Fatha Torch: Be the Dad You Wish You Had https://www.jazzcastpros.com/fathatorchpodcast en Copyright {2022} All Rights Reserved FATHA TORCH is the podcast to help you cope with the anxiety and stress of fatherhood so that you can be the dad you always wish you had. Each episode is an open discussion about fatherhood and the struggles we face as Black men in America. Topics include self-love, raising sons vs daughters, the child support system, emotional trauma from toxic relationships, societal injustices and reentry after incarceration. Hosted by Rah, a father of nine children, artist and founder of Abimilechh Foundation in Rochester, NY. https://megaphone.imgix.net/podcasts/8261c4e6-7411-11ee-b3e9-4766c8fe4d64/image/Fatha_Torch_23_Art_Cover_659989.jpg?ixlib=rails-4.3.1&max-w=3000&max-h=3000&fit=crop&auto=format,compress Fatha Torch: Be the Dad You Wish You Had https://www.jazzcastpros.com/fathatorchpodcast no episodic Cope with the anxiety and stress of fatherhood Rah Hudson FATHA TORCH is the podcast to help you cope with the anxiety and stress of fatherhood so that you can be the dad you always wish you had. Each episode is an open discussion about fatherhood and the struggles we face as Black men in America. Topics include self-love, raising sons vs daughters, the child support system, emotional trauma from toxic relationships, societal injustices and reentry after incarceration. Hosted by Rah, a father of nine children, artist and founder of Abimilechh Foundation in Rochester, NY. FATHA TORCH is the podcast to help you cope with the anxiety and stress of fatherhood so that you can be the dad you always wish you had. Each episode is an open discussion about fatherhood and the struggles we face as Black men in America. Topics include self-love, raising sons vs daughters, the child support system, emotional trauma from toxic relationships, societal injustices and reentry after incarceration. Hosted by Rah, a father of nine children, artist and founder of Abimilechh Foundation in Rochester, NY.

]]> JazzCast Pros Fathatorch@gmail.com https://feeds.megaphone.fm/MOZAM1258880486 Matthew 6:3: A New Perspective for Fathers Seeking Approval and Praise Ep. 28 Unravel the mysterious phrase "Never Let Your Left Hand Know What Your Right Hand Is Doing." From parenting to interpersonal dynamics, we'll discuss how it encourages trust, open communication, and a balance between individual autonomy and shared responsibilities. Discover the origins of this phrase, rooted in the biblical teachings of the Gospel of Matthew (6:3), where Jesus advises doing acts of charity in secret. We'll delve into its cultural interpretations, examining its relevance in various contexts and its broader meaning over time. In the realm of fatherhood and relationships, we'll explore how this principle emphasizes humility, selflessness, and the significance of acting with sincerity.   Connect with Fatha Torch:  Instagram: @FathaTorch Website: www.fathatorch.com  ABIMILECHH FOUNDATION -Local Programs for Fathers Want to be a sponsor or guest on the podcast? Email me at fathatorch@gmail.com    Loved this episode? Leave us a review and rating here:   Podchaser , Listen Notes Buy me a coffee or send a CashApp $RAHG76  This Episode was recorded on Riverside.FM  Use Promo Code JAZZYCAST for 15% off Remote Audio + Video Recording  www.JazzCastPros.com for help launching, branding or editing your podcast. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Sun, 03 Dec 2023 21:15:58 -0000 full 2 28 Rah Hudson Never Let Your Left Hand Know What Your Right Hand Is Doing Ep. 28 Unravel the mysterious phrase "Never Let Your Left Hand Know What Your Right Hand Is Doing." From parenting to interpersonal dynamics, we'll discuss how it encourages trust, open communication, and a balance between individual autonomy and shared responsibilities. Discover the origins of this phrase, rooted in the biblical teachings of the Gospel of Matthew (6:3), where Jesus advises doing acts of charity in secret. We'll delve into its cultural interpretations, examining its relevance in various contexts and its broader meaning over time. In the realm of fatherhood and relationships, we'll explore how this principle emphasizes humility, selflessness, and the significance of acting with sincerity.   Connect with Fatha Torch:  Instagram: @FathaTorch Website: www.fathatorch.com  ABIMILECHH FOUNDATION -Local Programs for Fathers Want to be a sponsor or guest on the podcast? Email me at fathatorch@gmail.com    Loved this episode? Leave us a review and rating here:   Podchaser , Listen Notes Buy me a coffee or send a CashApp $RAHG76  This Episode was recorded on Riverside.FM  Use Promo Code JAZZYCAST for 15% off Remote Audio + Video Recording  www.JazzCastPros.com for help launching, branding or editing your podcast. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Ep. 28 Unravel the mysterious phrase "Never Let Your Left Hand Know What Your Right Hand Is Doing." From parenting to interpersonal dynamics, we'll discuss how it encourages trust, open communication, and a balance between individual autonomy and shared responsibilities.

Discover the origins of this phrase, rooted in the biblical teachings of the Gospel of Matthew (6:3), where Jesus advises doing acts of charity in secret. We'll delve into its cultural interpretations, examining its relevance in various contexts and its broader meaning over time.

In the realm of fatherhood and relationships, we'll explore how this principle emphasizes humility, selflessness, and the significance of acting with sincerity.

 

Connect with Fatha Torch: 

Instagram: @FathaTorch Website: www.fathatorch.com

 ABIMILECHH FOUNDATION -Local Programs for Fathers

Want to be a sponsor or guest on the podcast?

Email me at fathatorch@gmail.com 

 

Loved this episode? Leave us a review and rating here: 

 Podchaser , Listen Notes

Buy me a coffee or send a CashApp $RAHG76 


This Episode was recorded on Riverside.FM 

Use Promo Code JAZZYCAST for 15% off Remote Audio + Video Recording 

www.JazzCastPros.com for help launching, branding or editing your podcast.



Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

]]> 1653 Abolish Fear-Based Assumptions https://www.fathatorch.com/e/abolish-fear-based-assumptions-in-2023/ Ep 9 Fear-based assumptions can lead to a parent-child relationship of pain, drama and heartache for all involved. As fathers we often lash out at our kids in order to protect them from the unknown, or to prevent them from getting involved with something that we don't understand but are afraid to admit it. In this episode let's explore another way to approach fatherhood in the New Year 1. What does it mean for a father to actively listen to his children and not assume he knows everything? 2. How can fathers instill fear of God and not fear of the world in their daughters? 3. What is the importance of self-control, communication, and emotional connection in fatherhood? As a father of nine, I have come to understand that assumptions about my children, myself, my family, and even my manhood can lead to pain, drama and headaches. I know that I cannot assume that one conversation is enough to teach my children, and I must actively listen and show them love and support. I must also be mindful that although I have experience, it does not make me an expert on my children's lives. I must be adaptable and have self-control, knowing that what I say will affect my children. I strive to speak life, prosperity, liberty, and innate spirit, teaching my children to be secure in themselves, and to be prepared and have the tools needed to protect themselves.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Fri, 24 Nov 2023 01:42:51 -0000 Abolish Fear-Based Assumptions in 2023 full 1 9 Rah Hudson As fathers we often lash out at our kids in order to protect them from the unknown Ep 9 Fear-based assumptions can lead to a parent-child relationship of pain, drama and heartache for all involved. As fathers we often lash out at our kids in order to protect them from the unknown, or to prevent them from getting involved with something that we don't understand but are afraid to admit it. In this episode let's explore another way to approach fatherhood in the New Year 1. What does it mean for a father to actively listen to his children and not assume he knows everything? 2. How can fathers instill fear of God and not fear of the world in their daughters? 3. What is the importance of self-control, communication, and emotional connection in fatherhood? As a father of nine, I have come to understand that assumptions about my children, myself, my family, and even my manhood can lead to pain, drama and headaches. I know that I cannot assume that one conversation is enough to teach my children, and I must actively listen and show them love and support. I must also be mindful that although I have experience, it does not make me an expert on my children's lives. I must be adaptable and have self-control, knowing that what I say will affect my children. I strive to speak life, prosperity, liberty, and innate spirit, teaching my children to be secure in themselves, and to be prepared and have the tools needed to protect themselves.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Ep 9 Fear-based assumptions can lead to a parent-child relationship of pain, drama and heartache for all involved. As fathers we often lash out at our kids in order to protect them from the unknown, or to prevent them from getting involved with something that we don't understand but are afraid to admit it.

In this episode let's explore another way to approach fatherhood in the New Year

1. What does it mean for a father to actively listen to his children and not assume he knows everything?

2. How can fathers instill fear of God and not fear of the world in their daughters?

3. What is the importance of self-control, communication, and emotional connection in fatherhood?

As a father of nine, I have come to understand that assumptions about my children, myself, my family, and even my manhood can lead to pain, drama and headaches.

I know that I cannot assume that one conversation is enough to teach my children, and I must actively listen and show them love and support. I must also be mindful that although I have experience, it does not make me an expert on my children's lives.

I must be adaptable and have self-control, knowing that what I say will affect my children. I strive to speak life, prosperity, liberty, and innate spirit, teaching my children to be secure in themselves, and to be prepared and have the tools needed to protect themselves. 

Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

]]> 1870 no Stop Being Your Child’s Friend, Start Being Their Leader https://www.fathatorch.com/e/why-kids-don-t-listen-nor-respect-their-parents-anymore/ Ep. 17 This episode is a must-listen for parents seeking guidance on discipline and communication with their children. In today's society, many parents walk around on eggshells, and it seems like fathers have no authority when it comes to raising the kids. As an advocate for traditional fatherhood, I have dedicated myself to helping other parents like you reclaim your power and raise kids who respect and obey you.  It's important to establish boundaries and respect, rather than trying to be your child's friend. Issues of teen mental health issues, addiction, and other taboo subjects must be address properly. By advocating for open communication and a supportive community, I believe we can help our children become confident, successful adults.  SPONSORED BY CREATE A PIZZA: home of the FATHA TORCH Lunch Special Try the Vegan Meatball Pizza with Sexy Cheese and a Drink for only $5.99 766 Monroe Ave, Rochester, NY Order Ahead at www.createapizza585.com   Connect with Fatha Torch:  Instagram: @FathaTorch  Website: www.fathatorch.com  ABIMILECHH FOUNDATION -Local Programs for Fathers Loved this episode? Leave us a review and rating here:   Podchaser , Listen Notes Buy me a coffee or send a CashApp $RAHG76  Want to be a sponsor or guest on the podcast? Email me at fathatorch@gmail.com  Other episodes you'll enjoy: Redefining Masculinity: Balance and Empathy in Relationships | FATHA TORCH Any Fool Can Make a Baby | FATHA TORCH Are You a Good Father? It All All Comes Down to This    Podcast Like a Pro! Riverside.FM Promo Code JAZZYCAST for 15% off Remote Recording  JazzCastPros.com for help launching, branding or editing your podcast. In this episode, you will be able to: Explore the complexities of modern fatherhood and its influence on children's growth. Scrutinize current parenting approaches and the growing disregard for respect. Recognize the significance of a solid foundation and discipline in raising children. Embrace the power of community backing, empathy, and solidarity within the black community. Tackle open dialogues on taboo subjects and the consequences of societal repression. The key moments in this episode are: 00:00:00 - Being a Father vs Being a Friend 00:01:14 - Parenting in Today's Society 00:05:40 - The Importance of Respect 00:09:36 - The Reality of Parenting 00:13:36 - The Challenges of Parenting for Black Fathers 00:15:16 - Advocating for the Children 00:17:38 - Bring Back the Village 00:21:06 - Be the Part 00:23:07 - Breaking Taboos 00:24:50 - You Are Not Alone Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Fri, 24 Nov 2023 01:39:00 -0000 Stop Being Your Child’s Friend and Start Being Their Leader full 2 17 Rah Hudson For parents seeking guidance on discipline and communication with their children Ep. 17 This episode is a must-listen for parents seeking guidance on discipline and communication with their children. In today's society, many parents walk around on eggshells, and it seems like fathers have no authority when it comes to raising the kids. As an advocate for traditional fatherhood, I have dedicated myself to helping other parents like you reclaim your power and raise kids who respect and obey you.  It's important to establish boundaries and respect, rather than trying to be your child's friend. Issues of teen mental health issues, addiction, and other taboo subjects must be address properly. By advocating for open communication and a supportive community, I believe we can help our children become confident, successful adults.  SPONSORED BY CREATE A PIZZA: home of the FATHA TORCH Lunch Special Try the Vegan Meatball Pizza with Sexy Cheese and a Drink for only $5.99 766 Monroe Ave, Rochester, NY Order Ahead at www.createapizza585.com   Connect with Fatha Torch:  Instagram: @FathaTorch  Website: www.fathatorch.com  ABIMILECHH FOUNDATION -Local Programs for Fathers Loved this episode? Leave us a review and rating here:   Podchaser , Listen Notes Buy me a coffee or send a CashApp $RAHG76  Want to be a sponsor or guest on the podcast? Email me at fathatorch@gmail.com  Other episodes you'll enjoy: Redefining Masculinity: Balance and Empathy in Relationships | FATHA TORCH Any Fool Can Make a Baby | FATHA TORCH Are You a Good Father? It All All Comes Down to This    Podcast Like a Pro! Riverside.FM Promo Code JAZZYCAST for 15% off Remote Recording  JazzCastPros.com for help launching, branding or editing your podcast. In this episode, you will be able to: Explore the complexities of modern fatherhood and its influence on children's growth. Scrutinize current parenting approaches and the growing disregard for respect. Recognize the significance of a solid foundation and discipline in raising children. Embrace the power of community backing, empathy, and solidarity within the black community. Tackle open dialogues on taboo subjects and the consequences of societal repression. The key moments in this episode are: 00:00:00 - Being a Father vs Being a Friend 00:01:14 - Parenting in Today's Society 00:05:40 - The Importance of Respect 00:09:36 - The Reality of Parenting 00:13:36 - The Challenges of Parenting for Black Fathers 00:15:16 - Advocating for the Children 00:17:38 - Bring Back the Village 00:21:06 - Be the Part 00:23:07 - Breaking Taboos 00:24:50 - You Are Not Alone Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Ep. 17 This episode is a must-listen for parents seeking guidance on discipline and communication with their children.

In today's society, many parents walk around on eggshells, and it seems like fathers have no authority when it comes to raising the kids. As an advocate for traditional fatherhood, I have dedicated myself to helping other parents like you reclaim your power and raise kids who respect and obey you. 

It's important to establish boundaries and respect, rather than trying to be your child's friend. Issues of teen mental health issues, addiction, and other taboo subjects must be address properly. By advocating for open communication and a supportive community, I believe we can help our children become confident, successful adults. 

SPONSORED BY CREATE A PIZZA: home of the FATHA TORCH Lunch Special Try the Vegan Meatball Pizza with Sexy Cheese and a Drink for only $5.99

766 Monroe Ave, Rochester, NY Order Ahead at www.createapizza585.com

 

Connect with Fatha Torch: 

Instagram: @FathaTorch 

Website: www.fathatorch.com

 ABIMILECHH FOUNDATION -Local Programs for Fathers

Loved this episode? Leave us a review and rating here: 

 Podchaser , Listen Notes

Buy me a coffee or send a CashApp $RAHG76 

Want to be a sponsor or guest on the podcast?

Email me at fathatorch@gmail.com 


Other episodes you'll enjoy:

Redefining Masculinity: Balance and Empathy in Relationships | FATHA TORCH

Any Fool Can Make a Baby | FATHA TORCH

Are You a Good Father? It All All Comes Down to This 

 

Podcast Like a Pro!

Riverside.FM Promo Code JAZZYCAST for 15% off Remote Recording 

JazzCastPros.com for help launching, branding or editing your podcast.

In this episode, you will be able to:

  • Explore the complexities of modern fatherhood and its influence on children's growth.
  • Scrutinize current parenting approaches and the growing disregard for respect.
  • Recognize the significance of a solid foundation and discipline in raising children.
  • Embrace the power of community backing, empathy, and solidarity within the black community.
  • Tackle open dialogues on taboo subjects and the consequences of societal repression.


