In Part 1 of this special two-part episode of Please Me! Podcast, Eve sits down with boudoir and fashion photographer Vera Glass for a deep conversation on the female gaze, body confidence, sensuality, and self-expression. Together they explore how boudoir photography can become a powerful tool for embodiment, healing, feminine empowerment, and reconnecting with your sensual self.

Vera shares how her photography differs from traditional “male gaze” imagery by centering women’s comfort, emotional safety, confidence, and authenticity. From curated luxury photoshoots and cinematic imagery to breathwork, nervous system regulation, and emotional healing, this episode dives into the psychology behind sensual photography and why so many women leave boudoir sessions feeling transformed.

Eve and Vera also discuss body image, self-worth, intimacy, feminine energy, and how intentional photography can help women reconnect with their bodies after heartbreak, divorce, motherhood, trauma, or major life transitions.

Perfect for listeners interested in boudoir photography, self-love, body positivity, embodiment, sensual wellness, feminine confidence, sexuality, intimacy, and personal growth. Be sure to come back for Part 2 this Friday.

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This conversation explores the psychology behind dollification, sissy play, dominance and submission, humiliation, affirmation, consent, and the emotional impact of gendered power dynamics within kink spaces. Lady Veronika shares how ethical gender play can help people better understand identity, embodiment, fantasy, and self-expression while challenging shame, stigma, and outdated ideas around femininity and masculinity.

Eve and Lady Veronika also discuss the transformative nature of doll play, the importance of boundaries and intentionality in BDSM, and how kink can be used to build people up rather than tear them down. From fetish culture and trans identity to conscious kink practices and erotic self-acceptance, this episode offers a thoughtful and deeply intimate look into modern BDSM dynamics.

Perfect for listeners curious about kink education, BDSM relationships, doll play, feminization, gender expression, power exchange, consent, sexual empowerment, and alternative intimacy.

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Each week offers a curated rhythm of healing, education, connection, and play, featuring guest educators, performers, workshops, and experiences designed to encourage exploration, authenticity, and community. The month builds toward an unforgettable 3-day finale that brings everything together in a powerful closing experience.

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In Part 2 of this conversation, host Eve continues her discussion with Dr. Nic and Prof Mike of Divine Guidance, exploring what it means to be blindsided in a relationship and how to rebuild self-trust after emotional disruption.

This episode dives into intuition in relationships, emotional patterns in dating, and the self-awareness needed to navigate both new and long-term partnerships. The conversation unpacks why people stay in misaligned relationships, the difference between hope vs. certainty, and how to recognize early red flags before deeper attachment forms.

Eve and her guests also break down ghosting behavior, why partners come back after disappearing, and how to make confident, grounded decisions rooted in clarity—not confusion. The episode concludes with a practical role play covering communication skills, financial compatibility, and relationship alignment.

Key Topics:
• Being blindsided in a relationship and emotional recovery
• Rebuilding self-trust and confidence after heartbreak
• Intuition in dating and relationships
• Emotional patterns and relationship cycles
• Hope vs. certainty in love and decision-making
• Red flags in early dating stages
• Ghosting behavior and why people come back
• Communication skills in relationships
• Financial compatibility and relationship alignment
• Self-awareness and healthy relationship tools
Connect With the Guests

Dr. Nic & Prof Mike | Divine Guidance
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In this powerful Part 1 conversation, Eve sits down with Dr. Nic and Professor Mike Sebastian from the Trust Your Gut Save Your Ass Podcast to unpack what it really means to be blindsided in a relationship—and how to find your way back to yourself.

Through a deeply personal story, Eve shares her experience of financial manipulation within her marriage and the long-term impact it had on her life, credit, and sense of self. What begins as a reflection on a Netflix show quickly unfolds into a much larger conversation about red flags, intuition, trauma responses, and the patterns that keep people stuck in unhealthy relationships.

Together, they explore how financial dynamics can quietly erode a partnership, why so many people overlook early warning signs, and how societal pressure—especially for women—can lead to compromising your truth. This episode dives into the importance of emotional awareness, recognizing misalignment early, and understanding the role both partners play in relationship dynamics.

Dr. Nic and Professor Mike introduce the concept of “resonance” in relationships—how shared values, habits, and everyday preferences matter more than we often realize—and why ignoring small incompatibilities can lead to major fractures down the line. They also break down one of the most powerful and confronting questions you can ask in any relationship:

“Are you willing to work on this?”

This episode is an honest, nuanced look at love, accountability, and the journey of rebuilding trust—not just with others, but within yourself.

Stay tuned for Part 2, where things get even deeper with a live relationship role-play and communication breakdown.

Key Topics Covered

• Financial manipulation and financial infidelity in relationships
• Recognizing relationship red flags early
• How trauma impacts communication and decision-making
• The psychology of staying in unhealthy relationships
• Sexless marriage and emotional disconnection
• Rebuilding self-trust after divorce
• Dating app culture and dishonesty statistics
• The myth of “opposites attract” vs. relationship compatibility
• Understanding “resonance” and alignment in partnerships
• The role of intuition, gut feelings, and emotional awareness
• One question that can determine the future of your relationship

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Dr. Nic & Prof Mike | Divine Guidance
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Welcome back to Please Me! Podcast, the award-winning sexuality podcast hosted by Eve, where bold conversations around intimacy, pleasure, and sexual wellness help de-stigmatize the way we talk about sex.

In this episode, Eve sits down with Luna Rose—ritual artist, kink guide, and herbalist behind Wild Pleasure Sanctuary—to explore the powerful intersection of eco-sensuality, BDSM, and embodied desire.

Luna shares how she weaves together Shibari rope work, plant-based practices, herbal medicine, and ritual to create deeply transformative experiences rooted in presence, connection, and pleasure.

From working with herbs like rose, lavender, and rosemary in sensual play to using rope for nervous system regulation and mindfulness, this conversation expands the possibilities of intimacy, healing, and self-expression.

If you're curious about conscious kink, alternative intimacy, or holistic approaches to sexuality, this episode will open your perspective in a grounded and empowering way.

• What eco-sensuality is and how nature deepens intimacy
• How plants like rose, lavender, and rosemary enhance sensual and kink experiences
• The grounding and therapeutic benefits of Shibari rope bondage
• How rope supports nervous system regulation and embodiment
• Why consent, communication, and safety are essential in BDSM
• How ritual and plant medicine intersect with sexuality
• Safe ways to explore self-pleasure and kink curiosity

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Together, they explore the deeper links between trauma, boundaries, sexual health, and relationship dynamics. This episode dives into how emotional labor impacts desire, why the orgasm gap persists, and how high-achieving women often prioritize others at the expense of their own needs.

You’ll also hear a practical role-play segment that demonstrates how to communicate desires, set boundaries, and confidently center your pleasure in intimate relationships.

If you’ve ever struggled with overgiving, loss of desire, or difficulty asking for what you want—in bed or in life—this episode offers both insight and actionable tools to help you reclaim your power and reconnect with your body.

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In this episode, Eve sits down with Dr. Jordan Wiggins, naturopathic doctor, author of Pink Canary, and host of The Pleasure Principles Podcast. Together they explore why high-achieving women often struggle in toxic relationships and how qualities like empathy, loyalty, and responsibility—what Dr. Wiggins calls “Super Traits”—can drive success while also keeping women stuck in unhealthy relationship patterns.

They discuss the connection between trauma, intimacy, libido, and emotional burnout, and why many successful women experience mismatched desire, sexless marriages, or disconnection in relationships despite thriving professionally.

This conversation also explores praise kink, emotional labor in relationships, and how “love languages” can sometimes be weaponized when one partner over-functions while the other under-functions.

In This Episode

• What Super Traits are and how they affect relationships
• The connection between trauma and toxic relationship patterns
• Why high-achieving women struggle with libido and intimacy
• How chronic stress and over-functioning shut down pleasure centers
• The role of praise, validation, and emotional labor in relationships
• Why pleasure and fulfillment are essential for overall health

Eve also highlights two powerful resources designed to support long-term sexual health, pleasure, and prevention:

 The Sexual Longevity Protocol: The Private Client Blueprint for Lifelong Sexual Pleasure

The Sexual Longevity Protocol Course - Please Me!

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In this episode, Eve welcomes Genevieve Lejeune, founder of Skirt Club, the world’s first global membership community created exclusively for bisexual and bicurious women. What began as a small gathering in London has grown into a thriving international network with 27,000+ members across 36 cities, offering curated events, workshops, and retreats designed to create safe spaces for women to explore identity, connection, and pleasure.

Together, Eve and Genevieve discuss:

• Exploring bisexuality, sexual identity, and self-discovery
• Why women-only spaces support safety, confidence, and exploration
• The role of consent, communication, and boundaries in intimacy
• How embodiment practices and sexual energy reconnect women to their bodies
• The importance of community, autonomy, and self-pleasure in sexual wellness

Genevieve also shares insights into Skirt Club’s international retreats in destinations like Austin, Paris, Bali, and New York, where women experience embodiment workshops, intimacy practices, and personal development focused on feminine empowerment and connection.

Eve also highlights two powerful resources designed to support long-term sexual health, pleasure, and prevention:

 The Sexual Longevity Protocol: The Private Client Blueprint for Lifelong Sexual Pleasure
A 3-module, self-paced course designed to help men and women prevent and improve sexual health concerns such as low libido, vaginal dryness, erectile dysfunction, and decreased sensitivity—all from the comfort and privacy of your own home.

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In this episode of the Please Me Podcast, Eve sits down with Becky Gleed, a reproductive and perinatal health expert and host of the Perinatal and Reproductive Perspectives Podcast, to explore how infertility, IVF, and assisted reproduction impact intimacy, relationships, and mental health.

Eve also shares her personal IVF experience, opening up about how fertility treatments can shift sex from something spontaneous and connective into something scheduled and clinical—often creating emotional pressure and disconnection for couples. Together, they discuss the psychological toll of infertility and offer supportive, practical ways to maintain communication, intimacy, and emotional closeness throughout the journey.

This conversation also expands into postpartum realities, including breastfeeding challenges, identity shifts, and maternal mental health. They highlight the importance of prioritizing the wellbeing of the birthing individual and recognizing early signs of more serious conditions, including postpartum psychosis.

This episode is a compassionate and empowering resource for anyone navigating fertility challenges, reproductive health concerns, or changes in intimacy during the journey to parenthood.

What You’ll Learn
• How infertility and IVF affect intimacy and relationships
• Why fertility treatments can create emotional stress and disconnection
• Ways to maintain connection and communication during fertility challenges
• The importance of advocating for yourself in reproductive care
• The role of mental health support during infertility and IVF
• How postpartum recovery and breastfeeding can impact intimacy
• Understanding postpartum psychosis and the importance of early support

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Becky Gleed
Website: https://www.perinatalreproductivewellness.com/

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In this episode of Please Me, Eve introduces The Sexual Longevity Protocol: The Private Client Blueprint for Lifelong Sexual Pleasure—a proven, clinically informed system designed to help men and women prevent and improve common sexual health challenges before they become long-term issues.

From erectile dysfunction and vaginal dryness to low libido, decreased sensitivity, and performance concerns, Eve breaks down why these experiences are not just a normal part of aging—and what’s actually happening in the body when sexual function begins to decline.

At the core of sexual longevity is a powerful truth: sexual function is deeply connected to blood flow, consistent stimulation, and nervous system regulation. When these systems are supported, pleasure, confidence, and connection don’t have to fade—they can be maintained and even improved over time.

Eve introduces a prevention-first approach to sexual wellness, showing why what you do now directly impacts your future sex life—and why waiting until something is “wrong” is the biggest mistake people make.

About the Course:

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: The Private Client Blueprint for Lifelong Sexual Pleasure is a 3-module, self-paced course designed so you can take control of your sexual health from the comfort and privacy of your own home—no need to work with Eve directly to experience the benefits.

Inside, you’ll find:

• Module 1: Women’s Sexual Health Hacks
  Targeted strategies to support arousal, lubrication, sensitivity, and long-term vaginal health

• Module 2: Men’s Sexual Health Hacks
  Practical tools to improve erectile function, stamina, performance, and confidence

• Module 3: Safety Sexual Health Hacks
  A critical, often overlooked component focused on nervous system regulation, safety, and sustainable pleasure—because true sexual longevity requires both physical function and a regulated, responsive body

This private client blueprint is designed to help you restore, maintain, and protect your sexual function for years to come—without guesswork.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

• The real root cause behind declining sexual function (vascular health)

• How to improve arousal, sensitivity, and sexual performance naturally

• The role of the nervous system in pleasure, safety, and intimacy

• How to prevent vaginal atrophy and erectile dysfunction

• Why a proactive sexual wellness routine is essential for long-term pleasure

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In this episode of the Please Me Podcast, host Eve Hall sits down with renowned certified sexologist Marla Renee Stewart for a powerful conversation about seduction styles, intimacy, sexual communication, and authentic connection in relationships.

Marla, founder of Velvet Lips and co-founder of the Sex Down South Conference, shares insights from more than two decades of studying human sexuality and helping individuals and couples improve their sex lives. Together, they explore the three seduction styles and explain how understanding these styles can transform attraction, dating, communication, and intimacy.

Rather than manipulation, seduction is about recognizing your sexual strengths and using them to build genuine emotional and physical connection. This episode explores how visual, auditory, and tactile seduction styles influence the way we flirt, attract partners, and create deeper relationships.

Listeners will gain practical relationship advice, sexual wellness insights, and dating guidance for creating stronger emotional and erotic connections. Whether you are single, dating, or in a long-term relationship, understanding seduction styles can help you communicate better, increase attraction, and build more fulfilling intimacy.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode

• The three seduction styles: visual, auditory, and tactile

• How to identify your seduction style and your partner’s

• Why seduction is about authentic connection—not manipulation

• How communication improves intimacy and attraction

• Common sexual challenges couples experience in relationships

• Strategies to reconnect with a partner sexually and emotionally

• Dating advice for singles looking for deeper relationships

• Why shared values are essential for long-term compatibility

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At age 50, she realized that desire doesn’t disappear because of aging or hormones — it fades when emotional safety erodes, communication shuts down, and the body stops feeling invited into the relationship.

Together, Eve and Xanet explore how to rebuild intimacy after a sexless marriage, repair emotional ruptures, heal trauma, and redefine sex beyond penetration to create lasting connection and pleasure. Topics Covered

• Emotional safety as the foundation of sexual intimacy

• Why repair is critical in long-term relationships

• The impact of childhood shame and medical trauma on desire

• Healing sexual shutdown through tantra and embodied practices

• Expanding the definition of sex beyond penetration

• Navigating erectile dysfunction with compassion and creativity

• Mutual masturbation and alternative intimacy practices

• How to start difficult conversations about sex

• Touching for your own pleasure to build erotic connection

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Together, they unpack the rarely discussed realities of men’s sexual health, including performance anxiety, shame, stress, and identity — and how these factors deeply impact intimacy, relationships, and mental health.

Brent shares candid personal experiences with erectile dysfunction caused by stress and exhaustion, shedding light on how strongly many men tie sexual performance to masculinity and self-worth. The conversation explores how fear, shame, and societal expectations can quickly turn sex from a source of connection into a source of anxiety — and what men (and their partners) can do to interrupt that cycle.

This episode also dives into foundational habits for long-term sexual health, including sleep, nutrition, hydration, exercise, stress management, and honest self-assessment. Eve and Brent address the men’s mental health and loneliness epidemic, the outdated “playbook” men are still handed, and why vulnerability is often encouraged in theory but punished in practice.

The episode concludes with a realistic and educational role-play conversation, modeling how couples can communicate desires, boundaries, fantasies, and consent — proving that healthy sexual communication can be awkward, playful, respectful, and deeply connecting.

• Men’s sexual performance anxiety and identity

• Erectile dysfunction, stress, and exhaustion

• Shame and fear surrounding sexual health issues

• When men should seek support for sexual health concerns

• Sleep, hydration, nutrition, and cardiovascular health for sexual wellness

• Testosterone, exercise, and healthy fats

• Men’s mental health crisis and loneliness epidemic

• Why traditional therapy often misses men

• Masculinity, vulnerability, and societal expectations

• Initiating intimacy and feeling desired as a man

• Power dynamics, submission, and stress relief in the bedroom

• How to talk to your partner about fantasies and boundaries

• Consent, communication, and curiosity in long-term relationships

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This candid, educational conversation explores sexual wellness tools designed to support blood flow, sensitivity, endurance, and confidence — for all genders.

Building on his Season 6 appearance, Sam returns to share the latest data, devices, and innovations in sexual health, including pumps for men and women, endurance training, and the science behind arousal, aging, and prevention.

