Today on Speaking with Confidence, we’re tackling the reality behind what it means to build, lose, and rebuild true confidence especially for those who’ve faced serious self-doubt, bullying, or lived experience with mental health challenges. I sat down with the remarkable Hufsa Ahmad licensed therapist, scientist, award-winning mental health advocate, behavioral health consultant, and two-time TEDx speaker. She’s uniquely known for blending science, clinical wisdom, and sharp humor, turning even life’s lowest points into stepping stones for growth and resilience.

In this episode, Hufsah opens up about her journey from being a happy, curious child to enduring relentless bullying, depression, and defining periods of isolation. She shares how a suicide attempt as a child and ongoing battles with mental illness and the stigma attached eventually pushed her to hit rock bottom. From there, she didn’t just rebuild her confidence; she reframed her entire relationship with herself and those around her.

Highlights from our conversation:

• How early life experiences and bullying shaped Hafsah’s self-image and how she turned the corner

• The gritty process of learning to care less about what others think, even in the face of online hate and real-world rejection

• The impact of social media on social confidence, and why stepping away transformed her focus and well-being

• The difference between “performing confidence” and actually feeling it, and how to spot the difference

• Why humor is a tool for healing, connection, and resilience and how anyone can start using it

• Tactics Hafsah uses to reframe negative self-talk and rewrite the narrative after setbacks

• The most common myths anxious speakers believe, and evidence-based ways to challenge them

• What crowd work and comedy taught her about real presence in public speaking

• Practical steps every anxious speaker should stop doing immediately and what to do instead

• The power of not taking things personally, and why audience reactions aren’t always about you

If you’ve ever felt crushed by criticism, paralyzed by anxiety, or frustrated by the advice to “just be confident,” this episode will give you actionable wisdom, a few laughs, and a whole new way to think about resilience on and off the stage.

Connect with Hufsa:

• Website: https://hufsaahmad.com    
• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/hufsaahmad/  
• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hufsaahmad   
• YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@hufsa-ahmad

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Hi, I’m Tim Newman, a recovering college professor turned communication coach, and in this episode, I share my journey from thinking that piling on credentials and information would make me the most persuasive person in the room to realizing that too much expertise can actually get in the way of real communication. I know firsthand how easy it is to fall into “the expert trap,” and today, I want to walk you through the five ways this shows up in our presentations, plus the practical fix that anyone can use immediately.

It’s just me sharing hard-won experience and tools you can apply whether you’re presenting research, delivering a pitch, or leading a team meeting. We start by unpacking the subtle but powerful curse of knowledge, that cognitive bias that makes us forget what it felt like not to know our subject. From there, I break down the other traps that experts stumble into: overloading slides with data, defaulting to lecture mode, relying on jargon to “prove” credibility, and hiding behind an impenetrable expert persona that actually alienates your audience.

We don’t just name the problems, we walk through fixes. I share my go-to strategies, like building presentations that map the audience’s journey rather than just dumping information, making every slide a clear, focused compass rather than a wall of text, and applying what I call the “Gen Z Intern Test” to ensure your language stays human and relatable. Most importantly, I reveal the eighth-grade rule: If a typical eighth grader can’t grasp your main point and its importance after just one hearing, you need to simplify it even further. Clear ideas are your greatest source of authority.

Here’s what I cover in this episode:

• The real ways expertise can sabotage your communication and connection

• Understanding and overcoming the curse of knowledge

• Escaping the trap of data drowning and cluttered slides

• Breaking the lecture loop by building real exchanges with your audience

• Avoiding jargon overload and speaking so anyone can understand

• Letting go of the impenetrable expert persona and embracing authentic authority

• The “eighth grade rule” as your universal test for clarity

• Why preparing to connect is always more powerful than preparing to impress

If you’re ready to move your presentations from impressive to impactful, and from credible to truly connected, this episode is packed with tools to get you there. Don’t forget to grab your free ebook at speakingwithconfidencepodcast.com, and I’ll see you next time as we keep building the soft skills that create real change.

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This week, we dig deep into the art and science behind powerful communication not just what you see on stage, but the systems, preparation, and intentionality that make those moments matter. I’m joined by Jared Cagle, Executive Vice President of Content at Maxwell Leadership. Jared is a master of helping communicators, authors, and thought leaders craft messages that create lasting impact. He’s been directly involved with the development, publishing, and global expansion of John Maxwell’s legendary leadership content, and he shares a behind-the-scenes look at what it really takes to influence at scale.

In our conversation, Jared Cagle and I talk about the recent International Maxwell Conference, with Jared offering his highlights and lessons learned from running the show behind the curtain. We discuss the real meaning of connection and community, why the hallway conversations are sometimes more transformative than what happens on stage, and how being genuinely interested in others is foundational to meaningful leadership and influence.

Here’s what we cover in this episode:

• Jared’s role at Maxwell Leadership and the intentional system behind crafting memorable messages

• Why community and connection matter more than just great content

• The power of being interested in others and making them feel valued

• Jared’s unique career journey from cold calls to leading content for a global brand

• Lessons from getting “in the room” with world-class leaders and how to add value

• The relationship between reading, writing, and effective speaking

• Practical advice on building messages that last and how the market determines message longevity

• The importance of making your message about the audience, not just yourself

• Confidence vs. preparedness: what the top speakers and leaders really feel before walking on stage

• How to contextualize your message for different audiences and make every moment of interaction count

• Why starting small and serving locally can create ripple effects of influence

• What’s next for Jared, the legacy work with John Maxwell, and how you can get involved with Maxwell Leadership

  
  

Whether you’re an aspiring speaker, established leader, or someone passionate about communicating with more impact, this episode will give you actionable strategies and a fresh perspective on what it takes to build a message and a legacy that lasts.

Connect with Jared:

• LinkedIn: https://www.instagram.com/jared_cagle/   
• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jared_cagle/

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I’m Tim Newman, a recovering college professor turned communication coach, and I’m here to guide you through the small shifts that turn good communicators into truly compelling ones. Today’s topic grew out of my work with interns, new grads, and young professionals who, without realizing it, train the people around them to see them as unsure or not quite ready to take up space in the room. These aren’t glaring mistakes that most wouldn’t even recognize as confidence killers. But they are quiet habits that slowly erode your authority and can make you feel and look like an imposter.

In this episode, we’ll unpack the seven most common habits that keep talented people playing small. You’ll hear why polite apologies, upspeak, or the nervous nod aren’t keeping the peace; they’re quietly holding you back. I’ll walk through why these behaviors backfire, what they communicate to your colleagues or audience, and practical ways to break out of them without swinging to the opposite extreme of arrogance or aggression.

Here’s what I cover in this episode:

• Why apologizing before speaking (with “sorry to bother you,” “quick question,” or “does that make sense?”) weakens your message, and how a simple confident pause has greater impact

• The damage caused by upspeak and “the expert facade,” and how to use clear, simple language that establishes real authority

• The body language of submission including the invisible man posture and the nervous nod and how to physically take up space to signal confidence

• Why over-editing your thoughts or waiting for the perfect moment keeps your contributions invisible, and how to use “the three second rule” to build confidence in real time

• The psychological effect these habits have on listeners, and how breaking even just one can immediately shift how you’re perceived in any room

• How to choose just one habit to focus on this week for real, sustainable progress, instead of overwhelming yourself with total transformation

  
  

Whether you see yourself playing small with language, posture, or silent self-editing, today’s episode will help you swap safety for real presence one habit at a time. Stick with me to the end for a simple challenge you can use in your next meeting, and remember: your voice has the power to change the world.

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I had the pleasure of sitting down with Mark Struczewski, better known as Mister Productivity, a Houston-based productivity coach and host of the Mister Productivity podcast. With over 1,350 episodes and an unfiltered, real-world approach, Mark helps professionals conquer overwhelm and bring focus back into their days. After being fired from corporate America, Mark turned his setback into a thriving coaching practice, rooted in daily running discipline, his faith, and powerful, practical systems.

Mark’s journey started unexpectedly, with a hurricane keeping him cooped up at home and an article inspiring him to try running one mile a day. Since then, Mark’s daily running habit has surpassed 3,000 consecutive days, a testament to the transformative power of consistent discipline. We explored how that kind of commitment spills over into every area of life, and why the basics matter more than ever, whether you’re running, building a career, or communicating with confidence.

We dug into why so many people, especially young professionals, are constantly overwhelmed. Spoiler: It isn’t just about time management. Mark unpacks the role of FOMO, people-pleasing, lack of boundaries, and our addiction to technology. Together, we discuss how reclaiming focus and simplifying your approach can lead to more clarity and better results, both at work and at home.

Here’s what we covered in this episode:

• Mark’s origin story and how a hurricane and Runner's World article launched an 8+ year daily running habit

• Why Mark’s daily discipline matters in fitness, work, and coaching

• The link between doing hard things and building confidence

• Why young professionals (and all generations) feel overwhelmed, and how FOMO and people-pleasing feed the cycle

• The importance of saying “no” and setting unbreakable boundaries

• Mark’s “get to the point” email and meeting philosophy, plus why more communication is rarely better

• How to command attention in person by putting the phone away and giving people your full presence

• Finding simplicity in a world that glorifies complexity and constant busyness

• The real impact of taking one day completely off for rest, reflection, and recharging

• Why being fired opened the door for Mark’s current calling, and how to view setbacks as setups for something new

• How podcasting improves communication and the importance of clarity, preparation, and growth

• The most impactful productivity principle you can apply right now taking mindful, technology-free micro breaks

If you’re ready to stop making excuses, cut through the overwhelm, and communicate with real confidence, this episode is for you. Mark brings actionable wisdom, humor, and a no-nonsense approach that will get you thinking and moving toward a simpler, more productive life.

Connect with Mark:

• Website: https://misterproductivity.com
• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/markstruczewski/
• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/misterproductivity/
• YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MisterProductivity/

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I’m Tim Newman, a communication coach, former college professor, and your guide on the journey toward showing up with confidence in every conversation that counts. Today, we’re tackling a challenge that countless managers face: connecting with and leading Gen Z employees. But instead of focusing on how to manage or mold them into old-school models, I invite you to flip the script. What happens when you let your youngest team members mentor you?

Today I’m digging into some game-changing insights from leadership thinker Tim Elmore. We’ll explore why the modern workplace rewards leaders who are open to learning from every person in the room, not just those with long titles or corner offices. If you’ve ever felt like only “the badge” title, seniority, or status gives you credibility, get ready to challenge that mindset. We’ll talk about how Gen Z’s directness, digital intuition, and bridge-building communication can become your greatest asset.

Here’s what you can expect from our conversation:

• How rigid, top-down leadership creates fragile teams and why the old hierarchy has officially collapsed 01:36

• Why Gen Z’s demands for transparency and speed act as “sandpaper” for outdated leadership, ultimately making teams more adaptable 02:37

• The crucial shift from “badge” confidence to “bridge” confidence and how curiosity, trust, and real connection fuel lasting influence 03:23

• A breakdown of Tim Elmore’s “A LEG” framework (Ask, Listen, Empathize, Guide) for transforming feedback into real growth 03:38

• Why Gen Z’s “epic” communication style (experiential, participatory, image-rich, connected) is actually a massive leadership advantage 04:47

• How to use the “velvet brick” approach to build psychological safety and maintain high standards at the same time 08:21

• Simple, practical ways to let Gen Z employees shine as mentors and how doing so sets a new standard for team culture 08:47

• How public learning as a leader breaks down hierarchies and inspires your team to take more initiative 09:22

• A quick homework assignment: one conversation to help you start building the bridge to the future 11:55

  
  

If you want to swap insecurity for resilience, defend your title less, and build true influence with your team, this episode is your roadmap. The future belongs to those who learn the fastest and the strongest leaders are the ones who aren’t afraid to be led. Let’s build progress, not perfection together.

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In this episode of Speaking with Confidence, I dive into visibility, courage, and the power of showing up authentically even when the circumstances are less than ideal. Whether you're getting asked, "Who's watching your kids?" at a conference (when your male colleagues never are), or struggling to find your voice in team meetings, today’s conversation will help you find practical ways to stand tall and speak up no matter the situation.

I'm thrilled to be joined by Sabine Hutchison, the CEO, author, and founder of the Ripple Network. Sabine is a powerhouse leader whose work focuses on helping others cut through the noise, trust their own voice, and intentionally shape their careers. Sabine’s own journey began when she moved to Germany with just two suitcases and no plan, which led her to reinvent her life by listening to her intuition rather than following a rigid blueprint.

In our discussion, Sabine and I unpack why taking action without a perfect plan is often the best route for personal and professional growth. We reflect on generational differences in communication, visibility, and work ethic from the "just do it" attitude of Gen X to the entrepreneurial but differently structured approach of Gen Z and millennials. We also talk about the critical importance of stages big and small in building influence and accessing opportunities, and why visibility isn’t just about being seen, but about connecting through stories.

Sabine shares stories and strategies from her own experience, including how she coaches leaders to take microsteps that build lasting confidence. We explore what it takes to speak up in meetings, especially if you’re hesitant or the only one in the room who looks like you. We get honest about self-doubt, the paralyzing fear of judgment (especially for younger generations), and why embracing feedback even when it stings is a crucial part of improvement.

We also discuss real-life examples of handling outrageous or inappropriate questions with composure instead of emotion, reinforcing how practice and intentional actions like enlisting accountability partners or preparing for meetings in advance make a world of difference.

Here’s what we covered in this lively and deeply practical episode:

• Sabine’s move to Germany and how intuition shaped her courage and reinvention 01:41

• Taking action without a full plan and overcoming “analysis paralysis” 05:21

• Generational differences in communication, risk-taking, and adapting to structure 09:15

• The critical role of visibility and “stages” (of all sizes) for influence and opportunity 15:01

• Microsteps, storytelling, and building self-trust and confidence in professional settings 19:00

• Creative strategies for speaking up in meetings, even when it feels intimidating 26:32

• The power of accountability groups and intentional practice for growth 29:04

• Responding to gendered, biased, and outrageous questions in the workplace with composure 31:49

• The origin and mission of the Ripple Network and how it empowers women to speak up, practice, and lead 38:07

• How feedback, repetition, and a supportive network drive communication growth at any stage of your career 40:15

• The importance of being coachable and open to feedback plus, honest anecdotes about learning from our own slip-ups 46:16

  
  

If you’ve ever second-guessed yourself or wondered how to boldly own your perspective, today’s episode will inspire you to take action no matter where you are on your journey. Tune in and join us as we explore what it really means to speak with confidence.

Connect with Sabine:

• Website: https://sabinehutchison.com   
• Website: https://www.theripplenetwork.com
• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sabine.hutchison/
• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/sabinehutchison/

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I’m Tim Newman, a recovering college professor turned communication coach, and today I’m guiding you step-by-step through bridging that gap. If you’ve ever felt your voice come out sounding thin or uncertain, even as you felt completely sure of your ideas, you’re not alone. The truth is, it's not about lacking confidence—it's about not using the full physical power of your voice. And I’m here to show you that it’s a tool you can learn to wield.

In this solo episode, I introduce the critical concepts of chest resonance and vocal authority—how the physical place your voice originates from impacts your credibility long before the words you say even land with your audience. I’ll walk you through a practical exercise to literally feel the difference between speaking from your head versus your chest, and you’ll discover why so many of us accidentally default to what I call “horizontal speech,” keeping our voices small and tight, perfect for text but ineffective in person.

I unpack the mechanics of grounded, vertical speech: how to open your vocal tract, drop your jaw, and use your chest to create sound that is full, resonant, and impossible to tune out. We practice together with simple, actionable exercises—like the sigh-of-relief technique and my “eighth grade rule,” a filter that will help you command attention even from the toughest, most skeptical audience.

Here’s what I cover in today’s episode:

• The real reason your voice doesn’t always match your conviction in professional conversations

• The concept of the digital vocal gap and why most people have it

• Why people decide what to believe based on how you sound, not just what you say

• How to physically find and use your chest resonance for more authority

• The difference between horizontal (text bubble) and vertical (grounded, open) speech

• Guided voice exercises to feel and hear the difference in resonance and authority

• How creating vertical space in your sound makes you more compelling and less apologetic

• The “eighth grade rule” for instantly making your speaking voice more engaging and credible

• Connecting your inner clarity to your outer voice so your ideas always land

• A simple 60-second physical rehearsal routine to unlock your best, most confident spoken self before every call or meeting

You’ll leave this episode with the tools, awareness, and practical steps to transform your presence in any conversation—no matter how nervous you used to feel. Let’s move your voice out of the cramped text bubble and into the room where your authority belongs. Your ideas deserve to be heard with the same certainty with which you write them.

As always, progress, not perfection. Don’t forget to grab your free eBook, the Top 21 Challenges for Public Speakers and How to Overcome Them, or register for my Formula for Public Speaking course. Your voice truly does have the power to change the world—let’s make sure everyone hears it.

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Together, Chris and I unpack the real problem behind poor communication: most people think it happened, but it didn't. Chris explains why true communication means your message is actually received and remembered, not just spoken. We discuss personality types (like DISC), and why understanding who you're talking to is essential for success, whether you’re giving a speech, interviewing, networking, or managing a team.

Chris shares hard-earned insights on the importance of listening, drawing on his experience as a sales trainer. He believes everyone you meet is your superior in some way, and it's your job to discover what you can learn from them. We talk about powerful lessons learned from children, family, and clients, and why approaching conversations as a student rather than a teacher will transform your life.

Here’s what we covered in our conversation:

• The hidden gap between speaking and true communication

• How to tailor your message based on personality types like DISC

• Why listening is the most critical part of communication

• The mindset of approaching every conversation as a student

• Real-world stories about learning leadership from unexpected places

• The myth of instant confidence, and how it’s really built

• Overcoming the fear of imperfection in public speaking and video

• Helping one person vs. speaking to a crowd

• The impact of isolation, technology, and COVID on Gen Z’s communication skills

• The four levels of wealth and communication’s role in high earnings

• Practical advice for young professionals to transform their communication

• Why goal-setting should be about transforming yourself, not just hitting targets

• Continuous improvement and the importance of learning new things outside your craft

• How speaking with confidence goes far beyond words to posture, mannerisms, mindset, and clarity

  
  

If you’re ready to transform the way you communicate, gain lasting confidence, and help others along the way, this episode is for you. Chris Johnson’s wisdom and practical frameworks will challenge and inspire you to take action one conversation at a time.

Connect with Chris:

• Website: https://www.chrisjohnsonleadershipservices.com   
• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/chris-johnson-08877624b/
• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/chris-johnson-leadership-services/  
• YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@chrisjohnsonleadershipservices/videos  

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I'm Tim Newman, your host and guide on the journey to becoming a powerful communicator. As a recovering college professor turned communication coach, I bring you real stories and actionable insights that help you show up with confidence in every conversation. This episode was inspired by a pivotal moment I experienced in front of a room full of college seniors. Despite years of urging them to network strategically, my "professional" advice fell flat until I delivered the real, relatable truth: It's the people you know, not your GPA, that land you jobs. That shift took me from blank stares to genuine engagement—and it opened my eyes to how language shapes trust.

We dive into the reality that most managers are still speaking a language Gen Z tuned out years ago. Drawing on Tim Elmore's research, I discuss how phrases like "let's circle back," "leverage synergy," and "align our strategic objectives" serve as instant disengagement triggers. Gen Z, raised online as expert BS detectors, spot vague or manipulative language immediately. They crave clarity, directness, and authenticity. This episode explains why polished corporate language doesn't build credibility—it erodes it, and your influence stems from being understood, not from holding a title.

I share the formula for translating leadership principles into plain, human talk—without resorting to awkward slang or forced memes. It's about explaining the "why" first, connecting every task to real purpose and stakes, and operating with high-context brevity. You'll hear practical examples: Instead of "circle back," say "talk about the issue tomorrow at 10." Trade "leverage synergy" for "work together on a project," and replace "align our strategic objectives" with stating clear goals and measures of success.

We explore how adopting this language shift moves you from managing tasks to inspiring belief in a mission. Gen Z values authenticity and purpose above all—if you don't change your communication style, you simply can't lead them effectively. The show walks through actionable steps like the One Meeting Challenge, where you strip away jargon, state the purpose plainly, and invite honest input. When you speak with clarity and listen with curiosity, you build trust and real buy-in.

Here’s what I covered in this episode:

• Why Gen Z disconnects from traditional boss speak

• The cost of corporate jargon on trust and engagement

• Research-backed communication approach for today's teams

• The power of radical directness and saying the quiet part out loud

• How to translate vague directives into clear, actionable language

• Two key principles: Explaining the why first and high-context brevity

• Practical phrases that grab Gen Z’s attention—and ones to avoid

• Building credibility by dropping the professional façade

• How authentic, respectful leadership influences modern teams

• The "One Meeting Challenge" to help you put these ideas into practice immediately

  
  

If you're ready to ditch the jargon, talk like a person, and lead a team that truly believes in your vision, this episode has your answers. Remember: progress, not perfection, is the goal. Your voice has the power to change the world—let’s make sure it’s heard.

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I’m Tim Newman, your host, and today I’m joined by the incredible Christiane Schroeter, TEDx speaker, professor, business and wellness coach, and creator of the Petite Practice framework. If you haven’t watched her TEDx talk, I can’t recommend it enough. It's hands-down one of the most actionable and inspiring talks I’ve seen. Christiane's specialty is helping professionals align their goals with their values for results that last, and she hosts the top 1% globally ranked podcast, Happy Healthy Hustle. She’s got a wealth of expertise in communication, innovation, and how to show up confidently, and in this conversation, she shares insights that you can put into practice today.

We kick off by unpacking the true power behind a great TEDx talk and, by extension, any impactful presentation. Christiane Schroeter shares her intentional approach, focusing on what you want your audience to feel and do after your talk because structure is everything. We dig into her experience as an immigrant and bilingual educator, revealing how language learning is a metaphor for confident communication and the importance of truly listening first. Christiane and I joke about raising kids with multiple languages and how this shapes empathy and nuanced expression (and, yes, the fun of switching languages in heated family moments!).

Here's what we covered in this value-packed episode:

• The importance of clear structure and audience-centered messaging in public speaking

• Why learning and using different languages builds empathy and expressive power

• Tips for practicing talks in the “real world” and why mirror practice isn’t enough

• How to use peer feedback and self-reflection to grow as a communicator

• The true benefit of failure (and why “failure” is your First Attempt In Learning)

• Overcoming perfectionism and embracing gritty persistence

• The impact of small, consistent actions (Petite Practice) on building lasting confidence

• Real-life stories from academia, startup life, and the TEDx stage

• Why your journey to confidence is unique and how to make it sustainable

• Insights on publishing, self-talk, resilience, and celebrating progress

• Where to find more from Christiane Schroeter and her frameworks for lasting growth

Connect with Christiane:

• Website: https://doctorchristiane.com
• LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/christianeschroeter/
• Instagram: https://instagram.com/@doctor.christiane
• Facebook: https://facebook.com/doctorchristiane
• X: https://x.com/Christiane_711  
• YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@doctor.christiane
• TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@hello.happy.nest
• Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/doctor.christiane/
• Threads: https://www.threads.net/@doctor.christiane

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In this solo episode, I unpack the secret sauce that the top 1% of virtual communicators use to create genuine psychological presence. Forget about buying new gear, the real difference lies in how you structure your message, how you engage with others, and the micro-moves you use to project true authority online. I introduce my SyncLink System, a practical framework built around three pillars: clarity, curiosity, and connection.

We start by exploring the Clarity Filter, why simplicity is the new authority and how complexity kills engagement in a virtual setting. I share a powerful technique from John Maxwell called the 8th Grade Rule, and give you a three-step process to make sure your ideas land perfectly every time. You’ll hear how this has helped my executive clients go from being ignored to truly leading their meetings.

Next, I reveal the Curiosity Protocol: a game-changing mindset shift inspired by Tim Elmore’s ‘Listen Like You’re Wrong’ approach. I walk you through how to lower tension, earn the right to be heard, and transform conflict into connection all while strengthening long-term relationships instead of just “winning” arguments.

Finally, I get tactical with the Connection Catalyst the deliberate micro-moves that signal your presence and build digital gravitas, such as mastering camera contact instead of mere eye contact, using intentional pauses for authority, and deploying name anchors and micro-validations to keep your audience truly engaged. I explain exactly how these small behaviors add up to massive results over the course of a typical meeting.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• Why psychological presence outweighs technical upgrades for digital influence

• The three pillars of the SyncLink System: clarity, curiosity, and connection

• How to pass the “8th Grade Rule” and make your message instantly understandable

• Strategies for winning allies instead of just points in a debate

• The power of “Listen Like You’re Wrong” and the 10% truth principle

• Why and how you need to combine camera contact with intentional pauses

• Tools for name anchoring and micro-validation to make people feel truly seen

• A simple, step-by-step action plan to build new habits without feeling awkward or forced

  
  

If you’re tired of dull virtual meetings and want to make your presence felt on every call, this is the episode you don’t want to miss. I also share how to get your hands on my ebook, The Top 21 Challenges for Public Speakers and How to Overcome Them, plus details on joining the Formula for Public Speaking course.

Remember, your voice has the power to change the world. Let’s bridge the digital gap and help you connect, lead, and be understood no matter where you are.

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Cam brings all kinds of energy and insight, and we quickly get into the heart of what it means to project confidence—especially when working with video. We talk about the challenge of connecting through the lens, why you might need to raise your energy even more than you would in a live audience, and how the right tactics can turn your videos from boring to brilliant.

You'll learn Cam’s journey from speaking about disability inclusion for IBM to finding a critical pain point in speakers who were overwhelmed or embarrassed by creating demo reels. We explore the myth of thinking you’ve “arrived” as a speaker and the real value of practicing, watching yourself on video, and continually improving your craft. Cam shares practical strategies to critique your own video performances, emphasizing the importance of focusing on both visual and audio aspects separately, and matching your emotional tone to your message.

We also tackle the branding dilemma, how to become the go-to expert in your field instead of jumping from topic to topic, and why true authority takes effort, focus, and some soul-searching. Cam shares anecdotes about speakers who struggle to maintain brand consistency, and we discuss how testimonials and real transformations anchor your brand in the minds of event planners and clients.

Here's what you'll hear covered in the episode:

• Projecting energy and connecting with audiences on camera versus in-person

• Cam’s transition from disability inclusion speaker to video expert for speakers

• The power of watching your own videos (and using mute/audio to analyze yourself)

• The opportunity cost of mediocre video and practicing to maximize impact

• Branding: how to narrow your focus, build authority, and be remembered for one thing

• The journey and challenges of pivoting within a brand or niche

• Getting known, getting hired, and why self-promotion matters (even for seasoned pros)

• Using YouTube as a video showcase for event planners and clients

• Crafting irresistible hooks for videos with practical examples

• TEDx and The Moth as storytelling formats—what they teach about engagement and structure

• Rethinking origin stories, using client success as compelling narratives, and making any story relatable

• Essential communication skills that cross all formats: empathy, understanding pain vs. pleasure, and focusing on the listener’s needs

• Defining authenticity, professionalism, and how to dress and act for credibility

• The role of feedback, openness to critique, and the realities of expert status

If you're ready to level up your speaking and video presence, build a resilient brand, and confidently show up in every conversation, this episode has the tools and the real talk you need. Don’t miss my chat with Cam Beaudoin, it’s packed with actionable insights and a few laughs along the way.

Connect with Cam:

• Website: https://www.thefrequentspeaker.com/speaker-booking-agency-landing  
• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/cambeaudoin
• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thefrequentspeaker
• YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheFrequentSpeaker

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We often think that to be taken seriously, we need to show up perfectly, but that mindset actually blocks progress. I share two personal stories the first from my college days where I was so nervous during my first speech that I literally threw up in class, and a second, more recent example where I blanked and spelled my own name wrong in front of a nurse. These moments were embarrassing, but they weren’t endpoints. They were powerful pivots that taught me vital lessons about authenticity and human connection.

In this episode, I walk you through my simple, three-part Pivot Protocol designed to transform every failure into a strategic advantage: no toxic positivity here, just practical, clear communication strategy. You’ll learn the difference between “tuition payments” (failures that teach you something) and “tragic errors” (ones you repeat without learning). We dive into why hiding mistakes actually creates communication breakdowns, blocking help and trust from your team or boss.

Here’s what you’ll take away from this episode:

• The truth about why holding up a perfect expert image is a trap that shuts down learning

• How to reframe failures as essential data instead of identity-defining flaws

• Step-by-step instructions for using the Pivot Protocol:

1. The Autopsy: A cold, emotion-free look at what went wrong and what it revealed

2. The Extraction: Finding the strategic insight that only failure could give you

3. The Leap: Turning your new insight into a confident, public move forward

• How I personally moved from being the most nervous speaker in class to a coach who builds real connection through vulnerability

• Practical questions for breaking down your mistakes, so you stop letting embarrassment run the show

• Why communicating your learned insights, instead of just the mistake, builds stronger trust and credibility

• How to shift your team dynamic from defensive and blame-focused to curious and innovative

  
  

If you’re ready to stop protecting your image and start protecting the lesson, this episode is for you. Progress not perfection is the goal. Try applying the Pivot Protocol to a small failure this week and watch how your communication clarity and confidence grow. And don’t forget to grab your free ebook, The Top 21 Challenges for Public Speakers and How to Overcome Them, at SpeakingWithConfidencePodcast.com or register for the Formulas for Public Speaking course. Remember: your voice has the power to change the world. See you next time!