The key moments in this episode are:

00:00:00 - Being a Father vs Being a Friend

00:01:14 - Parenting in Today's Society

00:05:40 - The Importance of Respect

00:09:36 - The Reality of Parenting

00:13:36 - The Challenges of Parenting for Black Fathers

00:15:16 - Advocating for the Children

00:17:38 - Bring Back the Village

00:21:06 - Be the Part

00:23:07 - Breaking Taboos

00:24:50 - You Are Not Alone

Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

]]> 1760 no Toxic Masculinity, Rap and Depression with Carl Binger and Joel Lesses https://www.fathatorch.com/e/how-rap-music-impacts-a-man-s-mental-health/ Ep 6 Does toxic masculinity impact on a man's mental health? Carl Binger and Joel Lesses have some theories. In this episode you'll learn 1. How men and women experience and cope with depression differently 2. The influence of rap music on mental health and depression 3. The importance of nature and wilderness in mental health and depression 4. Who has the best chicken wings, Buffalo or Rochester, NY RESOURCES: Book: Spiritual Depression by Martyn Lloyd Jones  Living the Front Seat Life Podcast hosted by Coach Kelly Marie Need someone to talk to confidently? Call the free Crisis Lifeline at 988    CRAZYWISE – Documentary Film (crazywisefilm.com)   ABOUT THE GUESTS: Carl Binger Counselor - LMHC, Podcast Host Surviving Depression Podcast on Spotify  Having served as a Counseling Pastor at his home church from 2016-2018, Carl began his own private practice on February 14th of this year, specializing in helping individuals who struggle with depression. Carl was under the influence of depression for two years prior to getting the help he needed in the form of medication in 2006.  Joel David Lesses: Director, Counselor at Education Training Center; Writer and Poet; Podcast Producer, Unraveling Religion. Unraveling Religion on Apple Podcasts  Joel Lesses professional background is in educational psychology and counseling for people marginalized by trauma, addiction, and psychological distress, as well as its effects on them, such as homelessness, incarceration, and institutionalization.    GET INVOLVED Leave a review on Podchaser. Rate Fatha Torch on Apple Podcast Buy me a coffee or send a CashApp $RAHG76 to show this support.  Follow me on Instagram @Fatha_Torch  Want to be a sponsor or guest on the podcast? Email me at fathatorch@gmail.com   CREDITS Hosted by Rah Produced & Edited by JazzCast Pros Music "Lover's Rock" by All Good Folks   Other Episodes You'll Enjoy Is He Dumb or is it Something Deeper? with Carl Binger & Joel Lesses Unraveling Religion with Joel Lesses Is Fatherhood Broken? A Father’s Confession   Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Fri, 24 Nov 2023 01:34:19 -0000 Toxic Masculinity, Rap and Depression with Carl Binger and Joel Lesses full 1 6 Rah Hudson Does toxic masculinity impact on a man's mental health? Carl Binger and Joel Lesses have some theories Ep 6 Does toxic masculinity impact on a man's mental health? Carl Binger and Joel Lesses have some theories. In this episode you'll learn 1. How men and women experience and cope with depression differently 2. The influence of rap music on mental health and depression 3. The importance of nature and wilderness in mental health and depression 4. Who has the best chicken wings, Buffalo or Rochester, NY RESOURCES: Book: Spiritual Depression by Martyn Lloyd Jones  Living the Front Seat Life Podcast hosted by Coach Kelly Marie Need someone to talk to confidently? Call the free Crisis Lifeline at 988    CRAZYWISE – Documentary Film (crazywisefilm.com)   ABOUT THE GUESTS: Carl Binger Counselor - LMHC, Podcast Host Surviving Depression Podcast on Spotify  Having served as a Counseling Pastor at his home church from 2016-2018, Carl began his own private practice on February 14th of this year, specializing in helping individuals who struggle with depression. Carl was under the influence of depression for two years prior to getting the help he needed in the form of medication in 2006.  Joel David Lesses: Director, Counselor at Education Training Center; Writer and Poet; Podcast Producer, Unraveling Religion. Unraveling Religion on Apple Podcasts  Joel Lesses professional background is in educational psychology and counseling for people marginalized by trauma, addiction, and psychological distress, as well as its effects on them, such as homelessness, incarceration, and institutionalization.    GET INVOLVED Leave a review on Podchaser. Rate Fatha Torch on Apple Podcast Buy me a coffee or send a CashApp $RAHG76 to show this support.  Follow me on Instagram @Fatha_Torch  Want to be a sponsor or guest on the podcast? Email me at fathatorch@gmail.com   CREDITS Hosted by Rah Produced & Edited by JazzCast Pros Music "Lover's Rock" by All Good Folks   Other Episodes You'll Enjoy Is He Dumb or is it Something Deeper? with Carl Binger & Joel Lesses Unraveling Religion with Joel Lesses Is Fatherhood Broken? A Father’s Confession   Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Ep 6 Does toxic masculinity impact on a man's mental health? Carl Binger and Joel Lesses have some theories.

In this episode you'll learn

1. How men and women experience and cope with depression differently

2. The influence of rap music on mental health and depression

3. The importance of nature and wilderness in mental health and depression

4. Who has the best chicken wings, Buffalo or Rochester, NY


RESOURCES:

Book: Spiritual Depression by Martyn Lloyd Jones 

Living the Front Seat Life Podcast hosted by Coach Kelly Marie

Need someone to talk to confidently? Call the free Crisis Lifeline at 988

 

 CRAZYWISE – Documentary Film (crazywisefilm.com)

 

ABOUT THE GUESTS:

Carl Binger Counselor - LMHC, Podcast Host

Surviving Depression Podcast on Spotify 

Having served as a Counseling Pastor at his home church from 2016-2018, Carl began his own private practice on February 14th of this year, specializing in helping individuals who struggle with depression. Carl was under the influence of depression for two years prior to getting the help he needed in the form of medication in 2006. 


Joel David Lesses: Director, Counselor at Education Training Center; Writer and Poet; Podcast Producer, Unraveling Religion.

Unraveling Religion on Apple Podcasts 

Joel Lesses professional background is in educational psychology and counseling for people marginalized by trauma, addiction, and psychological distress, as well as its effects on them, such as homelessness, incarceration, and institutionalization. 

 

GET INVOLVED

Leave a review on Podchaser.

Rate Fatha Torch on Apple Podcast

Buy me a coffee or send a CashApp $RAHG76 to show this support. 

Follow me on Instagram @Fatha_Torch 

Want to be a sponsor or guest on the podcast?

Email me at fathatorch@gmail.com  


CREDITS Hosted by Rah Produced & Edited by JazzCast Pros Music "Lover's Rock" by All Good Folks

 

Other Episodes You'll Enjoy

Is He Dumb or is it Something Deeper? with Carl Binger & Joel Lesses

Unraveling Religion with Joel Lesses

Is Fatherhood Broken? A Father’s Confession

 

Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

]]> 2212 no Honor Thy Grandparent: How to Embrace the Wisdom of Elders to Raise the Youth https://www.fathatorch.com/e/honor-thy-grandparent-how-to-embrace-the-wisdom-of-elders-to-raise-the-youth/ Ep. 18 This episode is a tribute to my grandparents who have shaped my life as Fatha Torch, a beacon of light for the next generation. As a father, I believe it is important to honor our elders and learn from their wisdom, especially in these challenging times. In this episode, you will learn: How honoring your elders is a way of embracing and uplifting our generations How to connect with your elders and listen to their stories What benefits you can gain from learning from the wisdom of the past How to pass on the legacy of your elders to your children and future generations Why listening to grandparents is a good way to learn about your cultural heritage and family history SPONSORED BY CREATE A PIZZA: home of the FATHA TORCH Lunch Special Try the Vegan Meatball Pizza with Sexy Cheese and a Drink for only $5.99 766 Monroe Ave, Rochester, NY Order Ahead at www.createapizza585.com   Connect with Fatha Torch:  Instagram: @FathaTorch Website: www.fathatorch.com  ABIMILECHH FOUNDATION -Local Programs for Fathers Want to be a sponsor or guest on the podcast? Email me at fathatorch@gmail.com    Loved this episode? Leave us a review and rating here:   Podchaser , Listen Notes Buy me a coffee or send a CashApp $RAHG76  Want to be a sponsor or guest on the podcast? Email me at fathatorch@gmail.com  Other episodes you'll enjoy: Why Kids Don’t Respect Their Parents Anymore Redefining Masculinity: Balance and Empathy in Relationships | FATHA TORCH Any Fool Can Make a Baby | FATHA TORCH   Podcast Like a Pro! Riverside.FM Promo Code JAZZYCAST for 15% off Remote Recording  JazzCastPros.com for help launching, branding or editing your podcast.   Other Podcasts Mentioned in this episode: Healthy Illness | a podcast by Kelly Marie Heart of the Hustle | a podcast by Monique Chatman  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Fri, 24 Nov 2023 01:30:00 -0000 Honor Thy Grandparent: How to Embrace the Wisdom of Elders to Raise the Youth full 2 18 Rah Hudson A Tribute to my grandparents who have shaped my life as Fatha Torch, a beacon of light for the next generation. Ep. 18 This episode is a tribute to my grandparents who have shaped my life as Fatha Torch, a beacon of light for the next generation. As a father, I believe it is important to honor our elders and learn from their wisdom, especially in these challenging times. In this episode, you will learn: How honoring your elders is a way of embracing and uplifting our generations How to connect with your elders and listen to their stories What benefits you can gain from learning from the wisdom of the past How to pass on the legacy of your elders to your children and future generations Why listening to grandparents is a good way to learn about your cultural heritage and family history SPONSORED BY CREATE A PIZZA: home of the FATHA TORCH Lunch Special Try the Vegan Meatball Pizza with Sexy Cheese and a Drink for only $5.99 766 Monroe Ave, Rochester, NY Order Ahead at www.createapizza585.com   Connect with Fatha Torch:  Instagram: @FathaTorch Website: www.fathatorch.com  ABIMILECHH FOUNDATION -Local Programs for Fathers Want to be a sponsor or guest on the podcast? Email me at fathatorch@gmail.com    Loved this episode? Leave us a review and rating here:   Podchaser , Listen Notes Buy me a coffee or send a CashApp $RAHG76  Want to be a sponsor or guest on the podcast? Email me at fathatorch@gmail.com  Other episodes you'll enjoy: Why Kids Don’t Respect Their Parents Anymore Redefining Masculinity: Balance and Empathy in Relationships | FATHA TORCH Any Fool Can Make a Baby | FATHA TORCH   Podcast Like a Pro! Riverside.FM Promo Code JAZZYCAST for 15% off Remote Recording  JazzCastPros.com for help launching, branding or editing your podcast.   Other Podcasts Mentioned in this episode: Healthy Illness | a podcast by Kelly Marie Heart of the Hustle | a podcast by Monique Chatman  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Ep. 18 This episode is a tribute to my grandparents who have shaped my life as Fatha Torch, a beacon of light for the next generation. As a father, I believe it is important to honor our elders and learn from their wisdom, especially in these challenging times. In this episode, you will learn:

  • How honoring your elders is a way of embracing and uplifting our generations
  • How to connect with your elders and listen to their stories
  • What benefits you can gain from learning from the wisdom of the past
  • How to pass on the legacy of your elders to your children and future generations
  • Why listening to grandparents is a good way to learn about your cultural heritage and family history


SPONSORED BY CREATE A PIZZA: home of the FATHA TORCH Lunch Special Try the Vegan Meatball Pizza with Sexy Cheese and a Drink for only $5.99

766 Monroe Ave, Rochester, NY Order Ahead at www.createapizza585.com

 

Connect with Fatha Torch: 

Instagram: @FathaTorch Website: www.fathatorch.com

 ABIMILECHH FOUNDATION -Local Programs for Fathers

Want to be a sponsor or guest on the podcast?

Email me at fathatorch@gmail.com 

 

Loved this episode? Leave us a review and rating here: 

 Podchaser , Listen Notes

Buy me a coffee or send a CashApp $RAHG76 

Want to be a sponsor or guest on the podcast?

Email me at fathatorch@gmail.com 


Other episodes you'll enjoy:

Why Kids Don’t Respect Their Parents Anymore

Redefining Masculinity: Balance and Empathy in Relationships | FATHA TORCH

Any Fool Can Make a Baby | FATHA TORCH

 

Podcast Like a Pro!

Riverside.FM Promo Code JAZZYCAST for 15% off Remote Recording 

JazzCastPros.com for help launching, branding or editing your podcast.

 

Other Podcasts Mentioned in this episode:

Healthy Illness | a podcast by Kelly Marie

Heart of the Hustle | a podcast by Monique Chatman 

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]]> 1422 no Discipline, Control + Power: Awareness for Black Men, Young Fathers https://www.fathatorch.com/e/discipline-control-power-awareness-for-black-men-young-fathers/ Ep. 27 We must recognize that many of us lack self-awareness and struggle to comprehend the repercussions of losing control, and the importance of practicing self-discipline. To establish a healthy relationship with oneself and others, one must exert self-control and manage one's thoughts, which various emotional and developmental factors can influence. This is especially important to consider as a man and a father in today's world.  THE TRUTH AND FAULTS OF DISCIPLINE   It's essential to discipline your children early on, as you may regret it later if you don't. Additionally, if you find yourself bailing out hot-tempered individuals once, be prepared to do it again. This advice can be found in Proverbs 19:18-19 of the New Living Translation( NLT). ANSWER THE FOLLOWING IN THE COMMENTS  Are you in control of your thoughts, or are they in control of you? Do you struggle to comprehend yourself and your awareness? Is there a support system in your life that you can turn to when you are experiencing difficulties with your emotions and thoughts?   SPONSORED BY CREATE A PIZZA: home of the FATHA TORCH Lunch Special Try the Vegan Meatball Pizza with Sexy Cheese and a Drink for only $5.99 766 Monroe Ave, Rochester, NY Order Ahead at www.createapizza585.com   Podcast Like a Pro! Riverside.FM Promo Code JAZZYCAST for 15% off Remote Recording  www.JazzCastPros.com for help launching, branding or editing your podcast.   Connect with Fatha Torch:  Instagram: @FathaTorch Website: www.fathatorch.com  ABIMILECHH FOUNDATION -Local Programs for Fathers Want to be a sponsor or guest on the podcast? Email me at fathatorch@gmail.com    Loved this episode? Leave us a review and rating here:   Podchaser , Listen Notes Buy me a coffee or send a CashApp $RAHG76    Check out other Podcasts on the JazzCast Pros Network: Healthy Illness Podcast | Building Healthier Relationships While Living with Mental Health Conditions Heart of the Hustle Podcast | JazzCast Pros       Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Sun, 17 Sep 2023 15:22:00 -0000 Discipline, Control + Power: Awareness for Black Men, Young Fathers full 2 27 Rah Hudson Comprehend the repercussions of losing control, and the importance of practicing self-discipline Ep. 27 We must recognize that many of us lack self-awareness and struggle to comprehend the repercussions of losing control, and the importance of practicing self-discipline. To establish a healthy relationship with oneself and others, one must exert self-control and manage one's thoughts, which various emotional and developmental factors can influence. This is especially important to consider as a man and a father in today's world.  THE TRUTH AND FAULTS OF DISCIPLINE   It's essential to discipline your children early on, as you may regret it later if you don't. Additionally, if you find yourself bailing out hot-tempered individuals once, be prepared to do it again. This advice can be found in Proverbs 19:18-19 of the New Living Translation( NLT). ANSWER THE FOLLOWING IN THE COMMENTS  Are you in control of your thoughts, or are they in control of you? Do you struggle to comprehend yourself and your awareness? Is there a support system in your life that you can turn to when you are experiencing difficulties with your emotions and thoughts?   SPONSORED BY CREATE A PIZZA: home of the FATHA TORCH Lunch Special Try the Vegan Meatball Pizza with Sexy Cheese and a Drink for only $5.99 766 Monroe Ave, Rochester, NY Order Ahead at www.createapizza585.com   Podcast Like a Pro! Riverside.FM Promo Code JAZZYCAST for 15% off Remote Recording  www.JazzCastPros.com for help launching, branding or editing your podcast.   Connect with Fatha Torch:  Instagram: @FathaTorch Website: www.fathatorch.com  ABIMILECHH FOUNDATION -Local Programs for Fathers Want to be a sponsor or guest on the podcast? Email me at fathatorch@gmail.com    Loved this episode? Leave us a review and rating here:   Podchaser , Listen Notes Buy me a coffee or send a CashApp $RAHG76    Check out other Podcasts on the JazzCast Pros Network: Healthy Illness Podcast | Building Healthier Relationships While Living with Mental Health Conditions Heart of the Hustle Podcast | JazzCast Pros       Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Ep. 27 We must recognize that many of us lack self-awareness and struggle to comprehend the repercussions of losing control, and the importance of practicing self-discipline. To establish a healthy relationship with oneself and others, one must exert self-control and manage one's thoughts, which various emotional and developmental factors can influence. This is especially important to consider as a man and a father in today's world.

 THE TRUTH AND FAULTS OF DISCIPLINE  

It's essential to discipline your children early on, as you may regret it later if you don't. Additionally, if you find yourself bailing out hot-tempered individuals once, be prepared to do it again. This advice can be found in Proverbs 19:18-19 of the New Living Translation( NLT).

ANSWER THE FOLLOWING IN THE COMMENTS 

Are you in control of your thoughts, or are they in control of you?

Do you struggle to comprehend yourself and your awareness?

Is there a support system in your life that you can turn to when you are experiencing difficulties with your emotions and thoughts?

 


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]]> 1362 no Relationships 101: Starting With the Man in the Mirror https://www.fathatorch.com/e/relationships-101/ Ep. 26 Relationship 101 provides us with the hope that our values and worth will be acknowledged by someone. It is equally crucial to deeply understand ourselves and the aspects we hold in high regard. It is important to make sure that these values are respected by our partners. Otherwise, we risk compromising our own sense of self-worth and integrity. It is also essential to be open to learning from our partner and growing together in the relationship.   SPONSORED BY CREATE A PIZZA: home of the FATHA TORCH Lunch Special Try the Vegan Meatball Pizza with Sexy Cheese and a Drink for only $5.99 766 Monroe Ave, Rochester, NY Order Ahead at www.createapizza585.com   Podcast Like a Pro! Riverside.FM Promo Code JAZZYCAST for 15% off Remote Recording  www.JazzCastPros.com for help launching, branding or editing your podcast.   Connect with Fatha Torch:  Instagram: @FathaTorch Website: www.fathatorch.com  ABIMILECHH FOUNDATION -Local Programs for Fathers Want to be a sponsor or guest on the podcast? Email me at fathatorch@gmail.com    Loved this episode? Leave us a review and rating here:   Podchaser , Listen Notes Buy me a coffee or send a CashApp $RAHG76    Check out other Podcasts on the JazzCast Pros Network: Healthy Illness Podcast | Building Healthier Relationships While Living with Mental Health Conditions High Vibe Table Talks | Empowering Your Self Growth Journey          Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Mon, 04 Sep 2023 20:32:00 -0000 Relationships 101: Starting With the Man in the Mirror full 2 26 Rah Hudson Men we need to be open to learning from our partner and growing together in the relationship. Ep. 26 Relationship 101 provides us with the hope that our values and worth will be acknowledged by someone. It is equally crucial to deeply understand ourselves and the aspects we hold in high regard. It is important to make sure that these values are respected by our partners. Otherwise, we risk compromising our own sense of self-worth and integrity. It is also essential to be open to learning from our partner and growing together in the relationship.   SPONSORED BY CREATE A PIZZA: home of the FATHA TORCH Lunch Special Try the Vegan Meatball Pizza with Sexy Cheese and a Drink for only $5.99 766 Monroe Ave, Rochester, NY Order Ahead at www.createapizza585.com   Podcast Like a Pro! Riverside.FM Promo Code JAZZYCAST for 15% off Remote Recording  www.JazzCastPros.com for help launching, branding or editing your podcast.   Connect with Fatha Torch:  Instagram: @FathaTorch Website: www.fathatorch.com  ABIMILECHH FOUNDATION -Local Programs for Fathers Want to be a sponsor or guest on the podcast? Email me at fathatorch@gmail.com    Loved this episode? Leave us a review and rating here:   Podchaser , Listen Notes Buy me a coffee or send a CashApp $RAHG76    Check out other Podcasts on the JazzCast Pros Network: Healthy Illness Podcast | Building Healthier Relationships While Living with Mental Health Conditions High Vibe Table Talks | Empowering Your Self Growth Journey          Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Ep. 26 Relationship 101 provides us with the hope that our values and worth will be acknowledged by someone. It is equally crucial to deeply understand ourselves and the aspects we hold in high regard. It is important to make sure that these values are respected by our partners. Otherwise, we risk compromising our own sense of self-worth and integrity. It is also essential to be open to learning from our partner and growing together in the relationship.