• How blood flow directly impacts sexual pleasure, sensitivity, and function

• Why sexual wellness is preventative care, not just a solution after problems arise

• The science behind penis pumps, extenders, and female vacuum devices

How regular pumping may support:

• Increased sensitivity

• Improved natural lubrication

• Enhanced erectile quality

• Vaginal and vulvar tissue health

• The connection between aging, atrophy, and sexual function in both men and women

• How women experience arousal and engorgement — and why it matters for pleasure

• A deep dive into penile endurance training and edging practices

• How men can dramatically increase stamina and control through guided training

• Why lasting longer isn’t a “problem to fix” — it’s a trainable skill

• How improved endurance can open the door to deeper intimacy, novelty, and fantasy

• A playful, fan-favorite role play segment exploring how to introduce new tools into a relationship

Sam Itshaki first joined Please Me! in Season 6 for a powerful two-part deep dive into male enhancement, sexual confidence, and the foundations of blood-flow-based sexual wellness. These fan-favorite episodes laid the groundwork for today’s conversation and are a great place to start if you’re new to Sam’s work.

Part 1:
https://open.spotify.com/episode/6HFc6AVk1JMpIg3EZBfDnz?si=W5AZ4es3RZWJteUo7SqpHQ

Part 2:
https://open.spotify.com/episode/6nWGLezGEQW9KqLYfJkyrv?si=SlAXCixtTOu-NaGx25GnPA

Together, these episodes explore the origins of Mr. Get Bigger Now, early research on pumping and endurance training, and how men can reclaim agency over their sexual performance and pleasure.

Connect with Sam Itshaki

Website:
https://getbiggernow.com

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In this episode of Please Me, we’re joined by Kayla Moore, certified sex therapist, pleasure coach, and sovereign guide for women warriors rising, for a powerful conversation about reclaiming pleasure, healing sexual conditioning, and restoring the sacred feminine.

Kayla explores how patriarchal systems, religion, and cultural norms have shaped our relationship to sex, desire, and intimacy—and why pleasure is not limited to sex, but is deeply connected to nervous system safety, embodiment, and emotional connection. Together, we discuss divine feminine and divine masculine energies, the importance of healing in community, and how slowing down intimacy can create deeper, more fulfilling relationships.

This episode also features a live role-play modeling healthy communication around desire, boundaries, pacing, and emotional safety—offering practical language listeners can use in their own relationships.

• Pleasure as a pathway to healing and empowerment

• The sacred feminine and sacred masculine within all people

• How patriarchy impacts sexuality and intimate relationships

• Why emotional safety is essential for intimacy and desire

• Healing sexual desire through community and connection

• How to communicate needs, boundaries, and pace in relationships

Connect with Eve & Please Me

• Website: https://pleaseme.online

• Social Media & Contact: https://pleaseme.online/contacts

• Substack Newsletter: https://pleaseme.substack.com

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In this powerful episode, Eve welcomes Emma Galland, a renowned sex educator and Tantra coach, for an expansive discussion on how sexuality functions as a portal to self-realization, creativity, and liberation.

Together, they explore how orgasms are not merely physical events, but nervous-system experiences capable of releasing grief, anger, fear, joy, and shame. Emma breaks down concepts such as cry orgasms, anger orgasms, joy orgasms, and location-specific orgasms, unpacking the neuroscience behind pleasure, sensation, and emotional expression.

This episode dives deep into:

• Tantra as a daily self-cultivation and embodiment practice

• Sexuality as life force energy and creative power

• How emotional orgasms support trauma healing

• Why presence—not performance—creates mind-blowing sex

• How men can cultivate sexual mastery and emotional capacity

• Releasing sexual shame as a pathway to freedom and confidence

• Boundaries, consent, and handling unwanted sexual attention

• Tantra vs. conventional sex: intention vs. performance

• Masturbation as a spiritual, nervous-system regulation practice

• Why pleasure expands confidence, creativity, and manifestation

This conversation is raw, educational, and deeply liberating—perfect for anyone ready to reclaim pleasure and close the orgasm gap.

Website:
https://tantricawakenings.com

(Explore Tantra teachings, guided practices, and resources for embodied intimacy.)

Website:
https://pleaseme.online

Social Media & Contact:
https://pleaseme.online/contacts

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Created for individuals and couples in the lifestyle, this interactive session reframes safety as sexy, consent as arousal, and communication as foreplay, offering practical tools for trust, connection, and better sex.

• Clear communication of yeses and nos without killing desire

• Making boundaries feel confident, sexy, and empowering

• Handling rejection respectfully in dating and lifestyle spaces

• STI education, including oral transmission risks

• Why consent, clarity, and curiosity increase attraction

• Discussing fantasies, kinks, and porn without pressure

• Safer sex strategies for ethically non-monogamous relationships

  
  

  Topics Covered

• Sexual boundaries and consent

• Safer sex vs. “safe sex”

• STI awareness and testing

• Ethical non-monogamy communication

• Fantasies, kinks, and desire-based conversations

• Rejection, respect, and community culture

• Body confidence and sexual empowerment

  
  

Episode MentionedMen’s Sexual Health, Nocturnal Erections & Heart Health

Guest: Dr. Elliot Justin

Eve speaks with Dr. Elliot Justin about the link between erectile function and cardiovascular health, introducing smart ring technology that tracks nocturnal erections, a key indicator of overall health. Fewer than three nightly erections may signal increased cardiovascular risk.

How to Connect with Eve & Please Me

Website
https://pleaseme.online

Social Media & Contact
https://pleaseme.online/contacts

Substack Newsletter
https://pleaseme.substack.com

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In this episode of Please Me Podcast, Eve Hall delivers an in-depth, sex-positive, medically informed conversation on sexual health, pleasure, and prevention for all genders. This episode covers how blood flow, hormones, nutrition, and self-knowledge directly impact arousal, erections, lubrication, orgasm, and long-term sexual wellness.

Eve breaks down why erectile dysfunction and vaginal dryness are often early warning signs of vascular health issues, why masturbation is an essential solo practice, and how understanding your own body is key to closing the orgasm gap. She also emphasizes the importance of STI testing, informed consent, and being prepared for safer sex — especially during the holidays and periods of increased sexual activity.

Listeners will gain practical tools, education, and prevention strategies to support confident, pleasurable, and safer sex at every stage of life.

• Sexual health as a reflection of overall cardiovascular and vascular health

• Erectile dysfunction, endothelial dysfunction, and blood flow

• Acoustic wave therapy for erectile and vaginal health

• Penis pumps, traction devices, and penile tissue health

• Masturbation, ejaculation frequency, and prostate health

• Female arousal anatomy, clitoral blood flow, and vaginal lubrication

• The importance of foreplay and arousal time

• Hormones and sexual function (testosterone, estrogen, progesterone, DHEA)

• Vaginal dryness, tissue thinning, and pain with sex

• Nutrition, micronutrients, hydration, sleep, and movement for sexual wellness

• Masturbation as self-care and pleasure literacy

• The orgasm gap in heterosexual relationships

• Communicating sexual needs with partners

• STI prevention, testing, and informed consent

• Oral and anal STI testing and why it matters

• Doxy-PEP and post-exposure STI prevention

• Sexual health “bug-out bags” and safer sex preparedness

• Yeast infections and UTIs related to sexual activity

• Herpes education and antiviral treatment

• HPV education, transmission, cancer risk, and vaccination

• Prevention-focused sexual healthcare and long-term intimacy

Website: https://pleaseme.online
Social Media & Contact: https://pleaseme.online/contacts
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In this special episode of the What’s Your Brand Story Podcast, host Dhylles Victoria sits down for a deeply personal and powerful conversation with Eve, creator of Please Me. Together, they explore the story behind the brand and how lived experience, trauma healing, and sexual liberation helped shape a global movement.

This episode dives into the realities of sexual health, pleasure, and healing, and why breaking the silence around these topics isn’t just important it’s essential.

In this episode, we discuss:

• Eve’s journey from childhood sexual trauma to sexual empowerment

• Why sexual health care is essential—not optional

• The orgasm gap and the truth about orgasm equality

• Why 95% of women require clitoral stimulation to orgasm

• Sexual health conditions rarely talked about, including:

  • Erectile dysfunction (ED)

  • Incontinence

  • Pelvic floor dysfunction

  • Premature ejaculation

• Healing sexual shame after trauma

• Men’s sexual health and why it matters too

• Pleasure, sex toys, vibrators, and redefining what “sex” really means

• How silence around sex causes harm—and how open dialogue creates healing

  
  

Connect with the Host

Dhylles Victoria
 What’s Your Brand Story Podcast
Listen on Spotify:
https://open.spotify.com/show/4u7va5FBlQmBq9bk3SB6Rx

Connect with Eve & Please Me

 Website:
https://pleaseme.online

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https://pleaseme.online/contacts

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https://pleaseme.substack.com

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In this meaningful episode, Eve reflects on LGBTQ+ advocacy, the power of visibility, and the importance of community—drawing inspiration from experiencing World Pride while in Washington, D.C. during the National Association of Women Business Owners (NAWBO) 50th Anniversary Conference. That intersection of global celebration and policy-centered advocacy sparked a deeper conversation around representation, accountability, and collective action.

This episode honors the resilience, brilliance, and humanity of LGBTQ+ voices while addressing the ongoing social and legislative challenges impacting the community today. This episode is dedicated to our trans and non-binary friends in the LGBTQ+ community, whose lives, leadership, and lived experiences deserve visibility, protection, and amplification.

Connect With Eve

Website:
https://pleaseme.online

Social Media & Contact:
https://pleaseme.online/contacts

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In this special feed drop episode, Please Me host Eve Hall shares a powerful conversation from the Shameless Care Podcast, exploring the history of HIV and AIDS—from its devastating beginnings to today’s life-saving medical breakthroughs.

This episode traces how fear, misinformation, and stigma shaped the early AIDS crisis, how science and activism transformed treatment, and where we stand now with modern prevention tools like antiretroviral therapy (ART) and PrEP. It’s a vital conversation about education, access, consent, and the importance of shame-free sexual health care.

• The first reported HIV/AIDS cases in the early 1980s

• Early misconceptions, panic, and stigma surrounding transmission

• The discovery of HIV and the development of testing

• Why AIDS was once considered universally fatal

• The role of public health leaders, including Dr. Anthony Fauci

• Activism, government response, and public education efforts

• Breakthroughs in HIV treatment and combination therapy (HAART)

• The meaning of Undetectable = Untransmittable (U=U)

• How PrEP has transformed HIV prevention

• Why HIV still affects communities today due to gaps in access and awareness 

  Connect With the Hosts

• Website: https://shamelesscare.com

• Podcast: Shameless Care Podcast

  
  

  Connect With Eve 

• Website: https://pleaseme.online

• Social Media & Contact: https://pleaseme.online/contacts

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Anthony previously closed out Season 5—one of the most-watched episodes of the show—and returns once again for this special two-part holiday finale. In Part 2, Eve and Anthony reflect on the most impactful lessons, listener feedback, and standout moments from Season 6, with a deeper focus on kink education, communication, and sexual liberation.

This episode revisits core pillars of sex-positive education, including consent, pleasure, boundaries, aftercare, and navigating sexual “icks.” Eve also shares major milestones for the show, such as industry award recognition, Spotify Wrapped achievements, and how podcasting has become a powerful tool for personal growth, community building, and accessible sex education.

Listeners will hear honest, education-based discussions on orgasm equality, sexual wellness tools, STI testing, erectile health, lubrication, toys, and how communication strengthens intimacy—whether you’re exploring BDSM, vanilla intimacy, or something in between.

This is a celebratory and empowering Season 6 finale (Part 2) honoring growth, curiosity, connection, and unapologetic big clit energy.

Topics Covered in This Episode

• Season 6 reflections and podcast growth milestones

• Why communication is the foundation of sexual satisfaction

• Kink education, BDSM basics, and the importance of aftercare

• Understanding sexual “icks” and navigating consent respectfully

• Role-play as a communication and connection tool

• Sensation play, pain scales, and the traffic-light consent system

• Sexual health testing, STI awareness, and oral/anal screening

• Erectile health, edging, penis pumps, and extenders (education-based discussion)

• Toys as tools for pleasure, connection, and orgasm equality

• The orgasm gap and how partners can close it together

• Holiday giveaways, Patreon exclusives, and listener support

  Guest Information

Anthony Weaver
Host, About That Wallet Podcast

Referenced Episode: Financial Trauma & Money Mindset
Listen on Spotify Connect with Eve

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Visit the site for podcast links, sponsors, sexual wellness resources, and educational tools.

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Bonnie’s Herbals
https://www.bonniesherbals.com/?AffId=3

CAKES
https://cakesbody.com/?ref=

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In the Season 6 finale of the Please Me Podcast, host Eve Hall is joined by Mistress Mia Darque, a professional dominatrix and BDSM educator with over 26 years of experience. This final installment of the Kink Education Series dives deep into power exchange, consent, sexual empowerment, and the importance of BIPOC representation in the kink community.

Designed for both newcomers and experienced practitioners, this episode explores dominance and submission psychology, communication, trust, and inclusive kink education. Mistress Mia also discusses nuanced BDSM practices, including sissification and corporal punishment, offering guidance for those curious about these dynamics.

What We Cover in This Episode

• Power exchange and its role in BDSM beyond physical sensation

• Consent, trust, and communication in kink dynamics

• The psychology of dominance and submission

• BIPOC history, influence, and representation in BDSM

• The importance of kink education and community storytelling

Guest Information

Mistress Mia Darque – Professional Dominatrix & BDSM Educator
Website: https://www.justsayred.com

Host Information

Eve Hall – Host, Please Me Podcast
Website & Resources: https://pleaseme.online

Sponsors & Resources

Shameless Care – . Use code PLEASEME for $15 off.
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Parlor Games – 
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Award-Winning Sex Education: Lessons from Season 6 of the Please Me Podcast | Season Finale

In the Season 6 finale of Please Me!, Eve welcomes back returning guest Anthony Weaver, host of the About That Wallet podcast, for a reflective and insightful season wrap-up conversation.

Anthony previously closed out Season 5—one of the most-watched episodes of the podcast—and returns for a special two-part holiday finale to revisit the most impactful moments, lessons, and themes from Season 6.

Together, Eve and Anthony reflect on standout episodes and listener feedback while exploring core pillars of sex-positive education, including communication, consent, pleasure, kink, boundaries, and aftercare. The conversation also highlights the continued growth of the Please Me! podcast and its expanding community.

This episode celebrates major milestones such as award recognition, Spotify Wrapped achievements, and increased listener engagement, underscoring the importance of accessible, inclusive, and educational conversations around sexuality, relationships, and personal growth.

Whether you’re a longtime listener or new to the show, this episode offers thoughtful insights, practical takeaways, and a meaningful look back at a powerful season of learning and connection.

• Season 6 highlights and key listener takeaways

• Communication and consent as the foundation of pleasure

• Kink education, boundaries, and the importance of aftercare

• Sexual wellness tools and sex toys for all genders

• Erectile health, edging, and pelvic floor education

• Period sex, sexual “icks,” and respectful sexual negotiation

• Financial trauma, mindset shifts, and personal growth

• Podcast growth, awards, Spotify Wrapped, and community impact

Anthony Weaver
Host, About That Wallet Podcast

 Website: https://aboutthatwallet.com

 Referenced Episode:
Financial Trauma & Money Mindset
https://open.spotify.com/episode/31neGQ0zMbBV9hwgpFik6M?si=qwGcHsinRVyAt2myNL8c-Q

 Website: https://pleaseme.online

Shameless Care — At-Home Sexual Health Testing
Use code PLEASEME for $15 off
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SDC.com — Free Trial Membership
Use code: 37340
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Parlor Games — Play-Based Intimacy Tools
https://www.parlor-games.com/shop/?AFFID=571343

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https://pleaseme.online

Juice Plus
https://pleaseme.online

Bonnie’s Herbals
https://pleaseme.online

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https://pleaseme.online

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In this raw, honest, pre-recorded episode, Eve dives deep into the real risks that can happen in the bedroom—the uncomfortable truths most people avoid but absolutely need to understand.

From modern dating culture to ethical non-monogamy (ENM), swinging, kink, and polyamory, Eve breaks down actual exposure risks, the tools that protect you, and how to stay empowered while enjoying pleasure.

This episode delivers accurate, science-based guidance on:

• Doxy-PEP

• PrEP

• HPV & herpes management

• At-home STI testing

• Emergency contraception

• Oxytocin arousal products

Eve also shares lived experiences from BDSM and femdom spaces—including DomCon—and explains why kink communities often lead the way in communication, consent, boundaries, and pre-negotiation.

Whether you’re casually dating, exploring ENM, attending play parties, or simply want more control over your sexual wellness, this conversation expands your knowledge and strengthens your sexual health toolkit.

