Exciting News!! My new book, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠How a Little Becomes a Lot: The Art of Small Changes for a More Meaningful Life, is now available!!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Key Takeaways:

• The significance of mental strength and daily choices.
• Personal experiences of loss and their impact on mental health.
• Introduction of practical tools for coping with stress in the workplace.
• The concept of “pep talks” and their role in building confidence.
• Strategies for managing negative attitudes and thoughts at work.
• The importance of happiness in the workplace for productivity.
• Techniques for navigating difficult workplace dynamics and communication.
• Differentiating between dread and anxiety, and strategies to alleviate them.
• The use of motivational interviewing to enhance interpersonal relationships.

For full show notes:⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click here⁠⁠⁠!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

If you enjoyed this conversation with Amy Morin, check out these other episodes:

Mind Over Grind: Practical Tips to Manage Work Stress and Enhance Your Well-Being with Guy Winch

How to Recognize the Hidden Signs of Burnout with Leah Weiss

How to Deal with Burnout Through Self-Compassion with Kristin Neff

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Key Takeaways:

• Exploration of the relationship between emotions like anger and gratitude and their role in self-respect and respect for others.
• The natural philosophical curiosity of children and the importance of nurturing critical thinking.
• Philosophy’s relevance in everyday life and moral decision-making.
• Examination of consciousness and the challenge of understanding other minds, including animals.
• The philosophical puzzle of personal identity and the concept of change over time.
• The impact of relativism and the importance of civil discourse in addressing differing beliefs.
• Insights from a seminar on abortion, emphasizing respectful dialogue and shared inquiry.
• The distinction between reasoning with individuals versus shaping their behavior.
• Reflections on responsibility, choice, and the complexities of the criminal justice system in relation to trauma and empathy.

For full show notes:⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click here⁠⁠⁠!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

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Everyday Courage with Ryan Holiday

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Key Takeaways:

• The concept of the inner child and its impact on adult behavior.
• The psychological and biological basis of childhood adaptations.
• Implicit emotional memories and their influence on current behaviors.
• The Individual Development Model and its five spheres of development.
• The process of “parenting the inner child” and its practical applications.
• The role of shame in personal identity and its development.
• Strategies for breaking the shame cycle and fostering self-compassion.
• The importance of small, consistent actions in personal change and healing.
• The definition of resilience as the ability to process emotions and adapt to life’s challenges.

For full show notes:⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click here⁠⁠⁠!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Connect with Dr. Nicole LePera:  Website | Instagram | LinkedInIf you enjoyed this conversation with Nicole LePera, check out these other episodes:

Internal Family Systems with Richard Schwartz

How to Find Your Path to Healing and Post-Traumatic Growth with Ralph De La Rosa

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Key Takeaways:

• Discussion of the challenges in following through on positive behaviors like exercise and social connection.
• Exploration of internal struggles, including a harsh inner critic and feelings of shame and inadequacy.
• Importance of creating specific, actionable plans to bridge the gap between knowledge and action.
• Introduction of the SPAR method: Specificity, Prompt, Alignment, and Resilience.
• Examination of the cycle of avoidance and guilt related to anxiety.
• Strategies for setting clear intentions and reducing ambiguity in daily plans.
• Emphasis on the role of momentum in managing anxiety and maintaining positive behaviors.
• Techniques for reframing negative self-talk and treating oneself with kindness.
• Encouragement to focus on small successes and build a supportive environment for change.

For full show notes:⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click here⁠⁠⁠!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

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How a Little Becomes a Lot: A Real Coaching Session on Small Changes That Stick

How to Create Elastic Habits that Adapt to Your Day with Stephen Guise

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Key Takeaways:

• Living with uncertainty and its emotional, physical, and mental challenges.
• Personal experiences with long Covid and its impact on daily life.
• The concept of hope as a practice rather than blind optimism.
• The importance of identity versus essence in coping with illness.
• Strategies for managing pain and emotional endurance.
• The role of community and compassion in navigating difficult times.
• The significance of asking for help and overcoming individualism.
• The process of moving from denial to acceptance in the face of adversity.
• The distinction between pain and suffering, and how to manage both.
• The necessity of celebrating small wins and maintaining perspective during challenging periods.

For full show notes:⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click here⁠⁠⁠!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

If you enjoyed this conversation with Marisa Renee Lee, check out these other episodes:

How to Find Joy and Healing While Living with Chronic Illness with Meghan O’Rourke

Living with Chronic Illness with Toni Bernhard

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Key Takeaways:

• The concept that winning an argument is not the goal; understanding is more important.
• Viewing arguments as knots to be untangled rather than battles to be won.
• Strategies for effectively handling difficult conversations, including timing and emotional awareness.
• The importance of acknowledging and validating feelings during discussions.
• The role of patience in resolving complex issues over time.
• The significance of timing in initiating difficult conversations.
• The impact of over-explaining and the importance of being succinct in communication.
• The three rules for better conversations: control, confidence, and connection.
• The concept of creating a “frame” for conversations to set clear expectations and reduce anxiety.

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How We Can Improve Communication in Polarized Times with Charles Duhigg

How to Unlock the Power of Deeper Connections with David Brooks

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If you’ve ever felt stuck, overwhelmed, or frustrated by your inability to follow through, this episode offers a grounded, actionable path forward, one small step at a time.

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Key Takeaways:

• Small actions create big change; if they’re low resistance and consistent.
• Real transformation isn’t about intensity. It’s about doing what you can actually sustain over time. Change is not a character trait, it’s a skill.
• If something isn’t working, it’s not because you’re broken. It’s because you haven’t found the right strategy yet. Most of our struggles happen at “choice points.”
• The tension between what we want now and what we want most determines the direction of our lives. Your mind is constantly creating meaning, and it’s often wrong.
• Learning to question your interpretations can dramatically reduce unnecessary suffering. The inner critic isn’t the enemy, it’s a misguided protector.
• When you learn to relate to it with curiosity instead of resistance, it loses its power. The language you use shapes your emotional reality.
• Extreme language (“always,” “never,” “this is unbearable”) intensifies distress more than the situation itself.

