The Jefferson Fisher Podcast

3 Ways You’re Weakening Your Message Without Knowing It

Tue, 21 Apr 2026 09:00:00 -0000

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There are three mistakes I see people make in conversations every single day—and they’re quietly destroying relationships without you realizing it. In this episode, I break down why using absolutes like “always” and “never” instantly derails communication, how overexplaining weakens your message, and why the first seven seconds of any conversation matter more than everything that follows. If you want to be heard, respected, and taken seriously, this is where you start.

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Stop Letting Emotions Make Decisions with Emma Grede

Tue, 14 Apr 2026 09:00:00 -0000

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There’s a version of you that keeps waiting—for permission, for clarity, for someone to hand you the opportunity. In this conversation, I sit down with Emma Grede to challenge that thinking head-on. She breaks down what it actually takes to lead, build, and succeed at the highest level—without hiding behind politeness, fear, or overthinking. If you want more confidence, more clarity, and more control over your life and career, this is where it starts: with yourself.

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3 Steps to Say the Hard Thing

Tue, 07 Apr 2026 09:00:00 -0000

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There’s a conversation you’ve been avoiding—and it’s already costing you more than you think. In this episode, I’m breaking down why not saying the hard thing is shaping your relationships in ways you don’t even realize. When you avoid the truth, you keep everyone stuck in a version of reality that isn’t real. I’ll walk you through a simple, practical way to have difficult conversations with clarity, confidence, and respect—without overexplaining or softening the message.

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I Launched Something New for You

Wed, 01 Apr 2026 19:00:00 -0000

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I’m really excited to share this with you—I’ve launched a premium version of the podcast for those of you who want a more personal, uninterrupted experience and a closer connection to these conversations.

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Harvard Professor: 4 Secrets to a Happy Marriage (Backed by Neuroscience)

Tue, 31 Mar 2026 09:00:00 -0000

Have you ever felt like life is moving fast, you’re doing everything right, but something still feels off? In this episode, I sit down with Arthur Brooks, a behavioral scientist at Harvard University, to talk about why achievement doesn’t always bring fulfillment, how busyness can pull you away from the people you love, and why meaning usually shows up through struggle. We talk about marriage, faith, ambition, and the habits that actually lead to happiness. This conversation made me rethink what success really is—and what kind of life is actually worth building.

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Be More Direct in 3 Sentences

Tue, 24 Mar 2026 09:00:00 -0000

Most people say they want to be more direct, but when the moment comes, they start telling stories, overexplaining, or hoping the other person reads their mind. In this episode, I break down what being direct actually sounds like and why customer service conversations are one of the best places to practice it. I share a simple three-step method you can use anywhere—at work, at home, or in relationships—to say exactly what you mean without sounding harsh. When you learn to stick the landing with your words, people understand you faster, respect you more, and conversations get a whole lot easier.

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Weak Boundaries Sound Like This

Tue, 17 Mar 2026 09:00:00 -0000

If you struggle to say no, you might not have a boundary problem—you might have an overexplaining problem. In this episode, I break down why giving too many reasons weakens your boundaries, turns your no into a negotiation, and makes it easier for people to push past your limits. I’ll show you how to set firm boundaries with fewer words, stronger statements, and simple phrases you can use right away to protect your time, energy, and peace.

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3 Habits of Strong Adult Friendships

Tue, 10 Mar 2026 09:00:00 -0000

Adult friendships are hard — not because you’re bad at them, but because life pulls you in a thousand directions. Work, family, responsibilities… and somewhere along the way, connection gets shallow. In this episode, I share how to stop waiting to be chosen, how to build rhythm into your relationships, and how to move past small talk into something meaningful. If you want deeper friendships, you have to go first.

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Top 5 Communication Habits We’re Teaching Our Kids

Tue, 03 Mar 2026 10:00:00 -0000

In this episode, I’m sharing what Sierra and I try to do at home to help our kids learn how to talk through big feelings, conflict, and mistakes. Nothing perfect. Just real-life tools we come back to: apologizing when we miss it, teaching them to calm their body first, letting them work things out with boundaries, helping them ask for what they need, and teaching perspective. Because the goal isn’t “well-behaved kids.” The goal is kids who feel safe telling you the hard stuff.

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Stop Overexplaining

Tue, 24 Feb 2026 10:00:00 -0000

Pressure doesn’t just show up in courtrooms — it shows up in boardrooms, living rooms, and everyday conversations where the stakes feel high. In this episode, I’m sharing the exact framework I use to prepare witnesses before they ever take the stand so they can stay calm, clear, and confident when the heat is on. You’ll learn how to slow the moment down, control the pace of any conversation, and avoid the mistakes that make people crumble under pressure. If you’ve ever felt flustered, defensive, or overwhelmed in a tough conversation, this episode will help you become pressure proof.

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The 3 Signs You’re Being Gaslit (And What to Do About It)

Tue, 17 Feb 2026 10:00:00 -0000

Gaslighting isn’t just a buzzword — it’s a real communication pattern that quietly distorts reality and leaves you questioning yourself. In this episode, I break down the three must-know signs you’re being gaslit, the subtle conversation shifts that give it away, and exactly what to say in the moment to stay grounded and in control. I also flip the lens inward and share how to recognize if you’re unintentionally gaslighting someone else — and how to stop it before it becomes a pattern.