• Modern dating culture & increased STI exposure

• Differences between polyamory, swinging, kink, and ENM

• Communication lessons from BDSM communities

• STI prevention tools:

  • At-home STI testing

  • Doxy-PEP

  • Daily PrEP

  • Emergency contraception

  • Herpes suppression

• The truth about herpes, HPV, and HIV

• Clarifying PrEP vs PEP

• Condom usage trends across sexual communities

• Oxytocin oral tabs, nasal spray & topical arousal cream

• Building a sexual health bug-out bag

• BDSM & kink events: DomCon, KinkFest, and more

If you want to go deeper into topics discussed in this episode, check out these related conversations from the Please Me Podcast:

• Abortion Episode
  https://open.spotify.com/episode/5lOJNjCl6K2cHFt3XB7i1D

• Pregnancy Options
  https://open.spotify.com/episode/6kP1BjJ3c6nbW3yOcJ0iSQ

• Shameless Care – Part 1
  https://open.spotify.com/episode/3NMBe90jI6My1THUuz8yWE

• Shameless Care – Part 2
  https://open.spotify.com/episode/3pqeN2QGkC03qUS2eLR8DX

• Erectile Dysfunction
  https://open.spotify.com/episode/7ujry6ovC5PMhn1s0csqgr

• Vaginal Sensitivity & Dryness
  https://open.spotify.com/episode/2mPDmNCun7jKJNIa9SgSxk

• Website: https://pleaseme.online
  (Coaching, discovery calls & resources)

• Social Media: https://pleaseme.online/contacts

• Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

• Patreon (Extended Episodes & Bonus Content):
  https://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast

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Submit your request via PodMatch:
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With over 20 years of experience as a Physical Therapist, now specializing in Sexual Health, Eve supports individuals navigating erectile dysfunction, decreased sensitivity, vaginal dryness, pelvic floor dysfunction, intimacy challenges, and the emotional barriers that prevent full sexual self-expression. She leads the global Orgasm Revolution, a movement dedicated to closing the orgasm gap, dismantling shame, and helping people reclaim pleasure as a birthright.

Eve speaks directly to those who have felt unseen, unheard, or disconnected from their sexual identity, offering insight, compassion, and a path back to self-trust and pleasure.

Her work is saving relationships.
Her message is transforming sexual wellness.
Her voice is igniting a revolution.

This conversation offers raw and honest insights into healing shame, improving sexual connection, cultivating body confidence, and embracing pleasure as a human right.

• Eve’s journey from trauma to sexual liberation

• The truth about the orgasm gap — and how to close it

• Why shame harms sexual wellness

• How communication, curiosity, and kink helped shape Eve’s identity

• How to join the global Orgasm Revolution

• What it takes to reclaim pleasure as a human right

  Connect With the Host — Gary Scott

YouTube Channel: What If You Could Podcast
Watch this full episode: YouTube Link

Connect With Eve Hall

Website: pleaseme.online
Social Media & Contact: pleaseme.online/contacts
Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com
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Commercial Mentions / Affiliate Links

• Parlor Games: https://www.parlor-games.com/shop/?AFFID=571343

• LifeWave: https://lifewave.com/PleaseMe

• Bonnie’s Herbals: https://www.bonniesherbals.com/?AffId=3

• Eve’s Toy Store: https://pleaseme.online/vibrators-and-toys/

• Shameless Care — At-Home Sexual Health Testing: Use code PLEASME for $15 off: https://shamelesscare.com

• SDC.com — Free Trial Membership: Use code 37340: https://www.sdc.com/

  Mentioned Resources / Causes

• World Vision — Philippines Disaster Relief: https://worldvision.org

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In this episode, we explore the foundations of BDSM—including bondage, impact play, electroplay, wax play, and sensation play—with Ben, a kink educator and experienced representative of The Kink Shop. With years of hands-on experience at nationwide kink events, Ben offers practical guidance on choosing the right BDSM tools, playing safely, and understanding the sensory differences between thud, sting, electricity, and temperature play.

Listeners will discover the essentials of safe toy use, negotiation, consent, and hygiene—plus insights into The Kink Shop’s handcrafted designs, leather quality, beginner-friendly tools, and ergonomic impact toys. Whether you're new to BDSM or looking to deepen your skills, this episode delivers approachable, accurate, and sex-positive kink education.

BDSM Foundations

• What BDSM stands for: Bondage, Dominance, Submission, Sadism, Masochism

• Psychological and emotional dynamics within power exchange

• Negotiation, communication, and informed consent

Impact Play Essentials

• Thud vs sting: how sensations differ and who they suit

• How leather type changes feel: suede, chap, bison, moose, mule deer

• Beginner-friendly toys: bunny floggers, boa floggers

• Finger-loop floggers & why they reduce joint strain for tops

Sensation Play Tools

• Leather & conductive claw gloves

• Scratch mitts

• Mop-in-a-Pocket toy

• Vegan impact tool options

Electroplay & the Violet Wand

• How a violet wand works

• Sensation range: light tingles to intense stimulation

• Combining electroplay with other kink tools

• Essential violet-wand safety practices

Wax Play Safety

• Skin-safe wax types vs dangerous household candles

• Heat management techniques

• Distance & layering for sensation control

Toy Hygiene & Care

• Cleaning leather, rubber, and electroplay tools

• Avoiding cross-contamination in shared scenes

• Long-term storage tips for handcrafted toys

Connect with Ben (The Kink Shop)

Website: www.thekinkshop.com
FetLife: @thekinkshop_Ben

Mentioned Resources

Shameless Care — Use code PLEASME for $15 off at-home sexual health testing
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Please Me Podcast Patreon — Extended episodes & bonus content
→ patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast

Connect With Eve Hall

Website: pleaseme.online
Social Media Links: pleaseme.online/contacts
Substack: pleaseme.substack.com
Patreon: patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast

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I also share parts of my own healing journey after sexual trauma, emphasizing the power of communication, consent, and shame-free exploration. We discuss approachable ways to explore fantasies, kink, desire, and pleasure with curiosity and confidence. This conversation is packed with insights for anyone looking to reconnect with their body, build sexual confidence, and deepen intimacy in their relationships.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode

• How to embody Big Clit Energy™

• Practical ways to close the persistent orgasm gap

• Why foreplay is essential for female arousal

• Safe, accessible ways to explore kink and fantasies

• How communication strengthens intimacy

• How shame and conditioning impact pleasure

• Tools for reconnecting with your sensual body after trauma

  
  Connect With Heather Shannon

  Heather Shannon, LCPC
  Website: heathershannon.co

  Mentioned Resources

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Together we explore how bondage, ritual, humiliation, sexual sadism, and power exchange can serve not only erotic expression but also nervous system regulation, trauma processing, and emotional liberation. What begins as a conversation about rope quickly expands into a rich discussion about worship, devotion, fear release, identity, surrender, and the transformative role of a Dominant who leads with intention and precision.

This episode opens the door to understanding kink as both art and psychology, and how deep D/s can create safety, stillness, and meaning for those who crave structure, containment, or catharsis.

• Why 20% of the body’s energy feeds the brain and how cognitive load, overthinking, and perfectionism show up in bondage scenes

• Bondage as nervous system regulation — creating stillness, presence, and relief for anxious or neurodivergent minds who struggle with meditation

• Somatic containment through rope and restraint for anxiety, trauma, and hypermobility conditions (including Ehlers-Danlos and other connective tissue differences)

• The paradox of safety through restriction — how removing choice, movement, and anticipated pressure can reduce anxiety and soothe a dysregulated nervous system

• Femme Domme philosophy and energetic leadership — what it means to embody dominance, hold power, and create psychological structures for surrender

• Sexual sadism and humiliation — how intention, emotional tone, and negotiated meaning differentiate harm from healing, and cruelty from catharsis

• The psychology of worship and groveling — why submission, devotion, and being at Her feet can be grounding, erotic, or spiritually significant

• Ritual in kink — how structure, ceremony, and symbolic actions frame scenes, build trust, and regulate the body’s response to intensity

• Lifestyle vs. professional domination — the differences in purpose, boundaries, emotional bandwidth, and the Dominant’s role in each dynamic

• Deep-dive negotiation practices — understanding limits, desires, tone, chemistry, and psychological triggers before entering a scene

• A full, realistic BDSM pre-scene negotiation role play so listeners can hear how safe, ethical, consent-based kink is structured before any play begins

• The Dominant’s internal process — emotional labor, reading the submissive’s physiology, and creating a safe container for intensity

• How humiliation can be affirming, transformative, or erotic depending on the submissive’s psychology and agreed roles

• Bondage as an anchor for embodiment — helping the mind exit constant vigilance and enter stillness, surrender, or erotic presence 

Touch Me There: Vaginal Reflexology, Squirting Secrets & Orgasmic Magic — available here: https://open.spotify.com/episode/0AsOZmGPvMiR3pQfVZKfxR?si=fFDg8SQqS7OCQQn5ptYGoA

Connect with the Guest

Mistress Audry Lu Black
Podcast: Placemaker for Perversion
Substack: https://audrylublack.substack.com/
Official Website: https://mistresslublack.com/

Mentioned Resources

Hani Cheng – Talk to the Peach: Sensual healing, feminine pleasure, and reconnecting with your body (Listen here)

Hani Cheng – Reflexology: Mapping female genitals with reflexology for pleasure and body awareness (Listen here)

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SDC.com — Use code 37340 for a free trial membership

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In this episode of the Please Me! Podcast, we explore how to deepen intimacy, strengthen communication, and enhance sexual wellness through intentional relationship rituals and beautifully designed intimacy tools. This conversation blends practical sex education, emotional connection strategies, and insights into how your environment and bedroom aesthetics influence desire and pleasure.

We break down the transformative Four Intimacies Framework—verbal, emotional, physical, and spiritual intimacy—showing how each dimension supports long-term relationship success. From daily closeness-building rituals to the benefits of luxury silicone lubricants for comfort and long-lasting pleasure, this episode offers couples and individuals actionable tools for a more connected, fulfilling love life.

Whether you're looking to build emotional safety, face relationship challenges with compassion, or elevate your intimacy routine, this episode provides a modern, sex-positive roadmap for creating lasting connection.

Topics Covered

• The Four Intimacies: verbal, emotional, physical & spiritual

• Daily rituals that strengthen connection in relationships

• How bedroom aesthetics and environment impact desire

• Benefits of luxury silicone lubricants for comfort & confidence

• The Love Tank model for emotional availability

• How to communicate through relationship “icks” with compassion

  Connect With the Guests Dr. Amy Clark & Roy Clark
  Website: arialuxelife.com

  
  

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In this episode of Please Me! Podcast, Dr. Eve continues her Kink Education Series, inspired by DomCon New Orleans. Dive into BIPOC kink history, subspace and domspace neurochemistry, neurodiverse pleasure, somatic practices, pet play, foot play, anal play, and trauma-informed, consent-based kink education.

Learn practical tools, cultural insights, and safety guidance for exploring kink in a mindful, therapeutic way.

Topics Covered🌍 BIPOC History & Cultural Lineage

• African, Indigenous, and non-Western roots of kink

• Yoruba deity Oshun, rituals, trance, and altered states

• Why cultural acknowledgment matters in modern BDSM

• Understanding subspace and domspace

• The “BDSM chemical cocktail”: dopamine, endorphins, cortisol, adrenaline

• Aftercare to prevent sub-drop and dom-drop

• Parallels with meditation, hypnosis, and somatic therapy

• How autistic and ADHD individuals thrive in kink

• Sensory needs, structure, and nervous system regulation

• Identity exploration and self-expression

• Puppy, kitten, pony, cow play, and more

• Safety and confidence in animal headspace

• Masks, hoods, and ritual gear as identity tools

• Psychological and somatic benefits

• Safety, hygiene, and party/event etiquette

• Hygiene, prep, body-safe materials, and pleasure mapping

• Trauma-informed educational approach

• Clinical, non-sexual medical play explained

• Trauma-aware role-play and consent demos

Perfect for anyone curious about:

• BDSM safety

• Neurodiverse kink practices

• Trauma-informed intimacy

• Somatic pleasure exploration

• Cultural history in kink

This episode is concise, informative, and actionable — grounded in sex education, historical insight, and safety practices.

🧠 Subspace, Domspace & Neurochemistry🧩 Neurodiversity & BDSM🐾 Pet Play & Role-Play👣 Foot Play Basics🍑 Anal Play & Pegging🩺 Medical Play & Educational Role-PlayWhy ListenConnect with the Guests

The Commandant — Professional Dominatrix, BDSM Educator & Kink Historian
Website: hausofthecommandant.com

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Bria opens up about the inspiration behind Her Dark Promise, her twisted Beauty and the Beast retelling, while offering exclusive insight into her upcoming dark Pinocchio retelling and a new morally gray romance currently in development. We also discuss her Disney upbringing, how innocence and darkness intertwine in adult fantasy, and why readers crave complex, flawed, emotionally intense characters.

This episode includes a raw, vulnerable role-play segment delving into boundaries, relationships, communication, desire, self-worth, erotic identity, and reclaiming feminine power. Perfect for listeners who adore dark romance, romantasy, adult fairy-tale retellings, erotic storytelling, and trauma-informed character development.

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In this episode, host Eve Hall sits down once again with Sean Shutt and Amanda Courier of the Touchy Subjects Podcast for a powerful and eye-opening conversation about human trafficking awareness and prevention. Together, they dive deep into the realities of sex trafficking, labor trafficking, and the systems that put vulnerable individuals at risk.

Sean and Amanda break down common myths about human trafficking, clarify what trafficking actually looks like in the U.S., and explain how predators use online grooming tactics to target youth. The discussion also sheds light on high-risk populations, including runaway and homeless youth, LGBTQ+ individuals, foster-involved teens, and marginalized communities.

Listeners will learn practical safety and prevention strategies designed for parents, caregivers, and educators—from setting healthy digital boundaries to having early, age-appropriate conversations about consent, safety, and bodily autonomy.

The episode also explores:

• Why accurate media representation of trafficking matters

• How men can play a crucial role in advocacy and culture-shifting

• How early education builds resilience, self-advocacy skills, and long-term safety

• What community members can do to support survivors and disrupt trafficking systems

This is a must-hear conversation for anyone seeking to better understand human trafficking, protect vulnerable populations, and become an informed advocate for prevention.   Resouces :

Touchy Subjects: How Abuse Hides Behind Love and Controlhttps://open.spotify.com/episode/1zTBzGvpSEN6ahMngRH8uH?si=1WUp66VNT5yE8IuE6gZfiAEmotional Manipulation Exposed: Understanding the Power & Control Wheelhttps://open.spotify.com/episode/1I5XJwUb4kZyJJJOzd0ok1?si=N8ZZt6AOSxC79z3fc-PPmgWhat the Swinger Community Actually Looks Like (Hint: It is Not a Diddy Freakoff)https://open.spotify.com/episode/3EnP3W02CGln2wp45nn7OS?si=rwb0j2WLQuCxxqWp-SZQ0w Connect with the Guests

Touchy Subjects Podcast
Instagram | Facebook | Threads: @touchysubspod
Email: touchysubjectspodcast@gmail.com

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In this episode, Eve joins Vic as a guest on the Liquor Talk Podcast  podcast for a powerful and uncensored conversation about sexual wellness in 2025, the complexities of modern relationships, and how to reclaim pleasure on your own terms.

This episode blends sexual health education, relationship psychology, and pleasure-focused empowerment, making it one of the most essential episodes for anyone wanting deeper intimacy and better sex.

Featured Guest

Liquor Talk Podcast -https://www.youtube.com/@liquortalkpodcast

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Eve shares her insights on how sexual empowerment and body awareness can transform intimacy and everyday life. This episode is for anyone ready to embrace pleasure without shame and tap into Big Clit Energy™—a confidence that radiates far beyond the bedroom.

✅ What the Orgasm Gap is—and why closing it matters
✅ How to build sexual confidence and own your pleasure (Big Clit Energy™)
✅ Practical, science-backed steps to enhance sexual wellness and intimacy
✅ Why open conversations about sex and pleasure empower women everywhere
✅ How to break free from sexual shame and reconnect with your body

Eve Hall is leading a new wave of pleasure-positive education, helping women embrace their sexuality, nurture self-love, and harness the power of Big Clit Energy™. She’s also launching an exclusive beta course on Big Clit Energy™, and you can help shape it from the start!

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Together they unpack how anxiety, stress, and emotional disconnection can lower desire—and how partners can rebuild passion through vulnerability, open communication, and sexual confidence. Learn why “low libido” is often misunderstood, how self-care and emotional safety influence arousal, and practical ways to handle mismatched timing with empathy, curiosity, and consent.

Dr. Jen also shares insights from her signature course Pleasure Circle and joins Eve for a realistic role-play demo that models how to talk about sex, navigate discomfort, and negotiate for mutual pleasure without shame or defensiveness.

This episode is a must-listen for anyone exploring sexual wellness, relationship communication, desire discrepancies, or erotic connection in the context of modern intimacy.