For full show notes:⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click here⁠⁠⁠!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

If you enjoyed this conversation with Eric Zimmer, check out these other episodes:

Why Willpower Isn’t Enough: The Tiny Habits Method Explained with Dr. BJ Fogg

How to Make Lasting Changes with John Norcross

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Key Takeaways:

• The contrast between short-term thinking and long-term goals.
• The cultural perception of busyness as a status symbol.
• Strategies for managing time and prioritizing meaningful work.
• The parable of two wolves representing good and bad impulses.
• The importance of making conscious choices in life and work.
• The challenge of saying no to good opportunities.
• Goal-setting techniques and the value of pursuing interesting choices.
• The role of persistence and resilience in achieving long-term objectives.
• Learning from failure and viewing setbacks as temporary.
• The significance of maintaining motivation through small, actionable steps.

For full show notes:⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click here⁠⁠⁠!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

If you enjoyed this conversation with Dorie Clark, check out these other episodes:

The Search for Meaningful Work with Bruce Feiler

Purposeful Living: Strategies to Align Your Values and Actions with Victor Strecher

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Key Takeaways:

• Behavior change and its complexities
• The role of motivation and willpower in personal transformation
• The significance of small, consistent actions leading to meaningful change
• The distinction between values and desires in decision-making
• The importance of self-compassion in the process of change
• Practical frameworks for behavior change, including the SPA method
• The impact of social media and comparison culture on self-perception
• Strategies for visualizing consequences to aid in decision-making
• The concept of “still points” for cultivating new habits of thought
• The balance between striving for improvement and practicing acceptance in life

For full show notes:⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click here⁠⁠⁠!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

If you enjoyed this conversation with Eric Zimmer and Sahil Bloom, check out these other episodes:

Redefining Wealth: The Truth About Money & Happiness with Sahil Bloom

Why Willpower Isn’t Enough: The Tiny Habits Method Explained with Dr. BJ Fogg

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Key Takeaways:

• Rebuilding life after a long-term illness and navigating changes in daily structure.
• Establishing a consistent morning routine, focusing on a healthy breakfast habit.
• The importance of specificity and simplicity in habit formation.
• Strategies for reducing decision fatigue and avoiding procrastination.
• The SPA framework: Specificity, Prompts, Alignment, and Resilience for habit building.
• The RENEW framework for resetting habits after setbacks: Recognize, Embrace your Why, Neutralize emotional drama, Extract the lesson, and Walk forward.
• The role of self-compassion and positive self-talk in maintaining habits.
• The significance of small, manageable actions to overcome resistance.
• The impact of environmental setup on habit formation and behavior.
• Emphasizing progress over perfection in the journey of habit change.

For full show notes:⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click here⁠⁠⁠!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

If you enjoyed this episode, check out these other episodes:

Why Willpower Isn’t Enough: The Tiny Habits Method Explained with Dr. BJ Fogg

How to Create Elastic Habits that Adapt to Your Day with Stephen Guise

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Key Takeaways:

• Exploration as a theme in both physical and metaphorical contexts.
• The balance between contentment and the desire for new experiences.
• The concept of the “explore-exploit dilemma” in decision-making.
• The impact of age on the tendency to explore and seek novelty.
• The importance of meaningful exploration and active engagement.
• The psychological benefits of effortful and challenging activities.
• The role of environmental factors in shaping attitudes toward risk and exploration.
• The significance of play in fostering creativity and exploration.
• Strategies for minimizing regret in decision-making.
• The influence of personal experiences and choices on the capacity for exploration.

For full show notes:⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click here⁠⁠⁠!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

If you enjoyed this conversation with Alex Hutchinson, check out these other episodes:

Navigating Life’s Disruptions: Insights on Adapting and Thriving with James Patterson

How To Cultivate Excellence in a Chaotic World with Brad Stulberg

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Key Takeaways:

• Personal journey of sobriety and its challenges
• Managing anxiety and heartbreak after a significant relationship
• The non-linear nature of emotional healing and recovery
• The parable of the two wolves and its relevance to personal choices
• Importance of daily practices for mental health maintenance
• Concept of emotional sobriety and its distinction from mere survival
• The role of relationships in emotional well-being and healing
• Understanding attachment dynamics and their impact on relationships
• The interplay between trauma, addiction, and relational patterns
• Emphasizing self-forgiveness, compassion, and community support in healing processes

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If you enjoyed this conversation with Laura McKowen, check out these other episodes:

Why Community and Courage Matter More Than Ever with Laura McKowen

A Journey to Self-Discovery and Sobriety with Matthew Quick

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Key Takeaways:

• Discussion of James Patterson’s new book, Disrupt Everything and Win: Take Control of Your Future.
• Exploration of how individuals and organizations can adapt to change and leverage disruption.
• The metaphor of the “two wolves” representing positive and negative qualities within individuals.
• Insights into Patterson’s writing process and creative journey.
• Reflections on co-writing experiences with various collaborators.
• The balance between ambition and contentment in personal and professional life.
• The importance of storytelling and practical tools in business and self-help contexts.
• Patterson’s early career in advertising and its influence on his writing and approach to disruption.
• The significance of maintaining balance in life, using the metaphor of juggling five balls.
• Personal anecdotes and reflections on travel, parenting, and life philosophy.

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How to Find Real Life in Stories with George Saunders

Life Transitions with Bruce Feiler

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Key Takeaways:

• The parable of the two wolves and the importance of choosing the “good wolf” or authentic self.
• The concept of spiritual minimalism and its principles, including leaving places better than found.
• The significance of final impressions in interactions and their lasting impact.
• The relationship between happiness, income, and stress, emphasizing internal versus external sources of fulfillment.
• The paradox of motivation and the importance of consistent effort for personal growth.
• The idea of finding freedom within limitations and the power of acceptance in challenging situations.
• The principle of “give what you want to receive” and its role in fostering community and connection.
• The importance of embracing discomfort for personal growth and stepping outside comfort zones.
• The value of being process-oriented and focusing on the journey rather than just outcomes.
• The significance of consistent effort and incremental change in achieving lasting transformation.