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How to Set Boundaries That Actually Create Peace

Tue, 10 Feb 2026 10:00:00 -0000

Busy has quietly become the most accepted excuse in our culture — and it’s slowly killing connection. In this episode, I break down the difference between being busy and living in a constant state of hurry, why both steal your peace and relationships, and how weak boundaries keep you stuck in overwhelm. I’ll share practical ways to create margin in your life, simple mindset shifts that change how you use your time, and specific phrases you can use to protect your focus without guilt. If you’ve ever felt rushed, exhausted, or like life is moving too fast — this one’s for you.

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Stop Arguing With Narcissists — Do This Instead

Tue, 03 Feb 2026 10:00:00 -0000

In this episode, I break down the one sentence a narcissist can’t argue with — and why most conversations with manipulative people turn into exhausting endurance tests. You’ll learn why logic never works, how narcissists weaponize your emotions, and the simple shift that helps you regain control instead of getting drained. If you’ve ever walked away from a conversation feeling frustrated, confused, or completely worn out, this episode will change how you handle it.

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When to Speak Up

Tue, 27 Jan 2026 10:00:00 -0000

We spend so much time waiting for the “perfect moment” to speak up — but the truth is, that moment rarely comes. In this episode, I break down why delaying hard conversations only creates bigger problems, how to recognize when now is the right time, and a simple framework to help you decide when to speak and when to pause. You’ll learn the difference between a better time and a perfect time (spoiler: one doesn’t exist), plus a golden rule that can save you from saying something you’ll regret. If there’s a conversation you’ve been putting off, this episode is for you.

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The Lawyer’s Method to Shut Down Narcissism

Tue, 20 Jan 2026 10:00:00 -0000

If you’ve ever walked away from a conversation feeling spun, rattled, or subtly controlled, this episode is for you. Drawing directly from my experience as a trial lawyer, I break down the exact strategy I use in court to disarm manipulative and narcissistic behavior—without escalating, over-explaining, or losing your footing. You’ll learn how to stop their momentum, respond in a way that gives them nothing to grab onto, and use one powerful phrase that instantly puts you back in control of the conversation.

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How to Sound Assertive Without Sounding Rude

Tue, 13 Jan 2026 10:00:00 -0000

In this episode, I break down how to communicate clearly and confidently without crossing into rude or aggressive territory. You’ll learn why tone matters more than words, how to frame sentences so people actually listen, and why the most assertive communicators say less, not more. If you’ve ever been told you’re “too soft” or worried about coming off harsh, this one will change how you speak immediately.

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3 Communication Habits to Change This Year

Tue, 06 Jan 2026 10:00:00 -0000

To kick off 2026, I’m taking this podcast back to its roots — recording from my car — and answering real listener questions in an AMA. We talk about how to reopen communication after estrangement, how to handle confidence-shaking rumors at work, and one small habit that can immediately improve your relationships. If you want a grounded, practical way to start the year communicating with more clarity and confidence, this episode is for you.

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The Best Communication Advice of 2025

Tue, 30 Dec 2025 10:00:00 -0000

As the year wraps up, I went back through your messages, emails, comments, and reviews to find the three communication tools that actually changed your conversations in 2025. These aren’t theories — they’re the strategies you told me helped you handle conflict, slow things down, and sound more confident in real life. If you’re only going to listen to one episode from this year, this is the one that pulls it all together.

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How to Prepare for a Hard Conversation

Tue, 23 Dec 2025 10:00:00 -0000

If you have a conversation coming up that’s already tying your stomach in knots, this episode is for you. I break down how to prepare for hard conversations before you ever open your mouth — starting with your goal, your body, and the one sentence that sets the tone. These tools will help you walk in calmer, clearer, and far more confident, no matter who you’re talking to or what’s at stake.

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How to Shut Down Gaslighting Without Escalating

Tue, 16 Dec 2025 10:00:00 -0000

One of the most powerful weapons in difficult conversations isn’t yelling, insults, or aggression — it’s confusion. In this episode, I break down how confusion gets weaponized to avoid accountability, derail clarity, and exhaust you into giving up. You’ll learn how to spot when confusion is genuine versus strategic, and exactly what to say to regain control, slow the conversation down, and protect your clarity without escalating the conflict.

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Robert Greene: Why People Manipulate & How to Protect Yourself

Tue, 09 Dec 2025 10:00:00 -0000

Have you ever felt like other people understand power better than you do — like they know the rules of the game and you don’t? In this episode, I sit down with The 48 Laws of Power author Robert Greene to talk about what power really is, how to use it without becoming manipulative, and why feeling powerless can quietly wreck your life. We get into communication, self-love, boundaries, and how to spot people who don’t have your best interests at heart, plus a preview of his new book The Law of the Sublime and what surviving a near-death experience taught him about appreciating life.

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This Is Why Emotional People Hijack Conversations

Tue, 02 Dec 2025 10:00:00 -0000

Ever notice how someone else’s bad mood can instantly throw yours off? In this episode, I’m teaching you exactly how to keep negative energy from hijacking your day. You’ll learn the same three tools I use in real time: how to call out the tension in the room, how to separate someone’s tone from the truth in their message, and how to protect your presence instead of trying to fix their problems. If other people’s energy drains you, this episode gives you the reset you’ve been looking for.

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How To Talk To Someone You Completely Disagree With

Tue, 25 Nov 2025 10:00:00 -0000

In this episode, I’m breaking down how to have a calm, productive conversation with someone you disagree with on every level — whether it’s politics at the dinner table, opinions that make your stomach flip, or that one family member who loves stirring the pot. The goal isn’t to convert anyone. It’s to protect your peace, communicate with clarity, and walk away proud of how you showed up. I’ll walk you through the exact framework I use: stop arguing the opinion and identify the need underneath it, shift from proving to understanding, and learn to “water your own garden” so you’re not wasting emotional energy trying to fix someone else’s. If you’ve got holiday dinners coming up, this one’s your armor.