Connect with Guests

Guest: Dr. Jen Kennedy — pleasureproject.com
Listen to her previous episode: Curiosity in the Bedroom: Enhance Skills with Sensate Focus, Toys & Masturbation | Sex Education
 https://open.spotify.com/episode/2DgXqdxhaAeWRzhs1t7v7j?si=96Nm5PhlSlae34hOsQlEeA

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Eve welcomes Robert Johnson and Anna Osmon from Shameless Care to discuss the future of sexual health and STI prevention. This episode dives into how modern medicine and virtual care are transforming pleasure, connection, and confidence.

They explore the importance of comprehensive STI testing, including often-overlooked oral and anal swabs, and how Shameless Care connects patients with board-certified, sex-positive doctors for discreet, at-home STI testing and online prescriptions. You’ll also learn how medications such as sildenafil, tadalafil, oxytocin nasal spray, and topical arousal creams can enhance blood flow, intimacy, and desire for all bodies.

Eve, Robert, and Anna also discuss the growing use of DoxyPEP, an innovative approach to reducing bacterial STIs like chlamydia, gonorrhea, and syphilis, and share how modern dating dynamics are shaping the way we approach sexual safety. The episode concludes with a realistic role play on how to confidently talk about testing, consent, and sexual boundaries with new partners.

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Shameless Care 

Podcast: The Shameless Care Podcast

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Referenced Episodes:
STI Testing Redefined: One Mistake that Changed Sexual Health Forever | Sex Education
Abortion 101: Facts, Freedom, and F*** the Patriarchy
Your Body, Your Choice: Exploring Pregnancy Options Without Judgment

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Eve welcomes back Robert Johnson and Anna Osmon from Shameless Care to discuss sexual health, STI prevention, and the importance of self-advocacy in medical care.

They explore new tools like Doxy PEP for STI prevention, the need for comprehensive testing (including oral and anal swabs), and the benefits of HPV vaccination for adults. The conversation also covers the realities of modern sexual relationships, stigma in healthcare, and how Shameless Care provides accessible at-home testing and telehealth solutions.

• The effectiveness of Doxy PEP in reducing gonorrhea, chlamydia, and syphilis

• Why comprehensive STI panels are essential

• The role of HPV vaccines for adults and navigating insurance coverage

• Sexual health in non-monogamous and LGBTQ+ communities

• At-home testing and telehealth options through Shameless Care

• Overcoming stigma and advocating for your sexual health

Robert Johnson & Anna Osmon — Shameless Care

• Website: shamelesscare.com

• Podcast: The Shameless Care Podcast

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Referenced Episode:
Eve’s first interview with Robert Johnson:
STI Testing Redefined: One Mistake that Changed Sexual Health Forever | Sex Education
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In this candid and informative live webinar, host Eve Hall dives deep into male sexual health, cutting through the fluff with straight talk about erectile dysfunction (ED), premature ejaculation, and natural enhancement methods that actually work. Drawing from her clinical expertise and insights from her podcast and client work, Eve answers real audience questions and breaks down the tools, treatments, and habits that can transform your sexual well-being. Whether you're curious about pumps, extenders, acoustic wave therapy, or want to optimize blood flow and boost confidence, this episode delivers no-BS, evidence-based advice for men who want real results. Topics Covered The importance of pleasure, self-love, and body confidence for men Erectile dysfunction: causes, prevention, and evidence-based treatments How acoustic wave therapy and dry needling support erectile health Penis pumps: types, sizing tips, and safe-use practices Penile extenders: how they work, who they’re for, and injury prevention Using the FirmTech cock ring to track erections and support performance Why daily masturbation, edging, and mindful touch benefit sexual health Nutrition, hydration, and the watermelon challenge explained Pelvic floor health for stronger erections and better control Pro tips for safe enhancement practices: what works, what to avoid Open Q&A: real listener questions on size, safety, confidence, and sexual wellness Recommended products and expert insights you can trust CONNECT WITH EVE 15-Min Discovery Call with Eve: https://calendly.com/pleasemebyevecreations/discovery-call%E2%81%A0 Website: pleaseme.online Award-Nominated Website: https://pleaseme.online/ Subscribe: https://pleasemewitheve.substack.com/%E2%81%A0 Join the Community: Please Me Podcast on Patreon Read Eve’s Column: ASN Lifestyle Magazine Bonnie’s Herbals: https://pleaseme.online/?utm_source=chatgpt.com Juice Plus: https://www.juiceplus.com/ https://pleaseme.online/bonnies-herbals/ SDC.com — Use code 37340 for a free trial membership! http://sdc.com/ Submit to the Webby Awards: https://entries.webbyawards.com/#/enter/submit-work/%E2%81%A0 Support Earthquake Relief in the Philippines A 6.9 magnitude earthquake recently struck North Cebu, Philippines, causing severe damage. The area is currently under a state of calamity and urgently needs help for food, shelter, and emergency aid. Donate via World Vision Philippines: Earthquake Emergency Appeal

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In this empowering episode, host Eve welcomes Karen Bigman, certified sex educator and coach, to explore sexuality, intimacy, and self‑love for women over 50. Together, they dive into topics often considered taboo and bring truth, humor, and heart to every conversation.

Topics Covered:

• Embracing sexuality and pleasure after 50

• Understanding libido, hormones, and sexual health in midlife

• Dating, intimacy, and finding connection after divorce

• Navigating consent, communication, and STI testing in new relationships

• The power of sex toys and vibrators for exploration and empowerment

• Online dating tips, sexting etiquette, and spotting red flags

• Cultivating body positivity, self‑love, and sexual confidence

Karen is a certified sex educator and sex & dating coach passionate about helping women thrive after 50. She is the host of the podcast Taboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 50 and founder of the Hotter Wilder Wiser adult sex-ed masterclass.

Connect with Eve:

• Website: https://www.taboototruth.com/

• Podcast: Taboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 50 on Apple Podcasts https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/taboo-to-truth-life-sex-after-50/id1769391023

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• The Truth About Decreased Vaginal Sensitivity & Dryness
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• Orgasms: What You Should Know – Types, Tips, and Pleasure
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In this episode of Please Me!, host Eve dives deep into sexual wellness with urologist Dr. Stephanie Zwonitzer. Together, they unpack the often-misunderstood realities of hormone health, vaginal and penile function, and the true causes of common concerns like dryness, low libido, and recurring UTIs.

This honest and educational conversation breaks down practical treatments such as topical vaginal estrogen, hormone replacement therapy (HRT), acoustic wave therapy, and even masturbation as a tool for sexual function.

Whether you’re dealing with perimenopause, erectile dysfunction, bacterial vaginosis (BV), or navigating questions about anal sex, this episode offers science-backed advice and radically honest answers.

• The orgasm gap and what orgasm equality really means

• Why topical vaginal estrogen is essential for dryness, recurrent UTIs, and incontinence

• Benefits and timing of hormone replacement therapy (HRT), especially in perimenopause

• Hormonal symptoms like joint pain, mood swings, and reduced libido

• How masturbation and regular orgasms support healthy sexual function

• Prostate health, ejaculation frequency, and cancer risk in men

• Acoustic wave therapy for blood flow and improved erectile function

• Safe, comfortable anal sex: communication, prep, and lube

• Causes and treatment of bacterial vaginosis (BV), including forgotten tampons and boric acid

• A realistic role-play discussion with Eve bringing up a common concern with Dr Stephanie

Dr. Stephanie is a board-certified urologist and host of Between the Sheets with Dr. Z, a podcast that brings humor and clinical expertise to taboo topics in sexual health. Her approach is grounded in evidence-based care, empowering patients to talk honestly about their bodies.

Website: https://drzwonitzer.com
Podcast: Between the Sheets with Dr. Z

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In this powerful and stigma-breaking episode of the award-winning Please Me! Podcast, host Eve dives deep into the science of sexual health, hormones, and pleasure with Dr. Stephanie Zwonitzer, a board-certified urologist and host of Between the Sheets.

Together, they uncover the truth about sexual wellness—from the gaps in STI testing to hormone health, pelvic floor therapy, and how to advocate for your sexual wellbeing in a medical system that too often overlooks it.

Whether you’re curious about low testosterone, navigating hormonal changes, dealing with STI stigma, or wondering what pelvic floor health really means, this episode is packed with evidence-based, shame-free education designed for all genders.

You’ll walk away understanding how hormones influence desire and mood, why comprehensive STI testing matters, and how pelvic floor therapy can transform your intimacy and pleasure. 

• Why sexual health education needs to evolve—for everyone

• Common STIs (like herpes and HPV): stigma, facts, and what you should know

• The problem with “standard” STI panels and what tests to actually request

• HPV vaccines: who should get them (hint: it’s not just for women)

• How to advocate for your own sexual health within the healthcare system

• Low testosterone: symptoms, diagnosis, and treatment options

• Hormone balance and its connection to libido, mood, and vitality

• Vaginal and penile atrophy: causes, prevention, and effective treatments

• What pelvic floor dysfunction really is — and how pelvic PT can help

• Sexual wellness tools that actually work for both men and women

• How to have open, stigma-free conversations around sex, pleasure, and health

 Topics Covered in This Episode
Guest Contact Details: Dr. Stephanie Zwonitzer

• Podcast: Between the Sheets with Dr. Z

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In this episode of the award-winning Please Me podcast, host Eve continues her powerful conversation with relationship and attachment expert  Bev Mitelman . Together, they explore how our attachment styles deeply influence sexuality, emotional intimacy, and the way we connect with partners in and out of the bedroom.

Whether you're anxiously attached, avoidant, or secure, this episode offers valuable insights to better understand your patterns, improve communication, and create more fulfilling sexual and emotional relationships. 

Guest Contact Details:

Bev Mitelman

Website: https://securelyloved.com
Instagram: https://instagram.com/securelyloved

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In this episode, we explore how trauma lives in the body, how shame blocks pleasure, and how to reclaim your worth in relationships, business, and intimacy. We also role-play a realistic dating scenario to model boundary-setting around breadcrumbing.

Topics Covered:

• How trauma can remain locked in the nervous system even after the danger has passed

• Somatic practices to help you feel safe in your body (breathwork, yoga, safe havens)

• The connection between overgiving and under-charging in both business and relationships

• How shame prevents you from receiving pleasure and being fully authentic

• Daily embodiment practices to retrain safety in the body

• Understanding and dismantling the “inner narcissist”

• Role-play: how to respond to breadcrumbing in dating with clarity and confidence

• The deep links between sexuality, self-worth, and money

Guest and Resources:
Guest: Emma Lyons — Founder of Trauma Matrix

Free Gift:
5 Signs It’s Time to Break Up with Your Inner Narcissist
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Special Thanks and Call to Action:
Thanks to the Please Me! community for listening, sharing, and supporting the show. Your support has helped us become one of the top global podcasts in sexuality and wellness.

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How to Heal from Internalized Narcissism and Reclaim Your Pleasure  

Shame has long been one of the most powerful tools of control — keeping women small, silent, and disconnected from their bodies across generations. In this episode, Eve sits down with Emma Lyons, founder of Trauma Matrix, to explore how shame shows up, why it’s deeply tied to patriarchy and narcissistic systems, and how to finally break up with your inner narcissist.

Together, they unpack how shame infiltrates our nervous systems, fuels self-sabotage, and contributes to mental, emotional, and physical illness. You’ll discover a step-by-step system called BREAK to interrupt the shame trance, reclaim your sovereignty, and live without shame.

If you’ve ever struggled with negative self-talk, perfectionism, or the burden of cultural conditioning, this episode shows you how to see shame for what it is — a lie you no longer have to carry.

• Why shame is the gasoline that powers trauma, dysfunction, and emotional suppression

• The links between shame, autoimmune disease, depression, and internal sabotage

• How the inner critic mirrors a narcissist living inside your psyche

• The BREAK method to dismantle shame and heal your inner world:

  • B – Break the trance

  • R – Refuse to engage

  • E – Expose the lie

  • A – Anchor your truth

  • K – Kick it out

• Why reclaiming shamelessness is a radical act of self-love, empowerment, and decolonizing your body

• The difference between polishing a “cage of shame” versus actually freeing yourself

Guest: Emma Lyons — Founder of Trauma Matrix
Free Gift from Emma: 5 Signs It’s Time to Break Up with Your Inner Narcissist → http://tinyurl.com/nottodaynarc

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• Penis Extenders – How traction devices encourage length safely and what results to realistically expect.

• Penis Pumps – A deep dive into girth, blood flow, and choosing the right size without injury.

• Safety First – Testicle protection, conditioning phases, and common mistakes to avoid.

• Confidence & Bedroom Energy – Why confidence, intimacy, and presence matter as much as size.

• The Firm Tech Smart Ring – A breakthrough wearable for tracking erection quality and cardiovascular health.

• Beyond Pills – Exploring root causes of erectile dysfunction and holistic health approaches.

• Role Play: Dating & “The Ick” – A candid look at intimacy, boundaries, and communication in modern dating.

This episode isn’t just about getting bigger—it’s about health, safety, confidence, and owning your sexual power with the right tools and mindset.

🎙️ Guest: Sam Itzhaki
Social / Website: @MrGetBiggerNow | getbiggernow.com

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In this juicy segment, we dive into natural methods for improving male sexual health, covering blood flow, erectile strength, and penis size maintenance—without pills, fillers, or surgery.

Topics Covered & Related Episodes:

• The Watermelon Challenge – Eat 4 cups of red watermelon daily for 7 days to boost blood flow. Bonus: Yellow watermelon has 4x the citrulline!

• Juice Plus+ – Easy-button nutrition for those who struggle to get fruits & veggies daily.

• What the male enhancement industry gets wrong and why pills promising “+4 inches in 3 days” are a scam.

  What actually works:

Guest: Sam Itshaki
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Guest: Sam Itshaki
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Episode Intro:
What happens when two married couples not only love openly but also live together under one roof? In this special episode of Please Me!, I sit down at the kitchen counter with Tig & Nadine and Jerry & Eunice to explore the intimate, complex, and surprisingly fun world of kitchen table polyamory.

Episode Shownotes:
In this in-person conversation, we dive deep into ethical non-monogamy, polyamory, and swingers’ lifestyles—all under one roof. Our guests share their lived experiences, the joys and challenges of shared living, and how they maintain communication, boundaries, and personal sovereignty.

Topics covered in this episode include:

• Defining your relationship style: polyamory, swinging, and open relationships

• Navigating jealousy and insecurity with radical honesty

• Day-to-day life for two couples sharing one home

• Authenticity in relationships and being your full self

• The power of communication and trust in alternative relationship structures

• How friendships and community support enhance their lifestyle

Whether you’re curious about polyamory, exploring alternative relationship models, or just love hearing stories about love, intimacy, and connection, this episode offers a candid look at life outside traditional monogamy.

Resources & Links:

• Visit our website: Please Me for more episodes and content

• Check out previous episodes exploring relationships, intimacy, and sexual wellness

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Ready to unlock the secrets to harder erections, wetter sex, and more powerful orgasms? In this episode, Eve dives deep into the root causes of erectile dysfunction and vaginal dryness and shares practical, natural solutions to help you reclaim your sexual health and pleasure. 

• Why erectile dysfunction and vaginal dryness are both blood-flow issues

• The clitoris: the female equivalent of the penis (and why stimulation is non-negotiable)

• Masturbation, edging, and orgasm equality

• The risks of Viagra, Cialis, and Trimix injections vs. treating the root cause

• Acoustic Wave Therapy (GainesWave/shockwave) and other physical treatments

• Nutrition, herbs, and natural supports that improve sexual vitality

• Supplements and foods that support blood flow (Juice Plus, LifeWave, watermelon challenge, horny goat weed)

• Lifestyle tips for lasting sexual wellness

• Juice Plus – supplements, recipes, and smoothie guide

• LifeWave Stem Cell & Inflammation Patches (X39, Eon, etc.)

• Bonnie’s Herbals – Sex Butter & Boudoir Butter (intimacy + daily moisture)

• Cakes – non-adhesive nipple covers (holiday gift idea)

• Watermelon Challenge – 4 cups daily for natural blood-flow support

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• Lexi Silver – SDC Media Coordinator & podcast guest. View most recent episode with Lexi Sylver →https://open.spotify.com/episode/3EnP3W02CGln2wp45nn7OS?si=tf0tOzPwSCGojisizFGFVg

• Adriana Grayson – Herbal health expert & podcast guest. View episode with this guest: https://open.spotify.com/episode/5sexS19Bru527sKHNXzV8Q?si=Mp5Nd855S2-nXO1tKUjtDQ

• Koby Falks -   Eve & Koby talk trimix as a tool for porn stars. Watch episode here: https://open.spotify.com/episode/4qJTc1s4cNtjGbAjpyjYF1?si=3XF3LvlsTTKhlM05TSIj_A

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In this webinar , Eve dives deep into the causes, prevalence, and solutions for painful sex (dyspareunia and vaginismus). With her expertise as a pelvic floor physical therapist, she explains how body preparation, relaxation, and communication with partners can transform intimacy into a more pleasurable, pain-free experience.

Listeners will learn practical tools, techniques, and positions to help minimize discomfort and close the orgasm gap.

