In this deeply embodied episode of Please Me!, Eve welcomes erotic embodiment coach and “Orgasmic Body Whisperer” Patty Alfonso for a powerful conversation on erotic innocence, feminine energy, sensual confidence, sacred sexuality, and reconnecting to your life force energy. Together, they explore how trauma, societal conditioning, shame, burnout, and hyper-productivity disconnect women from pleasure, intuition, and authentic self-expression — and how reclaiming sensuality can transform every area of life.

Eve and Patty discuss body awareness, nervous system regulation, self-pleasure as self-care, embodiment practices, communication in relationships, orgasmic energy, feminine and masculine balance, and what it means to truly feel safe in your body. They also explore how pleasure, curiosity, and sensual living can support healing, confidence, intimacy, and emotional connection.

This episode dives into topics including erotic innocence, sacred sexuality, sexual sovereignty, body positivity, orgasm equality, self-love, feminine empowerment, sensual embodiment, kink exploration, communication tools for couples, nervous system healing, pleasure practices, and reconnecting with your authentic self.

Plus, Eve and Patty step into one of the podcast’s signature role play segments, demonstrating a powerful intimacy and communication exercise called a dyad. Through guided dialogue, they model how partners can safely explore fantasies, desires, kink curiosity, consent, vulnerability, and deeper emotional intimacy through intentional communication and active listening.

If you’ve ever felt disconnected from your body, stuck in performance-based sexuality, navigating life transitions, or craving deeper intimacy and pleasure, this conversation offers empowering tools to help you reconnect with yourself and your desires.

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In Part 2 of this powerful conversation, Eve continues with boudoir photographer Vera Glass to explore body confidence, feminine empowerment, sensual self-expression, sexuality, and the transformative power of boudoir photography.

This episode goes deeper into how boudoir can support women through divorce, motherhood, body image struggles, shame, societal expectations, and major life transitions. Vera shares how stepping in front of the camera can help women reconnect with their bodies, rebuild confidence, and begin to see themselves through the empowering lens of the female gaze.

Eve and Vera also explore how boudoir becomes a tool for emotional reinvention — helping women release old identities, rediscover pleasure, and reconnect with sensuality and self-worth at every stage of life.

The episode closes with a playful role play segment focused on intimacy and communication, including dirty talk, expressing desire, consent, and how to bring more openness, confidence, and erotic communication into partnered relationships.

Perfect for listeners interested in boudoir photography, divorce recovery, body confidence, sensual embodiment, feminine energy, sexuality, self-love, intimacy, communication, and personal transformation.

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In Part 1 of this special two-part episode of Please Me! Podcast, Eve sits down with boudoir and fashion photographer Vera Glass for a deep conversation on the female gaze, body confidence, sensuality, and self-expression. Together they explore how boudoir photography can become a powerful tool for embodiment, healing, feminine empowerment, and reconnecting with your sensual self.

Vera shares how her photography differs from traditional “male gaze” imagery by centering women’s comfort, emotional safety, confidence, and authenticity. From curated luxury photoshoots and cinematic imagery to breathwork, nervous system regulation, and emotional healing, this episode dives into the psychology behind sensual photography and why so many women leave boudoir sessions feeling transformed.

Eve and Vera also discuss body image, self-worth, intimacy, feminine energy, and how intentional photography can help women reconnect with their bodies after heartbreak, divorce, motherhood, trauma, or major life transitions.

Perfect for listeners interested in boudoir photography, self-love, body positivity, embodiment, sensual wellness, feminine confidence, sexuality, intimacy, and personal growth. Be sure to come back for Part 2 this Friday.

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This conversation explores the psychology behind dollification, sissy play, dominance and submission, humiliation, affirmation, consent, and the emotional impact of gendered power dynamics within kink spaces. Lady Veronika shares how ethical gender play can help people better understand identity, embodiment, fantasy, and self-expression while challenging shame, stigma, and outdated ideas around femininity and masculinity.

Eve and Lady Veronika also discuss the transformative nature of doll play, the importance of boundaries and intentionality in BDSM, and how kink can be used to build people up rather than tear them down. From fetish culture and trans identity to conscious kink practices and erotic self-acceptance, this episode offers a thoughtful and deeply intimate look into modern BDSM dynamics.

Perfect for listeners curious about kink education, BDSM relationships, doll play, feminization, gender expression, power exchange, consent, sexual empowerment, and alternative intimacy.

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Each week offers a curated rhythm of healing, education, connection, and play, featuring guest educators, performers, workshops, and experiences designed to encourage exploration, authenticity, and community. The month builds toward an unforgettable 3-day finale that brings everything together in a powerful closing experience.

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In Part 2 of this conversation, host Eve continues her discussion with Dr. Nic and Prof Mike of Divine Guidance, exploring what it means to be blindsided in a relationship and how to rebuild self-trust after emotional disruption.

This episode dives into intuition in relationships, emotional patterns in dating, and the self-awareness needed to navigate both new and long-term partnerships. The conversation unpacks why people stay in misaligned relationships, the difference between hope vs. certainty, and how to recognize early red flags before deeper attachment forms.

Eve and her guests also break down ghosting behavior, why partners come back after disappearing, and how to make confident, grounded decisions rooted in clarity—not confusion. The episode concludes with a practical role play covering communication skills, financial compatibility, and relationship alignment.

Key Topics:
• Being blindsided in a relationship and emotional recovery
• Rebuilding self-trust and confidence after heartbreak
• Intuition in dating and relationships
• Emotional patterns and relationship cycles
• Hope vs. certainty in love and decision-making
• Red flags in early dating stages
• Ghosting behavior and why people come back
• Communication skills in relationships
• Financial compatibility and relationship alignment
• Self-awareness and healthy relationship tools
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In this powerful Part 1 conversation, Eve sits down with Dr. Nic and Professor Mike Sebastian from the Trust Your Gut Save Your Ass Podcast to unpack what it really means to be blindsided in a relationship—and how to find your way back to yourself.

Through a deeply personal story, Eve shares her experience of financial manipulation within her marriage and the long-term impact it had on her life, credit, and sense of self. What begins as a reflection on a Netflix show quickly unfolds into a much larger conversation about red flags, intuition, trauma responses, and the patterns that keep people stuck in unhealthy relationships.

Together, they explore how financial dynamics can quietly erode a partnership, why so many people overlook early warning signs, and how societal pressure—especially for women—can lead to compromising your truth. This episode dives into the importance of emotional awareness, recognizing misalignment early, and understanding the role both partners play in relationship dynamics.

Dr. Nic and Professor Mike introduce the concept of “resonance” in relationships—how shared values, habits, and everyday preferences matter more than we often realize—and why ignoring small incompatibilities can lead to major fractures down the line. They also break down one of the most powerful and confronting questions you can ask in any relationship:

“Are you willing to work on this?”

This episode is an honest, nuanced look at love, accountability, and the journey of rebuilding trust—not just with others, but within yourself.

Stay tuned for Part 2, where things get even deeper with a live relationship role-play and communication breakdown.

Key Topics Covered

• Financial manipulation and financial infidelity in relationships
• Recognizing relationship red flags early
• How trauma impacts communication and decision-making
• The psychology of staying in unhealthy relationships
• Sexless marriage and emotional disconnection
• Rebuilding self-trust after divorce
• Dating app culture and dishonesty statistics
• The myth of “opposites attract” vs. relationship compatibility
• Understanding “resonance” and alignment in partnerships
• The role of intuition, gut feelings, and emotional awareness
• One question that can determine the future of your relationship

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Welcome back to Please Me! Podcast, the award-winning sexuality podcast hosted by Eve, where bold conversations around intimacy, pleasure, and sexual wellness help de-stigmatize the way we talk about sex.

In this episode, Eve sits down with Luna Rose—ritual artist, kink guide, and herbalist behind Wild Pleasure Sanctuary—to explore the powerful intersection of eco-sensuality, BDSM, and embodied desire.

Luna shares how she weaves together Shibari rope work, plant-based practices, herbal medicine, and ritual to create deeply transformative experiences rooted in presence, connection, and pleasure.

From working with herbs like rose, lavender, and rosemary in sensual play to using rope for nervous system regulation and mindfulness, this conversation expands the possibilities of intimacy, healing, and self-expression.

If you're curious about conscious kink, alternative intimacy, or holistic approaches to sexuality, this episode will open your perspective in a grounded and empowering way.

• What eco-sensuality is and how nature deepens intimacy
• How plants like rose, lavender, and rosemary enhance sensual and kink experiences
• The grounding and therapeutic benefits of Shibari rope bondage
• How rope supports nervous system regulation and embodiment
• Why consent, communication, and safety are essential in BDSM
• How ritual and plant medicine intersect with sexuality
• Safe ways to explore self-pleasure and kink curiosity

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Together, they explore the deeper links between trauma, boundaries, sexual health, and relationship dynamics. This episode dives into how emotional labor impacts desire, why the orgasm gap persists, and how high-achieving women often prioritize others at the expense of their own needs.

You’ll also hear a practical role-play segment that demonstrates how to communicate desires, set boundaries, and confidently center your pleasure in intimate relationships.

If you’ve ever struggled with overgiving, loss of desire, or difficulty asking for what you want—in bed or in life—this episode offers both insight and actionable tools to help you reclaim your power and reconnect with your body.

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In this episode, Eve sits down with Dr. Jordan Wiggins, naturopathic doctor, author of Pink Canary, and host of The Pleasure Principles Podcast. Together they explore why high-achieving women often struggle in toxic relationships and how qualities like empathy, loyalty, and responsibility—what Dr. Wiggins calls “Super Traits”—can drive success while also keeping women stuck in unhealthy relationship patterns.

They discuss the connection between trauma, intimacy, libido, and emotional burnout, and why many successful women experience mismatched desire, sexless marriages, or disconnection in relationships despite thriving professionally.

This conversation also explores praise kink, emotional labor in relationships, and how “love languages” can sometimes be weaponized when one partner over-functions while the other under-functions.

In This Episode

• What Super Traits are and how they affect relationships
• The connection between trauma and toxic relationship patterns
• Why high-achieving women struggle with libido and intimacy
• How chronic stress and over-functioning shut down pleasure centers
• The role of praise, validation, and emotional labor in relationships
• Why pleasure and fulfillment are essential for overall health

Eve also highlights two powerful resources designed to support long-term sexual health, pleasure, and prevention:

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In this episode, Eve welcomes Genevieve Lejeune, founder of Skirt Club, the world’s first global membership community created exclusively for bisexual and bicurious women. What began as a small gathering in London has grown into a thriving international network with 27,000+ members across 36 cities, offering curated events, workshops, and retreats designed to create safe spaces for women to explore identity, connection, and pleasure.

Together, Eve and Genevieve discuss:

• Exploring bisexuality, sexual identity, and self-discovery
• Why women-only spaces support safety, confidence, and exploration
• The role of consent, communication, and boundaries in intimacy
• How embodiment practices and sexual energy reconnect women to their bodies
• The importance of community, autonomy, and self-pleasure in sexual wellness

Genevieve also shares insights into Skirt Club’s international retreats in destinations like Austin, Paris, Bali, and New York, where women experience embodiment workshops, intimacy practices, and personal development focused on feminine empowerment and connection.

Eve also highlights two powerful resources designed to support long-term sexual health, pleasure, and prevention:

 The Sexual Longevity Protocol: The Private Client Blueprint for Lifelong Sexual Pleasure
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In this episode of the Please Me Podcast, Eve sits down with Becky Gleed, a reproductive and perinatal health expert and host of the Perinatal and Reproductive Perspectives Podcast, to explore how infertility, IVF, and assisted reproduction impact intimacy, relationships, and mental health.

Eve also shares her personal IVF experience, opening up about how fertility treatments can shift sex from something spontaneous and connective into something scheduled and clinical—often creating emotional pressure and disconnection for couples. Together, they discuss the psychological toll of infertility and offer supportive, practical ways to maintain communication, intimacy, and emotional closeness throughout the journey.

This conversation also expands into postpartum realities, including breastfeeding challenges, identity shifts, and maternal mental health. They highlight the importance of prioritizing the wellbeing of the birthing individual and recognizing early signs of more serious conditions, including postpartum psychosis.

This episode is a compassionate and empowering resource for anyone navigating fertility challenges, reproductive health concerns, or changes in intimacy during the journey to parenthood.

What You’ll Learn
• How infertility and IVF affect intimacy and relationships
• Why fertility treatments can create emotional stress and disconnection
• Ways to maintain connection and communication during fertility challenges
• The importance of advocating for yourself in reproductive care
• The role of mental health support during infertility and IVF
• How postpartum recovery and breastfeeding can impact intimacy
• Understanding postpartum psychosis and the importance of early support

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Becky Gleed
Website: https://www.perinatalreproductivewellness.com/

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In this episode of Please Me, Eve introduces The Sexual Longevity Protocol: The Private Client Blueprint for Lifelong Sexual Pleasure—a proven, clinically informed system designed to help men and women prevent and improve common sexual health challenges before they become long-term issues.

From erectile dysfunction and vaginal dryness to low libido, decreased sensitivity, and performance concerns, Eve breaks down why these experiences are not just a normal part of aging—and what’s actually happening in the body when sexual function begins to decline.

At the core of sexual longevity is a powerful truth: sexual function is deeply connected to blood flow, consistent stimulation, and nervous system regulation. When these systems are supported, pleasure, confidence, and connection don’t have to fade—they can be maintained and even improved over time.

Eve introduces a prevention-first approach to sexual wellness, showing why what you do now directly impacts your future sex life—and why waiting until something is “wrong” is the biggest mistake people make.

About the Course:

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: The Private Client Blueprint for Lifelong Sexual Pleasure is a 3-module, self-paced course designed so you can take control of your sexual health from the comfort and privacy of your own home—no need to work with Eve directly to experience the benefits.

Inside, you’ll find:

• Module 1: Women’s Sexual Health Hacks
  Targeted strategies to support arousal, lubrication, sensitivity, and long-term vaginal health

• Module 2: Men’s Sexual Health Hacks
  Practical tools to improve erectile function, stamina, performance, and confidence

• Module 3: Safety Sexual Health Hacks
  A critical, often overlooked component focused on nervous system regulation, safety, and sustainable pleasure—because true sexual longevity requires both physical function and a regulated, responsive body

This private client blueprint is designed to help you restore, maintain, and protect your sexual function for years to come—without guesswork.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

• The real root cause behind declining sexual function (vascular health)

• How to improve arousal, sensitivity, and sexual performance naturally

• The role of the nervous system in pleasure, safety, and intimacy

• How to prevent vaginal atrophy and erectile dysfunction

• Why a proactive sexual wellness routine is essential for long-term pleasure

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In this episode of the Please Me Podcast, host Eve Hall sits down with renowned certified sexologist Marla Renee Stewart for a powerful conversation about seduction styles, intimacy, sexual communication, and authentic connection in relationships.

Marla, founder of Velvet Lips and co-founder of the Sex Down South Conference, shares insights from more than two decades of studying human sexuality and helping individuals and couples improve their sex lives. Together, they explore the three seduction styles and explain how understanding these styles can transform attraction, dating, communication, and intimacy.

Rather than manipulation, seduction is about recognizing your sexual strengths and using them to build genuine emotional and physical connection. This episode explores how visual, auditory, and tactile seduction styles influence the way we flirt, attract partners, and create deeper relationships.

Listeners will gain practical relationship advice, sexual wellness insights, and dating guidance for creating stronger emotional and erotic connections. Whether you are single, dating, or in a long-term relationship, understanding seduction styles can help you communicate better, increase attraction, and build more fulfilling intimacy.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode

• The three seduction styles: visual, auditory, and tactile

• How to identify your seduction style and your partner’s

• Why seduction is about authentic connection—not manipulation

• How communication improves intimacy and attraction

• Common sexual challenges couples experience in relationships

• Strategies to reconnect with a partner sexually and emotionally

• Dating advice for singles looking for deeper relationships

• Why shared values are essential for long-term compatibility

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At age 50, she realized that desire doesn’t disappear because of aging or hormones — it fades when emotional safety erodes, communication shuts down, and the body stops feeling invited into the relationship.

Together, Eve and Xanet explore how to rebuild intimacy after a sexless marriage, repair emotional ruptures, heal trauma, and redefine sex beyond penetration to create lasting connection and pleasure. Topics Covered

• Emotional safety as the foundation of sexual intimacy

• Why repair is critical in long-term relationships

• The impact of childhood shame and medical trauma on desire

• Healing sexual shutdown through tantra and embodied practices

• Expanding the definition of sex beyond penetration

• Navigating erectile dysfunction with compassion and creativity

• Mutual masturbation and alternative intimacy practices

• How to start difficult conversations about sex

• Touching for your own pleasure to build erotic connection

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 https://passionateintimacyretreats.com

Books:

• Living an Orgasmic Life

• The Sex & Intimacy Repair Kit

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Together, they unpack the rarely discussed realities of men’s sexual health, including performance anxiety, shame, stress, and identity — and how these factors deeply impact intimacy, relationships, and mental health.

Brent shares candid personal experiences with erectile dysfunction caused by stress and exhaustion, shedding light on how strongly many men tie sexual performance to masculinity and self-worth. The conversation explores how fear, shame, and societal expectations can quickly turn sex from a source of connection into a source of anxiety — and what men (and their partners) can do to interrupt that cycle.

This episode also dives into foundational habits for long-term sexual health, including sleep, nutrition, hydration, exercise, stress management, and honest self-assessment. Eve and Brent address the men’s mental health and loneliness epidemic, the outdated “playbook” men are still handed, and why vulnerability is often encouraged in theory but punished in practice.

The episode concludes with a realistic and educational role-play conversation, modeling how couples can communicate desires, boundaries, fantasies, and consent — proving that healthy sexual communication can be awkward, playful, respectful, and deeply connecting.

• Men’s sexual performance anxiety and identity

• Erectile dysfunction, stress, and exhaustion

• Shame and fear surrounding sexual health issues

• When men should seek support for sexual health concerns

• Sleep, hydration, nutrition, and cardiovascular health for sexual wellness

• Testosterone, exercise, and healthy fats

• Men’s mental health crisis and loneliness epidemic

• Why traditional therapy often misses men

• Masculinity, vulnerability, and societal expectations

• Initiating intimacy and feeling desired as a man

• Power dynamics, submission, and stress relief in the bedroom

• How to talk to your partner about fantasies and boundaries

• Consent, communication, and curiosity in long-term relationships

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Website 
https://purposedrivenmen.com

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This candid, educational conversation explores sexual wellness tools designed to support blood flow, sensitivity, endurance, and confidence — for all genders.

