Sex With Emily

Why You’re Not Having the Sex You Want (& How to Fix It)

Fri, 17 Apr 2026 10:00:00 -0000

In this live episode of Sex With Emily, I dive into your real-time questions about sex, dating, desire, and connection… breaking down what might actually be blocking you from the intimacy and pleasure you want. From why it can feel harder to approach people or build attraction, to how stress, overthinking, and disconnection from your body and partner impact desire, I unpack the hidden patterns shaping your sex life. We explore everything from casual sex after breakups to how couples can reignite the spark, approach intimacy more intentionally, and create more ease, confidence, and fun in both sex and modern dating.

ABOUT EMILY:

Emily Morse is a Doctor of Human Sexuality, author and host of the #1 rated Sex with Emily podcast. Known as a renowned sexologist, Dr. Emily has helped millions of people around the world navigate their sex lives. Her candid and often funny conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. Because, life is too short for bad sex.

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Chapters:

00:00 Introduction to the LIVE

01:16 How to Call/Text Your Questions

01:49 Valentine’s Day & 21 Years of Podcasting

02:36 Why Couples Love Listening Together

04:33 Desire vs. Arousal Explained

05:21 Can You Coregasm at the Gym?

06:59 Blood Flow & Body Responses

07:53 Is This Normal?

09:02 What Some Women Enjoy Watching

10:54 Vulnerability in Men & Relationships

12:38 What is Compersion?

14:10 How to Approach Someone at the Gym

18:45 How to Bring Back the Spark in Relationships

21:25 Yes/No/Maybe List (Game-Changer Tool)

23:48 Real-Life Love Stories (Gym & Neighbors)

24:16 Keep Dating Your Partner

27:09 Slow Cooker vs. Frying Pan

28:52 Final Thoughts & Where to Find More

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The Sex Conversations You're Too Afraid to Have

Tue, 14 Apr 2026 10:00:00 -0000

I've said it a thousand times and I'll say it again, the number one thing standing between you and the sex life you actually want is probably one conversation you haven't had yet. Not a new position. Not a new toy. A conversation. And I know that sounds simple, but if it were easy, you wouldn't be talking yourself out of it every single time.

Today, I'm taking live listener calls on some of the most awkward, most avoided, most necessary conversations in sex and relationships, and giving you the exact words to have them.

In this episode, you'll learn:

• What to do when everything in your relationship is great except the sex — and how to bring it up without making your partner feel like the last nine months were a waste

• How to give feedback about a smell, a skill, or a habit that's getting in the way of your pleasure — without shame, without cruelty, and without killing the mood

• Why if you're freezing up every time you want to initiate, the problem probably isn't your partner's response — it's the story you're telling yourself before you even open your mouth

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Chapters:

0:00 - Intro

1:44 - Caller #1: Sex Is Lackluster After 9 Months — Is It a Dealbreaker?

11:27 - How to Tell Someone They're Bad at Hand Jobs

13:06 - Caller #2: She's Monogamous, He Wants Non-Monogamy

18:55 - Dr. Emily on Ethical Non-Monogamy & Why Timing Matters

19:58 - Caller #3: Should He Tell His Culinary School Crush He Has Feelings?

27:25 - Caller #4: Hemorrhoid Surgery, Skin Tags & Talking About It With Partners

33:39 - Anonymous Question: She Smells — How Do You Bring It Up?

36:06 - Caller #5: She Wants Sex But Freezes Up Before Initiating

42:03 - Dr. Emily's Final Word: If No One Initiates, There's Zero Sex

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Can Making Sound Unlock Better Pleasure? W/ Taryn Toomey

Fri, 10 Apr 2026 10:00:00 -0000

What if the key to better sex wasn't about technique — it was about learning to feel your own body again? Taryn Toomey, founder of The Class, joined me live at Eudaimonia to break down how 13 years of somatic movement quietly rewired her relationship with pleasure, sound, and receiving — and why the two aren't as different as you'd think.

From faking orgasms in her 20s to purring her way through her "delicious" 40s, Taryn gets raw about her two-year stretch of only receiving oral sex, falling deeply in love after divorce, and what it really means to let someone in — body and soul.

Don't forget to watch the full video podcast on YouTube!

In this episode, you'll learn:

• Why the sounds you make in a workout and the sounds you make in bed come from the exact same place — and how unlocking one unlocks the other

• How Taryn's two-year "oral sex only" era taught her more about receiving, boundaries, and her own body than any relationship ever did

• The one breathwork tool that works both in The Class and during sex to get out of your head and back into your body — instantly

And if you want to dive deeper into Taryn’s work after listening, we’ve got a little gift for you. Go to https://browse.theclass.digital/ and get 20% off her Digital Platform with the promo code SEXWITHEMILY.

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Chapters:

0:00 - Intro

0:20 - Meet Taran Tumi: Founder of The Class & the Embodiment Movement

1:37 - Why It's So Hard to Actually Be in Your Body

4:35 - The Connection Between Voice, Sound & Pleasure

7:41 - Dating After Divorce: What Intimacy Looks Like Now

9:00 - Why Men Struggle with Sound in the Class (And in the Bedroom)

13:28 - How the Class Actually Works: The Method Behind the Movement

17:06 - The Class Gave Her a Great Vagina (And Why That Makes Sense)

18:07 - Heartbreak, Beautiful Love & Learning to Receive

21:30 - The Orgasm Gap & Why Women Can't Receive Oral Sex

24:42 - Breathing, Co-Regulation & Getting Out of Your Head During Sex

28:51 - The Energy You Take Into Your Body: Sex, Attachment & Staying Mindful

32:09 - What Happens When You Stop Performing and Start Feeling

34:01 - Feeling More at Home in Your Body at 47 Than at 20

39:03 - Decades of Sex in a Few Words: Drunk, Formulaic, Delicious

43:45 - Dating as a Single Mom & What Her Daughters Reflect Back

47:01 - One Truth About Pleasure & One Practice to Start Tonight

48:35 - Audience Q&A: How to Ask for Oral Sex, Talking to Daughters About Sex

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What Kills the Spark (And How to Get It Back)

Tue, 07 Apr 2026 10:00:00 -0000

Whether you're trying to work up the nerve to ask out your office crush, figuring out what you actually want in bed, or navigating a decades-long relationship that's hit a sexual wall — the answer almost always comes back to the same thing: you have to be willing to go there. Say the thing. Ask the question. Have the conversation you've been putting off.

In this episode, I'm taking listener calls on everything from the first nervous steps back into dating to the hard conversations that long-term couples are too scared to start.

In this episode, you'll learn:

• Why dating is a muscle — and what to actually do when you've been out of the game so long that even asking someone out feels impossible

• What really happens to a vulva when a woman is fully aroused, why morning sex resentment is almost never just about morning sex, and what to do when your sexual awakening happens 20 years into a committed relationship

• How to talk to your kids about sex early and often in a way that builds confidence instead of shame — starting with something as simple as using the right words for their body parts

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• Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides.

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Chapters:

0:00 - Intro

2:07 - How to Ask Out an Office Crush Without Overthinking It

6:06 - Breaking Out of the Friend Zone on a First Date

9:43 - She Engorged During Orgasm — What Just Happened?

15:21 - Embracing What Sex Actually Looks and Feels Like

16:07 - Boyfriend Wants Her to Sleep with Someone Else — Does She Have To?

18:42 - Resentful About 5:30 a.m. Sex & Never Having Orgasms

22:23 - Sexual Awakening, Open Relationship Fallout & Staying or Going

26:35 - How to Raise a Sex-Positive Son Without Shame

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How Trauma Makes You Say Yes When You Mean No

Fri, 03 Apr 2026 10:00:00 -0000

Most women can name every product in their skincare routine but can't tell you the last time they actually paid attention to their vulva. Not because you don't care — because nobody ever taught you to. And that silence is costing women their pleasure, their comfort, and sometimes their health.

In this episode, I sit down with OB-GYN and women's sexual health expert Dr. Sherry Ross — author of the V-ology book series and someone I consider one of the most important voices in women's intimate health — for the most practical, shame-free conversation about vulva and vaginal health I've ever had on this show.

In this episode, you'll learn:

• Why your vulva needs the same care and attention as your face — and what most of us are getting completely wrong about cleaning, moisturizing, and maintaining vaginal health at every age

• The truth about painful sex, perimenopause, and recurring infections — what's actually causing them, why doctors keep dismissing the symptoms, and the solutions most women have never been told about

• Whether every woman can learn to squirt, what your labia is supposed to look like, and why the clitoris — the road to success — might be the most important thing you're not paying enough attention to

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Chapters:

0:00 - Intro

1:51 - Caller #1 (Jamie, 44): Partner Chatting with Sex Workers Online — Is It Cheating?

9:46 - Dr. Emily's Takeaway: Masturbation in Relationships & Staying Curious

10:30 - Caller #2 (Damian, 28): His Wife Is Grossed Out by Touching Herself

16:09 - Caller #3 (Lacy, 25): Love Bombed on a First Date, Then Blocked

23:55 - Caller #4 (Rachel, 25): Getting Back Into Sex After a Long Break

32:23 - Caller #5 (Karina): Dating After Trauma & Learning to Say No

41:00 - Dr. Emily's Final Word: Your No Can Be a Not Yet

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Everything About Your Vulva Explained

Tue, 31 Mar 2026 10:00:00 -0000

In this episode, you'll learn:

• Why your vulva needs the same care and attention as your face — and what most of us are getting completely wrong about cleaning, moisturizing, and maintaining vaginal health at every age

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• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure

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Chapters:

0:00 - Intro

1:26 - Meet Dr. Sherry Ross: OBGYN & Author of the Shiology Book Series

4:35 - Treat Your Vagina Like the Skin on Your Face

6:32 - The Visual Vaginal Library & Why Porn Is Distorting Body Image

8:08 - Can Every Woman Squirt? Dr. Sherry Weighs In

10:09 - Listener Q&A: Perimenopause Symptoms, Hormones & What to Ask Your Doctor

13:36 - Wearable Dilators: What They Are & Who Actually Needs Them

15:27 - The Real Causes of Painful Sex (Beyond Just Dryness)

18:00 - Recurring UTIs & Yeast Infections: Why They Keep Happening

19:05 - Five Quickie Questions with Dr. Sherry Ross

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What Happens to Your Body During Anal (Surgeon Explains)

Fri, 27 Mar 2026 10:00:00 -0000

If you've ever avoided anal because it hurt, felt intimidating, or just had too many unanswered questions — you haven't had the right conversation yet. Whether you're completely new to backdoor play or you've been doing it for years without the proper foundation, most people are skipping the steps that actually make it feel good. And that's not a problem. That's an education problem.

In this episode, I sit down with nationally renowned anal surgeon Dr. Evan Goldstein — founder of Bespoke Surgical and Future Method — for the most honest, shame-free breakdown of anal health and pleasure you're going to find anywhere.

In this episode, you'll learn:

• Why anal sex should never be painful, what's actually causing the pain, and the exact 4-6 week protocol that prepares your body the right way

• The truth about douching, wet wipes, and why most people are unknowingly damaging their anal microbiome before sex even starts

• How to navigate anal with hemorrhoids, skin tags, or past injuries — and what your options actually are when something goes wrong

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• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure

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Chapters:

0:00 - Intro

1:51 - Meet Dr. Evan Goldstein: Anal Surgeon & Founder of Bespoke Surgical

3:46 - Where Does the Taboo Around Anal Come From?

6:54 - The Three Pillars: How to Prepare, Play & Recover

8:07 - The 4 to 6 Week Dilating Protocol Every Beginner Needs

14:08 - Lube 101: Silicone vs. Water-Based & When to Use Each

15:55 - The Lube Shooter, Empowering the Bottom & Why You Can't Assume Your Partner Knows

16:57 - Douching: Why Water and Store-Bought Enemas Can Do More Harm Than Good

20:33 - Less Is More: Gut Health, Fiber & How to Douche the Right Way

23:27 - Aftercare: What to Do If You Tear or Have Pain

24:19 - Beginner Tips: Positions, Partner Communication & Choosing the Right Size

32:38 - Listener Q&A: Hemorrhoids, Skin Tags & Can You Still Have Anal Sex?

36:43 - Listener Q&A: Colon Surgery, Couples Starting Out & Sex Positions by State

42:14 - Why Wet Wipes Are Wrecking Your Microbiome (Anal and Vaginal)

44:45 - Five Quicky Questions with Dr. Goldstein

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The Night a 20 Year Marriage Changed Forever

Tue, 24 Mar 2026 10:00:00 -0000

If you've ever felt like everyone else is having the sex life you're supposed to have — and you're just white-knuckling your way through it, faking it, or coming up empty — you're not broken. You're just not talking about it yet. Whether it's a desire you've been too scared to voice, a fantasy you've kept to yourself for years, or a body that's never quite gotten there with a partner, the shift almost always starts the same way: someone finally said the thing out loud.

In this episode, three real listeners share the moments that changed everything for them — and none of it looks the way you'd expect.

In this episode, you'll learn:

• What finally happened when one husband spent months asking his wife for something she wasn't sure about — and why one unexpected text message changed their relationship and sex life forever

• How a 20-year marriage, a night out dancing, and a chance encounter with a stranger led to a first threesome that was hotter, messier, and more human than any fantasy

• Why so many vulva owners can't orgasm during penetration — and the exact combination of communication, touch, and mindset that finally got one woman there after years of trying

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Chapters:

0:00 - Intro

2:02 - Story #1 : A Husband's Pegging Journey After 12 Years Together

4:40 - Dr. Emily on Why Pegging Is More Common Than You Think

6:00 - The Psychology of Receiving & Breaking Sexual Shame

8:05 - Story #2: 20 Years Married & Their First Threesome

13:52 - Dr. Emily's Takeaways on Fantasies, Communication & Embodiment

14:09 - Story #3: Five Years of Not Orgasming With a Partner

17:00 - Dr. Emily on Sexual Trauma, Repetition & Being Heard

19:26 - How Jasmine Finally Got There (Breathing, Grinding & Letting Go)

21:48 - Dr. Emily on the Clitoral Network, Foreplay & Wandering Minds

23:24 - Closing: Share Your Sexy Story with Dr. Emily

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Why This Athlete Has the Best Sex of Her Life

Fri, 20 Mar 2026 10:00:00 -0000

If you've built a life that looks great from the outside but still feels like something's missing on the inside, the problem might not be your relationship — it might be how much of yourself you're actually bringing to it. Whether it's a body image spiral that shuts you down in the bedroom, a long-term dynamic that's gone quietly cold, or a fear of vulnerability that's been running the show since day one, the shift almost always starts with one honest conversation.

In this episode, volleyball legend, entrepreneur, and mother of three Gabby Reece gets real about what it actually takes to keep desire, respect, and intimacy alive after decades together — and why most of us are working harder than we need to.

In this episode, you'll learn:

• Why the masculine and feminine dynamic has been completely misunderstood — and how redefining it can transform your relationship and your sex life

• What Gabby and Laird's 48-hour rule actually looks like in practice, and whether a structure like that could work for you

• How to stop torturing yourself in the bedroom and finally get out of your head long enough to actually feel something

• The real reason long-term relationships lose their spark — and the daily habits that keep attraction from quietly dying

• How to talk to your kids about sex, body image, and peer pressure in a way that actually lands

• Why vulnerability isn't a personality trait you either have or don't — it's a skill, and it's one you can learn

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• Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides.

• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure

• Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website

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Chapters:

0:00 - Introduction

1:12 - Meet Gabby Reese: Athlete, Entrepreneur & Podcast Host

1:25 - Running a Business With Your Partner (Without Losing Your Mind)

6:30 - Defining Masculine & Feminine Energy in Relationships

11:03 - Vulnerability, Fear & What It Really Takes to Love Someone

13:34 - How Being an Athlete Impacts Your Sex Life & Libido

17:04 - Gut Health & Its Connection to Sexual & Mental Wellness

18:36 - Raising Daughters: Sex, Body Image & Social Media

26:27 - Rapid Fire Q&A: Exercise, Confidence & Sex Toys

31:36 - Least Favorite Thing About Sex & Final Thoughts

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The Talk Every Couple Needs to Have

Tue, 17 Mar 2026 10:00:00 -0000

If you've ever felt completely lost when it comes to dating, desire, or keeping the spark alive in a long-term relationship, you're not doing it wrong — you're just missing the conversation. Whether it's an office crush you can't read, a sexual awakening at 48 that's putting your 20-year relationship in crisis, or a partner whose needs feel totally out of sync with yours, the answer almost always comes back to the same thing: talking about it.

In this episode, I'm taking live calls and listener questions on some of the messiest, most real situations in sex and relationships — and giving you the clarity to actually move forward.

In this episode, you'll learn:

• How to stop overthinking and finally make a move — whether it's an office crush, a first date, or reconnecting with someone from your past

• What to do when your long-term partner's needs and yours no longer match up, including mismatched sex drives, resentment around morning sex, and the conversation most couples are too scared to have

• How to talk to your kids about sex and bodies starting at age four — without shame, without awkwardness, and in a way that actually sticks

More Dr. Emily:

• Interested in 1:1 Coaching with Emily? Go to sexwithemily.com/coaching to apply!

• Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides.

• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure

• Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website

• Let’s text: Sign up here

• Want me to slide into your email inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

Chapters:

0:00 - Introduction

0:55 - How to Tell If Someone's Into You

6:01 - Avoiding the Friend Zone on a First Date

9:38 - When You're Surprised by Your Partner's Body During Sex

16:20 - Should You Act on Your Partner's Fantasy?

18:55 - Resentment Around Morning Sex & Low Libido

22:35 - Sexually Frustrated in a Long-Term Relationship

26:47 - How to Talk to Your Kids About Sex Without Shame

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How to Have FaceTime Sex (Without the Awkwardness)

Fri, 13 Mar 2026 10:00:00 -0000

If the idea of FaceTime sex makes you want to immediately close your laptop and never speak of it again, I get it — but hear me out. Whether you're in a long-distance relationship, traveling, or just looking to try something new with a partner you see every day, virtual sex is one of the most underrated tools for keeping intimacy alive. And when you do it right, it's genuinely hot.

In this episode, I'm walking you through everything you need to know — from the practical setup to what to actually say — so it stops feeling awkward and starts feeling like real sex.

In this episode, you'll learn:

• How to actually set up, prepare, and get in the mood before the call — including the one thing you can do beforehand that builds confidence and arousal at the same time

• What to say during FaceTime sex, even if dirty talk doesn't come naturally to you — plus how to use past memories, future fantasies, and simple direction to keep things moving

• How to handle it when your partner's virtual kinks don't match yours, when sexting with someone outside your relationship starts bleeding into your real one, and how to know when a sexting session is actually over

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• Interested in 1:1 Coaching with Emily? Go to sexwithemily.com/coaching to apply!

• Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides.

• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure

• Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website

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Chapters:

0:00 - Intro

1:48 - Who Benefits from Virtual Sex (Long-Distance, Couples & Singles)

3:34 - Sending Nudes: Risks, Consent & Generational Differences

6:51 - Safety First: Platforms, Boundaries & Mutual Consent

8:01 - The Power of Foreplay Before You Go Live

10:58 - How to Pull Off FaceTime Sex: Prep, Setup & Device Tips

16:16 - Dirty Talk & What to Actually Say in the Moment

20:06 - Q&A: How to Spice Up Virtual Sex

22:07 - Q&A: Navigating Kinks You're Not Into

26:44 - Q&A: How Does a Sexting Session Actually End?

28:28 - Q&A: Is Sexting Outside My Marriage Cheating?

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The Truth About Hookup Culture Nobody Tells You

Tue, 10 Mar 2026 10:00:00 -0000

Casual sex gets a bad reputation — but most of that reputation comes from doing it wrong. When it's rushed, unspoken, or emotionally misaligned, it can leave you feeling used, confused, or chasing someone who was never on the same page. But when you approach it with self-awareness and a willingness to actually say what you want, it can be exactly what you need.

In this episode, I'm breaking down what conscious casual sex actually looks like — the different forms it can take, how to know if it's right for you right now, and the two things that separate a genuinely satisfying hookup from one that sends you into a shame spiral.

In this episode, you'll learn:

• The real difference between casual sex and hookup culture — and why "casual" doesn't have to mean disposable, careless, or emotionally disconnected

• How to know if casual sex is actually a good fit for you right now, including the one attachment pattern that almost always makes it backfire

• What to say before, during, and after a casual encounter to make sure your needs actually get met — and how to navigate hooking up within a friend group without blowing everything up

More Dr. Emily:

• Interested in 1:1 Coaching with Emily? Go to sexwithemily.com/coaching to apply!

• Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides.

• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure

• Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website

• Let’s text: Sign up here

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Chapters:

0:00 - What Makes Casual Sex Satisfying?

1:43 - Defining Casual Sex (It's Not Just Hookup Culture)

3:59 - Surprising Research: Casual Sex Trends by Generation

5:44 - The Benefits of Casual Sex

8:23 - The Downsides & Risks to Know

10:37 - How to Know If Casual Sex Is Right for You

12:20 - How to Find & Communicate With Casual Partners

17:51 - Best Casual Sex Advice From Dr. Emily's Audience

20:12 - Listener Q&A: Orgasming Through Oral Sex

23:46 - Listener Q&A: Casual Sex After a Long-Term Relationship

27:06 - Listener Q&A: Shame & Regret After a Hookup

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Why Your Fantasies Are Sexually Healthy

Fri, 06 Mar 2026 11:00:00 -0000

If you've ever felt ashamed of a sexual fantasy, I want you to know that having one isn't a sign that something is wrong with you — it's actually a sign of a healthy sex life. Fantasies can reveal what you truly crave, deepen your connection with a partner, and completely transform your relationship with your own desire. But most of us were never taught how to think about them, let alone talk about them out loud.

In this episode, I'm breaking down what your fantasies actually mean, why you don't need to act on all of them, and exactly how to bring one up with a partner without it feeling terrifying.

In this episode, you'll learn:

• What the most common fantasies reveal about your psychological needs — and why the ones that embarrass you the most are usually the most telling

• My step-by-step framework for communicating a fantasy to a partner (even if you've never done it before and have no idea where to start)

• What to do if you can't seem to fantasize at all — including why a history of trauma or a conservative upbringing can shut down your erotic imagination, and how to gently rebuild it

More Dr. Emily:

• Interested in 1:1 Coaching with Emily? Go to sexwithemily.com/coaching to apply!

• Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides.

• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure

• Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website

• Let’s text: Sign up here

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Timestamps:

0:00 - Intro

1:47 - The Most Common Fantasies (Group Sex, BDSM, Voyeurism & More)

3:50 - Listener Fantasy List: What YOU Shared on Instagram

6:12 - How to Bring Up a Fantasy to Your Partner (The Who, What, Where, When, Why Method)

8:24 - Fantasy vs. Fetish: What's the Difference?

9:09 - Caller Update: Tracy's Throuple Story

15:44 - "Is It Wrong to Fantasize About Someone Else While in a Relationship?"

17:33 - How to Find a Couple for a Threesome

20:32 - Latex Fetish & Pegging: How to Get Your Partner on Board

24:12 - How to Make the First Move Without Falling into the Friend Zone

28:26 - Foot Fetishes 101: How to Blow His Mind

31:03 - When Trauma Blocks Your Fantasy Life

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How to Have Sex While On Antidepressants

Tue, 03 Mar 2026 11:00:00 -0000

If you're on antidepressants and your sex drive has completely disappeared, I want you to know that you're not broken, and you don't have to choose between feeling mentally well and having a fulfilling sex life.

SSRIs like Lexapro, Zoloft, and Prozac are genuinely life-changing for so many people, but nobody warns you that they can tank your desire, make orgasms nearly impossible, and quietly wreck your relationship in the process.

In this episode, I'm breaking down exactly why this happens, and more importantly, what you can actually do about it. From simple timing hacks to alternative treatments that are showing real promise.

In this episode, you'll learn:

• Why SSRIs suppress desire and arousal on a hormonal level — and the one hack that can reduce side effects as soon as tonight

• How to rebuild your sex drive when both you and your partner are medicated (yes, this is more common than you think)

• The alternative treatments — TMS therapy, ketamine, and psilocybin — that are helping people get off antidepressants entirely

More Dr. Emily:

• Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse.

• Interested in 1:1 Coaching with Emily? Go to sexwithemily.com/coaching to apply!

• Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides.

• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure

• Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website

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Chapters:

0:00 - Intro

0:31 - Sarah's Story: The SSRI Sex Drive Dilemma

3:50 - Why SSRIs Kill Your Libido (The Science)

6:50 - How Common Is This? Depression & Sex Stats

14:00 - Side Effects Breakdown: Vulva vs. Penis Owners

15:50 - Practical Hacks: Timing, Alcohol & Cannabis

20:53 - Alternative Treatments: TMS, Ketamine & Psychedelics

25:31 - Both Partners on SSRIs? How to Rebuild Intimacy

31:58 - The 36 Questions Study That Reignites Closeness

33:37 - Perimenopause, Hormones & Anti-Depressants at 48

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The Beginner's Guide to Anal Pleasure

Fri, 27 Feb 2026 11:00:00 -0000

Solo anal play might be the most misunderstood sex act out there, and I’m done letting shame, myths, and bad porn narratives keep you from one of the most pleasurable things you can do for yourself. Whether you're completely new to anal or just looking for a place to finally start, this episode is your no-judgment, fully practical guide to exploring on your own terms.

From the anatomy behind why it actually feels so good (yes, for all genitals) to the exact tools, lube, and prep you need to get started safely, I break it all down with zero shame and a lot of science. Plus, I answer real listener questions about positioning, bringing it up with a partner, and the mess concerns that are quietly keeping most people from ever trying.

In this episode, you'll learn:

• Why anal stimulation can unlock full-body orgasms for every anatomy — and the nerve science that explains it

• The three biggest anal myths (and why they're completely wrong)

• Exactly how to prep, what to buy, and how to start — so your first experience is actually pleasurable

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More Dr. Emily:

• Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse.

• Interested in 1:1 Coaching with Emily? Go to sexwithemily.com/coaching to apply!

• Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides.

• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure

• Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website

• Let’s text: Sign up here

• Want me to slide into your email inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

Timestamps:

0:00 - Why Try Solo Anal Play? Benefits for All Bodies

2:20 - Prostate Pleasure 101 (Penis Owners)

3:16 - Anal Orgasms & Nerve Endings (Vulva Owners)

5:48 - Body Acceptance & Releasing Shame Around Anal

6:52 - Busting Myth #1: Does Anal Affect Your Sexuality?

8:21 - Busting Myth #2: Anal Requires Preparation, Not Spontaneity

10:41 - How to Start: Anal Training & Finger Exploration

11:51 - Toy Recommendations by Anatomy

16:06 - Lube Guide: Silicone vs. Water-Based

18:05 - Q&A: Your Anal Questions Answered

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Why This Is Halle Berry’s Sexiest Chapter Yet

Tue, 24 Feb 2026 11:00:00 -0000

After years of thinking love wasn't in the cards, Golden Globe, Emmy and Academy Award winning actor Halle Berry stopped chasing and that's exactly when everything changed. In this live conversation from Eudemonia, Halle and I get into what it really takes to have a loving connection and incredible sex in your 50s, why she thought her partner gave her herpes (spoiler: it was perimenopause), and how becoming whole on her own finally attracted the relationship she'd always wanted.

From faking multiple orgasms in her 20s to now having no problem telling her partner exactly what she needs, Halle shares why the "zero fucks to give" era might just be the sexiest time of a woman's life. She also opens up about misdiagnosis, advocating for women's health in Washington, and why she's throwing herself a "siesta" party when she officially hits menopause in March.

Don't forget to watch the full video podcast on YouTube!

In this episode, you'll learn:

• Why chasing a relationship kept Halle attracting the wrong partners—and what shifted when she finally prioritized herself

• How vaginal dryness got misdiagnosed as herpes and Sjögren's disease, and what that taught her about the gaps in women's healthcare

• The permission slip every woman needs to stop performing in bed and start asking for what actually feels good

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• Instagram

• Respin by Halle Berry

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• Website

More Dr. Emily:

• Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse.

• Interested in 1:1 Coaching with Emily? Go to sexwithemily.com/coaching to apply!

• Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides.

• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure

• Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website

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Chapters:

00:00 - Chapter Title

00:09 - Halle Berry Admits She Used to Fake Orgasms

02:12 - Love, Divorce, and Lessons After Three Marriages

04:26 - Why She Slept With Men on the First Night

07:03 - The Health Scare That Changed Her Intimacy

07:46 - Being Misdiagnosed With Herpes

09:11 - Realizing She Was in Perimenopause

10:36 - How Sex Changed in Her 50s

13:03 - Why So Many Women Fake It

14:08 - The Unrealistic Sex Standards from Porn

17:08 - Learning You Can Say No to Sex

26:32 - The Truth About Multiple Orgasms

29:31 - Why She Launched Respin

30:50 - The Menopause Healthcare Gap

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You’re Missing Out on Better Orgasms (and Sex!) – Here’s Why!

Fri, 20 Feb 2026 17:07:00 -0000

Blood flow might not sound sexy, but it’s the fuel behind satisfying sex.

In this live episode from the A4M Longevity Conference in Las Vegas, I sit down with certified nurse practitioner and ⁠Medical Director at GAINSWave, Chrislyn Chaloupka, to discuss how GAINSWave’s non-invasive regenerative therapy is reshaping sexual wellness by addressing root causes rather than simply masking symptoms.

We dive into why your body might not be responding the way it used to, from erections that fade under pressure to that frustrating gap between wanting sex and your body just not cooperating.

Chrislyn breaks down how this painless 15-minute treatment works (that I even tried myself), and we get real about everything from porn-induced desensitization to why erectile challenges can actually be your heart trying to tell you something important.

Don't forget to watch the full video podcast on YouTube!

What you'll learn:

• Why "just relax and use more lube" isn't solving your arousal problems—and what actually will

• How shockwave therapy can help with everything from weak orgasms to stress urinary incontinence (yes, the sneeze-and-pee situation)

• The psychological factors that can make even the best physical treatments fail until you address the deeper story

This Episode is sponsored by Gainswave. Go to gainswave.com and find a provider near you to regain your freedom and pleasure in the bedroom.This episode was recorded live at the A4M Longevity Conference in Las Vegas 2025.

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More Dr. Emily:

• Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse.

• Interested in 1:1 Coaching with Emily? Go to sexwithemily.com/coaching to apply!

• Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides.

• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure

• Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website

• Let’s text: Sign up here

• Want me to slide into your email inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

Timestamps:

0:00 - Intro

1:07 - What Is A4M & Why Emily Was There

3:16 - Meet Guest Chrysen Chalupka: Nurse Practitioner & Regenerative Medicine Expert

12:17 - Regenerative Medicine Explained: Treating Root Causes, Not Symptoms

13:34 - What Is Shockwave Therapy & How Does It Actually Work

15:28 - The GainsWave Treatment: What It Feels Like (Emily's Experience)

17:03 - Who Benefits Most: Women, Pain, Dryness & Orgasm Issues

23:28 - Shockwave for Men: Erections, Blood Flow & Hidden Heart Health Warnings

27:09 - The Psychology of Sexual Dysfunction: When It's Not Just Physical

28:52 - Porn, Masturbation & Desensitization: The Conversation Nobody's Having

32:57 - Beyond Sexual Health: Treating Joints, Injuries & Chronic Pain with Shockwave

35:30 - How to Find a GainsWave Provider Near You

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Your Sexting Is Boring (Here's How to Fix It)

Tue, 17 Feb 2026 11:00:00 -0000

Sexting sounds simple until you're actually staring at your phone, cursor blinking, wondering if what you're about to send is hot or just... weird. In this episode, I'm giving you the full breakdown on how to text dirty with confidence—because good sexting is really just foreplay with a keyboard.

I'm answering your questions about everything from how to build tension with something as small as three dots, to what to do when your partner wants to sext around the clock but you're just not feeling it. Plus, I'm sharing some of the hottest sexts the Sex With Emily community has ever received (you asked, you delivered, and wow).

In this episode, you'll learn:

• The "past and future" technique that makes writing a sext way less intimidating—and way more effective

• What to say when your long-distance partner's sexting pace doesn't match yours (hint: you're allowed to set your own rhythm)

• How sexting can actually help you communicate desires that feel too awkward to say face-to-face

More Dr. Emily:

• Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse.

• Interested in 1:1 Coaching with Emily? Reach out to enrollment@sexwithemily.com to learn more!

• Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides.

• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure

• Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website

• Let’s text: Sign up here

• Want me to slide into your email inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

Timestamps:

0:00 - Introduction

2:06 - The "past and future" rule for writing sexts

4:43 - How to use the three dots to build tension

5:34 - Nude photo tips: angles, lighting & confidence

7:35 - Protecting your nudes on Apple & Google

8:41 - The hottest sexts you've sent (community submissions)

10:18 - How to find your dirty talk voice

12:48 - Flirting with a coworker over Zoom & Slack

15:04 - Keeping sexts private when kids use your devices

16:08 - When your partner's masturbation habits change

19:16 - Mismatched sexting energy in long distance

22:35 - Rebuilding trust after infidelity

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Chemistry vs Compatibility: Know the Difference

Fri, 13 Feb 2026 11:00:00 -0000

Whether you're questioning who you're attracted to or wondering why someone incredible on paper leaves you feeling nothing below the waist, you're not alone. In this episode, I unpack the messy, confusing space between wanting someone and wanting to build a life with them—and why those two things don't always line up.

From a woman who's always identified as straight but can't stop fantasizing about women, to a listener who's been getting nothing but one-arm hugs after six dates, I get into the questions most people are too afraid to ask out loud. I also share what the science actually says about attraction—including why your post-gym crush might not be as real as it feels, and what your birth control could be doing to your "type."

In this episode, you'll learn:

• Why putting a label on your sexuality might be the last thing you need to do right now—and what to try instead

• The conversation that can save you months (or years) of wondering where you stand with someone who won't make a move

• What to do when you and your partner are both waiting for the other person to take control in bed

More Dr. Emily:

• Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse.

• Interested in 1:1 Coaching with Emily? Head to sexwithemily.com/coaching to apply today!

• Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides.

• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure

• Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website

• Let’s text: Sign up here

• Want me to slide into your email inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

Timestamps:

0:00 - Introduction

1:56 - The science of sexual attraction

5:01 - You can want someone without wanting to date them

6:12 - Surprising facts about who you're attracted to (and why)

9:19 - "Am I bisexual or do I just think women are hot?"

10:50 - The one-arm hug situation

15:25 - When your partner's meds killed your sex life

20:40 - 19 years married and ready to give up

25:31 - How to rekindle the spark after years together

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Listen to This If Valentine’s Day Stresses You Out

Tue, 10 Feb 2026 11:00:00 -0000

A Pressure-Free Reframe on Desire, Connection, and Sex

This isn't your typical Valentine's Day episode. I'm skipping the performance pressure and Pinterest-perfect expectations to focus on what actually matters: real connection. Drawing from thousands of your survey responses—and two decades of hearing the same struggles around desire mismatch, stress, and intimacy—I built this Valentine's guide around your actual pain points, not trending hashtags.

From why sensory play beats a five-star reservation to how sleep might be the sexiest gift you can give yourself, I break down the science and stories behind lasting desire.

In this episode, you'll learn:

• Why prioritizing rest is actually foreplay—and how just one extra hour of sleep can increase desire by 14%

• How to use your senses (not grand gestures) to create genuine intimacy and take the guesswork out of date night

• The difference between romance as performance and connection your body actually feels—and why that distinction changes everything

The 2026 Sex With Emily Valentine’s Gift Guide: https://sexwithemily.com/the-2026-sex-with-emily-valentines-gift-guide/

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More Dr. Emily:

• Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse.

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• Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides.

• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure

• Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website

• Let’s text: Sign up here

• Want me to slide into your email inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

Timestamps:

0:00 - Intro

2:03 - Why Connection Beats Romance Every Time

3:28 - Experience Gifts That Actually Build Intimacy

5:17 - Dating Advice: Be the Person You Want to Find

7:28 - Desire Doesn't Magically Appear—It's Created

9:35 - Foreplay Starts Way Before Touch

12:11 - Your Nervous System Is Your Sex Organ

16:41 - Self-Pleasure Is a Relational Skill

20:50 - When Your Libidos Don't Match

26:11 - Building Your Ideal Date Night Using Your Senses

29:52 - Why Sleep Is the Sexiest Gift You Can Give

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I Don't Know What I Want Sexually (Help)

Fri, 06 Feb 2026 11:00:00 -0000

Whether you've been with your partner for ten months or ten years, knowing what you actually want in bed is harder than it sounds—especially if you never got the chance to explore. In this episode, Dr. Emily takes listener calls about the real challenges that keep couples stuck: shame around masturbation, mismatched experience levels, and the fear that fading passion means something's broken.

From a wife who's never had a partner ask what she wants to a husband hiding his solo sessions in the basement, Emily breaks down why sexual self-discovery isn't selfish—it's essential. She also tackles what to do when your partner wants to swing but you're not sure, and why taking penetration off the table might be the fastest way to bring the heat back.

In this episode, you'll learn:

• Why being a skilled lover has nothing to do with how many people you've slept with—and everything to do with curiosity and communication

• How to take the lead in bed without becoming a completely different person (even if you've always been submissive)

• The "hell yes or hell no" rule for navigating swinging, threesomes, and any sexual experience that makes you feel vulnerable

More Dr. Emily:

• Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse.

• Interested in 1:1 Coaching with Emily? Reach out to enrollment@sexwithemily.com to learn more!

• Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides.

• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure

• Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website

• Let’s text: Sign up here

• Want me to slide into your email inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

Timestamps:

0:00 - Introduction

1:33 - McKenzie: Husband complains about sex life to others

4:36 - Why partner count doesn't determine sexual skill

6:14 - How to discover what you actually want in bed

9:37 - Experience is not a numbers game

10:43 - Dan: Feeling guilty about masturbating while married

13:06 - Why masturbation shame hurts relationships

15:41 - Sarah: Giving her husband a prostate orgasm for his 50th

19:04 - Switching from submissive to dominant in bed

23:02 - Alex: Girlfriend wants to try soft swapping

25:17 - Hannah: Taking sex off the table to reconnect

30:03 - Building intimacy without rushing to penetration

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"Shame Around Masturbation Ruins Your Sex Life"

Tue, 03 Feb 2026 11:00:00 -0000

Solo sex is one of the most powerful tools you have for better partnered sex — and most people are barely scratching the surface. In this throwback episode, Dr. Emily makes the case for why your relationship with yourself might be the most important sexual relationship you'll ever have.

From finding out what actually turns you on to using masturbation as a way to manage stress and boost confidence, Emily covers everything you need to know about flying solo — including how to bring toys into the mix without awkwardness. She also takes listener calls about navigating different libidos in relationships, dealing with performance anxiety, and figuring out how to ask for what you want in bed.

In this episode, you'll learn:

• Why masturbation is essential for sexual self-awareness — not just a fallback when you're single

• How to explore fantasies and toys on your own so you can communicate better with partners

• The connection between solo pleasure, stress relief, and overall sexual confidence

More Dr. Emily:

• Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse.

• Interested in 1:1 Coaching with Emily? Reach out to enrollment@sexwithemily.com to learn more!

• Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides.

• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure

• Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website

• Let’s text: Sign up here

• Want me to slide into your email inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

Timestamps:

0:00 - Introduction

1:30 - Why Masturbation Matters (Even If You Have a Partner)

3:05 - The G-Spot Myth: Why It's Really a "G-Area"

4:50 - First-Time Masturbation Guide for Women

8:17 - Choosing Your First Vibrator: What to Know

10:54 - Can You "Retrain" Your Body to Orgasm Without a Vibrator?

14:00 - Edging Explained: How to Intensify Your Orgasms

17:38 - Overcoming Shame and Religious Guilt Around Self-Pleasure

24:01 - The We-Vibe Melt: Why It's a Game-Changer

30:40 - Rapid Fire: Mismatched Libidos, BDSM, and Confidence Tips

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Why Does Sex Stop After Marriage?

Fri, 30 Jan 2026 11:00:00 -0000

When the wedding’s over and real life kicks in, it’s so common for sex to shift — sometimes fast. In this throwback live show, Dr. Emily tackles the myth that marriage equals the end of your sex life, and breaks down how to bring back that “honeymoon energy” without forcing it or turning intimacy into another chore.

Emily shares a simple framework for staying connected long-term (including her idea of “sex vows”), then takes calls from listeners navigating a sudden post-marriage libido drop and the emotional whiplash of being single while everyone around you is getting engaged.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• Why desire often drops after commitment — and how to address it before resentment builds

• Practical ways to revive novelty and reconnect (including “sex vows” you can actually use)

• How to handle the pressure and loneliness when it feels like everyone else is getting married

More Dr. Emily:

• Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse.

• Interested in 1:1 Coaching with Emily? Reach out to enrollment@sexwithemily.com to learn more!

• Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides.

• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure

• Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website

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Timestamps:

0:00 - Introduction

3:26 - Current Trends in Sex and Relationships

5:25 - Essential Conversations Before Marriage

7:40 - Writing Your Sex Vows

9:49 - Planning Your Pleasure: Yes/No/Maybe List

12:39 - Recreating Honeymoon Sex Energy

16:00 - Q&A: When His Sex Drive Plummets After Marriage

22:30 - Q&A: Exploring Bisexuality in a Committed Relationship

25:24 - Q&A: Building a Sex Life You've Never Had

30:56 - Q&A: When Your Partner Doesn't Want Marriage

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LIVE With Emily - What Nobody Taught You About Dirty Talk

Tue, 27 Jan 2026 11:00:00 -0000

You want to talk to your partner about sex. You really do. But every time you try, your throat closes, your chest tightens, and suddenly it feels easier to just… not. You're not bad at communication — your brain is literally wired to treat these conversations like threats. In this live show, I break down exactly why sex talks trigger fight-or-flight, how shame keeps us mute in the bedroom, and what to do when you've been together for years and never actually talked about what you want.

This episode was recorded LIVE across my social platforms at @sexwithemily — part of a new evolution of the show as we head into my 21st year of the podcast. After over two decades of talking about sex, I've learned that real, unscripted conversations create the deepest breakthroughs.

You'll hear real questions, real interaction, and the energy of being LIVE together as we explore how to build a sex life that actually feels good, without shame or judgment. Tune in most Tuesdays and Thursdays at 5 PM PST on Instagram, TikTok, YouTube, Facebook, and Twitch all @sexwithemily.

In this episode, you'll learn:

• Why your brain treats sex conversations like danger (and how to override it)

• How to find your sexual voice and stop cringing when you try to speak up

• A husband's honest question about rekindling intimacy after kids

You can now watch the full video podcast on YouTube!

More Dr. Emily:

• Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse.

• Interested in 1:1 Coaching with Emily? Reach out to enrollment@sexwithemily.com to learn more!

• Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides.

• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure

• Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website

• Let’s text: Sign up here

• Want me to slide into your email inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

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Timestamps:

00:00 - Intro

06:45 - The Clitoris Has 12,000 Nerve Endings (Full Anatomy Explained)

13:20 - How to Talk Dirty Without Feeling Cringey

18:15 - Mutual Masturbation: Why It's a Top Sex Tip

22:40 - Squirting: The Truth vs The Pressure

28:10 - Breaking Down Shame & Performance Anxiety

35:50 - Sex After Kids: Rekindling Intimacy (Live Caller Question)

38:25 - Medications Killing Your Libido (What to Do About It)

40:15 - Finding the Right Sex Therapist (Somatic vs Talk Therapy)

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LIVE With Emily - Stress Is Stealing Your Orgasms

Fri, 23 Jan 2026 08:00:00 -0000

You're in love. You're committed. So why does sex feel like it dropped off the priority list somewhere between laundry and meal prep? You're not broken — you're just busy, stressed, and maybe a little stuck in your head. In this live show, Dr. Emily answers your unfiltered questions about what happens when desire fades, how to talk to a partner who clams up about what they want, and why the "how often should we be having sex?" question is missing the point entirely.

This episode was recorded live across my social platforms at @sexwithemily — part of a new evolution of the show as we head into my 21st year of the podcast. After over two decades of talking about sex, I've learned that real, unscripted conversations create the deepest breakthroughs. You'll hear real questions, real interaction, and the energy of being live together as we explore how to build a sex life that actually feels good — without shame or judgment. Tune in most Tuesdays and Thursdays at 5 PM PST on Instagram, TikTok, YouTube, Facebook, and Twitch all @sexwithemily.

You can now watch the full video podcast on YouTube!

In this episode, you'll learn:

• Why "how often should we have sex?" is the wrong question — and what to ask instead

• The three pleasure thieves silently wrecking your libido

• How to help a shy partner open up about their desires (without making it awkward)

More Dr. Emily:

• Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse.

• Interested in 1:1 Coaching with Emily? Reach out to enrollment@sexwithemily.com to learn more!

• Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides.

• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure

• Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website

• Let’s text: Sign up here

• Want me to slide into your email inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

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Timestamps:

0:00 - Introduction

3:04 - How often should couples have sex?

5:57 - Getting your partner to communicate about sex

8:39 - Do most couples talk about sex?

10:57 - Why your sex life shouldn't stay the same for decades

15:34 - Navigating intimacy with chronic illness

18:44 - Myth: Good sex should be spontaneous

21:06 - Myth: Orgasms are the ultimate goal

23:16 - Sex during pregnancy when your partner pulls back

26:57 - Dealing with early ejaculation

30:28 - Helping a stressed partner get in the mood

33:56 - Top sex toy recommendations

34:28 - Myth: Lube is only for older women

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LIVE With Emily - Sex Became a Chore for Me Too

Tue, 20 Jan 2026 11:00:00 -0000

Let's be honest — for all the progress we've made, most of us still don't know how to talk about sex. We can talk about work, money, kids, literally everything else. But ask your partner what actually turns them on? Cue panic.

In this live show, Dr. Emily opens up the gates for your questions and wow, you did not hold back. She tackles why sex stops feeling fun and starts feeling like a chore, what's really going on when desire disappears, and how to flip the script from obligation back to connection.

This episode was recorded live across my social platforms at @sexwithemily — a new evolution of the show as we head into my 21st year of the podcast.

After over two decades of talking about sex, I’ve learned that real, unscripted conversations create the deepest breakthroughs. You’ll hear real questions, real interaction, and the energy of being live together as we explore how to build a sex life that actually feels good — without shame or judgment. Don't forget to tune in on most Tuesdays and Thursdays at 5 PM PST on Instagram, Tiktok, YouTube, Facebook, and Twitch all @sexwithemily.

In this episode, you'll learn:

• Why sex becomes "just another item on the to-do list" and what that really means

• The difference between duty and desire — and why confusing them breeds resentment

• How to rebrand sex as connection instead of obligation

More Dr. Emily:

• Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse.

• Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides.

• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure

• Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website

• Let’s text: Sign up here

• Want me to slide into your email inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

This episode is sponsored by…

Bellesa

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Timestamps:

0:00 - Introduction

2:36 - "Pick Up Laundry, Do Dishes, Have Sex... Check"

6:07 - When You're Not in the Mood to Give

12:25 - How to Ask Someone Out (Live Caller)

14:26 - Can You Make Her Squirt? Techniques That Actually Work

22:22 - How to Get Your Partner to Want Intimacy Again

30:53 - Finding a Third: Dos and Don'ts for Couples

36:08 - The Power of Edging

40:38 - "Desire Needs Space, Not Stress"

47:29 - How to Make Sex Feel Like Connection Again

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Your Body Is Craving Your Attention

Fri, 16 Jan 2026 11:00:00 -0000

EPISODE SUMMARY

Dolly Josette is a somatic sexologist and intimacy coach known as "The Pleasure Muse" who helps people reconnect with their bodies to unlock deeper pleasure. In this episode, Dolly returns to the show to explore why so many of us feel disconnected from our own sensations, where trauma actually lives in the body, and how a few minutes of daily practice can transform your relationship with pleasure. She and Dr. Emily get into embodiment work, why your genitals might be holding onto more than you realize, and what it really means to stop abandoning yourself for others.

In this episode, you'll learn:

• What somatic sexology actually is and how it differs from talk therapy

• Why your body stores emotions and trauma in your fascia and genitals

• The simple exercise that can help you release blocks you didn't know you had

• Why you can't figure out what you want sexually until your body feels safe

• How to do a "vulva hug" and why your genitals might be craving your attention

• The real reason pleasure fades after the honeymoon phase

• Why embodiment isn't another thing on your to-do list — it's how you live

• How long it actually takes to build an embodiment practice that sticks

• The one song a day practice that can pull you back into your body

• What your body is trying to tell you when you feel frozen or shut down

• How to access your partner's prostate for maximum pleasure

More Dr. Emily:

• Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse.

• Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides.

• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure

• Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website

• Let’s text: Sign up here

• Want me to slide into your email inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

This episode is sponsored by…

Bellesa

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Timestamps:

0:00 - Introduction

2:12 - What is Somatic Sexology and Body Work?

5:02 - Why You Can't Feel Pleasure Until Your Body Feels Safe

9:03 - How Trauma Gets Stored in Your Genitals

14:54 - The Power of Slowing Down During Intimate Touch

20:51 - Hungry Hungry Vagina: HRT and Hormonal Changes

27:02 - Finding Your Pleasure Spot at the Vaginal Entrance

29:36 - How to Stimulate the Prostate for Maximum Pleasure

36:40 - Why You Need More Non-Sexual Touch in Your Life

41:03 - Your Body is Craving Your Attention

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Liberated Love vs Codependent Love

Tue, 13 Jan 2026 11:00:00 -0000

Mark Groves is a human connection specialist who transformed his own painful relationship patterns into wisdom he now shares with millions. In this episode, Mark opens up about the Thanksgiving dinner betrayal that shut him down at 19, the years he spent as an emotionally unavailable guy, and the breakthrough that finally let him receive love. In this episode we dig into codependency, why chemistry fades, and what it actually takes to build a relationship where you can be fully yourself.

In this episode, you'll learn:

• Why a failed one-night stand taught Mark more about himself than years of relationships

• The real definition of codependency and why it's not just about addiction

• How to identify your "Thanksgiving dinner moment" that shaped how you love

• Why the space between partners disappears and chemistry dies in long-term relationships

• The question that reveals if you're being codependent in the bedroom

• What "liberated love" looks like and why truth-telling is the foundation

• How Mark and his wife broke up, had a closing ceremony, and came back stronger

• Why your capacity to love equals your capacity to lose

• The three things you can do now to get on the path toward the love you want

• How parenthood changes intimacy and why the six-week clearance is misleading

• What to do when you can't stop fantasizing about past flings while in a relationship

More Dr. Emily:

• Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse.

• Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides.

• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure

• Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website

• Let’s text: Sign up here

• Want me to slide into your email inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

This episode is sponsored by…

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Timestamps:

0:00 - Introduction

3:13 - How Mark Started Sharing Vulnerable Relationship Advice

8:31 - The Thanksgiving Dinner That Changed Everything

16:00 - Finding Your "Moment" That Shapes How You Love

20:13 - What Is Codependency Really?

30:04 - Signs You're in a Codependent Pattern

33:51 - Why Couples Stop Having Sex (It's Not What You Think)

39:17 - How Parenthood Changes Your Sex Life

51:01 - Use Your Relationship to Become Everything

54:53 - Listener Question: Can't Stop Thinking About Past Flings

1:02:55 - Quickie Q&A

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Menopause Myths Your Doctor Still Believes

Fri, 09 Jan 2026 11:00:00 -0000

EPISODE SUMMARY

Dr. Emily visits the office of urogynecologist Dr. Patricia Wallace to explore the hidden world of pelvic health—and why it matters so much for sexual pleasure. From the muscles that control your orgasms to the hormones that fuel desire, Dr. Wallace breaks down what's actually happening in your body and what you can do about it at every age.

In this episode, you'll learn:

• What your pelvic floor actually is and why 80% of women can't properly contract it

• The connection between pelvic floor strength and orgasm intensity

• How to do a kegel correctly using yogic breathing techniques

• Why recurrent UTIs happen and the supplement hack that prevents them

• The truth about hormone therapy and why that 20-year-old study shouldn't scare you

• What "optimal" hormone levels mean versus just "normal" lab ranges

• How testosterone affects women's sex drive—and when supplementation helps

• The real timeline for postpartum sexual recovery (hint: it's not 6 weeks)

• Why the Emsella chair delivers 12,000 pelvic floor contractions in one session

• How core strength affects everything from incontinence to back pain to sexual confidence

More Dr. Emily:

• Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse.

• Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides.

• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure

• Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website

• Let’s text: Sign up here

• Want me to slide into your email inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

This episode is sponsored by…

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Timestamps:

0:00 - Intro

1:53 - What Is Your Pelvic Floor & Why Should You Care

4:41 - The UTI Hack Most Women Don't Know About

6:52 - First Steps When You Suspect Perimenopause

9:01 - The 80% Orgasm Problem (And How to Fix It)

10:20 - How to Do a Kegel Correctly (Live Tutorial)

14:04 - What the Emsella Chair Actually Does to Your Body

17:06 - How Hormone Replacement Changes Sexual Function

20:05 - Pregnant Sex & Postpartum Recovery Truth

24:00 - Protecting Your Pelvic Floor Before Problems Start

29:01 - Why Core Strength Makes You Sexy From the Inside Out

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How to Know When Someone Is Actually Available

Tue, 06 Jan 2026 08:00:00 -0000

EPISODE SUMMARY

Dr. Emily sits down with relationship expert Matthew Hussey to decode modern dating, from confusing chemistry with compatibility to knowing when someone's actually emotionally available. Matthew breaks down why we keep choosing the wrong people, how to set boundaries without sabotaging connection, and the texting behaviors that reveal true interest levels.

In this episode, you'll learn:

• The difference between chemistry and compatibility—and why excitement often masks anxiety

• How to identify emotional availability in the first few dates

• Why having standards matters more than having a "type"

• The art of expressing needs without coming across as needy

• Red flags in texting culture and what silence really means

• How to break patterns of settling and choose better partners

• Why vulnerability creates attraction (and how to practice it)

• When to walk away from situationships that aren't serving you

• How self-worth directly impacts who you attract and keep

• Strategies for building sexual tension while deepening emotional intimacy

More Dr. Emily:

• Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse.

• Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides.

• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure

• Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website

• Let’s text: Sign up here

• Want me to slide into your email inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

This episode is sponsored by…

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Timestamps:

0:00 - Intro: The Dolphin Metaphor - Understanding Our Conditioning

1:36 - Meet Matthew Hussey: Dating Expert & Confidence Coach

6:48 - Matthew's Journey with Chronic Pain & The Concept of "Happy Enough"

13:18 - Matthew's Evolution & The Pain of Helping Others

18:26 - Lighting the Fuse: Detonating Your Own Life Before It Implodes

25:17 - Anxiety in Relationships & The Wall We Keep Crashing Into

32:45 - The Dolphin Tank: How Our Past Shapes Our Reality

37:41 - Core Confidence: You Don't Need to Be Special to Love Yourself

42:15 - Giving Yourself Closure & Modeling Healthy Standards

48:26 - Five Quickie Questions & Outro

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How to Actually Get Your Needs Met in Bed

Fri, 02 Jan 2026 11:00:00 -0000

EPISODE SUMMARY

Dr. Emily shares three listener success stories that prove honest communication transforms sex lives. Graham's pegging journey opened up conversations he and his wife never had before. Calvin and his wife of 20+ years had their first spontaneous threesome after a night of dancing. And Jasmine finally experienced her first penetrative orgasm after years of frustration—by standing up for her needs and incorporating breathing techniques.

In this episode, you'll learn:

• Why scheduling difficult sexual conversations (outside the bedroom) leads to breakthrough moments

• How embodiment during sex—staying present with both sensations AND emotions—deepens connection

• The grinding technique that helps many vulva owners orgasm during penetration

• Why breathing and edging practices intensify orgasms

• How to guide your mind back when it wanders during sex

If you have a sexy story to share, send it to feedback@sexwithemily.com with "sexy story" in the subject line.

More Dr. Emily:

• Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse.

• Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides.

• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure

• Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website

• Let’s text: Sign up here

• Want me to slide into your email inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

This episode is sponsored by…

Bellesa

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Timestamps:

0:00 - Intro

1:36 - Graham's Pegging Success: How Communication Transformed Their Marriage

4:18 - Why Pegging Is Vulnerable for Men & Breaking Masculine Taboos

7:38 - Calvin's First Threesome: From Dance Floor to Bedroom

11:48 - The Importance of Being Embodied During Sex

13:44 - Jasmine's Journey: Overcoming Abuse to Achieve Her First Penetrative Orgasm

17:04 - Standing Up for Your Sexual Needs in Relationships

20:00 - The Grinding Technique & Clitoral Stimulation During Penetration

21:44 - Using Breath & Fantasy to Stay Present During Sex

23:37 - Wrap-Up & How to Share Your Story

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We Have Sex Every 48 Hours (Here's Why)

Tue, 30 Dec 2025 11:00:00 -0000

EPISODE SUMMARY

In this episode, Emily sits down with volleyball legend Gabby Reece—professional athlete, podcast host of The Gabby Reece Show, entrepreneur—to talk about the unsexy truths that actually keep long-term relationships alive. Gabby pulls no punches as she reveals her controversial "48-hour sex rule," and how treating sex like going to the gym (just get your shoes on and show up) has sustained their passion for decades.

This conversation dismantles the romanticized version of marriage and replaces it with raw honesty about vulnerability, stoicism almost ending her relationship, and why "misogynists are bitches" but real masculinity is powerful, protective, and tender. Gabby shares her four rules for keeping an alpha male happy (hint: food and sex made the list), the farmer versus flower dynamic that prevents resentment, and why her self-care hierarchy puts herself first, her relationship second, and her kids third—unapologetically.

In this episode, you'll learn:

• The 48-hour sex rule works—scheduling sex isn't sexy, but it's sexier than one partner begging and the other constantly rejecting; Gabby and Laird have sex every other day, and she admits she strategically loads her calendar the day after because she "doesn't have to answer to anyone"

• Clear the decks daily to avoid divorce—Laird confronts everything immediately (every look, tone, word) so resentments never build; Gabby credits this practice with saving their marriage after years of her being too stoic nearly ended it

• Understanding the farmer vs. flower dynamic—sometimes one partner is in the spotlight (the flower) while the other supports (the farmer), and the roles switch; when one person is always the farmer, resentment builds and relationships suffer

• Real masculinity isn't misogyny—true masculine strength includes compassion, protection, and tenderness; we've trained men to feel bad about their masculinity, and bringing kindness (not anger) while setting boundaries helps everyone thrive

• You have the goods—ask for what you want—Gabby's advice to young women about sex is radical: stop performing, start demanding your pleasure, and remember that good sex is about mutual understanding, not just one person's orgasm

More Dr. Emily:

• Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse.

• Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides.

• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure

• Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website

• Let’s text: Sign up here

• Want me to slide into your email inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

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Timestamps:

0:00 - Intro

1:21 - The Challenge of Bringing More Play Into Life

7:06 - 28 Years Together: Gabby's 3 Keys to a Strong Marriage

9:03 - Clear the Decks: Daily Communication That Saves Relationships

14:19 - Farmer vs Flower: Understanding Relationship Roles

22:48 - Why Self-Care Isn't Selfish (Especially for Moms)

28:34 - Lifting Weights: The Real Anti-Aging Secret for Women

29:04 - The 4 Rules for Keeping Your Partner Happy

39:18 - The 48-Hour Rule

42:26 - When You're Doing It for Them (And Why That's OK)

50:01 - Biggest Turn-Ons, Turn-Offs & Sex Advice for Young Women

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You're Not Too Much, You Need the Right Match

Fri, 26 Dec 2025 11:00:00 -0000

EPISODE SUMMARY

In this episode, Emily sits down with Todd Baratz—sex therapist and author of How to Love Someone Without Losing Your Mind—to challenge everything you think you know about relationships. Todd dismantles the fairy tale myth of "the one" and reveals why our obsession with diagnosing every difficult person as a narcissist is keeping us stuck. From exploring how oral sex can make or break your relationship to understanding why some people view emotional depth as "too much," this conversation reframes love as messy, complicated, and beautifully imperfect. T

In this episode, you'll learn:

• Your relationship "shoulds" are sabotaging you—every rule you've internalized about what partners should text, do, or provide creates unnecessary conflict and anxiety; letting go of these expectations (especially "the one" who fulfills all your needs) is the first step to realistic, sustainable love

• Not everyone is a narcissist—our tendency to diagnose and label ourselves and others amplifies anxiety rather than solving problems; sometimes people are just incompatible, not disordered, and that's okay

• You're not "too much," you just need the right match—if someone views your emotional depth and authenticity as intensity, it's because they lack the capacity to handle genuine connection; finding someone who can meet you where you need to be met is about compatibility, not fixing yourself

• Sex is really about connection—when you're craving sex, you're often actually craving intimacy, vulnerability, touch, and being truly seen; understanding this deeper need helps address desire discrepancies and creates more fulfilling sexual experiences

• Dating people who can't connect emotionally—approach them with compassion and curiosity, try to create space for vulnerability, but if they can't or won't open up, accept that they might not be your person and walk away without trying to force everyone to do the work you're doing

More Dr. Emily:

• Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse.

• Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides.

• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure

• Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website

• Let’s text: Sign up here

• Want me to slide into your email inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

This episode is sponsored by…

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Timestamps:

0:00 - Introduction

2:03 - Letting Go of "The One" & Outdated Relationship Rules

5:22 - How We "Should" All Over Our Relationships

7:26 - Understanding Your Intergenerational Trauma Story

10:23 - Growth Happens in Relationships, Not Just Self-Love

13:12 - Why We Keep Dating the Same Type of Person

17:16 - How to Connect With Men Who Struggle to Connect

22:38 - Listener Questions: Situationships & Communication

5:01 - Oral Sex Should Be Reciprocated (Period)

29:04 - The Truth About Mismatched Desire in Long-Term Relationships

32:46 - Five Quickie Questions with Todd Barrets

34:04 - Turnons: Emily & Erica Discuss Childhood Patterns

47:02 - The Connection Between Mental Health and Sex

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You Keep Dating the Same Person Over and Over

Tue, 23 Dec 2025 11:00:00 -0000

EPISODE SUMMARY

In this episode, Emily sits down with Amy Chan—founder of Renew Breakup Bootcamp and author of Breakup Bootcamp: The Science of Rewiring Your Heart—to explore why we keep choosing the wrong partners and how to break the cycle. Amy shares her revolutionary 12-person dating experiment that forces clients to date outside their type, revealing how our "type" isn't about physical traits but the emotional patterns we unconsciously repeat. From spotting unavailable partners to understanding the difference between passionate love and companionate love, this conversation reframes dating as a discovery process rather than a high-stakes audition. Amy breaks down why great daters often struggle in relationships, how to recognize your recurring emotional patterns, and why your best friend you want to make out with might be the person you've been overlooking all along.

In this episode, you'll learn:

• Your "type" is an emotional pattern, not a physical one—by identifying the five main emotions from your last three relationships, you can spot the cycle you keep repeating (like anxiety from chasing unavailable partners) and consciously choose different experiences

• The dating experiment that rewires your brain—dating 12 people outside your type without getting into a relationship removes the pressure of finding "the one" and trains you to be present, recognize how you actually feel with someone, and notice who genuinely treats you well

• Why passionate love fades and what replaces it—the neurochemical high of early romance naturally transitions to companionate love, and understanding this shift helps you stop mistaking familiarity for incompatibility and start building the deeper intimacy that sustains long-term relationships

• The dating funnel approach—treating early dates like lead generation (just asking "Am I having fun? Do I want to see them again?") instead of evaluating someone as your future life partner eliminates job-interview energy and lets authentic connection emerge naturally

• Stop performing, start choosing—moving from "waiting to be chosen" to actively selecting partners based on how they make you feel (not just how they look on paper) puts you in control of your romantic life and attracts people who appreciate your authentic self

More Dr. Emily:

• Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse.

• Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides.

• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure

• Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website

• Let’s text: Sign up here

• Want me to slide into your email inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

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This Is What We’re Gifting for Better Sex

Fri, 19 Dec 2025 11:00:00 -0000

Emily breaks down her 2025 Holiday Gift Guide through the lens of the five pillars of sexual intelligence—embodiment, health, self-knowledge, self-acceptance, and collaboration.

She explores how shifting from performance to presence can transform your relationship with pleasure, offering curated tools and practices that help you slow down, feel your body, and understand yourself as a sexual being.

This episode is for anyone ready to move beyond quick fixes and embrace a more holistic approach to sexuality, turning intimacy into something that nourishes your whole system.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• The five pillars of Sex IQ create a holistic framework for understanding your sexuality and taking responsibility for your pleasure—moving you from performance to presence

• Embodiment practices like breathwork and sonic wave toys help you overcome the mind-body disconnect during sex by bringing you back to physical sensations instead of staying in your head worrying about how you look or what you need to do

• Self-acceptance isn't about waiting for your body to change—it's about recognizing and reframing the pleasure thieves (stress, trauma, and shame) that tell you you're unworthy, and actively replacing negative thought patterns with affirmations that honor your body right now

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2:36 - Pillar 1: Embodiment

10:23 - Pillar 2: Health

17:52 - Pillar 3: Collaboration

24:44 - Pillar 4: Self-Knowledge

29:39 - Pillar 5: Self-Acceptance

34:21 - Wrap-Up

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People Pleasing Killed Your Sexual Pleasure

Tue, 16 Dec 2025 11:00:00 -0000

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In this Sex with Emily episode, Dr. Emily sits down with Chelsey Goodan—the teenage girl whisperer whose new book "Underestimated" is revealing what happens when we actually start listening to the demographic we've been underestimating for generations.

The surprisingly simple question that gets teenage girls to open up after years of shutting everyone out—and why the adults in their lives have been approaching these conversations completely backwards (hint: it's the same reason your last "how was school today?" got a one-word answer).

Why teenage girls can spot your hidden agenda from a mile away, and the radical honesty approach that creates trust faster than any parenting book you've read—even when you think you're being subtle with your "protective" white lies.

The age that girls start dieting that will make you rethink every compliment you've ever given a child—and the unconscious behavior women are modeling that's sabotaging the next generation's relationship with their bodies before they even hit puberty.

That thing you keep saying is "fine" when it's absolutely not fine, and how the people-pleasing patterns you picked up as a teenage girl are still running your sex life, your relationships, and every dinner party you've ever thrown.

The connection between your relationship to sex and your actual power that nobody talks about—and why embracing your "weird" might be the permission slip you need to stop performing and start feeling.

Plus: why giving girls agency doesn't mean abandoning your role as a parent, and the one body-related comment you should never make to a teenage girl, even when you think you're being helpful.

Timestamps:

0:00 - Intro

2:24 - The Power of Radical Honesty in Building Trust

7:00 - Why Perfectionism and People-Pleasing Start in Teenage Years

11:44 - Sexuality, Consent, and the Double Standards Girls Face

18:14 - Slut-Shaming: How It Wounds Girls and What We Can Do

21:04 - Teaching Girls Their Anatomy: Why "Vulva" Matters

24:20 - Breaking the Cycle of Shame Around Sex

29:04 - Gen Z Friendships: Girls Supporting Girls Instead of Competing

32:35 - Healing Your Inner Teenage Girl as an Adult

38:43 - The Performance Trap: Why Girls Can't Get Out of Their Heads During Sex

43:09 - Overcoming Sexual Anxiety: Practical Advice for Women

46:24 - Body Image Wounds: How Moms' Self-Criticism Impacts Daughters

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Dating Apps Are Making You Hate Dating

Fri, 12 Dec 2025 11:00:00 -0000

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Episode Description

Jordana Abraham and Jared Freed from the U Up? podcast join Dr. Emily for a lively conversation about navigating modern dating without losing your mind. They kick things off with dating horror stories—including Jared's epic backwards fall off a patio chair that took out a sandwich board and a heat lamp.

The conversation dives into why so many dates feel like obligations instead of opportunities. Jared and Jordana explain the "sure, I'll go" trap—how settling for matches that are just "fine" leads to boring dates and dating burnout. They emphasize trusting your gut and only going on dates when you're genuinely excited, not just because you feel like you should.

They tackle dating app fatigue, discussing why some people thrive on apps while others find them soul-crushing. The key insight: it's about how you use them. Treating apps like a binge-worthy Netflix show instead of something you check in on intentionally (like one hour a week) kills the fun and makes everything feel transactional.

The episode includes a listener question about a toxic long-distance relationship where a 22-year-old woman keeps breaking up and getting back together with an insecure boyfriend who constantly asks "are you still into me?" Jared and Jordana break down why this is a mismatch built on drama rather than trust, why her friends are right to be concerned, and how to choose which friends to actually listen to when it comes to relationship advice.

They wrap with quickfire questions about turn-ons, turn-offs, what makes good sex, and the number one thing everyone should know: just because the sex is good doesn't mean the relationship is good.

Timestamps:

0:00 - Intro

4:32 - Why "Sure, I'll Go" is Ruining Your Dating Life

10:09 - Dating App Profile Tips That Actually Work

12:43 - The Truth About Casual Sex on Dating Apps

18:13 - Are You Too Picky or Protecting Your Peace?

20:15 - The Ick Factor: When Small Things End Relationships

24:24 - Friend Zone Reality Check: When They're Not Into You

30:20 - Age Gap Sex Anxiety: Why He's Holding Back

33:24 - Toxic Long-Distance Relationship Red Flags

37:40 - Five Quickies: Turn-Ons, Turn-Offs & Sex Advice

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The One Question That Ends All Relationship Confusion

Tue, 09 Dec 2025 11:00:00 -0000

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Episode Description

In this Sex with Emily episode, Dr. Emily sits down with Liz Moody—bestselling author, podcast host, and the woman who turned her life around from severe agoraphobia to help others level up their lives with science-backed strategies.

The morbid exercise that Liz swears by for making better decisions in bed and everywhere else—and why thinking about your 85-year-old self might be the permission slip you need to stop worrying about how your thighs look in those pants.

Why "friends with benefits" might mean something completely different to you than it does to your partner—and the crucial conversation most couples skip before slapping labels on their relationship (spoiler: this applies to marriage too).

The biggest myth about what makes someone "good" in bed, and why Liz believes your sex life can transform no matter where you're starting from.

That one body part you've never considered an erogenous zone—until Liz reveals hers and suddenly you're rethinking everything you thought you knew about turn-ons.

The real reason habits fail (hint: it's not about willpower)—and why letting go of routines that once served you doesn't make you a failure, it makes you self-aware.

Plus: the conversation starter deck that's saving marriages by getting couples on the same page about money, desire, childhood trauma, and the question "how much do you need to feel safe?" that revealed way more than Liz expected.

Timestamps:

0:00 - Introduction

2:00 - The 100 Ways Framework: Spring Cleaning Your Life

5:00 - Think About Your Death: The Power of Zoom-Out Perspective

8:07 - Micro Workouts: Movement for Mental Health, Not Body Size

9:55 - Rewire Your Brain for Happiness: The 5-Second Joy Practice

16:00 - Be the CEO of Your Household: Weekly Relationship Meetings

18:30 - Sex Starts When You Wake Up: Micro Intimacy Throughout the Day

21:47 - Why Communication Makes Sex Better After 15 Years

28:12 - Let Your Partner Surprise You: Breaking Free from Old Resentments

30:00 - Your Personal Bill of Rights (Including Sexual Rights)

32:05 - The Orgasm Gap: Why 20 Minutes is Normal

36:24 - Body Confidence: Your Body is for Living, Not Looking

42:01 - Boundaries as Energy Protection (Not Just Saying "No")

49:51 - Friends with Benefits to Dating: Defining Your Relationship

56:28 - Lightning Round: Biggest Turn-Ons & Sex Advice

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When Sexual Preferences Become Deal Breakers

Fri, 05 Dec 2025 11:00:00 -0000

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In this Sex with Emily episode, Dr. Emily and producer Erica tackle your trickiest relationship and sex questions—and some of these situations are messier than you think.

The wife having sex 5+ times a week who's being pressured to set midnight alarms so her husband can wake her up for more—why this isn't about frequency at all, and the real need he's actually trying to fill.

That guy who insists oral sex should only happen "on special occasions" because it gets "taken for granted": what this scarcity mindset reveals about his past relationships, his skill anxiety, or his actual preference—and whether this is a dealbreaker you're discovering early.

The biological reason men wake up ready for sex in the middle of the night while their partners are deep asleep—and why disrupting your sleep hygiene to feel "desired" is a Band-Aid on a much deeper issue.

When your partner believes doing something too often creates expectations they can't meet: the philosophy problem that shows up in bed and everywhere else, and what "taken for granted" really means about their view on compliments, effort, and intimacy.

Why oral sex as foreplay is the norm, not the exception—and how to navigate a partner who sees it as the main event that loses its magic with repetition.

Plus: the conversation framework for exploring where your partner's sexual beliefs actually come from, and why the first few months of dating are just data collection on whether you're actually compatible.

Timestamps:

0:00 - Introduction

1:01 - Question 1: Rejecting Partner's Advances in the Middle of the Night

6:42 - Understanding Nocturnal Erections and Gender Differences in Arousal

10:10 - Question 2: Feeling Done with a Sexless Marriage After 7 Years

16:20 - Question 3: Getting Upset When Partner Doesn't Want Sex (Mismatched Libidos)

21:28 - Question 4: Dealing with Low Libido and Performance Anxiety at 42

25:10 - Question 5: Wanting Oral Sex Every Time, Not Just Special Occasions

32:52 - Closing Thoughts and How to Connect with Dr. Emily

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How to Know If You're Actually Having an Orgasm

Tue, 02 Dec 2025 11:00:00 -0000

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In this Sex with Emily episode, Dr. Emily breaks down what's really happening in your body during orgasm—and why you might not even know if you've had one.

The physical signs that prove you're orgasming—even when there's no "explosive release" moment, and why your experience might look nothing like what you've been told to expect.

That partner who goes full jackhammer the entire time: the exact conversation framework to redirect them without crushing their ego—and why most people need those fast strokes eventually, just not the whole damn time.

A listener whose new partner believes orgasms damage your mental health and relationships—what this anti-climax philosophy gets right about connection, and what the science actually says about orgasms strengthening your bond.

The guilt trap of needing fantasy to finish during oral: why your imagination became your default pathway to orgasm, and the five-senses technique that retrains your brain to stay present with your partner instead.

How to find your G-area (because it's not a "spot"): the exact finger motion, positions, and toy shapes that actually work—and why this spongy tissue is just your internal clitoris showing up to the party.

Plus: what squirting really is, why dry orgasms happen, and the neural pathway secret that means you can learn to orgasm in completely different ways than you do now.

Timestamps:

0:00 - Introduction

2:25 - The Science of Orgasm: What Actually Happens in Your Body

4:28 - The Four Stages of Orgasm Explained

6:39 - Clitoral Orgasms: Understanding Your 12,000 Nerve Endings

10:33 - G-Area Orgasms: Finding Your Internal Pleasure Zone (Plus Mirror Technique)

14:26 - Squirting & Female Ejaculation: Separating Facts from Fiction

17:46 - Dry Orgasms & Semen Retention for Penis Owners

19:43 - Hands-Free Orgasms: Tantric Breathing & Orgasmic Meditation

22:42 - The Jackhammer Problem: Why Fast Penetration Doesn't Work for Most Vulva Owners

29:35 - Fantasy vs. Presence: How to Stay in the Moment During Sex

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Pelvic Positioning Changes Everything

Fri, 28 Nov 2025 11:00:00 -0000

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In this Sex with Emily episode, Dr. Emily takes live listener calls and answers the questions you're dying to ask but won't.

A caller discovers she can only finish one very specific way—what's really happening in your pelvis when your legs are straight, and why changing this pattern might unlock entirely new pleasure.

The masturbation habit that's secretly limiting your orgasms—and the exploration technique that expands your body's repertoire without any pressure to "fix" yourself.

Why one couple finds anal more pleasurable than vaginal sex, what this reveals about nerve endings you didn't know you had, and the specialist who can actually help if penetration hurts.

Plus, what happens when you stop chasing what you think should feel good and start discovering what actually does.

Timestamps:

0:00 - Intro

1:57 - Orgasming with Straight Legs: Finding Positions That Work for Your Body

7:42 - Why Having One Way to Orgasm Is Completely Normal

8:38 - Dating After Loss: Navigating Chastity Play & Delayed Ejaculation

16:21 - Male Chastity Explained: Pleasure Beyond the Dominant Role

17:43 - Erotic Lactation: A Surprisingly Common Intimacy Practice

24:15 - When Anal Sex Feels Better Than Vaginal: Understanding Different Pleasure Pathways

27:40 - The Clitoris Extends Internally: Why Anal Orgasms Are Possible

29:37 - Dealing with Vaginal Pain: You Don't Have to Live with Discomfort

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How to Talk to Teens About Sex

Tue, 25 Nov 2025 11:00:00 -0000

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https://www.jejoue.com/products/hera-flex-rabbit-vibrator?utm_source=SWE-HeraFLEXPODCAST&utm_medium=SWE-HeraFLEXPODCAST In this Sex with Emily episode, Dr. Emily sits down with developmental psychologist Dr. Aliza Pressman—and discovers why her parenting book kept her up at night, even though she's not a parent. Why an entire generation is having less sex: the isolation epidemic where teens sit next to each other scrolling instead of connecting—and why even being in the same room doesn't mean being together anymore.

The porn conversation most parents get wrong: instead of saying "this isn't good for you" (which teens reject), try "watching this is a vote for exploitation"—because teenagers care more about justice than their own wellbeing. The five principles that work for every parenting crisis—from catching your kid watching porn to finding your vibrator: relationship, reflection, regulation, rules, and repair. Why your reaction when your nine-year-old feels aroused by porn determines whether they carry shame for years—and the exact words to say instead. The pronoun and gender panic parents are feeling: why we don't have the data yet, the pendulum always swings back, and why being curious beats being certain.

The magic wand incident: what to text your mortified teenager after she's caught with your vibrator—and why "I'm here with any questions" is enough. The truth about love that Dr. Pressman wishes she'd known younger: love is not anxiety. Timestamps:

0:00 - Intro

2:10 - The Five R's Framework for Difficult Conversations

4:58 - How Phones Are Destroying Teen Connection & Intimacy

7:08 - Talking to Kids About Porn: The Social Justice Approach

10:12 - What to Do When Your Kid Watches Porn (Real Parent Story)

14:34 - The Power of Repair in All Relationships

20:30 - Navigating Gender, Pronouns & Sexual Identity with Kids

28:26 - Why We Need to Stop Gendering Empathy

34:00 - Raising Sexually Healthy Humans Without Being Weird

38:30 - My Teenager Found My Vibrator: What Now?

39:46 - Five Quickfire Questions on Sex & Relationships

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5 Things Secretly Stealing Your Pleasure

Fri, 21 Nov 2025 11:00:00 -0000

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In this Sex with Emily episode, Dr. Emily brings on sex educator Dr. Emily Nagoski for a live conversation—and they get brutally honest about their own sex lives falling apart.

Why even bestselling sex experts lose their desire—and how Dr. Emily's nervous system was so shot she didn't even want orgasms.

The myth that kept her terrified to stop sex once it started: believing "blue balls" required hospitalization—and the truth that you can stop and start anytime.

A parent worried their college-age kids aren't having sex or relationships—the questions to ask instead of pushing sex on them, and why nobody dies from not having sex but people do die from loneliness.

The most important thing parents can do around sexuality: unlearn your own shame first—because your embarrassment when they ask questions teaches them more than any words ever could.

The reframe for anyone struggling with desire: what you actually want when you want sex (it's not orgasm—you can do that alone), and what you don't want when you don't want sex.

Timestamps:

0:00 – Introduction

1:26 – Sex Experts Lose Desire Too

7:24 – The Pleasure Thieves

17:53 – Why It's Okay to Stop During Sex

20:20 – Cold Feet and Orgasms

25:50 – The Role of Shame

30:17 – Navigating Social Media Censorship

35:41 – Teaching Kids About Sex

38:47 – The Patriarchy Problem

39:49 – Closing

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Your Dating List Is Keeping You Single

Tue, 18 Nov 2025 11:00:00 -0000

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In this Sex with Emily episode, Dr. Emily sits down with celebrity dating coach Damona Hoffman to dismantle the fairy tales keeping you stuck in your dating life.

Why your mile-long partner checklist (six feet tall, specific job, perfect abs) is sabotaging your search for real compatibility—and the question you should ask instead: "How do I want to feel?"

The difference between dating for superficial traits versus shared life goals—why wanting a yoga partner matters way less than wanting the freedom to pursue your own interests in a relationship.

A caller who's getting ghosted on dating apps wonders if women have too many options—the real reason your profile isn't working, and it has nothing to do with competition.

The "three C's" that'll transform your dating profile overnight: strategic color to stand out, context that tells your story, and character that shows who you really are (no sunglasses photos—we need to see your eyes).

Why "chemistry at first sight" is actually lust, and you can't know if you love someone the minute you look into their eyes—the three-date rule that gives real connection time to build.

The reframe that takes the pressure off: stop trying to be liked and start being upfront about what you want—it'll filter out the wrong people and attract your actual match.

Timestamps:

0:00 – Introduction 1:21 – F The Fairytale 13:00 – The Dating Tracker Strategy That Changes Everything 22:48 – Values Over Political Labels in Dating 25:48 – The Chemistry Myth 34:15 – How to Know If You're Coming On Too Strong 45:07 – Dating Profile Photos: The Three C's 47:35 – Five Quickie Questions 49:17 – Closing and Where to Find Damona

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Terrified of Dating After Divorce (How To Bounce Back)

Fri, 14 Nov 2025 11:00:00 -0000

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Join the SmartSX Membership : https://sexwithemily.com/smartsx Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: https://sexwithemily.com/guides/ Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. SHOP WITH EMILY!: https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ (free shipping on orders over $99) Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website: https://sexwithemily.com/ In this Sex with Emily episode, Dr. Emily brings back holistic psychologist Dr. Scott Lyons for live caller coaching sessions that'll change how you think about sex and dating. A woman married 10 years whose husband won't explore sexually at all—why "I want to try new things" might sound like "what we're doing isn't good enough" to a partner raised in a conservative home. What "deepthroating" really represents when your partner grew up being told sex was wrong—and the outside-the-bedroom conversation they need to have before anything changes in bed. A woman terrified about her first date after a breakup because she thinks the sex will be "unwilling"—the breathwork practice that gets you out of your anxious mind and into your confident body. Why a first date is just a "warm-up" to see if you're having fun, not an audition for marriage—and how to tell if someone's worth seeing naked just by watching how they treat wait staff. The reframe that takes all the pressure off dating: ditch the checklist, get present in your body, and remember you're the gatekeeper with all the power. Timestamps:

0:00 - Intro

2:11 - Growing Up Conservative: How Family Beliefs Kill Your Sex Life

6:39 - The Compliment Sandwich: How to Ask for What You Want

9:46 - Antidepressants Killed Our Sex Life: Now What?

12:44 - Medical Issues vs. Sexual Needs: Finding Balance

16:03 - The Power of Hope: Changing Your Sexual Dynamic Instantly

19:03 - Beyond Penetration: Alternative Ways to Stay Connected

24:57 - Dating After Great Sex: Overcoming Fear of Bad Partners

29:44 - First Date Anxiety: Embodiment Practice Before Going Out

34:47 - Stop Performing on Dates: Be Your Authentic Self Instead

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Why Cohabitation Destroys Intimacy (And How To Bring It Back)

Tue, 11 Nov 2025 11:00:00 -0000

Join the SmartSX Membership : https://sexwithemily.com/smartsx Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: https://sexwithemily.com/guides/ Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. SHOP WITH EMILY!: https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ (free shipping on orders over $99) Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website: https://sexwithemily.com/ In this Sex with Emily episode, Dr. Emily and producer Erica dive into your questions about sex and relationships. A woman who's been living with her partner for over a year and can't stand his unsexy pecks on the lips anymore—why moving in together kills sexual tension and the surprising move she needs to make instead of waiting for him to change. The listener who ended a relationship because their partner refused to give oral sex—why sexual dealbreakers are valid and the one question Dr. Emily wishes she'd asked before walking away. A man in England with a specific fetish whose girlfriend gets "nasty and defensive" every time he tries to talk about sex—the cultural shame around sex talk that's blocking exploration and whether therapy books can replace actual therapy. Why "I don't want to seem pushy" is code for "we have a communication problem"—and the difference between a fantasy you'd like to explore and a fetish that's a requirement for arousal. The real reason your partner gets defensive when you bring up sex (spoiler: it's not about you). Timestamps:

0:00 - Intro

3:14 - Why Living Together Kills Sexual Tension (And How to Fix It)

8:43 - Dating Someone with Herpes: What You Need to Know

10:32 - The Truth About Herpes Transmission and Risk

15:00 - My Partner Won't Give Oral: Should I Break Up?

17:43 - How to Have the Difficult Oral Sex Conversation

21:56 - When Your Partner Won't Explore Your Fetish

23:15 - Defensiveness in Sex Talks: Red Flag or Fixable?

25:54 - When Sexual Incompatibility Becomes a Deal Breaker

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Why I Opened My Marriage After 20 Years

Fri, 07 Nov 2025 11:00:00 -0000

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Why Your Partner Refuses Intimacy (And What To Do)

Tue, 04 Nov 2025 11:00:00 -0000

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Why Couples Never Talk About Sex (And How to Start)

Fri, 31 Oct 2025 10:00:00 -0000

EVERYONE who signs up wins a FREE WhisperVibe™ OR a FREE Rose toy with any Whisper™ order! https://www.bboutique.co/vibe/emilymorse-podcast Join the SmartSX Membership : https://sexwithemily.com/smartsx Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: https://sexwithemily.com/guides/ Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. SHOP WITH EMILY!: https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ (free shipping on orders over $99) Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website: https://sexwithemily.com/ In this Sex with Emily episode, Dr. Emily tackles why starting intimate conversations early matters more than waiting for the "right time"—and how your sex life begins long before you get to the bedroom. A 51-year-old in Spain has been dating someone gorgeous for six weeks with incredible chemistry but zero penetrative sex—discover why having the "are we ready?" conversation over dinner (not after making out) prevents months of unnecessary confusion. Someone married for years realizes they're bisexual but fears coming out will end everything—learn the gradual approach that starts with general sex conversations, not dropping identity bombshells. A long-term couple has never discussed desires or fantasies despite years together—find out why waiting until there's a problem to talk about sex means you've already waited too long. Timestamps:

0:00 - Introduction

1:17 - When to Have "The Sex Talk" in a New Relationship

3:26 - Building Sexual Anticipation vs. Rushing Into Sex

5:25 - How to Talk About Sex Before You've Had Sex

8:14 - Faking Orgasms: Why It Hurts Both Partners

11:31 - Reader Question: Navigating Painful Sex & Communication

16:42 - Creating Safety When Past Experiences Were Painful

20:38 - The Importance of Lube and Going Slow

24:16 - Reader Question: Coming Out as Bisexual in Marriage

28:36 - Starting Conversations About Desires & Fantasies

30:38 - Living Your Sexual Truth at Any Age

32:24 - Practical Steps for Difficult Conversations

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Why She's Uncomfortable Being on Top (And How to Fix It)

Tue, 28 Oct 2025 10:00:00 -0000

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In this Sex with Emily episode, Dr. Emily breaks down why the sex positions everyone asks about aren't actually the secret to great sex—but learning to move your body intentionally might be.

A 21-year-old people pleaser can't stop until her boyfriend finishes (even when exhausted) but worries constantly when he's pleasuring her—discover why treating sex like a finish line kills orgasms. Someone's uncomfortable being on top because she feels exposed and on display—learn the slow-motion approach that makes cowgirl about grinding pleasure, not bouncing performance.

A woman's boyfriend has a strongly curved penis causing discomfort, plus he can't orgasm during sex despite being fine alone—find out why curved penises are actually G-spot advantages and why sex lasting "too long" damages vulva owners.

Timestamps:

0:00 - Introduction

1:04 - People Pleaser Advice: Breaking Sexual Double Standards

2:46 - The Importance of Being Present During Sex

3:40 - Reframing Sex as a Dance, Not a Finish Line

5:04 - The 69 Position: Practical Tips & Variations

6:25 - Side-by-Side 69: The Game Changer Position

11:42 - Doggy Style Deep Dive: Angles & Modifications

18:09 - Missionary Reimagined: Why It's Underrated

25:07 - Cowgirl Position: Taking Control of Your Pleasure

28:02 - Debunking the Coconut TikTok Trend

29:15 - The Lotus Position: Intimacy & Tantric Connection

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The Reverse Kegel That Pro Athletes Use for Better Sex

Fri, 24 Oct 2025 10:00:00 -0000

EVERYONE who signs up wins a FREE WhisperVibe™ OR a FREE Rose toy with any Whisper™ order! https://www.bboutique.co/vibe/emilymorse-podcast Join the SmartSX Membership : https://sexwithemily.com/smartsx Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: https://sexwithemily.com/guides/ Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. SHOP WITH EMILY!: https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ (free shipping on orders over $99) Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website: https://sexwithemily.com/ In this Sex with Emily episode, wellness educator Lauren Roxburgh explains why Western medicine discarded the body system that might be blocking your orgasms—and how to bring it back online. Lauren reveals fascia: the communication network your body uses to record trauma, send arousal signals, and feel everything. Medical schools in the 1900s threw it away as "packing wrap" without studying it. Now we know it's your sixth sense, and when it's congested, you age faster and feel less. A woman with a tilted uterus faces sudden stabbing pain with her well-endowed partner after a decade of great sex—discover why the diagnosis isn't the whole story. Someone's tried every technique for premature ejaculation with zero results—learn why most solutions create the opposite effect and what pro athletes know about lasting longer. A post-menopausal woman on hormones still bleeds during painful sex—hear which ancient practices work when Western medicine falls short. Lauren teaches the reverse Kegel (why opening beats squeezing), how stress clenches your pelvic floor without you knowing, why Brazilians walk differently than Westerners and what that reveals about sexual energy, and the breathing pattern that pumps toxins from your brain while awakening sensation below. If pain during sex, premature ejaculation, or post-menopausal dryness have stumped your doctors, this reveals what they're missing. Timestamps:

0:00 - Intro

1:16 - What is Fascia? The Body's Communication Network Explained

5:05 - Why Western Medicine Ignored Fascia Until Now

9:36 - How Fascia Impacts Sexual Pleasure and Embodiment

15:03 - Releasing Trauma Stored in Your Body's Tissues

21:27 - The Blood Flow Problem Behind Sexual Dysfunction

27:34 - Pain During Sex: Understanding Your Pelvic Floor

30:24 - The Reverse Kegel Technique for Better Orgasms

33:40 - Painful Sex with Tilted Uterus: Solutions Beyond Positions

38:38 - Fixing Lifelong Premature Ejaculation with Body Work

43:07 - Postmenopausal Pain: When Hormones Aren't Enough

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Why I Can Only Orgasm Alone (But Not With Partners)

Tue, 21 Oct 2025 10:00:00 -0000

EVERYONE who signs up wins a FREE WhisperVibe™ OR a FREE Rose toy with any Whisper™ order! https://www.bboutique.co/vibe/emilymorse-podcast Join the SmartSX Membership : https://sexwithemily.com/smartsx Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: https://sexwithemily.com/guides/ Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. SHOP WITH EMILY!: https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ (free shipping on orders over $99) Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website: https://sexwithemily.com/ Dr. Emily answers the questions keeping you up at night: Can bodies be trained to orgasm only one way? When does a kink cross from preference to problem? Is interactive masturbation cheating? Someone orgasms easily alone but never with partners in her open marriage—the neural pathway explanation might surprise you. A husband discovered a humiliation kink after 20 years and his wife doesn't understand why degradation equals arousal—learn what core erotic desires reveal about childhood and why shame keeps most people silent. A woman caught her boyfriend on interactive sex sites after they'd set boundaries—discover when getting curious works better than getting angry, and whether online encounters count as infidelity. Someone raised in sexual repression feels guilty choosing masturbation over partner sex—hear why solo pleasure threatens no one and why that guilt isn't really yours. Then there's the couple having sex twice daily but she rarely orgasms—find out why more isn't better and how to ask for what you need without killing desire. The episode tackles when preference becomes selfishness, why communication about kinks matters more than understanding them, and how bodies get wired to expect certain pleasure patterns. If you've been wondering whether your desires are normal or your boundaries are valid, this gives you permission to stop wondering.

Timestamps:

0:00 - Intro

1:15 - Charlie's Question: How to Orgasm with a Partner

2:34 - Understanding Your Body's Neural Pathways

4:08 - Teaching Multiple Partners Your Pleasure

6:32 - The Value of Mutual Masturbation

7:56 - Ricky's Question: Small Penis Humiliation Kink

10:32 - Understanding Core Erotic Desires

13:33 - Erica's Question: Partner Using Chatterbait

16:24 - Setting Boundaries Around Interactive Sex Sites

20:40 - Rachel's Question: Guilt About Masturbating in Relationships

23:35 - Why Solo Sex Matters Even When Partnered

25:05 - Giovani's Question: Sex Twice Daily But Not Orgasming

27:11 - Quality Over Quantity: Prioritizing Foreplay

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She Only Wants to Be Serviced in Bed (Is That Fair?)

Fri, 17 Oct 2025 10:00:00 -0000

EVERYONE who signs up wins a FREE WhisperVibe™ OR a FREE Rose toy with any Whisper™ order! https://www.bboutique.co/vibe/emilymorse-podcast Join the SmartSX Membership : https://sexwithemily.com/smartsx Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: https://sexwithemily.com/guides/ Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. SHOP WITH EMILY!: https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ (free shipping on orders over $99) Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website: https://sexwithemily.com/ Dr. Emily and producer Erica judge whether you're the asshole when sex drives don't match, and the verdicts might surprise you. A woman daydreams about affairs while her older husband's libido fades—but is desire actually the problem? A man's wife refuses both sex and therapy because he doesn't earn enough—discover why money complaints are never really about money. Someone only wants to receive pleasure, never give it—where's the line between preference and selfishness? Then the hardest question: what do you do when you've tried everything for a decade and still have sex twice a year with someone who recoils at your touch but swears you're their person? Dr. Emily delivers tough love about the "everything but sex" trap, why refusing therapy while refusing intimacy is relationship sabotage, and the brutal truth about waiting for people to change. She breaks down the progression from frustration to resentment to contempt, and issues a wake-up call about the information you're ignoring right now in your own relationship. If you're walking on eggshells, wondering if your needs are unreasonable, or waiting for things to magically improve, this tells you what you need to hear. Timestamps:

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The Heart Tongue Technique That Changes Everything"

Tue, 14 Oct 2025 10:00:00 -0000

EVERYONE who signs up wins a FREE WhisperVibe™ OR a FREE Rose toy with any Whisper™ order! https://www.bboutique.co/vibe/emilymorse-podcast Join the SmartSX Membership : https://sexwithemily.com/smartsx Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: https://sexwithemily.com/guides/ Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. SHOP WITH EMILY!: https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ (free shipping on orders over $99) Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website: https://sexwithemily.com/ Sex educator Susan Bratton reveals why the #1 complaint in heterosexual relationships—"she can't orgasm during intercourse"—isn't about broken bodies, but broken information. With techniques that have her inbox flooded with exclamation points, Susan dismantles everything you thought you knew about penetrative sex. Discover why rushing is killing your pleasure, what ancient Daoists knew about rhythm that porn never taught you, and the counterintuitive move that makes orgasm easier (hint: it's not what you're doing now). Susan explains the arousal gap nobody talks about, reframes the vagina in a way that will change how you touch it, and teaches the "Heart Tongue" approach that transforms mechanical sex into connection. A 50-year-old man asks why his girlfriend can't climax during sex despite trying everything. A 25-year-old wonders if she's ever actually had an orgasm and why "squirting" feels like nothing. Susan guides both through tissue activation, sacred self-pleasure, and why the entrance to the vagina needs to be courted, not conquered. Susan claims her best sex ever and credits specific practices for looking a decade younger than her peers. She shares the "Lips-Nips-Clit Axis," why opening matters more than tightening, and her most-thanked technique involving a 10-count that toggles the nervous system. If you've been chasing sensation instead of connection, this episode rewrites the playbook. Timestamps:

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The Most Common Fantasy in America (You'd Be Surprised)

Fri, 10 Oct 2025 10:00:00 -0000

EVERYONE who signs up wins a FREE WhisperVibe™ OR a FREE Rose toy with any Whisper™ order! https://www.bboutique.co/vibe/emilymorse-podcast Join the SmartSX Membership : https://sexwithemily.com/smartsx Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: https://sexwithemily.com/guides/ Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. SHOP WITH EMILY!: https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ (free shipping on orders over $99) Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website: https://sexwithemily.com/ In this Sex with Emily Q&A episode, Dr. Emily and producer Erica tackle listener questions about fantasies, relationships, and navigating sexual compatibility. They explore cuckolding—one of America's most common fantasies—discussing why partners want to watch their significant other with someone else, the importance of comprehensive pre-negotiation, and why "one and done" promises rarely hold true. A listener living with his ex-boyfriend learns why moving on sexually is so difficult when you're still sharing space, and gets permission to stop pressuring himself during the healing process. The conversation addresses adult baby/diaper fetishes, distinguishing between core erotic desires that are requirements versus nice-to-have fantasies, and explores creative solutions like working with specialized sex workers when partners aren't compatible. Finally, they dissect a toxic relationship pattern where one partner constantly shifts between attraction and rejection, helping a listener recognize when it's time to walk away. Throughout, Dr. Emily emphasizes that early relationship sex fueled by new relationship energy doesn't last forever, the importance of understanding your own pleasure rather than just servicing a partner's wants, and why we need to stop dating people based on their potential to change. Timestamps:

0:00 - Intro

1:25 - My Boyfriend Wants to Watch Me Have Sex with Another Man

6:02 - Why Cuckolding is One of America's Most Common Fantasies

8:55 - How Do I Move On When I'm Still Living with My Ex?

14:59 - My Wife Thinks My Fetish is Demonic - Is This Marriage Over?

20:53 - He Says I'm Not Attractive Enough Anymore - What Do I Do?

23:29 - Red Flags: When Your Partner Wants You to Change Your Body

26:10 - Closing Thoughts: Stop Fighting for Approval, Start Honoring Your Needs

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Why You're Addicted to Drama (And How It's Hurting You)

Tue, 07 Oct 2025 10:00:00 -0000

EVERYONE who signs up wins a FREE WhisperVibe™ OR a FREE Rose toy with any Whisper™ order! https://www.bboutique.co/vibe/emilymorse-podcast Join the SmartSX Membership : https://sexwithemily.com/smartsx Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: https://sexwithemily.com/guides/ Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. SHOP WITH EMILY!: https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ (free shipping on orders over $99) Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website: https://sexwithemily.com/ In this Sex with Emily episode, Dr. Emily's first guest in the new studio is psychologist Dr. Scott Lyons, author of Addicted to Drama: Healing Dependency on Crisis and Chaos in Yourself and Others. Dr. Lyons reveals how drama addiction isn't just obvious chaos—it's overscheduling, inability to tolerate stillness, and sabotaging intimacy when vulnerability feels threatening. He explains the biology: drama provides energy, numbs pain, and creates sensation that makes us feel alive. Listener questions address a 21-year-old spiraling after her boyfriend called an actress sexy, and a 30-year-old wanting kinkier sex but getting triggered. Dr. Lyons and Dr. Emily emphasize distinguishing sensation-seeking from authentic connection, coming back to the body when triggered, and recognizing how childhood patterns shape adult sexuality and relationships.

Timestamps:

0:00 - Intro

3:32 - The Hidden Signs of Drama Addiction You Might Be Missing

9:24 - How Trauma Lives in Your Body and Shapes Your Behavior

13:36 - Why Drama Shows Up in Your Relationships and Sex Life

15:37 - Why Do I Feel Terrible When My Partner Comments on Other People?

27:35 - The Currency of Love: How Childhood Chaos Affects Adult Relationships

33:48 - I Want Freaky Sex But My Body Keeps Freezing Up

42:52 - Understanding Dissociation and Finding Your Way Back Home

50:00 - How Drama Addiction Blocks True Sexual Pleasure and Intimacy

52:32 - Five Quickie Questions with Dr. Scott Lyons

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Locktober: How to Do Chastity Play Safely

Fri, 03 Oct 2025 10:00:00 -0000

EVERYONE who signs up wins a FREE WhisperVibe™ OR a FREE Rose toy with any Whisper™ order! https://www.bboutique.co/vibe/emilymorse-podcast Join the SmartSX Membership : https://sexwithemily.com/smartsx Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: https://sexwithemily.com/guides/ Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. SHOP WITH EMILY!: https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ (free shipping on orders over $99) Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website: https://sexwithemily.com/ In this Sex with Emily episode, Dr. Emily and producer Erica answer listener questions covering intimate challenges from anal play to mismatched libidos. The episode addresses a woman whose boyfriend wants to try receiving anal rimming but can't relax into it, examining masculinity myths around pleasure. They cover penis cage safety during chastity play and what to watch for during extended use. Listeners also hear from a woman whose partner never initiates sex despite therapy, someone experiencing numbness during oral sex, and a recently divorced woman struggling to reclaim her sex drive. Throughout, Emily emphasizes communication outside the bedroom, understanding our bodies' responses, and reclaiming sexuality as something we own for ourselves—not something tied exclusively to our partners.