• What dyspareunia is and why so many experience it

• Causes: dryness, infections, hormone changes, pelvic floor dysfunction, endometriosis

• Difference between vaginismus and dyspareunia

• Foreplay, arousal, and whole-body preparation for pain-free intimacy

• Closing the orgasm gap through clitoral stimulation and partner communication

• Sex positions that support relaxation and comfort

• Relaxation and body-awareness strategies

• Bonnie’s Herbal Products – Natural solutions for dryness and women’s wellness

• Toys & Sex Pillows – Explore Eve’s favorites for enhanced intimacy

• ASN Magazine – Eve’s Big Clit Energy column https://www.asnlifestylemagazine.com/

Connect with Eve:

Support the Podcast: Become a ⁠Patreon⁠ member for ad-free episodes, exclusive content, and early access

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Interested in a free 15-minute consultation to talk about coaching for health or intimacy, or to explore physical therapy services for sexual health concerns? First, book your appointment here: calendly.com/pleasemebyevecreations/10-min-call-me-on-owwll. Then, download the OWWLL app and use my free call code EH576472 so we can connect directly on the platform. I look forward to supporting you on your personal intimacy journey!

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In this webinar, Eve dives deep into the idea of Big Clit Energy—a playful yet powerful way to embody sexual confidence. She shares how embracing your sensual self can transform not just intimacy, but also communication, empowerment, and personal growth. Eve invites listeners to explore how curiosity and openness can strengthen relationships and create space for deeper connection.

As the session wraps up, Eve reminds listeners that pleasure and confidence are tools for self-discovery, and encourages couples to listen to episodes together as conversation starters. She also shares ways to connect further through her podcast, Patreon membership, YouTube content, and monthly webinars on SDC.

• What Big Clit Energy means and how it fuels sexual confidence

• Ways to explore intimacy with curiosity and empowerment

• How listening to podcasts together can spark meaningful conversations with your partner

• Benefits of joining the Please Me! Patreon for exclusive content and ad-free listening

• The role of webinars and community in expanding your pleasure journey

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In this fascinating and eye-opening bonus episode of Please Me, Eve welcomes scientist Daniel Tausan—founder of Timeline Science and a researcher in stem cell biology, proteomics, and biological aging—for a conversation that bridges advanced science with everyday practices for health, vitality, and sexual wellness.

Together, they explore how your blood reflects the truth about your body, why most doctors overlook early signals, and how to reclaim energy, resilience, and pleasure through simple, sustainable changes. From the benefits of fasting and meal timing, to the power of cold exposure and breathwork, to the surprising connection between clean blood and stronger orgasms—this episode offers practical wisdom for anyone ready to live longer, love deeper, and feel better.

 Whether you’re here for the laughs, the lessons, or the liberation, this bonus conversation is a must-listen!

• What “clean blood” really means and how it reflects the state of your organs

• Why doctors often miss early health signals in bloodwork

• The sexual benefits of fasting, intermittent fasting done right, and libido surges after 3–5 days

• Why eating late disrupts melatonin, recovery, and accelerates aging

• The “honey jar of life” and why digestion is the body’s most energy-draining process

• Daniel’s Five Pillars of Longevity: recovery, mood/temperament, fasting, digestion, and movement

• Breath, lung capacity, and why slow controlled breathing predicts sexual and heart health

• Cold exposure practices (from ocean swims to cold showers) and how they enhance orgasm, sleep, and recovery

• How mental imagery, mood regulation, and community support sustain health and pleasure into your 60s, 70s, and beyond

• Erectile dysfunction as an early cardiovascular warning sign—and how to address the root cause

 Support the Podcast: Become a Patreon member for ad-free episodes, exclusive content, and early access.

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 Website: https://timelinesciences.com/

Topics Covered: Connect with Eve Guest Info: Daniel Tausan

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In this candid and wide-ranging conversation, Eve and Anthony dive into:

• Why communication — in the bedroom and beyond — is the foundation for real connection.

• Porn as entertainment, the myths it creates, and how it can actually spark healthy conversations about desire.

• The role of sex workers in fulfilling fantasies and combating loneliness.

• Surprising health insights from the Firm Tech ring (and why your erections could predict your heart health).

• Personal stories of healing, self-love, and overcoming trauma.

• The difference between ethical swinging and coercive “freak offs” — and why boundaries matter.

• A playful role play segment that models real conversations about intimacy, love languages, and lifestyle choices.

From the serious to the silly, this episode captures everything Please Me! is all about — breaking taboos, fostering connection, and reclaiming pleasure in every form.

 Whether you’re here for the laughs, the lessons, or the liberation, this finale is a must-listen!

Connect with Eve:

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Interested in a free 15-minute consultation to talk about coaching for health or intimacy, or to explore physical therapy services for sexual health concerns? First, book your appointment here: calendly.com/pleasemebyevecreations/10-min-call-me-on-owwll. Then, download the OWWLL app and use my free call code EH576472 so we can connect directly on the platform. I look forward to supporting you on your personal intimacy journey!

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Website: About That Wallet

Podcast: About That Wallet

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Together, they revisit standout episodes—from deep dives into the Power and Control Wheel and marital consent laws, to surprising behind-the-scenes truths from the adult entertainment industry, to vulnerable conversations about marriage, sovereignty, and spiritual growth. Anthony shares his personal favorite episodes, biggest “aha” moments, and even some unexpected knowledge gained along the way (yes, including penile injections!).

Eve opens up about her own journey in podcasting, the shift to bilingual content, and how her passion for sexual health and liberation has evolved over five seasons. This conversation is part celebration, part reflection, and 100% real talk about pleasure, growth, and the stories that stay with us.

What you’ll hear in this episode:

• How the Please Me! podcast grew in quality, content, and reach in season five

• Why the episode on the Power and Control Wheel left such a strong impression

• The surprising truth about performance in the adult industry

• Lessons on sovereignty, healing, and redefining relationships from guests Carolee & Britton

• Eve’s personal takeaways from two years behind the mic

• Why taboo conversations—about sex and money—matter more than ever

This is part one of the season finale conversation—tune in Friday for part two

Connect with Eve:

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Interested in a free 15-minute consultation to talk about coaching for health or intimacy, or to explore physical therapy services for sexual health concerns? First, book your appointment here: calendly.com/pleasemebyevecreations/10-min-call-me-on-owwll. Then, download the OWWLL app and use my free call code EH576472 so we can connect directly on the platform. I look forward to supporting you on your personal intimacy journey!

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From pre-ceremony preparation to the powerful revelations that unfolded under the stars, Eve walks you through her full experience—what she saw, felt, and released. This episode is a raw and intimate look at how plant medicine can offer deep healing for trauma survivors and anyone seeking to reclaim their body, their pleasure, and their power.

What You'll Hear In This Episode:

• Why Eve chose to embark on an ayahuasca journey

• What womb healing really means—and why it matters

• The connection between trauma, dissociation, and sexual intimacy

• What it felt like to meet and nurture her inner child, Evie

• Insights on cultural respect and responsible use of plant medicine

• The emotional and physical experience of purging and “getting well”

• Reflections on post-journey integration and personal transformation

• Yes… even a moment of witnessing a UFO

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Interested in a free 15-minute consultation to talk about coaching for health or intimacy, or to explore physical therapy services for sexual health concerns? First, book your appointment here: calendly.com/pleasemebyevecreations/10-min-call-me-on-owwll. Then, download the OWWLL app and use my free call code EH576472 so we can connect directly on the platform. I look forward to supporting you on your personal intimacy journey!

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From Susannah’s personal journey of saving herself for marriage, to the deconstruction of religious and societal narratives, to her experiences with polyamory, psilocybin, and sacred union—this episode is a soul-stirring exploration of what it means to reclaim your body, your sexuality, and your power.

Topics Covered:

• The spiritual and psychological imprint of “virInginity” and purity culture

• Susannah’s path through military service, trauma, and awakening

• Why our sexual experiences are energetically imprinted and how to heal them

• The role of psilocybin in womb healing and spiritual transformation

• The journey from toxic monogamy and chaotic polyamory to Sacred Union

• Embodied healing, the sacral chakra, and breaking generational trauma

• A playful and potent goddess roleplay (yes—Medusa and Kali Ma join forces!)

• Why pleasure education is essential, and how pleasure-giving can heal both partners

• Reconnecting with the inner child through plant medicine and integration work

• Creating a new sexual culture rooted in consent, connection, and sacredness

Connect with Eve:

Support the Podcast: Become a ⁠Patreon⁠ member for ad-free episodes, exclusive content, and early access

Website: Please Me Online - Reach Eve and stay connected.

Interested in a free 15-minute consultation to talk about coaching for health or intimacy, or to explore physical therapy services for sexual health concerns? First, book your appointment here: calendly.com/pleasemebyevecreations/10-min-call-me-on-owwll. Then, download the OWWLL app and use my free call code EH576472 so we can connect directly on the platform. I look forward to supporting you on your personal intimacy journey!

Subscribe for free to ASN Magazine so you can check out Eve's column Big Clit Energy: A Please Me! Series.

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Guest Info:

Susannah Rose Stokes
Instagram: @susannahroses
Website: metamorphosisventures.com

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Together, Eve and Colette explore the physical and emotional challenges women face during perimenopause and menopause, while sharing practical solutions to reclaim pleasure, strengthen relationships, and embrace the beauty of this transformative season. With shared experiences, expert advice, and a whole lot of Big Clit Energy, this episode is a must-listen for women ready to prioritize their well-being and deepen their connection with themselves and their partners.

What We Talk About:

• How Eve and Colette met serendipitously at PodFest

• The mission behind Insights from the Couch and Please Me!

• Pelvic floor dysfunction, incontinence, and how they affect intimacy

• Acoustic wave therapy and increasing blood flow for sexual wellness

• The real science behind vaginal dryness and erectile dysfunction

• Hormone shifts, estrogen’s role, and misunderstood HRT solutions

• The diverse experiences of menopause across different races

• Creating lasting change through habits and small steps

• Why midlife can be the most powerful and pleasure-filled chapter yet

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• Support the Podcast: Become a ⁠Patreon⁠ member for ad-free episodes, exclusive content, and early access

• Website: Please Me Online - Reach Eve and stay connected.

• Interested in a free 15-minute consultation to talk about coaching for health or intimacy, or to explore physical therapy services for sexual health concerns? First, book your appointment here: calendly.com/pleasemebyevecreations/10-min-call-me-on-owwll. Then, download the OWWLL app and use my free call code EH576472 so we can connect directly on the platform. I look forward to supporting you on your personal intimacy journey!

• Subscribe for free to ASN Magazine so you can check out Eve's column Big Clit Energy: A Please Me! Series.

Connect with Colette Fahr:

• Insights from the Cough Podcast

• Colette's Instagram

Additional Episode Mentioned:

Devita's Episode

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Together, they unpack the concept of the sacral chakra as a birthplace—not only of physical life but of ideas, emotional expression, and personal power. They discuss how trauma, societal conditioning, and suppressed emotions can block this energy center, and Kanika leads listeners through a grounding and emotional release visualization to begin their own journey of womb healing.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

• What the sacral chakra is and why it’s essential to emotional and creative flow

• How suppressed emotions and trauma show up as energetic blockages

• The connection between womb healing and self-love

• Why sexual energy is a divine life force—not just physical pleasure

• How to use orgasmic and meditative states to support manifestation

• Kanika’s personal journey from loss to purpose and light

• A powerful guided visualization to release stored emotional pain and reconnect to joy

Connect with Eve:

• Support the Podcast: Become a ⁠Patreon⁠ member for ad-free episodes, exclusive content, and early access

• Website: Please Me Online - Reach Eve and stay connected.

• Interested in a free 15-minute consultation to talk about coaching for health or intimacy, or to explore physical therapy services for sexual health concerns? First, book your appointment here: calendly.com/pleasemebyevecreations/10-min-call-me-on-owwll. Then, download the OWWLL app and use my free call code EH576472 so we can connect directly on the platform. I look forward to supporting you on your personal intimacy journey!

• Subscribe for free to ASN Magazine so you can check out Eve's column Big Clit Energy: A Please Me! Series.

Connect with Kanika:

• Website: www.artoflifecenter.com

• Instagram / YouTube / LinkedIn: @KanikaEnergyCoach

Additional Episode Mentioned:

Leslie Draffin’s episode

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In this electrifying continuation of our two-part series with intimacy and Tantra coach Hani Cheng, we go deeper—literally and energetically—into the vast world of orgasmic potential. From full-body waves to cervical transcendence, Hani walks us through the art of tapping into deeper pleasure, emotional release, and spiritual connection through Tantra and Taoist principles.

We also explore the fascinating concept of the mystery orgasm, where pleasure becomes an intuitive, ever-evolving experience. Hani opens up about her personal journey with this powerful sensation and offers listeners tools to awaken their own multidimensional pleasure pathways.

In this episode, we cover:

• What the mystery orgasm is and how to access it

• The difference between clitoral, G-spot, cervical, and full-body orgasms

• How breath, voice, and emotion play key roles in sexual energy

• Why orgasm isn’t the goal—presence is

• The practice of daily pleasure and body awareness

• How to co-create novel experiences with your partner

• Hani’s take on squirting, self-pleasure, and releasing performance pressure

• An intro to vaginal reflexology and the emotional connections stored in the body

Connect with Eve:

• Support the Podcast: Become a ⁠Patreon⁠ member for ad-free episodes, exclusive content, and early access

• Website: Please Me Online - Reach Eve and stay connected.

• Interested in a free 15-minute consultation to talk about coaching for health or intimacy, or to explore physical therapy services for sexual health concerns? First, book your appointment here: calendly.com/pleasemebyevecreations/10-min-call-me-on-owwll. Then, download the OWWLL app and use my free call code EH576472 so we can connect directly on the platform. I look forward to supporting you on your personal intimacy journey!

• Subscribe for free to ASN Magazine so you can check out Eve's column Big Clit Energy: A Please Me! Series.

Connect with Hani Cheng:

Hani Cheng's Website

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From a 15-year journey with undiagnosed bulimia to becoming a global teacher in tantra, Taoist sexuality, and energetic healing, Hani shares how listening to her body—specifically her “peach”—transformed her life, purpose, and pleasure. This conversation dives deep into sensual liberation, sex magic, and why dancing (yes, even Brazilian Zouk!) might be the gateway to your most authentic, grounded self.

If you’ve ever felt disconnected from your body, your desire, or your voice—this episode is an invitation to come home.

In this episode, we cover:

• Hani’s journey from secret illness to embodied liberation

• Why your body is your greatest source of wisdom (and how to listen to it)

• What it means to “speak to the peach” and let your sensuality lead

• The role of dance—especially Zouk—in emotional processing and sexual healing

• How Hani’s Sensual Liberation program helps people connect with breath, body, and pleasure

• Exploring orgasm as a portal to creativity, confidence, and even increased abundance

• Using sexual energy to fuel business, relationships, and personal power

• The beauty of presence, co-creation, and trust in both dance and intimacy

Connect with Eve:

• Support the Podcast: Become a ⁠Patreon⁠ member for ad-free episodes, exclusive content, and early access

• Website: Please Me Online - Reach Eve and stay connected.

• Interested in a free 15-minute consultation to talk about coaching for health or intimacy, or to explore physical therapy services for sexual health concerns? First, book your appointment here: calendly.com/pleasemebyevecreations/10-min-call-me-on-owwll. Then, download the OWWLL app and use my free call code EH576472 so we can connect directly on the platform. I look forward to supporting you on your personal intimacy journey!

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In this vulnerable and enlightening Part 2 conversation with Britton and Carolee Beckham, we dive deep into what it means to truly rewrite the rules around love, sex, healing, and relationships. From the ashes of betrayal and religious conditioning, this powerful couple rebuilt their connection through ritual, shadow work, astrology, and sacred sexuality. Together, they now guide others through spiritual awakening and conscious intimacy.

We explore how Carolee and Britton ritualized their healing using moon cycles, embraced the practice of sex magic to anchor in new beliefs, and redefined what relationship and sovereignty truly mean to them. This is an unfiltered look at what healing with your partner can look like—messy, magical, and radically free.

What We Cover in This Episode:

• What shadow work really is and why it's key to healing emotional and generational wounds

• How ritual and astrology (especially moon phases) shape their spiritual practices

• Reclaiming sexuality after betrayal and trauma

• The power of sovereignty in relationships, especially for women

• How sex magic and sacred intimacy amplify spiritual healing

• Redefining monogamy, polyamory, and relationship labels

• Real talk on kink, play parties, boundaries, and radical honesty

• Finding personal truth through divine feminine embodiment

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Connect with Eve:

• Support the Podcast: Become a ⁠Patreon⁠ member for ad-free episodes, exclusive content, and early access

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• Interested in a free 15-minute consultation to talk about coaching for health or intimacy, or to explore physical therapy services for sexual health concerns? First, book your appointment here: calendly.com/pleasemebyevecreations/10-min-call-me-on-owwll. Then, download the OWWLL app and use my free call code EH576472 so we can connect directly on the platform. I look forward to supporting you on your personal intimacy journey!

