you are not in a leadership role, but whatever you are doing, do it with excellence. Embrace your God given femininity and step into whatever season you are in with strength and confidence. Let us know how you are owning your femininity by tagging @BiancaOlthoff @Makayylay and @Valortega Until next time, friends!

Love,

RESOURCES/LINKS

The 5AM Club: Own Your Morning. Elevate Your Life Girl, Listen Podcast with Mak & ValWGT

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Ep 111: Letting Go of Shame, Developing Faith, and God's Redemption with Ines Franklin

Mon, 27 Feb 2023 09:00:00 -0000

Have you dealt with the fallout of making a mistake? Do you wonder if God can provide true redemption? Can faith evolve over time? Ines Franklin talks about all of this in today's podcast. In this conversation, we talk about: • Partnering with God when setting goals • The true cost of making a bad decision • Discovering personal convictions • Redemption and evolving faith Ines is a preacher, teacher, and author who I've known for a long time and her journey of faith is honest and full of grace. She tells me about the lessons she learned from divorce and the impact it had on her family. Ines also talks about her come-to-God moment and how she developed a love for the bible. We also talk about forgiveness and how God can change your life. As you listen and learn about Ines, I hope you see that God's love is for everyone and that it's never too late to start over. You are wonderfully and fearfully made, and God will meet you right where you are. You can tag us @biancaolthoff and @inesfranklin, we'd love to learn more about how this episode spoke to you. Love you, B RESOURCES/LINKS Ines Franklin Book: Uncharted: Navigating Your Unique Journey of Faith WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.”

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Ep 110: Bringing The Bible To Life, Choosing To Remain and Creating A Lasting Legacy with Beth Moore

Mon, 20 Feb 2023 09:00:00 -0000

Do you want to better understand the Bible? Are you wondering if there's a way to share your personal experiences to help others? Have you ever thought about your legacy? While these are big topics, no one can tackle them with the same elegance as Beth Moore. In this conversation, we talk about: • The impact of Beth's bible studies • Sharing personal experiences and how it can help others • The reality of being a woman in ministry • Creating a lasting legacy and helping the next generation Beth is a woman of great faith, and her work has had a profound impact on my life and ministry. She gives insight into her passion for teaching the Bible and how she brings it to life. Beth talks about the power of redeeming your story and how it can help others. We also unpack the realities of being a woman who leads in ministry and why it's important to show up for the next generation of Christian communicators. As you listen, I hope you can learn from Beth's experience and know that God wants to use your story to help others. Whatever you been through can be redeemed and used for God's glory. God has a unique plan for each of us and that's definitely something to be excited about. You can tag us @biancaolthoff and @bethmoorelpm, we'd love to learn more about how this episode spoke to you. Love you, B RESOURCES/LINKS Beth Moore Book: All My Knotted-Up Life: A Memoir Beth Moore's Website WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.”

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Ep 109: Dating Bootcamp Day 3 - Ready YoSelf

Wed, 15 Feb 2023 09:00:00 -0000

Do you struggle with how to plan a date? Do you know what to do, where to go or who’s going to pay? Today, we round up this Dating Bootcamp series by giving you practical handles that will help you be more prepared before you go out on a date. The goal of this series has always been for my single friends to go out on a date. Initiating a hangout with someone you are interested in is a good place to start. Remember these things before you go out: Set healthy boundaries in advance The person who asks is the person who pays Come prepared to have a conversation Give hints not heaps? Listen to the other person Be mindful of the type of food you order Have no form of physical intimacy So, if you do the work, put your best foot forward, and take yourself seriously you can find a potential candidate and eventually end up in a real dating relationship. Who knows, you might end up finding your life partner in the process! My hope is that this dating bootcamp helps you in some way. Tag @biancaolthoff and @meaganherself and let us know how your 30 day dating challenge is going. Love, B

RESOURCES/LINKS Follow Meagan Blanchette’s Dating Journey on Instagram: @meaganherself, her website, or Season of You Podcast How to Have Your Life Not Suck: Becoming Today Who You Want to Be Tomorrow FREE Love Is Resource TFHOC: How To Set Boundaries / Love Lines WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.”

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Ep 108: Dating Bootcamp Day 2 - Do You Sparkle?

Tue, 14 Feb 2023 09:00:00 -0000

Do you know where to meet people online? Have you created a dating profile? On a scale of 1 - 5 where does your dating profile score? If your answer is low, we’re here to help! Has it been difficult for you to run into single people lately? Are you wondering where to go, what to do, or who to ask out? I want you to assess 2 things today: Your community - Where are you hanging out? Who are your friends? What are your hobbies? Your sparkle - Are you going out of your comfort zone to intentionally let others know that you are single like a pringle and ready to mingle? Dating is like a taxicab light; if the light is on - you’re signaling that you are ready to date! But before you go out on a quality date, you need to spruce up your profile. That is what Meagan Blanchette and I will be focusing on today. Listen in to learn more on how to create a dazzling dating profile. Tag me?@BiancaOlthoff?and let me know how your profile is shaping up. Remember, dating is a season that we move through. The intention is to meet the person who you will hopefully spend the rest of your life with. Love, B RESOURCES/LINKS Follow Meagan Blanchette’s Dating Journey -??@meaganherself, Meagan’s Website or Season of You Podcast FREE Love Is Resource TFHOC: How To Set Boundaries / Love Lines TFHOC: How To Date || Bianca Olthoff How to Have Your Life Not Suck: Becoming Today Who You Want to Be Tomorrow WGT email:?podcast@inthenameoflove.org Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email:?bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.”

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Ep 107: Dating Bootcamp Day 1 - Getting Dating Right

Mon, 13 Feb 2023 09:00:00 -0000

Have you gone through some type of trauma in past relationships and are hesitant to put yourself out there again? Are you experiencing frustration with your dating life? What if I told you that I want to challenge you to go on a date this month. We all know that dating can be risky and uncomfortable but if we're not willing to take a risk there will be no reward. So today, I enlisted the help of Meagan Blanchette, a courageous listener who has volunteered herself as “tribute” to take a 30-day dating challenge. In this first episode of our Dating Bootcamp podcast series, we will be challenging you to: Give yourself permission to go dating again Not get tangled in “Situationships” Get ready to test the waters again Let’s get ready for the dating journey! But first, I want you to dig deep and answer the following questions honestly: Am I ready to date? Why do I want to date now? What is my list of 50 qualities I look for on a date? 25? 10? What are my 5 non-negotiables? Of the 5 non-negotiables, which ones am I holding loosely? 4. Do I know the risk of love and am I willing to take a risk for the reward? 5. What are my sexual, financial, and spiritual boundaries? 6. What information am I sharing too much of? 7. What are my boundaries regarding time? This list might seem like a lot but trust me it’s not. You are creating a baseline, a guideline, a roadmap to help you get more comfortable with who you really are and be confident next time you go out on a date. I’m super passionate about this topic because I did dating wrong. That’s why I want you, your friend, and every single-ready-to-mingle person out there to know that dating can be both pure AND fun when you start out right. I LOVE Love and I want you to succeed in Love! If you answered any or all of the above questions, share them with me @BiancaOlthoff. Join us tomorrow for Day 2 of the bootcamp! Love you, B RESOURCES/LINKS Follow Meagan Blanchette’s Dating Journey - @meaganherself, Meagan’s website - or Season of You Podcast How to Have Your Life Not Suck: Becoming Today Who You Want to Be Tomorrow FREE Love Is Resource Ben Stuart: Single, Dating, Engaged, Married: Navigating Life and Love in the Modern Age TFHOC: The Sex Talk || Pastor Bianca Olthoff TFHOC: Who's In Your Bed // Married Sex // Bianca Olthoff WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email:?bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.”

