I'll Go If You Go en Stef Dag & Gabby Bryan are best friends/touring comedians with severe fomo and also a crippling desire to lay in bed and stare into the void. They’ve traveled the globe together and have developed an ethos of best friendship centered on a willingness to do anything as long as they have the other by their side. Each episode of I’ll Go if You Go takes listeners to a new location (physical or meta): a fashion week party we hated, an internet rabbit hole we found, a trip to Croatia where we doubled our body count… all explorations and celebrations of our decades long friendship that mostly finds us laying back to back in a Marriot Bonvoy on our phones. https://megaphone.imgix.net/podcasts/f826a0ec-70ea-11f1-b16f-475ac1439191/image/07318941a439108f4a1c761c96f08ed1.png?ixlib=rails-4.3.1&max-w=3000&max-h=3000&fit=crop&auto=format,compress I'll Go If You Go episodic Dear Media Stef Dag & Gabby Bryan are best friends/touring comedians with severe fomo and also a crippling desire to lay in bed and stare into the void. They’ve traveled the globe together and have developed an ethos of best friendship centered on a willingness to do anything as long as they have the other by their side. Each episode of I’ll Go if You Go takes listeners to a new location (physical or meta): a fashion week party we hated, an internet rabbit hole we found, a trip to Croatia where we doubled our body count… all explorations and celebrations of our decades long friendship that mostly finds us laying back to back in a Marriot Bonvoy on our phones. Stef Dag & Gabby Bryan are best friends/touring comedians with severe fomo and also a crippling desire to lay in bed and stare into the void. They’ve traveled the globe together and have developed an ethos of best friendship centered on a willingness to do anything as long as they have the other by their side. Each episode of I’ll Go if You Go takes listeners to a new location (physical or meta): a fashion week party we hated, an internet rabbit hole we found, a trip to Croatia where we doubled our body count… all explorations and celebrations of our decades long friendship that mostly finds us laying back to back in a Marriot Bonvoy on our phones.

]]> Dear Media oliviam@dearmedia.com I'LL GO IF YOU GO: Meeting Your Boyfriend's Parents Welcome back! This week, we chose a portal from your submissions live on air and ended up meeting the parents. We’re spilling our silliest, sweetest, and absolutely gut-wrenching experiences meeting our boyfriend’s parents, like getting hit on by an ex’s Dad or being generally shunned by an ex’s Mom. We dive deep into both of our own families- Gabby’s Hard Rock Thanksgivings and Stef’s Slavic-American upbringing - and investigate how we both somehow ended up alright. Plus: cool guy try hards, Uber pools, your brother’s girlfriend, and our shared repulsion towards someone “doing a thing”. We hope you enjoy!!!  Fri, 09 Oct 2026 07:00:00 -0000 full Dear Media Welcome back! This week, we chose a portal from your submissions live on air and ended up meeting the parents. We’re spilling our silliest, sweetest, and absolutely gut-wrenching experiences meeting our boyfriend’s parents, like getting hit on by an ex’s Dad or being generally shunned by an ex’s Mom. We dive deep into both of our own families- Gabby’s Hard Rock Thanksgivings and Stef’s Slavic-American upbringing - and investigate how we both somehow ended up alright. Plus: cool guy try hards, Uber pools, your brother’s girlfriend, and our shared repulsion towards someone “doing a thing”. We hope you enjoy!!!  Welcome back! This week, we chose a portal from your submissions live on air and ended up meeting the parents. We’re spilling our silliest, sweetest, and absolutely gut-wrenching experiences meeting our boyfriend’s parents, like getting hit on by an ex’s Dad or being generally shunned by an ex’s Mom. We dive deep into both of our own families- Gabby’s Hard Rock Thanksgivings and Stef’s Slavic-American upbringing - and investigate how we both somehow ended up alright. Plus: cool guy try hards, Uber pools, your brother’s girlfriend, and our shared repulsion towards someone “doing a thing”. We hope you enjoy!!! 