Building on his Season 6 appearance, Sam returns to share the latest data, devices, and innovations in sexual health, including pumps for men and women, endurance training, and the science behind arousal, aging, and prevention.

• How blood flow directly impacts sexual pleasure, sensitivity, and function

• Why sexual wellness is preventative care, not just a solution after problems arise

• The science behind penis pumps, extenders, and female vacuum devices

How regular pumping may support:

• Increased sensitivity

• Improved natural lubrication

• Enhanced erectile quality

• Vaginal and vulvar tissue health

• The connection between aging, atrophy, and sexual function in both men and women

• How women experience arousal and engorgement — and why it matters for pleasure

• A deep dive into penile endurance training and edging practices

• How men can dramatically increase stamina and control through guided training

• Why lasting longer isn’t a “problem to fix” — it’s a trainable skill

• How improved endurance can open the door to deeper intimacy, novelty, and fantasy

• A playful, fan-favorite role play segment exploring how to introduce new tools into a relationship

Sam Itshaki first joined Please Me! in Season 6 for a powerful two-part deep dive into male enhancement, sexual confidence, and the foundations of blood-flow-based sexual wellness. These fan-favorite episodes laid the groundwork for today’s conversation and are a great place to start if you’re new to Sam’s work.

Part 1:
https://open.spotify.com/episode/6HFc6AVk1JMpIg3EZBfDnz?si=W5AZ4es3RZWJteUo7SqpHQ

Part 2:
https://open.spotify.com/episode/6nWGLezGEQW9KqLYfJkyrv?si=SlAXCixtTOu-NaGx25GnPA

Together, these episodes explore the origins of Mr. Get Bigger Now, early research on pumping and endurance training, and how men can reclaim agency over their sexual performance and pleasure.

Connect with Sam Itshaki

Website:
https://getbiggernow.com

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In this episode of Please Me, we’re joined by Kayla Moore, certified sex therapist, pleasure coach, and sovereign guide for women warriors rising, for a powerful conversation about reclaiming pleasure, healing sexual conditioning, and restoring the sacred feminine.

Kayla explores how patriarchal systems, religion, and cultural norms have shaped our relationship to sex, desire, and intimacy—and why pleasure is not limited to sex, but is deeply connected to nervous system safety, embodiment, and emotional connection. Together, we discuss divine feminine and divine masculine energies, the importance of healing in community, and how slowing down intimacy can create deeper, more fulfilling relationships.

This episode also features a live role-play modeling healthy communication around desire, boundaries, pacing, and emotional safety—offering practical language listeners can use in their own relationships.

• Pleasure as a pathway to healing and empowerment

• The sacred feminine and sacred masculine within all people

• How patriarchy impacts sexuality and intimate relationships

• Why emotional safety is essential for intimacy and desire

• Healing sexual desire through community and connection

• How to communicate needs, boundaries, and pace in relationships

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In this powerful episode, Eve welcomes Emma Galland, a renowned sex educator and Tantra coach, for an expansive discussion on how sexuality functions as a portal to self-realization, creativity, and liberation.

Together, they explore how orgasms are not merely physical events, but nervous-system experiences capable of releasing grief, anger, fear, joy, and shame. Emma breaks down concepts such as cry orgasms, anger orgasms, joy orgasms, and location-specific orgasms, unpacking the neuroscience behind pleasure, sensation, and emotional expression.

This episode dives deep into:

• Tantra as a daily self-cultivation and embodiment practice

• Sexuality as life force energy and creative power

• How emotional orgasms support trauma healing

• Why presence—not performance—creates mind-blowing sex

• How men can cultivate sexual mastery and emotional capacity

• Releasing sexual shame as a pathway to freedom and confidence

• Boundaries, consent, and handling unwanted sexual attention

• Tantra vs. conventional sex: intention vs. performance

• Masturbation as a spiritual, nervous-system regulation practice

• Why pleasure expands confidence, creativity, and manifestation

This conversation is raw, educational, and deeply liberating—perfect for anyone ready to reclaim pleasure and close the orgasm gap.

Website:
https://tantricawakenings.com

(Explore Tantra teachings, guided practices, and resources for embodied intimacy.)

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Designed for individuals and couples within the lifestyle community, the session emphasizes that boundaries and desire are not opposing forces. Instead, clear communication around needs, limits, and preferences can deepen attraction, build trust, and enhance sexual connection.

Eve breaks down practical strategies for expressing yeses and nos in ways that preserve desire and respect, and offers guidance on handling rejection with emotional maturity and clarity. A key focus of the episode is the idea that consent is not a disruption to intimacy, but a foundation that allows for greater freedom, curiosity, and pleasure.

The conversation also includes education on STI awareness and testing, with attention to oral transmission risks and the importance of ongoing sexual health responsibility in ethically non-monogamous relationships. Additional discussion highlights how fantasies, kinks, and erotic interests can be communicated openly without pressure or shame, strengthening relational transparency.

Throughout the webinar, Eve reframes safer sex as an empowering practice—positioning communication, consent, and clarity as forms of erotic connection that enhance both trust and arousal. The episode also touches on broader themes of body confidence, sexual empowerment, and community culture within ENM spaces.

A referenced segment from a related discussion with Dr. Elliot Justin expands on men’s sexual health, noting the connection between nocturnal erections and cardiovascular function. The conversation highlights emerging smart technology that tracks erection quality during sleep, with research suggesting that fewer than three nocturnal erections per night may correlate with increased cardiovascular risk.

Overall, this episode blends education, relationship tools, and sexual health awareness into a practical guide for navigating modern intimacy with confidence and care.

What You’ll Learn

• How to communicate sexual boundaries without reducing desire

• Why consent can enhance attraction and intimacy

• Strategies for handling rejection respectfully in dating and ENM spaces

• The importance of STI awareness and oral transmission education

• How to discuss fantasies, kinks, and desires without pressure

• Why safer sex practices strengthen trust and connection

• The role of communication in ethically non-monogamous relationships

• How body confidence supports sexual empowerment

• Insights into men’s sexual health and nocturnal erections

• The link between erectile function and cardiovascular health

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

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A central theme of the episode is the connection between sexual performance and overall vascular and cardiovascular health. Eve explains how conditions such as erectile dysfunction and vaginal dryness can often serve as early indicators of underlying blood flow or endothelial dysfunction, highlighting the importance of early awareness and holistic care.

The conversation also explores a range of evidence-informed approaches to improving sexual wellness, including acoustic wave therapy for tissue and blood flow support, as well as mechanical tools such as penis pumps and traction devices. These are discussed in the context of safe, informed use and long-term sexual health rather than short-term performance fixes.

Eve emphasizes the role of masturbation and self-exploration as foundational practices for sexual health, noting how masturbation supports pelvic awareness, arousal understanding, and orgasmic response. She also connects ejaculation frequency to prostate health and underscores the importance of pleasure literacy for all genders.

For female sexual health, the episode addresses clitoral blood flow, lubrication, hormonal influences (including testosterone, estrogen, progesterone, and DHEA), and how factors like sleep, nutrition, hydration, and movement contribute to arousal and comfort. The importance of extended foreplay and adequate arousal time is highlighted as essential for reducing discomfort and improving pleasure outcomes.

The episode also explores the orgasm gap in heterosexual relationships and reinforces communication as a key tool in bridging disparities in pleasure. Eve encourages open dialogue about needs, boundaries, and desires as a foundation for healthy sexual connection.

On the prevention side, the episode covers STI awareness, testing protocols (including oral and anal screening), informed consent, and modern prevention strategies such as Doxy-PEP. Additional topics include sexual health preparedness tools (“bug-out bags”), and education around common infections such as yeast infections, UTIs, herpes, and HPV, including vaccination and antiviral treatment options.

Overall, this episode serves as a grounded, educational guide to understanding sexual health as an integrated part of whole-body wellbeing.

What You’ll Learn

• How sexual health reflects cardiovascular and vascular health

• Why erectile dysfunction and vaginal dryness can be early warning signs

• The role of acoustic wave therapy in sexual wellness

• Safe use of penis pumps and traction devices

• Why masturbation supports sexual health and self-awareness

• How hormones influence libido, arousal, and lubrication

• The importance of foreplay and adequate arousal time

• How nutrition, sleep, and movement affect sexual function

• Understanding and addressing the orgasm gap

• STI prevention, testing, and informed consent practices

• What Doxy-PEP is and how post-exposure prevention works

• Sexual health preparedness and safer sex strategies

• Education on herpes, HPV, yeast infections, and UTIs

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

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The discussion explores Eve’s journey from childhood sexual trauma to sexual empowerment, and how that lived experience became the foundation for a global movement centered on sexual health, education, and liberation. She reflects on how healing is not only personal, but also deeply connected to breaking cultural silence around sex, pleasure, and the body.

A major focus of the episode is the importance of sexual health care as an essential part of overall wellbeing. Eve and Dhylles discuss the orgasm gap and the broader concept of orgasm equality, highlighting how lack of education, communication, and anatomical understanding contributes to persistent disparities in pleasure.

The conversation also addresses often-overlooked sexual health concerns, including erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, incontinence, and pelvic floor dysfunction, emphasizing the need for more open dialogue and accessible education for all genders.

Additional topics include the role of sexual shame in shaping intimacy and identity, and how healing from trauma can involve rebuilding trust with the body, reframing pleasure, and reclaiming autonomy. Eve also discusses the importance of tools such as sex toys and vibrators in expanding definitions of sex and supporting individual exploration.

Ultimately, this episode highlights how silence around sexuality can perpetuate harm, while open, informed, and compassionate conversation can create pathways toward healing, empowerment, and deeper connection.

What You’ll Learn

• Eve’s journey from sexual trauma to empowerment and advocacy

• Why sexual health care is a critical part of overall wellbeing

• What the orgasm gap is and how orgasm equality can be supported

• Why most women require clitoral stimulation for orgasm

• Common but under-discussed sexual health conditions (ED, PE, incontinence, pelvic floor dysfunction)

• How sexual shame impacts intimacy and healing

• The role of sex toys and vibrators in sexual wellness

• Why open conversations about sex support healing and education

• How trauma recovery connects to embodied sexual confidence

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

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In this powerful episode, Eve reflects on LGBTQ+ advocacy, the importance of visibility, and the role of community in driving meaningful social change. Drawing from her experience attending World Pride in Washington, D.C. alongside the National Association of Women Business Owners (NAWBO) 50th Anniversary Conference, she explores how moments of celebration and policy-focused advocacy intersect to deepen conversations around representation, accountability, and collective responsibility.

The episode highlights the ongoing resilience, creativity, and leadership within LGBTQ+ communities while also acknowledging the real and present challenges they continue to face in social and legislative spaces. Through this lens, Eve emphasizes the importance of staying engaged, informed, and supportive of marginalized voices.

A central focus of the episode is honoring trans and non-binary individuals, with a dedicated message of recognition and solidarity. The conversation underscores the necessity of visibility, protection, and amplification of their lived experiences, both within the LGBTQ+ community and in broader society.

Ultimately, this re-release serves as both a celebration of progress and a reminder of the ongoing work needed to ensure equity, safety, and dignity for all LGBTQ+ people.

What You’ll Learn

• Why LGBTQ+ visibility and advocacy remain essential

• How World Pride and policy advocacy intersect in meaningful ways

• The importance of community engagement and collective action

• Current social and legislative challenges facing LGBTQ+ individuals

• The role of media and storytelling in representation

• Why trans and non-binary visibility must be prioritized

• How celebration and activism can coexist in meaningful dialogue

• The continued importance of allyship and support

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

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The episode traces the emergence of HIV/AIDS in the early 1980s, a period marked by fear, misinformation, and widespread stigma. It highlights how initial misunderstandings about transmission contributed to public panic and delayed effective response, while communities most affected faced discrimination and inadequate healthcare support.

As the science evolved, researchers identified the HIV virus and developed testing methods that allowed for earlier detection and better tracking of the disease. The conversation also covers how early treatment options transformed over time, moving from a once-fatal diagnosis to a manageable chronic condition.

A key focus of the episode is the role of activism and public health leadership in advancing HIV awareness and care. Figures such as Dr. Anthony Fauci are discussed in the context of shaping research, policy, and treatment protocols during critical periods of the epidemic. Grassroots activism is also recognized as a driving force behind increased funding, education, and patient advocacy.

The episode further explores major medical breakthroughs, including combination antiretroviral therapy (HAART), which dramatically improved life expectancy for people living with HIV. It also explains the significance of modern prevention strategies such as PrEP and the widely recognized principle of Undetectable = Untransmittable (U=U), which has reshaped how HIV-positive individuals understand transmission risk.

Despite these advances, the episode underscores that HIV continues to impact communities today, particularly where access to healthcare, education, and prevention tools remains limited. It emphasizes the ongoing need for stigma-free, informed, and accessible sexual health education.

Overall, this episode serves as both a historical overview and a reminder of the importance of continued awareness, equity, and compassion in sexual health care.

What You’ll Learn

• The early history of HIV/AIDS and its impact in the 1980s

• How stigma, fear, and misinformation shaped the epidemic

• The discovery of HIV and advances in diagnostic testing

• The evolution from fatal diagnosis to chronic disease management

• The role of activism and public health leadership in response efforts

• Breakthroughs like HAART and combination antiretroviral therapy

• The meaning and importance of U=U (Undetectable = Untransmittable)

• How PrEP revolutionized HIV prevention

• Why HIV continues to affect communities due to systemic gaps

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

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Anthony, who also joined Eve for the Season 5 finale, returns once again for this special two-part holiday closing episode. In Part 2, the conversation turns toward deeper reflection on the most impactful lessons, listener responses, and standout moments from Season 6, highlighting how the podcast continues to evolve as a platform for sex-positive education and open dialogue.

Together, Eve and Anthony revisit the core pillars that shaped the season, including consent, pleasure, boundaries, aftercare, and communication. They explore how these themes show up across a wide range of topics—from kink education and BDSM basics to everyday intimacy and emotional connection.

The episode also celebrates major milestones for the show, including industry award recognition, Spotify Wrapped achievements, and the continued growth of its global listener community. Eve reflects on how podcasting has become both an educational platform and a space for collective healing, curiosity, and empowerment.

Listeners are guided through honest, education-based discussions on orgasm equality, sexual wellness tools, STI testing, erectile health, lubrication, and pleasure devices, alongside conversations about sexual “icks,” role-play, and sensation-based exploration. The episode emphasizes how communication and trust remain central across all forms of intimacy—whether in kink dynamics, monogamous relationships, or alternative relationship structures.

Ultimately, this finale serves as a celebration of growth, connection, and unapologetic sexual liberation, honoring the evolution of both the podcast and its community.

What You’ll Learn

• Key reflections and milestones from Season 6 of Please Me!

• Why communication is the foundation of sexual satisfaction and intimacy

• Kink education, BDSM basics, and the role of aftercare

• How sexual “icks” can be navigated with consent and respect

• Role-play as a tool for communication and erotic exploration

• Sensation play, pain scales, and the traffic-light consent system

• STI awareness, testing practices, and sexual health education

• Erectile health topics including edging, pumps, and extenders

• How toys support orgasm equality and mutual pleasure

• Understanding and closing the orgasm gap in relationships

• Community engagement, giveaways, and listener support opportunities

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

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The conversation explores how power exchange extends far beyond physical sensation, functioning instead as a psychological and relational framework built on trust, communication, and negotiated boundaries. Mistress Mia emphasizes that healthy BDSM dynamics are rooted in clarity and consent, where both Dominant and submissive partners actively participate in defining structure, limits, and expectations.

A key focus of the episode is the psychology behind dominance and submission, including how individuals may use these roles for emotional release, self-exploration, or embodied expression. The discussion also highlights the importance of communication before, during, and after scenes, reinforcing that negotiation and aftercare are essential components of ethical kink practice.

The episode further addresses BIPOC representation and historical influence within the BDSM community, underscoring the importance of acknowledging diverse cultural contributions and ensuring inclusivity within kink education spaces.

Mistress Mia also offers insight into nuanced BDSM practices, including sissification and corporal punishment, framing them within a consent-based, communicative, and intentionally structured context for those interested in exploring these dynamics safely and responsibly.

Overall, this finale serves as both an educational deep dive and a reflection on the importance of community, storytelling, and inclusive representation in shaping modern kink culture.

What You’ll Learn

• How power exchange functions beyond physical BDSM practices

• The role of consent, trust, and communication in kink dynamics

• The psychology behind dominance and submission roles

• The importance of BIPOC representation in BDSM communities

• How structured negotiation and aftercare support safety and connection

• Nuanced perspectives on sissification and corporal punishment

• Why kink education and storytelling are essential for community growth

• How inclusive practices strengthen BDSM spaces and relationships

Connect With the Guest

Mistress Mia Darque

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

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Website: https://pleaseme.online

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Anthony, who also joined Eve for the Season 5 finale, returns for this special two-part holiday episode to revisit the most impactful moments, lessons, and listener responses from Season 6. Together, they explore how the podcast continues to evolve as a platform for accessible, inclusive conversations around sexuality, relationships, and personal growth.

The discussion highlights key themes that shaped the season, including communication, consent, pleasure, kink education, boundaries, and aftercare. Eve and Anthony reflect on how these foundational elements continue to show up across diverse episodes—from clinical sexual health discussions to explorations of intimacy, identity, and emotional connection.

The episode also acknowledges the podcast’s continued growth, celebrating milestones such as award recognition, Spotify Wrapped achievements, and increasing global listener engagement. These achievements underscore the expanding reach and impact of Please Me! as a resource for sexual wellness education and empowerment.

Ultimately, this finale serves as both a celebration and a reflection—offering listeners a thoughtful overview of Season 6’s most important insights and a reminder of the value of ongoing, shame-free conversations about sex, relationships, and self-awareness.

What You’ll Learn

• Key highlights and themes from Season 6 of Please Me!

• Why communication and consent remain central to sexual wellbeing

• The role of kink education, boundaries, and aftercare in intimacy

• Sexual wellness topics including toys, erectile health, and edging

• How sexual communication applies to topics like period sex and “sexual icks”

• The connection between financial mindset, trauma, and relationships

• How the podcast community has grown and evolved over time

• The importance of sex-positive education in modern media

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

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Website: https://pleaseme.online

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From casual dating culture to ethical non-monogamy (ENM), swinging, kink, and polyamorous relationships, Eve breaks down how sexual exposure risks vary across different relationship structures and why communication and preparation are essential in all of them. The episode emphasizes that pleasure and safety are not opposing forces, but complementary aspects of a healthy sexual life.