 

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]]> 1954 no Fatherhood Unveiled: Rights, Duties, and Emotional Resonance https://www.fathatorch.com/e/fatherhood-unveiled-rights-duties-and-emotional-resonance/ Ep. 25 The concept of fatherhood is a joke to many people and systems that govern our society. We have the right to procreate, but our rights to nurture, discipline and guide our children is slipping away every day. In this episode Fatha Torch will help you reclaim your power and authority as a man and be the dad you wish you had.  1: Fathers' Rights and Duties: - Discuss fathers' legal and societal rights regarding parenting, custody, and decision-making. 2: Breaking Stereotypes: Embracing Emotional Support: - Discuss the importance of emotional bonding and its positive impact on children's development. 3: Respectful Co-Parenting and Collaboration: - Highlight the significance of respectful communication and collaboration between parents, whether together or separated. 4: Navigating Work-Life Balance: - Explore the delicate balance fathers often face between work commitments and family responsibilities. 5: Shaping Future Generations: Role Modeling and Legacy. SPONSORED BY CREATE A PIZZA: home of the FATHA TORCH Lunch Special Try the Vegan Meatball Pizza with Sexy Cheese and a Drink for only $5.99 766 Monroe Ave, Rochester, NY Order Ahead at www.createapizza585.com   Connect with Fatha Torch:  Instagram: @FathaTorch Website: www.fathatorch.com  ABIMILECHH FOUNDATION -Local Programs for Fathers Want to be a sponsor or guest on the podcast? Email me at fathatorch@gmail.com    Loved this episode? Leave us a review and rating here:   Podchaser , Listen Notes Buy me a coffee or send a CashApp $RAHG76    Produced by JazzCast Pros    Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Mon, 21 Aug 2023 03:54:00 -0000 Fatherhood Unveiled: Rights, Duties, and Emotional Resonance full 2 25 Rah Hudson We have the right to procreate, but our rights to nurture, discipline and guide our children is slipping away everyday Ep. 25 The concept of fatherhood is a joke to many people and systems that govern our society. We have the right to procreate, but our rights to nurture, discipline and guide our children is slipping away every day. In this episode Fatha Torch will help you reclaim your power and authority as a man and be the dad you wish you had.  1: Fathers' Rights and Duties: - Discuss fathers' legal and societal rights regarding parenting, custody, and decision-making. 2: Breaking Stereotypes: Embracing Emotional Support: - Discuss the importance of emotional bonding and its positive impact on children's development. 3: Respectful Co-Parenting and Collaboration: - Highlight the significance of respectful communication and collaboration between parents, whether together or separated. 4: Navigating Work-Life Balance: - Explore the delicate balance fathers often face between work commitments and family responsibilities. 5: Shaping Future Generations: Role Modeling and Legacy. SPONSORED BY CREATE A PIZZA: home of the FATHA TORCH Lunch Special Try the Vegan Meatball Pizza with Sexy Cheese and a Drink for only $5.99 766 Monroe Ave, Rochester, NY Order Ahead at www.createapizza585.com   Connect with Fatha Torch:  Instagram: @FathaTorch Website: www.fathatorch.com  ABIMILECHH FOUNDATION -Local Programs for Fathers Want to be a sponsor or guest on the podcast? Email me at fathatorch@gmail.com    Loved this episode? Leave us a review and rating here:   Podchaser , Listen Notes Buy me a coffee or send a CashApp $RAHG76    Produced by JazzCast Pros    Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Ep. 25 The concept of fatherhood is a joke to many people and systems that govern our society. We have the right to procreate, but our rights to nurture, discipline and guide our children is slipping away every day.

In this episode Fatha Torch will help you reclaim your power and authority as a man and be the dad you wish you had. 

1: Fathers' Rights and Duties:

- Discuss fathers' legal and societal rights regarding parenting, custody, and decision-making.

2: Breaking Stereotypes: Embracing Emotional Support:

- Discuss the importance of emotional bonding and its positive impact on children's development.

3: Respectful Co-Parenting and Collaboration:

- Highlight the significance of respectful communication and collaboration between parents, whether together or separated.

4: Navigating Work-Life Balance:

- Explore the delicate balance fathers often face between work commitments and family responsibilities.

5: Shaping Future Generations: Role Modeling and Legacy.


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]]> 1937 no Maturing from Man-Child to Father https://www.fathatorch.com/e/when-is-it-appropriate-to-act-like-a-man-child/ Ep. 24 The idea of taking responsibility and being accountable can be intimidating for men who struggle with abandonment issues and commitment-related traumas. Some simply don't care about life or its lessons and behave poorly as a result. It is necessary to break these negative patterns and move on with life, taking responsibility for one's actions and learning from mistakes. This is ultimately the only way to lead a fulfilling and meaningful life for you and your children.          Why Do I have to Grow-up Once I Have Kids? 1. Fathers who are mature and responsible can provide a positive role model for their children. Children learn a lot from observing and imitating their parents, especially their fathers. They can develop social skills, academic abilities, emotional regulation, and self-esteem by following their father’s example. 2. Having a child can be a rewarding and fulfilling experience for men, as they can bond with their child and share their love and wisdom. However, having a child also requires men to balance their work and family life, and to cope with the demands and challenges of parenthood. Men who act their age and manage their time and resources wisely can enjoy both aspects of their life without compromising one or the other. 3. Being a "grown-up" does not mean that men have to give up their hobbies, interests, or fun activities that they enjoy. It just means that they have to be more mindful of how their actions affect themselves, their partner, and their child. Being a father is not easy, but it can also be one of the most rewarding roles in life. 😊 SPONSORED BY CREATE A PIZZA: home of the FATHA TORCH Lunch Special Try the Vegan Meatball Pizza with Sexy Cheese and a Drink for only $5.99 766 Monroe Ave, Rochester, NY Order Ahead at www.createapizza585.com   Connect with Fatha Torch:  Instagram: @FathaTorch Website: www.fathatorch.com  ABIMILECHH FOUNDATION -Local Programs for Fathers Want to be a sponsor or guest on the podcast? Email me at fathatorch@gmail.com    Loved this episode? Leave us a review and rating here:   Podchaser , Listen Notes Buy me a coffee or send a CashApp $RAHG76    Other episodes you'll enjoy: Discipline Children While There is Hope, Otherwise You Will Ruin Their Lives Realistic Expectations: Key to Successful Fatherhood I Am FATHA: Fathers are the Highest Authority (It’s time we act like it)     Produced by JazzCast Pros          Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Sun, 06 Aug 2023 22:43:00 -0000 Maturing from Man-Child to Father full 2 24 Rah Hudson The idea of taking responsibility and being accountable can be intimidating for men who struggle with abandonment issues Ep. 24 The idea of taking responsibility and being accountable can be intimidating for men who struggle with abandonment issues and commitment-related traumas. Some simply don't care about life or its lessons and behave poorly as a result. It is necessary to break these negative patterns and move on with life, taking responsibility for one's actions and learning from mistakes. This is ultimately the only way to lead a fulfilling and meaningful life for you and your children.          Why Do I have to Grow-up Once I Have Kids? 1. Fathers who are mature and responsible can provide a positive role model for their children. Children learn a lot from observing and imitating their parents, especially their fathers. They can develop social skills, academic abilities, emotional regulation, and self-esteem by following their father’s example. 2. Having a child can be a rewarding and fulfilling experience for men, as they can bond with their child and share their love and wisdom. However, having a child also requires men to balance their work and family life, and to cope with the demands and challenges of parenthood. Men who act their age and manage their time and resources wisely can enjoy both aspects of their life without compromising one or the other. 3. Being a "grown-up" does not mean that men have to give up their hobbies, interests, or fun activities that they enjoy. It just means that they have to be more mindful of how their actions affect themselves, their partner, and their child. Being a father is not easy, but it can also be one of the most rewarding roles in life. 😊 SPONSORED BY CREATE A PIZZA: home of the FATHA TORCH Lunch Special Try the Vegan Meatball Pizza with Sexy Cheese and a Drink for only $5.99 766 Monroe Ave, Rochester, NY Order Ahead at www.createapizza585.com   Connect with Fatha Torch:  Instagram: @FathaTorch Website: www.fathatorch.com  ABIMILECHH FOUNDATION -Local Programs for Fathers Want to be a sponsor or guest on the podcast? Email me at fathatorch@gmail.com    Loved this episode? Leave us a review and rating here:   Podchaser , Listen Notes Buy me a coffee or send a CashApp $RAHG76    Other episodes you'll enjoy: Discipline Children While There is Hope, Otherwise You Will Ruin Their Lives Realistic Expectations: Key to Successful Fatherhood I Am FATHA: Fathers are the Highest Authority (It’s time we act like it)     Produced by JazzCast Pros          Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Ep. 24 The idea of taking responsibility and being accountable can be intimidating for men who struggle with abandonment issues and commitment-related traumas. Some simply don't care about life or its lessons and behave poorly as a result. It is necessary to break these negative patterns and move on with life, taking responsibility for one's actions and learning from mistakes. This is ultimately the only way to lead a fulfilling and meaningful life for you and your children. 

        Why Do I have to Grow-up Once I Have Kids?

1. Fathers who are mature and responsible can provide a positive role model for their children. Children learn a lot from observing and imitating their parents, especially their fathers. They can develop social skills, academic abilities, emotional regulation, and self-esteem by following their father’s example.

2. Having a child can be a rewarding and fulfilling experience for men, as they can bond with their child and share their love and wisdom. However, having a child also requires men to balance their work and family life, and to cope with the demands and challenges of parenthood. Men who act their age and manage their time and resources wisely can enjoy both aspects of their life without compromising one or the other.

3. Being a "grown-up" does not mean that men have to give up their hobbies, interests, or fun activities that they enjoy. It just means that they have to be more mindful of how their actions affect themselves, their partner, and their child. Being a father is not easy, but it can also be one of the most rewarding roles in life. 😊


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]]> 1950 no Discipline Children While There is Hope, Otherwise You Will Ruin Their Lives https://www.fathatorch.com/e/discipline-children-while-there-is-hope-otherwise-you-will-ruin-their-lives/ Ep. 23 Being a father requires possessing proper guidance, self-control, and discipline. Discipline should be viewed as a tool to impart knowledge to children about making better decisions in the future rather than punishment. Communicating expectations and consequences calmly, firmly, and consistently is essential to ensure the child comprehends. It's crucial for both parents to work together to ensure the best possible outcome for their child. Proverbs 19:18 NLT "Discipline your children while there is hope. Otherwise, you will ruin their lives."   Consistent and fair consequences are important for a child to understand the set boundaries and learn from mistakes. Praise and positive reinforcement should also be used to reward good behavior and to encourage a child's development. It is important to remember to remain consistent in the way consequences are enforced. Avoiding punishments or rewards that are overly harsh or lenient will help to ensure that the child understands the logic behind the consequences. This will enable them to learn to make better choices in the future. SPONSORED BY CREATE A PIZZA: home of the FATHA TORCH Lunch Special Try the Vegan Meatball Pizza with Sexy Cheese and a Drink for only $5.99 766 Monroe Ave, Rochester, NY Order Ahead at www.createapizza585.com   Connect with Fatha Torch:  Instagram: @FathaTorch Website: www.fathatorch.com  ABIMILECHH FOUNDATION -Local Programs for Fathers Want to be a sponsor or guest on the podcast? Email me at fathatorch@gmail.com    Loved this episode? Leave us a review and rating here:   Podchaser , Listen Notes Buy me a coffee or send a CashApp $RAHG76    Other episodes you'll enjoy: The Truth About Forgiveness: How to Make Peace with Yourself and Be Better for Your Kids Realistic Expectations: Key to Successful Fatherhood I Am FATHA: Fathers are the Highest Authority (It’s time we act like it)     Produced by JazzCast Pros      Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Sun, 23 Jul 2023 18:54:00 -0000 Discipline Children While There is Hope, Otherwise You Will Ruin Their Lives full 2 23 Rah Hudson Discipline should be viewed as a tool to impart knowledge to children about making better decisions in the future rather than punishment. Ep. 23 Being a father requires possessing proper guidance, self-control, and discipline. Discipline should be viewed as a tool to impart knowledge to children about making better decisions in the future rather than punishment. Communicating expectations and consequences calmly, firmly, and consistently is essential to ensure the child comprehends. It's crucial for both parents to work together to ensure the best possible outcome for their child. Proverbs 19:18 NLT "Discipline your children while there is hope. Otherwise, you will ruin their lives."   Consistent and fair consequences are important for a child to understand the set boundaries and learn from mistakes. Praise and positive reinforcement should also be used to reward good behavior and to encourage a child's development. It is important to remember to remain consistent in the way consequences are enforced. Avoiding punishments or rewards that are overly harsh or lenient will help to ensure that the child understands the logic behind the consequences. This will enable them to learn to make better choices in the future. SPONSORED BY CREATE A PIZZA: home of the FATHA TORCH Lunch Special Try the Vegan Meatball Pizza with Sexy Cheese and a Drink for only $5.99 766 Monroe Ave, Rochester, NY Order Ahead at www.createapizza585.com   Connect with Fatha Torch:  Instagram: @FathaTorch Website: www.fathatorch.com  ABIMILECHH FOUNDATION -Local Programs for Fathers Want to be a sponsor or guest on the podcast? Email me at fathatorch@gmail.com    Loved this episode? Leave us a review and rating here:   Podchaser , Listen Notes Buy me a coffee or send a CashApp $RAHG76    Other episodes you'll enjoy: The Truth About Forgiveness: How to Make Peace with Yourself and Be Better for Your Kids Realistic Expectations: Key to Successful Fatherhood I Am FATHA: Fathers are the Highest Authority (It’s time we act like it)     Produced by JazzCast Pros      Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Ep. 23 Being a father requires possessing proper guidance, self-control, and discipline. Discipline should be viewed as a tool to impart knowledge to children about making better decisions in the future rather than punishment. Communicating expectations and consequences calmly, firmly, and consistently is essential to ensure the child comprehends. It's crucial for both parents to work together to ensure the best possible outcome for their child.

Proverbs 19:18 NLT

"Discipline your children while there is hope. Otherwise, you will ruin their lives."

 

Consistent and fair consequences are important for a child to understand the set boundaries and learn from mistakes. Praise and positive reinforcement should also be used to reward good behavior and to encourage a child's development. It is important to remember to remain consistent in the way consequences are enforced. Avoiding punishments or rewards that are overly harsh or lenient will help to ensure that the child understands the logic behind the consequences. This will enable them to learn to make better choices in the future.


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]]> 2078 no The Truth About Forgiveness: How to Make Peace with Yourself and Be Better for Your Kids https://www.fathatorch.com/e/the-truth-about-forgiveness-how-to-make-peace-with-yourself-and-be-better-for-your-kids/ Ep. 22 Translating forgiveness can be a challenging process, especially when grappling with emotions such as regret, anger, and confusion. It's crucial to clearly understand oneself to avoid getting lost in a world of pain. Taking the time to forgive is important in accepting the situation and moving forward in your journey to be the dad you wish you had. Forgiveness doesn't mean forgetting but rather understanding and accepting what has happened. It is a path to peace and a way to open the door to a brighter future.  As men, we must learn to confront our pain and vulnerabilities head-on to attain redemption. Forgiveness, whether towards oneself or others, may appear unattainable, but dwelling on the negative only hinders the healing process. With the help of loved ones, we can create a nurturing environment that encourages growth and progress. Rather than clinging to familiarity, we should embrace the power of a supportive circle and allow ourselves to heal. This journey of self-discovery can be difficult and uncomfortable, but in the end, it will lead to a more meaningful life. The courage to change is within us, and we must believe in ourselves to find the strength to move forward. SPONSORED BY CREATE A PIZZA: home of the FATHA TORCH Lunch Special Try the Vegan Meatball Pizza with Sexy Cheese and a Drink for only $5.99 766 Monroe Ave, Rochester, NY Order Ahead at www.createapizza585.com   Connect with Fatha Torch:  Instagram: @FathaTorch Website: www.fathatorch.com  ABIMILECHH FOUNDATION -Local Programs for Fathers Want to be a sponsor or guest on the podcast? Email me at fathatorch@gmail.com    Loved this episode? Leave us a review and rating here:   Podchaser , Listen Notes Buy me a coffee or send a CashApp $RAHG76    Other episodes you'll enjoy: Realistic Expectations: Key to Successful Fatherhood I Am FATHA: Fathers are the Highest Authority (It’s time we act like it) Passing the Torch: Embracing Growth & Maturity as Men   Produced by JazzCast Pros    Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Sun, 09 Jul 2023 06:05:00 -0000 The Truth About Forgiveness: How to Make Peace with Yourself and Be Better for Your Kids full 2 22 Rah Hudson Translating forgiveness can be a challenging process, especially when grappling with emotions such as regret, anger, and confusion Ep. 22 Translating forgiveness can be a challenging process, especially when grappling with emotions such as regret, anger, and confusion. It's crucial to clearly understand oneself to avoid getting lost in a world of pain. Taking the time to forgive is important in accepting the situation and moving forward in your journey to be the dad you wish you had. Forgiveness doesn't mean forgetting but rather understanding and accepting what has happened. It is a path to peace and a way to open the door to a brighter future.  As men, we must learn to confront our pain and vulnerabilities head-on to attain redemption. Forgiveness, whether towards oneself or others, may appear unattainable, but dwelling on the negative only hinders the healing process. With the help of loved ones, we can create a nurturing environment that encourages growth and progress. Rather than clinging to familiarity, we should embrace the power of a supportive circle and allow ourselves to heal. This journey of self-discovery can be difficult and uncomfortable, but in the end, it will lead to a more meaningful life. The courage to change is within us, and we must believe in ourselves to find the strength to move forward. SPONSORED BY CREATE A PIZZA: home of the FATHA TORCH Lunch Special Try the Vegan Meatball Pizza with Sexy Cheese and a Drink for only $5.99 766 Monroe Ave, Rochester, NY Order Ahead at www.createapizza585.com   Connect with Fatha Torch:  Instagram: @FathaTorch Website: www.fathatorch.com  ABIMILECHH FOUNDATION -Local Programs for Fathers Want to be a sponsor or guest on the podcast? Email me at fathatorch@gmail.com    Loved this episode? Leave us a review and rating here:   Podchaser , Listen Notes Buy me a coffee or send a CashApp $RAHG76    Other episodes you'll enjoy: Realistic Expectations: Key to Successful Fatherhood I Am FATHA: Fathers are the Highest Authority (It’s time we act like it) Passing the Torch: Embracing Growth & Maturity as Men   Produced by JazzCast Pros    Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Ep. 22 Translating forgiveness can be a challenging process, especially when grappling with emotions such as regret, anger, and confusion. It's crucial to clearly understand oneself to avoid getting lost in a world of pain.