]]> 2952 I'LL GO IF YOU GO: STREP Hi hi hi!! October has arrived, cold and flu season is in full swing, and Stef just completed her third round of antibiotics in this calendar year. This week’s portal is STREP- and we’re talking the kind of sick where you can’t scroll, watch TV, or even listen to music. Thankfully, Stef’s on the upswing and getting into text fights before sunrise! In other news, Gabby broke her dry spell with a VERY tall crush who just might be husband material. Plus, we’re officially over New York City and ready to buy houses with lawns (babbling brook preferred), join the PTA, and solve a murder or two.  Produced by Dear Media Fri, 02 Oct 2026 07:00:00 -0000 full Dear Media Hi hi hi!! October has arrived, cold and flu season is in full swing, and Stef just completed her third round of antibiotics in this calendar year. This week’s portal is STREP- and we’re talking the kind of sick where you can’t scroll, watch TV, or even listen to music. Thankfully, Stef’s on the upswing and getting into text fights before sunrise! In other news, Gabby broke her dry spell with a VERY tall crush who just might be husband material. Plus, we’re officially over New York City and ready to buy houses with lawns (babbling brook preferred), join the PTA, and solve a murder or two.  Produced by Dear Media Hi hi hi!! October has arrived, cold and flu season is in full swing, and Stef just completed her third round of antibiotics in this calendar year. This week’s portal is STREP- and we’re talking the kind of sick where you can’t scroll, watch TV, or even listen to music. Thankfully, Stef’s on the upswing and getting into text fights before sunrise! In other news, Gabby broke her dry spell with a VERY tall crush who just might be husband material. Plus, we’re officially over New York City and ready to buy houses with lawns (babbling brook preferred), join the PTA, and solve a murder or two. 


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]]> 2499 I'LL GO IF YOU GO: LA Welcome back!! This week we're in Los Angeles, which is basically the Bermuda Triangle of cities. We break down why we're covered in rashes, why no one walks anywhere, and what illegal things we've done in Waymos. Stef talks about her recent bang trauma, Gabby tells the story about puking in Magic Castle, and Priscilla the psychic calls Stef's situationship word for word. Also is every straight guy gay??? Take us back to NYC!!! Produced by Dear Media Fri, 25 Sep 2026 07:00:00 -0000 full Dear Media Welcome back!! This week we're in Los Angeles, which is basically the Bermuda Triangle of cities. We break down why we're covered in rashes, why no one walks anywhere, and what illegal things we've done in Waymos. Stef talks about her recent bang trauma, Gabby tells the story about puking in Magic Castle, and Priscilla the psychic calls Stef's situationship word for word. Also is every straight guy gay??? Take us back to NYC!!! Produced by Dear Media Welcome back!! This week we're in Los Angeles, which is basically the Bermuda Triangle of cities. We break down why we're covered in rashes, why no one walks anywhere, and what illegal things we've done in Waymos. Stef talks about her recent bang trauma, Gabby tells the story about puking in Magic Castle, and Priscilla the psychic calls Stef's situationship word for word. Also is every straight guy gay??? Take us back to NYC!!!


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]]> 4010 I'LL GO IF YOU GO: THE OCEAN Hi!!! This week we’re diving straight into the deep end (literally and metaphorically) with this portal: the OCEAN. We talk about The Beach, the Bermuda Triangle, fiber optic cables at the bottom of the sea, Stef’s recent trip to the surf town of Ericeira, and how Gabby once saved a woman from a tiger shark at the Jersey shore. Plus, we also talk about Amelia Earhart, our tour philosophies, the power of saying YES, lessons from elder bohemians, aliens, military infighting, and of course, an update on our love lives. P.S. - please send adventure ideas!!! xo.  Produced by Dear Media Fri, 18 Sep 2026 07:00:00 -0000 full Dear Media Hi!!! This week we’re diving straight into the deep end (literally and metaphorically) with this portal: the OCEAN. We talk about The Beach, the Bermuda Triangle, fiber optic cables at the bottom of the sea, Stef’s recent trip to the surf town of Ericeira, and how Gabby once saved a woman from a tiger shark at the Jersey shore. Plus, we also talk about Amelia Earhart, our tour philosophies, the power of saying YES, lessons from elder bohemians, aliens, military infighting, and of course, an update on our love lives. P.S. - please send adventure ideas!!! xo.  Produced by Dear Media Hi!!! This week we’re diving straight into the deep end (literally and metaphorically) with this portal: the OCEAN. We talk about The Beach, the Bermuda Triangle, fiber optic cables at the bottom of the sea, Stef’s recent trip to the surf town of Ericeira, and how Gabby once saved a woman from a tiger shark at the Jersey shore. Plus, we also talk about Amelia Earhart, our tour philosophies, the power of saying YES, lessons from elder bohemians, aliens, military infighting, and of course, an update on our love lives. P.S. - please send adventure ideas!!! xo. 