Timestamps:

0:00 - Introduction

1:15 - Helping Your Partner Feel Comfortable with Anal Play

6:38 - Penis Cage Safety & Chastity Play Guidelines

13:49 - When Your Partner Never Initiates Sex

18:45 - Numbness & Tingling During Oral Sex Explained

23:07 - Reclaiming Your Sex Drive After Divorce

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How Porn Can Actually Improve Your Sex Life

Tue, 30 Sep 2025 10:00:00 -0000

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In this Sex with Emily episode, Dr. Emily teams up with anthropologist Dr. Wednesday Martin to tackle pornography—one of modern sexuality's most polarizing topics. From addressing listener concerns about partners who need porn to climax, to exploring how porn shapes our sexual behaviors and expectations.

The episode examines real listener scenarios including a woman feeling inadequate because her boyfriend requires porn and dirty talk about other women to orgasm, and another struggling with her partner's search history filled with degrading terms. Emily and Wednesday also dive into the research on porn's actual impact on sexual aggression, the rise of choking and other behaviors in mainstream sexual culture, and the difference between ethical porn and typical productions.

Throughout the discussion, they emphasize that porn itself isn't the problem—it's often a communication issue. The episode explores how couples can use porn as a tool for sexual exploration and self-knowledge rather than a source of shame or conflict, while acknowledging the legitimate concerns about how mainstream porn represents sexuality and consent.

Timestamps:

0:00 - Introduction

4:27 - Historical Context: Porn Has Always Existed

8:23 - First Porn Experiences

17:20 - Research Findings: Porn's Actual Impact on Behavior

27:47 - Case Study: When Porn Becomes a Relationship Issue

37:32 - Ethical Porn vs. Mainstream

41:56 - Using Porn as a Learning Tool for Self-Discovery

50:42 - Communication Strategies: Talking About Porn Preferences

57:17 - Final Thoughts

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When Your Friend Ruins Your Relationship By Sharing Your Past

Fri, 26 Sep 2025 10:00:00 -0000

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Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website: https://sexwithemily.com/ Episode Description: In this Sex with Emily episode, Dr. Emily and producer Eric tackle listener-submitted "Am I The Asshole" scenarios focused on sex, dating, and relationships. From a wife refusing threesomes her husband demands to fix their struggling marriage, to a boyfriend dismissing his girlfriend's painful sex as exaggerated. The episode examines a daughter's shock at discovering her mother's 24/7 BDSM collar and addresses sexual compatibility deal-breakers, including a five-month relationship ending over asexuality versus mismatched libidos. They also tackle friendship boundaries when a well-meaning friend reveals intimate details about someone's sexual past to their new partner. Throughout these scenarios, Emily emphasizes that most relationship conflicts stem from lack of sexual education and communication skills rather than malicious intent. The episode reinforces the importance of honest self-reflection, clear boundaries, and recognizing when patterns aren't serving your relationships. Timestamps:

0:00 - Introduction

1:21 - Threesome Pressure in Struggling Marriage

4:45 - Why Threesomes Don't Fix Relationships

8:03 - Dismissing Partner's Sexual Pain During Sex

11:04 - Understanding Vaginismus and Vaginal Pain

14:09 - Anal Sex Pressure Despite Clear Boundaries

17:15 - The Importance of Consensual Partners for Anal

18:46 - Discovering Mom's BDSM Collar Bombshell

22:00 - How to Have Healthy Sex Conversations with Kids

24:46 - Breaking Up Over Sexual Incompatibility

28:18 - Sexual Compatibility by 5 Months Rule

30:33 - Oversharing Friend's Threesome History

33:14 - Never Share Others' Sexual Stories

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How Childhood Trauma Shows Up in Your Sex Life

Tue, 23 Sep 2025 10:00:00 -0000

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In this Sex with Emily episode, Dr. Emily sits down with Violet Benson. Violet opens up about her intentional decision to step back from penetrative sex while working through attachment patterns that clouded her judgment in relationships.

How do you know when sex is creating unhealthy emotional attachment versus genuine connection? Violet shares her realization that sleeping with someone too quickly led her to ignore red flags and chase unavailable partners who mirrored her childhood feelings of being "not enough."

The conversation dives into Violet's egg freezing experience, including the intense hormonal and emotional effects that doctors failed to prepare her for. Violet takes Emily's Sex IQ quiz from the book Smart Sex, reflecting on how much her relationship with her body and pleasure has evolved.

They tackle a listener question about pursuing someone with major red flags just for physical chemistry, with both hosts emphasizing the importance of honest self-reflection over justification.

The episode explores embracing "clinginess" in dating, why vulnerability beats playing games, and how foreplay truly starts outside the bedroom. Throughout, Emily and Violet reinforce that understanding your patterns is the first step to breaking cycles that don't serve you.

Timestamps:

0:00 - Intro

2:13 - Violet's dating hiatus

5:42 - Turning fears into boundaries

8:37 - Understanding attachment styles and childhood trauma in relationships

11:43 - Egg freezing experience

16:17 - Managing mental health during hormonal changes

21:00 - Sex IQ Quiz

26:31 - Listener question: Detaching emotions from physical intimacy

30:30 - Why being vulnerable beats playing games

35:41 - Why people are having less sex and connection

38:15 - Top 3 tips for authentic dating and better relationships

40:42 - Rapid-fire questions: Turn-ons, turn-offs, and relationship advice

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Why Your Partner's Sexual Past Is Haunting Your Present

Fri, 19 Sep 2025 10:00:00 -0000

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Episode Description

In this Sex with Emily hotline episode, Dr. Emily answers honest questions about sex, relationships, and pleasure. Ben struggles with intrusive thoughts about his girlfriend's sexual past—how do generational differences in sexual norms play a role, and what can he do when his mind won't stop wandering?

A caller whose day-long fantasies about his wife cause premature ejaculation wonders if this is actually a problem. Emily explores when mental foreplay becomes too much of a good thing and how to approach these conversations with your partner.

For finding thirds for threesomes, what's the safest way to meet like-minded people? Emily discusses the essential conversations couples need to have before inviting someone into their bedroom.

Nathan worries his girlfriend only orgasms with toys despite her past relationships not requiring them. Is this about his performance, her anatomy, or something deeper about emotional connection and letting go?

Finally, how do you rebuild your relationship with your own sexuality after a major life change? Emily helps a caller navigate solo pleasure during divorce when motivation is low and old fantasies no longer serve.

Throughout, Emily reinforces that sexual satisfaction looks different for everyone.

Timestamps:

0:00 - Introduction

1:29 - Dealing with Partner's Sexual Past

5:42 - How to Replace Negative Thoughts with Positive Relationship Focus

11:45 - Premature Ejaculation from All-Day Mental Arousal

17:07 - Starting Sexting in Long-Term Relationships

20:04 - Finding a Third for Threesomes

29:52 - The Field Effect

34:13 - When Emotional Connection Changes Physical Response

40:13 - Prioritizing Solo Pleasure During Divorce and Life Transitions

46:44 - Closing Thoughts and Resources

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The 4 Secrets to Amazing Oral Sex (From a Sex Educator)

Tue, 16 Sep 2025 21:07:00 -0000

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In this Sex with Emily episode, Dr. Jennifer Freed reveals why true sexiness comes from daring to be authentically yourself—not trying to imitate anyone else—and how confidence means being good with yourself without waiting for approval. Then sex educator Shani Hart shares her game-changing tip for staying aroused during oral sex (hint: it involves a Magic Wand), her mission to bring quality pleasure products to underserved communities, and why she tells customers that if their partner controls their toy purchases, it's a major red flag.

Dr. Freed and Emily explore the difference between sexiness and preferences, discussing how we can find attraction beyond our usual type when we recognize someone's soul.

Through Shani's journey from pop-up girlfriend to certified sex educator, Emily and Shani tackle the lack of diversity in the sex toy industry and why quality pleasure products should be accessible to all communities. Shani breaks down her four essential blowjob tips—enthusiasm, wetness, communication, and technique—explaining why "it's called a job for a reason" and sharing her favorite products for enhancing pleasure.

They also dive into CBD's benefits for sexual wellness, from reducing anxiety and increasing blood flow to helping rewire the brain's association between sex and pain for people with conditions like endometriosis. Shani discusses her favorite current toy (the Womanizer Duo with smart silent technology) and why she believes your own pleasure should be a priority.

Timestamps:

0:28 - Intro

1:48 - Authenticity vs Performance in Relationships

3:26 - Overcoming Impostor Syndrome in Dating

5:41 - Why Hiding Your True Self Kills Intimacy

10:26 - Sexual Preferences vs What Makes Someone Sexy

13:42 - Being Present During Sex Creates New Experiences

17:22 - From Sex Shop Employee to Certified Sex Educator

20:26 - Creating Quality Sex Education in Underserved Communities

24:43 - When Partners Control Your Pleasure (Red Flags)

27:48 - Magic Wand Multi-Use Tips for Solo and Partner Play

29:33 - Four Essential Oral Sex Techniques That Actually Work

31:45 - Racism and Exclusion in the Sex Toy Industry

36:02 - CBD for Better Sex: Anxiety, Pain Relief, and Enhanced Pleasure

38:48 - Quick Fire Questions: Biggest Turn-Ons and Turnoffs

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"What Happens When You Stop Reacting and Start Responding"

Fri, 12 Sep 2025 10:00:00 -0000

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Episode Summary

In this Sex with Emily episode, comedian Adam Ferrara reveals why he sits by the front door with his dog for exactly 15 minutes every time his wife says "I'll be right there"—and how learning each other's patterns became the secret to their successful long-term marriage.

Adam breaks down the difference between reacting and responding, sharing how his Italian upbringing taught him to react emotionally while his marriage taught him to respond from choice. He explains his breakthrough moment realizing that "worry is not responsibility"—a revelation that helped him separate anxiety from actual care-taking—and discusses his journey off ADD medication in favor of meditation and therapy.

Through a caller's dilemma about losing sexual attraction to her boyfriend while being tempted by someone else, Emily and Adam explore whether sexual chemistry can be built or if some relationships lack that essential foundation. They tackle the hard truth about the two-year relationship mark when initial passion fades, and provide practical tools like the "Yes, No, Maybe" list for couples working to rebuild intimacy together.

Timestamps:

0:00 - Introduction 1:32 - Losing Sexual Attraction After 2 Years 3:20 - Breaking Down Sexual Compatibility vs. Chemistry Issues 6:46 - The Oral Sex Double Standard Problem 8:13 - Creating vs. Fixing Sexual Connection 11:51 - Adam Ferrara on Anxiety & "Worry is Not Responsibility" 13:27 - Emily's Therapy Process: ADD, Self-Worth & Achievement 16:39 - Finding Presence Through Performance & Connection 18:25 - Marriage Communication: Learning Each Other's Patterns 22:43 - Reacting vs. Responding: Managing Emotional Impulses 25:43 - Meditation Practice: Separating Thoughts from Identity 29:24 - Practical Meditation Tips for Anxiety & ADD 31:16 - Childhood Trauma & Long-Term Anxiety Development 33:26 - Therapy Benefits: Life Tools, Not Stigma 34:28 - Five Quickie Questions

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"How to Identify Your 6 Core Emotions for Better Relationships"

Tue, 09 Sep 2025 10:00:00 -0000

EVERYONE who signs up wins a FREE WhisperVibe™ OR a FREE Rose toy with any Whisper™ order! https://www.bboutique.co/vibe/emilymorse-podcast Join the SmartSX Membership : https://sexwithemily.com/smartsx Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: https://sexwithemily.com/guides/ Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. SHOP WITH EMILY!: https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ (free shipping on orders over $99) Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website: https://sexwithemily.com/ In this Sex with Emily episode, psychiatrist Dr. Will Siu reveals why he went from atheist to spiritual devotee in 20 minutes during his first psychedelic experience—and how that breakthrough taught him that anger is actually a mask for feeling weak. Will shares his journey from achieving external success while feeling internally miserable to discovering the profound connection between emotional healing and sexual satisfaction. He breaks down his six fundamental emotions framework and explains why "You're not getting angry because you're tough—you're getting angry because you feel weak," a revelation that changed how he approached both therapy and intimacy. Through candid stories about religious sexual shame and the universal male experience of measuring penis size with a ruler, Will demonstrates how vulnerability can actually increase attraction. The conversation tackles why less than 5% of therapy clients discuss sex directly, how working on general insecurities often improves bedroom experiences more than focusing on sex itself, and practical steps for finding partners who can hold space for authentic emotional expression. Timestamps:

0:00 - Intro

2:03 - From Harvard Success to Internal Misery

7:43 - First Psychedelic Experience

12:14 - The Six Core Emotions

15:08 - The Truth About Male Anger

18:07 - Why Women's Anger is Suppressed and Its Sexual Consequences

22:02 - Male Penis Insecurities

26:01 - The Power of Authenticity Over Vulnerability in Relationships

29:22 - Finding Examples of Healthy Relationships in Modern Culture

32:17 - Building Male Mentorship and Emotional Communities

36:05 - Quick Fire Questions

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Why 'Good Girl' Turns Some People On So Much

Fri, 05 Sep 2025 10:00:00 -0000

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In this Sex with Emily episode, Dr. Emily explores praise kink—the trending phenomenon where sexual arousal comes from receiving verbal affirmation and approval during intimacy. She breaks down how this differs from simply enjoying compliments and connects to deeper psychological needs for feeling worshipped, special, or desired.

The episode introduces core erotic desires—the fundamental feelings we seek during sex that stem from our experiences and shape what turns us on. Whether involving feeling powerful, nurtured, transgressive, or humiliated, understanding these desires is crucial for sexual satisfaction.

Through listener questions, Emily tackles complex dynamics: a man missing the intense connection with a kinky ex despite his fiancé's willingness to participate, a woman who shut down after an embarrassing bondage moment, and someone questioning fantasies about their partner with others. She normalizes these experiences while offering practical communication strategies, including her "Yes, No, Maybe?" checklist for exploring new sexual territory with partners, and emphasizing that sexual fantasies and messy moments are normal parts of intimacy.

Timestamps:

0:00 - Intro

1:46 - Understanding Kinks vs Conventional Sex

5:14 - Praise Kink and Submissive Energy in the Bedroom

7:04 - How Praise Kink Helps with Body Image Issues

9:09 - Core Erotic Desires: What Really Turns You On

11:48 - Different Types of Core Desires (Worship, Humiliation, Power)

15:07 - Mining Your Fantasies to Discover Your Desires

17:07 - How to Talk to Your Partner About Your Fantasies

19:47 - Listener Question: Missing Kinky Ex vs Current Partner

24:42 - Listener Question: Embarrassing Moment Killed the Kink

30:34 - Listener Question: Is My Cuckolding Fantasy Healthy?

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Stop Giving More Than You're Getting in Relationships

Tue, 02 Sep 2025 10:00:00 -0000

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In this Sex with Emily episode, Dr. Emily breaks down the dynamics of toxic relationships—why we get stuck in them, how to spot the red flags, and what it takes to step into something healthier. She explains how cycles of fighting and making up can become addictive, why perfectionism and unrealistic expectations sabotage intimacy, and the subtle ways emotional unavailability shows up through gaslighting, breadcrumbing, and avoidance.

The episode also explores the deeper psychology behind repeated patterns: why we’re drawn to unavailable partners, how our own fears and defenses play into toxic dynamics, and why real change only happens when both people are willing to do the work. Listener questions and calls highlight unmet needs, long-term relationships starved of affection, and the painful realization that sometimes love isn’t enough to sustain a partnership.

Alongside this, Emily offers clear strategies for breaking toxic cycles, communicating needs without blame, and deciding when it’s time to stay, seek help, or walk away. With candid stories about gaslighting, perfectionism, and emotional neglect, this episode is a raw but empowering guide to recognizing what doesn’t serve you—and finding the courage to choose relationships that do.

Timestamps:

0:00 - Introduction

3:04 - When High Standards Destroy Love

6:35 - Signs of Emotional Unavailability You Need to Know

11:04 - How Long Will You Stay in an Unfulfilling Relationship?

13:34 - 8 Years of Unmet Needs and One-Sided Love

20:18 - Words vs Actions

25:36 - Anniversary Disappointment After 28 Years of Marriage

30:59 - Having the Difficult Conversation Your Relationship Needs

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Why Antidepressants Can Kill Your Sex Drive (And What to Do)

Fri, 29 Aug 2025 10:00:00 -0000

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In this powerful episode of Sex with Emily, Dr. Emily tackles one of the biggest barriers to great sex: fear. From fear of rejection to body image anxieties, this episode explores how our sexual fears hold us back and provides practical strategies for overcoming them. Dr. Emily opens with the fundamental truth that fear is often "false evidence appearing real" - we create rules around what we're afraid of and then live by them, preventing ourselves from having the sex we truly want and deserve.

Throughout the episode, Dr. Emily addresses common sexual fears from farting during sex to penis size anxieties to performance worries, emphasizing that we're all perfectionists when it comes to sex despite reality being much messier and more human. The episode concludes with the empowering message that facing our fears is the path to becoming our own best sexual advocate. When we ask for what we want authentically, we either get our needs met or gain valuable information about compatibility, because we all deserve pleasure and shouldn't put ourselves last in our own sexual lives.

Timestamps:
0:00 - Introduction

0:23 - How Antidepressants Affect Your Sex Life

1:15 - Female Sexuality and Cultural Double Standards

2:30 - Wetness Myths: Arousal vs. Lubrication Explained

6:26 - When You're "Too Wet" - Solutions and Normalizing

8:17 - Understanding Arousal Beyond Physical Signs

9:06 - Kegel Exercises for Better Orgasms

13:15 - Caller April: Relationship Stress Killing Sex Drive

17:00 - Communication Red Flags in Relationships

23:40 - Prozac and Orgasm Difficulties

26:31 - Switching from Lexapro to Wellbutrin Success Story

28:40 - Why Medication Doses Differ for Women

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The Beginner's Guide to Anal Play w/ Dr Glickman & Dr Hernandez

Tue, 26 Aug 2025 10:00:00 -0000

This episode tackles one of the most misunderstood topics in sexuality with two leading experts: Dr. Charlie Glickman, co-author of "The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure," and Dr. Hernando Chavez. Together, they bust the biggest myths surrounding anal play, from the damaging idea that learning from porn is effective (spoiler: it's like "learning to drive from watching a car chase movie") to misconceptions about sexual orientation and hygiene. The conversation transforms anal exploration from anxiety-inducing taboo into approachable pleasure education. Charlie breaks down the real anatomy behind prostate stimulation and explains why men who receive anal play often become better lovers, while Hernando addresses cultural barriers and shares how that forbidden factor can actually enhance arousal. They dive into practical preparation techniques, revolutionary lube innovations, and why starting with external play removes performance pressure. Whether dealing with complete curiosity or recovering from painful past experiences, this episode provides the shame-free guidance needed to explore backdoor pleasure safely and successfully.

Timestamps:

0:00 - Intro 1:16 - Anal Play Discussion 2:57 - Why Anal Sex Isn't for Everyone 4:47 - Prostate Massage for Men: Breaking the Stigma 7:47 - How to Find and Stimulate the Prostate 11:41 - Benefits of Anal Play for Couples 15:23 - Anal Play Tips and Toy Recommendations 18:03 - Pegging Basics and Prostate Stimulation 21:22 - How to Bring Up Anal Play with Your Partner 25:58 - Discussing Anal with Your Wife 36:18 - Common Anal Sex Myths Debunked 42:08 - Personal Stories and Learning Experiences 44:27 - Preparation and Hygiene for Anal Play 47:06 - Essential Lube Tips and Product Recommendations

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The Hidden Power of Sexual Language with Amanda Montell

Sat, 23 Aug 2025 16:00:00 -0000

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In this thought-provoking episode of Sex with Emily, Dr. Emily welcomes linguist and author Amanda Montell ("Word Sl*t: A Feminist Guide to Taking Back the English Language") explore how patriarchal language controls our sex lives. They reveal why terms like "penetration" frame intimacy from a male perspective, how medical language describes vaginas as "organs that receive the penis" while penises get weapon metaphors, and why violent bedroom slang reflects power imbalances.

The discussion covers language reclamation strategies, from using "vulva" instead of "vajay-jay" to how transgender communities create new sexual terminology. Dr. Emily addresses listener questions about safe sex conversations during hookups, overcoming conservative shame around oral pleasure, and breaking toxic relationship cycles.

This episode shows how conscious language choices can revolutionize sexual experiences, moving from patriarchal frameworks toward more equitable intimate expression.

Timestamps:

0:22 - Introduction

4:21 - Why "penetration" frames sex from a penis perspective

7:56 - Medical definitions: "the organ that receives the penis"

11:16 - The problem with "vajay-jay"

18:02 - Mission to reclaim slurs

28:15 - Safe sex conversations during hookups

31:58 - Learning to enjoy giving oral pleasure

39:24 - Breaking recurring relationship explosion patterns

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How to Stop Sexual Fears from Killing Your Sex Life

Tue, 19 Aug 2025 10:00:00 -0000

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0:00 - Introduction

4:13 - Common Sexual Fears We All Face

6:43 - Period Sex Anxiety

17:50 - Fear of Rejection in the Bedroom

23:25 - Sexual Trauma & PTSD

32:38 - Dreams About Your Ex: What They Really Mean

44:01 - Body Image Fears & Sexual Perfectionism

47:23 - Becoming Your Best Sexual Partner

50:04 - Role Playing to Overcome Sexual Fears

54:05 - Closing the Orgasm Gap Together

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How to Explore Your Sexual Fantasies Without Shame | ft. Sexologist Carol Queen

Mon, 18 Aug 2025 19:35:00 -0000

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In this enlightening episode of Sex with Emily, Dr. Emily reunites with the legendary Carol Queen, sexologist, author, and co-founder of the Center for Sex and Culture in San Francisco. Carol, who's been Good Vibrations' staff sexologist for over 30 years and has been speaking publicly about sexuality for 50 years, returns for an essential conversation about revitalizing routine sex, navigating physical challenges in intimacy, and finding your sexual community.

This episode tackles everything from making masturbation part of your self-care routine to creative solutions for mobility challenges in the bedroom. Carol breaks down how sexual discourse has evolved from underground feminist publications to mainstream media, while emphasizing that there's no "normal" sex life everyone must follow. We explore practical techniques for spicing up routine encounters and dive into the importance of finding consensual spaces for all types of sexual expression.

We take listener calls from Jess, who wants to elevate his hookup routine with temperature play and atmosphere, Tommy, who's seeking advice on approaching older women, Jake, who's looking for safe spaces to explore exhibitionist fantasies, and John, whose wife's knee problems require creative positioning solutions. Carol's decades of experience shine through as she emphasizes that variety and difference make sexuality beautiful, not something to be ashamed of or conform to arbitrary standards.

0:00 - Introduction

1:20 - Caller Question: Spicing Up Gay Male Hookups & Avoiding Boredom

7:13 - Dating Older Women: How to Start Conversations & Build Confidence

10:05 - Preventing Recurring UTIs: Practical Tips & Product Recommendations

13:45 - Interview with Sexologist Carol Queen: 50 Years of Sexual Liberation

16:15 - How Sexual Discourse Has Changed: From Underground to Mainstream

20:32 - The History of "Pegging" & Educational Porn vs Entertainment

31:14 - Sex Positions for Physical Challenges: Knee Problems & Alternatives

41:03 - Quick Fire Questions with Carol Queen

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"Summer Sex Hacks You've Never Heard Of"

Tue, 12 Aug 2025 10:00:00 -0000

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In this fun and informative episode of Sex with Emily, Dr. Emily welcomes sex educator and author Elle Chase for a summer-themed exploration of mindful sexuality, body-positive positions, and creative outdoor adventures. Plus, psychological astrologer Dr. Jennifer Freed returns to help you align your sexual energy with cosmic guidance.

We dive into mindfulness techniques for sexual anxiety, including 4-count inhale, 6-count exhale breathing to calm the nervous system and 5-senses grounding exercises to stay present during intimate moments. Elle shares creative summer sex ideas from car sex nostalgia to pool noodle hacks for outdoor comfort, plus body-positive positions like "Threading the Needle" and "The OM Position" that work for all body types.

The episode features listener questions from Trevor about threesome safety, Michael seeking position alternatives for plus-size couples, and Bill concerned about his wife's upcoming hysterectomy. Dr. Emily provides medical advocacy advice about getting second opinions and exploring less invasive alternatives like uterine artery embolization before major surgery.

Dr. Freed's astro forecast highlights courage as this month's theme, with personalized guidance for each sign—from Aries learning to pause and attune to others' desires, to Capricorn embracing daily masturbation for stress release. We also explore alternative intimacy techniques like yoni/lingam massage and the importance of breaking the "penetration as goal" mindset for deeper pleasure exploration.

0:00 - Intro

8:27 - Sexual Liberation & Breaking Free from Negative Self-Talk

9:41 - Threesome Planning: Communication & Boundaries Guide

16:00 - Body-Positive Intimacy Tips

23:00 - Hysterectomy Alternatives: Getting Second Opinions

27:37 - Summer Sex Ideas

32:00 - Massage for Connection

37:22 - Female-Friendly Visual Content & Arousal Discussion

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How to Make Consent Sexy (Not Awkward) l ft. Sarah Sloane

Fri, 08 Aug 2025 07:00:00 -0000

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In this enlightening episode of Sex with Emily, Dr. Emily welcomes Sarah Sloane, sex and kink educator from the Hashtag Open app, for an essential conversation about consent, sexual communication, and finding partners who truly align with your desires. This episode tackles everything from making consent conversations sexy to navigating ethical porn, kink exploration, and the realities of dating after divorce.

Sarah breaks down how to make consent attractive rather than awkward, emphasizing that consent is temporary and can be withdrawn at any time. We explore the "hell yes" versus "hell no" standard for enthusiastic consent and practical ways to slow down sexual encounters for better awareness and communication. The conversation addresses how to teach consent early through body autonomy and why being honest about your boundaries actually makes you more attractive to compatible partners.

We dive into listener questions from Matt, who's navigating dating after an abusive marriage with no prior dating experience, and Christi, whose 20-year marriage is strained by concerns about her husband's porn use. Sarah offers guidance on video dating as the pandemic norm, using apps like Hashtag Open for specific interests, and the importance of yes/no/maybe lists for discovering preferences without shame. Timestamps: 00:00 - Introduction & Sarah’s Early Life 03:41 - Discovering Kink & Initial Curiosity 07:38 - Power Exchange & Emotional Safety in BDSM 11:59 - Consent, Boundaries & Clear Communication 16:13 - Self-Worth, Validation & Identity 20:46 - Shame, Judgment & Cultural Programming 26:17 - Healing from Trauma Through Play 31:03 - BDSM & Somatics: Embodiment Work 36:42 - Rewriting Scripts Around Pleasure & Worthiness 43:20 - Advice for Beginners & Empowered Exploration

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How to Heal Low Self Worth to Build a Fulfilling Sex Life l ft. Tara Schuster

Tue, 05 Aug 2025 10:00:00 -0000

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In this empowering episode of Sex with Emily, Dr. Emily Morse sits down with writer, producer, and self-care advocate Tara Schuster to talk about the journey from self-abandonment to self-worth. Through laughter, honesty, and raw storytelling, they explore emotional healing, sexual empowerment, and the small rituals that create lasting change.

Tara shares her background of emotional neglect and how she hit rock bottom; leading her to build a "re-parenting" plan with daily rituals like writing down wins, lighting candles, and journaling to create inner safety and structure. They discuss how unresolved emotional wounds often show up in the bedroom as self-doubt, people-pleasing, or disconnection from pleasure, and how Tara learned to stop abandoning herself in relationships by asking "Do I actually like this person?" instead of "Do they like me?"

They dive into how pleasure, including sex, isn't frivolous; it's essential to well-being, and how we must unlearn shame and guilt around joy in order to thrive.

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Timestamps:

0:00 - Introduction: Setting the Stage for Healing & Self-Worth

3:08 - Tara's Rock Bottom Moment: The Call That Changed Everything (hitting rock bottom at 25 and the decision to save her own life)

7:42 - The Desert Breakdown: When Success Isn't Enough

14:02 - The Spite Method: How Reluctant Healing Actually Works

19:19 - Body Gratitude Revolution: From Shame to Self-Celebration

22:58 - Self-Worth & Sex: Why Healing Yourself Transforms Intimacy

39:15 - Trauma-Informed Solo Practice: Safe Sexual Exploration

49:23 - The Yes/No/Maybe List: Tools for Sexual Communication

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How to Build Real Emotional & Sexual Connection

Fri, 01 Aug 2025 10:00:00 -0000

Join the SmartSX Membership: https://sexwithemily.com/smartsx Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: https://sexwithemily.com/guides/ Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. SHOP WITH EMILY!: https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ (free shipping on orders over $99) Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website: https://sexwithemily.com/ In this vulnerable and honest episode, Dr. Emily Morse answers listener questions about intimacy challenges, porn use, mismatched libidos, and fears around vulnerability. Whether you're dealing with long dry spells, sexual disconnection, or the impacts of pornography, this episode offers real advice for navigating modern relationships with more compassion and clarity. We explore the difference between healthy porn use and problematic patterns, it becomes an issue when it's used to avoid intimacy or sets unrealistic expectations. Emily encourages honest conversations and mutual understanding around porn preferences while addressing mismatched libidos and long dry spells, including one listener who hasn't had sex with his wife in four years. She suggests slow re-entry into intimacy through sensual touch, non-goal-oriented connection, and therapy if needed, emphasizing that curiosity and care open the door to reconnection. The conversation tackles performance anxiety and shame cycles, where anxiety about sex or fear of "failing" often creates a negative loop. Emily reminds listeners that pleasure doesn't need to be performance-based. Focus on feeling, not impressing. We also address women feeling pressured to perform porn-like roles, with Emily advocating for authentic expression over performing and emphasizing mutual consent and emotional check-ins. You're not broken. Whether you're questioning your libido, struggling with porn use, or feeling disconnected from a partner, there are tools to rebuild trust; starting with yourself. Drop the pressure, release the shame, and start with honest conversations. Timestamps: 0:00 - Introduction

1:26 - Why Online Dating When Lonely Makes Things Worse

10:00 - Dating App Photo Disasters

18:15 - Can't Orgasm with New Partner After Amazing Ex

24:20 - Military Deployment: Managing Porn Use & Intimacy

27:00 - Breaking Through Sexual Communication Barriers

31:30 - Rebuilding Trust After Cheating

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How Food, Hormones & Shame Are Destroying Your Sex Life l Ft. Will Cole

Tue, 29 Jul 2025 10:00:00 -0000

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In this illuminating episode of Sex with Emily, Dr. Emily Morse sits down with Dr. Will Cole, a leader in functional medicine and author of Gut Feelings, to explore how emotional and physical health are deeply connected, and how addressing both is essential for a thriving sex life, better relationships, and holistic well-being.

Dr. Cole explains the "shameflammation connection"; how repressed emotions like shame, guilt, and stress can cause chronic inflammation, impacting libido, energy, and connection. He breaks down this mind-body cycle where emotional stress manifests as physical illness and offers somatic tools for healing, emphasizing that nervous system regulation is crucial to breaking this loop through breathwork, stillness, and rituals that bring people back into their bodies.

We dive deep into the gut-brain connection and its major role in mood, hormone balance, and sexual health. Dr. Cole reveals how processed foods, sugar, and unresolved trauma can hijack desire and performance, while discussing silent inflammation and hormone imbalances that often show up as low libido, fatigue, or anxiety. He uses advanced lab testing to find hidden causes when patients say "I don't feel like myself."

The conversation addresses shame around pleasure and sexual identity, highlighting how culture often teaches us to suppress pleasure or disconnect from desire. Both Emily and Dr. Cole agree that reclaiming sensuality starts with removing shame and practicing compassionate self-awareness. Timestamps:

0:00 - Introduction

2:57 - What is Functional Medicine?

8:24 - The Science Behind "Gut Feelings"

13:37 - How Emotions Become Physical Symptoms

22:27 - Foods That Don't Love You Back

32:07 - Testosterone, Estrogen & Sexual Health

39:04 - Where to Find Functional Medicine Support

46:25 - The Missing Conversation

52:18 - Self-Respect Over Obsession

54:29 - Quickfire Round

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Relearning the Vagina: The Science, the Myths and the Power

Tue, 15 Jul 2025 07:00:00 -0000

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In this essential episode of Sex with Emily, Dr. Emily dedicates an entire show to demystifying the vagina, expanding knowledge about vulvas, vaginal health, and orgasm types. This conversation is all about understanding anatomy, pleasure pathways, and destigmatizing sexual issues that too many people face in silence.

We explore the internal clitoral network and why it wasn't included in medical texts until the late 1990s, debunk myths around different types of orgasms (spoiler: they're all connected through internal clitoral structure), and address why penetration alone doesn't cause orgasms for most vulva owners. Emily answers listener questions covering everything from clitoral piercings and vaginismus to rebuilding sexual identity after cancer and chronic yeast infections.

This episode includes practical product recommendations like vibrators for sensitive bodies, CBD-infused lubes, and guidance on hormone replacement therapy for vaginal health. Whether you're dealing with pain, dryness, struggling to reach climax, or just want to understand your body better, this episode offers science-backed insights and compassionate guidance for reclaiming your pleasure and sexual confidence.

Timestamps:

0:00 - Introduction: Understanding Your Vagina for Better Pleasure

1:44 - Caller Question: Clitoral Piercing Pain and Partner Acceptance

4:20 - Vaginismus: When Your Vagina Won't Relax for Penetration

8:44 - Endometriosis and Sexual Recovery After Cancer

16:22 - Clitoral vs G-Spot Orgasms: What's the Difference?

18:12 - Post-Menopause Orgasms and Vibrator "Addiction" Myths

23:10 - Chronic Yeast Infections: Causes and Solutions

28:21 - When Your Partner Stops Wanting Oral Sex After Baby

32:13 - Wrap-Up: Key Takeaways for Vaginal Health and Pleasure

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Refresh Your Relationships, Sex Life & Pleasure!

Fri, 11 Jul 2025 10:00:00 -0000

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It's not just your closet that needs a refresh, your love life might too. In this episode, Emily helps you declutter the emotional and relational baggage that's blocking deeper connection, better sex, and healthier self-worth. Think of it as a relationship reset: more intention, less chaos.

We explore the signs your love life needs a clean-out (hint: recurring patterns, mixed signals, ghosting) and how to stop confusing chaos for chemistry. Emily guides you through rewriting your dating narrative with clarity and compassion, knowing when to break up with your "type" and try something new, and how to identify emotional unavailability in yourself and others. This episode also covers letting go of "situationships" that are keeping you stuck and creating a values-based dating filter that actually works.

If you've been stuck in dating loops, confused about someone's intentions, or holding on to a relationship that's "almost" right, this episode offers the permission, and tools, you need to clear the space for real, aligned love.

Timestamps:

0:00 - Introduction

8:51 - How to Identify Toxic Relationships and Partners

19:09 - Signs It's Time to Let Go of Your Relationship

23:03 - The Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse (Gottman Research)

27:17 - Trust Issues: When Relationships Can't Be Rebuilt

30:24 - When Sex Dies in Your Relationship

38:17 - Email Time: Jealous Partner Making Wild Accusations

44:40 - Sex During Separation: Good Idea or Trap?

47:02 - The Great Squirting Debate: What It Really Is

51:46 - Wrap-Up and How to Connect

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Sex Toy Hacks You've Never Heard Of

Thu, 10 Jul 2025 10:00:00 -0000

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In this pleasure-packed episode of Sex with Emily, Dr. Emily reveals creative ways to maximize your intimate experiences using two accessible, beginner-friendly sex toys: bullet vibes and vibrating penis rings. Even if you're new to toys or working with a tight budget, these versatile options can transform your solo and partnered play.

Emily breaks down why these aren't just "beginner" toys, they're powerful tools that can enhance pleasure for all body types when you know the right techniques. She shares creative hacks for using bullet vibes during oral sex, explores how to introduce toys to hesitant partners, and reveals surprising ways to incorporate vibrating penis rings into solo play and partnered experiences.

This episode tackles common concerns head-on, including how to overcome intimidation around sex toys, why toys enhance rather than replace intimacy, and specific techniques for using these tools during penetrative sex. Emily provides detailed guidance on positions that work best with each toy, safety considerations for anal play, and her top product recommendations.

Whether you're curious about expanding your toy collection or want to get more creative with what you already have, this episode offers practical wisdom for bringing more pleasure into your intimate life. Emily's approach is inclusive, body-positive, and focused on helping you discover what works best for your unique pleasure preferences.

Timestamps:

0:00 - Introduction

7:01 - Two Must-Have Beginner Toys for Everyone

11:45 - Creative Ways to Use Bullet Vibes Beyond the Basics

16:28 - Oral Sex Game-Changers with Vibrators

19:15 - Vibrating Penis Rings: Multi-Use Pleasure Tool

24:11 - Best Sex Positions for Toy Integration

28:04 - Real Questions: Frequency & Post-Baby Changes

32:24 - Safety Tips & Communication Strategies

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How You Can Date Better to Have Better Sex!

Tue, 08 Jul 2025 10:00:00 -0000

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In this grounding episode of Sex with Emily, Dr. Emily explores how to transform your dating experience by focusing on emotional awareness, body intelligence, and clear intentions. Whether you're navigating apps or meeting people in person, this episode offers a heart-centered approach to modern dating that prioritizes authentic connection over performance.

We dive into why your dating "type" might be blocking true connection and how to get out of your head and into your body before dates. Emily shares the power of pre-date rituals and intention setting, explaining why chasing chemistry often leads us astray and how to spot green flags instead of just red ones. This conversation includes practical tips for identifying emotional safety and alignment early on, plus guidance on when to stay curious and when to walk away.

Emily offers tools for cultivating real confidence that comes from within, not from external validation, and shares how to maintain your sense of self while remaining open to connection. From setting boundaries to trusting your intuition, this episode is packed with wisdom for anyone who wants to date with more intention, less anxiety, and greater self-trust

Timestamps:

0:00 Introduction

2:43 The Roommate Problem

4:47 Why Date Nights Matter

6:02 The 5 Arousal Types Explained

9:21 Conversation-Based Dates

12:00 Sensory Dates

17:04 Playful Dates

22:36 Physical Adventure Dates

24:53 How to Introduce Massage Into Your Relationship

29:25 Rebuilding Intimacy After Having a Baby

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Why Prioritizing Sexual Pleasure Makes You Healthier (Backed by Science) | ft. Dr. Justin Lehmiller

Fri, 04 Jul 2025 10:00:00 -0000

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In this data-packed episode of Sex with Emily, Dr. Emily sits down with social psychologist and Kinsey Institute researcher Dr. Justin Lehmiller to break down what science actually tells us about our sexual fantasies, kinks, and casual hookups. This conversation is full of insights that will make you rethink what's "normal" in bed, and help you embrace your desires with more compassion and clarity.

Dr. Lehmiller reveals the most common sexual fantasies (hint: kink is more mainstream than you think) and explains what our fantasies say about our emotional needs and life history. We explore the truth about gender differences in fantasies, how to safely explore kink and consensual non-monogamy, and research on why some people thrive with casual sex while others don't.

This episode covers practical tips for talking about fantasies with your partner without shame or pressure, plus why self-awareness (not fantasy content) is the key to sexual fulfillment. Whether you're curious about exploring fantasies, navigating open relationships, or just want to understand the psychology of desire, this conversation brings research and real talk together in a way that's both validating and thought-provoking.

Timestamps:

0:00 - Introduction & The Kink Revolution

4:07 - Fantasy vs Reality: The Threesome Gap

11:43 - Why Gay Men Have Better Threesomes

18:17 - What Gay vs Straight Men Really Have in Common

25:04 - The Kinsey Scale & Sexual Fluidity Explained

31:20 - Friends with Benefits: What Actually Works

35:00 - The Couples Vibrator Study Results

37:45 - Dutch Sex Education: What America Gets Wrong

44:13 - How to Talk to Kids About Masturbation

48:51 - Quickfire Questions: Turn-Ons, Turn-Offs & Sex Advice

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How Sensuality Reconnects You to Your Pleasure and Body l ft. Lizzy Jeff

Tue, 01 Jul 2025 10:00:00 -0000

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In this powerful episode of Sex with Emily, the magnetic Lizzy Jeff—rap priestess, medicine woman, and founder of Zen & Kush—joins Dr. Emily to dive into the world of cannabis and sensuality. Together, they unpack how CBD and THC can elevate sexual connection, unlock pleasure, and serve as sacred tools for healing and embodiment.

Lizzy shares her personal journey with yoni oils, cannabis suppositories, and sacred self-touch, revealing how cannabis can enhance arousal, deepen orgasms, and help you stay present during intimate moments. We explore the power of mirror work, daily sensual rituals, and breath as tools for embodiment, plus how to set up a sex magic practice for manifestation.

This episode covers practical guidance on strains, dosage, and product quality, while addressing common concerns like dry mouth, vaginal dryness, and staying present during sex. Lizzy's radiant energy and wisdom shine through as she explains how cannabis can be used intentionally to expand your sexual repertoire and connect with your most authentic, sensual self.

Whether you're cannabis-curious, cautious, or already exploring plant medicine in the bedroom, this conversation is full of inspiration and practical tools to help you discover new dimensions of connection and pleasure. From the science of how THC and CBD affect your body to the spiritual aspects of sacred sexuality, this episode offers a holistic approach to cannabis and intimacy.

Timestamps:

0:01 - Setting Intentions with Cannabis 1:06 - Meet Lizzy Jeff: Rap Priestess & Medicine Woman 4:07 - Cannabis & Sex: Personal Experiences 6:46 - "Big Pussy Energy" & Confidence 12:06 - Staying Present During Sex: Mantras & Practices 17:12 - Daily Body Connection Practices 22:14 - Handling Cannabis Side Effects 24:05 - Why Sex Is Better High & Strain Recommendations 29:48 - Quick Fire Questions 32:13 - Sex Magic: Manifesting Through Pleasure

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How Meditation Rewires Your Brain for Love, Sex & Self-Control l Ft. Light Watkins

Fri, 27 Jun 2025 12:11:00 -0000

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Join Dr. Emily as she sits down with meditation teacher, speaker, and author Light Watkins to explore how mindfulness and meditation can transform your relationships and sex life. From creating space in relationships to finding authentic happiness, this conversation dives deep into practical tools for better living and loving.

Light Watkins is a bestselling author, accomplished meditation teacher, and founder of the Shine Movement. He's an inspirational keynote speaker and workshop leader who has delivered wellness-themed talks around the globe.

Timestamps

[8:24] - Emily's personal meditation journey

[10:01] - How meditation creates space between offense and reaction in relationships

[14:55] - The correlation between meditation and sex

[21:02] - Light's accountability hack

[31:04] - Why happiness is like doing a pull-up

[38:47] - How meditation changed Light's approach to sexual connection and intimacy

[41:01] - Split-testing your inner voices

[45:35] - The gratitude algorithm

[52:52] - Quickie Questions

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Why You’ve Lost Desire in Your Relationship (And How to Get It Back) l ft. Esther Perel

Thu, 26 Jun 2025 16:34:00 -0000

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In this episode of Sex with Emily, world-renowned psychotherapist Esther Perel joins us for an intimate conversation about the complexities of modern love, desire, and relationships. From her groundbreaking work on infidelity to her insights on maintaining passion in long-term partnerships, Esther shares the wisdom that has helped millions navigate the tension between security and excitement in love.

We explore Esther's core philosophy that desire is not something you have—it's something you cultivate. She breaks down the fundamental paradox of modern relationships: love seeks closeness and security, while desire craves space, novelty, and mystery. We discuss how to integrate these opposing forces and why the question "Can you want what you already have?" is central to sustaining passion over time.

Esther reveals why eroticism is truly a state of mind, how pleasure connects directly to self-worth, and her revolutionary perspective on infidelity—that sometimes people don't go elsewhere to find another person, but to find another version of themselves. We also dive into her new card game "Where Should We Begin," designed to foster vulnerability and deep connection through storytelling.

This conversation addresses the unrealistic expectations we place on one partner to be our everything, practical tools for managing relationship anxiety, and why modern love requires us to calibrate rather than abandon our expectations. Whether you're single, coupled, or somewhere in between, Esther's insights offer a roadmap for creating more authentic, passionate connections.

Timestamps

0:00 - Introduction

2:45 - The evolution from duty to desire

8:02 - Can we experience desire and deep love simultaneously?

11:20 - "I turn myself off when..." vs "I turn myself on when..."

16:00 - Pleasure vs. performance

19:09 - The ice cream exercise

25:52 - One person can't be everything

31:14 - Understanding infidelity

35:10 - Playing the relationship game

44:00 - Dealing with anxiety in love

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What It’s Really Like to Grow Up Non-Binary l Jeffrey Marsh

Fri, 20 Jun 2025 10:00:00 -0000

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In this powerful episode of Sex with Emily, Dr. Emily sits down with Jeffrey Marsh, the first openly non-binary public figure interviewed on national television, author of "How to Be You," and a Zen-trained meditation teacher who has helped millions embrace self-acceptance. This conversation goes deep into identity, authenticity, and the radical act of loving yourself exactly as you are.

Jeffrey shares their journey from childhood feelings of not fitting into traditional gender roles to becoming a leading voice for non-binary visibility and self-compassion. We explore the difference between gender identity and sexual orientation, the importance of using correct pronouns as basic respect, and how Jeffrey's 20+ years of Zen practice has shaped their approach to self-love and helping others break free from shame.

This episode addresses the real challenges of coming out, setting boundaries with family, and the courage it takes to live authentically in a world that often demands conformity. Jeffrey offers practical wisdom on moving from self-criticism to self-acceptance, why asking for what you need is essential for healthy relationships, and how their work helps people - especially parents - learn to support LGBTQ+ loved ones.

Whether you're exploring your own identity, supporting someone in your life, or simply want to understand how to love yourself more fully, this conversation offers profound insights on breaking free from societal expectations and embracing your authentic self.

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How Your Brain Sabotages Your Sex Life! l Dr. Daniel Amen Explains

Tue, 17 Jun 2025 10:00:00 -0000

In this episode of Sex with Emily, renowned psychiatrist and brain expert Dr. Daniel Amen joins us to explore how our "hidden dragons", the unconscious patterns from our past, are secretly controlling our happiness, relationships, and sex lives. Based on his latest book, "Your Brain is Always Listening," Dr. Amen reveals how childhood experiences, family trauma, and even ancestral patterns get written into our brains and show up in our intimate relationships. We dive deep into the most common dragons people face, including the anxious dragon, the abandoned and insignificant dragon, and the codependent dragon. Dr. Amen shares his personal journey with these patterns and explains how understanding your dragons can transform not just your mental health, but your sexual wellness too. We explore the connection between brain health and sexual function, why ADD can impact orgasms, and how negative thought patterns become "bad habits" that sabotage intimacy. This episode includes practical tools like positivity bias training, the power of rewriting your story, and specific breathing techniques that can reset your nervous system. Dr. Amen also addresses a listener's question about cheating addiction and explains how brain scans revealed the neurological patterns behind compulsive behavior. Whether you're struggling with commitment issues, sexual anxiety, or just want to understand how your brain affects your love life, this conversation offers both scientific insights and actionable strategies for creating healthier relationships. Show Notes: 00:00 - Introduction to Hidden Dragons 01:02 - Dr. Amen's Personal Dragon Story 04:40 - The Abandoned & Insignificant Dragon 08:26 - Most Common Dragons People Face 11:07 - The Ancestral Dragon & Epigenetics 14:18 - Rewriting Your Story & Focus 16:06 - Positivity Bias Training 19:07 - Happiness as Moral Obligation 21:22 - Brain Health & Sexual Function 24:02 - Building Better Mental Habits 27:59 - Listener Q&A: Cheating Addiction 35:12 - ADD & Relationships 38:20 - ADD & Female Orgasms 40:30 - Breathing Techniques for Regulation Join the SmartSX Membership : https://sexwithemily.com/smartsx Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: https://sexwithemily.com/guides/ Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. SHOP WITH EMILY!: https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ (free shipping on orders over $99) Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website: https://sexwithemily.com/ Let's get social: Instagram https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/ X https://twitter.com/sexwithemily Facebook https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily Threads https://www.threads.net/@sexwithemily Let's text: Sign up here https://sexwithemily.com/text

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How to Safely Explore BDSM & Kink (Professional Dominatrix Explains)

Fri, 13 Jun 2025 10:00:00 -0000

In this episode of the Sex with Emily podcast, Dr. Emily sits down with Mistress Justine Cross, a professional dominatrix, educator, and owner of Dungeon East in Los Angeles, to demystify BDSM and power play. From breaking down what BDSM actually means to exploring how anyone can safely incorporate kink into their sex lives, Justine shares over a decade of experience helping people discover their desires without judgment.

We dive deep into the realities of professional domination, debunking myths perpetuated by "50 Shades of Gray" and explaining why BDSM is far more psychological than physical. Justine walks us through the importance of consent, negotiation, and boundaries, revealing how these skills enhance not just kinky encounters but all intimate relationships. We explore everything from beginner-friendly activities to advanced practices like chastity training and post-orgasm torture.

This episode addresses common concerns about introducing kink to partners, finding compatible people who share your interests, and the difference between healthy exploration and unhealthy dynamics. Whether you're completely new to BDSM or looking to deepen your understanding, Justine provides practical advice for safe, consensual exploration while emphasizing that great kink—like great sex—is built on communication, trust, and mutual respect.

Show Notes:

00:00 - Introduction to BDSM and Power Play

02:13 - Defining BDSM: Bondage, Discipline, Dominance & Submission

04:09 - Professional Domination: What Really Happens

07:10 - Debunking 50 Shades Myths

12:37 - The Omakase Approach: Exploring What You Like

16:01 - Orgasm Control and Chastity Training

18:16 - Communication: Talking to Partners About Kink

22:07 - BDSM 101: Starting Your Journey

25:32 - Creating Beautiful, Accessible Kink Spaces

30:06 - Ball Busting and Physical Play Safety

32:48 - Finding Your Dominant or Submissive Side

This episode emphasizes that BDSM isn't about expensive equipment or extreme scenarios—it's about power exchange, communication, and exploring desires in a safe, consensual environment with partners who respect your boundaries.

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Bonus Episode: 10 Red Flags in Bed That Kill Great Sex

Thu, 12 Jun 2025 10:00:00 -0000

In this bonus episode of Sex with Emily, Dr. Emily breaks down the top 10 red flags in bed that go beyond bad technique—these are the behaviors that can seriously impact your safety, intimacy, and sexual satisfaction. From partners who never ask what you like to those who skip foreplay entirely, we explore the warning signs that indicate deeper issues around sexual awareness, communication, and respect.

We dive into why these red flags matter, including partners who don't take feedback, make orgasm the only goal, ignore consent, lead with ego, and vanish emotionally after sex. Dr. Emily also addresses those who shame your fantasies, avoid sexual health conversations, and expect mind-reading instead of open communication.

This isn't about shaming anyone—it's about recognizing patterns early so you can advocate for your needs and build healthier, more connected sexual experiences. Whether you're dating, in a relationship, or just want to know what to watch out for, this episode gives you the tools to identify red flags and prioritize partners who truly care about mutual pleasure and respect.

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When Sex Feels Like a Chore: Reclaiming Pleasure and Connection

Tue, 10 Jun 2025 10:00:00 -0000

In this episode of the Sex with Emily podcast, Dr. Emily teams up with Dr. Scott Lyons, a licensed holistic psychologist and trauma expert, to tackle one of the most common relationship challenges: when sex starts feeling like just another item on your to-do list. From exploring why intimacy can lose its spark to practical strategies for reigniting desire, this conversation gets to the heart of what happens when pleasure becomes obligation.

We dive deep into the psychology behind sexual disconnection, examining how stress, routine, and unspoken resentments can transform what should be joyful into something that feels burdensome. Dr. Scott shares insights on nervous system regulation and how our bodies respond when we're overwhelmed, while Dr. Emily offers practical advice on communication, scheduling intimacy, and the importance of prioritizing pleasure throughout the week—not just in the bedroom.

This episode addresses the reality that many couples face: mismatched libidos, the pressure to perform, and the challenge of maintaining sexual connection amid life's demands. We explore how to shift from duty-based sex to desire-driven intimacy, the role of variety and spontaneity in long-term relationships, and why "priming for pleasure" throughout the week is essential for a fulfilling sex life.

Show Notes: 00:00:00 - When Sex Becomes a Chore

03:00:00 - The Psychology of Sexual Obligation
06:41:00 - Mismatched Libidos and Relationship Dynamics

08:26:00 - Breaking the Routine: Adding Variety and Play

11:07:00 - Communication vs. Avoidance in Sexual Relationships

15:38:00 - Priming for Pleasure Throughout the Week

18:06:00 - Scheduling Sex: Intentional vs. Spontaneous Intimacy

23:10:00 - From Duty to Desire: Practical Strategies

28:14:00 - Building Anticipation and Connection

30:04:00 - Redefining Sexual Success and Satisfaction

Whether you're feeling disconnected from your partner or just want to prevent sex from becoming routine, this episode offers compassionate guidance and actionable strategies for reclaiming the joy and connection that intimate relationships can provide.

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How to Ask for What You Want in Bed (For Better Sex)

Fri, 06 Jun 2025 10:00:00 -0000

In this captivating episode of the Sex with Emily podcast, Dr. Emily welcomes back adult film legend and author Joanna Angel to discuss her brilliant new choose-your-own-adventure erotic novel "Club 42." From her transformative days as a stripper to building a porn empire, Joanna shares how embracing her sexuality became the foundation of her confidence and success

We dive into Joanna's fascinating journey of sexual self-discovery, exploring how stripping taught her to embrace her femininity, develop unshakeable confidence, and connect authentically with others. Her new book takes readers on multiple erotic adventures through a strip club setting, allowing you to choose your own path through various sexual scenarios—from hooking up with fellow dancers to exploring BDSM and everything in between.

This episode is packed with practical advice on dirty talk, sexting, and vocal expression during intimacy. Joanna breaks down why authentic communication is crucial for great sex, how to move beyond performative sounds influenced by porn, and why being genuinely expressive enhances pleasure for everyone involved. We also explore her weakness for "band guys" and how sexual attraction doesn't always align with our feminist ideals.

Key Topics Covered:

How stripping transformed Joanna's confidence and sexuality
The art of choose-your-own-adventure erotica
Dirty talk vs. sexting: different skills for different situations
Moving beyond porn-influenced sexual performance
Why authentic vocalization enhances pleasure
Sexual confidence and embracing your desires
The psychology behind attraction to "bad boys"
Creating inclusive, diverse sexual narratives

Joanna's refreshing honesty about sexuality, combined with her literary talents, offers listeners both inspiration and practical tools for expanding their own sexual adventures. Whether you're looking to spice up your relationship or explore new fantasies, this episode celebrates the power of choice, authenticity, and unapologetic pleasure.

Show Notes:

00:00:00 - Joanna's journey from stripper to porn entrepreneur

08:00:00 - How stripping built unshakeable sexual confidence
15:00:00 - "Club 42": Choose-your-own-adventure erotica

23:00:00 - The art of authentic dirty talk and sexting

31:00:00 - Moving beyond performative sexuality

38:00:00 - Listener questions and practical advice

This episode reminds us that great sex starts with knowing yourself, embracing your desires, and having the confidence to ask for what you want—whether in the bedroom or on the page.

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Bonus Episode: Is Watching Porn Cheating? The Truth About Digital Betrayal

Thu, 05 Jun 2025 10:00:00 -0000

In this essential bonus episode of the Sex with Emily podcast, Dr. Emily tackles one of the most common and complicated questions in modern relationships: Does watching porn count as cheating? If you've ever felt that stomach-dropping moment when you discovered your partner's browser history, or wondered if your own porn consumption crosses a line, this episode is for you.

Dr. Emily cuts straight through the confusion to reveal that there's no universal answer to this question—but if it's coming up in your relationship, there's something deeper worth exploring. The real issue isn't necessarily the porn itself, but whether this behavior is breaking trust and violating the agreements you've made with your partner.

We explore why so many couples never discuss porn until someone gets hurt, how childhood conditioning around secrecy affects our adult relationships, and why the shame and silence surrounding porn often cause more damage than the porn itself. Dr. Emily also addresses when porn consumption can become genuinely problematic and offers practical guidance for having these crucial conversations.

Key Topics Covered:

Why there's no universal definition of cheating
The difference between porn use and porn problems
How secrecy and shame damage relationships more than porn
Why many people never discuss boundaries until it's too late
When porn consumption becomes genuinely concerning
How to have honest conversations about digital boundaries
Moving from assumptions to actual agreements

This episode emphasizes that porn doesn't ruin relationships—it's the lack of communication, transparency, and mutual understanding that creates problems. Whether you're completely comfortable with porn or feel threatened by it, this episode provides the framework for having honest, productive conversations about digital intimacy boundaries.

Remember: Communication is always sexier than making assumptions and making your partner wrong.

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Strange Bedfellows: The Truth About STIs with Dr. Ina Park

Tue, 03 Jun 2025 10:00:00 -0000

In this essential episode of the Sex with Emily podcast, Dr. Emily sits down with Dr. Ina Park, associate professor at UCSF School of Medicine and author of "Strange Bedfellows: Adventures in the Science, History, and Surprising Secrets of STDs." From her early days as a peer educator dressed as a giant condom at UC Berkeley to becoming a leading expert in sexual health, Dr. Park brings both humor and expertise to one of the most stigmatized topics in sexual wellness.

We dive deep into the myths and realities surrounding STIs, exploring why HPV is truly "the common cold of the genitals" that nearly everyone will encounter, how herpes stigma far outweighs its actual health impact, and why people who know their status are actually safer partners than those who don't. Dr. Park shares fascinating insights about everything from The Bachelor's problematic STI testing to the connection between pubic hair grooming and infection risk.

This conversation tackles the shame and fear that keep us from having honest discussions about sexual health, while providing practical advice on testing, disclosure, and maintaining healthy relationships regardless of STI status. We also explore the vaginal microbiome, why some people are more susceptible to infections, and promising new treatments on the horizon.

Key Topics Covered:

HPV: Why it's unavoidable and how to think about it differently
Herpes disclosure and reducing transmission risk
The truth about oral sex and STI transmission
Pubic hair, Brazilian waxes, and infection risk
Vaginal health and the microbiome
Why knowing your status makes you a safer partner
Breaking down STI stigma and shame

Dr. Park's refreshing approach reminds us that STIs are simply part of being sexually active humans, and that knowledge, communication, and compassion are our best tools for sexual wellness.

Show Notes:

00:00:00 - Dr. Park's journey from condom costume to STI expert

07:00:00 - HPV: The common cold of the genitals

14:00:00 - Herpes myths, realities, and disclosure strategies

22:00:00 - Oral sex and STI transmission risks

26:00:00 - Pubic hair grooming and infection risk

31:00:00 - Vaginal microbiome and bacterial balance

36:00:00 - Listener Q&A: Real STI concerns answered

42:00:00 - Breaking stigma and having better conversations

This episode emphasizes that sexual health is part of overall wellness, and that honest, shame-free conversations about STIs can transform how we approach intimate relationships.

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Gwyneth Paltrow on Sexual Healing, Breaking Taboos, and Her Show

Fri, 30 May 2025 10:00:00 -0000

In this throwback episode, Gwyneth Paltrow joins Dr. Emily to discuss her groundbreaking series "Sex, Love & Goop" and why she's passionate about normalizing conversations around sexual wellness. From her journey as a Gen X woman navigating shame around female pleasure to creating beautifully designed vibrators that challenge stigma, Gwyneth opens up about the evolution of her own sexuality and the importance of sexual wellness as a pillar of overall health.

We explore how sexual intimacy serves as a microcosm for all our relationships, why accountability and communication are essential for fulfilling partnerships, and how Gwyneth's current marriage has allowed her to experience a new level of sexual freedom in her late forties. The conversation delves into the performative nature of sexuality many women experience, the challenge of asking for what we want, and how non-judgmental partners can create space for authentic sexual expression.

Gwyneth also shares insights about perimenopause and menopause, advocating for rebranding this life stage as an exciting gateway rather than an ending. She discusses her wellness journey, including how gut health has impacted her hormone balance, and reveals her hopes that her show will inspire couples to have vulnerable conversations that deepen their intimate connections.

Key Topics Covered:

Breaking cultural shame around female sexual pleasure
The importance of sexual wellness in overall health
Creating sex-positive products and conversations
Navigating sexuality through different life stages
Communication and vulnerability in intimate relationships
Menopause as a gateway to deeper sexuality
The connection between gut health and hormones

This episode emphasizes that sexual wellness deserves the same attention as other aspects of health, and that honest conversations about pleasure and intimacy can transform relationships at any age.

Show Notes: 00:00:00 - Netflix series and sexual healing exploration 07:00:00 - Gen X sexuality and cultural shame 14:00:00 - Creating beautiful, stigma-free sex products 21:00:00 - Evolution of personal sexuality and partnerships 28:00:00 - Menopause rebranding and sexual evolution 35:00:00 - Wellness, gut health, and hormone balance 42:00:00 - Quick-fire questions and final thoughts

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5 Sex Myths That Are Ruining Your Love Life

Tue, 27 May 2025 16:08:00 -0000

In this episode of the Sex with Emily podcast, Dr. Emily debunks five pervasive sex myths that may be holding you back from experiencing your best intimate life. From the "body count" obsession to orgasm pressure, we explore why these common beliefs are not only wrong but potentially harmful to your sexual confidence and relationships.

We dive deep into why the number of sexual partners doesn't determine your skill as a lover, the truth about natural lubrication and arousal, and how focusing solely on orgasms can actually prevent you from having them. Dr. Emily also addresses vibrator myths, explaining why sex toys enhance rather than replace intimacy, and breaks down outdated beliefs about anal play that keep people from exploring new dimensions of pleasure.

Featuring listener questions from Francesca, Josh, Taylor, Melissa, and Nicole, this episode provides practical advice for navigating sexual insecurities, communication with partners, and expanding your intimate repertoire. Whether you're dealing with dryness, struggling to reach climax, or curious about introducing new elements to your sex life, this episode offers science-backed insights and compassionate guidance.

Show Notes: 00:00:00 - The Body Count Myth 08:00:00 - Quality vs. Quantity in Sexual Experience
11:30:00 - The Lube Myth & Natural Lubrication 17:25:00 - Orgasm Pressure & Pleasure Focus 23:17:00 - Vibrator Addiction Myths 29:57:00 - Anal Play Misconceptions 33:02:00 - Listener Q&A: Building Sexual Confidence

This episode emphasizes that great sex is about communication, presence, and understanding your own body—not conforming to arbitrary standards or myths that create unnecessary pressure and shame.

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Why Your Voice is Your Secret Pleasure Tool

Tue, 27 May 2025 16:07:00 -0000

In this intimate episode of the Sex with Emily podcast, Dr. Emily teams up with Dr. Scott Lyons, a licensed holistic psychologist and body-based trauma expert, to explore how vocalizing pleasure can transform your intimate experiences. From a candid discussion about their couples massage experience in Vegas to practical advice on overcoming sexual silence, this episode reveals why making authentic sounds during sex creates deeper connection and more intense pleasure.

We dive into the psychology behind sexual silence, examining how childhood conditioning, shame, and societal expectations keep us quiet when we should be expressing ourselves. Dr. Scott explains the nervous system science behind vocalization, including how making sounds stimulates the vagus nerve and helps regulate our bodies during intimate moments. We also tackle the difference between authentic pleasure sounds and performative moaning influenced by porn culture.

This episode addresses common concerns like being too loud with roommates or kids in the house, offers practical exercises for gradually increasing your vocal expression, and explores how sound creates crucial feedback loops between partners. Whether you're naturally quiet or overly performative, you'll learn how to find your authentic voice of pleasure.

Show Notes: 00:00:00 - The Vegas Massage Story: Learning from Authentic Sound 03:00:00 - Why We Stay Silent During Pleasure 06:41:00 - Men, Masturbation & the Culture of Quiet Sex 08:26:00 - Sound as Nervous System Regulation 11:07:00 - Authentic vs. Performative Vocalization 15:38:00 - The Sixth Limb: Your Voice as Extension of Your Body 18:06:00 - Shame, Control & Sexual Expression 23:10:00 - Practical Exercises: Touch for Pleasure Practice 28:14:00 - Sensory Play & Exploration 30:04:00 - Parents, Kids & Sexual Noise Concerns 33:08:00 - The 10% Challenge: Starting Small

Join Dr. Emily and Dr. Scott as they share personal insights and professional expertise on breaking through sexual silence to unlock deeper pleasure and connection. This episode includes a live demonstration and practical homework to help you discover your authentic voice of pleasure.

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Why We Struggle With Commitment

Tue, 20 May 2025 10:00:00 -0000

In this episode of the Sex with Emily podcast, we dive into the complexities of commitment by exploring our contrasting perspectives—one of us grappling with a fear of merging in relationships, the other reflecting on a tendency to overcommit. We unpack how childhood experiences, parental relationship models, and societal pressures shape our views on intimacy, boundaries, and compatibility. From the gamification of dating culture to generational differences in approaching relationships, we examine the challenges Gen X and Gen Z face in defining commitment. We also discuss the emotional weight of erectile dysfunction and the unrealistic expectations placed on male sexuality. Through honest conversation, we question traditional norms and explore the idea that commitment doesn’t have to be one-size-fits-all—sometimes, a redefined or intermittent approach may lead to healthier, more fulfilling connections.

Show Notes:

00:00:00 - Commitment Phobia

00:02:21 - Commitment & Relationship Anxiety

04:40 - Commitment & Childhood Trauma

07:39 - Commitment Phobia & Dynamics

10:25 - Commitment, Casual Sex & Polyamory

13:10 - Commitment Issues & Attachment

15:14 - Avoidant Attachment & Dynamics

17:41 - Commitment vs. Incompatibility

20:00 - Commitment & "Perfect" Partners

22:20 - Dating Exhaustion & Sex Drought

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The Ultimate Guide to Having Better Sex

Mon, 19 May 2025 23:07:00 -0000

This podcast episode tackles five common sex questions: communicating about sex and trying new things; improving oral sex; spicing up the sex life; increasing sex drive; and lasting longer. The episode emphasizes open communication as key to better sex, offering practical advice on navigating awkward conversations, addressing defensive responses, and prioritizing individual needs. Specific techniques for improving oral sex, addressing low libido (including medical and psychological factors), and dealing with differing sex drives are discussed. Several listener emails are addressed, providing personalized advice on various sexual challenges, including premature ejaculation, delayed ejaculation, and overcoming discomfort with oral sex. The episode also recommends resources like Ian Kerner's work and suggests strategies for increasing sexual satisfaction and communication within relationships.

Timestamps:

00:00:16 - Top 5 Sex Questions

00:03:30 - Improving Sex Communication

06:57 - Overcoming Barriers to Sex Talks

09:33 - Communicating Sexual Needs

15:43 - Boosting Sex Drive

18:49 - Libido & Relationship Issues

21:29 - Spice Up Your Sex Life

24:19 - Relationship Sex Issues

29:40 - Mastering Oral Sex

44:04 - Listener Questions & Intimacy

55:49 - Premature Ejaculation Issues

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How to Build a Relationship That Actually Lasts Forever

Tue, 13 May 2025 16:01:00 -0000

In this episode, we explore the science of lasting relationships with insights grounded in the Gottman Method. Discover the four behaviors that predict divorce with 94% accuracy, why emotional connection is key to great sex, and how couples can deepen intimacy with better communication—not perfect compatibility. From sleep-deprived parents to long-term partners, this conversation is packed with research-backed tips to transform your love life. #love #relationship #divorce Timestamps: 00:00:00 - Relationship Success & Gottman Institute 03:14 - Couple's Coffee Shop Love Story 06:33 - Predicting Relationship Success/Failure 10:03 - Four Horsemen of Apocalypse 17:03 - Relationship Workshops & Education 20:22 - Post-Baby Relationships 23:50 - Relationship Challenges & Communication 27:25 - Deepening Relationships Through Dates 30:23 - Rediscovering Shared Dreams & Values 46:33 - Factors in a Great Sex Life 1:00:00 - Prioritizing Relationships & Intimacy Join the SmartSX Membership : https://sexwithemily.com/smartsx Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: https://sexwithemily.com/guides/ Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. SHOP WITH EMILY!: https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ (free shipping on orders over $99) Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website: https://sexwithemily.com/ Let’s get social: Instagram https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/ X https://twitter.com/sexwithemily Facebook https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily Threads https://www.threads.net/@sexwithemily Let’s text: Sign up here https://sexwithemily.com/text

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Why Your Sex Life Isn't as Good As It Could Be

Fri, 09 May 2025 10:00:00 -0000

In this powerful episode of Sex with Emily and Shroter, we’re joined by Dolly, a renowned sexological bodyworker featured in Cosmopolitan and Hustler, for a deep dive into somatic sex therapy and the true path to embodied pleasure.

Dolly opens up about her healing journey after a sexless marriage—how breathwork, mirror work, and intentional self-touch led her to reclaim her body and reawaken her desire. Together, we unpack what it means to stop performing and start feeling, breaking down the difference between orgasm and climax, and how to explore your body with curiosity, not pressure.

Timestamps:

00:01:08 - Healing Journey: Sex & Pleasure

00:07:17 - Post-Divorce Healing & Femininity

10:57 - Embodied Sexuality & Vulva Mapping

14:10 - Vulva Mapping & Frustration

20:06 - Embodiment, Self-Touch & Vulva Hug

23:50 - Vulva Hug Meditation Practice

32:03 - Vulva Anatomy & Trauma Release

43:41 - Reclaiming Your Vulva: Love & Healing

46:16 - Expanding Orgasmic Potential

01:00:51 - Q&A & Vulva Hug Meditation

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Beyond the Body Count: Reframing Sexual History in Dating

Tue, 06 May 2025 10:00:00 -0000

This week on Sex With Emily, we're tackling one of the most harmful and outdated questions in modern dating: "What's your body count?" In conversation with holistic psychologist and trauma expert Dr. Scott Lyons, we explore the troubling origins of this term, once used to count military casualties, and how it’s been repurposed to judge sexual history, often unfairly targeting women. We unpack the double standards rooted in purity culture, the insecurities this question provokes, and the shame it can breed in both high and low numbers. More importantly, we discuss why the number of sexual partners has nothing to do with sexual skill, emotional readiness, or compatibility.

#intimacy #love #relationships

Timestamps:

00:00:00 - Body Count: A Sex-Positive Discussion

00:03:00 - Judging Past Relationships

05:51 - Body Count & Insecurities

08:24 - Why Judging is Wrong

10:46:38 - Historical Shame Roots

13:22 - Societal Shame & Body Count

15:47 - Regrets & Sexual Experiences

18:13 - Reframing the Conversation

22:44:04 - Ditching the Question

25:38 - Addressing Relationship Insecurities

37:53 - Pleasure, Goodbyes & Outro

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Why Great Sex Starts Outside the Bedroom

Fri, 02 May 2025 15:41:00 -0000

This episode of "Sex with Emily" dives deep into the psychology and practice of foreplay, redefining it as encompassing all forms of connection, not just physical acts preceding intercourse. We discuss the importance of arousal, highlighting physiological differences between men and women and emphasizing the brain's role as the largest sex organ.

This episode features practical tips for enhancing intimacy using all five senses, incorporating various sensual aids, and exploring different forms of touch and communication.

#foreplay #intimacy #sex

Show Notes:

00:02:50 - Foreplay: Psychology & Importance

03:49 - Foreplay & Gender Differences

10:04:20 - Secrets to Great Sex

13:29 - Setting the Mood: Five Senses

16:22 - Enhancing Foreplay & Sensory Play

19:43 - Enhancing Intimacy & Communication

22:26 - Intimacy Beyond Penetration

25:27 - Improving Sex Life & Teasing

28:14 - Reciprocated Foreplay & Issues

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Where’s the Line? Redefining Cheating in the Digital Age

Tue, 29 Apr 2025 10:00:00 -0000

In this episode of Sex With Emily, Dr. Emily takes a deep dive into the evolving landscape of infidelity in 2025. She unpacks how cheating today goes far beyond physical acts—covering emotional connections, digital interactions like DMs, social media behaviors, and even fantasies. Dr. Emily challenges listeners to rethink old assumptions and instead foster open conversations about boundaries, values, and intimacy, drawing insights from how polyamorous relationships navigate these topics.

With real-life stories, listener questions, and expert advice from holistic psychologist Dr. Scott Lyons, this episode explores the impact of porn, the gray areas of "micro-cheating," and how communication can prevent betrayal. Dr. Emily also shares strategies for healing after trust is broken, including key statistics, self-reflection practices, and tips to understand your attachment style.

#relationship #dating #cheating

Show Notes: 00:00:00 - Defining & Preventing Infidelity

00:03:15 - Defining Infidelity in Relationships

08:12 - Relationship Boundaries & Communication

13:41 - Marriage Insecurities & Betrayal

19:19 - Confessions of a Reformed Cheater

22:31 - Open Relationships & Cheating

25:00 - Regret, Empathy & Modern Love

35:38 - Overcoming Relationship Hurdles

38:28 - Rebuilding Trust After Infidelity

45:44 - Monogamy, Polyamory & Attachment

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Unlocking Your Sensual Self | A Woman's Guide to Pleasure

Fri, 25 Apr 2025 19:51:00 -0000

In this episode of the podcast, host Emily Morse is joined by guest Pamela Madsen to explore the transformative power of "back-to-the-body" retreats for women and couples, focusing on reclaiming pleasure and improving communication. Pamela, a retreat leader with over a decade of experience, details a 7-day program emphasizing self-pleasure through clothed genital work, addressing issues such as vaginal pain and low libido.

Positive outcomes from the retreats include increased self-esteem, improved communication, and better consent negotiation. The retreats also involve sexological bodywork, including genital mapping, fantasy exploration, and elements of BDSM and tantra. Men’s participation is discussed, highlighting the positive impact these retreats have on couples.

The conversation also covers practical techniques like the "lotus lift" meditation and sensate focus exercises for embodied self-expression—even for those unable to attend in person. Emily and Pamela address common challenges such as body image issues, societal pressures, and communication barriers in long-term relationships.

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00:00:12 - Women's Retreats & Couples' Impact

03:19 - Sexological Bodywork: A Woman's Journey

06:43 - Female Anatomy & Desire

12:14 - Embodied Movement & Wellness

15:04 - Embodied Arousal & Lotus Lift

18:07 - Body Connection & Sensations

20:22 - Couples Rediscovering Sexuality

25:46 - Couple's Intimacy Coaching

32:17 - Pleasure, Aging, & Body Image

47:50 - Overcoming Anorgasmia

54:26 - Guest Contact & Retreats

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The Truth About The Spark in Relationships

Tue, 22 Apr 2025 10:00:00 -0000

Is the spark gone? Dr. Scott Lyons, as I explore how to get the spark back in relationships and

sex. We're talking about why the spark is not what you think and what you're actually looking for.

In this episode, Dr. Scott Lyons and I discuss:

● Why the initial 'spark' might be misleading.

● The importance of evolving and growing in relationships.

● How trauma responses affect attraction and intimacy.

● The difference between intensity and intimacy.

● Practical ways to cultivate a sustainable and fulfilling connection.

I share personal experiences and insights on dating, attraction, and the journey toward deeper

self-understanding. Dr. Scott Lyons brings his expertise as a trauma therapist and somatic

healer to help us understand the complexities of relationships and sexuality.

Show Notes:

00:00:00 - Rekindling the Spark: What You Need to Know

00:02:45 - The Reality of Growth: Attraction Can Evolve

00:07:57 - Freedom vs. Attachment: Different Relationship Patterns

00:11:10 - Evolving Attraction: Hemisexuals, Saposexuals, and Demisexuals

00:15:03 - The Attraction ICK: Is There an Attraction Spark?

00:19:29 - Peeling Away the Layers: The Beauty of Intimacy

00:22:49 - The Honeymoon Period Is Drunk: Sobering Up and Finding Organic Excitement

00:27:40 - Variety and Newness: Keeping the Spark Alive

00:31:17 - Passion or Safety: Cultivating Eroticism in Safety

00:35:56 - Arousal Runway: Pottery Classes and Cooking Meals

00:40:19 - Developing New Habits: Making Time for Connection

00:42:51 - Chasing the Familiar: Red Flags as a Spark

00:46:16 - The Importance of Feeling Safe

00:49:54 - Childhood Was Perfect: Somatic Therapy and Nervous System Regulation

00:53:10 - Grounding in Our Senses: Getting Back to Sensuality and Connection

00:56:26 - Healing Patterns: Not Taking the Bait

00:58:20 - Sustainable, Healthy, Loving Relationships: Going the Distance

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Praise, Humiliation & Other Kinks

Fri, 18 Apr 2025 07:05:00 -0000

On today’s show, I’m unpacking a kink that’s getting a ton of attention on social media: praise kink. It falls under the larger umbrella of core erotic desires, which we all have. I show you how to identify your core erotic desires and how to turn them into realities. I also get into your kinky questions, including: when you adore your fiancée, but fantasize about sex with your much kinkier ex, what now? And when your partner constantly gets hit on my other men, is it healthy to get turned on by it? All this and more in today's episode.

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Sex and Self-Confidence

Tue, 15 Apr 2025 07:00:00 -0000

You’ve heard this one before: the sexiest quality in the world is confidence. And that’s true...but...it’s not always easy to muster. Confidence is an inside job, but here’s the good news. Once you generate it on your own terms, life - and sex - gets a whole lot easier.

So on today’s Ask Emily show, I’m joined by my dear friend and former co-host Menace from The Woody Show, as we talk confidence, jealousy, What happens when you adore your partner, but can’t stop thinking about their high body count? Or want to have hot phone sex, but don’t know where to start? We talk through both. How about when you feel too short to find a great partner, or don’t know how to be dominant in bed? We help you think through both. Finally: discovering your partner’s can of delay spray. Our listener wonders whether he’s sleeping with someone else; we think it’s time for open communication.

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Am I The Asshole? My Partner Never Wants Sex

Fri, 11 Apr 2025 07:04:00 -0000

We’re back for another AITA episode! This time it’s all about sexual mismatches. First: they’ve got a 12-year age difference, and she suspects his sex drive is dwindling. She doesn’t want to cheat, but she also wants more sex…what now? Next, he wants sex for pleasure, she was raised to do it only for procreation. Is there any way to meet in the middle? A self-professed "pillow princess" writes in, is she the asshole for wanting to receive pleasure – but not give it? Finally, they’re in a dead bedroom of 10 years. “She’s repulsed by my touch” he writes, but is he really asserting himself to make healthy changes? You decide

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Hotline Calls: I’m Sore from Oral Sex

Tue, 08 Apr 2025 07:00:00 -0000

You’re in my Hotlines today, and Producer Erica and I are taking your calls! Today’s theme: conversations you need to have with your sex partners.

First, how long should you wait to tell casual sex partners you’re sleeping with other people? We’re all up-leveling our communication skills, so I make the case for telling them immediately. Next, she’s on ADD medication and likes a drink or two – is it negatively affecting her orgasm? Or should her partner have a deeper conversation with her about turn-ons? After that, we’ve got a young couple who just started having oral sex. She’s sore afterwards -- is it a medical condition or underlying shame? Finally, she just discovered her partner watches porn… and the subjects don’t look like her. How can she talk to him about it without judgment?

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Forget These Myths for Better Sex

Fri, 04 Apr 2025 07:45:00 -0000

So on today’s show, I reveal the top 3 sexual stereotypes penis owners and vulva owners told me they were tired of, and the new truths that are going to empower you in bed. I also give you quick communication hacks to help you get curious with any partner, whether they’re long-term or brand new, so that you can have the sex you actually want.

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Am I The Asshole for Watching Porn Without Telling My Partner?

Tue, 01 Apr 2025 10:00:00 -0000

Ever wondered: Am I the asshole for watching porn without my partner knowing? Am I the asshole for feeling a little misled about our sex life before we walked down the aisle? Or how about: Am I the asshole for just feeling plain bored with our sex life? You’re not alone. Today, Producer Erica and I read your AITA questions and let you know if you’re approaching asshole territory.

In today’s episode, you’ll learn:

How to be a supportive partner to someone with sexual trauma
How to get clearer on your sexual desires
About the experiences of sex workers

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Hotline Calls: Can We Fix Our Chemistry?

Fri, 28 Mar 2025 10:00:00 -0000

Are you and your partner sexually compatible? That’s the theme of today’s Hotline Calls show, as my Producer and I break down these couples' sex and relationship issues. First, when your partner isn’t pleasuring you as much as you’d like, does that mean they aren’t attracted? Or just nervous? Next, do you squirt during sex? It’s a goal for many, but what if it’s happening more than you’d like? How about sex drive discrepancy? When you’ve had more chemistry with past partners – and more sex – is your current partner not a fit? Or do you need to find a middle ground? Finally, what happens when your partner’s got a kink that weirds you out? We don’t yuck anyone’s yum here, but one caller needs advice on navigating brother-sister role play.

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In today’s episode, you’ll learn:

The surprising truth about sexual compatibility—and why mismatched libidos aren’t the end of the road.
Why squirting too much can actually be a turn-off (and how to control it if it’s becoming an issue).
The best way to respond when your partner’s kink catches you off guard—without killing the mood.

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Am I The Asshole? Is It Cheating If We Were on a Break?

Tue, 25 Mar 2025 10:00:00 -0000

Have you ever wondered if you’re the asshole in your sex life and relationships? Today, Producer Erica and I are letting you know if you’re approaching asshole territory - and not the good kind. One listener hooked up with someone else while they were on a break, and now her partner says she can’t be trusted. Who’s the asshole here? Another listener wants to spice it up in the bedroom, but her husband with a kinky past sees her as a “delicate little angel.” Sounds like a case of the classic Madonna-Whore complex. What about when your partner won’t perform oral sex? Are you the asshole for craving it? We get into all this and more.

In today’s episode, you’ll learn:

The importance of identifying your sexual fantasies
How to work through ultimatums in relationships
Why your sex life should evolve over time

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Hotline Calls: How to Fantasize Together

Fri, 21 Mar 2025 10:00:00 -0000

The Sex With Emily Hotline is open! On this episode, I’m joined by my Producer, Erica, as we talk about disappearing erections, prostate massages, and so much more.

First, what do you do when your partner has health issues that cause them to lose their erections? I give one caller ideas for how to work around this issue and thoughts on what might be causing it in the first place. Next, why don’t couples fantasize together more often? A couple calls in to share their sexual fantasies, and we give you inspo on how to do the same with your partner. When your partner wants a prostate massage, how do you pull it off? I tell you what to feel for, how to apply pressure and fun toys you can use. Finally, when your partner has never had an orgasm before, how can you help? And should you?

In this episode, you’ll learn:

Why erectile challenges aren’t just about the penis—and how you can spice things up while finding solutions
How to co-create fantasies with your partner for hotter, more connected sex
The secret to unlocking prostate pleasure (and why so many men are missing out)

Show Notes:

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How to Use Your Hands: Fingering & Handjobs

Tue, 18 Mar 2025 10:00:00 -0000

Today, my Producer, Erica, and I first share how to penetrate a vulva with your fingers. We give you tricks to stimulate the labia and clitoris, different forms of pressure and touch, and how to find the G-spot when you finger. Next, we give the penis some love with hand job techniques and upgrades like toy play and perineum stimulation. Finally, we discuss secondary erogenous zones and answer your hand play questions.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

Why hand play—fingering and handjobs—is the underrated pleasure tool you need to master.
How to turn up the heat with expert hand techniques for both vulvas and penises.
The secret to making manual stimulation feel even better than penetrative sex.

Show Notes:

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Hotline Calls: Strip Clubs & Sex Boundaries

Fri, 14 Mar 2025 10:00:00 -0000

When oral sex gets too rough, how can you ask your partner to be more gentle and respectful? I’ve got some thoughts. When your partner doesn’t love booty play – but you definitely do – can you still ask for a rim job? Let’s say your partner goes to strip clubs, and it makes you super uncomfortable. How do you set boundaries together? Finally, when you’re the non-primary partner in a polyamorous relationship, what resources can you turn to for advice & guidance?

In this episode, you’ll learn:

How to communicate boundaries and advocate for your pleasure in oral sex (without the sore throat aftermath)
The best ways to introduce your partner to rimming—yes, even if they’re hesitant
How to navigate mismatched libidos, strip club discomfort, and polyamory as a secondary partner

Show Notes:

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Opening Up, Tristan Taormino: Amazon | Barnes & Noble
Open Deeply, Kate Loree: Bookshop | Amazon | Barnes & Noble
“The Challenges of Being a Secondary,” Conscious Polyamory
“Being Secondary While Putting Yourself First,” Multiamory
Polyamory in BLACK!
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How to Be a Better Partner w/ John Kim & Vanessa Bennett

Tue, 11 Mar 2025 10:00:00 -0000

Dating as an adult is exhausting. While experience comes with age, actually applying that experience is easier said than done…even for professionals.

With me today are two therapy professionals who also happen to be partners: John Kim and Vanessa Bennett. Their book “It’s Not Me, It’s You” offers an anecdotal road map of how to “relationship better,” from overcoming commitment issues, to fanning the sex flames, to breaking the blame cycle. John and Vanessa expertly dissect their own relationship to inspire us to create healthy bonds with the people we love. Listen to learn why “the one” is a myth, how to wean ourselves off codependency and how to replace obligatory sex with erotic collaboration.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

Why “The One” is a myth and what actually makes relationships last
How to turn obligatory sex into erotic collaboration
The secret to avoiding resentment before it ruins your connection

Show Notes:

More John Kim: Instagram | Website | Book
More Vanessa Bennett: Instagram | Website | Book
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Initiating Sex After a Dry Spell

Fri, 07 Mar 2025 11:00:00 -0000

Let’s start with orgasms. When you can only get off in one very specific position, how can you retrain your body and mind? I give you tips on switching up your technique. Next: coming out of a sexual dry spell, how do you learn to initiate again? I help you collaborate with your partner. When you’re always a top (the more dominant one during sex), how can you tell your partner that you’d like to bottom (be more submissive) occasionally? I walk you through that conversation. Finally, when your spouse has next to zero interest in sex, what now? I offer insights on changing your relationship patterns to experience mutual pleasure and compatibility.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

The secret to orgasming in any position (without wrecking your calves).
How to bring back the heat after a dry spell—without the pressure.
The power move that gets your partner to switch things up in bed.

Show Notes:

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Hotline Calls: Hook-Ups & Opening Up

Tue, 04 Mar 2025 11:00:00 -0000

First, when you want to bring sex toys and lube into the bedroom, but your partner is firmly opposed…what now? I offer communication tips to help bring down defenses. Next, when you’re loving sex with your partner but they never orgasm, is that a cause for concern? I talk about delayed ejaculation and why it happens. We also get into non-monogamy: when you’re not turned on by your partner, should you open up the relationship? Or is a different, deeper conversation needed? Finally, when you’re happily hooking up, how do you keep casual sex from turning into serious relationships?

In this episode, you’ll learn:

Why performative sex is killing your pleasure—and how to stop.
How to ditch “porn mode” and tap into real turn-ons.
The secret to being fully present (and having better orgasms).

Show Notes:

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We’re Giving Up Performative Sex

Fri, 28 Feb 2025 11:00:00 -0000

First I talk through O-blockers: common reasons your orgasm and overall pleasure hit a limit. Next I bring up popular “personas” people adopt in bed, like the cool girl/guy who’s down for whatever (even when you’re actually not) and the super dominant, in-charge lover (even when you’re actually more submissive). Finally, I give you strategies to increase your sexual confidence and take all of your sexual anxiety questions.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

Why performative sex is killing your pleasure—and how to stop.
How to ditch “porn mode” and tap into real turn-ons.
The secret to being fully present (and having better orgasms).

Show Notes:

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The Kinkiest Sex Positions Are…

Tue, 25 Feb 2025 11:00:00 -0000

How do you take a classic sex position and make it kinky? On today’s show, I’m telling you exactly how. Inspired by the positions chapter in Smart Sex, I’m talking through two specific positions that bring the kink – and another classic that you can spice up with a little power play.

First, I’m looking at Cowgirl/Cowboy and talking through its pros, cons, and evolutions to introduce kinky dynamics. Next, I’m talking Doggy Style (or as I like to call it: Rear Entry) and breaking down its inherent kink dynamics and ideas to make it even more exciting. Finally, we’re looking at Missionary, which I think we can all agree needs a kinky rebrand. I’ll give you ideas to make it more surprising and sexy.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

How to turn classic sex positions into kinky, pleasure-boosting experiences.
Why even small tweaks—like tempo and control—can make you kinkier than you think.
The secret to better orgasms in any position (hint: clitoral stimulation is key).

Show Notes:

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Playing Without a Partner w/ Dr. Megan Stubbs

Fri, 21 Feb 2025 11:00:00 -0000

I’m joined by sexologist, relationships expert, body image specialist, and author of Playing Without a Partner Dr. Megan Stubbs. We dive into how to embrace every aspect of singlehood (hello, masturbation!) and why being single doesn’t have to be a layover, it can be your destination. We give tips for loving your body, ways to elevate your orgasm, and how to alleviate skin hunger when you aren’t in a relationship. Plus, we’re sharing tips for sending nudes, ways to create an optimal pre-date ritual, and ideas for being with a new partner.

We also answer your questions about what to do if you feel insecure about the number of people you have slept with, how to increase emotional intimacy in the bedroom and what to do if you feel you’re in a “dry spell.”

In this episode, you’ll learn:

Why being single isn’t a “waiting room”—it’s a destination for confidence, self-love, and incredible orgasms.
How to turn your solo pleasure game all the way up with masturbation, edging, and next-level orgasm hacks.
The secrets to emotional intimacy in the bedroom (even if your partner struggles with it).

Show Notes:

More Dr. Megan Stubbs: Website | Instagram | Twitter (X)
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Calming The Chaos w/ Tal Rabinowitz

Tue, 18 Feb 2025 11:00:00 -0000

There’s no such thing as an “easy life” which is why it’s SO important to develop the right tools to help you handle everyday chaos. Today, I’m talking with Tal Rabinowitz who’s helping people around the world learn to find calm in their daily commotion with her company The DEN Meditation.

She gives tips for beginners who’ve never tried calming their minds and shares how meditation can totally change your outlook on your relationship. We also talk about judgment, specifically how you can stop labeling everything as ‘bad’ or ‘good’ and simply let things be what they are. It’s 2025—and time to meditate, masturbate, and manifest for a better year.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

How meditation can transform your relationship—See your partner clearly and stop the blame game.
Why chaos is personal—and powerful—Own it, don’t let it own you.
The magic of breath—Calm your mind, spark your pleasure.

Show Notes:

More Tal Rabinowitz & The DEN Meditation: Website | YouTube | Facebook | Instagram | Tal's Instagram
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Sexy Bonding Hacks

Fri, 14 Feb 2025 11:00:00 -0000

How do you kickstart sexual arousal? Would you believe me if I told you that sometimes, the best ways to get turned on have nothing to do with sex itself? When you take the focus off the bedroom, and turn your focus toward adventure – the kind that gets your heart-pumping, your adrenaline going, and your anticipation building – a cool thing happens in your brain. You’re excited, and that excitement spills over from the activity into…sex. Pretty nifty, right?

So on today’s show, we’re going to trust, touch, and titillate our way towards arousal, with bonding hacks you can use on your next date whether it is with a long term partner or someone new. Plus, I take your questions! Ways to feel confident and sexual again after a breakup, how to have kinky sex with a partner who says they aren’t interested, how to decide if you should wait to develop a relationship with a super busy person or cut em’ loose, how to take sexy pictures with each other, and how to communicate your needs efficiently outside the bedroom so that you can reignite the spark when you’re back inside.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

Sexy bonding hacks that build trust, boost intimacy, and turn you on
How adrenaline-fueled dates like rock climbing or karaoke make you hotter for each other
The fix for mismatched kinks, low libido, and getting your sex life back on track

Show Notes:

Buy The Smart Sex New Paperback Cover Now!
Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse.
Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides.
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Dating Apps, Red Flags & Bad Habits w/ Logan Ury

Tue, 11 Feb 2025 11:00:00 -0000

Logan Ury, the author of How to Not Die Alone and director of Relationship Science at Hinge, joins me to share her best tips for all things dating. Logan provides practical tips for avoiding dating blindspots, the drawbacks of unrealistic expectations, and algorithms to live by for finding a satisfying relationship.

We discuss how ‘dealbreakers’ may be an excuse for avoiding connection, how attachment styles affect our dating outcomes, the paradox of choice in the dating world, and how to get out of the checklist mindset. She also breaks down the most common dating tendencies, shares strategies behind making the best decisions, explains why ‘the spark’ may be B.S., and even offers how-to advice for creating a powerful dating profile. Even if you’re not dating, you will learn techniques that will strengthen all your relationships.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

Why the spark is total BS—and what actually makes a relationship last
How your dating type (romanticizer, maximizer, or hesitator) is messing with your love life
The secret to making better choices in dating—so you can finally find your person

Show Notes:

More Logan Ury: Instagram | Twitter | Website
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Want Better Orgasms? Fix Your Gut First

Fri, 07 Feb 2025 11:00:00 -0000

Better sex starts in your gut—who knew? Microbiologist Kiran Krishnan joins me to break down the gut-sex connection, from how digestion impacts libido and orgasms to why stress and diet could be killing your pleasure.

We’ll get into what “leaky gut” actually is, how it messes with your hormones, and the simple, science-backed habits that will boost your energy, balance your body, and supercharge your sex life.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

How your gut health affects your sex life—from libido to orgasms and even erections.
Why stress wrecks your gut and lowers your desire (plus how to fix it).
Five simple gut-friendly habits to boost energy, balance hormones, and have better sex.

Show Notes:

More Kiran Krishnan: Instagram
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Behind The Porn Curtain w/ Jacky St. James & Ana Foxxx

Tue, 04 Feb 2025 11:00:00 -0000

Ever wonder what happens behind the scenes of your favorite porn? Today I’m joined by adult film director Jacky St. James and performer Ana Foxxx. We discuss their hottest scenes, what it’s like being on set, what constitutes ‘ethical porn’ and whether porn actors fake their orgasms.

Plus, Jacky walks me through her approach to creating an adult film and how porn industry has evolved over time. Ana shares what it’s like dating as a porn star, details from her dirty 30 birthday party and how porn has shaped her sex life on and off-screen. We also answer your questions like: is porn scripted or spontaneous and is it normal to get jealous when your partner watches porn?

In this episode, you’ll learn:

What really happens on a porn set, from fake orgasms to real chemistry.
How porn shapes real-life sex and what actually feels good.
Why ethical porn hits different with real pleasure, real connection, and no male gaze.

Show Notes:

More Jacky St. James: Website | Instagram | Twitter (X)
More Ana Foxxx: OnlyFans | Instagram | Twitter (X)
Buy Smart Sex New Paperback Cover Now!
Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse.
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Sexy Gifts & Pleasure Tips for Valentine’s Day

Fri, 31 Jan 2025 11:00:00 -0000

Valentine’s Day is here, and we’re making it hot. Whether you’re single, partnered, or just here for the pleasure tips, I’m joined by Dr. Scott Lyons to talk all things intimacy, gift ideas that actually turn up the heat, and how to keep things exciting beyond February 14th. We’re covering the best sexy gifts (hello, remote-control vibes), why curiosity is the key to lasting passion, and how to avoid becoming that couple scrolling at dinner.

Plus, our wildest V-Day stories—think surprise proposals, foursomes, and one very awkward TSA moment. Let’s make this Valentine’s Day one to remember. 💋

In this episode, you’ll learn:

How to make Valentine’s Day sexy—whether you’re single or partnered.
Why curiosity keeps intimacy alive (and how to avoid stale relationships).
The hottest pleasure products to upgrade your solo or partnered play.

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Show Notes:

More Dr. Scott Lyons: Instagram | Website | Podcast
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Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse.
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The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
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The Truth About STIs w/ Dr. Ina Park

Tue, 28 Jan 2025 11:00:00 -0000

Fact: Your STI doesn’t make you ANY less sexy! In today's episode, I’m joined by the author of Strange Bedfellows and medical consultant, Dr. Ina Park who has made it her life's work to reduce the shame and stigma associated with sexually transmitted infections, AKA, STIs. Ina shares everything you need to know if you or someone you’re sleeping with is infected, how to reduce your risk of transmission, and when to disclose your status to a partner.

We also discuss Ina’s #1 tip for STI prevention, what to know about how your personal grooming can impact transmission and a surprising discovery about The Bachelor’s casting process. Finally, we answer your questions about transmission through oral sex, when it’s possible to get intimate without a condom and why having an STI isn’t a death sentence for your relationships. Let’s ditch the shame and bring on the sex.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

How to disclose an STI and still have an amazing sex life.
Why shaving might increase your STI risk (and how to avoid it).
Why HPV is common—and totally manageable.

Show Notes:

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It Begins With You: Hard Truths About Love & Dating w/ Jillian Turecki

Fri, 24 Jan 2025 11:00:00 -0000

Tired of repeating the same relationship mistakes? Relationship coach Jillian Turecki joins me to break down the nine hard truths about love that will change your life. From healing heartbreak to understanding why you keep attracting the wrong people, Jillian shares how true love starts with you.

We’re talking about breakups, dating struggles, and why lust isn’t love (even though it feels amazing). Whether you’re single or in a relationship, this episode will help you build healthier connections and finally get the love you deserve.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

How to break free from toxic dating patterns.
The red flags you’re probably ignoring.
Why self-acceptance is the key to love.

Show Notes:

More Jillian Turecki: Instagram | Website | Podcast
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Dirty Talk Your Way To Your Next Orgasm

Tue, 21 Jan 2025 11:00:00 -0000

I’ve heard from a lot of my listeners that they struggle with talking dirty in the bedroom. Today I’m joined by porn star, author, exotic dancer, and dirty talk expert Joanna Angel to break down what to say, how to start if you’ve never tried it and how to crank your dirty talk up from dusty to undeniably filthy.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

Dirty talk made easy with simple tips to start and spice it up without feeling awkward
Sexting secrets to tease, turn on, and build anticipation like a pro
Confidence in the bedroom by owning your desires and feeling empowered in and out of bed

Show Notes:

More Joanna Angel: Linktree | Instagram | Twitter | Book
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Hotline Calls: Mutual Masturbation, Oral Sex, and your Toxic Ex

Fri, 17 Jan 2025 11:00:00 -0000

On today’s show, I’m answering more of your questions from the Sex with Emily hotline.

Topics include: how to tell your partner you want more oral sex, what to do if you can’t get over the sex you had with your toxic ex, how to explore your bisexuality without unnecessary drama, the best ways to avoid negative thought patterns while dating and how to explore mutual masturbation and edging with a partner.

Have a question of your own? You can call me anytime and leave a voicemail: 559-TALK-SEX (559-825-5739).

In this episode, you’ll learn:

How to ask your partner for more oral sex and introduce fun tools like flavored lubes.
Ways to break free from a toxic ex and open yourself to healthier relationships.
Tips to explore mutual masturbation and edging for better intimacy.

Show Notes:

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Mindfulness for Better Sex

Tue, 14 Jan 2025 11:00:00 -0000

Today I’m joined by meditation teacher, speaker, and author Light Watkins to share how we can better practice mindfulness in and outside of the bedroom. We discuss how meditation can transform relationships, reduce stress, and allow you to be more present during all areas of your life—including sex.

Plus, we’re sharing easy hacks to curate a meditation routine, how you can cultivate happiness and fulfillment, and why training your brain is important to your overall well-being. Light also shares the ways that sex is similar to meditation, the importance of following your intuition, how to foster true positive change, and the best ways to maintain a gratitude practice.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

How meditation enhances your sex life and keeps you present.
Why managing stress is the secret to better relationships.
Simple gratitude hacks to transform your mindset.

Show Notes:

More Light Watkins: Instagram | Twitter | YouTube | Website | Podcast | Book
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Influencers, Threesomes and Narcissism w/ Jenny Mollen

Fri, 10 Jan 2025 11:00:00 -0000

Jenny Mollen is the author of City of Likes, a fictional comedy about mommy influencer culture and the intensity of female friendships – especially when one of them is a narcissist. Are they obsessed with each other? Do they want to have sex with each other? And what do you do when someone’s perfectly-curated facade finally cracks?