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From psilocybin journeys to moon rituals, from shame to self-love, this episode dives into:

• The impact of religious conditioning on sex and identity

• Why traditional approaches to healing didn’t work—and what did

• The role of plant medicine (including their first mushroom ceremony) in spiritual awakening

• How moon cycles and ritual baths became a gateway to feminine empowerment

• The transformative power of sexual reeducation and ISTA training

• Why radical honesty was the key to saving—and elevating—their marriage

Whether you're navigating your own healing, redefining your relationship with sex, or exploring spirituality beyond religion, this episode is a permission slip to do it your way—with love, courage, and full-body liberation.

• Moon Bath by Dakota Hills and Sierra Brashear

• How to Change Your Mind by Michael Pollan

• ISTA: International School of Temple Arts

• Carolee & Britton’s podcast: The Magical Story of Us

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Connect with Eve:

• Support the Podcast: Become a ⁠Patreon⁠ member for ad-free episodes, exclusive content, and early access

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• Interested in a free 15-minute consultation to talk about coaching for health or intimacy, or to explore physical therapy services for sexual health concerns? First, book your appointment here: calendly.com/pleasemebyevecreations/10-min-call-me-on-owwll. Then, download the OWWLL app and use my free call code EH576472 so we can connect directly on the platform. I look forward to supporting you on your personal intimacy journey!

Resources Mentioned:

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In this powerful continuation of our conversation with Shawn and Amanda from the Touchy Subjects podcast, we dive deeper into the often-overlooked tactics of emotional and social abuse. While physical violence is more visible, the wounds caused by coercion, control, isolation, and emotional manipulation can be just as damaging—and harder to identify.

We break down the Power & Control Wheel, exploring the eight key tactics used by abusers to dominate their partners, including economic control, intimidation, emotional abuse, and using children or privilege as leverage. Shawn and Amanda offer expert insight, lived experiences, and practical tools to help listeners identify red flags in their own or loved ones' relationships.

This episode also features a compelling role-play to model what supportive conversations can sound like when someone discloses abuse, reminding us all how vital empathy, safety, and non-judgment are in these moments.

 What You’ll Learn:

• The difference between emotional and physical abuse—and why both matter

• The 8 spokes of the Power & Control Wheel and what they look like in real life

• How abusers use privilege, isolation, and economic dependency to maintain control

• Why consent must be enthusiastic—and how coercion shows up in relationships

• The importance of recognizing patterns early and having a support system

• What to say (and not say) when someone opens up about abuse

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Connect with Eve:

• Support the Podcast: Become a ⁠Patreon⁠ member for ad-free episodes, exclusive content, and early access

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• Interested in a free 15-minute consultation to talk about coaching for health or intimacy, or to explore physical therapy services for sexual health concerns? First, book your appointment here: calendly.com/pleasemebyevecreations/10-min-call-me-on-owwll. Then, download the OWWLL app and use my free call code EH576472 so we can connect directly on the platform. I look forward to supporting you on your personal intimacy journey!

 Resources Mentioned:

• National Domestic Violence Hotline

• Touchy Subjects Podcast Website

• Shawn & Amanda’s contact: touchysubjectspodcast@gmail.com

Content Warning:
This episode contains discussions of emotional, sexual, and domestic abuse that may be triggering to some listeners. Please take care while listening.

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Shawn and Amanda specialize in breaking the silence around topics most people avoid—and today, they’re exposing the subtle yet dangerous tactics abusers use to gain power and control, from isolation and jealousy to phone surveillance and emotional manipulation.

 In this episode, we discuss:
 The true definitions of domestic violence and sexual assault
 How jealousy is often the first red flag—and why society normalizes it
 The role of identity and how marginalized communities face unique risks
 Abuse tactics like isolation, phone control, and manipulation disguised as "love"
 Why leaving an abusive relationship is far more complex—and dangerous—than it seems
 Steps to safely leave an abusive situation and how to seek support

Whether you're navigating a relationship, supporting a friend, or just want to be more informed—this is an essential conversation everyone should hear.

 Trigger Warning: This episode contains discussions about domestic violence, sexual assault, and manipulation, which may be distressing for some listeners.

 Resources & Support:

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• Interested in a free 15-minute consultation to talk about coaching for health or intimacy, or to explore physical therapy services for sexual health concerns? First, book your appointment here: calendly.com/pleasemebyevecreations/10-min-call-me-on-owwll. Then, download the OWWLL app and use my free call code EH576472 so we can connect directly on the platform. I look forward to supporting you on your personal intimacy journey!

If you or someone you know needs help, contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233 or visit thehotline.org.  Additional Episodes Mentioned:Diddy Party

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Eve reflects on the powerful conversations shared with Koby on the show, his unique role within the queer community, and the courage it took for him to live his truth. Though gone too soon, Koby’s legacy of embracing authenticity, sexual honesty, and community continues to inspire.

This episode is also a heartfelt reminder of the importance of mental health awareness, especially within the LGBTQ+ community, and a call to reach out to loved ones, check in, and offer support.

 What You’ll Hear:
 Koby Falks' inspiring journey to living authentically
 The courage to come out later in life and break stereotypes
 Mental health struggles in the LGBTQ+ community
 How to support your queer friends and chosen family
 Suicide prevention resources and why they matter
 Eve’s personal tribute and reflections on Koby's impact

 Resources Mentioned:

• National Suicide Prevention Lifeline (US): Dial 988

• The Trevor Project: www.thetrevorproject.org

• Trans Lifeline: 877-565-8860

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Connect with Eve:

• Support the Podcast: Become a ⁠Patreon⁠ member for ad-free episodes, exclusive content, and early access

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• Interested in a free 15-minute consultation to talk about coaching for health or intimacy, or to explore physical therapy services for sexual health concerns? First, book your appointment here: calendly.com/pleasemebyevecreations/10-min-call-me-on-owwll. Then, download the OWWLL app and use my free call code EH576472 so we can connect directly on the platform. I look forward to supporting you on your personal intimacy journey!

Koby Falks' Previous Episode Links:part onehttps://open.spotify.com/episode/3MyipeXUyYTOrgpPmcr7W2?si=fNvoZmB4Sa-x4NtF5BvFrA
part twohttps://open.spotify.com/episode/4qJTc1s4cNtjGbAjpyjYF1?si=qy-s0m55SSqwpCYhhQlN-A

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We dive headfirst into the complexities of fantasy, the power of fetishes, and how exploring our curiosities — even the ones we might never act on — can help us better understand ourselves and our relationships.

Here’s what we get into:
 How porn can be a healthy tool for exploring curiosity and desire
 The difference between fantasy and real-life sexual experiences
 What your porn preferences might reveal about your needs in bed
 Tips for turning vulnerable sex talks into empowering connections
 Breaking down the shame and stigma around watching and talking about porn
 How to use fantasy as a bridge to better communication and deeper intimacy

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• Support the Podcast: Become a ⁠Patreon⁠ member for ad-free episodes, exclusive content, and early access

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• Interested in a free 15-minute consultation to talk about coaching for health or intimacy, or to explore physical therapy services for sexual health concerns? First, book your appointment here: calendly.com/pleasemebyevecreations/10-min-call-me-on-owwll. Then, download the OWWLL app and use my free call code EH576472 so we can connect directly on the platform. I look forward to supporting you on your personal intimacy journey!

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 Where to Find Kels & Tess:
Website: https://getsquirmy.com
Instagram: @squirm

Plus, we share laughs, real talk, and actionable advice on navigating the sometimes awkward, often empowering conversations that can bring partners closer — including how to handle dirty talk in a new relationship (throuple vibes included ).  

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In this episode, we cover:
Eve’s own journey of sexual identity and becoming part of the LGBTQ+ community
Honoring trans and non-binary resilience in the face of harmful policies
The role of allies, veterans, and newcomers in building an empowered LGBTQ+ community
Why coming out is a personal choice—and how self-love evolves over time
Resources and organizations fighting for trans rights and healthcare access
A tribute to the powerful LGBTQ+ voices who’ve shared their stories on Please Me

Resources Mentioned:
* Trans Lifeline – Peer support hotline & microgrant nonprofit run by and for trans people: https://www.translifeline.org/ reddit.comthetrevorproject.org+15translifeline.org+15translifeline.org+15

• Point of Pride – Please confirm the exact organization name or provide context; there are several groups with this title (e.g., a community center in . . .). Let me know and I can track down the correct link.

• The Trevor Project – Crisis intervention & suicide prevention for LGBTQ+ youth: https://www.thetrevorproject.org/ reddit.com+7thetrevorproject.org+7en.wikipedia.org+7

• Planned Parenthood – Reproductive health care provider: https://www.plannedparenthood.org/ plannedparenthood.org+2plannedparenthood.org+2plannedparenthood.org+2

• GLMA: Health Professionals Advancing LGBTQ+ Equality – The world’s largest association of LGBTQ+ health professionals: https://www.glma.org/

LGBTQ+ Guest Episodes:

Koby Falks

https://open.spotify.com/episode/3MyipeXUyYTOrgpPmcr7W2?si=fNvoZmB4Sa-x4NtF5BvFrA

Koby Falks

https://open.spotify.com/episode/4qJTc1s4cNtjGbAjpyjYF1?si=qy-s0m55SSqwpCYhhQlN-A

Danielle Bezalel

https://open.spotify.com/episode/2lBm010QBTjJ44YRCwKEGM?si=LPG_d3s6Rw2nw-RAeDv6-A

Amethysta Herrick 

https://open.spotify.com/episode/2vX9iDspDsfYwhTAGj57zR?si=zGa5QJgUSUKY33kOR-4RuA

Dr Zaayin Salaam

https://open.spotify.com/episode/3Dliz2UIyh1NpDtIwkeKNE?si=G0CDJx-iTWef7H9O9YhJww

Jake Didinsky 

https://open.spotify.com/episode/0EayYGLTE5hi52lFDUvPOt?si=hApq2pDpQT2Px9ihAdT4Iw

Karen Anne Coccioli

https://open.spotify.com/episode/61BEMgXNP9vy5yw5TEZPAl?si=g34LQNsYT8-ekqmQ0rBv1w

Demi Wylde

https://open.spotify.com/episode/0cuag6sZsec7rq7t38iQZe?si=PvqlN7HQQjetdLXjoM9q5Q

Sara Webb

https://open.spotify.com/episode/6CCwHm2fcGoAfHdd2VLGO5?si=YCu5ErykQBSin93DZmzpAw

Edward Muskie

https://open.spotify.com/episode/49fGjPhav6bQXD74vwTqtO?si=mTIZPx9dT-KQL7W0IjbfbA

Edwin Olivieri

https://open.spotify.com/episode/5zDrS9EA6DeJGF06v7sX5n?si=zFT0ZBiqR6KbfV_kLzSY7w

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In this candid and thought-provoking episode of Please Me, Eve sits down with Kels and Tess—creators of the Porn Nerds podcast miniseries and founders of Squirm—for a deeply honest conversation about porn, pleasure, and the role of communication in sexual education. Together, they dismantle the myth that porn is an accurate or sufficient source for sex ed and offer practical ways adults can build sexual confidence, curiosity, and connection outside the tube sites.

From navigating shame and stigma to setting boundaries in relationships (and throuples!), this episode explores how porn can be used as a tool for inspiration—but not a manual for real-life intimacy.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

• Why porn is not a substitute for sexual education—and what is

• How to communicate turn-ons and boundaries without awkwardness

• The role of fantasy in enhancing solo and partnered sex

• Why watching porn together can actually deepen connection

• Ways to use desire as a conversation starter, not a point of conflict

• How Kels & Tess built Squirm to destigmatize conversations around sex

Mentioned in This Episode:

• Kolby's Episode

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 Where to Find Kels & Tess:
Website: https://getsquirmy.com
Instagram: @squirm

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Eve breaks down the abortion laws by state, discusses gestational limits, and highlights the different access levels across the U.S. She also explores all your options—including abortion, adoption, and parenting—with honesty and empowerment at the center. Plus, she tackles five major abortion myths that need to be debunked.

If you’ve ever felt unsure, unsupported, or uninformed about your reproductive rights, this episode is for you.

Key Takeaway:

No matter your situation, you deserve to know all your options without pressure, judgment, or shame. This episode is a reminder that bodily autonomy is a right—and knowledge is power.

Resources Mentioned:

• AbortionFunds.org – National Network of Abortion Funds

• Plan C Pills – Info on self-managed abortion options

• INEEDA.org – Resource directory

• Repro Legal Defense Fund

• Search your state + “abortion fund” to find local support

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In this episode of Please Me, Eve sits down with Robert Johnson, founder of Shameless Care, for a raw, eye-opening conversation about the serious gaps in standard STI testing — and how his personal experience sparked a much-needed revolution in sexual health care.

Robert shares how a routine STI panel — that came back negative — still left him unknowingly transmitting gonorrhea. That one moment revealed a much bigger problem in the way most doctors approach STI testing, especially when it comes to oral and asymptomatic infections. Together, Eve and Robert dive deep into:

• Why “full panel” testing often isn’t full at all

• The shocking truth about oral gonorrhea and how often it’s missed

• How the swinger and ethically non-monogamous communities approach safe sex — and where they fall short

• The stigma, controversy, and misunderstanding around herpes testing

• How Shameless Care is filling critical gaps left by traditional medical care

• The conversations we should be having with our partners before becoming sexually active

PLUS: Robert shares valuable free resources that can help you advocate for comprehensive STI testing with your own doctor, even if you can’t afford full at-home kits.

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• Visit Shameless Care: shamelesscare.com

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Summary:

In this unapologetically bold episode, Eve dives headfirst into one of the most critical — and most censored — conversations surrounding women’s sexual health: abortion.

With Roe v. Wade overturned and reproductive rights under attack, it’s time to strip away the shame, silence, and political noise to get down to the facts. This episode is all about empowering women with real, practical information to protect their health, their choices, and their lives.

Inside this episode:
Why abortion is healthcare — not politics
The deadly risks of illegal abortions still happening worldwide
The difference between the morning-after pill and medical abortion pills
How safe medical abortion actually is (spoiler: 98% effective when done early)
Why bodily autonomy is non-negotiable
How you can take action to protect your rights and support others

Whether you’ve faced this decision personally, know someone who has, or simply believe in protecting women’s bodies and freedom, this episode gives you the knowledge you need — without shame or sugarcoating.

Because when it comes to women’s health, Big Clit Energy means knowing your options, owning your power, and refusing to stay silent.

Resources 

National Network of Abortion Funds

Planned Parenthood

Local Health Departments

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Lexi breaks down what truly defines the swinger and ethical non-monogamy communities, emphasizing that consent, communication, and mutual respect are the foundation of all interactions. She also explains the structured safety practices often used in these spaces, including boundaries, health awareness, and accountability systems that prioritize participant wellbeing.

The conversation further explores how power dynamics can exist within kink and play while still remaining fully consensual, and why clear communication is always essential. Lexi and Eve also highlight how these communities can serve as spaces for empowerment, particularly for women exploring their sexuality on their own terms.

The episode concludes with a roleplay segment that demonstrates what healthy, explicit consent conversations actually look like in practice, offering listeners a grounded example of communication in action.

What You’ll Learn

• The difference between ethical non-monogamy and abusive dynamics

• Why consent and communication are non-negotiable in lifestyle spaces

• How safety practices help create responsible adult environments

• The role of power dynamics in consensual kink and play

• How ethical non-monogamy can support sexual empowerment

• What real consent conversations sound like in practice

• How to distinguish healthy exploration from coercion

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Lexi Sylver

Lifestyle Educator, Author & Coach

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Eve breaks down how subtle changes in awareness and movement can help you reconnect with your body, including simple techniques like hip engagement, pelvic tilts, breathwork, and Kegel exercises. She also emphasizes the importance of understanding your own anatomy and building confidence through solo exploration and practice.

The conversation expands beyond sex, inviting listeners to consider how presence, agency, and embodiment influence every area of life. This episode is a call to step into your power, take up space in your body, and show up more fully in intimacy and beyond.

What You’ll Learn

• The difference between passive receiving and active participation in sex

• How movement and breath can enhance pleasure and sensation

• Simple techniques like pelvic tilts and Kegels for body awareness

• Why solo exploration builds confidence in partnered sex

• The importance of understanding your own anatomy

• How presence and embodiment increase pleasure and connection

• Why sexual agency translates into everyday empowerment

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

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Lanette opens up about her experience on reality television, including the realities behind filming a provocative dating show, navigating personal boundaries on set, and what it means to publicly reclaim identity in a highly sexualized environment. Together, she and Eve explore how labels like “MILF” can be redefined and reclaimed as a source of confidence and empowerment rather than shame.

The conversation also goes deeper into Lanette’s personal journey through divorce, dating, and rebuilding intimacy afterward. She shares her experiences with modern dating apps, navigating emotional connections, and learning to trust herself again after major life transitions.