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How to Embrace Mindfulness on the Path to Personal Growth with Dan Harris

How to Let Go of Expectations and Transform Disappointment into Growth with Christine Hassler

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Key Takeaways:

• The nature of beliefs and their impact on perception and reality.
• The distinction between beliefs as flexible tools versus absolute truths.
• The role of beliefs in motivation and behavior change.
• The motivational triangle: behavior, desire, and belief.
• The influence of beliefs on health, longevity, and personal growth.
• The concept of pain versus suffering and how beliefs affect this distinction.
• The importance of exposure therapy in overcoming limiting beliefs.
• The relationship between beliefs and procrastination as a pain management issue.
• Strategies for identifying and changing limiting beliefs.
• The significance of adopting empowering beliefs to enhance well-being and life satisfaction.

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How to Master Internal Triggers and Regain Control of Your Attention with Nir Eyal

How to Overcome Procrastination with Tim Pychyl

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Key Takeaways:

• The concept of “tiny shifts” in emotional health and well-being.
• The impact of modern life on emotional loops and chronic stress responses.
• The importance of emotional awareness in breaking negative patterns.
• The biological and psychological effects of “bracing” in response to perceived threats.
• Strategies for interrupting emotional loops and fostering recovery.
• The “four R’s” framework: Recognize, Release, Refocus, and Reinforce.
• The role of self-compassion and supportive questioning in emotional management.
• The significance of reinforcing positive emotional experiences for lasting change.
• Practical applications and limitations of the discussed methods.
• The relationship between emotional health, stress management, and longevity.

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Elisha Goldstein, Ph.D-Mindfulness and Depression

Jonathan Rottenberg

Florence Williams

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Key Takeaways:

• Exploration of “little addictions” and their impact on daily life.
• Discussion on the neuroscience of addiction, particularly the role of dopamine.
• Examination of the difference between “little addictions” and clinical addictions.
• Strategies for managing compulsive behaviors and creating healthier habits.
• The importance of environmental factors in shaping behavior and habits.
• Insights on the internal conflict between the impulsive limbic system and the self-regulating prefrontal cortex.
• The concept of “dopamine shifting” to redirect reward systems toward healthier activities.
• Personal anecdotes illustrating the challenges and successes in overcoming compulsions.
• The significance of language in framing choices around habits and self-control.
• Practical tools and apps to help manage technology and behavioral addictions.

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Understanding Identity and How Our Past Shapes Who We Become with Catherine Gray

Rethinking Addiction and Identity with Catherine Gray

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Key Takeaways:

• Mindfulness and its role in personal growth.
• The transformative power of storytelling in meditation.
• The mechanics of storytelling as a tool for insight and perspective shifts.
• The challenges and opportunities within the mindfulness app industry.
• The concept of mobile mindfulness and integrating meditation into daily life.
• The importance of community in sustaining mindfulness practice.
• The “time problem” and accessibility of mindfulness for busy individuals.
• The relationship between mindfulness and technology in modern life.
• The significance of playful and creative approaches to mindfulness practice.
• Understanding the core techniques of mindfulness to foster flexibility and creativity in practice.

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Inner Freedom Through Mindfulness with Jack Kornfield

Effortless Mindfulness with Loch Kelly

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Key Takeaways:

• Importance of intentionality in achieving goals
• Challenges of goal-setting and the concept of "sepia toned goals"
• The "intention stack" framework connecting daily actions to broader values
• Understanding and identifying personal values and their polarities
• The role of desire and aversion in goal pursuit
• The concept of "goal editing" to align goals with personal values
• Distinction between outcome goals and process goals
• The significance of the learning phase in goal attainment
• Balancing planning and action to avoid productivity traps
• Cultivating a positive relationship with goals to enhance motivation and fulfillment

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If you enjoyed this conversation with Chris Bailey, check out these other episodes:

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Chris Bailey on Focus, Productivity, and Meditation (2018)

Getting Things Done with Charlie Gilkey

David Kadavy on Getting Started

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Key Takeaways:

• The role of humor in coping with life's challenges.
• The concept of shifting perspectives through laughter.
• The parable of the two wolves and its implications for personal growth.
• Distinctions between comedy, humor, and levity.
• Humor as a spiritual virtue and its importance in connecting with others.
• The social function of laughter and its role in building relationships.
• Practical strategies for cultivating humor in daily life.
• The therapeutic benefits of humor during difficult times.
• The idea of taking social risks to foster genuine connections.
• The transformative power of humor in reframing experiences and enhancing well-being.

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Humor and Healing with Josh Johnson

Pete Holmes

Paul Gilmartin

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Key Takeaways:

• Exploration of the nature and complexities of envy as an emotion.
• Discussion of the parable of the two wolves and its relation to emotions like envy.
• Differentiation between benign (positive) and malicious (negative) forms of envy.
• The impact of modern culture and social media on feelings of envy.
• Personal experiences and reflections on envy, including its evolution over time.
• The importance of recognizing the whole lives of those we envy, not just their successes.
• The role of gratitude as a tool to counteract feelings of envy.
• Distinction between envy and jealousy, and their emotional implications.
• The neuroscience of envy and the concept of "envy grooves" in the brain.
• Strategies for managing and transforming envy into positive action and self-awareness

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The Age of Magical Overthinking: Why Our Minds Keep Doubling Down with Amanda Montell

How to Turn Life’s Pain into a Path of Meaning and Joy with Danielle LaPorte

Are Your Desires Really Yours? How to Recognize and Reclaim What You Truly Want with Luke Burgis

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Key Takeaways:

• Exploration of joy as a complex emotion intertwined with sorrow and human connection.
• Discussion of the importance of attention and devotion in cultivating joy and meaning in life.
• The relationship between joy and societal challenges, including systemic injustice and hardship.
• The concept of "feeding the good wolf" and focusing on what we love rather than negativity.
• The significance of small moments of beauty and connection in the face of suffering.
• The role of poetry and writing in enhancing attention and understanding of joy and delight.
• The idea of joy as a precursor to solidarity and collective care.
• Reflections on personal experiences of loss and the search for meaning in grief.
• The impact of societal machinery on human connection and daily acts of care.
• The process of writing as a means of self-discovery and understanding one's relationships and emotions.