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On this week’s episode, I explore what it really means to “feel confident,” not just look confident, and how we can bridge the gap between external appearance and our internal belief. I’m joined by the fantastic Joanna Zhang, international speaker, award-winning entrepreneur, and founder of The Operations Genius. Joanna has an incredible story of personal and professional transformation, having not only led her business to multiple international awards, but also overcome her own struggles with the imposter syndrome that so many high achievers face.

Joanna and I dive deep into the journey from external validation to authentic self-assurance. We get honest about what it’s like to achieve on paper but still be wracked with self-doubt, and how that pattern shows up for so many high achievers. Joanna shares her firsthand experiences with winning big awards but initially not feeling “enough” on the inside, her transition into genuine self-celebration, and how she began to recognize and embrace her own strengths instead of endlessly comparing herself to others.

We reflect on why it’s so hard for so many of us to accept compliments, celebrate wins, or acknowledge our growth and how to start shifting that mindset. Joanna introduces some practical strategies (including the genius idea of a “happy fund” to reward yourself!) for building and maintaining real, lasting self-confidence.

We also dive into:

• The trap of comparing your weaknesses to others’ strengths

• The pivotal shift from “doing” to “being” and why slowing down is essential for real growth

• Recognizing the signals that your external confidence isn’t matched internally

• How to celebrate small wins and why it matters so much for long-term fulfillment

• Joanna’s journey from operating in a masculine leadership and communication style, especially in a male-dominated field, to finding balance and power in feminine energy and self-acceptance

• Why skills are only part of being an effective communicator: how your inner state and intention drive impact, connection, and influence

• Letting go of judgment and perfectionism to speak “from the flow,” and simple exercises to help you break free from fear and just get started (spoiler: you’ll surprise yourself!)

• The biggest confidence wounds facing the younger generation, and the influence of social media and family on self-worth

• Concrete actions you can start taking now to build up your authentic confidence, no matter where you’re starting from

Whether you’re a leader, entrepreneur, creative, or simply someone seeking a more confident presence, Joanna’s approach is all about acceptance, celebration, and letting go of old patterns that no longer serve you.

If you’ve ever wondered why outer confidence and inner confidence don’t always match and what practical steps you can take to finally align the two, this episode will give you encouragement, actionable ideas, and a supportive reminder that you absolutely have the power to change your relationship with yourself, your work, and your communication.

Connect with Joanna:

• Website: https://operationsgenius.net/  
• LinkedIn: http://www.linkedin.com/in/zhang-joanna/
• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/entrepreneursoulmate/   
• Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/share/18BGiVkHpK/?mibextid=qi2Omg   
• YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCViTPty9wg9JXwHMvoKWnkA

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We dive deep into the root causes that keep so many of us stuck in cycles of self-doubt, particularly for Gen Z, who face an identity crisis amplified by social media and external validation. I break down the three primary psychological triggers that hold you back: the imposter syndrome amplifier, the perfectionist trap, and the external validation void. These “gaslighters,” as I call them, create toxic narratives that sabotage your confidence and keep you chasing impossible standards.

But we go beyond identifying the problem. This episode is packed with actionable strategies to override those default settings. I walk you through a 48-hour trigger journal exercise to pinpoint your specific confidence dips, and introduce the Value Inventory—an evidence-based approach that forces your brain to face the reality of your skills and accomplishments. Drawing on concepts like Ryan Leak’s “chasing failure,” I show you how to use small, intentional failures as research tools to dismantle the perfectionism trap.

We build what I call your resilience firewall, connecting your audit findings to the three pillars that matter most: planning, research, and practice. By targeting your vulnerability points with specific plans, actively acquiring competence, and collecting low-stakes feedback, you create evidence-based assurance, moving from the feeling of being an imposter to speaking with unshakable authenticity.

Here’s what we covered in this episode:

• Why “just be more confident” is useless advice and what actually works

• The three psychological triggers that sabotage genuine confidence

• How to do a confidence forensic audit using a 48-hour trigger journal

• Building a Value Inventory to fight imposter syndrome with real evidence

• Turning failure into research, not shame

• Creating a resilience firewall through targeted planning, research, and practice

• Why confidence isn’t a fixed trait, but a dynamic system you maintain

• Actionable steps to start building evidence-based assurance today

  
  

Ready to upgrade your mental operating system and build real, lasting confidence? Start your 48-Hour Trigger Journal now and collect your first piece of evidence. For more tips and resources, check out speakingwithconfidencepodcast.com, grab your free ebook, and register for my Formulas for Public Speaking course. Remember, progress beats perfection every time—and your voice has the power to change the world.

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I’m Tim Newman, your host—recovering college professor turned communication coach—and today I’m joined by Antoni Lacinai, an internationally acclaimed workplace communication expert, keynote speaker, and author. Not only has Antoni delivered masterclasses worldwide on compassionate leadership and empathy-driven engagement, but he’s also written and co-written 14 business books, hundreds of magazine columns, a novel, a radio theater play, and even released his first song on Spotify. Clearly, he’s not just a business mind; he's a creative soul with a unique perspective on what it means to be authentic in our work and communication.

We kick off the episode by diving into Antoni’s creative pursuits, including his Christmas song written for fellow speakers—because it’s important to show you’re more than just your job title. We talk about bringing humanity and authenticity back into business, how being creative makes us more relatable, and why it helps people see us beyond our professional roles.

From there, the conversation moves into pivotal moments in Antoni’s journey that led him to recognize communication as his superpower, such as being the only seven-year-old at a parent-teacher meeting brave enough to raise his hand—and discovering the impact that being listened to can have on a young mind. We discuss the importance of listening and encouragement for children, and how that applies to interactions throughout our lives. We also touch on research showing how positive recognition drives better team performance, and how small acts of kindness—like simply saying “good morning”—can profoundly elevate workplace culture.

Here’s what we covered:

• Antoni’s creative journey and the value of authenticity

• How pivotal childhood moments and being listened to shaped his confidence

• The impact of positive recognition and kindness in the workplace

• Practical ways to build confidence and get into the right mindset before communicating

• The three communication superpowers: empathy, clarity, and energy

• How to balance these superpowers for world-class communication

• The importance of emotional intelligence and practicing new habits

• The role of analog vs. digital communication and what AI means for human connection

• Why SMART goals might not be enough, and the alternative model of HAPPY goals

• Encouragement for listeners to use their voice to make a difference

By the end of this episode, you’ll know the secret ingredients to speaking with confidence—and why your words truly matter. Thanks for listening, and as always, remember: your voice has the power to change the world.

Connect with Antoni:

• Website: https://www.antonilacinai.com
• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lacinai/
• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/antonilacinai/

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I dive deep into the challenges of genuine communication in both personal and professional settings. As someone who's spent years studying and coaching communication, I've seen too many capable people get overlooked not because they're not ready, but because they haven't learned how to confidently show up and connect. This episode is all about stepping off the script and embracing authenticity in every conversation that counts.

In this episode, I walk you through my Connection Catalyst framework, designed to help you shift from fact-finding to insight discovery, and show you how strategic curiosity can make you stand out in any room, especially if you’re looking to connect with Gen Z or anyone craving genuine dialogue over tired transactional questions.

Here’s what we covered in this episode:

• Why typical networking questions ("What do you do?", "Where are you from?") rarely create real connection

• The psychology behind scriptive responses and why Gen Z sees right through transactional conversations

• How boring questions signal a lack of curiosity, and why deep, value-driven questions build trust

• The three principles of the Connection Catalyst: moving from information to insight, creating a value exchange, and building momentum for deeper conversations

• Examples of transforming closed questions into open-ended ones that uncover beliefs, vulnerabilities, and real stories (like replacing "Do you like your job?" with "What's a belief you had about your industry that turned out to be completely wrong?")

• The importance of the hidden value exchange in networking how strategic questions demonstrate genuine interest and build social capital

• Practical tips for weaving strategic curiosity into your conversations without sounding robotic, including the use of conversational bridges and active listening

• Why building rapport matters before diving into deeper questions, and how to keep the conversation comfortable and engaging

• A challenge for listeners: replace one standard question in your next conversation with a strategic one and notice the change in dynamic

• Reminders on progress over perfection, and resources for public speaking and communication improvement

  
  

If you want actionable ways to upgrade your networking skills and create conversations that matter, this episode will give you the tools and the confidence to do just that. Listen in, and let’s start having dialogues that actually build connection, not just check boxes.

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I’m Tim Newman, your host—recovering college professor, communication coach, and curious asker of big questions. This week, I had the pleasure of speaking with Walter Dusseldorp, better known as the Dutch Mentor. Walter’s journey is a fascinating one: from aspiring physician and paramedic, to executive leader, pilot, mentor, and now founder of the Pure Leadership Power program and the Smart Performance app. His story is packed with lessons on adaptability, growth, and communication that anyone can apply.

We started with Walter’s unique background, touching on his formative experiences in Holland, responding to 9/11 as a paramedic, and catching the flying bug that led him to pursue piloting as both passion and profession. Walter shared insights about transitions, living with purpose, and the moment that changed his outlook: realizing that dreams need to be lived today, not put off for tomorrow.

From there, we explored Walter’s evolution from technical roles into mentoring and coaching—how he recognized a need for better leadership, saw the gap between technical expertise and people skills, and decided to help others make that pivotal transition. He shared how a growth mindset and continuous learning are essential for becoming an effective communicator and leader, emphasizing the importance of vulnerability, seeking mentorship, and taking ownership of your own development.

If you’re looking for concrete steps to amplify your leadership, hone your communication skills, and clarify your “why,” this conversation is for you. Here’s what we covered in this episode:

• Walter’s journey from paramedic and pilot to leadership mentor

• The power of transitions and living with purpose

• Moving from technical expertise to effective leadership

• Why communication is the number one reason teams fail—and how to fix it

• The importance of continuous learning, growth mindset, and daily habits

• Building and protecting your personal brand (and what mistakes to avoid)

• The difference between mentoring and coaching

• Outward-facing leadership and the need for confident humility

• Why vulnerability and seeking mentorship accelerate your growth

• Creating a “why” statement that differentiates you in interviews and organizations

• The perils of groupthink, how it devastated the Challenger mission and companies like Blockbuster

• The importance of dialogue, civil discourse, and learning to speak the language of younger generations

• Practical frameworks for leadership, including Lean Six Sigma and the Pure Leadership Power program

• Walter’s Smart Performance app: what it offers and how to get involved

  
  

Walter brings a rare mix of technical expertise, personal experience, and pragmatic Dutch wisdom, making this episode one of our most insight-packed to date. If you’re ready to take your leadership to the next level and create a brand that truly reflects who you are, tune in!

You can connect with Walter on LinkedIn, Instagram, YouTube, or email him directly at thedutchmentor@gmail.com. The Smart Performance app launches January 1st—reach out if you’re interested in joining as a founding member.

Thanks for listening to Speaking with Confidence. Remember: your voice has the power to change the world.

Connect with Walter:

• Website: https://www.thedutchmentor.com  
• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/walter-dusseldorp-mba-fache-8965b610/
• YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thedutchmentor

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I’m Tim Newman, your host—a recovering college professor turned communication coach, and today’s episode is all about turning the corporate world’s obsession with extroversion on its head. We’ll explore the evidence that introverts not only belong in high-visibility roles, but often outperform their extroverted colleagues, especially when it comes to leadership and influence.

In this episode, I get real about the exhaustion introverts feel under non-stop pressure to network and perform. I break down research from top journals that shows the loudest voice isn’t necessarily the most influential. Instead, introverted professionals possess some major superpowers: deep listening, keen observation, and a thoughtful approach that builds psychological safety and trust on teams.

Here’s what we cover in this jam-packed episode:

• The myth of extroversion as the only model for leadership (and what the latest research says instead)

• How introverts’ natural strength as listeners can build powerful trust and influence within teams

• A practical explanation of the 80/20 listening rule for meetings, so you can contribute with confidence and precision

• Turning your natural tendency to pause before speaking into a deliberate mark of thoughtfulness (not hesitation)

• The “pause and pivot” technique: responding to tough questions without panic or filler, and commanding the room when you do speak

• A real-life coaching case study to show these strategies in action

• The Precision Protocol: a simple, three-step framework for making every contribution count by preparing smarter, bridging smoothly into discussion, and dropping concise, value-packed insights

• How using these strengths consistently can build a reputation as the person everyone wants to hear from—no fake charisma required

• The unique power of this approach for Gen Z professionals, remote workers, and anyone seeking greater authenticity in the workplace

• A quick-start action step so you can begin leveraging your introvert edge for your next big meeting

  
  

I wrap up with a reminder: Progress beats perfection, and your voice—used thoughtfully—can transform your entire team, project, or organization.

If you want to go deeper, be sure to check out my conversation with Stacy Chasen from January for even more strategies for quiet communicators. And don’t forget to visit speakingwithconfidencepodcast.com for your free resources and to sign up for my new course.

Remember, your quiet nature is a strength you just haven’t been shown how to use—until now. Thanks for tuning in, and I’ll talk to you next time!

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Brad's experience spans thousands of interviews with some of the most difficult individuals—often in cases involving the sexual exploitation of children. What struck me in our conversation is how central communication is, not just for uncovering the truth, but for creating safety, trust, and effectiveness in the most challenging environments. Brad shares why calm leads to calm, and how emotional contagion, body language, and tone shape every interaction—whether you’re in a high-stakes interview or talking with your family.

Here’s what we cover in this episode:

• Brad Beeler’s career journey and transition to teaching

• The power of calm and emotional contagion in communication

• The science of body language, tone, and presence

• Listening as a full-contact sport and why neutrality matters

• Practical strategies for building connections and safe spaces

• How to research and prepare for impactful conversations

• Safety and privacy in the digital age, especially for children

• Insights from Brad’s book, "Tell Me Everything"

• Understanding horns and halos and confirmation bias

• The difference between ethical influence and manipulation

• Treating everyone with respect and the importance of truth-finding

  
  

You’ll walk away from this episode inspired to rethink how you show up in every conversation—with strategies and mindsets used by one of the world’s top communicators. If you want to connect with Brad, visit BradleyBeeler.com or find him on LinkedIn or Instagram at BradBeeler1865. Thank you for joining us, and remember: your voice has the power to change the world.

Connect with Brad:

• Website: https://bradleybeeler.com   
• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/bradbeeler1865/  
• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bradbeeler1865  

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As I celebrate the podcast’s two-year anniversary, I’m excited to announce a special giveaway for listeners—a free 3-hour one-on-one coaching package for anyone who leaves a review and tags me on social media. But before we dive into the details of the contest, let’s get real about the Gen Z struggle, which honestly affects almost all of us: we want to be helpful, but we desperately need to protect our time and energy. This episode is all about striking that balance, and learning to say a strategic no that actually builds trust and influence.

Today, I’m guiding you through real-world strategies grounded in science and research for better boundary-setting. I start by unpacking why it feels so hard to say no: our brains literally perceive it as a social threat, triggering fight-or-flight mode thanks to the amygdala. Most people fall into two traps when refusing a request—either ghosting (avoiding the person altogether) or becoming a jerk (being overly blunt or aggressive). Both hurt your professional reputation and relationships. Then there’s the spotlight effect, which tricks us into believing everyone will notice and judge our refusal way more harshly than reality suggests.

Here’s what we covered in this episode:

• Why saying no feels dangerous, and the neuroscience behind our aversion to refusal

• Common failure modes to avoid: ghosting and aggressive rejection

• The Value Anchor Method explained and demonstrated with real-world scripts

• How to say no to your boss, teammate, or friend without burning bridges

• Tips for maintaining professionalism and protecting your reputation

• The mindset shift from seeing boundaries as walls to viewing them as foundations for strong partnerships

• A practical implementation challenge for listeners to practice the three-part refusal framework

• Resources for deeper learning, including my video with the NOPE Coach Suzanne Kolberg and my Formula for Public Speaking course

• Details about the two-year anniversary contest and how to enter

  
  

If you’re ready to upgrade your communication skills and build lasting influence—plus maybe win some free coaching—this episode gives you everything you need to start saying no with confidence, clarity, and kindness. Let’s turn boundaries into bridges for stronger, healthier connections in both your work and personal life.

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Today, I had the pleasure of sitting down with empowerment executive coach Varuschka Nagesar, whose rich and diverse background weaves together corporate law, global commercial leadership, and transformative coaching for high-achieving women. If you’ve ever struggled to speak up, felt like the outsider, or navigated culture clashes at work, this conversation is for you.

We started by diving into Varuschka’s extraordinary journey, from her roots and legal training in post-apartheid South Africa—a world shaped by diversity, multiple languages, and complex cultural nuances—to major commercial leadership roles in the UK, US, the Middle East, and Europe. She shared powerful stories about learning to honor different communication styles, from deciphering idioms in new countries to gaining respect for those doing business in a second or third language. Her insight: real connection starts with meeting people where they are, not just linguistically but culturally and emotionally.

Here’s what we covered in today’s episode:

• How global and generational diversity shapes communication and trust at work

• Why language and nonverbal cues matter—and how to navigate misunderstandings across cultures

• Dealing with being “the only one” in the room and turning that into your strength

• The difference between confidence and self-belief—and how to build both

• How self-limiting beliefs show up, and simple, real-world strategies to overcome them

• The role of core values and intuition in major life and career decisions

• Real-life stories and mindset shifts that helped Varuschka stop “swimming upstream” and find alignment

• Advice for listeners on taking the first steps toward authenticity, fulfillment, and empowered leadership

If you’re ready to step into your full influence, communicate more powerfully, or simply need inspiration to trust yourself, this episode is a must-listen. Thank you to Varuschka Nagesar for sharing her journey, wisdom, and practical takeaways. And as always, remember: your voice has the power to change the world.

Connect with Varuschka:

Website: varuschkanagesar.com  

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/varuschka-nagesar/ 

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Hi, I’m Tim Newman, host of the Speaking with Confidence podcast, and in this episode, I’m sharing the two biggest culprits I see sabotaging even the most brilliant communicators: a subtle vocal pattern that makes you sound like you’re asking for permission, and body language that screams nervousness instead of confidence. Instead of trying to sound perfect or change your personality, we’re getting practical with the “status reset protocol”—an actionable system you can use straight away to project authentic authority when you speak.

It’s just you and me digging deep into the mechanics of presence and authority. You’ll hear real-life examples, simple frameworks, and low-pressure exercises that you can start practicing immediately, whether you’re prepping for a big pitch or just explaining your work to a friend.

Here’s what we cover in this episode:

• Why up-talking—that rising inflection at the end of statements—can subconsciously make you sound unsure, even when you’re an expert.

• The hidden psychological impact of vocal patterns and how your audience’s brains interpret them.

• The most common physical habits that undermine your credibility, from “T. Rex arms” to the “fig leaf” and the infamous “windmill.”

• Why leaders look comfortable in their own space and how fidgeting or over-controlling your gestures actually backfires.

• How to become aware of your invisible communication habits (and why recording yourself is the most powerful tool you have).

• The “Punctuate, Don’t Pacify” method for transforming your vocal delivery, making sure your key points land with certainty rather than doubt.

• The “Gesture with Intent” framework so your hands support your message instead of highlighting nervous energy—and how to keep movements purposeful, not robotic.

• Easy, low-stakes ways to practice these new skills before you’re under pressure in a big presentation.

• The status reset protocol: picking one habit to watch for this week, building awareness, and gradually building unshakable authority.

  
  

Plus, I share details about our special giveaway to celebrate the podcast’s second anniversary, including how you can win a free, three-hour one-on-one coaching package focused on communication and leadership skills.

If you’re ready to stop unintentionally asking for approval and start commanding the room as a true expert, this episode is packed with practical strategies to make that leap. As always, head to speakingwithconfidencepodcast.com for a free eBook, more resources, and info about the Formula for Public Speaking course. Remember—progress, not perfection, and your voice truly can change the world. Let’s build your confidence, one episode at a time.

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I had the pleasure of sitting down with Patrick Van Der Burght, a founding member of the Cialdini Institute, licensed trainer, and business partner of Dr. Robert Cialdini—the author of the legendary book Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion. If you’re in the communication or leadership space, you already know Cialdini’s name—so having Patrick Van Der Burght join us is a real treat. Not only does he co-host the podcast Ethical Persuasion Unlocked, but he’s been teaching ethical influence to professionals for over two decades, helping them accelerate toward their personal and professional goals using behavioral science.

Here’s what you’ll learn in this episode:

• Why “no” usually just means “I don’t know yet”—not outright rejection

• How most decisions are made unconsciously, and what that means for communication today

• The difference between being liked and being similar, and how to use both

• Why giving value first (reciprocity) increases compliance and loyalty

• How to use testimonials and social proof for maximum impact

• Ways authority can be established ethically on stage or in business, without losing credibility

• The surprising power of scarcity and loss framing (“What will it cost you if you don’t act?”)

• How getting someone to take a small, public action makes them much more likely to follow through

• Why surveys and focus groups can so badly miss the mark on what truly influences behavior

• How these principles work not just professionally but in everyday relationships—persuading your kids, family, and friends

This conversation is loaded with actionable insight, memorable stories, and some eye-opening science. Patrick is offering a free ebook and other resources—don’t miss those in the show notes. And if you found this episode valuable, please drop me a comment or review—Patrick and I would love to know your feedback.

Tune in to discover how you can start hearing “yes” more often—without ever sacrificing your ethics!

Connect with Patrick:

Website: https://ethicalpersuasion.com.au/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ethicalpersuasion
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/patrick-van-der-burght/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ethicalpersuasion/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ethical_persuasion/
Twitter: https://x.com/yesmoreoften
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ethicalpersuasion
Book: https://yesmoreoften.com/

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As we celebrate the podcast’s two-year anniversary (with a special giveaway—don't miss the details!), I reflect on what it means to embrace confidence, resilience, and the power of vulnerability on stage. This episode is a bit different: using my own Pecha Kucha talk as a case study, I break down the presentation, highlight what worked, where I stumbled, and how you can learn from real-life examples. If you’ve ever let fear hold you back from speaking up, stepping onto a stage, or pressing “record” on a podcast, this one’s for you.

I’m joined at the top of the show by Roddy Galbra, who introduces me before I launch into my presentation breakdown. From that point, I take you step-by-step through everything: prepping the talk and building slides under a deadline, battling nerves, and the moment-by-moment coaching insights I’ve gained both from experience and good old-fashioned trial and error. Along the way, I share how tools like ChatGPT can be a feedback partner (and sometimes a brutal truth-teller!) when preparing for big moments.

Here’s what you’ll get in this episode:

• The inside story of my Pecha Kucha experience with only five minutes and 20 auto-advancing slides

• Candid reflections on starting too fast, handling nerves, embracing pauses, and managing mistakes as they happen

• Why humor, humility, and authenticity work better than perfection on stage

• Recognizing the importance of connecting your story to a clear call to action

• The value of critiquing your own performances—and the difference between authority and arrogance in public speaking

• Insights into how your fears might be tied up with your identity, and how to use that to fuel growth instead of hesitation

• Why your audience doesn’t connect with perfect—they connect with “messy,” real stories

• Actionable advice on what to improve in any talk: punching up your openings and closings, planting your feet, letting silence do the heavy lifting, and giving your audience a repeatable mental model they’ll remember

• Encouragement to step up, take action, and use your unique voice, regardless of nerves or previous stumbles

If you’re ready to move past fear and into progress—not perfection—this episode will encourage and challenge you to take your next speaking risk. Don’t forget, I’m running a special giveaway: leave a review for Speaking with Confidence, share it on social media and tag me, and you could win a free three-hour coaching package with me focused on communication and leadership skills.

Tune in, learn from my journey, and remember—your voice has the power to change your world.

Talk soon,Tim

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This week, I’m joined by Mike Wysocki, an award-winning author of Careers by the People and a seasoned veteran with over 30 years in tech sales. Mike’s journey is both cautionary and inspiring. After launching a successful career without the tools or guidance he needed, Mike has dedicated his life to helping the next generation develop the soft and professional skills they need to succeed.

We dive deep into the hard truths and realities of career preparation, from what’s missing in both higher education and K12 settings, to the vital importance of communication and other soft skills. We talk about why so many students—especially those who are first-generation and come from working-class backgrounds—are being left behind in a system that focuses more on education as an end in itself, and less on real-world outcomes.

You’ll also hear:

• The story behind Careers by the People and why Mike felt compelled to write it

• How he gathered authentic stories—from CEOs to actuaries to accountants—to help other students avoid the same pitfalls he encountered

• Why soft skills (or what some call “power skills”) like public speaking, communication, teamwork, and writing are more important than ever—and actionable ways for students to develop them, whether through Toastmasters, acting classes, or even stand-up comedy

• Practical strategies for career exploration, including talking to those inside—and outside—the industries you’re considering, seeking out summer jobs, volunteering, and joining professional associations

• The difference real-world experience makes, and why getting out of your hometown for a first job can open up your world

• The importance of follow-up and adding value in networking, not just collecting contacts

• Why students need trusted advisors from a range of ages and backgrounds, and why advice from peers isn’t enough

• What gives us hope about the next generation, and what still keeps us up at night

You’ll also catch us going back and forth on what colleges and employers could be doing differently, how parents and students can ask the right questions during the college decision process, and what we as educators and mentors can do to make the biggest difference.

Whether you’re a student, a parent, an educator, or someone thinking about your next step, this episode gives you the tools and real talk you need to move forward with clarity, courage, and confidence.

Tune in to hear the full conversation with Mike Wysocki—and stay with us till the end for his tips on making the most of every career opportunity and how to get in touch with him for more insights.

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Hi, I’m Tim Newman, a recovering college professor turned communication coach, and I’m excited to guide you through practical strategies for navigating communication challenges at work. In today’s episode, I reference Ryan Leak’s insightful book, How to Work with Complicated People, which inspired much of the approach I share.

We kick things off with an all-too-familiar workplace scenario: a colleague agrees to a deadline with smiles and nods, only to send a passive aggressive note a few days later that derails the project. Your instinct may be to fire back or just give up, but I explain why that reaction rarely solves the underlying problem—because the real issue is how complicated humans communicate with each other.

Here’s what we covered:

• Why communicating with complicated people is a universal challenge

• The importance of translating your message for different audiences

• How workplace communication direction changes your approach (up, across, and down)

• Strategies for communicating up: focusing on outcomes and impact with leadership

• How to handle peer-to-peer conflict through respect, questions, and common ground

• Four keys for giving clear, motivating direction to your team

• The difference between tactical fixes and building a true communication system

• The foundational skill of knowing your audience and message, and why it’s essential for every workplace conversation

Whether you’re reporting to a boss, negotiating with coworkers, or leading a team, you’ll leave this episode with actionable techniques to stop the cycle of miscommunication and start showing up—every single time—with clarity and confidence. Remember, the goal isn’t perfection—it’s consistent progress.

Before I sign off, don’t forget to grab your free eBook, “The Top 21 Challenges for Public Speakers and How to Overcome Them,” at speakingwithconfidencepodcast.com, and check out our Formula for Public Speaking course. Thanks for listening and always remember: your voice has the power to change the world.

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Have you ever wondered why taking action beats raw talent every single time, or how you can leverage new technology like AI without losing the heart and soul of your message? In this episode of Speaking with Confidence, we’re getting to the root of what it means to communicate with clarity, build your confidence as a storyteller, and stand out in our fast-changing world.

I’m Tim Newman, your host, a recovering college professor turned communication coach, and today I’m joined by the incredible Jim Edwards. Jim’s a true legend in the world of online business and communication, with almost three decades of experience helping entrepreneurs, coaches, speakers, and professionals get their messages heard. Not only is he a bestselling author of over three dozen books, but he’s also helped countless people find their voice and capitalize on their knowledge.

Listeners will also hear actionable advice on:

• Finding and sharing your own stories (even if you think you don’t have any)
• Developing patience and delayed gratification for long-term success
• Building confidence as a speaker through preparation and practice
• Using writing as a tool for clarifying your thoughts and improving your communication
• Harnessing AI as a creative accelerant, not a replacement for your ideas
• Understanding the new role of creators and curators in a world awash with content
• How to recognize and communicate your true value as a coach, speaker, or business owner

Whether you’re trying to write your first book, become a more compelling speaker, or navigate the digital landscape with authenticity, this episode offers real, practical steps and mindset shifts that will help you take your message and your confidence to the next level.