Jenny and I met years ago, and I know you’ll love her just as much as I do. Besides being a bestselling author, she’s also an actor, a mom, and wife to actor Jason Biggs. In this episode, she talks about the personal experiences with social media that inspired her book, why she wants to see a sex therapist, and helps me answer your sex and relationship questions. For example, if you’re in a relationship, is it ok to comment on someone else’s Instagram telling them how attractive they are? Jenny and I give it to you straight.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

How to navigate the tricky relationship dynamics of long-term partnerships and social media.
Why laughter and authenticity are key to maintaining intimacy over the years.
The surprising connections between personal vulnerability, desire, and self-discovery.

Show Notes:

More Jenny Mollen: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | Website
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Red Flags & Therapy w/ the Stallone Sisters

Tue, 07 Jan 2025 11:00:00 -0000

I’m joined by the hosts of the Unwaxed podcast, Sophia and Sistine Stallone. Find out what really happens on the dating apps, how to spot red flags and why a bad first kiss doesn’t have to be a deal breaker. I encourage them to make time for masturbation and we discuss if watching porn is considered cheating.

I also take your calls and answer a bunch of your questions. I cover prostate play, adult virginity, partner toys and what to do when your partner takes too long to orgasm.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

The secret to turning a bad kisser into your perfect match.
How to unlock your sexual confidence through self-exploration.
Game-changing tips to get what you want in the bedroom—without the awkwardness.

Show Notes:

More Sophia & Sistine Stallone: Unwaxed w/ Sophia & Sistine Stallone | Unwaxed Instagram | Unwaxed YouTube | Sophia Stallone Instagram | Sistine Stallone Instagram
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Keeping Your Sexy Resolutions

Fri, 03 Jan 2025 11:00:00 -0000

The best sex of your life doesn’t happen by chance. If it did, we’d all be having it. In this episode, I share my own sex and dating intentions for the year and help you plan your own. I guide you through our Pleasure Planner, and we explore how prioritizing your sex life will benefit your overall life. I also answer questions about confidence in the bedroom, STIs and condoms, and if it’s possible to repair a relationship after someone cheats. If you need some inspiration to create your own sex and love goals, download our free Pleasure Planner sexwithemily.com/guides. Or just click the link HERE!

In this episode, you’ll learn:

How to use the Sex With Emily Pleasure Planner
Practical ways to communicate your desires and co-create a sex life that excites you
How to set and stick to sex and pleasure goals that truly prioritize your needs

Show Notes:

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Closure w/ Your Ex & Other Success Stories

Tue, 31 Dec 2024 11:00:00 -0000

Here’s the secret formula to better sex: prioritize it! In this episode, we’re talking all about sex success stories and how taking just one step can take your sex life from static to ecstatic. From finding closure with an ex to trying out swinging and finding it works, and looking for sex after a life after not having any, each of these people have taken a big step towards changing their lives. Get inspired to create your own sex-cess story.

I also answer questions about what to do if your boyfriend won’t communicate openly with you about your sex life, how to be more confident rocking the cowgirl position and what to do if mismatched libidos are making you feel insecure in your relationship.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

How real listener stories of self-discovery and sexual growth can inspire your own journey.
The keys to building confidence, communicating needs, and reigniting passion in your relationship.
Actionable tips for embracing pleasure, navigating mismatched desires, and taking control of your sex life.

Show Notes:

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How To Be Sexually Confident w/ Serena Kerrigan

Fri, 27 Dec 2024 11:00:00 -0000

Confidence is everything. It affects the way we perceive ourselves, how we interact with others, and definitely shapes our sex life. On today’s show, I am joined by Serena Kerrigan, the ‘Queen of Confidence.’

Serena talks about what she has learned from going on over 50 online dates with men, how to make the “whoring twenties” fun, and her passion for masturbation. Plus, we answer your questions like how to feel confident after hooking up for the first time and how to feel sexy no matter what.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

How to build unshakable confidence through self-love, manifestation, and daily affirmations.
Why approaching dating with curiosity (and a sense of humor) can completely change your experience.
The connection between knowing your body through masturbation and feeling empowered in the bedroom.

Show Notes:

More Serena Kerrigan: Twitter | Instagram | Website
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Hotline Calls: Unlock Your Best Orgasm Yet

Tue, 24 Dec 2024 11:00:00 -0000

In this episode I take calls from our Sex With Emily Hotline and we get into it!

Your questions include: What to do if you masturbate but can’t orgasm during sex, the best ways to meet people and date when newly sober, and what happens when your partner’s sexual fantasy creates issues in your relationship. Plus, I review how to start having sex again after a dry spell and when it might be time to break up if you’re sexually incompatible.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

How to embrace fantasies like cuckolding while avoiding shame and regret.
What to do when your partner’s sexual style doesn’t match your needs.
Sexy hacks to keep intimacy alive—even when living with parents.

Show Notes:

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Unleash Your Kink w/ Justine Cross

Fri, 20 Dec 2024 11:00:00 -0000

Do you want a little more kink in your life, but aren’t sure how to get started? If so...you’ll definitely want to tune into my interview with professional dominatrix & kink expert, Mistress Justine Cross. We discuss the myths and basics of BDSM starting with what the hell it even means (bondage, discipline, domination, submission and masochism). We show you how to begin exploring your kinks even if you are brand new to the game and we discuss some of the most common fantasies.

We also answer your questions about: techniques for restraining your partner (fun!), the importance of communicating your fantasies, and how to explore dom/sub dynamics.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

How to explore BDSM, from restraint play to introducing kinks.
The biggest myths about BDSM and why it’s not all whips and chains.
Simple ways to master consent, boundaries, and better communication.

Show Notes:

More Justine Cross: Instagram | Twitter | Dominatrix Website | Dungeon East | OnlyFans | Youtube
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My Top Tips for 69ing & Oral Sex

Tue, 17 Dec 2024 11:00:00 -0000

First, I share research with you that might motivate you to put 69 on regular rotation in your sex life. Next, I give you techniques for being an excellent oral giver, and strategies like mindful masturbation, to help you become a more relaxed and erotic receiver. Finally, I talk position tips like the Sideways 69 and the Power 69 for you to play with, and take all your pressing questions on 69ing and oral sex.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

Game-changing 69 positions to maximize pleasure.
Oral sex tips to elevate giving and receiving.
How to relax and fully enjoy receiving pleasure.

Show Notes:

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WTF is “Normal” Sex w/ Dr. Maria Uloko

Fri, 13 Dec 2024 11:00:00 -0000

Ever wonder if your penis/vulva/genitalia are normal? In this episode, I’m joined by urologist Dr. Maria Uloko who’s revolutionizing sexual healthcare. We get into why vulva-owners need testosterone, what happens when penis-owners masturbate too aggressively, how shame can interfere with getting the care you need, and how common it is to experience sexual dysfunction.

I also answer your questions including when it’s time to date again after a toxic relationship, what to do when your partner’s porn preferences look nothing like you, how to be dominant in the bedroom and toy recs to amplify oral sex on a vulva.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

How to address common causes of pain during sex
Treatments for sexual health challenges
Why there’s no “normal” when it comes to sexual health

Show Notes:

More Dr. Maria Uloko: Instagram | Twitter | MUMD Sexual Health Beverly Hills
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Hotline Calls: Wetter is Better

Tue, 10 Dec 2024 11:00:00 -0000

On today’s show, it’s all about finding answers to your trickiest questions and unleashing your full pleasure potential. How do you orgasm when you don’t know how? Or have sex for the first time, when you’re a virgin? How do you ease into an open relationship or threesome? How do you find balance in your masturbation routine?

Whether you’re too dry (and it’s puzzling your partner), or too wet (and it’s puzzling both of you) I help you figure out solutions to overcome your biggest sexual challenges.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

How to break through orgasm barriers with self-pleasure tips.
The essentials for navigating open relationships and threesomes.
Why embracing the messiness of sex leads to better intimacy.

Show Notes:

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Finding Your Bedroom Voice w/ Lake Bell

Fri, 06 Dec 2024 11:00:00 -0000

When it comes to your sexual style, have you ever thought about your voice? Do you moan? Slow things down? Pitch up or down an octave?

Actor, writer and director Lake Bell is obsessed with the human voice. On today’s show, we’ll discuss her audiobook Inside Voice, which explores this obsession, including the “sexy baby voice” phenomenon - which happens to be her least favorite choice for bedroom talk. We also discuss your takes on dating in your 40s, and why things often get better with age when it comes to the pursuit of romance. All this and more with my amazing guest, Lake Bell.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

How your voice can enhance intimacy and authenticity in and out of the bedroom.
Why playful and respectful communication is the key to better sex.
The joys of dating in your 40s, from confidence to self-awareness.

Show Notes:

More Lake Bell: Instagram | X
Lake Bell's Audiobook, Inside Voice: My Obsession with How We Sound: Audible | Pushkin
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Hotline Calls: Should You Make Up or Break Up?

Tue, 03 Dec 2024 11:00:00 -0000

It’s the question everyone has asked themselves at least once. Should I break up with my partner? Relationship success depends on so many factors - communication, emotional intimacy, and of course - sexual connection. Figuring out which problems are worth solving and which ones are directing you to the exit sign can be confusing, exhausting and painful.

So on today’s show, I take your questions - live - to figure out if you should make up or break up. Is bad sex worth leaving someone over? What about an age gap that puts both of you in much different life stages? Or how do you know if an affair has the potential to turn into something real? We learn so much from other people’s relationships. No matter where you are in your own, this will teach us all how to make better choices going forward.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

How to navigate the crossroads of making up or breaking up—and what signs to look for in your relationship.
Why communication, boundaries, and therapy are game-changers when deciding whether to stay or go.
The truth about age gaps, open relationships, and the role of emotional honesty in finding real compatibility.

Show Notes:

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Pick Me Girls w/ Violet Benson

Fri, 29 Nov 2024 11:00:00 -0000

I am joined by Violet Benson, host of the podcast Almost Adulting and creator of the wildly popular Instagram account @DaddyIssues_. Over the last couple of years, Violet has become well known for her irreverent relationship and dating advice.

In this interview, Violet reveals why she has stopped dating (for now), what exactly a “pick me girl” is and how attraction is not always dependent on good looks. And because this is a sex show after all, Violet shared some tips for avoiding potentially embarrassing moments in the bedroom. This is a good one!

In this episode, you’ll learn:

Why taking a break from dating can reset your emotional boundaries
How to embrace authenticity in relationships
Practical tips to avoid awkward bedroom moments

Show Notes:

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The Ultimate Pleasure Guide

Tue, 26 Nov 2024 11:00:00 -0000

‘Tis the season to give and receive! In this episode, I’m unwrapping the 2024 Sex With Emily Holiday Gift Guide to help you bring more pleasure to your loved ones—and yourself—this year. From wellness essentials to stocking stuffers and, of course, must-have sex toys, there’s something for everyone on your list (yes, even your grandparents!). I’ll share my top picks, tips for introducing a partner to toys, and why the gift of pleasure is truly the gift that keeps on giving.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

When and how to gift a sex toy.
Tips for introducing toys into your relationship.
Emily’s favorite pleasure-filled gifts for the holidays.

Show Notes:

Sex With Emily Holiday Gift Guide: 2024 Edition
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The Key To Happiness w/ Dr. Amen

Fri, 22 Nov 2024 11:00:00 -0000

What if being happy was a moral obligation, like voting and recycling? Would you take steps to be happier? Today, I’m joined by brain health expert, and New York Times best-selling author Dr. Daniel Amen to talk about how our thinking patterns shape our lives in and outside of the bedroom. We discuss the ways stress affects your sexual performance, give tips to combat your automatic negative thoughts (ANTS), and discuss his book Your Brain is Always Listening.

We answer a question from a habitual cheater on how to break the cycle and discuss how Attention Deficit Disorder (ADD) can get in the way of your orgasm. Come along on a fascinating deep dive into how shifting your mindset can transform your brain, your relationships, and your pleasure.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

How to silence negative thoughts with easy daily habits to rewire your brain
Why a healthy brain means better sex, from focus to pleasure
How to break toxic cycles and build stronger, happier relationships

Show Notes:

More Dr. Daniel Amen: Website | Instagram | Amen University | Your Brain is Always Listening
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Talk Your Way to Better Sex

Tue, 19 Nov 2024 11:00:00 -0000

Here’s a secret. The #1 obstacle standing between you and the sex of your dreams probably comes down to exactly one thing: communication. It’s not a cliche - it’s a skill, and on today’s Ask Emily show, we’re talking our way to better sex. So let’s bravely face the awkwardness, with communication hacks for even the most nerve-wracking of convos.

Clamming up during sex talks? I’ve got a confidence-building solution for that. How about giving tough feedback, like asking for better handjobs, or addressing a funky smell? We get into it! Finally, we tackle tough topics like telling a friend you have feelings for them, whether or not to open a relationship, and if you should stay in a partnership if the sex is just OK. Communication is lubrication, but you know what? It’s also liberating, and by the end of this episode, you’ll be feeling a lot more free.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

How to confidently speak up about your needs in the bedroom
Why communication is the ultimate lubricant for better sex
The secret to navigating relationship dilemmas—whether it’s mismatched libidos, feelings for a friend, or trying non-monogamy for the first time.

Show Notes:

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Out of Your Head and Into Bed w/ Nikki Glaser

Fri, 15 Nov 2024 11:00:00 -0000

On this episode, I sit down with the hilarious Nikki Glaser, comedian, and host of The Nikki Glaser Podcast. We discuss how to take oral sex to the next level, why a great orgasm can lead to an intense connection, and the power of tapping into a person’s “energy” on a date.

Nikki also shares her go-to sex toys, favorite types of porn, experience with squirting, and personal journey with mental health and body acceptance. We also dive into the hidden pleasure of canceled plans, why feeling horny can be like being drunk, and why your flaws DON’T make you a bad person.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

How taking charge of your orgasms can boost your connection with partners and why having a vibrator isn’t “cheating"
Explore the journey of accepting yourself fully—flaws, quirks, and all—and learn why self-confidence is the ultimate turn-on.
Get real about setting boundaries in relationships, from balancing power dynamics to knowing when to wait before taking things to the next level.

Show Notes:

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Hotline Calls: Better Oral & Honeymoon Sex

Tue, 12 Nov 2024 11:00:00 -0000

On today’s show, I am answering all of your pressing calls from the Sex with Emily hotline! We get into some great topics like how to start enjoying receiving oral sex, ways to spice up your honeymoon sex without actual penetration, and what to do if you aren’t getting as wet as you used to during sex. Plus, new methods for giving oral sex to prevent discomfort and how to decide if it’s worth staying in your relationship after seven years (and three children).

In this episode, you’ll learn:

Oral sex tips to prevent discomfort
How to make your wedding night intimate without penetration
How to build confidence with communication

Show Notes:

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Prostate Play & All Things Pleasure w/ Dolly Josette

Fri, 08 Nov 2024 11:00:00 -0000

In this episode of Sex With Emily, my friend and somatic sexologist Dolly Josette, The Pleasure Muse, returns to help us reconnect with our bodies and unlock deeper pleasure. She shares how to pleasure yourself and communicate those desires to your partner. You’ll walk away knowing how to heal trauma in your genitals, access the prostate for an epic orgasm (for all bodies!), and deepen intimacy with yourself and your partner to enhance your life.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

Why embodiment is the key to unlocking deeper pleasure and connection.
Why releasing stored trauma (yes, even in your genitals!) can transform your sex life and help you feel more during intimacy.
How to access the prostate for mind-blowing orgasms and greater sexual fulfillment.

Show Notes:

More Dolly Josette: Pleasure Muse | Instagram | Nashville Relationship Reboot Retreat
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How Social Media is Blocking Your Intimacy

Tue, 05 Nov 2024 11:00:00 -0000

Social media is becoming the “third'' partner in so many of our relationships, but it’s not the threesome most of us are craving. Sure, it’s a great way to connect, but it can take a major toll on our sex lives.

Today’s episode gets into the good, bad, and questionable impacts of social media. I answer your top questions like, what does it mean if my partner follows a bunch of Instagram models? If my partner is paying for Only Fans, does it count as cheating? And is it okay to check my partner's phone? (We surveyed our listeners and you might be surprised how many of you have snooped.)

Also, how does all the endless scrolling affect your confidence? I offer advice on how to manage the relationship with your phone, so you can stop the “compare and despair” mindset and build stronger relationships with yourself and others.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

How Social Media Becomes a “Third Wheel” in Relationships
The Sneaky Ways Social Media Can Undermine Your Confidence
Micro-Cheating, Doomscrolling, and the Need for Digital Detox

Show Notes:

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Prenups & Breakups w/ Laura Wasser

Fri, 01 Nov 2024 10:00:00 -0000

You may think of her as divorce attorney to the stars, and Laura Wasser is certainly that. But Laura is also a sharp thinker on marriage and communication, and is here to tell us what every couple needs to know before saying "I do." She says that couples who have the prenup conversation are actually more likely to stay together than those who don't, and that money is an even bigger conversational taboo than sex. She also tells us what it's like repping actor clients vs. musician clients, why we're seeing a celebrity-led trend of "gentle separations," and how social media has changed the game for divorce cases.

Plus, I take your divorce questions! When is it time to say "I don't," and get the hell out? Or how about if you're single, and have a tendency to hook up with older, separated men -- are they just your type? Or...are there some deeper conversations you need to be having, with them, and with yourself? Let's talk dating as a divorcee: when is it OK to tell the kids you've met someone new? And finally, after being married for so long, how do you tell the difference between love and lust, when you're back on the scene? All this and more, on today's divorce show.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

Why open conversations about finances are just as crucial as discussing intimacy in relationships
The power of the “prenup conversation” for a stronger relationship
Why understanding each other’s relationship expectations can prevent major conflicts down the line

Show Notes:

More Laura Wasser: Instagram | Office
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Hotline Calls: Troubleshoot Your Orgasms

Tue, 29 Oct 2024 10:00:00 -0000

How’s your orgasm lately? Do you wish it was more intense? More frequent? More predictable with a partner?

Orgasms don’t have to be a thing of mystery. And that’s why today's call in show is devoted to all things O. First up: she fears a loss of control while climaxing, which derails her arousal altogether. Can she relax and stay present? Next, he’s fit and athletic, with a girlfriend who loves sex. The problem? It takes him a long time to finish – maybe too long. Finally - when you’re with a partner who loves giving you oral, but it’s not exactly getting you off…what gives? I answer these questions and more on todays episode.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

How to get out of your own head and finally let go for a better orgasm
Why pleasure is a right, not a reward
Practical tips for tackling delayed orgasms and performance pressure

Show Notes:

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Getting Bi-Curious w/ Jen Winston

Fri, 25 Oct 2024 10:00:00 -0000

How do you know if you’re bisexual? Author Jen Winston helps me answer just that. In her book Greedy: Notes From A Bisexual Who Wants Too Much, Jen reveals how she came to terms with her bisexuality, in a world that loves to slap stereotypes on it: greedy, slutty, and constantly confused.

Whether you’re a vulva owner in a heterosexual partnership who wants to explore same sex fantasies, or a penis owner who has recently come out as gay but still has thoughts about the opposite sex, Jen helps us all understand why sexuality is about so much more than who you’re sleeping with. Because after all, your sexuality is less about the destination and more about the journey to get there.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

Labels like bi or pan are for you to explore your identity, not to please others
Communication is everything. Talk openly with your partner about desires and fantasies to strengthen intimacy
Bisexuality isn’t one-size-fits-all: It’s a personal journey, and questioning your sexuality is part of it

Show Notes:

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How to Have a Playful Date

Tue, 22 Oct 2024 10:00:00 -0000

Variety is the spice of life – as well as vital to your sex life. But how many times have you turned to your partner on Friday night and said: “how about dinner? Usual spot?”

Planning a creative date requires thinking outside of the box. That’s why I’ve done the legwork for you of helping you create playful dates that are as unique as they are arousing. From role playing sexy strangers to planning out a sensual dinner at the farmer’s market, these date ideas will give you a break from the norm - while also building sexual tension and enhancing intimacy.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

Tips on how to align your dates with your unique arousal style, whether it’s through touch, adventure, or conversation, to keep things fresh and fun
Fun, creative date ideas—like role-playing as sexy strangers or planning a sensual dinner at the farmer’s market—that spark connection and curiosity
How to break free from routine and create exciting, playful dates that build sexual tension and enhance intimacy

Show Notes:

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Sex Gets Better With Age w/ Dr. Wednesday Martin

Fri, 18 Oct 2024 10:00:00 -0000

If you’re not in your fifties yet, here’s what you can look forward to. It’s the decade many of us hit the reset button on our sexual desires. It’s the decade you start purely having sex for pleasure. And it’s the decade your confidence and communication get even better because you’ve honed your relationship (and career!) skills. Wednesday and I talk about why your fifties are so sexy, the signs of perimenopause and menopause and how to treat both, and our best advice for younger women.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

Why your 50s are a time for empowerment, confidence, and embracing your desires.
Tips for navigating bodily changes and maintaining intimacy in midlife.
Understanding the impact of menopause on your body and libido, and how to adapt for a fulfilling sex life.

Show Notes:

More Dr. Wednesday Martin: Instagram | X | Website | Book
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Confidence, Communication & Sex w/ Lisa Bilyeu

Tue, 15 Oct 2024 10:00:00 -0000

Housewife turned billion-dollar co-founder Lisa Bilyeu is the picture of confidence: she’s got a thriving business, a partner she adores, and basically, is a literal boss. But she also overcame illness, insecurity, and massive relationship challenges to get where she is today.

In her book Radical Confidence, Lisa shares the lessons that changed her life, and helped her become the hero of her own story. On today’s show, I ask her about keeping the sexual spark alive in a long term relationship, the “purgatory of the mundane,” and how to have a growth mindset with your partner.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

Radical confidence is built by taking action, even when you’re scared.
How to escape the “purgatory of the mundane” by making small changes and stop waiting for the perfect moment.
All about validating yourself—don’t rely on others for approval, celebrate your own wins.

Show Notes:

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More Lisa Bilyeu: Instagram | Youtube | Twitter | Book: Radical Confidence | Impact Theory
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Lasting Longer & Low Libido

Fri, 11 Oct 2024 10:00:00 -0000

When it comes to your most pressing sex issues, have you ever wondered: “ugh, is it just me?” I promise: it’s not just you! To prove it, I’m tackling your top sex questions in this episode. From raising your libido to acing your oral, we cover a lot of ground in this one.

How do you talk to your partner about sex? I teach you how to broach this conversation with compassion, and how to normalize sex talks in general. How about amping up your sex drive? There are hacks for that! Maybe you want to last longer in bed, get better at oral, or spice up your sex life. There’s a whole world of solutions for those, and I walk you through them. Whether it’s toys, technique, or just a good talk, this episode is all about finding answers, so you can have the pleasure you deserve.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

How to talk to your partner about sex or trying something new
How to get better at oral
How to spice up your sex life
How to increase your sex drive
How to last longer during sex

Show Notes:

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All Things Anal w/ Dr. Evan Goldstein

Tue, 08 Oct 2024 10:00:00 -0000

Anal sex isn’t as taboo as it once was but many people are still too shy to explore it. Today, I’m talking with nationally renowned anal surgeon and expert Dr. Evan Goldstein, about all things anal. From how to clean up before backdoor play (did you know you can be too clean?), to tips to enhance pleasure and the wide variety of things to try while you’re back there, we’ve got you covered.

Dr. Evan gives tips on how to relax, toys that can help, and which lubes are best for every act imaginable. We also break down lube shooters, how to minimize the risk of exposing yourself to STIs and what to consider whether you’re a top or a bottom.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

Why communication and preparation are key to a positive anal experience with your partner.
Expert tips on easing into anal play without discomfort or pain.
Safe and effective cleaning practices to maintain a healthy and pleasurable anal routine.

Show Notes:

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Unlocking Your Fantasies

Fri, 04 Oct 2024 10:00:00 -0000

What’s your biggest fantasy? It might be watching your partner with someone else, group sex, or sex in a public place. All answers are welcome because there’s no shame in your fantasy game! In this episode, I discuss the psychology behind your fantasies, how to bring them up with a partner and why having a rich fantasy life is an important part of your overall sexual health. Then I reveal the top fantasies you shared with me on Instagram.

I also answer your questions including, what to do if you fantasize about a best friend, how to be a third in a threesome, and explore latex, panty, and foot fetishes.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

How to embrace your sexual fantasies without shame—they’re healthy and common.
Learn how to communicate your fantasies with your partner for deeper intimacy.
The difference between Fantasies and Fetishes

Show Notes:

Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse.
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Get to Know Your Vulva

Tue, 01 Oct 2024 06:50:00 -0000

How well do you know the vulva and vagina? In this episode, I’m joined by two guests to break down all things V. We’re talking about how to take care of your vulva, and so much more. My first guest is OB/GYN, author of the She-Ology book series, and an expert in all things women’s sexual health, Dr. Sherry Ross. She shares the benefits of getting to know your (or your partner’s) vulva, the relationship between insecurity and porn, solutions for painful sex, and of course, squirting.

Next, we have Dr. Pablo Gonzalez, who specializes in obstetrics and gynecology for the last 10 years and is the pioneer in regenerative gynecology. We talk about the company V-health and how beneficial it is for all vulva owners.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

The impact of aging, hormonal changes, and lifestyle factors on vaginal wellness.
How the V-Health serum can improve moisture and overall sexual pleasure.
The importance of taking proactive steps for your sexual wellness

Show Notes:

More Dr. Sherry | Website | Instagram
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Manifest Your Best Sex

Fri, 27 Sep 2024 20:25:00 -0000

Let’s manifest our dream partners and our best sex. Because listen: if our romantic lives aren’t aligned with the people we actually are, we have an opportunity to change that.

Today, I’ll tell you how I manifested my own partner, the specific steps used to get there, and why the science behind this practice works. I’ll also answer your questions about finding the one and how manifestation can apply to your everyday dating and sex dilemmas.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

What is manifestation
How to manifest your ideal partner
Key questions to deepen connections and understand compatibility when dating.

Show Notes:

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Keep the Honeymoon Going

Tue, 24 Sep 2024 22:17:56 -0000

Ahh, the honeymoon phase. You know that euphoric period of time at the beginning of a relationship where your partner seems perfect and you can’t keep your hands off one another? Fast forward a few months (or sometimes years) and that initial spark begins to fade and those feel-good chemicals start to wear off. What then? Today, I share why the honeymoon phase is so intoxicating, why our feelings change over time, and how to strengthen your relationship so that it survives the initial fading of happy hormones.

I answer your questions about what to do when your partner asks you to be in a threesome but it’s not your fantasy, how to communicate to your partner that their Instagram habits make you uncomfortable, and what to do when you feel like you have become more friends than lovers with your significant other.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

How to navigate conversations about spicing up your relationship
Understanding boundaries around threesomes
How to handle narcissistic tendencies in relationships

Show Notes:

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Ask Emily: Orgasms, Orientation & Oral

Fri, 20 Sep 2024 10:00:00 -0000

On today’s show, I answer your sex and relationship questions. I cover what to do if you’re questioning your sexuality while married with kids, how to initiate your first threesome, when (if ever) you should tell your partner how many people you’ve slept with, and ways to get more comfortable while giving oral sex.

I also talk about what to do if the porn you watch makes you feel guilty, how to approach exploring a fetish without shame, what to do if you disagree with your partner about having another child and what it means when you cry after sex.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

How honest, heartfelt conversations about intimacy can reignite connection and strengthen emotional bonds with your partner.
Techniques to overcome sexual conditioning and experience pleasure in new ways through mindfulness and open communication.
The importance of exploring sexual fantasies with clear boundaries and how they can evolve as part of a healthy sexual journey.

Show Notes:

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Moms Have Rizz, Too! (A Chat With My Mom About Modern Sex & Dating)

Wed, 18 Sep 2024 03:27:00 -0000

In today’s episode, I’ve brought my Mom back on the show to dive into a range of topics from the hilarious to the profound. We reminisced about growing up as women in an ever-changing world, trying to date and have sex! Our conversation covered the early passionate days of relationships to the mundane, finding time for sex and reviving your libido. I also had some fun quizzing my mom on modern dating slang. Her take on each word made me laugh. I think you’ll love hearing about the many stages of sex from my mom's seasoned perspective. Exploring dating terms with my mom was a fantastic way to demystify modern relationships! I asked her about breadcrumbing, DTR, red flags, situationships, ghosting, pegging, and rizz, aka…charisma.

Learning points from the episode:

The evolution of relationships from passion to domesticity.
The impact of menopause on intimacy.
The many layers of modern dating terms.
Insights into maintaining a long-term relationship.

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How To Ask For What You Want

Fri, 13 Sep 2024 10:00:00 -0000

So your partner is great… but you want them to bring the heat, and don’t know how to ask for it. Now what? On today’s episode, I answer calls about how to ask for exactly what you want, or conversely, don’t want. I also give advice about how to achieve orgasm without relying too heavily on porn or toys, what to do if your partner’s penis is too big for anal, what to do if YOU like giving oral but your partner isn’t as down to receive, and how to enjoy casual dating.

In this episode you’ll learn:

How past negative experiences can impact your current reactions to physical affection, and discover strategies to rebuild a positive relationship with touch.
Understand the importance of transparent dialogue with your partner about your needs and boundaries, and how to approach these conversations constructively.
Explore the challenges of casual dating and the significance of self-awareness in identifying what type of relationship dynamic suits you best.

Show Notes:

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The Pleasure Gap with Our CEO Amy Friedlander

Tue, 10 Sep 2024 10:00:00 -0000

Hey, pleasure seekers! I'm super excited about today's episode. I always encourage you to discuss sex with your friends, so I've invited Amy Friedlander, my CEO and brilliant friend, to join this conversation. We're both fed up with the pleasure gap, a topic The New York Times highlighted in a recent article, "The Orgasm Gap Isn’t Going Away for Straight Women."

Today, Amy and I are actively seeking ways to bridge this gap. We're sharing our sexual histories, addressing the pitfalls of faking orgasms, and talking about negative sex-pectations set by porn and extreme media portrayals. We're talking about methods to prioritize pleasure and close the orgasm gap. Tune in to be part of this change and close the gap with us! You deserve a richer, more fulfilling sex life. We're sharing our sexual histories, addressing the pitfalls of faking orgasms, and talking about negative sex-pectations set by porn and extreme media portrayals. Together, we're talking about methods to prioritize pleasure and close the orgasm gap. Tune in to be part of this change and close the gap with us! You deserve a richer, more fulfilling sex life.

In this episode, you'll learn:

Why the Orgasm Gap Persists: We'll unpack how inadequate sex education continues to widen this divide.
The Dangers of Faking It: Discover why being authentic in expressing your sexual needs is essential for true pleasure.
The Role of Media: We'll debunk harmful myths and foster a healthier dialogue around sex.
Also, don't miss our discussions on whether sleeping apart can enhance your sex life and how Kegel trainers can lead to more intense orgasms.

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As a member, you'll embark on a journey to discover your unique desire style and boost your Sex IQ. You’ll also gain tools for a healthier sex life through engaging discussions, expert guests, and direct interactions with me. Each month will feature themes based on my 12 Universal Truths About Sex and Pleasure, starting with 'Sexual Connection is a Skill Set.'

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Astrological Desire Styles: Talking Pleasure with The AstroTwins

Fri, 06 Sep 2024 16:16:40 -0000

In this episode, Dr. Emily welcomes her friend and fellow Michigan native, Ophira from The AstroTwins, to discuss their new book, The Astrology Advantage, and their revolutionary I*AM system. This unique system or framework blends astrology with the Enneagram and Meyers Briggs to unlock insights into your personality-- your buttons, skills, passions, and life path.

As a bonus, Ophi reads Emily's chart, revealing how the I*AM system shapes her career, sex, desire, and goals. They explore the Authority, Innovator, and Maven archetypes, offering a fresh perspective on understanding yourself through astrology. Tune in to learn how astrology influences desire and sexuality and how to align with your authentic sexual self. Get your copy of The Astrology Advantage to dig deeper into your I*AM archetype! Ophi describes the I*AM System as “an astrological personality test” and “Atomic Habits meets The Wisdom of The Enneagram.” You need this book! I could not put it down.

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What You'll Learn:

The I*AM System Explained: Discover how the Authority, Innovator, and Maven archetypes correlate with the 13 planets in astrology and your chart.
Astrology Meets Enneagram: Learn how each IAM archetype connects with the 12 zodiac signs, offering a new lens to understand your personality, desires, and behavior.
Sex, Shame, and Kink: Understand how your I*AM archetype influences your sexual expression and how to overcome shame or embrace kink through astrological insights.
Body Confidence and Sexual Fulfillment: Explore how aligning with your archetype helps you feel more comfortable in your body as you pursue pleasure and intimacy.
Sexual Authenticity: Learn how your sexual style—whether you're an Innovator, Authority, or Maven—affects how you engage with partners and express desire authentically.

Also, SmartSx, my new membership, launches on September 10th. Please join me and this incredible community of open-minded pleasure-seekers!

Here's a sneak peak of what you'll experience when you sign up:

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SmartSX members can directly interact with her and ask questions in the community.
Inclusive membership: SmartSX caters to everyone—whether you're a beginner or experienced, single or partnered—focusing on understanding, giving, and receiving pleasure.
Members will uncover their unique desire style, increase their Sex IQ, enhance sexual communication, and gain essential tools for a healthy sex life through discussions, special guests, and experts. Each month features a theme based on Dr. Emily's 12 Universal Truths About Sex and Pleasure, starting with Sexual Connection is a Skill Set.
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Healthy Dating Habits

Tue, 03 Sep 2024 10:00:00 -0000

Do you always have sex on the the first date? Do you always swipe right on people who aren’t good for you? What are your bad dating habits – and how can you break them?

I asked you to tell me what negative dating patterns you’re trying to change, and you all delivered! On today’s show, I’m addressing your top dating problems so we can solve them together. Having sex too soon, trying to “fix” less-than-ideal partners, fear of asserting yourself, having misaligned expectations, the tendency to audition people for the role of life partner – we’re covering it all, so you can feel empowered with new partners and have an amazing time with existing partners.

In this episode you’ll learn:

How to Identify and Break Negative Dating Patterns
The Importance of Assertiveness in Dating
Strategies for Building Self-Confidence in Dating

Show Notes:

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Behind Closed Doors: A Peek into Sex Parties

Fri, 30 Aug 2024 10:00:00 -0000

Let's explore the world of sex parties! Are you curious if this scene is for you? This episode is your go-to guide for everything about sex parties. We'll cover the various types available, from kink-centric gatherings to more relaxed swinging events. I'll guide you through finding these parties, understanding the etiquette, and what to expect when you arrive. We'll discuss how to mingle effectively and, importantly, what to wear to blend in or stand out. So join me at this podcast, Sex Party!

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5 Sex Myths We All Believe

Fri, 23 Aug 2024 10:00:00 -0000

Let’s be honest: there are certain myths about sex that are SO common, they seem like truth. Things like: what it means to be wet, what it means to be hard, and what it means if you use a vibrator a lot. But guess what? A ton of the things you and I have both heard about sex aren’t based on science - they’ve just been repeated a lot. So on today’s show, I’m debunking the top sex myths I see and hear, and giving you the actual facts.

What does it mean about your sexual ability if you’ve had a lot of partners - or conversely, hardly any? We talk about it. How about if you’re not getting wet during sex. Does that mean you’re not turned on? We discuss! Let’s say you use a vibrator a lot - can you get addicted to it? Or my favorite: does having an orgasm mean the sex was good? I tackle both of these. And finally, we face the truth about anal sex, because spoiler alert...it’s not just for gay men.

In this episode you’ll learn:

About the wide range of orgasms people can experience and why each is unique.
Why libido levels vary between individuals and how this impacts sexual relationships.
How pornography can shape unrealistic expectations and affect real-life sexual experiences.

Show Notes:

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Best Of: Kink & Casual Sex w/ Justin Lehmiller

Tue, 20 Aug 2024 10:00:00 -0000

Are you suddenly feeling a little...kinkier? According to my guest, social psychologist, and Kinsey Institute researcher Justin Lehmiller, a lot of us are ready to sex-periment right now. Justin shares fascinating sex research from the COVID era, the sex communication practices heterosexual individuals can learn from the LGBTQ+ community, and how to make casual sex better for women. (Spoiler alert: emphasize her pleasure.)

We also unpack the Kinsey Scale and why sexuality is so freaking fluid, why threesomes are such a popular fantasy, and what our porn preferences reveal (and don’t reveal) about us. Finally, we talk about sex education as it’s practiced in The Netherlands, and give you some incredibly useful tools for talking to your kids about sex (because it’s really important!).

In this episode, you’ll learn:

How to Improve casual sex
Insights from the LGBTQ+ Community
Tools for talking to your kids about sex

Show Notes:

More Justin Lehmiller : Website | Instagram | X | Podcast | Book
Join the Waitlist for my SmartSX Membership Community: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse.
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Sex, Love & Astrology

Fri, 16 Aug 2024 10:00:00 -0000

On today’s show, I’m joined by psychological astrologer and returning guest Dr. Jennifer Freed.

We answer your questions on how to spot a sensual lover, useful tools for addressing low libido, how to pursue a threesome or open relationship, how to easily create intimacy in a relationship, what your Zodiac signs say (or don’t say) about compatibility with your partner, what to do if your hookup buddy wants a relationship (but you don’t), and the mind-blowing effects of EMDR therapy.

We also share our top methods to build erotic tension and why focusing too much on your partner’s desire can hold you back in the bedroom. As an added bonus, we walk through ways to reach your ‘power yes’ in sex, the effects of toxic masculinity, and how to communicate as an invitation—not a confrontation.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

How to identify and attract a sensual lover through astrology and self-awareness.
Tools and techniques to address low libido and build erotic tension in your relationship.
Practical advice on navigating open relationships, threesomes, and understanding compatibility through Zodiac signs.

Show Notes:

More Dr. Jennifer Freed: Website | Instagram
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EMDRIA.org: Resources for EMDR therapy
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How Therapy Improves Your Sex Life

Tue, 13 Aug 2024 10:00:00 -0000

Just like going to the gym improves your body, going to therapy improves your mind. And bonus: couple’s counseling can radically improve your relationship and your sex life. So why do some people absolutely refuse to go?

On today’s show, I’m giving you the therapy low-down, so you can decide whether you should try it – or, if it’s the right call for you and your partner. I’m talking: signs it’s time to look for a therapist, pros and cons of solo therapy vs. couple’s counseling, whether sex therapy is right for you, what to expect from a typical therapy session, and how to find therapy that works for you – including budget-friendly options. Plus, I take your therapy-related questions on porn addiction, sexual trauma and what to do if you tried to improve your sex life with your partner…but they cheated anyway.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

The Importance of Addressing Sexual Trauma
The Power of Open Communication in Relationships
Seeking Professional Help is a Sign of Strength

Show Notes:

Join the Waitlist for my SmartSX Membership Community: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse.
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Make Room for a Sex Room

Fri, 09 Aug 2024 10:00:00 -0000

If you build a sex room, they will come. That’s the idea behind the Netflix show “How to Build a Sex Room,” and on today’s episode I’ve got designer Melanie Rose here with me to discuss her real-life erotic renovations.

From a rock n’ roll dungeon to a high-end sex spa, Melanie has all kinds of decor ideas you can steal: spanking benches, wall-mounted handcuffs, soundproofing wall art. All of these are client-approved sex innovations, but the show has a touching side too. You get to see all kinds of clients, from suburbanites to polycules, parents to long-distance couples, discuss their fantasies and sexual desires – some of them for the very first time. And you know I’m all about that.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

Insights into how Melanie Rose creates sex rooms that are both functional and sensual
Practical advice on managing bodily fluids during sex
How designing a personalized sex room can empower individuals and couples to explore their sexuality more freely

Show Notes:

More Melanie Rose: Netflix show | Instagram | Website | Pinterest
Join the Waitlist for my SmartSX Membership Community: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse.
Yes! No! Maybe? Guide
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The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
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The Power of Solo Anal Play

Tue, 06 Aug 2024 10:00:00 -0000

In this episode, you’ll learn:

Discover the positive reasons to explore anal play on your own, regardless of your anatomy.
Learn the truth behind common anal myths and misconceptions.
Get detailed tips on toys and insertion techniques, from beginner to advanced levels.

Show Notes:

Join the Waitlist for my SmartSX Membership Community: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse.
Yes! No! Maybe? Guide
Try the LELO SORAYA Beads Today! (Use code "SEXWITHEMILY" for 25% off your order, exclusions may apply.)
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
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FaceTime Sex & Sexy Texts

Fri, 02 Aug 2024 10:00:00 -0000

In this episode, you’ll learn:

How to get in the mood for FaceTime sex and tips to help yourself feel more comfortable on-screen
Answers to listener questions, such as how to spice it up and how do you end a sexting session
How to position your camera and what to actually say in the moment

Show Notes:

Join the Waitlist for my SmartSX Membership Community: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse.
Try our FREE Guides Today!
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Red Flags Are Not Green

Tue, 30 Jul 2024 10:00:00 -0000

Trust: it’s the glue of relationships, even the more casual ones. Can I trust that this person is safe? That they aren’t going to hurt me? Can I trust myself, that I’ll know how to navigate this situation? These are the questions we all ask ourselves, even if it’s subconscious. Our bodies and brains regularly scan for danger, but when you’re wearing rose-colored glasses, sometimes the red flags just look like flags.

So on today’s show, I take your questions on trust and safety, because as we know, safety is the precursor to hot sex. So what happens when you’re having mind-blowing sex with a partner, but catch them chatting with sex workers online? What happens when you’ve been love-bombed, by someone who isn’t what they seem? Or maybe you’ve had past relationship trauma, and don’t trust new partners to take it slow with you? We get into all of it. Finally: do you trust yourself to facilitate a hookup? Do you trust that you can help a partner heal from sex-negative messaging? These are the questions I’m exploring today, and trust ME: by the end, you’ll walk away with some great tools for sticky situations.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

Being upfront and honest in a new relationship is very important
Lowering your expectations for a one night stand or a situation-ship
When someone tells you who they are, believe them

Show Notes:

Join the Waitlist for my SmartSX Membership Community: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse.
Try our FREE Guides Today!
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
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Break Out Of Your Breakup Blues

Fri, 26 Jul 2024 10:00:00 -0000

Breakups. They can be a painful experience. Trust me, I know. After spending time considering your partner to be such an important aspect of your life, losing them can be like a mini-death. If you have decided your relationship is over and are struggling to know what to do next, this episode is for you. I give my top tips for how to cope and answer all your questions.

In this episode you’ll learn:

How to cope with a breakup
Tips for giving better oral sex
Tools for communicating your needs

Show Notes:

SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
Try the LELO Enigma Double Sonic Today! (Use code "SEXWITHEMILY" for 25% off your order, exclusions may apply.)
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Shoot Your Best Shot with Dr. Josh Gonzalez

Tue, 23 Jul 2024 10:00:00 -0000

Tune into this conversation with the incredible Dr. Josh Gonzalez, a board-certified urologist fellowship-trained in sexual medicine and specializing in the management of male and female sexual dysfunctions. Dr. Gonzalez has been featured in Vogue and is a medical contributor to Men’s Health and Cosmopolitan, among others. He is a sexual health expert who has built a following on TikTok and Instagram, where he uses social media to educate on sexual and reproductive health. He is also the co-founder of Popstar, a men’s supplement addressing semen health. I loved talking with Dr. Gonzalez. I can’t wait to share his incredible work with you.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

That 50 percent of infertility cases are related to male factor infertility. That’s half of the cases, but somehow, we default label infertility as a female issue.
How oral contraceptive pills cause an elevation in a protein called sex hormone binding globulin in women. This is a protein you don't want large amounts of in your body, as it binds up all of your hormones. When the hormones are bound, they can't be effectively used.
About the groundswell of men coming into Dr. Gonzalez’s office requesting vasectomies after the overturning of Roe v. Wade.
How you can easily test your sperm with at-home collection kits. For not much money, you can freeze your sperm, too.

Show Notes:

More Dr. Josh Gonzalez: Instagram | Website | TikTok
Try the Popstar Volume & Taste Supplement & Popstar Fertility for Men Today! Save 20% with code "EMILY" at popstarlabs.com/emily
Try our FREE Guides Today!
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
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Hottest Hotline Calls

Fri, 19 Jul 2024 10:00:00 -0000

So you want sex on the daily, but as for your partner? Not really. Not to worry! Today’s hotline calls episode takes a look at mismatched sex drives, and what might actually be behind them. We’re also diving into penis size, pleasure, and communication. There are so many ways to enjoy a penis - but first, ya gotta talk about what you BOTH want.

In this episode you’ll learn:

How to make eye contact during sex
What to do about sexsomnia (aka having sex in your sleep)
How to talk to your partner about not having much sex experience

Show Notes:

Try our FREE Guides Today!
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
Want to try Promescent's Delay Spray or Arousal Gel? Visit Promescent.com/emily for 15% off your order!
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Happy Endings for Everybody

Tue, 16 Jul 2024 10:00:00 -0000

Did you know that nipple sensations for vulva-owners ignite the same parts of the brain as clitoral stimulation? Today, we’re unlocking all of the overlooked erogenous zones including nipples. ALL genders can potentially have more pleasure and orgasms through nipple play—you just need the proper tips and tricks.

We hear from a masseuse who is exploring the reality of “happy endings” as well as a couple who’s interested in perfecting the “g-spot orgasm” and closing the orgasm gap. (I like to call it the “g-area”... Find out why!)

In this episode you’ll learn:

How to have a nipple orgasm
Ways to help with the orgasm gap
How to respond to a partner who you feel may not be sexually attracted to you

Show Notes:

SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
Try the LELO Enigma Double Sonic Today! (Use code "SEXWITHEMILY" for 25% off your order, exclusions may apply.)
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Finding Your Fantasy w/ Elle Chase

Fri, 12 Jul 2024 10:00:00 -0000

Sexual fantasies give us a window into what we need: a type of touch, a type of power, or even a type of person. But what if you’re one of those people who’s like: “I don’t know how to fantasize, Emily?” Then look no further than sex educator and author of Curvy Girl Sex Elle Chase. Elle joins me to talk about cultivating your erotic daydreams, what your fantasies say about your desire style, and how to turn a common fantasy into a reality: finding a friend with benefits.

In this episode you’ll learn:

How to find your fantasies and how to talk to your new partner about them
What to say to a partner who thinks butts are gross
How to respond to a partner who desperately wants to watch you have sex with another (but you’re not so into it)

Show Notes:

The Yes! No! Maybe? List!
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
Shop VIIA Today and use code "EMILY" at checkout for 15% off your order
More Elle Chase: Website | Instagram
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How To Tell If They’re Feeling The Spark

Tue, 09 Jul 2024 10:00:00 -0000

On today’s show, everyone’s looking for clarity in the sexual unknown, starting with: how can I tell if they’re into me? Whether it’s an office crush and you’re trying to figure out if they like you back, or you’re about to go on a date and worried you’ll be friend-zoned, I give you tips to put your best foot forward. How about if it’s a new sexual act, and you don’t know how you feel about it — or if you should even try it? I offer ways to figure out what YOU want…and not just what your lover wants. Finally, sexual evolutions in long-term relationships: what to do when you’re filled with old resentment? Is there a new conversation you could have with your partner? How about when you want to open up…but your nesting partner is scared of you having new lovers? We’re venturing into uncharted sex territory today, but don’t worry—we all come out on the other side, with fresh ways forward.

In this episode you’ll learn:

Steps to getting back into dating
How to talk to your partner about their kinks
What to do when you want your relationship to be open, but your partner doesn't
How to talk to your kids about Sex and Sexual Wellness

Show Notes:

Try our FREE Guides Today!
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
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We’re All A Little Kinky

Fri, 05 Jul 2024 10:00:00 -0000

What does it mean exactly, when someone says they’re a voyeur? A sub? A cuckhold or an exhibitionist? Well folks, we are getting a kinky education today!

On today’s episode, I’m walking you through your sexual fantasies to see where you land on the kink spectrum. I’m talking submission and domination, exhibitionism and voyeurism, even a little humiliation, if that’s your preferred kink flavor. But because kink is play, I’m also giving you some specific ideas for how to explore these fantasies IRL – and, bonus, I’m taking all of your kinky questions.

In this episode you’ll learn:

Various sexual fantasies, including submission, domination, exhibitionism, voyeurism, and consensual non-consent
The importance of excellent communication, trust, and consent when exploring fantasies
How to explore fantasies practically and safely, emphasizing that kink is a form of play meant to enhance relationships and understanding

Show Notes:

SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
Practice love every day with Paired, the #1 app for couples. Download the app at https://www.paired.com/SWE
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Hotline Calls: Are You Bicurious?

Tue, 02 Jul 2024 10:00:00 -0000

In today’s throwback episode, I’m taking your Sex With Emily hotline calls and answering your questions. Remember, you can always call and leave a voicemail with your question at 559-TALK-SEX (559-825-5739).

In this episode you’ll learn:

What to do if you can’t stop fantasizing about women (but you’re in a healthy relationship with a man)
How to determine if birth control is tanking your sex drive
How to communicate with a partner who won’t share their desires

Show Notes:

Take the SWE Listener Survey Here!
Try our FREE Guides Today!
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
Want more? Sex With Emily: Home
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Love, Sex, and Success with Gabby Reece Pt. 2

Fri, 28 Jun 2024 10:00:00 -0000

Have you found yourself fascinated with what's masculine or feminine, especially in the bedroom? On today's episode, volleyball star, Gabby Reece, redefines the modern day versions of these roles and explains why it matters in her marriage.

In this episode you’ll learn:

Gabby's definition of masculine & feminine in her marriage
Why younger generations may not be having as much sex
Which sex toys Gabby is into

Show Notes:

Take the SWE Listener Survey Here!
More Gabby Reece | Instagram | Website | Podcast
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
Shop VIIA Today and use code "EMILY" at checkout for 15% off your order.
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Get What You Want (In Bed)

Tue, 25 Jun 2024 10:00:00 -0000

Ever dated a mind reader who just gets you? …Chances are, probably not. Unfortunately for us, deep connections need deep communication skills. I mean, how can your partner know your needs if you don’t tell them? I know it’s not easy, though, and that’s why today’s throwback is all about articulating what you need, sexually and otherwise. The result? Way healthier relationship dynamics and hotter sex. You’re welcome!

In this episode you’ll learn:

What to do if you want your child to grow up with more positive sex messaging than you had
How to deal with an emotionally detached partner
Why you have to communicate to get the kind of touch you need in bed

Show Notes:

Join me for a Sexual Wellness Weekend in Canyon Ranch!
Take the SWE Listener Survey Here!
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
Want more? Sex With Emily: Home
Try the LELO DOT Travel Today!
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Love, Sex, and Success with Gabby Reece Pt. 1

Fri, 21 Jun 2024 10:00:00 -0000

Volleyball legend and podcast host Gabby Reece takes the hot seat and reveals all her secrets to being a successful athlete, wife, parent and business owner with her famous surfer husband, Laird Hamilton.

In this episode you’ll learn:

Sex rules to keep your man happy
How to play farmer and flower to have a long lasting relationship
Gabby Reece's biggest turn on, it's not what you think it might be
Why being kind is better than being nice

Show Notes:

Join me for a Sexual Wellness Weekend in Canyon Ranch!
Take the SWE Listener Survey Here!
More Gabby Reece | Instagram | Website | Podcast
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
This episode is brought to you by: Promescent (Visit the link for 15% off)
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Sex in the Summer Sun

Tue, 18 Jun 2024 10:00:00 -0000

Summer is heating up and I’m here to make sure that your sex life follows suit. In this throwback episode, I’m sharing my steamiest ideas on how to experiment with hot (and cold) sensation play, the perks of hotel sex, and my personal sex toy picks for travel. Can’t get away this year? No worries, I’ve got sex tips for bringing the vacation into your bedroom. If you’re ready for a Hot Girl Summer, this ep’s for you.

In this episode you’ll learn:

How to set boundaries for your bachelor/bachelorette parties
Where to (safely) have sex in public
How to navigate a friends with benefits situation

Show Notes:

Join me for a Sexual Wellness Weekend in Canyon Ranch!
Take the SWE Listener Survey Here!
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
For their buy 1 get 1 50% off deal, head to 3DayBlinds.com/SWE
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Best Of: The Lies of Monogamy w/ Dr. Shefali

Fri, 14 Jun 2024 10:00:00 -0000

Ever wondered how culture has molded your sexuality? My guest, Dr. Shefali Tsabury, dives deep into this topic on today’s throwback ep, revealing how societal norms have conditioned us to suppress our true desires, cheat ourselves, and live inauthentically. But here's the twist: radically authentic love and desire are within reach! All it takes is confronting the myths we've been fed and making a conscious choice to live freely. Ready to break free and embrace your true self? Tune in.

In this episode you’ll learn:

How to rethink marriage as a model for growth
All about monogamy and why it’s the societal norm (and if it’s even natural…)
How to replace societal conditioning with worthiness

Show Notes:

Join me for a Sexual Wellness Weekend in Canyon Ranch!
Take the SWE Listener Survey Here!
Dr. Shefali: Instagram | Website Podcast: Parenting & You with Dr. Shefali
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
Try the LELO SONA 2 TRAVEL today and get 25% when you use code SEXWITHEMILY at checkout.
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Best Of: How to Talk to Teens About Sex

Tue, 11 Jun 2024 10:00:00 -0000

QUESTION: If you’re a parent or caregiver, should you talk to your child about masturbation? I say absolutely! Even if it feels like you’re navigating a minefield, and even if your own parents left you in the dark (because let’s face it, they probably did), I get it – finding the right words can be trickier than solving a Rubik’s Cube. That’s why today’s episode is your ultimate guide, packed with tools, scripts, and resources to help you tackle this touchy topic with confidence and maybe even a little humor. In a couple years, your kid will thank you!

In this episode you’ll learn:

Why should you talk to your children, and teens specifically, about masturbation
The truth behind masturbation myths
Specific verbiage to make these uncomfortable sex talks a little easier

Show Notes:

Join me for a Sexual Wellness Weekend in Canyon Ranch!
Take the SWE Listener Survey Here!
The Communication Guide (And Other Guides)
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
For a limited time, you can save 20% off sitewide at Justthrivehealth.com with promo code: SEXWITHEMILY
The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
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Love Without Losing Your Mind w/ Todd Baratz

Fri, 07 Jun 2024 11:00:00 -0000

Have you ever been so in love that you lost your mind? I totally get it, and so does today's guest, sex therapist, author, and host of the podcast Diagnonsense, Todd Baratz, who joined me to chat about all things relationship and why dating can be such a struggle today.

In this episode you’ll learn:

How oral sex can make or break your relationship
What to do when you date men who don't know how to connect emotionally
Why we need to stop diagnosing everyone

Show Notes:

Join me for a Sexual Wellness Weekend in Canyon Ranch!
Take the SWE Listener Survey Here!
How to Love Someone Without Losing Your Mind
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
Practice love every day with Paired, the #1 app for couples. Download the app at https://www.paired.com/SWE
The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
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Are You Touch-Starved?

Tue, 04 Jun 2024 10:00:00 -0000

Did you know that the lack of physical touch can exacerbate anxiety and depression? How have you been feeding your skin hunger? Ever since the pandemic, many of us have been touch-starved, but now it’s time to feast. On today’s throwback show I’ll share how to satisfy your skin hunger and bring more touch and intimacy back into your life.

In this episode you’ll learn:

What questions to ask yourself to figure out if your relationship is where you want it to be
How to introduce new techniques (and toys) into the bedroom
How to get back into the dating scene

Show Notes:

Join me for a Sexual Wellness Weekend in Canyon Ranch!
Take the SWE Listener Survey Here!
Pleasure Planner + Other Guides
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
Shop Promescent for 15% off your order!
Shopify.com/swe
The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
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Ejaculation Education w/ Gabrielle Blair

Fri, 31 May 2024 10:00:00 -0000

Why is it that vulva owners are the ones tasked with preventing pregnancy? That’s the burning question we’ve all been thinking about since 2017.

On today’s throwback show, we’re diving into this hot topic with Gabrielle Stanley Blair, the mastermind behind a viral thread and the book, Ejaculate Responsibly. Joining us is my dear friend, anthropologist, and author, Dr. Wednesday Martin, to help unpack this loaded discussion. In our post-Roe world, Gabrielle—mother of six and a devout Mormon—is fiercely advocating for the importance of women’s lives and their pleasure. Get ready for an eye-opening conversation!

In this episode you’ll learn:

How society pressures vulva owners to become mothers
Why MORE sex ed leads to LESS unwanted pregnancies
How to talk to young penis owners about ejaculating responsibly

Show Notes:

Join me for a Sexual Wellness Weekend in Canyon Ranch!
Take the SWE Listener Survey Here!
Gabrielle’s Viral Twitter Thread
Ejaculate Responsibly
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
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Best Of: Ready to Get Naughty?

Tue, 28 May 2024 10:00:00 -0000

Let's face it: sex isn't just a switch you can flip on and off. It's more like a whole playlist of tension, arousal, body exploration, playful antics, and steamy teamwork — there’s a lot more than just the main event. So, what do you do when you're ready to get it on, but your body keeps hitting snooze? In today’s show, I’ll show you my favorite tips and tricks and address even the most perplexing arousal questions.

In this episode you’ll learn:

My special trick for giving oral sex with a gag reflex
How to deal with vaginismus
Why communication can fix (almost) every sex problem

Show Notes:

Join me for a Sexual Wellness Weekend in Canyon Ranch!
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
For their buy 1 get 1 50% off deal, head to 3DayBlinds.com/SWE
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The Science Behind Sexual Attraction

Fri, 24 May 2024 10:00:00 -0000

Imagine: You've got that special someone who makes you feel all warm and fuzzy inside. The trust is there, the connection is solid. But sometimes the fire just fizzles out when it comes to sex. I get it. When the routine starts feeling a bit too...routine, it's time to switch things up and rediscover what really gets your engine revving (and sometimes, it’s not your partner!).

On today’s throwback we're diving deep into the world of sexual attraction - what it is, how it's different from romantic love, and most importantly, how to use that knowledge to keep the spark alive in your relationship. Because at the end of the day, switching it up never hurt anybody.

In this episode you’ll learn:

Why sexual attraction can feel so distinctly different than long-term love
What to do when you and your partner are both submissive
When you should hang onto your friend with benefits – and when to let them go

Show Notes:

Join me for a Sexual Wellness Weekend in Canyon Ranch!
Sex and Psychology
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Self Love is Sexy w/ Shaun T

Tue, 21 May 2024 10:00:00 -0000

In today’s throwback show, I talk to the one and only Shaun T, host of the podcast “Trust and Believe,” a world renowned fitness trainer, and a professional dancer. Not to mention a wonderfully sex positive man, but, as you’ll learn in the episode it took a journey – I repeat, a JOURNEY – to get there. But hey, if he can do it, you can too. Trust me: if you’ve been looking for inspo to feel yourself in the bedroom, this convo is an absolute must.

In this episode you’ll learn:

How Shaun and his partner keep things interesting after 12 years and two kids
Why you have to do the work to heal from trauma – and why it’s so rewarding
Shaun’s genius sex and arousal hacks

Show Notes:

Join me for a Sexual Wellness Weekend in Canyon Ranch!
What’s Your Arousal Type?
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Best Of: Conscious, Casual Sex

Fri, 17 May 2024 10:00:00 -0000

Let’s face it: casual sex often gets a bad rap. It’s thought of as just another swipe, a fleeting moment, a reflection of society’s current hookup culture, or something disposable. But hold up! It doesn't have to be that way. When you bring a little intention and mindfulness into the mix, casual sex can be the spark that reignites your erotic energy. In my opinion, the secret sauce is all about knowing yourself and being crystal clear about what you want from your casual encounters. This episode, I’ll be teaching you how to dive into casual sex with purpose and channel your inner Samantha Jones.

In this episode you’ll learn:

All the different types of casual sex out there
How to know if casual sex is right for you (because it isn’t for everyone!)
When it’s best to turn down a potential partner

Show Notes:

Join me for a Sexual Wellness Weekend in Canyon Ranch!
7 Myths of Non Monogamy
Friends With Benefits: A Guide
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
LOKI WAVE 2
The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
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Dating Bootcamp w/ Amy Chan

Tue, 14 May 2024 10:00:00 -0000

Today I had the pleasure of talking to the “Scientific Carrie Bradshaw”, a.k.a Amy Chan, the revolutionary mind behind Renew Breakup Bootcamp, to talk about all things relationship. We chat about how her heartbreak helped in creating Breakup Bootcamp, why being present during dates is hard but necessary, and why dating outside of your comfort zone might be the key to finding the one. If you’re sick of swiping left and tolerating toxicity, this one’s for you.

In this episode you’ll learn:

How to measure your chemistry compass
Why it’s important to date that short person (even if they aren’t exactly your type!)
How to spot the “green flags” in a relationship

Show Notes:

Attend Dating Bootcamp!
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How to Turn Sexual Fantasies into Reality

Fri, 10 May 2024 10:00:00 -0000

Eager to transform your hottest sexual fantasy into reality? Then today’s throwback Ask Emily show is for you! I'll be taking calls about fantasies and offering concrete tips on how to actualize them. However, it's essential to recognize that this journey is a blend of creativity and strategy. You must embrace your sensual desires, visualize intensely passionate — and perhaps even forbidden — scenarios, and explore what genuinely excites you! Lucky for you, I’ve given you tips on how to do just that. Right this way for some sexy self-discovery…

In this episode you’ll learn:

How to go about finding a “third” if your partner’s been hinting at cuckolding
The 411 on play parties (and how to stay safe if you go to one!)
What to do if you’ve been craving a sexual fantasy, but your imagination’s been letting you down

Show Notes:

The Yes, No, Maybe List
Fetlife
Feeld
#Open
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Masturbate (All May) with Emily

Tue, 07 May 2024 10:00:00 -0000

It’s my favorite month of the year: Masturbation May! On today’s throwback show, I’m honoring the month of self-love and giving you a brief history of the celebration, the health benefits of masturbation, and my favorite toys and lubes for bringing you pleasure this May and all year long.

In this episode you’ll learn:

What to do if you feel yourself relying too much on your vibrator
Why masturbation can help you have orgasms during sex with your partner
Signs that you’re masturbating too much

Show Notes:

Mutual Masturbation Guide
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SEX WITH EMILY VESPER
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Find Your Person & Lead Your Love Life w/ Matthew Hussey Pt. 2

Fri, 03 May 2024 10:00:00 -0000

Today, I continue my conversation with my friend, YouTube personality, public speaker, and author Matthew Hussey. We chat about his latest book, Love Life: How to Raise Your Standards, Find Your Person, and Live Happily No Matter What, Matthew’s texting skills, and why it’s best to follow your path and not your feelings. And if you were wondering about the texting cliffhanger from Part 1, it’s answered in today’s show. Enjoy!

In this episode you’ll learn:

Why “avoiders” can be more of a red flag in relationships than liars
When to make things work and when it's not worth it
Why speaking your truth is sexy

Show Notes:

Find Your Person & Lead Your Love Life w/ Matthew Hussey Pt. 1
Matthew’s New Book: Love Life
LELO Tor 3 (Use code SEXWITHEMILY for 25% off)
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Best Of: Sex & The Senses

Tue, 30 Apr 2024 10:00:00 -0000

When it comes to sex, a lot of us find ourselves getting in our head about the way it “should” go down. “I should look a certain way.” “They should kiss me a certain way.” “We’ll both orgasm at the same time.” In other words, we expect things to be straight out of a movie…

But here’s the real deal: you’re going to orgasm way easier – and more intensely – if you get out of your head, and into your body. So on today’s throwback show, I’m helping you have fully embodied sex using your senses. If you're not turned on or inspired to have sex, I’ve got sensory tools you can use to remove mental blocks and seduce yourself or your partner…and feel all the electric sensations leading up to the big O.

In this episode you’ll learn:

Why you’re dissociating during sex and how to stop
Ways to talk dirty without swearing
How to bring back an MIA orgasm

Show Notes:

Just Thrive (use this link to automatically get 20% off sitewide or use code SEXWITHEMILY at checkout!)
Come As You Are - Dr. Emily Nagoski
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Find Your Person & Lead Your Love Life w/ Matthew Hussey Pt. 1

Fri, 26 Apr 2024 10:00:00 -0000

Listen in on my conversation with my friend Matthew Hussey. You may know him as the inspirational YouTube personality, author, and public speaker who has revolutionized the world of dating advice with his amazing methods. We chat about emotional journeys, what Matthew has learned in his experience as a relationship coach, and ways to take charge of your love life. If you've been in a dating slump, this is the episode for you.

In this episode you’ll learn:

How to take charge of your love life
Why reflecting on your instincts is a game changer
The value of valuing yourself first

Show Notes:

Matthew’s New Book: Love Life
More Matthew Hussey: Website | Instagram | Youtube
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Sex And Emily Pt. 2

Tue, 23 Apr 2024 10:00:00 -0000

Today, I continue my candid convo with my friend Falguni, answering all your hottest and most personal sex questions. From my experiences in threesomes to my favorite positions, no question goes unanswered. If you’ve ever wondered what the mile high club is like or how to tell your partner they could step up their sex game, tune in. Trust me, this is an episode you won’t wanna miss.

In this episode you’ll learn:

Why penetration alone might not always give you an orgasm
How to take control of your orgasm
Why communication is the most important part of your threesome

Show Notes:

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Best Of: Climax with Cannabis

Fri, 19 Apr 2024 10:00:00 -0000

Happy 4/20! While direct research is still in development, there's no denying the potential benefits of cannabis for enhancing your sexual experiences. Researchers theorize that the plant can unlock a world of heightened eroticism, tranquil minds, and pain-free sex. On today’s show, I chat about ways cannabis might light up your sex life, my favorite products and delivery methods for the occasion (I’m a huge edible fan!), and how to figure out if cannabis is right for you.

In this episode you’ll learn:

How cannabis can affect sexual performance
How to decide if you should bring cannabis into the bedroom
My fave product recommendations for 4/20 fun

Show Notes:

6 Ways to Use Cannabis for Sex: A Guide
The Journal of Cannabis Research Study
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The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
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Sex And Emily Pt. 1

Tue, 16 Apr 2024 10:00:00 -0000

Buckle up: Today’s show is one you’ve all been waiting for…and spoiler alert, it’s all about me! I sat down with my good friend Falguni to flip the script and spill the tea on what sex with Emily is actually like (pun intended)! Tune in to hear me get up close and personal about my sexual journey, why I faked my orgasms until my 30s, and sex trends that I see making a comeback in the near future.

In this episode you’ll learn:

How I stopped having performative sex
How to push past the pleasure thieves for fulfilling sex
My go-to positions and products for the best orgasms

Show Notes:

Get your tickets HERE for Sex with Emily LIVE!
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Why Gut Health is Sexy w/ Tina Anderson

Fri, 12 Apr 2024 20:00:00 -0000

In today’s gut-busting episode I dive deep into the tango between your belly's bacteria and your sexual wellness. And who better to guide us through this intestinal intrigue than Tina Anderson, the gut guru and CEO of Just Thrive, the brand whose mission is to reboot your microbiome. Prepare to have your life changed as Tina spills the beans on how bacteria in your gut really calls the shots, influencing everything from your mood swings to your mojo.

Buckle up, lovers and health hackers, as we explore the steamy science that'll have you rethinking your next date night dinner.

In this episode you’ll learn:

What low libido, keeping the spark alive, erectile challenges, and gut issues all have in common
How hormones and the gut biome each affect each other in a bi-directional system
Why the 3 pleasure thieves (stress, trauma, and shame) also impact our general health and wellness

Show Notes:

Just Thrive (use this link to automatically get 20% off sitewide at checkout!)
Get your tickets HERE for Sex with Emily LIVE!
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
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Communicate Your Sexual Needs

Tue, 09 Apr 2024 10:00:00 -0000

It’s 2024, and there’s no denying that everybody has sexual needs. However, it can be really difficult to articulate them and share them with your partner. On today’s throwback Ask Emily show, I’m here to help you take that vital next step and get your needs fulfilled. From those who’ve never had an orgasm before to those who just want to communicate with their partners better, I’ve got you!

Just remember: for every sex problem, there is a path forward.

In this episode you’ll learn:

How to communicate your sexual needs (even if your partner shuts down sex convos)
Techniques to give your partner a crazy orgasm
What to do if your partner desires things you might not be sure about like swinging

Show Notes:

Get your tickets HERE for Sex with Emily LIVE!
Promescent.com/Emily (Use this link to automatically save 15% at checkout!)
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Pleasure Mapping & Full-Body Orgasms w/ Dolly Josette

Fri, 05 Apr 2024 10:00:00 -0000

Today I revisit my conversation with Dolly Josette, the PleasureMuse who turned the world of breathwork into the ultimate erotic adventure! Imagine unlocking a treasure chest of sensations and full-body orgasms you never knew you had with the work of meditation.. Dolly isn't just any guide on this journey; she's the Gandalf of sexual enlightenment, hailed by the high councils of Cosmopolitan and Hustler Magazines as a pioneering Sexological Bodyworker. But what truly sets her apart isn't the accolades; it's her magical ability to awaken the dormant erotic energy within women and couples, guiding them from numbness to dizzying heights of orgasmic bliss. So, if the idea of exploring the vast, uncharted territories of pleasure sounds good to you, Dolly Josette is ready to lead the way!

In this episode you’ll learn:

How to hack your nervous system for better sex
Why so many vulva owners are trained to numb from the waist down (and how to fix it!)
How to become a great masturbator

Show Notes:

Get your tickets HERE for Sex with Emily LIVE!
More Dolly Josette - The Pleasure Muse
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Best Of: Love, Lust & Lexapro

Tue, 02 Apr 2024 10:00:00 -0000

Mental health and sexual desire – do you have to choose between one or the other? It's a conundrum that's more common than you think, and it's a topic that's sure to get you thinking! Antidepressants like Lexapro can be lifesavers for many, but they can also leave you feeling a little, well, deflated in the bedroom department. On the other hand, if your depression goes untreated, it can be tough to get in the mood. So, how do you navigate this predicament?

Today, we're diving into the nitty-gritty of this struggle, and you'll hear from some of our listeners who've been there.

In this episode you’ll learn:

How to understand the effects your mental health has on your sex drive
Sexy strategies to manage the side effects of antidepressants
Alternative treatments and lifestyle changes to maximize your pleasure

Show Notes:

Get your tickets HERE for Sex with Emily LIVE!
The Experimental Generation of Interpersonal Closeness (36 Questions)
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The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
LELO (use code SEXWITHEMILY for 25% off all other products)
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Best Of: Secrets to Happier Sex w/ Dr. Amen

Fri, 29 Mar 2024 10:00:00 -0000

It's commonly said that the brain is the most significant sexual organ in the human body. But is it possible to manipulate our brains to enhance happiness or even improve our sexual experiences? Dr. Daniel Amen, a psychiatrist and acclaimed author, has compiled the most extensive collection of brain scans globally. Through analyzing this data, he has uncovered intriguing insights: by adopting habits grounded in neuroscience, we can significantly enhance our mental well-being, elevate our mood, and indeed – enrich our sexual lives. Tune in now to discover how to take control of your mind and enjoy the benefits.

In this episode you’ll learn:

The way stress hormones can interfere with our sexual hormones
Techniques to shield yourself from mental "noise"
The reasons why individuals who are happier generally enjoy longer lives, maintain healthier relationships, achieve greater success professionally, and experience more fulfilling sex lives

Show Notes:

Get your tickets HERE for Sex with Emily LIVE!
Order Dr. Daniel Amen's New Book, Raising Mentally Strong Kids
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How to Send Your Best Sext

Tue, 26 Mar 2024 10:00:00 -0000

Sexting: it’s basically the foreplay of the 21st century - a steamy, sultry way to turn up the heat without even being in the same room. But let's be real, sending a bunch of suggestive emojis out of the blue might leave your partner scratching their head. That's why you need to master the art of sexting, and I'm here to help you do just that. In this show, I'll give you the inside scoop on how to craft the perfect sext, from the right tone to the perfect use of emojis. With my pro tips, you'll be able to turn up the heat and leave your partner begging for more. So buckle up, because we're about to take your sexting game to a whole new level!

In this episode you’ll learn:

How emotional intelligence influences your sexting skills
How to manage your devices so messages don’t end up in the wrong place
How to have good phone sex in a long distance relationship

Show Notes:

Get your tickets HERE for Sex with Emily LIVE!
Sexting Guide
Yes, No, Maybe List
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
LELO (use code SEXWITHEMILY for 25% off all products)
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Creating The Love You Desire w/ Mark Groves

Fri, 22 Mar 2024 10:00:00 -0000

Looking to connect with your partner on a whole new level? Lucky for you, today’s episode with human connection specialist Mark Groves will give you the tools to do just that. Mark uses his emotional translation skills to give accessible relationship and wellness advice to others and shares his relatable ways to be your most authentic self. From discussing a Thanksgiving dinner that changed his life to examining past toxic behavior, Mark and I dive deep into ways to become wiser in love. Get ready to get vulnerable, today’s show gets DEEP!

In this episode you’ll learn:

How to break free from codependent relationships
Why reflecting on past experiences is the key to better relationships
Why we should all be using the word “boner again

Show Notes:

Get your tickets HERE for Sex with Emily LIVE!
Pre-order Mark’s new book: LIBERATED LOVE
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The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
LELO (use code SEXWITHEMILY for 25% off all products)
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Best Of: Where Did My Orgasm Go?

Tue, 19 Mar 2024 10:00:00 -0000

WARNING, WARNING: Your climax has exited the premises. Ever wondered why achieving orgasm can feel effortless with one partner but challenging with another? Or why squirting might occur without reaching climax? On today's throwback episode of Hotline Calls, we're delving into the topic of orgasm and its hidden secrets. Tune in for an orgasmic time.

Got a burning question? Feel free to reach out and leave a voicemail anytime at 559-TALK-SEX (559-825-5739).

In this episode you’ll learn:

The difference between squirting and orgasming
How to orgasm for the first time, if you never have
How to create masturbation routines that support the orgasms you deserve

Show Notes:

Buy tickets to my San Diego, CA Show on April 10, 2024 HERE!
Buy tickets to my Phoenix, AZ Show on April 18, 2024 HERE!
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
OhMiBod Sphinx
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How to Have Honeymoon Sex Forever

Fri, 15 Mar 2024 10:00:00 -0000

Weddings: They're like a beautiful blend of tradition and flowers, but let's be real – Is married sex worth all the hype? Let's face it, folks. Married sex often gets stuck in this rut of tired old cliches. But guess what? It doesn't have to be that way!

We're so over settling for dull or non-existent intimacy as we journey through life with our partners. So, buckle up because on today's show, I'm all about shaking things up to make sex with your spouse hot again. From crafting your own set of sex vows before you take that stroll down the aisle to pleasure planning with your long-time partner, we're rewriting the playbook on honeymoon passion. Oh, and we're diving into the cultural landscape of love, sex, and relationships because times are definitely changing!

In this episode you’ll learn:

How to navigate bisexuality in a straight marriage
What it means if you find yourself jealous at your friend’s wedding
How to bring back the spark…even when the spark was a little dim in the first place

Show Notes:

Buy tickets to my San Diego, CA Show on April 10, 2024 HERE!
Buy tickets to my Phoenix, AZ Show on April 18, 2024 HERE!
Yes, No, Maybe Guide
Pleasure Planner
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
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Magic Life Hacks & Micro Intimacy w/ Liz Moody

Tue, 12 Mar 2024 10:00:00 -0000

Today I’m joined by Liz Moody, the best-selling author and podcast host who shares insightful tips to help transform your life in all different aspects in her new book, 100 Ways to Change Your Life: The Science of Leveling Up Health, Happiness, Relationships & Success. We discuss her personal strategies for prioritizing wellness, ways to run your home like a CEO, and how to make your ideal Sex Bill of Rights. Tune in for so many amazing tips and tricks to upgrade your life!

In this episode you’ll learn:

How planning your funeral helps you live a fulfilling present life
Why it's important to run your home like you’re the CEO
My new term "micro intimacy” and why that will be a game changer

Show Notes:

Check out Liz’ New Book HERE
LELO F1S V3 (use code SEXWITHEMILY for 25% off all products)
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
Want more? Sex With Emily: Home
Let’s get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok
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See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

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AITA For Being Pushy About My Fantasies?

Fri, 08 Mar 2024 11:00:00 -0000

Listen up, assholes! Relationships and sex dynamics can be pleasure-filled and intimate, and also complicated and messy. Today, Producer Erica and I are reading your AITA questions and letting you know if you’re being an asshole in your sex life and relationships. We answer questions like: AITA for wanting more sexual tension and intimacy in our relationship? AITA for re-evaluating a new relationship after they told me they have an STI? AITA for breaking up with my partner because they won’t go down on me? And more.

In this episode you’ll learn:

How to communicate your sexual needs effectively with your partner
What to do if your partner tells you they have an STI
How to heighten sexual tension

Show Notes:

Promescent.com/Emily (Use this link to automatically save 15% at checkout!)
Episode: Hot Sex with STIs w/ Dr. Ina Park
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
Want more? Sex With Emily: Home
Let’s get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok
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See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

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Underestimated: The Wisdom of Teenage Girls w/ Chelsey Goodan

Tue, 05 Mar 2024 11:00:00 -0000

Today, I had a candid conversation with Chelsey Goodan, also known as the Teenage Girl Whisperer, about empowering teenage girls in today's society. Chelsey shares her insights from working with teenage girls for over a decade and discusses the challenges they face regarding sexuality, self-expression, and societal expectations. Join us as we explore the power of communication, empowerment, and authenticity in supporting teenage girls on their journey to self-discovery and empowerment.

In this episode you’ll also learn:

Effective communication strategies
The power of radical honesty and authenticity in building relationships
How to break cycles of criticism, self-doubt, and judgment

Show Notes:

Chelsey’s Book: Underestimated
Promescent.com/Emily (15% off your order!)
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)
The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
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See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

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Best Of: Sex Up Your Love Language

Fri, 01 Mar 2024 11:00:00 -0000

Ever wondered if there's a way to spice things up in the bedroom AND reignite the spark between you and your partner? Well, today I'm about to help you crack the code of the 5 Love Languages and supercharge your relationship. I'll also tackle your burning questions like what to do when you and your partner speak different love languages (more common than you’d think), how to keep the love alive in a long-distance relationship, and sex hacks based on your unique love language combo.

And if that wasn't enough, I also discuss some awkward situations like accidentally critiquing your partner's penis or navigating that awkward phase when you and your partner feel like the spark is gone.

In today’s episode, you’ll learn:

All about the 5 Love Languages
How to keep the flame burning in a long-distance relationship
How to best express your desires with your partner (even if your love languages are different!)

Show Notes:

Je Joue Mimi Soft
Talk Dirty to Me w/ Joanna Angel
Head to bathmatedirect.com/sexwithemily for an automatic 10% off your purchase!
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
Want more? Sex With Emily: Home
Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok
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See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

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How to Raise Good Humans w/ Dr. Aliza Pressman

Tue, 27 Feb 2024 11:00:00 -0000

Today I teamed up with the brilliant developmental psychologist and host of the Raising Good Humans podcast, Dr. Aliza Pressman, for a rollercoaster ride through the wild world of parenting, sexuality, and relationships. From decoding the mysteries of "the talk" with kids to unraveling the enigma of why millennials and Gen-Zers might be having sex less often, we left no stone unturned. Join us as we dive headfirst into understanding and embracing children's gender identities and sexual orientations, all while figuring on how to be the best humans we can be.

Get ready, because this episode isn't just about parenting—it's about living your best life and loving fiercely along the way!

Show Notes:

5 Principles of Parenting OUT NOW!
More Dr. Aliza Pressman: Website | Instagram
Head to bathmatedirect.com/sexwithemily for an automatic 10% off your purchase!
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
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See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

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Best Of: You're Kinkier Than You Think

Fri, 23 Feb 2024 11:00:00 -0000

When you think of BDSM and kink, I’m sure leather and whips come to mind. But what if I told you that there’s much more to kink than that? Today, I’m here to sprinkle some spice and shed light on the art of BDSM and kink. First up, we'll define key terms and provide a comprehensive understanding of BDSM because let's face it, who really knows what "BDSM" stands for anyway? Then, we'll explore the psychology behind power dynamics and the core desires behind kinky practices. And last but certainly not least, we'll serve up some tantalizing tips for bringing a bit of kink into your bedroom – whether you're flying solo or have a partner in crime.

So, buckle up (or should I say, buckle down?), because we're about to embark on a journey into the wild and wonderful world of kink!

In this episode, you’ll learn:

What BDSM and Kink are really about
The psychology behind dom/sub dynamics
How to fearlessly bring kink into the bedroom

Show Notes:

What NOT to Say to Your Partner When Talking About Sex
How to Squirt (For Real)
Yes No Maybe List & Other Guides
LELO Tiani Duo
We-Vibe Melt
Head to bathmatedirect.com/sexwithemily for an automatic 10% off your purchase!
5 BDSM Games To Spice Up Your Sex Life Tonight
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
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Manifest Your Best Sex Life w/ Gabby Bernstein

Tue, 20 Feb 2024 22:30:00 -0000

In today's episode, I had the pleasure of speaking with #1 NYT Bestselling author Gabby Bernstein. As a spiritual leader and motivational speaker, Gabby shares how you can manifest the sex life you want but through a practical, less woo, lens and how to work through sexual trauma and change your core beliefs around sex. We also get into Internal Family Systems therapy and how young women today speak about sex differently than our generation.

In today’s episode, you’ll learn:

How spirituality can enhance your sexuality
How to boost your confidence (in and out of the bedroom)
Tools for working through trauma

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Show Notes:

My appearance on the Dear Gabby podcast!
More Gabby Bernstein: Website | Instagram
Happy Days
The Universe Has Your Back
Self Help (coming 2/31/24)
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
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Hotline Calls: Squirting, Toys & Threesomes

Fri, 16 Feb 2024 11:00:00 -0000

We all want to grow and become better versions of ourselves. And no where is that more true than our sex lives. That’s the mission of today’s call-in show. I answer your questions all about picking up new sex skills. From a fun-loving couple who wants to incorporate others into their play but can’t find the right candidates, to a twenty-something who wants to learn how to squirt on her own - these brave callers’ questions offer something for everyone to learn from.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

How to find solid friends with benefits
Masturbation techniques
The anatomy of the vulva!

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Show Notes:

The Psychology of Your Kink
How to Squirt (For Real)
Promescent.com/Emily (use this link to automatically save 15% at checkout)
Playground Lube
Je Joue Mimi
Je Joue Hera
Magic Wand
Insertion Toys
Dual Stimulation Toys
#Open
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)
The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
Want more? Sex With Emily: Home
Let’s get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok
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Seduce Yourself: Solo Sex Tips

Tue, 13 Feb 2024 11:00:00 -0000

It’s the season of love - self love! That’s right, this Valentine’s Day, I’ve got all of you singles covered. In today’s Best Of episode, you’ll learn the health benefits of self-pleasure and how it helps you not only reduce stress but elevate your mood. It's also a gateway to understanding your body, boosting your self-esteem, and giving you some serious pleasure.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

How often you should masturbate in a relationship
How to try masturbation when you never have
The magic of mutual masturbation

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Show Notes:

The Psychology of Your Kink
How to Squirt (For Real)
Your February Solo Sex Challenge
LELO DOT (up to 50% off until the end of February, code EMILY10 for an additional 10% off)
We-Vibe Touch
Je Joue Mimi
We-Vibe Rave
We-Vibe Nova
Pjur Water-Based Lube
Aneros Prostate Massager
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)
The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
Want more? Sex With Emily: Home
Let’s get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok
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AITA for Watching Porn While in a Relationship?

Fri, 09 Feb 2024 11:00:00 -0000

In today’s episode, you’ll learn:

How to be a supportive partner to someone with sexual trauma
How to get clearer on your sexual desires
About the experiences of sex workers

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Show Notes:

How to Give a Prostate Massage
15 Sex Toys That Make Amazing Valentine's Day Gifts
VIIA Hemp Co’s High Love Libido Gummies (code EMILY for 15% sitewide + Free Gummies Sample)
Erika Lust porn
Vice Series: Sex Before the Internet
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)
The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
Want more? Sex With Emily: Home
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Orgasms, Explained.

Tue, 06 Feb 2024 11:00:00 -0000

Orgasms are one of the most pleasure-filled parts of sex. But what’s actually happening in your body when you have one? Today, I’m breaking down the physiological process of different kinds of orgasms and explaining how to have them. I also reveal how to find your G-area and have a G-spot orgasm, what it means to have a dry orgasm, what squirting really is and how to do it. Plus, I get into your orgasm questions.

In this episode, you’ll also learn:

The anatomy of the clitoris, vulva, and penis so you can better stimulate them
The many benefits of orgasms, for both your mental and physical health
Tips for communicating with a partner if you no longer want jackhammer sex

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Show Notes:

How to Give a Prostate Massage
15 Sex Toys That Make Amazing Valentine's Day Gifts
LELO Tiani Duo (up to 50% off sitewide until the end of February)
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)
The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
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How to Bounce Back from a Sex Slump w/ Dr. Emily Nagoski

Fri, 02 Feb 2024 11:00:00 -0000

I’m bringing you all into a LIVE conversation I had with renowned sex educator and researcher, Dr. Emily Nagoski, during a recent event in New York! After releasing her bestselling book on sex, Come As You Are, in 2015, Emily’s own sex life took a hit. Today, we discuss how she brought her sex life back from the dead, the Pleasure Thieves, and why it’s okay to stop sex once it’s already started.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

How to identify your sexual brakes and accelerators
About the connection between wearing socks and having more orgasms
How stress impacts your sex drive desire

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Show Notes:

The Sexiest Valentine’s Date Ideas (For Every Stage of Your Relationship)
Magic Wand Micro
Come Together, Dr. Emily Nagoski: Amazon | GoodReads | Bookshop
More Dr. Emily Nagoski: Instagram | Website
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)
The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
Want more? Sex With Emily: Home
Let’s get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok
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The Do’s and Don’ts of Valentine’s Day

Tue, 30 Jan 2024 11:00:00 -0000

Valentine’s Day is coming up, and I’m here to make sure it’s your best one yet. First, I get into some common Valentine’s Day myths and things you should never do on the sexy holiday. After that, I’ll share some creative ways you should celebrate to ensure that your Valentine’s Day is hot, intimate and of course, sexy. Plus, I share some of my listeners’ favorite Valentine’s Day moments for some hot inspiration.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

How to incorporate blindfolds into sexual play
Which toys can be used during penetration
How to cultivate sexual desire & intimacy

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Show Notes:

The Sexiest Valentine’s Date Ideas (For Every Stage of Your Relationship)
How to Do the Kivin Method
LELO Tiani Duo (up to 50% off sitewide until the end of February 2024)
Yes No Maybe List & Other Guides
Massage Candles
Le Wand Crystal
Glass Dildo
Cozy Earth (code “SEXWITHEMILY” for 35% off)
Magic Wand
Masterclass (use link for 15% off the 1st year of an annual subscription)
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)
The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
Want more? Sex With Emily: Home
Let’s get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok
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Hotline Calls: I Can’t Stop Thinking About My Ex

Fri, 26 Jan 2024 15:40:00 -0000

On today’s Best Of episode, I’m answering more of your questions from the Sex With Emily Hotline. We get into: how to handle it when your partner wants to have sex with someone else and stay in your relationship, what it means when you fantasize about your ex, how soon is too soon to start dating someone new after a breakup, and ways to avoid ghosting.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

How to set intentions for new relationships
How cannabis can improve your orgasms and intimacy
How to guide a partner during oral sex

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Show Notes:

The Sexiest Valentine’s Date Ideas (For Every Stage of Your Relationship)
How to Do the Kivin Method
The Pleasure Planner, Yes No Maybe List & Other Guides
VIIA Hemp Co’s High Love Libido Gummies (code EMILY for 15% sitewide + Free Gummies Sample)
EMDRIA
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)
The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
Want more? Sex With Emily: Home
Let’s get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok
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Best Of: Stop Blocking Your Sex Life

Tue, 23 Jan 2024 15:40:00 -0000

When it comes to sex, do you have a growth mindset? Whether you’re a new parent and your sex drive has tanked, or you’re trying to break free from a mental pattern that’s blocking your pleasure, we all experience sexual roadblocks. Never fear: you can have a sex reset! On today’s Ask Emily show, I’m helping you ID the obstacles to your sexuality, from trauma to a repressive upbringing, to a disconnect with a partner. And one by one, I help you figure out solutions that open the door to self-exploration.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

What “spectatoring” during sex means, and how to overcome it
Tips for sharing a sexual fantasy with a new partner
How to navigate mismatched libidos in a long-term relationship

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Show Notes:

10 Common Kinks & Fetishes (& What They Mean)
Solaray (code 20STAGES for 20% off)
We-Vibe Nova Shop Site
Podcast: Hotline Calls: Why Can’t I Orgasm?
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)
The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
Want more? Sex With Emily: Home
Let’s get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok
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Hotline Calls: I Can’t Trust My Partner

Fri, 19 Jan 2024 15:40:00 -0000

To feel turned on, we first have to feel safe. So today, I’m taking some of my favorite Hotline calls on trust and how to repair it. What happens if your spouse cheated on you, and now sex feels sorta gross? What if you tell a new partner you love them, and they don’t reciprocate? Or how about being “too picky” of a dater - is it really because they’re all duds, or are there some underlying trust issues there? The bottom line is this: when we feel free, we feel sexy. And on today’s Best Of episode, I’m helping you radically reclaim your erotic freedom.

In today’s episode, you’ll learn:

How to move forward after infidelity, whether you were the cheater or the cheated on
Tips for feeling comfortable with new partners
What to do when it feels like the “spark” is gone

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Show Notes:

10 Common Kinks & Fetishes (& What They Mean)
Promescent.com/Emily (use this link to automatically save 15% at checkout)
Podcast: Tell Me About the Last Time You Had Sex w/ Ian Kerner
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)
The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
Want more? Sex With Emily: Home
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Hotline Calls: Is My Kink Normal?

Tue, 16 Jan 2024 15:40:00 -0000

I’m answering my listeners’ most personal sex and relationship questions LIVE today. Can you only orgasm with straight legs? I’ve got positions and recommendations to help you get there. Nervous that chastity play is giving your partner delayed ejaculation? I ease your worries and help you collaborate with your partner for mutually fulfilling sex. Plus, we get into other kinky calls like erotic lactation and anal sex.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

How to teach your body new ways to orgasm
Common causes of vaginal pain
About chastity play and penis cage safety

Have a question? Call my Hotline 559-TALK-SEX (559-825-5739) or message me at sexwithemily.com/askemily.

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Show Notes:

How to Initiate Sex
LELO Hugo 2 Remote (code SEXWITHEMILY for 25% off sitewide)
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)
The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
Want more? Sex With Emily: Home
Let’s get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok
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AITA for Wanting Less Sex?

Fri, 12 Jan 2024 15:40:00 -0000

Sometimes, in our sex lives and relationships, it can be easy to wonder: Am I the Asshole? Don’t worry, because in today’s episode, Producer Erica and I are letting you know if you’re approaching asshole territory in your sexual situations, like: AITA for wanting oral sex every time, not just on special occasions? AITA for rejecting my partner’s advances in the middle of the night? Or how about: AITA for getting upset when my partner turns me down? It’s a juicy one.

In today’s episode, you’ll learn:

Creative solutions for mismatched libidos
What to do if you’re in a sexless relationship
Tips for healthy sex conversations

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Show Notes:

How to Initiate Sex
Bathmate (code EMILY10 for 10% off sitewide)
Tips for Better Communication & Other Guides
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)
The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
Want more? Sex With Emily: Home
Let’s get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok
Let’s text: Sign Up Here
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Hotline Calls: I’m Kinky, But My Partner Isn’t

Tue, 09 Jan 2024 15:40:00 -0000

Today I am bringing back LIVE Hotline Calls! Not only that, holistic psychologist, author, and my newest friend, Dr. Scott Lyons, joins me back on the show to help me answer your questions. From concerns about sexual compatibility to avoiding jackhammer sex, you will hear the change in these callers’ voices as we help them in real-time.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

Effective ways to tell your partner you want to explore sexually
How to have sex talks with a partner who gets uncomfortable
How to feel confident going into a date

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Show Notes:

Magic Wand Micro
Dr. Scott Lyons: Instagram | Website
The Embody Lab
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)
The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
Want more? Sex With Emily: Home
Let’s get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok
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F These Dating Myths w/ Damona Hoffman

Fri, 05 Jan 2024 15:40:00 -0000

Burnt out from dating? Do you feel like you’ll never meet “the one?” In today’s episode, celebrity dating coach Damona Hoffman dispels common dating myths and suggests new dating pillars. Plus, she tells us which dating rules to follow (and which to disregard), the #1 expectation for men on dates with women, and how to make your online dating profile stand out.

In this episode, you’ll also learn:

How much chemistry really matters on a date
Who should make the first move
How to track your dates to be more strategic

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Show Notes:

5 Ways to Be a Better Lover in 2024
F the Fairy Tale, Damona Hoffman: Amazon | Barnes & Noble
More Damona Hoffman: Instagram | TikTok | X (Twitter) | Website
Dates & Mates Podcast: Spotify | Apple Podcasts | Website
DamonaHoffman.com/DateTracker
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)
The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
Want more? Sex With Emily: Home
Let’s get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok
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Best Of: More Foreplay, More Orgasms

Tue, 02 Jan 2024 15:40:00 -0000

I dive into the psychology of foreplay and how to get aroused with specific (and quite sexy) pre-game tips. I also talk about what to do if foreplay and overall sex with your partner has gotten a bit stale, how to tease and arouse yourself, what to do if your partner doesn’t want to explore new things, and how to handle a partner who won’t reciprocate foreplay. Plus, I answer your questions!

In this episode, you’ll learn:

How to set the mood for hotter, more intimate sex
Specific sex tips to seduce a partner
The key differences between couples with ‘great’ vs. ‘bad’ sex lives

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Show Notes:

How to Have the Best NYE Kiss Ever
5 Ways to Be a Better Lover in 2024
Podcast: The Gottmans on Compatibility, Conflict & Conversation
Flavored Lubes
Massage Candles
Article: Ask Emily: How Do I Get Better at Dirty Talk?
Podcast: Talk Dirty To Me w/ Joanna Angel
Article: 6 Tips for Mastering the Game-Changing Technique of Mindful Masturbation
Yes, No, Maybe List & Other Guides
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)
The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
Want more? Sex With Emily: Home
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Your Top Sex Questions of 2023

Fri, 29 Dec 2023 15:40:00 -0000

I’m answering your top asked sex questions of 2023 and taking a trip through the hottest moments of the year. It’s the last episode of 2023, and there were definitely some standout episodes you all loved the most. So I’m playing some of the highlights, from my fascinating conversation with Esther Perel to my top Hand Play tips, before answering your top questions.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

What squirting really is and how to do it
How often the average couple has sex
How to have satisfying sex on SSRIs

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Show Notes:

How to Have the Best NYE Kiss Ever
Podcast: Why Do Couples Stop Having Sex? w/ Esther Perel
More Esther Perel: Website | Instagram | Twitter
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)
The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
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Have Better Sex in 2024

Tue, 26 Dec 2023 15:40:00 -0000

I’m always encouraging you all to set goals for yourself in your sex life and relationships, and there’s arguably no better time than in the New Year. Today, Producer Erica and I review predictions for 2024 sex and relationship trends, make some of our own predictions, and suggest some New Year’s resolutions to make 2024 your sexiest year yet.

In this episode you’ll learn:

About the living apart, together movement
What pleasure mapping is, and how to do it
What percentage of successful couples schedule sex

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Show Notes:

VIIA Hemp Co’s High Love Libido Gummies (code EMILY for 15% sitewide + Free Gummies Sample)
Get to Know Your Body with “Vulva Mapping”
LELO Dot
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)
The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
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Hotline Calls: I Fantasize About My Partner with Other People

Fri, 22 Dec 2023 15:40:00 -0000

Is it okay to get turned on thinking about my partner with someone else? How can we maintain intimacy amid financial stress? Is it possible to be a feminist and also want to be submissive in the bedroom? Should I be honest with my partner that I’ve never had penetrative sex before? You all ask the best questions, and I’m here to answer them in today’s juicy Hotline Call episode.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

How to create new fantasies, when you always have the same one
How to watch porn creatively with a partner
How to prioritize pleasure, even during your busiest weeks

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Show Notes:

2023 Holiday Gift Guide: My Top Picks for the Hottest Holidays Ever
2023 Shop With Emily Gift Guide
Last-Minute Amazon Prime Panic Gifts For Lovers & Friends
Bathmate (code EMILY10 for 10% off sitewide)
Opening Up: Amazon | Barnes & Noble
The Ethical Slut: Amazon | Barnes & Noble
Open Deeply: Amazon | Barnes & Noble
Insight Timer
Breathe App
Where Should We Begin? Card Game
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)
The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
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Best & Worst Sex Advice of 2023

Tue, 19 Dec 2023 15:40:00 -0000

Some sex and relationship advice is better than others. Today, Producer Erica and I review some of the most trending sex and relationship advice from TikTok this year, from “how to make them fall in love with you” and love bombing, to when you should sleep with someone or if the “bird test” will tell you whether you should stay with your partner or not. While reviewing all this advice, we’ll let you know if we agree or disagree.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

How to maintain sexual tension in long-term relationships
How to avoid “mothering” your partner
Whether it’s possible to make someone fall in love with you

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Show Notes:

2023 Holiday Gift Guide: My Top Picks for the Hottest Holidays Ever
2023 Shop With Emily Gift Guide
How to Use a Penis Pump
Last-Minute Amazon Prime Panic Gifts For Lovers & Friends
LELO Sona 2 Travel (code SEXWITHEMILY for 25% off sitewide)
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)
The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
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The Top 3 Sex Positions & How to Make Them Better

Fri, 15 Dec 2023 15:40:00 -0000

Today, we’re diving into a topic I know you all love: sex positions! Today, I’m answering your juiciest positions questions before breaking down the top 3 sex positions, giving you the pros and cons of each one and adaptations to make them even better. Sex positions are often the first things people ask me about when looking to spice up their sex lives - so I’m giving you some options!

In this episode, you’ll learn:

How to feel confident on top
Why pillows are the secret weapon to upleveling sex positions
Pleasurable positions for curved penises and tilted uteruses

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Show Notes:

2023 Holiday Gift Guide: My Top Picks for the Hottest Holidays Ever
2023 Shop With Emily Gift Guide
Why You Should Try Anal (& How to Do it the Right Way)
How to Use a Penis Pump
Je Joue Gift Sets (code SEXWITHEMILY for 25% off)
6 Ways to Upgrade 69
We-Vibe Rave
LELO Loki Wave
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)
The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
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Hotline Calls: I’m Tired of “Vanilla” Sex

Tue, 12 Dec 2023 15:50:00 -0000

On today’s Hotline show, I take your calls about having sex talks like: How to relax into oral sex and give your partner tips to make you scream. Or telling a partner you want your vanilla sex to be a little spicier. And how to tell your partner: “you know what? I need to be seduced a little before we jump into penetration.” If we can talk about sex like we talk about dinner, everyone wins! So take a listen to this Best Of episode, and see if your next sex talk is a little bit easier.

In this episode, you’ll also learn:

All about the Kivin Method
Whether age gaps really matter in relationships
How to share sex toys safely

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Show Notes:

2023 Holiday Gift Guide: My Top Picks for the Hottest Holidays Ever
2023 Shop With Emily Gift Guide
Sexy Stocking Stuffers & How to Use Them
Why You Should Try Anal (& How to Do it the Right Way)
FirmTech (bundle the Tech Ring with a 1:1 consultation and save $230 with code EMILY)
Best Of: Oral Sex Master Class
Everybody Loves Oral
Mind-Blowing Oral Sex in Under 5 Minutes: The Kivin Method
Sex With Emily Vesper Vibrating Necklace
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)
The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
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How to Spice Up Your Masturbation Routine

Fri, 08 Dec 2023 15:40:00 -0000

Solo sex is an integral part of being sexually healthy. But how do you spice up your masturbation routine? And how do you get rid of shame surrounding solo sex? I get into all this and more in today’s Best Of episode, including: the health benefits of masturbation, common masturbation fantasies, and whether or not your vibrator is desensitizing your clitoris.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

How often the SWE community has solo sex
How to practice mindful masturbation
How to establish a healthy masturbation routine

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Show Notes:

2023 Holiday Gift Guide: My Top Picks for the Hottest Holidays Ever
2023 Shop With Emily Gift Guide
How to Find the G-Spot
Sexy Stocking Stuffers & How to Use Them
Morgasm CBD Arousal Lubricant (45% off sitewide, code EMILY for an additional 15% off)
Edging 101 & Other Guides
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)
The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
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Hotline Calls: Why Masturbate When I Can Have Sex?