A significant portion of the conversation focuses on modern sexual health prevention tools, including Doxy-PEP, PrEP and PEP protocols, HPV and herpes management strategies, at-home STI testing, and emergency contraception. Eve also clarifies common misconceptions around STIs such as herpes, HPV, and HIV, offering accessible, evidence-based education designed to reduce stigma and increase awareness.

In addition to clinical guidance, the episode explores how BDSM and kink communities often lead the way in establishing strong norms around consent, negotiation, and boundary-setting. Drawing from experiences at events such as DomCon and KinkFest, Eve highlights how structured communication before sexual encounters can significantly reduce risk and improve relational clarity.

The episode also touches on adjunct wellness tools sometimes used in sexual enhancement contexts, such as oxytocin-based products, and introduces the idea of building a “sexual health bug-out bag”—a proactive approach to preparation, safety, and self-advocacy in intimate situations.

Overall, this episode serves as a grounded, sex-positive guide to navigating contemporary sexual landscapes with knowledge, confidence, and care.

What You’ll Learn

• How modern dating and ENM impact STI exposure risk

• Differences between polyamory, swinging, kink, and ENM

• What Doxy-PEP, PrEP, and PEP are and how they work

• The role of at-home STI testing and emergency contraception

• Facts vs myths about herpes, HPV, and HIV

• Why communication is central to sexual safety in kink communities

• Lessons from BDSM events like DomCon and KinkFest on consent culture

• How to build a proactive sexual health toolkit (“bug-out bag”)

• The importance of boundary-setting and pre-negotiation in intimacy

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

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The conversation traces Eve’s transformation from surviving childhood sexual trauma to becoming a leading voice in sexual wellness and embodied liberation. With over two decades of experience as a physical therapist specializing in sexual health, Eve now supports individuals navigating concerns such as erectile dysfunction, decreased sensitivity, vaginal dryness, pelvic floor dysfunction, and intimacy challenges, alongside the emotional and psychological barriers that impact sexual expression.

A central theme of the episode is the “Orgasm Revolution,” a global movement Eve leads that focuses on closing the orgasm gap, dismantling shame, and reframing pleasure as a fundamental aspect of health and human experience. The discussion highlights how systemic shame, lack of education, and communication barriers continue to shape sexual dissatisfaction across genders.

Eve also shares how her own healing journey has informed her work, emphasizing the role of communication, curiosity, and embodied awareness in rebuilding trust in the body. She reflects on how kink, education, and open dialogue can serve as pathways toward deeper intimacy, self-understanding, and relational healing.

This episode offers an honest and compassionate look at sexual wellness as both a personal and collective journey, inviting listeners to reconsider pleasure not as a luxury, but as a human right.

What You’ll Learn

• Eve’s journey from trauma to sexual liberation and advocacy

• What the orgasm gap is and how it can be addressed

• How shame impacts sexual health and intimacy

• The role of communication and curiosity in healing relationships

• Common pelvic and sexual health concerns and their emotional roots

• How kink and education can support self-discovery and empowerment

• What the Orgasm Revolution represents and its goals

• How to reclaim pleasure as an essential part of wellbeing

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

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The conversation begins with a grounding overview of BDSM as both a psychological and embodied practice, emphasizing the importance of negotiation, communication, and informed consent as the foundation of all power exchange dynamics. Ben breaks down how BDSM is not only about physical sensation, but also about trust, emotional attunement, and clearly defined boundaries between partners.

A major focus of the episode is impact play, including the differences between “thud” and “sting” sensations, and how various materials and toy designs—such as suede, bison, moose, and mule deer leather—affect intensity and sensation. Ben also highlights beginner-friendly tools like bunny floggers and finger-loop floggers, explaining how ergonomic design can reduce strain and improve control for practitioners.

The episode also explores sensation play tools such as scratch mitts, leather gloves, and textured implements, along with vegan-friendly alternatives for those seeking non-leather options. Electroplay is introduced through the use of violet wands, with a detailed explanation of how they work, the range of sensations they produce, and essential safety considerations when combining them with other forms of play.

Wax play is covered from a safety-first perspective, including the importance of using body-safe candles, managing heat distance, and layering techniques to control intensity and ensure comfort. Eve and Ben also emphasize hygiene practices, proper cleaning of toys, and safe storage methods—especially for shared or frequently used equipment.

Throughout the episode, the discussion reinforces that BDSM is not defined by intensity, but by intention, communication, and care. Whether someone is new to kink or looking to expand their practice, this episode provides a grounded, educational foundation for exploring sensation and power exchange safely and confidently.

What You’ll Learn

• What BDSM stands for and its psychological foundations

• Why negotiation, consent, and communication are essential in kink

• The difference between thud and sting in impact play

• How leather type and toy design affect sensation

• Beginner-friendly tools for impact and sensation play

• How electroplay (violet wand) works and safety basics

• Safe practices for wax play and temperature control

• The importance of hygiene and toy maintenance in kink scenes

• How sensation play can be tailored to different experience levels

• How intention shapes safe and pleasurable BDSM experiences

Connect With the Guest

Ben

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

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A central focus of the episode is “Big Clit Energy™,” a concept Eve uses to describe embodied sexual confidence, self-awareness, and unapologetic ownership of pleasure. Through this lens, the conversation highlights how sexual empowerment is deeply connected to communication, consent, and a willingness to explore desire without shame.

Eve also shares parts of her personal healing journey following sexual trauma, offering insight into how recovery can involve rebuilding trust in the body, redefining safety, and gradually reconnecting with pleasure. The discussion emphasizes that healing is not linear, but supported through awareness, compassion, and informed exploration.

Together, Eve and Heather discuss how the orgasm gap persists and what practical steps can help bridge it—particularly through communication, extended foreplay, and a more holistic understanding of arousal, especially for women. They also normalize curiosity around fantasies and kink, offering grounded, accessible ways for individuals and couples to explore desire safely and consensually.

This episode blends education, lived experience, and practical tools, making it a supportive guide for anyone seeking to strengthen intimacy, deepen self-understanding, and cultivate a healthier, more empowered relationship with their sexuality.

What You’ll Learn

• How to embody Big Clit Energy™ and sexual confidence

• Practical ways to help close the orgasm gap

• Why foreplay is essential for arousal and pleasure

• Safe, shame-free approaches to exploring fantasies and kink

• How communication strengthens intimacy and consent

• The impact of shame and conditioning on sexual expression

• Tools for reconnecting with the body after trauma

• How embodied awareness supports sexual healing and confidence

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

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A central focus of the episode is the Four Intimacies Framework—verbal, emotional, physical, and spiritual intimacy—which offers a holistic approach to understanding how relationships thrive. Eve breaks down how each dimension contributes to relationship stability, emotional safety, and sexual satisfaction, and why neglecting any one area can create disconnection over time.

The episode also examines how daily rituals—such as intentional check-ins, shared presence, and small acts of care—can significantly strengthen relational bonds. Alongside emotional practices, Eve discusses the role of physical environment and bedroom aesthetics in shaping desire, comfort, and erotic energy, emphasizing that intimacy is influenced not only by communication but also by sensory experience.

Practical elements of sexual wellness are also addressed, including the benefits of high-quality silicone lubricants for enhancing comfort, reducing friction, and supporting more pleasurable and confident sexual experiences. Eve frames these tools as part of a broader, sex-positive approach to embodied intimacy.

Additional concepts include the “Love Tank” model for understanding emotional availability, as well as compassionate communication strategies for navigating relational challenges and “icks” without shame or disconnection. The episode ultimately provides a grounded, accessible roadmap for couples and individuals seeking to build more connected, sustainable, and fulfilling intimate relationships.

What You’ll Learn

• The Four Intimacies Framework: verbal, emotional, physical, and spiritual

• How daily rituals strengthen connection and relationship security

• Why bedroom environment and aesthetics influence desire and arousal

• The benefits of silicone lubricants for comfort and pleasure

• How the “Love Tank” model explains emotional availability

• Communication tools for navigating relationship discomforts with compassion

• How emotional safety impacts long-term intimacy and sexual satisfaction

• Ways to build more intentional, sex-positive relationship habits

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

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Moving beyond surface-level kink concepts, the conversation examines how power exchange, bondage, humiliation, ritual, and structured dominance can serve not only erotic expression but also nervous system regulation, identity exploration, and emotional release. What begins with rope quickly expands into a nuanced discussion of devotion, surrender, fear release, and the intentional leadership required within Dominant/submissive dynamics.

A central theme of the episode is the idea that kink can function as both art and psychology. Mistress Audry explains how carefully structured scenes can create safety through containment, offering relief for individuals who experience anxiety, neurodivergence, or chronic overthinking. The conversation highlights how restriction and removal of choice—when consensual and negotiated—can paradoxically create grounding, clarity, and emotional ease.

The episode also explores the Femme Domme philosophy, emphasizing dominance as an embodied, intentional practice rooted in awareness, emotional intelligence, and responsibility. Rather than performance, dominance is framed as energetic leadership that creates space for surrender and transformation.

Other key topics include the distinction between lifestyle and professional domination, the role of ritual in establishing trust and structure, and the psychological nuances of humiliation, worship, and submission. The conversation emphasizes that meaning is always co-created and negotiated, and that intensity in kink is only safe when grounded in communication, consent, and care.

A detailed pre-scene negotiation role-play is included, offering listeners a real-world example of how ethical BDSM dynamics are structured before any physical or psychological play begins.

This episode presents kink as a multidimensional practice—one that intersects with psychology, embodiment, ritual, and relational trust—while reinforcing the importance of consent, emotional responsibility, and informed exploration.

What You’ll Learn

• How bondage and restraint can regulate the nervous system

• Why structured dominance can reduce anxiety and overthinking

• The psychological role of worship, devotion, and surrender in kink

• How humiliation can be consensual, therapeutic, or erotic depending on context

• Differences between lifestyle and professional domination

• The importance of negotiation, consent, and scene structure

• How ritual enhances trust, safety, and emotional depth in BDSM

• The Dominant’s emotional and psychological responsibilities

• How kink can support embodiment and presence

• Real examples of pre-scene negotiation in ethical BDSM practice

Connect With the Guest

Mistress Audry Lu Black

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

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A central focus of the episode is the often-overlooked BIPOC history of kink and altered-state practices. Eve highlights African and Indigenous influences, including references to Yoruba traditions and the deity Oshun, to contextualize trance, ritual, and embodied pleasure as practices with deep cultural lineage that predate modern BDSM frameworks. The conversation emphasizes the importance of acknowledging these roots while engaging in contemporary kink spaces.

The episode also breaks down the neurochemistry of BDSM, exploring how subspace and domspace are shaped by a “chemical cocktail” of dopamine, endorphins, cortisol, and adrenaline. Eve explains how these altered states mirror experiences found in meditation, hypnosis, and somatic therapy, and why structured aftercare is essential to prevent emotional and physiological crashes such as sub-drop and dom-drop.

Another key theme is neurodiverse pleasure, with insight into how autistic and ADHD individuals may experience kink through sensory regulation, structure, predictability, and heightened body awareness. Eve discusses how kink can become a framework for identity exploration and nervous system regulation when practiced with consent and intention.

The episode also introduces various forms of consensual role exploration, including pet play (puppy, kitten, pony, cow dynamics), as well as sensory-based practices like foot play, anal play, and the use of masks and hoods as tools for identity, embodiment, and psychological transformation. These are framed through a lens of safety, hygiene, communication, and informed consent.

Throughout the episode, Eve reinforces a trauma-informed, sex-positive approach to kink, including clear guidance on negotiation, boundary-setting, and aftercare. Clinical concepts such as medical play are also introduced in a non-sexual, educational context to highlight the spectrum of therapeutic role-play possibilities.

This episode serves as both an educational guide and a cultural reflection on kink, offering listeners practical tools, historical context, and embodied practices for exploring pleasure safely and consciously.

What You’ll Learn

• The BIPOC historical roots of kink and ritualized altered states

• The cultural significance of Yoruba traditions and Oshun in embodiment practices

• How subspace and domspace affect the nervous system and brain chemistry

• Why aftercare is essential to prevent sub-drop and dom-drop

• The connection between BDSM, meditation, and somatic therapy

• How neurodivergence influences kink preferences and sensory experience

• The basics of pet play and sensory identity exploration

• Safe practices for masks, gear, and role-based dynamics

• Trauma-informed approaches to kink negotiation and consent

• The role of medical play and structured role-play in therapeutic exploration

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

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Bria shares the inspiration behind Her Dark Promise, her twisted retelling of Beauty and the Beast, and offers exclusive insight into upcoming projects, including a dark Pinocchio retelling and a new morally gray romance currently in development. She also reflects on her Disney-influenced upbringing and how innocence and darkness coexist within adult fantasy, shaping the tone and emotional depth of her work.

The conversation dives into why readers are drawn to morally gray characters and emotionally intense narratives, and how dark romance can serve as a space for exploring shadow, desire, power, and transformation in safe, imaginative ways.

A standout moment in the episode is a raw, vulnerable role-play segment that explores boundaries, communication, desire, self-worth, erotic identity, and feminine reclamation. Through this, Eve and Bria highlight how storytelling can become a tool for emotional processing, empowerment, and embodied expression.

This episode is a must-listen for fans of dark romance, romantasy, erotic storytelling, and trauma-informed narrative work, offering both creative insight and emotional depth.

What You’ll Learn

• How trauma and healing influence dark romance storytelling

• Why morally gray characters resonate with readers

• The inspiration behind Her Dark Promise and upcoming retellings

• How innocence and darkness coexist in adult fairy-tale narratives

• The role of fantasy in exploring desire and emotional complexity

• How storytelling can support empowerment and identity exploration

• Why readers are drawn to emotionally intense romantic dynamics

• How communication and boundaries appear even in fantasy narratives

• The connection between erotic identity and creative expression

Connect With the Guest

Bria Rose

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

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Drawing from teachings shared at DomCon and Maeve’s signature “Intuitive Topping” framework, this conversation breaks down what it really means to engage in BDSM with presence, communication, and responsibility. Rather than relying on assumptions or scripted dynamics, Maeve emphasizes intuitive topping as a skill built through observation, feedback, and real-time attunement.

Together, Eve and Maeve explore how different roles—Dom, Sub, Top, Bottom, Switch, and Vers—function within negotiated scenes, and how clarity, consent, and aftercare form the foundation of safe and meaningful kink experiences. The episode also highlights how kink is not always sexual, but can instead serve as a space for emotional release, embodiment, exploration, and connection.

A key focus of the conversation is how intuitive topping is not “psychic ability,” but a refined practice of reading subtle cues such as breath patterns, movement shifts, vocal responses, and body language. Maeve also discusses how neurodivergence can influence sensation, communication styles, and the way individuals express pleasure or discomfort.

The episode includes a real-time negotiation demonstration between Eve and Maeve, offering listeners a grounded example of how consent conversations, boundaries, and scene structure are established in practice.

This episode provides a compassionate and practical entry point into BDSM education—centering safety, awareness, and connection as the core of all kink experiences.

What You’ll Learn

• The differences between Dom, Sub, Top, Bottom, Switch, and Vers roles

• How power exchange is built through negotiation and consent

• What intuitive topping is—and how it develops through observation

• How to read body language, breath, and vocal cues in real time

• Why kink is not always sexual and can be deeply therapeutic

• How neurodivergence affects sensation and communication in scenes

• The importance of safewords, boundaries, and structured negotiation

• Why aftercare is essential for emotional and physical integration

• How real-life kink negotiations are structured and practiced

Connect With the Guest

Maeve McBride

Executive Director of KinkFest

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

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The discussion highlights how trafficking is frequently rooted in manipulation, coercion, and exploitation within everyday systems, rather than the narrow and often misunderstood portrayals seen in media. Shawn and Amanda explain how predators increasingly use online platforms and grooming tactics to target vulnerable individuals, particularly youth.

They also shed light on populations at higher risk, including runaway and homeless youth, LGBTQ+ individuals, foster care youth, and other marginalized communities. Throughout the conversation, the focus remains on education, awareness, and early intervention as key tools for prevention.

Listeners are guided through practical strategies for parents, caregivers, and educators—such as setting healthy digital boundaries, recognizing warning signs, and having age-appropriate conversations about consent, bodily autonomy, and personal safety. The episode also emphasizes the importance of community involvement in supporting survivors and disrupting systems that enable trafficking.

What You’ll Learn

• The difference between sex trafficking and labor trafficking

• Common myths and misconceptions about human trafficking

• How online grooming and exploitation typically occur

• Why certain populations are at higher risk

• Practical digital safety strategies for families and youth

• How early education supports long-term resilience and self-advocacy

• The role of communities in prevention and survivor support

• How men and allies can contribute to advocacy and cultural change

Connect With the Guests

Shawn Shutt

Amanda Courier

of the Touchy Subjects Podcast

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

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Together, they explore how shifting cultural norms are reshaping intimacy, communication, and expectations in dating and long-term relationships. The conversation blends sexual health education, relationship psychology, and pleasure-focused empowerment—offering a grounded, real-world perspective on how people can build healthier, more fulfilling connections.

Eve shares insights from her work in sexual wellness and pelvic health, helping break down the barriers of shame and misinformation that often surround sex education. The discussion also highlights how self-awareness, communication, and emotional safety play a critical role in creating satisfying sexual experiences for all genders.

This episode is both educational and conversational, offering listeners practical tools and mindset shifts to deepen intimacy, improve communication, and approach sexuality with confidence and curiosity.

What You’ll Learn

• Why sexual wellness conversations are evolving in 2025

• How relationship dynamics are shaped by communication and emotional safety

• The connection between sexual psychology and physical intimacy

• How to reclaim pleasure without shame or cultural pressure

• Why open dialogue is key to better sex and stronger relationships

• How education and awareness improve intimacy and confidence

• Practical mindset shifts for healthier, more connected relationships

Connect With the Show

Liquor Talk Podcast featuring Eve as guest host

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

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Eve explores how factors such as nutrition, hormones, circulation, stress, and arousal all work together to influence libido, sexual function, and overall intimacy. She breaks down how improving blood flow, supporting nervous system regulation, and cultivating a positive mindset can naturally enhance both male and female sexual experiences.

The episode also highlights cutting-edge, evidence-informed approaches to sexual wellness, including acoustic wave therapy (shockwave therapy) and emerging regenerative treatments such as stem cell-based therapies. Eve explains how these modalities may support tissue repair, improve vascular health, and enhance sensitivity, lubrication, and erectile function.