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Good Communication Is Overrated—Try This Instead

Tue, 18 Nov 2025 10:00:00 -0000

I don’t want what sounds nice—I want what’s real. This episode is about stripping away the polish in conversations and showing up with integrity and authenticity. I break down why perfection actually hurts communication, how authenticity and integrity differ, and why your presence will always matter more than your technique. If you’ve ever caught yourself performing instead of connecting, this episode will help you return to what’s true.

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From Denny’s Waitress to Billion-Dollar CEO with Jamie Kern Lima

Tue, 11 Nov 2025 11:00:00 -0000

I sat down with my friend Jamie Kern Lima—founder of IT Cosmetics and New York Times bestselling author of Worthy—to talk about turning rejection into purpose. She shares how she transformed years of “no” into a billion-dollar yes, the mindset shifts that build real self-worth, and how to protect your energy by curating the right circle. If you’ve ever doubted yourself or felt like your confidence took a hit, this episode shows you how to get it back.

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3 Simple Questions That Put You Back in Control

Tue, 04 Nov 2025 11:00:00 -0000

If you’ve ever felt a conversation slip out of your control, this episode is for you. I’m walking you through exactly how to shift the power dynamic back in your favor without getting loud or defensive. I’ll show you how to use smart reset questions, how to call out intent with “Did you mean…” phrases, and why silence is often your strongest move. These three tools will help you stay composed, confident, and in control—no matter who you’re talking to.

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Top Conflict Coach Shares the Key to Staying Cool Under Attack

Tue, 28 Oct 2025 10:00:00 -0000

When someone comes at you with anger, judgment, or blame, it’s easy to take the bait. But real confidence shows up in your ability to stay calm when others lose control. In this episode, I break down how to regulate yourself when you’re under attack — the exact mental shift that stops defensiveness in its tracks. You’ll learn the “observe, don’t absorb” rule, simple breathing and grounding tools, and the one mindset that helps you stay cool no matter who’s trying to push your buttons.

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You’ve Been Talking All Wrong in Difficult Conversations

Tue, 21 Oct 2025 10:00:00 -0000

In this episode, I’m breaking down the small language habits that secretly make hard conversations harder. Most of us think we’re being clear or kind — but the words we use often fuel defensiveness instead of understanding. I’ll show you how to stop using “you” statements that sound like blame, cut out weak disclaimers that undercut your point, and reframe your message so it lands with strength and respect.

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Dr. Becky: How to Stay Patient When You’re Triggered

Tue, 14 Oct 2025 10:00:00 -0000

This one’s for the parents—or anyone raising little humans. I sit down with Dr. Becky Kennedy, clinical psychologist and bestselling author of Good Inside, to unpack what’s really behind kids’ “bad behavior.” We talk about the mindset shift every parent needs, the three words that can calm any meltdown, and how to hold firm boundaries without losing connection. If you’ve ever thought, “Why won’t my kid just listen?” — this conversation will change the way you see those moments forever.

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Being Nice Won’t Save You in Difficult Conversations

Tue, 07 Oct 2025 14:04:00 -0000

Being nice won’t save you — especially in conflict. Too often, we think if we’re agreeable enough, people will treat us better or listen more. But that’s not how it works. In this episode, I talk about why “nice” people often get steamrolled in difficult conversations, the difference between being nice and being respectful, and how respectful firmness is actually the real power move.

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STOP Trying to Be Calm. This Is How You Actually Handle Emotional People

Tue, 30 Sep 2025 10:00:00 -0000

Being told to “calm down” never actually makes you calmer. In this episode, I unpack what “calm” really means in conversation—and why it often backfires. Instead of aiming for a blank-slate calm, I’ll show you how to create a grounded connection—a way to stay present, regulate your emotions, and still lean into the conversation with honesty. And stick around until the end, because I’ll give you three powerful comebacks you can use the next time someone tells you to “calm down.”

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What They Really Mean When They Belittle You

Tue, 23 Sep 2025 10:00:00 -0000

A belittling comment is never about you—it’s about them. In this episode, I break down why people use belittling remarks as a grab for dominance, how to decode the real intent behind their words, and why it’s usually just a projection of their own insecurity. You’ll learn the exact questions to ask that shut down the power play, shift the spotlight back where it belongs, and keep you in control of the conversation.

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Dr. John Delony: Why Your Body Can’t Tell Real Fights From Fake Ones

Tue, 16 Sep 2025 10:00:00 -0000

I flew to Nashville, sat in Dr. John Delony’s studio, and we had the kind of friend-to-friend talk I wish everyone could hear. We got honest about anxiety—how I’ve felt it in my own body—and why our “imaginary fights” leave us overheated before a real conversation even starts. John shared the two moves that changed my playbook: bring calm (it spreads) and tell the truth (facts are kind). We dug into abandonment fears, childhood stuff that sneaks into marriage, and that gut-punch line: “You marry your unfinished business.” If you’ve ever felt anxious mid-conversation, or avoided a hard talk because you were scared of losing someone, this episode gives you practical steps to reset, reconnect, and talk like you actually want to be heard.