Tue, 05 Dec 2023 15:40:00 -0000

Ever felt like orgasming with a partner is like solving a Rubik's cube blindfolded? Well, you're not alone. Today, Producer Erica and I dive headfirst into this problem with a few tricks up our sleeves. Next on the agenda: how to tell your loving partner you want to be humiliated in the bedroom. I give you the tools to help your partner feel more comfortable with the idea. Then we discuss the ever growing debate: is masturbating with a cam girl considered cheating? Stick around to hear my two cents. And finally, we're talking about masturbating, even when you've got a willing partner on standby. We'll weigh the pros and cons, and why solo sex deserves just as much love as partnered sex.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

About core erotic desires
The benefits of masturbation (by yourself and with a partner)
How to communicate your fantasies to a partner

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Show Notes:

2023 Holiday Gift Guide: My Top Picks for the Hottest Holidays Ever
2023 Shop With Emily Gift Guide
6 Ways to Upgrade Your 69
How to Find the G-Spot
Magic Wand Micro
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)
The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
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AITA for Wanting Sex More than My Partner?

Fri, 01 Dec 2023 15:40:00 -0000

From cheating to sexless marriages, we’re back with another juicy Am I the Asshole? episode. Today, Producer Erica and I let you know if you’re being an asshole in your sex life and relationships, answering questions like: AITA for wanting to leave my partner after he cheated, when I cheated first? Or AITA for not wanting my fiancé to talk about sex with my best friend? Tune in to find out and let me know what you think in my socials!

In this episode, you’ll learn:

Why you should practice new positions after a sex session
How to navigate mismatched libidos
The importance of establishing new goals for a relationship after infidelity

Send us your AITA questions for the chance to have yours featured on the show at sexwithemily.com/aita.

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Show Notes:

2023 Holiday Gift Guide: My Top Picks for the Hottest Holidays Ever
2023 Shop With Emily Gift Guide
How to Give a Sex Gift: 6 Tips to Consider
6 Ways to Upgrade Your 69
VIIA Hemp Co’s High Love Libido Gummies (code EMILY for 15% sitewide + Free Gummies Sample)
The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
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Best Of: Your Top Sex Fantasies, Revealed

Tue, 28 Nov 2023 15:40:00 -0000

In today’s Best Of episode, I’m talking all about fantasies. Specifically, the ones you, the Sex With Emily community, shared with me! From threesomes to cuckolding to CNC - consensual nonconsent, I break down each one and also answer your top fantasy questions. What if you have a hard time visualizing your desires? What if you’re nervous to try sex acts you’ve already done with previous partners? I get into all this and more.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

The psychology behind our top sexual fantasies
How to accept your fantasies, even when they feel like the most shameful
Success stories from listeners who turned their fantasies into realities

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Show Notes:

2023 Holiday Gift Guide: My Top Picks for the Hottest Holidays Ever
2023 Shop With Emily Gift Guide
How to Give a Sex Gift: 6 Tips to Consider
LELO Sona 2 Travel (code SEXWITHEMILY for 25% off sitewide)
The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
Want more? Sex With Emily: Home
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How to Give the Gift of Pleasure

Fri, 24 Nov 2023 15:40:56 -0000

Holiday season is near, and the Sex With Emily 2023 Holiday Gift Guide is here! We’re all about giving and receiving here, particularly when it comes to the gift of pleasure. So how about gifting some pleasure into your loved ones’ lives (and your life!) this holiday season? Today, Producer Erica and I discuss our favorite, pleasure-filled gifts. Plus, we discuss: How do you know if someone is open to receiving a sex toy? And how do you gift one to them? Stay tuned.

In today’s episode, you’ll learn:

At what point in a relationship it's appropriate to gift someone a sex toy
How to introduce sex toys to a new partner
My top gift recommendations for your loved ones

Hottest Gift Guide Ever: 2023 Holiday Gift Guide: My Top Picks for the Hottest Holidays Ever

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Show Notes:

2023 Holiday Gift Guide: My Top Picks for the Hottest Holidays Ever
2023 Shop With Emily Gift Guide
The Giftables Collection by Plus One (30% off orders over $50, 30% off sitewide on Cyber Monday)
The Rose by PlusOne
VIIA Hemp Co’s High Love Libido Gummies (code EMILY for 15% sitewide + Free Gummies Sample)
Magic Wand Micro
Je Joue Couples Collection
Playground Mood Maker
Je Joue Mimi
OSEA Essential Hydrating Oil
Brooklinen Super-Plush Bath Towels
Bearaby Weighted Blanket
Contigo Stainless Steel Travel Mug
Sex Toys for Penises by Arcwave
LELO LOKI Wave (code EMILY10 for an extra 10% off existing sales)
Omala Skin Balm Candle
HigherDose Red Light Face Mask
Morgasm CBD Arousal Gel
Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure

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Sex Over the Holidays: From Hooking Up to Breaking Up

Tue, 21 Nov 2023 15:40:26 -0000

‘Tis the season… for more sex! Today, Producer Erica and I dive into the reasons why people have more or less sex over the holidays, how to maintain intimacy when you’re staying with relatives, and my top discreet toy recs. We also get into relationship dynamics over the holidays: Should you break up before or after? Should you bring them home to meet the parents? Should you hang out with your holiday hookup? And so much more.

In today’s episode, you’ll learn:

Why sex drives peak and decline over holiday breaks
The best places to have sex while home for the holidays
Things to notice in a partner while traveling

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Show Notes:

2023 Holiday Gift Guide: My Top Picks for the Hottest Holidays Ever
Je Joue Mimi, G-Spot Bullet Vibrator & More
LELO Dot Clitoral Vibrator
Womanizer Premium 2 Suction Toy
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)
The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
Want more? Sex With Emily: Home
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Hotline Calls: How to Not F*ck Up Your Threesome

Fri, 17 Nov 2023 15:40:00 -0000

The Hotline is ringing, and we’re answering! Producer Erica and I answer all your juicy questions, from discomfort around a partner’s sexual history to how to find a third for a threesome. We also discuss prioritizing solo sex during stressful times like divorce, as well as how to manage premature ejaculation when you’ve started foreplay outside the bedroom.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

How to send sexy texts with confidence, even if you’ve never sexted with your partner before
Suggested steps before bringing someone else into the bedroom
Navigating age differences in relationships

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Show Notes:

2023 Holiday Gift Guide: My Top Picks for the Hottest Holidays Ever
Feeld.co/Emily for 30 Days of Free Majestic Membership
Promescent.com/Emily for 15% off sitewide
Podcast: Sex Party 101
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)
The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
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Reverse Kegels & Painless Sex w/ Lauren Roxburgh

Tue, 14 Nov 2023 15:40:07 -0000

One of the most important pillars of sexual intelligence is embodiment. Today’s guest knows a thing or two about connecting with your body for a better life and better sex. Bestselling author and wellness educator Lauren Roxburgh, also known as “the Body Whisperer,” teaches us how to listen to our bodies, simple exercises to reduce pain and heighten orgasms, how to work with changing hormones, and so much more.

In today’s episode, you’ll learn:

How to do a reverse kegel
How posture and gait can affect our sexual performance
All about fascia – the “WiFi” of our bodies!

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Show Notes:

How to Orgasm During Missionary
VIIA Hemp Co’s High Love Libido Gummies (code EMILY for 15% sitewide + Free Gummies Sample)
Awaken the Power of Your Pelvic Floor - Join the Waitlist!
Aligned Life Studio (code EMILY30 for 30% off your first subscription)
More Lauren Roxburgh: Instagram | YouTube | Website
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)
The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
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Best Of: 3 Hacks to Boost Your Sexual Confidence

Fri, 10 Nov 2023 15:40:15 -0000

Confidence is something we all struggle with at times, particularly in our sex lives and relationships. From feeling insecure about our bodies, to not thinking we’re “good enough” in bed, messages from society, past partners, and our own shame can affect how we show up in the bedroom. In this Best Of episode, I’m giving you my top tips for boosting your sexual confidence. I also answer your questions like: how do you help a partner boost their confidence? How can you hack your brain to feel confident while naked? How can you fully let go in bed, so that you can experience maximum pleasure? And so much more.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

Specific exercises for building body acceptance
Sexual communication tips
How to explore sexually, even if you feel less experienced

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Show Notes:

Triple Stimulation Masturbation
How to Orgasm During Missionary
FirmTech (code Emily20 for 20% off)
Feeld
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)
The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
Want more? Sex With Emily: Home
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How to Have Shameless Sex w/ Amy Baldwin & April Lampert

Tue, 07 Nov 2023 15:40:30 -0000

I get asked all the time: what makes great sex? Well, today’s guests would argue that the best sex is shameless sex. Amy Baldwin and April Lampert, the dynamic duo behind the Shameless Sex podcast, join me today in answering all your juicy questions. From learning to identify what you really want in bed to how to take hot vulva pics and deciding whether an open relationship is right for you, Amy and April share their top tips for becoming a better lover.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

How to feel more present and embodied during sex
What “shameless sex” really means
How to improve your sex life with old and new partners

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Show Notes:

Triple Stimulation Masturbation
Ages & Stages In Your Sex Life
Bathmate (code EMILY10 for 10% off sitewide)
Magic Wand
We-Vibe
Podcast: Orgasms, Squirting & The Year of Anal Licking
Pre Order Shameless Sex: Choose Your Own Pleasure Path to Unlock the Sex Life You’ve Been Waiting For
Shameless Sex Podcast: Spotify | Apple Podcasts
Shameless Sex Socials: Instagram | TikTok | YouTube | Website
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)
Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
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Am I The Asshole? My Partner Doesn’t Like Oral Sex

Fri, 03 Nov 2023 14:40:15 -0000

In today’s episode, you’ll learn:

The importance of identifying your sexual fantasies
How to work through ultimatums in relationships
Why your sex life should evolve over time

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com. Send us your AITA questions for the chance to have yours featured on the show at sexwithemily.com/aita.

Show Notes:

Ages & Stages In Your Sex Life
Soraya Beads from LELO (code SEXWITHEMILY for 25% off sitewide)
Flavored Lubes
Yes No Maybe List & Other Guides
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)
The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
Want more? Sex With Emily: Home
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Hack Your Dating Life w/ U Up?

Tue, 31 Oct 2023 14:40:04 -0000

Does dating ever feel like a second job? You’re not alone. Today, Jordana Abraham and Jared Freid of the popular U Up? podcast share tips to hack your dating life so you can make genuine connections while enjoying the process. Known for reading between the lines and giving their listeners the straight-up advice they need (but may not always want to hear), Jordana and Jared help me answer all your questions, from what makes a great dating profile to how people’s definitions of “casual sex” can vary. They also help me answer your questions about hooking up with a friend, long-distance relationships, the “ick” and so much more.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

What to know before meeting up with a date in person
How to create a profile that sparks genuine conversations
How to combat dating app fatigue

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Show Notes:

How to Handle Performance Anxiety
5 Ways to Pleasure a Vulva
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)
The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
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Toxic Relationships & Drama Addicts w/ Dr. Scott Lyons

Fri, 27 Oct 2023 14:40:45 -0000

([TW // mentions su*c*de] If you would like to skip this portion of the episode, please skip through 47:00-48:00.) Do you (or your partner) start fights over nothing? Do stable relationships feel unsettling? Today, holistic psychologist, podcast host, and author Dr. Scott Lyons shows us how some of us may be more addicted to drama than we think. From attachment styles to toxic partners, Dr. Lyons explains how unresolved trauma can show up in ourselves and our relationships. We also talk about the desire to have rough sex, why makeup sex feels so good, how trauma lives in our bodies, and so much more.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

How to work through jealousy in relationships
How addiction to drama affects our sexual pleasure
How to identify and sit with uncomfortable emotions

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Show Notes:

How to Handle Performance Anxiety
5 Ways to Pleasure a Vulva
Magic Wand Micro
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)
The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
Want more? Sex With Emily: Home
Let’s get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok
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Best Of: Why Do People Cheat?

Tue, 24 Oct 2023 14:40:53 -0000

Here’s something wild: nearly half of people in monogamous relationships report they’ve had affairs, according to recent research. Half! And that’s just the people who admitted it. We can all agree that getting cheated on feels awful – as in, the literal worst. So why is it so common? In this Best Of episode, we’re talking trust and infidelity as we break down the reasons why people cheat, what to do if an affair has happened, and deciding whether to rebuild or break up and move on. Plus, I take your questions: how to restore your confidence after an affair, what to do if you suspect or just caught your partner cheating, and how to come back from online infidelity.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

The history & evolution of relationship structures
Reasons people have affairs
How to rebuild trust after infidelity

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Show Notes:

Ask Emily: I Can’t Always Get Hard For Sex, Help
VIIA Hemp Co’s High Love Libido Gummies (code EMILY for 15% sitewide + Free Gummies Sample)
Tips for Better Communication & Other Guides
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Best Of: I’m In a Relationship. Why Masturbate?

Fri, 20 Oct 2023 16:48:33 -0000

We’re talking solo sex in the context of a relationship. In this Best Of episode, I’m addressing some of the most common questions I get on the subject, such as: “if I already have a partner, why masturbate?” and “if I masturbate in private, is it cheating?” We also discuss whether or not you should tell your partner if you masturbate, and touch briefly on porn addiction: starting with, is it real? Plus, I take your questions! How to set up your own “masturbation zone” when you live with a partner, whether it’s possible to have fantasy-free masturbation sessions, what to do if you can orgasm on your own but not with a partner, and much more.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

Why masturbation is important for your overall sexual wellness
The truth about porn addiction
How to incorporate toys into solo and partnered sex

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Show Notes:

How to Use Anal Beads
Ask Emily: I Can’t Always Get Hard For Sex, Help
Je Joue Amour, Duet & Vita (code SEXWITHEMILY for 25% off sitewide)
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)
The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
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Hotline Calls: Fake Orgasms & Anal Sex

Tue, 17 Oct 2023 14:40:48 -0000

If you’ve ever faked an orgasm, this episode’s for you. On today’s Hotline Calls show, Producer Erica and I answer your sex questions, starting with: how do you tell your partner you’ve been faking orgasms without breaking their heart? Next: is it normal to be dating for MONTHS without penetrative sex? Let’s find out, as well as how to talk about sex with a new partner before you've had it. Looking to explore anal play the right way, after years of uncomfortable attempts? Let’s do it. And finally, we dive into the world of bisexuality. Do you have to tell your partner that you’re bi? How do you incorporate your sexuality into your relationship? From communication tips to sex hacks, I’ve got you!

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Show Notes:

How to Use Anal Beads
Elevated Masturbation: Try a Stroker
Soraya Beads from LELO (code SEXWITHEMILY for 25% off sitewide)
Pjur Original Silicone Lubricant
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)
The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
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How to Make Missionary Kinky

Fri, 13 Oct 2023 14:40:19 -0000

Missionary is a tried-and-true classic. It’s the position many of us think about when we think about sex… which is also why it gets a bad rap. Haters say it’s boring and vanilla, I say it’s an underrated favorite. In today’s Best Of episode, I’m helping you upgrade your missionary game from “meh” to “mind-blowing.” We'll debunk myths about missionary and dive into ways to spice it up, from subtle tweaks to full-blown transformations that’ll keep you (and your partner) coming! Struggling to reach the big O? I've got position hacks to enhance clitoral pleasure, especially for vulva owners who might not feel the stimulation they crave in typical missionary. Speaking of “typical” missionary… Who says missionary can't be kinky? I reveal some of the hottest ways to incorporate bondage, dirty talk, and even some BDSM elements to transform missionary into your new go-to position.

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Show Notes:

How to Master Pretzel Position
Elevated Masturbation: Try a Stroker
VIIA Hemp Co’s High Love Libido Gummies (code EMILY for 15% sitewide + Free Gummies Sample)
Magic Wand Mini Massager
We-Vibe Chorus
Article: Missionary Sex Position – New and Improved
Podcast: High Pleasure: Cannabis + Sex
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)
The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
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Hotline Calls: Chastity Play & Anal Rimming

Tue, 10 Oct 2023 14:40:01 -0000

We all experience sexual highs and lows, but what do you do if your “low” is a literal low libido? And your “high” might result in a penis injury? Let’s find out. On today’s Hotline Calls show, Producer Erica and I answer your sex questions. Starting with anal rimming: what if your partner has expressed interest in receiving… but feels conflicted about wanting it? Next up: chastity play - it is "Lock-Tober," after all! But could wearing a penis cage set you up for long-term injury? After that, sex that’s gone from vanilla to straight-up boring. When you’ve tried everything to fix it, what now? What does it mean if your body goes numb during oral sex? Finally, you’re fresh out of a long-term relationship, and your sex drive has completely evaporated. How do you get it back? I’ve got a few ideas.

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Show Notes:

How to Master Pretzel Position
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Queefing, Lost Erections & Other Awkward Sex Probs

Fri, 06 Oct 2023 14:40:35 -0000

Awkward sex: it happens! People lose their erections. Oral sex gets ouchy. Orgasms are MIA. Don’t panic -- you’re in the judgment-free zone! I’m here to help you turn these moments into erotic opportunities. First, I give general mindset tips for sex before sharing your funniest awkward sex stories. Orgasmed so hard you farted? I call that a win. Next, I take your awkward sex questions. How do you play off queefing? What do you do when you’re nervous and keep losing your erection? How about getting too wet? If it makes you self-conscious or interferes with pleasure, how do you deal? If you’ve got a small mouth, and your partner has a large penis, where do you go from there? All this and so much more in this awkward sex recovery episode.

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Show Notes:

Sign up for Sexts With Emily SMS & get my brand new Ultimate SEXTING Guide!
Playdrop Sex Mat (code EMILY10 for 10% off + bonus play rag)
All Vulvas Are Beautiful
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)
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Hotline Calls: I Saw My Partner’s Porn History

Tue, 03 Oct 2023 14:40:30 -0000

You’re in my Hotlines today, and Producer Erica and I are taking your calls! Today’s theme: conversations you need to have with your sex partners. First, how long should you wait to tell casual sex partners you’re sleeping with other people? We’re all up-leveling our communication skills, so I make the case for telling them immediately. Next, she’s on ADD medication and likes a drink or two – is it negatively affecting her orgasm? Or should her partner have a deeper conversation with her about turn-ons? After that, we’ve got a young couple who just started having oral sex. She’s sore afterwards -- is it a medical condition or underlying shame? Finally, she just discovered her partner watches porn… and the subjects don’t look like her. How can she talk to him about it without judgment?

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Show Notes:

How to Master Lotus Position
How To Meditate, Masturbate, Manifest Like a Pro
Morgasm CBD Arousal Lubricant
Playground Lube
Feeld Dating App
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)
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Am I The Asshole? I’m a Pillow Princess

Fri, 29 Sep 2023 14:40:44 -0000

Send us your AITA questions for the chance to have yours featured on the show at sexwithemily.com/aita.

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Show Notes:

How to Master Lotus Position
How To Meditate, Masturbate, Manifest Like a Pro
VIIA Hemp Co’s High Love Libido Gummies (code EMILY for 15% sitewide + Free CBD Gummies Sample)
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)
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Uplevel Your Orgasm w/ Susan Bratton

Tue, 26 Sep 2023 14:40:00 -0000

Orgasms are learned skills. So says bestselling author and sex expert Susan Bratton, who teaches couples and individuals to have more collaborative, orgasmic intercourse. Today, Susan and I answer your questions about being a better lover, erasing sexual shame, and, of course… having tons of orgasms. First: how do you help a partner who never orgasms during sex? Susan and I have ideas. Next, how do you train your G-spot for internal orgasms? We give you specific techniques to train your vaginal canal, and help make the area more engorged and responsive. How about Doggy Style – can the receiving partner orgasm more easily in this position? Susan talks through the Glissando Technique to help you out. We also talk through female ejaculatory pleasure and squirting, delayed ejaculation and much (much!) more.

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Show Notes:

The Best Sex Toys According To Your Zodiac Sign
Low-Lift Pleasure Hacks: 5 Everyday Items That Elevate Your Sex
Enigma Wave from LELO (code SEXWITHEMILY for 25% off sitewide)
BetterLover.com
More Susan Bratton: Instagram | Website
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)
The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
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Best Of: Orgasms & Oral (No Penetration Required)

Fri, 22 Sep 2023 14:40:19 -0000

So many of us follow a sex script that’s been handed to us. But is that script actually serving you? In this popular Best Of episode, I give you permission to let your favorite sexual behaviors lead the way, with tons of spicy ideas to play with. Sex isn’t just about P-in-V (penis in vagina) penetration. Yet, that’s what we often mean by “having sex.” Listen – penetration is great! But I have ideas for mutual masturbation, sensual massage, hand play, elevated oral and so much more. Play this episode, make a list of your favorites, then tailor your next sex session around your authentic desires.

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Show Notes:

The Best Sex Toys According To Your Zodiac Sign
Low-Lift Pleasure Hacks: 5 Everyday Items That Elevate Your Sex
Enigma Wave from LELO (code SEXWITHEMILY for 25% off sitewide)
4 Ways to Close the Orgasm Gap
First Date, First Orgasm, First Threesome
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)
The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
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How Often Should You Have Sex? & Other News

Tue, 19 Sep 2023 14:40:53 -0000

Ever wondered how often happy couples have sex? Or the little-known key to sexual satisfaction? In today’s Sex In The News episode, I reveal new research that answers both of these questions and a surprising new finding on who says “I love you” first. First, my Producer, Erica, and I look at a study on sexual frequency and the number of times per month couples have sex. Is it this often for you? Next, we dig into research on men saying “I love you” -- do you agree with our takeaway? We then get into amazing new research on mutual masturbation and give you easy ways to try it. Finally, we explore a study on sleep health and sex. Turns out, an orgasm might be more effective than sleeping pills.

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Show Notes:

The Lover’s Guide to Sexual Etiquette
5 Ways To Do It Doggy Style
Promescent.com/Emily (use this link to automatically save 15% at checkout)
Mutual Masturbation & Other Guides
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)
The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
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Hotline Calls: Cuckolding & Kinky Sex

Fri, 15 Sep 2023 14:40:26 -0000

What are your sexual fantasies? No matter how unique (or not) your fantasies are, they teach us something about our needs. On today’s Hotline Calls show, we’re exploring fantasies and partner dynamics so we can get our needs met shame-free. First, cuckolding: when a partner, typically male, asks their partner, typically female, to have sex with another man. What if your partner wants it… but you’re not so sure? Next, living with your ex -- if you’re still not over them, how do you successfully connect with others? Later, when you’ve got a unique kink or fetish, how do you talk about it with your partner, especially if they’re freaked out? Is there any way to get that need met? Finally, when a partner says they’re not sexually attracted anymore, how do you call it quits and find the sex you deserve?

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Show Notes:

The Lover’s Guide to Sexual Etiquette
5 Ways To Do It Doggy Style
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)
The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
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Am I The Asshole? I Wanted More Sex, So I Ended It

Tue, 12 Sep 2023 14:40:05 -0000

Welcome to "Am I The Asshole?" for sex and relationships! New to Sex With Emily, we weigh in on your AITA questions. First up: their marriage is on the rocks, but he wants a threesome. Is she the asshole for shutting it down? Next, his partner says she’s in pain during sex. Is he the asshole for not believing her? After that, she’s not into anal…but her partner really wants it. Is she the asshole for refusing? Next: mom just revealed she’s in a 24-hour BDSM relationship with dad. Is their daughter the asshole for freaking out?

I answer these questions and more today with my producer, Erica. Send us your AITA questions for the chance to have yours featured on the show at sexwithemily.com/aita.

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Show Notes:

5 Hot, Consensual Ways to Practice Voyeurism
VIIA Hemp Co’s High Love Libido Gummies (code EMILY for 15% sitewide + Free CBD Gummies Sample)
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)
The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
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Hotline Calls: Are We Sexually Compatible?

Fri, 08 Sep 2023 14:40:55 -0000

Have a question? Call my Hotline 559-TALK-SEX (559-825-5739) or message me at sexwithemily.com/askemily.

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Show Notes:

Oral Herpes? How to Keep Living Your Best Sex Life
5 Hot, Consensual Ways to Practice Voyeurism
Playdrop Sex Mat (code EMILY10 for 10% off + bonus play rag)
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)
The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
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Why Do Couples Stop Having Sex? w/ Esther Perel

Tue, 05 Sep 2023 14:40:00 -0000

Esther Perel is one of the most fascinating contemporary thinkers on sex and relationships. A psychotherapist and two-time bestselling author, she’s the host of the “Where Should We Begin?” podcast, which takes you inside the therapist’s office and lets you listen in on her sessions with clients. Esther is noticing some important changes in sex and relationships. Non-monogamy is becoming more common as a relationship model: why? And is it right for everyone? How about ”family-alization” – when couples start looking at each other like siblings or roommates, how do you bring the sexual spark back? Especially if you’ve never had it in the first place? Finally, how do we revive our sensual selves when we’re immersed in technology? Can we use it to turn each other on instead of numbing ourselves?

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Show Notes:

7 Signs of Sexual Compatibility
Oral Herpes? How to Keep Living Your Best Sex Life
Where Should We Begin? Podcast: Apple Podcasts | Spotify
Where Should We Begin? Card Game
Mating in Captivity: Bookshop
The State of Affairs: Bookshop
More Esther Perel: Website | Instagram | Twitter
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)
Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
Sex With Emily: Home | Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok
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How to Use Toys During Sex

Fri, 01 Sep 2023 14:40:48 -0000

Sex toys have exploded in popularity in the past few years, but there’s one situation where they still tend to be forgotten: sex itself. Using a toy with a partner can feel intimidating. That’s why I’m devoting this episode to beginner-friendly toy play, with ideas for oral sex, intercourse, and even anal play. Listen, you don’t need all the bells and whistles to get a lot out of sex toys! So I kick things off with two essential toys and all the versatile ways you can use them: bullet vibrators and penis rings. Next, I talk you through three sex positions and how to use a toy in each one: missionary, spooning, and cowgirl/cowboy. Finally, I answer all your sex toy questions, including when it’s harder to climax after giving birth -- which toy and techniques can bring your O back?

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Stop Having Sex In the F*cking Dark w/ Tara Schuster

Tue, 29 Aug 2023 14:40:01 -0000

“Low self-worth makes authentic sex impossible.” So says bestselling author Tara Schuster, who broke out with her runaway bestseller Buy Yourself The F*cking Lilies and released the life-affirming page-turner Glow In The F*cking Dark this year. On this episode, Tara opens up about hating her body, having sex exclusively in the dark, and how she rewired her brain to love herself (and her body). Tara and I also take your listener questions, where we discuss dating burnout, sexual triggers, and solo sex as self-care. When you’ve just gotten out of a toxic relationship, how can you feel more confident when you go out in public? When dating is one long string of disappointments, what gives? And finally, how do you have exploratory sex when you don’t have a partner?

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Show Notes:

How to Have Honeymoon Sex Forever
5 Steps to Your Happiest, Healthiest Vagina
Glow In the F*cking Dark, Tara Schuster: Bookshop | Amazon | Barnes & Noble
Glow Getters Journal Club
More Tara Schuster: Instagram | Twitter | Website
EMDRIA
Yes, No, Maybe List & Other Guides
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)
Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
Sex With Emily: Home | Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok
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Hotline Calls: My Partner’s Into Bad Boys & I’m the “Nice Guy”

Fri, 25 Aug 2023 14:40:37 -0000

The Sex With Emily Hotline is open! On this episode, I’m joined by my Producer, Erica, as we talk about disappearing erections, prostate massages, and so much more. First, what do you do when your partner has health issues that cause them to lose their erections? I give one caller ideas for how to work around this issue and thoughts on what might be causing it in the first place. Next, why don’t couples fantasize together more often? A couple calls in to share their sexual fantasies, and we give you inspo on how to do the same with your partner. When your partner wants a prostate massage, how do you pull it off? I tell you what to feel for, how to apply pressure and fun toys you can use. Finally, when your partner has never had an orgasm before, how can you help? And should you?

Have a question? Call my Hotline 559-TALK-SEX (559-825-5739) or message me at sexwithemily.com/askemily.

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Show Notes:

Is My Penis Normal?
How to Have Honeymoon Sex Forever
TOR 3 from LELO (code SEXWITHEMILY for 25% off sitewide)
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)
Dildos on Shop With Emily
Prostate Toys on Shop With Emily
Plugs on Shop With Emily
The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
Want more? Sex With Emily: Home
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Fingering & Handjobs: The Art of Hand Play

Tue, 22 Aug 2023 14:40:05 -0000

Two of your most powerful sex accessories? Your hands. Hands set the tone of your sexual energy. For example, caressing their cheek while you make out versus pinning their hands down while you have sex. And while we talk a lot about what to do with our mouths or genitals on this show, today I’m focusing on a lost art: hand play. Specifically, how to finger, give a hand job, and use your hands with sexual intention. Today, my Producer, Erica, and I first share how to penetrate a vulva with your fingers. We give you tricks to stimulate the labia and clitoris, different forms of pressure and touch, and how to find the G-spot when you finger. Next, we give the penis some love with hand job techniques and upgrades like toy play and perineum stimulation. Finally, we discuss secondary erogenous zones and answer your hand play questions.

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Show Notes:

Top 6 Sex Positions to Use With a Sex Toy
Is My Penis Normal?
6 Essential Sex Toy Hacks
Morgasm CBD Arousal Lubricant (code EMILY for 15% OFF sitewide)
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)
We-Vibe Pivot Cock Ring
Dame Fin Vibrator
Ohmibod Lovelife & Rev Finger Massager
Le Wand Grand Bullet Vibrator
The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
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Hotline Calls: Rough Sex & Rim Jobs

Fri, 18 Aug 2023 14:40:52 -0000

It’s Hotline Calls time! And we’ve got one common theme: trust - the foundation of hot sex. Because when you trust yourself and the person you’re with, you can fully let go in bed and relax into your deepest pleasure. When oral sex gets too rough, how can you ask your partner to be more gentle and respectful? I’ve got some thoughts. When your partner doesn’t love booty play – but you definitely do – can you still ask for a rim job? Let’s say your partner goes to strip clubs, and it makes you super uncomfortable. How do you set boundaries together? Finally, when you’re the non-primary partner in a polyamorous relationship, what resources can you turn to for advice & guidance?

Have a question? Call my Hotline 559-TALK-SEX (559-825-5739) or message me at sexwithemily.com/askemily.

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com

Show Notes:

5 Libido-Boosting Aphrodisiacs to Try In and Out of the Bedroom
Is My Penis Normal?
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)
System JO Flavored Lube
System JO Tri-Me Triple Pack: Limited Edition
System JO Tri-Me Triple Pack: Neapolitan
Polysecure, Jessica Fern: Bookshop | Amazon
Opening Up, Tristan Taormino: Amazon | Barnes & Noble
Open Deeply, Kate Loree: Bookshop | Amazon
“The Challenges of Being a Secondary,” Conscious Polyamory
“Being Secondary While Putting Yourself First,” Multiamory
Polyamory in BLACK!

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Performance Anxiety & Performative Sex

Tue, 15 Aug 2023 14:40:04 -0000

We all experience performance anxiety in bed from time to time. We get in our heads, we worry we’re not hot / good / skilled enough, and sometimes we try to be people we’re not during sex. That’s why today’s episode is about identifying different types of performance anxiety, so that we can show up more confident and relaxed for sex. First I talk through O-blockers: common reasons your orgasm and overall pleasure hit a limit. Next I bring up popular “personas” people adopt in bed, like the cool girl/guy who’s down for whatever (even when you’re actually not) and the super dominant, in-charge lover (even when you’re actually more submissive). Finally, I give you strategies to increase your sexual confidence and take all of your sexual anxiety questions.

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Show Notes:

Prostate Play: The Comprehensive Guide
5 Libido-Boosting Aphrodisiacs to Try In and Out of the Bedroom
VIIA Hemp Co’s High Love Libido Gummies (code EMILY for 15% sitewide + Free Gummies Sample)
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)
The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
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Best Of: Secret Orgasm Hacks

Fri, 11 Aug 2023 14:40:36 -0000

This is how an orgasm works. It’s a symphony of mind, nervous system, blood flow and muscle spasms, all syncing up to give you oh-so-wonderful sensations. But what if you’ve never had an orgasm before? Or what if you do experience them – but want them to be better? In today’s popular Best Of episode, I explain the science behind orgasms and how to make yours amazing. I tell you what to do if you’ve never had an orgasm before, give you tricks for elevating your orgasms, and even share a few unexpected erogenous zones where you can orgasm (nipplegasms, anyone?). I also take your orgasm questions including: when the sex is great, but you just can’t climax with your partner, what gives?

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Show Notes:

6 Essential Sex Toy Hacks
How to Train Your Vagina
SONA 2 Travel from LELO (code SEXWITHEMILY for 25% off sitewide)
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)
The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
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Hotline Calls: How Do I Initiate Sex After a Dry Spell?

Tue, 08 Aug 2023 14:40:03 -0000

Initiating sex, dry spells, and mismatched libidos: the Hotline Calls are open, and your sex questions are answered! Today’s sexual concerns are especially relatable: I’m willing to bet you’ve experienced one of these yourself. Let’s start with orgasms. When you can only get off in one very specific position, how can you retrain your body and mind? I give you tips on switching up your technique. Next: coming out of a sexual dry spell, how do you learn to initiate again? I help you collaborate with your partner. When you’re always a top (the more dominant one during sex), how can you tell your partner that you’d like to bottom (be more submissive) occasionally? I walk you through that conversation. Finally, when your spouse has next to zero interest in sex, what now? I offer insights on changing your relationship patterns to experience mutual pleasure and compatibility.

Have a question? Call my Hotline 559-TALK-SEX (559-825-5739) or message me at sexwithemily.com/askemily.

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Show Notes:

8 Ways to Masturbate (Better) in the Shower
6 Essential Sex Toy Hacks
Dual Stimulation Toys on Shop With Emily (free shipping on orders over $69)
Insertion Toys on Shop With Emily (free shipping on orders over $69)
Morgasm CBD Arousal Lubricant (code EMILY for 15% OFF sitewide)
The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
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Best Of: Are You Benefitting from Your Friends With Benefits?

Fri, 04 Aug 2023 14:40:58 -0000

([TW: SA] If you would like to skip this portion of the episode, please skip through: 21:25-22:00) Let’s talk friends with benefits. Somewhere between a relationship and a situationship, you’ve got FWBs... And in my view, they’re a completely valid relationship model. But let’s be honest: they’re not for everyone. Navigating the friendship part of an FWB can get murky, especially if you’re secretly hoping it will turn into a real relationship. So in this popular best-of episode, I first help you get clear on whether or not you’re a good candidate for an FWB set-up. Next, we talk about how to establish your terms going in, because trust me – before you have sex with your friends, your communication skills have to be on-point. Finally I answer all your FWB questions, including: when you’ve had the same FWB for years but crave more with them, should you speak up? Or move on to someone more committed?

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com

Show Notes:

10 Ways to Use Lube During Sex
8 Ways to Masturbate (Better) in the Shower
VIIA Hemp Co’s High Love Libido Gummies (code EMILY for 15% sitewide + Free CBD Sleep Gummies Sample)
Yes, No, Maybe List, Tips for Communication & Other Guides
Womaness (code EMILY for 20% off)
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)
The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
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Sex + Life in Your 50s w/ Dr. Wednesday Martin

Tue, 01 Aug 2023 14:40:27 -0000

It’s time to debunk the toxic myths around sex and age. Does sexual satisfaction drop off as you get older? Absolutely not! In fact, the data tells us the exact opposite is true. Today, anthropologist, bestselling author and my dear friend Dr. Wednesday Martin and I lay out the facts, which is fitting: we’re both in our fifties! If you’re not in your fifties yet, here’s what you can look forward to. It’s the decade many of us hit the reset button on our sexual desires. It’s the decade you start purely having sex for pleasure. And it’s the decade your confidence and communication get even better because you’ve honed your relationship (and career!) skills. Wednesday and I talk about why your fifties are so sexy, the signs of perimenopause and menopause and how to treat both, and our best advice for younger women.

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Show Notes:

The 6 Best Masturbation Toys
10 Ways to Use Lube During Sex
Podcast: Dating Younger Men, Canceling Threesomes: Emily Tells All
The Menopause Manifesto, Dr. Jen Gunter: Bookshop | Amazon
@ABlackGirlsGuidetoMenopause
Menopocalypse, Amanda Thebe: Bookshop | Amazon
Womaness (code EMILY for 20% off)
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)
Sex With Emily: Home
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Hotline Calls: My Partner Doesn’t Orgasm

Fri, 28 Jul 2023 14:40:27 -0000

When you’re not turned on by your partner, should you open the relationship? What does it mean when they don’t finish during sex? In today’s Hotline Calls episode, I’m taking all your pressing sex questions. First, when you want to bring sex toys and lube into the bedroom, but your partner is firmly opposed…what now? I offer communication tips to help bring down defenses. Next, when you’re loving sex with your partner but they never orgasm, is that a cause for concern? I talk about delayed ejaculation and why it happens. We also get into non-monogamy: when you’re not turned on by your partner, should you open up the relationship? Or is a different, deeper conversation needed? Finally, when you’re happily hooking up, how do you keep casual sex from turning into serious relationships?

Have a question? Call my Hotline 559-TALK-SEX (559-825-5739) or message me at sexwithemily.com/askemily.

Show Notes:

The Boner Breakdown: All the Types of Erections You Can Have
The 6 Best Masturbation Toys
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)
Playground Lubes: Love Sesh | Date Night | Mini Escape | After Hours
Je Joue Mimi
We-Vibe Touch
ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
Sex With Emily: Home
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New Ways to Play: Pain, Temperature & More

Tue, 25 Jul 2023 14:40:15 -0000

Bored in bed? It happens. Sexual boredom doesn’t necessarily mean there’s anything wrong with your relationship – but it is a cue that you’re ready for novelty. So save this episode because it’s an entire guide to spicing up your sex. First, I start with the when and where: how does the time of day affect your arousal? And where can you do it besides the bedroom? Next, we make your favorite sex positions more interesting and exciting with tweaks you can try right now. Finally, I give you beginner-friendly kink with sensory deprivation, temperature play and hurts-so-good pain play. Right this way to easy kink and tons of low-lift ways to play.

Show Notes:

6 Ways to Infuse Intimacy into Your Weeknights
The Boner Breakdown: All the Types of Erections You Can Have
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)
SONA 2 Travel from LELO (code SEXWITHEMILY for 25% off sitewide)
VIIA Hemp Co’s High Love Libido Gummies (code EMILY for 15% sitewide + Free CBD Sleep Gummies Sample)
Je Joue Massage Candles
Le Wand Crystal Wand
Le Wand Stainless Steel Hoop
Firefly Glass Dildo
System JO Flavored Lubes
Curvy Girl Sex by Elle Chase: Bookshop | Amazon | Barnes & Noble
ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
Sex With Emily: Home

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Best Of: How Sleep Affects Your Sex Drive w/ Dr. Michael Breus

Fri, 21 Jul 2023 14:40:51 -0000

Your sleep affects your sex drive: we know this. The bottom line: if you know the right sleep hacks, you can have much better sex. In this fascinating Best Of episode with Dr. Michael Breus, we dive into the science of sleep and how to leverage it for sexual arousal. Starting with the four chronotypes, your body’s natural disposition to be awake or asleep, we help you figure out how to work with your body (not against it) for sexual arousal. We also discuss snoring – why it happens and how it affects your sexual connection. “I’ve saved more marriages as a sleep therapist than I ever would have as a marital therapist,” says Dr. Breus. In this episode, you’ll learn how to work with your unique circadian rhythm for better sex and communication.

Show Notes:

Flow With It: How to Have Period Sex
6 Ways to Infuse Intimacy into Your Weeknights
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)
Hello Again Suppositories (code EMILY25 for 25% off orders over $50)
ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
Sex With Emily: Home
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Match App: Apple App Store | Google Play
Chronoquiz.com
More Dr. Michael Breus: Website | Instagram | Twitter

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Butt First, Try Solo Anal

Tue, 18 Jul 2023 14:40:39 -0000

Let’s talk solo anal. You may be looking around right now, wondering why anal play is so trendy, and thinking to yourself: “is this actually for me?” But before you jump into the anal deep end with a partner, I’ve got a pro tip: try anal with yourself! On today’s episode, I’m talking through all the positive reasons to explore anal with yourself, no matter what genitals you’ve got. I’m also busting common anal myths and giving you step-by-step tips for exploration based on your anatomy. I’m talking all things toys and insertion for beginners to advanced anal players. Tune in for your solo anal play primer, and keep listening to hear me answer all your booty Q’s.

Show Notes:

Flow With It: How to Have Period Sex
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)
b-Vibe Vibrating Jewel Plug
b-vibe Anal Training Kit
Aneros Mgx Syn Trident Prostate Massager
LELO Loki Wave Prostate Massager Vibrator
Lumen LED Pleasure Plug
Pjur Original Silicone Lubricant
Pjur Backdoor Relaxing Anal Glide Lubricant
Article: Double The O, Double The Pleasure: How to Have Blended & Multiple Orgasms
Yes, No, Maybe List & Other Guides
Playdrop Sex Mat (code EMILY10 for 10% off + bonus play rag)
ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
Sex With Emily: Home
More Sex With Emily: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok
Match App: Apple App Store | Google Play
Morgasm CBD Arousal Lubricant (code EMILY for 15% OFF sitewide)

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Best Of: Solo Sex Secrets

Fri, 14 Jul 2023 14:40:52 -0000

Solo sex (aka masturbation) is legitimate self-care. Better sleep, less stress, glowing skin, heightened immunity – and let’s not forget orgasms (not that I think you would). So on today’s Best Of episode, I’m talking all things solo sex and how to make it work for you. Feel embarrassed or ashamed about it? Or do you feel like you don’t know what you’re doing? I help you create a solo sex routine that matches your lifestyle and get you in the right (sexy) headspace for it. I also take your solo sex questions, including: when your partner asks you to masturbate in front of them, but you feel shy – how do you pull it off? And should you?

Show Notes:

How to Heat Up Your Temperature Play
VIIA Hemp Co’s High Love Libido Gummies (code EMILY for 15% sitewide + Free CBD Sleep Gummies Sample)
ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
Sex With Emily: Home
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Promescent.com/Emily (use this link to automatically save 15% at checkout)
Morgasm CBD Arousal Lubricant (code EMILY for 15% OFF sitewide)

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Eat Your Way to Better Sex w/ Dr. Will Cole

Tue, 11 Jul 2023 14:40:06 -0000

How do your meals affect your sex drive? Are your hormones interfering with your pleasure? And real talk…does alcohol make it harder for you to orgasm? Dr. Will Cole hosts the podcast The Art of Being Well, and on today’s show, he explains the connection between what you eat and how you feel – both in and out of the bedroom. We discuss sex-supportive nutrients and how to fill your plate for better sex, the real deal on HRT and hormone fluctuation, shame-flammation, and so much more. If you’ve ever wondered how certain foods help or hurt your sex life, this one’s for you.

Show Notes:

How to Heat Up Your Temperature Play
ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
Promescent.com/Emily (use this link to automatically save 15% at checkout)
Sex With Emily: Home
More Sex With Emily: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok
Emily on The Art of Being Well Podcast: Website | Apple Podcasts | Spotify
Gut Feelings by Dr. Will Cole
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Best Of: What Turns You On?

Fri, 07 Jul 2023 14:40:22 -0000

When it comes to turn ons, we’ve all got our preferences. Maybe you love a deep, sexy voice. Maybe a wicked sense of humor. But there are five sexual arousal styles that apply to most people: you can think of them as the five love languages for sexual excitement. They are: conversation, visuals, touch, play or physical adventure. In this popular Best Of episode, I break down the five styles and how to identify your top one. I share tips for harnessing your arousal, with date ideas and behaviors to spark your sexual curiosity. I also help you understand the key difference between arousal and desire, and take your arousal questions, including: what do you do when medication is numbing your genitals? And when you’re more excited for solo sex than partnered sex – is that a problem?

Show Notes:

Morgasm CBD Arousal Lubricant (code EMILY for 15% OFF sitewide)
ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
Article: These Are The 5 Arousal Styles. Which One Are You?
Sex With Emily: Home
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Porn: Can You Learn From It?

Tue, 04 Jul 2023 14:40:05 -0000

([TW // mentions SA, r*pe] If you would like to skip these portions of the episode, please skip through: 21:30-22:25, 51:30-52:05.)

Porn gets a bad rap – for very understandable reasons. Today, I’m breaking down the reasons why with Dr. Wednesday Martin, and also playing devil’s advocate and giving you a new way to approach it. Can you learn legit sex skills from porn viewing? In this episode, I’m going through all the reasons porn might be triggering for some, so you know how to incorporate it into your relationship or your solo sex in a healthy way. Next, I give tips for how to watch it with a partner, and identify your personal turn-ons. Finally, I talk through edu-porn, audio erotica and other contemporary porn platforms that get you aroused…and sexually educated.

Show Notes:

6 Secrets to Have the Best Oral Sex of Your Life
LELO F1S V2 (code SEXWITHEMILY for 25% off sitewide)
ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
Sex With Emily: Home
More Sex With Emily: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok
Study: Pornography does not cause violent sex crimes
Make Love Not Porn (Cindy Gallop)
Erika Lust
Dr. Wednesday Martin on SWE: Dating Younger Men, Canceling Threesomes: Emily Tells All | It’s Open (Relationship) Season | Best of: Women, Lust & Infidelity
Wednesday Squirts for the First Time with Kenneth Play & Whitney
More Dr. Wednesday Martin: Instagram | Twitter | Website (wednesdaymartin.com)

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The Art of FaceTime Sex

Fri, 30 Jun 2023 14:40:00 -0000

Have you ever used FaceTime for sex? Maybe you’re traveling and want to stay connected to your partner. Maybe you’re dating and want to test the waters with someone virtually before having sex IRL. Or maybe the idea just turns you on! No matter the case, today’s episode is all about FaceTime sex and how to pull it off. First, I’m talking prep steps: literally, how do you get in the mood for FaceTime sex and help yourself feel comfortable on-screen? Next, how do you position your camera and what do you actually say in the moment? Finally, I take your questions on FaceTime sex, including: how to spice it up and how do you end a sexting session?

Show Notes:

Ask Emily: How Do I Get a Stronger Erection?
6 Secrets to Have the Best Oral Sex of Your Life
ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
TAKE THE SEX IQ QUIZ! Email proof of purchase to smartsex@sexwithemily.com and I’ll send you a link to take the quiz
GQ Article: The Idol just gave us the worst sex scene in history
Sex With Emily: Home
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Do You Have a Praise Kink?

Tue, 27 Jun 2023 14:40:53 -0000

What feeling are you chasing in bed? No, I’m not talking about orgasm. I’m talking about an emotion, like feeling worshiped, praised, or unbelievably desirable. On the other hand, maybe it arouses you to feel degraded, objectified – even humiliated. On today’s show, I’m unpacking a kink that’s getting a ton of attention lately on social media: praise kink. It falls under the larger umbrella of core erotic desires, which we all have. I show you how to identify your core erotic desires and how to turn them into realities. I also get into your kinky questions, including: when you adore your fiancée, but fantasize about sex with your much kinkier ex, what now? And when your partner constantly gets hit on my other men, is it healthy to get turned on by it? All this and more in today's episode.

Show Notes:

Ask Emily: How Do I Get a Stronger Erection?
Morgasm CBD Arousal Lubricant (code EMILY for 15% OFF sitewide)
Yes! No! Maybe? List
Article: How to Make a Mess
ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
TAKE THE SEX IQ QUIZ! Email proof of purchase to smartsex@sexwithemily.com and I’ll send you a link to take the quiz
Sex With Emily: Home
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Best Of: How to Build Sexual Tension

Fri, 23 Jun 2023 14:45:32 -0000

Let’s talk teasing. Do you know how to build sexual tension? Maybe you’re dating and want to be a cute flirt. Or maybe you’re in a long term relationship and want to create a sexy vibe. No matter your situation, today’s episode teaches a lost art: the art of the tease. First, I talk focus and flirting: simple little hacks to put the spotlight on the other person with flavors of sexual play. Next, I talk body language: when to touch, when not to touch, and how to deploy a sexy sort of restraint – not desperation – to your interactions. Finally, I take your questions on confidence and seduction, including: how do you show interest on a date without coming on too strong?

Show Notes:

ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
TAKE THE SEX IQ QUIZ! Email proof of purchase to smartsex@sexwithemily.com and I’ll send you a link to take the quiz
Sex With Emily: Home
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Sexy Stories: Pegging & Partnered Orgasms

Tue, 20 Jun 2023 17:22:46 -0000

I’m introducing a new series today that you literally helped me create: Sexy Stories! You share your juiciest, most personal success stories with me, and I read them aloud on the show. Because sometimes the best way to learn about sex comes from other people and their experiences. First: parents who sent their kids away and tried pegging for the very first time. Hear how it went… from the husband’s perspective. Next, a married couple of 20 years have an unexpected night on the dance floor involving a chance meeting with a hot stranger – and then, their very first threesome. Finally, she orgasms for the first time during penetration, but you’ll never guess how she got there.

If you have a Sexy Story you would like to share on the podcast, send it to feedback@sexwithemily.com with “Sexy Story” in the subject line! Please only include information (such as names) that you are comfortable being read aloud on the podcast.

Show Notes:

How to Talk Like a Good Little Sub
ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
TAKE THE SEX IQ QUIZ! Email proof of purchase to smartsex@sexwithemily.com and I’ll send you a link to take the quiz
VIIA Hemp Co’s High Love Libido Gummies (code EMILY for 15% sitewide + Free 2pc High Love THC Libido Gummy Sample Pack)
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Feeling Kinky? Try These Positions

Fri, 16 Jun 2023 14:45:34 -0000

How do you take a classic sex position and make it kinky? On today’s show, I’m telling you exactly how. Inspired by the positions chapter in Smart Sex (out now at bookstores everywhere), I’m talking through two specific positions that bring the kink – and another classic that you can spice up with a little power play. First, I’m looking at Cowgirl/Cowboy and talking through its pros, cons, and evolutions to introduce kinky dynamics. Next, I’m talking Doggy Style (or as I like to call it: Rear Entry) and breaking down its inherent kink dynamics and ideas to make it even more exciting. Finally, we’re looking at Missionary, which I think we can all agree needs a kinky rebrand. I’ll give you ideas to make it more surprising and sexy.

Show Notes:

How to Talk Like a Good Little Sub
ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
MEET ME ON TOUR! Sex With Emily Book Tour: SMART SEX Event Dates
TAKE THE SEX IQ QUIZ! Email proof of purchase to smartsex@sexwithemily.com and I’ll send you a link to take the quiz
LELO Soraya Wave (code SEXWITHEMILY for 25% off sitewide)
More Sex With Emily: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok

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Answering Your Questions, Loveline-Style w/ Dr. Drew

Tue, 13 Jun 2023 14:45:05 -0000

Remember Loveline? The call-in show hosted by Dr. Drew to get your love and dating questions answered? Well, it holds a special place in my heart because I used to co-host it! So today, in celebration of my career leading up to my new book Smart Sex (out today!), I’m inviting my dear friend Dr. Drew Pinsky onto Sex With Emily to help me answer your sex questions Loveline-style. First, what does it mean when you feel like your long-distance partner is following you to your next city? Next, a college guy wants to know: how do you find real connection amid hookup culture? Or what about moving on from a toxic sexual relationship: how do you claim your own desires, now that you’re single? All this and more with me and Dr. Drew.

Show Notes:

How to Make a Mess: Squirting, Face Ejaculation & Golden Showers
Double the O, Double the Pleasure: How to Have Blended & Multiple Orgasms
ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
MEET ME ON TOUR! Sex With Emily Book Tour: SMART SEX Event Dates
TAKE THE SEX IQ QUIZ! Email proof of purchase to smartsex@sexwithemily.com and I’ll send you a link to take the quiz
Promescent.com/Emily (use this link to automatically save 15% at checkout)
More Dr. Drew: Website | Dr.Drew.tv | Twitter | Instagram
Opening Up
Open Monogamy: A Guide to Co-Creating Your Ideal Relationship Agreement
The Ethical Slut: A Guide to Infinite Sexual Possibilities
Open Deeply: A Guide to Building Conscious, Compassionate Open Relationships
Crazy on the Inside: A Memoir of Nobody Special
Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Non Monogamy
The Anxious Person’s Guide to Non-Monogamy: Your Guide to Open Relationships, Polyamory and Letting Go
More Than Two: A Practical Guide to Ethical Polyamory

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Up Your 69 Game (& Other Oral Sex Tips)

Fri, 09 Jun 2023 14:45:07 -0000

Let’s 69! It’s one of those sex acts where you tend to be a full-on lover or hater. But no matter what camp you fall in, chances are that if you’re having sex, you’re going to come across the famous, the controversial, 69 sex position. Why not learn some pointers to make the whole thing more hot, and more comfortable? First, I share research with you that might motivate you to put 69 on regular rotation in your sex life. Next, I give you techniques for being an excellent oral giver, and strategies like mindful masturbation, to help you become a more relaxed and erotic receiver. Finally, I talk position tips like the Sideways 69 and the Power 69 for you to play with, and take all your pressing questions on 69ing and oral sex.

Show Notes:

How to Make a Mess: Squirting, Face Ejaculation & Golden Showers
Double the O, Double the Pleasure: How to Have Blended & Multiple Orgasms
ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
MEET ME ON TOUR! Sex With Emily Book Tour: SMART SEX Event Dates
TAKE THE SEX IQ QUIZ! Email proof of pre-order purchase to smartsex@sexwithemily.com and I’ll send you a link to take the quiz
SMART SEX PRIZE PACK (submit your pre-order proof of purchase at the bottom of the page, be entered to win the prize pack and everyone that enters receives a copy of my new and improved Yes! No! Maybe? Guide)
VIIA Hemp Co’s High Love Libido Gummies (code EMILY for 15% sitewide + Free 2pc High Love THC Libido Gummy Sample Pack)
Playground Lube (code SEXWITHEMILY for 15% off your 1st order)
LELO SONA 2 Cruise (code SEXWITHEMILY for 25% off sitewide)
Episode: Best Of: Best Blowjob Ever
Episode: Best Of: Oral Sex Master Class

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Dating Younger Men, Canceling Threesomes: Emily Tells All

Tue, 06 Jun 2023 14:45:53 -0000

How did you discover who you were as a sexual being? Are you still figuring it out? Your desires, your sexual turn-ons, your overall attitude towards sex itself? Well, today, we’re doing something a little different: I’m answering all those questions and letting you in on my sexual journey. That’s right! I’ve got author, anthropologist, and my dear friend Dr. Wednesday Martin on the show today as we turn the tables and let her ask me how my career as a sex educator got started, the first time I had legitimately good sex, and how my relationship with sex has evolved. I also share the backstory behind this podcast, why I was so curious to launch a career in sex education in the first place, and how it's all led up to my book, Smart Sex. Listen in… it’s a juicy one.

Show Notes:

Your Guide to Mutual Masturbation
How to Train Your Vagina
ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
MEET ME ON TOUR! Sex With Emily Book Tour: SMART SEX Event Dates
TAKE THE SEX IQ QUIZ! Email proof of pre-order purchase to smartsex@sexwithemily.com and I’ll send you a link to take the quiz
SMART SEX PRIZE PACK (submit your pre-order proof of purchase at the bottom of the page, be entered to win the prize pack and everyone that enters receives a copy of my new and improved Yes! No! Maybe? Guide)
Promescent.com/Emily (use this link to automatically save 15% at checkout)
Untrue: Why Nearly Everything We Believe About Women, Lust, and Infidelity Is Wrong and How the New Science Can Set Us Free: Amazon | Barnes & Noble | Bookshop
More Dr. Wednesday Martin: Instagram | Twitter | Website

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Best Of: How to Squirt & Find Your G-Spot w/ Deborah Sundahl

Fri, 02 Jun 2023 14:45:13 -0000

Good news: every vulva owner can learn how to squirt. But it does take practice, and on today’s Best Of show, I’ve got sex educator, author, and female ejaculation expert Deborah Sundahl here to walk us through it. First, Deborah clarifies the connection between squirting and the G-spot, and just in case you have any doubts about the G-spot’s existence, Deborah tells you how to find yours in the mirror. Next, we clarify what female ejaculate is – hint, not pee – and how this fluid builds up in your body. We also talk about the difference between squirting and orgasm, and finally, we take your top questions on how to squirt with a partner. Yes: there are step-by-step tips! Because, as I always say, the wetter, the better.

Show Notes:

Your Guide to Mutual Masturbation
How to Train Your Vagina
ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
MEET ME ON TOUR! Sex With Emily Book Tour: SMART SEX Event Dates
TAKE THE SEX IQ QUIZ! Email proof of pre-order purchase to smartsex@sexwithemily.com and I’ll send you a link to take the quiz
SMART SEX PRIZE PACK (submit your pre-order proof of purchase at the bottom of the page, be entered to win the prize pack and everyone that enters receives a copy of my new and improved Yes! No! Maybe? Guide)
Playdrop Sex Mat (code EMILY10 for 10% OFF & a bonus play rag worth $25)
Female Ejaculation & The G-Spot
More Deborah Sundahl: Website

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Non-Penetrative Orgasms w/ Violet Benson

Tue, 30 May 2023 14:45:47 -0000

Violet Benson started her now-famous Instagram account @DaddyIssues_ while working through issues of her own. On today’s podcast, she opens up about working through deep emotional struggles so she can create the sex life and relationships that truly work for her. No matter your background or life stage, I’m positive this conversation will liberate and inspire you to take the next step in your sex life. Violet, who hosts the popular podcast Almost Adulting, tells me about her decision to temporarily swear off penetrative sex, freezing her eggs, and how she quit playing games while dating. She also takes the Sex IQ quiz inspired by my upcoming book, Smart Sex! Listen to her results, then listen to both of us answer a listener question: when the sex is hot but they’ve got huge, emotional red flags, should you pursue them anyway?

Show Notes:

Sexy Summer Pack List: The Seven Essentials
5 Reasons to Add Anal Play to Your Masturbation Routine
ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
MEET ME ON TOUR! Sex With Emily Book Tour: SMART SEX Event Dates
TAKE THE FULL SEX IQ QUIZ! Email proof of pre-order purchase to smartsex@sexwithemily.com and I’ll send you a link to take the quiz
SMART SEX PRIZE PACK (submit your pre-order proof of purchase at the bottom of the page, be entered to win the prize pack and everyone that enters receives a copy of my new and improved Yes! No! Maybe? Guide)
LELO LILY 3 (code SEXWITHEMILY for 25% off sitewide)
More Violet Benson: @daddyissues_ | Instagram
Almost Adulting Podcast: Apple Podcasts | Spotify

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Squirting Setbacks, Threesome Hangups & Other Sex Anxieties

Fri, 26 May 2023 14:45:31 -0000

We all have fears around sex, whether we’re aware of them or not. Maybe you’re worried someone’s not going to like your body, or that if you and your partner try something new, it’ll be awkward or weird. Maybe you’re worried you’ll never have sex with anyone ever again. I’m here to tell you this: your sexual anxieties are completely normal. Listen in as my callers and I work through theirs and develop actionable solutions to take the next step. When you’re a vulva owner, and something comes out when you orgasm, are you peeing or squirting? When preparing for a threesome, how can you get over the fear that your partner won't want sex with just you anymore? When the sex has fallen off entirely, how do you start initiating again? All this and more in today's sexual anxieties episode.

Show Notes:

Sexy Summer Pack List: The Seven Essentials
4 Penis Problems and 4 Ways to Solve Them
MEET ME ON TOUR! Sex With Emily Book Tour: SMART SEX Event Dates
PRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
SMART SEX PRIZE PACK (submit your pre-order proof of purchase at the bottom of the page, be entered to win the prize pack and everyone that enters receives a copy of my new and improved Yes! No! Maybe? Guide)
VIIA Hemp Co’s Lowdose 2mg Delta 9 Microdosing Gummies (code EMILY for 15% sitewide + Free 2pc High Love THC Libido Gummy Sample Pack)

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Slut-Shaming & Self-Blaming w/ Elise Loehnen

Tue, 23 May 2023 14:45:31 -0000

Author Elise Loehnen has thought a lot about women and desire. In her new book On Our Best Behavior: The Seven Deadly Sins and the Price Women Pay to Be Good, she breaks down the cultural forces that teach women to be desirable rather than desiring, and the shame attached to a woman wanting something: whether it’s sex, success, or a damn slice of pizza. Whether it’s lust, and the way we encourage women to police others' sexuality, or sloth, and the way women are encouraged to be their husbands' caregivers, these invisible expectations serve none of us. Instead, Elise talks about ways we can liberate ourselves in ways that improve our sex lives and beyond: how to balance masculine and feminine energies in relationships, how to shed sexual shame, and so much more. As Elise says, “Our bodies are portals; lust is the invitation to enter.”

Please note that this episode includes discussions of sexual trauma. If you would like to skip these portions of the episode, please skip through:

19:35-25:13
41:36-43:03

Show Notes:

4 Penis Problems and 4 Ways to Solve Them
What’s a Sexual State of the Union & Why Should You Have One?
MEET ME ON TOUR! Sex With Emily Book Tour: SMART SEX Event Dates
PRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
SMART SEX PRIZE PACK (submit your pre-order proof of purchase at the bottom of the page, be entered to win the prize pack and everyone that enters receives a copy of my new and improved Yes! No! Maybe? Guide)
Yarlap Kegel Exercise Kit & System (code EMILY for $35 off)
On Our Best Behavior: The Seven Deadly Sins and the Price Women Pay to Be Good: Amazon | Barnes & Noble | Bookshop
More Elise Loehnen: Podcast | Newsletter | Instagram | Website | TikTok

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Love Bombing, Breadcrumbing & Modern Dating

Fri, 19 May 2023 14:45:35 -0000

It can be difficult to meet new people and cultivate relationships, especially when looking for romantic partners. But don’t let that hold you back from trying: you might just need a new strategy. On today’s show, I take your calls on modern dating and how to solve the problems you’re running into. Let’s say you want to date an older woman but don’t have confidence in your communication - how do you improve your conversation game? When you’ve been single for years and fear rejection, how do you break out of romantic stagnation? Or what about breadcrumbing: when someone gives you just enough to keep you interested without outright ghosting you. How can you directly communicate without coming off as pushy? Finally, what are the signs of love bombing? One caller asks me if that’s what’s happening to her. Spoiler: yep.

Show Notes:

What’s a Sexual State of the Union & Why Should You Have One?
MEET ME ON TOUR! Sex With Emily Book Tour: SMART SEX Event Dates
PRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
SMART SEX PRIZE PACK (submit your pre-order proof of purchase at the bottom of the page, be entered to win the prize pack and everyone that enters receives a copy of my new and improved Yes! No! Maybe? Guide)
Playground Lube (code SEXWITHEMILY for 15% off your 1st order)
Womaness.com/Emily (code EMILY for 20% off sitewide)

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Bondage, Threesomes & Golden Showers

Tue, 16 May 2023 14:45:53 -0000

All sexual fantasies have one thing in common: they trigger an arousal response inside our bodies, laced with erotic flavor. But how do you actualize your fantasy with a partner who’s wary of it? Even turned off by it? On today’s show, I’m taking your calls on this exact predicament. First up: when your partner wants you to drastically change your appearance for their pleasure, should you do it? Or when your partner wants to watch you with a third, how do you find that person? Next, if you’re not naturally dominant in bed, but your partner’s begging for it, how do you step into your power? I also get into urine fetishes (yep, like golden showers), how to introduce them to an otherwise vanilla sex life, and how to explore same-sex adventures in a hetero marriage.

Show Notes:

Sex With Emily Book Tour: SMART SEX Event Dates
PRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
SMART SEX PRIZE PACK (submit your pre-order proof of purchase at the bottom of the page, be entered to win the prize pack and everyone that enters receives a copy of my new and improved Yes! No! Maybe? Guide)
SmartMouth
FetLife
Kasidie
Feeld
Womaness.com/Emily (code EMILY for 20% off sitewide)

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Best Of: Sex Positions Made Easy

Fri, 12 May 2023 20:51:17 -0000

You shouldn't have to be an Olympic gymnast to have sex. But let’s be honest – certain positions can be hard! So inspired by the Positions chapter in my new book Smart Sex, I’m bringing back this Best Of episode. You’ll hear quick tips to make ambitious moves easier and classic moves more exciting. First, I share the most-searched sex positions in the country: can you guess America’s favorite sex move? Next, we look at the much-hyped reverse cowgirl. I give suggestions to make it feel as good and sexy as it looks. As for oral: I talk you through the Kivin Method, which stimulates vulva owners' K-points, and how to make 69 more relaxing. Finally, don’t go to the emergency room from shower sex – just listen to my tips to keep it steamy AND stable.

Show Notes:

How to Talk Like a Dom for Better Sex: 6 Essential Phrases
Moms Deserve Pleasure Too: A Sexy Self-Care Guide
MEET ME ON TOUR! Sex With Emily Book Tour: SMART SEX Event Dates
PRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
SMART SEX PRIZE PACK (submit your pre-order proof of purchase at the bottom of the page, be entered to win the prize pack and everyone that enters receives a copy of my new and improved Yes! No! Maybe? Guide)
Promescent.com/Emily (use this link to automatically save 15% at checkout)
Article: How to Master These Awkward Sex Positions
I Gave My Friend a Magic Wand Mini. Here’s Why.

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Resentment, Gratitude & Sexual Intimacy

Tue, 09 May 2023 14:45:41 -0000

When resentment builds up in a relationship, it compromises our sexual connection. We feel taken for granted, unappreciated, and unseen. Most of all, we feel emotionally unsafe, which makes it impossible to let loose and feel free in bed. So on today’s show, I talk through a study that connects the dots between a quality sex life and regular expressions of gratitude. Next, I take your calls: when long standing issues with your partner inhibit your desire, how do you break through that impasse? When your partner says you’re not meeting their sexual standards, how much of that messaging do you take in? And when you crave words of affirmation, but they just can’t seem to give them, is it time for new therapy or to respectfully end the relationship?

Show Notes:

How to Talk Like a Dom for Better Sex: 6 Essential Phrases
Ask Emily: What is a Penis Ring and Why Should I Use It?
PRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
SMART SEX PRIZE PACK (submit your pre-order proof of purchase at the bottom of the page, be entered to win the prize pack and everyone that enters receives a copy of my new and improved Yes! No! Maybe? Guide)
VUSH We Come First Couples Connection Kit (Kit is 30% off, Save an additional 10% with the code EMILYWCF)

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Easy Ways to Spice Up Your Sex Life

Fri, 05 May 2023 14:35:33 -0000

We all need to mix it up sometimes. Has your masturbation routine gone stale? Is sex with your partner too predictable? With creativity and a little teasing, absolutely everyone can spice up their sex life – and I’m here to tell you how. First, we’ll talk about planning a "sex-cation" with low-lift ideas you can try right at home. Next, when you and your partner have already tried all the new things, what’s left? I advise one caller on sexual teasing and how denying your pleasure can heighten the intensity. We also discuss ways to make your solo sex more interesting and arousing, and how to have more fun with casual sex if your current routine – even with new people! – is leaving you bored.

Show Notes:

Ask Emily: What is a Penis Ring and Why Should I Use It?
PRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
SMART SEX PRIZE PACK (submit your pre-order proof of purchase at the bottom of the page, be entered to win the prize pack and everyone that enters receives a copy of my new and improved Yes! No! Maybe? Guide)
LELO Tor 3 (code SEXWITHEMILY for 25% off all products)
Article: 9 Ways to Elevate Your Solo Sex
Article: The Best Masturbation Techniques to Try Tonight
Quinn Audio Erotica

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Bisexuality & Polyamory w/ Boyslut Zachary Zane

Tue, 02 May 2023 14:55:46 -0000

Ever wondered if there’s more to your sexuality than you ever realized? Or relationship models that challenge everything you’re used to? Men’s Health and Cosmo sex columnist Zachary Zane has been there. As a self-proclaimed “boyslut,” he’s radically open about his journey as a bisexual, polyamorous man and tells all in his forthcoming book: BOYSLUT: A Memoir and Manifesto. He shares how he came to understand his attraction to all genders, his experience living in a polycule, why it’s healthy for all of us to get used to rejection, and how bisexuality for men is gaining more visibility. He also helps me answer your questions on exploring bisexuality while in a long-term relationship, how to respond if you’re in a hetero relationship and your partner tells you they’re bisexual, and how to find casual, no strings attached sex.

Show Notes:

Ask Emily: What is a Penis Ring and Why Should I Use It?
The Sexiest Morning Routine Ever
PRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
SMART SEX PRIZE PACK (submit your pre-order proof of purchase at the bottom of the page, be entered to win the prize pack and everyone that enters receives a copy of my new and improved Yes! No! Maybe? Guide)
Promescent.com/Emily (use this link to automatically save 15% at checkout)
Boyslut: A Memoir and Manifesto: Bookshop | Amazon
More Zachary Zane: Website | Instagram | Twitter

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Let’s Talk About Sex (w/ My Mom)

Fri, 28 Apr 2023 14:55:10 -0000

Yes, it’s true: I’m talking with my own mother today about sex. A ton of you have asked me how I got into the sex education business in the first place: now, you get to hear from the person who raised me! First, my mom and I talk about her sexual journey, coming up in a time when open communication around sex wasn’t normalized and female pleasure wasn’t valued. She also helps me your questions on sex and relationships, like how to give a partner feedback when they’re doing something that turns you off, what to do if menopause is tanking your sex drive, how to negotiate with your partner when you’ve got different definitions of cheating, and how to approach a partner who does NOT want to spice up your sex life – but you’re dying for some variety.

Show Notes:

The Future of Sex Tech
The Sexiest Morning Routine Ever
PRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
SMART SEX PRIZE PACK (submit your pre-order proof of purchase at the bottom of the page, be entered to win the prize pack and everyone that enters receives a copy of my new and improved Yes! No! Maybe? Guide)
Playground Lube (code SEXWITHEMILY for 15% off your 1st order)
I Gave My Friend a Magic Wand Mini. Here’s Why.
MagBreakthrough.com/SexWithEmily (code SexWithEmily10 for 10% off)

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How to Initiate (If You Never Do)

Tue, 25 Apr 2023 14:55:05 -0000

There’s often someone who initiates the sex, and someone who says “yes” or “no.” These roles can work long-term, but what happens when sexual initiations become a problem? When you’re always hearing no, or when you always say no? On today’s show, I'm talking about sexual initiations and how to make this moment a better experience for all. When you’re the initiator, but want your partner to do it more often, how do you talk to them about it? We’ll also get into spontaneous vs. responsive desire, and as someone with responsive desire, I’ll share my routine for getting turned on for sex. Finally, when you and your partner are so busy that no one’s initiating, what’s the conversation you need to have? I advise a caller in this exact situation.

Show Notes:

The Future of Sex Tech
The Sexiest Morning Routine Ever
PRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
SMART SEX PRIZE PACK (submit your pre-order proof of purchase at the bottom of the page, be entered to win the prize pack and everyone that enters receives a copy of my new and improved Yes! No! Maybe? Guide)
SmartMouth
VUSH I Come First - Self-Connection Kit (Kit is 50% off, Save an additional 10% with the code EMILYICF)
I Gave My Friend a Magic Wand Mini. Here’s Why.
MagBreakthrough.com/SexWithEmily (code SexWithEmily10 for 10% off)

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6 Roadblocks to Sex & How to Clear Them

Fri, 21 Apr 2023 14:55:28 -0000

What’s holding you back from having good sex? Is it self-confidence? A problem with your partner? Are you under so much stress that it’s impossible to feel erotic and turned on? In today’s Best Of episode, I’m talking about the 6 most common roadblocks to sex and how to move past them. I’ll talk you through how to navigate each of them and also take your questions on personal sexual roadblocks. For example, if you’re coupled, is it cheating to get on OnlyFans? What do you do if you’re not always wet for sex? And finally, what's the best way to work with a partner who’s prone to jealousy? All this and more on our roadblocks show.

Show Notes:

How to Use a Vibe With a Partner
High Pleasure: A Guide to Cannabis & Sex
PRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
SMART SEX PRIZE PACK (submit your pre-order proof of purchase at the bottom of the page, be entered to win the prize pack and everyone that enters receives a copy of my new and improved Yes! No! Maybe? Guide)
LELO LILY 3 (code EMILY for 25% off sitewide)

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High Pleasure: Cannabis + Sex

Thu, 20 Apr 2023 07:00:56 -0000

It’s a new day in the world of cannabis and sex. So many of you have asked me for this show! While wide scale research is still thin, there are many encouraging signs that cannabis can help you unlock more sexual pleasure, whether it's erotic arousal, help with erections, less anxiety, or less pain. But I get it: cannabis isn’t legal everywhere! And it’s also not right for everyone. So on today’s mini show, I’ll be discussing the latest research on cannabis and sex, how to know if it's a good choice for you, delivery methods like edibles and drinkables, and vetted product recommendations for sexy times, both partnered and solo.

Show Notes:

High Pleasure: A Guide to Cannabis & Sex
PRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
SMART SEX PRIZE PACK (submit your pre-order proof of purchase at the bottom of the page, be entered to win the prize pack and everyone that enters receives a copy of my new and improved Yes! No! Maybe? Guide)
Morgasm CBD Arousal Lubricant (code EMILY for 15% OFF sitewide)
VIIA Hemp Co’s High Love – THC Libido Gummies (code EMILY for 20% OFF sitewide)

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Want Better Sex? Stop Believing This Myth

Tue, 18 Apr 2023 14:55:09 -0000

What’s a common stereotype you’ve heard about sex? Maybe it’s that “guys just want one thing” or that “once you have kids, say goodbye to your sex life.” But not only are these stereotypes tiresome on a societal level, they actually hurt your sex life. Why? Because if you buy them, they limit your pleasure potential. So on today’s show, I reveal the top 3 sexual stereotypes penis owners and vulva owners told me they were tired of, and the new truths that are going to empower you in bed. I also give you quick communication hacks to help you get curious with any partner, whether they’re long-term or brand new, so that you can have the sex you actually want.

Show Notes:

How to Use a Vibe With a Partner
High Pleasure: A Guide to Cannabis & Sex
PRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
SMART SEX PRIZE PACK (submit your pre-order proof of purchase at the bottom of the page, be entered to win the prize pack and everyone that enters receives a copy of my new and improved Yes! No! Maybe? Guide)
Morgasm CBD Arousal Lubricant (code EMILY for 15% OFF sitewide)
Article: 3 Sexual Stereotypes to Stop Believing About Vulva Owners
Article: 3 Sexual Stereotypes to Stop Believing About Penis Owners

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Life Is Short: Get a Sex Toy

Fri, 14 Apr 2023 14:55:35 -0000

There’s a lot to be said for sex toys. For one, they stimulate nerve endings much deeper than hands alone can reach – and that’s true no matter what genitals you’ve got. But how do you incorporate toys into partnered sex? And which ones are right for your body to give you mind-blowing orgasms? On today’s episode, we’re talking all things sex toys so you can play in new and different ways. First, is it alright to always bring a vibe to partnered sex? One penis owner says “absolutely.” Speaking of penis owners, which toys are best for this crowd? I also talk about squirting with toys, how to change up your solo sex routine, and if there’s anything wrong if you can ONLY orgasm with a toy. Spoiler alert: nope!

Show Notes:

The Basics of Safe Sex
Want Better Sex? Ask Your Partner These Questions
Sign up for Sexts With Emily SMS & get my brand new Ultimate SEXTING Guide!
PRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
SMART SEX PRIZE PACK (submit your pre-order proof of purchase at the bottom of the page, be entered to win the prize pack and everyone that enters receives a copy of my new and improved Yes! No! Maybe? Guide)
CERĒ Spellbound Stimulator (code EMILY15 for 15% off sitewide)
Bellesa
I Gave My Friend a Magic Wand Mini. Here’s Why.

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My #1 Tool to Spice Up Your Sex Life

Tue, 11 Apr 2023 14:55:32 -0000

Have you ever used a “Yes, No, Maybe” List for sex? It’s a menu of sex acts that prioritizes consent and communication among sexual partners. It’s one of my hands-down favorite tools to explore new ideas and spice up sex lives. But how do you actually use the list and turn your choices into realities? On today’s show, I reveal my NEW and IMPROVED "Yes, No, Maybe" List, and show you how to use it individually or with a partner. I share new ideas we added to the list, like orgasm denial, bondage, and electrostimulation, as well as success stories from folks who have filled it out. Plus, we’ll talk about what to do if your answers differ from your partner's, and how a real couple worked through that sticky situation together.

Show Notes:

The Basics of Safe Sex
Want Better Sex? Ask Your Partner These Questions
Sign up for Sexts With Emily SMS & get my brand new Ultimate SEXTING Guide!
PRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
SMART SEX PRIZE PACK (submit your pre-order proof of purchase at the bottom of the page, be entered to win the prize pack and everyone that enters receives a copy of my new and improved Yes! No! Maybe? Guide)
I Gave My Friend a Magic Wand Mini. Here’s Why.
Promescent.com/Emily (use this link to automatically save 15% at checkout)
Pleasure Planner, Tips for Communication & Other Guides

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Bottoms Up: Anal Sex For All

Fri, 07 Apr 2023 14:55:28 -0000

When you think about anal sex, what comes to mind? Does it make you feel turned on? Nervous? Like something you want to try or do more of, but you’re not sure about the best way to approach it? On today’s show, I help you get more comfortable with anal play by answering your top questions. How can you use foreplay and communication to relax into the experience? If you’ve tried anal play before but didn’t love it, what are some toys and techniques you can use to feel more pleasure? What’s the safest way to train with an anal toy, and can you hurt yourself by having too much anal? Bottoms up, because your anal education starts now.

Show Notes:

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Best Of: Oral Sex Master Class

Tue, 04 Apr 2023 14:55:46 -0000

How do you give incredible, life-affirming oral sex to a vulva owner? While every body is different, I’m here to tell you that these are the techniques you absolutely need. First, we’ll talk the art of the tease. I explain how to use your tongue to intensify sensations and encourage arousal. I also get into everyone’s favorite: the Kivin Method. Next, I show you how to help facilitate a G-spot orgasm by answering your top questions. For example, when you’re 100% down to give oral but your partner doesn’t like receiving, what do you do? When you’re the vulva owner and want to squirt, how do you get there? Finally, I talk overcoming insecurities when you’re the receiver, and how to make giving oral more physically comfortable.

Show Notes:

I Gave My Friend a Magic Wand Mini. Here’s Why.
Get to Know the Clitoris (& How to Pleasure It)
PRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
Promescent.com/Emily (use this link to automatically save 15% at checkout)
Article: Mind-Blowing Oral Sex in Under 5 Minutes: The Kivin Method
Article: Ask Emily: How Do I Go Down on a Vulva?
Playground Lube (code SEXWITHEMILY for 15% off 1st order)
Morgasm CBD Arousal Lubricant (code EMILY for 15% OFF sitewide)
Podcast: Squirting Secrets w/ Deborah Sundahl
Article: Ask Emily: How Do I *Actually* Start Squirting?

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The Key to Sexual Confidence

Fri, 31 Mar 2023 14:55:49 -0000

What does it mean to be sexually confident? In my opinion, it comes from a sense of security in who you are, what you bring to the table, and knowing that it’s OK to ask questions. It’s not having all the answers, because let’s be honest: sex would be boring if we knew everything already. But when your self-image takes a hit, how do you recover your sexual confidence and combat performance anxiety? I’m talking to callers with precisely that question. What do you do when your partner keeps talking about how hot strangers are, even when you told them it makes you uncomfortable? What happens when you’re not maintaining your erections, and it’s causing anxiety? How about when your partner is more sexual than ever – but not towards you? All this and more in today’s sexual confidence episode.

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Masturbation Parties & Solo Sex

Tue, 28 Mar 2023 14:55:32 -0000

In my opinion, masturbation is one of the healthiest self-care practices out there. But so many of you tell me how ashamed you feel about masturbating! Especially since the only pop culture examples you saw growing up were cringey. That changes today, as I take your calls on masturbation, taking time to explore your body, and unlocking different kinds of orgasms during solo sex. I also discuss masturbation frequency, and if there’s such a thing as too much. Speaking of frequency: is it possible for vulva owners to have multiple orgasms during solo sex? Let’s find out. I’ll answer your questions on group masturbation parties, jealousy toward your partner’s vibrator, and what to do when your partner can only orgasm through masturbation.

Show Notes:

3 Sexual Stereotypes to Stop Believing About Vulva Owners
3 Sexual Stereotypes to Stop Believing About Penis Owners
PRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
Emily x Christina Aguilera: HelloPlayground.com/Xtina
CERĒ Spellbound Stimulator & Reverie (code EMILY15 for 15% off sitewide)
OdelaHealth.com/SexWithEmily (use this link to save $50)
LELO TOR 3 (code SEXWITHEMILY for 25% off all products)
I Gave My Friend a Magic Wand Mini. Here’s Why.

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How Do I Tell My Partner…?

Fri, 24 Mar 2023 14:55:48 -0000

Sex is inherently vulnerable, which is partly why it’s so hot. But how do you take the extremely vulnerable – even awkward – step of telling a partner something sensitive? Maybe their breath is bad. Maybe you’re bored with the sex itself. Or maybe you're afraid to tell a partner you’ve fallen in love with them. On today’s episode, I’m helping listeners find the right words for these sensitive moments. What happens when you don’t feel anything during penetration? Or your partner’s afraid to tell you they have a small penis? How about when you’re into something kinky, tried it out virtually, and got caught? And finally, when you disagree on what makes good sex, is that a deal breaker? All this and more on today’s sexual feedback show.

Show Notes:

The 7 Secrets of Making Out
How to Have the Sexiest Spring Ever
PRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
SmartMouth

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Sex Party 101

Tue, 21 Mar 2023 14:55:51 -0000

Have you ever been to a sex party? Are you curious about what goes down in one, and if it’s something you’d like to explore? Are they held in dungeons? Upscale clubs? Someone’s house? There’s a lot more interest in sex parties lately, so on today’s episode, I’m talking sex parties 101. I’ll go over the various types of parties out there, how to find them and specific sex events you might be interested in, sex party etiquette, what you can expect when you walk in the door, how to interact with fellow attendees, and of course…what to wear.

Show Notes:

The 7 Secrets of Making Out
How to Have the Sexiest Spring Ever
PRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
FetLife
Feeld
#Open
Kinky Rabbit Club
Morgasm CBD Arousal Lubricant (code EMILY for 15% OFF sitewide)

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The Vagina Episode

Fri, 17 Mar 2023 14:55:36 -0000

The vagina is a beautiful place. But from orgasms to vaginismus, do you know your way around a vagina and how to properly care for it? Whether you want to maximize a vulva owner’s pleasure or improve your own vaginal health, this episode is for you. We’ll start with the internal clitoral network: I’ll talk about how recent our scientific knowledge of the clitoris is. Later I'll discuss clitoral orgasms versus G-spot orgasms -- which one’s stronger, and what do they feel like? My listeners also bring me questions about vaginas and sex: is a clitoral piercing painful? Will it affect your sexual sensations? And when sex is painful, how can you reclaim your sexuality? All this and more on today’s vagina episode.

Show Notes:

Cuffing Szn Is Officially Over, Here’s Your Singles’ Survival Kit
6 Ways to Improve Sleep for Better Sex
PRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
Article: Where is the Clitoris?
Je Joue’s New Bullet Vibrators & Endometriosis Collection (code SEXWITHEMILY for 20% OFF everything)
Morgasm CBD Arousal Lubricant (code EMILY for 15% OFF sitewide)
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Best Of: Best Blowjob Ever

Tue, 14 Mar 2023 14:55:10 -0000

Want to give 10/10 pleasure to a penis? Whether you’re giving or receiving oral sex to a penis, this episode is for you. From where to start as an absolute beginner, to upgrading your oral sex game, this is a comprehensive episode on the art of the blowjob. First, we’ll map the penis anatomy so you know what pleasure points you’re dealing with. Next, I’ll teach you techniques to build anticipation, tease, and make your oral sex that much more memorable: eye contact, how to use your hands, and the best lube for the job. We’ll also get into sensation play, testicle and perineum stimulation, and if swallowing or deep-throating is in the cards for you. (It’s totally OK if not.) Plus, I’ve got tips for dealing with anxiety when you’re the receiver. Don’t blow this episode off: your oral sex mastery starts now.

Show Notes:

6 Ways to Improve Sleep for Better Sex
PRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
When it’s Time to Unplug, Plug in a Magic Wand
Podcast: Everybody Loves Oral
Article: 6 Oral Sex Tips for Going Down on a Vulva
Article: Mind-Blowing Oral Sex in Under 5 Minutes: The Kivin Method
Article: How to Give a Better Blowjob
Promescent.com/Emily (use this link to automatically save 15% at checkout)
Article: Ask Emily: How Do I Better Enjoy Oral Sex?

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Squirting, Spandex & Kinks

Fri, 10 Mar 2023 15:55:00 -0000

Have you ever been into something so strongly, you couldn’t stop fantasizing about it? Maybe it’s getting spanked or tied up, to name a couple common turn-ons. Whatever your turn-on is, does it arouse you so much that you just have to make it a reality? Or are you apprehensive to take your fantasy IRL? On today’s episode, I’m taking your calls on kinks, fetishes, and everything in between. I’ll teach you how to introduce your fantasy to a partner, especially if you’re turned on by something very specific. From spandex to group sex, squirting to infantilization, I’ll help you understand the difference between a kink and a fetish, how to safely explore your options, and how to communicate your desires to a partner. All this and more on today’s turn-on show!

Show Notes:

Cuffing Szn Is Officially Over, Here’s Your Sexy Survival Kit
PRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
Okay, What’s Really the Difference Between Kinks and Fetishes?
Yes No Maybe List, Tips for Better Communication & Other Guides
FirmTech Rings (code EMILY20 for 20% off sitewide)
FetLife
Kasidie
LELO SORAYA Wave (code SEXWITHEMILY for 25% off all products)

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Porn & Your Sex Life

Tue, 07 Mar 2023 15:55:52 -0000

Let’s talk about porn, people. In my opinion, porn isn’t inherently good or bad – it’s your relationship to it that matters. Sexy media can be used for inspiration, education, even healthy arousal, but you can also become dependent on it for sexual stimulation and have a negative impact on you or your relationship in the process. So on today’s show, I’m taking your porn calls to help you find a healthy balance. She’s worried her boyfriend depends on porn for arousal and isn’t attracted to her anymore: what now? He’s married and wants to watch porn with his wife, how should he broach the subject? Finally, her father was a porn addict and she’s worried her boyfriend might be too – I give her communication tips to ease the anxiety. All this and more on today’s porn show!

Show Notes:

How Do I Prep For Sex?
PRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
When it’s Time to Unplug, Plug in a Magic Wand
Article: So, Where’s the Porn for Women?
Scarleteen
XConfessions.com

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Are We All A Little Non-Monogamous?

Fri, 03 Mar 2023 15:55:20 -0000

I’m getting more questions than ever about non-monogamous relationships, but is it right for you? Today I’m taking your calls about what it takes to navigate different kinds of relationships, and how our listeners' failures and success stories can help those considering opening up. When you’re long-distance, is an open arrangement actually ideal? Or is the relationship itself a distraction from the people right in front of you? When you’re married monogamously, but one of you starts flirting with someone else, is an open marriage the right move, or not so much? And when you’re in a heterosexual relationship, but want to explore your bisexuality, is bringing in a same-sex third a healthy fix? All this and more on today’s episode.

Show Notes:

How Do I Prep For Sex?
PRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
How Do I Explore Bisexuality While in a Relationship?
What Exactly is an “Open” Relationship?
OdelaHealth.com/SexWithEmily to save $50
Yes No Maybe List & Other Guides
Promescent.com/Emily (use this link to automatically save 15% at checkout)

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Moregasms For All

Tue, 28 Feb 2023 15:55:50 -0000

While I believe orgasms are not the end goal of sex, who can blame themselves for wanting one? Whether you’re having partnered or solo sex, orgasms have incredible health benefits: boosted levels of estrogen and collagen, a huge dose of endorphins and oxytocin, better sleep and immunity. But namely? You want an orgasm because it feels good. That’s why on today’s show, I’m helping you reach climax. How can you still have numerous, deep orgasms? When you love anal play, but haven’t had an anal orgasm quite yet, how can you make it happen? And can all vulva-owners really have multiple orgasms? Find out all this and more on today’s orgasm show.

Show Notes:

Penis Issues & Innovations with Dr. Karpman
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Promescent.com/Emily (use this link to automatically save 15% at checkout)

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Unblock Your Sex Life

Fri, 24 Feb 2023 15:55:19 -0000

What’s holding you back from your best sex? Are you worried you’ll be judged? Is emotional trauma rearing its ugly head? Or maybe you just want to have anal without hurting yourself! The truth is, we’ve all got a pleasure block or two, so on today’s show I’m taking your calls to move past them. When you’re recovering from an epic ghosting, how do you move on with your confidence intact? I offer tips for releasing the pain, and setting intentions for a future partner. When you’re nervous about neighbors hearing you have sex, how can you relax into your body? And finally, when your partner’s looks haven’t changed, but you’re suddenly wondering whether you’re attracted to them, is it really about their appearance? I’ll be unpacking these and many more roadblocks to the pleasure you deserve.

Show Notes:

PRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
SmartMouth

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Secret Pleasure Points

Tue, 21 Feb 2023 15:55:50 -0000

Exploration is sexy. You don’t have to know everything about sex to be hot in bed, but if you’re curious? That’ll blow their mind. So let’s look at some less talked-about pleasure acts and how you can incorporate them into your sex life. From nipples to the labia, what unexplored erogenous zones and tools can enhance your orgasms? When your partner’s got a large penis, how do you explore anal without hurting yourself? Plus, how do you find friends and community when you’ve just entered the BDSM lifestyle? And how do you maximize your partner’s pleasure? All this and more on today’s pleasure points show.

Show Notes:

How to Have Great Sex During Perimenopause, Menopause and Beyond
PRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
#open
FetLife
OdelaHealth.com/SexWithEmily to save $50
When it’s Time to Unplug, Plug in a Magic Wand
Je Joue (code SEXWITHEMILY for 20% off)
Playground Lube (code SEXWITHEMILY for 15% off 1st order)
Kivin Method: 5 Sexy Positions to Try This Valentine’s Day

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Why Don’t I Ever Want Sex?

Tue, 14 Feb 2023 15:55:04 -0000

Here’s the truth about getting turned on. It’s a thousand times easier to feel sexual with others, if you’re already in the habit of getting sexual with yourself. But what does that look like? On today’s show, I’m talking sexy self-care practices that I recommend to everyone of every age, every gender, every relationship status. We’ll go over sensory engagement, breath work and solo sex techniques and toys, so you can keep your pilot light lit and feel erotic all the time. Plus, I take your questions: the difference between internal and external orgasms, arousal ideas for vulva-owners, how to approach sex with a new partner when you’ve been out of the game for a while, and much more.

Show Notes:

Sexy Positions to Try This Valentine’s Day
5 Last-Minute, Ultra-Sexy Valentine’s Ideas
PRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
HigherDOSE Sauna Blanket
Breathing App: Apple | Google Play
Je Joue: Vita | Amour | Duet (code SEXWITHEMILY for 20% OFF)
When it’s Time to Unplug, Plug in a Magic Wand
Promescent.com/Emily (use this link to automatically save 15% at checkout)
Bellesa
TryQuinn
XConfessions.com
&Jane

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Make Every Day Valentine’s Day

Fri, 10 Feb 2023 15:55:14 -0000

It’s almost Valentine’s Day, but listen. Whether you’re a romantic or a cynic, there’s one thing we can all benefit from on this holiday. No, not more candy message hearts. I’m talking actual knowledge, on how to build sexual tension on Valentine’s Day and truly, any day. So on today’s episode, I’m talking sexts, scents, and sex toys to create an erotic vibe with your partner all day long. Next, I’ll be answering all your questions to create amazing Valentine’s Sex, including body-positive sex positions, how to have sex when one or both of you is tired, and how to lean into your sub side when you’ve been domming for decades.

Show Notes:

3 Things You Need To Know About Your Scent & Sexual Attractiveness
PRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
HiNote App
Eye Of Love (code EMILY for 15% off sitewide)
SmartMouth
LELO SORAYA Wave (code SEXWITHEMILY for 25% off all products)
Article: Ask Emily: How Do I Make Scheduling Sex Sexy?

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Best Of: Just a Little Kinky

Tue, 07 Feb 2023 15:55:01 -0000

Do you dress for the occasion? And by “occasion,” I mean sex. Because wearing things that make you feel hot can make a huge difference. That’s what we’re talking about today: listening to your feelings, and dressing or undressing your way toward your sexual desires. In this Best Of episode, I’m talking leather, lingerie, and how to wear your sexual fantasies on your sleeve. Or your thigh highs. Next, we talk DDLG, or Daddy Dom Little Girl, a kink that might be exactly what you’re looking for…but only with the right boundaries. Finally, I get into green flags and red flags with your partner, and how to spot toxic traits before you’re in too deep.

Show Notes:

3 Things You Need To Know About Your Scent and Sexual Attractiveness
Promescent.com/Emily (use this link to automatically save 15% at checkout)
PRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
When it’s Time to Unplug, Plug in a Magic Wand
Article: How to Start a DDLG Dynamic
Article: The Truth About DDLG As Told by a Little
Fleur Du Mal x Sex With Emily Bundle (code FLEURWITHEMILY for 10% off 1st order)

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Sex Life Hacks You Won’t Regret

Fri, 03 Feb 2023 15:55:17 -0000

A stale sex life can cost us much more than our orgasms. When we stop physically connecting with our partners, we grow resentful, distrustful and uninvested in our relationship’s future. And while it’s common for sex with the same person to become monotonous over time, relationships need intimacy to survive. That’s why today’s show is all about spicing up your sex life. From a partner who doesn’t want to open up about their sexual preferences, to growing tired of the same old routine - I offer ideas from gamifying your sexual communication to taking penetration off the table. We’ll also hear plenty of real-life success stories of couples reviving their intimacy, which I know will inspire you to do the same. If it’s better sex that you and your partner want, there’s hope on the horizon.

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Oral Sex Essentials

Tue, 31 Jan 2023 15:55:04 -0000

Why are there so many hang ups around oral sex? For starters, many of us don’t know how to give it, or receive it. So how do we bring amazing, orgasm-inducing oral into our sex lives? Today’s episode is a great place to start. I answer your questions on oral upgrades, so you can blow more than just their mind – and get the pleasure you deserve. When you’re new to sex, how do you coach a partner to give you great oral? Or how about when you go down on your partner, but they refuse to kiss you afterwards – should you say something? And what if your penis-owning partner can’t finish…no matter how good your oral game is? I’ll also discuss how porn can distort what we think is good oral sex, so you can take what you need from the screen and leave the rest to your IRL abilities.

Show Notes:

Gifts For Every Turn On: Valentine’s Day Guide 2023
LELO TOR 2 (code SEXWITHEMILY for 25% off all products)
Podcast: Sex Toys for Penis Owners
Article: Where is the Clitoris?
Article: Mind-Blowing Oral Sex in Under 5 Minutes: The Kivin Method

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I High-Key Fantasize About…

Fri, 27 Jan 2023 15:55:43 -0000

Ever stumbled across a surprise fantasy? Something you didn’t realize turned you on…but here you are. It’s super hot, and now, you can’t stop thinking about it. Our sexual fantasies are here to help us understand ourselves better, so on today’s show I take your calls on sexual fantasies, what they mean, and how to turn them into a reality. First, she masturbates in the bathroom when she knows her neighbors are home, within earshot. He loves nipple play on his body and watching his wife do it to herself. They’re dabbling in prostate play, so I provide step-by-step instructions for finger stimulation. She’s afraid of rejection, but also fantasizes about it: how can she indulge this fantasy in a healthy way? All this and more on this revealing episode.

Show Notes:

Gifts For Every Turn On: Valentine’s Day Guide 2023
VUSH Destination: Play (SEXWITHEMILY for 40% off Destination: Play)
Yes No Maybe List & Other Guides
EMDRIA

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Mental Health = Sexual Wealth

Tue, 24 Jan 2023 15:55:06 -0000

We all have personal demons. Whether it’s anxiety in your relationship, dissatisfaction in your sex life, or something hurtful from the past that’s infecting your present. But how do we heal so that our sex drive can thrive? That’s what today’s episode is all about. I talk to callers about their sexual mental blocks, and how to move past them for a more empowered future. When outside circumstances create stress for your family, how can you still prioritize intimacy? When one partner is inhibited in bed, how can they learn to relax, and find their authentic sexual voice? And when you’ve been through the death of a loved one, how can you make room for a new relationship while honoring their memory? All this and more on today’s show.

Show Notes:

Gifts For Every Turn On: Valentine’s Day Guide 2023
OdelaHealth.com/SexWithEmily to save $50
Promescent.com/Emily (use this link to automatically save 15% at checkout)
Article: Ask Emily: How Do I Make Scheduling Sex Sexy?
Yes No Maybe List & Other Guides
Podcast: Therapy: The Relationship Game-Changer
EMDRIA
More Dr. Amen: Instagram | TikTok | Twitter | Website
Your Brain Is Always Listening by Dr. Amen

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Penis Problems? Not Anymore

Fri, 20 Jan 2023 15:55:43 -0000

Real talk: penis problems are more common than you think. But don’t let shame stop you from healing - both inside and out. Today, we’re normalizing the experience of penis challenges, and providing tools to help mend your member. She wants to end a relationship because he can’t keep it up - are there other issues at play beyond sexual incompatibility? Can erection issues from a sex-related injury be reversed? I offer some science-backed treatments to check out. Another penis-owner can only orgasm through solo sex, are trust issues to blame? We talk through some exercises to help get to orgasming with a partner. I’ll cover all this and more in this episode.

Show Notes:

When It’s Time to Unplug, Plug In a Magic Wand
LELO Tor 2 (code SEXWITHEMILY for 25% off all products)
Promescent.com/Emily (use this link to automatically save 15% at checkout)
Boston Scientific treatment options for ED
PRP Injections (John Hopkins Medical)
Podcast: Best Of: Power to the Penis w/ Dr. Edward Karpman
SKYN Condoms
One Condoms “Find My Fit”
Pjur Woman Aqua Lubricant

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Porn, Orgasms & A Kink On the Rise

Tue, 17 Jan 2023 15:55:10 -0000

Consuming your own ejaculate: a kink on the rise. Whether it comes from porn or curiosity, a ton of you have asked me about it in the last few years. But that’s not the only trending sex topic: from porn to mental health, these are some of the most frequently asked questions we get at Sex With Emily. First, is porn healthy or harmful? It’s all about your relationship to it. Next, anxiety and low self-worth can make it more difficult to get turned on with a partner. I offer strategies to one listener for restoring their self-love practice. Finally, eating your own semen: yay or nay? I explain why this is not only a totally normal question – but a totally acceptable practice.

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Unlock Your Hidden Orgasms

Fri, 13 Jan 2023 15:55:54 -0000

Just how many pathways are there to your best orgasm? It’s more than you realize. Today’s episode is all about creative ways to climax, so you can unlock even more pleasure the next time you have sex. First: are breastgasms a thing? I explain to one caller how they work, and give her ideas for stimulating them and her other erogenous zones. Next, a couple calls in with a common problem: he finishes during penetrative sex, she doesn’t. I give them some orgasm gap hacks to solve it. Finally, why is it often easier to have a G-Spot orgasm with a toy, but not during sex? I give you tips for getting there with a partner and more tips to maximize your pleasure.

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How Sexually Compatible Are You?

Tue, 10 Jan 2023 15:55:37 -0000

Ever feel like your relationship is on cruise control? Do you continue to have the same conflicts, stale sex routine, or toxic dynamics and want to break the cycle and be with someone who’s actually a great fit? I’ll help you break out of all that. Today’s episode is designed to help you build better sex, dating and relationship habits. From incorporating kink and exploration into a relationship with someone who’s more reserved, to tips to work through jealousy in a relationship - we can all learn so much from this episode. I’ll also go over some exercises to build intimacy and share your top “green flags” when it comes to dating. All this and more on today’s show.