Taking the time to forgive is important in accepting the situation and moving forward in your journey to be the dad you wish you had. Forgiveness doesn't mean forgetting but rather understanding and accepting what has happened. It is a path to peace and a way to open the door to a brighter future.

 As men, we must learn to confront our pain and vulnerabilities head-on to attain redemption. Forgiveness, whether towards oneself or others, may appear unattainable, but dwelling on the negative only hinders the healing process. With the help of loved ones, we can create a nurturing environment that encourages growth and progress.

Rather than clinging to familiarity, we should embrace the power of a supportive circle and allow ourselves to heal. This journey of self-discovery can be difficult and uncomfortable, but in the end, it will lead to a more meaningful life. The courage to change is within us, and we must believe in ourselves to find the strength to move forward.


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]]> 1886 no Realistic Expectations: Key to Successful Fatherhood https://www.fathatorch.com/e/realistic-expectations-key-to-successful-fatherhood/ Ep. 21 Growing up without a father I found myself setting unrealistic expectations on other men in my life, trying to fill the void my father left. But there were always disappointments because those men simply could not give me the things my soul longed for. It wasn't until I learned to set realistic expectations for myself, my partner and my children that I could truly embrace my goal of being the dad I wish I had. In this episode I share with you my journey of self-discovery and how I learned to find joy in the journey of fatherhood by setting realistic expectations. In this episode, you will be able to: Grasp the power of establishing practical expectations in pursuit of accomplishments. Unravel the secrets to fortifying relationships through intentional family planning. Examine the aftermath of damaging expectations and abuse during the prenatal stage. Master techniques to overcome feelings of inadequacy as a devoted father. Unearth strategies to nurture self-esteem and embolden confidence in oneself and others.     SPONSORED BY CREATE A PIZZA: home of the FATHA TORCH Lunch Special Try the Vegan Meatball Pizza with Sexy Cheese and a Drink for only $5.99 766 Monroe Ave, Rochester, NY Order Ahead at www.createapizza585.com   Connect with Fatha Torch:  Instagram: @FathaTorch Website: www.fathatorch.com  ABIMILECHH FOUNDATION -Local Programs for Fathers Want to be a sponsor or guest on the podcast? Email me at fathatorch@gmail.com    Loved this episode? Leave us a review and rating here:   Podchaser , Listen Notes Buy me a coffee or send a CashApp $RAHG76    Other episodes you'll enjoy: I Am FATHA: Fathers are the Highest Authority (It’s time we act like it) Stop Being Your Child’s Friend and Start Being Their Leader How to Embrace the Wisdom of Elders to Raise the Youth Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Sun, 11 Jun 2023 00:00:00 -0000 Realistic Expectations: Key to Successful Fatherhood full 2 21 Rah Hudson Growing up without a father I found myself setting unrealistic expectations on other men in my life, trying to fill the void my father left. Ep. 21 Growing up without a father I found myself setting unrealistic expectations on other men in my life, trying to fill the void my father left. But there were always disappointments because those men simply could not give me the things my soul longed for. It wasn't until I learned to set realistic expectations for myself, my partner and my children that I could truly embrace my goal of being the dad I wish I had. In this episode I share with you my journey of self-discovery and how I learned to find joy in the journey of fatherhood by setting realistic expectations. In this episode, you will be able to: Grasp the power of establishing practical expectations in pursuit of accomplishments. Unravel the secrets to fortifying relationships through intentional family planning. Examine the aftermath of damaging expectations and abuse during the prenatal stage. Master techniques to overcome feelings of inadequacy as a devoted father. Unearth strategies to nurture self-esteem and embolden confidence in oneself and others.     SPONSORED BY CREATE A PIZZA: home of the FATHA TORCH Lunch Special Try the Vegan Meatball Pizza with Sexy Cheese and a Drink for only $5.99 766 Monroe Ave, Rochester, NY Order Ahead at www.createapizza585.com   Connect with Fatha Torch:  Instagram: @FathaTorch Website: www.fathatorch.com  ABIMILECHH FOUNDATION -Local Programs for Fathers Want to be a sponsor or guest on the podcast? Email me at fathatorch@gmail.com    Loved this episode? Leave us a review and rating here:   Podchaser , Listen Notes Buy me a coffee or send a CashApp $RAHG76    Other episodes you'll enjoy: I Am FATHA: Fathers are the Highest Authority (It’s time we act like it) Stop Being Your Child’s Friend and Start Being Their Leader How to Embrace the Wisdom of Elders to Raise the Youth Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Ep. 21 Growing up without a father I found myself setting unrealistic expectations on other men in my life, trying to fill the void my father left. But there were always disappointments because those men simply could not give me the things my soul longed for. It wasn't until I learned to set realistic expectations for myself, my partner and my children that I could truly embrace my goal of being the dad I wish I had.

In this episode I share with you my journey of self-discovery and how I learned to find joy in the journey of fatherhood by setting realistic expectations.

In this episode, you will be able to:

  • Grasp the power of establishing practical expectations in pursuit of accomplishments.
  • Unravel the secrets to fortifying relationships through intentional family planning.
  • Examine the aftermath of damaging expectations and abuse during the prenatal stage.
  • Master techniques to overcome feelings of inadequacy as a devoted father.
  • Unearth strategies to nurture self-esteem and embolden confidence in oneself and others.

 


 

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]]> 2417 no I Am FATHA: Fathers are the Highest Authority (It’s time we act like it) https://www.fathatorch.com/e/i-am-fatha/ Ep. 20 As fathers, it's imperative that we possess a deep understanding of ourselves. The archaic notion of relying on guesswork to ascertain our worth and capabilities is a thing of the past. We must be cognizant of our duties and rights as fathers, and we shouldn't have to be reminded of this simply because we are fathers. Because we are men, it is our duty to protect our loved ones from any imminent danger without any apologies. We do not rely on mere likes or friend requests for a solution as we set the trend. But, with discipline and authority, we assist in your growth and prosperity and the development of our survival and legacy. Being honest and trustworthy is crucial. We must acknowledge our limitations and avoid attempting things beyond our abilities. Blindly following authority without questioning it is not a trait of a wise man. This mindset is a product of ignorance and a legacy of conquerors who ruled with authoritarianism, disregarding the feelings and situations of others while serving their wicked interests. SPONSORED BY CREATE A PIZZA: home of the FATHA TORCH Lunch Special Try the Vegan Meatball Pizza with Sexy Cheese and a Drink for only $5.99 766 Monroe Ave, Rochester, NY Order Ahead at www.createapizza585.com   Connect with Fatha Torch:  Instagram: @FathaTorch Website: www.fathatorch.com  ABIMILECHH FOUNDATION -Local Programs for Fathers Want to be a sponsor or guest on the podcast? Email me at fathatorch@gmail.com    Loved this episode? Leave us a review and rating here:   Podchaser , Listen Notes Buy me a coffee or send a CashApp $RAHG76    Other episodes you'll enjoy: Why Kids Don’t Respect Their Parents Anymore Stop Being Your Child’s Friend and Start Being Their Leader How to Embrace the Wisdom of Elders to Raise the Youth   Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Sun, 28 May 2023 06:30:00 -0000 I Am FATHA: Fathers are the Highest Authority (It’s time we act like it) full 2 20 Rah Hudson Ep. 20 As fathers, it's imperative that we possess a deep understanding of ourselves. The archaic notion of relying on guesswork to ascertain our worth and capabilities is a thing of the past. We must be cognizant of our duties and rights as fathers,... Ep. 20 As fathers, it's imperative that we possess a deep understanding of ourselves. The archaic notion of relying on guesswork to ascertain our worth and capabilities is a thing of the past. We must be cognizant of our duties and rights as fathers, and we shouldn't have to be reminded of this simply because we are fathers. Because we are men, it is our duty to protect our loved ones from any imminent danger without any apologies. We do not rely on mere likes or friend requests for a solution as we set the trend. But, with discipline and authority, we assist in your growth and prosperity and the development of our survival and legacy. Being honest and trustworthy is crucial. We must acknowledge our limitations and avoid attempting things beyond our abilities. Blindly following authority without questioning it is not a trait of a wise man. This mindset is a product of ignorance and a legacy of conquerors who ruled with authoritarianism, disregarding the feelings and situations of others while serving their wicked interests. SPONSORED BY CREATE A PIZZA: home of the FATHA TORCH Lunch Special Try the Vegan Meatball Pizza with Sexy Cheese and a Drink for only $5.99 766 Monroe Ave, Rochester, NY Order Ahead at www.createapizza585.com   Connect with Fatha Torch:  Instagram: @FathaTorch Website: www.fathatorch.com  ABIMILECHH FOUNDATION -Local Programs for Fathers Want to be a sponsor or guest on the podcast? Email me at fathatorch@gmail.com    Loved this episode? Leave us a review and rating here:   Podchaser , Listen Notes Buy me a coffee or send a CashApp $RAHG76    Other episodes you'll enjoy: Why Kids Don’t Respect Their Parents Anymore Stop Being Your Child’s Friend and Start Being Their Leader How to Embrace the Wisdom of Elders to Raise the Youth   Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Ep. 20 As fathers, it's imperative that we possess a deep understanding of ourselves. The archaic notion of relying on guesswork to ascertain our worth and capabilities is a thing of the past. We must be cognizant of our duties and rights as fathers, and we shouldn't have to be reminded of this simply because we are fathers. Because we are men, it is our duty to protect our loved ones from any imminent danger without any apologies. We do not rely on mere likes or friend requests for a solution as we set the trend. But, with discipline and authority, we assist in your growth and prosperity and the development of our survival and legacy.

Being honest and trustworthy is crucial. We must acknowledge our limitations and avoid attempting things beyond our abilities. Blindly following authority without questioning it is not a trait of a wise man. This mindset is a product of ignorance and a legacy of conquerors who ruled with authoritarianism, disregarding the feelings and situations of others while serving their wicked interests.


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]]> 1954 no Passing the Torch: Embracing Growth & Maturity as Men https://www.fathatorch.com/e/passing-the-torch-embracing-growth-maturity-as-men/ Ep. 19 Do you want to leave a positive legacy by shaping and guiding the next generation? As 'young elders' we can empower and inspire the youth to reach their full potential and become the leaders of tomorrow.  In this episode of Fatha Torch, I, Rah, delve into the topic of the importance of becoming an elder and sharing wisdom with younger generations. As a father and mentor myself, I understand the need to pass down knowledge and experiences for future generations to learn and grow from. I discuss the four aspects of development - emotional, mental, physical, and spiritual - and how children need to learn how to handle each aspect to reach their full potential. I also touch on the self-destructive nature of gangster culture and the importance of fathers taking up their highest honor to create a space where their children can thrive and grow. In this episode, you will be able to: Embrace the vital role of becoming an elder in society to enrich lives by sharing your wisdom. Balance your growth in emotional, mental, physical, and spiritual aspects for well-rounded development. Acknowledge the damaging effects of gang culture and violence on individuals and communities. Harness your innate power and knowledge for progress across all dimensions of your life. Cultivate essential qualities like discipline, humility, and inner guidance to excel as responsible fathers. SPONSORED BY CREATE A PIZZA: home of the FATHA TORCH Lunch Special Try the Vegan Meatball Pizza with Sexy Cheese and a Drink for only $5.99 766 Monroe Ave, Rochester, NY Order Ahead at www.createapizza585.com   Connect with Fatha Torch:  Instagram: @FathaTorch Website: www.fathatorch.com  ABIMILECHH FOUNDATION -Local Programs for Fathers Want to be a sponsor or guest on the podcast? Email me at fathatorch@gmail.com    Loved this episode? Leave us a review and rating here:   Podchaser , Listen Notes Buy me a coffee or send a CashApp $RAHG76  Want to be a sponsor or guest on the podcast? Email me at fathatorch@gmail.com  Other episodes you'll enjoy: Why Kids Don’t Respect Their Parents Anymore Stop Being Your Child’s Friend and Start Being Their Leader How to Embrace the Wisdom of Elders to Raise the Youth   The key moments in this episode are: 00:00:00 - Importance of Mentors, 00:05:03 - Retired Gangsters, 00:09:44 - Becoming an Elder, 00:12:12 - Male Development, 00:13:34 - Lack of Elders, 00:15:24 - Embracing Your Inner Power, 00:17:42 - The Importance of Nurturing, 00:20:06 - Overcoming Fear and Adversity, 00:21:51 - Creating a Legacy, 00:25:18 - Gratitude and Reflection,   Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Tue, 16 May 2023 01:08:55 -0000 Passing the Torch: Embracing Growth & Maturity as Men full 2 19 Rah Hudson Ep. 19 Do you want to leave a positive legacy by shaping and guiding the next generation? As 'young elders' we can empower and inspire the youth to reach their full potential and become the leaders of tomorrow.  In this episode of Fatha Torch, I, Ra... Ep. 19 Do you want to leave a positive legacy by shaping and guiding the next generation? As 'young elders' we can empower and inspire the youth to reach their full potential and become the leaders of tomorrow.  In this episode of Fatha Torch, I, Rah, delve into the topic of the importance of becoming an elder and sharing wisdom with younger generations. As a father and mentor myself, I understand the need to pass down knowledge and experiences for future generations to learn and grow from. I discuss the four aspects of development - emotional, mental, physical, and spiritual - and how children need to learn how to handle each aspect to reach their full potential. I also touch on the self-destructive nature of gangster culture and the importance of fathers taking up their highest honor to create a space where their children can thrive and grow. In this episode, you will be able to: Embrace the vital role of becoming an elder in society to enrich lives by sharing your wisdom. Balance your growth in emotional, mental, physical, and spiritual aspects for well-rounded development. Acknowledge the damaging effects of gang culture and violence on individuals and communities. Harness your innate power and knowledge for progress across all dimensions of your life. Cultivate essential qualities like discipline, humility, and inner guidance to excel as responsible fathers. SPONSORED BY CREATE A PIZZA: home of the FATHA TORCH Lunch Special Try the Vegan Meatball Pizza with Sexy Cheese and a Drink for only $5.99 766 Monroe Ave, Rochester, NY Order Ahead at www.createapizza585.com   Connect with Fatha Torch:  Instagram: @FathaTorch Website: www.fathatorch.com  ABIMILECHH FOUNDATION -Local Programs for Fathers Want to be a sponsor or guest on the podcast? Email me at fathatorch@gmail.com    Loved this episode? Leave us a review and rating here:   Podchaser , Listen Notes Buy me a coffee or send a CashApp $RAHG76  Want to be a sponsor or guest on the podcast? Email me at fathatorch@gmail.com  Other episodes you'll enjoy: Why Kids Don’t Respect Their Parents Anymore Stop Being Your Child’s Friend and Start Being Their Leader How to Embrace the Wisdom of Elders to Raise the Youth   The key moments in this episode are: 00:00:00 - Importance of Mentors, 00:05:03 - Retired Gangsters, 00:09:44 - Becoming an Elder, 00:12:12 - Male Development, 00:13:34 - Lack of Elders, 00:15:24 - Embracing Your Inner Power, 00:17:42 - The Importance of Nurturing, 00:20:06 - Overcoming Fear and Adversity, 00:21:51 - Creating a Legacy, 00:25:18 - Gratitude and Reflection,   Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Ep. 19 Do you want to leave a positive legacy by shaping and guiding the next generation? As 'young elders' we can empower and inspire the youth to reach their full potential and become the leaders of tomorrow. 

In this episode of Fatha Torch, I, Rah, delve into the topic of the importance of becoming an elder and sharing wisdom with younger generations. As a father and mentor myself, I understand the need to pass down knowledge and experiences for future generations to learn and grow from. I discuss the four aspects of development - emotional, mental, physical, and spiritual - and how children need to learn how to handle each aspect to reach their full potential. I also touch on the self-destructive nature of gangster culture and the importance of fathers taking up their highest honor to create a space where their children can thrive and grow.

In this episode, you will be able to:

  • Embrace the vital role of becoming an elder in society to enrich lives by sharing your wisdom.

  • Balance your growth in emotional, mental, physical, and spiritual aspects for well-rounded development.

  • Acknowledge the damaging effects of gang culture and violence on individuals and communities.

  • Harness your innate power and knowledge for progress across all dimensions of your life.

  • Cultivate essential qualities like discipline, humility, and inner guidance to excel as responsible fathers.


SPONSORED BY CREATE A PIZZA: home of the FATHA TORCH Lunch Special Try the Vegan Meatball Pizza with Sexy Cheese and a Drink for only $5.99

766 Monroe Ave, Rochester, NY Order Ahead at www.createapizza585.com

 

Connect with Fatha Torch: 

Instagram: @FathaTorch Website: www.fathatorch.com

 ABIMILECHH FOUNDATION -Local Programs for Fathers

Want to be a sponsor or guest on the podcast?