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How To Stay In Control! Even When Conversations Turn Emotional

Tue, 09 Sep 2025 10:00:00 -0000

When someone gets emotional in conversation, it can be tough to know how to respond. In this episode, I share how to keep your cool without shutting them down or losing yourself in the moment. You’ll learn how to recognize your own physical reactions, ground yourself with simple reminders, and set healthy boundaries so you can stay steady—even when the other person isn’t.

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3 Communication Mistakes That Are Making You Lose Control

Tue, 02 Sep 2025 10:00:00 -0000

If you’ve ever felt like a conversation got away from you, you’re not alone—we all lose control sometimes. In this episode, I’m breaking down the three biggest mistakes that cause you to give up your power without even realizing it: overexplaining, reacting too quickly, and filling every silence. I’ll show you how each of these makes you predictable and weakens your message, and I’ll give you the tools to stay calm, confident, and in control no matter who you’re talking to.

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3 Courtroom Tricks That Work in Everyday Conversations

Tue, 26 Aug 2025 12:08:00 -0000

Ever find yourself in a conversation that feels more like a battle than a back-and-forth? In this episode, I’m sharing three simple tools I’ve picked up from the courtroom that’ll help you communicate with more confidence—especially when you’re dealing with people who don’t agree with you. We’re talking about how to swap out your “buts” for “ands,” how to stop wasting your energy on arguments that don’t matter, and how to slow things down so your words actually land.

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Body Language Expert: The #1 Cue That Makes People Dislike You

Tue, 19 Aug 2025 10:00:00 -0000

Ever wonder why some people just click with everyone? In this episode, I sit down with my friend Vanessa Van Edwards—behavioral investigator, author, and founder of Science of People—to break down the science behind first impressions, charisma, and connection. We dig into what people really notice in the first few seconds of meeting you (hint: it’s not your words), how to instantly build trust, and the vocal mistake most people make when they say “hello.” Whether you're walking into a boardroom or meeting someone on the street, this is the conversation that’ll change the way you show up.

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Top 3 Signs of Emotional Immaturity

Tue, 12 Aug 2025 10:00:00 -0000

Let’s talk about emotional immaturity—because spotting it early can save you a whole lot of pain. In this episode, I’m breaking down three clear signs that someone’s not ready to handle their emotions like an adult. From causing scenes in public to taking everything personal, and going straight for the low-blow insults—these are major red flags.

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How to Talk to Someone Who Doesn’t Like You

Tue, 05 Aug 2025 10:00:00 -0000

Let’s be real—there are people you don’t like, and there are people who don’t like you. That’s just life. But what do you do when you have to deal with them—at work, at home, or anywhere you can’t avoid them? In this episode, I’m sharing three simple strategies to keep your cool, protect your integrity, and handle these conversations like a pro.

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What to Say to Someone Who’s Grieving

Tue, 29 Jul 2025 10:00:00 -0000

When tragedy strikes, most of us go silent—not because we don’t care, but because we don’t know what to say. In this episode, I walk you through exactly what to do (and what not to do) when someone you care about is going through grief. From the well-meaning phrases that actually cause harm to the simple actions that show real support, this is a practical, heartfelt guide for one of the hardest moments in life.

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Happiness Expert: Communication Hacks That Instantly Boost Your Mood

Tue, 22 Jul 2025 10:00:00 -0000

Gretchen Rubin—bestselling author of The Happiness Project and host of the Happier podcast—joins me to talk about how small, everyday choices in the way we communicate can lead to a happier life. We get into the power of language, environment, relationships, and even those little one-liner “isms” that stick with you. If you want to feel better, connect better, and live with more intention—this one’s for you.

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One Phrase That Instantly Ends Arguments

Tue, 15 Jul 2025 10:00:00 -0000

I’ve never regretted saying the kind thing—even when it’s the last thing I wanted to do. In this episode, I’m breaking down how to respond with clarity and strength when you’re triggered, frustrated, or just done. You’ll learn one powerful phrase that instantly defuses tension, how to speak in a way you won’t regret, and a mindset shift that’ll change the way you show up in every conversation.

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How to Speak with Confidence at Work

Tue, 08 Jul 2025 10:00:00 -0000

Ever feel like you’re not being taken seriously at work? In this episode, I’m sharing three tools that will instantly level up how you’re perceived in meetings and conversations. From how you speak to how you set boundaries, these simple shifts will help you show up with more confidence—and earn the respect you deserve without changing who you are.

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What to do When Someone Talks Over You

Tue, 01 Jul 2025 10:00:00 -0000

Ever had someone start talking over you while you were still mid-sentence? In this episode, I break down exactly what to do when that happens. You’ll learn the common mistakes people make, how to respond without escalating things, and why using someone’s name can shift the entire tone. It’s all about staying grounded, speaking up, and keeping control of the conversation.

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What Serving 7 Years in Prison Taught Damon West About Communication

Tue, 24 Jun 2025 10:00:00 -0000

Today’s episode is one of the wildest, most powerful comeback stories you’ll ever hear. Damon West was sentenced to 65 years in a Texas prison. Let that sink in. And yet—through mindset, service, and intentional communication—he not only turned his life around but went on to inspire thousands with his message of being a “coffee bean.” We talk about the power of how you speak to yourself (not just listen), how to lead with service, and how one conversation can truly change the direction of your entire life.

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3 Keys to Shut Down the Silent Treatment

Tue, 17 Jun 2025 10:00:00 -0000

Let’s talk about the silent treatment—because it’s not just silence, it’s control. In this episode, I’ll show you how to spot it, how to stop chasing it, and exactly what to say to take back your power without matching the bad behavior. If someone goes quiet to punish you, this episode is your playbook for handling it with confidence and emotional maturity.