Alongside clinical insights, the webinar emphasizes practical, everyday strategies for improving sexual wellbeing—helping listeners reconnect with their bodies, deepen intimacy with partners, and build long-term sexual vitality.

This episode is designed for anyone looking to better understand their sexual health, optimize performance naturally, and reclaim confidence and pleasure from the inside out.

What You’ll Learn

• How nutrition, hormones, and blood flow impact sexual performance

• The connection between mindset, arousal, and intimacy

• Natural ways to boost libido and sexual confidence

• How to improve erections, lubrication, and sensitivity at any age

• An overview of acoustic wave therapy (shockwave therapy) for sexual health

• Emerging insights on stem cell and regenerative approaches

• How lifestyle factors influence long-term sexual vitality

• Practical tools to support pleasure and body awareness

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

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Eve explores how the orgasm gap reflects broader issues in sexual communication, education, and societal conditioning, and why addressing it is essential for building healthier, more fulfilling intimate relationships. She introduces the concept of “Big Clit Energy™” as a framework for sexual confidence, body awareness, and unapologetic self-ownership that extends beyond the bedroom into everyday life.

Throughout the discussion, Eve emphasizes that sexual empowerment is not just about performance, but about understanding your body, communicating your needs, and removing shame from conversations about pleasure. She shares practical, science-informed strategies for enhancing sexual wellbeing, improving intimacy, and fostering deeper connection with partners.

The episode also highlights the importance of open dialogue about sex and pleasure as a tool for empowerment, education, and personal transformation. Eve invites listeners to reconnect with their bodies, embrace curiosity, and step into a more confident, pleasure-positive identity.

This conversation serves as both an educational foundation and a call to action for anyone ready to challenge outdated narratives around female sexuality and embrace a more empowered relationship with their body.

What You’ll Learn

• What the orgasm gap is and why it still exists

• How “Big Clit Energy™” represents sexual confidence and self-ownership

• Practical, science-backed ways to improve sexual wellness and intimacy

• Why communication about sex is key to empowerment and satisfaction

• How to release shame and reconnect with your body and pleasure

• The role of sexual education in closing the orgasm gap

• How confidence and body awareness influence overall wellbeing

• Why pleasure-positive conversations matter in modern relationships

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

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Together, they unpack the reality that “low libido” is often not a fixed condition, but a reflection of emotional disconnection, stress, anxiety, and unmet relational needs. Dr. Kennedy explains how desire is deeply responsive to psychological safety, communication, and self-care, and why rebuilding intimacy often starts outside the bedroom.

The conversation explores how couples can navigate mismatched desire with empathy and curiosity rather than shame or pressure. Eve and Dr. Kennedy also highlight the importance of vulnerability, consent, and emotional attunement in reigniting passion and sustaining long-term erotic connection.

Dr. Kennedy also introduces insights from her signature program, Pleasure Circle, which helps individuals and couples rebuild sexual confidence and connection through guided practice and communication tools. The episode includes a realistic role-play demonstration showing how to initiate conversations about sex, navigate discomfort, and co-create mutually satisfying intimacy without defensiveness or blame.

This episode is a practical and compassionate guide for anyone navigating desire discrepancies, relationship stress, or seeking a deeper understanding of sexual wellbeing in long-term partnerships.

What You’ll Learn

• Why low libido is often linked to stress, anxiety, and emotional disconnection

• How emotional safety and communication influence sexual desire

• Ways couples can navigate mismatched libido with empathy and curiosity

• The importance of vulnerability in rebuilding sexual connection

• How self-care and mental wellbeing impact arousal and intimacy

• Practical tools for talking about sex without shame or defensiveness

• How to handle timing differences and desire discrepancies in relationships

• Insights from Dr. Kennedy’s Pleasure Circle program

• Real-life role-play on initiating conversations about sex and intimacy

Connect With the Guest

Dr. Jen Kennedy

Founder of pleasureproject.com

Creator of Pleasure Circle

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

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Together, they explore how modern medicine and virtual care are reshaping the way people approach pleasure, connection, and sexual confidence. The discussion highlights the importance of comprehensive STI testing—including often-overlooked oral and anal swabs—and how Shameless Care connects patients with sex-positive, board-certified doctors for discreet at-home testing and online prescriptions.

Robert and Anna also break down how emerging tools like DoxyPEP are being used to reduce bacterial STIs such as chlamydia, gonorrhea, and syphilis, and why prevention strategies are evolving alongside modern dating and non-monogamous relationship dynamics.

The conversation further expands into the role of sexual wellness medications and tools—including sildenafil, tadalafil, oxytocin nasal spray, and topical arousal creams—and how they can support blood flow, desire, and intimacy across different bodies and needs.

The episode closes with a grounded, real-life role-play demonstrating how to confidently communicate about STI testing, consent, and boundaries with new partners—offering listeners practical language for safer, more empowered sexual experiences.

What You’ll Learn

• Why comprehensive STI testing (including oral and anal swabs) matters

• How at-home STI testing and telehealth improve access and privacy

• What DoxyPEP is and how it reduces risk of bacterial STIs

• How modern dating is changing sexual health conversations

• The role of medications like sildenafil, tadalafil, and oxytocin nasal spray

• How topical arousal creams can support intimacy and desire

• Why open communication about testing and consent is essential

• How to confidently talk to new partners about sexual health and boundaries

Connect With the Guests

Robert Johnson

Anna Osmon

with Shameless Care

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

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Together, they break down the evolving landscape of STI prevention and testing, highlighting the limitations of standard panels and the importance of more comprehensive approaches that include oral and anal screening. Robert and Anna also discuss emerging prevention tools like Doxy PEP and how it is changing the way people approach STI risk reduction.

The conversation further explores the role of HPV vaccination for adults, including access considerations and insurance coverage, and emphasizes the importance of proactive sexual health care for people in all relationship structures—including non-monogamous and LGBTQ+ communities.

Beyond the medical insights, the episode addresses the stigma that often surrounds STI testing and sexual health discussions, and encourages listeners to advocate for themselves within healthcare systems. Robert and Anna also share how Shameless Care is helping bridge gaps in access through at-home testing kits and telehealth services, making sexual health care more accessible and judgment-free.

This episode is a practical, stigma-free guide to understanding sexual health in the modern world and taking control of your wellbeing with confidence.

What You’ll Learn

• How Doxy PEP helps reduce risk of gonorrhea, chlamydia, and syphilis

• Why comprehensive STI testing (including oral and anal swabs) matters

• The importance and accessibility of HPV vaccines for adults

• How sexual health needs differ in LGBTQ+ and non-monogamous communities

• How at-home STI testing and telehealth services work

• Ways to overcome stigma and advocate for your sexual health

• Why proactive testing is essential in modern relationships

Connect With the Guests

Shameless Care

Robert Johnson & Anna Osmon

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

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Website: https://pleaseme.online

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Drawing on clinical insight and audience Q&A, Eve breaks down the physical, emotional, and lifestyle factors that influence sexual performance and confidence. The session emphasizes a holistic approach to male sexual health—one that prioritizes blood flow, nervous system regulation, and overall body awareness rather than quick fixes.

Eve explores a range of tools and treatments, including acoustic wave therapy, dry needling, penis pumps, and extenders, while also explaining how to use them safely and effectively. She also highlights emerging technology like wearable devices that track erection quality and support cardiovascular health insights.

Beyond devices and treatments, the webinar focuses on foundational habits that improve sexual function naturally—such as pelvic floor training, hydration, nutrition, mindful masturbation, and edging practices. The conversation also reinforces the importance of confidence, self-connection, and reducing shame around male sexual health.

This episode is a practical, no-nonsense guide for men who want to understand their bodies better, improve performance, and build sustainable sexual wellness from the inside out.

What You’ll Learn

• The root causes of erectile dysfunction and how to prevent it

• Evidence-based treatments like acoustic wave therapy and dry needling

• Safe use of penis pumps, including sizing and injury prevention

• How penile extenders work and realistic expectations for results

• How wearable tech like FirmTech tracks erection health and cardiovascular risk

• Why masturbation, edging, and mindful touch improve sexual function

• The role of nutrition, hydration, and the “watermelon challenge” in blood flow

• How pelvic floor health improves erections and ejaculation control

• What actually works (and what doesn’t) in sexual enhancement tools

• How confidence and self-awareness impact performance and pleasure

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

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Together, they break open the often-silenced realities of midlife sexuality, exploring how desire, confidence, and connection can evolve—not disappear—with age. Karen shares insight into how hormonal shifts, life transitions, and changing relationship dynamics can all impact libido, and why midlife can actually be a powerful time for sexual rediscovery.

The conversation also dives into practical, real-world topics like dating after divorce, navigating new relationships with clear consent and communication, and the importance of STI testing when re-entering the dating world. Karen also highlights the role of sex toys, vibrators, and solo exploration in building confidence, pleasure, and body awareness.

From online dating etiquette and sexting boundaries to spotting red flags and rebuilding self-esteem, this episode offers grounded, shame-free guidance for women stepping into a new chapter of intimacy. Above all, it’s a celebration of body positivity, curiosity, and sexual empowerment at every stage of life.

What You’ll Learn

• How sexuality and desire can evolve and thrive after 50

• The impact of hormones and aging on libido and sexual health

• How to navigate dating and intimacy after divorce

• The importance of consent, communication, and STI testing in new relationships

• How sex toys and vibrators support exploration and pleasure

• Online dating tips, sexting etiquette, and recognizing red flags

• Ways to build body confidence and sexual self-esteem in midlife

• How self-love and curiosity support a fulfilling sex life at any age

Connect With the Guest

Karen Bigman

Host of Taboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 50

Founder of Hotter Wilder Wiser adult sex-ed masterclass

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

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Together, they unpack common concerns like low libido, vaginal dryness, erectile dysfunction, recurrent UTIs, and bacterial vaginosis (BV), offering clear, science-based explanations and practical treatment options. Dr. Zwonitzer highlights how hormonal changes—especially during perimenopause and menopause—can affect mood, energy, joint health, desire, and sexual function.

The conversation explores evidence-based solutions including topical vaginal estrogen, hormone replacement therapy (HRT), acoustic wave therapy, and the role of masturbation and orgasm in maintaining healthy sexual function for all genders. They also address men’s health topics such as prostate wellness, ejaculation frequency, and its relationship to long-term health outcomes.

Beyond hormones and treatment, the episode also provides honest guidance on sexual practices like anal sex, emphasizing communication, preparation, and comfort. Throughout the discussion, Eve and Dr. Zwonitzer normalize conversations around sex, remove stigma, and encourage listeners to advocate for their own sexual health needs.

This episode is a straightforward, empowering guide to understanding your body, improving sexual wellbeing, and making informed choices about your health.

What You’ll Learn

• The orgasm gap and what orgasm equality really means

• Why topical vaginal estrogen helps with dryness, UTIs, and incontinence

• How hormone replacement therapy (HRT) supports perimenopause and menopause symptoms

• The link between hormones, mood changes, joint pain, and libido

• How masturbation and orgasm support sexual health and function

• Prostate health, ejaculation frequency, and long-term wellness in men

• How acoustic wave therapy improves blood flow and erectile function

• Safe and comfortable approaches to anal sex, including communication and preparation

• Causes and treatments of BV, including overlooked triggers and options like boric acid

• How to talk openly with partners and healthcare providers about sexual concerns

Connect With the Guest

Dr. Stephanie Zwonitzer

Host, Between the Sheets

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

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Together, they break down the gaps in modern sexual health education and explore what it really means to advocate for your wellbeing in a system that often overlooks sexual function. Dr. Zwonitzer shares expert insight into how hormones influence libido, mood, energy, and overall vitality, and why these conversations are essential for both men and women.

The discussion also dives into the realities of STI testing—what standard panels often miss, which tests people should actually be requesting, and how stigma continues to impact sexual health outcomes. From HPV and herpes education to testosterone imbalance, vaginal and penile atrophy, and pelvic floor dysfunction, this episode offers clear, science-backed information designed to empower listeners.

Dr. Zwonitzer also explains how pelvic floor therapy can transform intimacy and function, and highlights practical tools and treatments that support long-term sexual wellness. Throughout the episode, Eve and Dr. Zwonitzer emphasize the importance of open communication, self-advocacy, and removing shame from conversations around sex and health.

This episode is a comprehensive guide to understanding your body, improving your sexual wellbeing, and confidently navigating conversations with healthcare providers.

What You’ll Learn

• Why sexual health education needs to evolve for all genders

• The truth about common STIs and the stigma surrounding them

• What standard STI panels often miss—and what to ask for instead

• Who should get the HPV vaccine and why it matters

• How to advocate for your sexual health in medical settings

• Symptoms, diagnosis, and treatment of low testosterone

• How hormones impact libido, mood, and energy

• Causes and treatments for vaginal and penile atrophy

• What pelvic floor dysfunction is and how pelvic PT helps

• Practical tools for improving sexual wellness and function

• How to normalize conversations around sex, pleasure, and health

Connect With the Guest

Dr. Stephanie Zwonitzer

Host, Between the Sheets

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

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Together, they explore how attachment styles influence sexuality, emotional intimacy, and the ways we relate to our partners both inside and outside the bedroom. Bev shares how attachment patterns can shape communication, vulnerability, desire, conflict, and emotional safety within relationships.

The conversation highlights the unique challenges and strengths associated with different attachment styles, helping listeners better understand their own relationship dynamics and the patterns that may be impacting their connections. Bev also offers practical guidance for creating healthier communication, building trust, and fostering deeper emotional and sexual intimacy.

Whether you identify as anxiously attached, avoidant, secure, or somewhere in between, this episode provides valuable tools to help you strengthen your relationships and create more meaningful connections.

What You’ll Learn

• How attachment styles influence sexuality and desire

• The connection between attachment and emotional intimacy

• Common relationship patterns associated with different attachment styles

• How attachment impacts communication and conflict resolution

• Ways to create greater emotional safety with a partner

• Strategies for building trust and deeper connection

• How self-awareness can improve both emotional and sexual relationships

• Steps toward developing more secure attachment patterns

Connect With the Guest

Bev Mitelman

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

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Together, they break down the foundations of attachment theory and explore the four primary attachment styles: secure, anxious-preoccupied, dismissive-avoidant, and fearful-avoidant. Bev explains how these patterns develop in childhood, how they influence romantic relationships, sexuality, friendships, and even workplace dynamics, and why attachment styles are not fixed for life.

The conversation also dives into emotional regulation, communication challenges, and the ways attachment patterns can affect trust, vulnerability, and connection. Bev shares practical insights for recognizing your own attachment style, fostering healthier relationships, and breaking generational cycles to create more secure attachments for future generations.

Whether you're navigating dating, partnership, parenting, or personal growth, this episode offers valuable tools for understanding yourself and building stronger, more fulfilling connections.

What You’ll Learn

• The fundamentals of attachment theory and why it matters

• The four main attachment styles and how they develop

• How attachment patterns influence relationships, intimacy, and sexuality

• The impact of attachment on emotional regulation and communication

• Why attachment styles can change over time

• How childhood experiences shape adult relationship behaviors

• Ways to foster more secure attachment in yourself and your relationships

• Strategies for breaking generational trauma and supporting secure attachment in children

Connect With the Guest

Bev Mitelman

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

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Together, they explore how trauma can remain stored in the nervous system long after a difficult experience has ended, shaping the way we show up in relationships, intimacy, business, and everyday life. Emma shares practical somatic tools to help listeners reconnect with their bodies, create a sense of safety, and break free from patterns rooted in shame and survival.

The conversation also examines the surprising connection between self-worth, sexuality, and money, revealing how overgiving, people-pleasing, and difficulty receiving can impact every area of life. Through a realistic dating role-play, Emma demonstrates how to navigate breadcrumbing with confidence, healthy boundaries, and self-respect.

This episode is an empowering invitation to reclaim your worth, trust your body, and step into deeper authenticity in love, work, and pleasure.

What You'll Learn

• How trauma remains stored in the nervous system after danger has passed

• Somatic practices that help create safety in the body

• The connection between overgiving, people-pleasing, and self-worth

• How shame blocks pleasure, authenticity, and receiving

• Daily embodiment practices to support healing and nervous system regulation

• What the "inner narcissist" is and how to dismantle it

• How to respond to breadcrumbing with clarity and confidence

• The links between sexuality, money, and personal empowerment

Connect With the Guest

Emma Lyons

Founder, Trauma Matrix

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

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Together, they explore how shame becomes deeply embedded in the nervous system, influencing self-worth, relationships, health, and personal growth. Emma explains how shame often fuels self-sabotage, perfectionism, and negative self-talk, while reinforcing patterns that keep people disconnected from their power and pleasure.

The conversation examines the links between shame, emotional suppression, chronic stress, and overall wellbeing. Emma also introduces her BREAK method—a practical framework designed to help listeners identify shame-based thinking, interrupt harmful patterns, and reconnect with their own truth and sovereignty.

Throughout the episode, Eve and Emma challenge cultural conditioning and inherited beliefs that keep people trapped in cycles of guilt and self-judgment, offering a new perspective on healing, self-compassion, and personal liberation.

This episode is an invitation to recognize shame for what it is, release the stories that no longer serve you, and step into a more empowered relationship with yourself.

What You’ll Learn

• Why shame is often at the root of trauma and emotional suffering

• How shame contributes to self-sabotage, perfectionism, and negative self-talk

• The connection between emotional suppression and overall wellbeing

• How the inner critic can mirror harmful external dynamics

• Emma’s BREAK method for disrupting shame-based patterns

• Ways to reconnect with self-trust, sovereignty, and personal truth

• Why healing requires more than simply managing shame—it requires freedom from it

• How self-compassion can become a powerful tool for transformation

Connect With the Guest

Emma Lyons

Founder, Trauma Matrix

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

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Building on their previous discussion, Eve and Sam move beyond the theory to explore the safe use of penis extenders and pumps, including how these devices work, realistic expectations for results, and the importance of proper conditioning and safety protocols. Sam shares common mistakes people make when starting enhancement routines and explains how to approach these tools responsibly.

The conversation also expands into broader topics of sexual wellness, including erectile health, confidence, intimacy, and the connection between sexual function and overall cardiovascular wellbeing. They discuss emerging technologies such as the FirmTech smart ring, which helps track erection quality and provides valuable insights into men's health.