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If you enjoyed this conversation with Ross Gay, check out these other episodes:

How to Feel Lighter with Yung Pueblo

How to Turn Life’s Pain into a Path of Meaning and Joy with Danielle LaPorte

Finding Hope When Life Isn’t Okay and the Power of Micro Joys with Cyndie Spiegel

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Key Takeaways:

• Impact of work-related stress on personal life and mental health
• Imbalance between work life and personal life leading to burnout
• Chronic nature of modern work stress and its effects
• Psychological framing of stress: “challenge state” vs. “threat state”
• Cultural romanticization of overwork and hustle culture
• Importance of conscious effort to maintain work-life balance
• Strategies for managing stress and avoiding burnout
• The role of mindset in stress perception and performance
• Techniques to interrupt rumination and intrusive thoughts
• Importance of engaging in meaningful activities for mental recovery

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Emotional First Aid with Guy Winch

How to Recognize the Hidden Signs of Burnout with Leah Weiss

How to Deal with Burnout Through Self-Compassion with Kristin Neff

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Key Takeaways:

• Discussion of the importance of prioritizing life’s triad: money, health, and relationships.
• Exploration of the concept of life seasons and the need to focus on different priorities at different times.
• Insights on habit formation and the necessity of making trade-offs to avoid burnout.
• The metaphor of the “good wolf” and the importance of nurturing positive qualities within oneself.
• The significance of recognizing when a season ends to allow for rest and reflection.
• The idea of maintaining balance in life and the dangers of comparing oneself to others.
• The role of intentional living and making deliberate decisions about time and energy investment.
• The benefits of an exploratory mindset and trying new activities to discover what fits best.
• Discussion on the social and physical benefits of engaging in inclusive activities like games.
• The impact of modern life on natural rhythms and the importance of consciously ending seasons for personal growth.

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How to Create Elastic Habits that Adapt to Your Day with Stephen Guise

Behavior Change with John Norcross

Tiny Habits for Behavior Change with BJ Fogg

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• Discussion of the trauma response known as “fawning” as a coping mechanism.
• Exploration of the challenges of setting boundaries for individuals who fawn.
• Examination of the differences between fawning and other trauma responses like fight, flight, and freeze.
• Personal stories illustrating the impact of fawning in childhood and adulthood.
• The importance of nervous system regulation in healing from trauma.
• Clarification of the distinctions between fawning, people pleasing, and codependency.
• The role of self-awareness and body-based practices in recognizing and addressing fawning.
• Discussion on the complexities of healing and the individual nature of recovery journeys.
• Critique of common therapeutic advice and the need for trauma-informed approaches.
• Emphasis on the importance of self-trust and curiosity in the healing process.

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If you enjoyed this conversation with Ingrid Clayton, check out these other episodes:

How to Break the People-Pleasing Cycle and Set Healthy Boundaries with Terri Cole

How to Set Boundaries with Nedra Glover Tawwab

Conversations for Radical Alignment with Alex Jamieson and Bob Gower

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Key Takeaways:

• Family dynamics and their impact on personal development
• Understanding and managing unhealthy relationships
• The concept of self-sabotage and its connection to discomfort
• The role of emotional patterns in addiction and recovery
• Navigating relationships with individuals resistant to change
• The significance of personal accountability in healing
• The complexities of shame and its effects on relationships
• Strategies for effective communication and resolving circular conversations
• The importance of self-compassion and acceptance in difficult relationships
• Recognizing and addressing the influence of family roles and expectations on identity

For full show notes: ⁠⁠click here⁠⁠!

If you enjoyed this conversation with Nedra Glover Tawwab, check out these other episodes:

How to Make Great Relationships with Dr. Rick Hanson

How to Have Healthier Relationships with Yourself and Others with Jillian Turecki

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In this episode, Brad Stulberg explores how to cultivate excellence in a chaotic world. He explains how excellence is a lifelong practice rooted in daily effort, presence, and values, not a final achievement. Brad also discusses the importance of process over outcome, balancing ambition with self-kindness, and finding meaning through consistent, value-driven actions. The conversation also covers overcoming burnout, the illusion of perfect balance, and how to live intentionally in a chaotic world, offering practical advice for cultivating fulfillment and true greatness in everyday life.

Exciting News!!! Coming in March, 2026, my new book, ⁠⁠How a Little Becomes a Lot: The Art of Small Changes for a More Meaningful Life is now available for pre-orders!⁠⁠

Key Takeaways:

• The concept of excellence as a continuous practice rather than a fixed destination.
• The transformative nature of pursuing goals and its impact on character and personal growth.
• The importance of a process mindset, focusing on daily efforts and consistency.
• The metaphor of "feeding the good wolf" to emphasize nurturing positive qualities.
• The balance between striving for outcomes and being present in the process.
• The significance of measuring effort over outcomes for sustained progress.
• The idea of "raising the floor" to improve performance on average days.
• The role of care and commitment in achieving excellence.
• The distinction between meaningful engagement and the pitfalls of comfort and convenience.
• The necessity of intentional living and effort in a chaotic, technology-driven world.

For full show notes: ⁠click here⁠!

If you enjoyed this conversation with Brad Stulberg, check out these other episodes:

The Practice of Groundedness with Brad Stulberg

Mindfulness and Understanding Identity with Cory Allen

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In this episode, Casey McGuire Davidson talks about discovering life beyond alcohol and strategies for lasting sobriety and emotional wellness. She shares her struggles with alcohol, repeated attempts to quit, and how support, coaching, and treating sobriety as an experiment helped her succeed. Casey also discusses the challenges of early sobriety, the importance of community and self-care, and practical strategies for replacing drinking habits. The conversation emphasizes curiosity, planning, and support as keys to lasting change, offering hope and encouragement for anyone considering a break from alcohol.

Exciting News!!! Coming in March, 2026, my new book, ⁠How a Little Becomes a Lot: The Art of Small Changes for a More Meaningful Life is now available for pre-orders!⁠

Key Takeaways:

• Personal journey of struggling with alcohol and attempts to quit.
• Challenges faced during early sobriety, including anxiety and withdrawal symptoms.
• Benefits of sobriety, such as improved emotional stability and better sleep.
• The concept of treating sobriety as an experiment rather than a permanent decision.
• Importance of support systems, including coaching, therapy, and community groups.
• Strategies for replacing drinking habits with healthier alternatives and activities.
• The role of public accountability in maintaining sobriety goals.
• Understanding the cultural conditioning around alcohol and its impact on social interactions.
• The significance of creating new rewards and self-care practices to replace alcohol.
• Encouragement to approach sobriety with curiosity and openness to change.