I’m so grateful to Jim Edwards for joining me and sharing his wisdom (and contagious enthusiasm). If you’re looking for even more confidence-building resources, don’t forget to visit speakingwithconfidencepodcast.com for your free eBook and more tools to help you unleash your voice!

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Have you ever wondered why some leaders inspire trust and action while others leave their audience confused or disengaged? In this episode of Speaking with Confidence, I dig into a hard-earned lesson from early in my own teaching journey: the dangers of overcomplicating communication.

Back when I started out as a teacher, my eagerness to impress led me to present high-level material to high school freshmen and sophomores only to realize that complexity wasn’t a sign of intelligence but a barrier to understanding. That moment of frustration, both for me and my students, revealed something powerful: people can’t appreciate your knowledge if you can’t explain it in a way they can grasp.

In this episode, I walk you through transforming the way you communicate, whether you're presenting to a boardroom, pitching a client, or simply leading a team. I draw on insights from leadership expert John Maxwell to introduce the law of simplicity, clarity, brevity, and focus on three mandates that can take your influence to the next level.

Here’s what you’ll hear in today’s episode:

• Why complexity pushes people away and can be a career killer
• How trying to “sound smart” with jargon or convoluted terminology signals insecurity, not expertise
• What actually builds trust and gets you noticed in leadership roles
• The 8th grader test: why your message must be clear enough for a middle schooler to understand
• John Maxwell’s three mandates for powerful communication clarity, brevity, and focus and how to apply them to all your messages
• Simple steps you can use to audit and improve your own communication before any meeting or presentation
• The real mindset shift: moving from ego-driven to audience-first
• How these principles not only change how others perceive you, but directly impact your career progress

By the end of this episode, you’ll be equipped with a practical framework to strip away confusion, communicate with true confidence, and make sure your message always lands. Remember, leadership starts with the ability to make the complex clear. I hope you enjoy the episode and start putting these mandates into practice right away because your voice really does have the power to change you.

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What separates a good communicator from a truly exceptional one and how can you ensure you’re not holding yourself back from the career you want? On this episode of Speaking with Confidence, we’re diving into the core of leadership communication, self-awareness, and the ever-changing landscape of workplace communication especially as technology like AI becomes more prominent.

I’m Tim Newman, your host and a recovering college professor turned communication coach. Today, I’m joined by leadership consultant, seasoned executive educator, and author, Michael de Lisser. With over 25 years of experience creating customized leadership development programs, coaching 500+ executives, and shaping the next generation of leaders at the University of Utah, Michael de Lisser brings wisdom, practical insights, and real stories to every answer.

Here’s what we cover in this jam-packed episode:

• The pivotal reasons leaders get fired and how communication is often at the root
• Michael de Lisser’s go-to method for transforming communication habits, from videofeedback to new behaviors
• The power of self-awareness and catching your “blind spots” early
• Recording yourself: why it's uncomfortable, but vital for growth
• Filler words, over-explaining, and other common bad habits and how to fix them
• Why trying to be “perfect” or someone else sabotages both your executive presence and credibility
• The unique challenges (and strengths) of younger generations in communication
• How AI is reshaping workplace communication, and why delivery still matters most
• The case for always customizing your message to your audience (with real boardroom examples)
• Building relationships to increase your influence and message “stickiness”
• Developing a pre-presentation ritual to manage nerves and “get in the zone”
• What executive presence really means and why authenticity wins over style every time
• How to use your strengths and shore up weaknesses to captivate any room
• Tips for practicing under pressure, bouncing back from mistakes, and celebrating wins on your communication journey

By the end of this episode, you'll have a toolkit of actionable steps to raise your self-awareness, break through old communication patterns, and show up with confidence no matter the audience or setting. If you’re ready to take your communication skills from good to great (and beyond), this one’s packed with insights you’ll want to revisit again and again.

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Have you ever left a presentation struggling to remember the speaker’s name, or worse, realized you might be that forgettable speaker yourself? In this episode of Speaking with Confidence, I tackle the real root of feeling like an imposter on stage and share practical steps to help you transform into the kind of communicator people truly remember.

Today, I’m guiding you through a topic that undermines so many presenters, yet rarely gets the attention it deserves: building your speaker identity. We often chase technique, obsessing over posture, gestures, and slide design, but we forget the foundation that makes those techniques powerful—who we are as communicators and what unique perspective we bring.

So, what exactly makes up your speaker identity? I outline the three pillars:

1. Your Unique Value Proposition—what only you can say about your topic based on your expertise, experience, and angle.
2. Your Authentic Communication Style—how you naturally connect, whether it’s humor, data, stories, or questions.
3. Your Signature Stories—the pivotal experiences that shaped your understanding and give emotional weight to your message.

You’ll walk away from this episode with:

• A new understanding of why identity—not just technique—makes speakers memorable
• Real-world examples of transformation through authenticity
• The three key pillars of speaker identity and how they work together
• A step-by-step exercise to claim your own speaker identity
• Immediate actions to align your presentations with your authentic strengths
• Insights for tackling imposter syndrome at its root

I close by reminding you—progress, not perfection, is our goal. If you want extra support, check out our free eBook or my full Formula for Public Speaking course at speakingwithconfidencepodcast.com. Remember, your voice has the power to change; all you need to do is bring your true self to every conversation that matters.

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Have you ever wondered what it really takes to become a confident communicator across cultures, generations, and languages? In this episode, I talk with Maria Rincon, a multilingual public speaking coach with roots in Colombia and China, a background in TV hosting, and experience as a communications consultant for the United Nations.

We kick things off exploring Maria’s journey—how she transitioned from television to her meaningful work with the UN, and what it’s actually like inside such a global, multicultural organization. Maria shares stories of teamwork across continents, adapting to cultural diversity, and the powerful lessons she learned navigating different communication styles, both professionally and personally.

Maria opens up about her move to public speaking coaching, detailing what she’s learned in her first year as an entrepreneur, including marketing challenges, building confidence, overcoming imposter syndrome, and establishing her unique approach. We discuss working with technical professionals worldwide and dig into foreign language speech anxiety—how it manifests and the practical techniques Maria uses to help clients overcome it, like embracing your accent and slowing down your speech.

We also dive into generational communication differences, debunking stereotypes about Gen Z and Millennials, and discussing the importance of empathy and building bridges across age groups. Maria provides a look at how work-life balance differs globally, especially after experiencing the Nordic approach firsthand.

Finally, we talk about the power of storytelling for leaders and professionals. Maria provides actionable tips on developing a story “bank,” the importance of practicing stories in different formats, and how to make stories resonate authentically in any setting.

In this episode, you’ll hear about:

• What it’s really like in the UN’s multicultural environment
• Navigating direct and indirect communication across cultures
• The ups and downs of starting a coaching business—and lessons in marketing and self-confidence
• Common obstacles like imposter syndrome and foreign language speech anxiety (with tips to overcome them)
• Generational communication differences and how to bridge the gaps
• Cultivating work-life balance across cultures
• The crucial role of storytelling in leadership and communication

You don’t have to be perfect to be an impactful communicator. From personal stories to practical advice, this episode is packed with insights to help you find your unique voice and show up with confidence, no matter the audience.

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Are you struggling to truly connect with Gen Z team members at work—or maybe you’re a Gen Z professional frustrated by colleagues who don’t seem to get where you’re coming from? In this episode of Speaking with Confidence, I tackle a challenge that’s becoming more important every day: How can we break down the generational communication barriers at work to build authentic relationships and boost performance for everyone?

I’m Tim Newman, a former college professor turned communication coach, and as your host, I’ve spent years watching the dynamics between Boomers, Gen Xers, Millennials, and Gen Z play out both in classrooms and boardrooms. Today, I unpack what really prevents us from connecting and share practical, powerful strategies you can use to start bridging the gap now—no matter which generation you’re in.

In this episode, I share plenty of real-world stories from my own career and consulting experience, plus research insights from leadership expert Dr. Tim Elmore. We dive into why the old “positional authority” model just doesn’t work with Gen Z, who grew up with access to unlimited information and have learned to question everything—including your title! Instead, we explore how building trust and authentic connection is the key to motivating and retaining Gen Z employees, and how these skills make us stronger communicators with everybody.

Here’s what we cover in this episode:

• How making people truly feel heard (not just tolerated) leads to better motivation and results
• The single biggest communication mistake managers make with Gen Z—and how to fix it
• Why authority means nothing if it isn’t backed by trust and demonstrative competence
• Three essential pillars for rebuilding your communication style: listening like you could be wrong, radical authenticity, and co-creating clarity with your team
• Step-by-step ways to transform feedback meetings from judgmental monologues into collaborative, solution-focused dialogues
• Simple, actionable tactics for onboarding new hires so they feel like they belong from day one—starting with relationship building over rules and policies
• Real case studies showing how these changes boost performance, deepen psychological safety, and drastically improve retention
• The difference between high accountability and strong connection—and why you don’t have to choose between the two
• A practical behavior change you can implement this week: brief, consistent, agenda-free check-ins that help you solve problems before they become resignations

Whether you’re a manager trying to motivate your Gen Z talent or a Gen Z professional craving genuine dialogue, this episode will arm you with strategies that work. Join me as we move beyond outdated authority models and start building the trust, clarity, and connection our workplaces—and our world—sorely need.

Thanks for listening and don’t forget to check out the free resources and courses at speakingwithconfidencepodcast.com. Let's make your voice—and your conversations—powerful enough to change your world.

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Have you ever wondered if it’s truly possible to rewire your brain for confidence—and finally break free from fears that hold you back? In this episode of Speaking with Confidence, I dive into the powerful world of hypnosis with certified hypnotherapist, speaker, and bestselling author Amy Koford. Together, we unravel what hypnosis really is, how it works, and ways it can transform not only our communication with others, but also the way we talk to ourselves.

We explore what led Amy Koford to hypnosis, including the pivotal moments and the “inner voice” that told her she was meant to help others in this way. Amy discusses how hypnosis goes far beyond the stereotypical portrayals in movies and television. She unpacks the science of trance states, theta brain waves, and how the subconscious mind can be retrained for breakthrough results. Whether it’s breaking a bad habit, boosting performance as an athlete, or conquering the fear of public speaking, Amy’s method emphasizes releasing limiting beliefs and replacing them with empowering ones.

I ask Amy about how hypnosis applies to speakers, communicators, and leaders. She draws a direct line between optimal athletic performance and high-impact communication, illustrating how both require clearing out fear, rewriting mental scripts, and visualizing success. We also touch on the challenges faced by self-proclaimed “control freaks” and how hypnosis can help uncover and heal the root causes of that need for control.

Here’s what we covered in our conversation:

• Amy’s path from personal struggles with depression to becoming a hypnotherapist
• What hypnosis actually is (and isn’t), debunking myths from pop culture
• How theta brainwaves allow for direct subconscious reprogramming
• The role of hypnosis in changing habits (like quitting sugar or smoking)
• How Amy helps athletes “clear the garbage” of past mistakes and perform with confidence—and how this same approach empowers public speakers and communicators
• The release-and-replace method for eliminating internal blocks and installing new, confidence-boosting beliefs
• Why we care what others think and strategies to overcome insecurity in high-stakes moments
• The importance of self-talk and the transformative power of the words “I am”
• A behind-the-scenes look at Amy’s bestselling book, Hardwired to Rise, and why tackling fear is at the core of healing and communication
• Practical exercises for taking out the “mental trash” and refocusing on what you truly want

Whether you’re looking to overcome stage fright, let go of self-doubt, or simply get out of your own way, this episode is packed with wisdom, real-world examples, and actionable steps you can use to build rock-solid confidence.

If you’re ready to take that next step, check out Amy’s resources at amykofoard.com and don’t miss her book, Hardwired to Rise, for deeper strategies on tackling fear and unlocking your most confident self. And as always, visit speakingwithconfidencepodcast.com for your free eBook and more resources to help your voice make an impact. Your confidence is closer than you think—sometimes, it just takes the right mindset shift.

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Have you ever wondered what it actually takes to grow as a speaker—beyond just practicing your presentation in front of the mirror? In this episode of Speaking with Confidence, I dive deep into the lessons I've learned on my own personal journey, including some pretty humbling moments and a behind-the-scenes look at how coaching and mentorship can truly elevate your skills.

This week, I’m sharing the story of how I went from a nervous college student—literally the guy who puked in speech class—to a certified, confident speaker and coach. It’s not just about getting over nerves; it’s about shifting your mindset, investing in lifelong learning, and realizing that vulnerability (not perfection) is what really connects us with our audience.

I also introduce Roddy Galbraith, John Maxwell’s own speaking coach, who played a pivotal role in helping me shape my story for the International Maxwell Conference’s three-minute speech contest. Roddy’s feedback pushed me to dig deeper, refine my delivery, and focus the message for real impact. If you’ve ever questioned whether coaching is worth the investment, wait until you hear the difference it made—and the advice Roddy gives.

Here’s what we cover in this episode:

• How joining the Maxwell Leadership Certified Team revolutionized my approach to speaking and coaching others
• What it’s like to compete in a high-stakes, three-minute speech contest—including the importance of timing and preparation, whether you’re speaking to 3,000 or just five people
• Why I believe coaching is essential for everyone (even John Maxwell gets coached!)
• A raw story from my past: the first time I had to speak in public—and why it ended with me throwing up in class
• The critical shift from perfectionism to authenticity, and the power of making your message about serving others
• Roddy’s actionable feedback: how to tighten your speech, amp up your delivery, and draw out the message that matters
• A side-by-side comparison of my first version and my final speech—showing exactly how much a story and performance can evolve with the right support
• My reminders about progress over perfection and the importance of chasing your potential, not letting self-doubt or others keep you from taking the next step

If you’re looking for inspiration, practical takeaways, and an honest look behind the curtain, this episode is for you. Plus, I’ll tell you how to grab your free ebook and register for upcoming speaking courses. Your voice truly has the power to change the world—but only if you use it. Thanks for listening and for being part of this journey with me!

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What does it really take to lead and communicate with Generation Z in today’s workplace? On this episode of Speaking with Confidence, I sit down with Dr. Tim Elmore, founder of Growing Leaders, bestselling author, and expert in multi-generational leadership. Dr. Elmore has spent decades developing emerging leaders—including an impressive 20 years by the side of John C. Maxwell—and he’s written extensively on what makes great leadership tick, especially in our rapidly evolving culture. If you’ve ever struggled to connect with Gen Z professionals or wondered why their anxiety levels seem so high, this is an episode you don’t want to miss.

I’ve long believed that Gen Z is smarter and more entrepreneurial than previous generations, and finally, Dr. Elmore’s new book, The Future Begins with Z, delivers the data to back it up. In our conversation, we explore the shifts in social and technological dynamics that have shaped Gen Z, especially how anxiety (now at levels comparable to psychiatric patients in the 1950s) has become a natural outgrowth of the overwhelming flood of information they face daily. We dig into the critical distinction between post-traumatic stress and post-traumatic growth—how leaders and educators can help foster resilience instead of victimhood.

Here’s what we cover in the episode:

• The roots of Gen Z’s high anxiety and how social media amplifies it
• Coaching young professionals through stress and building grit with empathy and compassion
• Key differences between post-traumatic growth and stress, and how to foster resilience
• How educators and employers can prepare Gen Z for professional success—through realistic expectations and reframing self-talk
• The “Stockdale Paradox” and the difference between hope and optimism in leadership
• The misconception that Gen Z doesn’t want to work, and data from real-world focus groups that prove otherwise
• The necessity of building trust and relationships before offering feedback or correction (“Connect before you correct”), and the ALEG feedback process
• Teaching and modeling soft skills that Gen Z may be missing due to pandemic-era screen life
• Why authentic, frequent, and brief communication trumps lengthy, infrequent updates—and why daily check-ins matter
• How leaders can admit mistakes openly to build trust and model real communication
• The velvet-covered brick as a metaphor for leadership: balancing empathy with accountability
• Recognizing and responding appropriately to practical, social, and emotional conversations—especially when leading younger team members

We wrap up with actionable steps for leading Gen Z better, starting right now—not tomorrow. If you want practical strategies, stories, and a hopeful look at how Gen Z can make us stronger leaders when we rise to the occasion, you’ll find gold in this episode. I’m grateful to Dr. Tim Elmore for joining the conversation and sharing his wisdom. For everyone ready to adapt, lead, and have more confident conversations with the next generation, this episode is for you.

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Are your words truly building the influence you want, or is there a hidden gap between what you say and how you act that's silently killing your credibility? In this episode of Speaking with Confidence, I dive deep into the powerful truth that your real message isn’t just what comes out of your mouth—it’s what people see in your behavior, especially when no one’s watching.

I open with a personal story about a tough leadership lesson: the painful disconnect between preaching innovation and risk-taking, and then acting in a way that totally undermined those values. Admitting that I was the one who once made this mistake sets the tone for radical authenticity and accountability—qualities I argue are essential if you want genuine influence.

Drawing on insights from John Maxwell's Everyone Communicates, Few Connect, I explain why your PowerPoint slides and pitch-perfect scripts are just window dressing. The heart of true connection and lasting influence is living out what you communicate. I tackle the myth that communication is all about how you craft your message and show why, instead, behavior is your primary message. Your team and clients have real-time “credibility audits” running in their heads, always weighing your actions far more than your words.

Here’s what I cover in this episode:

• The invisible gap between values and behavior that sabotages your influence
• A personal leadership mistake that taught me hard lessons about credibility
• Why your behavior communicates more than your words, especially under scrutiny
• How accountability—not perfection—accelerates trust and strengthens connections
• The step-by-step formula for owning and fixing mistakes with clients and teams
• A fresh take on vulnerability: how sharing learned wisdom (not present weakness) wins hearts and minds
• How to shift from a transactional to a partnership dynamic in any relationship
• The power of doing a quick “alignment audit” before key meetings to instantly increase impact

Whether you’re a leader, communicator, or entrepreneur, this episode arms you with actionable tools to make your influence grow—by living your message with confidence, accountability, and authentic vulnerability. And remember, we’re always chasing progress, not perfection!

As a quick update, next week’s schedule features a special guest and a holiday replay, so stay tuned. Don’t forget to grab your free eBook and check out my new book for even deeper strategies on turning your connections into true career growth. Thanks for joining me—your voice really can change your world.

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What if there was a proven way to help kids with dyslexia leap multiple grade levels in reading and writing—using strategies most schools never teach? On this episode of Speaking with Confidence, I dig deep into this question and reveal practical answers with the help of a truly inspiring guest.

Today, we’re diving headfirst into the realities of dyslexia—a condition that affects as many as 15 to 20% of learners, yet is still too often met with “let’s wait and see” in schools and by professionals. I have a personal connection to this topic, both as an educator and as someone with ADHD who faced my own hurdles in the traditional education system.

Joining me for this conversation is Russel Van Brocklen, known as the “dyslexia professor.” Russel Van Brocklen didn’t just study dyslexia—he lived it, spending his early years reading and writing at a first-grade level, even into college, before finally learning to read fluently in law school. He’s devoted decades to translating structured literacy research into practical, bite-sized strategies families can use at home. His story, and the successes he’s helped engineer for countless kids, provide a roadmap out of what can feel like an endless educational maze.

We explored Russel’s personal journey—from academic struggle and institutional roadblocks to academic success and expert status. We talk about the specific-to-general approach that flips how most of us were taught, and why it’s the leverage point for learners with dyslexia, ADHD, and other neurodiverse backgrounds. Russel shares real-life case studies, like Casey, a highly motivated fifth-grader who jumped eight grade levels in reading in just six months by leveraging her passion for Theodore Roosevelt.

Here’s what you’ll take away from this conversation:

• The unique brain-based challenges and strengths of learners with dyslexia and ADHD
• Why most accommodations don’t go far enough—and what actually works
• How to use a student’s “speciality” or passion as the engine for dramatic growth in reading and writing
• The “specific to general” teaching method and why it works where traditional methods fail
• Simple, research-backed home strategies that parents can use tonight
• The critical role of writing in organizing thoughts and boosting reading levels
• Why early intervention is key—and how to advocate for your child in a system that may be resistant to change
• How the right support can transform not just academic skills, but confidence and mental health
• Free and affordable resources for families (like dyslexiaclasses.com) and how to access expert help

You’ll also hear about Russel Van Brocklen’s experience working within state governments, pushing for policy change, and training both teachers and parents to make a measurable impact—sometimes in as little as just three hours of training!

By the end of this episode, you’ll have concrete steps for helping the neurodiverse students in your life succeed, and a new understanding of just how much potential every struggling reader really has. If you’ve ever felt like the system is stacked against kids who learn differently, this conversation will give you hope, strategies, and a path forward.

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Have you ever wondered why so many presentations lose the audience within the first thirty seconds? In this episode of Speaking with Confidence, I tackle the critical question: How do you earn an audience’s attention right from the start and keep it?

I’m Tim Newman, your host—a recovering college professor who’s now dedicated to helping others become powerful communicators. This week, we’re diving deep into one of the most fundamental but overlooked aspects of public speaking: the opening. Specifically, I reveal why the majority of speakers fail almost immediately by focusing on themselves, their credentials, or their agenda, instead of the needs and interests of their listeners.

In today’s episode, I’m walking you step-by-step through a transformative approach to strong openings. I break down the psychology behind audience attention, explaining that your listeners aren’t evaluating you at first; they’re evaluating whether what you’re saying is worth their time. Your goal in those first crucial seconds is not to impress, but to serve, to name a problem your audience is facing, and to offer a quick glimpse of a solution. I outline my favorite tool for this: the pattern interrupt hook.

Here’s what you’ll take away from today’s episode:

• Why focusing on yourself at the start of a talk is a guaranteed way to be ignored.
• How to use a pattern interrupt hook to break through audience filters and make them want to listen.
• The specific three-part opening formula: problem statement, immediate consequence, and solution promise.
• How to structure those opening thirty seconds to create curiosity and relevance.
• Examples of both weak and strong openings in meetings, networking, and public speaking.
• Tips on making the formula your own, reading the room, and communicating authentic urgency.
• The vital mindset shift from seeking validation to serving the audience’s needs.

Remember: credibility in communication comes not from listing your achievements, but from immediately solving the audience’s problem. By the end of this show, you’ll know how to grab attention with purpose, set the right tone, and provide value from the very first words.

If you want to grab your audience and guarantee your message lands, this episode will give you the tools and confidence to start every conversation strong. Don’t forget to visit speakingwithconfidencepodcast.com to download your free eBook and learn about upcoming courses. As always, your voice has the power to change—let’s make sure people are listening.

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Have you ever wondered why so many presentations and conversations end up sounding boring, or why teaching communication skills seems stuck in outdated paradigms? On this episode of Speaking with Confidence, we dive into exactly that—and explore what it takes not only to end boring communication, but to build genuine connection in every interaction.

This week, I'm excited to introduce my guest, Ivan Wanis-Ruiz. Ivan is on a mission to rid the world of boring, whether it's in public speaking, storytelling, or everyday conversations. He's a professional speaker, educator, emcee, and yes—salsa dancer—with a knack for bringing energy and engagement to any room. Ivan brings unique insights from his experience in dance, improv, and hosting live events, showing us how these seemingly unrelated disciplines offer strategies and inspiration for great communication.

We kicked off the episode swapping stories about Ivan’s journey from a bored newcomer taking dance classes to becoming a full-on salsa teacher, and how dance became his live laboratory for educational techniques. We explored the key elements of truly effective communication training—getting people actively involved, letting students speak in every session, and making exercises practical and applicable. Ivan described the importance of aligning teaching approach with the skills being taught, urging educators to break free from the “lecture then speak once at the end” model.

Here’s what we covered in this episode:

• How Ivan’s dance teaching doubled as a testing ground for interactive communication techniques
• The impact of engaging introductions and ditching the boring bio in speaking and events
• Why emotion in storytelling doesn’t have to mean trauma—how humor and uncertainty are just as powerful
• Overcoming awkward networking through strategic self-disclosure and volunteering
• Strategies for introverts to connect without burnout
• Why communication skills are now the real competitive advantage in a world of abundant knowledge
• Sugata Mitra’s revolutionary approach to education and learning through challenges and collaboration
• How to create engaging workshops with open-ended tasks, timed constraints, and group deliverables
• Why storytelling works best when it’s focused on problems, uncertainty, and emotional ups and downs
• How to leverage AI for brainstorming and developing memorable personal pitches using literary devices like tricolon and anaphora

If you’re ready to break old habits, boost your confidence, and make sure you’re truly engaging your audience—whether it’s on stage, at work, or in any conversation—this episode is packed with practical advice, stories, and straight talk you can use right now.

Thanks for listening. Don't forget to check out the free ebook and course at speakwithconfidencepodcast.com, and let us know how these strategies help you show up with confidence wherever you speak.

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How do truly powerful speakers command authority without relying on sheer volume or aggressive body language? That’s the question we’re answering on today’s episode of Speaking with Confidence.

In this episode, I dive deep into the art and science of authentic authority in communication. As someone who’s coached hundreds of professionals—and as a recovering college professor myself—I’ve seen firsthand that the most influential communicators aren’t the ones who try to dominate the room; they’re the ones who remain poised and structured, even under pressure.

There’s no guest on this episode; it’s just me, Tim Newman, guiding you through the exact three-step formula I teach my clients to help them show up with quiet confidence rather than performative bravado. We unpack the misconception that authority is about sounding loud or forceful, and replace it with a new paradigm built on control, clarity, and composure.

Here’s what we explored together:

• Why real authority can’t be faked and why it collapses under tough questions if it’s only an act.
• The first pillar: Structure. Most speakers fail before they begin because they don’t have a clear framework. You’ll learn how the “scaffolding principle” and the rule of three—simplifying your main points—help you build clarity, respect, and influence.
• The second pillar: Strategic pause. I share why silence is the most powerful tool for authoritative delivery. You’ll discover how replacing commas and periods in your mental script with intentional pauses instantly commands a room, eliminates filler words, and projects composure.
• Stories from my coaching experiences, including how a client turned a tense Q&A into a moment of control and how Steve Jobs used silence to demonstrate real thinking.
• The third pillar: The unavoidable verdict. We go beyond just informing audiences to inspiring action, guiding them to a single, compelling conclusion by engineering every aspect of your communication for clarity and impact.
• A step-by-step example of structuring a pitch and how to use the three pillars to build a winning case.
• Common pitfalls—like rambling or flooding people with data—and how to avoid them by focusing on simplification, strategic silence, and clarity of purpose.
• Practical takeaways for you to start practicing right away: from structuring your next team update, to slowing your speech with pauses, or defining your key verdict before preparing a presentation.

By the end of the episode, you’ll know how to stop chasing authority and start embodying it—naturally and consistently. If you’re ready to transform the way you communicate, visit speakingwithconfidencepodcast.com for your free eBook, Top 21 Challenges for Public Speakers and How to Overcome Them, and consider registering for the Foreman for Public Speaking.

Remember, your voice has the power to change. Progress, not perfection—let’s step confidently into every conversation that counts!

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Ever wondered why so many high-achieving leaders and communicators struggle to recognize their own value? In our 100th episode of Speaking with Confidence, we tackle this powerful question and much more with a very special guest who’s played a major role in my own podcasting journey—Alex Sanfilippo.

I kicked off this milestone episode reflecting on the journey so far and the importance of crafting your communication skills. From day one, Speaking with Confidence has been about helping you show up as your most authentic, impactful self—whether it's in storytelling, leadership, podcasting, or daily conversations. To celebrate our 100th episode, I invited Alex Sanfilippo, founder of PodMatch.com and the host of Podcasting Made Simple, to join me. If you’re not familiar, PodMatch is a brilliant platform that automatically matches podcast hosts and guests, a true game changer for podcasters looking to deliver more value and connect with new audiences.

We dove deep into topics that every communicator and leader will relate to—especially if you’ve ever doubted the impact you make. Alex Sanfilippo shared honestly about his own struggle with imposter syndrome, the challenge of recognizing the ripple effects of our work, and why surrounding yourself with the right people is so critical—not only for accountability but for remembering your successes and celebrating your growth. We reminisced about some of Alex’s earliest lessons as a 10-year-old entrepreneur selling golf balls, and how those negotiations with adults laid the foundation for his confidence and communication today.

Here’s what you’ll learn in this episode:

• Why so many high achievers underestimate their own value and impact
• How imposter syndrome shows up (even for seasoned leaders and creators)
• The importance of community—having people who’ll tell you when you’re doing great and when you need to grow
• How laughter, play, and fun can transform not just your mood, but your effectiveness as a communicator
• Lessons from childhood entrepreneurship that still apply to adult leadership and negotiations
• How to reflect on your day and extract lessons that drive growth
• The difference between representing yourself as a brand and representing a company—and why authenticity matters more than ever
• A powerful story about vulnerability on stage, and how genuine emotion connects more deeply than perfection ever could
• Tips for managing nerves before speaking, including “mindset hacks” to recast anxiety as excitement
• Why storytelling, not just well-organized points, is at the heart of powerful communication
• How to use your walk-up song or other rituals to channel energy and confidence before you speak

Whether you’re a podcaster, leader, or someone simply looking to speak up with more confidence, this 100th episode is packed with honest insights, practical strategies, a few laughs, and plenty of encouragement about the unique value only you can offer.