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How to De-Escalate a Shouting Match

Tue, 10 Jun 2025 10:00:00 -0000

You ever been in a conversation that wasn’t really a conversation—more like words flying at your face at full volume? Yeah, I’ve been there too. In today’s episode, I’m giving you three super practical ways to hold your ground and keep your cool when someone else is losing theirs.

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Outsmarting Narcissists: The Praise or Provoke Trap

Tue, 03 Jun 2025 10:00:00 -0000

Ever feel like you’re talking to a wall when dealing with someone who just won’t take accountability? You might be dealing with a narcissist—or at least someone showing strong narcissistic behaviors. In this episode, I break down exactly how to talk to those people without losing your cool, your confidence, or your sanity. Whether this person is your boss, your sibling, or your partner—you’ll walk away from this episode knowing exactly how to protect your peace when things get heated.

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How to Talk to Anyone on Edge Without Getting Pulled In

Tue, 27 May 2025 10:00:00 -0000

In this Ask Me Anything episode, I’m answering your real questions—from how to handle a partner who shuts down after work, to what it actually takes to be a better listener, to what to do when someone lies to your face even after you show proof. These are everyday moments that trip a lot of us up, and I’m sharing the exact tools I use in my own life to stay calm, clear, and in control. Want your question answered next time? Join the newsletter!

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3 Steps to End a Relationship with Respect

Tue, 20 May 2025 04:00:00 -0000

Ending a relationship — whether it’s romantic, professional, or personal — is never easy. But dragging it out or softening the blow too much? That’s not kindness, that’s confusion. In this episode, I break down exactly how to cut ties with clarity and compassion, so you can move on without burning the bridge behind you.

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Erin McGoff: How to be Instantly More Confident at Work

Tue, 13 May 2025 10:00:00 -0000

If you’ve ever found yourself wondering how to answer “What’s your greatest weakness?” in a job interview—or how to ask for a raise without it getting awkward—this episode is for you. Jefferson sits down with workplace communication expert and viral career content creator Erin McGoff to break down the exact words to use in the trickiest on-the-job conversations. From handling passive-aggressive coworkers to quitting your job with grace (and keeping that door open), Erin shares practical advice and real scripts you can start using today.

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How Your Inner Circle Shapes Your Communication

Tue, 06 May 2025 10:00:00 -0000

Who you're around shapes how you speak. In this episode, I walk you through a personal communication audit—looking at who’s influencing your voice, what words no longer serve you, and how to raise your standard by surrounding yourself with people who lift you up. This is about breaking old patterns, speaking with purpose, and setting the tone for how you show up in the world.

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Communication Habits That Build Your Reputation

Tue, 29 Apr 2025 10:00:00 -0000

If somebody came and wiped out my entire reputation and communication history — gone, erased — this is exactly how I’d rebuild it. In today’s episode, I’m sharing the three rules I would live by if I had to start over from scratch.

We’re talking about how every word matters, why consistency is non-negotiable, and how welcoming the hard conversations can completely change the game. If you want to be known as someone who leaves a lasting, positive impact — at work, at home, everywhere — this is where it starts.

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The 3 Parenting Skills That Shape Future Communicators

Tue, 22 Apr 2025 10:00:00 -0000

If you're a parent, there’s nothing more important than teaching your kids how to communicate — how to handle a "no," how to disagree without disrespect, and how to show kindness even when it’s hard. That’s what this episode is all about. I’m sharing a few key lessons from my own upbringing and how my wife and I are applying them with our two kids today

If you're serious about raising kids who can communicate clearly, respectfully, and powerfully — this one's for you.

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The Best Way to Shut Down a Narcissist

Tue, 15 Apr 2025 10:00:00 -0000

Have you ever been in a conversation where no matter what you say, it’s clear—there’s no winning? Some people are committed to misunderstanding you. In today’s episode, I’m breaking down how to protect your peace, stand your ground, and keep your integrity when someone’s trying to make you the villain in their story.

Whether it’s a bully, a manipulator, or someone you just can’t reason with, this episode will help you hold your standard and respond without losing yourself.

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How to Handle Nervousness Before a Big Conversation

Tue, 08 Apr 2025 10:00:00 -0000

Let’s talk about nerves. I say this all the time—it is totally normal to feel nervous before a conversation. In fact, it's a good thing. It means you care. But what you do with that nervousness can completely change how the conversation goes.

In this episode, I’m sharing three techniques I use myself and teach often—especially when people ask me how to stay calm, confident, and connected when it matters most. Whether you’ve got a big conversation coming up or just want to communicate with more ease, this one’s for you.

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How to Stay Calm When You’re Disrespected

Tue, 01 Apr 2025 10:00:00 -0000

You are not a target. Not a punching bag. Not the release valve for someone else’s frustration.

In the middle of the book tour whirlwind, I’m reflecting on a powerful review someone left for The Next Conversation and diving into the first and most foundational rule of the book: say it with control. I’ll walk you through a mindset shift that’s helped thousands of people—not just to win arguments, but to protect their peace. We talk about regulating our fight-or-flight response, how to use your breath as a pause button, and why you are never required to absorb someone else’s emotional baggage.

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Charles Duhigg: Asking Questions That Build Instant Connection

Tue, 25 Mar 2025 10:00:00 -0000

Ever feel like you’re talking but not really connecting? Or maybe you’re in a conversation, and you know the other person is just waiting for their turn to talk? Well, today’s episode is about to change that.