For full show notes: click here!

If you enjoyed this conversation with Casey McGuire Davidson, check out these other episodes:

Special Episode: 4 Different Journeys to Sobriety

The Joy of Being Sober with Catherine Gray

The Magic of Being Sober with Laura McKowen

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In this episode, Chris Guillebeau explores time anxiety and the illusion of urgency that is st. aling your joy. He explains the pervasive feeling of never having enough time, discusses the psychological roots of time anxiety, and shares practical strategies for managing competing demands, avoidance, and procrastination. Chris also offers insights on creating personal “rules of engagement,” decluttering schedules, and embracing acceptance, encouraging listeners to cultivate a more intentional, compassionate, and fulfilling relationship with time.

Exciting News!!! Coming in March, 2026, my new book, How a Little Becomes a Lot: The Art of Small Changes for a More Meaningful Life is now available for pre-orders!

Key Takeaways:

• Definition and exploration of time anxiety as a psychological issue.
• The distinction between feeling overwhelmed and traditional productivity challenges.
• The impact of competing priorities and requests on time management.
• The concept of “rules of engagement” for managing daily demands.
• Strategies for overcoming avoidance and procrastination.
• The importance of self-awareness and intentionality in managing time.
• Practical tips for improving time management, such as allowing buffer time for tasks.
• The idea of “time decluttering” to create space in schedules.
• The role of cognitive distortions in exacerbating time-related stress.
• Encouragement to embrace a mindset shift towards a more fulfilling relationship with time.

For full show notes: https://www.oneyoufeed.net/time-anxiety/https://www.oneyoufeed.net/time-anxiety/!

If you enjoyed this episode with Chris Guillebeau, check out:

Chris Guillebeau (Interview from 2014)

How to Accept Limitations and Make Time for What Counts with Oliver Burkeman

Time Management for Mortals with Oliver Burkeman

Oliver Burkeman on Modern Time Management (2019)

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Key Takeaways

• Exploration vs. Exploitation: The two-step process for achieving creative breakthroughs.
• The concept of "stuckness" in various life aspects, including creativity, work, and relationships.
• Psychological vs. physical stuckness and the emotional toll it takes.
• Cultural differences in perceptions of change and stuckness (Eastern vs. Western perspectives).
• The importance of acceptance and mindset in overcoming feelings of being stuck.
• Strategies for breaking large goals into manageable tasks to maintain motivation.
• The "plateau effect" and how to navigate periods of stalled progress.
• The role of curiosity in fostering creativity and challenging the status quo.
• The significance of action and starting small to overcome inertia.
• The impact of physical movement and changing environments on mental clarity and creativity.

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Key Takeaways

• Exploration of cognitive biases and their impact on modern thinking.
• Discussion of irrational thinking in the information age.
• Examination of the parable of the two wolves and its implications for personal behavior.
• Analysis of the shine theory and its relevance to social dynamics, particularly among women.
• Insights into the sunk cost fallacy and its effects on decision-making in relationships.
• Critique of manifestation beliefs and their parallels to conspiracy thinking.
• The role of storytelling in human cognition and its influence on self-perception.
• The relationship between overconfidence bias and self-assessment.
• Challenges of navigating modern life with evolved cognitive shortcuts.
• The impact of social media on decision-making and personal narratives.

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Key Takeaways

• The relationship between outer order (organization and decluttering) and inner calm (mental and emotional well-being).
• The impact of small environmental changes on habits, mood, and productivity.
• The concept of “feeding the good wolf” from the parable of two wolves, emphasizing intentional living.
• The significance of setting intentions or themes for the new year, such as choosing a “word of the year.”
• The role of “ignition costs” in habit formation and how reducing friction can facilitate positive behaviors.
• The varying responses individuals have to clutter and organization, including “clutter blind” individuals and “abundance lovers.”
• The importance of monitoring habits and recognizing progress to encourage continued growth.
• Strategies for managing possessions and making decisions about what to keep or discard.
• The psychological challenges of letting go of items tied to past identities or aspirations.
• The concept of “choosing the bigger life” as a decision-making framework to guide intentional choices.

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Living Skillfully with Gretchen Rubin (2020)

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Key Takeaways

• The relationship between technology and mindfulness.
• The tension between the desire for genuine connection and the allure of digital devices.
• The concept of technology as neither inherently good nor bad, but shaped by our relationship with it.
• Strategies for engaging with technology mindfully, as discussed in Jay Viviani's book.
• The "two wolves" parable and its implications for attention and emotional awareness.
• The importance of clarity and awareness in managing emotions related to technology use.
• The role of meditation and mindfulness practices in cultivating a healthier relationship with technology.
• The impact of societal narratives on perceptions of technology and its users.
• The significance of personal agency in setting boundaries and making conscious choices regarding technology.
• The potential for technology to meet emotional and social needs when approached mindfully.

For full show notes,⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠!⁠

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In this second part of the 2-part episode with James Clear, we explore practical, research-backed strategies for habit formation, including making habits obvious, attractive, easy, and satisfying. Through personal stories and examples, they discuss how environment, social groups, and small behavioral tweaks can help build good habits and break bad ones. The episode emphasizes starting small, celebrating progress, and designing supportive surroundings, offering listeners actionable advice for lasting behavior change.

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Key Takeaways

• Practical strategies for habit formation and behavior change
• The role of environment in shaping habits
• Techniques for making habits obvious and accessible
• The concept of habit stacking (anchoring new habits to existing ones)
• The importance of social groups and community in habit adoption
• The impact of technology on finding supportive communities for habit change
• The significance of reducing friction for positive habits and increasing friction for negative ones
• The “two-minute rule” for simplifying habit initiation
• The emotional payoff and satisfaction associated with habits
• The importance of tracking progress and celebrating small victories in habit formation

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In this part 1 of a 2-part episode, James Clear, discusses how to unlock the power of identity and how small changes can lead to big transformation in your life. They explore the compounding power of habits, the importance of focusing on systems over goals, and how identity shapes behavior. James explains practical strategies for building good habits and breaking bad ones, emphasizing patience, persistence, and the role of self-perception in lasting change. The conversation offers actionable insights for anyone seeking to improve their habits and overall well-being.