Show Notes:

Sexual Wellness Trends to Try in 2023
VUSH Empress 2 (code SWE50 for 50% off)
Tips for Better Communication & Other Guides
Article: How to Have More Sensual Sex
Article: Ask Emily: How Do I Tell a New Partner About My Fantasies?
Article: What to Do When Your Partner Says ‘No’ to Trying New Things

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More Orgasms & Spicier Sex in 2023

Fri, 06 Jan 2023 15:55:21 -0000

Your sexual needs are key to your sexual satisfaction and overall wellness. And when you’ve got a need that just can’t be met, I’m here for you. On today’s show, I give one caller who's never had an orgasm surefire masturbation tips to help her get there. Next, she’s 23 and loves her boyfriend, but he wants to move in together and she’s… not so sure. Psychologist and dear friend Dr. Jen Freed and I coach her on next steps. Another caller asked her partner to be more dominant in bed, and now he thinks they’re sexually incompatible. Finally, she needs more sexual experience – should she snag a friends with benefits? All this and more as we unpack your sexual needs and give you specific, sexy steps to achieve them.

Show Notes:

Sexual Wellness Trends to Try in 2023
Odela Health (use this link for $50 off your 1st prescription)
7 New Ways to Use a Magic Wand
Pleasure Planner, Yes No Maybe List & Other Guides

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Find Your Sexual Voice w/ Lake Bell

Tue, 03 Jan 2023 15:55:01 -0000

When it comes to your sexual style, have you ever thought about your voice? Do you moan? Slow things down? Pitch up or down an octave? Actor, writer and director Lake Bell is obsessed with the human voice. On today’s show, we’ll discuss her new audiobook Inside Voice, which explores this obsession, including the “sexy baby voice” phenomenon - which happens to be her least favorite choice for bedroom talk. We also discuss your takes on dating in your 40s, and why things often get better with age when it comes to the pursuit of romance. All this and more with my amazing guest, Lake Bell.

Show Notes:

Article: Ask Emily: How Do I Get Better at Dirty Talk?
Lake Bell’s New Audiobook, Inside Voice: My Obsession with How We Sound: Audible | Pushkin
More Lake Bell: Instagram | Twitter

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The Hottest Episodes of 2022

Fri, 30 Dec 2022 15:55:44 -0000

As the year comes to an end, what are the biggest revelations you’ve had when it comes to pleasure? What is something new you’ve learned that has redefined your sex life - now and in the new year? To answer this, I turned to you - the Sex With Emily community - for a roundup of the best of the best. From oral secrets to solo sex, your sex language and your sex fantasies, these are some of my favorite moments from the episodes you listened to the most this year. Consider this your end of year send off, from Emily with love.

Show Notes:

Article: How to Write Your New Year’s Sex Resolutions
Magic Wand
Breathe App
Podcast: Your Top Sex Fantasies, Revealed
Podcast: Your Sex Language w/ Dr. Jen Freed
Podcast: How to Relationship Better w/ John Kim a & Vanessa Bennett
Podcast: Best Blow Job Ever
Podcast: Orgasms with a Capital O
Podcast: Sex & Loving Your Body w/ Shaun T
Podcast: Therapy: The Relationship Game Changer
Podcast: Sex + Creativity w/ Liz Goldwyn

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Hotline Calls: The Do’s and Don'ts of Non-Monogamy

Tue, 27 Dec 2022 15:55:11 -0000

Are you considering opening up your relationship? When and how did you decide to do so? And did moving away from monogamy change your perspective on sex and pleasure? Today, I’m taking your calls all about being in open relationships. First up: a group sex success story after a married couple learned to communicate their fantasies – always love hearing those. Next, they have a great sex life, but after a threesome gone wrong, she’s worried he’ll leave. How can she alleviate her anxiety and share her fears? Finally, we define compersion and discuss what to do when your partner wants a threesome… but you don’t. We get into all this and more on today’s hotline show.

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Better Dates, Better Sex

Fri, 23 Dec 2022 15:55:02 -0000

Variety is the spice of life – as well as vital to your sex life. But how many times have you turned to your partner on Friday night and said: “how about dinner? Usual spot?” Planning a creative date requires thinking outside of the box. That’s why I’ve done the legwork for you of helping you create playful dates that are as unique as they are arousing. From role playing sexy strangers to planning out a sensual dinner at the farmer’s market, these date ideas will give you a break from the norm - while also building sexual tension and enhancing intimacy.

Show Notes:

Article: How to Train Your Penis
VUSH (SEXWITHEMILY for 40% off Next Gen Vibes)
Article: These Are The 5 Arousal Styles. Which One Are You?
Podcast: What’s Your Arousal Type?
The 36 Questions That Lead to Love
OhMiBod blueMotion Panty Vibe
Podcast: Sex & Loving Your Body w/ Shaun T
Fleur Du Mal x SWE Bundle (FLEURWITHEMILY for 10% off 1st order)
Je Joue Luxury Massage Candle

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What Makes Oral Sex Hot w/ Alex Cooper

Tue, 20 Dec 2022 15:57:42 -0000

Alex Cooper, host and creator of “Call Her Daddy” knows a thing or two about the pursuit of a more fulfilling sex life. From transcendental oral to disastrous anal, she walks us through the good, the bad, and the funny when it comes to trying new sexual experiences. Alex also shares her mindful masturbation routine and what her partner does to make oral incredible (hint: vulva worship). All this and more in today’s fan favorite best of episode.

Show Notes:

Emily on Call Her Daddy: How to Have an Orgasm | 104- The Roadmap to his A**hole | 96- The Orgasm Gap & Forced Sex Fantasies
Article: 9 Ways to Elevate Your Solo Sex
Article: Ask Emily: Oral Sex for Beginners
More Alex Cooper: Instagram | Twitter
Call Her Daddy: Website | Instagram | Twitter | TikTok

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Mismatched Sex Drives: Here’s the Fix

Fri, 16 Dec 2022 15:57:00 -0000

Mismatched sex drives: it’s one of the most common issues longterm relationships face. Frequently one partner has an insatiable appetite for sex, while the other treats sex more like a chore. But just because your libidos aren’t synced up now doesn’t mean they’ll be that way forever. On today’s Hotline show, I answer questions all about you and your partner’s differing sex drives and how to communicate your way to better alignment. From a caller who misses the drama and excitement their sex life once had, to another whose partner’s medication has caused his desire to be depleted - I’ll break down step by step how to broach this sensitive subject. Because if left unaddressed, issues around sex can be fatal to a relationship - and working through it will only make you and your partner stronger.

Show Notes:

Article: Best Sexy Stocking Stuffers 2022
FirmTech Tech Ring (Emily20 for 20% off)
Article: These Are the 5 Arousal Styles. Which One Are You?
Podcast: Your Top Sex Fantasies, Revealed

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Like Your Body, Love Your Sex Life

Tue, 13 Dec 2022 15:57:37 -0000

We’ve all heard of “body positivity” - the idea that we should celebrate the skin we’re in, rather than emphasize how we think others see us. But in practice, how really is your relationship with your body? Today’s show is all about giving our bodies the respect they deserve. I’m first joined by Bethany C Meyers, whose fitness company the be.come project aims to change our motivation behind working out. Bethany also shares why sex takes on a new, rich depth when we learn to connect with our movement on a daily basis. Afterwards, I’ll answer questions from listeners struggling to accept their own bodies. Because if we can’t learn to love our own bodies, how can we share them intimately with someone else?

Show Notes:

Article: 4 Sex Toys So Pretty, They Double As Art
Article: Ask Emily: How Can I Be More Confident in the Bedroom?
Promescent
More Bethany C. Meyers: Instagram | Twitter
The Become Project: Website | Instagram

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Your 2023 Sex Goals (& the Toys to Get There)

Fri, 09 Dec 2022 15:57:43 -0000

As we wind down the year, what are your pleasure goals? Do you want to explore your body? Incorporate a new pleasure ritual? Try out a new toy? Today on the show, I pull back the curtain on Sex With Emily and invite my team to share their pleasure goals and the toys to get there. From vibrators to arousal gels, they give their honest reviews on what to stuff your stockings with this holiday season. I’ll also break down the science behind them that makes them so effective. If you’re looking to create your own pleasure goals for the new year, these products are a great place to start.

Show Notes:

Sexiest Gift Guide Ever: Emily’s Picks for 2022 Holidays
Article: 4 Sex Toys So Pretty they Double as Art
Book: Court of Thorns
Guide: The Pleasure Planner
7 New Ways to Use a Magic Wand
Good Vibrations
Je Joue (Emily30 for 30% off all products)
OhMiBod bluMotion NEX1 Wearable Panty Vibrator
Lelo Sona 2 Cruise
B-Vibe Triplet
Lelo Hugo Prostate Massager
Playground Lube (SEXWITHEMILY for 15% off 1st order)
Promescent Female Arousal Gel
Fleur Du Mal Sex With Emily Bundle (FLEURWITHEMILY for 10% off all orders)

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Masculinity, Masturbation & Marriage w/ Larry Hagner

Tue, 06 Dec 2022 15:58:38 -0000

It’s the question married men often ask themselves: why is my marriage just OK? How do I get the spark back? And when did our sex life become so mediocre? Life coach and fellow podcaster Larry Hagner has not only worked through these issues himself, but has devoted his life to helping other men become better husbands and fathers. His project the Dad Edge was inspired by both his struggles in parenting and a lack of having a father during his own childhood. On today’s best-of show, Larry breaks down his four pillars of a good marriage (which absolutely includes sex), as well as how to talk to sons about sex, porn and masturbation.

Show Notes:

Sexiest Gift Guide Ever: Emily’s Picks for 2022 Holidays
Vush Destination: Play (SEXWITHEMILY for 40% off Destination: Play)
More Larry Hagner: The Dad Edge | Instagram

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Dating Smarter w/ Dr. Helen Fisher & Dr. Justin Garcia

Fri, 02 Dec 2022 16:08:33 -0000

Dating - for most of us, it's a necessary evil. We fear rejection, don’t know where to look for our people, or simply feel it's a hopeless waste of time. But as my guests on today’s show can attest, the research behind dating may tell a different story. Today, I’m joined by Anthropologist Dr. Helen Fisher and evolutionary biologist Dr. Justin Garcia of the Kinsey Institute. They pulled data from 5,000 American singles ages 18-89 as part of Match’s annual Singles in America survey, and the results are fascinating. People dating more consciously - hookup culture is dead, and singles are prioritizing things like political awareness rather than looks. We’ll unpack their findings and why today’s singles should be more optimistic than ever about finding their match.

Show Notes:

Sexiest Gift Guide Ever: Emily’s Picks for 2022 Holidays
Article: Cold Weather Date Ideas
7 New Ways to Use a Magic Wand
Singles in America Study
More Dr. Helen Fisher: Website
More Dr. Justin Garcia: Kinsey Institute Bio | Instagram | Twitter

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The Sex Lives of College Students

Tue, 29 Nov 2022 15:58:27 -0000

What do you wish you knew about pleasure when you were in college? Maybe it's how to please yourself? Or the signs of sexual incompatibility? Or maybe you just need permission to break up? I answer your questions all about sex in college. From making casual hookups more stimulating, to embracing queerness in heteronormative spaces, to simply finding your people - I give the advice we all wish we could tell our younger selves. I also asked for your hottest college sex stories, and you absolutely understood the assignment. All this and more on today’s best of show.

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Hotline Calls: Why Can’t I Orgasm?

Fri, 25 Nov 2022 15:57:33 -0000

How’s your orgasm lately? Do you wish it was more intense? More frequent? More predictable with a partner? Orgasms don’t have to be a thing of mystery. And that’s why today's call in show is devoted to all things O. First up: she fears a loss of control while climaxing, which derails her arousal altogether. Can she relax and stay present? Next, he’s fit and athletic, with a girlfriend who loves sex. The problem? It takes him a long time to finish – maybe too long. Finally - when you’re with a partner who loves giving you oral, but it’s not exactly getting you off…what gives? I answer these questions and more from our brave live callers.

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Ask and You Shall Receive (Oral)

Tue, 22 Nov 2022 15:55:04 -0000

Getting the sex we want: it’s easier said than done. Sharing your needs with a partner can be difficult and awkward. But what if we feel undeserving of the gift of pleasure all together?

On today’s best-of episode, I’ll answer your questions all about giving and receiving. From trouble with orgasms to insecurities around body parts - how we receive the gift of oral is often where mental blocks around sex begin - and end. Plus, we hear some giving success stories. Because improving our pleasure potential is all about communicating our needs - ask, and you shall receive.

Show Notes:

Sexiest Gift Guide Ever: Emily’s Picks for 2022 Holidays
LELO HUGO (code ‘EMILY’ for 25% off all products)
Article: The Kivin Method
Article: How Do I Go Down on a Vulva?
Article: How Do I Better Enjoy Oral Sex?
Article: How Can I Be More Confident in the Bedroom?

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Love, Lust & Lexapro

Fri, 18 Nov 2022 15:57:01 -0000

Mental health and sexual desire - do you really have to choose between one or the other? While antidepressants like Lexapro can be lifesaving — all too often, they can deflate our sex drive. But conversely - it’s hard to get aroused if your depression goes untreated. Is there any way out of this predicament? On today’s show, I’ll discuss how to overcome this struggle that is more common than you think - as you’ll hear from some of our listeners. From alternative treatments to hacks around timing and dosage, I’ll help you keep pleasure in your life without compromising your mental health.

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Someone Cheated. Now What?

Tue, 15 Nov 2022 15:55:35 -0000

Infidelity - it’s one of the most painful emotional experiences out there. But once the pain heals, it can also create enormous opportunities for growth and self-reflection.

In this episode, I’ll unpack infidelity and all the ways it can play out. It doesn’t always mean the end of a relationship. Sometimes, monogamy just isn’t the right fit. Other times, it means a couple needs to work on deepening intimacy and trust with one other. Whether you’ve been cheated on or you’re the cheater, I’ve got advice to help you work through it to create the love life you want.

Show Notes:

Article: Ask Emily: My Wife Cheated
VUSH (code ‘EMILYBFCM’ for 60% off Empress 2 OR Big O Bundle)
More Tom Goss: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | Website

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Hotline Calls: How to Squirt & Find a Third

Fri, 11 Nov 2022 16:50:52 -0000

We all strive to be lifelong learners - as the world and people around us change, we need to adapt and evolve to keep up. And nowhere else is this more true than our sex lives. Our sexual intelligence can only reach its full potential if we’re open to nurturing its growth. That’s the mission of today’s call-in show. I answer your questions all about picking up new sex skills. From a fun-loving couple who wants to incorporate others into their play but can’t find the right candidates, to a twenty-something who wants to learn how to squirt on her own - these brave callers’ questions offer something for everyone to learn from.

Show Notes:

Article: The Different Kinds of Unconventional Couples
Article: The Guide to a Successful Friends with Benefits Relationship
Article: Ask Emily: How Do We Prepare for a Threesome?
7 New Ways to Use a Magic Wand
Playground
Je Joue (use code ‘Emily30’ for 30% off)
#Open

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Oral Sex Secrets

Tue, 08 Nov 2022 15:57:14 -0000

Got hangups around oral sex? You’re not alone. While oral sex can provide abundant intimacy and pleasure, lots of us struggle with giving – and sometimes, receiving – it.

Today, we’re getting out of our heads and communicating with our partners: two essential steps for mind-blowing oral sex. Love giving oral, but it’s not being reciprocated? Concerned about hygiene issues – either your own, or your partner’s? What if your partner takes a while to orgasm during oral, but your jaw gets tired along the way? From hangups to hygiene - I answer your questions so you can amp up your oral and enhance your pleasure.

Show Notes:

VUSH Destination: Play (code ‘SEXWITHEMILY’ for 40% off)
Article: Ask Emily: Oral Sex for Beginners
Article: How to Give a Better Blowjob
Article: Ask Emily: How Do I Better Enjoy Oral Sex?
Article: Ask Emily: I Hate Giving My Partner Oral Sex

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Sex Toys for Penis Owners

Fri, 04 Nov 2022 21:40:39 -0000

Life is short, so why not add sex toys to your pleasure routine? Vulva owners seem to understand this, but today I’m talking toys for penises. Whether you have one or you want to please one, sex toys offer tons of benefits. Plus, toys are not just for solo play - they can enhance connection (and pleasure) with your partner.

But it can be difficult to know what to look for, how to use them, and why you may need them at all. And that’s why on today’s episode, I’m myth-busting misconceptions and sharing my top products and tips for penile pleasure. From lasting harder and longer, to discovering those pleasure points a hand alone simply can’t reach - if there’s a penis in your life, I’ve got the toy for it.

Show Notes:

Je Joue Mio Vibrating Cock Ring
Magic Wand
Playground (SEXWITHEMILY for 15% off 1st order)
Aneros Helix Trident
Promescent Delay Spray
Article: How Do I Buy My Boyfriend a Sex Toy?
Hot Octopuss Pulse III Solo / Duo
Fleshlight
Tenga
LELO HUGO (EMILY for 25% off all products)
Fun Factory NOS
We-Vibe Verge

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Ask Emily: Oral, Orgasms & Anal

Tue, 01 Nov 2022 14:55:20 -0000

First comes love, then comes anal. Isn’t that how the song goes? On today’s best of show, we’re talking your sexual firsts: your first dating app, oral sex experience, anal play, and so much more. I help you face your fears so you can radically expand your pleasure potential.

Up first: she’s 32 weeks pregnant and wants to keep her partner satisfied – but she’s never given him oral. Where to begin? He wants his wife to experience sex with another woman, so they can have their first threesome. But is she truly into the idea or just going along with it to please him? And last but not least - she’s got a play partner who wants to try anal, but has her reservations regarding pain and hygeine. How do you avoid a messy situation? We will unravel all this and more.

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Your Top Sex Fantasies, Revealed

Fri, 28 Oct 2022 14:56:05 -0000

Sexual fantasies are not only normal, they’re a key component of your sexual health. But why are we attracted to certain fantasies? And is it normal to have certain fantasies, or no fantasies at all?

On this episode, I reveal your top sex fantasies and why you have them. I also divulge your fantasy success stories and questions, from CNC to cuckolding. I give you tips for expanding your erotic imagination.

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How to Have Game: The Dating Show

Tue, 25 Oct 2022 14:55:45 -0000

So what’s the hardest part about dating? Meeting people? Making conversation? Figuring out if there’s enough chemistry? How do you have dates that leave you happy, aligned and energized, rather than defeated and hopeless?

On today’s best-of show, I’m here for your dating dilemmas. He’s new to dating, and nervous to talk to women – I give some talking points. She wants to have sex, but also wants it to be more than casual – I help refine her approach. He’s super honest about being polyamorous, but they think he needs to grow up – I coach him on how to find the right partners, while still being open. Because when it comes to dating, your people are out there – you just have to learn how to look.

Show Notes:

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Sex + Creativity w/ Liz Goldwyn

Fri, 21 Oct 2022 14:57:00 -0000

We’re all looking for better ways to have sex. But what if I told you the thing holding you back is your own beliefs around sex and sexuality? My guest today knows a thing or two about how to realize our own sexual well-being.

Author, filmmaker, and founder of The Sex Ed, Liz is a sexual wellness connoisseur. In her new book Sex, Health & Consciousness, Liz explains how to build a sexual consciousness for a radically happier, healthier life. She’ll help me answer your questions on masturbation, shame, BDSM, and how to rewire the way we think about pleasure.

Show Notes:

7 New Ways to Use a Magic Wand
Pre-Order Liz’s Book: Sex, Health, and Consciousness
More Liz Goldwyn: Website | Instagram | Twitter

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I Love My Partner, But My Coworker Is Hot

Tue, 18 Oct 2022 14:55:10 -0000

Got relationship drama? Don’t we all. On today’s Best of show, I’m helping you navigate choppy relationship waters, to get to the other side safely.

First up: he just divorced, and jumped right into an ultra-serious relationship. Too soon? Next: when you’ve got a massive crush on your coworker, should you divorce your spouse and pursue your colleague instead? And if you’re not so into your partner’s bedroom style, can you teach them to be more dominant? All this and more on a particularly juicy Best Of show.

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The Lube Show: The Wetter, the Better

Fri, 14 Oct 2022 14:55:12 -0000

If you know me, you know that my dream is to have a bottle of lube on every nightstand. But why? Enhanced pleasure is one reason. And on this episode, I’ll give you several more.

Think of this as your consumer reports on lube: I’m answering all of your lube inquiries, giving you the low-down on key ingredients, and helping you reach for the right lube at the right time. I’m also breaking down the science behind lube’s benefits, and walking you through the best options for every type of sexual occasion.

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Just the Tip(s): How to Please a Penis

Tue, 11 Oct 2022 14:55:00 -0000

When it comes to penis parts, do you know which ones are rich with nerve endings? Which areas need a gentle touch? And which can handle more force? On today’s Best of show, I’ll give you tips for penile pleasure from head to shaft, perineum to prostate.

We also take your listener questions: when you’re in a long term relationship, who should initiate sex? If you’re not turned on by your partner of nearly a decade, what’s next? And when you’ve been masturbating for years, but discovered your entire family could hear you…how do you deal? We’ll cover all this and more.

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Hotline Calls: Should You Break Up?

Fri, 07 Oct 2022 14:55:00 -0000

And if you want your questions answered on the next Hotline Call show, please reach out! You can leave messages online at sexwithemily.com/ask-emily or by calling 559-TALK-SEX (825-5739). Just leave your name, age, where you live and how you listen to the show! (You can always change your name or choose to remain anonymous.)

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Squirting Is My Love Language (& Other Ways To Play)

Tue, 04 Oct 2022 14:56:17 -0000

So you want to try a new kink? Well, you’ve come to the right podcast. On today’s Best Of show, I answer your questions and help open your mind (and body) to all things kink and BDSM - from squirting to nipple-gasms. Pushing ourselves outside our comfort zone can lead to enhanced intimacy and heightened pleasure. All you need are the right tools, compassionate communication, patience and plenty of lube.

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Are You Quiet Quitting Your Relationship?

Fri, 30 Sep 2022 14:55:09 -0000

Quiet quitting: the act of leaving without leaving. At a job, it’s refusing to stay late, not seeking out extra projects, and only doing exactly what your role requires. Critics call it lack of inspiration or hustle – but proponents say it’s simply setting boundaries.

But can quiet quitting apply to our relationships? I’ll explain the signs to look out for and how to initiate the hard conversations you may need to have with your partner. If we can put aside our inner people pleaser, we can avoid long term resentment and articulate our needs.

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Real Men Do Kegels (And Other Tips for Edging)

Tue, 27 Sep 2022 15:00:28 -0000

Let’s train our orgasm muscle: the pelvic floor. We all have one. And like our other muscles, strengthening it can yield physical benefits. In this case, a more explosive orgasm.

On today’s show I put the spotlight on edging – a sex technique for more intense orgasms – and give you a slew of additional tips for maximizing your pleasure. Penis owners, do you use toys yet? Because I’ve got killer recommendations for you. People in relationships, ever been cheated on? I help one caller move through the process. Stuck in the friendzone? Through direct communication, we can all escape platonic purgatory.

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All Bi Myself: Jen Winston on Bisexuality

Fri, 23 Sep 2022 15:00:31 -0000

How do you know if you’re bisexual? In honor of Bisexuality Visibility Day, author Jen Winston helps me answer just that. In her book Greedy: Notes From a Bisexual Who Wants Too Much, Jen reveals how she came to terms with her bisexuality, in a world that loves to slap stereotypes on it: greedy, slutty, and constantly confused.

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Manifest Your Partner (It Worked For Me)

Tue, 20 Sep 2022 18:54:00 -0000

Let’s manifest our dream partners and our best sex. Because listen: if our romantic lives aren’t aligned with the people we actually are, we have an opportunity to change that.

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My Orgasm Has Left The Building

Fri, 16 Sep 2022 19:00:24 -0000

Do you fake orgasms? Be honest. Whether we feel pressured to end the sexual experience, or simply don’t know how to orgasm with a partner, faking it is common for every gender and orientation.

So on today’s episode, we discuss how to hold out for the real thing while also restoring your sex life. What do you do when it’s not just your orgasm that’s gone missing, but your entire sex life? Or how about when it's physical pain holding you back from having more pleasure? I’ll help callers with these questions and others as we embark on a mission to get you back to orgasming and back to a more pleasurable sex life.

Show Notes:

How Do I Tell My Partner I've Been Faking Orgasms?

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Your Sex Language w/ Dr. Jen Freed

Tue, 13 Sep 2022 19:03:59 -0000

What’s your sex language? We all have one. And once we’re fluent in the four types, we can expand our repertoire to more effectively please our partner – and advocate for what we want.

In today’s episode, we will explore just that with psychologist and astrologer Jen Freed. Her forthcoming book “A Map to Your Soul: Using the Astrology of Fire, Earth, Air, and Water to Live Deeply and Fully” explains how these elements relate to the type of sex we want and how to create an erotic field with our partner. Dr. Freed offers a formula for alchemizing amazing sex by combining the principles of psychology and astrology, along with curious communication.

Show Notes:

Is Casual Sex Right For You?
Pre-order A Map to Your Soul
More Jen Freed: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | Website

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How to Relationship Better w/ John Kim & Vanessa Bennett

Fri, 09 Sep 2022 19:00:20 -0000

Dating as an adult is exhausting. While experience comes with age, actually applying that experience is easier said than done…even for professionals.

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More John Kim: Instagram | Twitter | Website
More Vanessa Bennett: Instagram | Website | Podcast
Pegging 101: How to try strap-on Sex

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Big Pegging Energy

Tue, 06 Sep 2022 19:25:57 -0000

To peg, or not to peg? That’s the question we’re going to push into today… and yes, pun intended. Pegging, which typically involves a penis owner being penetrated through the use of a strap-on dildo by a vulva owner, seems to be more popular than ever.

But arguably more than other forms of pleasure, strap on sex challenges the way we think about masculinity, femininity and heteronormative pleasure. Role reversal and anal play require a great deal of trust, empathy and vulnerability. But if partners can work through these challenges, the payoff can be immense. And that’s why on today’s episode, I want to explore not just the steps partners should take to responsibly explore strap on intercourse, but also how the benefits can go way beyond the bedroom.

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Bolder Self, Better Sex

Fri, 02 Sep 2022 19:00:15 -0000

How can you be bold in the bedroom? I’ve got the boldness queen herself, Jen Cohen of the “Habits & Hustle” podcast, to tell us how to design the life you actually want — including, of course, your sex life.

Jen explains the 10% Target Mindset, the difference between what you want and what you need when it comes to sexual partners, how to build better intimacy habits, and how to normalize failure so that you take more risks. That’s where boldness comes in: to identify what you want, and be brave enough to work for it.

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Alternative Relationships w/ Nico Tortorella + Jason Ellis

Wed, 31 Aug 2022 04:16:25 -0000

Have you ever wondered what it would be like to have a sexually fluid relationship? As in, you and your partner discuss bisexuality openly…either yours, theirs, or both? What about having multiple partners? Or trying a threesome together? Are these possibilities you’d consider, or are you like: NO THANK U, NEXT!

Well on today’s best-of show, I’ve got two individuals who can tell you exactly what it’s like to be in a successful, alternative relationship. First you’ll hear from actor/model Nico Tortorella on navigating bisexuality, how sex changed once they got sober, and what it’s like for them to fall for someone outside of their primary partnership.

Next, you’ll hear from MMA fighter, fellow podcaster and Aussie fan fave Jason Ellis on how he and his fiance (now wife) conduct a radically open relationship, why he’s thrilled for another man to give her sexual pleasure, and his best recommendations for your first threesome. Come for the open minds, stay for the sex tips.

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Conscious, Casual Sex

Fri, 26 Aug 2022 22:43:59 -0000

Casual sex gets a bad rap. We associate it with hookup culture, with disposability, with mindless Tinder swipes. But it doesn’t have to be that way: when approached with an intentional, conscious mindset, casual sex can be exactly what you need to feel erotic and energized again. The key? Knowing yourself – and knowing precisely what you want to get out of your casual sex experience.

On today’s show, I parse out all the different types of casual sex out there, and offer some research that may surprise you. Next, I discuss how you know if casual sex is right for you, and when it’s best to say, “no thank you.” Finally, I coach you on how to make your casual sex encounters fulfilling, with maturity, self-awareness, and of course – an orgasm or two. Or ten.

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3 Ways to Boost Your Sexual Confidence

Tue, 23 Aug 2022 21:44:33 -0000

What’s holding you back in bed? We’ve all got our pain points: body image, not being able to tell your partner what you want, feeling embarrassed to make noise or express yourself. But I asked you how you overcame sexual insecurities, and you came back with SOLID advice. So on today’s show, along with my advice, we’re spreading the sexual confidence gospel using tips from the Sex With Emily community.

First, we get into body image: how to hack your brain to feel more comfortable in your skin. Next, I talk about my favorite subject: communicating with your partner, to create a culture of sex positivity. Finally, I’ve got a particularly juicy tip to help you let go in bed and express yourself without inhibition — to hear it, just take a listen to this episode.

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How to Build a Sex Room w/ Melanie Rose

Fri, 19 Aug 2022 23:02:13 -0000

If you build a sex room, they will come. That’s the idea behind the new Netflix show “How to Build a Sex Room,” and on today’s episode I’ve got designer Melanie Rose here with me to discuss her real-life erotic renovations.

Show Notes:

For More Melanie Rose: Netflix show | Instagram | Website | Pinterest
Where is The Clitoris?
Liberator Throw Blanket

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Boss in the Streets, Sub in the Sheets

Tue, 16 Aug 2022 22:06:53 -0000

Let’s get sexually adventurous, people. On today’s hotline calls show, you’re bringing the novelty, and I am one hundred percent here for it.

Jumping right in: can you use the same sex toy with multiple partners? Let’s find out. If you’re in your 20s and hooking up with a much older woman, is that ok? Or what if you’re all about female empowerment, except you ARE a female, and you DO want to be choked and spanked in bed? Finally: there’s a first time for everything, so should you tell a partner that you’ve never had penetration before? Or what if you’re married, and ready to experience your first open relationship – except your spouse isn’t on-board? All this and more on a particularly juicy hotline calls show.

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Live, Laugh, Stop Being Codependent w/ Adam Ferrara

Fri, 12 Aug 2022 23:16:53 -0000

Gotta love relationship advice delivered in a thick New York accent. I’ve got Adam Ferrara on the show today, and we’re healing your emotional triggers so you can have thriving interpersonal connections. Capiche?

Adam and I talk meditation and breathwork for anxiety, the difference between responding and reacting to your partner, how to cultivate a felt sense of your emotions, and the difference between worry and responsibility. As a self-described co-dependent, Catholic Italian, Adam is as real as it gets about getting vulnerable and doing self-work, so you can experience better love, sex, and communication. We also help a caller in her 20s get more selfish in the bedroom – because when it comes to sex, selfishness can be a real virtue.

Show Notes:

More Adam Ferrara: Youtube Comedy Special | Website | Instagram | Twitter | Podcast

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It’s Open (Relationship) Season w/ Dr. Wednesday Martin

Tue, 09 Aug 2022 23:48:27 -0000

Let’s talk about non-monogamy! In the nearly two decades since I’ve been doing the show, I’ve never gotten so much interest in this topic as I am right now. Which is why I’m joined today by cultural anthropologist Dr. Wednesday Martin, who in addition to researching non-monogamy for her books and articles, has first-hand experience opening up her own marriage.

On today’s episode, Wednesday reveals what modern sex research shows about female sexuality and long-term, monogamous relationships: a woman’s desire typically wanes between year 1 to 4. In addition, Wednesday and I discuss the difference between non-monogamy, swinging and polyamory, how to go about finding a partner outside of your primary relationship, how to set rules, and the surprising ways opening up improved her own partnership.

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All About Anal

Fri, 05 Aug 2022 22:03:44 -0000

Have you ever tried anal play? Anal sex? Because if not, here’s my question to you…what’s holding you back?

For most folks, the answer is fear. We’re scared it will hurt, scared that we don’t know what we’re doing, scared we’ll feel ashamed if we just so happen to love it. That’s why I’ve got two of the anal pleasure experts on the show today, to help demystify and destigmatize anal play, and help you open up yet another pathway to pleasure. Dr. Evan Goldstein and Alicia Sinclair talk to me about anal orgasms (not a myth), the importance of anal training, how to prepare hygienically, and how to strengthen the mind-booty connection for a successful, erotic anal experience.

Show Notes:

Anal Play: A Beginner's Guide OR Prostate Play 101
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More B-vibe: Website | Instagram

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Babe, Let’s Talk About Our Sex Life

Wed, 03 Aug 2022 00:26:00 -0000

If you’ve never talked about your sex life with your partner before, there’s a good chance they’ll push back. Why? Because most of us go into fight or flight mode when talking about sex: it’s not normalized in our culture, we get defensive, we feel like we’re being criticized. But never fear – you can create a culture of sex communication in your relationship, one talk at a time. Be the change, is what I’m saying.

On today’s hotline show, I take your calls about having a sex talk. Like: telling your wife you want her to massage your prostate. Or telling a partner you want your vanilla sex to be a little spicier. How to relax into oral and give your partner tips to make you scream, and how to tell your partner: “you know what? I need to be seduced a little before we jump into penetration.” If we can talk about sex like we talk about dinner, everyone wins! So take a listen to this episode, and see if your next sex talk isn’t a little bit easier.

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Break Your Bad Dating Habits

Fri, 29 Jul 2022 17:47:38 -0000

Do you always have sex on the the first date? Do you always swipe right on people who aren’t good for you? What are your bad dating habits – and how can you break them?

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Ejaculate Responsibly w/ Gabrielle Blair

Tue, 26 Jul 2022 20:38:55 -0000

When it comes to sex, why was the world set up so that vulva owners are the ones in charge of preventing a pregnancy? That’s the central question of a Twitter thread that went viral in 2018, and on today’s show I’ve got Gabrielle Stanley Blair, the author of that thread – and a forthcoming book, Ejaculate Responsibly – here to talk about it. I’m also joined by anthropologist, author, and my dear friend Dr. Wednesday Martin, to unpack this fascinating topic.

In a post-Roe world, Gabrielle is calling for a wholesale shift in the way we think about pregnancy prevention: namely, by inviting penis owners and their bodies into the conversation. On today’s show, we talk condoms and sexual pleasure, how society pressures vulva owners to become mothers, how to talk to young men about ejaculating responsibly, why MORE sex ed leads to LESS unwanted pregnancies, and why Gabrielle – mother of six and a Mormon – is passionate about arguing that women’s lives matter, and so does their pleasure.

One more thing: Can pre-ejaculate, or pre-cum, cause unwanted pregnancy? Pre-ejaculate actually does NOT contain sperm. However, any sperm remaining in the urethra from a previous ejaculation may be carried out with pre-cum which would have a chance of causing a pregnancy.

The solution? Urinate before having sex to flush out any leftover sperm, and, as always, wear a condom!

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Show Notes:

More Gabrielle Blair: Instagram | Twitter | Website
Gabrielle’s Viral Twitter Thread
More information about her forthcoming book: Ejaculate Responsibly
More Dr Wednesday Martin: Instagram | Twitter | Website
The Secret to Better Sex? Talking About It

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Talkin’ Sex w/ My Therapist Dr Anadel Barbour

Fri, 22 Jul 2022 17:37:44 -0000

Anxiety, depression and low self-worth all block our sexual pleasure. But on a more fundamental level, they block us from showing up in the world the way we’d like: as confident, happy, sexy people. That’s why I invited my own therapist, Dr. Anadel Barbour, to talk to us through healing those intrusive thoughts. If you’re ready, your internal work starts today.

On this best-of episode, Dr. Barbour and I discuss EMDR therapy, the four foundations of mindfulness, how to physically move through trauma, healing shame, and how to know if you’re in constant fight or flight. We also touch on sex and pain, and mindfulness in and out of the bedroom. If you’ve ever considered therapy but are on the fence about it, I hope this episode gives you some encouragement – because healing emotional wounds can truly transform your sex life.

Show Notes:

More Dr Anadel Barbour: Website | Instagram | Twitter
Sex In Sobriety by Dr Anadel Barbour
More About EMDR Therapy
Overcoming 4 Common Sex Fears

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Honeymoon Sex 4ever

Tue, 19 Jul 2022 18:27:21 -0000

Ah, weddings. So ceremonial. So floral. After two years of postponements and cancellations, IRL weddings are back – but are all those newlyweds talking about their sex life? They probably should be!

Married sex is full of tired, toxic cliches that I’m personally ready to bust. We don’t have to settle for absent or boring sex as we grow old together. So on today’s episode, I’m making the case for writing your sex vows before you walk down the aisle, helping you recreate honeymoon sex if you’ve been married for ages, and giving you a lay of the land culturally-speaking on how we’re thinking about sex and relationships now. Plus, I take your questions: how to navigate bisexuality in a straight marriage, what it means if you find yourself jealous at your friend’s weddings and how to bring back the spark…when the spark was a little dim in the first place.

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Best of: No Shame, Just Sex w/ Erin Tillman

Fri, 15 Jul 2022 18:13:00 -0000

What cultural or religious programming do you have around sex? Even if you didn’t grow up in a church, sexual shame is – in so many ways – the air we breathe. But here’s the reality: you didn’t put those thoughts there. Someone else did. And on today’s show with guest Erin Tillman, we’re calling out those judgmental messages, and choosing the sex messaging that actually serves us. The result? A radically more authentic, more liberated sex life.

As an inclusive dating coach, Erin is no stranger to shame – and she’s heard it all from her clients. Whether it was that one rude thing a partner said that haunted you for years, or a parent that told you masturbation was dirty, shame love to hide in the shadows…and hold you back in the bedroom. So on today’s show, Erin and I talk about how we healed our own sexual shame, dropped performative sex, and got comfortable with the word “no.” You’ll also learn the difference between “no” and “not yet” when it comes to dating, how to make good choices on dating apps, and how to flip your internal shame script.

Show Notes:

More Erin Tillman Website | Twitter | Instagram
Yes No Maybe List

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Orgasms & Oral (No Penetration Required)

Tue, 12 Jul 2022 18:21:46 -0000

It’s a good time to expand our definition of sex. At the end of the day, sex is play for adults: it’s where we collaborate with another person, creating a momentary world of pleasure and eroticism with them. But so often, we assume that sex equals penetration, and here’s the problem with that: not everyone orgasms during penetration. Not everyone feels erotic during penetration! So let’s make sex more interesting and exploratory, shall we?

On today’s show, I’m talking up all the different types of non-penetrative sex – like mutual masturbation, sensual massage, toys, hand stuff – to help you break out of a conventional sex script, and have sex that’s more tailored to your personality and desires. Because you never have to take penetration off the table entirely…but what would happen if you took it off the table for a little while? (Hint: probably more orgasms.)

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Best of: Curious Questions to Ask Your Partner w/ Jamye Waxman

Fri, 08 Jul 2022 22:43:21 -0000

How much do you know about your partner’s sexual language? Or your own sexual language? In this best of episode, sex educator, author and licensed therapist Jamye Waxman is here to talk about core erotic blueprints, sexual accelerators and brakes, and the sixth love language: space and freedom.

Jamye and I talk through the communication skills you need to help your sexual connection thrive, because if resentment is the relationship killer…curiosity is the relationship healer. So in this show, you’ll learn how to turn your communication style from critical to curious, as you and your partner learn who you both are as erotic beings.

Show Notes:

For More Jamye Waxman: Website | Instagram | Twitter | Facebook
The Secrets to Better Sex? Talk About It
More About Your Erotic Blueprint
Come As You Are: The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life

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More Sex, Less Narcissism w/ Jenny Mollen

Wed, 06 Jul 2022 01:13:03 -0000

Jenny and I met years ago, and I know you’ll love her just as much as I do. Besides being a bestselling author, she’s also an actor, host of the hilarious “Third Wheel with Jenny Mollen” podcast, a mom, and wife to actor Jason Biggs. On this episode, she talks about the personal experiences with social media that inspired her book, why she wants to see a sex therapist, and helps me answer your sex and relationship questions. For example, if you’re in a relationship, is it ok to comment on someone else’s Instagram telling them how attractive they are? Jenny and I give it to you straight.

Show Notes:

For More Jenny Mollen: Podcast | Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | Website
Her New Book: City of Likes
Overcoming 4 Common Sex Fears
Am I Dating a Narcissist? W/ Dr Ramani

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Getting Over Your Sexual Fears

Fri, 01 Jul 2022 19:52:41 -0000

It’s my strong belief that pleasure is the antidote to fear, now and always. But when it comes to sex, we really can be our own worst enemies: what if my new partner sees me naked, and decides to jet? What if I try out some dirty talk, and my partner laughs at me? What if I approach someone cute…and they say ‘no thank you’?

Fear can be crippling to our sex drive – but it can also be digested and processed. To do that, we can check the facts, we can remember that most things aren’t personal, and we can talk about our fears out loud. (Meditation helps too!) So on today’s best of episode, I’m talking to you all about YOUR sex fears: period sex, sharing a fetish with a new partner, old traumas, fear that you’ll never get over an ex, and much more to help you live YOUR most free, sexually healthy life.

Show Notes:

The Secret to Better Sex? Talking About It

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Sex & Loving Your Body w/ Shaun T

Tue, 28 Jun 2022 19:00:04 -0000

Shaun T is host of the podcast “Trust and Believe,” a world renowned fitness trainer, and a professional dancer. Not to mention a wonderfully sex positive man, but it was a journey – I repeat, a JOURNEY – to get there.

On today’s show, Shaun T gives me his genius sex and arousal hacks, how he and his partner keep things interesting after 12 years and two kids, plus…his favorite kink. He also opens up about surviving childhood sexual assault, how he came to understand and accept his sexuality, and the trauma work he did to get to where he is today. Trust me: if you need an instant pick-me-up around your sex, sexuality, or your body, this is *the* conversation for you.

Show Notes:

More Shaun T: Podcast | Instagram | Website | Twitter | Youtube
What’s Your Arousal Type?
These Are the Five Arousal Styles. Which One Are You?

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Best of: Orgasms & Hotline Calls

Fri, 24 Jun 2022 20:07:00 -0000

Despite their reputation as magical, mysterious events, orgasms are way more accessible than most of us realize, once we understand the science behind them. (And OK yeah, I admit – they’re pretty magical.)

As everyone’s favorite muscle spasm, the orgasm is a series of contractions from your pelvic floor muscles, which all of us have, and all of us can strengthen. But what else sets you up for orgasmic success? What if you can experience one alone, but not with a partner? What if you can orgasm in your sleep, but not in waking life? And what if you want to experience different kinds of orgasm (like anal) or, want multiples? I say: be greedy with your orgasm and listen to this best of episode, where we answer all these O questions and more.

Show Notes:

6 Kink Styles (& How to Explore Them)

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What’s Your Arousal Type?

Wed, 22 Jun 2022 00:48:10 -0000

What do you need to get in the mood for sex? Have a lively conversation? Be touched in a suggestive way? Put on something sexy…or, have your partner get dressed up for you?

Today’s episode is all about arousal styles, and today, I’ll be looking at five. The science of sexual arousal is ever-evolving, but on this show I’m looking at some of the most common ways people get turned on (through conversation, visuals, touch, play or physical adventure), helping you ID what your style is, and what behaviors you can do in the moment to get it going. Kind of like love languages, but for sex. I’m also talking about the difference between arousal and desire, and, taking your questions! How to have sex when you’re stressed, anti-depressants numbing out your vulva, and if it’s OK to be more excited for masturbation than partnered sex.

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Best of: How to Initiate Sex

Fri, 17 Jun 2022 22:23:18 -0000

It’s one of the most common questions I get: how do I initiate sex the right way?

Listen: there’s no one “right” way to initiate sex. But I’ll be honest, it might take a little warm up period to get everyone ready and on the same page. That’s because sex is just as much a head game as a body one, so in this episode, we’re helping you calm your nerves before initiation, recover from failed initiations, and walk into each sexual encounter with more confidence. At the end of the day, we all crave intimacy, and we all want to please our partners – and by the end of this episode, I think you’ll feel much more clear on how to arouse your partner.

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You’re Kinkier Than You Think, Part 2

Wed, 15 Jun 2022 00:49:19 -0000

What does it mean exactly, when someone says they’re a voyeur? A sub? A cuckhold or an exhibitionist? It’s part 2 of our “You’re Kinkier Than You Think” series…and folks, we are getting a kinky education.

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Summer Sex Vibes

Fri, 10 Jun 2022 21:33:48 -0000

What would the world be like if we didn’t have shame about sex? Can you imagine how different your life would be, if you were told that sexual pleasure was healthy? If you were given the memo early on that masturbation was legit self-care, and that sex itself was joyful and good for you, rather than a one-way ticket to STI’s and unwanted pregnancy?

Today’s best-of show is all about being the change we want to see in the world: becoming people who are conversant and comfortable discussing sex, because this is how we evolve people. Plus, I take your calls! Why using toys during sex is the literal best, what the hell a “lube shooter” is, and how to lovingly - persuasively - ask your partner for more oral.

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You’re Kinkier Than You Think, Part 1

Tue, 07 Jun 2022 23:00:06 -0000

When you hear the words “BDSM” and “kink,” what comes to mind? Leather? Whips? The truth is, all of us are a little kinky – you may just not have realized it yet. That’s why today’s episode is part 1 of a two-part BDSM and kink education series, where I help demystify this world and give you fun, safe options for exploring. Dungeons optional.

First, we’re defining our terms and getting a grasp on kink and BDSM – including, what the hell “BDSM” actually means. Next, we’re taking a look at core desires to help you identify yours, and talking about the psychology of power and play. Finally, I’m giving you some entry-level ways to bring kink to the bedroom, whether you’re coupled or single…and, answering all of your kinky questions.

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Penis Problems, Solved

Fri, 03 Jun 2022 20:10:06 -0000

Whether it’s erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation or a slight penis curve, it’s common to have penis questions – especially when they’re affecting your sex life. But where do you go for answers? You come right here, to this informative convo between me and urologist Dr. Edward Karpman, as well as Jeff Abraham of Promescent.

On this best-of show, we’re talking to you all about penis shockwave therapy, what to do when you can get erect (but aren’t climaxing), what to do when you take ED meds (but aren’t getting hard), and much more. Plus, I take your intimacy questions! How to get out of your head during sex, how to reduce anxiety in the run-up to intercourse, and how to effectively work with your penis as you get older.

Show Notes:

Missionary Sex Position - New and Improved

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How to Talk To Teens About Sex

Tue, 31 May 2022 19:27:22 -0000

If you’re a parent or caregiver, should you talk to your child about masturbation? Yes. You absolutely should, even if it’s awkward, even if your own parents didn’t talk about it with you. (And let’s be real: they probably didn’t.) But I get it – finding the words can be hard, especially for such a touchy subject. That’s why today’s episode is devoted entirely to giving you tools, scripts and resources to help you.

First, I give you the big why: Why should you talk to your children, and teens specifically, about masturbation? I’ll give you several science-backed reasons why it’s wise to do so. Next, we’ll do some masturbation myth-busting, to help alleviate any concerns, on their part or yours, that it’s harmful or unhealthy. Great news: it’s not! And finally, I’ll walk you through how to have this conversation, with specific verbiage you can use to help put yourself and your child at ease. Don’t worry caregivers: I got you, and in this episode I’ll also answer your questions about teens and sex. Should you talk to your teen about ethical porn? What should you do if a teen daughter starts asking about sex toys? All this and more on today’s show.

Show Notes:

Sex Positive Families: Website | Instagram
Dr Lanae St John: Book | On Sex with Emily
Shafia Zaloom: Book | On Sex with Emily
Cory Silverberg: Website
What should I teach my high school-aged teen about sex and sexuality?
Masturbation Pro Tips (Part 1)
Masturbation Pro Tips (Part 2)
The Communication Guide
Big Mouth
Sex Education
Good Vibrations

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Become a Wordslut w/ Amanda Montell

Fri, 27 May 2022 18:27:13 -0000

On any given day, how do you talk about sex? Do you bone? Screw? Make love? According to my guest Amanda Montell, author of Wordslut, Cultish, and host of the podcast “Sounds Like a Cult,” the words we use to discuss sex reveals our attitudes about sex as a whole – even shaping the way we show up in the bedroom.

In this fascinating best of episode, Amanda and I talk about sex slang and body part euphemisms, like the fact that we frequently cute-ify female genitals to make them less threatening. But before you go, “oh this is thinky academic stuff,” know this: practically-speaking, your sex life WILL improve as your communication improves. Listen in, as Amanda and I play with language to get the sex we want.

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Masturbation Pro Tips (Part 2)

Wed, 25 May 2022 01:47:53 -0000

How exactly does masturbation help a sexual partnership? Let me count the ways…

It’s Part 2 of our Masturbation Pro Tips series, and in today’s episode, we’re talking solo sex in the context of a relationship. I’m addressing some of the most common questions I get on the subject, such as: “if I already have a partner, why masturbate?” and: “if I masturbate in private, is it cheating?” We also discuss whether or not you should tell your partner if you masturbate, and touch briefly on porn addiction: starting with, is it real? Plus, I take your questions! How to set up your own “masturbation zone” when you live with a partner, whether it’s possible to have fantasy-free masturbation sessions, what to do if you can orgasm on your own but not with a partner, and much more.

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Make Missionary Sex Hot

Fri, 20 May 2022 19:52:26 -0000

Missionary gets a bad rap. I’ve seen it called the “comfy sweater” of sex – and can we talk about the name? Not sexy. Almost…anti-sexy. But despite its label, I don’t think that’s why missionary is considered vanilla or boring. It’s simply the default position, the one a lot of us fall into automatically – making it easier for us to tune out, phone it in, and miss out on any potential eroticism.

So on today’s episode, we’re going to make missionary more exploratory, as I address some of your common complaints. Such as: how do we make it more exciting? I’ll tell you all the reasons I love missionary, and give you technique tips to make it more surprising and fun. Next, vulva owners: are you having a hard time reaching orgasm in missionary? Of course you are: it’s not the prime position for clitoral stimulation, so I’ll offer position hacks that make it more pleasurable. Finally, is it possible to be kinky during missionary? Oh yeah: from bondage to dirty talk, we can leverage all that eye contact to turn it into the hot experience you crave.

Show Notes:

Missionary Sex Position - New and Improved

The “Bottom” Line On Anal w/ Dr Evan Goldstein

Pillo by Dame

Position Breakdown: Doggy Style Vs Cat Position

Magic Wand Mini

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Radical Confidence is Sexy w/ Lisa Bilyeu

Tue, 17 May 2022 23:38:32 -0000

In her new book Radical Confidence, Lisa shares the lessons that changed her life, and helped her become the hero of her own story. On today’s show, I ask her about keeping the sexual spark alive in a longterm relationship, the “purgatory of the mundane,” and how to have a growth mindset with your partner.

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The Truth about Sex Addiction w/ Marnie Breecker

Fri, 13 May 2022 21:15:07 -0000

So listen: is sex addiction real? We’ve all heard stories of infidelity followed by explanations of sex addiction as the reason for the behavior. But the truth is, just because someone cheats doesn’t mean they’re a sex addict.

According to therapist Marnie Breecker from the Center for Relational Healing, sex addiction is indeed real: it’s an intimacy disorder with both emotional and physiological symptoms. On this best of show, Marnie and I talk about the common and compulsive behaviors of sex addiction, the deep human need for love and connection, affordable treatment options, love addiction, a how-to on IMAGO therapy (a great tool for communication) and healing steps for couples.

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Sex Addicts Anonymous

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Masturbation Pro Tips (Part 1)

Tue, 10 May 2022 23:02:52 -0000

Did you know that masturbation helps you sleep better? Tones your pelvic floor? And – surprise – boosts your immunity? But let’s be honest: these aren’t exactly the main reasons people masturbate. You masturbate because it’s pleasurable, but as the OG form of self-care, masturbation delivers all kinds of benefits, physically and psychologically.

That’s why today’s show kicks off a two-part masturbation series, and later in the month, we’ll look at how masturbation benefits a partnership. On today’s episode however, it’s all about YOU: common masturbation fantasies, how to mix up a stale masturbation routine, how to make your solo sex more erotic, and how to practice mindful masturbation. Plus, I take your questions! Can a vibrator desensitize your clitoris? All this and more on Part 1 of our Masturbation Pro Tips Series.

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Sex Hacks for Moms w/ Dana Myers

Fri, 06 May 2022 19:30:27 -0000

There’s a misconception out there, that once women become moms, their sexiest years are OVER. But as my guest Dana Myers explains, that’s nonsense – and as a mom, she can prove it.

Dana is the founder of sex and beauty brand Booty Parlor, but she’s also a wife and mother to two children. On today’s throwback show, she shares secrets from her book “The Mommy Mojo Makeover” to help women rediscover their sensual self-confidence, fall back in love with their bodies, and masturbate for self-care. We also talk about resentment in a relationship (and how to fix it), and why mothers deserve a sense of sexual entitlement. Yes moms: you deserve sexual pleasure! If you want more of it – or know a mom who might – this is a can’t miss conversation.

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Sex Fantasies Turned Sex Realities

Tue, 03 May 2022 20:00:27 -0000

If I’ve said it once, I’ve said it a million times: communication is a lubrication. But today I’ve got the receipts: previous callers who took my communication advice called back, to give us a status report!

On today’s best of show, I’m letting you listen in on my callers’ sex lives after they took the brave but vulnerable step of talking to their partners. We’ve got a longtime married couple, with a husband who wants more kink in bed; a success story of treating vaginal pain; a newlywed who brought BACK the spark with his man after incorporating role play, and a mom who never had any sex guidance growing up…and is now doing things radically different with her teen daughter. All of them are living proof that better sex starts with communication, so listen now, get inspired, and let their sex-cess motivate you to have a sex talk of your own.

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Best of: Audio Porn w/ Caroline Spiegel

Fri, 29 Apr 2022 21:38:41 -0000

Audio porn is one of the most brilliant sex tech innovations of the past few years. It’s immersive, discreet, and super intimate – you literally feel like you’re in the room with people who are having sex. Plus…it’s a great way to ratchet up your own dirty talk or your masturbation routine.

So on today’s best of episode, I’m sharing my conversation with Caroline Spiegel, creator of Quinn: an audio erotica app that was one of the first to market. We talk about audio porn and solo sex, how to use audio erotica with a partner, and a special bonus! Caroline and I listen to some audio erotica together, including a guided masturbation clip. Plus, we take your questions like, enjoying porn as a blind individual, how to embrace a naturally sexy voice, and – wild card – can you really be allergic to semen? Find out on today’s show.

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Website | Apple App Store | Android App Store | Instagram | Twitter

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Therapy: The Relationship Game-Changer

Wed, 27 Apr 2022 00:02:22 -0000

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Hottest Hotline Calls

Fri, 22 Apr 2022 22:01:28 -0000

When you’re desperate to fix your sex life with your partner, what do you do? (You call me, of course.) Maybe the sex started hot, but got real boring. Or maybe you and your crush are finally hooking up…but the sex is meh, and it’s a huge letdown. What now?

On today’s Best Of hotline show, I’m sharing some of my favorite listener questions and letting you listen in as we talk through solutions. We’ve got sex-stonewalling partners. Compersion vs. cuckholding. A self-described “lazy lover.” Bisexuality, plus a squirting tutorial. Trust me, if you’ve got the right communication skills, you can talk through anything: and on this episode, I help you make those sex talks way less gnarly.

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Sex and the Senses

Wed, 20 Apr 2022 02:22:00 -0000

When it comes to sex, a lot of us have a movie in our head about the way it “should” go down. I should look a certain way. They should kiss me a certain way. We should have epic orgasms. In other words, picture perfect...

But here’s the real real: you’re going to orgasm way easier – and more intensely – if you can get out of your head, and into your body. So on today’s show, I’m helping you have fully embodied sex using your five senses. Together we can remove the mental blocks from orgasm. If you're not turned on or inspired to have sex, these are sensory tools you can use to seduce yourself or your partner…and feel all the electric sensations leading up to the big O. Plus, I take your questions: how to talk dirty without swearing, how to bring back an MIA orgasm, how to stop disassociating during sex and much more.

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Best Of: Boundaries Are Hot W/ Dr. Jennifer Freed

Fri, 15 Apr 2022 17:35:53 -0000

To create our hottest, most fulfilling sex life, there’s one critical thing we need – and no, it’s not flavored lube. We need boundaries, and the ability to express them to others.

But what is a “boundary,” exactly? As a buzzword and an emerging concept, boundaries can improve every relationship, sexual or otherwise. So on today’s best-of show, sex therapist, author and my dear friend Dr. Jennifer Freed and I help you figure out what your boundaries are, how to set them with others (and follow through), and how to NOT let people steamroll over your values…especially when you’re a people pleaser.

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Best of: Coming Together w/ Celeste and Danielle

Wed, 13 Apr 2022 01:18:09 -0000

What do you actually want to feel during sex? On today’s best-of episode, my friends Celeste Hirshman & Danielle Harel, co-authors of Coming Together: Embracing Your Core Desires for Sexual Fulfillment and Long-Term Compatibility, help reveal your core desires – your personal, psychological motivation for having sex, and how to get that feeling in the moment.

Celeste, Danielle and I talk about how sex can be a medicine for old wounds we felt growing up: whether you want to feel powerful, special, even degraded in bed – it all goes back to our personal history, and what we’re looking for when we have sex. We also talk about creating your hottest sexual movie, how to perform sexual breathing, and why – if you want sex to last in a long-term relationship – you really have to do this core desire work. It’s a can’t miss episode of sexual wisdom, whether you’re single, partnered, or simply want to know what gets you hot.

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Intimacy & Infidelity

Sat, 09 Apr 2022 00:27:17 -0000

Here’s something wild: nearly half of people in monogamous relationships report they’ve had affairs, according to recent research. Half! And that’s just the people who admitted it.

We can all agree that getting cheated on feels awful – as in, the literal worst. So why is it so common? In this episode, we’re talking trust and infidelity as we break down the reasons why people cheat, what to do if an affair has happened, and deciding whether to rebuild or break up and move on. Plus, I take your questions on trust and infidelity: how to restore your confidence after an affair, what to do if you suspect or just caught your partner cheating, and how to come back from online infidelity.

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How to Date These Days

Wed, 06 Apr 2022 00:52:59 -0000

So you’re ready to date. Fantastic! But are you feeling a little rusty on flirting? Making the first move? And, real talk: how’s your dating app profile?

Today’s show is your dating primer 101, so you can walk into every date knowing exactly what you want: whether it’s a long-term partner, or a just-for-the-night hookup. I’m talking how to meet people, how to make sexy conversations, how to take your best dating app pics, and what people are looking for when they’re on a date. Plus, I take your questions! How to feel more confident saying “yes” to dates, how to express your intentions around sex, when to bring sex toys into the bedroom and much more.

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Best of: Network & Chill w/ Jordan Harbinger

Sat, 02 Apr 2022 01:51:33 -0000

When it comes to relationships across the board – from sex, to work, to friendships – do you actually know what impression you’re having on others? Especially when you first meet someone? In this best of show, I’m throwing it back to my conversation with fellow podcaster Jordan Harbinger, who gets real on social behaviors and the power of body language.

Jordan and I talk about the difference between authenticity and hustling, confidence while dating, and the shocking power of nonverbal communication. He coaches us on developing open, positive body postures, and helps all of us walk into a room with charisma and curiosity.

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A+ Oral Sex for Vulvas

Wed, 30 Mar 2022 04:37:50 -0000

Is there a vulva owner in your life you’d love to treat? By giving them the best oral sex of their life? You’ve come to the right place. Whether or not you’re with someone currently, or simply want to brush up on your oral skills for the future, it’s never a bad time to sharpen your pleasure techniques. After the blow job episode I did earlier this month I promised that you’d get an oral sex show specifically for vulvas – and it’s here.

In today’s episode, I’m talking you through everything you need to know to deliver A+ oral sex, specifically for vulvas. I’m teaching how to tease, how to use your tongue, how to perform the Kivin method, and how to stimulate the famous G-spot. Plus, I take your questions! What to do if you desperately want oral but your partner isn’t too keen on giving. How to let go of potential insecurities and truly enjoy receiving. What to do when your hygiene concerns are getting in the way of pleasure, How to reduce discomfort while giving. Plus, how to give your partner pointers on what you like and tips for a squirting experience.

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The Breakup Bounce Back

Fri, 25 Mar 2022 18:36:45 -0000

Breakups completely, fundamentally suck – full stop. Especially if you’re still connected to the person: you still live together, you share friends, or…you can’t stop fantasizing about them sexually. And that’s because breakups function exactly like withdrawal: this other person was a drug of sorts, and now, you can’t get your hit.

But breakups also teach us a lot about ourselves, especially if that person was annoyingly awesome in bed. So in this episode, we’re looking at the psychology of breakups, empowering ways to cope and move on, and most importantly, how to keep nurturing your sexuality while you heal. Plus, I take your questions! How to move on from a hookup partner who’s not ready for a relationship, what it means when you’re sexting with an ex, how to do the friendship custody battle after a breakup, and how to break up when you know it’s the right thing to do…but you’re terrified to do it.

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Best of: Big Mouths and Better Sex (Talks) w/ Gil Ozeri

Wed, 23 Mar 2022 03:07:15 -0000

If you are someone who had substandard sex ed as a young person (all of us?), you are going to love this throwback episode with Gil Ozeri, comedian, actor, and writer for the very popular show “Big Mouth”. Growing up with adults who avoided the sex talk like the plague, Gil discusses the shame that can result...shame a lot of us still carry. That’s why “Big Mouth” (now in Season 5 on Netflix) takes the awkward experience of adolescence, demystifies it, and helps all of us get the answers we wish we’d gotten back then — while being super funny. If you’ve got a young person in your life, this episode is a must-listen.

Gil and I take a dive into our own hormonal teen years, how to make sex ed more relatable, and tips for post-baby sex…because why not? I also take your questions: how to give a better blowjob, how to make FaceTime sex hot, and how to get your sexual connection back after the spark has died.

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Daddy Issues w/ Violet Benson

Fri, 18 Mar 2022 21:11:33 -0000

I am joined by Violet Benson, host of the new podcast Almost Adulting and creator of the wildly popular Instagram account @DaddyIssues_. Over the last couple of years, Violet has become well known for her irreverent relationship and dating advice.

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Best Blow Job Ever

Wed, 16 Mar 2022 04:01:07 -0000

We’re talking about blow jobs. It’s an oral sex masterclass, and you’re invited.On today’s episode, I’m sharing everything you need to know about oral sex on a penis.

Also, I take your blow job questions: where to start as a beginner, how to enjoy receiving, what to know when pleasuring an uncircumcised penis and what to do if you’re struggling to swallow. Don’t blow off this episode. Together, we can bring your oral sex game to the next level.

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Your Guide to Sexting

Fri, 11 Mar 2022 21:12:19 -0000

A great sext is all about anticipation…kind of like foreplay: And as the 21st century way to talk dirty, sexting — when executed well — can be super hot. Sexting is an art form, and in this show, I give you pro tips for perfecting yours. Because let’s face it: randomly sending a bunch of squirting emojis might not be as sexy as it is confusing, for the person on the other side.

As with everything in life, good sexting comes down to emotional intelligence, so let’s talk shop. This episode is designed to help you send your best sext, and excite the person receiving your message. Plus, I take your questions! How to start flirting online, how to manage your devices so your messages don’t accidentally end up in the wrong place and how to have good phone sex in a long distance relationship. Finally, the Sex With Emily community has delivered, and I’m sharing YOUR hottest sexts.

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Orgasm with a Capital O

Wed, 09 Mar 2022 01:24:07 -0000

Let the pulsations begin, because today’s episode is a love letter to your orgasm – and all the ways we can dose your body with pleasure. First, we’re helping you understand, anatomically, just what the hell is going on with the big O. And for my never-had-an-orgasm friends we’re going to give you techniques to help you get there. Finally, we’re offering tricks to elevate your orgasm, with everything from easy hacks to long-term rituals, to achieve the deep pleasure you crave.

Plus we take all your orgasm questions! What to do when you can’t orgasm with your partner, how to break the habit of faking orgasms, how to bring back an orgasm that’s suddenly disappeared, and how to achieve the holy grail of multiple O’s.

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Friends With Benefits: A Guide

Fri, 04 Mar 2022 22:24:59 -0000

Are you cut out for friends with benefits? If you crave regular sex, but don’t have capacity for a full-on relationship, an FWB arrangement could be just what the doctor ordered. But there’s a lot you should know before diving in!

For some, FWB’s can be a super satisfying way to get your needs met, without the commitment of a traditional partnership. However, just because it’s not “traditional” doesn’t mean there aren’t rules of engagement, boundaries, and lots of communication. In this episode, I help you self-assess to figure out if you’re a good candidate for FWB, explain how FWB’s are qualitatively different from casual sex and hook-ups, and hacks to live your best FWB life.

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Best of: Sex Tips I Wish I Knew In My 20s

Tue, 01 Mar 2022 23:01:36 -0000

Sexual wisdom (like all wisdom) is self-awareness plus lived experience. But I hear from people in their 20s all the time who are shockingly self-aware – they just haven’t stacked enough life experience to know how to navigate sex as it applies to them. So maybe that’s you, or maybe you're not in your 20s…but feel like you missed out on some sexual basics. If that’s you, gather ‘round, because this best-of episode is devoted to all the killer advice I wish I’d been given in my 20s.

Whether it’s figuring out what your turn-ons are, what to do when a partner constantly cheats, or how to try anal (one word: lube), I’m answering all of your ground zero sex questions today. We get into all of that, plus how to approach your first threesome, how to seek out couple’s therapy (yes: you can do it in your 20s!), and how to communicate your deepest desires in the bedroom.

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The Secrets to Happier Sex w/ Dr. Amen

Fri, 25 Feb 2022 20:16:30 -0000

You’ve probably heard that the brain is the largest sex organ in your body. But can you really hack your brain for happiness? Or better sex? Psychiatrist and bestselling author Dr. Daniel Amen has amassed the world’s largest database of brain scans, and studies that information to reveal something fascinating: using neuroscience-based habits, we have the power to radically improve our mental health, our mood, and yes – our sex lives.

Dr. Amen’s latest book is You, Happier, and on this episode, he reveals the lies of happiness, the stress hormones impeding your sex hormones, how to focus on micro-moments of happiness, and strategies for protecting yourself from the “noise” in your head. He also explains why happy people tend to live longer, have better relationships, be more successful in their careers…and, let’s face it, have way hotter sex. Listen now, to learn how to master your mind, and reap the rewards.

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How to Build Sexual Tension

Wed, 23 Feb 2022 04:34:35 -0000

Let’s talk sexual tension and seduction, people. Maybe you’re single, and trying to brush up on your flirting skills. Or perhaps you’re in a long-term relationship, and frustrated that you don’t entice each other like you used to. Either way, I’m going to teach you how to build (or rebuild) sexual tension.

At its core, seduction itself is about creating sexual tension, and to pull that off, we need a few things at our disposal, like confidence and radical presence. It’s a sexy sort of restraint, where your behavior is suggestive (not explicit), and your vibe is patient (not desperate). So today’s episode is all about sharpening our skills in the sexy and suggestive department. Plus, I take your questions, like how to make the first move, how to turn sexual banter into actual sex, and much, much more.

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Fire Up Your Fantasies w/ Elle Chase

Fri, 18 Feb 2022 20:26:07 -0000

Plus, we take your questions! How to respond to a partner who desperately wants to watch you have sex with another (but you’re not so into it), what to say to a partner who thinks butts are gross, how to talk about your kink to a new partner and much more.

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Unf*ck Your Relationship w/ Gary Bishop

Tue, 15 Feb 2022 23:00:07 -0000

When you keep running into the same relationship (or sex) problems over and over again, what’s the one common denominator? Brace yourself…because it’s you. You’re the thing that carries over from partnership to partnership, which is why Gary Bishop, author of the crazy bestseller “Unfu*k Yourself” decided to write a new book – a tough love spin on self-help. It’s called “Love Unfu*ked: Getting Your Relationship Sh!t Together,” and I invited him to chat with me about it.

In this interview, Gary and I talk about how to become aware of our destructive relationship habits, and concrete ways to manage them. He tells me the one simple change he made with his current partner that transformed their relationship, and we go deep on feeling threatened: the fight or flight response that inhibits emotional intimacy, not to mention our best sex. But we also talk about the hopeful side of radical self-awareness, and the opportunity in front of us, when we step outside of ourselves, look at our patterns, and change them – to create room for the pleasurable connections we all want.

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The Secrets of Sexual Attraction

Fri, 11 Feb 2022 23:26:15 -0000

Today’s show is all about exploring sexual attraction; what it means and how does it fit into romantic love. By the end of today’s episode, you’ll better understand how and why YOU may feel sexually attracted to another person and how that can sometimes be distinct from feelings associated with long-term love. Plus, I take your questions! What to do when you’re straight, but kinda wanna hook up in a non-straight way, what to do when you and your partner are both submissive (and both crave dominance), how to bring back the spark, and when you should hang onto a friend with quality benefits – and, when to let them go.

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Anal Tips & Prostate Play: A Beginner’s Guide

Wed, 09 Feb 2022 00:54:20 -0000

Let’s talk anal play! If you’re a booty newbie, where do you begin? What feel-good nerve endings are you looking for? Should you start alone, or with a partner? And how the hell do you go shopping for butt plugs? Listen: if you’ve got backdoor questions, my guests Dr. Charlie Glickman and Dr. Hernando Chaves have answers. Today’s best-of episode is THE anal 101 primer, and if you’re not butt-curious now…you will be, in less than an hour.

Listen up for tips to stimulate the prostate (AKA the male G-spot), how to prepare hygienically, finger techniques for prostate massage, and how anal play can add so much crazy pleasure to your sex life, no matter your gender.

Show Notes:

Dr Charlie Glickman | Website
Hernando Chaves | Instagram | Twitter
Aneros
Skyn Condoms

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Adrenaline & Arousal

Fri, 04 Feb 2022 21:33:55 -0000

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Say Goodbye to Awkward Sex

Wed, 02 Feb 2022 01:55:26 -0000

As much as we’d like sex to be seamlessly hot all the time, sometimes…it gets a little awkward. Too much teeth during a blowjob. An erection that won’t last. Someone farts! It happens - and when it does, it can seriously derail the mood.

But does it have to? I’m of the opinion that if we know how to respond during moments like these – with compassion, collaboration, and sometimes a sense of humor – an erotic moment doesn’t have to come to an abrupt halt. So on today’s show, I’m taking the point of view of someone who didn’t “do” the awkward thing, they witnessed it. And by the end, you’ll know how to hold space, how to handle situations like these, and not shame the person on the other side – so you can keep the party going, and continue having fantastic sex.

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Hotter (Solo) Sex

Wed, 26 Jan 2022 00:52:27 -0000

When you hear the phrase “self-care,” what comes to mind? Bubble baths? Booking a massage? Those things are all lovely (I’d argue essential), but I’ve got one more thing to add to your self-care routine, and I’m going to make a case for it: solo sex, AKA masturbation.

If you’re a regular listener to this show, you know how much of a solo sex advocate I am. But we’re going to go a little deeper into this topic, because there’s still a lot of shame associated with masturbation: fear of getting caught, embarrassment about our noises and facial expressions, confusion around toys and which ones are best. That’s why today’s show is your Solo Sex 101, where we create a solo sex routine that works for you, get into all the ways solo sex nourishes your mental health, and how to get into the right headspace for it. Plus, I take your questions! When masturbation feels depressing, how do you learn to love it? Or when you’re asked to masturbate in front of your partner, but feel self-conscious about it, what do you do? I tackle these questions and so many more, on our solo sextravaganza.

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Best of: Doggy Style Tricks & Performance Tips

Fri, 21 Jan 2022 22:12:00 -0000

Let’s cut right to the chase: doggy style is hot-looking, but is it hot-feeling? I can’t tell you how many questions I get about this position, mostly from people who are confused…wondering if they’re doing it wrong. You’re not! You may just need to tweak it a bit, to make it work for your body. So on today’s show, I give you my favorite doggy style hacks, because let’s be honest — no one wants a broken penis. Let’s avoid the ER, and give you the hot doggy style sex you deserve.

Plus, I take your questions! Is polyamory more natural than monogamy? What should you do if you catch feelings for your friend-with-benefits? Is it really cheating if you have a no-sex kink session with an old flame? And finally — body dysmorphia of the vulva. Do you have it? Friends: let me help you love it! Don’t buy the hype, by which I mean false standards. I tell you exactly how to make your vulva a MUCH-deserved object of your affection.

Show Notes:

Skyn Condoms

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Talk Tantric Sex To Me

Wed, 19 Jan 2022 04:13:39 -0000

Here in the 21st century, we’re fascinated by something that was invented in the 7th century: tantra, and more specifically, tantric sex. But it’s also one of the most misunderstood practices around, starting with: it’s not just about sex! Tantra is an entire world of spirituality, intimacy, breathwork and presence, which is precisely why I have Barbara Carellas, founder of Urban Tantra, on the show with me today. A pioneer in the world of tantric healing practices, Barbara gives us the real deal on these sacred techniques – and shows us how we can use them in the modern world, for full body pleasure, higher states of consciousness, and a radically deeper connection with your partner.

Plus, I take your questions! How do you stay in the present moment during sex, and not disassociate while it’s happening – or, get so nervous that you block all the pleasure? I’ve got some thoughts on that.

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Website | Instagram | Twitter | Youtube | Facebook

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Emily’s Shop Page

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Take Your Sex Life from Stale to Sexy, Part 2

Fri, 14 Jan 2022 08:01:24 -0000

When it comes to sex in longterm relationships, why do they start hot, then go lukewarm? Why does our eroticism go dormant, once the newness of a relationship wears off? And what are some specific strategies for bringing back the heat we desperately long for? It’s part 2 in our Best Of special on taking your sex life from stale to sexy, and I can’t wait to let you listen in on my conversations with John Wineland and Esther Perel, and a bit of wisdom from Tom Bilyeu.

John is a relationship coach specializing in polarity and embodiment, and for this show, I’ve selected his most potent advice on hot sex. According to John, getting in touch with our masculine and feminine energies – regardless of gender – has the power to transform the way we show up in bed. Next, I talk to Esther Perel, well recognized couples therapist, author and fellow podcaster, who explains how a couple’s sex life loses its passion. Our partners become reliable and safe, which is great for a relationship, but according to Esther…not always great for sex. So how do we revive the mystery, the risk, and a sense of adventure with our partners? Listen for the sensual techniques she uses to help couples get back in touch with their hungry side. Finally, Impact Theory’s Tom Bilyeu dishes on desire – and why attraction for other people is not death for a relationship.

Show Notes:

Tom Bilyeu | Website | Instagram | Twitter | Youtube

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Take Your Sex Life from Stale to Sexy, Part 1

Tue, 11 Jan 2022 22:11:58 -0000

It’s the #1 question I get as a sex educator: “our sex life is stale, how do we make it hot again?” For long-term couples, this issue is so common it’s almost a cliche. “Once you’re married, say goodbye to your sex life! Haha!”

Except, it’s not funny, right? It’s actually pretty painful, once the new relationship energy wears off, and we no longer have that magical chemical cocktail running through our veins. That’s why I am so pleased to be doing a two-part, Best Of special on this precise topic, kicking things off with sex educator Ian Kerner, author of the iconic book “She Comes First” and his latest, “So Tell Me About the Last Time You Had Sex?” I’m also sharing advice from Drs. John and Julie Gottman of the Gottman Institute, who have led some of the most comprehensive studies on successful couples, and the key ingredients of their success. (Which includes a great sex life, of course.) I’m pulling out the best-of-the-best of their advice and techniques, so you can try them yourself, and create your own “arousal runway” to bring excitement back into your relationship and the bedroom.

Show Notes:

Ian Kerner | Website | Twitter | Books

The Gottman Institute | Website | Instagram | Twitter | Facebook

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Your Guide to Squirting

Fri, 07 Jan 2022 08:01:39 -0000

Squirting during sex: how, exactly, does it happen? Which body part controls it? And what the hell is it made out of? For vulva owners, squirting is a thing of mystery - but it doesn’t need to be. In this special Best Of episode, I’m giving you my tips and firsthand experience with squirting as well as highlights of my conversation with sex educator Deborah Sundahl, who teaches us exactly how to squirt -- and I mean, step by step.

For example: did you know, vulva owners, that you have a prostate? That’s the g-spot, despite headlines you see every few months questioning its very existence. Also: did you know that clitoral orgasms and g-spot orgasms are two different things? Finally, with time and practice, did you know that EVERY vulva owner can squirt? It’s not magic -- it’s anatomy! Plus, I take your questions on squirting, from how to start, best positions to do it, and how to communicate to your partner what you want them to do.

Show Notes:

Deborah Sundahl: Website | Book
Fascinator Throw Ejaculation blanket

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Relationship Red Flags & Green Flags

Tue, 04 Jan 2022 21:21:21 -0000

We’ve all heard of red flags in relationships, but let’s be honest: sometimes, they can be terribly hard to spot. Especially when you really want a relationship to work, or, if the other person is super hot. (Am I right?) That’s why I’m bringing you a special episode today, focused on all things red flags -- and green flags -- with my two favorite voices on the matter, psychologist and author Dr. Ramani, and YouTube’s (and probably the world’s) favorite dating coach, Matthew Hussey.

Dr. Ramani and I take a deep dive on narcissism, and talk through things like love bombing, devaluation, and the different types of narcissists out there -- as well as the personality types who tend to fall for them. And if you’re thinking, “I wouldn’t possibly fall for that nonsense,” think again! These folks are master manipulators, and at their core, deeply insecure. Next, Matthew Hussey walks us through our own less-than-ideal tendencies, such as: why we keep going for aloof and unavailable people, how we repeat painful patterns from our childhood, and how we ignore someone’s inconvenient truth. But Matthew also tells us what to look for when we’re dating someone new, such as curiosity, equal investment, and consistency with words and actions. If you’re dating right now, listen to this episode -- twice.

Show Notes:

Dr Remani: Website | Instagram | Twitter | Youtube

Matthew Hussey: Website | Instagram | Twitter | Youtube

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Sexy Self Improvement

Fri, 31 Dec 2021 08:01:04 -0000

Anything worth having takes time, whether that’s a better sex life, a deeper relationship, or an awesome relationship with your body. But staying consistent is hard: we get bored, we get rebellious, we want to cut corners. We’re human, after all! That’s why, if we want to meet goals - ANY goal - we have to create rituals. And the key to sticking with them? Identifying your “why.”

So on today’s Best Of show, I’m talking to Max Lugavere, host of The Genius Life podcast, and Jennifer Cohen, host of Habits and Hustle, to give us the lowdown on sexy self improvement. Max gives me the scoop on food addiction (and its similarities to porn addiction), how daily sunlight improves our health, and how processed food short circuits our satiety signals. Jennifer tells me the three habits successful people all have in common, how to get your partner on-board for working out, and the correlation between exercise and sex drive. Get out your grocery lists and gratitude journals, because after this episode, you’ll be totally inspired to start small habits for big self-growth.

Show Notes:

Max Lugavere | Website | Instagram | Facebook | Youtube

Jen Cohen | Website | Instagram | Twitter

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The 10 Hottest Moments of 2021

Tue, 28 Dec 2021 08:01:05 -0000

2021, we hardly knew ya. Just kidding, we totally did, and we’ve got the FaceTime sex to prove it. All year long, we’ve been saving up the very best moments of Sex With Emily, so you can walk into 2022 more sex-wise than ever. From squirting to sex dreams, Nikki Glaser to Esther Perel, we’re doing a hot flashback of YOUR most talked-about episodes.

On this show, we’ve banked the top pieces of sex wisdom from hands-down incredible guests. Discover your dating style, locate the g-spot once and for all, and build your sexual confidence with some of the smartest (and funniest) voices out there. Before you create your New Year’s resolution list, be sure to listen to this one – because I guarantee you, their advice will elevate your 2022.

Show Notes:

So Tell Me About The Last Time You Had Sex by Ian Kerner

To Find Your Chronotype

Female Ejaculation & The G Spot by Deborah Sundahl

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Boys, Sex and Masculinity w/ Peggy Orenstein

Fri, 24 Dec 2021 05:01:30 -0000

Where do men get their earliest messages about sex and intimacy? Why do they talk about banging / pounding / hitting it (like they’re at a construction site), and how does this conditioning affect your sex life – no matter your gender? Peggy Ornstein is the author of several iconic books on teens and sex, but on today’s fan favorite episode, she joins me to talk about Boys & Sex: a fascinating account of young men as they navigate hookups, porn and relationships, as told by the boys she interviewed.

In this episode, you’ll learn how even in the shadow of #MeToo, boys are still confused about having mutually fulfilling sex, while still being a “man.” Listen - when it comes to masculinity, Peggy is an expert. She explains why she doesn’t love the term “toxic masculinity.” She recognizes that men get a confusing message: be dominant, but don’t be too aggressive. Reporting from the front lines of bro culture, Peggy reveals the sex conundrum that men so often find themselves in, and ways we can all evolve to have relationships that are more interesting, more erotic, and more emotionally intelligent.

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Website | Instagram | Twitter

Boys & Sex

Girls & Sex

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Body Confidence, Bisexuality & Better Sex

Tue, 21 Dec 2021 08:01:53 -0000

To get our needs met, we first have to be able to articulate our needs – and be brave enough to share them out loud. But it’s easier said than done! We get worried about what the other person will say, or we don’t have the words to express what we want, so we bury those longings and wait for a better time. Then before we know it, years have passed, and that better time never arrived. We’re sexually frustrated and resentful, because we never had the sex talk that was crucial to our happiness…until now.

On this show, we’re leaning into discomfort, so we can come out on the other side sexually satisfied. In other words: we’re learning how to have a sex talk! Even when it’s just with yourself. How do you cultivate positive self-talk, when everyone around you affirms your hotness - but your brain just doesn’t buy it? Or how about when one of you wants to have sex every day, and the other doesn’t: how do you communicate your way through mismatched desires? Finally, let’s get into improving the quality of your sex life with a partner: when the sex itself has become rote, routine, or just plain boring, how do you revive it? The first step is an open conversation, and on this episode, I’m giving you scripts and tools so you can get over those fears, and get into mutually satisfying pleasure.

Show Notes:

The Sex with Emily Yes No Maybe List

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Best of: Women, Lust & Infidelity w/ Wednesday Martin

Fri, 17 Dec 2021 23:52:32 -0000

“Women cheat for emotional connection, men cheat for sex.” “Men are horn dogs, women are frigid.” Heard any of this before? Did you know these are factually untrue? In this fan favorite episode, cultural anthropologist and bestselling author Wednesday Martin joins me to talk about female sexuality research findings, now that more females are entering the field of sex research. Believe me when I say: her revelations will change your life.

Wednesday’s book Untrue: Why Nearly Everything We Believe About Women, Lust, and Infidelity is Wrong and How the New Science Can Set Us Free was a major conversation starter. Today, we’re more open to alternative relationship models, and a huge part of that is because of Wednesday. In this conversation, she debunks the lies we’ve been told for decades about female sexuality, including: men just want to spread their seed, while women want to protect their precious eggs. Wrong! Turns out, monogamy is pretty rough on female desire. How about this one: women cheat because they crave emotional care. Nope! Sometimes, women just want sex with someone new. Finally, how did these lies get started in the first place? Wednesday walks us through the faulty science that got us here, and how accurate measures of female desire are radically changing the way we understand sex – for all genders.

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Website | Instagram | Twitter

Untrue: Why Nearly Everything We Believe About Women, Lust and Infidelity is Wrong

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So You Wanna Have a Threesome

Wed, 15 Dec 2021 04:20:43 -0000

Welcome to the wide world of alternative relationship models. Opening up, threesomes, and swinging are increasingly becoming more mainstream, so naturally, we’ve got questions. Some of us do better with monogamy, but some of us thrive with a little variety - and no matter where we land on the spectrum of relationships and sex, we can always gain vocabulary to explore our desires, and act on our pleasure.

So on today’s show, I take your questions on open relationships and we get into it. First, we tackle open relationships when we’re already partnered. How do you establish the ground rules? What do you do when your partner has a date but you don’t, and you feel that jealousy coming on? Next, threesomes and swinging: how do you practice safe sex in a group sex situation? Finally: when you’re the third party, what’s the best way to talk to the partner of your partner? In this case, and truly all others, the key is becoming a grade A communicator – because if there’s one thing you can count on in an alternative relationship, it’s lots and lots of talking.

Show Notes:

Opening Up: A Guide to Creating and Sustaining Open Relationships by Tristan Taormino

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The Deal with Divorce w/ Laura Wasser

Fri, 10 Dec 2021 20:14:42 -0000

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Website | Instagram

It’s Over Easy: Website | Instagram | Twitter

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The Secret to Better Sex: Trust

Wed, 08 Dec 2021 01:05:18 -0000

In order to feel turned on, we first have to feel safe. And that’s the funny thing about trust: once it’s broken, it has a way of quietly shutting us down, so that our relationships aren’t as deep, our curiosity is blocked, and even our self-sex takes a hit. But there IS hope: trust can be healed. Neuroplasticity is a beautiful thing, and if we compassionately work on ourselves (possibly with a partner), we feel worlds better - more secure, and definitely more sexy.

So on today’s Ask Emily show, I take some of my favorite calls on trust, and how to repair it. What happens if your spouse cheated on you, to the point where sex feels sorta gross now? Or how about if you were the cheater, and your sex life just isn’t the same? (Two words: couples therapy.) How about this one: you’re in a partnership, and things are basically fine - but the spark has completely worn off, and you don’t know how to talk about it? Or, what if you tell a new partner you love them, they don’t reciprocate, and THEN the sex takes a nosedive? In both cases, I’ve got answers. Finally, when you’re “too picky” of a dater, is it really because they’re all duds? Or, are there some underlying trust issues there, that are keeping your sexuality safe, cool, and totally dormant? The bottom line is this: when we feel free, we feel sexy. And on today’s episode, we’re helping you radically reclaim your erotic freedom.

Show Notes:

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Best Of: The S(ex) Factor w/ Sheila Kelley

Fri, 03 Dec 2021 21:07:26 -0000

Sheila Kelley is a moment, a mantra, and the founder of S-Factor: a feminine movement practice that offers classes in strip, pole dance, and erotic dance. “We live from the armpits up, and get trapped away from our bodies,” Sheila says. So her passion is to free people through movement, so they can return to their bodies, and have more energy to move towards what they want. This is a gem-filled conversation that you’re going to want to pause several times, so you can take in Sheila’s explosive wisdom...and apply it immediately to your daily life.

Plus, I take your questions! We’re all venturing into brave new worlds today, and need advice. What to do when you’re dating as a grown woman, with kids in their 20s - but the men you’re matching with are young adults too? Is that a problem? We discuss. Next: is it possible to get “orgasm addicted” to porn? I talk you through it. And finally, beginnings and endings: how do you begin your anal sex journey? How do you end a marriage as you knew it? As Sheila says, it’s all an incremental journey of self-investment and growth -- and by the end of this episode, you’ll have done a bit of both.

Find more about Sheila Kelley here:

Twitter @theSheilaKelley
Instagram: @SheilaKelleyS
sfactor.com
Instagram @s.factor
Twitter @skelleysfactor

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What’s Your Sexual Fantasy?

Wed, 01 Dec 2021 01:09:08 -0000

So you’ve got a sex fantasy...and you’re ready for it to become reality. That’s great! But let me be the first to tell you: this process is part art, part science. The art? That’s your erotic self. Closing your eyes, imagining hot -- possibly taboo -- scenarios, and taking the time to discover what turns you on. But the science? That’s where we have to get tactical and think with our heads -- as well as our loins.

On today’s Ask Emily show, I take your calls on fantasy and give you practical advice on how to fulfill them. Let’s say your partner has been hinting at a cuckold scenario: how do you go about finding a “third,” and how do you manage expectations for all involved? We get into it. What if you don’t have any fantasies, but you want some? Is there a way to get more creative? Yeahhh there is. Right this way for some sexy self-discovery.

Show Notes:

FetLife
Feeld
#Open
Ok Cupid
Yea No Maybe List
Book: Coming Together by Celeste And Danielle

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Best Of: Sexy & Self-Aware w/ Lewis Howes & Lisa Bilyeu

Fri, 26 Nov 2021 11:21:54 -0000

I like to think of Lewis Howes and Lisa Bilyeu as leaders in the self-awareness world, especially when it comes to relationships. Both Lewis and Lisa are incredibly successful: she went from housewife to cofounder of a billion-dollar business, he went from picked last for dodgeball to pro athlete, New York Times bestselling author and uber successful podcaster. But here’s the thing: success is empty if you don’t learn to like yourself, and both are intimately familiar with that truth.

On today’s Best Of episode, I’m pairing these two voices to bring you the most powerful advice on self-love and fulfilling relationships. We hear from Lisa, who tells the story of radically changing her role in her relationship, and Lewis, who tells the story of radically hustling for respect (and getting it) -- only to realize he needed to learn how to respect himself. In this show, you’ll learn how to ask your partner for exactly what you need, how to break the habit of “testing” partners, how to identify the masks you wear for the world, and why sex transforms after you’ve taken the time to understand who you are - and love yourself, no hustle required.

Find Lewis Howes here:

LewisHowes.com

Instagram @lewishowes

Twitter @lewishowes

TikTok @lewishowes

Find Lisa Bilyeu here:

lisabilyeu.com

Instagram @lisabilyeu

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Ready to Get Naughty?

Wed, 24 Nov 2021 01:52:40 -0000

It’s frustrating but true: sex isn’t a button that we can automatically turn on and off. In fact, “sex” is a catch-all term for arousal, body exploration, play, and erotic collaboration—not simply penetration. So what do you do when you want to get naughty, but your body isn’t on-board?

On today’s Ask Emily show, we’re taking a look at the body’s response to sex, and figuring out what to do when it shuts down. Say you’ve got a gag reflex around oral: does that mean no blowjobs? Nah - I’ve got a trick for that. How about vaginismus, when the vulva clenches so tightly at penetration, that sex is super painful? I’ve got advice! Finally, let’s talk about your partners: is it kosher to use old toys with a new lover? How do you broach the subject? And when you’re newly married, but the sex has serious problems, where do you turn? At the root of good sex is good communication, and on today’s episode, we challenge everyone to articulate their needs, and listen to their partners.

Show Notes:

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Sexual Spark and Relationship Arcs

Sat, 20 Nov 2021 02:49:13 -0000

Before we’re experts at anything, we’re all humble beginners. And whether we’re learning how to date, learning how to talk about sex, or learning how to pleasure a partner, it can all seem pretty intimidating — enough to make us second-guess ourselves. “Do they just like me as a friend?” “Am I weird for wanting more lovers?” “Will I teach my child the right things about sex?”

On today’s Ask Emily show, everyone’s looking for clarity in the sexual unknown, starting with: how can I tell if they’re into me? Whether it’s an office crush and you’re trying to figure out if they like you back, or you’re about to go on a date and worried you’ll be friend-zoned, I give you tips to put your best foot forward. How about if it’s a new sexual act, and you don’t know how you feel about it — or if you should even try it? I offer ways to figure out what YOU want…and not just what your lover wants. Finally, sexual evolutions in long-term relationships: what to do when you’re filled with old resentment? Is there a new conversation you could have with your partner? How about when you want to open up…but your nesting partner is scared of you having new lovers? We’re venturing into uncharted sex territory today, but don’t worry—we all come out on the other side, with fresh ways forward.

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Maximize Your Orgasm w/ Dolly Josette

Wed, 17 Nov 2021 02:34:38 -0000

Everyone is talking about breathwork these days. But for PleasureMuse Dolly Josette, breath opens an entire world of erotic sensation -- and it’s a world you (yes, you) already possess. So if full-body orgasms sound like fun, you’ll love this conversation, because guess what? Dolly shows us how to visit that pleasure-filled world, all on our own.

Dolly’s been recognized as one of today’s most innovative Sexological Bodyworkers by Cosmopolitan and Hustler Magazines, but more importantly, she helps women and couples navigate their sexual evolution, wake up from numbness, and live more orgasmic lives. In this episode, we cover a ton of ground, including how to hack your nervous system for better sex, how to become a great masturbator, what exactly *is* somatic sex therapy, and why so many people, especially vulva-owners, are trained to numb from the waist down. (Spoiler alert: her clients definitely aren’t numb anymore.)

Find Dolly online:

pleasuremuse.com

Learn about orgasm vs. climax

Get Dolly's 25-minute Vulva Hug Meditation - use code SEXWITHEMILY for 20% off

Instagram @pleasuremuse

Show Notes:

Find certified sexological bodyworkers in your area at sexologicalbodyworkers.org

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Trust vs. Lust

Sat, 13 Nov 2021 00:57:41 -0000

So on today’s Ask Emily show, I take your questions on trust and safety, because as we know, safety is the precursor to hot sex. So what happens when you’re having mind-blowing sex with a partner, but catch them chatting with sex workers online? What happens when you’ve been love-bombed, by someone who isn’t what they seem? Or maybe you’ve had past relationship trauma, and don’t trust new partners to take it slow with you? We get into all of it. Finally: do you trust yourself to facilitate a hookup? Do you trust that you can help a partner heal from sex-negative messaging? These are the questions I’m exploring today, and trust ME: by the end, you’ll walk away with some great tools for sticky situations.

Show Notes:

Episode: First Date First Orgasm First Threesome

Find out about EMDR therapy at EMDRIA.org

Book: For Yourself By Lonnie Barbach

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Jealousy and Juicy Phone Sex w/ Menace

Wed, 10 Nov 2021 07:58:36 -0000

So on today’s Ask Emily show, I’m joined by my dear friend and former co-host Menace from The Woody Show, as we talk confidence, jealousy, Pete Davidson, and self-image. What happens when you adore your partner, but can’t stop thinking about their high body count? Or want to have hot phone sex, but don’t know where to start? We talk through both. How about when you feel too short to find a great partner, or don’t know how to be dominant in bed? We help you think through both. Finally: discovering your partner’s can of delay spray. Our listener wonders whether he’s sleeping with someone else; we think it’s time for open communication.

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Episode: Talk Dirty To Me w/ Joanna Angel

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Strengthen Your Sex Muscles

Sat, 06 Nov 2021 00:42:40 -0000

When you hear the words “pelvic floor,” what comes to mind? A visit to the OB-GYN, maybe? The truth is, the pelvic floor is a hidden superstar of sexual pleasure, for vulva AND penis owners. We all have a pelvic floor, but the problem is, we don’t always know how to take care of it. That changes today because you’re about to hear from the pelvic floor expert herself, Dr. Patricia Wallace.

In this episode I talk to Dr. Wallace about “living your best life in your best body,” and how focusing on the pelvic floor can unlock our feel-good potential. We discuss the intricacies of orgasm because guess what? When you strengthen the pelvic floor, your orgasm contractions get more intense, and tiny muscles you didn’t even know you had amplified your pleasure. We can also heal pain and prolapse through pelvic floor rehab, and vulva owners will find a lot of relief hearing Dr. Wallace's thoughts on aging and hormones. Turns out, you can nurture your hormonal health well into menopause, without scary side effects! Leave it to a doctor to put our minds (and our vulvas, and our penises) at ease.

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Sex Positions Made Easy

Wed, 03 Nov 2021 00:22:18 -0000

Sex is play, but certain sex positions feel more like work, right? Whether it’s reverse cowgirl or 69, you might feel a bit awkward...you don’t exactly know what you’re doing...you’re trying not to throw your back out. But that doesn’t mean you have to keep doing the same, safe positions over and over again!

That’s why today’s show is all about helping you experiment, and making the most challenging positions feel smooth and easy -- no physics degree required. Learn how to make reverse cowgirl less confusing and more sexy, how to execute the Kivin Method on a vulva owner, how to 69 without feeling like you’re multitasking, and how to have steamy, sexy shower sex without breaking anything. Plus: we reveal the most-searched sex positions by U.S. state! Pennsylvanians love their oral, and those Texans are pretty dexterous, y’all.

Show Notes:

Episode: The “Bottom” Line On Anal w/ Dr. Evan Goldstein

Try our free Pleasure Planner

Episode: Sex Goals For The Win

Article: How to Master These Awkward Sex Positions

Article: Mind-Blowing Oral Sex in Under 5 Minutes: The Kivin Method

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Top 5 Sex Myths Debunked

Fri, 29 Oct 2021 21:08:40 -0000

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Episode: Lube It Or Leave It

Episode: Kink & Casual Sex w/ Justin Lehmiller

Episode: Seducing the Booty w/ Alicia Sinclair

B-Vibe: Anal Training Kit & Education Set

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Relationship Reset

Wed, 27 Oct 2021 02:05:22 -0000

Have you ever been in a relationship with someone who can read your mind, anticipate your needs 24/7, and fulfill them perfectly? Yeah...me neither. The truth is, deep relationships require deep communication skills, and the most important skill is this: being able to articulate what you need, sexually and otherwise. The result? Way healthier relationship dynamics.

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So on today’s Ask Emily show, I give you communication tools to put in your back pocket, so you can improve your relationship one talk at a time. How about when you’re tired of hookups and want a relationship with real depth? Or maybe, you want more than one relationship? I talk you through ways to approach both.

What about when your partner is emotionally detached, or you want your child to grow up with more positive sex messaging than you had? We get into it. Finally, we talk through getting the kind of touch you need in bed because let’s face it - sometimes pain is fun, and sometimes it’s just painful. With the right communication, you can find just the right sweet spot.

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Sex, Love & Gwyneth Paltrow

Sat, 23 Oct 2021 00:39:08 -0000

You know Gwyneth Paltrow: actor, CEO of goop, bestselling cookbook author, and cultural conversation starter. But now, Gwyneth’s got a new show on Netflix called “Sex, Love & Goop,” where she hopes to spark another conversation: how couples can save their sex lives, through touch, communication, and giving themselves permission to talk about sex in the first place.

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In this show, I talk to Gwyneth about the healing modalities you see in the series, like sexological bodywork and vulva mapping, as well as the women who crave a different dynamic with their husbands. Gwyneth also tells me how she prioritizes her pleasure, why goop created a beautiful, “sculpture-like” vibrator, why she believes menopause needs to be rebranded, and how nutrition healed her hormones after Covid quarantine. Gwyneth’s accomplished a lot in this life - now, she wants to conquer a taboo, by making sex talks more mainstream. And on my show, that’s exactly what I like to hear.

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Connected Sex

Wed, 20 Oct 2021 03:51:35 -0000

When it comes to sex, do you have a growth mindset? Whether you’re a new parent and your sex drive has tanked, or you’re trying to break free from a mental pattern that’s blocking your pleasure, we all experience sexual roadblocks. Never fear: you can have a sex reset! On today’s Ask Emily show, I’m helping you ID the obstacles to your sexuality, from trauma, to a repressive upbringing, to a disconnect with your partner. And one by one, I help you figure out solutions that open the door to self-exploration.

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What do you do when you’re “spectator-ing” yourself during sex, and battling against mental chatter? Or you’ve got a religious past, that makes sex a bit triggering for you? In both cases, I provide mindfulness techniques that help you quiet the mind, and feel into your pleasure. What about when it’s a block with your partner, when you’re just not on the same page about your desires? I’ve got ideas to normalize sex talks, and help you communicate your needs. How about when you crave a certain type of power dynamic, but aren’t sure how to explore it? I give you ideas for approaching it safely and consensually, with a play partner. This episode is all about self-exploration, and helping you reclaim your full sex potential.

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Foreplay Everyday

Sat, 16 Oct 2021 01:55:25 -0000

To lots of folks, “foreplay” is shorthand for...hand stuff. But foreplay - or outercourse, as I call it - is actually way more about emotional intelligence, than anything having to do with your fingers. On today’s show, I dive into the psychology of foreplay and intimacy, a fascinating study on the difference between a good’ and ‘bad’ sex life, and how to get aroused with specific (and quite sexy) pre-game tips.

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We also talk about what to do if foreplay and overall sex with your partner has gotten a bit stale, how to tease and arouse yourself, what to do if your partner isn’t so keen on exploring new things, and how to handle a partner who won’t reciprocate foreplay...after you give them all sorts of pre-game love. Plus, I answer your questions! I share what to do if you find yourself fantasizing about a past crush (while in a committed relationship), and give tips for how to have an orgasm… for the first time.

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Show Notes:

Episode: The Gottmans on Compatibility, Conflict & Conversation

Episode: Talk Dirty To Me w/ Joanna Angel

Article: Ask Emily: How Do I Get Better at Dirty Talk?

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System Jo Lubricants

Article: 6 Tips For Being A Better Kisser

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We-Vibe Bond and Moxie

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More Pleasure, Please!

Wed, 13 Oct 2021 06:01:28 -0000

There are wants, and then, there are needs -- sexual needs, to be precise. On today’s Ask Emily show, everyone has that one need that they’re longing to satisfy...they just don’t know how to do it. Good news: the sex expert has arrived, and I’m here to help you take that vital next step.

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If you’ve never had an orgasm before, but desperately want to, I’ve got some ideas for that. Or if you want a hotter sex life, but your partner shuts down around sex convos, I’ve got communication tips. How about when you want to give your partner a crazy orgasm, but don’t know the right techniques? Yep, we talk about great ones. And finally, if your partner desires sexual experiences like swinging, but you aren’t sure, what in the world do you do? Answer: you listen to this episode! Because I promise, for every sex problem, there is a path forward.