Thank you for being part of this incredible journey to 100 episodes. Tune in to hear my conversation with Alex Sanfilippo—I promise you’ll walk away ready to communicate (and live!) with more confidence.

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Have you ever wondered if your phone habits are actually rewiring your brain—and what you can do to reclaim truly meaningful conversations? In today’s episode of Speaking with Confidence, I dive deep into the reality of digital overwhelm, exploring how our constant connectivity shapes not only our attention spans, but also our ability to build real, lasting connections.

I’m Tim Newman, your host and a “recovering college professor” turned communication coach. If you caught my earlier conversation with Craig Mattson about digital overwhelm (and if not, be sure to listen!), today I’m taking our discussion one step further. This episode is packed with practical tips to help you break out of the screen-time spiral and nurture richer, more present communication—at work, at home, and everywhere it matters.

I unpack just how our devices—and the behaviors they encourage—impact our brains, our relationships, and our emotional well-being. Did you know that our attention span has dropped to less than a goldfish’s, or that checking your phone mid-conversation can physically hurt your relationships? I detail the science behind these findings, walking you through what’s really happening in your brain when you’re glued to your screen.

Here’s a sneak peek of what we cover in this episode:

• How excessive screen time quite literally changes the physical structure of your brain, especially the areas that keep your empathy and emotional processing sharp
• The eye-opening comparison between our attention span today and that of a goldfish (spoiler: the fish is winning)
• Why multitasking is just rapid attention switching, and how every notification derails your focus for as much as 25 minutes
• How checking your phone—even for a split second—during meetings or conversations triggers feelings of rejection and erodes trust
• The surprising emotional gap in text-based communication vs. phone calls or in-person chats, including why arguments take longer to resolve over text and why emojis don’t always help
• The neuroscience behind why social media may be numbing our real-world empathy, and how dopamine-driven interactions make it harder to form deep, lasting bonds
• Simple, science-backed strategies to repair your attention span—like the 90/20 rule, tech-free meal times, and delaying morning phone use—and the powerful results you can expect to see
• The truth about “multitasking” in virtual meetings and the dramatic drop in information retention when devices are present
• Why creating analog space and reducing digital distractions leads not only to better memory and increased empathy, but more rewarding, memorable conversations

Throughout the episode, I share practical experiments, easy habits, and real-world stories—along with the latest research—to help you make progress, not seek perfection. You’ll discover small changes that restore focus and connection, proving you don’t have to renounce technology to build your confidence as a communicator. Start with just one device-free meal a day and see just how much deeper your conversations can go.

Don’t forget to check out speakingwithconfidencepodcast.com for your free eBook and details on my public speaking course. Your voice matters—and with a bit of intentionality, you can ensure it’s heard, felt, and

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Have you ever wondered how introverts can thrive on stage and conquer self-doubt, even when anxiety and imposter syndrome are in the way? In this episode of Speaking with Confidence, we dive deep into the journeys, frameworks, and behind-the-scenes realities of overcoming hesitation so you can step up and speak out—no matter how nervous you may feel.

Today, I’m excited to welcome my friend Michael Pope: an international keynote speaker, leadership coach, and author of Doers Win the Day. Known as the Hesitation Breaker, Michael Pope brings over two decades of IT and leadership experience, having transformed software developers into adept people developers. His expertise centers on productivity, overcoming hesitation, and equipping high achievers and introverted professionals with the tools they need to succeed.

We explore the unique challenges introverts face when the spotlight is on. Michael Pope opens up about his process for “recharging on demand” after high-energy engagements and the importance of being present and available to audience members after events—even if it feels uncomfortable at first. We also discuss practical networking strategies, like attending events with a purpose-driven list of connections, and why you must add value to others before asking anything in return.

A major highlight of our conversation is imposter syndrome and the excuses that creep in. We talk candidly about those moments of hesitation—like almost inviting a dream guest on the show but never quite hitting send. 

We unpack Michael Pope’s signature DOER framework (Discipline, Opportunity, Eliminate Excuses, Responsibility) and how it applies not just to speaking, but to every area of personal and professional growth. He gives real-life examples of stretching outside your comfort zone, preparing for high-stakes talks (and recovering when things go wrong), and the importance of coaching and mentorship—no matter how seasoned you become.

Here’s what we cover in this episode:

• Why sharing personal stories (especially about family) builds trust and relatability
• Strategies for introverts to thrive on stage and in back-to-back networking environments
• The necessity of approaching events and networking with a clear, value-driven purpose
• The DOER framework and how to use it to push through hesitation, excuses, and fear
• Real talk on imposter syndrome and actionable ways to move past it
• How joining Toastmasters and investing in coaching can fast track your progress
• Surprising lessons from sharing the stage with legends like Les Brown and learning from mentors like Roddy Galbraith
• The process of preparing for a major keynote event—from understanding the client’s goals to practicing with intention
• When technology fails: staying cool, calm, and professional under pressure
• The power of recording yourself and constructive self-feedback for brand-new speakers
• Why celebrating small wins every day fuels growth and momentum for the long haul

If you want to find your authentic voice, build rock-solid speaking habits, and finally stop holding yourself back, you’ll want to listen to every minute of this episode. Tune in, take notes, and remember: your voice has the power to change the world—but only if you’re brave enough to use it.

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Are you building a network that looks impressive on paper, but feels hollow in practice? Are you craving genuine professional relationships that help you grow, not just fill your contact list? In this episode of Speaking with Confidence, I tackle the paradox facing modern professionals: staying "connected" but still feeling isolated. If you’ve ever wondered why your networking efforts haven’t translated into real momentum or meaningful relationships, this episode is for you.

I dive deep into the concept of what I call the Connector Climber—a mindset and system that blends authentic relationship-building with purposeful career growth. Drawing from years as a college professor and coach, I share hard-earned insights and a practical framework designed to help you move beyond the two most common personality traps: the Connector (the selfless but stagnant giver) and the Climber (the ambitious but isolated achiever). I reveal how recognizing which type you tend toward is the first step to transforming how you build your network.

In this episode, I unpack the reasons why simply "knowing everyone" isn’t enough, and why climbing the career ladder solo leaves you stranded. You’ll hear personal stories, including my own aha moment in academia and a powerful example from a client who broke out of the connector rut to lead strategic projects.

Here’s what I covered:

• Why most professionals fall into the Connector or Climber category, and why both approaches are incomplete
• The essential mindset shift: moving from being useful to being collaborative, and the role vulnerability plays in building lasting relationships
• How to define your personal “mountain”—the specific goal that catalyzes intentional connections
• The three non-negotiable rules for becoming a Connector Climber: knowing your mountain, auditing your circle for growth-minded influences, and creating value instead of trading favors
• Practical, real-world examples of what value creation looks like, and how to frame networking conversations as mutual exchanges rather than asks
• A step-by-step challenge to help you reconnect with someone in your network with clarity and intention
• The differences between transactional and transformational relationships, and how to build a team—not just a contact list—that supports your professional climb
• Resources for further growth, including my book Connections That Count and free guides for public speakers

By the end of the episode, you’ll be equipped with a system that transforms your approach to networking—from checking boxes to sowing the seeds of true collaboration and mutual momentum. If you’re ready to build connections that actually count, this episode is your roadmap to becoming a confident Connector Climber. Thanks for listening and being part of the Speaking with Confidence community!

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Have you ever wondered how seasoned performers capture and hold the attention of even the most distracted or reluctant audiences? On today’s episode of Speaking With Confidence, we answer that question and dig deep into what it really takes to build confidence, adapt on the fly, and show up authentically in every speaking situation—whether it’s a children’s birthday party, a raucous holiday park, or a high-stakes corporate keynote.

I’m Tim Newman, your host and recovering college professor turned communication coach, and I’m thrilled to share this episode with you because it offers a fresh perspective on stage presence, storytelling, and handling those inevitable moments when things don’t go as planned.

Joining me today is Tom Elliott, corporate event host, comedy magician, and storytelling coach, who brings a remarkable blend of entertainment expertise to the world of professional communication. Tom has performed across the UK for audiences that often weren’t there to see him, which has made him a master at winning over even the toughest crowds. His journey from performing magic and ventriloquism at children’s parties, to holiday parks and eventually the corporate world, is not only fascinating but full of practical lessons for anyone looking to build their influence through communication.

You’ll also hear us dig into:

• Tom’s origins in magic, ventriloquism, and the lessons learned from children’s parties and holiday park gigs
• Why corporate and holiday park audiences are worlds apart—and how to adjust your approach for each
• How to manage failing moments on stage and use them to grow (including both of our worst stories)
• The power of practicing in public, trying new material, and being willing to fail to get better
• What it really takes to grab attention in the first 30 seconds of any talk, meeting, or show
• How to dial up your natural personality traits by 10% for stage presence and audience connection
• The difference between internalizing your core message versus memorizing a rigid script, and how this helps you adapt with confidence
• Why personal stories work, even for people who are nervous to use them
• Building confidence through repeated action and practical strategies for anyone starting out (including organizing your own gigs!)

Tom also shares a free resource for anyone wanting to create a more engaging keynote, along with actionable tips you can put into practice right away.

Whether you’re a business leader, aspiring speaker, or someone who just wants to feel more at ease communicating when it counts, this episode is packed with insights, laughter, and the reassurance that failing is not the end—it's part of the path to becoming a powerful, confident communicator.

Thanks for joining us on Speaking With Confidence. Remember, your voice has the power to change the world!

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Have you ever listened to a recording of your own voice and thought, “Who is that?” If you’ve ever cringed at the sound of your voice on tape, you’re not alone. In this episode of Speaking with Confidence, I dive into why our own voice sounds so strange to us on a recording—and more importantly, what you can do about it.

I’m Tim Newman, your host and a recovering college professor turned communication coach. Today’s episode is all about bridging the gap between the voice you think you have and the one the world actually hears. I’ll show you why you don’t need to “fix” your voice, but understand what’s happening behind the scenes—both physically and psychologically—so you can finally build confidence in how you sound for your presentations, meetings, and important conversations.

There’s no guest this week; it's just me, sharing techniques and insights straight from my own coaching experience. If you’ve ever felt hesitant to speak up because you’re self-conscious about your voice, or you want to project more authority and command in your professional life, this episode is for you.

Here’s what I cover:

• Why your voice sounds so different—and often “worse”—when you hear it recorded, thanks to the physics of bone conduction versus air conduction.
• The phenomenon I call “imposter voice syndrome” and why it fuels self-doubt and anxiety.
• How exposure therapy can help you get comfortable with the sound of your recorded voice and shift from self-judgment to self-acceptance.
• Practical, immediately actionable techniques to power up your voice, including diaphragmatic breathing for resonance and steadiness, finding your optimal pitch with safe and easy exercises, and the strategic use of pauses to add authority and presence.
• Tips for using volume and articulation to ensure your message lands—so you never mumble or fade out at a crucial moment.
• How the way you use your voice transforms your leadership presence and credibility.
• Tactics for handling high-pressure situations, reading the room, and dynamically adjusting your delivery for maximum impact.
• Developing a simple, five-minute pre-speaking vocal warmup routine to make confidence a habit instead of a hope.
• The mindset shift from self-consciousness to audience focus so you stop apologizing for your sound and start using your voice as a strategic communication asset.

By the end of the episode, you’ll realize that your voice is not something to hide or “fix”—it’s your unique communication signature. With some deliberate practice and self-kindness, you’ll be on your way to speaking with authentic confidence, no matter the situation. If you take away only one thing today, let it be this: your voice has the power to change the world, starting with how you think and feel about it.

For more resources, remember to grab your free eBook and check out the Formula for Public Speaking rules at speakingwithconfidencepodcast.com. Until next time, embrace your voice and keep building that confidence!

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Have you ever wondered how your written communication—resumes, LinkedIn profiles, career documents—can truly reflect who you are and ensure you're projecting the same confidence and authenticity in person as you do on paper? If you’ve found yourself stuck, unsure how to craft your professional story, or if you want your talents and personality to leap off the page and into your interviews, this episode is for you.

Welcome back to Speaking with Confidence! Today, I dive into the art and science of translating your professional story onto paper, a skill just as essential as public speaking. I’m joined by Amy Adler, a nationally recognized career strategist and founder of Five Strengths Career Transition Experts. Amy is an expert in coaching executives and professionals to tell their stories in amazing, impactful ways—helping them shine in written formats and feel truly confident when meeting hiring teams.

Here’s what we covered in this episode:

• How life experiences and regional culture shape communication, both written and spoken
• Why adapting your style to meet people where they are (“The Platinum Rule”) builds trust and connection
• Listening as a superpower for introverts—and transforming introversion into powerful coaching and storytelling
• Building confidence by reframing your career journey as a forward-thinking, impactful story
• Techniques for career transition: defining strategy, setting attainable goals, and building momentum
• The power of authenticity and congruence between your written documents and your real self in interviews
• Advice for young professionals and higher education: letting students tell their whole story, not just check boxes
• Breaking through fear and vulnerability in the job search by seeking expert help—and why it’s a sign of strength, not weakness
• How collaborative coaching and resume writing can transform personal narratives, boost self-belief, and elevate career outcomes

If you’re ready to bridge the gap between your resume and your real, confident self—and learn strategies that make your written communication truly impactful—give this episode a listen. Huge thanks to Amy Adler for sharing her wisdom and experience with such empathy and clarity. And thank you for tuning in to Speaking with Confidence!

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Have you ever felt that sinking feeling during a meeting or conversation when you realize you’re losing the room—people are checking their phones, yawning, or just looking right through you? In this episode of Speaking with Confidence, I tackle exactly that challenge: how to read the room and respond in real time so you stay connected, engaged, and in control whenever you speak.

As someone who transitioned from being a college professor to a communication coach, I’ve seen firsthand how common these scenarios are—and I know how disheartening it can be when you feel your message isn’t landing. But here’s the good news: reading a room and understanding the invisible feedback loop in every group interaction isn’t an innate superpower. It’s a practical set of observation skills that anyone can learn and refine.

Here’s what we covered in this episode:

• Why reading the room is about observation, not mind-reading—and why anyone can learn it
• The big myth about social intelligence—and how being a better observer is the real secret
• The four universal behavioral cues that signal audience engagement (phone checking, yawning, fidgeting, blank stares)
• Real-world examples: what these cues mean in meetings, networking events, and interviews
• The importance of interpreting cues in context (and the dangers of knee-jerk misinterpretations)
• Easy, low-pressure ways to scan a room and spot behavioral patterns
• How to respond when you see signs of disengagement—without making it awkward or calling people out
• Techniques to shift energy, boost engagement, and reset the group dynamic
• Transitioning from self-consciousness to others-awareness to become a more intentional and confident communicator
• A simple exercise to practice observation skills in your next meeting

By the end of this episode, you’ll have a set of repeatable techniques to help you read any room and respond with confidence—no matter the situation. Remember, it’s about progress, not perfection, and every conversation is a chance to build this skill.

If you want to dive deeper, head over to speakingwithconfidencepodcast.com to grab your free eBook on overcoming the top public speaking challenges, and check out the format for the Public Speaking course. Your voice is powerful, and it’s time to use it to change your world.

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Have you ever wondered if charisma is something you’re born with, or if it can be built—and more importantly, how it impacts your confidence and effectiveness as a communicator? In this episode of Speaking with Confidence, I sit down with John Ball, a keynote and presentation coach who’s spent years helping speakers, coaches, and leaders boost their influence from competent to captivating. Today, we dig into the journey of finding your authentic voice as a speaker, the joys and challenges of adding humor to presentations, and the real value of showing up with warmth and confidence, wherever you are in the world.

John Ball brings a wealth of knowledge and experience to the table—not only as the host of The Present Influence Podcast and co-host of the Coaching Clinic podcast, but also as a professional speaker on topics like personal mastery and leadership communication. His global perspective as someone who’s lived in both the UK and Spain and spent years as a flight attendant puts him in a unique position to discuss connecting with different cultures, and how traveling has shaped his approach to communication and coaching.

In this episode, we cover:

• How traveling and working abroad expands your communication skills and comfort zones
• Using humor and warmth as universal connectors across cultures
• Why every speaker should try stand-up comedy at least once
• The difference between charisma and charm—and how to spot “fake” charisma
• Techniques to build genuine charisma (even if you’re not naturally extroverted)
• The process of testing and refining stories for presentations
• Emotional leadership and the responsibility you hold as a speaker
• Why presence and vulnerability matter more than perfection
• How to avoid charisma killers like overthinking and ego
• The importance of living with intention and making positive choices in how you show up
• Stage time as the single most effective way to improve your communication
• Storytelling tips: focusing on transformation, emotional flow, and audience engagement

If you’re ready to take your communication from competent to captivating—and want to put more humor, warmth, and charisma into every conversation that counts—this episode is packed with stories, strategies, and encouragement to get you started. Ready to step up, lighten up, and speak with more confidence than ever before? Listen now, and let’s grow together.

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Do you ever feel like you're doing all the “right” things at networking events, but somehow you still walk away with a stack of business cards—yet none of those connections turn into genuine relationships or career opportunities? If so, this episode is for you.

I'm Tim Newman, host of Speaking with Confidence, and in today’s solo episode, I dig deep into the art (and science) of networking—and why most traditional approaches are holding you back. You’ll hear why so many professionals get stuck in a transactional mindset, treating networking as a numbers game rather than a process of real relationship-building. If you’ve ever wondered why your networking feels hollow (or downright fake), we uncover the gap between “collecting contacts” and creating meaningful professional relationships that truly advance your career.

We start with the classic post-event scenario: you’ve met loads of people, exchanged business cards, but later realize you can barely remember anyone and end up tossing those cards into that infamous desk drawer where connections go to die. I call this “fake networking,” and it’s not just ineffective—it’s potentially damaging to your professional reputation.

Here’s what we cover in this episode:

• Why collecting business cards isn’t the same as building real professional relationships
• The damaging effects of transactional, numbers-based networking mindsets
• The two most common forms of fake networking: “self-serving connections” and “ghost follow-ups”
• The long-term reputational risks of fake networking tactics
• How leadership and influence (not just connections) determine your career potential
• A two-part strategy to shift to authentic, value-driven networking
• How to discover and articulate your unique value before every interaction
• The importance of research and matching your value to others’ real needs
• Why reliable follow-through is the ultimate networking credibility builder
• How to become the kind of connection others seek out—so opportunities come to you

If you want to break out of the cycle of shallow networking and start making connections that truly count, this episode will give you both the insight and the practical steps you need. Remember, your next professional interaction is an opportunity to show up differently, lead with value, and nurture a network that lifts you higher.

Thanks for listening to Speaking with Confidence. Check out speakingwithconfidencepodcast.com for your free eBook, The Top 20 Challenges for Public Speakers and How to Overcome Them, and find details on our Formula for Public Speaking course. Your voice has the power to change it—see you next time!

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Have you ever wondered what it really takes to speak confidently in front of any audience—whether it’s a crowded boardroom, a theatre-stage packed with anticipation, or a busy hair salon at age twelve? In this episode of Speaking with Confidence, I welcome back the incredible Rachael Edmondson-Clarke for her second appearance—a rare privilege on this show! Rachael’s journey from sweeping floors in her mom’s beauty salon to leading professional speakers across the UK and Ireland is more than inspirational—it’s a masterclass in authentic communication, building trust, and continuous growth.

In this episode, we dive deep into how early experiences shape our ability to read nonverbal cues, remain genuine, and adapt our energy to truly connect with others. Rachael shares the story of working reception in her mom’s salon—juggling two telephones, a crowd of clients, and a team of stylists—all before she was sixteen! She reflects on how tuning into body language transformed not only her customer service skills but also her capacity to lead and build trust, skills that have served her throughout her career.

Rachael takes us on a whirlwind tour of her professional journey: from impactful presenting workshops, to drama stages, to corporate boardrooms, and finally to becoming vice president of the Professional Speaking Association UK & Ireland. She shares candid lessons from competing in the Speaker Factor competition, including her “banana and dark chocolate” ritual, and how even a tough performance can be the launchpad for real growth when you have the right community supporting you.

We talk about the crucial importance of congruence—making sure your words, body language, and tone all align to build trust and credibility. Rachael’s anecdotes highlight that storytelling isn’t just about big, heroic moments; it’s also about the everyday stories (including her infamous toothbrush battery saga!) that make you relatable and memorable to any audience.

Throughout our conversation, we emphasize how practice, resilience, and vulnerability are key to developing as a speaker. Whether it’s learning from an uncomfortable video replay or dusting off your presentation after setbacks, the journey to confident communication is ongoing—and full of opportunities to embrace humor, share truth, and connect authentically.

Here’s what we cover in this episode:

• How reading body language and energy can elevate your communication—starting at the salon reception desk
• Why being congruent (aligning words and actions) builds trust with any audience
• Rachael’s transition from corporate marketing roles to leading professional speakers—and what she learned along the way
• The value of continuous learning and putting your skills into practice (even if it means watching yourself on video!)
• Behind-the-scenes secrets of the Speaker Factor competition (including performance rituals, nerves, and bouncing back from setbacks)
• The pivotal role of storytelling—why everyday moments matter as much as big, dramatic stories
• Using humor (self-deprecating or otherwise) as a powerful connector and communicator
• Practical advice for anyone looking to build confidence: find your own style, practice, and seek feedback from a supportive community

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Have you ever wondered why those first few seconds of a presentation seem to matter so much—and what you can do to make an unforgettable first impression? That’s exactly what we’re diving into in today’s episode of Speaking with Confidence.

As your host, I’m Tim Newman—a recovering college professor turned communication coach—here to help you transform how you show up in critical professional moments. In this solo episode, I dig deep into the pivotal opening seconds of any conversation or presentation, explaining just how quickly our audiences form judgments about us, often before we’ve even said a word. If you’ve ever stumbled over your opening line, tossed out a nervous “um,” or rushed an apology, you’re not alone. But research shows those tiny signals have an outsized impact on how credible and confident we come across.

We kick off this episode looking at the science behind first impressions and what’s actually happening in your audience’s mind before you’ve begun to speak. I break down how nonverbal cues—like body language, eye contact, and breath—are unconsciously evaluated, leading listeners to decide, in milliseconds, whether you’re someone worth tuning into. Whether you’re entering a boardroom or joining a casual conversation, those early moments count more than we often realize.

Here’s the game changer: I introduce a simple, research-backed technique called the “silent transformation.” At its heart, this approach asks you to pause—intentionally—for a few seconds before you speak. What feels awkward from the speaker’s side actually signals steadiness and control to everyone watching. I walk you through why this pause lowers your anxiety, helps focus your thoughts, and sets the stage for a much stronger connection with your audience.

Of course, how you follow that pause is just as important as the pause itself. I share the elements of crafting a memorable first line, offering examples of surprising statistics, bold questions, and vivid short stories that instantly generate curiosity and relevance. You'll hear practical routines to make silence feel natural, concise strategies to build anticipation, and methods to ensure your opening words have real impact.

By the end of this episode, you’ll have a clear, actionable plan for your next presentation:

• The psychological evidence behind snap judgments in opening seconds
• How nervous habits derail your credibility, and what to do instead
• The silent transformation technique: why a deliberate pause works wonders
• How to practice silence so it feels empowering, not awkward
• The three reliable ways to open with impact (statistic, question, or story)
• Connecting your opener to your audience for immediate relevance
• Why concise, rehearsed beginnings make you appear more confident and thoughtful
• A challenge for your next presentation, and a routine for daily practice

This episode is perfect for anyone who wants to move beyond shaky introductions and truly command attention from the moment they step into the room. If you’re ready to transform your presence and make every word count, start with these tools—and don’t forget to visit speakingwithconfidencepodcast.com for your free eBook and resources to keep building your skills.

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Have you ever wondered why working hard and being excellent isn't always enough to get noticed at work, especially if you're aiming for a leadership role? On this episode of Speaking with Confidence, we explore why self-advocacy is the secret ingredient to career advancement—and how not speaking up can leave you overlooked, no matter your achievements.

In today's show, I’m joined by Rosie Zilinskas, a certified high performance coach, Colby consultant, and former Fortune 500 executive vice president. Rosie’s own journey through the corporate ranks brought her face to face with the reality so many mid-career women encounter: results and dedication alone don’t guarantee recognition or promotion. After enduring a difficult divorce and becoming the sole provider for her young children, Rosie doubled down on her work ethic—only to watch others move ahead while she waited to be noticed. The breakthrough came when a senior executive told her, “You never said anything,” and this sparked a powerful realization about the importance of communicating your ambitions.

This episode is packed with insights and stories about:

• Why excellence alone isn’t enough for career advancement
• The necessity of vocalizing your ambitions and goals at work
• Key strategies to self-advocate and communicate your value
• How generational and gender differences affect workplace perceptions
• Handling feedback: turning criticism into growth fuel
• The four main barriers women face when seeking promotion (worthiness, popularity, skills, visibility)
• Actionable preparation tips for meetings, interviews, and networking events
• Overcoming emotional inhibitors and reframing limiting beliefs
• The role of self-awareness in building confidence and driving your career forward

Rosie delivers practical advice for anyone wanting to take ownership of their professional development, push past self-imposed obstacles, and show up confidently—no matter where you are in your journey. If you’re ready to stop waiting to be chosen and start actively building a career you love, this episode will give you the tools and mindset shifts you need.

Tune in now and discover how speaking up for yourself truly changes your journey.

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What would you do if you were asked to give a speech on the spot—with zero time to prepare? That’s the question we’re tackling in today’s episode, and if you’ve ever felt your heart drop when called on unexpectedly, this one’s for you.

Welcome back to Speaking with Confidence—I’m Tim Newman, a recovering college professor turned communication coach. Today, we’re diving into the “emergency kit” that pros use when they have to speak without warning. If you’ve ever found yourself in a meeting, tasked to cover for a colleague who didn’t show up, or asked for a project update out of the blue, you know the stress of thinking on your feet. While nothing replaces thoughtful preparation, everyone needs a go-to strategy for those moments when life throws curveballs.

In this episode, you’ll hear:

• How to use the PREP method for instant structure
• The power and practicality of the Rule of Three
• The “ten second trick” for gaining time and composure
• Why stories and examples beat theories every time
• Real-life scripts for handling pressure in meetings and presentations
• How to combine these techniques for a clear, confident 5-minute presentation—even when you’re put on the spot

Thanks for tuning in to Speaking with Confidence. Until next time—keep practicing, keep growing, and keep letting your voice be heard.

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Have you ever wondered why empathy is often considered a “soft skill,” and whether it truly has a place in driving real results within leadership, organizations, and communication? On this week’s episode of Speaking with Confidence, I tackle this question head-on with my guest, Dr. Melissa Robinson-Winemiller, an expert in empathy, emotional intelligence, and visionary leadership.

I’m Tim Newman, your host–a recovering college professor turned communication coach. Every week, I help listeners build the skills and confidence they need to show up powerfully in every conversation. Today, I’m thrilled to welcome Dr. Winemiller, whose mission is to help leaders become future visionaries by making empathy skills-based, data-driven, and results-oriented. Melissa brings a rich background as both a world-traveling musician and a former academic who has dedicated her life to understanding and teaching empathy for profit, productivity, and innovation.

Our conversation kicks off with Melissa’s fascinating backstory: how a lifelong passion for music took her across the globe, on tours and prestigious stages, and even saw her playing French horn alongside legends like Ray Charles and conversing with David Ogden Steers (MAS*H’s Winchester). As Melissa shares, her journey from the world of performance to academia—and ultimately to empathy research—was shaped by witnessing both the highs of artistic connection and the lows of broken, unempathetic systems.

Here's what we covered:

• Melissa’s journey from international touring musician to empathy expert and academic
• Life and communication lessons from the world of music performance
• The vulnerability of public speaking versus musical performance
• Teaching and connecting with students through listening and individualized communication
• The real impact of empathy (and lack thereof) in education and business
• Why empathy is undervalued—and how research supports its ROI
• Strategies for leaders to foster trust, engagement, and innovation through empathy
• The Johari Window model for communication and self-awareness
• The difference between kindness and niceness in leadership and business
• Practical ways to build empathy in teams and organizations (plus when real change requires a leadership overhaul)
• The case for embedding empathy in educational systems from an early age
• Real world examples from Melissa’s book about the financial and human costs of broken organizations
• Where to find Melissa’s book, connect online, and catch her TEDx talk (soon to be released!)

Melissa’s insights go far beyond theory—they’re deeply rooted in lived experience, rigorous research, and a powerful vision for future-forward leadership. Don’t miss this episode if you want to learn how to use empathy not just to “feel good,” but to drive lasting, meaningful results in your work and life.