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]]> 2912 I'LL GO IF YOU GO: BERLIN Welcome back to I’ll Go If You Go, Piss Goblins! This week we travel to the legitimate UNESCO World Heritage Site of Partying: Berlin. Stef recounts a wild night at Berghain and somehow lived to tell the tale, while Gabby fantasizes about spending approximately 35 minutes there. We also dive into Hitler's birth chart, the Nazi witch division, crying in public, and why partying should be a government-funded human right.  Produced by Dear Media Fri, 11 Sep 2026 07:00:00 -0000 full Dear Media Welcome back to I’ll Go If You Go, Piss Goblins! This week we travel to the legitimate UNESCO World Heritage Site of Partying: Berlin. Stef recounts a wild night at Berghain and somehow lived to tell the tale, while Gabby fantasizes about spending approximately 35 minutes there. We also dive into Hitler's birth chart, the Nazi witch division, crying in public, and why partying should be a government-funded human right.  Produced by Dear Media Welcome back to I’ll Go If You Go, Piss Goblins! This week we travel to the legitimate UNESCO World Heritage Site of Partying: Berlin. Stef recounts a wild night at Berghain and somehow lived to tell the tale, while Gabby fantasizes about spending approximately 35 minutes there. We also dive into Hitler's birth chart, the Nazi witch division, crying in public, and why partying should be a government-funded human right. 


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]]> 3059 I'LL GO IF YOU GO: SOLO TRIP Welcome back to our show! This week, we're crossing the threshold and embarking on a SOLO TRIP. We're comparing our international travels and why we're still traumatized by French guys. We relive Gabby's Italian hookup in the Italian countryside, and Stef's Portugal solo trip that required a fake email from Anna Wintour to escape a reply guy. Plus, we're DMing Benson Boone live, debating our celebrity crush-to-friend pipeline, and giving our take on Off Campus.  Produced by Dear Media Fri, 04 Sep 2026 07:00:00 -0000 full Dear Media Welcome back to our show! This week, we're crossing the threshold and embarking on a SOLO TRIP. We're comparing our international travels and why we're still traumatized by French guys. We relive Gabby's Italian hookup in the Italian countryside, and Stef's Portugal solo trip that required a fake email from Anna Wintour to escape a reply guy. Plus, we're DMing Benson Boone live, debating our celebrity crush-to-friend pipeline, and giving our take on Off Campus.  Produced by Dear Media Welcome back to our show! This week, we're crossing the threshold and embarking on a SOLO TRIP. We're comparing our international travels and why we're still traumatized by French guys. We relive Gabby's Italian hookup in the Italian countryside, and Stef's Portugal solo trip that required a fake email from Anna Wintour to escape a reply guy. Plus, we're DMing Benson Boone live, debating our celebrity crush-to-friend pipeline, and giving our take on Off Campus. 


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]]> 2606 I'LL GO IF YOU GO: OVULATION We're both ovulating, and we're FEELING it. This week on I'll Go If You Go, we're diving straight into the portal that is ovulation brain: where confidence is high, horniness is HIGHER, and our bodies are literally begging us to get pregnant. We’re getting wildly honest about what ovulation actually does to us, breaking down the full menstrual cycle from menstrual to follicular to luteal with our very scientific, very vibe-based interpretation, and sharing why this phase turns us into completely different people. If you've ever felt hot and feral during ovulation, this one’s for you!  Produced by Dear Media Fri, 28 Aug 2026 07:00:00 -0000 full Dear Media We're both ovulating, and we're FEELING it. This week on I'll Go If You Go, we're diving straight into the portal that is ovulation brain: where confidence is high, horniness is HIGHER, and our bodies are literally begging us to get pregnant. We’re getting wildly honest about what ovulation actually does to us, breaking down the full menstrual cycle from menstrual to follicular to luteal with our very scientific, very vibe-based interpretation, and sharing why this phase turns us into completely different people. If you've ever felt hot and feral during ovulation, this one’s for you!  Produced by Dear Media We're both ovulating, and we're FEELING it. This week on I'll Go If You Go, we're diving straight into the portal that is ovulation brain: where confidence is high, horniness is HIGHER, and our bodies are literally begging us to get pregnant. We’re getting wildly honest about what ovulation actually does to us, breaking down the full menstrual cycle from menstrual to follicular to luteal with our very scientific, very vibe-based interpretation, and sharing why this phase turns us into completely different people. If you've ever felt hot and feral during ovulation, this one’s for you! 