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Ep 106: Godly Glam, Self-Care, and The Clean Girl Aesthetic with Bianca Olthoff

Mon, 06 Feb 2023 09:00:00 -0000

Are you embracing the clean girl aesthetic? Is there an outfit that makes you feel your most confident? Do you have a self-care regiment? I'll be unpacking all of this today and explaining why taking care of yourself should be a priority. In this episode, I talk about: · The basics of self-care · Maintaining a personal standard · How taking care of yourself is biblical · Explaining vanity vs maintenance and knowing the difference The church doesn't always like to have conversations about beauty and personal care because it can come across as pursuing vanity. Well, I'm flipping that narrative in this podcast, I want to let you know that having basic self-care standards is not bad but actually biblical. Being presentable, smelling good, and showing up for yourself shows others that you want to be taken seriously and treated with respect. As you listen, I hope you meet yourself with compassion and remember that it's okay to take care of yourself emotionally, mentally, physically, and spiritually. If you love a full-face of make-up and hair extensions, this podcast is for you. If you love the TikTok clean girl aesthetic, this podcast is for you. If you prefer no make-up and yoga pants, this podcast is for you. I love a colorful co-ord and believe that the longer the lash, the better! I hope this podcast encourages you to embrace your individuality with style and grace, in every place. You can tag me @biancaolthoff, I'd love to learn more about your personal style. Love you, B RESOURCES/LINKS To receive the Free Ruth Resource, email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.”

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Ep 105: Building a Blended Family, Leading with Love and The Delicate Dance of Step-Parenting with Peter & Heather Stow and Bianca Olthoff

Mon, 30 Jan 2023 09:00:00 -0000

Are you part of a blended family? Do you know someone who is navigating step-parenting? Have you wondered how non-traditional families make it work? Well, it's something I know all too well and I'm sharing my own experiences in today's podcast.

In this episode, I talk about:

Navigating step-parenting
The importance of learning from other families
Establishing boundaries and roles at home
The realities of being part of a blended family

I was recently invited to the No Greater Joy Podcast hosted by my friends Peter and Heather Stow to discuss my experience with step-parenting. I'm grateful for the space they created for me to share my story and to increase the visibility of blended families in the church. Throughout the conversation, you'll learn more about how I adjusted to life as a S’Mom (aka Step-Mom). I talk about the lessons I learned and also the emotional impact of step-parenting.

As you listen, I hope you gain a new perspective on blended families and how they are part of God's plan. When I married Matt, I also gained Parker and Ryen and they've been a beautiful addition to my life. It hasn't always been easy, but the Olthoff household is one full of love and God's grace.

I went from being single to becoming a step-parent REAL quick and it changed my life forever. So, whether you're a step-parent or looking for ways to support a friend or family member who is part of a blended family, I hope this podcast encourages you. You can tag us @biancaolthoff, @peterstow and @heatherstow, we'd love to learn more about how this episode spoke to you.

Love you,

RESOURCES/LINKS

No Greater Joy Podcast with Peter & Heather Stow Stow Ministries

Ep 13: How To Step-Up In Step-Parenting With Parker Olthoff

WGT Email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org

Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.”

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Ep 104: The Reality of Incarceration, Redeeming Your Story and Resilient Faith with Fox and Rob Richardson

Mon, 23 Jan 2023 09:00:00 -0000

Have you ever made a bad decision and regretted it? Are you wondering if there's a way to redeem your story? Do you want to use your experiences to advocate for change? Fox and Rob Richardson speak candidly and with grace about all of this in today's podcast. In this conversation, we talk about: • How difficult circumstances can lead to bad decisions • The realty for men and women who are incarcerated in the U.S. • Having resilient faith in hard times • The importance of prison ministry Fox and Rob's story is one wrapped in grace and full of redemption. They speak openly about mistakes that they made which led to both ending up in prison. Fox talks about how her faith got her through her sentence and how she fought for her husband's release. Rob details the reality of long-term incarceration and talks about the importance of supporting people who are serving a prison sentence. As you listen, I hope you remember that God's grace is sufficient and that in our weakness the Lord is made strong. Whether you're hoping to rebuild your life after incarceration or looking for ways to support people in prison, there's something for everyone in this podcast. We all make mistakes, and we are not defined by our past. There's a God that loves you and wants to turn your test into a testimony. You can tag us @BiancaOlthoff and @foxandrob, we'd love to learn more about how this episode spoke to you. Love you, B RESOURCES/LINKS Book by Fox & Rob Richardson: Time, The Untold Story of the Love That Held Us Together When Incarceration Kept Us Apart Book by Gary Smalley: Making Love Last Forever WGT Email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.”

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Ep 103: The Power of Mindset, Building Healthy Thought Patterns, and Changing Your Life with YET with Jasmine Star

Mon, 16 Jan 2023 09:00:00 -0000

Is your mind stuck in replay telling you the same negative thoughts? Are you ready to become aware of what you tell yourself and improve your mindset? Then you’re in for a treat! Today I get to have a life-giving conversation with adoptive mom, entrepreneur, business owner, and my twin sister Jasmine Star on mindset shift. In my eyes Jasmine has always been strong-willed, a driver, and prone to success. She shares with us how she learned about fixed and growth mindset and how it has helped her become aware of the things she was repeating to herself. Her breakthrough came after having a shift from a fixed to a growth mindset. Jasmine learned to empower her brain and apply a different mindset to her situations. There are three main categories of self-doubt that a fixed mindset can keep you stuck in: 1. Over Planner 2. Treading Water 3. Destination Obsessed Friends let’s choose to learn from our challenges and write a different story. Get rid of stinking thinking by choosing the hard of change instead of the hard of stasis. I love that I get to have these conversations and share them with you! Tag me @BiancaOlthoff and @JasmineStar and let us know how you are writing a different story today. Love you friends! B RESOURCES/LINKS Jasmine Star Website B's favorite podcast episodes: From Broke to Billionaire Three Reasons Why People Get Stuck Book resources: Mindset: The New Psychology of Success by Carol Dweck Discipline Is Destiny: The Power of Self-Control by Ryan Holiday WGT Email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.