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Bellesa The Netflix of Porn

Article: 6 Tips for Mastering the Game-Changing Technique of Mindful Masturbation

Episode: The Gottmans on Compatibility, Conflict & Conversation

Episode: Talk Dirty To Me w/ Joanna Angel

Audio Erotica: Dipsea and Quinn

Book: Curvy Girl Sex

The Liberator

Je Joue Mio Vibrating Cock Ring

Sportsheets

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Your Top 5 Sex Questions, Answered

Sat, 09 Oct 2021 19:56:54 -0000

When it comes to your most pressing sex issues, have you ever wondered: “ugh, is it just me?” I promise: it’s not just you! To prove it, I’m tackling your top five sex questions in this episode. From raising your libido to acing your oral, we cover a lot of ground in this one.

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Show Notes:

System Jo Lubricants

Je Joue Mio Vibrating Cock Ring

Guide: Three Ts of Communication

Guide: Edging

Yes No Maybe List

Article: Mind-Blowing Oral Sex in Under 5 Minutes: The Kivin Method

Book: She Comes First

Episode: Tell Me About the Last Time You Had Sex w/ Ian Kerner

Episode: Seducing the Booty w/ Alicia Sinclair

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Everybody Loves Oral

Wed, 06 Oct 2021 03:57:15 -0000

It’s the holy grail of sexual connection -- a quality oral sesh. Or...is it? On this best of mashup episode, I’m sharing some top shelf advice on how to up your oral game: both giving, and receiving.

Sometimes, hot oral comes down to technique, like the Kivin Method: we talk about why this is so delicious for vulva owners, and how you can execute it. But other times, good oral is more about lip service - no, not that kind, the communication kind. How do you ask for more oral from a partner who’s hesitant? How do you ask for LESS from a partner who’s a little too enthusiastic? And man oh man, what about when you desperately want to give - but your partner has some blocks around it? We get into all of it, alongside my guest Sadie Allison: sexologist, relationship expert and author, who has some A+ hacks to make your next oral sesh super sexy.

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Article: Mind-Blowing Oral Sex in Under 5 Minutes: The Kivin Method

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Communication Is A Lubrication

Fri, 01 Oct 2021 22:57:26 -0000

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Yes, No, Maybe List

Episode: Hot Sex with STIs w/ Dr. Ina Park

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The Gottmans on Compatability, Conflict & Conversation

Wed, 29 Sep 2021 00:12:53 -0000

No one goes to relationship school, so Dr. John & Julie Gottman created the Gottman Institute to find out what makes relationships work. As today’s guests (and partners for over 30 years), the Gottmans talk about their iconic research, including the myth of compatibility, the four behaviors that tank a relationship, and what is UP with pheromones and attraction. Yep: we’re talking t-shirt smell test.

We’re also taking a research-based approach to conflict, and finding out how curiosity and conversation can help you navigate it. Finally, we discuss the Gottmans’ book Eight Dates: Essential Conversations for a Lifetime of Love and take your Instagram questions about vulnerability, attraction, and how to stay sexually connected -- even when you’re exhausted.

For more information about Drs John and Julie Gottman, visit: gottman.com

Show Notes:

Book: For Yourself: The Fulfillment of Female Sexuality by Lonnie Barbach

App: Gottman Card Decks

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Introducing Sex w/ Emily

Sat, 25 Sep 2021 19:00:00 -0000

Dr. Emily Morse shares her expertise on sex, relationships and everything in between! Submit your questions to Emily at sexwithemily.com/askemily. For more sexy fun, including blogs, photos, videos or to stream this show, visit sexwithemily.com.

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Sex w/ Comedians

Sat, 25 Sep 2021 01:39:19 -0000

Comedians are paid to be funny, but on today’s throwback show, four of my four guests are getting real about sex - while, of course, being hilarious. Dean McDermott talks chemistry, porn versus Fleshlights, and how he and wife Tori Spelling keep things sexy with five (five!) kids. Nicky Paris is trying to bring down his walls around intimacy, and avoid having his head pushed down for oral. I applaud both.

Margaret Cho deems herself a lifelong submissive, and talks about the contours of sexuality and BDSM, all while being bisexual and radically open to different ages. Finally, Adam Ferrara joins me to discuss negative self-talk, effective tools he uses in his marriage, and helps me answer your calls on everything from sexual compatibility to bedroom communication. Come for the laughs, stay for the sex.

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Don’t Google This, Ask Emily

Wed, 22 Sep 2021 05:42:52 -0000

Whether you’re too dry (and it’s puzzling your partner), or too wet (and it’s puzzling both of you) I help you figure out solutions to overcome your biggest sexual challenges.

Show Notes: We-Vibe Rave Je Joue Uma Bellesa The Netflix of Porn Article: 6 Tips for Mastering the Game-Changing Technique of Mindful Masturbation Audio Erotica: Dipsea and Quinn Book: The Body Knows The Score Episode: It’s All In Your Head w/ Dr. Anadel Barbour Womaness

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Arousal & Erotic Energy w/ Pamela Madsen & Court Vox

Sat, 18 Sep 2021 03:00:27 -0000

Most of us think of arousal and desire as spontaneous, even a little mysterious. But on today’s show, I’m joined by the incredible Pamela Madsen, founder of Back to the Body, and sex & intimacy coach Court Vox, who myth-bust that assumption entirely. When you’re ready to go from erotically numb to erotically alive, they know exactly how to get the sexual energy going again. In this episode, they talk about low libido (and its likely culprit: high boredom), how to create a new relationship with your body, and how the right touch can unleash both deep desire...and deep healing.

Pamela and Court also talk to us about their retreats (two words: pleasure demos), plus: we answer your questions! We talk to you about how to feel more confident in the bedroom, whether it’s ok to pleasure a partner when you yourself never orgasm, and how to have your best curvy girl sex.

For more information about Pamela Madsen, MS, CSB, visit: http://backtothebody.org

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Where Did My Orgasm Go?

Wed, 15 Sep 2021 03:20:52 -0000

Attention: the orgasm has left the building. What does it mean when you can orgasm with one partner, but not another? Or when you can squirt, but not climax? How do we create those delicious sensations, without getting too up in our head about it?

On today’s Hotline Calls show, we’re talking all about orgasm and how to unlock it. I answer your questions on how to orgasm for the first time (at any age), what to do when you’re unable to orgasm with a new partner, how overall health affects your ability to climax, and how to create masturbation routines that support the orgasms you deserve. Have a question of your own? You can call me anytime and leave a voicemail: 559-TALK-SEX (559-825-5739).

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Je Joue Mimi Soft

Episode: Best Of: Sexually Fit w/ Mind Pump

b-Vibe: Premium anal play products for next-level butt-gasms.

Episode: Seducing The Booty w/ Alicia Sinclair

Dame Pom is great for exploration. Eva for a couples toy

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Kink & Casual Sex w/ Justin Lehmiller

Sat, 11 Sep 2021 02:34:27 -0000

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Hotline Calls: Micropenis, Deal Breakers & Sexsomnia

Wed, 08 Sep 2021 06:19:43 -0000

We’re also tackling a case of sexsomnia (aka having sex in your sleep), and how to make eye contact during sex (when you’re awake). If you’d like to ask me a question, you can call me anytime and leave a voicemail: 559-TALK-SEX (559-825-5739).

Show Notes:Episode: First Date, First Orgasm, First Threesome Find an EMDR therapist: EMDRIA.org

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Best Of: Sexually Fit w/ Mind Pump

Sat, 04 Sep 2021 01:09:05 -0000

On today’s throwback show, I’m joined by Sal, Adam, and Justin from the Mind Pump health and wellness show. We discuss how your mindset can get you into the best shape, common misconceptions about fitness training and testosterone, ways to naturally boost your libido, and the difference between self-image and body image. Plus, we explore how your physical health impacts your sex life, and the guys dive into the fascinating relationship between libido and physical activity. Trust me when I say the bedroom and the weight room are more connected than you think!

I also answer your questions about how to confidently have sex on top, what it means if you feel physically “off” after masturbating and why we should send some love to an often-overlooked erogenous zone.

For more Mind Pump, visit: mindpumpfree.com New Book The Resistance Training Revolution: The No-Cardio Way to Burn Fat and Age-Proof Your Body―in Only 60 Minutes a Week YouTube Instagram Facebook Twitter

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Turn Yourself On w/ Esther Perel

Wed, 01 Sep 2021 01:28:48 -0000

Esther Perel is one of the most fascinating thinkers today on issues of desire, sex, and relationships. As an author and psychotherapist, she helps therapy patients (and the general public) understand the complexities of love and desire with provocative questions. How do you turn yourself on? How do you balance your need for safety and security, and on the other hand, your need for adventure and novelty? Can you want what you already have? As the author of the iconic “Mating In Captivity” and another bestseller, “The State of Affairs,” Esther is reshaping society’s views of sexuality and eroticism -- and arguably, healing them.

In today’s episode, we talk about the difference between sexual and emotional needs, how you can calibrate your expectations of marriage, and why people in happy relationships still cheat. We also discuss her new game “Where Should We Begin,” answer a listener’s question about how to handle anxiety in relationships, and her number one piece of advice for having better sex.

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Show Notes:

The Pleasure Planner

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Sex Tips I Wish I Knew In College

Sat, 28 Aug 2021 00:42:16 -0000

Do you remember the sex you had in college? Or maybe you’re just now embarking on this exciting adventure and have no idea what to expect? While college is an *amazing* time for independence and exploration, it also comes with uncharted territory and first-time sexual dilemmas. Today, I’m breaking down everything you need to know about sex in college. I’m sharing what I wish I knew before my first year and some of YOUR hottest college hookup stories.

Plus I answer your questions about how to make one night stands more pleasurable, how to know if it’s time to break up with your long term partner for new sexual experiences, what to do if your asexual identity or virginity makes it harder for you to connect with potential partners and how to find partners who value more than just casual hookups. I also talk to certified health coach Katrina Wright about how she has transcended during her time at college into a healthier relationship with herself and her romantic partners.

Show Notes:

For more information about Katrina Wright, visit: thesculptyou.com

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Seducing the Booty w/ Alicia Sinclair

Wed, 25 Aug 2021 02:30:01 -0000

Are you curious about anal play, but don’t know where to get started? It’s Anal August, so we’ve invited certified sex educator and B-Vibe CEO Alicia Sinclair on the show to break down all things booty. In today’s episode, we talk about how to experiment with beginner butt play, avoiding common anal mistakes, progressing your anal play (from analingus to penetration), and the best products for anal training and butt orgasms—yup, they’re real.

Plus, we answer your questions about the best ways to prep and unwind after engaging in any sort of butt stuff, how to actually find your prostate, how to let go of shame and replace it with glorious anal pleasure.

Show Notes:

Woo More Play

Article: Anal Massage: Master the Best Anal Foreplay Techniques

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Alicia's last appearance on Sex w/ Emily: Snug Plugs, Butt Hugs, & b-Vibes with Alicia Sinclair

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The Lies of Monogamy w/ Dr. Shefali

Sat, 21 Aug 2021 01:25:57 -0000

How has culture shaped your sexuality? According to my guest Dr. Shefali Tsabury, culture has conditioned us to suppress, cheat, and lie to ourselves. But radically authentic love and desire IS possible if we’re willing to confront common myths and make the conscious decision to live free.

In this fascinating conversation, Dr. Shefali talks about how to rethink marriage as a model for growth, whether monogamy is natural (or not), and how to replace societal conditioning with something more wild, interesting, and frankly pretty sexy: worthiness.

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Hotline Calls: How to Have the Sex You Really Want

Wed, 18 Aug 2021 23:57:22 -0000

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Show Notes:

O Nut

Yes, No, Maybe List

b-Vibe - Anal Kit

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It’s Okay to Be Kinky w/ Mistress Justine Cross

Fri, 13 Aug 2021 23:58:39 -0000

Do you want a little more kink in your life, but aren’t sure how to get started? If so...you’ll definitely want to tune into my interview with professional dominatrix & kink expert, Mistress Justine Cross. We discuss the myths and basics of BDSM starting with what the hell it even means (bondage, discipline, domination, submission, and masochism). We show you how to begin exploring your kinks even if you are brand new to the game and we discuss some of the most common fantasies.

We also answer your questions about: techniques for restraining your partner (fun!), the importance of communicating your fantasies, and how to explore dom/sub dynamics.

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Hotline Calls: Breakups, Oral & Honeymoon Sex

Wed, 11 Aug 2021 03:01:14 -0000

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Show Notes:

Massage Candles at Good Vibrations

b-Vibe Beginner Anal Kit

Fin by Dame

System Jo Lubricants

Bellesa The Netflix of Porn

Audio Erotica: Quinn

Yes, No, Maybe List

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Chemistry, Attraction & Connection w/ Matthew Hussey

Sat, 07 Aug 2021 00:03:54 -0000

It’s part two with one of the world’s most sought-after dating and relationship experts, Matthew Hussey. We continue the conversation and dive into how to build chemistry (and how that differs from connection), signs that someone is actually invested in you, ways to foster attraction without losing a sense of yourself, and the drawbacks of what Matthew calls ‘the one day wager.’

We also discuss the importance of consistency in your actions and words, the difference between healthy romance and love bombing, common red flags (and why they so often get ignored), when you should first sleep with someone, and whether or not Matthew Hussey believes in ‘the one.’

Missed part one of my interview with Matthew? Listen to it here.

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How to Be a Master Dater w/ Matthew Hussey

Wed, 04 Aug 2021 02:36:11 -0000

On this show, I’m joined by relationship and life coach, author, and YouTube personality Matthew Hussey. We discuss whether or not “casual dating” actually exists, why rejection is actually a GOOD thing, how dating apps have changed the dating world (and how to actually meet people IRL), and the root cause of problematic dating patterns. Plus, Matthew shares his exclusive three layers of confidence and tools to build your self-esteem. After all, who doesn’t find confidence in hot AF?

We also talk about how we can use relationships to learn about ourselves, why it's important to feel embodied while dating, how much you should invest in a potential partner, why falling in love quickly can be a red flag, and the importance of therapy and mentorship. P.S.Make sure you subscribe to hear Friday’s part two of this interview. Things get even juicier...

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Erotic Tension & The Power of Yes w/ Dr. Jennifer Freed

Sat, 31 Jul 2021 01:31:20 -0000

On today’s show, I’m joined by psychological astrologer and returning guest Dr. Jennifer Freed. We answer your questions on how to spot a sensual lover, useful tools for addressing low libido, how to pursue a threesome or open relationship, how to easily create intimacy in a relationship, what your Zodiac signs say (or don’t say) about compatibility with your partner, what to do if your hookup buddy wants a relationship (but you don’t), and the mind-blowing effects of EMDR therapy.

Show Notes:

Episode: Sex Up Your Love Language

EMDRIA.org: Resources for EMDR therapy

Yes, No, Maybe List

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Sex w/ My Ex

Thu, 29 Jul 2021 01:53:40 -0000

Have you ever had sex with an ex? Or tried to be friends with your ex? On today’s show, I am joined by MY real-life ex-boyfriend and opening up about our past, including our favorite (sexual) memories. We discuss the evolution of our relationship from falling in love, to why we broke up (“the ass is always greener”). For the first time, we talk about what we both learned from the relationship and our regrets. We share practical advice for how to become friends with your ex based on our experience. Hint: you have to want the same thing.

Plus, I answer your questions! I discuss ways to hook up and date someone new after a breakup, tools to initiate a difficult conversation, and how to heal insecurities and heartache after separating from your partner.

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Sex Up Your Love Language

Sat, 24 Jul 2021 01:41:53 -0000

Everyone wants to feel loved. But what if there was a way to give love, that could also lead to hotter, more connected sex? On today’s show, I share how to crack the code on the 5 Love languages to amp up the connection in all of your important relationships. Plus, I answer your questions like: what to do if you have a different love language than your partner (which is more common than you think), how to show love in a long distance relationship and specific ways to express yourself sexually based on you and your partner’s love languages.

Then I answer your questions about what to do if you accidentally give your partner feedback on his penis when he didn’t ask and what to do when you are no longer sexually attracted to your girlfriend.

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Show Notes:

More Information on The Love Languages

Je Joue Mimi Soft

Bellesa

Yes No Maybe List

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Best Of: Multiplying Orgasms & Pleasure

Wed, 21 Jul 2021 01:44:16 -0000

On today’s show, I’m throwing it back to a question on everyone’s mind: how to have multiple orgasms. Yes, it is possible! I share in-depth tips for how you can prep your body and mind to make this goal a reality.

Plus, I discuss how to make initiating sex an equal playing field while in a dom/sub relationship, ways to transition your sexting relationship into real life, what to do after getting caught having sex in public (by your parents!) and how to get your needs met when your partner is sexually selfish.

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Show Notes:

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Best Of: Sex Drives & Relationship Vibes

Sat, 17 Jul 2021 01:52:40 -0000

On today’s Best of episode, I’m explaining how to spot red flags when you’re dating someone new, healthy ways to address conflict, and actionable tips to amp up a low sex drive.

I also take your calls about getting past jealousy in an open relationship, what to do when you want more sex than your partner, and how squirting can happen even without an orgasm. Have a question of your own? You can call me anytime and leave a voicemail: 559-TALK-SEX (559-825-5739).

Show Notes:

Episode Bedroom Goals & Relationship Roles with Lisa Bilyeu

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Ask Emily: I Can’t Orgasm Without...

Wed, 14 Jul 2021 00:07:47 -0000

On today’s Ask Emily show, I answer your sex and relationship questions. I cover what to do if you’re questioning your sexuality while married with kids, how to initiate your first threesome, when (if ever) you should tell your partner how many people you’ve slept with, and ways to get more comfortable while giving oral sex.

Show Notes:

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Hotline Calls: Oral Sex and Your Toxic Ex

Sat, 10 Jul 2021 00:37:43 -0000

On today’s show, I’m answering more of your questions from the Sex with Emily hotline. Topics include: how to tell your partner you want more oral sex, what to do if you can’t get over the sex you had with your toxic ex, how to explore your bisexuality without unnecessary drama, the best ways to avoid negative thought patterns while dating and how to explore mutual masturbation and edging with a partner.

Have a question of your own? You can call me anytime and leave a voicemail: 559-TALK-SEX (559-825-5739).

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Best Of: Stop, Drop & Cuckold

Wed, 07 Jul 2021 03:14:02 -0000

On today’s throwback show, I’m discussing the ins and outs of a fantasy that has become a lot more popular: cuckolding or “hot wifery”. I share tips to bring up your fantasy with your partner, why people enjoy it, how you can navigate FFM and MMF threesomes, and what to consider before you dive into your next sexual fantasy.

I also take your calls and answer questions like how to get over the jitters when you want to go to the strip club with your husband for the first time, and what to do when your partner has extreme separation anxiety when you leave town and why writing your own erotica can be incredibly hot (and even help with initiating sex).

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Sexually Confident w/ Serena Kerrigan

Sat, 03 Jul 2021 02:25:46 -0000

Serena talks about what she has learned from going on over 50 online dates with men during quarantine, how to make the post-pandemic “whoring twenties” fun, and her passion for masturbation. Plus, we answer your questions like how to feel confident after hooking up for the first time and how to feel sexy no matter what.

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Porn & Pleasure w/ Jacky St James & Ana Foxxx

Tue, 29 Jun 2021 23:01:32 -0000

Plus, Jacky walks me through her approach to creating an adult film and how porn has evolved over time. Ana shares what it’s like dating as a porn star, details from her dirty 30 birthday party, and how porn has shaped her sex life on and off-screen. We also answer your questions like: is porn scripted or spontaneous and is it normal to get jealous when your partner watches porn?

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jackystjames.com

Instagram

Twitter

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Show Notes:

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Hotline Calls: Ghosting, Orgasms & Open Relationships

Sat, 26 Jun 2021 01:10:20 -0000

In today’s episode, I’m answering more of your questions from the Sex With Emily hotline. We get into how to handle it when your partner wants to have sex with someone else and stay in your relationship, what it means when you fantasize about your ex, how soon is too soon to start dating someone new after a breakup, and ways to avoid ghosting.

Have a question of your own? You can call me anytime and leave a voicemail: 559-TALK-SEX (559-825-5739). Can’t wait to hear from you!

Show notes:

Yes No Maybe List

Pleasure Planner

Episode: Squirting Secrets w/ Deborah Sundahl

Episode: Am I Normal w/ Dr. Maria Uloko

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Best Of: What to Expect When You’re Expecting a Threesome

Wed, 23 Jun 2021 00:23:31 -0000

In today’s Best Of episode, I’m talking about the #1, most-common fantasy: threesomes. I explore why threesomes can be hot and lay out some ground rules for making a threesome work. We talk about everything you should discuss with your partner before adding a third into the mix and the importance of aftercare (what happens after your threesome). I also share my personal threesome experiences, both the satisfying one and the one that didn’t go as planned. I describe what steps you can take to try and maximize everyone’s pleasure while indulging in this fantasy.

Plus, I answer your questions about the hottest moves to try when penetration is off the table, what to do when you’ve gotten too involved with your neighbor’s 19-year-old son, and how to get the most out of masturbation using CBD, ethical porn, and fantasy.

Show Notes:

FetLife

Feeld

#open

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Squirting Secrets w/ Deborah Sundahl

Sat, 19 Jun 2021 01:17:01 -0000

Who is ready for a hotter, wetter summer? Today, I’m joined by squirting expert, author, and educator Deborah Sundahl, a pioneer in female ejaculation and G-spot (or g-area) anatomy. Deborah and I discuss the difference between squirting and having an orgasm, a step-by-step guide to tapping into your squirting potential, where the G-spot (aka female prostate) is located and how to find it, and the best sex position to achieve a mind-blowing orgasm.

We answer your top questions about how to squirt and what ejaculate consists of, and the best ways to make sure you and your partner can relax and experience all the pleasure and release of a full-body orgasm.

Find Deborah Sundahl here: https://deborahsundahl.com

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Hot Summer Sex

Tue, 15 Jun 2021 22:17:04 -0000

Summer is heating up and I’m here to make sure your sex life follows suit. In this episode, I’m sharing ideas on how to experiment with hot (and cold) sensation play, the perks of hotel sex, and my personal sex toy picks for travel. Can’t get away this year? No worries, I’ve got sex tips for bringing the vacation into your bedroom.

I also answer your questions, like how to set boundaries for your bachelor/bachelorette parties, where to (safely) have sex in public, how to navigate a friends-with-benefits relationship, and what to do with penis anxiety if your partner plays with a toy bigger than you.

Show Notes:

Yes No Maybe List

Je Joue Mimi Soft Vibrator

Je Joue G-Spot Bullet Vibrator

Emily’s Vesper Vibrating Necklace

Je Joue Mio Penis Ring

b-Vibe

System Jo Lubricants

Foria: Premium CBD Products

Dame Hands-Free Eva

Dame Finger Vibe

Episode: Tell Me About The Last Time You Had Sex w/ Dr. Ian Kerner

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Am I Normal? w/ Dr. Maria Uloko

Sat, 12 Jun 2021 01:18:35 -0000

Show Notes:

Bellesa - Ethical Porn

Yes No Maybe List

Je Joue Uma G-Spot Vibrator

Je Joue G-Spot Bullet Vibrator

Glass Dildos at Good Vibrations

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Hotline Calls: Where Did the Sex Go?

Tue, 08 Jun 2021 23:42:56 -0000

In this episode, I’m taking more of your most pressing questions from the Sex With Emily hotline. We’re covering what to do if you can’t stop fantasizing about women (but you’re in a healthy relationship with a man), if your birth control is tanking your sex drive, why bisexual men are often shamed, how to bring back intimacy after a baby, and what to do if your partner won’t share their sexual desires.

Inspired to ask for my opinion? Call and leave a voicemail with your question! You can reach me at 559-TALK-SEX (559-825-5739). Can’t wait to hear from you!

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Real Self, Real Sex w/ Jeffrey Marsh

Fri, 04 Jun 2021 20:56:16 -0000

On today’s show, I am joined by activist, author, and queer commentator Jeffrey Marsh to discuss all things gender. Regardless of how you identify, Jeffrey’s radical self-acceptance will help you to gain a new perspective, have a different understanding of yourself and allow you to stop any negative self-talk. Jeffrey breaks down the difference between confidence self-acceptance, how fearlessly demanding respect from others frees you up to fully be yourself, and their experience as the first openly non-binary person on television.

We share the basics of gender pronouns, the difference between being trans and non-binary, how gender differs from sexual orientation, and how parents can support their children regardless of their identity. We also dive into Jeffrey’s book How to Be You, what happens during meditation and self-care journeys, and why learning to ask for what you need is crucial for healthy relationships.

For more information about Jeffrey Marsh (they/them), visit: http://jeffreymarsh.com

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Best of: Sex Drive, Love & Attachment w/ Dr. Helen Fisher

Wed, 02 Jun 2021 00:21:51 -0000

On today’s Best of episode, I am joined by renowned biological anthropologist and author of Anatomy of Love, Dr. Helen Fisher. We discuss whether love at first sight is possible, how our personality traits shape our attraction to others and the way our biology influences who we love.

We dive into the parts of your brain responsible for your sex drive, romantic love, and deep attachment. Dr. Fisher also shares findings from studies she has done with Match to answer the question: why do you fall in love with one person rather than another? We also explore the best age to marry, why orgasms create connection, the importance of space in a relationship and why casual sex is not really so casual (hint: catching feelings is real). You can take Dr. Fisher’s personality test to learn about how your personality impacts who you love and how you bond.

Take Dr. Fisher’s Personality Test here: https://theanatomyoflove.com/relationship-quizzes/helen-fishers-personality-test/

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Hotline Calls: More Orgasms for All

Fri, 28 May 2021 07:11:44 -0000

In this episode, I take calls from our Sex With Emily Hotline and we get into it!

Your questions include: what to do if you masturbate but can’t orgasm during sex, the best ways to meet people and date when newly sober, and what happens when your partner’s sexual fantasy creates issues in your relationship. Plus, I review how to start having sex again after a dry spell and when it might be time to break up if you’re sexually incompatible.

You can call me anytime and leave a voicemail: 559-TALK-SEX (559-825-5739).

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Show Notes:

Yes, No, Maybe List https://sexwithemily.com/guides/

Article: How To Have Sex in a Full House https://sexwithemily.com/how-to-have-sex-when-youre-in-a-full-house/

Logan Ury Episode: https://sexwithemily.com/how-to-not-die-alone-w-logan-ury/

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Is Social Media Blocking Your Sex Life?

Wed, 26 May 2021 01:44:35 -0000

Social media is becoming the “third'' partner in so many of our relationships, but it’s not the threesome most of us are craving.

Sure, it’s a great way to connect, but it can take a major toll on our sex lives. Today’s episode gets into the good, bad, and questionable impacts of social media. I answer your top questions like, what does it mean if my partner follows a bunch of Instagram models? If my partner is paying for Only Fans, does it count as cheating? And is it okay to check my partner's phone? (We surveyed our listeners and you might be surprised how many of you have snooped.)

A special thanks to our interns, Maria and Erica, who helped produce this episode.

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Meditation Is a Lubrication w/ Light Watkins

Fri, 21 May 2021 22:50:49 -0000

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Masturbation w/ Emily

Tue, 18 May 2021 19:18:25 -0000

It’s the most wonderful time of the year: Masturbation May! On today’s show, I’m honoring a month of self-love by giving you a brief history of the celebration (no, I didn’t make it up), the health benefits of masturbation, and my favorite toys for bringing you pleasure all year long.

Plus, I’m answering your questions like what to do if you feel yourself relying too much on your vibrator, why masturbation may be your key to success if you keep orgasm blocking yourself in the bedroom, signs that you’re masturbating too much and how to get rid of religious shame surrounding masturbation.

Show Notes:

Mutual Masturbation Guide: https://sexwithemily.com/guides/

The Psychology and Shame of Masturbation: https://sexwithemily.com/psychology-and-shame-of-masturbation/

Je Joue Mimi Clitoral Vibe, G-Spot Vibe, Bullet Vibe, & Mio Penis Ring: http://www.sexwithemily.com/jejoue

Magic Wand: http://bit.ly/2UqVf38

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Foria Lube: https://bit.ly/3rJFggP

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Bangin’ Orgasms w/ Nikki Glaser

Fri, 14 May 2021 22:35:22 -0000

Show Notes:

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Play With Yourself w/ Dr. Megan Stubbs

Tue, 11 May 2021 22:42:32 -0000

Show Notes:

Yes No Maybe List

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Best Of: Power to the Penis w/ Dr. Edward Karpman

Fri, 07 May 2021 18:49:07 -0000

I’m joined by board-certified urologist Dr. Edward Karpman to talk about virtually every penis topic there is and explore how overcoming your penis challenges can boost your sex life. He even shares some cautionary tales about penis fractures when your partner is on top.

We discuss the most common penis challenges (low testosterone, premature ejaculation, erectile dysfunction) and ways to work through them, how to get your brain on board when you’re dealing with performance anxiety, and how a penis implant actually works. Dr. Karpman also breaks down the pivotal role testosterone plays in your sex life, how his patients think about their penis size and the benefits and drawbacks of pills that treat erectile dysfunction.

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Oral Tips and (Not) Faking Orgasms w/ The LadyGang

Tue, 04 May 2021 21:09:11 -0000

Today I’m joined by the fabulous and entertaining hosts of The LadyGang; Keltie Knight, Becca Tobin, and Jac Vanek. We set intentions together and give recipes for feeling sexy after the pandemic, ways to give a killer bj (without it feeling like well, a job), and the different kinds of desire. Plus, I share the best ways to clean your sex toys, my most common listener questions, and what happens when TSA pulls your bag full of vibrators.

I also answer your questions about alleviating pain during sex, how to let your partner know you have been faking your orgasms, and what’s actually happening when you squirt.

Show Notes:

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The “Bottom” Line On Anal w/ Dr. Evan Goldstein

Fri, 30 Apr 2021 07:00:00 -0000

I also discuss how to address mismatched libidos in a relationship, tips Dr. Evan gives tips on how to relax, toys that can help, and which lubes are best for every act imaginable. We also break down lube shooters, how to minimize the risk of exposing yourself to STIs and what to consider whether you’re a top or a bottom. for getting ready for anal play, how feeling pressure to initiate and perform can affect the quality of your sex life, and the best ways to approach potential partners.

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Best Of: An Ode to Oral (Sex)

Tue, 27 Apr 2021 22:07:12 -0000

On today’s Best Of roundup, I break down attitudes about oral sex, the oral double standard, the evolutionary significance of oral sex, how to overcome vibrator intimidation, tips for alleviating delayed ejaculation, ways to combat sexual insecurities, and what to do when you’ve given up on having an orgasm (hint: don’t give up).

I also discuss how to address mismatched libidos in a relationship, tips for getting ready for anal play, how feeling pressure to initiate and perform can affect the quality of your sex life, and the best ways to approach potential partners.

Show notes:

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Tell Me About the Last Time You Had Sex w/ Ian Kerner

Fri, 23 Apr 2021 18:04:01 -0000

Renowned clinical sex therapist and best-selling author, Ian Kerner Ph.D. joins me today to talk about sex scripts, why fantasies are important for a relationship, the dynamics of kink, porn as “homework” and how to get into a flow state during sex. Dr. Kerner is the author of the legendary book She Comes First, “the thinking man’s guide to pleasuring a woman” and he just released a new book So, Tell Me About The Last Time You Had Sex. We cover a lot in this interview including what has changed in his last 20+ years as a practicing sex therapist. Hint: erectile dysfunction in younger men is real.

Dr. Kerner (“the man who made oral sex into an art form”) walks us through his latest book and explains how you can decode and rewrite your relationship’s sex script and bring your erotic self into the bedroom to transform your sex life. We discuss the importance of psychological arousal, what happens to your body during the honeymoon phase, when to challenge the monogamy script, what to do when there is a “desire discrepancy” in a relationship and so much more.

“When it comes to sex and relationship problems, many of us are leading lives of quiet desperation. Sometimes you can be lying in bed next to someone and feel a million miles apart. Talking about sex and relationships is hard, but self-silencing can be even harder in the long run.” – Dr. Kerner

Show Notes:

Ian's New Book: So Tell Me About The Last Time You Had Sex
Getting Cliterate w/ Dr. Ian Kerner
Rosemary Basson
Emily Nagoski, Ph.D.
The Kinsey Institute

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Light Up Your Sex Life w/ Lizzy Jeff

Wed, 21 Apr 2021 00:11:07 -0000

Happy 4/20! I’m joined by badass medicine woman, spiritual mentor, and rap priestess Lizzy Jeff to break down how cannabis can elevate your bedroom experiences. We discuss how to use THC and CBD for sex, the importance of getting high with intention, the necessity for healing sexual experiences, and why high sex is hot AF.

We also share how to find the best strains and doses for users of all experience levels, the importance of quality cannabis, our OWN relationships to weed+sex, and how “sex magick” can transform your life. Plus, we answer your questions about whether or not marijuana can improve orgasms, cottonmouth (not fun for oral), and how to shift your energy out of your head and into your body.

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Visualize Your Vulva

Sat, 17 Apr 2021 00:07:09 -0000

How well do you know the vulva and vagina? In this episode, I’m joined by four guests to break down all things V. We’re talking about how to take care of your vulva, the importance of strengthening your pelvic floor, WTF is up with menopause, and so much more. My first guest is OB/GYN, author of the She-Ology book series, and an expert in all things women’s sexual health, Dr. Sherry Ross. She shares the benefits of getting to know your (or your partner’s) vulva, the relationship between insecurity and porn, solutions for painful sex, and of course, squirting.

Next, we have MaryEllen Reider, from Yarlap, who joins me to talk about the importance of the pelvic floor muscles. Did you know that stronger pelvic floor muscles can make stronger orgasms? It’s true! Finally, the founder of Tabu, Natalie Waltz, and her mother, Ouhoud Dabbas help me demystify menopause and discuss how masturbation can help increase your libido.

For more information about Dr. Sherry, visit: drsherry.com

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Best Of: Bigger, Sexier Brains w/ Jim Kwik

Tue, 13 Apr 2021 21:30:29 -0000

The brain is the largest and most important sex organ. So on today’s Best Of, I’m joined by one of the world experts on optimal brain performance, Jim Kwik. We talk about how to sharpen and focus your memory (no more forgetting your anniversary), specific steps to activate a healthy brain, and the best foods to give your brain a boost.

You’ll be able to follow along as we walk through very specific, impactful, and easy to learn exercises you can use right away –– because a big, healthy brain is always sexy.

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Hot Sex with STIs w/ Dr. Ina Park

Fri, 09 Apr 2021 07:00:00 -0000

Fact: Your STI doesn’t make you ANY less sexy! In today's episode, I’m joined by the author of Strange Bedfellows and medical consultant, Dr. Ina Park who has made it her life's work to reduce the shame and stigma associated with sexually transmitted infections, AKA, STIs. Ina shares everything you need to know if you or someone you’re sleeping with is infected, how to reduce your risk of transmission, and when to disclose your status to a partner.

We also discuss Ina’s #1 tip for STI prevention, what to know about how your personal grooming can impact transmission and a surprising discovery about The Bachelor’s casting process. Finally, we answer your questions about transmission through oral sex, when it’s possible to get intimate without a condom and why having an STI isn’t a death sentence for your relationships. Let’s ditch the shame and bring on the sex.

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Fire Up Your Flirting

Wed, 07 Apr 2021 05:15:57 -0000

After a year of social distancing, many of us have forgotten how to flirt and date IRL. The good news: with a little practice, you’ll be stronger and sexier than ever before. In this episode, I cover the lessons we’ve learned from a year of isolation and digital dating and I also take a look at what might be in store for us in the year ahead. I walk you through how to regain confidence, uplevel your flirting skills, and important questions to ask yourself before jumping back out there.

I also answer questions about what to know when considering a “friend with benefits” arrangement, how to prepare for sex after a dry spell, getting back with an ex, and dating post-divorce.

Show Notes:

Love Language quiz

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Live an Orgasmic Life w/ Afrosexology

Fri, 02 Apr 2021 22:26:30 -0000

What if the euphoric bliss from an orgasm was captured in other moments of your daily life? Whether you’re eating a meal or spending time outside, prioritizing sensuality helps you start to experience what today’s guests like to call “orgasmic living.” I’m joined by the creators of Afrosexology, Dalychia Saah and Rafaella Fiallo who join me to discuss the power of this life-changing concept. Their mission is to empower, educate and explore Black sexuality and self-improvement through sexual liberation.

We discuss their journey into creating Afrosexology, the importance of embodiment, the power of centering pleasure and being intentional in the present moment. We also demystify different aspects of kink, polyamory, and compersion, so that you can see if any of these are things you’d want to add to your sex life. Plus, we answer your questions about prioritizing your pleasure as much as your partner’s and feeling more connected during and after sexual experiences.

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Lube It or Leave It

Tue, 30 Mar 2021 21:05:48 -0000

I’ve said it once and I’ll say it a million times: there should be a bottle of lube (or more) on every nightstand. I mean, seriously just a few drops can transform your sex and amplify the amount of pleasure. But, it can be difficult to know what kind of lube is best suited for you and your needs.

On today’s show, I break down the best lubes for masturbation, anal, penetrative, and oral sex. I share the results of our Better Sex Survey sponsored by Pjur Lube. I cover products that are safe for a vagina’s PH and some household items that are better kept in the kitchen than inside of you. I also discuss what your wetness really means, the transformation lube can have with discomfort during sex, how sex increases intimacy between you and your partner, and how penis size can change with an erection.

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How To Keep the Honeymoon Vibes Alive

Fri, 26 Mar 2021 07:00:00 -0000

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How To Not Die Alone w/ Logan Ury

Tue, 23 Mar 2021 20:24:51 -0000

Logan Ury, the author of How to Not Die Alone and director of Relationship Science at Hinge, joins me to share her best tips for all things dating. Logan provides practical tips for avoiding dating blindspots, the drawbacks of unrealistic expectations, and algorithms to live by for finding a satisfying relationship.

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Best Of: Winner, Winner, Sex Before Dinner

Fri, 19 Mar 2021 21:30:57 -0000

Sex can get stale but today I focus on ways to keep it fresh. In this Best Of episode, I share some sex hacks that bring back spontaneity in easy and creative ways. I share new uses for pillows, ideas for games you can play anywhere, and tricks to make doggy-style even better.

I answer your questions about how to know if you should end a long-distance relationship, why prostate orgasms feel so good, and what to do if your partner’s porn habits lead to problems in the bedroom.

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No Shame in Your Fantasy Game

Tue, 16 Mar 2021 21:27:55 -0000

I also answer your questions including, what to do if you fantasize about a best friend, how to be a third in a threesome, and explore latex, panty, and foot fetishes.

Show Notes:

Podcast with Justin Lehmiller
Dating apps: Craigslist, Feeld, OkCupid, FetLife, Adult Friend Finder, #Open
Yes, No, Maybe List
Tips For Better Communication Free Guide

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Touch Me, Please

Fri, 12 Mar 2021 20:54:17 -0000

How have you been feeding your skin hunger? Quarantine has caused many of us to experience a “starvation diet” of physical touch and now it’s to feast. The lack of physical touch can exacerbate anxiety or depression, on today’s show I’ll share how you can find more touch and intimacy in your daily life.

I also answer questions about how to get back out there and date while newly sober, how to bring the excitement back in a sexless relationship, and how to introduce new techniques (and toys) into the bedroom.

Show Notes:

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How to Be Happy w/ Dr. Amen

Tue, 09 Mar 2021 22:06:25 -0000

We answer a question from a habitual cheater on how to break the cycle and discuss how Attention Deficit Disorder (ADD) can get in the way of your orgasm. I also answer your Rapid Fire questions covering everything from tips for hotter shower sex to bring up your kink to a partner.

Show notes:

Find out which dragons you have here: KnowYourDragons.com

Order Dr. Amen’s latest book Your Brain Is Always Listening here: YourBrainIsAlwaysListening.com

For more information about Dr. Daniel Amen, visit: danielamenmd.com

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Get Your Masters in Masturbation

Fri, 05 Mar 2021 21:47:00 -0000

Your masturbation class is in session. In today’s episode, you’ll learn the health benefits of self-pleasure and how it helps you not only reduce stress but elevate your mood. It's also a gateway to understanding your body, boosting your self-esteem, and giving you some serious pleasure.

I answer your questions about how to try masturbation when you never have, which sex toys to use, and the magic of mutual masturbation. I get into the tricky relationship between shame and fantasy and discuss how often you should masturbate in a relationship—it’s probably more than you think!

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Best of: Hotter, Deeper Sex w/John Wineland

Wed, 03 Mar 2021 02:50:23 -0000

In this Sex With Emily best of, I’m joined by sex and intimacy coach John Wineland to discuss the driving force behind attraction, sexual connection, and desire. We discuss the polarity of masculine and feminine energy, what symbolic aspects of anal make it so hot, how to build attraction from the inside out, and give tools to enhance connection.

We also get into your questions like why the urge to have an affair can be so strong, how to know if there is enough sexual chemistry to pursue a second date, and what to do to bring sex back into your long-term relationship.

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First Date, First Orgasm, First Threesome

Wed, 24 Feb 2021 00:19:58 -0000

Do you remember your first time? It could be your first date, first threesome, first orgasm, or your first time experimenting with a new position. No matter what it is, any “first” experience can feel intimidating, but I’m here to help eliminate any fear that might be holding you back.

I answer questions about how to navigate first-time experiences: having sex, getting on a dating app, performing oral sex, trying anal play, and other adventures. Whether it’s your first time or you want to expand your sexual repertoire, this episode will encourage you to try something new and sexy.

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Be Your Sexy Self w/ Black Girls Texting

Fri, 19 Feb 2021 19:43:33 -0000

Ever want to know what really goes down in your girlfriend’s group chat? Today you’ll find out when I’m joined by Chelsea, Glynn, and Sade, the hosts of the popular much talked about Black Girls Texting. We explore sex dreams, what it’s like to have a threesome with your best friend, and the art of sending nudes.

We answer questions and discuss cultural stereotypes, manscaping, pre-gaming sex, and the power of setting sexual intentions.

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7 Steps To Breakup Recovery

Wed, 17 Feb 2021 03:48:31 -0000

Breakups! They can be painful. Losing a partner can feel like a mini-death, especially if you’ve spent time planning a future together. In this episode, I give my top tips for how to cope with a breakup and reground yourself. If you are struggling to move on after a breakup, following even one of these steps will help you recover.

I also answer your questions with tips for giving better oral sex, sexy gift recommendations for long-distance relationships, and communication tools for expressing your emotional and sexual needs.

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CAUTION: Sexual Roadblocks Ahead

Fri, 12 Feb 2021 23:57:41 -0000

Ever wonder why you’re not having more sex? Well, wonder no more. This episode identifies the 6 most common roadblocks to sex. Whether you’re too stressed to get too turned on or too self-conscious to get naked, we all have barriers that hold us back from sex and pleasure. In this episode, I’m sharing specific tips so you can overcome the most common sexual barriers.

I also answer your questions including what to do if your wetness level is inconsistent during sex, the relationship between OnlyFans and cheating, how to handle a jealous partner, and what to do if your partner has a fetish but lockdown has made it more challenging.

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Success (Stories) w/ Emily

Tue, 09 Feb 2021 22:05:11 -0000

Here’s the secret formula to better sex: prioritize it! In this episode, we’re talking all about sex success stories and how taking just one step can take your sex life from static to ecstatic. From finding closure with an ex to trying out swinging and finding it works and looking for sex after a life of not having any, each of these people has taken a big step towards changing their lives. Get inspired to create your own sex-cess story.

I also answer questions about what to do if your boyfriend won’t communicate openly with you about your sex life, how to be more confident rocking the cowgirl position, and what to do if mismatched libidos are making you feel insecure in your relationship.

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Valentines, Vibrators & Vulvas

Fri, 05 Feb 2021 20:38:32 -0000

V-Day is right around the corner! Whether you’re living your best single life or you have a special someone, I want to set you up to have a sexy, love-filled day. In this episode, I’m sharing some of my hot tips for creating the ideal date night—regardless of who it’s with. I cover everything from toy recommendations to thoughtful personal gifts you can give yourself or a loved one.

I also answer questions about how to prep for anal sex, how to get back into dating in your 40s, and why wetness doesn’t always equal arousal.

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Sex Goals For The Win

Wed, 03 Feb 2021 02:57:06 -0000

The best sex of your life doesn’t happen by chance. If it did, we’d all be having it. In this episode, I share my own sex and dating intentions for the year and help you plan your own. I guide you through our new Pleasure planner with my teammate Amanda, and we explore how prioritizing your sex life will benefit your overall life. I also answer questions about confidence in the bedroom, STIs and condoms, and if it’s possible to repair a relationship after someone cheats. If you need some inspiration to create your own sex and love goals, download our free Pleasure Planner sexwithemily.com/downloads

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Talk Dirty To Me w/ Joanna Angel

Fri, 29 Jan 2021 19:00:00 -0000

I also answer questions about what to do when you’re ghosted after a first date, how to get more foreplay when your partner just wants to dive right into sex, and lots of Rapid Fire questions. If you’d like to ask me a question about sex or relationships, email me at feedback@sexwithemily.com.

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Best Of: All Aboard The Booty Train

Tue, 26 Jan 2021 22:58:04 -0000

Today, I’m throwing it back to one of my most favored episodes and giving you a crash course in all things anal, the not-so-surprising sex trend of the decade. I also give my some tips on going deeper into tantric sex, why it’s best not to share your sex number with your partner, and how Kegel exercises affect your penis. Plus, I discuss the age-old debate of love vs. lust, and how to know the difference.

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It’s All In Your Head w/ Dr. Anadel Barbour

Fri, 22 Jan 2021 22:17:18 -0000

You know how I’m always recommending therapy to callers? Well, today I’m joined by my therapist, Dr. Anadel Barbour. She is a licensed EMDR, marriage and family therapist and she has a Ph.D. in human sexuality. We talk about coping with a partner’s anxiety, fantasizing about your ex, and how to deal when your partner leaves you for another woman.

I answer your calls about finding a quality friend with benefits and what to do if porn is impacting your sex with a partner. We end with my new Rapid Fire Segment where I answer as many of your questions as possible. Did I answer yours? Tune in to find out. Don’t forget to send in your questions! Email me at feedback@sexwithemily.com and follow me on Instagram @SexwithEmily.

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How Do I Stop Being So Jealous

Tue, 19 Jan 2021 21:24:04 -0000

We’ve all felt the ache of jealousy creeping into our relationships—but where does it come from and how can you handle it so it doesn’t destroy your relationship? A little bit of jealousy is normal, but when it turns into anger and possessiveness, you have to learn to acknowledge and work with it. Today, I’m explaining how jealousy works, what you can learn from it, and how to deal with the insecurities so it doesn’t corrode your relationships.

I’m also answering questions about how to help your partner out of their sexual shell, dating after divorce, how often you can have anal sex, and so much more.

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Totally Unwaxed w/ the Stallone Sisters

Sat, 16 Jan 2021 01:12:35 -0000

I’m joined by the hosts of the Unwaxed podcast, Sophia and Sistine Stallone. Find out what really happens on the dating apps, how to spot red flags, and why a bad first kiss doesn’t have to be a deal-breaker. I encourage them to make time for masturbation and we discuss if watching porn is considered cheating.

I take your calls and answer a bunch of your Instagram questions in our new Rapid Fire segment. I cover prostate play, adult virginity, partner toys, and what to do when your partner takes too long to orgasm.

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Better Sleep for Better Sex w/ Dr Breus

Tue, 12 Jan 2021 21:21:46 -0000

Today, we’re talking about my second-favorite bedroom activity: sleep. I’m putting on my PJs, setting my phone to ‘Do Not Disturb’, and sitting down with sleep expert Dr. Michael Breus. He tells me how to figure out what kind of sleeper you are, what that says about your sex drive, and how you can take advantage of your body’s natural rhythm to optimize your day.

We also take calls helping people figure out their sleep schedule, what medications work best for sleep, and best practices to deal with sleep apnea. After all, better sleep=better sex, so it’s something we should ALL prioritize.

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Sex Tips I Wish I Knew In My 20s

Fri, 08 Jan 2021 19:00:00 -0000

You don’t know what you don’t know, especially when it comes to sex. I get so many questions from my listeners in their 20s, so I thought it’d be fun to showcase some of their insightful questions in one podcast, specifically the ones I wish I knew at their age. Anal sex, cheating, miscommunication in the bedroom, pain during sex, moving past shame, advice for starting an open relationship, and so much more all in this episode!

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Meditate, Masturbate, Manifest w/ Tal Rabinowitz

Tue, 05 Jan 2021 22:49:25 -0000

She gives tips for beginners who’ve never tried calming their minds and shares how meditation can totally change your outlook on your relationship. We also talk about judgment, specifically how you can stop labeling everything as ‘bad’ or ‘good’ and simply let things be what they are. It’s 2021—and time to meditate, masturbate, and manifest for a better year.

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Getting Naked w/ Emily

Fri, 01 Jan 2021 20:28:36 -0000

Let’s take off the metaphorical clothes and reveal our authentic selves, people. Today, we’re putting the spotlight on our deepest insecurities so we fully participate in loving ourselves. Whether you’re worried about your weight or your penis, the more we try to hide our fears, the bigger they get. To make it easier for you to share YOUR fears, my team gets real and lays it all out in the open. Turns out, a lot of us are fighting the same demons.

We talk about our journeys with body image, weight, balding, period sex, and more. Then, I walk through how to work on each unique insecurity so you can learn to like (and maybe even love) those things about yourself.

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Ring In The New Year With A Bang

Tue, 29 Dec 2020 18:13:24 -0000

2020 might not have been our sexiest year, but today’s episode will set you up for 12 months of sex-cess. Let’s say goodbye to the year of breakups and endless “doomsterbating” and hello to courtship, communication, and more orgasms. Hear my sex and love predictions for 2021 and a step-by-step guide to plan a healthier year ahead. I break down how to create intentions that will work all year long. I love answering as many of your questions as possible, so let me know what you think about our new Rapid Fire segment. Let’s ring in this new year with a bang.

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Best of: Sexually Awakened in Isolation w/ Nikki Boyer

Fri, 25 Dec 2020 19:00:00 -0000

Today we’re throwing it back to my interview with Nikki Boyer, host of the limited podcast series “Dying for Sex.” We’re talking about how you can explore and discover new pleasure even when things seem grim. She tells me how during times of uncertainty, a sexual awakening can do wonders for your self-esteem.

While you can’t really go out and date right now, get inspired to open your mind to new sexual possibilities. Plus, I answer your questions about self-discovery, keeping a long-distance relationship alive, and using lube vs lotion.

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Lube Up Your Relationship

Wed, 23 Dec 2020 19:00:00 -0000

Today, comedian Adam Ferrara shares how to completely overhaul communication in a long-term relationship. He shares his coping strategies for ADD, why worry isn’t a “responsibility” and blows up the common belief around achievements making us happy (hint: it doesn’t).

We also help a caller figure out how to talk to her boyfriend about their passionless sex life—with the right approach, it’s nearly always possible to bring back the magic.

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Trauma and Self-Love w/ Tana Amen

Tue, 22 Dec 2020 19:00:00 -0000

Content Warning: This episode mentions abuse, rape, and murder.

Tana Amen is the VP of Amen Clinics and New York Times best-selling author whose latest book “The Relentless Courage Of A Scared Child” explores how she overcame perfectionism, dating the wrong people, an eating disorder, and many incidences of childhood trauma. Tana shares how revealing her long-hidden secrets freed her up to be her authentic self.

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Gifts That Suck (In A Good Way)

Sat, 19 Dec 2020 00:02:57 -0000

‘Tis the season of giving but what if you don’t know how to receive? Receiving can be difficult for many, especially with gifts of oral pleasure. If you have trouble relaxing while someone goes down on you, you’re not alone. To help ease any “receiving anxiety,” I walk you through specific steps you can take to fully enjoy all the gifts coming down your chimney tonight.

We also talk to a caller who is more experienced than her partner. Finally, we go over some of the best gifts that our callers have ever received. Surprisingly, they aren’t all pleasure related.

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Best Oral, Worst Anal With Alex Cooper

Fri, 11 Dec 2020 18:30:00 -0000

Today I am joined by Alex Cooper from the Call Her Daddy podcast. Alex shares the details of her sexual journey from boring sex in high school to the evolved sex she’s having now. We explore what she’s learned from dating the wrong guys and compare notes about how hosting a podcast affects our lives.

We also get into Alex’s masturbation routine, cheating, her disastrous first anal experience, and she gets specific on why her new partner is so good at giving oral.

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Break Up With Cheating

Tue, 01 Dec 2020 19:05:16 -0000

We all know someone who’s cheated or we’ve cheated ourselves but why do we do it? Is it really about sex or are there other things at play? Therapist and psychological astrologer, Dr. Jennifer Freed, and I discuss the ways we experience betrayal and how to move past it.

Listen to learn how to break the habit of dating the wrong people and avoiding those pesky attachment issues.

Trigger warning: This episode references sexual abuse.

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Level Up: Sex-cessfully Satisfied

Fri, 27 Nov 2020 18:00:00 -0000

Who doesn’t love a success story? In today’s episode, a few return callers share the steps they took to take their sex life to the next level.

If you want your partner to be more dominant, use toys with more ease or hear an efficient way to talk to your teen about sex, these SWE listeners made it happen.

Since sexual desires are constantly changing, never stop communicating, exploring, and prioritizing pleasure.

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Research Is Me-Search With Dr. Will Siu

Tue, 24 Nov 2020 17:59:25 -0000

You know how I always say “research is me-search”? My guest, psychiatrist and psychedelics expert Dr. Will Siu, shares how he reframed his religious upbringing, released anger and went even deeper with therapeutic psychedelics. Will also shares how to get past some common insecurities—like penis size.

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A MasterClass on Sex (Finally!)

Sat, 21 Nov 2020 01:56:11 -0000

I made a MasterClass! I am so honored for the opportunity to partner with MasterClass on this career milestone. Go behind the scenes into how I created the class and funneled decades of my work into simple steps you can take today to release all the shame, communicate your needs, and prioritize your pleasure. We cover why your sex life gets better the more you talk about it, and I reveal my sexual superpowers. Watch my class now on MasterClass.com/emilymorse

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Dr. Phil and the Secret to His Marriage

Wed, 18 Nov 2020 19:19:07 -0000

On today’s show, I’m joined by the amazing Dr. Phil with a special appearance from his wife Robin McGraw. We talk about his new show That Animal Rescue Show, tips for dealing with isolation, and how his daytime television show is operating under social distancing limitations. Plus, together they give their advice on how to make relationships stronger based on their almost 50 years together!

Before that, we’re talking all about breakups: when to know if it’s time to call it quits, how to move on from an ex, how you can overcome feelings of insecurity, and how to spot red flags. Plus, some quick lube tips for anyone looking to slip it in.

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Everybody Loves a Happy Ending

Tue, 17 Nov 2020 19:17:28 -0000

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Will I Ever Stop Thinking About My Ex?

Fri, 13 Nov 2020 18:58:28 -0000

What if I told you that the best sex of your life was on the other side of your fear? We all have them - fear of rejection, fear of asking for what you want, fear of commitment, and fear of being our authentic selves. Today, we discuss the most common roadblocks to more pleasure and how to let them go once and for all.

I take calls and answer questions about taking too long to orgasm, period sex, sexual triggers, and performance anxiety in the bedroom. I help you recognize and release what’s holding you back.

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Ready, Willing and Anal With John Hill

Fri, 06 Nov 2020 18:00:00 -0000

On today’s show, I’m sitting down with John Hill of Radio Andy & The Feels on SiriusXM. We’re covering everything from cuffing season, to taking a break from sex during quarantine, to the suggestive app: Slutbot! We also cover a variety from anal and oral tips, so you can take a break from the chaos by amping up your game in the bedroom.

We also dive deep into listener questions, like “what do you do if your partner gets soft during sex?” or “what are the best positions to prevent slippage?” Finally, we talk about how to spot scammers on dating apps—because how else are we meeting people these days?

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This Is Your Brain on Sex With Dr Daniel Amen

Tue, 03 Nov 2020 20:41:29 -0000

What do stress, cheating, miscommunication, erectile dysfunction, and depression have in common? Well, for one thing, they all start in your brain. My guest today is psychiatrist and best selling author, Dr. Daniel Amen and he’s here to help you fall in love with your brain so you can stay healthy and make better choices in and outside the bedroom.

Have you ever thought about cheating on your partner? Together, Dr. Amen and I explore where that temptation comes from and how you can tell the difference between the excitement of an affair and what benefits both you and your brain in the long run.

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Breaking Out of Toxic Relationships With Therapist Jamye Waxman

Fri, 30 Oct 2020 17:01:14 -0000

Content Warning: If you are triggered by stories of emotional abuse, this episode may not be for you.

Real talk: relationships can be amazing! (That’s why so many of us get into them!) But with the wrong partner, relationships can also be harmful. Today, I’m joined by Marriage & Family therapist, Jamye Waxman. We talk about how to spot abusive behavior, what you should never put up within a relationship, and how to break the cycle of dating unhealthy people.

If you think you might be in an abusive relationship, please know you’re not alone and that there are ways to find help. Reach out to your support network, make a plan, and call or chat with the National Domestic Violence Hotline 1-800-787-3224.

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Squirting, Cheating & Oral Orgasms

Wed, 28 Oct 2020 20:20:27 -0000

Did someone say “bonus Q+A Episode”? Oh, right. It was me! Today I’m taking audience calls, and I must say: you’ve been asking great questions lately. Like, what does it mean if your partner can’t orgasm during penetration? Will eating pineapple change the way you taste? And how to get over a cheating ex?

I share some tips to help your partner squirt. Plus, I help a caller discover some new positions for plus-sized bodies. If you can’t seem to make sex comfortable for everyone involved, I’m here to review your many options. Remember: there are always ways to open up to even more pleasure.

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Lingerie Looks, DDLG, and Love-Bombing

Tue, 27 Oct 2020 13:00:00 -0000

Halloween’s cancelled this year but that doesn’t mean you can’t dress up. Today, I’m talking about lingerie, figuring out what outfits you like, how to talk about it with your partner and what happens when your plans for a sexy lingerie night go astray. The right outfit can completely transform sex and break up the monotony in long-term relationships. (Spoiler alert: it doesn’t have to be leather or lace!)

Later on, we talk about the perks and pitfalls of daddy dom/little girl play, how to spot red flags before you get too involved and how love-bombers use affection to manipulate their partners.

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Curious Questions to Ask Your Partner Tonight With Jamye Waxman

Fri, 23 Oct 2020 16:49:23 -0000

Truth: this year has been HARD on relationships. Luckily, sex educator, author, licensed therapist, and my dear friend Jamye Waxman is here to help! For those struggling to connect right now, Jamye gives different methods for checking in with your partner, rekindling the magic, and keeping a relationship strong over time.

Together we talk about the power of curiosity to avoid petty fights and harboring resentment as well as what to do if you and your partner are at different “speeds” sexually. We also take calls about how to healthily express your emotions and how to help your partner cope with sexual shame.

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Sex, Drugs and the Side-Effects of Birth Control With Ricki Lake and Abby Epstein

Tue, 20 Oct 2020 19:40:09 -0000

80% of American women will try birth control at some point in their lives. But what does the pill do over time? Ricki Lake and Abby Epstein are here to demystify the murky, confusing world of birth control and their new film The Business of Birth Control.

We discuss the side effects of taking these medications and the information we should all have before deciding which one to use. Ricki also opens up about her newfound sex drive and how at age 52, she’s “feeling like a horny 16-year-old boy.” If you’ve ever had questions about birth control, hormones, and sex drive, this episode is for you.

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Meet Your New Cam_Girlfriend Lily Labeau

Fri, 16 Oct 2020 15:39:15 -0000

Today I’m joined by cam girl, porn star, and actor Lily LaBeau from the YouTube series Cam_Girlfriend to share what she has learned about her body, her sexuality, and what she finds sexy. We also talk about how camming works, what’s off-limits, setting boundaries, and making a living in your underwear.

Lily also shares how the sex industry has helped her discover new ways to find pleasure, her best stories from working with clients, and why she believes everyone can benefit from trying camming at least once.

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Dry Spells, Long Distance Love, and Dealing With the Dating Apps

Wed, 14 Oct 2020 00:11:40 -0000

Finding love has always been hard work, but COVID has made it ten times more difficult. That’s why this episode is ALL about dating. From moving off the apps to dating post-breakup, to finding someone who meets your sexual desires, I go over the most common dating debacles.

I also cover why it’s crucial that you know what you want in a partner—after all, how can you find love if you don’t know what you’re looking for? To make things easier, I share my top tips for breaking down the steps to finding clarity so that you can manifest your dream partner.

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WTF Is Doomsturbating (and Is It Bad for Me?)

Fri, 09 Oct 2020 18:08:49 -0000

Today’s episode is all about one of my favorite topics: masturbation. Specifically, we’re getting into “doomsturbating,” or masturbating in order to distract yourself when the world feels like just too much. But how much masturbating is too much? Like anything in life, there’s a limit—here’s how to know if you’ve reached yours.

I’m also taking your calls and answering questions about breast sizes, how confidence and self-love can change your bedroom game, how to help your partner reach orgasm, and some super fun handjob tips and tricks. It’s one of the most underrated sex moves!

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Pegging, Glory Holes and Public Masturbation With Carol Queen

Tue, 06 Oct 2020 19:39:02 -0000

On today’s show, I’m talking with author, sociologist, and sexology royalty Carol Queen. Carol has been leading the charge for open, honest sex talk for over 40 years. We dive into the CDC’s new glory hole guidelines and Carol’s new favorite all-gender vibrators and much more.

I also help a couple find the best sex position for their changing bodies, someone wanting to know where they can live out their public masturbation fantasy and a man who wants to make oral exciting again.

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Daddy Issues, Secret Hookups & Love Bombing With Violet Benson

Sat, 03 Oct 2020 02:08:49 -0000

If you’re trying to focus on self-improvement these days, you’re not alone. In today’s episode, Violet Benson talks about how isolation helped her develop a newfound appreciation for self-love and confidence. Violet is also the founder of @DaddyIssues on Instagram and the host of the podcast, Too Tired To Be Crazy. Not only does she discuss her new favorite vibrator, but she also shares how she learned to stop dating toxic people, the new ways she loves her body, and reveals her secret hookup with Too Hot To Handle’s Francesca Fargo.

I also break down some important relationship terms: what exactly is “love bombing” and how does it correlate with codependency in relationships? Plus, I help a caller with tips on how to initiate sex without feeling like you’re left rejected.

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Talking to Your Kids About Sex With Shafia Zaloom

Tue, 29 Sep 2020 18:05:13 -0000

Today on the show, we’ve got Shafia Zaloom, a health educator and author who develops curricula for sex education in schools across the country. Shafia and I discuss the most effective ways parents can teach their kids about sex to develop healthy sexuality and cultivate shame-free knowledge.

Shafia also brings up specific words and strategies to use in helping children learn about sex, so that you can go into conversations about sex with an expert-level toolkit. We also get into how to teach consent and what we can do improve Sex Ed in schools. Spoiler: It starts with you!! The show ends with me taking calls and answering questions, like “what do you do if your partner hates oral?” or “how do you stop dating the wrong person?” No question is off-limits.

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Sex Talk With My Therapist, Dr. Anadel Barbour

Fri, 25 Sep 2020 18:38:38 -0000

It’s no mystery that things have been more stressful than usual these days. When life feels chaotic, our relationships and sex lives tend to suffer, and so it’s important to reset the mind and focus on the present. That’s why I’ve brought on my therapist Dr. Anadel Barbour to discuss the coping mechanisms and mindfulness techniques I use to reignite my best self.

Dr. Barbour and I talk about EMDR therapy and its revolutionary healing power, specifically in the face of trauma. We also talk about the difference between your thoughts vs. the truth and how to eliminate overthinking in the bedroom. Stick around for the end of the episode, when Dr. Barbour leads us through a full body positivity scan because, let’s face it, loving a partner begins with loving yourself.

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Amanda Montell Is a Wordslut

Tue, 22 Sep 2020 22:09:00 -0000

As many of you know, I’m obsessed with communication so it only makes sense that we look at word choice when talking about sex. In this epsiode, I meet with Amanda Montell, linguist and author of Wordslut: A Feminist Guide to Taking Back the English Language, to explore the greater meaning, power, and historical importance of the words we chose to use. Plus, we delve into the origins of gendered slang like ‘vajayjay’ and offer positive alternatives to the current words in our sexual dictionary.

In the second half of the episode, I take a few calls and answer questions on how to examine yourself after several failed relationships, increase enjoyment of oral sex, and have fun and safe sex in a noncommitted relationship.

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Best of: Sex In Retrograde

Fri, 18 Sep 2020 18:18:56 -0000

On today’s throwback show, I’m revisiting my 2018 interview with Elizabeth Kott & Stephanie Simbari from the That’s So Retrograde podcast. We talk about mindfulness, wellness & how it relates to your relationships both with yourself and a partner.

We also get into what all this “retrograde” talk really means, how it affects your life and some alternative ways to work on yourselves because we’re never done improving. Plus, how your gut relates to sexual health and acts like a second brain.

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Edge Your Way to Longer Sex

Tue, 15 Sep 2020 20:08:36 -0000

You’ve heard me talk about the importance of a woman’s orgasm but you’re still wondering, ‘what about men?’ On today's show, I give tips and tricks for both genders on how to achieve their most powerful orgasm yet. Then, I share toys specifically for male pleasure.

Stick around for the end of the show because I answer even more of your questions and calls. Including, tips for oral sex, the importance of loving your body and confidence even if you Plus, I speculate on the distinction between someone who is interested in dating vs keeping it platonic.

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Cuckolding, Consent & Casual Sex

Fri, 11 Sep 2020 17:33:01 -0000

Today I’m talking with sex, kink, and relationship educator Sarah Sloane from the dating app #Open about the reality of cuckolding, dating effectively after divorce and reigniting the connection with your partner.

I explore consent as one of the sexiest things you can practice in a relationship, how you can use it to enhance intimacy and why it’s the hottest sex move you haven’t tried (yet).

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Random Acts of Oral With Shani Hart

Tue, 08 Sep 2020 21:02:49 -0000

Today I’m talking with certified sexuality coach Shani Hart about how to keep yourself satisfied while you take care of your partner. Shani also gives us her helpful oral sex philosophy, tips for using toys together and talks about the importance of representation in the sex industry.

I also talk to psychological astrologer Dr. Jen Freed, who joins us with her monthly astro-sex forecast for each sign. We dive deep into what IS sexy, why it’s necessary to be with someone who brings out the best in you and non-negotiables when it comes to self worth and self pleasure.

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Staycations & Sex Talks

Fri, 04 Sep 2020 19:05:00 -0000

Ever wonder what the world would be like if we all felt comfortable talking about sex? We’d have way more pleasure, less shame and much healthier relationships. Not to mention that talking about sex increases desire and leads to a more satisfying life all around.

In today’s episode I also cover how to plan a sexy staycation. It’s possible even if you’re stuck at home! I advise the best way to bring toys into the bedroom, why you should consider a lube shooter and the best time to communicate your needs to a partner.

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Is That A Red Flag In Your Pocket Or Are You Just Happy To See Me?

Tue, 01 Sep 2020 18:05:14 -0000

When it comes to relationships, it’s not unusual to get into unhealthy patterns—so I'm going to help you identify some of the warning signs you might be ignoring. Whether you’re dating a perfectionist or a partner who is emotionally unavailable, there are some red flags that will never turn green.

I also address why words are just as important as actions, how to spot if someone is emotionally detached and you’ll learn when and how to communicate difficult feelings with the people we love most.

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Porn vs Reality

Fri, 28 Aug 2020 16:22:09 -0000

Today I bring you a special combination of guests, to give you a unique perspective on the porn industry. I talk to legendary porn star and sex educator Nina Hartley, sex addiction specialist Dr. Marnie Breecker and ethical porn director Erika Lust.

Nina Hartley shares her insights on her decades long experience in the porn industry, her personal relationships and advice on figuring out what kind of relationships work for you. Then, Dr. Breecker and I take a deep dive into the complexities of sex addiction. Dr. Breecker is a therapist who specializes in sex addiction and she has advice for people who are struggling to break free.

I also talk with erotic filmaker Erika Lust about her mission to create ethically minded films for all genders. Erika has been writing and directing for years so she’s full of insights about intimacy both onscreen and off.

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Oh the places you’ll “O”

Wed, 26 Aug 2020 19:10:32 -0000

Today’s show is all about you and answering your questions. One couple wants to know how to prepare for a threesome, another wants their partner to experiment with cuckolding. However you want to explore an open relationship, I cover the topics everyone should think about before pulling the trigger.

Also, how to overcome anxiety in the bedroom whether it’s you or your partner with the distracting thoughts. Take a deep breath and listen in.

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Your Sex Life on Meds

Tue, 25 Aug 2020 20:31:19 -0000

Ever wonder what to do about the sexual side effects of your antidepressants? It can be super frustrating to have an improved mood but a decreased libido. In this episode, I cover how to know if you’re experiencing unwanted side effects and what to do about them.

Anyone else’s sex life taken a nose-dive in the past few months? Well, there could be a lot more going on than just mismatched sex drives. Starting with healthy communication can help you sort out those pesky resentments. I also dissect what we can learn (and not learn) from Cardi B’s WAP video featuring Megan Thee Stallion.

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Can I Eat My Own Semen? and Other Frequently Asked Questions

Fri, 21 Aug 2020 22:49:19 -0000

For months now, the most popular blog post on SexWithEmily.com has been “Is it normal (or safe) to eat your own ejaculate?” I’m excited to finally be answering that on today’s podcast. Join me and my callers as we explore the curiosity and appeal around this popular question.

I advise a woman on how to overcome feeling insecure around her partner, because we all suffer from self-doubt from time to time, especially in the bedroom. I also tackle how porn can impact your relationship and ways to safely explore your fantasies.

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Mismatched Sex Drives, Shagging Sober and The Importance of Listening with Adam Ferrara

Tue, 18 Aug 2020 22:04:39 -0000

Did you grow up with a loud family? So did today’s guest. Adam Ferrara is a comedian, actor and recovering loudmouth. He and I talk about how important it was for his marriage to learn to listen. We get into control issues and the work required to undo the damage caused by childhood trauma.

Before that, I take a call from a young woman who has great sex when she’s tipsy but wants to find that same fun mentality without a drink. Another woman wants to know why she can squirt with one partner but not others. I also talk to Brooke from Pennsylvania who needs help getting comfortable receiving oral from her husband. All of these issues are more common than you’d think. Don’t miss the lively discussion with my team about what to do with your sex toys after a breakup!

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Summer Sex, Mindfulness and The Cosmic Orgasm with Elle Chase & Dr. Jennifer Freed

Fri, 14 Aug 2020 17:46:43 -0000

Answering your questions about how to have more pleasure is my jam and this episode is no exception. Alongside my friend and sex educator Elle Chase, I cover sex without penetration, summer sex tips and mindfulness. Elle and I get right down to business taking a call from Mike in Arizona who wants to have a threesome (shock!) with his girlfriend, but wants to make sure he sets it up for success. Later, we answer your questions about sex positions for curvier people and what to expect after a hysterectomy.

First off, though, is Dr. Jennifer Freed’s monthly astro-sex forecast! Jen is a renowned psychological astrologer who has been helping people realize and reach their potential for over thirty years. To go even deeper this month, Jen takes questions from the Sex With Emily team about the relationship between our moon and sun signs and what we can expect during the next full moon.

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Threesomes, Kink, and Opening Up with #OPEN

Tue, 11 Aug 2020 18:40:52 -0000

Alternative relationships are more popular than ever so today I’m talking to Miley Manliguis from #OPEN, a new dating app that’s designed for modern relationships - essentially, anything other than monogamy. Maile shares the intimate details about opening up her relationship with her husband after they had a child. She talks about juggling parenting and dating, her boundaries with her husband and how giving birth empowered her to embrace her sexuality more than she ever had. Maile’s an amazing woman. You’re going to love her perspective.

I also talk to our content coordinator, Amanda, about her first experience being a unicorn (that’s slang for a third in a threesome). We get into how she felt going into it and what she learned about herself from the experience. Talk about getting to know your team on the job! Have you ever wondered how you’d feel going into a threesome? Amanda walks me every step of the way through her worries leading up to it and the things that helped her be present and have a fun, relaxed experience throughout.

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Relax, It’s Just Anal with Dr. Hernando Chaves

Fri, 07 Aug 2020 19:38:36 -0000

Alternative August continues with everything you need to know to get into anal play. There’s so much more to anal than just penetration (although that can be fun too). I talk with Dr. Charlie Glickman about how to start exploring around back in easy, clean, painless ways.

People ask me all the time about how to bring up anal with their partner. Later in the show, I talk a caller through each step of the conversation. Like I always say, communication is lubrication. Listen for my best advice on how to bring it up and talk it through. Then, I go over the dos and don’ts of anal with my friend Dr. Hernando Chaves. We go over beginner toys and bust popular myths. This episode is the ultimate beginner's guide to your backdoor. Enjoy!

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Open Relationships, Edging, and Bisexuality with Jason Ellis and Nico Tortorella

Tue, 04 Aug 2020 18:11:05 -0000

It’s Alternative August at Sex With Emily and that means I’m focusing on all the alternative ways to be in a “relationship.” Whether you’re open, polyamorous, swinging or you just need new ways to approach a relationship in a pandemic, Alt August is here for you. In this podcast I talk to my guests about their open relationships and how they navigate their boundaries, attraction, and transcend jealousy.

First, in these interviews from 2017, I talk to actor and model Nico Tororella about his fluid sexuality and the open communication required in his relationships. Then I speak with my friend and colleague at SiriusXM, Australian radio host, professional skateboarder and MMA fighter Jason Ellis about his open relationship and how to put your partner first in a threesome. You’ll be surprised to hear how different Jason and Nico’s boundaries are, even in open relationships. Thinking about making your relationship a little more alternative? Listen to find out which ideas & boundaries feel right for you!

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Dr. Drew, Anderson & Menace on Sex, Confidence and COVID: 15 Years of SWE

Fri, 31 Jul 2020 21:28:43 -0000

In this podcast, I take a walk down memory lane with three incredible colleagues and co-hosts, Dr. Drew Pinsky, Anderson and Menace. We cover 15 years of sex questions and advice. We also talk about how screen time gets in the way of relationships and Menace opens up about overcoming his shyness and building his confidence.

You don’t want to miss my chat with Dr. Drew Pinsky and his thoughts on relationships, attraction, and most importantly memories from some of our times together. COVID has been hard for us all and Dr. Drew opens up to me about some of his struggles during quarantine. We discuss our hopes for what lies ahead. Our conversations about sex and dating have shifted over the years but there’s still a long way to go before there’s a bottle of lube on every nightstand.

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Orgasms: Don’t Fake It ‘Til You Make It

Tue, 28 Jul 2020 20:35:48 -0000

Hi, I’m Emily Morse and I used to fake orgasms. Once I understood why I was doing it, and how much more satisfying sex could be for me and my partner, I stopped. I want the same for you. In this episode, we hear from people who have been faking it and how to take back the power of your “O” by learning your body and how to ask for what you need.

Later in the show, I take a call from a man trying to reignite the sexual passion with his wife after decades of marriage. Long-term intimacy is a challenge for so many of us but I’ve got solutions to get you and your partner feeling more connected and hot for each other once again.

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Does Size Matter? 15 Years of Penis Questions

Fri, 24 Jul 2020 19:47:07 -0000

We’ve come a long way since Sex With Emily started 15 years ago, but there’s still more we could do to end shame around penis size. Just last year, our culture was bubbling with praise for Big Dick Energy. But does size really matter? In this 15th Anniversary Episode, Dr. Emily gives plenty of reasons why we should stop our fixation with large members.

Also in this episode, Emily talks to Jeff Abraham, CEO of Promescent, about reaching orgasm too quickly. Emily and Joanna Angel talk about the best sex positions to help you orgasm with a penis, whether that's yours or your partner's. We hear calls from Emily's early days as a podcaster and get her latest take on how to deal with size issues.

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Pregnancy During COVID, Porn Addiction and Finding New Orgasms

Tue, 21 Jul 2020 22:11:35 -0000

If you think quarantine is difficult, imagine adding pregnancy to the equation. Are you thinking about conceiving or giving birth soon? This episode is for you. Emily talks to celebrity doula and maternity wellness expert Latham Thomas.

Latham talks about improving your birth experience through pleasure, racism in the medical system and tips for empowering yourself through daily mindfulness. Emily also answers your questions about addiction to porn and how to talk to your partner about difficult topics in the bedroom.

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Owning Your Oral : 15 Years of Good Head

Fri, 17 Jul 2020 15:35:14 -0000

In celebration of 15 years of Sex With Emily we dove deep into the archives to bring you her best conversations about oral sex. Guests Bart Smith, Sydnee Steele and Sadie Allison cover all the oral bases: tips and tricks, oral as foreplay and the importance of getting to know your own body so you can be a better partner.

We’ve all heard of Kama Sutra, but did you know about oral Kama Sutra? Listen for tips on how to use the ancient Indian philosophy to start having better oral sex. Then, stick around for some of the best calls with oral over the past decade, including one about tongue piercings. To lick or not to lick, that is the question!

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Living Outside the Binary, Ending Relationships in COVID and BDSM Play

Tue, 14 Jul 2020 20:52:11 -0000

Happy International Non-binary People's Day! In this episode, Emily talks to the charming non-binary actor Vico Ortiz about how they keep dating interesting during COVID. Vico’s gone to great lengths to keep themselves busy and satisfied while stuck at home so if you’re missing human connection, this one’s for you. They also discuss the difference between gender and sexuality, what to do if you get someone’s pronouns wrong and healthy ways to make time for yourself.

Later in the show, Emily helps a caller find perspective on his long-term relationship. Are you wondering if it’s time to end things? Tune in to learn the communication tools you need to figure it out. Plus, how to find community if you’re dipping your toes into BDSM.

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First Episode Ever: 15 Years of Sex With Emily

Sat, 11 Jul 2020 14:00:00 -0000

It’s been 15 years of Sex With Emily and what better way to celebrate than to bring back Emily’s first podcast episode ever. In 15 years she’s covered everything from communication to masturbation, but in this very special episode we dive into uncharted territory - Sex With the host herself, Emily.

Emily tells us how she got into podcasting, decided to talk about sex and we even get to hear the first episode she recorded 15 years ago. You’ll come for the sex, but stay for the stories and there’s plenty. She talks to her 3 guests about bikini waxing, polyamory and what it’s like to live a single girl’s life and have sex on her terms. You don’t want to miss this anniversary episode!

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What To Do When You Find Your Daughter’s Vibrator

Wed, 08 Jul 2020 20:04:19 -0000

In this episode, Emily talks to Sex With Emily regular, psychological astrologer, Dr. Jennifer Freed, to give us her monthly Astro-Sex Forecast, so listen for your sign (and your partner’s too!). Emily and Jennifer also talk about mindfulness and the power of kissing. Too much or not enough tongue? It’s kissing 101!

We’re learning a lot about the people we’re quarantined with, but what do you do when you learn your kids are having sex? Emily gives advice on how to talk to your teenager about sex without shaming them. Plus, what age is too old to have kids? One caller asks for advice about having a baby at age 61 when the pregnancy isn’t planned. We were at the edge of our seats wondering: will they or won’t they have a baby and how do you talk about it with your partner if you’re not ready?

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Initiating Sex is a Skill Not a Habit

Fri, 03 Jul 2020 19:27:21 -0000

In this Episode Emily kicks off Sexual Liberation Month. She sets the tone with provocative questions to get you thinking about your sexual freedom, confidence and what’s holding you back. Emily is here to help you live the life you want because what else are you doing right now except staying home and having sex? No partner required!

Initiating sex can be overwhelming, especially if you’re quarantined with your partner. Emily gives tips on what to say when you want to get things going and even how to tell your lover you’re not in the mood. She also asks us to examine what our hang ups are when it comes to our own sexual liberation. Are you too caught up in your head about how you look? Ashamed of your “O” face? Do you get aroused too quickly and need to slow down? No matter what your situation, Emily’s got you covered so you can open up and communicate better with yourself and your partner.

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Coming Out, Your Next Vibrator and Bi-Curious Fantasies

Tue, 30 Jun 2020 21:07:52 -0000

On this Mashup podcast, guest John Hill, host of The Feels on Radio Andy on SiriusXM, comes back to catch up with Emily about moving in with his boyfriend during COVID. They get into how John came out to his religious parents when he was younger. And of course, a convo with Emily wouldn’t be complete without mentioning taint stimulation at least once, right?

In the second half of the show, Emily takes a call from a bi-curious man who’s wondering how to bring up those fantasies with his wife of 38 years. She also talks to callers about picking out the right vibrator, how size doesn’t really matter and shopping for toys with your partner.

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Best of: Make Your Vulva Sigh with Dolly Josette

Fri, 26 Jun 2020 21:54:48 -0000

Dr. Emily always says there are so many different paths to pleasure. On this throwback podcast she helps you map out those paths with sexological bodyworker Dolly Josette! Dolly teaches you how to be in your body and really reconnect to your pleasure and sexual energy.

They discuss what the heck vulva-mapping is and how can it help you and your partner work together to have the most pleasurable experiences possible by eliminating disconnected sex. Don’t just get off just to get through it. Learn about the build up, the teasing and finding the sweet spot. All this and more, including: embodied masturbation, cupping the vulva, and being empowered in your body whether you have a vulva or a penis! Find out why Dr. Emily’s vulva sighs when Dolly walks into a room and maybe after listening, yours will too!

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Best of: Allie Haze Talks Squirting and Good Oral for Everyone

Wed, 24 Jun 2020 23:41:21 -0000

Allie Haze is the coolest, most down-to-earth person ever, and she’s also a really hot bisexual porn star. When it comes to squirting, Allie gets into the internal orgasms (aka the G-spot) and how you need to get over your fears around what comes out of a woman during female ejaculation. Let’s be real, if you have a killer orgasm, who cares what happens?

We also get into Allie’s background and hear about her transition from being a preacher’s wife to a porn star. Growing up, she realized she was more into women than men and as a bisexual porn star, Allie Haze has amazing sex tips for pleasuring everyone. She gives a very detailed description of how to go down on a woman and she literally goes deep into how to give a guy good oral.

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Interracial Relationships, Penis Predicaments and Copulation in COVID

Tue, 23 Jun 2020 23:29:05 -0000

On this Mashup of SiriusXM guests from this month, Dr. Emily addresses some of the most pressing issues today in relationships, men’s health and families.

Emily’s first guest Erin Tillman, the “Dating Advice Girl” dives into the importance of a supportive partner in these hard times and raising your children with awareness, whether it's race, sex or otherwise! Adam Carolla, host of the Adam Carolla show joins Emily to talk about his new book “I’m Your Emotional Support Animal,” our laziness as a culture, broken families and our detached relationship to danger. Returning guest, Dr. Edward Karpman and Emily address all your men’s health questions and COVID copulation complications!

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Best of: Gender-Chill with Jacob Tobia

Fri, 19 Jun 2020 22:38:39 -0000

In honor of Pride month, we are throwing it back to last year’s Pride podcast about gender. Dr. Emily is joined by writer, producer and author Jacob Tobia to talk about their book Sissy: A Coming of Gender Story.

They clarify the differences between gender, sex, and orientation and what it means to be gender neutral. Plus, the journey we go through to find our identity – because it’s not always easy. Tobia talks about the inspiration to live as our truest selves and feel sexy & confident – no matter what turns you on!

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Best of: Emily and Dr. Drew Discuss Porn Sex vs. Real Sex

Tue, 16 Jun 2020 21:04:07 -0000

On today’s throwback podcast, Dr. Emily and Dr. Drew do what they love most: taking listener calls! The two experts address common condom conundrums (how to stay hard!) and how to meet in the middle when it comes to mismatched libidos.

Also, does your guy get his ideas of what sex should be like from watching too much porn and spending too much time masturbating? Are you stuck in a cycle of loving someone who has you in the friend zone, and if so, how do you move on? These specialists provide skillful responses to your most compelling questions and have a lot of fun while doing it. Join us!

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Best of: Unblock Your Orgasms #IRL

Sat, 13 Jun 2020 00:27:37 -0000

On today’s throwback podcast, Dr. Emily helps callers figure out the best way to get past their coital conundrums and dating dilemmas.

Struggling in the orgasm department with your beau? What are some great sex toy recs for a lesbian couple? Should you give your ex another shot? How do you spice up your long-term sex life? Emily and Anderson help callers get through these sex and dating issues and more. Plus, they discuss how some men watch so much porn, it’s causing penis problems!

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How Do We Make Time for Sex in these Difficult Times?

Wed, 10 Jun 2020 20:55:15 -0000

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by astrologer, emotional education trainer and the author of “Use your Planets Wisely”, Dr. Jennifer Freed. They talk about trauma now and in our past, activism, and communicating lovingly in these difficult times.

They also discuss how powerful sex can be as a stress reducer and as one of the best self-soothing tools you can use right now. Plus great advice for how to refocus on sex: turn off the news and get into bed!

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Best of: Out of Your Head, Better in Bed

Fri, 29 May 2020 08:35:49 -0000

On today’s throwback podcast, Dr. Emily is taking your calls and helping you get out of your heads and into your beds—with tips of course!

Have you been having trouble climaxing with a partner? Wondering how to find people to play with now that you’ve reached your sexual peak? What’s the secret to balancing a family life with a hot sex life? Emily talks callers through their bedroom dilemmas, and provides a few “Do’s” and “Don’ts” to perfect your dating profile. So whether you need help climaxing, swiping, or getting started with solo play, this show has the info you need.

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Elevate your 5 Sexy Senses

Tue, 26 May 2020 17:46:02 -0000

On today’s show, Dr. Emily gets personal and helps us understand why this quarantine has affected our overall sensual experiences.

She gives you tips and tricks to dig deep into your 5 senses to make sex and masturbation the best experience of your life - taking advantage of this extra time at home!

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No Shame, Just Sex

Fri, 22 May 2020 07:30:37 -0000

On this episode, Dr. Emily talks about the shame around sexual expectations and she answers your questions about shame caused by a religious upbringing and past sexual partners.

She also chats with the author of The Consent Guidebook, @DatingAdviceGrl Erin Tillman about shame around dating outside the heteronormative structure and meeting up during COVID, tips for dating in Quarantine, and consent during COVID.

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Virtual Dating in the New Normal

Tue, 19 May 2020 08:45:23 -0000

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by Founder & CEO of The League Dating App, Amanda Bradford to talk about virtual dating and tips for upgrading your profile.

The two talk about the ins and outs of online dating and what to say in your first message. Plus, advice on what to do when you’re quarantined away from your partner and you need creative date ideas, the mistakes people are making on the apps, and tips to communicate with matches on a deeper level.

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Mix Up Your Masturbation Routine

Fri, 15 May 2020 07:32:45 -0000

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is going to help you mix up your masturbation routine! Plus, she’s taking your sex and relationship questions.

Among the topics are the history of Masturbation Month, sex toys, masturbation techniques, and new ways to explore yourself. Plus, the benefits of masturbation and why it’s such an important part of sexual health.

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A Self-Love Mash-Up

Tue, 12 May 2020 07:08:42 -0000

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is bringing you a mash-up of some of the podcast’s best masturbation information! Because masturbation is sex with someone you love – yourself!

Among the topics are how something such as Masturbation Month came to be, top tips on finding the right sex toy for you – from one of the top toy experts in the industry, and ways to switch up your self-love routines. Plus, why masturbation is such an important part of sexual health.

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Surviving, Thriving & Sexy With Dana B. Myers

Fri, 08 May 2020 18:45:49 -0000

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by founder of Booty Parlor, Dana B. Myers to talk about love during quarantine and sexy ideas for Mother’s Day.

The two talk about the ins and outs of planning novel sex and new bedroom experiences. Plus, advice on what to do if your kids need you 24/7 and you don’t know how to fit in “me time” - let alone sex with your partner! Other topics include dealing with partner resentments and challenges Mother’s are facing right now during this global pandemic.

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Quarantine Vibes with Stephanie Keating

Tue, 05 May 2020 08:15:20 -0000

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by Stephanie Keating from We-Vibe to talk about how you can add a little variety to your bedroom. Plus, she’s answering your sex & relationship questions.

The two talk about the ins and outs of app controlled sex toys – and why they’re a great pleasure investment. Plus, advice on what to do when you like a coworker, they like you back, but they’ve never had a same-sex relationship, how to be more romantic in the bedroom, and ways to find a partner that also wants to have a stay-at-home partner.

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Getting Past Sexual Hang Ups with Dr. Hernando Chaves

Fri, 01 May 2020 20:25:42 -0000

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by Dr. Hernando Chaves to talk about sexual anxieties men have, and what to do about it! Plus, she’s answering your sex & relationship questions.

The two discuss what to do when your penis isn’t performing how you want it to, and how to get on the same sex page as your partner, especially during quarantine. Then, Dr. Emily gives advice on different ways of looking at your partner’s foot fetish, what to do when you used to live a nudist lifestyle, but you have children now, and how to navigate finding a partner when you’re bisexual.

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At Home & Horny

Wed, 29 Apr 2020 18:07:36 -0000

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is bringing you some more sex in the news updates because information is the name of the game right now. Plus, she’s answering your sex & relationship questions.

She gives you the lowdown on what researchers think being quarantined is going to do for higher or lower birth rates, affairs, if couples will make it through, and how stress is affecting other people’s sex lives. Plus, she gives advice on what to do when you started sleeping with your roommate and it was a big mistake and how to get back to a pain-free sex life after child birth.

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How to Fix Your F*cking Mistakes with Gigi Engle

Tue, 28 Apr 2020 18:44:37 -0000

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by sex educator and writer Gigi Engle to talk about her book, All the F*cking Mistakes – and how you can feel comfortable being the amazing, sexual being you are! Plus, she’s answering your sex & relationship questions.

They discuss ways to get past the shame and stigma around sex that society, friends, and family may have put on you, with awesome some sexting tips that will have you tingling in your fingertips. Plus, advice on what to do when your partner’s constant rejection is actually messing with your self-love moments, and if regaining trust is actually possible.

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Virtually Connected with Damona Hoffman

Fri, 24 Apr 2020 18:44:01 -0000

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by certified dating coach and host of the “Dates & Mates” podcast Damona Hoffman to talk about dating in this new time we find ourselves in and how to do it right!

They discuss where to start when it comes to dating online for the first time, how to keep a virtual relationship going once you’ve met someone you like, and ways to go deeper with your conversations, beyond the typical small talk. Plus, if you’re already in a relationship, how to “keep dating” when you can’t actually go out on dates.

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The New Normal: Sex & Dating Edition

Wed, 22 Apr 2020 18:55:48 -0000

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is giving you some sex in the news updates that may just help you in your home – and your bedroom – during quarantine. Plus, she’s answering your sex & relationship questions.

She gives some tips on how not to hate your partner since being cooped up together, whether or not video dating will become the new norm – and what to do if your partner isn’t into the steamier side of Facetime. Plus, some steps to take to improve your overall confidence after a breakup.

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It’s Just a Phallus, See? with Dr. Edward Karpman

Tue, 21 Apr 2020 19:09:30 -0000

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by certified urologist Dr. Edward Karpman and we are pertaining to all your penile needs – taking calls and giving you the hard facts – because most of us could use some penile focus.

They discuss what may be causing your ED and what you can do about it, what the heck is a cock shocker, and how does it improve your sexual functioning, and a little insight on the foreskin debate. Plus, some of the most interesting things that have been requested in a urologist’s office.

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Personally & Sexually Compatible with Vanessa Marin

Fri, 17 Apr 2020 18:03:34 -0000

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by licensed therapist Vanessa Marin to talk about the different sex personality types and how you can use them to your advantage!

They discuss what the most popular sex personality types are and what to do when you and your partner don’t match up, how body image affects men, women, and anyone in between – with some tools to gain confidence, and ways COVID-19 has been affecting relationships. Plus, how couples who lack compatibility can actually grow to be more compatible!

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Staycation Sex

Wed, 15 Apr 2020 18:52:14 -0000

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is talking about how to have vacation sex… at home! Especially if upcoming travel had to be delayed, we still deserve those breaks. Plus, she’s answering your sex & relationship questions.

She gives you some ways to turn your home and bedroom into a quaint little vacation spot – including ideas to keep your kids preoccupied! Plus, advice on what to do when Facetime isn’t your thing, but you have no choice but to date from home, and how to deal with quarantine taking your sex life from all the time to once in awhile.

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From Quarral-tine to Quaran-team with Jamye Waxman

Tue, 14 Apr 2020 19:01:03 -0000

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by marriage and sex therapist Jamye Waxman to talk about how partners can connect better while quarantining at home. Plus, she’s answering your sex & relationship questions.

The two practice some exercises you can do with your partner to help you feel more present and grounded, as well as some ways to lessen your porn usage if it’s become a problem in your relationship. Then, Emily gives advice on going from a BDSM relationship into a vanilla one, and what to do when your partner’s orgasm threshold is putting a damper on your sex life.

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Astro-Masturbation with Dr. Jen Freed

Thu, 09 Apr 2020 21:52:51 -0000

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by psychological astrologer Dr. Jen Freed to talk about your astro sex forecast – masturbation edition! Because we all have a lot of time on your hands right now, literally. Plus, she’s answering your sex & relationship questions.

They discuss the masturbation techniques to add to your repertoire based on your sign – either way, it’s new ways to explore yourself. Then, Dr. Emily gives advice on the right kinds of lube for “easier access,” where to find porn that has an actual storyline, and whether or not to end a relationship when you’re feeling uneasy.

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Retreating to the Bedroom with Pamela Madsen

Wed, 08 Apr 2020 19:57:25 -0000

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by founder of Back to the Body sensuous retreats Pamela Madsen to talk about the retreat that she actually went on!

The two discuss how to have one way touch and not feel guilty about it, give a little lesson in practicing “outercourse,” and a few fun and sexy games to do at home that will definitely spice things up in the bedroom as well as feeling some untapped pleasure. Plus, Dr. Emily shares her own personal experience doing the retreat!

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Extreme Screen-Dating with Amy Nobile

Tue, 07 Apr 2020 16:40:52 -0000

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by founder of Love, Amy – a dating concierge service – Amy Nobile to talk about ways we can continue to date and connect – even while doing it virtually!

They give their best tips for your dating profile – down to the specific types of photos to use, ways you can learn to flirt and banter (with a little bit of sexting tips), and why FaceTime dates are great during quarantine, but are also a wonderful idea to vet your potential dates once we can stop social distancing! Plus, the best questions to ask someone to get to know them better.

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Love in the Time of Coronavirus

Fri, 03 Apr 2020 18:58:55 -0000

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is giving you a sexy dose of love in the time of coronavirus. Right now, things are very uncertain, but what we are certain about is the people who love us – our friends, family, and partners – so she’s here to give you some peace of mind on how to use this time to your advantage. Plus, she’s answering your sex & relationship questions.

She breaks down why there’s no better time than the present to get some self-love exploration on – or connect with your partner, the reasons to have relationship check-ins – regardless of your relationship status, and ways to connect sexually even if you’re not in the same room.

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Sexually Awakened in Isolation with Nikki Boyer

Wed, 01 Apr 2020 19:19:17 -0000

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by TV personality and host of the limited podcast series “Dying for Sex” Nikki Boyer – and they’re talking about how, even when things seem grim, it can actually spark a sexual awakening. Plus, the doc answers your sex & relationship questions.

The two discuss why during times of uncertainty – a sexual awakening can do wonders for your self-esteem, and while you can’t really go out and date right now – hopefully some inspiration to open your mind to new sexual possibilities. Plus, Dr. Emily gives some advice on sex toys for penises that allow for easier clean up and tips to keep things spicy in a long-distance relationship.

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Activate Your Brain to Keep Sane with Dr. Daniel Amen

Tue, 31 Mar 2020 00:23:49 -0000

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by one of America’s leading psychiatrists Dr. Daniel Amen to talk about how to keep our brains healthy and our relationships strong during this strange time of “sheltering in place.”

The two give you a lesson in active listening – from talking to your kids to talking to your partner, ways to improve your executive functioning from home – your memory, motor skills, and everything that makes us go, and why the only organ where size matters is… the brain! Plus, some insight on why having some scheduled uninterrupted time with your family devoid of negativity or commands is vital to keeping happy.

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Mindfully & Mentally Sexy: A Mash-Up

Fri, 27 Mar 2020 17:53:50 -0000

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is giving you a mash-up of interviews to give you some ways to de-stress, have more sex, and feel a little better mentally and physically. She wants all of you to have the tools to keep your mind strong so your body can stay strong.

Among the discussions, why meditation can help you be a better partner and lover – in and out of the bedroom, how setting intentions for your sex life can help immensely when it comes to actually improving it, and ways being mindful and connecting to your senses can pull you out of your head and into your body to enjoy pleasure to the fullest.

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Rose Colored Relationships

Wed, 25 Mar 2020 18:31:28 -0000

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is talking about how to take off the rose colored glasses and see the signs of toxic relationships – as well as answering your sex & relationship questions. Especially with the current climate, you want to really think about the people in your life and if they are serving a purpose for you.

She dissects the TV Show “You” and how people can easily fall for manipulation in relationships, a thoughtful convo on getting out of a bad situation romantically, and what to do when you and your partner’s love languages differ – and it’s making things pretty difficult. Plus, how penis owners can use the Magic Wand – and ways to use it with a partner.

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Your Guide to Having "the Talk" with Dr. Lanae St. John

Tue, 24 Mar 2020 18:54:59 -0000

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by Dr. Lanae St. John – a sex educator & intimacy coach – to talk about her new book READ ME: The Parental Primer on “The Talk” – to help all of you parents out there have the right terminology and knowledge to talk to your kids about sex, intimacy, and relationships.

They discuss the 5 Building Blocks of Healthy Sexuality and how to properly talk about all five – especially when your kids are at different ages – in ways they can understand. This show give you all the tools and knowledge to be the best parent you can be when it comes to relationships and sex. Especially in a time like this, where the whole family may be staying home more – it might be a good time to start some of these conversations.

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All the Sexy Thought Work with Kara Loewentheil

Fri, 20 Mar 2020 20:16:47 -0000

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by master certified life coach Kara Loewentheil to talk about her podcast, Unf*ck Your Brain, and how women can be empowered without feeling completely anxious all the time.

They discuss what thought work is and how it can help you have a better outlook on your mental health and how you see yourself, some healthier ways to connect our thoughts to our emotions, and how kink is actually a great way to practice thought work in the bedroom. Plus, why you can’t just say a new belief, you have to feel it to believe it.

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Pleasure Imposters & Open Rosters

Mon, 16 Mar 2020 21:41:40 -0000

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is talking about “imposter syndrome,” what it is, and how that may be affecting your relationships. Plus, she answers your sex & relationship questions.

She gives insight on why some of us feel we’re “imposters” when it comes to work, love, and friendship – when really, it’s just anxiety. Plus, advice on what to do when your partner has a touch of performance anxiety, how to bring up an open relationship to your partner, and whether or not there’s a magic sex number when it comes to frequency.

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Best Of: Calling All Virgins – Your First Time Sex Guide

Mon, 16 Mar 2020 19:58:20 -0000

On today’s throwback podcast, Dr. Emily, along with Anderson, is giving you the tips you need for your sexual debuts! That’s right, this show from the SWE Vault is all about having sex for the first time.

The two try to squash any qualms you first-timers may have around sex – from technique to what to expect to how to do it safely. Plus, innovations on period sex and an explanation of how “manspreading” might actually help you in the dating game. Who knew?

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A Dose of (Vitamin) D with Max Lugavere

Thu, 12 Mar 2020 19:30:57 -0000

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by NY Times best selling author and host of the Genius Life podcast Max Lugavere to talk about his new book, The Genius Life & becoming the better, healthier version of you.

They discuss the hyper-palatability of food addiction and porn addiction – and how they’re somewhat similar, ways artificial light is affecting our health and our bedroom activities, why it’s important to get the D – vitamin D that is, and ways making small improvements in all areas of your life can translate to a better sex life.

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Turning Off to Get Turned On with Tiffany Shlain

Tue, 10 Mar 2020 16:52:23 -0000

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by author and filmmaker Tiffany Shlain to talk about her book, 24/6: The Power of Unplugging One Day a Week, and why this is important – not just from electronics – but from work, relationships, and whatever other stresses life throws at you.

They discuss how taking a break from technology for one day isn’t as hard as it seems, the benefits of truly unplugging and reconnecting with your partner and family, and tips on having your own “tech shabbat” whether you’re single, married, or have kids. Plus, with less time for tech, there’s more time for sex!