Thanks for joining me—Tim Newman—on this journey to speaking with confidence. Be sure to check out speakingwithconfidencepodcast.com for your free eBook, “Top 21 Challenges for Public Speakers and How to Overcome Them,” and stay tuned for our next episode!

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Have you ever walked out of an interview thinking you nailed it, only to get that dreaded rejection email? If you’ve ever wondered why your answers weren’t as memorable as you hoped, you’re definitely not alone—and this episode of Speaking with Confidence is for you.

I’m Tim Newman, your host and communication coach, and today we’re diving deep into a question that can make all the difference between being passed over and landing the job: How do you turn routine interview answers into momentum-packed stories that recruiters remember?

In this solo episode, we explore the power of storytelling in interviews—specifically, how moving away from bland job description recaps and instead zeroing in on moments when you made a real difference can set you apart from the crowd. We’ll unpack the biggest mistake most candidates make: defaulting to flat, activity-based responses that tell interviewers what you did, but not how you moved the needle.

You’ll hear why showing measurable progress is so powerful, both for impressing human hiring managers and even AI-driven applicant tracking systems. We’ll dig into the neuroscience behind why stories that highlight change and results are 22 times more memorable than plain lists of tasks. Most importantly, I’ll arm you with my Momentum Story Blueprint—a repeatable, actionable formula based on the STAR method that will help you frame your contributions in ways that recruiters will notice (and remember).

In today’s episode, we cover:

• The real reason so many candidates blend together in interviews—and how you can stand out
• How to move beyond listing job duties and instead showcase your impact, growth, and results
• The science behind why outcome-focused stories stick with interviewers
• How John Maxwell’s Momentum Principle applies to interviews (and why “the law of the big Mo” is your secret weapon)
• Why skill-based hiring trends and even AI screening tools favor momentum-driven answers
• A step-by-step breakdown of the Momentum Story Blueprint: how to define the situation, detail actions, and cement your results with metrics
• Real-life examples that show you how to transform your raw experiences into compelling evidence of future potential
• Practical tips for sharpening your stories, practicing them for video or audio interviews, and ensuring every answer packs a punch

By the end of this episode, you’ll know how to show—clearly and confidently—not just what you’ve done, but the visible difference you can make. Whether you’re preparing for your next big interview or just want to get better at communicating your value, this episode gives you the tools to prove you’re the candidate who brings momentum wherever you go.

Ready to move your career story forward? Hit play and let’s get started. And don’t forget—after you listen, head over to speakingwithconfidencepodcast.com for your free eBook and more resources to help you become a memorable, confident communicator.

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Have you ever wondered what it really takes to lead with clarity, courage, and impact, without burning out or losing yourself in the process? In this episode of Speaking with Confidence, we dive deep into that question and explore the real-life challenges and mindset shifts required to build a fulfilling, sustainable leadership journey.

I’m Tim Newman, your host and a recovering college professor turned communication coach. Today, I’m joined by an inspiring guest: Rachael Edmondson-Clarke. Rachael brings an extraordinary wealth of experience from her years as a senior corporate leader to her current role running Elevar, her own leadership consultancy. Over the past decade, she's helped countless high-performing leaders and teams show up bravely, with clarity and authenticity, even in challenging environments. Rachael is also a former regional Vice President and President of the Professional Speaking Association in the UK and Ireland, and a sought-after speaker, coach, and consultant. She’s the perfect person to help us unpack the realities of leadership, personal growth, and balance in a fast-paced world.

In our conversation, Rachael opens up about what it was like climbing the corporate ladder before facing a sudden, life-changing wake-up call—a moment that forced her to reevaluate everything she thought she wanted. She describes the intense pressure of trying to “push through,” the toll it took on her health and relationships, and how it ultimately led to her collapsing in her office. Most importantly, she shares how she rebuilt her life and career from that moment of crisis, moving from survival mode to creating a business that aligns with her values, energy, and mission.

Other highlights include:

• The hidden costs of always being “on” and why biology can’t be outsmarted by mindset alone
• Practical approaches for restoring your energy and avoiding the traps of toxic productivity culture
• How organizational culture and unaddressed emotional needs impact team engagement, trust, and retention
• Tips for effective boundary-setting, especially in meeting-heavy, high-pressure environments
• The importance of honest, direct feedback from mentors and creating an inner circle that pushes you to grow—and how “fierce empathy” is the balance between tough love and real support
• A free tool from Rachael (The Pause) to cut through overwhelm and help you lead from truth, not fear
• Why the real value of personal development isn’t just your own growth, but how you show up as the leader the world needs

If you’re ready to step out of survival mode and into leadership that’s both impactful and sustainable—whether in your organization, your community, or your own household—this episode is packed with insights you’ll want to put into action right away.

As always, you can find resources and Rachael’s free download in the show notes. And don’t forget to grab your free copy of my Top 21 Challenges for Public Speakers, or check out our public speaking course at speakingwithconfidencepodcast.com.

Remember, your voice has power. Use it well, and you can change the world.

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Have you ever left a meeting feeling like you spent the whole time talking about yourself—or maybe stuck listening to someone else do it? On this episode of Speaking with Confidence, I’m diving into a challenge that creeps into nearly every workplace: dealing with the “me monster” and transforming conversations to actually build connection, trust, and meaningful collaboration.

I’m Tim Newman, your host, communication coach, and former college professor. This week, I’m tackling the tricky question: How do you handle difficult coworkers or even notice when you might be the “difficult one” yourself? In this episode, you won’t have to guess—I’ll show you simple ways to spot the habits that undermine teamwork and share a repeatable blueprint for having conversations that truly make a difference.

We start by recognizing an all-too-common office scenario: a team frantically working on a crashed server, while one coworker (let’s call her Sarah) dominates the conversation with off-topic stories about her weekend. While Sarah isn’t a villain—just another busy teammate slipping into autopilot—her “me monster” tendencies chip away at team cohesion and productivity. I’ll walk you through how science explains this instinct and why our brains so easily 

Here’s what you’ll walk away with:

• An honest look at what drives the “me monster” and how to recognize it in yourself and others
• Three red flags that signal you’re derailing conversations
• John Maxwell’s five-step Law of Connection—how to set your agenda aside, ask great questions, lean in, recall meaningful details, and follow-up
• Practical ways to apply a collaboration mindset, even with the toughest coworkers, and scripts you can start using today
• Awareness of how small communication changes can build trust, psychological safety, and unlock creative solutions on any team
• A micro-experiment for your next meeting to shift from “me-first” to shared success

Thanks for joining me on Speaking with Confidence. Remember, your voice has the power to change the dynamic of any team and every conversation. Keep practicing, keep connecting, and I’ll see you next time!

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Welcome back to “Speaking with Confidence.” I’m Tim Newman, your host and recovering college professor turned communication coach. In this episode, I dive into how radical responsibility shapes not only the way we communicate but the core of how we relate to ourselves and others. We look beyond typical “confidence” and get to the heart of conviction—the mindset shift that changes how we show up in our lives.

Joining me is Clay Moffat, a Navy veteran and performance strategist with a truly remarkable journey. Clay has been on top, coaching billionaires and building a seven-figure business—only to lose it all in a high-stakes startup crash. He faced the frightening possibility of permanent blindness while rebuilding his life, and from those experiences, Clay created the concept of the "trust trap"—the focus of his new book. Clay’s work helps people break free from the nervous system patterns and mental habits that keep us stuck in self-doubt, blame, and unproductive cycles, teaching not just confidence, but conviction rooted in personal power.

Our conversation starts with the central idea: what does it mean to take “radical responsibility” for our lives? Clay explains that it’s not about blaming yourself, but about owning even that “1%” of any situation that you can control or influence. As Clay puts it, reclaiming any sort of personal power, freedom, and forward motion in life begins with this kind of self-honesty. We talk about why the question “Why is this happening to me?” traps us in victimhood, and how reframing it to “How did I create this?” can shift us from powerlessness to agency. Through everyday stories—from missed vacations to major financial decisions—Clay shares how this mindset applies whether the stakes are small or life-changing.

Here’s what we covered in this episode:

• What is radical responsibility and how does it differ from blame or self-criticism?
• The difference between “confidence” and “conviction,” and why conviction matters for real communication and presence.
• How to spot when you’re stuck in victim thinking, and the questions to ask yourself to regain personal power.
• Practical strategies for transforming negative self-talk, including a four-step process to create a more supportive inner dialogue.
• The hidden ways family patterns and early conditioning shape our self-image and choices—often beneath conscious awareness.
• Why we ignore red flags and how our brains’ desire for shortcuts can create unhelpful mental “brackets” about people and situations.
• Real-life stories from Clay about high-stakes decision making, resilience, and bouncing back from major setbacks.
• How to own your story, communicate more authentically, and set a new standard for leadership, parenting, and self-trust.
• The power of mindset—the small language shifts that can open new pathways for growth, resilience, and effective action.
• Insights from “Trust Trap” on reclaiming authority over your life—even when circumstances and the world try to pull your power away.

Listen in to learn how taking radical responsibility can revolutionize how you see yourself, how you show up in the world, and the trust you create with others and yourself.

Don’t forget, you can connect with Clay Moffat on X (formerly Twitter) @MoffatClay o

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Have you ever wondered if miscommunication might actually help you become a more engaging and memorable communicator? In this episode of Speaking with Confidence, I explore a surprising twist on a familiar idea: sometimes, leaving a little room for confusion or ambiguity can actually boost curiosity, spark discussion, and fuel unforgettable moments—on stage, online, and even in negotiation.

I'm Tim Newman, your host—a recovering college professor turned communication coach—and I’ve spent over 80 episodes talking about the power of clear communication. But today, I flip the script and dive into why miscommunication isn’t always the enemy it’s made out to be. From viral memes and comedy to business leadership and marketing, I share the latest research and real-world examples of how a bit of strategic ambiguity can capture attention, create energy, and invite others to actively engage with your message.

No guest joins me for this episode, but I take you on a journey through some fascinating insights from communication scholars, comedians, media analysts, and strategists. I unpack how, across a variety of settings, purposeful ambiguity can spark engagement, inspire creativity, and keep people talking long after the conversation ends.

Here’s what I cover in this episode:

• Why the gap between what’s said and what’s meant is the secret behind viral memes, comedy punchlines, and successful negotiations.
• Research showing that a little uncertainty or open-endedness can actually draw people in and hold their attention—sometimes much more than a perfectly explained message.
• How memes like “Distracted Boyfriend” and “Woman Yelling at Cat” harness ambiguity to invite endless audience participation and creativity.
• The role of strategic ambiguity in business, leadership, and marketing—for example, how broad or aspirational language attracts more candidates and participants by letting them see themselves in the picture.
• How comedians turn miscommunication into laughs by intentionally leading audiences down the “wrong path” before delivering the twist.
• The importance of timing, empathy, and precision when using ambiguity—whether you’re crafting a brand campaign, negotiating, or writing a killer joke.
• The line between clever ambiguity and harmful confusion—where to draw boundaries to make sure your message is effective and respectful.
• Practical tips to experiment with curiosity gaps and partial premises in your own speaking and writing, while always putting your audience first.

If you want to make your communication more engaging and memorable—or just want to understand why the most viral moments are often the least perfectly polished—this episode offers a new perspective on why “less clarity” might, at times, be more powerful.

Be sure to grab your free eBook, The Top 21 Challenges for Public Speakers and How to Overcome Them, at speakingwithconfidencepodcast.com, and check out my Formula for Public Speaking groups. And remember: your voice has the power to change the world. Catch you next time!

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What does it really take to become a powerful speaker, even if you’re terrified of public speaking? On this episode of Speaking with Confidence, I’m taking you deep into the strategies, stories, and mindset shifts that will help you overcome your fears and truly connect with any audience.

I’m your host, Tim Newman, a former college professor turned communication coach, and today, I’m joined by a truly inspiring guest: Terry L. Fossum. Terry isn’t just a survival reality show winner; he's a Wall Street Journal, Amazon, and Barnes & Noble best-selling author, a keynote speaker, and his TEDx talk has been recognized as one of the top 30 talks in the country. He’s also raised millions for charity and taught at the MBA level. Most importantly for our listeners, Terry knows a thing or two about turning nerves into powerful moments on stage, and he’s passionate about helping others do the same.

In our conversation, we dove into why real, honest, and clear communication is at the heart of succeeding under pressure, both in survival situations and in everyday life. Terry shares how being on a survival reality show, partnered with someone totally opposite from him, forced him to communicate at a whole new level. He also reveals how his experiences as a scoutmaster and military officer taught him the value of finding the good in people from all backgrounds and leading with purpose.

Here’s what we talk about in this episode:

• How survival skills and communication go hand-in-hand (with plenty of hilarious and moving stories from Terry’s reality show days)
• What to do when team conflict and stress threaten to derail your message or working relationships
• The power of owning your mistakes, giving others grace, and building credibility through authenticity
• Why emotion, not facts, drives action and how to leverage that in any speech or presentation
• The “position of power” technique to conquer nerves and step on stage with confidence every time
• The critical first five seconds: hooking your audience and making the talk about them
• Why being vulnerable and sharing your failures is actually your superpower as a communicator
• An intro to the SIMPLE framework for public speaking, and how to build talks that get standing ovations (and results!)
• Tips for landing, crafting, and performing a TEDx talk that really stands out

By the end of this episode, you’ll have actionable inspiration and tools to step into your own power as a speaker, no matter where you’re starting from. And always remember: your voice can change the world.

Don’t forget to check out Terry’s book, his podcast “The Comeback Chronicles”, and all of the resources we mention, including the free IdeaScore AI tool to score your TEDx ideas.

Thanks for listening to Speaking with Confidence. Subscribe to never miss an episode and visit speakingwithconfidencepodcast.com for additional tips and free resources to support your journey to becoming a confident and impactful speaker.

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Have you ever thought, “I don’t have any stories to tell,” or wondered where people get those everyday stories that connect so powerfully with their audience? In this episode of Speaking with Confidence, I dive headfirst into that question and show you exactly how to spot and share the remarkable stories already hiding in your daily life.

I’m Tim Newman, your host, and as a recovering college professor turned communication coach, I know first-hand how easy it is to believe your life doesn’t serve up “epic” stories worth sharing. But the truth I’ve learned through both experience and science is that your best stories are simpler, closer, and more relatable than you ever imagined. Today, we’re flipping the script on storytelling by focusing on the small, ordinary moments that hold hidden magic when you know how to uncover and frame them.

This episode is just me no guest because I wanted to dig deep into my favorite topic: the practical art of everyday storytelling. I share personal experiences (including my own mishaps and embarrassments), research findings, and creative exercises you can use right away.

Here’s what we tackle together:

• Why chasing after “epic” stories is a waste of energy, and how your camera roll, junk drawer, and overheard conversations are loaded with potential story material.
• The science behind why small, vulnerable stories are more memorable and create stronger audience connection than polished, fact-based presentations.
• My three-step rule for quickly turning small disasters (like burning your grilled cheese or missing the bus) into engaging stories anyone can relate to.
• How to turn random objects (think broken watches or lone hairpins) into compelling story seeds using a practical three-step exercise.
• Techniques for mining everyday dialogue like coffee shop chatter for real, emotional narrative arcs, and how to practice capturing those authentic moments.
• Why sharing imperfect, unpolished stories is so powerful (spoiler: it helps your listeners remember and see themselves in your story).
• A practical challenge for you: pick five ordinary things over the next week and use the three-step micro story method to discover just how many stories your “ordinary” life truly holds.

If you’ve ever felt stuck when someone told you to “just tell a story,” by the end of this episode, you’ll have the tools and most importantly, the mindset to pull stories from even the most unremarkable corners of your day. Remember, your daily life is full of story prompts just waiting to be told, and those stories are your greatest assets as a communicator and connector.

Don’t forget to grab your free ebook, “The Top 21 Challenges for Public Speakers and How to Overcome Them,” at speakingwithconfidencepodcast.com, and check out my Formula for Public Speaking course. Thanks for joining me, your voice truly has the power to change the world. See you next time!

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Have you ever wondered what it truly takes to stand out, move up quickly in your career, and speak confidently, especially when you’re just starting out? In this episode of Speaking with Confidence, I dig deep into the real skills that make the difference between simply doing the work and truly excelling–skills that aren’t always on the job description, but that employers look for and reward.

I’m Tim Newman, your host and a former college professor turned communication coach. My passion is helping people build the soft skills that lead to real results, whether in storytelling, public speaking, or just showing up with more confidence. This week, I’m thrilled to speak with Brianne Rush, the founder of The Independence Lab. Brianne is a powerhouse when it comes to helping Gen Z women make the leap from college to career. She rose through the ranks incredibly quickly from intern to managing editor in a year, and employee to VP in four years by learning to decode workplace dynamics, advocate for herself, and, most importantly, overcome her fear of public speaking.

We kick off the conversation with Brianne’s story—how she knew from the age of eight that she wanted to move to New York to be a journalist, and what it felt like to finally live that dream. Brianne shares what inspired her to choose New York, how her experiences in dance and performance influenced her, and why total immersion in a city full of energy was essential to her identity and early career. She explains the lessons she learned—not just about working hard and climbing the ranks, but about truly living in the moment and building genuine connections, both professional and personal.

Here’s what we cover in this episode:

• Brianne’s journey from dreaming of journalism in New York to landing and advancing in her dream role
• The importance of immersion, living in the moment, and building meaningful experiences early in your career
• Lessons about working hard, networking, and creating opportunities for yourself—even when you start at the bottom
• What employers are really looking for in hiring today: the power of soft skills like passion, curiosity, proactivity, and communication
• How to stand out authentically in interviews—using storytelling, personalized cover letters, and honest conversation instead of relying only on AI
• Practical strategies to display confidence, curiosity, and proactivity in every step of your job search
• Brianne’s advice on career advancement: emotional intelligence skills, self-awareness, handling setbacks, and the value of progress over perfection
• Navigating boundaries, learning to say no, and prioritizing projects that advance your career (with a special focus on women in the workplace)
• Gen Z’s growing focus on self-knowledge, life transitions, and ditching outdated hustle culture for a healthier approach
• The mission behind The Independence Lab and actionable resources for building emotional intelligence

If you’re looking for real advice on how to marry soft skills and confidence with actionable career moves, this episode is for you—whether you’re early in your career, managing the next big transition, or helping others find their way. Be sure to check out Brianne’s free resources and connect with us to keep leveling up your communicat

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What does it really take to transform your nerves into confidence when speaking in front of an audience—no matter how big or small? In this episode of Speaking with Confidence, I take you behind the scenes of my own speaking journey, sharing raw stories, practical takeaways, and the coaching that helped me grow in unexpected ways.

This week, I pull back the curtain on my experience as part of the Maxwell Leadership Certified Team. After years of preaching the importance of lifelong learning, I put myself on the line—joining the team, earning advanced presenter certifications, and even making a run at standing on stage at the International Maxwell Conference. Today, I want to show you what growth looks like up close, and how vital it is to seek feedback, embrace vulnerability, and focus on progress over perfection.

To help me along this journey, I worked closely with Roddy Galbraith, none other than John Maxwell’s own speaking coach. If you’ve ever wondered whether even the best need coaching, this episode is for you. Roddy pushed me to look deeper at my message, delivery, and what I genuinely wanted my audience to walk away with. Together, we honed a simple three-minute story—one I’d performed more than a hundred times—transforming it from a personal anecdote into a powerful teaching tool.

In this episode, you'll hear:

• My own public speaking horror story—the first time I had to speak in college and what happened when anxiety got the best of me
• How that one embarrassing moment became the foundation for my growth as a speaker and coach
• The grueling, but rewarding, process of preparing for the Maxwell International Conference, and what it felt like to just miss the finals by two seconds
• A step-by-step look at the evolution of my speech—from the initial draft, through Roddy’s constructive feedback, to the final live version
• The importance of coaching and why even experienced speakers need fresh outside perspectives
• Strategies to shift your mindset from fearing the worst to aiming for the best every time you get up to speak
• Why perfection isn’t relatable, but vulnerability, honesty, and even a little messiness are
• How to take that next step in your own speaking journey—with tools and encouragement for breaking through nerves and building unshakable confidence

If you’re ever wondered how to face your speaking fears, connect more authentically, or grow past setbacks, you'll find tools and inspiration in this episode. Remember, your voice truly does have the power to change your world—but only if you choose to use it.

Thank you, as always, for supporting Speaking with Confidence. If you’re looking to keep leveling up, don’t forget to grab the free eBook, “The Top 21 Challenges for Public Speakers and How to Overcome Them,” and sign up for my Formula for Public Speaking course. Progress, not perfection—that’s our north star. Tune in and let’s keep moving forward, together.

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Have you ever wondered how living and working abroad can radically transform not just your communication style, but also the way you guide and lead others? In today’s episode, we dive deep into the world of cross-cultural communication, public speaking, and storytelling with our guest Rebecca Williams, a true globetrotter and expert public speaking coach who has worked with everyone from Stanford MBAs to teams at Google, Meta, and Netflix.

Hey, I’m Tim Newman, and on this episode of Speaking with Confidence, we’re getting practical about what it really takes to show up with confidence and credibility in any communication setting whether that’s on stage, in a boardroom, or even navigating the cultural nuances of a meeting overseas.

Rebecca and I kick things off by discussing her journey from Wisconsin to living in places like Germany, Japan, Australia, Nepal, Spain, Portugal, and Mexico. She shares how her international experiences have planted humility and empathy at the heart of her coaching approach, reminding us that communication is never one-size-fits-all. In many countries, people speak two, three, or even more languages just to participate professionally, and often it’s those little cultural cues, not just words that make or break your message.

Here’s what we covered in this episode:

• How living abroad shaped Rebecca’s empathetic, multicultural approach to coaching communication
• What it means to be a “guest star” in the country of your audience
• How to avoid cross-cultural blunders and build trust across cultures
• The universal challenge of negative self-talk during public speaking and how to work through it
• Rebecca’s “First Five Formula” for nailing your presentation opening
• How specificity makes stories stick and how to find the right stories within your own life
• The role of humor (and how even non-comedians can use it effectively)
• The current and future impact of AI on communication, public speaking, and storytelling
• Insights into Rebecca’s book “Presenting. Presenting.” and why it was designed as an interview
• Where to connect with Rebecca and access her resources

This episode is jam-packed with real stories, practical frameworks, and a refreshing perspective on developing your own authentic voice whether you’re addressing an international audience or conquering your own internal doubts. I hope you enjoy listening as much as I enjoyed this conversation with Rebecca!

Don’t forget to grab Rebecca’s book, check out more resources at speakingwithconfidencepodcast.com, and connect with us on LinkedIn or Instagram. Your voice really does have the power to change the world. Let's keep showing up and speaking with confidence.

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Have you ever frozen under pressure when someone in your audience throws a tough, even hostile question your way? You’re not alone, and this episode is all about teaching you how to handle those moments with confidence and composure.

Welcome back to Speaking with Confidence. I’m Tim Newman, a recovering college professor turned communication coach. My passion is helping you build the soft skills that spark real progress in your career and life, especially the ability to stay cool, clear, and credible in the spotlight. Whether you breeze through presentations or find public speaking downright nerve-wracking, this episode is packed with actionable advice to help you face even the most challenging moments on stage.

Here’s what we covered in this episode:

• The 3-step credibility playbook for tough questions (Acknowledge, Provide Evidence, Call to Action)
• Aligning with the ABCD method and why defensive reactions hurt more than they help
• Using evidence and social proof to handle pushback and skeptical questions
• Reading audience motives and managing both “genuine” and “maddening” challengers
• Body language moves that signal control and calm
• How to use empathy, validation, and audience engagement to redirect heated moments
• “Sleight of mouth” reframing tactics and building your own objection-response scripts
• Scripted responses for handling multi-part and high-pressure questions with authority
• Turning objections into opportunities and building forward momentum

Progress, not perfection, is the goal. Pick just one strategy whether ABCD, a validation line, or the quick reframe and rehearse it for five minutes so you’re ready when the moment comes. Remember, confidence in those pressure-packed moments isn’t about never feeling nerves; it’s about being prepared enough to choose your response with authority.

For even more resources, visit speakingwithconfidencepodcast.com for a free eBook (“The Top 21 Challenges for Public Speakers and How to Overcome Them”) or to sign up for our Formula for Public Speaking training. Your voice is your power, thanks for joining me on this journey. Until next time, keep practicing and keep speaking with confidence!

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How can young adults overcome overwhelm and start communicating with genuine confidence in today’s digital age?

Today, I’m thrilled to be joined by Nick Batchelder—a 21-year-old author, podcaster, and speaker who’s committed to making sure fewer people reach their 30s saying, “I wish I would have done more in my 20s.” Nick brings a rare peer perspective to personal development, focusing on the unique challenges and strengths of people in their 20s and early 30s. He’s already written a book, built a growing podcast, and spoken to countless young adults about their hurdles with confidence, communication, and taking action. Nick’s insights aren’t just theoretical—they’re born from real, relatable experience.

In our conversation, Nick and I explore a topic central to both of our work: what’s really holding back Gen Z and young millennials when it comes to building confidence in communication? Why—despite being the most connected and entrepreneurial generation—are so many young people struggling with the basics of interpersonal interaction? Nick shares what he sees on the frontline with his peers, from the overwhelming abundance of choices in the digital era to the comfort (and isolation) that comes with virtual living. We candidly talk about why it’s now easier than ever to avoid in-person interactions, and how that avoidance is quietly eroding essential soft skills.

Here’s what we cover in this episode:

• The impact of digital life on interpersonal communication skills in young adults
• Why overwhelm from too many choices leads to avoidance and inaction
• The difference between being aware of what needs improvement and actually taking steps to improve
• How to use playfulness and improv to rapidly develop communication confidence
• Avoiding the trap of memorized scripts, and why thinking on your feet builds more resilience
• The real reasons young adults don’t act on the changes they know they need fear, laziness, and lack of structure
• How generational differences in upbringing (free play vs. constant supervision) impact adult communication and confidence
• Nick’s experiences with peer feedback, criticism, and staying grounded amid public scrutiny
• The double-edged sword of social media curation and self-image
• Tangible ways to make networking less intimidating even for introverts
• The critical importance of being present and genuinely engaged in building relationships
• How self-awareness makes connecting with others easier (and why it’s okay not to connect with everyone)
• The role that reading and being a role model for learning plays in personal growth
• Why it’s normal for growth to be uneven progress over perfection every time

If you want more from Nick, you can find his book, Crush Your 20s, on Amazon, or check out his podcast, Building the Blueprint, on Spotify and YouTube. And of course, don’t forget to visit speakingwithconfidencepodcast.com for more resources including a free eBook and details about our public speaking course.

Thanks for listening and remember, your voice really does have the power to change the world.

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Have you ever completely blanked out during a presentation or felt your confidence collapse in front of an audience? If so, you’re far from alone and in this episode of Speaking with Confidence, I tackle exactly how to recover from those “crash and burn” public speaking moments and get your confidence back on track.

I’m Tim Newman, and as someone who once threw up before giving my first college presentation, I know firsthand how devastating public speaking anxiety can feel. This week, I’m drawing on both scientific studies and coaching experience to help you move forward from setbacks and rebuild your core presentation skills, one step at a time.

I’m going deep into the mechanics of bouncing back from a public speaking “freeze.” I break down why our brains sometimes fail us under stress, how anxiety is triggered both by internal self-esteem and external factors like the room or audience, and most importantly, what you can do to start the recovery process today.

Here’s what I cover in this episode:

• Understanding why you might suddenly forget your words or lose your flow during a speech and why it’s usually a stress-driven system breakdown rather than a lack of knowledge.
• The five interconnected parts of effective public speaking: content mastery, physical control, audience awareness, emotional regulation, and delivery mechanics.
• Real-world examples of how even highly skilled professionals can “crash,” and the neuroscience behind how adrenaline and panic disrupt your memory.
• How confidence and public speaking ability reinforce one another, plus how environmental factors (like room layout and audience engagement) can shape your anxiety level in real time.
• Practical steps to identify exactly where you tend to stumble using a technique I recommend to all my clients: recording and reviewing your last few talks to pinpoint specific breakdowns.
• The value of gradual, targeted practice to rebuild your skills, including insights from virtual reality training studies that show even small, structured exposures lead to measurable improvement.
• My recommended “exposure ladder” for resetting your confidence: from practicing alone to speaking in front of a small, trusted audience, and then slowly simulating real-life settings.
• An evidence-based way to turn setbacks into learning opportunities using structured reflection, journaling, and a four-step mental reframe to immediately convert mistakes into specific action steps.
• How to design your speech outlines to lower your risk of freezing, and why preparing the opening lines for common questions in Q&A makes a big difference.
• The importance of brief, focused daily practice and getting specific peer feedback to reinforce positive changes and accelerate growth.
• A quick three-day reset challenge you can try right away to get yourself unstuck and moving forward.

Don’t forget to check out speakingwithconfidencepodcast.com after the show to grab your free eBook, “Top 21 Challenges for Public Speakers and How to Overcome Them,” and to learn about my full Formula for Public Speaking course.