To round out the episode, Eve and Sam engage in a candid role-play exploring dating, attraction, boundaries, and communication—highlighting how confidence, honesty, and presence often matter far more than physical measurements alone.

This episode is a practical guide for anyone interested in understanding sexual health tools, improving confidence, and taking a holistic approach to intimacy and wellbeing.

What You’ll Learn

• How penis extenders work and what results are realistic

• The benefits and risks of penis pumps for blood flow and girth

• Essential safety tips for using enhancement devices responsibly

• Common mistakes that can lead to injury or disappointment

• Why confidence and presence matter more than size alone

• How the FirmTech smart ring tracks erection quality and health metrics

• The connection between erectile health and cardiovascular wellness

• Healthy approaches to communication, dating, and intimacy

Connect With the Guest

Sam Itzhaki

Founder, Mr. Get Bigger Now

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

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In this in-person conversation, they unpack ethical non-monogamy, polyamory, and swinging from lived experience—sharing what it’s really like when multiple relationships, friendships, and shared living dynamics exist under one roof. The guests open up about the joys, challenges, and everyday realities of building a life rooted in openness, communication, and personal sovereignty.

Together, they explore how each couple defines their relationship style, how jealousy and insecurity are navigated through radical honesty, and what it takes to maintain trust in non-traditional relationship structures. The conversation also highlights the importance of community, chosen family, and emotional safety in sustaining these dynamics long-term.

This episode offers an honest, grounded, and human look at alternative relationship models—beyond stereotypes and into the real lived experience of connection, negotiation, and care.

What You’ll Learn

• How polyamory, swinging, and open relationships differ

• What kitchen table polyamory looks like in everyday life

• How jealousy and insecurity are handled with radical honesty

• The importance of communication and boundaries in ENM relationships

• What it’s like sharing a home with multiple partners

• How community and friendship strengthen alternative relationship styles

• Why authenticity and sovereignty matter in love and intimacy

Connect With the Guests

Tig & Nadine

Jerry & Eunice

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

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In this in-person conversation, they unpack ethical non-monogamy, polyamory, and swinging from lived experience—sharing what it’s really like when multiple relationships, friendships, and shared living dynamics exist under one roof. The guests open up about the joys, challenges, and everyday realities of building a life rooted in openness, communication, and personal sovereignty.

Together, they explore how each couple defines their relationship style, how jealousy and insecurity are navigated through radical honesty, and what it takes to maintain trust in non-traditional relationship structures. The conversation also highlights the importance of community, chosen family, and emotional safety in sustaining these dynamics long-term.

This episode offers an honest, grounded, and human look at alternative relationship models—beyond stereotypes and into the real lived experience of connection, negotiation, and care.

What You’ll Learn

• How polyamory, swinging, and open relationships differ

• What kitchen table polyamory looks like in everyday life

• How jealousy and insecurity are handled with radical honesty

• The importance of communication and boundaries in ENM relationships

• What it’s like sharing a home with multiple partners

• How community and friendship strengthen alternative relationship styles

• Why authenticity and sovereignty matter in love and intimacy

Connect With the Guests

Tig & Nadine

Jerry & Eunice

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

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She breaks down how both erectile dysfunction and vaginal dryness are closely tied to blood flow, explaining why circulation plays a central role in arousal, sensitivity, and orgasm. Eve also highlights the importance of clitoral stimulation, reframing it as essential for pleasure and orgasm equality rather than optional foreplay.

The episode also explores common medical interventions like Viagra, Cialis, and Trimix injections, while discussing their limitations and emphasizing the importance of addressing underlying causes. Eve introduces alternative and supportive treatments such as Acoustic Wave Therapy (including shockwave therapies), alongside lifestyle-based approaches to improving sexual vitality.

Listeners are guided through practical tools including nutrition strategies, herbal supports, supplements, and simple practices like edging, masturbation awareness, and the “watermelon challenge” to enhance blood flow and sexual response.

This episode is a blend of education and empowerment, helping listeners better understand their bodies and take an active role in their sexual wellness journey.

What You’ll Learn

• Why erectile dysfunction and vaginal dryness are often blood-flow related

• The role of the clitoris in arousal, orgasm, and sexual function

• How masturbation and edging support sexual health and awareness

• The pros and limitations of medications like Viagra, Cialis, and Trimix

• How Acoustic Wave Therapy and shockwave treatments work

• Nutrition and herbs that support circulation and libido

• Supplements and lifestyle practices that enhance sexual vitality

• The importance of addressing root causes instead of only symptoms

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

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Eve explains how conditions like vaginal dryness, infections, hormonal changes, pelvic floor dysfunction, and endometriosis can all play a role in pain during sex. She also clarifies the difference between dyspareunia and vaginismus, helping listeners better understand their symptoms and when to seek support.

Beyond education, this episode offers actionable guidance—focusing on foreplay, full-body arousal, relaxation techniques, and communication with partners. Eve also highlights how certain positions and mindful body awareness can reduce discomfort and support more pleasurable, connected intimacy, while addressing the importance of clitoral stimulation in closing the orgasm gap.

This episode is a supportive and practical resource for anyone looking to transform painful experiences into more informed, empowered, and pleasurable intimacy.

What You’ll Learn

• What dyspareunia is and why it affects so many people

• The common causes of painful sex, including hormonal and physical factors

• The difference between dyspareunia and vaginismus

• How foreplay and arousal impact comfort and pleasure

• The importance of clitoral stimulation in closing the orgasm gap

• Sex positions that support relaxation and reduce pain

• Techniques for relaxation, body awareness, and pelvic floor support

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

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Through this conversation, she breaks down how cultivating a deeper connection to your sensual self can positively impact not only intimacy, but also communication, relationships, and overall personal empowerment. Eve encourages listeners to approach pleasure with openness and curiosity, using it as a tool for self-discovery and growth.

She also highlights how couples can use podcast episodes as conversation starters to deepen connection and explore desires together, while sharing ways to continue the journey through Patreon, YouTube, and her monthly SDC webinars.

This episode is a reminder that confidence and pleasure are not separate from everyday life—they are skills that can be practiced, embodied, and shared.

What You’ll Learn

• What Big Clit Energy means and how it builds sexual confidence

• How curiosity can deepen intimacy and relational connection

• Ways to use podcast listening as a tool for couples’ communication

• The benefits of joining the Please Me Patreon community

• How webinars and community spaces support ongoing pleasure education

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

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Together, they explore how your blood acts as a real-time reflection of your overall health, and why early warning signs are often missed in conventional medical testing. Daniel breaks down how lifestyle factors like fasting, meal timing, breathwork, and cold exposure can influence energy levels, recovery, and even sexual function.

The conversation also dives into the surprising connections between metabolic health and pleasure—revealing how practices that support “clean blood,” improved circulation, and mitochondrial function can enhance libido, orgasmic response, and long-term wellbeing. From digestion as an energy drain to the role of sleep, mood, and movement, this episode reframes health as a foundation for both longevity and pleasure.

This episode is a powerful reminder that optimizing your body isn’t just about living longer—it’s about feeling more alive, connected, and embodied in every stage of life.

What You’ll Learn

• What “clean blood” means and why it reflects overall health

• Why early disease signals are often missed in standard bloodwork

• How fasting and meal timing can influence libido and energy

• The impact of late eating on aging, recovery, and sleep quality

• Why digestion is one of the body’s most energy-intensive processes

• Daniel’s Five Pillars of Longevity: recovery, mood, fasting, digestion, movement

• How breathwork and lung capacity relate to heart and sexual health

• The benefits of cold exposure for recovery, sleep, and pleasure

• How mental state, imagery, and community impact long-term vitality

• Erectile dysfunction as an early warning sign of cardiovascular health

Connect With the Guest

Daniel Tausan

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

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Together, Eve and Anthony reflect on a wide-ranging mix of conversations that define what Please Me Podcast is all about: breaking taboos, deepening connection, and reclaiming pleasure in all its forms. From communication as the foundation of intimacy, to the myths shaped by porn culture, to the real role of sex work in fantasy, healing, and human connection—they unpack it all with honesty and humor.

They also explore surprising health insights from sexual wellness tech, including how erectile function can be a window into overall cardiovascular health, along with personal reflections on healing, trauma, and self-love. The conversation takes a deeper turn into relationship dynamics, including the difference between ethical exploration and coercive behavior, and why consent and boundaries are non-negotiable.

To close it out, Eve and Anthony bring lightness and laughter with a playful role play that demonstrates how real conversations around intimacy, love languages, and lifestyle preferences can actually sound in practice.

This episode is a celebration of everything the season stood for—truth-telling, liberation, and learning to speak about the things we’re often told to keep quiet.

What You’ll Learn

• Why communication is the foundation of intimacy and connection

• How porn can shape desire—and why it’s not real-life sex education

• The role of sex workers in fantasy, support, and emotional fulfillment

• How sexual health data can reflect overall heart health and wellbeing

• Personal stories of healing, trauma recovery, and self-acceptance

• The difference between ethical swinging and coercive sexual dynamics

• How to have honest conversations about desire, boundaries, and intimacy

• Why pleasure and emotional safety must coexist in relationships

Connect With the Guest

Anthony Weaver

Host of About That Wallet Podcast

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

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Together, they look back on standout episodes that explored everything from emotional abuse and the Power and Control Wheel, to marital consent laws, sovereignty in relationships, and behind-the-scenes realities of the adult entertainment industry. Anthony shares his biggest takeaways, favorite episodes, and surprising insights gained along the way—including unexpected learnings about sexual health, performance, and intimacy.

Eve also opens up about her evolution as a creator over five seasons, including her shift toward bilingual content, her deepening focus on sexual health and liberation, and what it’s been like to hold space for such raw and taboo conversations over the years. The episode serves as both a celebration of growth and a grounded reflection on the impact of storytelling around sex, relationships, money, and power.

This finale is a reminder of why these conversations matter—and how much we grow when we’re willing to speak about what’s often left unsaid.

What You’ll Learn

• How Please Me evolved in content, reach, and depth over Season 5

• Why the Power and Control Wheel episode resonated so strongly

• Surprising insights from conversations on adult entertainment and performance

• Lessons on sovereignty, healing, and relationships from guest Britton & Carolee

• Eve’s reflections on her growth as a host over two years

• Why taboo topics like sex, money, and power are essential to discuss

• Key personal “aha” moments from both Eve and Anthony

Connect With the Guest

Anthony Weaver

Host of About That Wallet Podcast

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

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After years of healing from childhood sexual abuse, Eve chose to embark on this journey to deepen her womb healing and reconnect with the most tender and fragmented parts of herself. What unfolded was not only a series of psychedelic visions, but a profound experience of inner peace, emotional release, and reconnection with her inner child.

Eve walks listeners through the full arc of her experience—from preparation and intention setting to the ceremony itself under the stars, and the unexpected clarity and liberation that followed. She reflects on the physical and emotional process of purging, the moments of surrender, and the deep sense of safety and self-compassion that emerged throughout the journey.

This episode is an intimate exploration of how plant medicine can support trauma healing, embodiment, and the reclamation of pleasure and power for survivors and seekers alike.

What You’ll Learn

• Why Eve chose to experience ayahuasca for healing

• What womb healing is and why it can be transformative

• The link between trauma, dissociation, and intimacy

• The experience of meeting and reconnecting with the inner child

• The emotional and physical process of plant medicine “purging”

• The importance of cultural respect and responsible plant medicine use

• Reflections on integration and post-journey healing

• How plant medicine can support emotional and sexual liberation

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

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Together, they explore the cultural conditioning around virginity and purity, and how these narratives can shape identity, relationships, and self-worth long into adulthood. Susannah shares her personal journey through military service, trauma, and spiritual awakening, offering insight into how she began deconstructing inherited beliefs around sexuality, religion, and love.

The conversation moves into her experiences with psilocybin and plant medicine as tools for emotional and womb healing, as well as her evolution through different relationship structures—from toxic monogamy to chaotic polyamory, and ultimately toward a more grounded sense of Sacred Union. Eve and Susannah also explore embodied healing practices, sacral chakra work, and the importance of integrating pleasure education as a pathway to mutual healing and connection.

This episode is a soulful exploration of what it means to reclaim your body, release shame, and reconnect with your inner truth through embodiment, spirituality, and conscious intimacy.

What You’ll Learn

• How purity culture and the concept of virginity shape identity and sexuality

• Susannah’s journey through military service, trauma, and spiritual awakening

• The idea that sexual experiences can carry energetic imprints and how to heal them

• How psilocybin and plant medicine support womb and emotional healing

• The evolution from toxic monogamy and chaotic polyamory to Sacred Union

• The role of sacral chakra healing and embodied practices in transformation

• Why pleasure education can be a tool for healing for both partners

• How inner child work and integration support long-term healing

Connect With the Guest

Susannah Rose Stokes

Co-founder, House of Embodied Metamorphosis

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

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Together, they explore the often-overlooked realities of perimenopause and menopause, including pelvic floor dysfunction, painful sex, incontinence, and the emotional impact these changes can have on intimacy and relationships. Colette and Eve also discuss innovative approaches such as acoustic wave therapy, hormone health, and the role of estrogen in maintaining sexual function and overall vitality.

The conversation expands beyond symptoms to focus on empowerment—highlighting how small, consistent lifestyle shifts can help women reclaim pleasure, strengthen connection with their partners, and feel more at home in their changing bodies. They also reflect on how menopause is experienced differently across cultures and communities, emphasizing the need for more inclusive and informed conversations around midlife health.

This episode is a reminder that midlife is not a decline, but a powerful opportunity to reconnect with your body, your pleasure, and your sense of self.

What You’ll Learn

• How Eve and Colette met and the story behind their collaboration

• The impact of pelvic floor dysfunction on intimacy and confidence

• How acoustic wave therapy supports sexual health and blood flow

• The science behind vaginal dryness, erectile dysfunction, and hormones

• The role of estrogen and evolving perspectives on HRT

• How menopause experiences vary across different communities

• The importance of daily habits in supporting midlife wellness

• Why midlife can be a powerful chapter of sexual renewal and empowerment

Connect With the Guest

Colette Fahr

Licensed Couples’ Therapist & Co-Host of Insights from the Couch

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

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Kanika shares her personal journey through profound grief after the loss of her daughter, and how that experience became a catalyst for deep healing through energy work, womb healing, and spiritual reconnection. Together, she and Eve explore the sacral chakra as a source of life force energy—not only tied to physical creation, but also to emotional expression, creativity, and personal empowerment.

The conversation dives into how trauma, conditioning, and suppressed emotions can create energetic blockages in this center, impacting pleasure, identity, and emotional well-being. Kanika also guides listeners through a grounding and emotional release visualization, offering a practical entry point into healing and reconnection with joy and inner flow.

This episode is both a teaching and a gentle invitation to reconnect with your body’s wisdom, release stored emotional pain, and reclaim your creative and sensual energy.

What You’ll Learn

• What the sacral chakra is and its role in creativity and emotional flow

• How trauma and suppressed emotions create energetic blockages

• The connection between womb healing, self-love, and embodiment

• Why sexual energy is considered a life force energy

• How orgasmic and meditative states can support manifestation

• Kanika Vasudeva’s journey from grief to healing and purpose

• A guided visualization for emotional release and reconnection

Connect With the Guest

Kanika Vasudeva

Energy & Consciousness Coach

Website: https://kanikavasudeva.com

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

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Together, they explore how pleasure can extend far beyond traditional definitions of orgasm, moving into full-body waves, emotional release, and spiritual connection. Hani introduces the concept of the “mystery orgasm”—a fluid, intuitive experience of pleasure that evolves beyond technique and into presence, awareness, and energetic flow.

The conversation also breaks down the different layers of orgasmic experience, including clitoral, G-spot, cervical, and full-body orgasms, while emphasizing the importance of breath, voice, and emotional expression in unlocking deeper states of pleasure. Rather than focusing on performance or outcome, Hani encourages listeners to shift toward presence, curiosity, and daily embodiment practices that expand sensitivity and awareness.

This episode is a powerful invitation to release pressure, reconnect with your body, and explore pleasure as a living, evolving experience.

What You’ll Learn

• What the “mystery orgasm” is and how to explore it

• The differences between clitoral, G-spot, cervical, and full-body orgasms

• How breath, sound, and emotion influence sexual energy

• Why presence matters more than orgasm as a goal

• How to build a daily practice of pleasure and body awareness

• Ways to co-create deeper intimacy and novelty with a partner

• An introduction to vaginal reflexology and emotional body mapping

• How to release performance pressure and reconnect with authentic pleasure

Connect With the Guest

Hani Cheng

Intimacy & Tantra Coach

Website: https://hanicheng.com

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

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Hani shares her powerful journey from living with undiagnosed bulimia for 15 years to becoming a global teacher in tantra, Taoist sexuality, and energetic healing. Through learning to listen to her body—what she affectionately calls her “peach”—she discovered a path toward liberation, purpose, and embodied pleasure. Together, she and Eve explore how reconnecting with the body can transform not only sexuality, but creativity, confidence, and life direction.

The conversation also dives into the role of dance, particularly Brazilian Zouk, as a form of emotional processing and somatic healing, and how sensual movement can become a gateway to deeper self-trust and presence. Hani shares insights from her Sensual Liberation work, offering tools for reconnecting breath, body awareness, and erotic energy in a grounded and empowering way.

This episode is an invitation to return home to your body, reclaim your desire, and explore sensuality as a source of healing, creativity, and personal power.

What You’ll Learn

• Hani Cheng’s journey from eating disorder to embodied healing

• Why the body holds deep emotional and intuitive wisdom

• What it means to “speak to the peach” and reconnect with sensuality

• How dance (especially Zouk) supports emotional and sexual healing

• The role of breath and movement in sensual embodiment practices

• How orgasmic energy can influence creativity, confidence, and abundance

• Using sexual energy as a source of personal and professional power

• The importance of presence, trust, and co-creation in intimacy

Connect With the Guest

Hani Cheng

Transformational Coach & Sensual Embodiment Teacher

Website: https://hanicheng.com

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

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Building on their earlier story, Britton and Carolee share how they rebuilt their connection through shadow work, ritual, astrology, and sacred sexuality—turning pain into a pathway for deeper awareness and conscious intimacy. Together, they now support others navigating spiritual awakening and relational transformation.

This episode dives into how they used moon cycles and intentional ritual to anchor new patterns of healing, and how practices like sex magic and embodied intimacy became tools for reclaiming desire, trust, and personal sovereignty. The conversation also opens up nuanced discussions around relationship structures, including monogamy, polyamory, kink, and the importance of radical honesty and clear boundaries.