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Key Takeaways

• The compounding effect of habits over time and their significance in personal growth.
• The metaphor of the "two wolves" illustrating the choice between positive and negative habits.
• The importance of patience and persistence due to the hidden lag time in habit formation.
• The distinction between focusing on systems versus goals for achieving lasting change.
• The concept of the "goal trap" and how it can hinder happiness and satisfaction.
• The role of identity in behavior change and how self-perception influences habits.
• The mechanics of habit formation, including the stages of cue, craving, response, and reward.
• The impact of environmental cues on habit formation and the challenges of changing habits.
• The four laws of behavior change as a framework for building good habits and breaking bad ones.
• The relationship between happiness, desire, and practicing contentment in the pursuit of growth.

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In this episode, Katy Milkman explains why you keep falling off track and shares tools that will help you start again. She shares why lasting behavior change is so difficult—and what science reveals about how people actually change. Katy also delves into impulsivity, motivation, confidence, habit formation, and why willpower alone so often fails. Katy shares research-backed tools like temptation bundling, commitment devices, and fresh starts. Listeners will walk away with a clearer understanding of why they get stuck, practical strategies to move forward, and permission to stop striving for perfection and start building change that can survive real life. If you’ve ever felt frustrated by starting over—or wondered why good intentions aren’t enough—this conversation offers both clarity and compassion.

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Key Takeaways

• vior change through a diagnostic, personalized approach
• The role of impulsivity (present bias) in undermining long-term goals
• Understanding internal barriers to change instead of relying on willpower
• Making goal-aligned behaviors more enjoyable to increase persistence
• Temptation bundling as a strategy for aligning short-term rewards with long-term outcomes
• The importance of confidence and self-efficacy in sustaining change
• Using advice-giving and mentoring to strengthen belief in one’s ability to change
• Commitment devices as tools for overcoming procrastination and self-control challenges
• Flexible habit formation versus rigid routines for long-term consistency
• Embracing fresh starts and setbacks as part of the change process

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In this episode, Dr. BJ Fogg, explains why willpower isn’t enough and the science behind his tiny habits method. He explores the psychology of habit formation, emphasizing that lasting change comes from starting small, celebrating successes, and practicing self-compassion rather than relying on willpower or self-criticism. Dr. Fogg shares practical strategies for designing habits that fit individual contexts, explains his behavior model, and discusses how positive reinforcement and flexibility foster sustainable transformation. Personal stories and vivid analogies illustrate how anyone can create meaningful change by nurturing tiny habits and focusing on progress over perfection.

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Key Takeaways

• Behavior change and habit formation
• The “Tiny Habits” method and its principles
• The importance of positivity in personal transformation
• Breaking down aspirations into small, manageable actions
• Embracing mistakes as learning opportunities
• The role of self-compassion in habit formation
• The Fogg Behavior Model: motivation, ability, and prompts
• The significance of context in habit design
• Strategies for troubleshooting and enhancing behavior change
• The impact of celebrating small successes on habit reinforcement

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Key Takeaways

• Exploration of mental health and the role of habits in anxiety management.
• Discussion of the parable of the two wolves and its relation to neuroscience and habit reinforcement.
• Examination of the science of habit formation and the limitations of traditional habit replacement strategies.
• Insights into digital therapeutics and the development of app-based mental health treatments.
• Analysis of the potential and challenges of AI in therapy, including ethical considerations.
• The importance of human connection in therapy and the unique value of human therapists.
• The role of curiosity in managing anxiety and the distinction between anxiety as a feeling and worrying as a behavior.
• The impact of self-criticism and shame on behavior change and the importance of self-compassion.
• Techniques for cultivating distress tolerance and the gradual process of emotional growth.
• Mindfulness practices, such as noting, to enhance awareness and reduce reactivity in challenging situations.

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Key Takeaways

• The influence of environment and design on personal growth and habits.
• The parable of the two wolves and its relevance to personal choices and mindset.
• The significance of “the moments in between” in fostering genuine connections.
• The impact of parenting on awareness and presence in daily life.
• The importance of meaningful design that reflects personal stories and aspirations.
• The relationship between emotional well-being and physical spaces.
• The transformative power of small, intentional changes in one’s environment.
• The role of gratitude in overcoming past hardships and shaping identity.
• The necessity of human connection and understanding in design and life.
• The balance between personal taste and collaboration in shared living spaces.

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Key Takeaways

• ADHD as a form of neurodiversity rather than a personal deficit
• The connection between ADHD and creativity, imagination, and divergent thinking
• How self-compassion supports mental health and sustainable personal growth
• The role of diagnosis and language in understanding identity and behavior
• The influence of childhood and family dynamics on self-perception
• Moving from self-criticism to self-acceptance in creative and personal life
• Creativity as a tool for self-discovery, meaning, and emotional insight
• Designing habits and environments that support how your brain works

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Key Takeaways:

• Personal growth and mindset development
• Cultivation of positive habits and beliefs
• The parable of two wolves representing internal good and bad qualities
• The concept of “useful beliefs” and their role in achieving desired outcomes
• The importance of agency and a growth mindset in personal development
• The impact of internal narratives on self-perception and motivation
• The balance between authenticity and attachment in relationships
• The development of judgment and its significance in decision-making
• The challenge of managing desires and their effect on happiness
• Strategies for creating an environment that supports positive habits and reduces temptations

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Key Takeaways:

• Exploration of complex family history and identity
• Discussion of the memoir "Why Didn't You Tell Me"
• The parable of the two wolves and its relevance to personal growth
• Themes of forgiveness and personal responsibility
• The impact of childhood experiences on adult life
• The role of therapy in healing and self-examination
• Navigating multicultural identity and heritage
• The process of uncovering family secrets and understanding one's origins
• The importance of empathy and compassion in human relationships
• Strategies for habit change and personal transformation through small, intentional actions

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Key Takeaways:

• Healing as an ongoing practice rather than a fixed destination.
• The significance of embodiment practices in personal transformation.
• The relationship between internal healing and external activism.
• The impact of cultural practices and ancestral rituals on healing and community connection.
• The interplay between self-acceptance and self-improvement.
• The role of somatic awareness in understanding oneself and others.
• The influence of aikido principles on personal and relational dynamics.
• The importance of community and mutual aid in the healing process.
• The challenges of navigating trauma within systemic contexts.
• The transformative power of love and connection in fostering change.