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Other episodes you'll enjoy:

Why Kids Don’t Respect Their Parents Anymore

Stop Being Your Child’s Friend and Start Being Their Leader

How to Embrace the Wisdom of Elders to Raise the Youth

 

The key moments in this episode are:
00:00:00 - Importance of Mentors,

00:05:03 - Retired Gangsters,

00:09:44 - Becoming an Elder,

00:12:12 - Male Development,

00:13:34 - Lack of Elders,

00:15:24 - Embracing Your Inner Power,

00:17:42 - The Importance of Nurturing,

00:20:06 - Overcoming Fear and Adversity,

00:21:51 - Creating a Legacy,

00:25:18 - Gratitude and Reflection,

 

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]]> 1806 no Redefining Masculinity: Balance and Empathy in Relationships https://www.fathatorch.com/e/create/ Ep. 16 Sitting in our favorite pizza joint, Create a Pizza, I felt a sense of peace as we shared a vegan meatball pizza. Little did I know, I was about to embark on a journey that would forever change my understanding of masculinity and empathy. As I conversed with my wife, I realized I had to adapt my behaviors to be a better husband and father. But what happened next was truly unexpected and has left me with a newfound appreciation for life's little moments. The resources mentioned in this episode are: Visit Creative Pizza at 766 Monroe Avenue, mention Father Torch and enjoy the $5.99 lunch special with a drink. Focus on understanding yourself and your own expectations in relationships, especially with your children and spouse. Make sure to respect and love your spouse, communicating openly and without belittling or disregarding their opinions and feelings. Adapt to your children's needs without losing the foundation of being a father, ensuring you maintain effective communication. Give your children the benefit of the doubt and avoid making assumptions based on their actions or the people they associate with. Develop a strong relationship with your children through dialogue and understanding, being open to their experiences and perspectives. Avoid bringing up past experiences to justify assumptions about your children's behavior and instead focus on the present situation. Understanding Relationships In relationships, it is essential to acknowledge the differences in how men and women approach them. Each partner comes with their unique views and expectations, often shaped by their personal experiences and upbringing. Understanding these differences is the first step towards building a strong foundation for a deeper connection with one's partner. When communication is clear and respectful, the relationship thrives, making it easier for both parties to navigate any difficulties that arise. Fathers represent authority, so they should be able to understand or overstand when something is out of order. - Rah   SPONSORED BY CREATE A PIZZA: home of the FATHA TORCH Lunch Special Try the Vegan Meatball Pizza with Sexy Cheese and a Drink for only $5.99 766 Monroe Ave, Rochester, NY Order Ahead at www.createapizza585.com Connect with Fatha Torch:  Instagram: @FathaTorch  Website: www.fathatorch.com  ABIMILECHH FOUNDATION -Local Programs for Fathers Loved this episode? Leave us a review and rating here:   Podchaser , Listen Notes Buy me a coffee or send a CashApp $RAHG76  Want to be a sponsor or guest on the podcast? Email me at fathatorch@gmail.com  Other episodes you'll enjoy: Any Fool Can Make a Baby | FATHA TORCH Are You a Good Father? It All All Comes Down to This  Letter to My Youngest Son | FATHA TORCH   Podcast Like a Pro! Riverside.FM Promo Code JAZZYCAST for 15% off Remote Recording  JazzCastPros.com for help launching, branding or editing your podcast. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Sun, 02 Apr 2023 17:34:52 -0000 Redefining Masculinity: Balance and Empathy in Relationships full 2 16 Rah Hudson Ep. 16 Sitting in our favorite pizza joint, Create a Pizza, I felt a sense of peace as we shared a vegan meatball pizza. Little did I know, I was about to embark on a journey that would forever change my understanding of masculinity and empathy. As I... Ep. 16 Sitting in our favorite pizza joint, Create a Pizza, I felt a sense of peace as we shared a vegan meatball pizza. Little did I know, I was about to embark on a journey that would forever change my understanding of masculinity and empathy. As I conversed with my wife, I realized I had to adapt my behaviors to be a better husband and father. But what happened next was truly unexpected and has left me with a newfound appreciation for life's little moments. The resources mentioned in this episode are: Visit Creative Pizza at 766 Monroe Avenue, mention Father Torch and enjoy the $5.99 lunch special with a drink. Focus on understanding yourself and your own expectations in relationships, especially with your children and spouse. Make sure to respect and love your spouse, communicating openly and without belittling or disregarding their opinions and feelings. Adapt to your children's needs without losing the foundation of being a father, ensuring you maintain effective communication. Give your children the benefit of the doubt and avoid making assumptions based on their actions or the people they associate with. Develop a strong relationship with your children through dialogue and understanding, being open to their experiences and perspectives. Avoid bringing up past experiences to justify assumptions about your children's behavior and instead focus on the present situation. Understanding Relationships In relationships, it is essential to acknowledge the differences in how men and women approach them. Each partner comes with their unique views and expectations, often shaped by their personal experiences and upbringing. Understanding these differences is the first step towards building a strong foundation for a deeper connection with one's partner. When communication is clear and respectful, the relationship thrives, making it easier for both parties to navigate any difficulties that arise. Fathers represent authority, so they should be able to understand or overstand when something is out of order. - Rah   SPONSORED BY CREATE A PIZZA: home of the FATHA TORCH Lunch Special Try the Vegan Meatball Pizza with Sexy Cheese and a Drink for only $5.99 766 Monroe Ave, Rochester, NY Order Ahead at www.createapizza585.com Connect with Fatha Torch:  Instagram: @FathaTorch  Website: www.fathatorch.com  ABIMILECHH FOUNDATION -Local Programs for Fathers Loved this episode? Leave us a review and rating here:   Podchaser , Listen Notes Buy me a coffee or send a CashApp $RAHG76  Want to be a sponsor or guest on the podcast? Email me at fathatorch@gmail.com  Other episodes you'll enjoy: Any Fool Can Make a Baby | FATHA TORCH Are You a Good Father? It All All Comes Down to This  Letter to My Youngest Son | FATHA TORCH   Podcast Like a Pro! Riverside.FM Promo Code JAZZYCAST for 15% off Remote Recording  JazzCastPros.com for help launching, branding or editing your podcast. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Ep. 16 Sitting in our favorite pizza joint, Create a Pizza, I felt a sense of peace as we shared a vegan meatball pizza. Little did I know, I was about to embark on a journey that would forever change my understanding of masculinity and empathy. As I conversed with my wife, I realized I had to adapt my behaviors to be a better husband and father. But what happened next was truly unexpected and has left me with a newfound appreciation for life's little moments.

The resources mentioned in this episode are:

  • Visit Creative Pizza at 766 Monroe Avenue, mention Father Torch and enjoy the $5.99 lunch special with a drink.

  • Focus on understanding yourself and your own expectations in relationships, especially with your children and spouse.

  • Make sure to respect and love your spouse, communicating openly and without belittling or disregarding their opinions and feelings.

  • Adapt to your children's needs without losing the foundation of being a father, ensuring you maintain effective communication.

  • Give your children the benefit of the doubt and avoid making assumptions based on their actions or the people they associate with.

  • Develop a strong relationship with your children through dialogue and understanding, being open to their experiences and perspectives.

  • Avoid bringing up past experiences to justify assumptions about your children's behavior and instead focus on the present situation.

Understanding Relationships
In relationships, it is essential to acknowledge the differences in how men and women approach them. Each partner comes with their unique views and expectations, often shaped by their personal experiences and upbringing. Understanding these differences is the first step towards building a strong foundation for a deeper connection with one's partner. When communication is clear and respectful, the relationship thrives, making it easier for both parties to navigate any difficulties that arise.

Fathers represent authority, so they should be able to understand or overstand when something is out of order. - Rah

 


SPONSORED BY CREATE A PIZZA: home of the FATHA TORCH Lunch Special Try the Vegan Meatball Pizza with Sexy Cheese and a Drink for only $5.99

766 Monroe Ave, Rochester, NY Order Ahead at www.createapizza585.com

Connect with Fatha Torch: 

Instagram: @FathaTorch 
Website: www.fathatorch.com

 ABIMILECHH FOUNDATION -Local Programs for Fathers

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 Podchaser , Listen Notes

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Any Fool Can Make a Baby | FATHA TORCH

Are You a Good Father? It All All Comes Down to This 

Letter to My Youngest Son | FATHA TORCH

 

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]]> 1965 no Any Fool Can Make a Baby https://www.fathatorch.com/e/any-fool-can-make-a-baby/ Ep. 15 Your dad was an asshole, alcoholic, abuser or just not around to teach you how to be a good man right? So it's up to us the be the change we wish to see in the next generation of fathers. I was surrounded by men who were a waste of time, women who blocked the teaching of fatherhood, and people who were more excited to see a stranger than me. I realized I needed to learn how to be patient with my children, treasure them, protect them from emotional and mental harm, and always be real with them.  In this episode, you will learn the following: 1. How can you be the dad you wish you had without a good example? 2. What does it take for fathers who are not in the home to create a balanced family for their children? 3. What can we do to overcome the pain of our own past trauma in order to be a better father?   RESOURCES Incarcerated Fathers Statistics  63% of federal inmates reported having minor children. 50% of those inmates are black men. How can we be good fathers if we are away and institutionalized?  Local Programs for Fathers - ABIMILECHH FOUNDATION   Connect with Fatha Torch:  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fatha_torch/ Website: www.fathatorch.com Loved this episode? Leave us a review and rating here:   Podchaser , Listen Notes Buy me a coffee or send a CashApp $RAHG76  Want to be a sponsor or guest on the podcast? Email me at fathatorch@gmail.com  Other episodes you'll enjoy: What Men Fear the Most | FATHA TORCH Overcoming the ”You Ain’t Shit” Narrative in Co-Parenting | FATHA TORCH Are You a Good Father? It All Comes Down to This | FATHA TORCH   Podcast Like a Pro! Riverside.FM Promo Code JAZZYCAST for 15% off Remote Recording  JazzCastPros.com for help launching, branding or editing your podcast.   Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Sun, 19 Mar 2023 16:46:17 -0000 Any Fool Can Make a Baby full 1 15 Rah Hudson Ep. 15 Your dad was an asshole, alcoholic, abuser or just not around to teach you how to be a good man right? So it's up to us the be the change we wish to see in the next generation of fathers. I was surrounded by men who were a waste of time, women... Ep. 15 Your dad was an asshole, alcoholic, abuser or just not around to teach you how to be a good man right? So it's up to us the be the change we wish to see in the next generation of fathers. I was surrounded by men who were a waste of time, women who blocked the teaching of fatherhood, and people who were more excited to see a stranger than me. I realized I needed to learn how to be patient with my children, treasure them, protect them from emotional and mental harm, and always be real with them.  In this episode, you will learn the following: 1. How can you be the dad you wish you had without a good example? 2. What does it take for fathers who are not in the home to create a balanced family for their children? 3. What can we do to overcome the pain of our own past trauma in order to be a better father?   RESOURCES Incarcerated Fathers Statistics  63% of federal inmates reported having minor children. 50% of those inmates are black men. How can we be good fathers if we are away and institutionalized?  Local Programs for Fathers - ABIMILECHH FOUNDATION   Connect with Fatha Torch:  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fatha_torch/ Website: www.fathatorch.com Loved this episode? Leave us a review and rating here:   Podchaser , Listen Notes Buy me a coffee or send a CashApp $RAHG76  Want to be a sponsor or guest on the podcast? Email me at fathatorch@gmail.com  Other episodes you'll enjoy: What Men Fear the Most | FATHA TORCH Overcoming the ”You Ain’t Shit” Narrative in Co-Parenting | FATHA TORCH Are You a Good Father? It All Comes Down to This | FATHA TORCH   Podcast Like a Pro! Riverside.FM Promo Code JAZZYCAST for 15% off Remote Recording  JazzCastPros.com for help launching, branding or editing your podcast.   Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Ep. 15 Your dad was an asshole, alcoholic, abuser or just not around to teach you how to be a good man right? So it's up to us the be the change we wish to see in the next generation of fathers.

I was surrounded by men who were a waste of time, women who blocked the teaching of fatherhood, and people who were more excited to see a stranger than me.

I realized I needed to learn how to be patient with my children, treasure them, protect them from emotional and mental harm, and always be real with them. 

In this episode, you will learn the following:
1. How can you be the dad you wish you had without a good example?
2. What does it take for fathers who are not in the home to create a balanced family for their children?
3. What can we do to overcome the pain of our own past trauma in order to be a better father?

 

RESOURCES

Incarcerated Fathers Statistics 

63% of federal inmates reported having minor children. 50% of those inmates are black men. How can we be good fathers if we are away and institutionalized? 

Local Programs for Fathers - ABIMILECHH FOUNDATION

 

Connect with Fatha Torch: 

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fatha_torch/
Website: www.fathatorch.com

Loved this episode? Leave us a review and rating here: 

 Podchaser , Listen Notes

Buy me a coffee or send a CashApp $RAHG76 

Want to be a sponsor or guest on the podcast?

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Other episodes you'll enjoy:

What Men Fear the Most | FATHA TORCH

Overcoming the ”You Ain’t Shit” Narrative in Co-Parenting | FATHA TORCH

Are You a Good Father? It All Comes Down to This | FATHA TORCH

 

Podcast Like a Pro!

Riverside.FM Promo Code JAZZYCAST for 15% off Remote Recording 

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]]> 1566 no What Men Fear the Most https://www.fathatorch.com/e/facing-fear-the-wall-we-built-to-protect-must-be-destroyed/ Ep 14 Men fear being unable to provide, being questioned as fathers, and being unable to protect our loved ones. Men often express fear in destructive ways such as aggression and anger, instead of vulnerability. As men we must be mindful of how we express our fear, as it can stifle the growth of relationships and cause resentment. Instead of relying on fear, we should focus on pouring love and protection into our relationships. "Love and fear are true motivation. It's only reason why we do anything." In this episode, you will learn the following: 1. What is the true motivation behind a man's actions. 2. How can fathers prevent themselves from stifling their children's growth? 3. How can fathers build meaningful connections with their partner while still setting boundaries and limits?   Connect with Fatha Torch:  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fatha_torch/ Website: www.fathatorch.com Loved this episode? Leave us a review and rating here:   Podchaser Listen Notes Buy me a coffee or send a CashApp $RAHG76  Want to be a sponsor or guest on the podcast? Email me at fathatorch@gmail.com  Other episodes you'll enjoy: Abolish Fear-Based Assumptions in 2023 | FATHA TORCH Overcoming the ”You Ain’t Shit” Narrative in Co-Parenting | FATHA TORCH Are You a Good Father? It All Comes Down to This | FATHA TORCH   Podcast Like a Pro! Riverside.FM Promo Code JAZZYCAST for 15% off Remote Recording  JazzCastPros.com for help launching, branding or editing your podcast. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Sun, 05 Mar 2023 23:52:24 -0000 What Men Fear the Most full 2 14 Rah Hudson Ep 14 Men fear being unable to provide, being questioned as fathers, and being unable to protect our loved ones. Men often express fear in destructive ways such as aggression and anger, instead of vulnerability. As men we must be mindful of how we ex... Ep 14 Men fear being unable to provide, being questioned as fathers, and being unable to protect our loved ones. Men often express fear in destructive ways such as aggression and anger, instead of vulnerability. As men we must be mindful of how we express our fear, as it can stifle the growth of relationships and cause resentment. Instead of relying on fear, we should focus on pouring love and protection into our relationships. "Love and fear are true motivation. It's only reason why we do anything." In this episode, you will learn the following: 1. What is the true motivation behind a man's actions. 2. How can fathers prevent themselves from stifling their children's growth? 3. How can fathers build meaningful connections with their partner while still setting boundaries and limits?   Connect with Fatha Torch:  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fatha_torch/ Website: www.fathatorch.com Loved this episode? Leave us a review and rating here:   Podchaser Listen Notes Buy me a coffee or send a CashApp $RAHG76  Want to be a sponsor or guest on the podcast? Email me at fathatorch@gmail.com  Other episodes you'll enjoy: Abolish Fear-Based Assumptions in 2023 | FATHA TORCH Overcoming the ”You Ain’t Shit” Narrative in Co-Parenting | FATHA TORCH Are You a Good Father? It All Comes Down to This | FATHA TORCH   Podcast Like a Pro! Riverside.FM Promo Code JAZZYCAST for 15% off Remote Recording  JazzCastPros.com for help launching, branding or editing your podcast. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Ep 14 Men fear being unable to provide, being questioned as fathers, and being unable to protect our loved ones. Men often express fear in destructive ways such as aggression and anger, instead of vulnerability. As men we must be mindful of how we express our fear, as it can stifle the growth of relationships and cause resentment. Instead of relying on fear, we should focus on pouring love and protection into our relationships.

"Love and fear are true motivation. It's only reason why we do anything."

In this episode, you will learn the following:
1. What is the true motivation behind a man's actions.
2. How can fathers prevent themselves from stifling their children's growth?
3. How can fathers build meaningful connections with their partner while still setting boundaries and limits?