At its core, this episode is an unfiltered look at healing inside relationship—messy, expansive, and deeply transformative.

What You’ll Learn

• What shadow work is and how it supports emotional and generational healing

• How astrology and moon cycles can be used in personal ritual

• Reclaiming sexuality after betrayal, shame, or religious conditioning

• The role of sovereignty and self-agency in relationships

• How sex magic and sacred intimacy are used in healing practices

• Navigating monogamy, polyamory, and relationship fluidity

• The importance of boundaries, kink, and radical honesty

• Embodiment practices for reconnecting with divine feminine energy

Connect With the Guests

Britton & Carolee Beckham

Spirituality & Conscious Relationship Educators

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

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Raised within the Mormon church and shaped by purity culture, Britton and Carolee open up about the infidelity that disrupted their marriage and the way institutional responses to sexuality deepened their struggle. Together, they reflect on how traditional frameworks of healing fell short—and how a path of spiritual deconstruction, plant medicine, and sacred sexuality ultimately helped them rebuild their relationship on a foundation of truth and liberation.

The conversation explores the role of psilocybin ceremonies in their awakening, alongside practices such as moon rituals and embodiment work that helped reconnect them to self-love and feminine empowerment. They also discuss the impact of sexual reeducation, ISTA training, and the importance of radical honesty in transforming not only their marriage but their individual sense of identity and desire.

This episode is a powerful exploration of what it means to step outside inherited beliefs, heal relational wounds, and consciously create a new paradigm for love, intimacy, and spiritual connection.

What You’ll Learn

• How religious conditioning can shape sexuality, shame, and identity

• The impact of infidelity and institutional responses on relationships

• How plant medicine can support spiritual awakening and healing

• The role of ritual, moon cycles, and embodiment in self-reconnection

• Why sexual reeducation and ISTA training can be transformative

• How radical honesty can rebuild trust and intimacy

• What it means to redefine love and spirituality outside of religion

Connect With the Guests

Britton & Carolee Beckham

Marriage & Spirituality Educators

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

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While physical violence is more widely recognized, this episode highlights how coercion, control, isolation, and emotional manipulation can be just as damaging—and often far more difficult to identify. Together, they explore the Power & Control Wheel, breaking down the eight key tactics commonly used in abusive relationships, including emotional abuse, economic control, intimidation, isolation, and the misuse of privilege or authority.

Shawn and Amanda offer both expert insight and grounded, real-world understanding of how these patterns show up in everyday relationships, as well as practical tools for recognizing red flags in your own life or in the lives of those you care about.

The episode also includes a role-play segment that demonstrates how to respond when someone discloses abuse, emphasizing the importance of empathy, safety, and non-judgmental support in these critical moments.

This conversation serves as both an educational guide and a compassionate resource for understanding the deeper layers of abuse and how to support healing and awareness.

What You’ll Learn

• The difference between emotional, social, and physical abuse

• The 8 tactics in the Power & Control Wheel explained in real-life context

• How abusers use isolation, privilege, and economic control

• Why coercion undermines true consent in relationships

• How to recognize patterns of abuse early

• What supportive responses to disclosure of abuse should look like

• The importance of safety, empathy, and validation

Connect With the Guests

Shawn Schutt & Amanda Courier

Co-hosts of Touchy Subjects Podcast

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

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Together, they unpack the early warning signs of domestic violence and sexual assault, focusing on the subtle but dangerous patterns of control that can begin long before any physical violence occurs. Shawn and Amanda share their expertise in exposing how abusers often use emotional manipulation, isolation, surveillance, and possessiveness to gain power in relationships while disguising these behaviors as affection or concern.

The conversation also explores how societal norms can normalize unhealthy jealousy, making it harder to recognize red flags, and why marginalized communities may face unique risks and barriers when trying to seek help. They also address the complexities and dangers of leaving abusive relationships, emphasizing the importance of safety planning and support systems.

This episode is a vital resource for anyone seeking to better understand relationship dynamics, recognize warning signs, and support themselves or others in navigating unsafe situations.

What You’ll Learn

• The definitions and realities of domestic violence and sexual assault

• How jealousy can be an early and normalized red flag

• Common manipulation tactics used in abusive relationships

• How abuse can disguise itself as love, care, or protection

• Why leaving abusive relationships is complex and potentially dangerous

• The importance of safety planning and support networks

• How marginalized communities may experience unique vulnerabilities

Connect With the Guests

Shawn Schutt & Amanda Courier

Co-hosts of Touchy Subjects Podcast

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

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Eve reflects on Koby’s journey of self-expression, from his success as an OnlyFans creator to his unapologetic embrace of identity, sexuality, and queer visibility. Through their past conversations on the show, she honors the impact he made by living his truth and encouraging others to do the same.

This episode also acknowledges the deeper conversations surrounding mental health within the LGBTQ+ community, highlighting the importance of compassion, connection, and checking in on those we care about. Eve emphasizes the value of community support and the role we all play in fostering safer, more open spaces for honesty and healing.

At its core, this episode is a heartfelt remembrance and a reminder of the importance of visibility, authenticity, and mental health awareness.

What You’ll Learn

• Koby Falks’ journey of authenticity and queer self-expression

• The importance of representation in the LGBTQ+ community

• How open conversations about sexuality can reduce shame

• The mental health challenges faced within queer communities

• How to support friends, chosen family, and loved ones

• Why checking in and reaching out matters

• The importance of suicide prevention awareness and support

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

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Together, they explore how fantasy and curiosity shape desire, and how engaging with these inner worlds—without shame—can lead to greater self-awareness and stronger intimacy in relationships. The conversation breaks down the difference between fantasy and real-life experience, highlighting how each can serve a different role in understanding our needs, boundaries, and turn-ons.

Kels and Tess also share insights on how porn can be used as a healthy tool for exploration when approached consciously, and how couples can transform vulnerable conversations about sex into opportunities for deeper connection and trust.

At its core, this episode is about dismantling stigma, normalizing desire, and learning how to communicate what we want with honesty and confidence.

What You’ll Learn

• How porn can support healthy curiosity and sexual exploration

• The difference between fantasy and real-life intimacy

• What porn preferences may reveal about emotional or physical needs

• How to talk about porn and desire without shame

• Ways to turn sexual conversations into deeper connection

• How fantasy can improve communication in relationships

• Tools for exploring curiosity safely and consciously

Connect With the Guests

Kels & Tess

Creators of Porn Nerds & Get Squirmy

Website: https://www.squirm.fm

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

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Eve opens up about her own path toward understanding her sexuality and what it means to step into and belong within the LGBTQ+ community. The episode also honors the resilience of trans and non-binary individuals, especially in the face of harmful policies and ongoing social challenges.

Together, the discussion explores the importance of allies, long-time advocates, and those newly awakening to their identity in building a more informed, supportive, and empowered community. Eve also emphasizes that coming out is not a single moment but a personal, evolving journey shaped by self-love and individual timing.

This episode also highlights resources and organizations supporting trans rights and healthcare access, while paying tribute to the many LGBTQ+ guests who have courageously shared their stories on Please Me.

What You’ll Learn

• Eve’s personal journey with sexual identity and the LGBTQ+ community

• The resilience and lived experiences of trans and non-binary individuals

• How allies and community members can show up in meaningful ways

• Why coming out is a personal and evolving process

• The importance of self-love in identity exploration

• Resources supporting trans rights and healthcare access

• The power of shared stories in LGBTQ+ visibility and empowerment

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

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Together, they challenge the idea that porn should serve as sexual education and explore healthier, more effective ways to build confidence, curiosity, and connection in intimate relationships. Kels and Tess share how porn can be a source of inspiration and fantasy while highlighting the importance of understanding the difference between entertainment and real-life intimacy.

The conversation also dives into shame, stigma, desire, boundaries, and the role communication plays in creating fulfilling sexual experiences. From discussing fantasies with a partner to navigating relationship dynamics, including non-monogamous relationships, this episode offers practical tools for anyone looking to deepen connection and improve communication around sex.

Whether you're single, partnered, or simply curious about how media shapes our understanding of sexuality, this episode provides a thoughtful and empowering perspective on pleasure, consent, and authentic connection.

What You'll Learn

• Why porn is not a substitute for comprehensive sexual education

• How to communicate desires, fantasies, and boundaries with confidence

• The role of fantasy in solo and partnered pleasure

• How watching porn together can spark meaningful conversations

• Why desire should be explored rather than judged

• Strategies for navigating boundaries in relationships and non-monogamy

• How Squirm helps normalize open conversations about sex

Connect With the Guests

Kels & Tess

Founders of Squirm

Website: https://www.squirm.fm

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

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With reproductive rights varying dramatically across the United States, Eve breaks down abortion access, gestational limits, and the challenges many women face when seeking reproductive healthcare. She also provides a compassionate overview of all pregnancy options—including abortion, adoption, and parenting—empowering listeners to make informed decisions based on their own values, circumstances, and needs.

In addition, Eve addresses some of the most common myths and misconceptions surrounding abortion, separating fact from fiction and encouraging women to seek accurate information rather than fear-based narratives. This episode is designed to educate, empower, and support anyone navigating reproductive health decisions or seeking a deeper understanding of their rights and options.

No matter where you stand or what situation you may face, this conversation reinforces one simple truth: knowledge is power, and every person deserves access to information without shame, pressure, or judgment.

What You’ll Learn

• How abortion laws and access vary across the United States

• What gestational limits are and why they matter

• The differences between abortion, adoption, and parenting options

• Common myths and misconceptions about abortion

• How to make informed reproductive healthcare decisions

• Why bodily autonomy and informed consent matter

• Resources for understanding your reproductive rights

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

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Robert shares the personal experience that led him to create Shameless Care after discovering that a routine STI panel—which came back negative—failed to detect an oral gonorrhea infection. That experience revealed a larger problem within standard sexual health screening and inspired him to advocate for more comprehensive, accessible testing.

Together, Eve and Robert explore the limitations of so-called “full panel” STI testing, why oral and asymptomatic infections are often missed, and the importance of understanding your testing options. They also discuss herpes testing, common misconceptions surrounding sexual health, and how stigma can prevent people from having honest conversations about risk and responsibility.

This episode is packed with practical information to help listeners make informed decisions, communicate openly with partners, and take a more proactive approach to sexual wellness.

What You’ll Learn

• Why many “full panel” STI tests are not as comprehensive as people think

• How oral gonorrhea and other asymptomatic infections can go undetected

• The limitations and controversies surrounding herpes testing

• Common gaps in traditional sexual healthcare

• How Shameless Care is improving access to sexual health resources

• Important conversations to have before becoming sexually active with a partner

• How to take a proactive approach to STI testing and prevention

Connect With the Guest

Robert Johnson

Founder, Shameless Care

Website: https://shamelesscare.com

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

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With Roe v. Wade overturned and reproductive rights under increasing scrutiny, Eve cuts through the stigma, fear, and political noise to provide clear, practical information about abortion care, bodily autonomy, and informed decision-making. She explores why abortion is fundamentally a healthcare issue and discusses the real-world consequences of restricted access to safe reproductive care.

Eve also breaks down the differences between emergency contraception and medical abortion, explains how medical abortion works, and shares important facts about safety, effectiveness, and access. This episode is designed to empower listeners with knowledge, encourage informed choices, and support open conversations about reproductive health without shame or judgment.

Whether you've personally faced this decision, supported someone who has, or simply want to better understand the realities of reproductive healthcare, this episode offers education, empowerment, and compassion.

What You’ll Learn

• Why abortion is considered healthcare

• The difference between the morning-after pill and abortion pills

• How medical abortion works and its safety profile

• The risks associated with unsafe abortions

• Why bodily autonomy is essential to health and wellbeing

• How access to reproductive healthcare impacts women's lives

• Ways to stay informed and support reproductive rights

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

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Lexi breaks down what truly defines the swinger and ethical non-monogamy communities, emphasizing that consent, communication, and mutual respect are the foundation of all interactions. She also explains the structured safety practices often used in these spaces, including boundaries, health awareness, and accountability systems that prioritize participant wellbeing.

The conversation further explores how power dynamics can exist within kink and play while still remaining fully consensual, and why clear communication is always essential. Lexi and Eve also highlight how these communities can serve as spaces for empowerment, particularly for women exploring their sexuality on their own terms.

The episode concludes with a roleplay segment that demonstrates what healthy, explicit consent conversations actually look like in practice, offering listeners a grounded example of communication in action.

What You’ll Learn

• The difference between ethical non-monogamy and abusive dynamics

• Why consent and communication are non-negotiable in lifestyle spaces

• How safety practices help create responsible adult environments

• The role of power dynamics in consensual kink and play

• How ethical non-monogamy can support sexual empowerment

• What real consent conversations sound like in practice

• How to distinguish healthy exploration from coercion

Connect With the Guest

Lexi Sylver

Lifestyle Educator, Author & Coach

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

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Eve breaks down how subtle changes in awareness and movement can help you reconnect with your body, including simple techniques like hip engagement, pelvic tilts, breathwork, and Kegel exercises. She also emphasizes the importance of understanding your own anatomy and building confidence through solo exploration and practice.

The conversation expands beyond sex, inviting listeners to consider how presence, agency, and embodiment influence every area of life. This episode is a call to step into your power, take up space in your body, and show up more fully in intimacy and beyond.

What You’ll Learn

• The difference between passive receiving and active participation in sex

• How movement and breath can enhance pleasure and sensation

• Simple techniques like pelvic tilts and Kegels for body awareness

• Why solo exploration builds confidence in partnered sex

• The importance of understanding your own anatomy

• How presence and embodiment increase pleasure and connection

• Why sexual agency translates into everyday empowerment

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

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Lanette opens up about her experience on reality television, including the realities behind filming a provocative dating show, navigating personal boundaries on set, and what it means to publicly reclaim identity in a highly sexualized environment. Together, she and Eve explore how labels like “MILF” can be redefined and reclaimed as a source of confidence and empowerment rather than shame.

The conversation also goes deeper into Lanette’s personal journey through divorce, dating, and rebuilding intimacy afterward. She shares her experiences with modern dating apps, navigating emotional connections, and learning to trust herself again after major life transitions.

Lanette also speaks candidly about her recovery journey, including her mental health challenges, addiction, and reaching over 1,000 days of sobriety. This becomes a powerful thread throughout the episode as she reflects on healing, self-worth, and the role pleasure and self-acceptance can play in recovery.

This episode is a raw, real, and inspiring exploration of resilience, identity, and the freedom that comes from owning your story without shame.

What You’ll Learn

• How reality TV shapes and challenges personal boundaries

• What reclaiming sexual labels like “MILF” can mean

• The realities of dating after divorce and starting over

• How addiction recovery intersects with identity and self-worth

• Why shame blocks pleasure, connection, and healing

• How self-love supports emotional and sexual recovery

• The importance of boundaries in dating and intimacy

Connect With the Guest

Lanette West

Reality TV Star (MILF Manor)

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

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Laurel explains that sexual trauma is not about sex itself, but about power, and explores how that distinction is essential for both survivors and their partners to understand. Together, she and Eve discuss the emotional complexity of disclosing trauma, and how creating a safe, non-judgmental space can make all the difference in building trust and connection.

The conversation also offers practical guidance for partners on how to respond when trauma is shared, what language supports healing versus harm, and how to recognize trauma responses during intimacy. Tools such as sensate focus are introduced as ways to gently rebuild safety, connection, and pleasure in the body over time.

This episode is a compassionate reminder that healing is possible, communication is essential, and survivors deserve both agency and pleasure in their relationships.

What You’ll Learn

• Why sexual trauma is about power, not sex

• How to safely disclose trauma to a partner

• What supportive responses to trauma disclosure look like

• How to recognize trauma responses during intimacy

• How sensate focus can help rebuild safety and connection

• Why communication is essential in healing relationships

• How survivors can reclaim agency, boundaries, and pleasure

Connect With the Guest

Laurel Roberts Meese

Trauma Therapist

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

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Kimberly shares her deeply personal journey of overcoming domestic violence, teenage pregnancy, and the lasting emotional effects of adoption. Through radical self-awareness and intentional change, she explains how she shifted from survival mode into a life rooted in healing, purpose, and self-leadership.

Together, Eve and Kimberly explore the concept of “life recalibration”—a process of breaking old patterns, rebuilding identity, and choosing new standards for how you show up in your life, relationships, and self-worth. The conversation also highlights the importance of holistic self-care, including nutrition, journaling, and morning routines, as foundational tools for emotional and physical healing.

This episode is a reminder that healing is not linear, and transformation is possible when you commit to rewriting your story.

What You’ll Learn

• How to transform trauma into personal empowerment

• What “life recalibration” means and how to apply it

• How generational trauma shapes identity and behavior

• Practical healing habits like journaling and daily routines

• The role of nutrition and self-care in emotional recovery

• How to rebuild self-worth after abuse and adversity

• Why healing the mind, body, and soul impacts every area of life

Connect With the Guest

Kimberly Dorsey

Founder of Lucky Girl CEO

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

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Dr. Justin shares how his clinical experience led him to identify a major gap in men’s health monitoring—specifically, the lack of attention given to erectile function as a key indicator of broader cardiovascular health. Together, he and Eve discuss how sexual health is deeply connected to overall physical health, and why changes in erectile function can sometimes signal underlying issues long before other symptoms appear.

The conversation also explores FirmTech’s innovative smart ring technology, which tracks nocturnal and sexual erections to provide insights into vascular and sexual health. Dr. Justin explains how this data-driven approach is helping shift the narrative from “dysfunction” to proactive health optimization and prevention.

This episode offers a fascinating look at how emerging technology is changing the way we understand men’s sexual health, performance, and long-term wellbeing.

What You’ll Learn

• How sexual health reflects overall cardiovascular health

• Why nocturnal erections are an important health marker

• How erectile function can signal early warning signs of disease

• The role of wearable technology in sexual wellness tracking

• How FirmTech is shifting the focus from dysfunction to optimization

• The future of data-driven sexual health tools

• How sexual health monitoring may evolve for both men and women

Connect With the Guest

Dr. Elliot Justin

Co-Founder of FirmTech

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

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Koby shares candid insights from his lived experience as a self-described bear and bottom, offering honest perspectives on anal sex preparation, communication, and the shifting norms within the LGBTQ+ community. Together, he and Eve explore how conversations around condoms, PrEP, DoxyPEP, and STI testing are changing modern sexual practices and what that means for intimacy, risk awareness, and responsibility.