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]]> 3110 I'LL GO IF YOU GO: FRIENDSHIP This week we enter our favorite portal yet - friendship. <3 We take a trip back to when we met a decade ago, and our first impressions of each other. We also talk tax season carnage, the online shopping return cycle we’ve dubbed “sam-Zara,” and a psychic reading that had Gabby convinced her crush was her soulmate (he was not.) Plus, we close with a live reading of listener-submitted portals! Produced by Dear Media Fri, 21 Aug 2026 07:00:00 -0000 full Dear Media This week we enter our favorite portal yet - friendship. <3 We take a trip back to when we met a decade ago, and our first impressions of each other. We also talk tax season carnage, the online shopping return cycle we’ve dubbed “sam-Zara,” and a psychic reading that had Gabby convinced her crush was her soulmate (he was not.) Plus, we close with a live reading of listener-submitted portals! Produced by Dear Media This week we enter our favorite portal yet - friendship. <3 We take a trip back to when we met a decade ago, and our first impressions of each other. We also talk tax season carnage, the online shopping return cycle we’ve dubbed “sam-Zara,” and a psychic reading that had Gabby convinced her crush was her soulmate (he was not.) Plus, we close with a live reading of listener-submitted portals!


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]]> 2461 I'LL GO IF YOU GO: AUGUST Today, our portal takes us to the Sunday of summer months: August. As we navigate this tar pit of a month, Gabby recounts the date that ended her romantic life as she knows it (it involves leukemia), Stef tries to figure out where all the men are actually hiding, and both of us decide the only sensible move left is to refocus on getting rich. It might be the winter of summer, and we might’ve gone on the worst double date of all time, but hey - I’ll go if you go!&nbsp; Produced by Dear Media Fri, 14 Aug 2026 07:00:00 -0000 full Dear Media Today, our portal takes us to the Sunday of summer months: August. As we navigate this tar pit of a month, Gabby recounts the date that ended her romantic life as she knows it (it involves leukemia), Stef tries to figure out where all the men are actually hiding, and both of us decide the only sensible move left is to refocus on getting rich. It might be the winter of summer, and we might’ve gone on the worst double date of all time, but hey - I’ll go if you go!&nbsp; Produced by Dear Media Today, our portal takes us to the Sunday of summer months: August. As we navigate this tar pit of a month, Gabby recounts the date that ended her romantic life as she knows it (it involves leukemia), Stef tries to figure out where all the men are actually hiding, and both of us decide the only sensible move left is to refocus on getting rich. It might be the winter of summer, and we might’ve gone on the worst double date of all time, but hey - I’ll go if you go! 


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]]> 2792 I'LL GO IF YOU GO: DIVE BARS Welcome back to I'll Go If You Go with Stef and Gabby!!&nbsp;This episode's portal is the Dive Bar. Fanelli's is our favorite local dive&nbsp;featuring a competitive hotdog eater, famous former patrons, and an adult man who gives out his number via crayon and construction paper. What's yours?!We also cover: the Sarah Jessica Parker nail pipeline, why poppers deserve a rebrand, an Adderall-fueled Napoleon Dynamite rewatch, Off Campus, and why men who need dating apps for validation are basically cult leaders. We also, once again, catastrophically fail the Bechdel test. So sorry, love you though! Produced by Dear Media Fri, 07 Aug 2026 07:00:00 -0000 full Dear Media Welcome back to I'll Go If You Go with Stef and Gabby!!&nbsp;This episode's portal is the Dive Bar. Fanelli's is our favorite local dive&nbsp;featuring a competitive hotdog eater, famous former patrons, and an adult man who gives out his number via crayon and construction paper. What's yours?!We also cover: the Sarah Jessica Parker nail pipeline, why poppers deserve a rebrand, an Adderall-fueled Napoleon Dynamite rewatch, Off Campus, and why men who need dating apps for validation are basically cult leaders. We also, once again, catastrophically fail the Bechdel test. So sorry, love you though! Produced by Dear Media Welcome back to I'll Go If You Go with Stef and Gabby!! This episode's portal is the Dive Bar. Fanelli's is our favorite local dive featuring a competitive hotdog eater, famous former patrons, and an adult man who gives out his number via crayon and construction paper. What's yours?!
We also cover: the Sarah Jessica Parker nail pipeline, why poppers deserve a rebrand, an Adderall-fueled Napoleon Dynamite rewatch, Off Campus, and why men who need dating apps for validation are basically cult leaders. We also, once again, catastrophically fail the Bechdel test. So sorry, love you though!