 

Connect with Fatha Torch: 

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fatha_torch/
Website: www.fathatorch.com


Loved this episode? Leave us a review and rating here: 

 Podchaser

Listen Notes

Buy me a coffee or send a CashApp $RAHG76 

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Other episodes you'll enjoy:

Abolish Fear-Based Assumptions in 2023 | FATHA TORCH

Overcoming the ”You Ain’t Shit” Narrative in Co-Parenting | FATHA TORCH

Are You a Good Father? It All Comes Down to This | FATHA TORCH

 

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]]> 1835 no Are You a Good Father? It All Comes Down to This https://www.jazzcastpros.com/fatha-torch-podcast Ep. 13 I was once plagued by the question, "Am I a good father?" I asked myself if I was a good man and what it meant to be a good father. After much thought and research, I realized that being a good father means having principles and characteristics such as protecting, loving, reasoning and being patient. It also means being willing to learn and humble yourself, while also being teachable and understanding of your child's mother. Being a good father is more than just providing and setting boundaries - it's about being honest, understanding and recognizing your role in your child's life. I now strive to be the best father I can be and to leave a legacy of love, respect and understanding. In this episode, you will learn the following: 1. What are the characteristics of a good father? 2. How can men build relationships with women who have children from previous relationships? 3. What makes a bad father and how can bad fathers make amends? Resources: Buy me a coffee or send a CashApp $RAHG76  Want to be a sponsor or guest on the podcast? Email me at fathatorch@gmail.com  Other episodes you'll enjoy: Overcoming the ”You Ain’t Shit” Narrative in Co-Parenting | FATHA TORCH Letter to My Youngest Son | FATHA TORCH Qualities of a Father with an Ungrateful Child | FATHA TORCH Connect with me:  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fatha_torch/ Website: www.fathatorch.com Loved this episode? Leave us a review and rating here:   Podchaser Listen Notes Chapter Summaries: [00:00:00] Father Torch is a podcast to help new and renew fathers cope with anxiety and stress. My mission is to help you reclaim your power and ease your concerns about being a father in today's social climate. What do we do to define a good father? [00:00:43] Today's episode "Are you a good father?" What is the definition or characteristic of meaning of a good dad? To be a good man, you must have these principles. [00:04:40] Most of the women or most women that we are engaged with carry 100% of the past relationships. As manhood, man of the house, you must know how to set the laws and rules. A good man, a good father first is patient and always listening. And always willing to learn. [00:12:28] Bad fathers are the ones who do not want to learn or have not learned their lesson. Good father, bad father, you are still a father. You still have a chance and have the ability to be the best of the best father that you wish you had. [00:20:05] The biggest trend that I see now with fathers and fatherhood is that they got such a fight to to try to be in the children's life. Some of us fall for it. And we end up hurt, broke, it, destruct, bitter, angry. A good father, a bad father is still a father. [00:26:19] Fathers must get with other fathers. You never raise a child by yourself. It's always a village. But because we've fallen short on this, especially our black men, our brown men, we are falling short in the elders department. We can upgrade our fathering skills. [00:28:51] Let's make 23 the year of reconcile. The year of forgiveness. The year of just doing right. Check me out again next Sunday. www.Fathatorch. com    Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Sun, 19 Feb 2023 15:33:00 -0000 Are You a Good Father? It All Comes Down to This full 2 13 Rah Hudson I asked myself if I was a good man and what it meant to be a good father. Ep. 13 I was once plagued by the question, "Am I a good father?" I asked myself if I was a good man and what it meant to be a good father. After much thought and research, I realized that being a good father means having principles and characteristics such as protecting, loving, reasoning and being patient. It also means being willing to learn and humble yourself, while also being teachable and understanding of your child's mother. Being a good father is more than just providing and setting boundaries - it's about being honest, understanding and recognizing your role in your child's life. I now strive to be the best father I can be and to leave a legacy of love, respect and understanding. In this episode, you will learn the following: 1. What are the characteristics of a good father? 2. How can men build relationships with women who have children from previous relationships? 3. What makes a bad father and how can bad fathers make amends? Resources: Buy me a coffee or send a CashApp $RAHG76  Want to be a sponsor or guest on the podcast? Email me at fathatorch@gmail.com  Other episodes you'll enjoy: Overcoming the ”You Ain’t Shit” Narrative in Co-Parenting | FATHA TORCH Letter to My Youngest Son | FATHA TORCH Qualities of a Father with an Ungrateful Child | FATHA TORCH Connect with me:  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fatha_torch/ Website: www.fathatorch.com Loved this episode? Leave us a review and rating here:   Podchaser Listen Notes Chapter Summaries: [00:00:00] Father Torch is a podcast to help new and renew fathers cope with anxiety and stress. My mission is to help you reclaim your power and ease your concerns about being a father in today's social climate. What do we do to define a good father? [00:00:43] Today's episode "Are you a good father?" What is the definition or characteristic of meaning of a good dad? To be a good man, you must have these principles. [00:04:40] Most of the women or most women that we are engaged with carry 100% of the past relationships. As manhood, man of the house, you must know how to set the laws and rules. A good man, a good father first is patient and always listening. And always willing to learn. [00:12:28] Bad fathers are the ones who do not want to learn or have not learned their lesson. Good father, bad father, you are still a father. You still have a chance and have the ability to be the best of the best father that you wish you had. [00:20:05] The biggest trend that I see now with fathers and fatherhood is that they got such a fight to to try to be in the children's life. Some of us fall for it. And we end up hurt, broke, it, destruct, bitter, angry. A good father, a bad father is still a father. [00:26:19] Fathers must get with other fathers. You never raise a child by yourself. It's always a village. But because we've fallen short on this, especially our black men, our brown men, we are falling short in the elders department. We can upgrade our fathering skills. [00:28:51] Let's make 23 the year of reconcile. The year of forgiveness. The year of just doing right. Check me out again next Sunday. www.Fathatorch. com    Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Ep. 13 I was once plagued by the question, "Am I a good father?" I asked myself if I was a good man and what it meant to be a good father.

After much thought and research, I realized that being a good father means having principles and characteristics such as protecting, loving, reasoning and being patient. It also means being willing to learn and humble yourself, while also being teachable and understanding of your child's mother.

Being a good father is more than just providing and setting boundaries - it's about being honest, understanding and recognizing your role in your child's life. I now strive to be the best father I can be and to leave a legacy of love, respect and understanding.

In this episode, you will learn the following:

1. What are the characteristics of a good father?

2. How can men build relationships with women who have children from previous relationships?

3. What makes a bad father and how can bad fathers make amends?

Resources:

Buy me a coffee or send a CashApp $RAHG76 

Want to be a sponsor or guest on the podcast?

Email me at fathatorch@gmail.com 


Other episodes you'll enjoy:

Overcoming the ”You Ain’t Shit” Narrative in Co-Parenting | FATHA TORCH

Letter to My Youngest Son | FATHA TORCH

Qualities of a Father with an Ungrateful Child | FATHA TORCH

Connect with me: 

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fatha_torch/

Website: www.fathatorch.com

Loved this episode? Leave us a review and rating here: 

 Podchaser

Listen Notes


Chapter Summaries:

[00:00:00]

Father Torch is a podcast to help new and renew fathers cope with anxiety and stress. My mission is to help you reclaim your power and ease your concerns about being a father in today's social climate. What do we do to define a good father? [00:00:43]

Today's episode "Are you a good father?" What is the definition or characteristic of meaning of a good dad? To be a good man, you must have these principles. [00:04:40]

Most of the women or most women that we are engaged with carry 100% of the past relationships. As manhood, man of the house, you must know how to set the laws and rules. A good man, a good father first is patient and always listening. And always willing to learn. [00:12:28]

Bad fathers are the ones who do not want to learn or have not learned their lesson. Good father, bad father, you are still a father. You still have a chance and have the ability to be the best of the best father that you wish you had. [00:20:05]

The biggest trend that I see now with fathers and fatherhood is that they got such a fight to to try to be in the children's life. Some of us fall for it. And we end up hurt, broke, it, destruct, bitter, angry. A good father, a bad father is still a father. [00:26:19]

Fathers must get with other fathers. You never raise a child by yourself. It's always a village. But because we've fallen short on this, especially our black men, our brown men, we are falling short in the elders department. We can upgrade our fathering skills. [00:28:51]

Let's make 23 the year of reconcile. The year of forgiveness. The year of just doing right. Check me out again next Sunday. www.Fathatorch. com 

 

Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

]]> 1971 no Developing Healthier Relationships with Kelly Marie of Healthy Illness Podcast (Part 2) https://www.fathatorch.com/e/developing-healthier-relationships-with-kelly-marie-of-healthy-illness-podcast-part-2/ Ep. 12 In part 2 of his conversation with Kelly Marie, we embark on a journey of self-discovery, learning how to embrace anger, forgive those who have hurt you and relinquish guilt while navigating the complexities of relationships with parents, siblings and even other people who are living with mental health conditions.  In this episode we discuss: 1. How art and old cartoons can help you cope with depression. 2. How to identify and let go of pent-up aggression. 3. How to move past guilt and forgive oneself for the damage caused by anger.   Listen to part 1 of this conversation with Kelly Marie on Healthy Illness Podcast right here on the JazzCast Pros Network. Mental Health Resources  Call 211 or visit www.211.org for help finding public services in your area Suicide Prevention Helpline has someone for you to talk to 24/7 call  988 Text GO to 741741 to reach a trained crisis counselor.    Other episodes you'll enjoy: Better Relationships Come from Within: Self-Love and Forgiveness| Healthy Illness Finding Purpose and Reclaiming Fatherhood in 2023 | Fatha Torch The Other Side of Depression with Carl Binger and Joel Lesses | Fatha Torch   Leave a review for Fatha Torch Podcast on Podchaser. Buy me a coffee or send a CashApp $RAHG76  Follow me on Instagram @Fatha_Torch Want to be a sponsor or guest on the podcast? Email me at fathatorch@gmail.com  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Sat, 28 Jan 2023 22:59:30 -0000 Developing Healthier Relationships with Kelly Marie of Healthy Illness Podcast (Part 2) full 1 12 Rah Hudson Ep. 12 In part 2 of his conversation with Kelly Marie, we embark on a journey of self-discovery, learning how to embrace anger, forgive those who have hurt you and relinquish guilt while navigating the complexities of relationships with parents, sibl... Ep. 12 In part 2 of his conversation with Kelly Marie, we embark on a journey of self-discovery, learning how to embrace anger, forgive those who have hurt you and relinquish guilt while navigating the complexities of relationships with parents, siblings and even other people who are living with mental health conditions.  In this episode we discuss: 1. How art and old cartoons can help you cope with depression. 2. How to identify and let go of pent-up aggression. 3. How to move past guilt and forgive oneself for the damage caused by anger.   Listen to part 1 of this conversation with Kelly Marie on Healthy Illness Podcast right here on the JazzCast Pros Network. Mental Health Resources  Call 211 or visit www.211.org for help finding public services in your area Suicide Prevention Helpline has someone for you to talk to 24/7 call  988 Text GO to 741741 to reach a trained crisis counselor.    Other episodes you'll enjoy: Better Relationships Come from Within: Self-Love and Forgiveness| Healthy Illness Finding Purpose and Reclaiming Fatherhood in 2023 | Fatha Torch The Other Side of Depression with Carl Binger and Joel Lesses | Fatha Torch   Leave a review for Fatha Torch Podcast on Podchaser. Buy me a coffee or send a CashApp $RAHG76  Follow me on Instagram @Fatha_Torch Want to be a sponsor or guest on the podcast? Email me at fathatorch@gmail.com  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Ep. 12 In part 2 of his conversation with Kelly Marie, we embark on a journey of self-discovery, learning how to embrace anger, forgive those who have hurt you and relinquish guilt while navigating the complexities of relationships with parents, siblings and even other people who are living with mental health conditions. 

In this episode we discuss:
1. How art and old cartoons can help you cope with depression.
2. How to identify and let go of pent-up aggression.
3. How to move past guilt and forgive oneself for the damage caused by anger.

 

Listen to part 1 of this conversation with Kelly Marie on Healthy Illness Podcast right here on the JazzCast Pros Network.


Mental Health Resources 

Call 211 or visit www.211.org for help finding public services in your area

Suicide Prevention Helpline has someone for you to talk to 24/7 call  988

Text GO to 741741 to reach a trained crisis counselor. 

 

Other episodes you'll enjoy:

Better Relationships Come from Within: Self-Love and Forgiveness| Healthy Illness

Finding Purpose and Reclaiming Fatherhood in 2023 | Fatha Torch

The Other Side of Depression with Carl Binger and Joel Lesses | Fatha Torch

 

Leave a review for Fatha Torch Podcast on Podchaser.

Buy me a coffee or send a CashApp $RAHG76 

Follow me on Instagram @Fatha_Torch

Want to be a sponsor or guest on the podcast?

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]]> 2322 no Finding Purpose and Reclaiming Fatherhood in 2023 https://www.fathatorch.com/e/finding-purpose-and-reclaiming-fatherhood-in-2023/ Episode 11: About last year.... Have faith in yourself. Believe in your abilities to make ends meet, to strive. Lower your pride and lower your ego, that you may do better this year. In this episode, you will learn the following: What are the double standards men face in today's social climate, and what can fathers do to help themselves and their children? How can fathers practice self-love, gratitude, and protect their families in the midst of a chaotic world? What can fathers do to empower their children and provide them with the tools to succeed, even when they are no longer around? Last year was a year of depression, hopelessness, and disparities, particularly for men. Fathers need to practice healthy habits, self-love, and gratitude to be a successful father. We should give our children the tools they need to succeed and guard them, but not helicopter over them. We must practice what we preach, take charge of ourselves, and be men of the time to be successful in this ever-changing world.   CONTACT THE HOST: FathaTorch@gmail.com www.FathaTorch.com   OTHER EPISODE YOU'LL ENJOY Abolish Fear-Based Assumptions in 2023 | Fatha Torch Emotional Exhaustion: Coping with the Stress of Fatherhood | Fatha Torch Overcoming the ”You Ain’t Shit” Narrative in Co-Parenting | Fatha Torch God’s Plan: Breaking Bad Habits with Rose Ann Forte | Healthy Illness  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Sun, 15 Jan 2023 21:20:45 -0000 Finding Purpose and Reclaiming Fatherhood in 2023 full 1 11 Rah Hudson Episode 11: About last year.... Have faith in yourself. Believe in your abilities to make ends meet, to strive. Lower your pride and lower your ego, that you may do better this year. In this episode, you will learn the following: What are the double... Episode 11: About last year.... Have faith in yourself. Believe in your abilities to make ends meet, to strive. Lower your pride and lower your ego, that you may do better this year. In this episode, you will learn the following: What are the double standards men face in today's social climate, and what can fathers do to help themselves and their children? How can fathers practice self-love, gratitude, and protect their families in the midst of a chaotic world? What can fathers do to empower their children and provide them with the tools to succeed, even when they are no longer around? Last year was a year of depression, hopelessness, and disparities, particularly for men. Fathers need to practice healthy habits, self-love, and gratitude to be a successful father. We should give our children the tools they need to succeed and guard them, but not helicopter over them. We must practice what we preach, take charge of ourselves, and be men of the time to be successful in this ever-changing world.   CONTACT THE HOST: FathaTorch@gmail.com www.FathaTorch.com   OTHER EPISODE YOU'LL ENJOY Abolish Fear-Based Assumptions in 2023 | Fatha Torch Emotional Exhaustion: Coping with the Stress of Fatherhood | Fatha Torch Overcoming the ”You Ain’t Shit” Narrative in Co-Parenting | Fatha Torch God’s Plan: Breaking Bad Habits with Rose Ann Forte | Healthy Illness  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Episode 11: About last year.... Have faith in yourself. Believe in your abilities to make ends meet, to strive. Lower your pride and lower your ego, that you may do better this year.

In this episode, you will learn the following:

  1. What are the double standards men face in today's social climate, and what can fathers do to help themselves and their children?
  2. How can fathers practice self-love, gratitude, and protect their families in the midst of a chaotic world?
  3. What can fathers do to empower their children and provide them with the tools to succeed, even when they are no longer around?

Last year was a year of depression, hopelessness, and disparities, particularly for men. Fathers need to practice healthy habits, self-love, and gratitude to be a successful father. We should give our children the tools they need to succeed and guard them, but not helicopter over them. We must practice what we preach, take charge of ourselves, and be men of the time to be successful in this ever-changing world.

 

CONTACT THE HOST: FathaTorch@gmail.com www.FathaTorch.com

 

OTHER EPISODE YOU'LL ENJOY

Abolish Fear-Based Assumptions in 2023 | Fatha Torch

Emotional Exhaustion: Coping with the Stress of Fatherhood | Fatha Torch

Overcoming the ”You Ain’t Shit” Narrative in Co-Parenting | Fatha Torch

God’s Plan: Breaking Bad Habits with Rose Ann Forte | Healthy Illness 

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]]> 1624 no Emotional Exhaustion: Coping with the Stress of Fatherhood https://www.fathatorch.com/e/emotional-exhaustion-coping-with-the-stress-of-fatherhood/ Ep. 10 Emotional exhaustions amongst men can lead to depression and suicide. It is essential to recognize our mental exhaustion and make sure we are taking care of ourselves and our loved ones who are suffering in silence. I am here to offer support and to listen to my brothers and sisters. I want to help them find healthy outlets to cope with anxiety and stress and to be the dad they wish they had. My mission is to help you reclaim their power and to prevent you from taking your own life. I am willing to provide a light in your darkest times and listen to whatever is on your heart. Email me at FathaTorch@gmail.com www.FathaTorch.com I am here, Ra   Loved this episode? Leave us a review and rating here:   Podchaser , Listen Notes Buy me a coffee or send a CashApp $RAHG76    OTHER EPISODE YOU'LL ENJOY Abolish Fear-Based Assumptions in 2023 | Fatha Torch Overcoming the ”You Ain’t Shit” Narrative in Co-Parenting | Fatha Torch Heart of the Hustle | a podcast to help turn your Hustle into a Legal Business   Podcast Like a Pro! Riverside.FM Promo Code JAZZYCAST for 15% off Remote Recording  JazzCastPros.com for help launching, branding or editing your podcast.   Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Sat, 31 Dec 2022 22:21:50 -0000 Emotional Exhaustion: Coping with the Stress of Fatherhood full 1 10 Rah Hudson Ep. 10 Emotional exhaustions amongst men can lead to depression and suicide. It is essential to recognize our mental exhaustion and make sure we are taking care of ourselves and our loved ones who are suffering in silence. I am here to offer support ... Ep. 10 Emotional exhaustions amongst men can lead to depression and suicide. It is essential to recognize our mental exhaustion and make sure we are taking care of ourselves and our loved ones who are suffering in silence. I am here to offer support and to listen to my brothers and sisters. I want to help them find healthy outlets to cope with anxiety and stress and to be the dad they wish they had. My mission is to help you reclaim their power and to prevent you from taking your own life. I am willing to provide a light in your darkest times and listen to whatever is on your heart. Email me at FathaTorch@gmail.com www.FathaTorch.com I am here, Ra   Loved this episode? Leave us a review and rating here:   Podchaser , Listen Notes Buy me a coffee or send a CashApp $RAHG76    OTHER EPISODE YOU'LL ENJOY Abolish Fear-Based Assumptions in 2023 | Fatha Torch Overcoming the ”You Ain’t Shit” Narrative in Co-Parenting | Fatha Torch Heart of the Hustle | a podcast to help turn your Hustle into a Legal Business   Podcast Like a Pro! Riverside.FM Promo Code JAZZYCAST for 15% off Remote Recording  JazzCastPros.com for help launching, branding or editing your podcast.   Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Ep. 10 Emotional exhaustions amongst men can lead to depression and suicide. It is essential to recognize our mental exhaustion and make sure we are taking care of ourselves and our loved ones who are suffering in silence.