The episode also breaks down practical, often unspoken topics like douching techniques, oral sex risks, and the importance of timing and preparation for safer, more comfortable experiences. A role-play segment highlights common breakdowns in communication around consent and safety, offering listeners real-world examples of how to navigate these moments with clarity and confidence.

This episode is a grounded, educational, and empowering conversation designed to replace stigma with knowledge and encourage healthier, more informed sexual choices.

What You’ll Learn

• The difference between light and deep douching and when to use each

• Why condom use is changing in parts of the gay community

• How PrEP and DoxyPEP are reshaping sexual health practices

• The real risks of STI transmission through oral sex

• The importance of regular STI testing and prevention strategies

• How gut health and recovery matter after frequent anal play

• How to communicate boundaries clearly in sexual situations

Connect With the Guest

Koby Falks

Adult Content Creator & Advocate

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

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Koby shares his journey from growing up in rural Australia, where being gay often came with stigma and misunderstanding, to embracing his identity and redefining masculinity on his own terms. Together, he and Eve explore the pressures society places on men, the impact of body image and performance expectations, and how self-acceptance can lead to greater confidence both inside and outside of relationships.

The conversation also dives into the evolution of the adult entertainment industry, including how creator platforms have given performers more autonomy, control, and opportunities for authentic self-expression. Koby discusses the role of kink, sexual exploration, and community in helping people move beyond shame and embrace their desires with confidence.

This episode is a powerful exploration of identity, empowerment, and the freedom that comes from living authentically.

What You'll Learn

• How masculinity can be redefined beyond traditional stereotypes

• The impact of body image and performance pressure on confidence

• How creator platforms have changed the adult entertainment industry

• The connection between self-acceptance and sexual empowerment

• Why authentic self-expression is essential for personal growth

• The role of kink and exploration in understanding desire

• How overcoming shame can lead to greater confidence and freedom

Connect With the Guest

Koby Falks

Adult Content Creator & Advocate

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

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Together, they explore what a "happy hoe season" really means—not as recklessness, but as an intentional period of self-discovery, healing, and reconnecting with your desires. Fanny shares her personal experiences and professional insights on overcoming shame, navigating societal expectations, and creating healthy boundaries rooted in consent and self-worth.

The conversation also examines how race, culture, class, and gender expectations can influence self-esteem, relationships, and the way women experience singlehood. Fanny introduces her three-step soul therapy framework, offering practical guidance for transforming grief into growth and using life's transitions as opportunities for deeper self-connection.

This episode is an empowering invitation to embrace your sexuality, honor your healing journey, and build a relationship with yourself that is grounded in confidence, pleasure, and authenticity.

What You'll Learn

• What a "happy hoe season" really means and how it supports healing

• Why masturbation and solo pleasure are important for self-discovery

• How to reclaim your sexual identity after a breakup

• The impact of culture, race, and societal expectations on self-worth

• Healthy ways to process heartbreak and personal loss

• How to establish boundaries rooted in consent and self-respect

• Fanny's 3-step soul therapy framework for empowerment and growth

Connect With the Guest

Fanny Tristan

Therapist, Women's Empowerment Coach & Retreat Leader

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

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Sophia shares her personal journey from a life-altering medical experience to discovering EFT and the profound impact it had on her health and wellbeing. Together, she and Eve explore how unresolved emotions and trauma can become stored in the body, influencing physical symptoms, pelvic health, intimacy, and overall quality of life.

They discuss the principles behind EFT, often known as tapping, and how it can help people process emotional experiences, shift limiting beliefs, and create new patterns that support healing. The conversation also explores the connection between trauma and sexual wellness, including how pelvic floor tension and emotional wounds can contribute to painful sex and disconnection from pleasure.

The episode includes a role-play demonstration showing how EFT may be used as a supportive tool for addressing trauma-related intimacy challenges and fostering a deeper connection with the body.

This is an insightful episode for anyone interested in emotional healing, mind-body wellness, and creating a more empowered relationship with themselves.

What You’ll Learn

• What Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT) is and how it works

• The connection between emotions, trauma, and physical symptoms

• How trauma can impact intimacy and sexual wellbeing

• Why symptoms may sometimes be part of the healing process

• The role of the pelvic floor in storing stress and tension

• How EFT can help reframe limiting beliefs and patterns

• Practical insights for reconnecting with your body and pleasure

Connect With the Guest

Sophia Torrini

Certified Clinical EFT Practitioner

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

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Together, they explore the role of masturbation, self-discovery, and communication in creating a more satisfying and connected sex life. Dr. Jenn explains why solo pleasure is an important tool for understanding your body, desires, and boundaries, and how that knowledge can strengthen intimacy with a partner.

The conversation also dives into the differences between sensuality and sexuality, the realities of the orgasm gap, and why vulnerability and communication are often the foundation of great sex. Eve and Dr. Jenn discuss practical tools for reigniting connection, including Sensate Focus exercises, aftercare practices, and ways to navigate intimacy as our bodies and needs change over time.

This episode is an invitation to replace shame with curiosity, deepen your self-awareness, and create more authentic and fulfilling intimate experiences.

What You'll Learn

• Why masturbation supports self-awareness and sexual confidence

• The difference between sensuality and sexuality

• How to communicate desires and boundaries more effectively

• The role of sex toys in exploration and connection

• How Sensate Focus can help rebuild intimacy

• Why aftercare and pillow talk strengthen relationships

• Navigating aging, changing bodies, and evolving desires

• How curiosity can help dismantle sexual shame

Connect With the Guest

Dr. Jenn Kennedy

Psychologist, Sex Therapist & Relationship Expert

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

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Pepper shares her journey from working in the news industry to building a career centered on sexual empowerment and education. Together, she and Eve discuss how open conversations about intimacy, desires, and boundaries can strengthen relationships, increase confidence, and create more fulfilling sexual experiences.

The episode features a practical roleplay demonstration showing how to establish boundaries and communicate expectations clearly, highlighting why consent and communication are essential for trust, safety, and connection. Eve and Pepper also explore how dirty talk, humor, and self-acceptance can help people feel more comfortable expressing themselves and enhancing pleasure.

This conversation challenges stigma around sex work while emphasizing the value of honest communication, personal agency, and creating judgment-free environments where people can better understand their desires.

What You’ll Learn

• Why communication is the foundation of healthy intimacy

• How setting boundaries enhances safety and connection

• The role of consent in creating fulfilling experiences

• How shame and silence can impact relationships

• Why self-acceptance supports confidence and pleasure

• How humor, playfulness, and communication strengthen intimacy

• What personalized sexual experiences can teach us about connection

Connect With the Guest

Pepper Kat

Host of Spicy Spectrum

Sex Worker & Content Creator

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

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Eve breaks down different types of dreams—including lucid dreams, sex dreams, wet dreams, and even premonition-style experiences—and discusses how each can reflect subconscious thoughts, unresolved emotions, or hidden aspects of desire.

The episode also explores lucid dreaming techniques and how becoming aware within a dream can enhance creativity, problem-solving, and emotional processing. Eve touches on the meaning behind sex dreams and wet dreams, helping listeners understand how these experiences may relate to pleasure, curiosity, and personal exploration rather than literal interpretation.

Listeners are also guided through dream journaling practices and simple ways to reflect on recurring symbols and themes as a tool for self-discovery and growth.

This episode is an invitation to see dreams not as random imagery, but as a powerful inner language that can support healing, creativity, and deeper self-understanding.

What You’ll Learn

• The different types of dreams and what they may represent

• How lucid dreaming works and how to explore it

• What sex dreams and wet dreams may reveal about desire

• How dream journaling supports self-awareness

• The connection between dreams and creativity

• How to use dreams for emotional insight and problem-solving

• Why reflection on dreams can support personal growth

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

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Melissa shares how she transitioned from brand photography into intimate self-portrait work during the pandemic, after a moment of inspiration that shifted her creative direction. She explains how boudoir self-portraits go beyond traditional selfies, offering a deeply intentional and reflective process that helps individuals reconnect with their bodies without external judgment.

Together, Eve and Melissa discuss the therapeutic and almost meditative nature of photographing yourself, embracing imperfection, and allowing the “messiness” of self-expression to become part of the beauty of the experience. They also explore how this practice can support confidence-building and emotional healing, especially for those recovering from surgery or navigating body changes.

Melissa also shares insights from her course that teaches others how to develop their own self-portrait practice, encouraging ongoing self-discovery and empowerment through creativity.

This episode is a powerful invitation to see yourself differently—through presence, curiosity, and compassion.

What You’ll Learn

• How boudoir self-portraits differ from traditional selfies

• Why self-portraiture can support healing and confidence

• The therapeutic benefits of photographing yourself

• How to embrace imperfection in creative expression

• How self-portrait practices support body reconnection

• Tips for preparing for a boudoir or self-portrait session

Connect With the Guest

Melissa Ushtchenko

Self-Taught Boudoir & Portrait Photographer

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

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Marijke shares insights from her book Naked in the Now, focusing on how cultivating presence can transform the way we experience sensuality, connection, and emotional intimacy. Together, she and Eve discuss how relationships can be rebuilt after rupture, and how honesty, vulnerability, and awareness can open the door to deeper reconnection.

The conversation also explores playful sex and the importance of bringing curiosity and lightness back into intimate relationships. Marijke offers guidance on how to reconnect with your body and access a more embodied, present experience of pleasure.

This episode is a reflective and grounding exploration of intimacy, healing, and what it means to be fully present with yourself and your partner.

What You’ll Learn

• How infidelity can lead to reconnection and growth

• The role of presence in sacred sexuality

• Why playful sex strengthens intimacy

• Insights from Naked in the Now

• How to cultivate vulnerability in relationships

• Ways to deepen embodied awareness in intimacy

Connect With the Guest

Marijke McCandless

Author of Naked in the Now

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

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Eve breaks down how sexual function is closely tied to blood flow and explains how reduced circulation can impact arousal, lubrication, and pleasure for both women and men. She also discusses the importance of clitoral and pelvic blood flow in supporting comfortable, pleasurable intimacy.

The episode introduces Acoustic Wave Therapy as a non-invasive option designed to stimulate circulation, improve sensitivity, and support natural lubrication and erectile function. Eve explains how it works, who it may benefit, and why it is considered a gold standard approach in sexual wellness care.

This is an educational episode aimed at helping listeners better understand the physical roots of sexual dysfunction and explore modern treatment options.

What You’ll Learn

• Causes of vaginal dryness, sensitivity loss, and erectile dysfunction

• How blood flow affects sexual function and pleasure

• The role of clitoral and pelvic circulation in intimacy

• How Acoustic Wave Therapy works

• Why it’s considered a leading treatment for sexual health

• Who may benefit from this therapy

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

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Together, they revisit key themes including orgasm equality, body confidence, menopause, kink, ethical non-monogamy, and the importance of slowing down in a fast-paced world. The conversation highlights how openness, communication, and self-awareness continue to shape healthier and more fulfilling experiences of intimacy and pleasure.

Eve also shares insights on the deeper connections between trauma, hormonal changes, and sexual wellbeing, while emphasizing the role of rest, feminine energy, and the ability to receive as essential parts of a balanced life.

The episode closes with a look ahead to Season 5, including upcoming topics and exciting announcements for the Please Me community.

What You’ll Learn

• Key takeaways from Season 4 of Please Me

• How pleasure and self-care transform relationships and wellbeing

• The role of communication in intimacy and connection

• Links between trauma, menopause, and sexual health

• What kink and ethical non-monogamy teach about relationships

• Why rest and receiving are essential for balance

• A sneak peek into Season 5

Connect With the Guest

Rhiannon Aguilar

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

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Eve breaks down the difference between dyspareunia (pain during intercourse) and vaginismus (involuntary pelvic floor tightening), and explains the physical and emotional factors that can contribute to both conditions.

The episode explores how stress, anxiety, trauma, hormonal changes, and vaginal dryness can all affect comfort and pleasure during intimacy. Eve also highlights the importance of arousal time, foreplay, and understanding how the body prepares for penetration.

She shares practical, supportive solutions including pelvic floor therapy, lubrication, gradual desensitization techniques, and comfortable positioning, along with the role of aftercare in supporting overall sexual wellbeing.

This episode is a compassionate guide for anyone experiencing pain during sex, offering education, validation, and practical steps toward reclaiming pleasure.

What You’ll Learn

• The difference between dyspareunia and vaginismus

• Psychological causes of painful sex (stress, anxiety, trauma)

• How hormones and dryness impact comfort

• Why foreplay and arousal time matter

• How pelvic floor therapy supports healing

• Practical ways to reduce pain during intimacy

• The importance of aftercare for sexual health

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

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Stephanie shares how financial stress can quietly impact communication, trust, and even libido, often creating tension in both emotional and sexual connection. Together, she and Eve unpack the importance of open money conversations in relationships and how transparency can strengthen partnership and intimacy.

The discussion also expands into how overall wellbeing—nutrition, energy, and lifestyle habits—directly influences confidence, mood, and how fully we show up in our relationships. Stephanie offers practical tools for improving financial awareness while also supporting physical and emotional health.

This episode highlights how financial stability and personal wellbeing are deeply connected, and how both play a role in creating healthier, more connected relationships.

What You’ll Learn

• How financial stress impacts intimacy and libido

• The most common financial mistake in relationships

• Why money conversations build trust and connection

• How health and nutrition affect confidence and energy

• Ways to track habits for better wellbeing and finances

• Practical steps for financial and personal empowerment

Connect With the Guest

Stephanie Polcyn

Wellness Coach & Financial Advisor

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

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Eve breaks down what stem cells are and why they matter, explaining how their natural production declines with age and lifestyle factors, and what that means for energy, recovery, and wellbeing. She also discusses the connection between inflammation, circulation, and long-term health, and how these systems influence intimacy and libido.

The episode introduces tools like LifeWave patches, which are designed to support the body’s natural stem cell activity, along with holistic strategies to reduce inflammation and improve circulation for better overall function and vitality.

This is an informative episode for anyone interested in optimizing their health, energy, and sexual wellbeing through a regenerative and whole-body approach.

What You’ll Learn

• What stem cells are and why they matter for regeneration

• How stem cells relate to sexual health and libido

• The role of inflammation in aging and disease

• Why circulation impacts energy and intimacy

• How LifeWave patches support stem cell activity

• Holistic strategies for vitality and wellbeing

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

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Cathelina opens up about her healing journey through trauma and depression, and how those experiences influenced her understanding of intimacy, self-expression, and emotional connection. Together, she and Eve discuss the challenges of navigating shame, identifying relationship patterns, and learning to reconnect with pleasure after trauma.

A unique part of this episode includes a guided role-play where Eve steps into the role of a therapist, helping Cathelina explore how to communicate desires and boundaries in intimate relationships. This offers listeners practical language and tools to support healthier conversations with partners.

This conversation is a supportive and grounded exploration of healing, communication, and reclaiming intimacy after emotional wounds.

What You’ll Learn

• How childhood trauma impacts sexual health and intimacy

• The connection between depression, self-worth, and relationships

• Why self-awareness is key to breaking unhealthy patterns

• How to communicate sexual needs and boundaries with a partner

• The role of therapy, writing, and reflection in healing

• Practical tools for rebuilding intimacy after trauma

Connect With the Guest

Cathelina Duvert

Author, Blogger & Mental Health Advocate

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

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Eve explains why incontinence is common, especially after childbirth, during high-impact exercise, and through hormonal transitions like menopause, but emphasizes that it is not something women have to accept as “normal.”

She breaks down the different types of incontinence, what causes them, and how the pelvic floor plays a central role in bladder control and overall core function. Eve also highlights why so many women experience symptoms after pregnancy but don’t seek support, and what keeps this issue so under-addressed.

The episode also offers practical, accessible solutions—from pelvic floor therapy and targeted treatments to simple daily habits that can improve bladder control and confidence.

This is an empowering conversation designed to help women understand their bodies, strengthen their pelvic health, and take back control without shame.

What You’ll Learn

• The different types of urinary incontinence

• Why postpartum, menopause, and sports can affect the pelvic floor

• Common bladder habits that may worsen symptoms

• How pelvic floor therapy supports recovery and strength

• Simple daily habits to improve bladder control

• Why incontinence is common—but not something you must live with

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

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Leigh shares his personal journey with acne and how it impacted his confidence, relationships, and self-esteem. He explains why conventional treatments often fail long-term and why true healing requires a root-cause, whole-body approach.

Together, Eve and Leigh explore the connection between acne, gut health, hormones, and nutrition, and how internal imbalances often show up through the skin. They also discuss the emotional toll of acne and its surprising link to confidence, intimacy, and sexual wellbeing.

This episode is a supportive conversation for anyone struggling with acne who wants to better understand their body and explore holistic paths to healing.

What You’ll Learn

• The emotional impact of acne

• Why acne treatments often don’t work long-term

• The link between acne, gut health, and hormones

• How nutrition supports skin healing

• The connection between skin health and confidence

Connect With the Guest

Leigh Brandon

Health Coach (Acne & Root-Cause Healing)

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

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Eve explores the hormonal changes that can contribute to shifts in lubrication and sensation, and explains why blood flow plays a central role in female arousal and pleasure. She also highlights how nutrition and lifestyle choices can support sexual health from the inside out.

The episode introduces Acoustic Wave Therapy as a non-invasive treatment option being used to improve blood flow and restore sexual function, along with practical, at-home strategies women can use to support intimacy, comfort, and pleasure.

This is a direct, informative episode designed to help listeners better understand their bodies and take empowered steps toward improving sexual wellbeing.

What You’ll Learn

• Hormonal causes of vaginal dryness and reduced sensitivity

• Why blood flow is essential for female pleasure

• How nutrition supports sexual health

• What Acoustic Wave Therapy is and how it works

• Practical ways to improve intimacy and comfort

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

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With years of experience helping women understand male behavior and over 195,000 YouTube subscribers, Jonathon shares practical insights into online dating, emotional maturity, and the patterns that often create confusion in relationships. Together, he and Eve explore the difference between chemistry and compatibility, and why both are often misunderstood in early-stage dating.

The conversation also covers common dating challenges like ghosting, love bombing, and post-divorce dating dynamics, along with the importance of recognizing red flags early. Jonathon introduces his “Dating Vows” framework as a tool for encouraging honest, grounded conversations before intimacy develops, emphasizing that clarity is key to avoiding misalignment.

At the heart of this episode is a powerful reminder that self-love and emotional awareness are essential foundations for attracting and maintaining healthy relationships in today’s dating landscape.