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]]> 3529 I'LL GO IF YOU GO: BIRTHDAYS Today we explore the ultimate portal: BIRTHDAYS. We examine the demonic humiliation ritual of turning 30, Stef's recent bday party where everyone was hot, and pull Tarot cards to determine what this year holds.&nbsp;Plus, we talk pheromones, foot binding, AIM screen names, and determine long-distance crushes are actually way chicer than dating local. Fri, 31 Jul 2026 07:00:00 -0000 full Dear Media Today we explore the ultimate portal: BIRTHDAYS. We examine the demonic humiliation ritual of turning 30, Stef's recent bday party where everyone was hot, and pull Tarot cards to determine what this year holds.&nbsp;Plus, we talk pheromones, foot binding, AIM screen names, and determine long-distance crushes are actually way chicer than dating local. Today we explore the ultimate portal: BIRTHDAYS. We examine the demonic humiliation ritual of turning 30, Stef's recent bday party where everyone was hot, and pull Tarot cards to determine what this year holds. Plus, we talk pheromones, foot binding, AIM screen names, and determine long-distance crushes are actually way chicer than dating local.



]]> 3574 I'LL GO IF YOU GO: HAIR SALONS Welcome back to I'll Go If You Go with Stef and Gabby!!! Consider us your trusted stylists this week as we enter the portal of the HAIR SALON.&nbsp;From going grey to bleach blonde and back to brunette to the seventh-grade haircut that sparked a lifetime of trauma, we cover the ins and outs of the beauty biz and our relationship to it.&nbsp;We discuss our various hair horror stories, bad dates, struggles with confidence, and the&nbsp;transformations that come from all of the above.&nbsp;Grab your shears and box dye- I'll&nbsp;cut your bangs if you cut mine!&nbsp; Produced by Dear Media Fri, 24 Jul 2026 07:00:00 -0000 full Dear Media Welcome back to I'll Go If You Go with Stef and Gabby!!! Consider us your trusted stylists this week as we enter the portal of the HAIR SALON.&nbsp;From going grey to bleach blonde and back to brunette to the seventh-grade haircut that sparked a lifetime of trauma, we cover the ins and outs of the beauty biz and our relationship to it.&nbsp;We discuss our various hair horror stories, bad dates, struggles with confidence, and the&nbsp;transformations that come from all of the above.&nbsp;Grab your shears and box dye- I'll&nbsp;cut your bangs if you cut mine!&nbsp; Produced by Dear Media Welcome back to I'll Go If You Go with Stef and Gabby!!! Consider us your trusted stylists this week as we enter the portal of the HAIR SALON. From going grey to bleach blonde and back to brunette to the seventh-grade haircut that sparked a lifetime of trauma, we cover the ins and outs of the beauty biz and our relationship to it. We discuss our various hair horror stories, bad dates, struggles with confidence, and the transformations that come from all of the above. Grab your shears and box dye- I'll cut your bangs if you cut mine! 