I am here to offer support and to listen to my brothers and sisters. I want to help them find healthy outlets to cope with anxiety and stress and to be the dad they wish they had. My mission is to help you reclaim their power and to prevent you from taking your own life. I am willing to provide a light in your darkest times and listen to whatever is on your heart.

Email me at FathaTorch@gmail.com

www.FathaTorch.com

I am here, Ra

 

Loved this episode? Leave us a review and rating here: 

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Overcoming the ”You Ain’t Shit” Narrative in Co-Parenting | Fatha Torch

Heart of the Hustle | a podcast to help turn your Hustle into a Legal Business

 

Podcast Like a Pro!

Riverside.FM Promo Code JAZZYCAST for 15% off Remote Recording 

JazzCastPros.com for help launching, branding or editing your podcast.

 

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]]> 1201 no Overcoming the ”You Ain’t Shit” Narrative in Co-Parenting https://www.fathatorch.com/e/overcoming-the-you-ain-t-shit-narrative-in-co-parenting/ Ep. 8  As the father of nine children, I've been through a lot. From being told I'm not worth the skin I'm in to having my child kept from me. I'm constantly reminded of how I'm not a "real man" or that I'm not going to amount to anything. Here's what I cover in this episode: 1. What are the consequences of a father being told "You Ain't Shit" by their child's mother? 2. What are the double standards in regard to male and female parenting? 3. How can parents work together to provide the best development for their children?   RIVERSIDE.FM This episode is supported by Riverside.fm, the leading platform to record studio quality audio or video podcasts. Visit Riverside.FM and use promo code JAZZYCAST to get 2 HOURS of FREE Remote recording and 15% off a membership plan.   CONNECT WITH FATHA TORCH Follow Fatha Torch on Spotify  Rate Fatha Torch on Apple Podcast Buy me a coffee or send a CashApp $RAHG76 to show this support. Leave a review on Podchaser. Follow me on Instagram @Fatha_Torch   Want to be a sponsor or guest on the podcast? Email me at fathatorch@gmail.com    CREDITS Hosted by Rah Produced & Edited by JazzCast Pros Music "Lover's Rock" by All Good Folks   Other Episodes You'll Enjoy The Other Side of Depression with Carl Binger & Joel Lesses Letter to My Youngest Son | Fatha Torch  I Want My Skin Back: living with BPD | Living the Front Seat Life     Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Sun, 04 Dec 2022 17:56:24 -0000 Overcoming the ”You Ain’t Shit” Narrative in Co-Parenting full 1 8 Rah Hudson Ep. 8  As the father of nine children, I've been through a lot. From being told I'm not worth the skin I'm in to having my child kept from me. I'm constantly reminded of how I'm not a "real man" or that I'm not going to amount to anything. Here's wha... Ep. 8  As the father of nine children, I've been through a lot. From being told I'm not worth the skin I'm in to having my child kept from me. I'm constantly reminded of how I'm not a "real man" or that I'm not going to amount to anything. Here's what I cover in this episode: 1. What are the consequences of a father being told "You Ain't Shit" by their child's mother? 2. What are the double standards in regard to male and female parenting? 3. How can parents work together to provide the best development for their children?   RIVERSIDE.FM This episode is supported by Riverside.fm, the leading platform to record studio quality audio or video podcasts. Visit Riverside.FM and use promo code JAZZYCAST to get 2 HOURS of FREE Remote recording and 15% off a membership plan.   CONNECT WITH FATHA TORCH Follow Fatha Torch on Spotify  Rate Fatha Torch on Apple Podcast Buy me a coffee or send a CashApp $RAHG76 to show this support. Leave a review on Podchaser. Follow me on Instagram @Fatha_Torch   Want to be a sponsor or guest on the podcast? Email me at fathatorch@gmail.com    CREDITS Hosted by Rah Produced & Edited by JazzCast Pros Music "Lover's Rock" by All Good Folks   Other Episodes You'll Enjoy The Other Side of Depression with Carl Binger & Joel Lesses Letter to My Youngest Son | Fatha Torch  I Want My Skin Back: living with BPD | Living the Front Seat Life     Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Ep. 8  As the father of nine children, I've been through a lot. From being told I'm not worth the skin I'm in to having my child kept from me. I'm constantly reminded of how I'm not a "real man" or that I'm not going to amount to anything.

Here's what I cover in this episode:
1. What are the consequences of a father being told "You Ain't Shit" by their child's mother?

2. What are the double standards in regard to male and female parenting?
3. How can parents work together to provide the best development for their children?

 

RIVERSIDE.FM

This episode is supported by Riverside.fm, the leading platform to record studio quality audio or video podcasts. Visit Riverside.FM and use promo code JAZZYCAST to get 2 HOURS of FREE Remote recording and 15% off a membership plan.

 

CONNECT WITH FATHA TORCH Follow Fatha Torch on Spotify  Rate Fatha Torch on Apple Podcast Buy me a coffee or send a CashApp $RAHG76 to show this support. Leave a review on Podchaser. Follow me on Instagram @Fatha_Torch   Want to be a sponsor or guest on the podcast? Email me at fathatorch@gmail.com    CREDITS Hosted by Rah Produced & Edited by JazzCast Pros Music "Lover's Rock" by All Good Folks

 

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The Other Side of Depression with Carl Binger & Joel Lesses

Letter to My Youngest Son | Fatha Torch 

I Want My Skin Back: living with BPD | Living the Front Seat Life

 

 

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]]> 2013 no Letter to My Youngest Son https://www.fathatorch.com/e/letter-to-my-youngest-son/ Ep. 7 Young men today are depressed, lonely, low self-esteem, withdrawn, angry, confused. I was talking to my son this morning about his self-esteem, and he told me that he thinks he's average. I had to explain to him that he is worthy of my love and that he is not a mistake. In this episode, you will learn: 1. The importance of talking to your children about self-esteem, self-worth, and love. 2. How a child's low self-esteem can impact their future. 3. The power of being a father and the responsibility that comes with it.   CONNECT WITH FATHA TORCH Follow Fatha Torch on Spotify  Rate Fatha Torch on Apple Podcast Buy me a coffee or send a CashApp $RAHG76 to show this support. Leave a review on Podchaser. Follow me on Instagram @Fatha_Torch   Want to be a sponsor or guest on the podcast? Email me at fathatorch@gmail.com    CREDITS Hosted by Rah Produced & Edited by JazzCast Pros Music "Lover's Rock" by All Good Folks   Other Episodes You'll Enjoy The Other Side of Depression with Carl Binger & Joel Lesses Handle Stress Before It Handles You | Living the Front Seat Life Podcast  Is Fatherhood Broken? A Father’s Confession   RIVERSIDE.FM This episode is supported by Riverside.fm, the leading platform to record studio quality audio or video podcasts. Visit Riverside.FM and use promo code JAZZYCAST to get 2 HOURS of FREE Remore recording and 15% off a membership plan.     Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Sun, 20 Nov 2022 16:12:37 -0000 Letter to My Youngest Son full 1 7 Rah Hudson Ep. 7 Young men today are depressed, lonely, low self-esteem, withdrawn, angry, confused. I was talking to my son this morning about his self-esteem, and he told me that he thinks he's average. I had to explain to him that he is worthy of my love and... Ep. 7 Young men today are depressed, lonely, low self-esteem, withdrawn, angry, confused. I was talking to my son this morning about his self-esteem, and he told me that he thinks he's average. I had to explain to him that he is worthy of my love and that he is not a mistake. In this episode, you will learn: 1. The importance of talking to your children about self-esteem, self-worth, and love. 2. How a child's low self-esteem can impact their future. 3. The power of being a father and the responsibility that comes with it.   CONNECT WITH FATHA TORCH Follow Fatha Torch on Spotify  Rate Fatha Torch on Apple Podcast Buy me a coffee or send a CashApp $RAHG76 to show this support. Leave a review on Podchaser. Follow me on Instagram @Fatha_Torch   Want to be a sponsor or guest on the podcast? Email me at fathatorch@gmail.com    CREDITS Hosted by Rah Produced & Edited by JazzCast Pros Music "Lover's Rock" by All Good Folks   Other Episodes You'll Enjoy The Other Side of Depression with Carl Binger & Joel Lesses Handle Stress Before It Handles You | Living the Front Seat Life Podcast  Is Fatherhood Broken? A Father’s Confession   RIVERSIDE.FM This episode is supported by Riverside.fm, the leading platform to record studio quality audio or video podcasts. Visit Riverside.FM and use promo code JAZZYCAST to get 2 HOURS of FREE Remore recording and 15% off a membership plan.     Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Ep. 7 Young men today are depressed, lonely, low self-esteem, withdrawn, angry, confused. I was talking to my son this morning about his self-esteem, and he told me that he thinks he's average. I had to explain to him that he is worthy of my love and that he is not a mistake.

In this episode, you will learn:

1. The importance of talking to your children about self-esteem, self-worth, and love.

2. How a child's low self-esteem can impact their future.

3. The power of being a father and the responsibility that comes with it.

 

CONNECT WITH FATHA TORCH Follow Fatha Torch on Spotify  Rate Fatha Torch on Apple Podcast Buy me a coffee or send a CashApp $RAHG76 to show this support. Leave a review on Podchaser. Follow me on Instagram @Fatha_Torch   Want to be a sponsor or guest on the podcast? Email me at fathatorch@gmail.com    CREDITS Hosted by Rah Produced & Edited by JazzCast Pros Music "Lover's Rock" by All Good Folks

 

Other Episodes You'll Enjoy

The Other Side of Depression with Carl Binger & Joel Lesses

Handle Stress Before It Handles You | Living the Front Seat Life Podcast 

Is Fatherhood Broken? A Father’s Confession

 

RIVERSIDE.FM

This episode is supported by Riverside.fm, the leading platform to record studio quality audio or video podcasts. Visit Riverside.FM and use promo code JAZZYCAST to get 2 HOURS of FREE Remore recording and 15% off a membership plan.

 

 

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]]> 1421 no The Other Side of Depression with Carl Binger and Joel Lesses https://www.fathatorch.com/e/is-he-dumb-or-is-it-something-deeper/ Episode 5 Depression doesn't discriminate - even successful, high-functioning people like Carl Binger and Joel Lesses suffer from it. In this episode of Fatha Torch, they open up about their experiences with depression and how they've found ways to cope and thrive. "Is he just dumb or is it something deeper?" Depression is a serious issue that many people face, but don't often talk about. For men, depression can be especially difficult to deal with due to societal expectations. Journaling and talking to trusted friends or counselors can be helpful in managing depression. In this episode, you will learn the following: 1. Depression is often misunderstood and carries a negative stigma. 2. Depression can be caused by a variety of factors, not just one event or situation. 3. Depression can be helped by journaling, talking to friends or a therapist, and participating in poetry or other forms of art. RESOURCES: Fatha Toch Live Event November 12th 6pm at Charleston House 120 East Main Street, Rochester, NY    Persistent depressive disorder, also called dysthymia (dis-THIE-me-uh), is a continuous, long-term (chronic) form of depression. You may lose interest in normal daily activities, feel hopeless, lack productivity, and have low self-esteem and an overall feeling of inadequacy.   Unraveling Religion on Apple Podcasts  Surviving Depression Podcast on Spotify      ABOUT THE GUESTS: Carl Binger Counselor - LMHC  The father of two sons and the husband of one wife; Carl is the father of one wife and two sons. Having served as a Counseling Pastor at his home church from 2016-2018, Carl began his own private practice on February 14th of this year, specializing in helping individuals who struggle with depression. Carl was under the influence of depression for two years prior to getting the help he needed in the form of medication in 2006. It has been Carl's mission, ever since that time, to help those who struggle alone, to raise awareness about the perils of depression, and to break the stigma associated with depression and its treatment. Having been a counselor since 2014, Carl dreams of eventually running a large counseling center to help those who suffer from depression daily. Joel David Lesses: Director, Counselor at Education Training Center; Writer and Poet; Podcast Producer, Unraveling Religion. Joel Lesses professional background is in educational psychology and counseling for people marginalized by trauma, addiction, and psychological distress, as well as its effects on them, such as homelessness, incarceration, and institutionalization. It is his goal to transform mental health distress into a spiritual marker as well as an opportunity for existential growth. Additionally, Joel is actively involved in Poetry and Literature, both as an educator and a poet, through writing workshops, poetry roundtables, poetry, and the publication of a manuscript.    GET INVOLVED Interact with Fatha Torch LIVE on Podbean Leave a review on Podchaser. Rate Fatha Torch on Apple Podcast Buy me a coffee or send a CashApp $RAHG76 to show this support. Follow me on Instagram @Fatha_Torch Want to be a sponsor or guest on the podcast? Email me at fathatorch@gmail.com    CREDITS Hosted by Rah Produced & Edited by JazzCast Pros Music "Lover's Rock" by All Good Folks Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Sun, 30 Oct 2022 15:58:01 -0000 The Other Side of Depression with Carl Binger and Joel Lesses full 1 5 Rah Hudson Episode 5 Depression doesn't discriminate - even successful, high-functioning people like Carl Binger and Joel Lesses suffer from it. In this episode of Fatha Torch, they open up about their experiences with depression and how they've found ways to c... Episode 5 Depression doesn't discriminate - even successful, high-functioning people like Carl Binger and Joel Lesses suffer from it. In this episode of Fatha Torch, they open up about their experiences with depression and how they've found ways to cope and thrive. "Is he just dumb or is it something deeper?" Depression is a serious issue that many people face, but don't often talk about. For men, depression can be especially difficult to deal with due to societal expectations. Journaling and talking to trusted friends or counselors can be helpful in managing depression. In this episode, you will learn the following: 1. Depression is often misunderstood and carries a negative stigma. 2. Depression can be caused by a variety of factors, not just one event or situation. 3. Depression can be helped by journaling, talking to friends or a therapist, and participating in poetry or other forms of art. RESOURCES: Fatha Toch Live Event November 12th 6pm at Charleston House 120 East Main Street, Rochester, NY    Persistent depressive disorder, also called dysthymia (dis-THIE-me-uh), is a continuous, long-term (chronic) form of depression. You may lose interest in normal daily activities, feel hopeless, lack productivity, and have low self-esteem and an overall feeling of inadequacy.   Unraveling Religion on Apple Podcasts  Surviving Depression Podcast on Spotify      ABOUT THE GUESTS: Carl Binger Counselor - LMHC  The father of two sons and the husband of one wife; Carl is the father of one wife and two sons. Having served as a Counseling Pastor at his home church from 2016-2018, Carl began his own private practice on February 14th of this year, specializing in helping individuals who struggle with depression. Carl was under the influence of depression for two years prior to getting the help he needed in the form of medication in 2006. It has been Carl's mission, ever since that time, to help those who struggle alone, to raise awareness about the perils of depression, and to break the stigma associated with depression and its treatment. Having been a counselor since 2014, Carl dreams of eventually running a large counseling center to help those who suffer from depression daily. Joel David Lesses: Director, Counselor at Education Training Center; Writer and Poet; Podcast Producer, Unraveling Religion. Joel Lesses professional background is in educational psychology and counseling for people marginalized by trauma, addiction, and psychological distress, as well as its effects on them, such as homelessness, incarceration, and institutionalization. It is his goal to transform mental health distress into a spiritual marker as well as an opportunity for existential growth. Additionally, Joel is actively involved in Poetry and Literature, both as an educator and a poet, through writing workshops, poetry roundtables, poetry, and the publication of a manuscript.    GET INVOLVED Interact with Fatha Torch LIVE on Podbean Leave a review on Podchaser. Rate Fatha Torch on Apple Podcast Buy me a coffee or send a CashApp $RAHG76 to show this support. Follow me on Instagram @Fatha_Torch Want to be a sponsor or guest on the podcast? Email me at fathatorch@gmail.com    CREDITS Hosted by Rah Produced & Edited by JazzCast Pros Music "Lover's Rock" by All Good Folks Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Episode 5 Depression doesn't discriminate - even successful, high-functioning people like Carl Binger and Joel Lesses suffer from it. In this episode of Fatha Torch, they open up about their experiences with depression and how they've found ways to cope and thrive.

"Is he just dumb or is it something deeper?"

Depression is a serious issue that many people face, but don't often talk about. For men, depression can be especially difficult to deal with due to societal expectations. Journaling and talking to trusted friends or counselors can be helpful in managing depression.

In this episode, you will learn the following:
1. Depression is often misunderstood and carries a negative stigma.
2. Depression can be caused by a variety of factors, not just one event or situation.
3. Depression can be helped by journaling, talking to friends or a therapist, and participating in poetry or other forms of art.


RESOURCES:

Fatha Toch Live Event November 12th 6pm at Charleston House 120 East Main Street, Rochester, NY 

 

Persistent depressive disorder, also called dysthymia (dis-THIE-me-uh), is a continuous, long-term (chronic) form of depression. You may lose interest in normal daily activities, feel hopeless, lack productivity, and have low self-esteem and an overall feeling of inadequacy.

 

Unraveling Religion on Apple Podcasts 

Surviving Depression Podcast on Spotify 

 

 

ABOUT THE GUESTS:

Carl Binger Counselor - LMHC

 The father of two sons and the husband of one wife; Carl is the father of one wife and two sons. Having served as a Counseling Pastor at his home church from 2016-2018, Carl began his own private practice on February 14th of this year, specializing in helping individuals who struggle with depression. Carl was under the influence of depression for two years prior to getting the help he needed in the form of medication in 2006. It has been Carl's mission, ever since that time, to help those who struggle alone, to raise awareness about the perils of depression, and to break the stigma associated with depression and its treatment. Having been a counselor since 2014, Carl dreams of eventually running a large counseling center to help those who suffer from depression daily.



Joel David Lesses: Director, Counselor at Education Training Center; Writer and Poet; Podcast Producer, Unraveling Religion.