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Ep 102: Evaluate Life, Rediscover Who You Are, and Become Your Best Self with Bianca Olthoff

Mon, 09 Jan 2023 09:00:00 -0000

What are you doing to become the best version of yourself? Are you willing to put in the work that no one else will? I want to take you on a journey and help you discover who you can be. We all go through setbacks and failures that might push us into quitting. But keep in mind that they are part of the learning process. Challenge yourself today and take some time to rediscover who do you want to be in life by asking yourself these questions: 1. What am I happy with? 2. What do I want to do? 3. What makes me unhappy? 4. How do I view setbacks? 5. Am I willing to do the work? I know you can do this! And I’m cheering you on from the sidelines. Tag me @BiancaOlthoff I’m excited to see who you want to be in 2023. Love you friends! B RESOURCES/LINKS WGT Email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.”

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BONUS Ep 101: Reflections, Casting Vision, and A Strong New Beginning for the New Year

Mon, 02 Jan 2023 09:00:00 -0000

Are you having a rocky start to your year? Does it seem like you are starting out on a crazy train? How about we start this season with a positive attitude? Having a word to reflect on throughout the year has always been pivotal in my life and I hope it is helpful to you as well. We all have good intentions when we set resolutions. But let's be honest friends, even though we started out strong, less than half of us made it to the 6-month mark. Focusing on ONE word during the entire year can be very powerful. Not only will you be able to stay focused, but you will also have direction on who you want to be and what you want to step into. Pause, think, and create a list to hone into your word. And remember, don't just be interested in it, be committed to it. Set some time by yourself, with a friend, or your date to go through these steps. I can't wait for you to tag me at @BiancaOlthoff and share what your word for this year is. Love you friends! B RESOURCES/LINKS Do You Need An Epiphany? // Enough // Matt Olthoff WGT Email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.”

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Ep 100: Setting Clear Boundaries, Communicating Our Needs To Others and A Million Little Funerals with Lysa TerKeurst

Mon, 14 Nov 2022 09:00:00 -0000

Do you find it hard to establish boundaries? Are you sensitive about and do you struggle to have difficult conversations? Is there a part of your life that you're currently grieving?

Lysa TerKeurst is an author and speaker who is tackling all these topics in her newest book. In this conversation, we cover:

Defining boundaries and why we need them
How boundaries can improve your relationships
Tackling tough conversations and how it can provide clarity
Grieving the relationships and seasons of life that come to an end

Lysa's voice is one I trust and respect, especially when it comes to discussing spiritual and emotional well-being. She shares personal experiences and walks us through her process of re-establishing boundaries. Lysa gives insight into how boundaries are a biblical principle and how honoring our boundaries helps us honor others too. We also talk about acknowledging what didn't work out and grieving those things with little funerals. (Liiisten, this sounds weird but it's a game-changer!)

If like me, you have a big heart and lots of feelings, I hope this episode helps you as much as it helped me. Whether you're navigating boundaries in your professional or personal life, there's something for everyone in this episode. Sometimes things don't turn out how we planned, and it's okay to grieve what you lost.

Establishing boundaries as you heal can improve your relationships and help you to see all the good that's yet to come. You can tag us @BiancaOlthoff and @LysaTerKeurst, we'd love to learn more about how this episode spoke to you.

Love you,

RESOURCES/LINKS

Check out Lysa’s new book: Good Boundaries and GoodbyesWGT Email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org

This podcast is sponsored in part by Operation Christmas Child. Pack a shoebox! Learn more by clicking here.

Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.”

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Ep 99: Co-Leading As A Couple, Redefining Leadership In The Church and Lessons We've Learned with Matt and Bianca Olthoff

Mon, 07 Nov 2022 09:00:00 -0000

Have you ever wondered what it's like to co-lead with family? Are you navigating a new partnership of some kind? Leadership is having influence over something, whether it's personal or professional. Matt Olthoff, a.k.a. my husband, and I co-lead The Father's House OC together. We are sharing our experiences and the lessons learned on: • Planting a church • Working together in partnership • What our leadership looks like • Defining individual responsibility Matt's heart for people makes him a great leader. His leadership has impacted me, in marriage and in building a church. We define what leadership is and how we're working together to redefine co-leadership in ministry as a couple. Creating equal opportunity for men and women in ministry is something we care about deeply. Matt empowers me to be a better leader and I am grateful for the journey we've been on. One thing we know for sure is that we are better together. My hope is that as you listen, you'll be able to hear a different perspective on co-leadership. Whether you're learning how to navigate working with people at your job or looking for ways to communicate better in your relationships, there's something for everyone in this podcast. God made us individually and with purpose and we all bring something different to the table. When we collaborate with others in the community, I believe that we can work at our best. You can tag us @BiancaOlthoff and @MattOlthoff, we'd love to know how this episode spoke to you. Love you, B RESOURCES/LINKS WGT Email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org This podcast is sponsored in part by Operation Christmas Child. Pack a shoebox! Learn more by clicking here. Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.”

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Ep 98: Gossip In The Church, The Power Of Our Words and Choosing Encouragement Over Speculation with Bianca Juarez Olthoff

Mon, 31 Oct 2022 07:00:00 -0000

Have you ever been hurt by someone gossiping about you? Are you guilty of talking about someone behind their back? Gossip is running rampant in today's world, both online and in person and we're going to tackle it in this episode.

In this episode, I will:

Define gossip and different types of gossipers
Explain why we shouldn't gossip, from a biblical perspective
Why people may feel the need to gossip
How we can actively fight against gossip culture

Gossip has become a part of everyday life, whether defined as a water cooler moment with colleagues in the office or chatting about someone else's business with friends. It can also be found online when scrolling through tabloids and social media. While it might seem innocent, it can be hurtful, lead to wild assumptions and cause division in relationships. I'll explain what gossip is and the damage it can cause. I’ll also cover what the Bible says about gossip as well as how gossip is showing up in the [capital C] Church.

My heart and my hope is that as you listen, you'll reflect on this topic and have the courage to call out gossip when you see it in real time. Let's instead be generous with encouragement, it goes much further and will have a positive impact on someone's life. You can tag me @biancaolthoff, I'd love to know how this episode spoke to you!

Love you,

RESOURCES/LINKS

Keeping It G // Gossip + Guile // Issues We Don’t Talk About // Bianca Olthoff

This podcast is sponsored in part by Operation Christmas Child. Pack a shoebox! Learn more by clicking here.

WGT Email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org

Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.”