I’m sitting down with Charles Duhigg, Pulitzer Prize-winning journalist and author of Supercommunicators, to talk about what the best communicators do differently. And here’s the kicker: it’s not about being the most persuasive—it’s about knowing how to ask the right questions.

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Bonus Episode: Chapter 1 from The Next Conversation

Fri, 21 Mar 2025 10:00:00 -0000

Alright, let’s do something different today.

This is a special bonus episode where you get to hear Chapter 1 of my new book, The Next Conversation.

In this first chapter, we’re setting the stage. You’ll get a feel for what’s inside the book, and if it clicks with you, you’re going to love the full audiobook. I recorded it myself, so it’s like we’re sitting down together, walking through these conversations step by step.

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The Next Conversation Starts Here

Tue, 18 Mar 2025 10:00:00 -0000

Today is a big day, y’all. It’s book launch day. The Next Conversation: Argue Less, Talk More is officially out in the world, and I could not be more excited (or honestly, more emotional) about it.

If you’ve ever gotten something valuable from my content—if even one thing has stuck with you—I'm asking you to grab a copy of this book. Because this isn’t just a book. It’s an investment in your next conversation. And if there’s one thing I know for sure, it’s that the way we show up in conversations shapes everything—our relationships, our confidence, our success.

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Chris Voss: FBI-Backed Tactics for Better Communication

Tue, 11 Mar 2025 10:00:00 -0000

Ever walked into a conversation and felt like you were on the losing end before it even started? Whether it’s a tough negotiation, a disagreement at home, or just trying to get someone to see your side, there’s a right and wrong way to do it—and Chris Voss is the guy to teach it.

I’ve been a fan of Chris’s work for a long time, and getting to sit down with him was a masterclass in negotiation, tactical empathy, and human connection.

Chris is a former FBI hostage negotiator, the author of Never Split the Difference, and the CEO of The Black Swan Group. His negotiation tactics aren’t just for high-stakes situations—they work everywhere. And in this episode, he breaks it all down for us.

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Mel Robbins: How to Handle Difficult People with the Let Them Theory

Tue, 04 Mar 2025 11:00:00 -0000

Ever find yourself stuck in your own head, overthinking a conversation, or worrying about how someone will react? This episode is for you.

Today I sit down with the legendary Mel Robbins – NYT #1 bestselling author, speaker, and the force behind The Let Them Theory. She breaks down the power of self-communication, why the way you talk to yourself shapes your confidence, and how to stop wasting energy on things you can’t control.

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How My Parents Raised an Expert Communicator

Tue, 25 Feb 2025 16:39:00 -0000

How do you raise a good communicator? How do you teach kids to be kind but not a pushover? And what actually matters when it comes to parenting?

In this episode, I’m sitting down with the two people who shaped my life the most—my parents.

This is a personal one. But whether you're a parent, thinking about becoming one, or just curious about how childhood shapes the way we communicate, I think you’ll take something valuable away from this conversation.

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My Top 3 Lessons in Communication

Tue, 18 Feb 2025 19:09:00 -0000

You’re in a conversation, and things get heated. You want to make your point—but so do they.

Suddenly, it feels like a battle. And if you "win," what have you really won?

In this episode, I’m sharing 3 truths that will change how you communicate—for good.

These simple mindsets will help you stay grounded, connect more deeply, and navigate tough conversations with clarity and confidence.

Plus, I’ll share why I’m stepping into a new studio for season 2 and what you can expect moving forward.

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The Last Word

Tue, 07 Jan 2025 10:00:00 -0000

Today’s podcast is a little different. It’s personal.

I’m wrapping up season 1 of the podcast, sharing some big highlights from 2024, and giving you a preview of what’s coming in 2025. And yes… I’m launching something new soon :)

2024 was full of surprises for me. Things I never saw coming. And you were a big part of that. Thank you for listening, learning, and showing up each week. I’m truly grateful to have you here.

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Best Communication Advice from 2024

Tue, 31 Dec 2024 10:00:00 -0000

To wrap up 2024, I’ve pulled together my top 3 podcast episodes of the year—all in one place.

You’ll get tools to handle rude comments, navigate belittling remarks, and stay calm when someone isn’t being honest.

No matter what comes your way in 2025, these tips will help you stay confident and in control.

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How to Never Struggle with Small Talk

Tue, 17 Dec 2024 11:00:00 -0000

Small talk can be so awkward.

You’re trying to fill the silence, but the conversation just isn’t clicking. What do you do?

In this episode, I’m sharing 3 ways to make small talk feel natural, engaging, and even enjoyable. You’ll learn how to ask better questions, keep the conversation flowing, and avoid the awkward silence trap.

These tips will help you turn any small talk moment—whether at a party, in line at the grocery store, or before a meeting—into a real connection.

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How to Handle People Who Dominate Conversations

Tue, 10 Dec 2024 11:00:00 -0000

You’re in a conversation, and someone turns it into their personal monologue.

They just keep talking and talking—totally dominating the conversation.

It’s frustrating. But you don’t have to sit through it.

In this episode, I’m sharing 3 ways to handle people who dominate conversations.

You’ll learn how to interrupt confidently, redirect the conversation, and set clear boundaries to protect your time and energy.

These strategies will help you take charge and create space for everyone to be heard.

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What to Say to a One-Upper

Tue, 03 Dec 2024 11:00:00 -0000

You’re excited to share something you’re proud of, and then someone jumps in with, “Oh, that’s nothing—I’ve done [insert bigger, better thing here].”