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BDSM & Bisexual Breakdown with Margaret Cho

Fri, 06 Mar 2020 20:15:32 -0000

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by comedian Margaret Cho to talk about sexuality, BDSM, and they’re making it fun. Plus, she’s answering your sex & relationship questions.

The two discuss sexuality as a spectrum – and how you may have moments of feeling everywhere from a-romantic to bisexual, plus a small BDSM breakdown as to why pain can be pleasurable. Plus, Emily gives advice on what to do when your partner’s new smoking habit is a complete turn off, and when your partner won’t say they love you, whether it’s time to rethink the relationship.

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Sexts, Your Ex & Pleasure Tests

Wed, 04 Mar 2020 19:12:42 -0000

On today's show, Dr. Emily is talking about what happens to your body when you run into an ex and a few reasons why people sext. Plus, she’s answering your sex & relationship questions.

She reveals why running into an ex causes you to go into fight or flight mode, reasons why people sext – and it’s not just because they’re horny, and what to do when you’ve gotten out of a sexless marriage and you ready for your sexual awakening. Plus, how to handle it when your partner thinks masturbation is gross.

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Two Girls, One Emily

Tue, 03 Mar 2020 20:16:38 -0000

On today's show, Dr. Emily is joined by Alice Vaughn & Yvette d'Entremont from “Two Girls, One Mic: The Porncast” to talk about the funnier sides of porn and the true entertainment aspects of it all. Plus, she’s answering your sex & relationship questions.

They talk about why porn can be great, when it’s too much, what you should be bringing into the bedroom, and what should stay on the screen, as well as the plot holes from porn parodies. Plus, Emily gives advice on what to do when Instagram is causing recurring problems in your relationship and how to get people to stop putting you on a pedestal when you’re dating.

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Healthy Brains, Healthy Bedrooms with Dr. Daniel Amen

Fri, 28 Feb 2020 19:38:29 -0000

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by bestselling author and one of America’s leading psychiatrists Dr. Daniel Amen to talk about his book, The End of Mental Illness, why mental health needs to be rebranded as brain health – and how that change can alter how we see relationships.

They discuss why looking more closely at the brain can severely help people get a better understanding into their own psyche and actual tools to heal, how trauma work like EMDR therapy can reprogram our brains to release or cope with said trauma, and ways that our neurohormones have a direct impact on our libidos and how we act in relationship. Plus, an exercise in killing your ANTS or automatic negative thoughts.

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An Orgasm Denial Trial

Wed, 26 Feb 2020 20:28:07 -0000

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is talking about orgasm denial – what that means, and how can you use it to focus on all your pleasure. Plus, she’s answering your sex & relationship questions.

She discusses what orgasm denial is and how can you make it super hot, some workarounds to having sex in public to satisfy your partner’s kink, and how to make pegging more enjoyable for the receiving partner. Plus, how to help support and deal with a partner who has sexual trauma.

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Boys, Sex & What’s Best with Peggy Orenstein

Tue, 25 Feb 2020 20:21:28 -0000

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by writer and journalist Peggy Orenstein to talk about her new book, Boys & Sex and how we need to change the way we talk to and treat young men.

They discuss why young boys and men feel like they’re so emotionally stunted, how “locker room” talk truly affects other people beyond the locker room, and why porn is causing an immense issue in developing healthy views on sex in young minds. Plus, how parents can be better emotional role models for their sons.

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Sex Reflection & Resurrection with Jamye Waxman

Fri, 21 Feb 2020 20:54:01 -0000

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by friend and marriage and family therapist Jamye Waxman – and they’re giving advice and taking calls on all the sex and relationship things!

They discuss ways to fix your sex life and rebuild appreciation for each other, why we’re in a connection crisis and what we can do about it, and how dating has changed since technology has advanced. Plus, some sex toy talk from someone at We-Vibe!

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Masturbation Stats & Orgasm Facts

Wed, 19 Feb 2020 20:07:08 -0000

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is talking about women’s orgasms and the masturbation habits of Americans. Plus, she’s taking your sex and relationship questions.

She discusses some of the latest research about women’s orgasms and some thoughts on it, how often Americans are masturbating – what they’re thinking about, and so much more, and whether sex addiction is real and if it’s over or under diagnosed. Plus, ways to keep things sexy when you’re trying to conceive.

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Less Rejection, More Connection

Tue, 18 Feb 2020 19:49:02 -0000

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is talking about why your partner may be rejecting your sexual advances and how to get a better understanding around it. Plus, she’s answering your sex & relationship questions.

She discusses the dreaded sex rejection – how to make it sting a little less and hopefully place more understanding around it. Plus, she gives advice on ways to handle different stress responses when it comes to sex, how to give your partner more sexy surprises when your confidence is low, and what to do when your wife is no longer interested in nipple play.

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A Very Sex with Emily V-Day Mash-Up

Fri, 14 Feb 2020 18:42:11 -0000

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is giving you a mash-up of all things V-Day!

She goes over the origin story of Valentine’s Day, along with some stats and facts on the day, reads letters of lovers’ past, gives some examples on how to make the day special, and so much more! From gifts to why hotel sex is the best –– enjoy this mash-up and have a pleasure-filled day – and year – of love!

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Sexy Foods for Sexy Moods with Chef Amber Caudle

Wed, 12 Feb 2020 20:00:56 -0000

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by incredible food creator, Chef Amber Caudle to talk about the sensual sides of food – from cooking to eating – with a few ideas to use on V-Day or even all year round!

They discuss how food can be truly healing for the mind, body, and soul, the sensual side of eating – especially since so many foods look like penises and vulvas, and why body acceptance from your head to your toes and everything in between helps you in and out of the bedroom. Plus, if you’re cooking for a hot date – what foods are a hell yes and what foods are a definite no-no.

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"Manning Up" with John Kim

Tue, 11 Feb 2020 19:46:36 -0000

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by “the Angry Therapist” John Kim to talk about his book “I Used to be a Miserable F*ck” as well as the true way to “man up.”

They discuss how you can go from being an angry, macho guy to an evolved version of yourself, what steps fathers – and parents in general – can take to become better role-models, and why being vulnerable can help you when it comes to maintaining your relationships. Plus, how working on your mind can help you be more attentive in the bedroom.

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From Whatever to Best Sex Ever with Courtenay Hameister

Fri, 07 Feb 2020 19:09:37 -0000

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by author Courtenay Hameister to talk about her new book, Okay Fine Whatever, and how getting over your fears in and out of the bedroom can make for a profusely better life all around. Plus, she’s answering your sex and relationship questions.

They discuss how someone who has an anxiety disorder went from being afraid of everything to going to sex parties, dating over 100 people, and went to a professional cuddler – as well as why it’s okay not to know what you like sexually – as long as you start taking steps to get there. Plus, advice on what to do when there’s a possible 4 way in your future, and whether or not online interactive porn is actually cheating.

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What's Your (Sex) Type?

Wed, 05 Feb 2020 19:56:41 -0000

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is talking about the different sexual personality types and where people seem to be going for sexual health information – but probably shouldn’t be. Plus, she’s answering your sex & relationship questions.

She goes over what might make you a giver, a decompressor, or an explorer when it comes to sex, how to come clean about dating your best friend’s soon to be ex-husband, and whether or not it’s worth it to teach someone better oral skills. Plus, whether or not to tell your girlfriend you’ve been having sexual dreams about men.

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Getting Sexually Literate with Isabella Frappier

Tue, 04 Feb 2020 19:53:03 -0000

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by sex educator, writer and contributor for the SWE site Isabella Frappier to talk about her sexual liberation work – as well as how to take charge of your own sexual destiny.

They discuss what it means to have sexual sovereignty and whether everyone can achieve it, how you can partake in BDSM and still feel like your partner respects you, and why our sexual pasts don’t need to dictate our sexual futures. Plus, a little sex magic – what is it?!

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Express to Decompress with Dr. Margaret Rutherford

Fri, 31 Jan 2020 19:23:30 -0000

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by clinical psychologist Dr. Margaret Rutherford to talk about her new book, Perfectly Hidden Depression and how it can affect your relationships – including the one with yourself.

They discuss where the line is between perfectionism and using it to mask depression, how to recognize the signs you or a loved one might have perfectly hidden depression, and why people need to do their emotional work – because having emotions doesn’t make you weak.

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Don’t Fret! Manifest for Better Sex

Wed, 29 Jan 2020 20:42:11 -0000

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is talking about how to manifest the sex life that you’ve been craving for 2020, and she taking your sex & relationship questions.

She gives you a plan to get you and your partner on track for the sex life you deserve – only if you both have to commit, how to actually keep things going in the bedroom once you’ve gotten all the toys and outfits, and how to get past a traumatizing conclusion to a blowjob. Plus, what to do when you just can’t seem to make a relationship last longer than two years.

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V-Day Done Right: A Guide

Tue, 28 Jan 2020 20:49:34 -0000

On today's show, Dr. Emily is joined by her trusty team to give you all some Valentine’s Day gift and date ideas! You know, so you don’t have to do all the hard work yourself.

They talk give some gift ideas from the romantic to the pleasurable – including a few you can make yourself, games for some “adult” play time, and date ideas that are more than just a dinner at an over-crowded restaurant sure to get your partner’s engine revved.

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Sensible Sex Ed with Liz Goldwyn

Fri, 24 Jan 2020 20:22:57 -0000

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by founder of The Sex Ed and host of The Sex Ed podcast Liz Goldwyn to talk about getting past sexual shame and stigmas.

They discuss why teaching kids and teens about their bodies and masturbation early can help them have more self-esteem and safer sex lives and what the current sex and dating climate is like post #metoo. Plus, how do you get past the fact that your boyfriend has broken a masturbation boundary, and getting comfortable watching porn with your partner when you’re sober.

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Compliments & Orgasm Confidence

Wed, 22 Jan 2020 20:49:40 -0000

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is giving you better ways to give and receive compliments, plus she’s answering your sex & relationship questions.

She gives you ways to give amazing compliments and receive them like a pro – because it isn’t always easy, thoughts on being multi-orgasmic as a penis owner, what the real deal with squirting is and whether anyone can do it. Plus, the best lube for those at different stages of life.

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Perfecting Penis Practices with Dr. Edward Karpman

Tue, 21 Jan 2020 20:41:34 -0000

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by certified urologist Dr. Edward Karpman and we’re taking your calls for all your penile needs. Plus, she answers your sex & relationship questions.

The two discuss many a penile topic, including what to do when ED is haunting you in the bedroom, what is peyronie’s disease and how does a curved penis affect your sex life, and how do other medications affect your ability to stay hard. Plus, Dr. Emily gives advice on how to have casual sex without catching those gosh darn feelings, and you need help because you’re tempted to have an affair with the hot neighbor.

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Truly Open Sex & Love with Whitney Miller

Fri, 17 Jan 2020 19:22:50 -0000

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by dating coach and co-host of the True Sex & Wild Love podcast Whitney Miller to talk about open relationships, plus they’re taking your calls.

They give advice on navigating different types of relationships – and how to go about changing your boundaries, as well as how to cope and deal with jealousy in your relationships. Plus, what it’s like to go to an all female play party, and how to bring up the idea of threesomes to your partner without them getting upset.

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They Call Me Bond; Bondage

Wed, 15 Jan 2020 19:52:51 -0000

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is talking about bondage – ways to break into it easily and do it right. Plus, she’s answering your sex and relationship questions.

She gives you easy ways to tie your partner up without breaking the bank, how to be more dominant in the bedroom when you’ve never done that before, why you seem to attract emotionally unavailable people, and now that you’ve started talking about sex, how to properly bring up anal. Plus, tips to surprise your long-distance love.

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Talk Dirty to Me with Caroline Spiegel

Tue, 14 Jan 2020 19:44:34 -0000

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by co-founder of the audio erotica site tryquinn.com Caroline Spiegel to talk about why listening to erotica can be such a turn on. Plus, she’s answering your sex & relationship questions.

They discuss how porn can be more than just visual, and why it may just be the type you’ve been looking for. Then, Emily gives advice on whether or not to disclose to your boyfriend that you had a threesome with a couple he knows, how to do deal with your wife’s claim she’s allergic to your semen, and how to bring up pegging again when the first time didn’t go down so well.

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Sexually Awesome with Jason Ellis

Fri, 10 Jan 2020 19:00:36 -0000

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by radio host, MMA fighter, and author Jason Ellis to talk about his book, Still Awesome – and how to make your sex and relationships awesome, too!

The two discuss why it’s so important to embrace your sexuality, and why opening up about it will make you so much happier, ways to make an open relationship work – and what it’s actually like, not what you think it’s like, and why doing your work and going to therapy is vitally important in maintaining relationships with everyone around – including yourself.

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More Sex, Less Anxiety

Wed, 08 Jan 2020 19:47:00 -0000

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is talking about the benefits that CBD can have on your sex life, and she’s taking your sex and relationship questions.

She talks about how so many of us have sexual anxiety, and how CBD might just be the solution you’ve been looking for, what to do when you’re a bisexual man and aren’t quite sure how to explain that to the women you date without being judged, and ways to make sex with your partner fun again after spending too much time down the porn rabbit hole. Plus, what to do when you need a deep connection to have sex, but online dating seems to be all about hooking up.

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Be the Partner You Want to Attract with Vincent Genna

Tue, 07 Jan 2020 20:34:27 -0000

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by world renowned psychic therapist and motivational speaker Vincent Genna to talk about how to really make sure you’re getting the most out of your relationships.

The two discuss why we so often get in our own way when it comes to relationship happiness, why the saying “opposites attract” may not be entirely true, and why there’s no such thing as “soulmates,” but you can create a soul-mate relationship. Plus, how working through your childhood will help you with your adulthood.

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Surviving & Sexy: Bouncing Back After Breast Cancer

Fri, 03 Jan 2020 20:06:18 -0000

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by Allison K – a fan and friend of the show – to talk about how to get your sex life back after having breast cancer.

They discuss what it’s like to go through breast cancer – from diagnosis to treatment, things to ask and information to get from your doctors (because they don’t always tell you everything), and how to get back into your body and back into a pleasurable sex life. Plus, how to be supportive friends, family, and partners.

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Teasing for Better Pleasing

Wed, 01 Jan 2020 19:52:03 -0000

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is talking about one of her favorite things – the art of the tease! Plus, she’s answering your sex & relationship questions.

She gives a lesson on teasing – what it means, why it’s hot, and ways to do it up right, what to do when doggy-style is your partner’s go-to position, but it’s too detached for you, and whether or not you should tell your partner about your sexually fluid past. Happy New Year!

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Best Of: New Year, Better Sex

Tue, 31 Dec 2019 19:16:26 -0000

On today’s throwback show from the SWE vault, Dr. Emily & Menace are talking about how to have the best sex and relationships possible in the new year – plus, they answer your questions.

They share some secrets on making a relationship work and why compromise is the name of the game, recommendations on sex toys to use with a partner, and what to do when you’re dating someone with a crazy family. Plus, how to balance your sex life when you’ve got busy schedules and getting past jealousy after an infidelity.

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Eat & Get Naked with Fernando Restrepo

Fri, 27 Dec 2019 20:19:19 -0000

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by founder of EatNakedLA Fernando Restrepo to talk about how to be healthier in your regular life for a healthier sex life. Plus, she’s answering your sex & relationship questions.

They discuss how having a healthier diet can actually help your bedroom performance, as well as which foods can make your appetite for sex even higher. Plus, advice on how to give directions in bed that also sound sexy and what to do when you have some qualms about your new partner’s kinks.

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Are You Speaking My Love Language?

Wed, 25 Dec 2019 21:01:43 -0000

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is talking about the love languages –because there are so many ways to give and receive.

She talks about how figuring out each other’s love languages can immensely help make your relationship stronger, why it’s important for both people to make an effort in fixing a relationship, and how learning to love going down on each other can be one of the best steps you take in your sex life.

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Hotter for the Holidays: A Mash-Up

Tue, 24 Dec 2019 19:29:40 -0000

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is bringing you a mash-up of holiday proportions – some of our favorite holiday shows wrapped into one for a very sexy time of year!

She talks about why being single during the holidays can actually be a great thing, tips on warming up for some hot holiday sex, and some stats about holiday party hookups and sharing the household chores during the winter season. Happy Holidays!

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Connected & Sexy with Violet Benson

Fri, 20 Dec 2019 21:55:23 -0000

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by host of the Too Tired to Be Crazy podcast and @daddyissues_ on Instagram Violet Benson to talk about mindsets, what makes great sex, and so much more.

They talk about what it’s like to recognize when you’re feeling depressed and when you’re ACTUALLY depressed, why great, connected sex is all about letting go and not worrying about what you look or sound like, and how to stop self-sabotaging and getting in your own way.

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Dating Habits and Oral Apprehension

Wed, 18 Dec 2019 23:12:07 -0000

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is talking about old fashioned dating rituals – what’s stuck & what’s changed. Plus, she’s answering your sex & relationship questions.

She discusses trends from dating’s past, and whether it’s time to bring some of them back or if we’re better off, what to do when you’re newly single and are a bit apprehensive on random acts of oral, and how to handle things when you have an open relationship, but the secondary person wants you all to yourself.

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A Sexy Year in Review!

Tue, 17 Dec 2019 23:56:15 -0000

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is bringing you a Sex With Emily year in review! She’s doing a quick overview of the top guests, blogs, and moments from 2019.

She discusses the topics that all of you listeners were the most interested in over the year, what blogs helped get your sex lives on track, and the podcasts and guests you all couldn’t get enough of this year. Let’s hear it for 2019 and get off to a great start in 2020!

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Open Mics And Open Relationships with Tom Goss

Fri, 13 Dec 2019 22:25:24 -0000

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by musician Tom Goss to talk about opening up relationships and his new album that explains it all. Plus, she’s answering your sex & relationship questions.

The two discuss what it’s like to go from being monogamous and in love with one person, to being polyamorous and in love with 2 people and why cheating doesn’t necessarily mean the end of a relationship. Plus, Dr. Emily gives advice on what to do when your partner has a way higher sex drive than you, but won’t initiate, and where’s a guy to finish if you’re not keen on swallowing or spitting during a blowjob.

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Sexy Texts & the Art of Phone Sex

Wed, 11 Dec 2019 21:27:37 -0000

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is talking about the benefits of phone sex – from upping your sexual confidence to creating your dictionary for dirty talk. Plus, she’s answering your sex & relationship questions.

She discusses the proper ways to navigate a phone sex or sexting conversation, how to help your partner find their confidence in being more dominant during foreplay, and ways to work on your relationship maturity.

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Giving Gifts of Pleasure: A Guide

Tue, 10 Dec 2019 21:28:01 -0000

On today’s show, Dr. Emily and her team are helping you give the gift of pleasure this holiday season by going over some of their favorite sex toys!

They talk about some innovative gifts to get your partner, your best friend, or even yourself this year, some new sex tech that will teach you more about your orgasms than you ever thought possible, and what your sexual intentions are for the new year.

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Growing Mindsets and Making Impacts with Tom Bilyeu

Fri, 06 Dec 2019 21:21:28 -0000

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by entrepreneur and founder of Impact Theory Tom Bilyeu to talk about why a growth mindset is vital to achieving your goals – in your career and your relationships!

The two discuss what “having a growth mindset” actually means – and how can you get your partner on board, how to limit your negative self-talk so you don’t limit your potential, and what you can do to make sure your connection lasts (hint: communication is key) – because relationships take work.

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Oh, All the Places You’ll Go with Multiple O’s!

Wed, 04 Dec 2019 20:21:43 -0000

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is giving you all the specific sex hacks you need in order to have amazing multiple orgasms. Plus, she’s answering your sex, dating & relationship questions.

She gives her sage advice on what it takes for both men & women to have multiple orgasms – either with a partner or alone, how to move past the constant fear of being “slut-shamed,” and how to leave a “ghoster” in the past and move on. Plus, easing a partner into using a strap-on.

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For the Love (& Crave) of Sex Toys with Ti Chang

Tue, 03 Dec 2019 19:45:32 -0000

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by co-founder of Crave Ti Chang, & they’re talking about the creativity and design that goes into sex toys – plus, all the benefits of self-love – and Dr. Emily answers your sex and relationship questions.

They discuss what exactly goes into the design of a sex toy – especially one as elegant & discreet as the Vesper Necklace, ways to get over the stigmas of masturbation, and using pleasure products. Plus, how to pose the idea of opening up your soon-to-be long distance relationship & what to do when your partner is adamantly against you having sex toys.

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The Sexual Laws of Attraction

Wed, 27 Nov 2019 21:15:30 -0000

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is explaining the differences between physical vs. emotional attraction & whether or not both are needed to be in a relationship, & she’s answering your sex, dating & relationship questions.

She talks about the likelihood of growing a physical attraction towards someone that you already have an emotional connection with, what to do when you feel like your body image doesn’t match your partner’s usual type, & the key distinctions between Erotica & pornography.

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Best Of: Gratitude Is Sexy

Tue, 26 Nov 2019 22:40:59 -0000

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is bringing you a special Thanksgiving Holiday episode that’s all about strengthening your relationships through gratitude – in & outside the bedroom.

She gives you a little lesson in partner appreciation & explains how often times it’s the little things that go a long way, why it is that we should all be extremely thankful for sex, & how to get through those awkward ‘relationship questions’ from family members that we all face each holiday season.

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Coming Together with Celeste & Danielle

Fri, 22 Nov 2019 21:53:00 -0000

On today’s show, joining Dr. Emily are long time friends & co-founders of the Somatica Institute, Celeste Hirshman & Danielle Harel & they’re talking about their new book Coming Together.

The three of them discuss core desires – what are they, how to figure out your own, and how they’ll help your sex life, how to create your “Hottest Sexual Movie,” and ways to be more compatible with your partner. Plus, they give you a lesson on sexual breathing.

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Sex: The De-stressor

Wed, 20 Nov 2019 20:41:05 -0000

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is talking about the spillover effect of stress into your sex life. Plus, she’s taking your calls & answering your sex related questions.

She breaks down why it’s important to separate your work life from your sex life, what to do when you’ve opened up your marriage but no longer feel sexually adequate enough for your wife, & how to confront your partner about a bag of never-before-seen sex toys.

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Order In the Courthouse (of Love) with Judge Jerry Springer

Tue, 19 Nov 2019 19:58:44 -0000

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by TV personality & icon Jerry Springer and they’re talking about his new show “Judge Jerry” on NBC. Plus, Dr. Emily is answering your sex & relationship questions.

The two discuss what Judge Jerry is all about – human connection, relationships & (of course) entertainment, as well as Jerry’s angle on how to maintain a happy marriage. Plus, Dr. Emily gives advice on ways to up your oral sex game & what to do when you have feelings for someone other than your spouse.

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Birth Chart Breakdowns & Sexual Journeys Part Two

Fri, 15 Nov 2019 21:13:11 -0000

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is bringing you part two of birth chart readings done by psychological astrologer Dr. Jen Freed & the two of them are helping callers navigate their sex & relationship lives.

Dr. Emily & Dr. Jen are talking to listeners to help them with their sex & relationship journeys based off of the exact time, place & date they were born. Some of the advice includes finding the courage to take the next steps in a relationship, how to get needs met with different sex drives, & putting words into actions in the bedroom.

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Emotional IQ’s & Dating Someone New

Wed, 13 Nov 2019 21:31:31 -0000

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is talking about emotional intelligence & how to spot if your date (or partner’s) is high or low. Plus, she answers your sex, dating and relationship questions.

She tells us what emotional intelligence is & why it’s so important, what to do when your partner refuses to open up sex conversation due to religious beliefs, & how to cope when you miss being in a relationship. Plus, which first steps to take towards mutual masturbation.

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Sexual Curiosities, Cravings & Conundrums

Tue, 12 Nov 2019 20:07:18 -0000

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is responding to your emails & giving her expert advice on all your sex, dating & relationship questions.

She gives the low down on simultaneous orgasms & how common they are (if at all), what to do when your partner meets their needs online – but not IRL, & how to get over the fear of being replaced by your girlfriend’s sex toys. Plus, what chastity is & how far is "too far" for beginners.

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Becoming a Super (& Sexy) Woman with Nicole Lapin

Fri, 08 Nov 2019 21:27:17 -0000

On today’s show, joining Dr. Emily is best-selling author & co-host of the Hush Money podcast Nicole Lapin & they’re talking about her new book, Becoming Super Woman: A Simple 12-Step Plan to Go from Burnout to Balance.

They discuss ways to prevent burnout by finding a good balance for your work and home life, why you want to be “super woman” not SuperWoman, & the family, finance & fun plan – the 3 F’s that will help maintain a steady, level-headed lifestyle.

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Distance Makes the Sex Grow Stronger

Wed, 06 Nov 2019 21:21:15 -0000

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is giving all the tips & tricks you need in order to keep the spark alive in a long distance relationship, because sex & intimacy can prevail no matter the distance! Plus, she’s answering your questions.

She shares all the LDR sex hacks such as sexting, FaceTime dates, even to controlling vibrator speeds overseas! Plus, how to recreate the elusive squirting experience you once had with your husband, & ways to overcome brainblocking during sex & relax in the bedroom.

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Happy, Healthy & Fearlessly Sexy with Fran Drescher

Fri, 01 Nov 2019 21:03:07 -0000

On today’s show, actress, writer & activist Fran Drescher, aka “The Nanny,” is joining Dr. Emily & the two of them are talking about ways to live the most fruitful & healthy life possible.

They chat about the importance of being a medical consumer – not just a patient, how to make a “clean” living, and why getting multiple doctor opinions might just save your life. Plus, they talk about sexual trauma and a few ways to heal so you can get back to a healthy sex life.

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Vibrating Histories & Relationship Mysteries

Wed, 30 Oct 2019 21:37:03 -0000

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is giving you a little history lesson all about the vibrator – as well as answering your sex related questions.

She tells the tale of the vibrator origin story: where it all began & how they progressed to what they are today. Plus, she gives advice on how to get out of a messy cheating situation, what to do when your husband has an odor – and it ain’t pheromones, and going from monogamous to polyamorous after 52 years together.

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A Not So Prude Rude Jude

Tue, 29 Oct 2019 20:07:45 -0000

On today’s show, host of the All Out Show on SiriusXM Shade 45, Rude Jude is joining Dr. Emily & the two of them are diving deep into some recent wild sex stories.

They talk about threesomes & what it’s like to have one with a partner vs. a unicorn (or even a sex worker), an up close & personal perspective on using toys for the first time, & how to give oral with the most enthusiasm possible.

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Keep the Spark (& the Kids) Alive with Larry Hagner

Fri, 25 Oct 2019 19:45:36 -0000

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by host of The Dad Edge Podcast Larry Hagner to talk about all things fatherhood, masculinity, and sex.

The two discuss what the 5 Dimensions of fatherhood are and why it’s important when it comes to being a successful parent – which includes prioritizing your intimate relationship – because you’re not just parents, you’re lovers. Plus, how to be the best role model for your kids and ways to talk to them about sex and pleasure.

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Breathing Into Better Sex

Wed, 23 Oct 2019 21:03:51 -0000

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is giving you a little exercise in mindfulness – because being present in your body helps you in the bedroom. Plus, she’s answering your questions.

She discusses how breathing into your senses may be the key to better sex, what to do if you’re getting jealous in your open relationship, and how to get your partner to see why communication is a lubrication – and not a threat to your sex life.

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Best Of: All the Oral You Can Handle

Tue, 22 Oct 2019 20:22:08 -0000

On today’s throwback podcast from the SWE Vault, Dr. Emily is joined by Menace and they’re getting into everything oral sex – from oral etiquette to getting over insecurities – and she’s answering your questions.

The two discuss the craziest places they’ve had oral, as well as the way social media is taking a toll on relationships (mind you, this was 3 years ago!). Plus, Emily gives advice on getting past the gag reflex, confusion on your partner’s oral reactions, and details on going from front to back (hint: don’t!).

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The Future is Sexy with Bryony Cole

Fri, 18 Oct 2019 19:24:25 -0000

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by sex tech expert & host of the Future of Sex podcast, Bryony Cole & they’re talking about sex tech & what the future may hold for anything involving pleasure. Also, Dr. Emily answers your sex related questions.

The two of them discuss topics like VR porn — what the draw is to it & how to use it wisely, as well sex robots & their place in the human world. Plus, how to tell your partner they’re a little too rough during oral sex & why is it that vulvas get more love from vibrators than penises.

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From Boregasms to Orgasms

Wed, 16 Oct 2019 20:32:34 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is talking about ways to make the most out of all your sexual experiences — from penetration, oral, & everything in between!

Emily chats about the orgasm gap with friend & CEO of Promescent, what to do if your partner starts to get a little too aggressive about having sex, & where to turn when you’re completely bored by all things sex.

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Setting Up For Sexual Success with Shannon Shores

Tue, 15 Oct 2019 20:54:31 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is joined by CEO of Wellex Inc. Shannon Shores & they’re talking about Same Day STD Testing, sexual health, and why it’s so important to get on top of it. Plus, Emily answers your questions.

The two of them discuss ways to get all the information you need about STDs, how to get faster results & why the stigma around STIs needs to change. Also, ways that baby making can be sexy & different sex positions that don’t involve penetration.

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We All Have Daddy Issues with Nicky Paris & Dean McDermott

Fri, 11 Oct 2019 19:32:57 -0000

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by Dean McDermott & Nicky Paris from the new Daddy Issues podcast & they get into all types of sex talk from head pushing, to honeymoon phases, to boredom during sex — pretty much anything we’re willing to do to find our “match.” Plus, Emily answers your questions.

She converses with callers about the dark side that social media brings to a relationship, how to return the favor to someone that has awakened you sexually, & all the beginner anal toys for you & your partner to play with together.

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Relationship Repair & Self Care

Wed, 09 Oct 2019 19:52:43 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is talking about the importance of self care & why we must put ourselves first instead of the ones around us. Plus, she’s answering your sex related questions.

She discusses why it’s so hard to develop new & healthier habits for ourselves, what to do when you feel “off” after masturbating but not after sex, & how to properly exercise your dating muscles.

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Blitz, Clits & Everything That Fits

Tue, 08 Oct 2019 21:22:20 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is doing an email blitz — because answering your questions is what she does best!

She gives advice on how to tell your partner that their technique is off without hurting their feelings, if you should move on or try again with a relationship that you’ve never fully committed to, & how to find your wife’s hot spot — aka, the clitoris! Plus, how to get your prostate needs met for solo pleasure play.

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Luke, I am Your Daddy (Dom)

Wed, 02 Oct 2019 21:28:59 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is breaking down the very common power play fantasy Daddy Dom/Little Girl & she’s answering your sex related questions.

She points you in the right direction of how to start a Daddy Dom/Little Girl dynamic, ways to orgasm with new partners, and what exactly the pubic mound is. Plus, how to get out of a long-term relationship rut.

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Getting Into Pleasure Shape with Dr. Carolyn Delucia

Tue, 01 Oct 2019 21:53:22 -0000

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by board certified OBGYN, medical director of VSPot Medi Spa, & author Dr. Carolyn Delucia to talk about the latest technological solutions for women’s health.

The two of them talk about new, easy procedures that help women strengthen the pelvic floor & alleviate their pain, what vaginismus is, & her new book Ultimate Intimacy: The Revolutionary Science of Female Sexual Health.

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Stress Less, Have More Sex with Emily Fletcher

Fri, 27 Sep 2019 21:08:12 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is joined by leading meditation expert & founder of Ziva Meditation, Emily Fletcher to talk about her book “Stress Less, Accomplish More.” Plus, Emily answers your questions sent through feedback@sexwithemily.com!

They talk about using meditation as a means to replace stress with sex, how it doesn’t take an expert at meditation to feel the effects, and why angry make-up sex is so hot.

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Couples Therapy For the Win!

Wed, 25 Sep 2019 20:58:11 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is talking about the different types of couples therapy & why every relationship can benefit from it no matter what stage they’re at. Plus she’s answering all your sex, dating & relationship questions.

She talks about how couples therapy is actually like a personal trainer for your relationship & why everyone should go sooner rather than later, ways to include intimacy during casual sex, plus, callers join in on the subject of premature escalation while dating.

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Male Call Mash-Up

Tue, 24 Sep 2019 19:51:07 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is focusing on all you penis owners out there & answering a variety of sex related questions from different perspectives all having to do with the male identity.

She talks about helping your husband reach his sexual potential, what to expect from sex clubs, how to politely ask your wife to swallow & much more!

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Birth Chart Breakdowns & Sexual Journeys with Dr. Jen Freed

Fri, 20 Sep 2019 22:05:51 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is joined by psychological astrologer Dr. Jen Freed to read the birth charts of our callers in order to help guide them on their sex & relationship journey – & this is only part one, so be on the lookout for part two!

Emily & Dr. Jen talk to listeners just like you to help them with their sexual journeys based off of the exact time, place & date they were born. Some of the advice given includes how to navigate new relationships, ways to masturbate better & body image.

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Surprise Orgasms & Summer Sex Talks

Wed, 18 Sep 2019 21:35:37 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is bringing you Summer highlights of sex in the news because what better way to welcome in the Fall season than reflecting on the hottest happenings of 2019? Plus, she’s answering all your sex, dating & relationship questions.

She talks about all the heat this summer brought us – from accidental orgasms, summer penis, to non consensual choking – & if it was actually hot or not, how video chat is only ideal for first dates but never for sexual compatibility, & ways to find the common ground of sexual experiences with a partner.

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Best Of: Your Two Breast Friends

Tue, 17 Sep 2019 19:12:49 -0000

On today’s throwback show, Emily & Producer Jamie are bringing you a plethora of pleasure! And to start it off, they get into breast play, as well as the benefits they reap for both the giver & the receiver.

They also give their sexy tricks on the favorite toys they love, why all day masturbation seshes are nothing to be ashamed of, and recognizing relationship anxiety. Plus, the ups & downs of the male refractory period.

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More Than Just Your Average Porno with Erika Lust

Fri, 13 Sep 2019 19:57:12 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is joined by adult filmmaker Erika Lust & they’re talking about finding porn that works for you & how to make it work for your partner, too.

They discuss why having porn that depicts different stages of life can actually help mental health (& is actually really hot), what it’s like to create porn that’s also a documentary, & the pros & cons to VR porn videos.

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Sex Dreams & SexEd for Teens with Anne Hodder-Shipp

Tue, 10 Sep 2019 20:09:30 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is joined by sex educator & dream-worker Anne Hodder-Shipp to talk about sex dreams, and they’re taking your calls & answering your questions.

They discuss what sex dreams really mean & if there are any truths behind them, ways to talk to teens about sex education without blaming or shaming, & how to have more connected sex with woman-on-top. Plus, a g-spot & p-spot location tutorial!

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From Sexploration to Sexplanation with Pamela Madsen

Fri, 06 Sep 2019 20:59:32 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is joined by founder and CEO of Back to the Body: Sensuous Retreats for Women, Pamela Madsen, to talk about all the ways women can unlock their sexual potential.

They discuss why it might not be that your libido is low, but that your boredom is high, ways to figure out exactly what you like in the bedroom – and it isn’t your typical sexploration, and explain what the heck “muffining” means and how it can benefit you. Plus, a couple games you can play with your partner to take your sex life up a notch.

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Gasms, Gains & Sexual Independence

Wed, 04 Sep 2019 19:55:04 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is talking about independence in a relationship & the importance of establishing those boundaries with a new partner — and as always, answering your sex, dating, & relationship questions.

She gives advice on what to do when you & your partner don’t see eye to eye on how much quality time to spend together, how to give a spectacular nipplegasm (because who doesn’t want that?), and how to unlock those masturbatory multiple orgasms during sex with a partner. Plus, a beginner’s breakdown to prostate play.

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A Rude (Jude) Sexual Awakening

Tue, 03 Sep 2019 21:02:15 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is joined by radio host of the All Out Show on SiriusXM Shade 45 @onemorejude & they’re talking about communication and making sex better. Plus, Emily is answering your emails.

They talk about how dating gets better as you get older but also how social media plays a big role in it, how to get over an embarrassing sex moment, & ways you and your partner can play around with positions to find the best angles for pleasure.

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Becoming Healthy & Sexually Wealthy with Jen Cohen

Fri, 30 Aug 2019 19:47:43 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is joined by leading fitness authority, entrepreneur, & host of the Habits & Hustle podcast, Jen Cohen, and they’re talking about how to get both the mind & the body on board towards living a healthier lifestyle.

The two of them discuss how to create healthy habits & actually stick to them, what makes sex similar to exercise (the more we do it, the more we want it), and ways that working out with a partner can be motivational as well as enjoyable.

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Making Moves & Sex in the News with Menace

Tue, 27 Aug 2019 20:21:41 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is reunited with radio personality, friend, & former co-host Menace, & they’re going over some current Sex In The News. Plus, they’re answering your emails.

They chat about the most annoying parts of sex that no one likes to talk about but most of us have been through, how Siri & other smart devices may be listening in on our sexual encounters, & what to do when your partner is hung up on your past.

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Divorce – It CAN Be Over Easy with Laura Wasser

Fri, 23 Aug 2019 19:30:53 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is joined by attorney, author, & Family Law Expert, Laura Wasser to talk about the difficulties of divorce & why it should be easier and how sex plays a role in it all.

They discuss why finalizing a divorce is such a struggle, the main reasons why people separate and how it all comes down to communication, and what we should all know before walking down the aisle.

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Porn PSA: A Guide On What Not to Do In Bed

Wed, 21 Aug 2019 21:45:58 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is debunking the overall perception of porn & why using it as a rulebook for sex will cause more harm than good, plus she’s answering your calls & emails.

She gives examples of how people have used porn as sex ed instead of entertainment, how to tell your wife (nicely) that you’d love to go down on her more but you can’t stand her lack of up-keep, & ways to get your boyfriend to be more expressive during sex because you can’t stand his silence.

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Baby-Making Facts & Holistic Hacks with Denise Wiesner

Tue, 20 Aug 2019 20:43:35 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is joined by certified sex coach, clinic director of Natural Healing & Acupuncture, & author of the new book “Conceiving with Love” Denise Wiesner to share her holistic approach on all things you should & shouldn’t do while trying to have a baby.

They give you tips on ways to have hot baby-making sex, how using Chinese medicine like herbs, acupuncture, & diet can help when trying to conceive, as well as natural & holistic hacks that heighten your senses & stimulate sex.

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Snug Plugs, Butt Hugs, & b-Vibes with Alicia Sinclair

Fri, 16 Aug 2019 21:10:55 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is joined by sex educator & creator of b-Vibe, Alicia Sinclair, and they’re talking about the beautiful butt and all it beholds!

They discuss why anal play is so misunderstood even though it can provide pleasure for everyone, b-Vibe’s Anal Training Kit that’s perfect for warming up your bum, and proper ass worship — because butt’s are more than just what’s on the inside.

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Who Do You Attract & Why?

Wed, 14 Aug 2019 20:11:33 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is discussing the traits that fit your specific “type” of person and why these characteristics tend to go overlooked – and she’s answering your calls.

She talks about attracting either your opposite or another version of yourself when dating, ways to get your partner to improve their dirty talking skills during sex, and what it means to be asexual.

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Anal August Knockin' At Your Backdoor

Tue, 13 Aug 2019 20:12:14 -0000

On today’s show & in honor of Alternative August, Emily is bringing you a mash-up show all about anal sex: the trials, tribulations, pleasures, & ways to make it is as pleasant as possible.

She gives you first timer tricks & tips on what to do when your partner keeps pestering you for anal & she talks with a mixture of women from different backgrounds to share their stories & experiences with backdoor play. Plus, all the myths, overall attraction, & ways to warm yourself up to the idea of anything anal.

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Hot Summer, Hotter Sex

Wed, 07 Aug 2019 20:22:16 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is giving you sexy summer tips on how to properly have sex in the water and she’s answering your calls & emails.

She gives advice on what to do when your body is too tense during sex to even orgasm, ways to know if ending a relationship is the right thing to do, & how to have sex when the kids are always around.

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Dating Cons & Marriage Pros with Michael Yo

Tue, 06 Aug 2019 21:33:39 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is joined by comedian Michael Yo & they’re talking about the difference between dating life & married life — specifically the relationships and the sex — and Emily is taking your calls & emails.

She gives advice on what to do when your partner brushes you off during a threesome, how to interpret the phrase “I don’t like labels” in the dating world, & the next steps to take when a hookup you’ve wanted for years didn’t quite meet up to your sexpectations.

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Strap-On Sex & Kinky Recs with Zoe Ligon

Fri, 02 Aug 2019 21:34:58 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is joined by sex educator Zoe Ligon & the two of them cover topics from sexual mental health to chastity – even dildos!

They discuss why it’s okay to take a break from dating, sex, or masturbation, ways to have fun exploring & getting into new kinks with your partner, as well as the latest & greatest sex tech news.

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Dating Trends You Need to Know

Wed, 31 Jul 2019 22:04:45 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is talking about new dating terms you may (or may not) have heard of & what they mean. Plus, she answers your calls and emails.

She gives advice on what to do when your partner decides to “officially” break up after taking a break, how to keep rim jobs sanitary – and pleasurable (of course), and ways to get your partner to actually stick to the sex schedule.

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Big Little Breakups

Tue, 30 Jul 2019 21:09:42 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is talking about breakups – how to get through them, repair from them, and ways to move on. Plus, she is answering your emails.

She gives you the low-down on dildos & how to get the most pleasure out of a self-powered sex toy, what to do when you’re married, but you caught “the feels” for a coworker, and how to move forward when your partner has ulterior motives for wanting a threesome.

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Deep End of the Dating Pool with Girls Gotta Eat

Fri, 26 Jul 2019 20:27:58 -0000

On today’s show, Emily’s joined by Rayna Greenberg & Ashley Hesseltine from the Girls Gotta Eat podcast & they’re talking about efficient ways to date & how your sex life actually gets better as you get older. Plus, Emily takes your calls & emails.

Emily gives advice on what it means to be a sexual person, perfect positions when you’re told you’re “too big,” & what to do when you’re bold in text & over the phone but extremely timid in person.

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Come On Down to Arousal Town!

Wed, 24 Jul 2019 21:49:07 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is talking to you about what actually happens to our bodies when we get aroused, and she is taking your calls.

She breaks down what monogamous relationships really are and what is considered cheating, what to do when you catch your pre-teen looking up porn on the internet, and the dos and don’ts for beginner BDSM play.

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Sex Life Energy with Christian Cristiano

Tue, 23 Jul 2019 21:18:32 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is joined by acupuncturist and Master of Chinese Medicine, Christian Cristiano, to talk about energy, acupuncture & how it all can affect your sex life. Plus, she’s answering your emails.

Emily gives insight on how to take the amazing dynamic you share in the bedroom with your partner and apply it to other parts of the relationship, can the time of day have an effect on different types of orgasms, & what physical vs. romantic attraction means.

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Oral Sex Moves & Grooves with Call Her Daddy

Fri, 19 Jul 2019 20:45:58 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is joined by Alex Cooper and Sofia Franklyn from the popular podcast Call Her Daddy & they talk about oral sex tips for all and why we all need to speak up a bit more in the bedroom. Plus, she’s taking your emails.

The three of them go over the “gluck gluck 9000” & “cooch gobbler combo,” – what they are and how to do them. Then, Emily gives advice on how to respect the faith of your overly religious partner and still remain sexual, what to do when you’re finishing too fast (as a woman), and how to stop thinking about your ex and focus on your current partner.

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Cock and Bull (Sex) Stories & Swallowing

Wed, 17 Jul 2019 21:24:53 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is revealing the common lies that people tell around sex – which we’re all guilty of telling at least one. Plus, she’s taking your calls.

She discusses the lies men and women tell around sex – and why it’s better to just be honest. Then, she gives advice on what to do when you’ve tried to be sexually compatible, but it just doesn’t seem possible, tips on swallowing without gagging – with one you may not have heard, and how to love your body when you’ve got some asymmetrical anatomy going on.

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Best Of: Sexting, Cheating & Summer Flings

Tue, 16 Jul 2019 19:43:25 -0000

On today’s throwback show, Emily & Menace talk about why summer is the hottest season — and they’re not just talking about the weather. Plus, they answer your emails.

The two give ways to beat the heat in and out of the bedroom, as well as whether or not sunlight can make you more attractive. Then, they answer emails about how to find your confidence when striking up a flirty conversation, what you might expect from an age difference relationship, and how to stay faithful when a cheating opportunity presents itself.

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Sex, Love & Robots with David Duncan

Fri, 12 Jul 2019 19:24:36 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is joined by best-selling author David Ewing Duncan to talk about this new book, Talking to Robots – and their breaking down the chapters about intimacy & sex! Plus, Emily answers your emails.

The two discuss what the future may hold for sex & intimacy robots (imagine a hologram version of Emily in your bedroom?!). Then, Emily answers questions about what to do when you love going down on your partner, but they’re a little apprehensive, the age old sexual grooming question – to shave or not to shave, and your partner’s pushing for a threesome, but with a full house, it’s the last thing on your mind.

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In-N-Out: That’s NOT What Sex is All About

Wed, 10 Jul 2019 22:11:11 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is talking about ways to have sex that aren’t penetration – because there is SO many ways to get it on between the sheets – and she’s taking your calls.

She helps you get your confidence back after a long-distance love destroyed it, how to get your partner to pull the trigger when you want to peg them, and how to come clean to your wife about your love for crossdressing. Plus, tips on getting your confidence up when talking to women.

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Nip Slips & Fantasy Tips with Mr. Skin

Tue, 09 Jul 2019 20:59:43 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is joined by Jim McBride a.k.a. “Mr. Skin” to talk about his new book, Being Mr. Skin: 20 Years of Nip Slips, Cheek Peeks & Fast Forwarding to the Good Parts. Plus, she’s taking your emails.

The two discuss what it’s like to have a family & a very sexually open career – as well as keeping up with the times. Then, Emily gives advice on how far is too far when it comes to revealing your fantasies to your partner, how to go from best friends to lovers, and where exactly the prostate is and how to stroke it for your partner.

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What's Your (Sex) Sign? with Dr. Jennifer Freed

Fri, 05 Jul 2019 19:07:48 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is joined by internationally certified astrologer & psychotherapist Dr. Jennifer Freed to talk about her Sexual Wisdom course, as well as better ways to discuss relationships & sex with people of all ages.

They get to the root of what psychological astrology is and how can it help you understand your relationships, the importance of defining your values and where you learned your views on sex, and true embodiment – how to really be present in your body and feel all your senses.

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Summer Sex Spice Up

Wed, 03 Jul 2019 21:58:30 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is talking about ways to amp up your dating profile because who wouldn’t like a little coaching in that department? Plus, she’s taking your calls.

She gives you a script for telling your partner – who you love and adore – that the sex could use some sprucing up, what to do when your ex has a hall pass and they choose you, and grooming tips to get past the pesky razor burn. Plus, how to reassure your partner when the toy you brought out during sex wasn’t well received.

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Doggystyle Hacks & Vagina Facts

Tue, 02 Jul 2019 21:58:44 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is giving you a myriad of vagina facts – and some might just surprise you. Plus, she’s answering your emails.

She reveals the right amount of time to take before trying to be friends with your ex again, what to do when doggystyle is getting a little too painful, and if having a BDSM session without sexual contact is still considered cheating. Plus, whether or not there’s a way out of the friend-zone.

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MESS(y) & Sexy with Kirsten Vangsness

Fri, 28 Jun 2019 19:41:57 -0000

On today's show, Emily is joined by friend, actress & writer Kirsten Vangsness and they're talking about sexual shame, how to deal with rejection, and why feminine energy is so powerful! Plus, she's answering your emails.

She talks about ways to learn how to be dominant when you’re usually submissive, how to get your partner interested in sex again when you’ve started finishing a little too early, and ways to get your brain on board for blowjobs.

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Why Do You Lube Me Up, Buttercup?

Wed, 26 Jun 2019 19:48:31 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is giving you the lowdown on lube in order to find your perfect match, and she’s taking your calls and emails.

She talks about whether it’s proper progressive parenting to give your teen a sex toy, which anal sex positions are best for everyone to enjoy, and how to get yourself in the mood for sex when you’re too tired. Plus, ways to keep up with your multi-orgasmic partner.

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Power to the Penis! With Dr. Edward Karpman

Tue, 25 Jun 2019 19:53:37 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is joined by board certified urologist Dr. Edward Karpman to talk about the penis & how to be your healthiest self to have the sex life you deserve.

They discuss the most common penis challenges and ways to work through them, how to get your brain on board when you’re dealing with performance anxiety, and what a penis implant actually is & how it works – because your sex life does not have to end!

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Gender-Chill with Jacob Tobia

Fri, 21 Jun 2019 19:55:04 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is joined by writer, producer and author Jacob Tobia to talk about their book Sissy: A Coming of Gender Story.

They clarify the differences between gender, sex, and orientation and what it means to be gender neutral, as well as “gender-chill.” Plus, the journey we go through to find our identity – because it’s not always easy, and inspiration to live our lives and feel sexy & confident – no matter what turns you on!

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Don’t Kill My Vibe – In Bed

Wed, 19 Jun 2019 19:32:51 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is giving you tips on how to successfully use a vibrator during sex, and she’s taking your calls.

She shares her knowledge about female ejaculation (because you’re never too young or too old), what to do when your fiance excludes you from social events, and whether or not your should stay or go in a relationship that needs saving.

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Best Of: Breakups, Bondage, & Bisexuality

Tue, 18 Jun 2019 19:55:52 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is acting as your very own compass to keep you on the most pleasurable path possible – because sex is a journey – and she’s taking your emails.

She gives you all the best beginner bondage tips, advice on what to do when you start developing feelings for your best friend after a (very hot) threesome, and why texts with the opposite sex might be a downfall in your marriage.

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Sex & the Brain with Dr. Helen Fisher

Fri, 14 Jun 2019 21:25:00 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is joined by renowned sex researcher and educator Dr. Helen Fisher to talk about sex, the brain, and so much more.

They talk about how hormones play a role in our attraction towards others, ways to efficiently date online – no matter what app you’re on, and why rejection is so difficult to cope with. Plus, believe it or not, millennials are actually doing something right with how they date and interact!

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Eyes on the (Sex) Prize

Wed, 12 Jun 2019 21:18:45 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is talking about the importance of eye contact during sex – or even conversation to be honest — as well as taking your calls and emails.

She discusses ways to find porn both you and your partner will get a kick out of, how to find your sex voice when your partner wants you to be more vocal, and how to keep from getting restless in your long-distance relationship. Plus, a lesson in sex toy hygiene!

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Sexually #Open with Elle Chase

Tue, 11 Jun 2019 21:13:45 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is joined by friend, sex educator, writer, & speaker Elle Chase to give you insight on new sex-positive dating trends, and she’s taking your calls.

She gives you tech tips on how to find matches that align with your sexual preferences, ways to make sex conversations sound more, well, sexy (you know, so everyone can chime in), and how to pull the passion out of your partner during sex.

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The “Skinny” On Emily: Part One

Fri, 07 Jun 2019 20:23:58 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is joined by sexy couple & hosts of the Skinny Confidential Podcast, Lauryn Evarts & Michael Bosstick to chat about sexual wellness, lube, role play and so much more.

They talk about how you can create the perfect “sexy stranger” scenario, easy ways you can mold your habits to support the love languages of others, and tips on how to make love last a little longer.

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Guilty Pleasures: Fetishes & Ex Sex

Wed, 05 Jun 2019 20:16:41 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is giving you tips on where to begin when you and your partner are on a different sex page, as well as taking your calls.

She talks about different ways to give yourself an orgasm – minus the props, how to get your needs met when the focus is on your partners fetish, and what it really means when you’re having sex dreams about your ex.

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Up(Date) the Way You Date

Tue, 04 Jun 2019 20:53:52 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is bringing you a mash-up all about dating – because what better way to prepare for the summer than with tips & tricks for getting back in the field.

She gives you just the inspiration you need to embrace the dating game, how to reframe rejection, as well as confidence boosters for the first date. Plus, where to start when you’re brand new to the dating apps.

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Quick Fix: Orgasms & Threesomes

Wed, 29 May 2019 21:16:32 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is talking about some uncommon sex news – including virtual reality porn, as well as taking your calls.

She discusses ways you can accomplish an orgasm quicker, what to do when performance anxiety takes over in the bedroom – because hey, you just want to be able to rise to the occasion every time. Plus, how to recover from a threesome situation that did not go well.

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Untrue Sex Stats & Pleasure Facts with Dr. Wednesday Martin

Tue, 28 May 2019 20:40:03 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is joined by social researcher & best-selling author Dr. Wednesday Martin to talk about her book, Untrue, – because we’ve got a lot of unlearning to do.

They talk about the misinformation we’ve been taught about female sexuality, why we aren’t necessarily meant or designed for monogamy, and how there isn’t just an orgasm gap – there’s an everything gap.

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Sex Talk You Can Take Home to Mom

Fri, 24 May 2019 19:25:44 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is joined by Cam & KarenLee Poter from the podcast Sex Talk With My Mom. They talk about how to make sex a lot less awkward to talk about with – not only your family – but with anyone!

They go over why talking and learning about sex can AND should be fun. Plus, Emily gives advice on what to do when your partner is getting too serious too fast, whether you should stay or go when you feel stuck in a slow-paced relationship, and your partner says they like going down on you, but they’ve only done it a few times – what’s the deal?!

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Multiplying Orgasms & Pleasure

Wed, 22 May 2019 20:48:02 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is talking about how to become the multi-orgasmic being you are totally capable of, as well as taking your calls.

She discusses how to make initiating sex an equal playing field while in a dom/sub relationship, ways to take things slow in person with someone you’ve been sexting with, and how to get your needs met when your partner can be a little selfish. Plus, clarification on the kivin method.

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Making Love Last Longer with Jeff Abraham

Fri, 17 May 2019 18:00:53 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is joined by CEO of Promescent Jeff Abraham and they’re talking about not only making love last longer, but how to make it better, too. Plus your calls & Instagram questions!

They discuss why talking about sex with your partner is crucial to your satisfaction in bed and ways to increase intimacy and be more open-minded in the bedroom. Plus, Emily gives advice on post oral kissing and whether or not you should accept the hall pass offer from your ex.

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Morning Sex & Return of the Ex

Wed, 15 May 2019 18:11:41 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is talking about the benefits of morning sex and position hacks to make sex that much better – as well as taking your calls.

She gives advice on getting past the nerves of dating an old ex without comparing it to the old sex, how to healthily reclaim your life when you are feeling stuck in a sexless marriage, and ways to go about venturing into the world of group sex with your partner of 20 years.

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Pleasure to the Pelvic Power with Lauren Roxburgh

Fri, 10 May 2019 19:55:28 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is joined by best-selling author & body alignment expert, trainer, and speaker Lauren Roxburgh to talk about her new book, The Power Source, and how you can really release the power from your pelvic floor.

They discuss how everything is connected to your pelvic floor – not just for women but EVERYONE, tips on how to loosen up and have better sex, what the heck fascia is and why it’s so important, and how to breathe in a way that connects your mind, body & soul.

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Hugs, Love & Lesbian Porn

Wed, 08 May 2019 20:57:27 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is talking about nude picture protocols and what science has to say about the benefits of hugging, as well as taking your calls.

She shares her knowledge about taking on the elusive g-spot orgasm after having mastered the clitoral orgasms, how to go about asking your wife to peg you for the first time, and why lesbian porn is enjoyed by all sexual orientations.

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Best Of: Great Solo Sex-pectations

Tue, 07 May 2019 20:58:28 -0000

On today’s throwback show, Emily addresses three of the most common masturbation questions she gets asked, plus a rundown on masturbation basics.

She explains ways to masturbate in order to take your self-love to the next level, why it’s important to incorporate it into our daily lives, and where to find the elusive G-spot.

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Open Relationships & Open Minds with Pam Costa

Fri, 03 May 2019 20:11:58 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is joined by sex and relationship coach, & the founder of Down to There, Pam Costa to talk about how to navigate an an open relationship after being monogamous for so many years.

They discuss what it’s really like to go from a long-term monogamous relationship to swinging to becoming a sex coach herself, as well as how you can make jealousy work – because it doesn’t just go away. Plus, Emily gives advice on how to go from gentle to rough in the bedroom without going overboard, and whether or not there’s an age limit on “playing the field.”

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Fellatio Fluency

Wed, 01 May 2019 21:38:48 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is talking about why talking during sex is just as important as talking about sex, as well as taking your calls.

She gives tips on how to work around the dreaded lockjaw issue you may be having while performing fellatio, ways to introduce masturbation & fantasies to your lover, and how to get out of your head and into a climactic orgasm.

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Swinging, Strip Teases & Sex Scheduling

Tue, 30 Apr 2019 20:14:11 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is bringing you an email blitz – taking your emails and Instagram questions to give you the first step of taking back your sex and love life.

She gives advice on how to keep up your stamina when you’re swinging with another couple, sex talk ice breakers to start the conversation on what you like in the bedroom with your partner, tips to get your roleplay going, and whether or not dating a coworker is really a good idea. All this & more!

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(Be)Come More with Bethany C. Meyers

Fri, 26 Apr 2019 20:03:45 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is joined by fitness instructor & creator of the be.come project Bethany C. Meyers to talk about ways to get into your body, feel good in it & connect to your sexuality.

They discuss body neutrality – why you should always respect your body – even if you’re having an off day, and making modifications to your outlook & your exercise to actually enjoy doing it. Plus, Emily answers emails on how to better rock the riding position, and thoughts on playing around with gloryholes.

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A Cure for the Common Sex Crisis

Wed, 24 Apr 2019 21:25:40 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is talking about the sex crisis we apparently find ourselves – why we’re there, and some ways to get out of it. Plus, she’s taking your calls.

She dives into why people aren’t having sex – whether single or in a relationship, how to make sex fun again when you’re trying to have a baby, what to do when you LOVE touch, but your wife is so not into PDA, and whether you should have a threesome with a friend or a stranger.

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Stop, Drop & Cuckold

Wed, 17 Apr 2019 21:49:28 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is giving you the ins and outs on a fantasy that’s been becoming a lot more popular lately: cuckolding – and she’s taking your calls.

She gives you some pro tips on cuckolding, then gives advice on what to do when your spouse turns into a jerk every time you come back from vacation, why writing your own erotica can be incredibly hot (and help with initiating sex), and how to get over the jitters when you want to take your husband to a strip club, but you’re a little nervous.

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Balancing Your Sexual Energy

Tue, 16 Apr 2019 21:44:32 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is talking about sexual energy – and how it relates to your relationships in and out of the bedroom.

She discusses how everyone has a masculine and a feminine energy, why having a balance of these energies is so important to better bedroom experiences, and all the ways the masculine/feminine polarity relates to attraction, your relationship and your sex life.

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Trust Your Gut & Not the Pill with Dr. Jolene Brighten

Fri, 12 Apr 2019 20:20:29 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is joined by a naturopath & medical doctor who specializes in women’s health and author of “Beyond the Pill,” Dr. Jolene Brighten to talk about the truth behind birth control, as well as other ways to be your healthiest, sexiest self.

They discuss all the things you haven’t been told about hormonal birth control, but need to know, steps you can take to raise your low libido, why you need to be listening to more than just your “metaphorical” gut, and how you can get your body into amazing shape – from hormones to your mind.

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Oral Expectations

Wed, 10 Apr 2019 21:14:36 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is talking about the things you might want to avoid saying in your relationship – and she’s taking your calls.

She shares those seemingly insignificant phrases that you shouldn't say to your partner - and what you can say instead, your partner wants to swing – but you’re not really into it, (like at all), and you like trans men, but aren’t so experienced on giving oral pleasure.

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A (Porn) Star is Born: A Mash-Up

Tue, 09 Apr 2019 20:39:25 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is bringing you a mash-up of some of her favorite interviews with different stars in the Adult Industry – that’s right – Porn Stars!

She covers everything from all the Oral Sex tips – from someone who likes to give fellatio AND cunnilingus, what it really means to explore polyamory and non-monogamy, and what it’s like to be in the adult industry and the differences between on and off screen sex.

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Good Vibes Only with Coyote Amrich

Fri, 05 Apr 2019 19:06:15 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is joined by Coyote Amrich – the Surgeon General of Sex Toys – well really, she works for Good Vibrations – and they’re talking all about how to find the right pleasure products for the best bedroom experiences.

They discuss how to know what sex toys to buy and which ones to pass by, what goes into creating a quality sex toy, and why it can make a huge difference in your sex life. Plus, Emily answers emails on why no one seems to be using condoms these days and what to do when you came clean about cheating, but now you can’t orgasm.

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Coital Creativity: What’s Your Fantasy?

Wed, 03 Apr 2019 21:17:36 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is talking about the most common fantasies we all have and what makes them so hot– plus, she’s taking your calls.

She breaks down a few fantasies – from bondage to group sex, what to do when you love your partner – but are dangerously close to crossing the infidelity line, you think your husband has the “madonna/whore” complex – but it’s actually a lot deeper than that, and opening up about your love for wearing thongs when your wife buys you boxers.

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Best Of: Spring Cleaning Your Love Life

Tue, 02 Apr 2019 18:49:23 -0000

On today’s throwback show, Emily is talking about how to really get in the spring cleaning spirit – with your relationships and your sex life.

She lists some signs that your relationship is getting rocky and whether or not it’s worth saving, what to do when jealousy seems to keep creeping into your head, and sex with your ex – because a lot of us do it. Plus, how to get your partner relaxed and turned on enough to squirt.

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Happy, Healthy & Horny Again with Dr. Carolyn & Cindy

Fri, 29 Mar 2019 18:57:24 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is joined by Dr. Carolyn Delucia & Cindy Barshop to talk about everything – from vulvas to sexual health to keeping everything ready for when it’s time to get busy.

They discuss how to get your pelvic floor in tip top shape, no matter what stage of life you’re in, why trying to regain trust is harder than you think, but still possible, how to dry things up when you’re TOO wet, and the REAL reasons you may be losing your sex drive – and what you can do to get it back.

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Hard at Work: All About the Penis

Tue, 26 Mar 2019 18:13:24 -0000

On today’s show, Emily’s giving you all the things you need to know about the penis – because there’s always more to discover – and she’s answering your emails.

She’s giving you the 411 on the penis – from different erections to what you need to know about pleasing them. Plus she gives advice on whether a “parenting marriage” is ever a good idea, how to get past your family hearing your vibrator, and how to know if you’re really just a booty call – or just a little paranoid.

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Hot, Bothered & In the Moment with Tina Rocca

Thu, 21 Mar 2019 19:09:47 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is joined by Tina Rocca – a healthy lifestyle and wellness expert who works with the company Karezza to talk about how CBD and sex go hand-in-hand. Plus, Emily answers your emails.

The two discuss how much plants & CBD can actually do for your sex drive, and how to stop the madness already with ways to lessen your anxiety and get you in the mood. Then, Emily tells you how long you should wait to be friends after a breakup, and sexting fail signs that you’re in the wrong relationship.

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Sexual Likes, Dislikes & Stereotypes

Wed, 20 Mar 2019 20:14:34 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is talking about why you shouldn’t make assumptions about your partner’s sexual likes and dislikes, and she’s taking your calls.

She covers what to do when you love your sex toys, but your fiancé hasn’t quite come around yet, you keep getting stereotyped as a taker because of how you look – but you’re definitely a giver, and key rules to maintaining something long-distance (hint – it can’t be that way forever).

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So You Think You Can Orgasm?

Tue, 19 Mar 2019 21:21:39 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is bringing you a mashup all about orgasms – from how to have them alone to having them with a partner to everything in between.

She talks about how to go deeper with your orgasms when you’ve mastered the clitoral orgasm, what to do when you have no problem finishing on your own, but with a partner is a different story, and if you want to master multiples – it’s time to grab out your notepad and listen up.

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Mapping Out Your Pleasure with Dolly Josette

Fri, 15 Mar 2019 20:07:06 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is joined by sexological bodyworker Dolly Josette to talk about how people can really get reconnected to their body and their sexual energy.

They discuss what the heck vulva-mapping is and how can it help you and your partner get acquainted with your body, how you can work together to have the most pleasurable experiences possible, and why masturbation is the motivation. Plus, did you know – you can have an EARgasm?!

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Mindfully Mastering Multiple Os

Wed, 13 Mar 2019 21:24:09 -0000

On today’s show, Emily debates texting versus talking in a relationship – because it makes more of an impact than you think – and, she’s taking your calls.

She talks about what to do when you want multiple orgasms (who doesn’t), but your partner thinks you’re just being greedy, how to master mindful sex now that you’re in a healthy relationship, and how to address finding your teen in bed with his best guy friend – without making him feel judged.

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The Clit Notes

Tue, 12 Mar 2019 21:01:37 -0000

On today’s show, Emily’s giving you “the clit notes” on all things vulva! So if you’ve got one of your own or are really good friends with one, you’ll want to write a few things down.

She gives you a crash course on the clitoris – how to touch it, how to love it, and how to understand it. Plus, she gives advice on what to do when you’re trying your hardest not to catch any feels, you’re married – but you’re starting to wonder if the grass is greener on the other side, and long-distance tips to keep the fire burning miles and miles away.

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Sex Life Second Chances with Nadia Bokody

Fri, 08 Mar 2019 01:07:31 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is joined by Australian sex influencer, Nadia Bokody, to chat about taking control of your sexuality and be proud.

They discuss how to own your sexuality and what it truly means to be a f*ckgirl. Plus, what to do if your partner is invited to their ex’s wedding and ways to get your partner’s head into the oral game.

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B Is For Bedroom - Not Boring

Wed, 06 Mar 2019 21:30:37 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is talking about ways to eliminate boring out of the bedroom because 45% of Americans are bored with their sex lives. Emily takes your calls on roleplay with a full role-play-by-play to help you get great results. Plus, why changing up one thing in the bedroom can make a mind-blowing difference, and why you should never compare yourself to your partner’s ex.

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Breathe Your Way to Orgasm with Barbara Carrellas

Fri, 01 Mar 2019 23:44:08 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is joined by sex coach and creator of Urban Tantra Barbara Carrellas to discuss all things tantric sex and how to get into it.

Plus, how breathing alone can bring yourself to orgasm, ways to fuel your sex life with erotically constructive fantasies, and understanding sex as an exploratory experience than “getting off.”

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Best Of: Emojis -- The New Mating Call?

Thu, 28 Feb 2019 22:32:58 -0000

On today’s throwback show, Emily is giving her expert advice on common sex and dating dilemmas to get you headed in the right direction for amazing sex.

Plus, Emily gives advice on ways to communicate if you’re concerned that your partner is NOT masturbating, how to know when to stop the casual dating and dive back into something serious, and which emojis will most likely get a you a text back.

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Raise the Roof On Your Sex Life

Thu, 28 Feb 2019 00:25:54 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is giving you ways to raise your sexual bar as high as it can go as well as taking your calls.

She talks about why even when sex is amazing, you that you can always make it better, how ultimatums are never a good sign, but there are ways to reframe the conversation, and what to do when your partner thinks sex once a day is still not enough. Plus, ways to get into the dating scene when you’re finally ready to get out there.

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Penis Problem Solvers with Dr. Brandeis

Tue, 26 Feb 2019 21:36:14 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is joined by board certified urologist, Dr. Judd Brandeis to talk about how science is making strides for your penis.

They talk about getting rid of the blue pill thanks to innovative technology, the top two people you need to be talking to sex about, and whether VR porn is a red flag for cheating.

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Secrets To A Better Sex Life With Cyndi Darnell

Fri, 22 Feb 2019 22:29:02 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is joined by sex & relationship therapist Cyndi Darnell and they’re talking about all the ways to tap back into desire & arousal for a better sex life.

Emily also discusses the importance of keeping your sex life top of mind and keeping your horny light turned on, gaining your sexual power, and tips on starting your own plan for the bedroom.

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Unlocking The Orgasm Code

Wed, 20 Feb 2019 23:33:03 -0000

On today’s show, Emily talks about how you can’t let a bad experience during sex scar you forever – because the first time is not always the best time and second chances aren’t always a bad thing.

Plus, why you should stop gossiping about your partner’s sexual exploits, threesome etiquette, and what the heck to do when your partner loves their vibrator, but you both want to have a big O without it.

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Network & Chill with Jordan Harbinger

Fri, 15 Feb 2019 19:48:45 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is joined by host of The Jordan Harbinger Show Podcast – you guessed it – Jordan Harbinger.

They talk about ways to maintain your work and romantic relationships in a healthy way from body language to staying your honest and authentic self, and why confidence is always key.

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Porn Fantasies vs. Sexual Realities

Wed, 13 Feb 2019 20:31:01 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is talking about ways to stop building stories in your head and get to the root of what’s holding you back in your sex life.

She talks about why you shouldn’t make assumptions about your relationship, all the reasons why porn and sex in movies is not like real authentic sex, and what it really means when your partner says “erotic.”

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Valentine’s Day Remix: A Mash-Up

Tue, 12 Feb 2019 19:48:40 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is bringing to you a mash-up of all things Valentine’s Day to give you a little more romance inspiration.

She gives the tea on all things cupid from gift ideas to sexpectations to tales of V-Day’s past. This show is going to get you in the romantic mood and spark some ideas for the bedroom.

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Outside The Sexual Box with Dr. Hernando Chaves

Fri, 08 Feb 2019 22:18:54 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is joined by sex & relationship therapist Dr. Hernando Chaves to talk about why it’s important to think about sex differently – because it’s more than the old in and out.

They discuss better ways to dive into backdoor play, why Valentine’s Day is the best time to jumpstart your bedroom resolutions and how to get over your sexual anxieties – because hey, we all have them.

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A Truly Hotter Sex Life

Thu, 07 Feb 2019 00:37:56 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is giving you some cold weather sex tips – because, let’s face it, what else are you gonna do in the polar vortex?

She’s giving you ways to turn up the heat in your sex life –literally, what to do if you’ve found yourself in the friend zone and are trying to get out, and what to do if you can orgasm – but only when you’re thinking about your ex. Plus, whether or not it’s a good idea to ask a younger guy out on a date.

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What to Know About Your ‘O’

Tue, 05 Feb 2019 23:02:39 -0000

On today’s show, Emily’s talking all about women’s orgasms – how to recognize them, how to stop faking them, and of course, how to have them.

She discuss everything you ever needed to know about a woman’s orgasm, ways to give a top-notch handjob – because they never go out of style, and what to do when you can ONLY get off with a partner and you just want to have some successful self-love.

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A Good Screw with Rachael & Chrisitne

Fri, 01 Feb 2019 21:36:41 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is joined by hosts of the podcast Screwed Up Stories Rachael O’Brien & Christine Blackburn and they’re talking all about... screwing!

The three discuss how all of us have messed up stories – but that doesn’t mean we’re messy people, and what the rules really are when it comes to dating (hint: they’re different for everyone). Plus, Emily gives some ways to initiate sex and actually have it – no excuses, and how to make your orgasms even more intense – because who doesn’t want that?

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Better Dating & More Sex-plaining

Thu, 31 Jan 2019 00:27:01 -0000

On today’s show, Emily talks about about how socializing can improve your relationship, inside and outside of the bedroom.

She explains all the ways you can be likeable, while still remaining true to yourself. Plus, what to do if you’re dating a married couple, how to move beyond trauma, and ways to talk to your partner about your sexual desires.

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A Better Way to Valentine’s Day

Tue, 29 Jan 2019 22:26:32 -0000

On today’s show Emily’s team joins in to talk all things Valentines Day. Because if you’re loving yourself or loving your partner there’s always a way to take things up a notch.

We talk about the top gifts to get the people you love beyond flowers and chocolate, unique ideas to spend the day -- fancy dinner not included, different ways to spice up your time in the bedroom and if you're single, don’t forget to treat yourself -- self-love is the best love.

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Best Of: Sexually Fluid with Nico Tortorella

Fri, 25 Jan 2019 20:42:06 -0000

On today’s throwback show, Emily is joined by actor Nico Tortorella and the two are talking all about sexual fluidity.

Emily and Nico discuss the differences between bisexuality to pansexuality, explore the range of relationships from monogamy to polyamory, and what it means to be sexually fluid. Plus, they talk about how opening yourself up to all types of love can help you have the best sex imaginable – not to mention experience pleasure in ways you never thought possible.

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Orgasms & Coital Confidence

Thu, 24 Jan 2019 00:00:18 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is discussing if having the “traditional family” is right for you – as well as taking your calls & emails to help get you on the right track in your relationships and the bedroom.

She debates the question: to have kids or not to have kids and why either path is okay to choose. Plus, she gives advice on what to do if you can only orgasm under specific conditions, how to convince yourself that you’re as attractive and amazing as everyone else says, and whether or not it’s a good idea to ask for a “hall pass” in your relationship.

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Shameless Sex,Trends & Threesomes with April Lampert

Tue, 22 Jan 2019 22:16:33 -0000

On today’s show Emily is joined by host of the Shameless Sex podcast, April Lampert along with her partner to talk about the sex trend of 2019 from sex toys to potential threesomes.

They discuss why being your authentic self is THE sexiest thing you can do, what it’s like working for a sex toy company and the perks that come with it -- no pun intended -- and how to have healthy communication with your partner and why it’s extremely important.

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Dirty Talk, Dropping Hints & Dating Tips

Wed, 16 Jan 2019 22:25:37 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is covering a few things to be aware of in the dating world – from trends to online profiles and she takes your calls on relationship woes.

She goes over what you should NOT put on your dating profile to boost your chances of getting a match, what to do if you’re dropping hints that aren’t getting picked up, focusing less on your phone and more on your partner, and ways to just start talking dirty already.

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What to Expect When He’s Expecting Oral

Tue, 15 Jan 2019 23:23:44 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is talking about the stages all relationships go through as well as how to navigate them – including in the bedroom.

She discusses the 5 stages of a relationship & how to work through them all. Plus, what to do when you like giving oral, but it’s becoming too much of an expectation, how to talk to your kids about puberty without it being painful or embarrassing for either of you, and having shower sex that actually feels good.

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Single Shenanigans with Scheana Shay

Fri, 11 Jan 2019 21:47:14 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is joined by Scheana Shay – host of the podcast Scheananigans with Scheana Shay and star of the Bravo show Vanderpump Rules & they’re talking about being single, masturbation, & so much more.

They discuss why freezing your eggs may be something to you want to consider and how being single for awhile – after jumping from relationship to relationship – can help you realize what you actually need. Plus Emily gives advice on making sex compromises – and actually sticking to them and how to get past the bedroom panic and into pleasure.

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Orgasms, Affairs & Sexual Stamina

Wed, 09 Jan 2019 21:56:32 -0000

On today’s show, Emily’s taking calls and talking about why it’s time to stop faking orgasms and get the pleasure you deserve – as well as some tips to help you get there.

She discusses why there needs to be less faking pleasure in the bedroom and more real satisfaction. Plus, she lends advice on what to do when you keep feeling light-headed after sex, why some men like to share their partners with other men, and whether or not a relationship can survive after a betrayal.

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Self-Love Starts & Penis Parts

Tue, 08 Jan 2019 22:22:35 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is giving you ways to get out of your head and into your sexual groove.

She reveals why being a perfectionist may be stopping you from having the sex you want and how to get over insecurities about your penis size – whether it’s big, small, or somewhere in between. Plus, what to do if you’re craving more affection from your partner and tips to start your masturbation routine off right.

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Bedroom Goals & Relationship Roles with Lisa Bilyeu

Fri, 04 Jan 2019 22:33:54 -0000

On today’s show, Emily welcomes back badass businesswoman and host of Women of Impact, Lisa Bilyeu, to talk about how couples can set goals and roles to reach together –– and Em is answering your emails.

They discuss ways to figure out exactly what your needs are in a relationship and how to meet them with a partner and why it’s so crucial to check in with your partner regularly about the state of your relationship. Plus, Emily gives advice on what to do when you’ve got mismatched kink levels and whether or not there can ever be TOO much sex talk.

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Sexual Attention Spans & Dating Plans

Thu, 03 Jan 2019 23:07:53 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is talking about better ways to date, as well as helping you through your bedroom conundrums.

She gives you some ways to start dating with intention instead of just winging it, what to do when it seems like your partner prefers their vibrator to having sex, and ways to get out of your head during sex so you can actually enjoy yourself. Plus, everyone’s favorite topic – squirting!

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New Year, Better Sex: A Mash-Up

Tue, 01 Jan 2019 23:22:27 -0000

On today’s show, we’re bringing you a mash-up for some sexual resolution inspiration because there’s always room to grow – even in the bedroom!

Emily talks with Menace about different resolutions to step up your sex life, with Anderson about dating someone you met online, and Jamie about the best and worst sexual experiences they’ve had – and what you can learn from each one. Happy New Year!

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Sex in Retrograde

Fri, 28 Dec 2018 20:20:10 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is joined by Elizabeth Kott & Stephanie Simbari from the That’s So Retrograde podcast to talk about mindfulness, wellness & how it relates to your relationships – with yourself and a partner.

The three discuss what all this “retrograde” talk really means and what it can mean for your life, some alternative ways to work on yourselves – because we’re never done improving, and how your gut is like your second brain – and how it relates to your sexual health.

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Dating, Mating & Roleplaying

Wed, 26 Dec 2018 21:34:02 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is taking calls to help you make 2019 the hottest year yet.

She goes over some of the oddest dating stats of 2018 – from dealbreakers to masturbation injuries, ways to get into your role-play groove, and why taking a break from porn and masturbation can reignite your sex life with your partner. Plus, whether or not age makes a difference in your relationship.

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Best Of: Sex With Loveline Hosts Dr. Drew & Mike Catherwood

Tue, 25 Dec 2018 22:13:14 -0000

On today’s throwback show, Emily is joined by Dr. Drew Pinsky and Mike Catherwood, the dynamic hosts from the late Loveline radio show, and they talked sex, relationships and Loveline over the years!

The iconic trio talk about tips to make a marriage successful, ways to build your confidence back up to start dating again, and what male preoccupation with penis size is really all about. Plus, they discuss Tinder (oh how it’s changed since 2014), body image, and masturbation. Happy holidays, lovers!

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Big Mouths & Better Sex (Talk) with Gil Ozeri

Fri, 21 Dec 2018 21:08:46 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is joined by writer, actor, and comedian Gil Ozeri to talk about the Netflix show Big Mouth – and she’s taking your calls. Emily & Gil talk about why sex ed is so important and needs better instruction, as well as the things we all go through growing up – and honestly, are still going through now. Then helps callers with the best blowjob tips, ways to make FaceTime sex super hot, and how to get your sexual connection back.

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Porn Positive & Partner Pleasing

Wed, 19 Dec 2018 23:11:40 -0000

On today’s show, Emily sits down with friend and fellow sex educator Elle Chase to talk about Tumblr’s ban on adult content – and taking your calls & answering emails, of course.

She gives you ways to talk to a partner – casual or serious – about what you want in the bedroom, why you should never trick your partner in bed – even if it’s for their pleasure, and what to do when your fresh out of places to get busy.

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Oral Fixations & Open Relations

Tue, 18 Dec 2018 20:47:12 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is taking calls and helping you breathe some life back into your bedroom. She covers some reasons why you might not be enjoying sex and how to turn it around, ways to navigate opening up your relationship, and what to do when your partner just won’t compromise when it comes to oral.

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How to Handle Your Sex Life with Hannah Cranston

Fri, 14 Dec 2018 22:12:10 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is joined by Hannah Cranston to talk about her new podcast Too Much to Handle & how to own your sexuality.

They talk about ways to not let societal views influence how you date, mate, and live your life, tips that will help you date more efficiently for the best results, and how to make sure your pleasure is a priority in a relationship.

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Sexual Exploration & Mutual Masturbation

Wed, 12 Dec 2018 22:52:35 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is helping you get out of your head to enjoy sex all the way through.

Emily & Jamie go over some thoughts that are totally common to have during sex – and how to get past them. Then, Emily gives advice on whether or not to explore your bisexuality when the sex is gone from your marriage, how to navigate online dating without getting unsolicited pictures (you know which ones), and ways to make mutual masturbation apart of your sex routine.

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Hot Sex: Holiday Edition

Tue, 11 Dec 2018 22:09:35 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is joined by producer Jamie and they’re giving you some tips to keep the holidays as sexy as they are jolly!

They discuss ways to keep your sex lives hot during the holidays – literally and figuratively, tell you which pleasure products will make the best gifts – from stocking stuffers to the bigger stuff, and why the holidays are the perfect time of year to ask for what you want in the bedroom.

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Sex: It’s Complicated

Fri, 07 Dec 2018 22:24:52 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is joined by Jen Golden & Lauren Leonelli from the podcast It’s Complicated to talk about everything from breakups to sex toys.

The three talk about the right and wrong ways to break up with your partner, top tips for relaxing into oral sex so you can actually enjoy it, and why being mindful of your breath during sex can make it even more pleasurable. Plus, Emily answers your emails on on to ease back into dating and get over your nerves, and ways to ensure you’re giving your partner as much pleasure as possible.

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Sex Myths & Backdoor Play

Wed, 05 Dec 2018 21:24:41 -0000

Every Wednesday, we are going to be bringing you a hump day treat – best of content from the SiriusXM radio show – just to give you a little taste.

Emily and Jamie debunk a range of sex myths that people still believe – from different types of orgasms to varying sex drives to what sex actually is. Then, Emily takes calls and gives ways to get into anal play, stroke the prostate, and how to break up with someone around the holidays – and keep it gentle.

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Up Your Oral Game

Tue, 04 Dec 2018 21:33:36 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is talking about some things that most relationships go through and how to get past them.

She goes over the top things couples argue about and ways to deal with them, why you shouldn’t let kissing slip from your relationship, and how to make sure you’re both getting your needs met in the bedroom – because sex is a two-way street. Plus, how to to let your partner know gently that they need to work on their oral hygiene.

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Super-Size Your Orgasm

Fri, 30 Nov 2018 22:13:43 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is joined by Forrest Andrews from the company Aneros to talk about all things prostate – from orgasms to stimulation, and why we need to get rid of the stigmas.

The two discuss the ins and outs of prostate play, how to unlock a full-body orgasm – no ejaculation required – that also leaves you ready for round 2, and ways men (or their partners) can expand their sexual pleasure and explore all the hot spots.

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Penises, Pleasure & Pillow Talk

Tue, 27 Nov 2018 21:25:37 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is taking your calls and helping you through some sex and relationship issues.

Emily and Jamie discuss the age old debate – to circumcise or not to circumcise, and how to keep from crossing over from flirty to affair in the workplace. Plus, Emily answers your questions about spicing things up when all you have is a college dorm room and how to make foreplay a shared interest in your relationship.

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The Porn Paradox with Jayme Waxman

Fri, 23 Nov 2018 20:39:14 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is joined by marriage/family therapist and sex educator Jamye Waxman to talk about everything from too much porn use to talking to your kids about sex ed. They cover the ups and downs to watching porn – because everything is great in moderation, ways you can talk to anybody in your life about sex – whether it’s a partner or your kids, what to do to get your sexual stamina up, and how to figure out the exact way your partner wants to be dominated.

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Orgasm Facts & Threesome Hacks

Tue, 20 Nov 2018 21:05:12 -0000

On today’s show, Emily taking your calls and giving you some facts and tips that may just surprise you.

She reveals a few facts about orgasms that – if you didn’t know before – you’ll be glad you know now, the benefits of talking about sex with your friends – believe me, how to find a third that will be down for a MMF Threesome, and ways to break a very meticulous sex routine.

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More Dating, Less Soulmating

Fri, 16 Nov 2018 20:56:14 -0000

On today’s show, Emily’s is joined by life/career coach Darah Wagner to talk about dating, masturbation, and love – and how to master them all (or at least come close).

They discuss soulmates and what you should be doing instead of searching for one, navigating the dating world and why you need to do your work before being in a healthy relationship, and self-mastering masturbation. Plus, what to do when you can’t get past your partner’s sexual history.

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Coital Communication

Tue, 13 Nov 2018 21:56:51 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is taking calls, helping you rip off the bandaid and get you talking about sex with some communication skills you didn’t know you needed.

She discusses why dating might get better if we put a limit on this whole texting thing, the body language signals that may have you sending the wrong messages, and how to keep up sexually when your partner is injured and down for the count.

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Good, Good, Good Vibrations: Sex Toy Review

Fri, 09 Nov 2018 23:07:31 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is joined by fellow sex educator Elle Chase and her team because it’s SEX TOY REVIEW DAY! So gear up & take notes – you may be adding a few things to your wishlist this year.

They get into all the toys, lubes, and products that have been rocking their bedrooms lately, sex hacks for using toys alone and with a partner, and some other sexy ideas you can take to bed. All the products talked about on the show can be found at sexwithemily.com/toys.

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More Sex (Talk) with Emily: Special Announcement

Wed, 07 Nov 2018 20:55:48 -0000

On today’s bonus show, Emily’s got a special announcement! Along with emails and some sex talk, of course.

She reveals some news that includes you, her, and a lot more sex talk! Plus, she discusses why talking about sex with friends can actually lead to better sex, what to do about a swinging situation gone bad, and the best couples toys to use in the bedroom.

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A Whole New Kind of Oral

Tue, 06 Nov 2018 20:36:22 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is taking your calls to give you the hacks that will elevate your relationships and your oral game.

She discusses the surprising lessons short term relationships can teach us, a new oral sex method you’ll definitely to want to try, and how to teach your partner a new kissing style. Plus, she cracks down on the signs you may or may not be ready to move in with your partner.

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Best Of: Swinging All the Way with Holli & Michael

Fri, 02 Nov 2018 18:16:25 -0000

On today’s throwback podcast, Emily is joined by married couple and real-life swingers Holli & Michael to talk about the swinging lifestyle and how healthy open relationships really work.

The three discuss the myths of swinging, the time they ALL went to a play party, and how to remove jealousy from your relationship. Plus, they help listeners deal with a selfish lover, proper threesome etiquette, and how to make sex less awkward and boring.

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Seduction, Self-Love & Strap-Ons

Tue, 30 Oct 2018 20:40:22 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is talking about important aspects of sex and why communication is a lubrication.

Joined by new team member, Sarah, the two discuss what sexual kinks are getting more popular, the real talks to make sure your open relationship is a good idea, and what the best strap-on options are that don’t look too real. Plus, the correct way to do your Kegels!

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Tell Me What You Want (In Bed) with Dr. Justin Lehmiller

Fri, 26 Oct 2018 21:04:31 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is joined by Dr. Justin Lehmiller – a leading expert on human sexuality – to talk about his book, Tell Me What You Want: The Science of Sexual Desire and How it Can Help You Improve Your Sex Life.

They discuss sexual fantasies, what they mean, and why it’s totally okay to have them (psst, we all do). Plus, they get into the benefits of sharing your fantasies with your partner, what the top ones are around the U.S., and the difference between men and women – and the similarities, too.

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Hungry, Horny & Your Other Half's Habits

Tue, 23 Oct 2018 19:59:13 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is answering emails and giving insight to your sex and relationship quandaries.

She covers which foods can make or break your sex drive, how to know if your partner is bad for YOU – or just bad at relationships, and what to do when your partner is “too” close with an ex. Plus, she gives some tips on how to get past your partner’s self-love habits.

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Sugar, Spice & Everything Naughty

Fri, 19 Oct 2018 20:00:50 -0000

On today’s show, Emily and her team are talking all things Halloween – as well as giving you some sex advice that you can use all year round.

Emily, Sarah, & Jamie discuss dates, role-play, and other erotic things to make it the sexiest Halloween yet. Plus, they give advice on ways to cut down your refractory period so you’re ready for round two, how to have sex when there’s a privacy problem, and what the real deal with vaginal steaming is all about.

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Penis Pulses & Primary Partners

Tue, 16 Oct 2018 22:09:17 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is joined by comedian and main man Ben Morrison to talk about sex toys, relationships, and so much more.

Emily and Ben share a milestone in their relationship, and why cleaning up messes can actually enhance intimacy. Plus, the latest in penis sex toys, the right time to bring up a fetish to your partner, and what to do when couples therapy just isn’t working.

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Girl Boners with August McLaughlin

Fri, 12 Oct 2018 19:42:36 -0000

On today’s show, Emily sits down with sexuality writer & host of Girl Boner Radio August McLaughlin to talk about her new book Girl Boner: The Good Girl’s Guide to Sexual Empowerment.

The two discuss all things masturbation, orgasms, and pleasure, things you probably didn’t know about eating disorders and sexuality, what it’s like to orgasm for science, and why size doesn’t matter – whether it’s your height or your penis.

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Lessons in Love & Lube

Tue, 09 Oct 2018 20:13:56 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is answering emails and giving you some communication tips to take to bed.

She covers the healthier ways (they do exist) to fight with your partner, positions to get you comfortable with some double penetration, tips for finding the best lube for you, and what to do when your ex is still interfering with your sex life.

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Best Of: Cowgirls, Take it Away – How to Rock on Top

Fri, 05 Oct 2018 19:24:17 -0000

On today’s throwback show, Emily and Menace are tackling some common sex questions – from positions to sex toys to sexual health.

They discuss the reasons why men send unsolicited dick pics, how to get your confidence up in the woman-on-top position, and the best ways to keep the mood hot when you’re putting on a condom. Plus, a few recommendations for your first big G-spot orgasm – because who doesn’t like that?

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Orgasm Blockers & Sex Myth Stoppers

Tue, 02 Oct 2018 20:20:05 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is breaking down sex myths to set the record straight – and answering your emails, of course.

She dives into whether or not monogamy is really as straightforward as it seems, ways to get past trust issues in a relationship, and thoughts on male masturbators (the toys, not the people). Plus, she gives some clarifications on a few things you thought you knew about women and sex.

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Vagina Spas & Sexual Ahhs with Dr. Carolyn Delucia

Fri, 28 Sep 2018 21:04:41 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is joined by renowned OB/GYN Dr. Carolyn Delucia, a woman with groundbreaking ideas, to talk about – you guessed it – all things vulvas, vaginas, and sex!

The two discuss the real difference between sexual health and sexual wellness, what men and women really need to know about regulating hormones – because it matters more than we think, how to get the sexual health answers you’ve been looking for from your doctor, and what it’s really like at a vagina spa.

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Sex Drives & Relationship Vibes

Tue, 25 Sep 2018 20:24:10 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is taking calls and helping you navigate your sex and relationships.

She talks about the things you really shouldn’t tolerate after one year into a relationship, ways to get a lowering sex drive back on the road, and how to get past jealousy in an open relationship – because it’s going to happen. Plus, if we treated our relationships like we did our careers – why we might all be a little more satisfied.

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Nice Guys Finish First & Other Penis Things

Fri, 21 Sep 2018 19:29:58 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is joined by married couple and authors Jason Feifer & Jennifer Miller to talk about their new novel, Mr. Nice Guy, and what it’s like to write about sex while having it, too.

They discuss how to keep things hot when you’re working and sleeping together, some juicy details about their book, and Emily even gives them a couple tips for spicing things up. Plus, what penis sex toys will give you the most bang for your buck, and why what we want in the bedroom can be the complete opposite from what we want in our regular life.

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Getting (A)head: Orgasms, Oral & Opening Up

Tue, 18 Sep 2018 19:21:07 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is taking calls and answering emails – all in the name of helping you have better sex and relationships.

She discusses whether we’re in the golden age for long distance relationships tech-wise, how mindful sex can make you so much happier in bed, and what to do when you want to give head, but your partner isn’t keen on receiving (yes, it does happen). Plus, some ways to let your partner down nicely when there’s too much affection.

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What's in a Dame? with Alex Fine

Fri, 14 Sep 2018 19:02:00 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is joined by co-founder of Dame Products Alexandra Fine to talk about women in sex tech, g-spots, and so much more.

The discuss the ins and outs of running a sex toy company, have the old g-spot debate and why you should never question its existence again, and how to stop losing interest in your partners after the first sexual encounter. Plus, why having an STD is not the end of the world.

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When You Touch Me Like This

Tue, 11 Sep 2018 19:38:12 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is taking your calls, helping you through any sex or relationship question you may have.

She talks about questions you should be asking your partners to ensure the best sex possible, lubes for even the most sensitive of skin, and how to put yourself out there and feel confident doing it. Plus, while sleepgasms are great – how you can get some while you’re awake.

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What's Your (Dirty) Jersey with Jaclyn Marfuggi

Fri, 07 Sep 2018 19:01:33 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is joined by comedian and host of the What’s Your Jersey podcast Jaclyn Marfuggi to talk about the funnier sides of sex as well as some of the more intimate stuff.

They discuss why it’s okay to stop “performing” during sex and do what makes you feel good, what to do if your sexual bar is climbing faster than your partner’s, and why sex is more than just physical – it’s mental, too. Plus, tips for your dating profile to get you those swipes.

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Relationships, Red Flags & Romantic Blocks

Tue, 04 Sep 2018 19:41:08 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is taking your calls and giving you the tools to have the sex and relationships you want – and deserve.

She talks about the proper ways to ask for more sex – without hurting your partner, the red flags that could mean you and your partner aren’t compatible, and why monogamous couples can learn a thing or two from polyamory. Plus, why you shouldn’t worry about your sex toys “ruining” your vulva – it’s all about adding some variety.

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Energetically Sexy with John Wineland

Fri, 31 Aug 2018 17:24:00 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is joined by sex and intimacy coach John Wineland to talk about sexual energy, consent, and understanding both.

They discuss masculine and feminine energies as the foundation to deeper sex – regardless of who you’re sleeping with, being a more conscious partner and lover, and why learning the difference between “no” and “not yet” can make a world of difference in the bedroom.

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Make Sex Great Again

Tue, 28 Aug 2018 19:46:49 -0000

On today’s show, Emily along with Producer Jamie are talking about why sex is important beyond just bringing you pleasure.

They discuss why one out of five women say they’re unsatisfied with their sex life, ways to go about inviting a friend to join a threesome, and why no orgasm is inferior to another – just as long as you get there. Plus, the importance of speaking up about likes and dislikes in the bedroom – from sex acts to frequency.

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Differently Abled Sex with Andrew Gurza

Fri, 24 Aug 2018 20:15:28 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is joined by host of the Disability After Dark podcast Andrew Gurza to talk about how to overcome insecurities and gain confidence in the bedroom, no matter what’s holding you back.

They dive into what it means to be a “queer cripple,” ways to make sex with disabilities as hot and pleasurable as possible, and how to make oral sex and masturbation as comfortable as possible – including sex toys with disability in mind.

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Sex Advice: Asking For a Friend

Tue, 21 Aug 2018 19:55:55 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is joined by producer Jamie to talk about different ways to expand your bedroom repertoire – from sex toys to positions to dating.

They discuss ways to have sex without a penis, reasons why men say they’re still single, and why women are still hiding their sex toys. Plus, they give advice to someone actually asking for a friend on relationship problems, and how you can support a partner that just came out as bisexual.

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Women Who Work It with Lisa Bilyeu

Fri, 17 Aug 2018 22:27:32 -0000

On today’s show, Emily sits down with the host of Women of Impact & co-founder of Quest Nutrition Lisa Bilyeu to talk about women in business and how her and her partner are the definition of #relationshipgoals.

The two discuss what it’s like to work alongside your partner, but still keep it sexy and healthy, as well as ways that you both can indulge in your “selfish desires.” Plus, they talk about being a strong woman in business who also supports other women – as we all should.

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Dating Ques, Party Shoes & Post-Coital Blues

Tue, 14 Aug 2018 21:23:27 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is covering everything from making your fetish work to getting the most out of your vibrator.

She reveals why you may be experiencing the post-sex blues, how long is too long to keep a butt plug in, if an age gap in dating makes a difference, and where to peak your sex party interests. Don’t forget to take our Alternative August sex survey at sexwithemily.com/august! Everything is anonymous, we just want to know what you’re into.

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Sextorini: All Greece'd Up

Fri, 10 Aug 2018 20:48:22 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is live from Greece with comedian and boyfriend Ben Morrison to talk about traveling with a partner – which also means vacation sex.

They give some insight to their first trip away as a couple, ways to amp up vacation sex – including what toys are best for travel and their favorite new position. Plus, how you can navigate some of those difficult couple conversations – because everybody has them – even the experts.

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Best Of: Face-Sitting, Fetishes, & Foreplay Foibles with Joanna Angel

Tue, 07 Aug 2018 18:32:24 -0000

On this throwback show, we’re starting off Alternative August with a bang. Emily is joined by porn star and director Joanna Angel to talk about anal, oral, and so much more.

The two talk about how to get comfortable with face-sitting, ways to get past blowjob lock jaw, what to do when your partner is a lot more vanilla than you are, and all the squirting tips you could ask for.

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Physically Fit Fornication with MindPump

Fri, 03 Aug 2018 19:58:03 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is joined by the guys from MindPump Radio to talk about how health and fitness affect your sex life.

Emily, Sal, Adam, and Justin dive deep into the ways fitness can affect your life – from your hormones to your self-confidence, and even between the sheets. Plus, they help listeners get over penis anxiety – from vibrators to circumcision.

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Sex Toy Show & Tell

Tue, 31 Jul 2018 20:29:05 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is live from a sex toy expo to talk about the latest in sex tech, what it’s like to be surrounded by so much pleasure, and she even has a few guests stop by!

Emily talks with SWE team members Jamie & Sarah about the most innovative things they saw at the show, from electro stimulation to new and sexy games. Plus, Emily’s guests give the lowdown on what it’s like to work in the industry, as well as the hottest penis rings on the market, new lubes, backdoor play, and more.

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Sexual Eu(Foria)

Wed, 25 Jul 2018 22:24:06 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is joined by Mathew Gerson and Kiana Reeves of Foria Wellness to talk about cannabis, sex, and how it can improve your pleasure and your sex drive.

The three talk about the benefits of CBD oil – from pain relief to relaxation to arousal. Plus, they talk about ways to get around painful sex, get into your body, and get rid of anxiety.

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Better, Hotter Summer Sex

Tue, 24 Jul 2018 19:42:07 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is covering everything from staying cool during summer sex to whether or not you should stay friends with your ex.

She talks about how ice cubes and frozen sheets can make your bedroom experiences hotter, why a great sex life is all about compromise, and the study that says sex can give you more meaning in life. Plus, she tells us why a vibrator won’t ruin your orgasms, some shower sex compromises, and semen questions.

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Adventurously Sexy with Scott Eastwood

Fri, 20 Jul 2018 21:17:04 -0000

On today’s show, Emily sits down with actor Scott Eastwood to talk about everything from who taught him about sex to turn offs to pheromones.

Emily and Scott talk about his notorious adventurous lifestyle, what great sex really looks like, and why women are pickier than men on dating apps. Plus, they help listeners with performance anxiety and debate whether it’s men or women who are more judgey about sexual pasts. Oh, and he breaks the office clitoris (not Emily’s).

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A Sex With Emily Threesome

Tue, 17 Jul 2018 22:26:25 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is joined by comedian Ben Morrison and producer Jamie to talk about all things dating, breakups, and sex.

The trio discuss the mistakes you might be making on dating apps, fights that can lead to your relationship’s downfall, and why women are really freezing their eggs. Plus, they help listeners put their foot fetish forward, break into the dating scene, and what to do when people get distant.

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The Real Deal with Dating with Hannah Cranston

Fri, 13 Jul 2018 21:04:59 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is joined by host, producer, and content creator Hannah Cranston to talk about social media, dating, and what the deal is with both.

The pair talk about what it’s like to be on dating apps, how to tell someone you’re not interested right away, and why loving yourself is the best kind of love there is. Plus, they help listeners with false accusations, how to feel sexy and confident, and ways to get past “retrograde jealousy.”

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Play Together, Stay Together

Tue, 10 Jul 2018 20:50:49 -0000

On today’s show, Emily along with comedian Ben Morrison are talking about top sexual fantasies, from threesomes to bondage – and how to talk to your partner about what you want to try.

They get into the psychology behind the mile high club, what traits lead to divorce – and it’s not what you think, why keeping score in the bedroom is a lose-lose situation, and how to jumpstart that spark in your relationship.

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More Sex, Less Pain with Heather Jeffcoat

Fri, 06 Jul 2018 20:29:26 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is joined by pelvic floor physical therapist Heather Jeffcoat, author of Sex Without Pain: A Self-Treatment Guide To The Sex Life You Deserve to talk about the importance of pelvic floor health for everyone.

They talk about painful sex issues for women and men, how to know if you have one, and what to do to get past it (hint: it’s actually not Kegels!). Plus, they discuss sex after having children, after menopause, and even help a caller whose girlfriend got some pelvic advice that wasn’t so correct.

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What's in Our Box? Sex Toy Review

Tue, 03 Jul 2018 20:15:09 -0000

It’s sex toy review day! Emily is joined by her trusty team to talk about the pleasure products and sex toys they love and how to use them.

Emily, Jamie, and Sarah give first hand accounts of what toys brought them great pleasure – from bondage to massage oil to vibrators – and why they’re great additions to your sex life. Plus, they talk about first date turn offs, how to explore your sexuality, and whether or not attractiveness can change your taste buds.