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Ep 97: God's True Nature, Modern Christianity and Embracing the Anointing on Your Life with Lisa Bevere

Mon, 24 Oct 2022 07:00:00 -0000

Do you know God's true nature? Ever wondered how God sees you? Is there a God calling on your life? Lisa Bevere is joining me on the podcast to unpack all these topics. We dive deep into: • God's true nature • The power of your YES to God • Why it's important to speak the truth in love • Being anointed by God and working in partnership with Him Lisa is an author, a speaker, and a leader who has spent decades encouraging and empowering people to walk in their purpose. During our conversation, Lisa shares her thoughts on modern Christianity and the importance of knowing the Word of God. She speaks candidly about being anointed by God and working with Him on purpose and for His purpose. Lisa has her ear to the ground and isn't afraid to give us a reality check. Something I love about Lisa's writing and perspective is that it always speaks to God's true nature. It's the reminder that God made each of us uniquely and cultivated a specific purpose for each of our lives. My heart and my hope is that as you listen, you’ll remember that you are a child of God and that you are significant. There’s an assignment on this earth that only you can fulfil. Tag us @biancaolthoff and @LisaBevere, we’d love to see what you're called to and what embracing God's plan looks like for you. Love you, B RESOURCES/LINKS Lisa Bevere’s Devotional - Fiercely Loved: God's Wild Thoughts about You Lisa Bevere’s Books WGT Email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org This podcast is sponsored in part by Operation Christmas Child. Pack a shoebox! Learn more by clicking here. Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.”

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Ep 96: Letting Go of Control, Not Being Attached to Outcomes and The Power of Boundaries with Sharon Hodde Miller

Mon, 17 Oct 2022 07:00:00 -0000

Are you a self-professed control freak? Does the thought of letting someone else take the lead stresses you out? Is there a strong inner critic that you constantly battle with? Sharon Hodde Miller is an author and a co-pastor alongside her husband. She has wrestled with control in the past and will share with us ways we can tackle our own need for control in an upfront but loving way. In this conversation, we talk about: • Defining control and our desire to be in control • Letting go of the need to control everything • The struggle of the inner critic • The power of our God-given agency Sharon shares her experiences in hopes of helping others navigate their relationship with control. She explains that there is power in letting go of control and learning to not be attached to outcomes. We also discuss establishing boundaries and embracing our God-given agency. As you listen, I hope you'll meet yourself with kindness and take a look at your relationship with control. While we can't control everything - we can be certain of one thing... God is perfect and makes no mistakes. You can tag us @biancaolthoff and @sharonhmiller, we'd love to hear how this podcast spoke to you! Love you, B RESOURCES/LINKS Sharon Hodde Miller’s Book: The Cost of Control: Why We Crave It, the Anxiety It Gives Us, and the Real Power God Promises WGT Email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org This podcast is sponsored in part by Operation Christmas Child. Pack a shoebox! Learn more by clicking here. Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.”

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Ep 95: Embracing Change, Tapping Into Your Creativity and Making The Most of Your Single Season with DOE

Mon, 10 Oct 2022 07:00:00 -0000

Do you feel stuck through obligation and not obedience? Are you looking for ways to be more creative? Does it sometimes feel like no one understands your perspective? DOE is a singer-songwriter with a pastor's heart and her unique voice is what makes her unforgettable. In this conversation, we talk about: • Growing up in ministry and pursuing God's calling • Obligation vs obedience • Trusting God's character and the desires He placed in your heart • Creativity in all its forms • Making the most of your time while being single DOE is known for her unique voice and beautiful melodies, but she's also accomplished outside of her career in music. She's got three degrees, worked as a youth pastor and even has an Uber license! DOE speaks about a season of transition and stepping out as a solo artist. After spending much of her life in ministry with her family, she wanted to explore new things. What I love about DOE's story is that she embraced her individuality and knew that her differences were the very things God could use for His glory. I hope that as you listen, you'll reflect on the things you really want to do and then have the courage to boldly pursue them. Because where God guides, He provides! You can tag us @biancaolthoff and @doejonesmusic, we'd love to learn about your God dream and the things that make you... YOU! Love you, B RESOURCES/LINKS Doe Jones Music Podcast music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.”

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Ep 94: The Formula For Prayer, Understanding God’s Character and Counting Your Blessings with Chad Veach

Mon, 03 Oct 2022 07:00:00 -0000

Have you ever wondered if there’s a correct way to pray? Do you sometimes wish there was a cheat sheet for prayer? Are you waiting for God to answer a specific prayer? Chad Veach is the faith-filled, fun-loving pastor of ZOE Church LA who can speak to all thing’s prayer. In this conversation, we talk about: • Understanding what prayer is and why we should pray • The ways God answers prayer • How prayer changes us individually • Embracing the blessings in our lives Chad is a church leader, author and friend who has a refreshing perspective on prayer that’s been cultivated through personal experience. During this episode, Chad lays out the formula for how to pray and reminds us why we should. He also speaks about the ways in which God responds to our prayers. Something I loved about this conversation was how practical it was - Chad shares ways in which we can be intentional with prayer in our daily lives. My heart and my hope is that as you listen, you’ll remember that prayer is simply communication with God. Whether it’s through talking, journaling or walking, prayer changes us and makes us better. You can tag us @biancaolthoff and @chadveach, we'd love to see what prayer looks like in your life. Love you, B RESOURCES/LINKS Chad Veach Book - Worried about Everything Because I Pray about Nothing: How to Live with Peace and Purpose Instead of Stress and Burnout Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.”

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Ep 93: Alcohol Addiction In The Church, Overcoming Shame and Hope Found In Recovery with Irene Rollins

Mon, 26 Sep 2022 07:00:00 -0000

Why don't we talk about alcoholism in the church? Is there a way to overcome the shame we feel from addiction? Is there really a chance for wholeness and recovery? Irene Rollins is a pastor-turned-author who is shedding light on these topics and breaking the stigma around the church and its relationship with addiction issues. In this episode, I'm chatting with Irene about: • Dealing with alcoholism in the church • Identifying addiction issues and active recovery • Having a safe community to heal with • Supporting people impacted by addiction Irene is in recovery from an alcohol addiction and has been sober for a number of years. She talks openly about how unresolved trauma, insecurity and a hard season of life led to a dependence on alcohol. During our conversation, Irene shares her story and how her issues with alcohol impacted her personal and professional life. This conversation is shared with the intention of creating a dialogue around how the church deals with addiction issues. As you listen, I hope you'll see that help is available to those who need it and that recovery is possible with the right resources and support. So, whether you're looking for healing or trying to better understand how you can support someone through addiction, this episode is for you. You can tag us @biancaolthoff and @irenerollins, we'd love to find out how this podcast spoke to you. Love you, B RESOURCES/LINKS Irene Rollins Book - Reframe Your Shame: Experience Freedom from What Holds You Back Treatment / Therapy Programs: The Meadows Texas Celebrate Recovery Alcoholics Anonymous Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.”