Lanette also speaks candidly about her recovery journey, including her mental health challenges, addiction, and reaching over 1,000 days of sobriety. This becomes a powerful thread throughout the episode as she reflects on healing, self-worth, and the role pleasure and self-acceptance can play in recovery.

This episode is a raw, real, and inspiring exploration of resilience, identity, and the freedom that comes from owning your story without shame.

What You’ll Learn

• How reality TV shapes and challenges personal boundaries

• What reclaiming sexual labels like “MILF” can mean

• The realities of dating after divorce and starting over

• How addiction recovery intersects with identity and self-worth

• Why shame blocks pleasure, connection, and healing

• How self-love supports emotional and sexual recovery

• The importance of boundaries in dating and intimacy

Connect With the Guest

Lanette West

Reality TV Star (MILF Manor)

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

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Laurel explains that sexual trauma is not about sex itself, but about power, and explores how that distinction is essential for both survivors and their partners to understand. Together, she and Eve discuss the emotional complexity of disclosing trauma, and how creating a safe, non-judgmental space can make all the difference in building trust and connection.

The conversation also offers practical guidance for partners on how to respond when trauma is shared, what language supports healing versus harm, and how to recognize trauma responses during intimacy. Tools such as sensate focus are introduced as ways to gently rebuild safety, connection, and pleasure in the body over time.

This episode is a compassionate reminder that healing is possible, communication is essential, and survivors deserve both agency and pleasure in their relationships.

What You’ll Learn

• Why sexual trauma is about power, not sex

• How to safely disclose trauma to a partner

• What supportive responses to trauma disclosure look like

• How to recognize trauma responses during intimacy

• How sensate focus can help rebuild safety and connection

• Why communication is essential in healing relationships

• How survivors can reclaim agency, boundaries, and pleasure

Connect With the Guest

Laurel Roberts Meese

Trauma Therapist

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

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Kimberly shares her deeply personal journey of overcoming domestic violence, teenage pregnancy, and the lasting emotional effects of adoption. Through radical self-awareness and intentional change, she explains how she shifted from survival mode into a life rooted in healing, purpose, and self-leadership.

Together, Eve and Kimberly explore the concept of “life recalibration”—a process of breaking old patterns, rebuilding identity, and choosing new standards for how you show up in your life, relationships, and self-worth. The conversation also highlights the importance of holistic self-care, including nutrition, journaling, and morning routines, as foundational tools for emotional and physical healing.

This episode is a reminder that healing is not linear, and transformation is possible when you commit to rewriting your story.

What You’ll Learn

• How to transform trauma into personal empowerment

• What “life recalibration” means and how to apply it

• How generational trauma shapes identity and behavior

• Practical healing habits like journaling and daily routines

• The role of nutrition and self-care in emotional recovery

• How to rebuild self-worth after abuse and adversity

• Why healing the mind, body, and soul impacts every area of life

Connect With the Guest

Kimberly Dorsey

Founder of Lucky Girl CEO

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

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Dr. Justin shares how his clinical experience led him to identify a major gap in men’s health monitoring—specifically, the lack of attention given to erectile function as a key indicator of broader cardiovascular health. Together, he and Eve discuss how sexual health is deeply connected to overall physical health, and why changes in erectile function can sometimes signal underlying issues long before other symptoms appear.

The conversation also explores FirmTech’s innovative smart ring technology, which tracks nocturnal and sexual erections to provide insights into vascular and sexual health. Dr. Justin explains how this data-driven approach is helping shift the narrative from “dysfunction” to proactive health optimization and prevention.

This episode offers a fascinating look at how emerging technology is changing the way we understand men’s sexual health, performance, and long-term wellbeing.

What You’ll Learn

• How sexual health reflects overall cardiovascular health

• Why nocturnal erections are an important health marker

• How erectile function can signal early warning signs of disease

• The role of wearable technology in sexual wellness tracking

• How FirmTech is shifting the focus from dysfunction to optimization

• The future of data-driven sexual health tools

• How sexual health monitoring may evolve for both men and women

Connect With the Guest

Dr. Elliot Justin

Co-Founder of FirmTech

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

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Koby shares candid insights from his lived experience as a self-described bear and bottom, offering honest perspectives on anal sex preparation, communication, and the shifting norms within the LGBTQ+ community. Together, he and Eve explore how conversations around condoms, PrEP, DoxyPEP, and STI testing are changing modern sexual practices and what that means for intimacy, risk awareness, and responsibility.

The episode also breaks down practical, often unspoken topics like douching techniques, oral sex risks, and the importance of timing and preparation for safer, more comfortable experiences. A role-play segment highlights common breakdowns in communication around consent and safety, offering listeners real-world examples of how to navigate these moments with clarity and confidence.

This episode is a grounded, educational, and empowering conversation designed to replace stigma with knowledge and encourage healthier, more informed sexual choices.

What You’ll Learn

• The difference between light and deep douching and when to use each

• Why condom use is changing in parts of the gay community

• How PrEP and DoxyPEP are reshaping sexual health practices

• The real risks of STI transmission through oral sex

• The importance of regular STI testing and prevention strategies

• How gut health and recovery matter after frequent anal play

• How to communicate boundaries clearly in sexual situations

Connect With the Guest

Koby Falks

Adult Content Creator & Advocate

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

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Koby shares his journey from growing up in rural Australia, where being gay often came with stigma and misunderstanding, to embracing his identity and redefining masculinity on his own terms. Together, he and Eve explore the pressures society places on men, the impact of body image and performance expectations, and how self-acceptance can lead to greater confidence both inside and outside of relationships.

The conversation also dives into the evolution of the adult entertainment industry, including how creator platforms have given performers more autonomy, control, and opportunities for authentic self-expression. Koby discusses the role of kink, sexual exploration, and community in helping people move beyond shame and embrace their desires with confidence.

This episode is a powerful exploration of identity, empowerment, and the freedom that comes from living authentically.

What You'll Learn

• How masculinity can be redefined beyond traditional stereotypes

• The impact of body image and performance pressure on confidence

• How creator platforms have changed the adult entertainment industry

• The connection between self-acceptance and sexual empowerment

• Why authentic self-expression is essential for personal growth

• The role of kink and exploration in understanding desire

• How overcoming shame can lead to greater confidence and freedom

Connect With the Guest

Koby Falks

Adult Content Creator & Advocate

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

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Together, they explore what a "happy hoe season" really means—not as recklessness, but as an intentional period of self-discovery, healing, and reconnecting with your desires. Fanny shares her personal experiences and professional insights on overcoming shame, navigating societal expectations, and creating healthy boundaries rooted in consent and self-worth.

The conversation also examines how race, culture, class, and gender expectations can influence self-esteem, relationships, and the way women experience singlehood. Fanny introduces her three-step soul therapy framework, offering practical guidance for transforming grief into growth and using life's transitions as opportunities for deeper self-connection.

This episode is an empowering invitation to embrace your sexuality, honor your healing journey, and build a relationship with yourself that is grounded in confidence, pleasure, and authenticity.

What You'll Learn

• What a "happy hoe season" really means and how it supports healing

• Why masturbation and solo pleasure are important for self-discovery

• How to reclaim your sexual identity after a breakup

• The impact of culture, race, and societal expectations on self-worth

• Healthy ways to process heartbreak and personal loss

• How to establish boundaries rooted in consent and self-respect

• Fanny's 3-step soul therapy framework for empowerment and growth

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Fanny Tristan

Therapist, Women's Empowerment Coach & Retreat Leader

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

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Sophia shares her personal journey from a life-altering medical experience to discovering EFT and the profound impact it had on her health and wellbeing. Together, she and Eve explore how unresolved emotions and trauma can become stored in the body, influencing physical symptoms, pelvic health, intimacy, and overall quality of life.

They discuss the principles behind EFT, often known as tapping, and how it can help people process emotional experiences, shift limiting beliefs, and create new patterns that support healing. The conversation also explores the connection between trauma and sexual wellness, including how pelvic floor tension and emotional wounds can contribute to painful sex and disconnection from pleasure.

The episode includes a role-play demonstration showing how EFT may be used as a supportive tool for addressing trauma-related intimacy challenges and fostering a deeper connection with the body.

This is an insightful episode for anyone interested in emotional healing, mind-body wellness, and creating a more empowered relationship with themselves.

What You’ll Learn

• What Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT) is and how it works

• The connection between emotions, trauma, and physical symptoms

• How trauma can impact intimacy and sexual wellbeing

• Why symptoms may sometimes be part of the healing process

• The role of the pelvic floor in storing stress and tension

• How EFT can help reframe limiting beliefs and patterns

• Practical insights for reconnecting with your body and pleasure

Connect With the Guest

Sophia Torrini

Certified Clinical EFT Practitioner

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

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Together, they explore the role of masturbation, self-discovery, and communication in creating a more satisfying and connected sex life. Dr. Jenn explains why solo pleasure is an important tool for understanding your body, desires, and boundaries, and how that knowledge can strengthen intimacy with a partner.

The conversation also dives into the differences between sensuality and sexuality, the realities of the orgasm gap, and why vulnerability and communication are often the foundation of great sex. Eve and Dr. Jenn discuss practical tools for reigniting connection, including Sensate Focus exercises, aftercare practices, and ways to navigate intimacy as our bodies and needs change over time.

This episode is an invitation to replace shame with curiosity, deepen your self-awareness, and create more authentic and fulfilling intimate experiences.

What You'll Learn

• Why masturbation supports self-awareness and sexual confidence

• The difference between sensuality and sexuality

• How to communicate desires and boundaries more effectively

• The role of sex toys in exploration and connection

• How Sensate Focus can help rebuild intimacy

• Why aftercare and pillow talk strengthen relationships

• Navigating aging, changing bodies, and evolving desires

• How curiosity can help dismantle sexual shame

Connect With the Guest

Dr. Jenn Kennedy

Psychologist, Sex Therapist & Relationship Expert

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

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Pepper shares her journey from working in the news industry to building a career centered on sexual empowerment and education. Together, she and Eve discuss how open conversations about intimacy, desires, and boundaries can strengthen relationships, increase confidence, and create more fulfilling sexual experiences.

The episode features a practical roleplay demonstration showing how to establish boundaries and communicate expectations clearly, highlighting why consent and communication are essential for trust, safety, and connection. Eve and Pepper also explore how dirty talk, humor, and self-acceptance can help people feel more comfortable expressing themselves and enhancing pleasure.

This conversation challenges stigma around sex work while emphasizing the value of honest communication, personal agency, and creating judgment-free environments where people can better understand their desires.

What You’ll Learn

• Why communication is the foundation of healthy intimacy

• How setting boundaries enhances safety and connection

• The role of consent in creating fulfilling experiences

• How shame and silence can impact relationships

• Why self-acceptance supports confidence and pleasure

• How humor, playfulness, and communication strengthen intimacy

• What personalized sexual experiences can teach us about connection

Connect With the Guest

Pepper Kat

Host of Spicy Spectrum

Sex Worker & Content Creator

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

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Eve breaks down different types of dreams—including lucid dreams, sex dreams, wet dreams, and even premonition-style experiences—and discusses how each can reflect subconscious thoughts, unresolved emotions, or hidden aspects of desire.

The episode also explores lucid dreaming techniques and how becoming aware within a dream can enhance creativity, problem-solving, and emotional processing. Eve touches on the meaning behind sex dreams and wet dreams, helping listeners understand how these experiences may relate to pleasure, curiosity, and personal exploration rather than literal interpretation.

Listeners are also guided through dream journaling practices and simple ways to reflect on recurring symbols and themes as a tool for self-discovery and growth.

This episode is an invitation to see dreams not as random imagery, but as a powerful inner language that can support healing, creativity, and deeper self-understanding.

What You’ll Learn

• The different types of dreams and what they may represent

• How lucid dreaming works and how to explore it

• What sex dreams and wet dreams may reveal about desire

• How dream journaling supports self-awareness

• The connection between dreams and creativity

• How to use dreams for emotional insight and problem-solving

• Why reflection on dreams can support personal growth

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

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Melissa shares how she transitioned from brand photography into intimate self-portrait work during the pandemic, after a moment of inspiration that shifted her creative direction. She explains how boudoir self-portraits go beyond traditional selfies, offering a deeply intentional and reflective process that helps individuals reconnect with their bodies without external judgment.

Together, Eve and Melissa discuss the therapeutic and almost meditative nature of photographing yourself, embracing imperfection, and allowing the “messiness” of self-expression to become part of the beauty of the experience. They also explore how this practice can support confidence-building and emotional healing, especially for those recovering from surgery or navigating body changes.

Melissa also shares insights from her course that teaches others how to develop their own self-portrait practice, encouraging ongoing self-discovery and empowerment through creativity.

This episode is a powerful invitation to see yourself differently—through presence, curiosity, and compassion.

What You’ll Learn

• How boudoir self-portraits differ from traditional selfies

• Why self-portraiture can support healing and confidence

• The therapeutic benefits of photographing yourself

• How to embrace imperfection in creative expression

• How self-portrait practices support body reconnection

• Tips for preparing for a boudoir or self-portrait session

Connect With the Guest

Melissa Ushtchenko

Self-Taught Boudoir & Portrait Photographer

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

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Marijke shares insights from her book Naked in the Now, focusing on how cultivating presence can transform the way we experience sensuality, connection, and emotional intimacy. Together, she and Eve discuss how relationships can be rebuilt after rupture, and how honesty, vulnerability, and awareness can open the door to deeper reconnection.

The conversation also explores playful sex and the importance of bringing curiosity and lightness back into intimate relationships. Marijke offers guidance on how to reconnect with your body and access a more embodied, present experience of pleasure.

This episode is a reflective and grounding exploration of intimacy, healing, and what it means to be fully present with yourself and your partner.

What You’ll Learn

• How infidelity can lead to reconnection and growth

• The role of presence in sacred sexuality

• Why playful sex strengthens intimacy

• Insights from Naked in the Now

• How to cultivate vulnerability in relationships

• Ways to deepen embodied awareness in intimacy

Connect With the Guest

Marijke McCandless

Author of Naked in the Now

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

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Eve breaks down how sexual function is closely tied to blood flow and explains how reduced circulation can impact arousal, lubrication, and pleasure for both women and men. She also discusses the importance of clitoral and pelvic blood flow in supporting comfortable, pleasurable intimacy.

The episode introduces Acoustic Wave Therapy as a non-invasive option designed to stimulate circulation, improve sensitivity, and support natural lubrication and erectile function. Eve explains how it works, who it may benefit, and why it is considered a gold standard approach in sexual wellness care.

This is an educational episode aimed at helping listeners better understand the physical roots of sexual dysfunction and explore modern treatment options.

What You’ll Learn

• Causes of vaginal dryness, sensitivity loss, and erectile dysfunction

• How blood flow affects sexual function and pleasure

• The role of clitoral and pelvic circulation in intimacy

• How Acoustic Wave Therapy works

• Why it’s considered a leading treatment for sexual health

• Who may benefit from this therapy

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

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Together, they revisit key themes including orgasm equality, body confidence, menopause, kink, ethical non-monogamy, and the importance of slowing down in a fast-paced world. The conversation highlights how openness, communication, and self-awareness continue to shape healthier and more fulfilling experiences of intimacy and pleasure.

Eve also shares insights on the deeper connections between trauma, hormonal changes, and sexual wellbeing, while emphasizing the role of rest, feminine energy, and the ability to receive as essential parts of a balanced life.

The episode closes with a look ahead to Season 5, including upcoming topics and exciting announcements for the Please Me community.

What You’ll Learn

• Key takeaways from Season 4 of Please Me

• How pleasure and self-care transform relationships and wellbeing

• The role of communication in intimacy and connection

• Links between trauma, menopause, and sexual health

• What kink and ethical non-monogamy teach about relationships

• Why rest and receiving are essential for balance

• A sneak peek into Season 5

Connect With the Guest

Rhiannon Aguilar

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

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Eve breaks down the difference between dyspareunia (pain during intercourse) and vaginismus (involuntary pelvic floor tightening), and explains the physical and emotional factors that can contribute to both conditions.

The episode explores how stress, anxiety, trauma, hormonal changes, and vaginal dryness can all affect comfort and pleasure during intimacy. Eve also highlights the importance of arousal time, foreplay, and understanding how the body prepares for penetration.

She shares practical, supportive solutions including pelvic floor therapy, lubrication, gradual desensitization techniques, and comfortable positioning, along with the role of aftercare in supporting overall sexual wellbeing.

This episode is a compassionate guide for anyone experiencing pain during sex, offering education, validation, and practical steps toward reclaiming pleasure.