It’s like they can’t help but make it a competition. Every win you share becomes their chance to one-up you.

At first, it’s just annoying. But over time, it starts to wear on you.

In this episode, I’m sharing 3 simple strategies to deal with one-uppers.

You’ll learn how to protect your peace, set boundaries, and stop letting these moments steal your joy.

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What to Say to Dismissive Replies

Tue, 26 Nov 2024 11:00:00 -0000

Someone brushes off their rude comments with, “It was just a joke.” Or they tell you, “Don’t take it personally,” or, “You’re too sensitive.”

These comments might seem small. But they can slowly tear down your self-esteem.

The good news? You don’t have to let them shake you.

In this episode, I’m sharing 3 simple ways to respond to dismissive comments.

These strategies will help you protect your self-esteem, stand your ground, and respond to dismissive comments with confidence.

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How to Not Get Defensive

Tue, 19 Nov 2024 11:00:00 -0000

Someone says something that hits a nerve, and before you know it, you’re on the defensive.

Defensiveness is a normal reaction. But it can quickly escalate arguments and make things worse. Good news: there’s a better way to handle it.

In this episode, I’m sharing 3 ways to stay calm and not get defensive—no matter how heated the conversation gets.

These strategies will help you stay composed and avoid escalating the situation. So you can turn difficult conversations into productive ones.

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How to Accept a Compliment

Tue, 12 Nov 2024 11:00:00 -0000

Ever feel awkward when someone compliments you? You’re not alone. It’s easy to downplay, dismiss, or deflect compliments.

But there’s a better way to respond to compliments. A way that shows appreciation, self-respect, and kindness.

In this episode, I’m sharing 3 simple strategies to respond to compliments.

Here’s what you’ll learn:

#1: How to accept compliments without feeling the need to dodge or downplay them

#2: Why a simple "thank you" can make you and the other person feel great

#3: Ways to acknowledge compliments that strengthen your self-worth (and don’t involve saying “oh, I got it on sale”)

These strategies will help you feel more comfortable accepting compliments, boost your confidence, and build stronger connections with those around you.

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How to Respond to Gaslighting

Tue, 05 Nov 2024 11:00:00 -0000

Ever been in an argument where someone twists your words, denies things that happened, or makes you doubt your own reality?

Gaslighting can be one of the most frustrating and confusing behaviors to deal with. It leaves you questioning your memory, feeling blamed, and wondering if you’re the problem.

But here’s the good news: you don’t have to play by their rules.

In this episode, I’m sharing 3 strategies to take back control when dealing with gaslighters.

These aren’t just words. They’re practical tools to keep you calm, grounded, and in control when someone tries to distort the truth.

If you’re ready to handle gaslighting with confidence, this episode will show you how.

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How to Handle Liars

Tue, 29 Oct 2024 10:00:00 -0000

Ever had that nagging feeling that someone isn’t being honest with you?

It’s frustrating when you know something’s off, but you’re not sure how to address it. Especially without things getting messy.

Here’s the good news: You don’t have to call someone out directly to get closer to the truth. In this episode, I’m breaking down 3 subtle ways to handle conversations when someone isn’t telling the whole story.

These 3 strategies will help you keep your cool, let the other person’s honesty (or lack of it) reveal itself, and avoid getting tangled up in their story.

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How to Handle Inappropriate Questions

Tue, 22 Oct 2024 09:12:00 -0000

Ever been caught off guard by a question that feels too personal, invasive, or just plain inappropriate?

You’ve probably found yourself scrambling for the right way to respond—without getting flustered or defensive.

Good news: You don’t have to answer those questions, and you don’t have to let them derail your confidence.

In this episode, I’m breaking down 3 ways to deal with inappropriate questions that put you back in control, without causing a scene.

These 3 approaches will help you respond with confidence, keeping the conversation in your hands and on your terms.

Whether it’s at work, with family, or in social situations, these tips will help you handle those uncomfortable questions without missing a beat.

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How to Respond with Confidence

Tue, 15 Oct 2024 10:00:00 -0000

Find yourself using filler words like “um” or “uh,” or ending your sentences with uncertainty? You want to sound more confident, but you’re not sure what to do.

Good news: There’s an easy way to sound more confident in every conversation.

In this episode, I’m sharing 3 ways to respond with clarity and confidence, even in high-pressure situations.

You'll learn how to eliminate filler words, control the tone of your voice, and use phrases that make you sound assertive—without coming across as unsure or hesitant.

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How to Argue with Strong Personalities

Tue, 08 Oct 2024 10:00:00 -0000

Ever found yourself in a heated argument with someone who just won't back down?

Arguing with strong personalities can feel like you're constantly being overpowered, but there's a way to stay in control.

In this episode, I’m sharing 3 strategies to help you navigate tough conversations with dominant personalities, without feeling powerless.

These strategies will help you stay calm, keep the conversation productive, and confidently handle even the most forceful personalities—whether it’s at work, with friends, or around the dinner table.

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How to Handle Unwanted Conversations

Tue, 01 Oct 2024 10:00:00 -0000

You’re stuck in a conversation that you wish you could escape.

Maybe it’s office gossip, someone oversharing, or a topic that doesn’t interest you.

But you’re not sure how to get out without seeming rude.

In this episode, I’m sharing my top 3 strategies to exit unwanted conversations—without being rude.

You'll learn how to calmly disengage, acknowledge without agreeing, and even directly express that you want to avoid certain topics.