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Ep 92: The American Dream, Representing Mexican Food in Culture and The Beauty of a Family Business with Bricia Lopez

Mon, 19 Sep 2022 07:00:00 -0000

What does the American Dream look like? How does a family build a legacy? Is there a way to fulfill the desires God put in your heart? Bricia Lopez can speak to all of this as a chef, author and entrepreneur who is bringing a taste of Mexico to mainstream food culture. In this episode, I'm chatting with Bricia about:

· Her family and their American Dream

· Growing up in Mexico and immigrating to the U.S.

· Helping to establish a family business and building a legacy

· Bringing Mexican culture into the U.S. and attaining mainstream accolade

As we celebrate Hispanic Heritage Month on the podcast, I'm exploring the concept and realities of the American Dream with Bricia. During our conversation, Bricia shares the story of her family and how they established a successful Oaxacan restaurant in Los Angeles. She speaks openly about the challenges they faced along the way as well as the huge success they've attained for their authenticity. Something that's special about Bricia's perspective is that she continues to build her family's legacy alongside her siblings. My heart and my hope is that as you listen, you'll learn about a new culture and that you'd give yourself permission to dream. Ideating is a free gift given to us and if God's put a desire in your heart, chances are you're the person to see it through to completion. Below you'll find one of Bricia's favorite recipes, so I'd love for you to recreate it and discover a tasty new Mexican dish. You can tag us @biancaolthoff and @bricialopez, we'd love to see what food and dreams you cook up after this episode.

Love you,

RESOURCES/LINKS

Salsa Borracha Recipe

Ingredients

· 1 pound tomatillos, husked and rinsed

· 6 morita chiles (you may substitute with ¼ ounce chipotle chiles), destemmed

· 2 cloves garlic, peeled

· 2 tablespoons apple cider vinegar

· 2 tablespoons mezcal

· 2 bay leaves

· Sea salt

Instructions

· Preheat your oven’s broiler to its highest setting

· Place the tomatillos on a baking sheet with a rim, on your broiler’s highest rack, and broil for 20 minutes, mixing them around at the 10-minute mark to make sure all of the tomatillos are cooking evenly. The tomatillos should be lightly charred and change color to a light yellow. Set aside.

· Meanwhile, in a comal or cast-iron skillet over medium heat, toast the dried chiles and garlic until slightly charred and fragrant. This should take about 30 seconds for the chiles and about 5 minutes for the garlic.

· Bring about a cup of water to a boil. Pour the boiling water into a bowl, add the toasted chiles, let them sit for about 20 minutes or until they are soft and tender. Drain and set aside.

· In a blender, combine the reserved tomatillos, chiles, and garlic with the apple cider vinegar, mezcal, 2 tablespoons of water, and the bay leaves. Blend until smooth. Taste for salt and serve.

· This salsa will stay fresh in the refrigerator for a week.

Pollo Enchipotlado or Chicken in a Creamy Chipotle Sauce Recipe

Ingredients

· 1 (2 pound) whole chicken, butchered into 8 pieces

· Sea salt

· Black peppercorns, freshly ground

· 2 tablespoons Dijon mustard

· 5 ¼ cups chopped tomatoes

· ½ small white onion, chopped

· 4 cloves garlic, peeled

· 1 tablespoon olive oil

· 1 tablespoon butter

· 3 whole chipotles in adobo, plus 2 tablespoons...

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Ep 91: Defining Truth, Living By Our Own Means and Being Aligned with God’s Word with Jada Edwards

Mon, 12 Sep 2022 07:00:00 -0000

Are you in a season of discovering God’s plan for your life? Have you heard the term ‘living by my truth’ in mainstream media or on social media? Is the church struggling to clearly define God’s will?

Jada Edwards is a straight-shooting, truth-telling, speaker, Bible teacher and author. She can speak to defining truth from a personal and biblical standpoint. In this conversation, we talk about:

Defining truth in culture and on social media
The danger of using the phrase ‘living my truth’
How to define truth as a Christian and understanding God’s will
The importance of being led by the Holy Spirit

Jada’s leadership and ministry have been a blessing to me and The Father’s House OC. She has her ear to the ground and communicates in an honest, direct and loving manner. Jada shares her thoughts on truth in culture and in the church. Throughout this podcast, Jada provides context and shares personal experiences in defining truth.

As you listen, I hope you’ll begin to see what God’s truth is for your life. Jada is a friend and I trust that her thought leadership will encourage you to lean into what God wants for you. While it might not always be easy, there is peace and joy in fulfilling the call on your life friend! You can tag us @biancaolthoff and @jada_edwards on social media. We’d love to know how this conversation has impacted you.

Love you,

BRESOURCES/LINKS

Books by Jada Edwards The Jada Edwards Podcast

Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.”

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Ep 90: Overcoming Lust in the Digital Age, Rebuilding Trust in Romantic Relationships and Redemption with Manda Carpenter and Matt Droguett

Mon, 05 Sep 2022 07:00:00 -0000

Have you ever grappled with lustful thoughts or actions? Do you struggle with intimacy and romantic connections? Are you wondering if there is redemption for you? Manda Carpenter and Matt Droguett have both walked through these exact things. While their experiences are different, they both found wholeness through faith (and therapy). In this conversation, we talk about: • Male and female perspectives of struggling with lust and porn • The impact lust has on romantic relationships and expectations • Healing found through honest conversations and asking for help • Struggles and reality of being a Christian in today’s world Manda walked through a season of seeking external validation which led to infidelity in her marriage. She talks openly about the web of guilt and shame that kept her entangled. Manda shares how one honest conversation, led to healing and restoration in her marriage. Matt spent a number of years silently struggling with a desire to look at explicit content. After breaking the cycle, he began to live in wholeness and now helps others do the same. This conversation and space were created to shed light on a topic that so many struggle with. As you listen, I hope you’ll feel less alone or better equipped to help someone you know who is going through this. Remember that there’s freedom and grace found in the name of Jesus. You can tag us @biancaolthoff, @mandacarpenter and @mattdroguett on social media. We’d love to hear how this episode spoke to you. Love you, B RESOURCES/LINKS Manda Carpenter’s book: Soul Care to Save Your Life Matt Droguett’s course: Ditch Porn and Reclaim Your Life & Use Code: TFHOC Women’s Conference at TFHOC – Breathe Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.”

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BONUS Ep 89: What Were You Thinking with Bianca Olthoff

Mon, 15 Aug 2022 07:00:00 -0000

Have you ever had a moment where instead of believing the best, you assume the worst? In today’s episode I share another bonus teaching on why every thought that comes to your mind matters.

We can train our minds with the wrong things, or we can train our minds with the Truth. What goes into our minds will come out in our life. To change your mind and change your life, you need to rewrite and retrain your brain with the Truth of the Word of God. Meditate on the Word by:

1. Seeking out the Truth of God

2. Writing out the Truth of God

3. Declaring the Truth of God

4. Believing the Truth of God

Be transformed by renewing your mind with the power of the Truth of God's Word. I hope this bonus episode has helped you in some way. You can tag me @biancaolthoff and let me know truth of the Word of God is helping you to demolish strongholds.