What You’ll Learn

• The difference between dyspareunia and vaginismus

• Psychological causes of painful sex (stress, anxiety, trauma)

• How hormones and dryness impact comfort

• Why foreplay and arousal time matter

• How pelvic floor therapy supports healing

• Practical ways to reduce pain during intimacy

• The importance of aftercare for sexual health

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

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Stephanie shares how financial stress can quietly impact communication, trust, and even libido, often creating tension in both emotional and sexual connection. Together, she and Eve unpack the importance of open money conversations in relationships and how transparency can strengthen partnership and intimacy.

The discussion also expands into how overall wellbeing—nutrition, energy, and lifestyle habits—directly influences confidence, mood, and how fully we show up in our relationships. Stephanie offers practical tools for improving financial awareness while also supporting physical and emotional health.

This episode highlights how financial stability and personal wellbeing are deeply connected, and how both play a role in creating healthier, more connected relationships.

What You’ll Learn

• How financial stress impacts intimacy and libido

• The most common financial mistake in relationships

• Why money conversations build trust and connection

• How health and nutrition affect confidence and energy

• Ways to track habits for better wellbeing and finances

• Practical steps for financial and personal empowerment

Connect With the Guest

Stephanie Polcyn

Wellness Coach & Financial Advisor

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

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Eve breaks down what stem cells are and why they matter, explaining how their natural production declines with age and lifestyle factors, and what that means for energy, recovery, and wellbeing. She also discusses the connection between inflammation, circulation, and long-term health, and how these systems influence intimacy and libido.

The episode introduces tools like LifeWave patches, which are designed to support the body’s natural stem cell activity, along with holistic strategies to reduce inflammation and improve circulation for better overall function and vitality.

This is an informative episode for anyone interested in optimizing their health, energy, and sexual wellbeing through a regenerative and whole-body approach.

What You’ll Learn

• What stem cells are and why they matter for regeneration

• How stem cells relate to sexual health and libido

• The role of inflammation in aging and disease

• Why circulation impacts energy and intimacy

• How LifeWave patches support stem cell activity

• Holistic strategies for vitality and wellbeing

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

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Cathelina opens up about her healing journey through trauma and depression, and how those experiences influenced her understanding of intimacy, self-expression, and emotional connection. Together, she and Eve discuss the challenges of navigating shame, identifying relationship patterns, and learning to reconnect with pleasure after trauma.

A unique part of this episode includes a guided role-play where Eve steps into the role of a therapist, helping Cathelina explore how to communicate desires and boundaries in intimate relationships. This offers listeners practical language and tools to support healthier conversations with partners.

This conversation is a supportive and grounded exploration of healing, communication, and reclaiming intimacy after emotional wounds.

What You’ll Learn

• How childhood trauma impacts sexual health and intimacy

• The connection between depression, self-worth, and relationships

• Why self-awareness is key to breaking unhealthy patterns

• How to communicate sexual needs and boundaries with a partner

• The role of therapy, writing, and reflection in healing

• Practical tools for rebuilding intimacy after trauma

Connect With the Guest

Cathelina Duvert

Author, Blogger & Mental Health Advocate

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

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Eve explains why incontinence is common, especially after childbirth, during high-impact exercise, and through hormonal transitions like menopause, but emphasizes that it is not something women have to accept as “normal.”

She breaks down the different types of incontinence, what causes them, and how the pelvic floor plays a central role in bladder control and overall core function. Eve also highlights why so many women experience symptoms after pregnancy but don’t seek support, and what keeps this issue so under-addressed.

The episode also offers practical, accessible solutions—from pelvic floor therapy and targeted treatments to simple daily habits that can improve bladder control and confidence.

This is an empowering conversation designed to help women understand their bodies, strengthen their pelvic health, and take back control without shame.

What You’ll Learn

• The different types of urinary incontinence

• Why postpartum, menopause, and sports can affect the pelvic floor

• Common bladder habits that may worsen symptoms

• How pelvic floor therapy supports recovery and strength

• Simple daily habits to improve bladder control

• Why incontinence is common—but not something you must live with

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

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Leigh shares his personal journey with acne and how it impacted his confidence, relationships, and self-esteem. He explains why conventional treatments often fail long-term and why true healing requires a root-cause, whole-body approach.

Together, Eve and Leigh explore the connection between acne, gut health, hormones, and nutrition, and how internal imbalances often show up through the skin. They also discuss the emotional toll of acne and its surprising link to confidence, intimacy, and sexual wellbeing.

This episode is a supportive conversation for anyone struggling with acne who wants to better understand their body and explore holistic paths to healing.

What You’ll Learn

• The emotional impact of acne

• Why acne treatments often don’t work long-term

• The link between acne, gut health, and hormones

• How nutrition supports skin healing

• The connection between skin health and confidence

Connect With the Guest

Leigh Brandon

Health Coach (Acne & Root-Cause Healing)

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

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Eve explores the hormonal changes that can contribute to shifts in lubrication and sensation, and explains why blood flow plays a central role in female arousal and pleasure. She also highlights how nutrition and lifestyle choices can support sexual health from the inside out.

The episode introduces Acoustic Wave Therapy as a non-invasive treatment option being used to improve blood flow and restore sexual function, along with practical, at-home strategies women can use to support intimacy, comfort, and pleasure.

This is a direct, informative episode designed to help listeners better understand their bodies and take empowered steps toward improving sexual wellbeing.

What You’ll Learn

• Hormonal causes of vaginal dryness and reduced sensitivity

• Why blood flow is essential for female pleasure

• How nutrition supports sexual health

• What Acoustic Wave Therapy is and how it works

• Practical ways to improve intimacy and comfort

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

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With years of experience helping women understand male behavior and over 195,000 YouTube subscribers, Jonathon shares practical insights into online dating, emotional maturity, and the patterns that often create confusion in relationships. Together, he and Eve explore the difference between chemistry and compatibility, and why both are often misunderstood in early-stage dating.

The conversation also covers common dating challenges like ghosting, love bombing, and post-divorce dating dynamics, along with the importance of recognizing red flags early. Jonathon introduces his “Dating Vows” framework as a tool for encouraging honest, grounded conversations before intimacy develops, emphasizing that clarity is key to avoiding misalignment.

At the heart of this episode is a powerful reminder that self-love and emotional awareness are essential foundations for attracting and maintaining healthy relationships in today’s dating landscape.

What You’ll Learn

• The realities of modern dating culture

• The difference between chemistry and compatibility

• What ghosting and love bombing reveal about dating patterns

• How to date with intention and clarity

• Key red flags to watch for early on

• Why radical honesty improves relationships

• The role of self-love in healthy connection

Connect With the Guest

Jonathon Aslay

Dating & Relationship Coach

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

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Eve explains what ED actually is and explores both the physical and emotional factors that can contribute to it, including stress, circulation issues, hormonal imbalance, and performance anxiety. She also discusses how ED can sometimes overlap with premature ejaculation and what that may signal about overall sexual health.

The conversation highlights the powerful role of nutrition in supporting erectile function, including how certain foods can improve blood flow and vascular health. Eve also shares simple, practical steps listeners can take at home to begin improving sexual performance and vitality naturally.

In addition, she breaks down different treatment options—from lifestyle changes and natural approaches to medical interventions—while explaining why therapies like Acoustic Wave Therapy are gaining attention as a non-invasive option for improving blood flow and erectile function.

This episode is a clear, supportive guide for anyone wanting to better understand ED, improve sexual health, or explore natural ways to support stronger, more confident intimacy.

What You’ll Learn

• What erectile dysfunction is and why it happens

• The link between ED and premature ejaculation

• Physical and emotional causes of ED

• How nutrition impacts sexual performance

• Foods that support blood flow and erectile health

• Natural approaches vs. medical treatments

• How Acoustic Wave Therapy works for ED

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

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Katherine shares her lived experience navigating eight invisible disabilities and how neurodiversity has shaped her relationships, identity, and sexual wellbeing. Together, she and Eve break down the stigma and misunderstanding often surrounding disability and intimacy, offering a compassionate and honest perspective on what it means to connect with yourself and others in a neurodivergent body and mind.

The conversation highlights the importance of communication, consent, and adaptability in relationships, especially when navigating trauma, sensory differences, or accessibility needs. Katherine also shares practical insights on self-acceptance, advocating for your needs, and exploring intimacy in ways that feel safe, authentic, and empowering.

This episode is a reminder that there is no “one way” to experience sexuality or connection—and that honoring your individual nervous system, needs, and boundaries is key to building fulfilling relationships.

What You’ll Learn

• How neurodiversity and sexual health intersect

• Ways invisible disabilities can impact intimacy and relationships

• Why communication is essential for accessible intimacy

• How to break stigma around disability and sexuality

• The importance of self-acceptance and self-advocacy

• How to explore intimacy in neurodivergent-affirming ways

Connect With the Guest

Katherine McCord

Founder of The Neuroverse

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

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Together, they unpack what polyamory actually looks like beyond the stereotypes, breaking down different relationship structures such as kitchen table polyamory, parallel polyamory, and hierarchical arrangements. Anneke shares how these models can help people design relationships that align with their values, needs, and emotional capacity, rather than defaulting to traditional monogamous norms.

The conversation also explores the concept of “infinite love” and how expanding our understanding of connection can reshape jealousy, attachment, and intimacy. Eve and Anneke discuss how communication, honesty, and emotional awareness are essential in building sustainable ethical non-monogamous relationships.

Anneke also explains how coaching differs from therapy, especially when working with clients navigating shame, desire, and alternative relationship styles. She offers insight into how individuals and couples can move through fear and stigma to create more authentic, fulfilling connections.

This episode is a grounded and accessible guide for anyone curious about polyamory, ethical non-monogamy, or expanding their understanding of love and relationship structure.

What You’ll Learn

• What ethical non-monogamy and polyamory really mean

• Different types of polyamorous relationship structures

• How “infinite love” shifts relationship dynamics

• The role of communication in non-monogamous relationships

• How coaching supports relationship growth and shame work

• Tips for exploring kink and polyamory communities safely

Connect With the Guest

Anneke Elmhirst

Relationship Coach (Polyamory, Kink & Neurodivergence)

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

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Davida shares how a life-altering experience inspired her to create We The Aunties, a wellness collective dedicated to supporting underrepresented menopausal women through education, programming, and joy-led experiences. Her mission is to reframe menopause as a continuum of transformation rather than a decline.

Together, Eve and Davida break down perimenopause, menopause, and postmenopause, exploring common symptoms like brain fog, bone loss, mood shifts, and changes in libido. They also discuss practical strategies for navigating these changes with more ease, awareness, and support.

The conversation explores hormone replacement therapy (HRT), including its benefits, common misconceptions, and the importance of advocacy when seeking care. Davida emphasizes how crucial it is for women to feel informed and empowered when making decisions about their health.

At the heart of this episode is the importance of community, joy, and sexual wellbeing—highlighted through initiatives like We The Aunties’ MooMoo parties, which create safe, celebratory spaces for women to reconnect with themselves and each other.

This episode is a reminder that menopause is not an ending, but an evolution—one that can be filled with confidence, pleasure, and connection.

What You’ll Learn

• Why menopause is a continuum, not a single stage

• Common symptoms and how to navigate them

• The role of HRT and common misconceptions

• How to advocate for yourself in healthcare

• Why community and joy matter during menopause

• How sexual wellness supports midlife wellbeing

Connect With the Guest

Davida Elizabeth Arnold

Founder of We The Aunties

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

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Mia shares her personal journey from a successful career in finance to becoming a fiction writer, explaining how stepping away from a structured, male-dominated industry allowed her to explore creativity, desire, and themes of empowerment through storytelling. Together, she and Eve discuss how her work challenges traditional expectations of women, particularly around power, ambition, sexuality, and independence.

The conversation dives into the parallels between power dynamics in finance and intimate relationships, especially within BDSM and ethical non-monogamy. Mia reflects on how communication, consent, and emotional intelligence are essential foundations in both romantic and sexual dynamics, and how these themes show up in her writing.

Eve and Mia also explore the importance of writing strong, unapologetic female characters who embrace both vulnerability and authority. They highlight how literature can be a powerful tool for reshaping cultural narratives around women, sexuality, and leadership.

The episode also touches on multicultural representation in romance fiction, drawing from Mia’s own experiences and the importance of reflecting diverse identities and relationship structures in storytelling. To close the conversation, they bring in a playful and creative exploration of fantasy, offering a glimpse into Mia’s storytelling style and imaginative approach to intimacy.

This episode is a celebration of breaking norms, embracing complexity, and owning one’s power—both in life and in love.

Topics Covered

• Mia Sivan’s transition from finance to fiction writing

• Power dynamics in sex, relationships, and financial systems

• Writing strong, unapologetic female protagonists

• Communication in BDSM and ethical non-monogamy

• Multicultural representation in romance literature

• Breaking societal norms around feminine identity and power

• Safe sex, consent, and creative expression in intimacy

Connect With the Guest

Mia Sivan

Steamy Contemporary Romance Novelist

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

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Brittney shares her perspective on what “Big Clit Energy” truly represents—not just as a playful concept, but as a deeper embodiment of confidence, self-trust, pleasure, and authenticity in every area of life. Together, she and Eve explore how sexual confidence is deeply connected to emotional wellbeing, creativity, relationships, and overall empowerment.

The conversation unpacks how shame, conditioning, and societal expectations often disconnect women from their bodies, desires, and self-expression. Brittney offers insight into how reclaiming pleasure and self-love can become a gateway to transformation, helping women step into their full power with clarity and confidence.

She also shares her personal journey of self-discovery and how it led her to create transformational spaces for women through her retreats, where healing, embodiment, and confidence-building are central themes. Throughout the episode, Brittney provides practical tools and mindset shifts for cultivating authenticity, self-love, and fearless self-expression in daily life.

This episode is a powerful reminder that confidence is not something you wait for—it’s something you choose, embody, and grow from within.

What You’ll Learn

• What “Big Clit Energy” really means beyond the phrase

• How sexual confidence influences overall empowerment

• Ways to release shame and societal conditioning

• Brittney Carmichael’s journey into self-love and leadership

• Practical tools for building confidence and authenticity

• How embodiment supports transformation in all areas of life

Connect With the Guest

Brittney Carmichael

Creator of Goddess Retreats

Intuitive Coach & Empowerment Leader

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

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Danielle shares her personal journey of embracing her bisexuality and navigating the fluid and evolving nature of sexual identity. Together, she and Eve explore how labels can both empower and limit us, and how self-discovery is often an ongoing process rather than a fixed destination.

The conversation also highlights generational shifts in how people understand and express gender and sexuality, with younger generations embracing more openness, fluidity, and inclusivity than ever before. Eve and Danielle reflect on how these changes are reshaping cultural conversations and creating space for more authentic expression.

They also discuss the role of pop culture in shaping perceptions of LGBTQ+ identities, unpacking how movies and TV often reinforce stereotypes while also acknowledging the growing importance of accurate, nuanced representation.

At the heart of the episode is the importance of communication—both with ourselves and with others—as a tool for understanding identity, building relationships, and fostering self-acceptance.

Settle in with a warm drink and join this cozy holiday conversation celebrating authenticity, growth, and the freedom to be yourself.

What You’ll Learn

• Understanding bisexuality and the LGBTQ+ spectrum

• How sexuality can be fluid and evolving

• Generational shifts in gender and sexual identity

• The impact of pop culture on representation and stereotypes

• Why communication is essential for self-discovery and relationships

• How self-acceptance supports authentic living

Connect With the Guest

Danielle Bezalel

Creator of Sex Ed with DB and Rom Com Vom

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

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Together, they dive into how pleasure can extend far beyond traditional ideas of sexuality and orgasm. Jenn explains the science, psychology, and emotional liberation behind touchless orgasms, sharing how breath, mindfulness, nervous system regulation, energy awareness, and intentional focus can create profound full-body experiences without physical touch.

The conversation also explores how societal conditioning, shame, and disconnection from the body can limit pleasure and intimacy. Jenn offers insight into how reconnecting with sensation, curiosity, and self-awareness can help people deepen their relationship with themselves and their partners.

Eve and Jenn discuss the role of relaxation, emotional safety, and presence in accessing expanded pleasure states, while emphasizing that every body experiences arousal and pleasure differently. This episode encourages listeners to approach pleasure with openness rather than performance or pressure.

Whether you’re curious about energetic intimacy, looking to reconnect with your body, or interested in expanding your understanding of pleasure and self-discovery, this conversation offers compassionate and practical insight into the mind-body connection.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode

• What touchless orgasms are and how they work

• The role of breath, energy, and mindfulness in pleasure

• How shame and conditioning can impact intimacy and arousal

• Ways to deepen connection with your body and nervous system

• The importance of emotional safety and relaxation in pleasure

• How curiosity and self-awareness can expand intimacy experiences

Connect With the Guest

Jenn Wodtke

Author of Touchless Orgasm

Pleasure Coach

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

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Together, they discuss the challenges many women face when seeking medical support for symptoms related to hormonal transitions. From feeling dismissed or unheard by healthcare providers to navigating outdated information around menopause, Eve and Amita explore the systemic gaps that often leave women searching for answers on their own.