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Key Takeaways:

• Mindfulness and its significance in daily life
• The concept of conscious living versus being on autopilot
• The parable of the two wolves representing fear and love
• The impact of habits on personal development and mental health
• Personal experiences with depression and the importance of self-awareness
• The role of spirituality and science in understanding mental health
• The importance of social support and community in recovery from depression
• Different meditation practices and their benefits
• The distinction between “insane” and “unsane” mindsets
• The value of curiosity and openness in relationships and personal growth

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Key Takeaways:

• Concept of "gratitude without conditions" and its significance.
• Difference between circumstantial gratitude and deeper, unconditional gratefulness.
• Personal experiences with mortality and illness influencing perspectives on gratitude.
• Importance of mindfulness and living in the present moment.
• The role of impermanence in cultivating a meaningful life.
• Cultural narratives around aging and the pressure to defy it.
• Embracing the natural process of aging with grace and acceptance.
• Practical exercises for self-acceptance and connection in the aging process.
• Shifting perspective from obligation to opportunity in daily life.
• The interplay of joy, grief, and the complexity of human emotions in the context of gratitude

For full show notes,⁠⁠⁠ click here⁠⁠!⁠

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Have you ever ended the day feeling like your choices didn’t quite match the person you wanted to be? That’s exactly why I created The Six Saboteurs of Self-Control—a free guide that helps you recognize the hidden patterns that quietly derail your progress and offers simple, effective strategies to move past them. If you’re ready to take back control and make meaningful, lasting change, download your free copy at ⁠oneyoufeed.net/ebook.⁠ Let’s make those shifts happen, starting today.

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Key Takeaways:

• Personal growth and self-improvement
• Overcoming adversity and challenges
• The importance of mindset and motivation
• The concept of "feeding the good wolf" within oneself
• The role of choices in shaping one's life and identity
• Strategies for navigating grief and personal loss
• The significance of core values in decision-making and behavior
• Understanding different cognitive brain types and their impact on learning and communication
• The power of self-awareness and introspection
• Practical methods for enhancing brain function and overall well-being

For full show notes,⁠⁠⁠ click here⁠⁠!⁠

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Key Takeaways:

• Exploration of Zen practice and its relevance to modern life
• Discussion of self-doubt as a mental stall and its impact on action
• The concept of "no self" and the idea of emptiness in Zen philosophy
• The importance of releasing attachments to identity and fixed narratives
• Personal journey of recovery from addiction and its transformative effects
• The role of self-empathy and the phrase "how human of me" in healing
• The significance of apologies and their impact on relationships
• Creating inner safety and the realization that true security comes from within
• The importance of guiding principles in maintaining integrity and making conscious choices
• The connection between reducing self-concern and spiritual practice in recovery

For full show notes,⁠⁠ click here⁠⁠!

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Have you ever ended the day feeling like your choices didn’t quite match the person you wanted to be? That’s exactly why I created The Six Saboteurs of Self-Control—a free guide that helps you recognize the hidden patterns that quietly derail your progress and offers simple, effective strategies to move past them. If you’re ready to take back control and make meaningful, lasting change, download your free copy at oneyoufeed.net/ebook. Let’s make those shifts happen, starting today.

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Key Takeaways:

• Designing a life and business centered around freedom rather than fear.
• Managing stress through effective systems and structures.
• The metaphor of feeding the "good wolf" versus the "bad wolf" in personal decision-making.
• Embracing fear and anxiety as potential superpowers rather than obstacles.
• The pitfalls of chasing external markers of success, such as money and fame.
• The importance of creating systems to reduce decision fatigue and chaos in daily life.
• Exploring the concept of a "heart-based business" that aligns with personal values and integrity.
• The significance of measuring time-to-revenue ratios instead of just revenue.
• Questioning societal narratives about work, time, and money, and their impact on personal well-being.
• The role of intuition versus neurosis in decision-making and personal growth.

For full show notes,⁠ click here⁠!

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If you enjoyed this conversation with Jenny Blake, check out these other episodes:

How to Break Free from Achiever Fever with Claire Booth

How to Calm Your Mind and Be More Productive with Chris Bailey

Have you ever ended the day feeling like your choices didn’t quite match the person you wanted to be? That’s exactly why I created The Six Saboteurs of Self-Control—a free guide that helps you recognize the hidden patterns that quietly derail your progress and offers simple, effective strategies to move past them. If you’re ready to take back control and make meaningful, lasting change, download your free copy at oneyoufeed.net/ebook. Let’s make those shifts happen, starting today.

By purchasing products and/or services from our sponsors, you are helping to support The One You Feed and we greatly appreciate it. Thank you!

This episode is sponsored by:

⁠Uncommon Goods ⁠has something for everyone – you’ll find thousands of new gift ideas that you won’t find anywhere else, and you’ll be supporting artists and small, independent businesses. To get 15% off your next gift, go to ⁠UNCOMMONGOODS.com/FEED⁠

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⁠Persona Nutrition ⁠delivers science-backed, personalized vitamin packs that make daily wellness simple and convenient. In just minutes, you get a plan tailored to your health goals. No clutter, no guesswork. Just grab-and-go packs designed by experts. Go to ⁠PersonaNutrition.com/FEED⁠ today to take the free assessment and get your personalized daily vitamin packs for an exclusive offer — get 40% off your first order.

⁠Grow Therapy ⁠– Whatever challenges you’re facing, Grow Therapy is here to help. Sessions average about $21 with insurance, and some pay as little as $0, depending on their plan. (Availability and coverage vary by state and insurance plans. Visit ⁠growtherapy.com/feed ⁠today!