Love you,

RESOURCES/LINKS

The Father’s House Orange County

What Were You Thinking // Changing Your Brain // Mind Games // Bianca Olthoff

Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.”

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BONUS Ep 88: Your Tool For Survival with Bianca Olthoff

Mon, 08 Aug 2022 07:00:00 -0000

Has your amygdala ever waged war with your thoughts? Do you need to learn how to take your thoughts captive in a chokehold? Friends, I’m sharing a bonus episode today from a teaching on the greatest weapon at our disposal. That weapon is: PRAYER! How do you overcome and win the battle in your brain? You take captive every thought and make it obedient to God. Neurotheology teaches us that: · Prayer changes your brain. · Prayer encourages neuroplasticity and our brain gets better. · Prayer affects our behavior. Don't let negative thoughts harm your brain. Allow positive thoughts to heal your brain. Come boldly before the throne of God and touch His hearth through prayer. I hope this bonus episode has helped you in some way. You can tag me @biancaolthoff and let me know how you are waging war against your negative thoughts. Love you, B RESOURCES/LINKS The Father’s House Orange County Your Tool for Survival // The Brain, Anxiety, and Prayer // Mind Games // Bianca Olthoff Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.”

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Ep 87: Being A Power Couple, Walking By Faith, Christianity In Hollywood and Working In Partnership with Alexa and Carlos PenaVega

Mon, 18 Jul 2022 07:00:00 -0000

Have you ever wondered what it's like to be part of a power couple in Hollywood? Do you struggle to walk by faith and not by sight? Alexa and Carlos PenaVega can speak to both of those experiences. They have been married for several years and consciously make faith-filled decisions. In this episode, I'm talking to the PenaVega’s about: - Being a Christian in Hollywood - Family values and prioritizing their marriage - Working together in partnership - How they came up with their last name PenaVega The couple grew up in the public eye. Alexa found fame from her role in Spy Kids, while Carlos joined the Big Time Rush franchise. During our conversation, Alexa and Carlos share the genesis of their love story and how they have built a Godly relationship. They speak openly about how they prioritize their family life and the sacrifices they've made. While it may seem untraditional to some, the PenaVega’s offer a refreshing perspective on what real love and real faith look like. If you know me, you know that I love LOVE. So, whether you're single or in a committed relationship, my hope is that as you listen you'll be reminded that love is one of the greatest gifts that God has given us. You can tag us @biancaolthoff, @vegaalexa and @therealcarlospena, let us know what you loved and you could win a copy of their new book! Love you, B RESOURCES/LINKS Book: What If Love Is The Point? Living for Jesus in a Self-Consumed World Heaven In Your Home Podcast (mentioned by Alexa) Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.”

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Ep 86: Accepting Where You Are, Breaking Generational Cycles and Embracing Faith with Zachary Levi

Mon, 11 Jul 2022 07:00:00 -0000

Are you looking for ways to deal with your mental and emotional health? Have you ever considered going to therapy? Confronting inner struggles may sound overwhelming but it can change your life for the better.

In this episode, I'm talking with actor turned author, Zachary Levi about

Therapy and the positive impact it's had on his personal and professional life
Why it's important to deal with generational cycles
Breaking stigmas surrounding vulnerability

Known for his leading roles in American Underdog and DC superhero movie Shazam, Zachary has gained mainstream popularity and has a huge following. During our conversation, Zachary shares his story in hopes that it will help others. We discuss the difficulty he had in his childhood and the impact of generational trauma. Something profound about Zachary's experience is the healing that took place when he went to therapy and got the help that he needed. Zachary also shares his journey of faith and how God met him where he was in his moment of need.

As you listen, I hope you gain the courage and bravery of a superhero and remember that there's a God who loves you as you are. You can tag us @biancaolthoff and @zacharylevi on social media, we'd love to find out what you've learned from this episode.

Love you,

Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.”

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Ep 85: The New Age Movement, Spiritual Fluidity, Counterfeit Ideology and Knowing The Voice Of God with Stephanie Ike

Mon, 04 Jul 2022 07:00:00 -0000

Is the idea of manifesting your own future appealing to you? Are you wondering if horoscopes, crystals, burning sage and similar practices can help you achieve more in life? Today I'm chatting with author, pastor and talk show host, Stephanie Ike. Stephanie speaks frankly and concisely about popular new age practices and the importance of knowing the voice of God. Some of the topics we will discuss are: · Clarity on counterfeit ideology · The truth about spiritual fluidity · Discerning right from wrong in today's culture As you settle into this conversation, I encourage you to listen with open ears and an open heart. There is so much more to this topic and my hope is that this conversation helps you in some way. I'd love to hear from you and find out what you took away from this episode. Don't forget to tag us on social media @BiancaOlthoff and @StephanieIke. Love you, B RESOURCES/LINKS The Same Room Hearing The Voice of God - Stephanie Ike & Dante Bowe Friends, New Age ideology might be new or confusing. I've curated four articles to breakdown, explain, or clarify what New Age ideology is and why it is contrary to Biblical belief. XO Articles: · Understanding New Age · Do We FIght With Oprah and New Age · Should Christians Reject New Ageism? · Defending the Faith: Apologetics and New Age Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.”

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Ep 84: Waiting Seasons, Validating Our Experiences, Active Participation and Moving Away From Assumptions with Barb Hill

Mon, 27 Jun 2022 07:00:00 -0000

Are you waiting for something? Have you wondered if your dreams will ever come to pass? Waiting seasons can feel long and tedious but we're offering a fresh take in this episode. In this conversation, I'm talking with therapist and author, Barb Hill about: · Transformation that takes place in the wait · Validating our experiences, past and present · How we can become active participants in our lives Barb is a friend and we've walked through waiting seasons together; she's got a lot of insight on this topic and has beautifully unpacked it in this podcast. We discuss how to look at waiting in a new way, how waiting can positively impact our lives and the power of being present. It's also important to validate the difficulty that comes with waiting and the grief of not yet being completely fulfilled. Barb also shares practical ways to embrace the wait, whether that's through being in community or moving away from assumptions. As you wait for that new job, physical healing, marriage or family reconciliation, my hope is that you'll begin to see waiting in a new way. Don't forget to tag us @biancaolthoff and @barbs_hill on social media, we'd love to find out what you've learned and believe with you in your wait. Love you, B RESOURCES/LINKS Book - Seasons of Waiting: An Invitation to Hope Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.”