These simple techniques will help you navigate tricky conversations with ease, saving you time and patience.

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What to Say When Someone Belittles You

Tue, 24 Sep 2024 12:02:00 -0000

Ever had someone put you down, but you weren’t sure how to respond?

You don’t need to get defensive or fire back. There’s a better way.

In this episode, I’m sharing 3 strategies to handle belittling comments with confidence and control.

These strategies will help you stay calm, avoid escalating the situation, and hold your ground when someone tries to belittle you.

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My Top 3 Argument Responses

Tue, 17 Sep 2024 09:00:00 -0000

Ever find yourself in an argument where the other person gets defensive, no matter what you say?

In this episode, I’m sharing 3 easy phrases that can help you calm things down and handle defensive behavior—even when tensions are high.

Plus, I’ll show you how small changes in your approach can turn defensive reactions into productive discussions.

These strategies will help you manage conflict, defuse defensiveness, and stay in control of any tough conversation.

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How to Talk to a Narcissist

Tue, 10 Sep 2024 09:30:00 -0000

No matter what you say, a narcissist either wants praise or want to provoke you into frustration.

It’s a tricky game—but there’s a way to handle it without getting pulled into the mess.

In this episode, I’m sharing 3 key strategies for talking to narcissists while keeping your cool and staying in control of the conversation.

Plus, I’ll explain how you can flip the script to make sure the conversation stays productive and doesn’t escalate into conflict.

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How to Stand Up for Yourself

Tue, 03 Sep 2024 21:27:00 -0000

You want to advocate for yourself more.

But you’re not sure how to do that.

You know you deserve to be heard, but finding the right words—and the confidence to say them—can be tough.

In this episode, I’ll show you 3 simple strategies to stand up for yourself.

Plus, I’ll reveal how to choose your battles wisely, the power of dropping disclaimers, and how to say “no” without feeling the need to justify it.

These strategies will help you assert your worth, set clear boundaries, and navigate difficult conversations with confidence.

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How to Increase Your Emotional Intelligence

Tue, 27 Aug 2024 10:00:00 -0000

We all have moments where our emotions get the best of us.

Maybe it’s a tough conversation at work or a heated discussion at home. If you want to have more effective communication, you must increase your emotional intelligence.

In this episode, I’ll show you 3 simple steps to help you control your emotions and communicate how you’re feeling and what you need.

Plus, I’ll answer a listener’s question about dealing with that one person who always gets under your skin. I’ll also point out common mistakes to avoid when emotions are high, so you can keep your talks on track and effective.

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What to Say When You Cry in an Argument

Tue, 20 Aug 2024 10:00:00 -0000

You’re in a heated argument, and suddenly, tears start to well up. No matter how hard you try, you can’t stop them from falling. What do you do when you cry during an argument?

In this episode, I’m revealing 3 simple rules you must follow when you cry in an argument. These strategies will help you maintain your composure, communicate effectively, and keep the conversation on track.

Plus, I’ll talk about common mistakes people make when emotions run high and how you can avoid them to stay in control and get your point across.

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How to Handle Bad Apologies

Tue, 13 Aug 2024 10:00:00 -0000

Ever received an apology that didn’t feel genuine? How do you react and what do you say?

In this episode, I’m revealing 3 types of bad apologies and how you need to respond.

When you use these 3 strategies to deal with bad apologies, you’ll get the accountability you deserve without making things worse.

You can stand up for yourself and keep the conversation respectful. I’ll teach you how in this episode.

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How to Handle Interruptions

Tue, 06 Aug 2024 09:45:00 -0000

You want to handle interruptions kindly, but you're not sure how to assert yourself without escalating the situation.

In this episode, I'm revealing 3 simple ways to handle interruptions effectively. These strategies will help you maintain control of the conversation and make sure your voice is heard.

Plus, I share common mistakes people make when dealing with interruptions and how to avoid them.

You can stand up for yourself while keeping the conversation productive and respectful. This episode will show you how.

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How to Respond to Rude Comments

Tue, 30 Jul 2024 18:49:00 -0000

How should you respond to rude comments? Do you say something? And if so, what do you say?

In this episode, I’m revealing 3 ways to respond to rude comments.

Plus, I’m sharing a few common mistakes to avoid that can make these interactions worse instead of better.

You can turn a potentially negative encounter into a constructive one. I’ll show you how in this episode.

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How to Sound Assertive

Tue, 23 Jul 2024 00:22:00 -0000

You want to sound more assertive. But you’re not sure what to say or how to say it.

In this episode, I’m revealing 3 simple ways to instantly sound more assertive.

These are easy phrases you can say to sound more confident and communicate your needs clearly.

Plus, I share several common mistakes people make when trying to be assertive and how to avoid them. So you stand up for yourself and keep your conversations respectful and productive.

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How to Have a Difficult Conversation

Mon, 15 Jul 2024 23:01:00 -0000

Need to have a difficult conversation, but you're not sure what to say or how to say it?

In this episode, I’m revealing 3 simple steps to confidently approach your next hard conversation.

I'll guide you through the exact words to use, how to maintain your composure, and make sure your message is heard.

Plus, I share several phrases you must avoid to keep the conversation productive and respectful.

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Welcome to The Jefferson Fisher Podcast

Fri, 28 Jun 2024 16:18:00 -0000

Communicate with confidence and make your next conversation the one that changes everything.

Every episode of The Jefferson Fisher Podcast is packed with actionable communication strategies you can implement today.

Argue less and talk more. New episodes drop every week.

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