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Key Takeaways:

Exploration of spirituality and its practical application in modern life.

• Discussion of resilience and the importance of community in spiritual growth.
• The significance of focusing on a few key social issues, such as education, women's rights, and immigration.
• The parable of the two wolves and its relevance to parenting and personal development.
• The relationship between spirituality and religion, including the positive aspects of religious traditions.
• The role of creativity as a fundamental expression of spirituality.
• The concept of joy as a resilient state of mind grounded in positive psychology.
• The critique of traditional workplace wellness programs and the need for cultural integration of positive psychology.
• The importance of intentional practices, such as community building and "noticing," in spiritual development.
• The impact of societal challenges, such as isolation and a crisis of meaning, on individual well-being and community connection.

For full show notes,⁠ click here⁠!

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If you enjoyed this conversation with Shabnam Mogharabi, check out these other episodes:

A Soul Boom Discussion on Mental Health, Spirituality, and Connection with Rainn Wilson

Spiritual Journeys with Rainn Wilson & Reza Aslan

Rainn Wilson (from 2016)

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Key Takeaways:

• The significance of conscious choice in reframing obligations as empowering decisions.
• The impact of spiritual practices on personal growth and the importance of joy in these practices.
• The distinction between pain (inevitable) and suffering (optional) in navigating life’s challenges.
• The concept of “spiritual bypassing” and its effects on emotional health and authenticity.
• The role of emotional expression in personal growth, particularly regarding anger and disappointment.
• The importance of self-awareness in managing one’s strengths and weaknesses.
• Engaging with diverse perspectives to foster understanding and compassion in social and political contexts.
• The healing power of music and its role in emotional expression and therapy.
• Embracing the fullness of human experience, including both struggles and joys, to live a meaningful life.

For full show notes, click here!

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If you enjoyed this conversation with Danielle LaPorte, check out these other episodes:

Choosing Love Over Fear: Finding Joy, Confidence, and Self-Trust with Emma Gannon

Finding Hope When Life Isn’t Okay and the Power of Micro Joys with Cyndie Spiegel

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Persona Nutrition delivers science-backed, personalized vitamin packs that make daily wellness simple and convenient. In just minutes, you get a plan tailored to your health goals. No clutter, no guesswork. Just grab-and-go packs designed by experts. Go to PersonaNutrition.com/FEED today to take the free assessment and get your personalized daily vitamin packs for an exclusive offer — get 40% off your first order.

Grow Therapy – Whatever challenges you’re facing, Grow Therapy is here to help. Sessions average about $21 with insurance, and some pay as little as $0, depending on their plan. (Availability and coverage vary by state and insurance plans. Visit growtherapy.com/feed today!

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Smalls – Smalls cat food is protein-packed recipes made with preservative-free ingredients you’d find in your fridge… and it’s delivered right to your door. For a limited time, get 60% off your first order, plus free shipping, when you head to Smalls.com/FEED! No more picking between random brands at the store. Smalls has the right food to satisfy any cat’s cravings.

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Key Takeaways:

• Importance of active and ostentatious listening in conversations.
• Concept of social reciprocity and its role in effective communication.
• Techniques for improving dialogue, such as “looping for understanding.”
• Different types of conversations: practical, emotional, and social.
• The idea of meta conversation and setting clear goals for discussions.
• Strategies for focusing on common ground before addressing differences.
• The impact of politeness in online communication and reducing hostility.
• Understanding identity threat and its effects on open dialogue.
• The habit loop framework: cue, routine, and reward in habit formation.
• The significance of implementation intentions in managing habits and responses.

For full show notes, click here!

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If you enjoyed this conversation with Charles Duhigg, check out these other episodes:

Oren Jay Sofer on Mindful Communication

How to Unlock the Power of Deeper Connections with David Brooks

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Key Takeaways:

• Exploration of psychological struggles, particularly anxiety, and their impact on life.
• Introduction to Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) and its core principles.
• Discussion of the six core processes of ACT: present moment awareness, cognitive defusion, acceptance, values, committed action, and self as context.
• Examination of the relationship between vulnerability and personal growth.
• Critique of traditional diagnostic labels and their limitations in understanding psychological experiences.
• Emphasis on the importance of values in guiding meaningful actions and decisions.
• Insights into the nature of human suffering and the commonality of psychological pain.
• The concept of redemption and its role in personal development and therapy.
• Reframing commitment as a moment-to-moment process rather than a rigid promise.
• Encouragement of compassion and understanding in the face of psychological challenges.

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Key Takeaways:

• The popularization of mental health language and concepts.
• The phenomenon of “psychobabble” and its implications.
• The concept of “concept creep” in mental health terminology.
• The importance of accurate mental health diagnoses and their clinical usefulness.
• The balance between clinical accuracy and practical application in mental health discussions.
• The complexities of people pleasing and its underlying motivations.
• The overuse and misapplication of the term “trauma” in contemporary discourse.
• The distinction between normal emotional responses and clinical disorders.
• The role of language in shaping perceptions of mental health.
• The need for nuanced, context-sensitive approaches to mental health treatment and understanding.

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How to Harness Brain Energy for Mental Health with Dr. Chris Palmer

Why We Need to Rethink Mental Health with Eric Maisel

Insights on Mental Health and Resilience with Andrew Solomon

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Key Takeaways:

• Exploration of the concept of mimetic desire and its origins in the work of René Girard.
• Discussion on how desires are often imitative and influenced by others rather than being inherently personal.
• The importance of discerning between beneficial and harmful desires in one’s life.
• The parable of the two wolves as a metaphor for the internal conflict between positive and negative desires.
• Differentiation between “thin desires” (fleeting and influenced by external factors) and “thick desires” (deeply rooted in personal values and identity).
• The role of self-reflection and narrative in understanding one’s desires and motivations.
• The significance of establishing a hierarchy of values to guide decision-making and desire cultivation.
• The impact of social interactions on shaping desires and the responsibility individuals have in influencing others.
• The concept of “stalking your greatest desire” as a means to align personal desires with one’s life mission.
• The importance of having a trusted partner for exploring and communicating desires, emphasizing the value of attentive listening

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How to Find Zest in Life with Dr. John Kaag

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