What You’ll Learn

• The realities of modern dating culture

• The difference between chemistry and compatibility

• What ghosting and love bombing reveal about dating patterns

• How to date with intention and clarity

• Key red flags to watch for early on

• Why radical honesty improves relationships

• The role of self-love in healthy connection

Connect With the Guest

Jonathon Aslay

Dating & Relationship Coach

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

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Eve explains what ED actually is and explores both the physical and emotional factors that can contribute to it, including stress, circulation issues, hormonal imbalance, and performance anxiety. She also discusses how ED can sometimes overlap with premature ejaculation and what that may signal about overall sexual health.

The conversation highlights the powerful role of nutrition in supporting erectile function, including how certain foods can improve blood flow and vascular health. Eve also shares simple, practical steps listeners can take at home to begin improving sexual performance and vitality naturally.

In addition, she breaks down different treatment options—from lifestyle changes and natural approaches to medical interventions—while explaining why therapies like Acoustic Wave Therapy are gaining attention as a non-invasive option for improving blood flow and erectile function.

This episode is a clear, supportive guide for anyone wanting to better understand ED, improve sexual health, or explore natural ways to support stronger, more confident intimacy.

What You’ll Learn

• What erectile dysfunction is and why it happens

• The link between ED and premature ejaculation

• Physical and emotional causes of ED

• How nutrition impacts sexual performance

• Foods that support blood flow and erectile health

• Natural approaches vs. medical treatments

• How Acoustic Wave Therapy works for ED

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

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Katherine shares her lived experience navigating eight invisible disabilities and how neurodiversity has shaped her relationships, identity, and sexual wellbeing. Together, she and Eve break down the stigma and misunderstanding often surrounding disability and intimacy, offering a compassionate and honest perspective on what it means to connect with yourself and others in a neurodivergent body and mind.

The conversation highlights the importance of communication, consent, and adaptability in relationships, especially when navigating trauma, sensory differences, or accessibility needs. Katherine also shares practical insights on self-acceptance, advocating for your needs, and exploring intimacy in ways that feel safe, authentic, and empowering.

This episode is a reminder that there is no “one way” to experience sexuality or connection—and that honoring your individual nervous system, needs, and boundaries is key to building fulfilling relationships.

What You’ll Learn

• How neurodiversity and sexual health intersect

• Ways invisible disabilities can impact intimacy and relationships

• Why communication is essential for accessible intimacy

• How to break stigma around disability and sexuality

• The importance of self-acceptance and self-advocacy

• How to explore intimacy in neurodivergent-affirming ways

Connect With the Guest

Katherine McCord

Founder of The Neuroverse

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

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Together, they unpack what polyamory actually looks like beyond the stereotypes, breaking down different relationship structures such as kitchen table polyamory, parallel polyamory, and hierarchical arrangements. Anneke shares how these models can help people design relationships that align with their values, needs, and emotional capacity, rather than defaulting to traditional monogamous norms.

The conversation also explores the concept of “infinite love” and how expanding our understanding of connection can reshape jealousy, attachment, and intimacy. Eve and Anneke discuss how communication, honesty, and emotional awareness are essential in building sustainable ethical non-monogamous relationships.

Anneke also explains how coaching differs from therapy, especially when working with clients navigating shame, desire, and alternative relationship styles. She offers insight into how individuals and couples can move through fear and stigma to create more authentic, fulfilling connections.

This episode is a grounded and accessible guide for anyone curious about polyamory, ethical non-monogamy, or expanding their understanding of love and relationship structure.

What You’ll Learn

• What ethical non-monogamy and polyamory really mean

• Different types of polyamorous relationship structures

• How “infinite love” shifts relationship dynamics

• The role of communication in non-monogamous relationships

• How coaching supports relationship growth and shame work

• Tips for exploring kink and polyamory communities safely

Connect With the Guest

Anneke Elmhirst

Relationship Coach (Polyamory, Kink & Neurodivergence)

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

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Davida shares how a life-altering experience inspired her to create We The Aunties, a wellness collective dedicated to supporting underrepresented menopausal women through education, programming, and joy-led experiences. Her mission is to reframe menopause as a continuum of transformation rather than a decline.

Together, Eve and Davida break down perimenopause, menopause, and postmenopause, exploring common symptoms like brain fog, bone loss, mood shifts, and changes in libido. They also discuss practical strategies for navigating these changes with more ease, awareness, and support.

The conversation explores hormone replacement therapy (HRT), including its benefits, common misconceptions, and the importance of advocacy when seeking care. Davida emphasizes how crucial it is for women to feel informed and empowered when making decisions about their health.

At the heart of this episode is the importance of community, joy, and sexual wellbeing—highlighted through initiatives like We The Aunties’ MooMoo parties, which create safe, celebratory spaces for women to reconnect with themselves and each other.

This episode is a reminder that menopause is not an ending, but an evolution—one that can be filled with confidence, pleasure, and connection.

What You’ll Learn

• Why menopause is a continuum, not a single stage

• Common symptoms and how to navigate them

• The role of HRT and common misconceptions

• How to advocate for yourself in healthcare

• Why community and joy matter during menopause

• How sexual wellness supports midlife wellbeing

Connect With the Guest

Davida Elizabeth Arnold

Founder of We The Aunties

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

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Mia shares her personal journey from a successful career in finance to becoming a fiction writer, explaining how stepping away from a structured, male-dominated industry allowed her to explore creativity, desire, and themes of empowerment through storytelling. Together, she and Eve discuss how her work challenges traditional expectations of women, particularly around power, ambition, sexuality, and independence.

The conversation dives into the parallels between power dynamics in finance and intimate relationships, especially within BDSM and ethical non-monogamy. Mia reflects on how communication, consent, and emotional intelligence are essential foundations in both romantic and sexual dynamics, and how these themes show up in her writing.

Eve and Mia also explore the importance of writing strong, unapologetic female characters who embrace both vulnerability and authority. They highlight how literature can be a powerful tool for reshaping cultural narratives around women, sexuality, and leadership.

The episode also touches on multicultural representation in romance fiction, drawing from Mia’s own experiences and the importance of reflecting diverse identities and relationship structures in storytelling. To close the conversation, they bring in a playful and creative exploration of fantasy, offering a glimpse into Mia’s storytelling style and imaginative approach to intimacy.

This episode is a celebration of breaking norms, embracing complexity, and owning one’s power—both in life and in love.

Topics Covered

• Mia Sivan’s transition from finance to fiction writing

• Power dynamics in sex, relationships, and financial systems

• Writing strong, unapologetic female protagonists

• Communication in BDSM and ethical non-monogamy

• Multicultural representation in romance literature

• Breaking societal norms around feminine identity and power

• Safe sex, consent, and creative expression in intimacy

Connect With the Guest

Mia Sivan

Steamy Contemporary Romance Novelist

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

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Brittney shares her perspective on what “Big Clit Energy” truly represents—not just as a playful concept, but as a deeper embodiment of confidence, self-trust, pleasure, and authenticity in every area of life. Together, she and Eve explore how sexual confidence is deeply connected to emotional wellbeing, creativity, relationships, and overall empowerment.

The conversation unpacks how shame, conditioning, and societal expectations often disconnect women from their bodies, desires, and self-expression. Brittney offers insight into how reclaiming pleasure and self-love can become a gateway to transformation, helping women step into their full power with clarity and confidence.

She also shares her personal journey of self-discovery and how it led her to create transformational spaces for women through her retreats, where healing, embodiment, and confidence-building are central themes. Throughout the episode, Brittney provides practical tools and mindset shifts for cultivating authenticity, self-love, and fearless self-expression in daily life.

This episode is a powerful reminder that confidence is not something you wait for—it’s something you choose, embody, and grow from within.

What You’ll Learn

• What “Big Clit Energy” really means beyond the phrase

• How sexual confidence influences overall empowerment

• Ways to release shame and societal conditioning

• Brittney Carmichael’s journey into self-love and leadership

• Practical tools for building confidence and authenticity

• How embodiment supports transformation in all areas of life

Connect With the Guest

Brittney Carmichael

Creator of Goddess Retreats

Intuitive Coach & Empowerment Leader

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

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Danielle shares her personal journey of embracing her bisexuality and navigating the fluid and evolving nature of sexual identity. Together, she and Eve explore how labels can both empower and limit us, and how self-discovery is often an ongoing process rather than a fixed destination.

The conversation also highlights generational shifts in how people understand and express gender and sexuality, with younger generations embracing more openness, fluidity, and inclusivity than ever before. Eve and Danielle reflect on how these changes are reshaping cultural conversations and creating space for more authentic expression.

They also discuss the role of pop culture in shaping perceptions of LGBTQ+ identities, unpacking how movies and TV often reinforce stereotypes while also acknowledging the growing importance of accurate, nuanced representation.

At the heart of the episode is the importance of communication—both with ourselves and with others—as a tool for understanding identity, building relationships, and fostering self-acceptance.

Settle in with a warm drink and join this cozy holiday conversation celebrating authenticity, growth, and the freedom to be yourself.

What You’ll Learn

• Understanding bisexuality and the LGBTQ+ spectrum

• How sexuality can be fluid and evolving

• Generational shifts in gender and sexual identity

• The impact of pop culture on representation and stereotypes

• Why communication is essential for self-discovery and relationships

• How self-acceptance supports authentic living

Connect With the Guest

Danielle Bezalel

Creator of Sex Ed with DB and Rom Com Vom

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

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Together, they dive into how pleasure can extend far beyond traditional ideas of sexuality and orgasm. Jenn explains the science, psychology, and emotional liberation behind touchless orgasms, sharing how breath, mindfulness, nervous system regulation, energy awareness, and intentional focus can create profound full-body experiences without physical touch.

The conversation also explores how societal conditioning, shame, and disconnection from the body can limit pleasure and intimacy. Jenn offers insight into how reconnecting with sensation, curiosity, and self-awareness can help people deepen their relationship with themselves and their partners.

Eve and Jenn discuss the role of relaxation, emotional safety, and presence in accessing expanded pleasure states, while emphasizing that every body experiences arousal and pleasure differently. This episode encourages listeners to approach pleasure with openness rather than performance or pressure.

Whether you’re curious about energetic intimacy, looking to reconnect with your body, or interested in expanding your understanding of pleasure and self-discovery, this conversation offers compassionate and practical insight into the mind-body connection.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode

• What touchless orgasms are and how they work

• The role of breath, energy, and mindfulness in pleasure

• How shame and conditioning can impact intimacy and arousal

• Ways to deepen connection with your body and nervous system

• The importance of emotional safety and relaxation in pleasure

• How curiosity and self-awareness can expand intimacy experiences

Connect With the Guest

Jenn Wodtke

Author of Touchless Orgasm

Pleasure Coach

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

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Together, they discuss the challenges many women face when seeking medical support for symptoms related to hormonal transitions. From feeling dismissed or unheard by healthcare providers to navigating outdated information around menopause, Eve and Amita explore the systemic gaps that often leave women searching for answers on their own.

Amita shares practical guidance on how women can advocate for themselves during medical appointments, including how to communicate symptoms effectively, ask informed questions, and seek care that aligns with their individual needs and experiences. The conversation emphasizes the importance of education and self-awareness in making empowered health decisions.

The episode also dives into holistic approaches to wellness, highlighting how Ayurveda, nutrition, stress management, lifestyle changes, and gut health can all play a role in supporting hormonal balance and overall wellbeing. Eve and Amita discuss the connection between inflammation, digestion, energy levels, mood, and hormone function—offering listeners a more integrative perspective on women’s health.

This thoughtful and validating discussion encourages women to trust their experiences, prioritize their wellbeing, and become active participants in their healthcare journey.

What You’ll Learn

• Why women’s hormonal symptoms are often overlooked in healthcare

• Practical ways to advocate for yourself during doctor visits

• Holistic approaches to managing perimenopause and menopause

• The connection between gut health, inflammation, and hormones

• How Ayurveda and lifestyle practices support wellness

• Why informed decision-making is essential for women’s health

Connect With the Guest

Amita Sharma

Co-Founder of NourishDoc

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

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Together, Eve and Dr. Liz explore the concept of sexual desire discrepancy and why differences in libido are completely normal in relationships. Rather than framing these differences as failures, the conversation focuses on how couples can approach intimacy with empathy, curiosity, and open communication.

Dr. Liz shares practical tools for navigating feelings of rejection, avoidance, resentment, and emotional disconnection that can arise when partners experience different levels of desire. She explains how emotional safety, vulnerability, and secure attachment are deeply connected to physical intimacy and why strengthening emotional connection often improves sexual connection as well.

The episode also challenges societal myths around spontaneity and desire, introducing the idea that planning intimacy or scheduling sex can actually increase anticipation, reduce pressure, and create more intentional opportunities for connection. Eve and Dr. Liz discuss how couples can prioritize intimacy without making it feel forced or transactional.

Listeners will also gain actionable communication strategies for discussing sensitive topics around sex, boundaries, emotional needs, and pleasure in a way that fosters understanding instead of conflict. The conversation emphasizes self-care, emotional regulation, and mutual compassion as key components of a healthy and fulfilling relationship.

This episode offers a realistic, encouraging, and deeply validating perspective for couples seeking to reconnect emotionally and physically.

What You’ll Learn

• What sexual desire discrepancy is and why it’s common

• How emotional connection impacts physical intimacy

• Why scheduling intimacy can strengthen relationships

• Communication tools for discussing sex and desire

• The role of vulnerability and emotional safety in intimacy

• Self-care practices that support healthier partnerships

Connect With the Guest

Dr. Elizabeth Polinsky

Marriage Counselor & Sex Therapist

Expert in Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy (EFT)

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

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Amethysta shares her personal experience of transitioning, including the emotional and physical aspects of hormone therapy, gender-affirming surgery, and embracing life as her true self. With openness and vulnerability, she discusses the challenges, breakthroughs, and moments of self-discovery that shaped her journey.

Together, Eve and Amethysta explore the important distinction between gender identity and gender presentation, helping listeners better understand the complexity and individuality of gender expression. The conversation also highlights how younger generations are reshaping conversations around gender, identity, and authenticity with greater openness and fluidity.

Amethysta offers insight into the realities of gender-affirming medical care, including surgical options, recovery, emotional wellbeing, and the importance of informed decision-making. Throughout the episode, the focus remains on self-acceptance, empowerment, and the freedom that comes from living in alignment with who you truly are.

This compassionate and educational conversation encourages listeners to approach gender identity with curiosity, respect, and empathy while celebrating individuality and personal truth.

What You’ll Learn

• How hormone therapy can impact emotional and physical wellbeing

• What gender-affirming surgery involves and available options

• The difference between gender identity and gender presentation

• Why self-acceptance is essential for authentic living

• How perspectives on gender are evolving across generations

• The emotional realities of transitioning and identity exploration

Connect With the Guest

Amethysta Herrick

Host of Gender Identity Weekly

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

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Dr. Mondloch explains why so many women feel dismissed, misunderstood, or under-supported when seeking help for symptoms related to hormonal changes. Together, she and Eve explore the physical, emotional, and sexual health impacts of perimenopause and menopause, helping listeners better understand what’s happening in their bodies and why these transitions deserve more attention and care.

The conversation dives into the importance of hormone testing, symptom tracking, and individualized care. Dr. Mondloch breaks down common signs of hormonal imbalance—including fatigue, mood changes, low libido, sleep disruption, brain fog, weight fluctuations, and vaginal dryness—while also discussing the role of cortisol, stress, and lifestyle factors in overall hormonal wellness.

Eve and Dr. Mondloch also discuss how hormone health connects to bone density, dental health, cardiovascular wellness, and long-term quality of life, emphasizing that menopause is not simply something women should “push through” without support.

Through real-life case studies and patient experiences, Dr. Mondloch encourages women to ask questions, seek second opinions when needed, and become active participants in their own health journey. This episode is both educational and validating, offering practical guidance for women navigating hormonal transitions with more confidence and clarity.

What You’ll Learn

• Common symptoms of perimenopause and menopause

• Why hormonal changes are often overlooked in healthcare

• The importance of hormone testing and individualized care

• Signs of low hormones and hormonal imbalance

• How stress and cortisol affect overall wellness

• Why bone health, dental health, and sexual health matter during menopause

• Practical ways to advocate for your health and wellbeing

Connect With the Guest

Dr. Victoria Mondloch

Author of Full Bloom

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

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Christina shares how modern romance novels have evolved far beyond traditional fairy tales, creating space for more realistic, inclusive, and emotionally intelligent portrayals of love, desire, and sexuality. Together, she and Eve explore how fiction can entertain while also educating readers about communication, consent, emotional vulnerability, and healthy connection.

The conversation highlights the importance of representation and inclusivity in romance literature, emphasizing how diverse characters, body types, identities, and relationship dynamics allow more readers to feel seen, understood, and empowered. Christina explains how thoughtfully written intimacy scenes can normalize open communication around pleasure, boundaries, and consent in ways that feel approachable and relatable.

Eve and Christina also discuss how romance novels can inspire personal growth and self-discovery by helping readers explore fantasies, emotional needs, and relationship dynamics in a safe and imaginative way. They examine how stories that center emotional connection alongside physical intimacy can positively influence real-life relationships and conversations.

This episode is a celebration of storytelling as a tool for empowerment, education, and deeper human connection.

What You’ll Learn

• How romance novels have evolved over time

• Why sex positivity and realism matter in fiction

• The importance of representation and inclusivity in romance

• How fiction can model healthy consent and communication

• The emotional impact of character-driven storytelling

• Practical ways stories can inspire intimacy and connection in real life

Connect With the Guest

Christina Braver

Contemporary Romance Novelist

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

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Together, they explore how certain foods can naturally support libido, circulation, energy, and intimacy. Amy shares evidence-based insights into the science behind aphrodisiacs, revealing why ingredients like watermelon, dark chocolate, chili peppers, ginger, and other nutrient-rich foods have long been associated with desire and sensuality.

The discussion highlights how blood flow, hormones, mood, and overall wellness all play a role in sexual satisfaction—and how small dietary changes can positively impact intimacy and vitality. Eve and Amy also dive into practical ways to create sensual, aphrodisiac-inspired date nights that combine flavor, connection, and playful exploration.

Beyond the “sexy foods” themselves, the episode emphasizes the importance of mindful eating, confidence, and creating experiences that engage all the senses. Listeners will also learn which foods may be best to avoid before a romantic evening to help maintain comfort, energy, and connection.

This fun and informative episode blends science, sensuality, and culinary inspiration to help listeners nourish both their bodies and relationships.

What You’ll Learn