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Ep 83: Stepping Into Leadership, Casting Vision, Being A Positive Influence and Defining The "IT" Factor with Craig Groeschel

Mon, 20 Jun 2022 07:00:00 -0000

Leadership and influence are two words that are often tossed around in church culture. At times, it can be difficult to connect with these terms, particularly if you can't identify where you can lead or influence others in your life. But what if I told you that you were a leader and that you had your own sphere of influence? Today I'm chatting with pastor, author, and world-class leader Pastor Craig Groeschel about those very things. In this episode, Pastor Craig shares his wisdom and helps us define the "IT" factor and what “IT” looks like, practically speaking. He talks about what healthy church leadership looks like from his own perspective as well as ways we can apply these insights to our own lives. Leadership looks different for everyone, and we all have opportunities to influence others in our day-to-day living. Pastor Craig also talks about casting vision and why we should create a vision for every area of life. You can find out more in his new book “Lead Like It Matters”. As you listen, I hope you can begin to identify your leadership capabilities and ways that you can be empowered to lead life well. I believe that YOU are an influencer! Share how you are influencing others in your daily walk and tag us on social media @BiancaOlthoff and @CraigGroeschel. Love you, B RESOURCES/LINKS Books: Lead Like It Matters: 7 Leadership Principles for a Church That Lasts *Pre-order the book and get a free 8 Session Video bonus resource. Winning The War In Your Mind: Change Your Thinking, Change Your Life Dangerous Prayers: Because Following Jesus Was Never Meant To Be Safe Hope In The Dark: Believing God Is Good When Life Is Not Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.”

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Ep 82: Cultivating Long Lasting Friendships, Dealing With Conflict, Maintaining Close Bonds and How To Be A Good Friend with Jasmine, Brianna, Melanie and Bianca

Mon, 13 Jun 2022 07:00:00 -0000

FDo you want meaningful friendships? Have you struggled to meet new friends in your current season of life? How to MAKE and KEEP friends are what we are talking about on this episode! In this conversation, I’ll be talking about · How to build friendships · What are the ingredients for long-lasting relationships · When should we let a relationship end And who better to talk about this than with my closest friends, Jasmine Star, Brianna Glenn, and Melanie Nyema. I may describe ourselves as the Hot Mess Express, but we've maintained our bond for over two decades. It hasn't always been easy, but we have supported one another through many different seasons of life. We exchange stories, talk about our memories together and share the lessons we've learned from our friendship. My hope is that as you listen and walk away with practical knowledge that you can apply to your own friendships. Whether you're dealing with friendship conflict, trying to make time for your friends or looking to build new, intentional friendships, there's something here for you. I'd love to see what your friendships look like and hear about what your friends mean to you. So, don't forget to tag me @biancaolthoff, I can't wait to learn about your nearest and dearest. Thank you for being a friend to me! How about you show your friends some love and set some time aside to catch up and listen to this episode together. Love you, B RESOURCES/LINKS: Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.”

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Ep 81: Embracing New Seasons, Making Changes, Identity and The Power Of Community with Shauna Niequist

Mon, 06 Jun 2022 07:00:00 -0000

Friends, have you ever found yourself thinking "I guess I haven't learned that yet"? We can make plans and set goals but sometimes life happens, and we find ourselves in a situation we didn't see coming. In today’s episode, I’m talking with writer and storyteller, Shauna Niequist. Throughout our conversation, you'll hear Shauna unpacked this very concept. She talks about the art of gathering around a table, moving her family to New York and mourning the identities that we outgrow. Shauna also shares her perspective on rediscovery and embracing new seasons of life. There is power in putting down the ideas of how others perceive us and simply living as who we are truly meant to be. Just like a lovingly home-cooked meal, Shauna has all the elements to truly satisfy your soul. We'd love to see you recreate the meal that Shauna shared in this episode! Don't forget to tag us @BiancaOlthoff and @sniequist. If this podcast inspired you in some way, pass it on to a friend, because sharing is caring! Love you, B RESOURCES/LINKS: Shauna’s Book: I Guess I Haven't Learned That Yet: Discovering New Ways of Living When the Old Ways Stop Working Shauna’s Hearty Italian Stew Ingredients Onions Shallots Garlic Carrots Tomatoes Fennel Sausage White beans Spinach Lots of Parmesan Use a soup stock of your preference. Combine all ingredients. Add salt or Italian spices to taste. Sides Loaf of Sourdough Bread Green Salad Vinaigrette made with wine vinegar, apple cider vinegar or lemon juice Drinks Sparkling water Red wine Dessert Blackberries A couple of bars of dark chocolate broken up into pieces Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.”

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Ep 80: Letting Grief Heal You, Mourning, Loss, Experiencing Shalom, and Uvalde with Bianca Juarez Olthoff

Mon, 30 May 2022 07:00:00 -0000

Hi Friends! Oftentimes, grief is a process associated with major life-altering situations such as the death of a loved one or a traumatic experience. But there are also smaller instances where feelings of loss can occur, for example, losing a job or a friendship breakup. In today's episode I'm talking about ways we can deal with grief and loss. As we settle into this conversation my heart and my hope is that you can begin to identify areas in your life where you may need to grieve. Or perhaps you've been in a season of loss, and you can find some healing from this conversation. So, whether you're accepting the loss of a dream, beginning a healing journey, or looking for a way to support a loved one through grief, this podcast is for you. As you listen, I hope you can find your shalom and allow God to heal your hurt. Don't forget to tag me @BiancaOlthoff to let me know what healing looks like for you. Love you, ?? B RESOURCES/LINKS: https://www.nytimes.com/2021/04/22/well/what-happens-in-the-body-during-grief.html Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.”

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Ep 79: Bamboozled By Jesus: Being Tricked into the Life of Your Dreams with Yvonne Orji

Mon, 23 May 2022 07:00:00 -0000

Hi Friends! I hope you came ready to laugh! In today’s episode I chat with Yvonne Orji, an Emmy-nominated Nigerian American actress, writer and comedian. She entertains international audiences and is a sought-after speaker. Her TEDx talk; “The Wait Is Sexy,” has garnered over a million views. In this episode, I get to ask Yvonne the perennial question: Does God have a sense of humor? I’m a firm believer that God not only has a sense of humor but has a great sense of humor. As someone who values humor, wit, and banter, I’ve come to see it reflected in Scripture from the One who created the world. Whether you believe in God or not, Jesus longs to have a relationship with you! So, I can’t imagine that if we, His most valuable creation, have wide varieties of humor that range through individual personalities, that the God of the universe, who created us in His image, does not have one. I hope you enjoy listening to Yvonne as much as I enjoyed interviewing her. Do me a favor, take notes, laugh, and tag @YvonneOrji and I @BiancaOlthoff, on Instagram to win a copy of her fabulous book! Love you, B RESOURCES: Yvonne Orji Book: Bamboozled By Jesus: How God Tricked Me into the Life of My Dreams https://www.yvonneorji.com/ The wait is sexy | Yvonne Orji | TEDxWilmingtonSalon: https://youtu.be/8zw7AXwnb8M