Joel Lesses professional background is in educational psychology and counseling for people marginalized by trauma, addiction, and psychological distress, as well as its effects on them, such as homelessness, incarceration, and institutionalization. It is his goal to transform mental health distress into a spiritual marker as well as an opportunity for existential growth. Additionally, Joel is actively involved in Poetry and Literature, both as an educator and a poet, through writing workshops, poetry roundtables, poetry, and the publication of a manuscript. 

 

GET INVOLVED Interact with Fatha Torch LIVE on Podbean Leave a review on Podchaser. Rate Fatha Torch on Apple Podcast Buy me a coffee or send a CashApp $RAHG76 to show this support. Follow me on Instagram @Fatha_Torch Want to be a sponsor or guest on the podcast? Email me at fathatorch@gmail.com    CREDITS Hosted by Rah Produced & Edited by JazzCast Pros Music "Lover's Rock" by All Good Folks

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]]> 2432 no Spiritual Side of Fatherhood / Unraveling Religion with Joel Lesses https://www.fathatorch.com/e/spiritual-side-of-fatherhood-unraveling-religion-with-joel-lesses/ Episode 4  Unraveling Religion podcast host Joel Lesses sits down with Rah to discuss the personal life of fathers and the spiritual side of parenting. Rah expresses his deep desire to improve the quality of life for fathers, and children and the true meaning of 'Fatha Torch.' Get Involved! Interact with Fatha Torch LIVE on Podbean Leave a review on Podchaser. Rate Fatha Torch on Apple Podcast Buy me a coffee or send a CashApp $RAHG76 to show this support. Follow me on Instagram @Fatha_Torch Want to be a sponsor or guest on the podcast? Email me at fathatorch@gmail.com    About Joel Lesses: Born in Buffalo, NY, Joel David Lesses who has lived in Nepal and Israel, is a poet expressing the landscape of our existence, capturing the mystical elements of our human being. World religion, poetry, spirituality, meditation, encompassing the makeup of our mind and life. The crux of his own journey is the manifestation of questions and answers to his own koan “What is the matter with me?” revealing the individual and universal aspects of our inherent and potent creativity. Everything is flux. Everything is poetry. Other passions include the intersection of poetry, spirituality, science, and phenomenology shared and disparate in the human experience, and transformative power of self-inquiry and introspection through contemplative and meditative practices with a belief that the fundamental transformation of individuals and our collective comes through barreling inward, relentlessly, the question, "Who am I?" or "What am I" or "What is the matter with me?" the latter being his question which after years of examination, shattered a false sense of self. Joel was previously voted ‘Buffalo’s Best Poet’, founded WNY’s ‘Ground and Sky Poetry Series’, and created the podcast Unraveling Religion, which explores world mysticism and spirituality. His autobiography, Odyssey of Autumn’s Breath, is in-progress, and combines much of his life’s poetry with prose.   About Unraveling Religion Podcast: 'These mystical and practical discussions are explorations of spirituality and its relation to religion and psychology, with questions always. Beyond a specific religion or spiritual practice; what do we share, what do we have in common? These talks are a work in progress evolving our rich inner life, including reflections on religious texts, poems, art, and what is common in our human experience enhancing understanding of our relationships: with ourselves, with one another, and with the world we share.'       Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Sun, 16 Oct 2022 06:34:00 -0000 Spiritual Side of Fatherhood / Unraveling Religion with Joel Lesses full 1 4 Rah Hudson Episode 4  Unraveling Religion podcast host Joel Lesses sits down with Rah to discuss the personal life of fathers and the spiritual side of parenting. Rah expresses his deep desire to improve the quality of life for fathers, and children and the tru... Episode 4  Unraveling Religion podcast host Joel Lesses sits down with Rah to discuss the personal life of fathers and the spiritual side of parenting. Rah expresses his deep desire to improve the quality of life for fathers, and children and the true meaning of 'Fatha Torch.' Get Involved! Interact with Fatha Torch LIVE on Podbean Leave a review on Podchaser. Rate Fatha Torch on Apple Podcast Buy me a coffee or send a CashApp $RAHG76 to show this support. Follow me on Instagram @Fatha_Torch Want to be a sponsor or guest on the podcast? Email me at fathatorch@gmail.com    About Joel Lesses: Born in Buffalo, NY, Joel David Lesses who has lived in Nepal and Israel, is a poet expressing the landscape of our existence, capturing the mystical elements of our human being. World religion, poetry, spirituality, meditation, encompassing the makeup of our mind and life. The crux of his own journey is the manifestation of questions and answers to his own koan “What is the matter with me?” revealing the individual and universal aspects of our inherent and potent creativity. Everything is flux. Everything is poetry. Other passions include the intersection of poetry, spirituality, science, and phenomenology shared and disparate in the human experience, and transformative power of self-inquiry and introspection through contemplative and meditative practices with a belief that the fundamental transformation of individuals and our collective comes through barreling inward, relentlessly, the question, "Who am I?" or "What am I" or "What is the matter with me?" the latter being his question which after years of examination, shattered a false sense of self. Joel was previously voted ‘Buffalo’s Best Poet’, founded WNY’s ‘Ground and Sky Poetry Series’, and created the podcast Unraveling Religion, which explores world mysticism and spirituality. His autobiography, Odyssey of Autumn’s Breath, is in-progress, and combines much of his life’s poetry with prose.   About Unraveling Religion Podcast: 'These mystical and practical discussions are explorations of spirituality and its relation to religion and psychology, with questions always. Beyond a specific religion or spiritual practice; what do we share, what do we have in common? These talks are a work in progress evolving our rich inner life, including reflections on religious texts, poems, art, and what is common in our human experience enhancing understanding of our relationships: with ourselves, with one another, and with the world we share.'       Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Episode 4  Unraveling Religion podcast host Joel Lesses sits down with Rah to discuss the personal life of fathers and the spiritual side of parenting. Rah expresses his deep desire to improve the quality of life for fathers, and children and the true meaning of 'Fatha Torch.'

Get Involved! Interact with Fatha Torch LIVE on Podbean Leave a review on Podchaser. Rate Fatha Torch on Apple Podcast Buy me a coffee or send a CashApp $RAHG76 to show this support. Follow me on Instagram @Fatha_Torch Want to be a sponsor or guest on the podcast? Email me at fathatorch@gmail.com   

About Joel Lesses:

Born in Buffalo, NY, Joel David Lesses who has lived in Nepal and Israel, is a poet expressing the landscape of our existence, capturing the mystical elements of our human being. World religion, poetry, spirituality, meditation, encompassing the makeup of our mind and life. The crux of his own journey is the manifestation of questions and answers to his own koan “What is the matter with me?” revealing the individual and universal aspects of our inherent and potent creativity. Everything is flux. Everything is poetry. Other passions include the intersection of poetry, spirituality, science, and phenomenology shared and disparate in the human experience, and transformative power of self-inquiry and introspection through contemplative and meditative practices with a belief that the fundamental transformation of individuals and our collective comes through barreling inward, relentlessly, the question, "Who am I?" or "What am I" or "What is the matter with me?" the latter being his question which after years of examination, shattered a false sense of self. Joel was previously voted ‘Buffalo’s Best Poet’, founded WNY’s ‘Ground and Sky Poetry Series’, and created the podcast Unraveling Religion, which explores world mysticism and spirituality. His autobiography, Odyssey of Autumn’s Breath, is in-progress, and combines much of his life’s poetry with prose.   About Unraveling Religion Podcast: 'These mystical and practical discussions are explorations of spirituality and its relation to religion and psychology, with questions always. Beyond a specific religion or spiritual practice; what do we share, what do we have in common? These talks are a work in progress evolving our rich inner life, including reflections on religious texts, poems, art, and what is common in our human experience enhancing understanding of our relationships: with ourselves, with one another, and with the world we share.'      

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]]> 2959 no The Father’s Role in a Child’s Development https://www.fathatorch.com/e/the-father-s-role-in-a-child-s-development/ Episode 3 I'm an advocate for fathers. I think it's important that we be more available to our children and make an effort to bond with them. Our role in their cognitive, social and emotional development is crucial, and we need to be more present in their lives. Unfortunately, many fathers are absent, either physically or emotionally. But when we are active in our child's life, they will turn out more well-rounded and stable.  "When you feel good, they feel good. When you're happy, they're extremely happy. And when you're sad, they feel guilty every day."  In this episode, you will learn: 1. The role of fathers in a child's cognitive, social, and emotional development. 2. The importance of fathers being emotionally available to their children. 3.  Why a mother's role is just as important as the father's role.   Other episodes you'll enjoy: Is Fatherhood Broken? A Father’s Confession Qualities of a Father with an Ungrateful Child Connect with me: Instagram: @FathaTorch Website: www.fathatorch.com Loved this episode? Leave us a review, rating or a token of appreciation:  Leave a review on Podchaser. Rate Fatha Torch on Apple Podcast Buy me a coffee or send a CashApp $RAHG76 to show this support.   Want to be a sponsor or guest on the podcast? Email me at fathatorch@gmail.com    Credits: Hosted by Rah Produced & Edited by JazzCast Pros Music "Lover's Rock" by All Good Folks Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Sun, 02 Oct 2022 14:46:58 -0000 The Father’s Role in a Child’s Development full 1 3 Rah Hudson Episode 3 I'm an advocate for fathers. I think it's important that we be more available to our children and make an effort to bond with them. Our role in their cognitive, social and emotional development is crucial, and we need to be more present in ... Episode 3 I'm an advocate for fathers. I think it's important that we be more available to our children and make an effort to bond with them. Our role in their cognitive, social and emotional development is crucial, and we need to be more present in their lives. Unfortunately, many fathers are absent, either physically or emotionally. But when we are active in our child's life, they will turn out more well-rounded and stable.  "When you feel good, they feel good. When you're happy, they're extremely happy. And when you're sad, they feel guilty every day."  In this episode, you will learn: 1. The role of fathers in a child's cognitive, social, and emotional development. 2. The importance of fathers being emotionally available to their children. 3.  Why a mother's role is just as important as the father's role.   Other episodes you'll enjoy: Is Fatherhood Broken? A Father’s Confession Qualities of a Father with an Ungrateful Child Connect with me: Instagram: @FathaTorch Website: www.fathatorch.com Loved this episode? Leave us a review, rating or a token of appreciation:  Leave a review on Podchaser. Rate Fatha Torch on Apple Podcast Buy me a coffee or send a CashApp $RAHG76 to show this support.   Want to be a sponsor or guest on the podcast? Email me at fathatorch@gmail.com    Credits: Hosted by Rah Produced & Edited by JazzCast Pros Music "Lover's Rock" by All Good Folks Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Episode 3 I'm an advocate for fathers. I think it's important that we be more available to our children and make an effort to bond with them. Our role in their cognitive, social and emotional development is crucial, and we need to be more present in their lives. Unfortunately, many fathers are absent, either physically or emotionally. But when we are active in our child's life, they will turn out more well-rounded and stable. 

"When you feel good, they feel good. When you're happy, they're extremely happy. And when you're sad, they feel guilty every day."

 In this episode, you will learn: 1. The role of fathers in a child's cognitive, social, and emotional development.
2. The importance of fathers being emotionally available to their children.
3.  Why a mother's role is just as important as the father's role.   Other episodes you'll enjoy:
Is Fatherhood Broken? A Father’s Confession Qualities of a Father with an Ungrateful Child

Connect with me:
Instagram: @FathaTorch
Website: www.fathatorch.com

Loved this episode? Leave us a review, rating or a token of appreciation: 

Leave a review on Podchaser.

Rate Fatha Torch on Apple Podcast

Buy me a coffee or send a CashApp $RAHG76 to show this support.

 

Want to be a sponsor or guest on the podcast?

Email me at fathatorch@gmail.com 

 

Credits:

Hosted by Rah

Produced & Edited by JazzCast Pros

Music "Lover's Rock" by All Good Folks

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]]> 1799 no Qualities of a Father with an Ungrateful Child https://www.fathatorch.com/e/qualities-of-a-father-with-an-ungrateful-child/ Episode 2 If you are a father of an ungrateful child who is trying your best to keep your cool, this episode is for you. As the man of the house, you should be honored and respected, but we all know that doesn't always happen in this social climate.  In this episode Ra explains some of the most important qualities of being a father and under which circumstances you should walk away in order to prevent emotional or even physical damage.        Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Sun, 18 Sep 2022 04:18:09 -0000 Qualities of a Father with an Ungrateful Child full 1 2 Rah Hudson Episode 2 If you are a father of an ungrateful child who is trying your best to keep your cool, this episode is for you. As the man of the house, you should be honored and respected, but we all know that doesn't always happen in this social climate. ... Episode 2 If you are a father of an ungrateful child who is trying your best to keep your cool, this episode is for you. As the man of the house, you should be honored and respected, but we all know that doesn't always happen in this social climate.  In this episode Ra explains some of the most important qualities of being a father and under which circumstances you should walk away in order to prevent emotional or even physical damage.        Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Episode 2 If you are a father of an ungrateful child who is trying your best to keep your cool, this episode is for you. As the man of the house, you should be honored and respected, but we all know that doesn't always happen in this social climate. 

In this episode Ra explains some of the most important qualities of being a father and under which circumstances you should walk away in order to prevent emotional or even physical damage. 

 

 

 

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]]> 1541 no Is Fatherhood Broken? A Father’s Confession https://www.fathatorch.com/e/is-fatherhood-broken-a-father-s-confession/ Episode 1 If you're looking for a way to be self-aware, become more emotionally available to your children and heal from a broken relationship with your own father than the Fatha Torch podcast is for you. Rah discusses how the concept of being "broken" can lead to a path of self-destruction and how to avoid pitfalls of fatherhood. Through his story you'll realize that fatherhood is not broken, but the traditions of fatherhood have been gravely destroyed. Here's a breakdown of what is covered: [00:00:01] - Comparing yourself to your father. [00:01:55] - Is fatherhood broken? [00:07:00] - Lessons from being a young father of nine. [00:15:38] - The mindset of broken.   Get Involved! Like & Subscribe to this Podcast. New Episodes every Sunday Interact with Fatha Torch LIVE on Podbean Leave a review on Podchaser. Rate Fatha Torch on Apple Podcast Buy me a coffee or send a CashApp $RAHG76 to show this support. Follow me on Instagram @Fatha_Torch Want to be a sponsor or guest on the podcast? Email me at fathatorch@gmail.com    Credits: Hosted by Rah Produced & Edited by JazzCast Pros Music "Lover's Rock" by All Good Folks Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Sun, 04 Sep 2022 18:10:27 -0000 Is Fatherhood Broken? A Father’s Confession full 1 1 Rah Hudson Episode 1 If you're looking for a way to be self-aware, become more emotionally available to your children and heal from a broken relationship with your own father than the Fatha Torch podcast is for you. Rah discusses how the concept of being "broke... Episode 1 If you're looking for a way to be self-aware, become more emotionally available to your children and heal from a broken relationship with your own father than the Fatha Torch podcast is for you. Rah discusses how the concept of being "broken" can lead to a path of self-destruction and how to avoid pitfalls of fatherhood. Through his story you'll realize that fatherhood is not broken, but the traditions of fatherhood have been gravely destroyed. Here's a breakdown of what is covered: [00:00:01] - Comparing yourself to your father. [00:01:55] - Is fatherhood broken? [00:07:00] - Lessons from being a young father of nine. [00:15:38] - The mindset of broken.   Get Involved! Like & Subscribe to this Podcast. New Episodes every Sunday Interact with Fatha Torch LIVE on Podbean Leave a review on Podchaser. Rate Fatha Torch on Apple Podcast Buy me a coffee or send a CashApp $RAHG76 to show this support. Follow me on Instagram @Fatha_Torch Want to be a sponsor or guest on the podcast? Email me at fathatorch@gmail.com    Credits: Hosted by Rah Produced & Edited by JazzCast Pros Music "Lover's Rock" by All Good Folks Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Episode 1 If you're looking for a way to be self-aware, become more emotionally available to your children and heal from a broken relationship with your own father than the Fatha Torch podcast is for you.

Rah discusses how the concept of being "broken" can lead to a path of self-destruction and how to avoid pitfalls of fatherhood. Through his story you'll realize that fatherhood is not broken, but the traditions of fatherhood have been gravely destroyed.

Here's a breakdown of what is covered:
[00:00:01] - Comparing yourself to your father.

[00:01:55] - Is fatherhood broken?

[00:07:00] - Lessons from being a young father of nine.

[00:15:38] - The mindset of broken.

 

Get Involved!

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Interact with Fatha Torch LIVE on Podbean

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Buy me a coffee or send a CashApp $RAHG76 to show this support.

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Hosted by Rah

Produced & Edited by JazzCast Pros

Music "Lover's Rock" by All Good Folks

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]]> 2014 no Be the Dad You Wish You Had https://www.fathatorch.com/e/be-the-dad-you-wish-you-had/ F.A.T.H.A. T.O.R.C.H. is an acronym meaning: fathers are the highest authorities teaching of rooted cultural heritage. Host Rah is on a mission to help you be the dad you wish you had. Weekly topics include self-love, raising sons vs daughters, the child support system, emotional trauma from toxic relationships, societal injustices and reentry after incarceration. New episodes every other Sunday starting September 4th.   Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Mon, 22 Aug 2022 02:23:37 -0000 Be the Dad You Wish You Had trailer Rah Hudson F.A.T.H.A. T.O.R.C.H. is an acronym meaning: fathers are the highest authorities teaching of rooted cultural heritage.Host Rah is on a mission to help you be the dad you wish you had. Weekly topics include self-love, raising sons vs daughters, the ch... F.A.T.H.A. T.O.R.C.H. is an acronym meaning: fathers are the highest authorities teaching of rooted cultural heritage. Host Rah is on a mission to help you be the dad you wish you had. Weekly topics include self-love, raising sons vs daughters, the child support system, emotional trauma from toxic relationships, societal injustices and reentry after incarceration. New episodes every other Sunday starting September 4th.   Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices F.A.T.H.A. T.O.R.C.H. is an acronym meaning: fathers are the highest authorities teaching of rooted cultural heritage.
Host Rah is on a mission to help you be the dad you wish you had. Weekly topics include self-love, raising sons vs daughters, the child support system, emotional trauma from toxic relationships, societal injustices and reentry after incarceration. New episodes every other Sunday starting September 4th.

 

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