Remember, your voice matters. With the right approach, you can recover and come back even stronger. Thanks for joining me and I’ll talk to you next time!

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What does it really take for young professionals—especially student athletes—to build true resilience and open lines of communication in today’s high-pressure world? In this episode of Speaking with Confidence, we dive deep into this crucial question that’s affecting students, educators, coaches, and leaders nationwide.

I’m Tim Newman, your host and a recovering college professor turned communication coach. Today, I’m honored to bring you a candid and impactful conversation with Kenisha Brown-Alexander, a true trailblazer in the sports industry and the founder of the Brainerd Tomorrow Foundation. With a background that spans leading roles for major organizations like the Miami Dolphins, the Super Bowl Committee, and the Orange Bowl Committee, Kenisha also serves as a certified life coach, adjunct professor, and the creator of the Game Changers United program.

Throughout our conversation, Kenisha and I address:

• The shifting landscape of communication skills among young professionals and why intentional teaching of these skills matters more than ever
• The logistical and interpersonal challenges of managing thousands of volunteers at a major event like the Super Bowl
• The critical role of resilience and faith in overcoming personal trauma—and how sports can provide a sense of purpose and belonging
• How and why Kenisha launched Game Changers United, and the impact it’s having in supporting student athletes’ mental health
• The realities of suicide and mental health crises among college students, and strategies to strengthen support systems on campuses
• Why it’s our job as leaders to reach out, show vulnerability, and invite connection
• The need for early self-discovery and helping young people uncover their “why,” so they can build lasting resilience

If you’re an educator, coach, administrator, parent, or simply someone who cares about the next generation’s well-being, this episode will give you insights, strategies, and real stories to help you foster greater communication, resilience, and support—on and off the field.

For more on Kenisha’s work or to bring Game Changers United to your campus, you can find her on Instagram at @KenishaNichelle, on LinkedIn as Kenisha Brown-Alexander, or visit gamechangersunited.com.

As always, remember—your voice has the power to change the world. Thanks for listening to Speaking with Confidence.

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How do you rebuild confidence and communication skills after life-changing events, or simply grow your presence in a world filled with digital noise? That’s the big question we dig into on this week’s episode of Speaking with Confidence, and I think you’ll walk away with new tools and a lot to think about—whether you’re tackling a major transition or just wanting to level up your everyday communication.

In this episode, I’m joined by Meaghan Benjamin, an executive communication coach who’s spent nearly 20 years helping people—from head and neck cancer survivors to Fortune 500 executives—find their voices and connect with impact. With a background in speech and hearing science and psychology, plus a neuroscience-informed approach to leadership development, Meaghan brings a wealth of experience to the table. Her story is truly unique; she started by supporting patients who, after cancer, had to relearn how to speak and present themselves to the world in totally new ways. Through that work, Meaghan realized that building communication confidence is a universal journey, whether you’re recovering from trauma or trying to command the boardroom.

We're talking about:

• How to rebuild confidence and presence after major life changes—and why small goals matter
• Mindset shifts that are as crucial for executives as they are for trauma survivors
• Why 55% of communication is nonverbal, and how to harness your gestures and tone, especially on Zoom
• The unique challenges of digital communication and how our “lens” filters written messages
• The growing pressure of instant digital responses, especially among younger generations, and its impact on real connection
• How to help kids and young adults practice the soft skills critical to adult success—plus stories from both our families and classrooms
• The “No Feel Do” framework, and why knowing how you want your audience to feel and act shifts every conversation
• Why disagreement doesn’t have to mean disrespect, and how to keep 80% of shared ground at the center of your relationships
• Practical advice for handling meetings, tough questions, and those “pivot” moments that can rattle new professionals
• The importance of in-person networking, informational interviews, and getting comfortable being uncomfortable, especially early in your career
• Meaghan’s unique Agile Communication methodology, how it blends science and art, and its application to both presentations and day-to-day leadership
• Studio Re Invent’s new AI-powered communication coach Sage, and how technology can actually help you develop deeper, more human skills—when used intentionally

Whether you’re a leader, educator, parent, or someone just looking to boost your communication mojo, Meaghan offers insights and tools you can put into action today. Stick around to hear how confidence is built—not magically materialized—and why practicing in real-life, sometimes awkward moments is the best training ground there is.

You can learn more about Meaghan and Studio Re Invent at studioreinvent.com, find additional resources on our Speaking with Confidence Podcast website, and check out our free eBook and upcoming public speaking course.

As always, remember: your voice has the power to change the world. Let’s get out there

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Have you ever found yourself feeling unfulfilled at work and wondered if it’s really possible to find both purpose and confidence in your career? If so, you’re not alone, and today’s episode of Speaking with Confidence may have the answers you’ve been searching for.

On this episode, I welcome Danielle Droitsch, an executive and leadership coach who helps high-achieving professionals rediscover their superpowers, reclaim well-being, and approach their work with confidence and purpose. Danielle’s story is one so many of us can relate to: after building a successful career as a senior leader at a nonprofit, she experienced burnout that changed her perspective on career satisfaction and life itself. Now, she helps others create the fulfilling work experiences they deserve.

Here’s what we covered in today’s episode:

• Danielle’s personal journey from burnout to a fulfilling second career
• The emotional signals (like boredom and irritability) that indicate something deeper is off in your work life
• How to separate your job from your identity and why that matters
• The importance of asking “Who am I?” and how to start finding your unique superpower
• Insights from new research on human flourishing and why young people are struggling
• The role of real, in-person connection for well-being
• Practical steps for unplugging, reconnecting with yourself, and finding what truly energizes you
• Why soft skills (communication, problem-solving, impact) drive both advancement and confidence
• Common pitfalls for young professionals and students and how to avoid them
• The link between self-awareness, confidence, and showing up authentically in every aspect of life

Whether you’re in the middle of a career transition, supporting young people, or simply looking to feel more confident at work, this episode offers relatable stories, actionable insights, and the encouragement to step back, reassess, and reconnect with yourself and others.

To connect with Danielle, check out time4wellbeing.com (that’s “four” as the number!), and look for her free training on finding fulfilling work. 

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What does it really take to turn your personal struggles and lived experience into authentic confidence when you communicate? In this episode of Speaking with Confidence, I sit down with Cesar Cardona—public speaker, podcast co-host, and mindfulness educator—to uncover how resilience, mindfulness, and embracing your unique story are foundational not only to personal growth, but also to becoming a powerful communicator.

Cesar’s journey is anything but ordinary. Growing up navigating conflict in a home of deep cultural and political divides, he openly shares how early trauma shaped his perspective but also planted the seeds for resilience. We discuss how he learned to move forward despite adversity, drawing on the strengths of both his parents—combining book smarts and street smarts—and how everyone can find something valuable in their experiences, no matter how tough.

A turning point came for Cesar at a Joseph Campbell roundtable event, when—despite never aspiring to speak publicly—he took a risk, shared his thoughts, and was suddenly handed a life-changing speaking opportunity. This honest look at “accidentally” launching a public speaking career is both inspiring and packed with practical lessons for anyone wanting to share their voice but feeling hesitant or nervous.

We also break down what it’s really like to speak in front of others (hint: nerves are normal and even useful), and why storytelling doesn’t require a big dramatic narrative—just a willingness to share honestly and connect on a human level. Listening, asking questions, leaning on friends for support, and being accountable (while offering grace to ourselves and others) are all covered, along with some thoughts on the role of AI and technology in communication today.

In this conversation, you’ll hear us talk about:

• Using mindfulness and self-awareness to manage nerves and uncertainty
• The importance of moving forward, even when it’s uncomfortable
• Building a supportive network and the courage to ask for help
• Why listening is just as important as speaking
• Embracing storytelling as a simple, daily part of communication—not just a buzzword

If you’ve ever doubted your ability to communicate confidently or wondered if your history is a liability, Cesar’s story will assure you that your best voice comes from embracing the whole of who you are.

For more on Cesar or to hear his music project, check out CaesarCardona.com, and don’t forget to grab your free resources at speakingwithconfidencepodcast.com. Your story—and your voice—matter.

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What if charisma isn’t about being magnetic... but about being real?

In this episode of Speaking With Confidence, I sit down with therapist, coach, and leadership expert Richard Reid to explore what truly makes someone a powerful communicator. Spoiler alert: it’s not about being the most dynamic speaker or the loudest voice in the room.

Richard unpacks the difference between charm and charisma and why one builds trust while the other often erodes it. We talk about how presence, authenticity, and curiosity form the foundation of effective communication skills, especially in today’s tech-saturated world.

We also dig into leadership communication, the power of storytelling techniques, and how younger professionals can build public speaking confidence without pretending to be someone they’re not. If you’ve ever wrestled with imposter syndrome, felt drained by Zoom meetings, or thought “I just don’t have that ‘it’ factor,” this one’s for you.

Here’s what we cover:

• Why authentic charisma beats performative charm every time
• The impact of technology on our presence and emotional regulation
• The leadership advantage of storytelling and vulnerability
• How to build connection by listening for emotions, not just facts
• Why confidence in public speaking starts with owning your story
• And Richard’s refreshingly practical advice for anyone looking to grow

Connect with Richard:

http://linkedin/in/richard-reid

www.richard-reid.com

www.pinnacletherapy.co.uk

www.pinnaclewellbeing.co.uk

Ready to unlock your own charisma and become the communicator people remember? Visit timnewmanspeaks.com to grab your free e-book Top 21 Challenges for Public Speakers and How to Overcome Them and start transforming your communication today.

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What separates managers who merely delegate from those who transform teams? It's not just strategy, it's communication. In this episode of Speaking With Confidence, I sit down with global leadership expert Joanne Merrick to talk about what it really takes to become a powerful communicator in today’s chaotic work world.

With over 25 years of experience across five continents and leadership roles at Amazon, Deloitte, and Juniper Networks, Joanne brings the receipts. She unpacks the neuroscience behind why autonomy fuels creativity, how emotional intelligence can replace micromanagement, and why being understood starts with taking responsibility for how you show up.

We dive into:

• Why communication is a leadership skill, not just a speaking skill
• How to evaluate whether management is the right next step for your career
• The role self-awareness plays in storytelling, feedback, and influence
• How to overcome imposter syndrome and build confidence through connection
• The surprising power of someone believing in you

Whether you're leading engineers, managing meetings, or just trying to make your voice heard without second-guessing yourself, this conversation will give you the mindset, tools, and practical language to communicate with clarity and impact.

Connect with Joanne:

https://www.linkedin.com/in/joanne-merrick

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What if your biggest personal crisis turned out to be your greatest professional breakthrough?

In this episode of Speaking With Confidence, I sit down with Jenny Alday Townsend, an award-winning entrepreneur, keynote speaker, and Amazon bestselling author, for an unforgettable conversation about resilience, reinvention, and the communication tools that helped her rebuild her life from the ground up.

Jenny opens up about the moment her marriage was rocked by infidelity and how it forced her to rediscover who she was outside of her business. She shares how stepping back from micromanagement actually helped her team thrive, and how mastering powerful communication, through storytelling, active listening, and emotional honesty, became her secret to success both at work and at home.

We also dig into her “Stroke It” framework: a practical, heartfelt guide for making others feel seen, heard, and appreciated. Whether you're navigating tough conversations at work, trying to reconnect with your partner, or simply looking to boost your public speaking confidence, Jenny brings the kind of real talk and actionable insights you’ll want to revisit again and again.

In this episode, we cover:

• How ego and fear of vulnerability stifle effective leadership
• Why storytelling isn’t just a skill—it’s a lifeline
• Overcoming imposter syndrome and speaking anxiety after public failure
• What Jenny learned about communication by working herself out of a job
• Setting boundaries, building trust, and showing appreciation through language

Ready to level up your relationships and communication skills on stage, in your marriage, or in your own head? This episode is your permission slip to show up, speak honestly, and lead with intention.

Connect with Jenny:

Website: Jennyaldaytownsend.com
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@JennyTownsend
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jennyaldaytownsend/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jennyaldaytownsend/
Linked In: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jennyaldaytownsend
Podcast: Jennyaldaytownsend.com/podcast

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What do boxing, public speaking, and personal transformation have in common? For Cam F. Awesome, everything.

In this episode of Speaking With Confidence, I sit down with Cam, a 12-time national boxing champion, motivational speaker, and self-described “motivational vegan,” to talk about the mindset behind powerful communication and unstoppable resilience.

Cam doesn’t just tell a comeback story, he lives one. Bullied as a kid and cut from every team he tried out for, Cam found boxing not as a passion, but as the only option left. He turned that into a decorated amateur career and a life dedicated to helping others reframe their inner narratives.

From the ring to the stage, Cam reveals the mental techniques that helped him dominate in the ring and how they can help you dominate your self-doubt. Whether you're battling imposter syndrome, speaking anxiety, or just trying to show up more authentically, this conversation offers a no-fluff roadmap to lasting confidence.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• Why confidence starts with your internal dialogue, not applause or approval
• Cam’s daily “gratitude reps” that help him stay mentally strong and emotionally grounded
• How to win conversations (and audiences) using storytelling techniques from the boxing ring
• Why imposter syndrome is often just your brain trying to protect you—and how to punch back
• The simple formula: belief + action = inevitable results

If you’ve ever felt like your fear of failing is louder than your voice, Cam’s philosophy will rewire the way you think. Because, as he says, “If you can fail without being discouraged, success becomes inevitable.”

Connect with Cam:

https://www.camfawesome.com

https://www.linkedin.com/in/camfawesome/

https://www.facebook.com/CamFAwesome

https://www.instagram.com/camfawesome/

http://www.youtube.com/@CamFAwesome

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What if the best leaders aren't the ones with the answers, but the ones who know how to ask the right questions?

In this episode, I sit down with former Army officer turned leadership coach Chris Duprey to explore the mindset shift that turns managers into powerful communicators. Through his Pathfinder’s Compass framework, Chris breaks down the difference between leading by instruction and leading by inquiry. Spoiler: It’s less “boss mode,” more “Ted Lasso with a mission.”

They get deep into the four pillars of breakthrough communication, Yes-And energy, vanguarding concerns, a question-first mentality, and the Law of Three, and explain how they help leaders develop other leaders. Whether you’re navigating team dynamics, family conversations, or your next big presentation, this episode reveals how curiosity, self-awareness, and intentional listening are the tools that change everything.

Chris shares how the military taught him the importance of active listening and how that lesson stuck with him far beyond the battlefield. His approach isn’t about surface-level leadership tips, it’s about building trust, growing initiative, and empowering others to find their own answers.

Connect with Chris:

https://www.linkedin.com/in/cduprey/

https://questionfirstgroup.com

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Leadership isn’t about having all the answers; it’s about knowing the right questions to ask. In this episode of Speaking with Confidence, host I am joined by nationally recognized executive performance coach John Little to explore the real work behind powerful communication and authentic leadership.

With over 25 years of coaching and consulting experience, John shares how his EMBRACE framework helps professionals overcome imposter syndrome, build real confidence, and communicate with clarity. Together, we unpack the subtle difference between ego and confidence, the impact of generational communication styles, and why trust is the foundation of leadership, not charisma.

If you’ve ever felt like you weren’t “enough” in a room full of leaders, or you’re tired of faking it just to keep up, this conversation is your permission slip to lead with what makes you unique.

In this episode, we cover:

• Why imposter syndrome might be a sign of potential
• How technology is reshaping (and sometimes ruining) our communication instincts
• The “unfair advantage” hiding in your personal story
• Ego vs. confidence: How they really show up in the workplace
• Practical strategies for building trust and influence as a leader
• Why humility, storytelling, and listening are the new power tools of leadership

Whether you’re new to leadership or a seasoned executive, John’s insights will help you show up with more presence, purpose, and confidence.

Connect with John:

http://www.linkedin.com/in/bigjohnlittle

https://thewinnersedgecoaching.com

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What makes someone a powerful communicator? According to Ron Reich, it's not the title, the slides, or the flashy speeches; it’s relationships, self-awareness, and the willingness to grow.

With 30 years of experience in leadership development, corporate training, and coaching across industries like banking, tech, and pharma, Ron brings a grounded, human-first perspective to communication. In this episode, we dive into what truly builds confidence, not just in public speaking, but in everyday leadership.

Ron’s secret weapon? A relentless commitment to learning. He’s read over 400 leadership books (yes, really) and shares how the simple habit of reading just ten pages a day transformed his communication, leadership, and credibility.

You’ll hear Ron’s take on the “Platinum Rule,” why emotional intelligence trumps technical skill, and how the best communicators aren’t always the loudest, they’re the ones who listen with their eyes, ears, and heart.

What You’ll Learn:

• How self-awareness helps you lead and speak with confidence
• Why asking for help makes you a stronger communicator
• How to overcome imposter syndrome through preparation and practice
• The difference between communication and connection, and how to bridge it
• Why leadership development never ends (and shouldn’t)

Whether you're stepping into leadership for the first time or just trying to sound less awkward in meetings, this conversation will give you the tools and perspective to speak up with confidence and actually be heard.

Connect with Ron Reich:
LinkedIn:  www.linkedin.com/inron-reich7809829
Instagram: instagram.com/leadership_rlb/

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What does interviewing World Series champions and leading corporate keynotes have in common? According to longtime sports broadcaster Joel Goldberg, it all comes down to trust, authenticity, and powerful communication.

In this episode, Joel joins Tim Newman to talk about how 30 years in sports media, including 17 with the Kansas City Royals, shaped his communication skills beyond the mic. From cold calling his way into broadcasting to navigating grief in the clubhouse, Joel shares what it really means to build trust, read the room, and speak with purpose.

He opens up about battling imposter syndrome, mastering active listening skills, and why sometimes the best thing you can say… is nothing at all. Whether you're giving a big presentation or just trying to be heard at work, this conversation will help you connect more deeply and speak with confidence.

What You’ll Learn:

• Why public speaking confidence starts with repetition, not perfection
• How to overcome imposter syndrome, even after 1,000 interviews
• The role of emotional intelligence in leadership communication
• What “small ball” means for career growth and powerful communication
• How reading the room and respecting silence builds deeper trust
• Why storytelling techniques outperform stats, even in sports

Connect with Joel:

https://joelgoldbergmedia.com

https://www.linkedin.com/in/joelgoldbergkc

X: @goldbergkc
IG: @joelgoldbergkc

Joel’s books: Small Ball Big Results and Small Ball Big Dreams

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Some people walk into a room and instantly connect. Others spend the night hovering near the veggie tray, wondering how anyone makes networking look effortless.

In this episode of Speaking With Confidence, I talk with Michael Morgan, author of The Power of Networking and a seasoned leader with experience at Amazon, JPMorgan Chase, Walmart, and Chevron, to explore how meaningful relationships can fuel career growth and unlock opportunities you never saw coming.

From fraternity events at Penn State to Fortune 100 boardrooms, Michael shares how one connection changed everything. But this episode goes beyond traditional networking tips. We dive deep into leadership communication, active listening skills, and the presentation skills development needed to stand out, especially when you feel like an imposter in the room.

Key highlights include:

• How to build authentic connections (even if small talk drains you)
• The power of “disagree and commit” and speaking up without stepping on toes
• Using storytelling techniques to build trust and open doors
• Overcoming fear of public speaking and speaking anxiety in high-stakes moments
• Strategic preparation tips to tailor your communication and personal brand

If you want to become a powerful communicator, the kind people remember and want to refer, this episode will give you a roadmap to do just that.

Connect with Michael:

https://www.linkedin.com/in/michaelvmorgan/

https://www.instagram.com/michael.v.morgan/

https://www.tiktok.com/@michael.v.morgan

https://michaelvmorgan.com

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What if your so-called flaws were actually your superpowers as a communicator?

At 86 years old, Annie Korzen, a character actress best known as Doris Klumpus on Seinfeld, has found viral fame on TikTok by being unapologetically herself. In this episode, Annie joins us to talk about how embracing her bold, outspoken nature led her to become a powerful communicator for a whole new generation.

From navigating social media at an age when most people are avoiding it, to crafting stories that connect across generational divides, Annie brings humor, heart, and a refreshing dose of real talk. She shares her thoughts on storytelling techniques, why being “too much” is often just enough, and how to handle speaking anxiety when your audience is the internet.

This is more than a story about going viral, it’s a blueprint for owning your voice, even when others have tried to silence it.

In this episode:

• How authenticity became Annie’s superpower
• What makes a story more than just a collection of events
• Why Gen Z craves imperfection
• Overcoming imposter syndrome, online critics, and speaking anxiety
• Leadership communication and the art of saying “actually, no”
• Humor, heartbreak, and wisdom from a storyteller who’s still going strong

Grab Annie’s book The Book of Annie: Humor, Heart and Chutzpah from an Accidental Influencer

Connect with Annie:

www.AnnieKorzen.com
https://www.tiktok.com/@akorzen
https://www.facebook.com/anniekorzen/f
https://www.instagram.com/anniekorzen/
https://www.youtube.com/@AnnieKorzenVideos

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What do a sports statistician, a leadership coach, and a master storyteller have in common? A powerful understanding of what truly makes communication effective.

In this episode of Speaking With Confidence, I welcome Kirk McCarley, executive career coach, ESPN talent statistician, and self-proclaimed "wealthy man" (thanks to his relationships, not his bank account). Kirk shares how his behind-the-scenes role in live broadcasting taught him lessons that apply far beyond the sports world, especially about presence, preparation, and the power of listening.

From stories of maraschino cherry theft to lessons from a beloved neighbor, this episode dives deep into what it really means to be a powerful communicator. It’s not about saying more—it’s about listening better, slowing down, and connecting with intention.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• Why active listening skills are your #1 communication tool
• How technology is killing connection, and how to fight back
• What leadership communication looks like in daily life
• Why “being present” is more powerful than being polished
• How overcoming imposter syndrome starts with preparation, not perfection

Kirk’s take on communication is both grounding and inspiring, reminding us that our greatest influence doesn’t come from speaking louder, but from listening more deeply.

Connect with Kirk:

theseedsowercoach.com
kirkmccarleyauthor.com
https://www.linkedin.com/in/kirk-mccarley-1bbba950/
https://www.instagram.com/kirkmccarley/
https://www.facebook.com/KirkMcCarleyTheSeedSowerCoach/

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Ever feel like the fear of public speaking is holding you back from being the leader, teammate, or communicator you know you can be?

In this episode of Speaking With Confidence, Tim Newman welcomes Harriet Bratt—international speaker, firewalk facilitator, and fierce advocate for authenticity—to unpack what it really takes to become a powerful communicator.

From walking across fire to navigating ADHD, Harriet shares how confidence isn’t about being fearless, it’s about feeling the fear and showing up anyway. Together, Tim and Harriet dive into active listening skills, leadership communication, and storytelling techniques that help speakers, and humans show up more fully in every room they enter.

This isn’t just about presentation skills development. It’s about transforming how you connect with others, lead with love, and own your voice on stage and off.

In this episode, you’ll discover:

• How firewalking becomes a metaphor for overcoming fear of public speaking
• Why ADHD can be a superpower in powerful communication
• Tools for emotional management and building self-awareness
• The truth about overcoming speaking anxiety (spoiler: it’s messy and real)
• What “leading with love” actually looks like in personal and professional communication
• Why honest feedback and knowing when to shut up are underrated superpowers
• How to embrace authenticity without losing your edge

Whether you’re prepping for your first keynote or simply trying to speak up with more clarity and confidence at work, this conversation will help you tap into the mindset, strategy, and soul of effective communication skills.

Connect with Harriet:

Grab Harriet’s free masterclass on the 5 Pillars of Public Speaking at harrietbratt.com

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/harrietbrattspeaker/
Speak with Soul - public speaking group -  https://www.facebook.com/groups/HBWarriors

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/harrietbrattspeaker/ 

Linked In - https://www.linkedin.com/in/harriet-bratt-429b1b1a6/

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What does it truly take to become a powerful communicator in today’s world? On this episode of Speaking With Confidence, host Tim Newman sits down with Shirlee Engel, seasoned TV reporter turned on-camera coach, to unpack the tools, mindsets, and effective communication skills that bring authentic connection to every conversation, far beyond just public speaking.

Whether you’re building a business, leading a team, or growing your influence online, Shirlee shares how to master leadership communication, develop active listening skills, and overcome those confidence hurdles (yes, even the dreaded imposter syndrome and speaking anxiety). Spoiler: The secret has less to do with memorizing scripts and more with showing up as yourself.

You’ll learn how storytelling, authenticity, and embracing imperfection can transform presentations, video content, and daily conversations into powerful moments of connection and impact. Tune in for practical advice to:

• Build public speaking confidence, even if you’re not on a stage
• Use storytelling techniques as your “currency” in a noisy, AI-driven world
• Master the art of showing up authentically (camera “resting face” and all!)
• Repurpose content and leverage technology for presentation skills development
• Turn your presence into profit through strategic visibility and messaging

Key Takeaways

• It’s Not Just About Public Speaking: Powerful communication is about how you connect, listen, and share your story across every channel, from Zoom calls to videos and live events.
• Authenticity Is Your Superpower: Shirlee explains why embracing imperfections and showing your human side create true connection—and why storytelling is more critical now than ever.
• Overcoming Imposter Syndrome & Anxiety: Both Tim and Shirlee get candid about their own struggles with confidence, sharing tips for breaking through self-doubt and putting yourself out there.
• Actionable Techniques for Any Communicator: Discover practical ways to build confidence on and off-camera, structure your message, and ensure every interaction—whether leading a meeting or posting online—leaves a lasting impact.

Connect with Shirlee Engel

https://www.youtube.com/@ShirleeEngel

https://www.linkedin.com/in/shirlee-engel/

https://www.instagram.com/be.camera.confident

http://www.sizzlereelschool.com/

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Ever feel like your brain is in a constant game of tug-of-war between clarity and your notifications? You’re not alone, and this week’s Speaking with Confidence episode is for you.

I’m joined by Craig Mattson, communication professor and organizational researcher, for a conversation that’s part public speaking class, part digital detox, and all about powerful communication in a tech-heavy world. Together, we dig into how digital overwhelm is hijacking our attention and what we can do to get it back, without swearing off technology completely.

Craig brings storytelling, research, and real conversations with Gen Z and millennial professionals to the table as we explore:

• How to communicate effectively across generations without falling into the “kids these days…” trap
• Why interpersonal skills are harder—but more important—than ever in today’s tech-driven workplace
• The surprising power of analog practices like journaling to anchor your focus and build self-knowledge
• How to set workplace boundaries with confidence and clarity
• What it means to shift from being a spectator to a performer in our digital lives—and why it matters for personal and professional development

This isn’t just about public speaking, it’s about becoming a powerful communicator who knows how to show up, stay present, and build real relationships… even in a world of pings, posts, and pressure.

Whether you're a team leader, educator, or just trying to survive your inbox, this episode will help you reclaim your attention and communicate with purpose.

Tune in now and let’s get confident, one conversation at a time.

Links & Resources:

https://www.themodeswitch.com

https://themodeswitch.substack.com

https://www.linkedin.com/in/craig-mattson-bb861445

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What if the key to your next career move isn’t on a job board, but in a conversation you haven’t had yet?

In this episode of Speaking With Confidence, I sit down with career coach and author Michelle Schafer to explore how powerful communication, genuine curiosity, and intentional relationship-building can unlock career growth. Whether you're navigating a job search, considering a transition, or mentoring young professionals, this conversation will shift how you think about networking.

Michelle opens up about her own career journey—leaving behind 18 years in financial services and finding her most fulfilling role not through applications, but through a bold conversation she almost didn’t have. Her story speaks to anyone who’s ever let imposter syndrome hold them back from reaching out.

We dive deep into the mindset behind effective communication and what it means to approach conversations with confidence and purpose. This isn’t about “selling yourself”—it’s about creating meaningful interactions built on curiosity, follow-up, and being genuinely interested in others. From preparing for a networking event to turning everyday chats into career opportunities, Michelle offers strategies that turn soft skills into superpowers.

In this episode, you’ll learn how to:

• Reframe networking as connection, not a transaction
• Communicate effectively by asking better questions
• Turn conversations into career breakthroughs
• Overcome limiting beliefs that block outreach
• Build confidence through preparation and follow-up
• Tap into the “hidden job market” where 80% of opportunities live
• Embrace interpersonal skills as key tools for professional development

If you're ready to ditch the script, speak with confidence, and build relationships that move your career forward this episode is for you.

Download a free chapter of Michelle’s book, Cultivating Career Growth: Navigating Transitions with a Purpose at mschafercoaching.ca

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What do a backstage pass to a Whitney Houston concert and a boardroom presentation have in common? According to Greg “G” Wright, everything. In this episode, Tim sits down with the sound engineer-turned-public speaking coach to unpack what it really means to be a powerful communicator.