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Ep 78: When Life Lets You Down with Jordan Lee Dooley

Mon, 16 May 2022 07:00:00 -0000

Hi Friends! We’ve all gone through hard seasons in life. And some of us have even been through a season wanting to fulfill a dream or get a promotion or the family that we’ve always wanted and then not being able to get what we want when it seems like we’re almost there. In today’s episode, my guest Jordan Lee Dooley will be sharing with us some practical steps on how to navigate painful setbacks and hardships. Jordan shares how difficult experiences, waiting seasons, and our greatest disappointments can bring clarity to what we really want in life. If you find yourself frustrated because you are not where you thought you should be in life, this episode is for you. Life is filled with unmet expectations, disrupted dreams, uncertainty, and in-between seasons. Lean in and listen to how Jordan’s experiences taught her to take a long pause, audit her life, and learn how to gain greater clarity about what she truly wanted, why she wanted it, and how to begin pursuing it. Friend, if you are in a season of in-betweens, not-quites, and unknowns you are not alone. You belong to this community and we’re here for you. Let Jordan know how this episode has impacted you by tagging us @BiancaOlthoff and @JordanLeeDooley Talk to you next week, friend! Love you, B LINKS / RESOURCES: Book - Embrace Your Almost: https://jordanleedooley.com/eya Safe Families for Children: https://safe-families.org/ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.”

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Ep 77: Beyond the BossBabe: Music, Business, Infertility and the Weapon Behind Tasha Cobbs Leonard

Mon, 09 May 2022 07:00:00 -0000

Hi Family! Welcome back to a new season of the podcast. On today’s episode we are kicking off season FIVE with the incomparable and uber talented Tasha Cobbs Leonard. I’m excited to jump into today’s interview and topic at hand. I’m sure you’ve seen or heard the phrase BossBabe or GirlBoss. Women are using the tags on photos that demonstrate their professional or personal strength, fearlessness, successes, and ambition, and desire to lift up others in the process. But something about those titles and ethos rubbed me the wrong way. It seems that by having to identify ourselves as GIRLBOSS and shouting our girl-ness and boss-ness from the hashtag rooftops that we’re overcompensating for something – why not just show your success by being a good boss. Tasha could use the hashtag all day everyday of BossBabe, but instead she uses her entrepreneurial, pastoral, and creative prowess to SHOW not tell. I can’t wait for you to get to know and love this beautiful and talented woman of God. Take notes and quotes and tag us @BiancaOlthoff and @TashaCobbsLeonard on social media so we can repost your learnings. I love when our guests know the impact they are having! I can't wait to see what you're learning and loving about this series. Love you, B LINKS / RESOURCES: TashaCobbsLeonard.com Tasha and Kenneth Leonard - The Purpose Place Church Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.”

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Ep 76: BONUS - Prayer That Heals with Bianca Juarez Olthoff

Thu, 24 Mar 2022 07:00:00 -0000

Hi friends! We are on a break from our regularly scheduled podcast but between now and when we start our next season, I wanted to pop in and spread some love. If you're new around the podcast, let me welcome you and let you know that I'm excited that you've joined us for our podcast party!

It's in my honor to create content that equips and inspires you. I decided to go back to my roots. At my core, I’m a word nerd and Bible teacher so I'm sharing some teachings from the book of James that both Matt and I shared at The Father's House Orange County back in 2020. Yes, the year of the pandemic. You also get access to a Bible study guide for the series that will help you in your journey through the book of James, and it's absolutely FREE.

Send an email podcast@inthenameoflove.org to get your PDF today. And if you enjoy the podcast, it would be amazing if you left a positive review and subscribed to the podcast so you don't miss one episode.

I hope you enjoy the series and I can't wait for season five. If there was more in season four then there is a vibe in season five!

Love you friends!

🖤

RESOURCES:

Email podcast@inthenameoflove.org to get your James Series Guide

Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.”

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Ep 75: One Million Downloads Celebration with Jasmine Star and Bianca Juarez Olthoff

Mon, 21 Mar 2022 08:00:00 -0000

My Friends! We’re Going There Podcast has hit 1 MILLION downloads and we are here to celebrate!🎉

I took a pause from my day and hopped on a quick call with my twin sister Jasmine Star to process and savor this moment. You know why? Because I wanted to create an Ebenezer moment. A moment that I can look back to and remember how good God has been in my life.

But friends, this moment would not have been possible without YOU! I’m so grateful to all of the faithful listeners and for the not-so-faithful listeners too. Because everyone that’s clicked to listen to any of the episodes on any of the platforms has been a part of this milestone. THANK YOU!!!

I had a BIG dream, but I got here by starting small. I took the small step of looking up what the beginner podcasting equipment was, and bought it. That step created a ripple effect as I continued to take step after step to launch this podcast. And today, I’m celebrating 1 Million downloads. Yay!

If you have listened to 1 of the one million downloaded episodes, share with me what your #1 step is going to be as you pursue your dream. Post on your Stories what your #1 step is and tag me @BiancaOlthoff on it. Like my sister Jasmine said: You need to be ok with having the courage to put yourself out there and be publicly accountable and you need to be ok with being mediocre. You also need to be ok with God blessing what you’re doing to get to step #2.

I’ll be cheering you on from the sidelines!

Love you friends!

🖤

RESOURCES:

What’s your #1 step? Tag me at http://instagram.com/biancaolthoff

Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.”

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Ep 74: BONUS - Just Do It with Matt Olthoff

Thu, 17 Mar 2022 07:00:00 -0000

I hope you enjoy the series and I can't wait for season five. If there was more in season four then there is a vibe in season five!

Love you friends!

🖤

RESOURCES:

Email podcast@inthenameoflove.org to get your James Series Guide

Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.”

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Ep 73: BONUS - Prescription For Your Pain with Bianca Juarez Olthoff

Thu, 10 Mar 2022 08:00:00 -0000

I hope you enjoy the series and I can't wait for season five. If there was more in season four then there is a vibe in season five!

Love you friends!

🖤

RESOURCES:

Email podcast@inthenameoflove.org to get your James Series Guide

Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.”

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Ep 72: BONUS - See. Say. Show. with Bianca Juarez Olthoff

Thu, 03 Mar 2022 08:00:00 -0000

I hope you enjoy the series and I can't wait for season five. If there was more in season four then there is a vibe in season five!

Love you friends!

🖤

RESOURCES:

Email podcast@inthenameoflove.org to get your James Series Guide

Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.”

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Ep 71: BONUS - Getting Over What You Are Under with Bianca Juarez Olthoff

Thu, 24 Feb 2022 08:00:00 -0000

I hope you enjoy the series and I can't wait for season five. If there was more in season four then there is a vibe in season five!

Love you friends!

🖤

RESOURCES:

Email podcast@inthenameoflove.org to get your James Series Guide