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]]> 4104 I'LL GO IF YOU GO: ANCIENT GREECE Welcome to EPISODE 2 of I’ll Go If You Go with Stef and Gabby!!! This week we enter the portal that is Ancient Greece, with a quick pit stop by CVS to take a pregnancy test. We talk about blue-moon spells, manifestations, astrological charts, getting Eurostared™, who the Ancient Greek philosophers would be in the modern dating world, and whether or not we're interested. Time travel with us for Delta points!!! Produced by Dear Media Fri, 17 Jul 2026 07:00:00 -0000 full Dear Media Welcome to EPISODE 2 of I’ll Go If You Go with Stef and Gabby!!! This week we enter the portal that is Ancient Greece, with a quick pit stop by CVS to take a pregnancy test. We talk about blue-moon spells, manifestations, astrological charts, getting Eurostared™, who the Ancient Greek philosophers would be in the modern dating world, and whether or not we're interested. Time travel with us for Delta points!!! Produced by Dear Media Welcome to EPISODE 2 of I’ll Go If You Go with Stef and Gabby!!! This week we enter the portal that is Ancient Greece, with a quick pit stop by CVS to take a pregnancy test. We talk about blue-moon spells, manifestations, astrological charts, getting Eurostared™, who the Ancient Greek philosophers would be in the modern dating world, and whether or not we're interested. Time travel with us for Delta points!!!


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]]> 3353 I'LL GO IF YOU GO: EURO SUMMER Welcome to our show!! Stef & Gabby deep dive into the magical and universal experience of EURO SUMMER. We explain what portals are. We ponder the scenic beauty of Epstein Island. Stef commits to never going on another girls trip again. We reminisce on the most infamous, sluttiest summer of our lives on an island in Croatia. Jump in! The waters warm and we both have UTIs :) Produced by Dear Media Fri, 10 Jul 2026 07:00:00 -0000 full 1 Dear Media Welcome to our show!! Stef & Gabby deep dive into the magical and universal experience of EURO SUMMER. We explain what portals are. We ponder the scenic beauty of Epstein Island. Stef commits to never going on another girls trip again. We reminisce on the most infamous, sluttiest summer of our lives on an island in Croatia. Jump in! The waters warm and we both have UTIs :) Produced by Dear Media Welcome to our show!! Stef & Gabby deep dive into the magical and universal experience of EURO SUMMER. We explain what portals are. We ponder the scenic beauty of Epstein Island. Stef commits to never going on another girls trip again. We reminisce on the most infamous, sluttiest summer of our lives on an island in Croatia. Jump in! The waters warm and we both have UTIs :)


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]]> 3386 INTRODUCING: I’ll Go If You Go Coming July 10th: Stef Dag & Gabby Bryan are best friends/touring comedians with severe fomo and also a crippling desire to lay in bed and stare into the void. They’ve traveled the globe together and have developed an ethos of best friendship centered on a willingness to do anything as long as they have the other by their side. Each episode of I’ll Go if U Go takes listeners to a new location (physical or meta): a fashion week party we hated, an internet rabbit hole we found, a trip to Croatia where we doubled our body count… all explorations and celebrations of our decades long friendship that mostly finds us laying back to back in a Marriot Bonvoy on our phones. New episodes drop every Friday. Produced by Dear Media Mon, 06 Jul 2026 07:00:00 -0000 trailer Dear Media Coming July 10th: Stef Dag & Gabby Bryan are best friends/touring comedians with severe fomo and also a crippling desire to lay in bed and stare into the void. They’ve traveled the globe together and have developed an ethos of best friendship centered on a willingness to do anything as long as they have the other by their side. Each episode of I’ll Go if U Go takes listeners to a new location (physical or meta): a fashion week party we hated, an internet rabbit hole we found, a trip to Croatia where we doubled our body count… all explorations and celebrations of our decades long friendship that mostly finds us laying back to back in a Marriot Bonvoy on our phones. New episodes drop every Friday. Produced by Dear Media Coming July 10th: Stef Dag & Gabby Bryan are best friends/touring comedians with severe fomo and also a crippling desire to lay in bed and stare into the void. They’ve traveled the globe together and have developed an ethos of best friendship centered on a willingness to do anything as long as they have the other by their side. Each episode of I’ll Go if U Go takes listeners to a new location (physical or meta): a fashion week party we hated, an internet rabbit hole we found, a trip to Croatia where we doubled our body count… all explorations and celebrations of our decades long friendship that mostly finds us laying back to back in a Marriot Bonvoy on our phones.


New episodes drop every Friday.


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