G’s journey from teenage radio DJ to coaching leaders on “rock star frequency” is a masterclass in confidence, mindset, and overcoming imposter syndrome. With over 25 years in the music industry, G shares how live performance principles translate into unforgettable public presentations. From manifestation to preparation, he shows us that effective communication isn’t a gift—it’s a skill anyone can develop.

You’ll hear how the shift from analog to digital mirrors the evolution in interpersonal skills, why authenticity beats perfection, and how to tap into your “why” to build connection with any audience. Whether you’re facing a mic or a meeting, this episode will help you show up like the rock star you already are.

What You'll Learn:

• Why the rock star frequency is the secret to Powerful Communication
• How imposter syndrome disguises itself and how to silence it
• The real reason fans scream at concerts, and how to create that in a speech
• Why mindset and visualization matter more than talent
• How to stop caring what others think and start owning your story
• Lessons from Whitney Houston, classic rock, and the art of rehearsal
• Why confidence isn’t born—it’s built

Tim + G Talk About:

• How to harness fear and turn it into fuel
• The emotional foundation of effective communication
• The power of storytelling in building relationships
• Why soft skills matter more now than ever
• Connecting with audiences across generations (even grandkids!)
• How to practice like a pro—even if you’re not one yet
• Getting past the “overnight success” myth in speaking and performance

Favorite Quote from G:

“It takes 10 years to create an overnight success. But when you show up with conviction, your audience can’t help but lean in.”

Links + Resources:
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/gregorygwright/
G Wright Coaching: https://www.gwrightcoach.com/
IG: https://www.instagram.com/gwrightcoaching/
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@rockstarspeakers

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What if your greatest strength as a leader wasn’t how well you speak, but how well you listen?

In this episode of Speaking With Confidence, Tim sits down with leadership development expert and executive coach Therese Miclot for a powerful conversation about the kind of communication skills that truly set great leaders apart. With over 25 years of experience coaching global tech executives and co-authoring The Facilitation Advantage, Therese brings a fresh, human-centered approach to what it means to lead and communicate effectively.

They dive deep into the art of “deep dive listening”, a next-level skill that helps you understand not just what’s being said, but the motivations and unspoken needs behind it. Whether you’re in a high-stakes public presentation or a one-on-one with a team member, Therese shares how intentional listening can shift everything.

You’ll also hear why your self-talk is more visible than you think, how to replace awkward meeting questions with ones that spark real engagement, and why vulnerability isn’t a weakness, it’s your leadership superpower.

If you're ready to future-proof your career, connect more meaningfully, and develop the soft skills that actually drive results, this episode is your roadmap to becoming a more powerful communicator.

What You’ll Learn:

• Why “Any questions?” is the worst way to end a meeting—and what to say instead
• The real reason your communication might be falling flat (hint: it’s about mindset)
• How to keep the attention of neurodiverse teams and foster better engagement
• The link between imposter syndrome, self-talk, and leadership presence
• Why public speaking is about connection, not perfection
• How soft skills like listening and facilitation yield massive ROI in business
• The secret to making people feel safe, seen, and ready to contribute
• Why networking and internships matter more than GPA
• How to develop interpersonal skills that boost both personal and professional development

Key Quote:
"Your thoughts are like a billboard on your forehead, people can read them, even when you think they’re hidden." – Therese Miclot

Connect with Therese
https://www.linkedin.com/in/theresemiclot/
https://www.thefacilitationadvantage.com/

Resources & Links:
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What happens when entrepreneurship, parenthood, and powerful communication collide?

In this episode of Speaking With Confidence, Tim sits down with Devan Gonzalez, fitness industry leader, coach, and proud girl dad, to explore how mastering communication skills can transform not just your business, but every relationship in your life.

Devan shares how he stopped compartmentalizing his life and started blending his roles as a father, husband, and entrepreneur, using communication as the bridge between personal fulfillment and professional development. From navigating the emotional terrain of family dynamics to building a thriving team at Strive 11 Fitness, Devan reveals how communication shapes success on every level.

You’ll hear:

• Why vulnerability is a strength in both business and parenting
• How understanding different communication styles leads to deeper connection
• Devan’s unique multi-step hiring process that evaluates interpersonal skills—not just résumés
• The real talk about imposter syndrome and how Devan pushes past fear using the five-second rule
• How storytelling, especially the "ordinary" kind, can be your most powerful public speaking tool
• Why gratitude communicates more effectively than apology

Whether you're leading a team, raising a family, or learning to speak up in a room full of strangers, this episode will equip you with tools to become a more powerful communicator and break through the barriers holding you back.

Tune in to discover how effective communication isn’t just a soft skill—it’s your superpower.

Takeaways:

• Public speaking starts with personal storytelling
• Vulnerability deepens trust—professionally and personally
• Communication styles differ, and adapting is key
• Imposter syndrome is real—but action beats fear
• Coaching and leadership require both confidence and compassion
• Sharing your story helps others find their voice
• You can't inspire others if you stay silent

Connect with Devan 

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What if the key to powerful communication started with a better understanding of numbers?

In this episode of Speaking With Confidence, Tim sits down with Dr. Craig "Dell" Hane—math innovator, NASCAR engineer, and education reformer—to explore how practical math isn't just about numbers... it's about building confidence, developing communication skills, and unlocking real-world opportunities.

Dr. Hane's story begins with a near-failure in high school algebra—and a principal who told him he’d never go to college. But thanks to a few great teachers and a belief in his own potential, Craig earned a PhD in algebraic number theory, launched a career of innovation, and created a revolutionary approach to math education.

From developing racing technologies for legends like Dale Earnhardt to founding a self-paced math program that teaches real-world skills in weeks, Dr. Hane shows us how effective communication—even through something as simple as a scientific calculator—can change lives.

You’ll hear how:

• Practical math builds powerful communication and soft skills
• Technology like the HP-35 calculator changed the game (and still does!)
• Math anxiety can be overcome with confidence and the right method
• Storytelling and belief systems shape how we learn and lead
• Public education might be failing students—and what we can do about it

This conversation isn’t just about math. It’s about personal development, interpersonal skills, and becoming a more powerful communicator by mastering something many people fear. And if you’ve ever doubted your abilities in math—or anywhere else—Dr. Hane's story will inspire you to rethink what's possible. 

Resources & Links 

Grab Dr. Hane’s free book, How and Why Public School Math is Destroying the USA: CraigHane.com 

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What’s it like when your business partner is also your spouse? Tim Newman sits down with his wife, Jennifer, for a candid conversation about the challenges and rewards of working together as a couple.  

With nearly three decades of marriage and experience running multiple businesses—including their work with the Golfweek Amateur Tour—Tim and Jennifer share how they navigate communication challenges, decision-making conflicts, and role transitions in both their personal and professional lives.  

This episode dives into: 

• How to communicate effectively when switching between personal and business roles
• The impact of different communication styles on teamwork and conflict resolution
• Why defining clear roles helps prevent tension and micromanagement
• Managing high-pressure decisions when you and your partner don’t transition at the same speed
• The power of self-reflection and continuous growth in strengthening both relationships and leadership
• Why giving each other grace is essential for long-term success  

 Takeaways:

• Balancing Personal & Professional Roles Is a Constant Adjustment
• Different Communication Styles Can Create Both Strength and Struggle
• Decision-Making Under Pressure Exposes Communication Gaps 
• Defining Clear Roles Prevents Micromanagement & Builds Trust
• Giving Each Other Grace & Space Is Essential for Long-Term Success 

Whether you’re building a business with your significant other or just looking to strengthen your interpersonal skills, this episode is packed with insights on becoming a powerful communicator in any partnership.  Have you ever worked with your partner? What’s been your biggest challenge? Drop us a message or share this episode with someone who needs it!

Tune in now to learn how to balance business, relationships, and communication with confidence!

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Get ready for an incredible conversation with Juanita Wheeler, a powerhouse in public speaking coaching and the CEO of TEDx Brisbane. With over 100 TEDx speakers coached, Juanita has mastered the art of helping speakers communicate effectively and own their awesome on stage.  

In this episode, we dive deep into:  

• Overcoming the Fear of Public Speaking – Why fear of judgment holds us back and how to shift your mindset. 
• The Neuroscience of Persuasion – How behavioral science shapes effective communication. 
• Preparation & Practice – Why stagecraft is the last five meters of a hundred-meter race.
• Authenticity Over Performance – Why outdated presentation techniques fail and how to engage your audience naturally.  
• Tailoring Your Message – Content is king, but it must be audience-specific and strategically crafted. 
• Owning Your Unique Voice – The power of being direct, honest, and confident when speaking. 

Juanita shares hard-hitting advice on how to turn speaking anxiety into a strength and how strategic objectives—not just awareness—drive real impact. Whether you're a seasoned speaker or just starting, this episode will transform how you see public speaking!

📣 Ready to become a more powerful communicator? Tune in now!

Resources & Links: 

Website - http://fullandfrank.com/tools
LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/juanitawheeler/
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/fullandfrank
Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/fullandfrank/

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If you've ever hesitated to step onto a stage or doubted the power of your voice, this episode is for you. Today, we’re joined by Bobbie Carlton, founder of Innovation Women, a game-changer in the world of public speaking. Bobbie shares her personal journey from being a nervous speaker to becoming a sought-after expert on stages worldwide.

We’re tackling some big topics today, why visibility equals opportunity, how women can break into the public speaking space, and the systemic barriers that still keep too many voices unheard. Whether you’re an introvert, a seasoned speaker, or just starting to explore public speaking, Bobbie’s insights will help you take the stage with confidence.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
✅ The biggest public speaking challenges and how to overcome them
✅ Why practice and preparation are the key to confidence
✅ How to handle interruptions and take control of the stage
✅ The power of diverse voices in public speaking
✅ How women can gain visibility and recognition in leadership
✅ The impact of virtual events and how they’ve changed speaking opportunities
✅ Why saying “yes” to speaking opportunities can unlock career growth

Key Takeaways:
🎤 Public speaking is a skill anyone can develop with the right mindset and practice.
🎤 Visibility leads to opportunities—speaking on stage can open doors in your career.
🎤 Introverts can be incredible speakers with preparation and confidence-building strategies.
🎤 Women are still underrepresented in speaking roles—it's time to change that!
🎤 Diversity on panels matters—it leads to richer conversations and better solutions.
🎤 Men can be allies in promoting gender diversity in speaking events.
🎤 Virtual events have created more speaking opportunities than ever before.

Whether you're looking to level up your communication skills, gain credibility, or step into leadership, this conversation with Bobbie Carlton will inspire you to take action.

📣 Ready to become a more powerful communicator? Tune in now!

Resources & Links: 

Website - https://innovationwomen.com
LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/bobbiecarlton
X - https://twitter.com/WomenInno
TikTok - https://tiktok.com/@womeninno

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What can climbing a mountain teach you about becoming a powerful communicator? In this episode of Speaking With Confidence, Tim Newman sits down with Vesela Mangeyna, a business coach and corporate finance expert, to explore how preparation, adaptability, and authenticity shape how we connect with others.  

Vesela shares how her experience scaling Mount Fuji mirrors the challenges of effective communication, navigating unexpected obstacles, pushing past self-doubt, and learning to trust the process. Whether in boardrooms, networking events, or personal conversations, confidence isn’t about perfection, it’s about being prepared, present, and real.  

This conversation goes beyond the mechanics of public speaking to explore how self-awareness, feedback, and storytelling transform everyday interactions. Vesela unpacks the four communication archetypes and how understanding them can help you engage, influence, and inspire any audience. If you've ever struggled with imposter syndrome, fear of speaking up, or feeling like your message isn’t landing, this episode is packed with insights to help you communicate with impact.  

 Key Takeaways:  

✅ Preparation builds confidence – The more prepared you are, the more naturally you can adapt in conversations.  

✅ Authenticity is your superpower – People connect with real, not perfect.  

✅ Fear fades with action – Confidence is built by showing up, speaking up, and learning from experience.  

✅ Feedback accelerates growth – Seeking input from others sharpens your ability to communicate effectively.  

✅ Know your communication archetype – Understanding your natural style helps you connect with different audiences.  

✅ Engagement is everything – Powerful communication isn’t about what you say—it’s about how you make people feel.  

✅ Every conversation is an opportunity – Whether in meetings, networking, or everyday interactions, your words have impact. 

Tune in now and take your communication skills to the next level!  

Resources & Links

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/vesela-mangeyna-fcca-a54058b/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/EMTVeselaMangeyna/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vmangeyna/

Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@veselamangeyna

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What if your biggest public speaking blunder could become your greatest lesson? In this episode of Speaking With Confidence, I’m joined by the incredible Vicki Noethling, a speaker, coach, and master storyteller who knows firsthand that confidence isn’t about perfection—it’s about presence, practice, and having fun along the way.

From her infamous "pee-pee" incident on live TV to a less-than-graceful fall in church, Vicki shares some of her most humbling (and hilarious) public speaking moments. But more importantly, she reveals how those experiences helped her become a more resilient, authentic, and engaging communicator. 

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:  

• Why public speaking is just a conversation, not a performance
• How to embrace mistakes as part of your growth journey
• The secret to engaging younger generations and teaching eye contact
• Practical strategies to elevate your virtual presence (lighting, sound, and more!)
• How storytelling can capture your legacy and impact future generations  

Key Takeaways:

• Mistakes are part of the learning process—embrace them!
• Confidence comes from knowing your material and being yourself
• Public speaking requires continuous improvement and practice
• Effective communication can open doors for leadership and career growth
• Expressiveness helps you connect and engage with your audience
• A strong virtual presence (lighting, sound, and setup) makes a difference
• Every story matters—your experiences are worth sharing  

Vicki’s wisdom reminds us that confidence comes from practice, preparation, and most importantly, being yourself. Whether you're refining your public speaking skills, improving your virtual presence, or simply looking to communicate more effectively, this episode is packed with insights that will help you grow.  

Tune in now and take your communication skills to the next level!  

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Ever felt like your shyness is holding you back from becoming a confident speaker? This episode is for you! Host Tim Newman sits down with Philip Sessions, a public speaking coach who transformed from a shy child into a powerful communicator.  

Philip shares his personal journey and the lessons he learned along the way, from the power of storytelling to the role of self-development in building confidence. They explore how effective communication can enhance personal and professional success, why listening is key to better conversations, and how networking can help unlock new opportunities.  

Philip also discusses the unexpected connection between engineering and coaching, emphasizing that structured thinking and problem-solving skills can help anyone become a more effective speaker. He highlights the importance of practice, preparation, and mindset in overcoming fear and delivering impactful messages.  

Key Takeaways:  

• Confidence is built through action – Start speaking, even if it feels uncomfortable at first.  
• Storytelling is a superpower – It helps make your message more engaging and memorable. 
• Listening is just as important as speaking – Understanding your audience makes your message more impactful.  
• Networking and personal connections matter – Building genuine relationships can open doors in ways you never imagined.  
• Silence is powerful – Learn to embrace pauses instead of filling them with “um” and “ah.” 
• Engineers can make great coaches – Their problem-solving mindset translates well into communication coaching.

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In this episode of Speaking with Confidence, host Tim Newman sits down with Aleya Harris, a dynamic speaker, marketing expert, and storytelling powerhouse. They explore the transformative power of authenticity, the role of mindset shifts in public speaking, and how to craft a message that truly resonates with an audience.  

Aleya shares insights from her book, Spark the Stage, offering practical strategies for aspiring speakers to refine their storytelling, captivate audiences, and build confidence. Whether you're battling stage fright, struggling with imposter syndrome, or looking to enhance your communication skills, this episode is filled with actionable advice to help you speak with impact.  

What You’ll Learn in This Episode  

• Authenticity wins – Why being yourself is the most powerful public speaking tool  
• The magic of storytelling – How personal narratives create lasting audience connections  
• Mindset shifts for success – Overcoming stage fright and embracing your voice  
• The role of ego in speaking – How to stay coachable and keep learning  
• Networking through curiosity – Building meaningful relationships in professional settings  
• Serving vs. self-promotion – Why public speaking is about impact, not just presence  
• Captivating audiences from the start – The secret to holding attention and inspiring action  

Key Takeaway  

Your voice matters. Your story is powerful. Own it and inspire others.  

Resources & Links  

Website - https://www.aleyaharris.com/  

LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/aleyaharris/

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/aleyaharris/

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In this episode of Speaking With Confidence, host Tim Newman has an inspiring and thought-provoking conversation with Greg Bennick, a world-class speaker, best-selling author, and a master of connection. Together, they explore Greg’s journey from overturning Seattle’s infamous Teen Dance Ordinance to becoming a leading voice in communication and leadership. 

Greg shares how his mother’s influence shaped his speaking style and how personal experiences, like the legendary “pinball incident” and a heartwarming train journey in India, demonstrated the power of humor, kindness, and shared humanity. Along the way, they uncover how laughter strengthens bonds, how listening builds bridges, and why stepping into the unknown is the key to unlocking new possibilities.

From his encounter with the Dalai Lama to his cross-cultural experiences in Ukraine and Russia, Greg reminds us that communication is more than just words, it’s about fostering understanding, breaking down barriers, and finding connection even in the most unexpected places.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

• How Greg Bennick and a community of young activists overturned Seattle’s Teen Dance Ordinance, proving that people can make a difference.
• The role of personal experiences, like Greg’s balloon animal icebreaker, in shaping communication styles and building relationships.
• Why humor and self-deprecation are powerful tools for leadership and public speaking.
• The transformative impact of listening and finding common ground, especially in divisive times.
• How Greg defines success on his own terms and the importance of overcoming self-limiting beliefs.
• Practical insights on how to embrace kindness, foster connection, and create space for new opportunities.

Key Takeaways:

• Listening is the foundation of meaningful communication.
• Humor enhances leadership and builds stronger relationships.
• Smiling and kindness are universal languages that transcend cultural barriers.
• Success is personal—define it on your terms and let go of fear.
• Embracing the unexpected opens doors to growth and deeper connections.

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Welcome to another episode of Speaking with Confidence, the podcast where I help you become a powerful communicator. I’m your host, Tim Newman, and in each episode, we explore the art of effective communication, sharing strategies, insights, and expert conversations designed to unlock your potential. Don’t forget to check out our resources at TimNewmanSpeaks.com to take your communication skills to the next level. Today’s episode is especially meaningful as we explore the power of advocacy, authenticity, and finding your voice to drive meaningful change.

In this enlightening episode of Speaking With Confidence, host Tim Newman is joined by Dr. Almitra Berry, a nationally recognized expert in educational equity. Together, they explore the systemic inequities in K-12 education and discuss actionable ways to empower culturally and linguistically diverse learners. Dr. Berry shares her deep insights into building trust in the classroom, teaching critical life skills like self-advocacy, and embracing linguistic diversity to create an equitable educational landscape. Whether you're an educator, parent, or advocate, this episode will leave you inspired to drive change. 

Key Takeaways

• Advocating for Marginalized Learners: Dr. Berry highlights the crucial need for educators and communities to champion the needs of historically underserved students. 
• Systemic Inequities in Education: The public education system often falls short in addressing the diverse needs of students, especially those from marginalized communities.
• Building Psychological Safety: Fostering trust and relationships in classrooms creates an environment where students can thrive academically and personally. 
• The Role of Soft Skills: Public schools often neglect teaching essential skills like communication, self-advocacy, and collaboration. 
• Linguistic Diversity Matters: Recognizing and valuing all forms of communication, including regional dialects and multilingualism, bridges the gap between home and school languages.
• Empowering Future Generations: By supporting students in finding their voice and passion, we set the stage for societal change.
• AI in Education: If leveraged effectively, artificial intelligence has the potential to transform education for the better.
• Social Media's Impact: The conversation addresses the challenges posed by social media on youth mental health. 
• Finding Your Voice: Dr. Berry emphasizes the importance of authenticity and passion in public speaking to connect meaningfully with any audience.

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Welcome to another episode of Speaking with Confidence, the podcast that empowers you to master the art of public speaking and live with genuine confidence. I'm your host, Tim Newman. In each episode, we dive into the world of effective communication, exploring strategies, sharing insights, and interviewing experts to help you unleash your potential. Don’t forget to check out our comprehensive public speaking course available at formulaforpublicspeaking.com. Today’s episode is particularly special as we venture into the realm of introversion and leadership.

 Joining us today is the incredible Stacey Chazin, a seasoned leadership coach specializing in empowering introverts. With a Master’s degree in organizational development and leadership, and certification as a Myers Briggs Type Indicator practitioner, Stacey brings a wealth of knowledge and experience to our conversation. We’ll explore her journey, insights, and strategies to help introverts thrive in both personal and professional settings.

Key Takeaways:

1. Embracing Introversion: Stacey emphasizes the importance of understanding and embracing one's introverted nature. Introverts gain energy from solitude and small group interactions, and recognizing this can lead to more fulfilling personal and professional relationships. By being authentic and self-aware, introverts can harness their unique strengths to achieve success.
2. Practical Strategies for Meetings: Stacey shares invaluable advice for introverts to succeed in meetings. She suggests requesting the agenda in advance, preparing one key point with supporting data for each relevant topic, and asking for opportunities to contribute in writing before or after the meeting. These strategies help introverts to feel more prepared and confident in contributing to discussions.
3. Networking Tips for Introverts: Networking can be daunting for introverts, but Stacey provides actionable tips to make it easier. She recommends setting a goal to connect with three people per day at a conference, researching discussion points for those individuals, and using icebreakers to initiate conversation. Managing energy levels by selectively attending sessions and scheduling alone time is also crucial.
4. Navigating Professional Challenges: The conversation addresses challenges introverts face in modern work environments, like constant connectivity and the expectation of always being available. Introverts can struggle with saying no and taking on tasks that don’t align with their skills, risking burnout. Effective communication and leveraging natural strengths like listening and reflective thinking are key to overcoming these challenges.
5. Preparation for Negotiations: Stacey offers strategies for introverts to excel in negotiations. Preparation is vital—gather data on industry standards, set clear goals, and maintain a record of accomplishments. Using active listening to read nonverbal cues, reflecting on negotiation language, and scheduling time for self-care before and after negotiations can also boost confidence and effectiveness.

Discover more about Stacey’s work and access her productivity guide for introverts, conference survival guide, and meetings playbook at ifactorleadership.com. Additi

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In this episode of Speaking with Confidence, we dive deep into the often-overlooked art of setting boundaries and the importance of clear communication in our daily lives. With many of us struggling to say "no" and feeling compelled to participate in activities we don't enjoy, learning to set boundaries without guilt can significantly enhance our personal and professional relationships.

Today's guest is Suzanne Culberg, also known as "The No Coach." Suzanne has made a name for herself by helping people-pleasers break free from their tendencies to agree to everything and instead, set healthy boundaries. Through her straightforward approach and personal anecdotes, she provides invaluable insights into the complexities of saying "no" and the power of honest communication.

Overview of What Was Discussed:

The Importance of Saying "No": Suzanne underscores the necessity of openly communicating when one lacks interest in participating in activities to avoid feeling obligated and to maintain authenticity in relationships. She shares personal stories to illustrate this point, such as her lifelong choice of being a teetotaler.

Boundaries and Honesty: Both Suzanne and Tim discuss the societal tendency to sugarcoat refusals and how refreshing direct communication can be. Suzanne shares her frustration with insincere declines and emphasizes the importance of framing questions clearly to avoid misunderstandings.

Challenges of Coordination: They explore the intricacies of managing schedules across different time zones and the convenience of digital tools. Suzanne expresses her preference for digital calendars and highlights the importance of clear communication preferences.

Setting Boundaries with Loved Ones: Suzanne advises starting the practice of saying "no" with strangers before moving on to close relationships, sharing personal experiences to illuminate the gradual process of setting and adjusting boundaries.

Balanced Relationships and Reciprocity: The discussion touches on the potential for unbalanced relationships, illustrated by Suzanne's story of overextending herself to help another mom. The conversation also dives into the importance of sustaining meaningful relationships through mutual respect and understanding.

5 Key Takeaways:

Learning to Say "No": Begin with strangers and practice saying "no" in low-stakes situations to build confidence. This gradual approach helps prepare for setting boundaries in more significant relationships.

Honesty Over Sugarcoating: Direct communication can prevent misunderstandings and foster genuine interactions. Instead of giving insincere excuses, be honest about your disinterest in an activity.

Digital Tools for Scheduling: Utilize digital calendars to manage time effectively and coordinate across different time zones. This can significantly reduce the stress of back-and-forth communication.

Setting Boundaries is a Gradual Process: Making small adjustments and having open conversations about new boundaries can lead to significant long-term changes. Acknowledge past behaviors and be clear about your new intentions.

Balanced Reciprocity in Relationships: Understanding the importance of equal effort in relationships helps prevent feelings of being used. Setting expectations and c

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Welcome back to "Speaking with Confidence," the podcast dedicated to enhancing your public speaking skills and boosting your self-confidence. I'm your host, Tim Newman, and today we have a deeply inspiring and thought-provoking discussion lined up for you with our guest, Brian Fleming.

Brian Fleming is a retired US Army sergeant, motivational speaker, author, and advocate for trauma survivors. Having served four years in the Army and survived two near-death encounters in combat, Brian brings a wealth of experience and wisdom to our conversation. He has spent over a year recovering from severe injuries and has turned his personal trials into a powerful platform for helping others. Brian is also the host of the "Podgasm" podcast, where he aids individuals in becoming effective communicators.

In this episode, we explore several pivotal themes surrounding overcoming the constraints of others' opinions, the dual nature of social media, the importance of reading and critical thinking, and personal stories of resilience and self-worth. Brian Fleming shares his journey from combat to becoming a motivational speaker, emphasizing the importance of authenticity, positive self-talk, and the transformative power of overcoming life's challenges. Tim Newman complements Brian's insights with reflections on generational differences, mental health, and the significance of strong mentorship.

1. The Fallacy of External Opinions:
   • Brian Fleming highlights that we often imprison ourselves by valuing others' opinions too highly, even those of people we hold in high regard. He stresses that true freedom comes from being authentic and true to oneself rather than seeking external validation.
2. Navigating the Dual Nature of Social Media:
   • Both Tim Newman and Brian discuss the positive and negative aspects of social media. While it offers connectivity and information, it also presents challenges like cyberbullying. Brian advises using tools like blocking negative interactions to manage this, drawing a contrast with past methods of resolving conflicts face-to-face.
3. The Importance of Reading and Critical Thinking:
   • Brian emphasizes personal and professional growth through meaningful reading, warning against the prevalent biased and agenda-driven information. He stresses the need for critical thinking and evaluating different perspectives to form well-rounded opinions.
4. Transforming Trauma into Value:
   • Sharing his story of surviving traumatic incidents in Afghanistan, Brian talks about how these experiences led him to become a motivational speaker. He believes that trauma, when channeled positively, can create significant personal value and help others, aligning with Viktor Frankl's philosophy on finding meaning in suffering.
5. Self-Worth and Authenticity:
   • The episode concludes with reflections on self-worth and the importance of minimizing the influence of others' opinions. Brian suggests that embracing imperfections and being authentic can foster a stronger sense of self-worth and lead to more fulfilling personal and professional lives.

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Welcome back to another episode of Speaking with Confidence, the podcast that dives deep into the art of public speaking and personal development. In today's episode, we're thrilled to have Aaron Parry join us for a discussion about overcoming self-doubt, embracing challenges, and the power of self-improvement. Aaron is the host of the They Not Like Us podcast and brings a wealth of experience from his diverse career path and shares valuable insights that are sure to inspire and motivate.

In this episode, we'll dive deep into effective breathing techniques, particularly the 5-second interval method, and how it can be used to calm the mind before high-stress situations like public speaking. Aaron will also discuss the importance of focusing outwardly on the audience, the role of emotional connection in communication, and creating psychological safety for making mistakes. We'll touch on generational differences in leadership, the evolution of coaching young athletes, and the need for adaptive progress to avoid stagnation.

Key Takeaways:

1. Focused Breathing Techniques: Both Tim Newman and Aaron Parry emphasize the importance of the box breathing technique (inhale for 5 seconds, hold for 5 seconds, exhale for 5 seconds, and hold for 5 seconds) to calm the mind, especially useful before public speaking or engaging in high-stress activities. This technique helps in managing stress and maintaining composure.

2. Positive Mindset and Self-Discovery: Aaron Parry discusses the value of maintaining a positive mindset, focusing on self-discovery, and pursuing personal goals regardless of external support. Adopting a "with or without you" mentality and stepping out of one's comfort zone can lead to significant personal growth and resilience.

3. Generational and Cultural Mindset Differences: The episode sheds light on the differences in mindset between the UK and the US, with the UK generally being more pessimistic. Aaron also discusses the need for older generations to adapt their leadership styles to better engage with the younger workforce, emphasizing understanding and supportive approaches.

4. Emotional Connection in Public Speaking: Aaron stresses the importance of making an emotional connection with the audience during public speaking. It's crucial to focus outwardly on the audience rather than oneself, as people are more likely to remember how you made them feel rather than the specific content of the speech.

5. Resilience and Learning from Failure: Both speakers underscore the significance of resilience and adaptability, developed through facing discomfort and challenges. Aaron shares personal experiences of failure and emphasizes that learning from these experiences is key to eventual success. Understanding and making necessary adjustments based on failures can lead to growth and better outcomes in business and personal life.

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Welcome to Speaking with Confidence, the show dedicated to helping you enhance your public speaking skills and boost your confidence in front of any audience. Our guest today is Evgeniy Kharam, a renowned cybersecurity consultant, author, and host of unique networking events that combine professional networking with thrilling activities like skiing, snowboarding, and biking. 

In this episode, Evgeniy shares his incredible journey from struggling with public speaking anxiety to mastering the art of engaging diverse audiences. He discusses his unique approach to networking by hosting events that foster easy communication in relaxed environments, touches on the importance of combining technical skills with effective communication, and shares actionable techniques for managing performance anxiety and improving presentation skills.

5 Key Takeaways:

1. Blending Networking with Fun: Evgeniy’s unique approach to networking through activities like skiing and biking fosters genuine connections in an informal atmosphere. These events break traditional barriers, enabling more meaningful interactions between participants.
2. Overcoming Public Speaking Anxiety: Evgeniy started his speaking journey in the Navy and faced significant challenges, including anxiety and fast speech. Through consistent practice, customer interactions, and receiving feedback, he managed to transform these struggles into strengths, enhancing his ability to connect with audiences.
3. Box Breathing Technique: Tim and Evgeniy discuss the box breathing method, a powerful tool for managing anxiety and improving focus. This technique, which involves controlled breathing steps, is beneficial for both athletic and professional settings, helping speakers maintain composure under pressure.
4. Embracing Personal Authenticity: Authenticity is essential in public speaking. Evgeniy emphasizes accepting one's unique traits, such as an accent, and focusing on clear pronunciation, pacing, and reducing filler words. Both speakers agree that genuine self-presentation helps build stronger connections with the audience.
5. Practical Communication Strategies: For effective communication, especially with non-technical audiences, it's important to offer information through multiple formats like slides, diagrams, and demos. Verifying audience understanding through feedback ensures the message is accurately conveyed and comprehended.

Join us as we explore these themes and more, gaining valuable insights into the seamless integration of technical knowledge and soft skills. Whether you're an experienced professional or a student just starting out, this episode is packed with tips to elevate your speaking prowess and connect more deeply with your audience.

Don't miss out on this enlightening conversation with Evgeniy Kharam on Speaking with Confidence. Tune in now, and let's get started on building your confidence one word at a time!

If you enjoyed this episode, subscribe to "Speaking with Confidence" for more compelling interviews and valuable public speaking tips. Follow Evgeniy Kharam on LinkedIn and explore his work further at softskillstag.ca and softskillstech.com. And remember, practice makes perfect—so keep honing those public speaking skills!

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Have you ever wondered what it's like to sell live on television, where every second counts? Join us as we chat with Mitch Carson, former pitchman on the Home Shopping Network in the 1990s, who shares his experiences of live TV sales. He takes us behind the scenes to explore the pressures of crafting messages that not only grab attention but also trigger that irresistible urge to buy. Discover the adrenaline rush that comes from turning viewers into buyers in mere moments, and how this fast-paced environment draws fascinating connections to today's click-happy online shopping culture.

In this episode, Mitch Carson shares his profound experiences and actionable strategies on various aspects of public speaking and professional communication. The conversation covers a wide range of topics, including:

• Audience Engagement Techniques: Mitch emphasizes aligning speech with the audience's culture and level, using humor as a bridge, and the importance of finding a friendly face in the crowd to create a strong connection.
• Navigating Cultural Differences: Mitch recounts his first speaking engagement in Karachi, where he used humor and cultural respect to overcome initial fears and build rapport.
• Building Credibility and Networking: Mitch discusses how engaging directly with audiences and respecting their cultural norms have helped him gain credibility and forge international opportunities.
• Resourcefulness and Strategic Market Focus: Mitch explains his perseverance in markets like Singapore, how he built relationships through small initial audiences, and why strategic focus on certain markets can be more lucrative.
• Challenges of Today’s Generation: Both Tim and Mitch contemplate how the current generation’s heavy reliance on technology affects their communication skills, emphasizing the need for situational awareness and face-to-face interaction.

Key Takeaways:

1. Audience-Centric Speaking: Align your speech with your audience’s cultural background and understanding, and use humor to break barriers. Finding a "friend" in the audience can help establish an immediate and personal connection.
2. Overcoming and Respecting Cultural Norms: Mitch's experience in Karachi illustrates the importance of engaging the audience while respecting local customs. Avoiding cultural missteps, such as respecting gender norms, can significantly enhance your credibility and acceptance.
3. Networking and Long-Term Strategy: Building personal relationships and networks is often more effective than traditional marketing strategies. Mitch's engagements in Singapore started small but grew exponentially due to his consistent efforts and network-building.
4. Technology and Communication: While technology offers access to constant information, it can hinder personal communication skills. Public speaking requires a balance between harnessing technology and maintaining face-to-face interaction skills.
5. Continuous Practice and Preparation: Public speaking, like sports, requires rigorous preparation and practice. Recording your speeches, joining groups like Toastmasters, and getting continuous feedback can improve confidence and performance over time.

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Welcome to another episode of Speaking with Confidence. Today, we're diving into the realm of effective communication, leadership, and the power of positive influence, especially through community-based programs. This episode sheds light on how mastering communication skills and building relationships can significantly impact both personal and professional lives.

Joining us in this episode is Ryan Pederson, Vice President of the Positive Athlete Program. With a rich background in sport management and marketing, Ryan shares his journey and the transformative power of the Positive Athlete initiative. The program honors high school student-athletes for their outstanding character and leadership qualities, spotlighting their contributions beyond athletic performance.

Ryan Pederson and host Tim Newman have a conversation centered around communication, career reflections, and community involvement. They emphasize the importance of presenting key information upfront in both written and spoken communication to capture attention effectively. Ryan shares his insights on building confidence through practice and preparation, the value of early career experiences, and the significance of treating professional athletes as regular people to foster better relationships.

The episode also covers Pederson's personal journey, including his internship at Georgia State University, which helped him discover his career path and develop a well-rounded skill set. Additionally, they discuss the Positive Athlete program, its origins, successes, and plans for future expansion. The conversation highlights the importance of making positive impacts within communities and the role of effective communication in achieving this goal.

5 Key Takeaways:

1. Effective Communication:
   • Emphasize key information at the beginning of any communication—whether it’s an email or a conversation. This approach helps in capturing the audience's attention immediately, aligning with principles from Chris Fanning’s books "The First Minute" and "Effective Emails."
2. Building Confidence Through Repetition:
   • Confidence in communication parallels sports training. Continuous practice and preparation build confidence, making it essential for young people to engage in conversations with industry professionals to prepare for their future roles.
3. Creating Value Early in a Career:
   • Starting from the bottom provides opportunities to showcase one's value. Ryan's experience at Georgia State University, where he created his own internship, is a testament to the importance of taking initiative and creating value within an organization. This proactive approach can lead to significant career insights and progression.
4. Personal Connections in Communication:
   • Adjust communication style based on the audience while maintaining a conversational tone. Establishing personal connections by understanding individuals' experiences and interests can break down barriers and make interactions more effective.
5. Impact of Community Programs:
   • Programs like Positive Athlete highlight the importance of recognizing and encouraging positive character traits and leadership qualities among young athletes. Such initiatives not only benefit indivi

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Welcome to "Speaking with Confidence," the podcast that helps you unlock the power of effective public speaking. In today’s episode, we are thrilled to sit down with the dynamic duo, David Pullan and Sarah Jane McKechnie, to discuss the DNA of Engagement and explore the powerful role of storytelling in both personal and professional contexts.

David and Sarah Jane bring a wealth of experience from the world of acting, having spent 30 years performing with the Royal Shakespeare Company and Paramount Pictures. Their transition into the business world led them to establish "StorySpotters," a venture dedicated to enhancing communication through effective storytelling. Their latest endeavor, "The DNA of Engagement," offers insightful techniques to improve engagement and leadership through storytelling.

Overview of the Discussion:

• Tim, David, and Sarah Jane emphasize the importance of authenticity, vulnerability, and giving back.
• They introduce the concept of "same paging" and discuss how it ensures cohesive understanding within teams.
• They elaborate on the practical application of storytelling in business, the PREP structure, and the principle of "show, don’t tell."
• The conversation touches on the rapid pace of modern life and how it impacts deep conversations and storytelling.
• They emphasize ethical storytelling and discuss the scientific, artistic, and craft elements of storytelling.
• The episode highlights the neuroscience behind storytelling and practical techniques like the "Dream, Nightmare, Action" (DNA) framework.
• Sarah Jane shares insights on making stories more engaging through context, detail, and dialogue.
• David and Sarah Jane also discuss their experiences of transitioning from acting to business coaching and helping clients communicate effectively.

Key Takeaways:

1. Authenticity and Vulnerability:
   Authenticity and vulnerability are critical when it comes to teaching, storytelling, and making genuine connections. Being open and seeking feedback helps in connecting with the audience on a deeper level.
2. Same Paging for Cohesion:
   The concept of "same paging" involves turning facts into cohesive stories, ensuring that everyone within a team has a unified understanding. This technique is pivotal for achieving alignment and effective communication.
3. PREP Structure for Effective Stories:
   David Pullan introduces the PREP structure (Point, Reason, Example, Takeaway), which is essential for crafting compelling stories that leave a lasting impression. For example, illustrating an individual's problem-solving skills through a personal anecdote can make their abilities more relatable and memorable.
4. Ethical Storytelling:
   Ethical storytelling is imperative. The responsible use of storytelling should aim at doing good rather than manipulating the audience. Stories should reflect values and behaviors in a genuine manner to build trust and integrity.
5. Engagement Through Details and Context:
   Sarah Jane emphasizes the importance of bringing listeners into the world of the story. Specific details, context (time and place), and dialogue make stories more vivid and engaging, helping listeners to form mental images and connect emotionally.

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Welcome to another episode of Speaking with Confidence, the podcast dedicated to helping you master the art of effective communication. I'm Tim Newman, your host, and today we are opening up about a struggle we all deal with—imposter syndrome.

In this episode, I am thrilled to welcome back Sara Lohse, a storyteller, marketer, and brand architect who helps mission-driven brands through Favorite Daughter Media. Sara is also the co-host of the "Branded" podcast and the author of "Open This Book: The Art of Storytelling for Aspiring Thought Leaders." Sara's experiences and insights make her the perfect guest to explore today’s topics, and I’m incredibly grateful to have her as our first repeat guest on the show.

Our conversation traverses several foundational elements of developing confidence in communication and self-promotion. We start by recounting how Sara and I met at a pivotal point in my professional development, emphasizing the importance of seizing transformative opportunities. We then delve into the art of self-promotion, exploring the emotional barriers and practical strategies that can help overcome these challenges.

We redefine what it means to be an expert, highlighting how endless curiosity and continuous learning can turn you into one. Drawing from personal experiences, we also cover the significance of adapting to new media, like transitioning from audio podcasts to video content, and the associated struggles and triumphs. Another key focus is the imposter syndrome—how it can deeply affect our professional journey and how to combat it effectively.

5 Key Takeaways:

1. The Art of Self-Promotion:
   • Promoting oneself can often feel daunting due to emotional hurdles and self-doubt. The key lies in building trust, maintaining a strong work ethic, and continuously preparing for opportunities. It’s about putting in the incremental effort to present your best self.
2. Redefining Expertise:
   • Expertise isn't just about having all the answers but about maintaining an endless curiosity and being committed to continuous learning. Tim's meticulous research and preparation are highlighted as the true markers of expertise.
3. Adapting to New Mediums:
   • Transitioning to different forms of media, be it stage, podcast, or video, can be challenging but rewarding. Tim's journey from an audio-only podcast to creating daily minute-long videos exemplifies the importance of stepping out of your comfort zone to grow and improve your skills.
4. Imposter Syndrome and Self-Worth:
   • Both Tim and Sara grapple with imposter syndrome despite their achievements. Recognizing these feelings and surrounding oneself with a supportive network are essential steps towards managing self-doubt. Sara’s journey from feeling undervalued to running her own successful business is inspirational for anyone facing similar challenges.
5. Continuous Improvement and Authenticity:
   • Practice makes perfect, especially when it comes to speaking and content creation. Both Sara and Tim stress the importance of continuous improvement and transparency about one’s struggles. Sharing your journey and showing your growth not only humanizes the experience but also builds authenticity and trust with your audience.

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Get ready to unlock the secrets of captivating public speaking with our special guest, Conor Cunneen, famously known as the Irishman Speaks. From his early days as a nervous speaker to becoming an award-winning humorist and keynote speaker, Connor shares his incredible journey and the transformative power of humor in communication. You'll hear firsthand how storytelling and a positive attitude can elevate your personal brand and make you stand out, whether in job interviews or daily interactions. Plus, Connor's unforgettable award-winning humorous speech on customer service, featuring the contrast of San Quentin Prison, will leave you in stitches while teaching valuable lessons.

But that's not all—discover how humor and attitude can revolutionize your business interactions. Connor explains the concept of using mental triggers, such as calling police cars "mobile discotheques," to create memorable messages that stick. We emphasize the importance of personal connections in business, showcasing how a good sense of humor can set a salesperson apart and lead to stronger relationships and more successful outcomes. Learn to harness the power of humor to make your communications engaging and unforgettable, ensuring that your key messages are remembered.

Finally, we'll dive into practical strategies to create a positive work culture using Connor's innovative acronyms like CHAPS and LAUGH. Micro goals like giving compliments and using positive language can significantly boost motivation and team morale. The E4 brand promise—energize, educate, entertain, and be easy to work with—provides a robust framework for professional interactions. And as we explore the art of incorporating humor into presentations, you'll gain invaluable tips to keep your audience engaged and entertained. This episode is packed with laughter, insightful advice, and actionable strategies to enhance your public speaking skills and foster a positive workplace environment. Tune in for an unforgettable experience!

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Welcome to another episode of "Speaking with Confidence," the podcast that brings you practical advice and inspiring conversations to help you become a better and more confident communicator. I’m your host, Tim Newman, and today we have an exceptional guest with us, Chris Fenning. Chris is an accomplished engineer, rocket scientist, and an award-winning author known for his expertise in clear communication. Whether you're looking to enhance your public speaking skills, improve your day-to-day workplace interactions, or write more effective emails, this episode is packed with actionable tips and insights.

Our guest for today, Chris Fenning, has navigated through multiple industries and countries, bringing a wealth of experience in both technical fields and communication. From being a rocket scientist to an expert in communication, Chris has authored several award-winning books, including "The First Minute," which focuses on the importance of being clear and concise in communication. His practical frameworks and experiences provide a unique perspective on overcoming fears and mastering the art of effective communication.

In this episode, we dive deep into various aspects of communication—both verbal and written. Chris shares his personal journey of overcoming public speaking anxiety and the transformation he underwent to become a confident communicator. We discuss the role of scheduling theory and project management in planning events and the significance of clear communication in this context. Chris introduces valuable frameworks like Context, Intent, and Key Message, as well as Goal, Problem, Solution (GPS), to help you frame your messages effectively. We also touch on the psychological reasons behind excessive information sharing and how to overcome them. Lastly, we emphasize the critical role of active listening and provide tips for writing impactful emails.

Key Takeaways

1. Framing Your Communication:
   • Chris emphasizes the importance of framing in communication. The Context, Intent, and Key Message framework is a powerful tool to ensure your message is clear and relevant to the audience. For instance, in job interviews, compressing complex information into a succinct answer can make a significant impact.
2. Overcoming Public Speaking Anxiety:
   • Chris shares his personal fears of public speaking and creating videos. By setting a challenge for himself to create 101-minute videos, he practiced consistently and eventually overcame his fears. Repetition and practice in small steps are key to becoming a confident speaker.
3. Effective Written Communication:
   • Understanding how people read large bodies of text is crucial. Chris mentions that people often read in an "f" shape, focusing on the first line and skimming downward. To make emails more effective, use informative subject lines, repeat the topic and purpose, and label questions clearly.
4. Balancing Team Dynamics and Communication:
   • Effective communication is not just about individual performance but also about how well team members coordinate and cooperate. Tim shares insights from his experience in the sports industry, emphasizing the interconnectedness of different departments and the need for effective interdepartmental communication.

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Welcome back to another episode of "Speaking with Confidence," the podcast dedicated to helping you conquer public speaking anxieties and find your voice. In today's episode, our host Tim Newman sits down with Scott Allan, confidence coach, author, and mindset strategist who has transformed his own life by embracing failures and translating them into opportunities for growth. We'll discuss overcoming imposter syndrome, the philosophy of "failing big," and actionable strategies to keep procrastination at bay, equipping you with the tools to take ownership of your career and personal development.

Scott Allan is a celebrated author whose works have been published in 16 languages, helping thousands of readers overcome self-doubt and cultivate a mindset geared toward success. With over 10,000 hours invested in confidence development and mindset mastery training, Scott brings a wealth of experience and practical wisdom to our discussion. He also runs websites like scottallenbooks.com and scottallenpublishing.com, where you can find his latest publications and resources aimed at personal growth.

In this episode, Tim and Scott cover a wide range of topics central to personal and professional development. They begin with a deep dive into imposter syndrome, exploring how it affects young professionals and the importance of recognizing that everyone is hired for a reason. Scott candidly shares his own struggles and triumphs, recounting his experiences with career challenges, massive failures, and the incredible value of learning from mistakes. 

Key Takeaways:

1. Embrace Imposter Syndrome: Imposter syndrome often stems from a deeply ingrained fear of failure and feeling unqualified. It's important to remember that if you were chosen for a job or an opportunity, there’s a reason behind it. Acknowledge your capabilities and embrace the chance to share your input.

2. Fail Big and Learn: Failure should be viewed not as a setback, but an essential part of the learning process. Scott’s narrative about the million-dollar mistake and his own costly work error underscored the importance of facing failures head-on, learning from them, and moving forward with greater awareness and preparedness.

3. Intentional Action Over Habit Building: Overcoming procrastination is rooted in taking small, intentional actions daily rather than focusing on building habits. By making decisive moves and celebrating small wins, you gradually build confidence and trust in your capabilities.

4. Shift Your Mindset: Adopting a positive mindset can significantly alter the way you approach challenges and opportunities. Scott’s transformation from a negative to a positive outlook, reinforced by reading, listening to motivational content, and turning his apartment into a vision board, propelled him toward achieving his goals abroad.

5. Be Authentic and Vulnerable: Authenticity and honesty in communication, especially in public speaking, can alleviate pressures to impress and control outcomes. Scott emphasizes that people rarely think about your performance as much as you do, and being genuine can help in navigating fears of rejection and judgment.

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Unlock the secrets to captivating your audience and transforming your presentations in our latest episode of Speaking with Confidence. Visual storytelling guru Emily Schneider joins us to share her journey from creating a Sweet 16 invitation to becoming a leading expert in presentation design and marketing. Learn how she turns complex information into visually compelling stories, and discover her powerful "less is more" strategy. Get ready to simplify your slides, choose impactful colors and fonts, and maintain your audience's focus with Emily's insider tips.

Discover how to make your presentations unforgettable by focusing on visual consistency and strategic design. Emily explains why maintaining a simple, consistent look across your slides can dramatically enhance information retention. She shares practical exercises that guide you in cutting down unnecessary content, ensuring your visuals support rather than distract from your message. By emphasizing key messages and using visuals effectively, you will leave a lasting impression on your audience.

From mastering animations to the strategic use of colors, Emily covers all the essentials for elevating your presentation game. Plus, explore the role of AI tools like ChatGPT in content creation while keeping your unique voice. Emily's insights on understanding your audience and designing with clear intent will empower you to make your presentations more engaging. Don’t miss her downloadable guide with top tips, available on our website, and join our community for more resources to boost your public speaking confidence.

1. Good Slide Design is Essential: Effective slide design keeps the audience engaged and aids memory retention. Bad design stands out negatively, while good design is subtle, enhancing the presenter's delivery and the overall message.

2. Consistency and Visuals Matter: Our brains retain significantly more information through visual design (65%) compared to purely content-based information (10-20%). Emily shares tips for maintaining visual consistency such as using uniform fonts, bullet treatments, logo placement, and color schemes.

3. *Less is More" with Animations: Overwhelming presentations with excessive animations can be distracting. Emily and Tim both advocate for strategic use of animations to highlight specific points and suggest simple transitions to maintain engagement without overpowering the content.

4. Simplicity and Color Usage: Simplifying slides by minimizing text and using visuals can create a stronger connection with the audience. Effective use of color, with 2 to 3 varied shades, enhances readability and interest, while caution is advised against overwhelming use of colors.

5. Importance of Storytelling: Presentations should focus on telling a compelling story rather than conveying a plethora of facts. People are more likely to remember stories, and simplicity helps maintain this narrative, making it easier for the audience to connect and retain the information.

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Welcome back to Speaking with Confidence, the podcast that empowers you to become a better public speaker by unlocking the potential of effective communication. In today's episode, our host Tim Newman sits down with the incredible Sara Lohse. Sara, the owner of Favorite Daughter Media and the author of "Open This Book: The Art of Storytelling for Aspiring Thought Leaders," joins us to dive deep into the art and science of storytelling. Together, they explore the importance of sharing personal stories, the power of authenticity, and how embracing vulnerability can create meaningful human connections.

Sara Lohse is an acclaimed storyteller, thought leader, and the visionary behind Favorite Daughter Media. She is also the author of "Open This Book: The Art of Storytelling for Aspiring Thought Leaders." Sara joins us to share her insights on the value of personal storytelling and how it can transform both personal and professional communication. Her expertise in marketing and her candid experiences make her the perfect guide for anyone looking to improve their storytelling skills.

In this episode, Tim Newman and Sara Lohse have an in-depth conversation about the multifaceted nature of storytelling. They discuss the significance of sharing personal stories and the impact it can have on both the storyteller and the audience. Sara highlights key elements from her book and offers practical tips on crafting compelling narratives. The conversation also touches on overcoming impostor syndrome, the role of authenticity in leadership, and the balance between striving for success and maintaining personal happiness. Sara shares her own experiences, including dealing with ADHD and the challenges of staying true to oneself in a professional setting. Tim and Sara emphasize the importance of relatability in storytelling and the necessity for businesses to innovate and adapt.

Key Takeaways:

1. The Power of Personal Stories: Sara stresses that personal stories hold immense power in connecting with others. These stories don’t need to be grand or headline-worthy; even everyday experiences can hold valuable lessons and resonate deeply with audiences.

2. Authenticity and Vulnerability: Both Tim and Sara emphasize the significance of being authentic and embracing vulnerability. Whether in personal or professional settings, sharing failures and mistakes rather than just highlight reels can help build genuine connections.

3. Overcoming Impostor Syndrome: The discussion addresses the common issue of impostor syndrome and the cultural reluctance to celebrate personal achievements. Sara advises that it's crucial to acknowledge and own one's accomplishments to foster a healthier self-image.

4. Crafting Compelling Stories: Practical storytelling tips from Sara include having a compelling and unexpected ending, crafting stories to fit different environments, and using a hook at the beginning to capture the audience’s attention. She also discusses how knowing the ending upfront helps her given her ADHD.

5. Value of Support Systems: The episode underscores the importance of having family, friends, and colleagues as support systems. Tim and Sara talk about the need for kindness towards oneself, having a network of cheerleaders, and prioritizing happiness and relationships alongside professional success.

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Welcome back to Speaking with Confidence, the podcast that's here to help you unlock the power of effective public speaking. Today, we have the incredible Roberta Ndlela as our guest. With 15 years of corporate business experience in South Africa, Roberta shares her journey and the invaluable lessons she has learned about communication, leadership, and embracing imperfection.

In this episode, we'll dive into the Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT) and the importance of considering others' perspectives. We'll also explore the shift from one-way communication to a more inclusive approach in marketing, leadership, and personal relationships. Roberta's insights from hosting over 200 podcast episodes shed light on the power of storytelling, authenticity, and the need for human connection.

Tim and Roberta discuss the crucial role of soft skills, the impact of technology on communication, and the challenges of bridging the gap between young professionals and corporate formality. Roberta also opens up about navigating cultural differences and language barriers in the workplace and the significance of understanding others' perspectives to resolve conflicts.

Join us as we uncover actionable advice for effective communication, share humorous anecdotes, and emphasize the Platinum Rule—communicating with people the way they prefer. Whether you're looking to improve your public speaking skills, enhance your leadership, or build better relationships, this episode is packed with insights you won't want to miss. Tune in and start your journey toward speaking with confidence!

Key Takeaways:

1. Ask and Listen: Always ask questions and listen to the individual's needs before offering help or solutions. This principle is vital in personal relationships, business communication, and customer service.

2. Embrace Imperfection: Making mistakes is part of the communication journey. Authenticity and sincerity can often leave a more lasting impact than flawlessness in public speaking.

3. Importance of Soft Skills: Soft skills such as empathy, listening, and adaptability are crucial in managing a diversified workforce and enhancing team dynamics in various professional settings.

4. Platinum Rule in Communication: Communicate with others as they wish to be communicated with, rather than adopting a one-size-fits-all approach. This tailored communication fosters better relationships and understanding.

5. Bridging Generational Gaps: Leaders should be open to innovative ideas from young professionals and consider having young mentors. This mutual exchange can mitigate the challenges posed by the intersection of casual and formal communication styles in the workplace.

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Unlock the secrets of becoming a confident public speaker with insights from Drew Jackson, a seasoned coach who has transformed communication strategies for companies like Chick-fil-A and Habitat for Humanity. Drew shares his expertise on iterative improvement and the role of AI in refining your communication skills. Together, we explore how AI can serve as a powerful editorial tool to enhance tone, clarity, and purpose while also offering practical tips to boost your interactions with peers, employers, and family members.

Ever wondered how to navigate different communication styles for better connections? Discover the DISC framework, a powerful tool for understanding and adapting to various behavior patterns. Learn the art of treating people how they want to be treated to build stronger relationships, both personally and professionally. Drew’s invaluable advice on handling conflict constructively and communicating value and respect within teams will change the way you approach both everyday interactions and challenging conversations.

Prepare yourself for effective presentations with methods drawn from high school choir practice, where meticulous preparation meets real-world application. From breaking down content into manageable blocks to rehearsing in environments that mimic the actual performance setting, Drew’s strategies for refining delivery and building confidence are game-changers. Embrace lifelong learning and adapt your presentations to truly connect with your audience. Don’t miss out on the opportunity to master the art of communication—subscribe to our podcast and join our community for more transformative tips and updates.

Key Takeaways: 

1. The Power of Honor and Humility: Showing honor and respect toward both authority figures and peers can significantly impact career advancement and organizational effectiveness. Humility helps individuals hold ideas lightly and influence decisions positively.

2. Importance of Conflict Management: Addressing conflicts directly and evaluating whether an issue needs confrontation, getting over it, or considering a job change is crucial for a healthy work environment. Conflict resolution should prioritize organizational goals over personal egos.

3. Adaptability in Communication: Understanding and adapting to different communication styles using frameworks like DISC can improve relationships and team effectiveness. Tailoring communication to meet individual's needs fosters better interactions.

4. Public Speaking Preparation: Effective public speaking requires extensive preparation, practice, and feedback. Techniques such as recording oneself, having a "walk-up song," and practicing in realistic settings add to building confidence in presentations.

5. Learning with AI and Lifelong Mindset: AI can serve as a powerful tool for improving communication skills as long as it's used effectively and thoughtfully. Maintaining a mindset of lifelong learning and continually seeking to understand others enhances personal and professional growth.

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Have you ever faced the terror of a silent room, all eyes on you, as you fumbled through a speech? Join me,  as we navigate the rollercoaster of public speaking with the exceptional Peter George. From conquering speech impediments to handling the unexpected, like the zipper debacle in England, we uncover the resilience required to turn public speaking into an art form. Peter, with his wealth of experience and heartwarming triumph over his own challenges, provides an arsenal of strategies to not only survive but also thrive at the podium.

This episode is about more than just talking; it's about engaging, rehearsing, and connecting. I'll let you in on the secrets of rehearsing that aligns with the discipline of elite athletes, ensuring your next speech is more than just words—it's an experience. Peter and I also tackle the nuances of authentic connections in a digital age, offering insight into making every interaction count. Forget slides and formalities; we're here to show you how to captivate through stories and genuine presence, turning potential yawns into applause.

It's not just what you say but how you say it that leaves a mark. We'll explore the power of body language, the symphony of gestures, and the grace of 'full frontal nudity'—metaphorically speaking, of course! Learn how to present yourself with confidence and openness, making every gesture count and every listener feel heard. From the physical to the emotional, this episode with Peter George is your toolkit for transforming every speaking opportunity into a memorable performance. Now, zip up and step into the spotlight; we're about to make public speaking your forte.

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