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Sexual Power: From Bedroom to Boardroom with Kasia Urbaniak

Fri, 29 Jun 2018 20:44:17 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is joined by Kasia Urbaniak – former dominatrix and founder of The University – a school that teaches women the foundations of power and influence.

The two talk about how men and women are so confused about how to relate – in and out of the bedroom, why silence is our biggest enemy (not men), and how to level the playing field of power dynamics. Plus, they discuss what we need to move on sexually as well as getting past sexual guilt.

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Healthy & Horny with Max Lugavere

Fri, 22 Jun 2018 21:10:41 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is joined by New York Times Best Selling author and host of The Genius Life podcast Max Lugavere to talk about his new book, Genius Foods, and how what you eat can affect your brain and your sex life.

Emily and Max talk about how being healthy can improve your brain and your sex drive, what foods can help with restricted blood flow, and how couples who eat healthy together are more satisfied. Plus, they help listeners with mismatched libidos and how to keep anxiety out of the bedroom.

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Annoyingly Amazing Sex

Tue, 19 Jun 2018 20:00:35 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is talking about everything from dating tactics to getting your needs met in bed to consent.

She discusses how annoyance with your partner may be a good thing, how to get past those embarrassing sex moments – because we’ve all been there, and going back to the masturbation drawing board.

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Real (Sex) Talk with the SWE Team

Tue, 12 Jun 2018 20:47:16 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is bringing you a mash-up of some of her favorite roundtable discussions featuring the Sex With Emily team from the past few years.

They cover everything from fantasies to masturbation to toys, and they even get into how being part of the Sex with Emily team has changed their sex lives – for the better, of course. To hear more from these shows, you can find them at sexwithemily.com!

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Performance Tips & Doggy Style Tricks

Fri, 08 Jun 2018 19:35:03 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is talking about everything from sex positions to performance in the bedroom to the way our brains work.

She reveals how performance issues are not just on old man thing, why you should love yourself and your vulva, how to last longer when using condoms, and debates whether we’re designed to be monogamous.

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Best Of: Caution, Sexy When Wet

Thu, 07 Jun 2018 19:48:56 -0000

On today’s throwback show, Emily answers your emails, and addresses some of your most pressing sex and relationship questions.

Emily and Anderson talk about how to date with kids, debate some of Redditor's top sex tips, and how to tell your new partner that you're a squirter. Plus, what to do when you're feeling uneasy about your partner's fantasies and how many college kids are "hot" for teacher.

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Food for (Sex) ThoughT

Tue, 05 Jun 2018 20:08:01 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is talking about everything from what couples who have more sex are eating to why suppressing your fantasies just makes you think about them more.

She discusses why it’s time to get over masturbation guilt, what to do if your partner is monogamous and you’re not, how to keep from getting dry when it comes to condoms, and whether or not society is going to accept you for who you are.

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Do the Hand Job Twist

Fri, 01 Jun 2018 20:08:04 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is taking your calls, and giving you sure-fire ways to take your sex life and your relationships to the next level.

She gives you some ways to take your hand jobs to legendary status, reveals what people are really using tinder for, and how many people are getting it on at music festivals and where they’re doing it. Plus, she helps callers get relaxed for anal play, compromise when it comes to how long sex is lasting and how much sex is happening.

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Keeping it Kinky, Cuddly & Clean

Tue, 29 May 2018 20:56:15 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is joined by Deputy Jamie where they're talking about best practices for sex and dating.

The two discuss dirty sex – literally, who’s having kinkier sex, and why flashing your cash might not make you relationship material. Plus, Emily is taking calls on getting your partner to cuddle, how to fix a marriage after an open relationship, and how to deal with your partner’s friends who don’t understand alternative relationships.

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An Ode to Oral (Sex)

Fri, 25 May 2018 22:23:32 -0000

On today’s show, Emily’s helping you communicate your way to better sex and relationships – with a partner, or with yourself.

She talks about the oral sex double standard, ways to overcome your sexual insecurities, and what to do when you’ve given up on having an orgasm. Plus, she gives a first hand account about the hidden and sometimes surprising benefits of masturbation.

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Best Of: Virgins, Cuckolds, & Unicorns

Tue, 22 May 2018 18:57:12 -0000

On today’s throwback show, Emily is joined by Menace and her San Francisco pal Stacy to talk about everything love, dating, fantasies, and sex.

They talk about how to get past inexperience – in the bedroom and the dating world, what to do about post-orgasm exhaustion, and what science has to say about what men and women typically look for in a threesome – and it doesn’t look the same.

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Closing the (Orgasm) Gap

Fri, 18 May 2018 20:06:53 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is setting the record straight in the world of sex and pleasure.

She reveals the specific compliments men and women like to receive on dating apps – and probably in life, too, why the orgasm gap exists – and how to close it, how to approach your teen about their masturbation habits, and ways to get the oral sex you crave.

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(Having) Sex With Emily

Tue, 15 May 2018 20:33:48 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is taking your calls, and revealing some stats about everyone’s favorite activity – sex.

She even has someone on from her own life that she’s directly helped master a few bedroom techniques. They talk about who’s using lube and who’s not, the importance of the clitoris and why it needs to be wined, dined (and 69’d), and ways to handle when your parents don’t like your partner and turning sexual guilt into sexual confidence.

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Mojo Makeover with Dana Myers

Fri, 11 May 2018 20:41:23 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is joined by founder of Booty Parlor Dana Myers to talk about her new book, The Mommy Mojo Makeover, and how moms – and women in general – can reconnect to their sexual selves.

They talk about how to find the “sexy” in everyday life – including gently fondling cucumbers, ways to reduce resentment – the secret, toxic relationship killer, what to do when your sex toy surprise backfires, and how to get the spark back when you’ve tried everything from sexy photos to spontaneous foreplay.

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Orgasms: Are You In or Out?

Tue, 08 May 2018 19:39:31 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is taking calls, answering emails, talking about sex and relationships – she’s doing it all.

Emily goes over what really counts as bad sex – survey says: this is what really bums women out in the bedroom. Plus she helps listeners decide if it’s time for couples therapy, whether penis extenders are actually worth it, and has the age old debate of internal vs. external orgasms – because the vagina is still so misunderstood.

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M is for Masturbation (Month)

Fri, 04 May 2018 19:10:39 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is taking your calls and getting into some self-pleasure talk because it’s May and you know what that means – IT’S MASTURBATION MONTH!

She talks with callers about how to better educate people about porn and where to find the good stuff, ways to bring up fantasies to a partner, what to do when you can’t seem to climax – even with the help of ED meds, and how to have that dreaded “define the relationship” talk.

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OHMazing Sex with Tal Rabinowitz

Tue, 01 May 2018 19:41:34 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is joined by her friend and creator of DEN Meditation Tal Rabinowitz to talk about how meditation can benefit your life – in and out of the bedroom.

The two discuss why meditating with a partner can be beneficial to your relationship, ways meditation can improve your sex life – including performance anxiety, and how to keep the intimacy alive with your partner after you’ve had a baby – when all you want to do is sleep. Plus, what you can do to spark your partner’s interest in sex when it seems like there’s no hope in sight.

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Love Rules with Joanna Coles

Fri, 27 Apr 2018 20:47:38 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is joined by chief content officer of Hearst Magazines Joanna Coles to talk about her new book, Love Rules: How To Find A Real Relationship In A Digital World – basically a diet book for love.

The two talk about how to have more fun while dating rather than just looking for “the one,” why we can’t seem to admit to ourselves that we want love, or what we need during sex, and how to use dating apps as a way to actually find love and not just another date.

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Best Of: Casual Sex With Emily

Tue, 24 Apr 2018 18:15:00 -0000

This throwback show is all about all things casual sex – because we just can’t talk about it enough.

Emily sits down with a panel of friends from different ages and backgrounds to talk about what casual sex means to them – and what the stigmas are surrounding it – because even a few years later, all of this is still so relevant. They even touch upon an email of “slut-shaming” and the double standards of casual sex that – try as we might – are still around today.

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Let's Get it On (Period)

Fri, 20 Apr 2018 20:38:56 -0000

On today’s show, things are getting touchy feely in more ways than one.

Emily tells a story that shows how sexy – and sometimes mind blowing – directly expressing your needs to your partner can be, ways to stimulate all parts of the clitoris for truly orgasmic outcomes, and getting back to HPV basics – after all it is STD awareness month. Plus, why you should focus less on your sexual experience and more on your sexual exploration.

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Authentically Sexy with Kaitlyn Bristowe

Tue, 17 Apr 2018 18:51:37 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is joined by former bachelorette and host of the podcast “Off the Vine” Kaitlyn Bristowe and the two are talking about embracing your authentic and sexy self to help build your confidence in and out of the bedroom.

They talk about learning to trust your gut when it comes to true arousal and attraction, how scheduling “down time” with your partner will enhance intimacy, and some of the best pick up lines Emily’s heard in a long time.

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Coming Together with Jeff Abraham

Fri, 13 Apr 2018 19:10:03 -0000

Today’s show is all about penises. Emily is joined by long time friend of the podcast, Jeff Abraham, who runs the company behind Promescent – the product that helps couples enhances intimacy.

They discuss the difference between pre-mature ejaculation and erectile dysfunction, and even role play and provide helpful pointers for talking to your partner about his penis challenges. This show also include sexy tips for mutual masturbation, ways to break out of that sex routine, and how to close the orgasm gap – because the struggle is real.

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No Shame in a Bigger, Sexier Brain with Jim Kwik Part 2

Wed, 11 Apr 2018 19:43:20 -0000

Today’s episode is part two of yesterday’s podcast with Jim Kwik. During this part 2, Jim walks Emily (and you) through specific steps to activate a healthy brain, and techniques to remember anything from a speech to the details of your first date.

You’ll be able to follow along as they walk through very specific, impactful and easy to learn exercises you can you use right away –– because a big, healthy brain is always sexy.

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No Shame in a Bigger, Sexier Brain with Jim Kwik

Tue, 10 Apr 2018 19:52:26 -0000

The Brain is the largest and most important sex organ, so on today’s show Emily is joined by her friend and one of the world experts on optimal brain performance Jim Kwik – who also hosts the top training podcast, Kwik Brain.

The two talk about how to sharpen and focus your memory (no more forgetting your anniversary), the two most costly words in a relationship, and how to lead with your emotions. This is just part 1 of this interview – stay tuned for part 2 where you can follow along with Emily and Jim during their brain exercises!

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New Podcast, Who Dis? with Jordan Harbinger

Fri, 06 Apr 2018 18:53:12 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is joined by her OG podcast friend Jordan Harbinger, host of The Jordan Harbinger Show to talk about all aspects of relationships – intimate and otherwise.

They talk about why keeping “score” in relationships is an unhealthy practice, how to maintain your relationships in life and work, ways to stay motivated when you’re going through a devastating break-up, and why it’s natural for the grass to feel greener outside of a relationship and what to do about it.

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Femtech: The Future is Sexy

Wed, 04 Apr 2018 19:14:47 -0000

Today’s bonus show features Emily as a host of The Future of Femtech panel a few weeks back at South By Southwest in Austin, Texas – a massive gathering of technology, film, culture, and music.

Put on by the SAFE app – an app that lets you show your verified STD status for safe dating, the panel featured amazing women founders and entrepreneurs behind companies devoted to women’s health and sexuality – what Femtech is all about. From sex toy companies to dating apps to Kegel fertility trackers, these women, along with Emily, share the same passion for women’s health everywhere in a currently booming industry!

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Dildos & Vibrators & Butt Plugs, Oh My! with Zoë Ligon

Tue, 03 Apr 2018 18:51:38 -0000

On today’s show, Emily’s joined by Detroit-based sex educator Zoë Ligon to talk about how to prioritize your pleasure and step away from “goal” oriented sex, because hey – it’s not just about orgasms.

They explain the important distinction between dildos and vibrators (not that you have to choose), giving you creative, mind-blowing ways to incorporate sex toys into the bedroom and why stocking up on good lube makes sex so much better. Plus, they give you tips for choosing your first butt plug and finding your zen when rocking “woman on top.”

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Sex, Porn, & (Erika) Lust

Fri, 30 Mar 2018 19:38:05 -0000

On today’s show, Emily hosts Erika Lust, an award-winning indie adult filmmaker who is changing perspectives on porn by focusing on ethical production values whose erotic films are all super sexy.

Emily and Erika talk about how she portrays female pleasure in a whole new way, as well as showing people of all races, body types, and sexual orientations. They also discuss the alternatives to mainstream tube sites – which aren’t for everyone – as well as what a Sex With Emily podcast porn might look like.

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Best Of: I'm Not Just Having Sex with Erik Griffin

Tue, 27 Mar 2018 19:14:06 -0000

On today’s throwback show, Emily is joined by comedian Erik Griffin from Comedy Central’s Workaholics and the two are talking about dating in the digital world, different types of relationships, and debate whether or not sex is the most important thing in a relationship.

They talk about the art of flirting online, FWBs, mismatched libidos, and the importance of communication in the bedroom and the thrill of pleasing your partner. Emily also gives Erik advice on how to get closer to getting the perfect blowjob, and motivates him to change up his Tinder game.

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Taking the Angst Out of Anxious Sex

Fri, 23 Mar 2018 18:11:51 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is discussing new findings and revelations about the world of sex – including the male birth control pill and making casual sex fun again.

She talks about how women can to take control and ask for what they want in bed – no matter if it’s a one night stand or a long-term relationship, making sure your female partner is orgasming more (hint – it has to do with the clitoris), specific ways to last longer in bed, and the truth about STIs and oral sex.

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Best Of: Emily’s First Sex Party

Tue, 20 Mar 2018 19:49:44 -0000

Emily’s throwing it back to a podcast of her live radio show in 2008. She talks about her first sex party experience along with her guide for the evening, “Captain Erotica”. They discuss sex party etiquette, why attitude and partner pairing is key, what to expect, how to overcome nervousness, and why sex parties are erotic-positive and how they actually promote more intimacy in today’s culture and society.

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More Sexually Excited with Jay Mohr

Fri, 16 Mar 2018 20:08:02 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is joined by comedian, podcaster, and actor Jay Mohr and the two get real about sex and relationships, with some funny on the side.

They talk about dealing with anxiety, moving through divorce and how to know when you’ve done enough – because if you’re in a troubled spot in your relationship, it’s not time to have an affair, bury emotions, or just tune out, but to do real work. Plus, they talk about anal, pegging, and why Jay sometimes likes to be called “daddy.”

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Winner, Winner, Sex Before Dinner

Tue, 13 Mar 2018 21:19:37 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is taking your calls and giving you some easy sex hacks to improve intimacy, bring back spontaneity, and play in new, creative ways.

She helps listeners look at their partner’s porn habits in a healthy way to make it work for their relationship, getting comfortable with different types of body fluids, because hey – sex can be messy – but it’s also half the fun, and how to communicate to a long distance lover it’s time to end the love commute.

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The (S)ex Factor with Sheila Kelley

Fri, 09 Mar 2018 21:09:06 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is not only taking your calls, but she’s bringing you a live conversation from S-FACTOR founder Sheila Kelley to talk about how women can connect with their erotic selves.

Emily and Sheila discuss how transformative feminine movement can teach women how to truly love their bodies and be their sexy selves, no matter who they are. Then, Emily helps callers to channel porngasms into owngasms, ways to keep hygiene hot in the moment – especially when it comes to back-to-front play, and how to know when to put a fork in the relationship.

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A Not So Awkward Sex Talk With My Mom

Tue, 06 Mar 2018 21:39:13 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is joined by KarenLee & Cam Poter, a super open, hilarious, and sex positive mother-son duo – hosts of the podcast Sex Talk With My Mom.

The three talk about the benefits of owning your “cougar-ness,” how to let someone know you’re just not that into them – even if it’s only been one date, the evolution of straight men and their anal explorations, and the good ole’ casual sex debate. Emily even has an impromptu call with her own mom to find out more about her sexcapadaes. This show is as informative as it is hilarious!

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The Skinny (Confidential) on Sex

Fri, 02 Mar 2018 21:10:13 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is joined by Lauryn Evarts and Michael Bosstick from The Skinny Confidential: Him and Her podcast, and the trio are getting into how to keep things spicy in long-term relationships.

They talk about the importance of prioritizing sex and keeping communication open and nonjudgemental with your partner, how learning each other’s love languages goes a long way in understanding each other, and why there continues to be shame around sex and masturbation when, hey, everyone’s doing it! Plus, Emily gives Lauryn and Michael some sex tips to take home and try out.

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Best Of: Sexy Submission with Skin Diamond & Ashlynn Yennie

Tue, 27 Feb 2018 20:07:03 -0000

On today’s throwback show, Emily sat down with the stars of the Showtime series Submission, Ashlynn Yennie & Skin Diamond, to talk about the truth behind the BDSM subculture.

The two women give us a glimpse into their own sex lives, both on and off screen, as well as the erotic nature of consent in a true dom/sub relationship, and a description of their hot shared sex scene. Plus, Emily talks about a post break up revenge scheme that is as hilarious as it is spoilsome.

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Bulletproof Sex with Dave Asprey

Fri, 23 Feb 2018 18:36:38 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is joined by Bulletproof founder and Headstrong author Dave Asprey to talk about ways to biohack your sex life to make you happier and healthier.

The pair discuss the distinct health benefits of orgasms for men and women, how limiting how often you ejaculate can actually make you more productive, why stress is the number one killer of libido, how to pinpoint why your sex drive is lower than you want it to be, and why hacking your sex life can motivate you in all aspects of your life.

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Affair Repair

Tue, 20 Feb 2018 19:52:40 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is helping you get your relationships and your sex lives back on track by taking calls and answering emails.

She gives some tell-tale signs that your relationship isn’t moving at a healthy pace, ways to effectively work through an affair, why you have to let you partner know right away if sex is causing you pain, and how to get past your jealousy over your partner’s relationship with a sex toy.

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On the Same Sex Page

Wed, 14 Feb 2018 21:02:10 -0000

Happy Valentine’s Day! Since all you listeners are like Emily’s extended family, we’re bringing you a bonus show this week, to show how much we all appreciate you.

Emily’s taking your calls and giving simple ways to ease into mindful sex, how to evolve your sexual compatibility, using porn as an appetizer for sex, and not the entree, and tips for channeling your inner sex goddess, even when you’re not that experienced. So celebrate the day of love with us!

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Fidelity, Fantasy & Phone Sex

Tue, 13 Feb 2018 20:57:43 -0000

On today’s show, Emily’s taking your calls and helping you get through all your sex and relationship quandaries.

She gets to the bottom of when phone sex is actually considered cheating, how to practice brutal honesty in open relationships, the challenges around revealing your sex positivity when your peers might not be ready to accept it, and ways to heal so you can take your life back after an unhealthy relationship. Plus, she reveals what the top fantasies are for women, and why it’s time to let the cat out of the bag.

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Making (Multiple) Orgasm Dreams Come True

Fri, 09 Feb 2018 19:29:33 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is speaking with the founders of We-Vibe about their journey to create the “perfect” couples’ toy and, of course, helping you have better sex and relationships.

She talks about how to get comfortable with a relationship when you’re super set in your single ways, the best ways to make your multiple orgasm dreams a reality, and what REALLY makes great sex – and it’s a lot easier than you think.

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Sexperts: Just The Tip

Tue, 06 Feb 2018 22:22:19 -0000

On today’s episode, Emily’s sharing some of the most open and insightful conversations with sexologists she’s hosted over the past few years.

Emily speaks with sexual empowerment coach Amy Jo Goddard, sex therapist Hernando Chavez, teacher and porn star legend Nina Hartley, and sex educators Sunny Megatron and Ken Melvoin-Berg about a range of topics. From the basics of sex to ways to ease into back door play to non-traditional relationships, this show has a piece for everyone to learn and enjoy. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who keep the show FREE: RXBar, UVee, Intensity, and Adam & Eve

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Sexy & Stress Free Valentine's Day

Fri, 02 Feb 2018 20:26:15 -0000

On today’s show, Emily and her team are talking all things Valentine’s Day – from unique and sexy ideas to their favorite toys to ways to take the pressure off planning AND expectations.

The team talks about what makes a great Valentine’s Day, why it’s beneficial to exchange ideas on what you want instead of being surprised, and why it’s important to carve out some time for self-love. Plus, they give tips on how to up the dirty talk “ante,” embracing your kinkier side – no matter what your experience level is, and the best positions to enjoy a well-endowed man. Get ready, because this is not your typical V-Day discussion.

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Orgasm More with Your Pelvic Floor

Tue, 30 Jan 2018 22:28:13 -0000

On today’s show, Emily’s talking about the most important sexercise you’re not doing yet, and helping you have the healthiest relationships possible.

Emily is joined by Amy Bomberg from In Control, the makers behind the Intensity by Pour Moi, to talk about the significant benefits of pelvic floor health. Plus, she gives her top advice on how to move forward when you’re evolving sexually and your partner’s stuck in the past, the best ways to tease and stimulate ALL the male erogenous zones, and how to recognize when you’re in toxic a friends-with-benefits situation and ways to get out of it.

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Sharing Secrets with Sarah Brokaw

Fri, 26 Jan 2018 21:00:49 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is joined by therapist and author Sarah Brokaw, host of the podcast Shared Secrets to talk about the ups and downs of relationships and the dynamics between couples.

Emily and Sarah discuss how couples therapy actually works to set the foundation for a healthy relationship, how to get past a cheating incident, the real impact technology and social media are having on our relationships, and the right way to talk about what’s not working (sexually) with a partner.

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The Funny Side of Sex

Tue, 23 Jan 2018 21:13:32 -0000

Get ready for another mash up! On today’s episode, Emily is sharing some of the funniest, sexiest, and revealing conversations from comedians that she’s hosted over the past few years.

She talks with funny man Brad Williams, comedian Adam Ray, actor and author Fred Stoller, and Grace Para and Jen Bartels from the Lady Freaks, all of whom are sharing their funniest experiences in sex and relationships. From diffusing awkward situations – in the bedroom and the dating world – to epic threesomes, this show will have you laughing, and a little turned on.

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The Good Dad with Larry Hagner

Fri, 19 Jan 2018 19:35:36 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is joined by Larry Hagner, founder of The Good Dad Project and host of The Dad Edge Podcast to talk about the ups and downs of fatherhood, and ways to be the best dad and lover you can be.

Emily and Larry talk about the benefits of being both masculine and vulnerable (because the two are not mutually exclusive), how to navigate the “real” sex talk with your kids, as well as learning to be an empathetic listener and why this is so important. Plus, a few ways you can build anticipation to have the most creative and sexy date night yet.

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Damn, It Feels Good to Be Single

Tue, 16 Jan 2018 21:32:06 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is answering emails and helping you use your sexual confidence as a way to boost your self confidence.

Emily helps listeners understand the importance of “repair” in a long-term relationship, the benefits of trying out a new “persona” during sex, even if it’s completely different than who you really are, why there’s never been a better time to be single, and the key reasons why people cheat – and it might not be what you think.

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Show and Tell to Orgasm Well

Fri, 12 Jan 2018 21:48:36 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is taking calls and giving you ways to reawaken sexual attraction over the long term, because the honeymoon phase isn’t everlasting.

She’s helping listeners to understand why you should love your vagina – inside and out, how taking time for yourself after a divorce is crucial for self-growth, and why showing someone how you like to be touched is a whole lot sexier than just telling them.

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Don't Go Changing Your Heart

Tue, 09 Jan 2018 20:43:07 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is taking your calls and helping you discover ways to be your new sexual self.

She's giving her insights as to why taking time after a breakup is crucial for your sexual and mental health, how to tell your partner you need more foreplay in bed without it turning into a joke, why it’s better to cut ties than to hope you can change someone, and how to retrain that dating muscle and confidently get back in the game after a long-term marriage.

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Sex Experts Tell All

Fri, 05 Jan 2018 19:32:13 -0000

On today’s show, Emily’s compiled some highlights of her favorite interviews with expert guests who all share the same goal – helping people have the best sex and relationships they can.

She’s joined by physician and radio/television host Dr. Drew, sex and relationship coach John Wineland, author and dating expert Zara Barrie, and sex therapist Cyndi Darnell who give their insights and expertise on an array of topics. From maintaining “lust” in long-term relationships to the different ways men and women think about pleasure to the realities of lesbian sex – there’s so much that can be learned from this show.

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#SexGoals 2018

Fri, 29 Dec 2017 21:22:48 -0000

It’s the last show of 2017! On today’s show, Emily is joined by Deputy Jamie to reflect on the best and the worst sex of the year, and what lessons can be learned to make sure 2018 is full of the greatest sex yet.

Emily and Jamie discuss what it really means to change sexually. From prioritizing intimacy to feeling the lasting emotional benefits from sexual afterglow, they cover everything you need to become a more attentive lover. Also, why watching lesbian porn is totally cool, and how to deliver just the right amount of kink.

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Best Of: Live From the Improv – 10 Years of SWE

Tue, 26 Dec 2017 20:38:43 -0000

Today’s throwback podcast is a live recording of Emily’s 10 year anniversary show at the Hollywood Improv.

Emily shares how it all began at her kitchen table and reveals, for the first time, the story behind how she got started, her challenges around podcasting back in 2005 to now, and how talking about sex for a living definitely impacts her personal and professional life. Emily also has Menace, Anderson, and Dr. Drew on stage to talk about some of their favorite moments, as well as a live Q&A from the audience. This episode is full of awesome and funny memories from the last decade of sex talk, plus everything that has made Sex With Emily what it is today.

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Manscaping, Moaning, & What Really Matters

Fri, 22 Dec 2017 19:43:24 -0000

Happy holidays! On today’s show, Emily is joined by Menace to talk about what really matters in the bedroom, and guys, it isn’t penis size.

The two discuss the benefits of manscaping and how it can enhance sensations, why sex noises can make the experience better, tips for beginner back-door play, and how you shouldn’t compare your body or skills to what you see in porn, because that’s not real sex. Plus, they talk about the future of sex robots, what the ideal one will look like, and the inevitability of virtual reality sex.

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Sex Talk, Interrupted

Tue, 19 Dec 2017 20:20:59 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is joined by Anderson and the two are helping callers embrace sexy opportunities and be their most confident selves – on a date and in the bedroom.

They talk about how to communicate your needs to a partner and have them actually hear you, what to do when one person avoids sex talk altogether, and how to detox from a toxic ex who made you question your own sexiness. Plus, Emily catches us up on her most recent sex adventure – because there’s no shame in a hot hook up.

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Mindfully Sexy with Dr. Jenn

Fri, 15 Dec 2017 21:47:11 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is joined by sociologist and sexologist Dr. Jenn Gunsaullus to talk about the best ways to communicate your sexual boundaries and how to share what works and what doesn’t work for you in the bedroom – all with confidence.

They discuss what managing consent is like in today’s world, how being a mindful masturbator will help you learn about your body so you can share your needs, and why both partners need to be invested in making sex hot in a relationship. Because hey, it takes two to tango.

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Interview Orgy

Wed, 13 Dec 2017 00:15:48 -0000

Today’s show is the first ever interview mashup. Emily has been so inspired by her guests this year, so she’s picked a few of her favorite interviews with people who gave us some real honest and insightful looks into their sex lives.

Emily is joined by her good friends and fellow podcasters, Amy and April, Jason Ellis, pornstar Joanna Angel, and three everyday guys who were willing to tell all. Emily chats with them about everything from open relationships to the wildest sex acts they’ve encountered. There’s a little something for everyone in this very intimate and revealing show. Hey, it’s an interview orgy.

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Best Of: Jealousy in Retrograde

Fri, 08 Dec 2017 20:13:27 -0000

On today’s throwback show, Emily is giving her best tips on proper communication – in the dating world, long term relationships, and of course, in the bedroom.

Emily, along with Anderson, reveal some surprising statistics about contraception and libido, as well as how many people actually hook up at the gym. Plus, Emily helps listeners dealing with jealousy, orgasm dishonesty, and opening up your partner to something new in the bedroom – all through the best lubrication: communication!

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All Aboard the Booty Train

Tue, 05 Dec 2017 20:47:38 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is taking your calls and giving you a crash course in all things anal, the not-so-surprising sex trend of the year.

Emily gives her sexiest advice on going deeper into tantric sex, why it’s best not to share your sex number with your partner, and how Kegel exercises affect your penis. Plus, she discusses the age old debate of love vs. lust, and how to know the difference.

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A Breath Away From Better Sex

Fri, 01 Dec 2017 20:48:12 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is taking your calls and giving you tips to help you have more mindful sex that’s actually mind blowing!

Emily’s helping callers move past relationship betrayal and back into intimacy, how to get past retrospective jealousy, whether or not you should avoid getting busy before a big race, and how to get the most pleasure out of pleasuring yourself. Plus, she reminds us how to get out of our heads, and enjoy sex to its full capacity. Breathe deep and tune in!

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Emily & The Guys We F*cked

Tue, 28 Nov 2017 20:40:42 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is joined by Corinne Fisher & Krystyna Hutchinson, creators of the podcast “Guys We Fucked” and authors of the new book “Fucked…Being Sexually Explorative & Self-Confident In a World That’s Screwed,” to talk about confidence and self acceptance, not only in the bedroom, but in all areas of your life.

Emily, Corinne, and Krystyna cover a range of topics, including sexual shame, embracing your sexy imperfections, why it’s necessary for women to celebrate other women, masturbation by imagination, and the right way to communicate before a threesome goes down. All this and more, in a jam-packed show.

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A Sex Toy Review of Orgasmic Proportions

Fri, 24 Nov 2017 21:26:08 -0000

Today’s show is one of our favorites–– it’s SEX TOY REVIEW DAY! Emily is joined by some of her trusty team to talk about the toys they like, how to use them, and sex toy hacks for maximum pleasure.

Emily talks with Jamie, Shannon, and Jenny about a handful of awesome toys from the sex tech world, from movement to vibration – right down to the box design. This episode just goes to show you how different every woman is when it comes to her orgasms.

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Date Like You Mean It with Rachael O'Brien

Tue, 21 Nov 2017 18:40:16 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is joined by comedian and host of the podcast, Be Here For a While, Rachael O’Brien to talk about why being single is pretty awesome, ways to communicate in bed, and how to meet people IRL.

Emily and Rachael also give their insights as to why you should love your vagina and stop obsessing over how it looks, how to be and STAY present during sex, and how you should write your own dating rules instead of following everyone else’s.

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Best Of: Sexy, Not Sorry with Moxi Cox

Fri, 17 Nov 2017 18:42:40 -0000

On today’s show, we’re throwing things back to when sex-positive Suicide Girl, Moxi Cox, joined Emily to talk everything from sex toys to alternative relationships to kinking things up!

Emily, Menace and Moxi help a few listeners go from “fluff” to “rough” in the bedroom, Moxi talks about how to successfully navigate open relationships, and she even shares some of her own sexual experiences – from her top porn picks to her favorite ways to orgasm. If you missed it once don’t miss it again!

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First Comes Love, Then Comes Marriage?

Tue, 14 Nov 2017 21:00:26 -0000

On today’s show, Emily’s helping callers get over their anxieties when it comes to relationships and the bedroom.

She gives her advice on getting that sex drive up and rebuilding intimacy when there’s kids in the house, how to keep things hot and steamy during a threesome, ways to move past anxiety to enjoy sex again, and how to tell if you’re really ready for marriage – or if you’re being talked into it.

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G-Spot GPS

Fri, 10 Nov 2017 18:36:31 -0000

On today’s show Emily and Anderson are taking your calls, as well as covering clitoral, g-spot, and oral orgasms, with advice on how to find and achieve all three!

Emily and Anderson give tips on how to overcome that pesky gag reflex, ways to reach g-spot bliss, and how to bring back that new relationship energy in a long-term relationship, as well as why foreplay is a requirement–– not a suggestion.

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Your Orgasmic Potential with Xanet Pailet

Fri, 03 Nov 2017 17:58:10 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is joined by Xanet Pailet, a sex and intimacy coach and author of the forthcoming book, Living An Orgasmic Life, to discuss how to reach your full orgasmic potential, overcome the shame/pleasure paradox, and understanding the difference between arousal and desire.

Emily and Xanet also walk through a couple exercises to tap into your sexual energy–– something you can do along with them! There are a lot of useful tools and information packed into this episode, all geared towards helping you get in tune with your sensual side.

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Epic Sex with Layla Martin

Tue, 31 Oct 2017 20:22:14 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is joined by Layla Martin, the headmistress of Tantra to talk about reconnecting with your body when you’re sexually and emotionally detached, how to get women to stop staring at the orgasm clock, and ways to raise your sexual energy.

Emily and Layla discuss how to be more in-tune with your body’s sexual responses, alternative practices for enhanced pleasure, and how to have full body orgasms. This show will help you improve your sex and intimacy–– with a little Jedi-like pelvic focus and some much needed release.

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Getting Touchy Feely with Brooke Burke-Charvet

Fri, 27 Oct 2017 22:26:43 -0000

Turn the lights down low and turn the volume up for today’s show. Emily welcomes back her friend and fellow podcaster Brooke Burke-Charvet, host of the Brooke Burke Show to talk about the importance of different forms of touch play, what to do when your kid finds your sex toys, and tips for initiating sex!

Wondering how to date when you’re a single parent with young child? Is it okay to have fantasies, even if you’re married? These two ladies discuss solutions to these quandaries, and share why they and you should love your labia. You don’t want to miss this show, so tune in.

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The Mask of Masculinity with Lewis Howes

Tue, 24 Oct 2017 19:21:05 -0000

Masculinity takes many forms. On today’s show Emily is joined by podcaster and author Lewis Howes to discuss his new book, The Mask of Masculinity, which takes a look at what keeps men from true intimacy and how to overcome it!

Emily and Lewis explore the emotional repression and lack of resources available to young men when it comes to understanding the difference between what they “should be,” and who they actually are. Lewis also shares his own story of “wearing masks”, and how he got himself out of it to be a better, happier person. Tune in for an insightful and moving story, along with tools to figure out if you or a loved one have been trapped behind a mask!

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Your Two Breast Friends

Fri, 20 Oct 2017 20:34:26 -0000

Get ready for a show full of sexy tricks! On today’s show, Emily is joined by Deputy Jamie to celebrate her two years on the team and what she’s learned, along with a bunch of tips to help all of you have better sex!

The two lovely ladies talk nipple play tips, favorite toys, and ways to get rid of relationship anxiety. Plus, they help listeners navigate through one-night stands, prostate play, how to be ready for round two and so much more. Tune in for some titillating talk!

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Go With the Gender Flow

Tue, 17 Oct 2017 19:34:27 -0000

Sexuality is a spectrum, and so is gender identity– there aren’t just two choices. On today’s show, Emily talks with three people about what being genderfluid really means and how to understand it all!

Emily is joined by Max, producer of the upcoming film, L: A Story of Genderfluidity, Dany, the main actor in the film, and Jacob, the film’s trusted advisor. Dany and Jacob, who are both genderfluid, with the help of Max, talk with Emily about the social, historical, and political aspects of genderfluidity. This show gives a great insight to life, struggles, terminology, dating, and so much more. Don’t miss your chance to learn beyond the binary!

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Being Monogamish with Tao Ruspoli

Fri, 13 Oct 2017 20:00:18 -0000

The concepts of marriage and monogamy have been around for ages, but does that mean they’re right for us all? On today’s show, Emily is joined by Tao Ruspoli, writer and director of his new film Monogamish, to talk about how relationships have evolved and expanded.

Emily and Tao discuss his inspirations for making his movie, his own journey surrounding monogamy, and how we can talk to our partners about the relationships we want. The two also give their advice on how to move forward after breakups, how to let go of an infidelity, and worries over leaving the swinger lifestyle. This show is full of insight, great discussion, and raises the question– is monogamy for everyone? Tune in!

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The F'ING Truth with Carsie Blanton

Tue, 10 Oct 2017 19:10:57 -0000

Today’s a very special episode of Sex With Emily, filled with studio firsts! Emily is joined by songstress and creator of the game “The F’ING Truth,” Carsie Blanton for live music, game play, & a whole lot of sex talk!

Emily talks with Carsie about how she expresses her sexuality through her music and used it as inspiration for her hot, new game that gets people talking about their sex lives. The two also help a few listeners with their coital questions, Jamie and intern Shannon join in for a bit of F’ING truth, and Carsie even performs one of her songs live! This show is chock full of fun and advice, so tune in!

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Holy Phone Sex, Batman!

Tue, 03 Oct 2017 19:38:02 -0000

Talking: it saves us and it confounds us. On today’s show, Emily is joined by Menace to help write your sex script for a better time in the bedroom!

How do you find casual sex partners? Is there an easy way to tell your partner it’s time to drop some lbs? Feeling pressured to put a ring on it? Emily and Menace give advice on how to start these sex and dating discussions as well as giving you a crash course on hot phone sex. Tune in and listen up!

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More Oral Sex, Less Stalking the Ex

Tue, 26 Sep 2017 20:13:22 -0000

They say that money can’t buy happiness, but what can? On today’s show Emily is joined by Menace to show you that all you really need to be happy is a little relaxation and a whole lot of pleasure!

You’re trying to up your sex game, but is your partner even worth the trouble? How do you know when someone’s a certified douche canoe? When your love is locked up, is it okay to want to stray? Emily and Menace help listeners get through these sex and dating issues, plus go over why adequate sex and sleep make you the happiest version of you. Tune in!

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Best Of: Sex, Love and Totally Turned On with Carmen Electra

Fri, 22 Sep 2017 20:17:16 -0000

On today’s throwback show, Emily and Anderson welcomes Baywatch babe turned culture icon Carmen Electra into the studio! They give their advice on social anxiety creating sexual hurdles, oral sex challenges, and dating do’s and don’ts.

Carmen talks about her road to success– from her Ohio beginnings to her experience in the music industry to her sex life! From what’s sexiest to sexual pet peeves, the three get down and dirty with the naughty details, as well as how to use lube to its full potential. If you missed it once, don’t miss it again!

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Getting Even Wetter with Lynette Carolla

Tue, 19 Sep 2017 17:48:12 -0000

Ready for another round? On today’s show, Emily is joined again by fellow podcaster Lynette Carolla to help put your sex and dating worries to bed.

Do you get too wet during sex? How do you transition from texting to actually seeing each other? Want to learn how to be less intimidating? Emily and Lynette help callers and listeners work through these dilemmas, plus they talk about something that’s always been controversial– pubes. Don’t miss it!

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Life's a (Sex) Party with Lynette Carolla

Fri, 15 Sep 2017 20:28:46 -0000

Communicating about sex is almost as hard as having the best sex ever, but it doesn’t have to be. On today’s show Emily is joined by fellow podcaster and long time friend Lynette Carolla, host of For Crying out Loud and Sword and Scale Rewind, to help you start the sex conversation!

Emily and Lynette are no strangers to putting it all out on the table. The two talk about specific moves to pleasure a woman (hint: it involves the clitoris), how to talk to your partner about what you want in bed, and they help a few callers with their bedroom dilemmas. This show is chock full of laughs, sage advice, and sex tips you’ll want to write down. Tune in!

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Three Guys Talk Sex

Tue, 12 Sep 2017 19:53:23 -0000

This is a Sex With Emily first! We know how much you love roundtable shows with lovely ladies, but today’s a roundtable of three real and down-to-earth guys to talk all things sex and relationships!

Emily is joined by Chad, Hartwick, and Gavin– three guys having fun in the single lane. From dating apps to casual sex to what makes for a bad blowjob, the crew covers it all. Emily gets these guys to open up about their best sexual experience and what they’ve yet to cross off their sexual bucket list. So, if you’ve ever wanted to know what real men actually think about sex, tune in!

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The Truth About Relationships with Neil Strauss

Fri, 08 Sep 2017 20:29:17 -0000

Some people have a stem of unhealthy relationships, and can’t seem to figure out why. On today’s show, Emily is joined by best selling author Neil Strauss to talk about his journey through relationships that will help others get to the root of their issues!

Emily and Neil converse about the importance on emotional health and working on yourself before opening up to relationships. They talk about different types of therapy, ways to regain confidence, and communicating to become better lovers and people overall. Oh, and an impromptu discussion about dick pics! Don’t miss this truly invigorating discussion.

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Sexually Fluid with Nico Tortorella

Tue, 05 Sep 2017 20:29:59 -0000

There are so many ways to identify yourself– or not identify if that’s how you feel. On today’s show, Emily is joined by actor and host of The Love Bomb podcast Nico Tortorella and the two are talking all about sexual fluidity!

Emily and Nico discuss everything from bisexuality to pansexuality, monogamy to polyamory, and what it means to be sexually fluid. They talk about how opening yourself up to all types of love can help you have the best sex imaginable, and experience pleasure in ways you never thought possible. So tune in for a show filled with great insight and sexual tension!

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What Women Really Want

Fri, 01 Sep 2017 16:21:24 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is joined by three smart, sexy, and open women to talk about their sex lives–without sparing the details!

Sarah, Stephanie, and Mary are three women in their 30s trying to have the best sex possible– just like all of you. Emily talks to them about everything, from fantasies to how they date to what they like in the bedroom, right down to how they orgasm! This show is like some good ole fashioned girl talk– amplified. Tune in to hear what women truly think about sex.

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Getting Cliterate with Dr. Ian Kerner

Tue, 29 Aug 2017 19:46:43 -0000

There’s no doubt that way we view and engage in sex is constantly changing. On today’s show, Emily sits down with friend,colleague, and sex therapist Dr. Ian Kerner to talk about sex, relationships, eroticism, and more!

Emily and Ian talk in depth about the discourse of intercourse, meaning that sex isn’t just about penetration. They also cover sexual cliteracy, explore the different types of non monogamous relationships, core erotic themes, and how sex has changed over the years. Tune in for a truly inspiring show!

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Sex Snafus and How to Solve Them

Tue, 22 Aug 2017 20:58:10 -0000

Let’s get down to business… of getting busy! On today’s show, Emily is taking your calls and getting to the route of your sex and relationship issues to help you get back to the sex life you deserve!

Can’t get passed your anal sex mental block? How do you tell your casual hookup they need a shower before you go down on them? Are you on the fence about having a MFM threesome with your girlfriend? Emily talks callers through these bedroom roadblocks and more, so listen in for some great, sexy advice!

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Sex Talk with the Bachelors in Paradise

Fri, 18 Aug 2017 23:32:02 -0000

Everyone’s heard them talk about their search for love, but what about sex? On today’s show, Emily is joined by Vinny Ventiera and Daniel Maguire from The Bachelor in Paradise for some incredibly candid sex talk!

These guys aren’t afraid to talk about everything and anything– from dating to sex, masturbation to oral, and foreplay to anal. What are guys and girls turn-ons and turn-offs? What are some new tricks to go down on a girl? Why should you use lube? Emily and the guys cover all of these topics and more, plus they have a live lube taste test! Don’t miss out!

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Hotter, Deeper Sex with John Wineland

Tue, 15 Aug 2017 19:51:35 -0000

Attraction; the initial force that drives sex, love, and lust. Rarely does it stick around… without effort that is. On today’s show, Emily is joined by sex and intimacy speaker and coach John Wineland to help you keep the attraction alive in your sex life!

Can you tell how much chemistry you have with someone after just one date? How do you talk about intimacy with your spouse? Is it possible to create “hot attraction” on your own? Emily and John touch upon these intimate issues, plus they talk all about attraction, seduction, the different types of sex, & how to master them all. Tune in and get intimate!

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Penis Rings and Kinky Confidence

Sat, 12 Aug 2017 00:33:24 -0000

The first step to better sex and relationships is realizing something needs to change. On today’s show, Emily is here to help you make that change to have the best sex yet!

Want to be confident when trying something new in bed? Confused about liking your girlfriend’s fetish? Is it time to admit, “he’s just not that into you?” These are just a few of the common conundrums Emily gives her sage advice about. Plus, she and Jamie compare their recent excursions with a penis ring as well as sharing some Masturbation Routine winners. Don’t miss it!

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Emily's Pleasure Muse

Tue, 08 Aug 2017 20:56:44 -0000

Our bodies are road maps of pleasure– we just have to make time to discover new paths. On today’s show, Emily is joined by the Pleasure Muse, Dolly Josette, who helps people figure out what they truly want to to have the best sex lives possible!

Want some tips on how to light that sex spark after it’s been extinguished? Wondering how to gauge your man’s pleasure meter? Need help mastering the art of seduction? These lovely ladies give their best advice on these issues, plus, they talk about what a sexological bodyworker really does. Don’t miss it!

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Free the Nipple(gasm)

Fri, 04 Aug 2017 20:10:31 -0000

When it comes to sex, an attitude of been there, done that won’t get you anywhere. On today’s show, Emily plays the role of “tour guide” to help navigate you to a better and healthier sex life!

When’s the right time to introduce your inner freak to your new guy? How do you go from business talk to pillow talk? Looking for some nipple play accouterments? Plus, tune in to find out the parts of the body you should never ignore in bed!

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The Shahs of Sex with Mercedes Javid

Tue, 01 Aug 2017 21:47:14 -0000

Keeping the heat a live in a long term relationship isn’t always easy, especially if you’re on reality TV. On today’s show Emily is joined by Mercedes “MJ” Javid from Shahs Of Sunset to talk foreplay tricks, sex talk tips, and how to set the mood.

Does your partner shy away from giving oral sex? Need help with feelings of unfounded jealousy bubbling up? Ladies– should you freeze your eggs? Emily and MJ discuss these topics as well as go over MJ’s own sex life, and well, it’s worth the listen. This show is a wild one, so don’t miss it!

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Best Of:Real Women Talk Sex

Fri, 28 Jul 2017 19:02:32 -0000

Have you ever wished you could read the mind of the person you’re sleeping with? Unless you’re Edward Cullen, it’s a wish that will never be granted– but there is hope yet! On today’s throwback show, Emily is joined by Harriet, Atara, Chloe and Menace to uncover the mystery on everyone’s mind: what’s the opposite sex really thinking?

Wondering how to improve your foreplay game? Want to know if she’s really into you? This round table of real women (and Menace) cover these topics, and more. Plus, they dish on early sexperiences, porn picks, as well as pubic hair preferences. If you missed it the first time, don’t miss it again!

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One Virgin, Two Subs, and a Threesome

Tue, 25 Jul 2017 20:47:26 -0000

Over-analyzation is an issue many of us struggle with. And in your sex and dating life, it can be causing your downfall. On today’s show, Emily is joined by co-host Anderson to help you switch from your toughest critic to your biggest fan!

Wondering how to channel your inner #girlboss in bed? Want to fantasize freely without feeling guilty? Maybe, you just need tips to stop self-sabotaging. Whatever your qualms, it’s time to stop pushing these questions to the back of your mind and take a deep breathe. So, tune in and unlock those sexy desires!

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Hookups and Breakups

Fri, 21 Jul 2017 21:29:48 -0000

Even in the “hookup culture,” the stigma still remains when it comes to casual sex. On today’s show, Emily’s here to reframe the way we think about casual sex– whether you are all for it, hesitant, or it just isn’t your thing.

How does one go about initiating casual sex? Are you trying to get your groove back after an STD diagnosis? Trying to cope with your partner's sexual fluidity? Emily gives insight on these not-so-easily-tackled conundrums and more to help you feel empowered and guilt-free, no matter what your situation is. Don’t miss it.

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Sex Talk with The Naked Mom Brooke Burke-Charvet

Tue, 18 Jul 2017 21:37:30 -0000

We’ve all heard the term renaissance man, but what about renaissance woman? On today’s show, Emily is joined by TV personality, model, fitness guru, & creator and host of The Naked Mom podcast Brooke Burke-Charvet, the woman who does it all, to talk about well… how she does it all!

Emily and Brooke talk about how important it is to keep sex alive in a marriage, especially if you have kids, and tips to keeping the relationship fresh and exciting! From vacation sex, to getting dolled up for dates, to the crazy hormones that come along with PMS, they cover it all. Plus, the two superwomen give their sage advice on mismatched libidos, getting a stronger pelvic floor and so much more. You’ll want to tune in for these two sexy ladies!

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The ONLY Thing More Important Than Sex

Fri, 14 Jul 2017 22:35:15 -0000

Ever heard that in order to master something, you have to put in ten thousand hours? Sex and relationships are no exception. On today’s show, Emily is joined by co-host Anderson to help coach you through life’s hardest (literally) challenges!

Wondering if training for a marathon can pay off on the streets and in the sheets? Want some tips on “duty dating?” Plus, make sure you tune in to see what women value more: great verbal skills or great bedroom skills!

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The Sex Talk You Never Had

Thu, 13 Jul 2017 23:39:49 -0000

Say goodbye to sexual awkwardness and hello to sexual confidence! On today’s show, Emily is joined by SWE team member Jamie to help you break out of your shell and embrace your sexiness no matter what stands in your way (even if it’s yourself!).

Want some tips on facing your fear of rejection? Wondering how to have hot sex even if Aunt Flo is in town? Are you ready to find your inner cowgirl and own the rodeo? These are just a few sexual tribulations Emily and Jamie go over, plus they talk about their own sexual preferences! Also, find out why music makes sex even sexier. Tune in for the steamy details!

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Steamy Showers and Orgasmic Powers

Fri, 07 Jul 2017 21:10:11 -0000

Everyone has a different definition when it comes to “great sex.” What constitutes it? What makes it kinky, or what keeps it vanilla? The variety of answers go on and on. On today’s show, Emily is helping listeners like you figure out what great sex means to them and how to talk to their partners about it!

How do you enhance intimacy with your partner after severe medical issues? Can men train themselves to be multi-orgasmic? What are some tips on navigating your girlfriend’s somewhat jealous demeanor? Emily helps callers with these sex and relationship worries, and more. Plus, she gets on the phone with Julie from Sportsheets to talk about how to make your shower time dirtier than ever. It’s the summer show you won’t want to miss!

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Land of the Free, Home of the Sexy

Tue, 04 Jul 2017 23:09:08 -0000

When it comes to sex and dating, we all want to be free. Free to choose who to love and how to love them. On today’s show, Emily and Menace are giving you the deets you need to achieve maximum sexual freedom!

Do you last too long during sex? How do you get your boyfriend to be more sexually adventurous? What’s the deal with cock rings? Emily and Menace help listeners with these bedroom blunders and more, as well as going over some of Pornhub’s latest trends. Tune in to find out!

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Flirty, Squirty, And Thriving

Fri, 30 Jun 2017 17:12:36 -0000

Society places a lot of labels on single people which, if you’re single, can be frustrating. Emily has your back and so does Dr. Nikki Goldstein with her new book, Single But Dating! On today’s show, Emily joins Nikki at her book launch in San Francisco to explore and discuss how you can lead an empowered, healthy, and gratifying dating life!

Of course, no show would be complete without answering a few emails! How do you convince your girlfriend to get into anal? What are the best places for female friendly erotica? Are you really squirting? Emily goes over these coital curiosities (and more!) so people like you continue to have better and better sex– because it can always be hotter! Learn a thing or two and tune in!

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Mastering Sex and Seduction with the LadyGang

Tue, 27 Jun 2017 21:17:39 -0000

What’s better than one woman talking about sex? A foursome! On today’s show, Emily is joined by the amazing ladies of the LadyGang podcast, Keltie Knight, Jac Vanek, and Becca Tobin to talk all things sex, dating, and all the points in between!

You’ve become a first date master, but how do you get to that second one? How do you get on the same sex wavelength as your partner? Can you get back to a normal sex life after infidelity? Emily and the lovely LadyGang answer these sex and dating perplexities and more. Plus, the women cover phone obsession and relationship etiquette, their own sex lives, oral sex, marriage, and dating apps! Nothing is off limits with these ladies, so tune in for a great time!

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Breakups, Bondage, And Bisexuality

Fri, 23 Jun 2017 16:55:40 -0000

Sex is a journey–a path to eroticism if you will. On today’s show, Emily acts as your very own compass to keep you on the most pleasurable path possible!

Are you looking for some beginner bondage tips? Wondering if your weight gain is affecting your sex life? You had a threesome with your BFF, now you’re falling for her… should you tell your boyfriend? Emily doles out her best advice on these sexual quandaries and more. Plus she discusses why Facebook and texts with the opposite sex might be a downfall in your marriage. Start your sexual path and tune in!

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Sex with Emily: Casual, Loud and Proud

Tue, 20 Jun 2017 19:14:34 -0000

We all have our own idea of how sex and dating should be, but are we assuming too much? On today’s show, Emily is here to give you new perspectives to take your sex and dating life by storm, with a little help from Menace!

Are you self-conscious about your curved member? What’s the deal with voyeurism? Swiping right on casual, but can’t seem to find a willing FWB? Emily and Menace share their thoughts on these sexual debacles and more, plus they go over the ten types of noises men make during sex, from grunts to squeals. Tune in for more than just the tip!

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Dirty Talk, The P-Spot, And Polyamory

Fri, 16 Jun 2017 17:57:26 -0000

The world has come a long way in trying to create a sex positive environment, but still has far journey ahead. That’s why Emily’s here for you. On today’s show, she’s giving you tips for all your sexual tribulations, no matter what they are!

How do unleash the power of your prostate? Are there rules for role-play rookies? Can you make your sex orgasm as intense as your masturbation orgasm? Emily gives guidance for these sexy situations and more, as well as going over the myriad of polyamorous relationships. Plus, she discusses what words you shouldn’t use during dirty talk. Get sexy, get positive, and tune in!

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Blame it on Emily: How NOT to be Boring in Bed

Tue, 13 Jun 2017 19:09:24 -0000

Everyone gets bored once in awhile, even when it comes to sex and dating. On today’s show, Emily is helping you use that boredom as a sign to spice things up in and out of the bedroom!

How do you get your wife out of her head when she’s in bed? Are “paingasms” a real thing? What do you do when your partner’s fetish completely turns you off? Emily gives her sage advice on these sex and dating dilemmas, and more in hopes that you'll have the best sex of your life! This show is jam-packed with sexy tips you won't want to miss!

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Going Down (Under) with Cyndi Darnell

Fri, 09 Jun 2017 18:05:10 -0000

Sex and relationships go great together-- there’s no doubt about it. But the two are not interchangeable. In today’s show, Emily’s joined by one of Australia’s leading sex and relationship therapists Cyndi Darnell to talk about how to get both back on track!

How do you prep for “Mr. Right” when you enjoy your playful lifestyle? Think you’ve tried it all and you STILL can’t orgasm? You’re brimming from cheater’s regret-- should you come clean? Emily and Cyndi answer these difficult dilemmas, plus the pair discuss the highly dreaded mismatched libido with tips on how to fix it!

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Unfiltered Sex (Talk) With Brandi Glanville

Tue, 06 Jun 2017 17:56:01 -0000

The age old saying is true: you’re only as old as you feel. The same rings true when it comes to your sex life! On today’s show, Emily is joined host of the Unfiltered podcast, mom, and entrepreneur Brandi Glanville, and the two definitely feel young about sex and dating.

Is sexting an act of cheating? How do you keep yourself from losing interest too quickly? Should you tell your wife you get off from thinking about her and her well-hung ex? Emily and Brandi help listeners navigate through these issues and more, plus the two talk about Brandi’s own sex and dating life. We also find out why science says feeling old can dampen your sex life. You won’t want to miss this show!

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Birthdays, Boobs, and Boozy Kisses

Fri, 02 Jun 2017 21:25:51 -0000

What’s so special about today? It’s Emily’s birthday! One of her birthday wishes is to get closer to all you listeners out there-- she wants to hear from you! On today’s show, Emily is answering your questions on all things sex because she’s all about helping you have the best sex life you can!

Got a case of the boob blues? How do you go about hygiene if you’re uncut? You’ve made out with a woman-- should you tell your husband? Emily helps listeners hash out these issues and more, plus she reveals the six mistakes people are making in bed-- according to pornstars! Make Emily’s wish come true, and send feedback, tune in, and subscribe!

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Fantasies and Fellatio

Tue, 30 May 2017 22:40:13 -0000

No situation is one-sided, and the same is true when it comes to sex. On today’s show, Emily is giving you a different perspective on your sexual predicaments (because the problem may not be what you think).

Are you worried that the size of your member is the reason your girlfriend isn’t giving you oral? Should your sexy workplace fantasy remain just that? Are you masturbation obsessed? Emily gives her solutions on these sex issues and more, plus she and Anderson discuss the science behind sexual satisfaction in the beginning of relationships. Tune in to find out!

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Turn Ons and Turn Offs with Hannah Cranston

Tue, 23 May 2017 19:38:11 -0000

Ahh, millennials; a generation so studied and scrutinized by the generations before them, it’s almost as if they’re another species. But what is it that makes them so interesting? It’s their unique approach to sex and dating.

On today’s show, Emily is joined by host and executive producer of YouTube’s Think Tank, Hannah Cranston, who also happens to be a millennial! The two discuss how millennials may be having less sex, but are more experienced and open about the quirks of it all! Are you chick who would rather sleep than cuddle? Are condoms and blow jobs a good mix? How do you do a 180 on your sex life? The dynamic duo discuss these issues, plus reveal five things that guys do that girls absolutely hate. Click, subscribe and listen!

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Open Minds and Open Marriages with Jason Ellis

Fri, 19 May 2017 17:35:18 -0000

As we progress in time, space and science, we’re also making progress in the way we understand sex and relationships. On today’s show, Emily is joined by modern renaissance man and radio show host, Jason Ellis, and the two are talking open relationships, masturbation, threesomes and answering your emails!

Jason hosts his own radio show, fights MMA, is a professional skateboarder and he’s currently enjoying an open relationship with his fiance—and the two couldn’t set a better example of open communication. Emily and Jason help listeners figure out whether an open marriage will solve their own marital issues, how to keep jealousy from joining a threesome and give some hot toy suggestions for oral. Plus, the pair discuss Jason’s own sex life (masturbation included). Nothing is off limits with these two, so tune in!

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No Shame in the Game: Sex Toys for All

Tue, 16 May 2017 20:11:19 -0000

When it comes to sex toys (and masturbation in general), it’s the women who tend to steal the industry’s focus. However, men can also benefit from a little extra stimulation—with a partner or by themselves! On today’s show, Emily is speaking with We-Vibe’s Global Passion Ambassador, Tristan Weedmark, about how their brand is making sure everyone is getting what they need. Oh, and she’s answering your emails, of course!

Why use lube during oral if you have saliva? Is dating your hot housemate really the best idea? How do you last longer when your ex conditioned you to a “hard and fast” sex life? Emily settles these sex and dating debates, plus she gives a rundown of fun, sexy and surprising facts about good ol’ masturbation. Whether you’re considering giving sex toys a first try, you want to improve your masturbation routine or you want to know just how dirty the British are, this show pulls out all the stops. Don’t miss it!

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Lubrication Communication: SWE Team Tells All

Fri, 12 May 2017 18:42:52 -0000

If Emily had her way, there would be a bottle of lube on every night stand all across the world. From flavored, to warming to all-natural ingredients, there’s a lube out there for everyone to enjoy! On today’s show, Emily is joined by her trusty team and an honorary member from System JO, Brie, to talk about all things lube, pubes and so much more!

Are your partner’s pubes a deal-breaker? Have you found your g-spot, but are still on the search for your clitoris? How do you get your military man in the mood for making love more often? Emily, Halina, Jamie and Brie give their insight on these common issues and more. Plus, they give the lowdown on the many ways lube has enhanced their sex lives and why pubic grooming remains the hairy situation it is. Let this show slide into your speakers!

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Penises and Porn Star Sex with Joanna Angel

Tue, 09 May 2017 20:00:41 -0000

What’s better than a podcast with a sex expert? A podcast with a sex expert AND a porn expert! On today’s show, Emily is joined by porn star and director Joanna Angel, and the two are talking masturbation, anal and so much more!

Would a masturbation break make you more productive at work? How do you keep that gosh darn penis from slipping out? What are the first steps for anal play? Emily and Joanna give their sexiest solutions to these coital conundrums and more, plus they discuss masturbation and why it’s so important—even if you’re married! Listen in for a rock star show full of the hottest advice you could ask for.

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Amateur Anal, Sex Myths and Swinging

Fri, 05 May 2017 20:51:24 -0000

We here at Sex With Emily are noticing a trend: you love to talk about threesomes and swinging! We fully support an adventurous sex life, but there are some dos and don’ts to the ins and outs of bringing a stranger into the mix. On today’s show, Emily is joined by show-favorite, Menace, and the two are setting the record straight on all things sex, dating, and masturbation by answering your emails and taking your calls!

How do you find a third for your threesome when you live in a small town? Are you ready for anal, but don’t know how to get started? Do you really need to disclose if your penis is uncut? Emily and Menace shed light on these quandaries and more. Plus, they reveal eight bold-faced lies about sex you really need to stop listening to. You may think you know, but you’ll have to tune in and find out!

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How to Beat Masturbation Month

Tue, 02 May 2017 20:01:51 -0000

Welcome to Emily’s favorite month of the year! She and special guest Menace kick off May, the official Month of Masturbation, by taking your calls and getting to the heart of your issues and giving you a special challenge to make the most of this month’s theme.

Tune in for tips for taking you out of your mundane, routine masturbation habits. Also, they talk to a caller who wonders how he can please his self-professed asexual girlfriend and a woman who was surprised by her post-orgasmic tears. Plus, Emily gives a newbie some solid blow-job tips and convinces a guy that there’s absolutely nothing wrong with his wearing thong underwear. Click, subscribe and get in on the action!

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Swapping, Squirting and Ex Sex

Fri, 28 Apr 2017 19:31:22 -0000

Having the courage to ask questions shows that you care about improving your life; whether it’s your love or sex life, you’ve identified something that just isn’t going right, and you want it to be better. On today’s show, Emily is answering all of your quandaries to help give you the knowledge you need for a life full of loving—both in and out of the bedroom.

This week, Emily is joined by Menace, and the two discuss proper nude etiquette when it comes to swapping photos with potential swing partners, the importance of foreplay (even though you’re wetter than a slip ‘n’ slide) and whether you should tell your fiancé about a sexual slip you made when you were on a break. Plus, there’s a scientific reason that sex with your ex just feels so damn good. Don’t miss it!

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Are Emojis the New Mating Call?

Tue, 25 Apr 2017 22:18:52 -0000

When it comes to sex and dating, it can be hard to tell where you’ve gone wrong. You may think you’re speaking the language of love, but are you speaking the right one? On today’s show, Emily is giving her expert advice on common sex and dating dilemmas to get you headed in the right direction for great sex!

Should you be concerned if your boyfriend ISN’T masturbating? How do you give a killer blowjob when your mouth’s too small and he’s too big? When’s the right time to stop the casual dating and dive back into something serious? Emily and Menace give their insight on these issues and more, including which emojis will most likely get a you a text back! Listen in and find out!

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From Sleepy to Sexy: How to Keep it Hot

Fri, 21 Apr 2017 18:43:47 -0000

One thing that sex, love and dating have in common is doubt. We’re all wondering if we’re doing it right, or how we can make it better. On today’s show, Emily is back on the hotline, taking your calls to help you go from confused to confident. Her insight brings sanity to your most complex questions.

Are you feeling guilty about your sneaky masturbating habits? How do you change up cowgirl position to make sexy AND comfortable? How do you know you’re ready to get back into dating after a divorce? Are mental health hurdles holding you back from finding something meaningful? Emily helps callers with these issues and more, plus she gives you tips to prioritize sex when sleep seems to have taken over the bedroom entirely. This is a show you won’t want to hit snooze on!

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Emily and Dr. Drew Discuss: Porn Sex vs. Real Sex

Tue, 18 Apr 2017 18:02:22 -0000

Emily and special guest Dr. Drew do what they love doing best: taking listener calls! In this week’s show, Emily and Drew get to the bottom of each caller’s issues, helping them solve their love, sex and relationship worries.

The two experts address common condom conundrums (how to stay hard!) and how to meet in the middle when it comes to mismatched libidos. Also, does your guy get his ideas of what sex should be like from watching too much porn and spending too much time masturbating? Are you stuck in a cycle of loving someone who has you in the friend zone, and if so, how do you move on? These specialists provide skillful responses to your most compelling questions, and have a lot of fun while doing it. Join us!

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Come Again? Orgasms, Swallowing and Swiping

Fri, 14 Apr 2017 17:44:24 -0000

Dating apps; so many people use them, yet the stigma still remains. The hook-up culture linked to the world of swiping leaves some feeling defeated or desperate, but single people in search of love or company keep coming back! There has to be some success…right? On today’s show, Emily is diving deep into why we bother with online dating, as well as answering some of your most perplexing sex questions!

How do you dominate your partner in bed? What can you do when your partner has a fear of semen? How do you get your man to stop asking you that cringing “did you cum” question? Emily gives her expert advice on these coital conundrums and more. Plus, she reveals some surprising stats on dating apps that might just make you reconsider their unsavory reputation. Join us!

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SWE Quickie: Less Faking, More Foreplay

Thu, 13 Apr 2017 14:47:17 -0000

Pat yourselves on the backs, lovers; so many of you are kicking your bad habits to the curb and making better choices for a better sex life! On today’s Quickie, Emily shares even more of the Spring Cleaning responses she loved so much, and (drum roll, please!) reveals the contest winner! Who’s adding a Magic Wand to their sex toy collection? Find out!

Whether you’re trying to keep stress from ruining your sex life, breaking the bad habit of faking orgasms or you just want to spend more time in between your wife’s legs, this Quickie was created with you in mind! Emily gives her insight on these Spring Cleaning promises and more. Tune in and get inspired!

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Top Tips for Talking Dirty

Tue, 11 Apr 2017 18:01:13 -0000

Ahh, soulmates. Wouldn’t it be nice if finding “the one” was as magical as rom-coms and fairy tales make it out to be? Although Cinderella and Prince Charming supposedly lived happily ever after, their sex life was probably one thing they had to work on like any normal couple—without the help of Cinderella’s fairy godmother.

On today’s show, Emily is acting as your own personal fairy godmother with tips and tricks to help your sexual relationships grow stronger and sexier, whatever your situation might be! Need some Dirty Talk 101? How about tips to navigate an open marriage? Is there any way to get your girlfriend on board with tossing her salad? She tackles these burning sex questions and more—plus she reveals why believing in a soulmate might be the reason your sex life is fizzling out. Join us!

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How to Go From "Eh" to Amazing in Bed

Fri, 07 Apr 2017 20:41:41 -0000

Sex and dating is complicated. From exes, to dating to orgasms, it can be a lot to process. On today’s show, Emily is answering your questions about everything in the love department to show you how you can simplify the dating game, so you always come out a winner!

Also, what really makes a guy a great lover? How do you get your brain aboard the sex train? What tactics can you use to hook a hottie at the gym? Emily gives you her tried and true advice on these sex and dating queries, plus yet another scientific reason (science!) men need to focus on the female orgasm—as if there weren’t enough reasons already! Don’t miss this show packed with solid advice on how to up your dating and sex skill set.

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SWE Quickie: Breaking Bad Sex Habits

Thu, 06 Apr 2017 21:41:19 -0000

Life is busy and there never seems to be enough hours in the day to accomplish everything we need. It’s a miracle we ever find time for love and sex. That’s why we’re bringing back the Sex With Emily Quickie-- a shorter show that’s—trust me—just as fulfilling.

The SWE inbox was flooded with many loyal listeners trying to kick their bad sex and dating habits. On today’s Quickie, Emily is reading her favorite responses to our Spring Cleaning contest and giving her thoughts. From getting rid of the ex, to breaking free from dating apps to taking the TV out of the bedroom, these listeners are committing to a healthier, happier sex life! So tune in and get inspired! One lucky loyal listener will win a Magic Wand! Could it be you?

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Bad Boys, Sex Toys & Why We Love Them

Tue, 04 Apr 2017 18:01:41 -0000

Think your sex life is already like a fairy tale? Guess what: it can get even better! On today’s show, Emily is joined by Madison and Jamie to talk about ways to elevate your super sex life to even higher levels! Great sex can always be greater, and we here at Sex With Emily want yours to be the greatest.

How can sex toys help raise the bar in your bedroom? How can you tell if your partner is faking her orgasms? Are you looking for female-friendly porn that isn’t so vanilla? Emily, Madison, and Jamie provide their input on these bedroom behaviors, plus discuss the scientific reason why women just can’t help falling for the bad boys. Emily and Madison also share some bittersweet news that hits us deep here at the Sex With Emily office. Don’t miss it!

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Beards, Blindfolds & Finger Vibes: What Women Really Want

Fri, 31 Mar 2017 19:38:59 -0000

It’s safe to say that spring has officially sprung. The sun is shining, and the flowers are blooming. It seems only fitting to bring some of that freshness into the bedroom! On today’s show, Emily is joined by Madison and Jamie to talk about all the new sex toys, tricks, and tips that have been the buzz of the SWE office!

Are you curious about what really turns women on—according to science? Wondering whether to stay in your relationship or live it up in your 20s? Emily, Madison, and Jamie discuss these hot topics, review what new toys have been rocking their bedrooms, and share some of their own steamy stories about sensation play. This tell-all show is packed with spring sexiness you won’t want to miss, so tune in!

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Best Of: Real Women Talk Anal Sex

Tue, 28 Mar 2017 19:04:19 -0000

Think all women hate anal sex? Think again!

In this Best Of podcast, Emily is joined by LadyFreaks Jennifer Bartels and Grace Parra, SWE alumni Laurie, and her good friend Kim to talk all things sex: from ball handling to sex toys to pubic grooming—and, of course, the nitty gritty of anal play. Want to know how women REALLY feel about it? They’ve got your answer… And then some!

Have you ever wanted to knock on your guy’s backdoor? Emily offers tips and tricks for introducing the idea of prostate play to your man in a way that won’t send him running for the hills. The panel of ladies also divulge their own anal experiences, share turn-ons and turn-offs, and profess their love for a good BJ. Nothing is off-limits at this sex positive roundtable, making this show an instant Sex With Emily classic. Don’t miss it…

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Fantasies, Porn, and Sex With the Ex

Fri, 24 Mar 2017 19:47:50 -0000

Today’s show is all about YOU.. Because seriously, you’re awesome.

Are you ready to start exploring your fantasies? Wondering how to help your partner warm up to porn? And is it actually possible to have no-strings-attached sex with an ex? Emily helps callers get to the bottom of their love and sex dilemmas, and also shares “new” findings that could help crack the code on the female orgasm. Here’s a hint: Just go down on her already!

There’s more to a fulfilling sex life than just pleasing your partner. You have to make sure your needs are being met, too. Whether that means taking a break from being the perfect lover to discover what turns you on, taking space to truly get over your ex, or taking time to focus on your mental health, sometimes it’s okay to be selfish. Learn all about it in this week’s podcast…

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Let's Talk About Sex, Maybe?

Tue, 21 Mar 2017 19:10:00 -0000

It doesn’t matter how old you are or how long you’ve been with a partner — Talking about sex is hard. But hey, that’s why you’ve got Emily! In today’s show, she’s helping callers find the right words to say to communicate their way through sex and relationship troubles.

What do you do if your boyfriend isn’t keen on cunnilingus? How do you get a partner to change their mindset when it comes to sex? What’s the best way to keep things hot in the bedroom when you’ve got kids living at home? Communication is a lubrication, and Emily provides advice to help you get the conversation started. Also revealed: the real reason why regular sex makes people so damn happy.

If you want to have the best sex ever, this podcast will provide you with exactly what you need: the know-how to talk it out! Don’t miss it..

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Less Stress, More Sex!

Fri, 17 Mar 2017 19:43:39 -0000

Low sex drive: we never think it will happen to us. But even the most sexual of beings can suffer to the loss of a once-lively libido. On today’s show, Emily is taking your calls and giving personalized advice to help you get your mojo back.

Are you a Nervous Norman when it comes to talking with women? Is moving back in with your mom keeping you from getting your groove on? How do you keep the sex sizzling when stress starts to take over? Emily helps callers navigate through these dilemmas toward a happier and healthier sex life, and shares her take on The Bachelor contestant Raven’s not-so-shocking reveal!

Stress happens, life happens and low libido definitely happens. This podcast is packed with guidance to help you get your sex drive back on track, so don’t miss it!

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Steak, Blowjobs & Anal Explorations

Tue, 14 Mar 2017 19:14:22 -0000

On today’s podcast, Emily tackles some of those love and sex questions that are hard to ask and don’t always come with an easy answer.

Should you pursue Round 2 with an ex-one night stand? Are you sick and tired of pulling out? What’s the best way to bring up backdoor play with a hesitant partner? Emily and Anderson offer good news for some, reality checks for others and plenty of sage advice to help listeners in their sexual time of need.

Also discussed: the best sex positions for expectant mothers, Cloris Leachman’s top anal sex tip and the #1 worst vacation spot for new couples—but only if you were hoping to stay together. Don’t miss another rousing round of uncensored sex talk in this podcast…

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For Penis Sake!

Fri, 10 Mar 2017 04:23:07 -0000

We tend to think of cunnilingus as one of the more difficult-to-master sex acts, but penises come with their own package of perplexities. On today’s show, Emily gets deep into the delicate art of fellatio, sharing tricks to help you deliver a bang-up BJ every time… And that’s just the tip!

Would you rather have a partner that makes you laugh or one that makes you moan? How do you get your partner to initiate once in awhile? Is your favorite vibrator holding you back from enjoying oral sex? Emily and Menace shed some light on these salient sex questions and reveal how much time we actually spend having sex throughout our lives… Spoiler alert: it’s a LOT less than you think. Don’t miss this information-packed podcast…

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Cowgirls, Take It Away: How to Rock On Top

Fri, 03 Mar 2017 22:10:12 -0000

Behind every “common” sex question, there are hundreds of other people who are looking for the exact same answer! In today’s podcast, Emily provides insight to help all the lovers out tackle some of those sex and relationship issues we’ve all dealt with…

Is your rebound coming on stronger than your morning coffee? How do you up your confidence in the woman-on-top position? What’s the best way to keep the sex hot when you’re wearing a condom? Emily and Menace tackle these bedroom debacles, share sex toys recommendations for your first big G-spot orgasm, and even reveal the motivation behind those pesky unsolicited dick pics.

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How to Be a Master-Dater with Zara Barrie

Tue, 28 Feb 2017 22:18:31 -0000

Dating: How do any of us do it? And more importantly, how do we do it right? On today’s show Emily is joined by writer, talk-show host, and overall badass Zara Barrie to unpack the hot topic of dating in the digital age — the good, the bad, and what it means for us as we try to find our match.

Are you experiencing dating burnout? Not sure how to initiate casual sex? How do you find the silver lining from your break up? Emily and Zara discuss tips to help you get out of your dating funk, meet the right people and feel good doing it. And of course, there’s no shortage of hot sex tips, from breast play to teasing to the oral sex secrets you need to know.

From toxic relationships to dating yourself first to lesbian sex myths debunked, this show is jam-packed with life, love and sex lessons. Don’t miss it!

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Out of Your Head, Better in Bed

Fri, 24 Feb 2017 22:06:29 -0000

When it comes to sex and dating, sometimes the greatest thing that’s holding us back… is us. On today’s show, Emily is taking your calls and helping you get you out of your heads and into your beds—with tips of course!

Have you been having trouble climaxing with a partner? Wondering how to find people to play with, now that you’ve reached your sexual peak? What’s the secret to balancing a family life with a hot sex life? Emily talks callers through their bedroom dilemmas, and provides a few “Do’s” and “Don’ts” to perfect your dating profile.

So whether you need help climaxing, swiping, or getting started with solo play, this show has the info you need. Don’t miss it!

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Breast Obsessed: Moves to Make Her Moan

Tue, 21 Feb 2017 22:28:57 -0000

Breasts: They’re beautiful, mesmerizing, and come in all kinds of wonderful shapes and sizes. Although it seems like men are obsessed with them, you’d be surprised how many completely ignore their existence when it comes to getting it on.

On today’s show, Emily is doling out some hot boob tips and facts to make sure they’re never forgotten again, along with giving her insight on some of your most titillating sex and relationship inquiries! Wondering how to make HIS orgasms more explosive? How do you take handjobs out of the equation when you’re not a fan? What’s the best way to introduce lube to a current partner? Emily hits all of these subjects, and reveals the biggest turn ons and turn offs for single men and women. Want to know how to really get your a potential partner's juices flowing? Tune in to find out!

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Who's Your Daddy?

Tue, 14 Feb 2017 23:04:34 -0000

Happy Valentine’s Day, lovers! Whether you’re single or coupled up, today’s show is here to help you feel the love (& other sensations) this February 14th. Emily is joined by Jamie and Madison to help you get through your sex and dating hang-ups.

The team tackles your emails regarding female masturbation habits, guidelines for ghosting and how to experiment with divisive dirty talk—do most guys like to be called daddy? They also share their favorites from your “Best Valentine’s Day Ever” stories, discuss their own special plans for the evening and reveal why so many millennials are so damn lonely in the digital age.

So, don’t go breaking our hearts and tune in for a hot and heavy valentine’s day treat!

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Dirty Married Sex & One-Night Bangs

Fri, 10 Feb 2017 20:28:28 -0000

Sometimes we all need to get a little bit dirty. On today’s show, Emily and Anderson are tackling your hottest sex and dating questions—emphasis on hot.

Freaky sex is at the forefront of conversation with email topics including analingus etiquette, dirty married sex, biting in the bedroom and so much more. Emily and Anderson also discuss a study about one-night stands and share their respective perspectives on these ultra-casual one-time trysts.

So whether you’re looking to heat up things with your long time partner or you just want to turn up the kink with your lover, this show has the tips you need to get down and dirty tonight. Don’t miss it!

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Office Affairs and Oral Sex Sidekicks

Tue, 07 Feb 2017 20:39:09 -0000

On this show, Emily is tackling your emails and voicemails, providing you with the advice you need to step up your sex and dating game—just in the nick of time for V-day.

It it wise to take your office flirtation to the next level? Are you worried about the aftermath of your new anal fixation? And what’s the “right” way to date casually? Emily and Menace take you through a range of love and sex topics, and also answer the much pondered question: What does she REALLY want from you on February 14th? Get the answers to all this and more in today’s podcast!

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Hot V-Day Tips & Orgasmic Gifts

Fri, 03 Feb 2017 21:28:08 -0000

Need a little help getting into the Valentine’s Day spirit? On this show, Emily and Anderson break down the polarizing holiday, analyzing the reasons some of us hate it and sharing ways to help us all love it a little more.

Are you looking for ways to make this V-Day your own? Emily shares hot tips and orgasmic gifts that’ll make your lover swoon. Flying solo? No problem! She’s got tips to help you show yourself some love on the day of love! Also, what do you do when your sexy gift falls flat with your partner? Emily and Anderson weigh in on the do’s and don’ts of sex toy gifting.

So whether you’re loving your partner or loving yourself, this show has what you need to make your V-Day more sexy than stressful.

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18 Minutes to Better Sex

Tue, 31 Jan 2017 21:13:27 -0000

Getting what you want in the bedroom isn’t always as easy as we’d like it to be. Luckily, on today’s show Emily and Menace are dishing out communication tips to help tip the sex life scales in your favor.

How much foreplay is the perfect amount? Why won’t your partner choke you? Is there a “right” way to give directions in bed? These questions are just the tip of the advice-berg on this information-packed podcast. So whether you’re struggling sex-wise or you’re just missing Menace, tune in!

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Will Work For Orgasms: An SWE Team Show

Fri, 27 Jan 2017 22:26:20 -0000

We’re almost a full month into the new year—how are your resolutions coming along? On this show, Emily is joined by her trusty team who share their love and sex resolutions for 2017, recap lessons learned from last year and possibly even set up Emily with a hot new date!

Ever wondered what the SWE Team is like in their own sex and dating worlds? Madison, Jamie, and Eddie share their favorite sex tips, tricks and toys from the past year—some of which you’ll be dying to try—and open up about how they’ve grown as partners and (self)-lovers. Plus, the team weighs in on a recent study on masturbation breaks in the workplace—Is there about to be a new kind of happy hour in the Sex With Emily office?

If you’re in need of some resolution inspiration, or just want more tips to make 2017 the sexiest year yet, this podcast is not one to miss!

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Trouble in Paradise: Infidelity, ED, and Porn Insecurities

Fri, 20 Jan 2017 21:34:01 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is joined by her beloved friend and VP of Chick Flick Productions, KEN! The dynamic duo recap some highlights of the last couple months, then team up to tackle your emails!

Are you suspicious your partner may be cheating? Insecure about sharing your porn preferences with a partner? Maybe you’re wondering when’s the right time to have the “what are we” conversation? These are just a few of the concerns addressed on today’s show. Also, Ken and Emily review results from our end-of-the-year survey, and they’re all about you! What were your favorite lessons learned in 2016? This podcast has the answer, and so much more.

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Orgasms, Squirting and The Year of Anal Licking

Tue, 17 Jan 2017 20:47:12 -0000

On today’s show Emily is joined by sex educators and toy aficionados April Lampert and Amy Baldwin to talk all things sex. Together, the ladies cover a range of topics, from sexual awakenings to oral sex abroad to the curious rise in anal licking. The three trade hot stories, insights and candid experiences to shed some light on the lives of sexperts. Amy and April also assist in answering your emails: Should you disclose past infidelities to a new date? And when it comes to condoms and casual sex, is there any room for negotiation?

This podcast is packed with sex tips, toys picks and plenty of that good old fashioned girl talk we can’t get enough of. Grab your headphones and listen close—you won’t want to miss a thing!

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How to Learn From Past Lovers

Fri, 13 Jan 2017 22:28:05 -0000

We all learn lessons from our sexual pasts, but how do you know what tips to take and what to leave behind? On this show, Emily is taking your calls and doling out advice to help you overcome lingering sex insecurities for a hotter new year.

Are your penis size hang ups holding you back in the bedroom? Did a negative review leave you doubting your smooching skills? And what do you do when your married sex life has hit a 9 year drought? Emily answers all these questions and more, and even gives an important lesson on how to silence the slut-shamers in your life.

Whether you’re a grower, a show-er or are just a little too timid with your tongue, this show has tips to help you take control of your sex life.

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Good Clean Sex: Before, During and Afterplay

Tue, 10 Jan 2017 21:20:22 -0000

On today’s show, Emily and Anderson answer some of your top sex concerns, trade blast from the past stories, and talk about one of this year’s most exciting products!

But first, the pair discuss the topic of afterplay—is it one of the most underrated parts of sex or just an afterthought? Then Emily takes a call from Carrie Martz, creator of the sex-toy-sanitizing Uvee, to get the skinny on how she came up with such an innovative device. And of course, last but not least, Emily and Anderson answer your emails about getting off on your partner’s history and how to handle an uncircumcised member.

From sex toy hygiene to post-sex etiquette, this podcast is interesting, informative and totally uncut! Don’t miss it!

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Out With the Old, In With the O's

Fri, 06 Jan 2017 20:50:47 -0000

Ready for a fresh start in 2017? In this show, Emily and Anderson are here to help you step up your game and set your own rules, both in the bedroom and in the dating world.

The two dissect the phenomena of “Sexual Black Friday” and discuss why NOW is the best time for new singles to start swiping online. They also answer your emails, from BJ’s to G-spots to the right way to date more than one person at a time.

If you’re looking for ways to make 2017 your year for better sex and romance, this podcast has what you need. Check it out…

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Threeways, Butt Play and Q&A: Live From Brooklyn

Tue, 03 Jan 2017 20:58:57 -0000

Happy New Year! In keeping with Emily’s resolution to meet more of her listeners, this special show takes us back to last year’s Sexual Health Expo… Where she did just that! This live Q&A session from SHE in Brooklyn is packed with advice that is not only educational, but entertaining! Are you struggling with anal exploration? Questioning your partner’s sexuality? Having trouble getting over the one that got away? Emily answers all these questions and more on this live/throwback mashup show!

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Bad Boys, Bondage, and Afternoon Delight

Fri, 30 Dec 2016 19:00:16 -0000

The year is coming to a close, but the sex talk is still going stronger than ever! On today’s show, Emily is joined by Producer Madison to share some spicy sex tidbits and help you through your bedroom and dating conundrums.

Is your stalling sex life in need of a jumpstart? Are you wondering how to break out the handcuffs in the bedroom? Maybe you’re unsure on how to change up your “bad boy” dating routine when you’ve finally found Mr. Nice Guy. Whatever your qualm, Emily has the advice to get you pointed in the right direction. Plus, she reveals what time of day your girl is most likely to climb to her sexual peak! So check it out and pay attention!

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Best Of: For the Love of Oral

Tue, 27 Dec 2016 19:54:42 -0000

Oral sex. Everyone loves getting it, but how good are you at giving it? Do you know how to eat from her honey pot? Do you give homerun head? Whether you’re a man or a woman, an expert or a novice, everyone could get better at going down, and in this throwback podcast from 2015, Emily is here to help! She tackles your most pressing sex questions, from oral sex insecurities to tips for sensitive gag reflexes to A to V etiquette, and gives her #1 oral sex tip for both men and women.

This show is your one stop, all inclusive, need-to-know guide for going down like a champ. From cunnilingus, to fellatio, and everywhere in between, Emily dishes the knowledge you need on today’s classic Sex With Emily podcast.

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Sex Noises, Swipe Apps, and Bisexuality

Sat, 24 Dec 2016 00:06:19 -0000

To online date or not to online date? For the select few of you that have been living under a rock for the past decade, that is the question. On this show, Emily puts the dating app taboo to bed, giving you a few pointers to help you get lucky online, and updating us on her own cyber-romance encounters.

Then she’s on the hotline taking your calls! Wondering how to be more vocal in bed? Need help navigating the waters of bisexuality with a new FWB? And what’s the secret to being more approachable in the dating scene? Emily’s got answers, and so much more! So whether you’re looking to get loud or get lucky, this podcast will show you the way.

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The Modern Man's Guide to Mismatched Libidos

Tue, 20 Dec 2016 23:28:32 -0000

We talk A LOT about issues surrounding the female sex drive, but we rarely discuss what it’s like for the person in the passenger seat. On today’s show, we’re unpacking this topic of low libido from a different angle and we’ve got Dr. Ian Kerner on the line to help provide a little insight.

What happens when you’re on the other side of a mismatched libido? How can men help their partners to spark that desire? Ian shares his expertise on all things arousal, intimacy and female pleasure, and reveals how he helps couples overcome these roadblocks. Emily and Menace also address your emails on rough sex, changes in libido and foot appreciation.

No matter what problems you encounter between the sheets, this podcast is sure to have the answers you’re looking for! Don’t miss it..

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Emily's Life in the Single Lane and Your Calls

Fri, 16 Dec 2016 21:09:26 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is back on the hotline, taking your calls and answering your biggest sex questions.

Are you worried that your carefree casual sex lifestyle will make it harder to find love down the road? Looking for tips to provide feedback for an insecure partner? And how do you know when it’s time to call it quits on a toxic relationship? Fear not, Emily addresses all these issues with live callers, opens up about developments in her own personal love life, and even shares a few lessons she’s learned along the way. You won’t want to miss this advice-packed podcast!

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From Mouth Parties to Bedroom Parties with Kandi Burruss

Tue, 13 Dec 2016 22:46:15 -0000

In today’s show, Emily is joined by Kandi Burruss, Real Housewives of Atlanta favorite and creator of the sexy Bedroom Kandi line. Together they share their hottest sex product picks, trade tantalizing bedroom tricks and get candid about giving (and getting) the best oral sex. Kandi also assists Emily in answering your emails on sex-toy shy partners, getting your lover to take the reins in bed, and finding your sexual confidence after a long break from dating. If you love sex toys, sex tips and totally uncensored bedroom talk, this show is not to be missed!

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Hot Sex (Every Time of the Month)

Fri, 09 Dec 2016 21:57:39 -0000

The holidays have arrived and on this show, Emily answers your most pressing questions to ease your mind and make this season a sexy one. Do you have a habit of ditching a relationship once the honeymoon phase wears off? Been toying with the idea of non-monogamy? Could your domestic laziness be the reason a partner decides to stray? Emily and Anderson are answering all these questions plus giving tips on how to make period sex hot! (believe it or not). Don’t miss it!

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Cyber Sex, Latin Lovers, and Happy Endings

Fri, 02 Dec 2016 23:37:59 -0000

With the end of the year fast approaching, I think we could all use a little boost in our sex lives, whether it be your confidence, your health, or your level of kink! Are you wondering how to take your Skype sex to an even hotter level? Does an STI mean the death of your dating life? And what are the rules for rocking a first date with a woman… When you’ve already got a man waiting at home? On today’s show, Emily and Anderson tackle these common, but often difficult sex and dating situations, plus Emily shares a spicy story from her trip down to Mexico! Be sure to tune in…

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Best Of: Adventurous Sex You Can Have Tonight

Fri, 25 Nov 2016 20:40:56 -0000

Today’s throwback podcast from 2015 answers the question on every couples’ minds: How can we spice up our sex life? With the help of Anderson and Producer Madison, Emily provides easy-to-use tips to help you get adventurous in bed and try new things with your partner, from switching up sex locations to swapping sexy bucket lists and the lost art of phone sex.

Emily breaks down those little ways to keep things spicy, long after that new relationship smell wears off. So if you missed it the first time, don’t miss out on this classic Sex With Emily episode!

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How to Get the Foreplay You Crave

Tue, 22 Nov 2016 23:11:18 -0000

A wise man once said that expectations hinder experience, and that’s certainly true when it comes to things between the sheets.

On today’s show Emily and Menace are answering your emails AND voicemails, providing advice and, occasionally, a much-needed reality check. Is your partner falling short in the foreplay department? What’s the best way to get yourself (or a lover) into the mood? And how important are common interests in a lasting relationship?

Emily tackles these topics, talks a listener through a case of post-dick pic panic and even shares her top picks from arousal-boosting erotica. This podcast has answers to questions you didn’t even know you had, so don’t miss it!

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Self-Fulfilling Sex Prophecies

Fri, 18 Nov 2016 21:21:00 -0000

Sometimes the source of our greatest sexual fears actually comes (or doesn’t) from our harshest critics… Ourselves. On today’s show, Emily coaches a few listeners out of their heads and into their beds, one email at a time! She and Anderson also discuss the secret to living past 100— it might be sexier than you think! Whether you’ve got issues getting (& keeping) it up, need a little help going down, or can’t get your partner to initiate sex, you’ll find the answers you’re looking for in this podcast! Don’t miss it…

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Married Sex, But Better with Pam Costa

Tue, 15 Nov 2016 21:15:06 -0000

As anyone in a long term relationship will tell you, maintaining an active, steamy sex life isn’t the easiest of tasks. After a while, you have to work to keep it hot. Luckily today’s podcast tells you how to do just that… In this show, Emily is joined by sex and relationship coach Pam Costa. Together they talk through Pam’s fascinating journey to sexual awakening, discovering her desire and reinvigorating her marriage. Pam and her husband Paul share their most intimate moments, a few fiery fantasies, and their top tips on how to keep a relationship sizzling for years and years to come. You’ve heard me talk about how to break out of your sex rut. This week, hear from two people who put those skills into practice and came out with a sex life that’s stronger (and hotter) than ever.. Don’t miss it!

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Caution: Sexy When Wet

Fri, 11 Nov 2016 19:47:10 -0000

On today’s show, Emily’s answering your emails, addressing some of your most pressing sex and relationship questions. Do your partner’s fantasies have you feeling less than confident in the bedroom? When’s the best time to tell a new lover that you’re a squirter? And what do you do when SHE comes too quickly? Emily and Anderson answer your emails, discuss the dilemma of dating with kids and even debate some of Redditor’s top sex tips. Plus, how many college students are actually hot for teacher? Find out in this information-packed podcast!

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Make Your Libido Great Again

Tue, 08 Nov 2016 22:21:32 -0000

Sexual desire: it isn’t the simplest code to crack, nor the easiest engine to rev. But if there were a way to make it a mainstay in the bedroom, it would surely have our vote! On today’s show, Emily is tackling the common problem of decreased sexual desire with the help of Dr. Leah Millheiser, OBGYN and Chief Scientific Officer for the makers of the groundbreaking female arouser, Fiera. Together they discuss the causes and effects of low libido in women and share what you can do to get your groove back for good. Also, how do you keep a relationship hot when your partner is more sexually experienced? Where have all the good guys gone? And how do you make the upgrade from rebound girl to girlfriend? Emily has your answers and more in this podcast, so don’t miss it!

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Flashback Friday: Love, Marriage, and Spontaneous BJ's with Lynette Carolla

Fri, 04 Nov 2016 19:40:22 -0000

When it comes to married sex versus single sex, is the grass really greener on the single side? In this throwback show from March 2015, Emily welcomes friend and fellow podcaster (not to mention wife and mother of two) Lynette Carolla. She and Emily share their candid opinions on sex, marriage and single-person envy. Plus, after 20 years with the same man, Lynette knows a little something about keeping the sex hot, and is ready to share her wisdom. Whether you’re single, married or stuck somewhere in between, this classic show has the advice you need to get your perfect sex life started and keep it hot.. Check it out!

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Sex With Two Angels (and Emily)

Tue, 01 Nov 2016 21:30:18 -0000

Grab your halos, ladies and gents! On today’s show, Emily and co-host Joanna Angel are joined by porn pioneer and trans activist Buck Angel, and things are about to get wild!

Buck opens up about his incredible journey as a “man with a pussy,” from finding his early Girl Scout encounters to breaking the mold with trans male porn, to learning to love his vagina! The gang talks penis envy, sexual empowerment and Buck’s new groundbreaking sex toy, before tackling some of your top sex and relationship dilemmas!

Whether your divorce killed your mojo, you’ve got the perfect relationship (minus the sizzle in the sack), or you’re curious to hear from one of the most respected trans educators around, it’s time to listen to the angel(s) on your shoulder and tune in!

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Squirtsville or Splitsville: Population YOU

Fri, 28 Oct 2016 21:17:19 -0000

On today’s show, we’re on the Sex with Emily hotline, taking your calls and answering your sex questions live! Want to step up your squirting game? Curious about exploring the swinger lifestyle? Wondering if it’s time to end a lackluster marriage? Maybe you’re just dying to know what Anderson’s favorite part of his newfound fatherhood is! Find the answers to these questions and more on today’s live call-in show. So listen close, you won’t want to miss a beat.

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Stripper Pole Tricks & Oral Sex Tips

Tue, 25 Oct 2016 21:19:57 -0000

On today’s show, Emily is joined by guest co-host Joanna Angel and they’re tackling all your sex, love and relationship questions!

Are you and your lover not on the same page when it comes to full-time monogamy? Feeling frustrated by your inability to orgasm with a partner? Perhaps you’re just hoping to pick up some tips for spectacular cunnilingus? Emily and Joanna have all the answers you need to put your sex concerns to bed (pun intended), plus advice on hot topics like threesomes, pole-dancing and secrets to sexual confidence. Don’t miss it!

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Fantasies, Toys, and Drunk Sex Tales: The SWE Team Tells All

Fri, 21 Oct 2016 20:52:53 -0000

On this show, Emily is joined by her trusty team to talk sex toys, Tinder and what it’s really like to work in the Sex With Emily office.

In between talk of foot fetishes and fantasies, Madison, Jamie and Eddie give you the skinny on their roles at Sex With Emily, how their parents feel about their risque jobs, and most importantly, what they’ve learned about themselves and sex. The team also reviews some of the most exciting new sex products on the market today.

So if you’ve ever wondered what it’s like in Emily’s office, this show has the inside scoop you’ve been waiting for. Grab your doggy-style straps and prostate massagers because you’re in for a wild ride!

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Manatoriums, Moaning & First Message Mastery

Tue, 18 Oct 2016 21:00:04 -0000

Brace yourselves, listeners, it’s the moment you’ve all been waiting for. On this show Emily is taking your calls LIVE and answering your top sex and dating questions.

What’s the right length of time to wait before having sex? Is there a formula for crafting the perfect online dating message? How do you know if it’s time to take a “manitorium?” And what is a manitorium anyway? Worry not, Emily and Anderson have the answers to these questions, plus so many more on this advice-packed podcast.

Whether you’re diving into dating after divorce or you’re just curious about the sexual proclivities of the republican party, this show has morsels of sex and dating knowledge to benefit anyone and everyone!

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Bondage, "Bang Checks," and Shaggin' Wagons

Fri, 14 Oct 2016 21:04:51 -0000

Dating and communicating can be tricky to master. Should you divulge your sexual history? How do you tell someone you’re non-monogamous? What’s the best way to get over your partner’s specific porn preferences? In this show, Emily and Anderson have the advice you need for these and many more of your love and sex quandaries. The two also take a stroll down memory lane, get real about the best and worst parts of car sex and hear from a listener who shares the story of his “bang check” success.

So whether you need a little porn pep talk or some nifty tricks for tying your lover up in bed, this show has your answers!

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Up Close & "Cliterate"

Fri, 07 Oct 2016 22:23:03 -0000

On this show, Emily and Menace are reunited, to tackle a wide array of your sex and relationship quandaries.

How do you know when it’s time to commit? What’s the best way to get your partner to step up their foreplay game? What do you do if you’re just not a natural born cuddler? These are just a few of the questions Emily and Menace address on their quest to help you have better sex. Also discussed, the importance of “date nights” and increasing your level of “cliteracy.”

So whether you’re hitting a stumbling block in your relationship or you’re just itching to try something sexy and new, this show has the advice you need to get you where you want to be. Don’t miss it!

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Cracking the Code on Female Sexuality with Dr. Drew

Tue, 04 Oct 2016 20:52:19 -0000

On this show, Emily is joined by friend and colleague Dr. Drew Pinsky. Together, Emily and Drew work to crack the code of female sexuality and help listeners navigate complicated concepts around sex, love and true happiness.

What kinds of questions should we be asking about our sexuality? How does a woman’s pleasure differ from a man’s? Is there an easy way to quell sexual insecurities? These are just a few of the hard-hitting questions Emily and Drew delve into. They also answer a wide range of emails regarding everything from toxic relationships to daddy issues to oral sex refusal and beyond.

Female pleasure is an important topic and Dr. Drew and Emily are here to break it down for you piece by piece. If there’s something holding you back from fully enjoying your sexuality, then this is not a show to miss.

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Live From SHE: Compliments, Confidence & Better BJ's For All

Fri, 30 Sep 2016 20:21:07 -0000

Today’s show comes at you live from the Sexual Health Expo in New York City. Emily is joined by two special guests who help her deliver words of wisdom and lustful lessons to her live audience and you!

Emily kicks off the show by breaking down the definition of “sexual health”, debunking societal myths and sexual norms. She then welcomes fellow SHE presenters Brandon B. and Tina Horn to the show to share their respective expertise on how to give the best full-body blowjob and sext like an expert in the digital age. And it doesn’t end there— the sexpert trio also tackle audience questions about porn, penis size and how to compliment a woman the right way.

So if you missed out on SHE this year, don’t worry. This podcast is packed with some of the best tips, tricks and expert advice from top industry experts including, you guessed it, Emily!

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Dating Dilemmas: Is It Them or Is It You?

Tue, 27 Sep 2016 21:26:13 -0000

Today’s show is all about getting back into the driver’s seat of your sex life!

Are you worried you’re doomed to a G-spotless bedroom existence? Are your impossibly high dating standards holding you back from meeting Ms. Right? Does “eye for an eye” really apply when it comes to marital infidelity? Emily and Anderson share sage advice to help steer you towards sex and relationship bliss, and uncover which careers are more likely to land you a Tinder date.

If you’ve wandered off the desired sexual path, learn how to get back on track with tips from this podcast!

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No Porn, No Problem: How to Think Yourself Off

Fri, 23 Sep 2016 22:53:45 -0000

Are you struggling to sustain your solo sex life without your favorite visual aids? Looking for tips to help boost your lover’s sexual skills? How do you keep the “casual” in your casual sex relationship?

In this podcast, Emily and Anderson give advice on an assortment of intimate inquiries and reveal which social networking site might be a gateway for infidelity—especially for women.

Learn how to maintain your independence in the most intense relationships, ignite your erotic imagination and “feel” your way to sexual confidence in this new episode of Sex With Emily.

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Best Of: Forbidden Sex and Frisky Texts with Jake and Amir

Tue, 20 Sep 2016 20:45:23 -0000

On this throwback podcast from 2015, Emily and Menace are joined by comedian BFF’s, Jake and Amir. They provide different male perspectives on a variety of topics, from sex toys to stamina to sexting like a pro, and even assist Emily in answering some listener emails.

Emily and her male roundtable help a listener draw the line between dirty and degrading bedroom conversation, and give a lesson in sex toy etiquette to a single man with multiple partners. They even delve into the complicated ideas of female arousal and forbidden sex.

This classic show is packed with a random (but funny) array of sex and dating tips that will both amuse and advise you. Don’t miss it!

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How To Go From Casual To Committed

Fri, 16 Sep 2016 19:08:08 -0000

When the mood strikes, it can be tempting to get down and dirty just about anywhere, but not so fast! In today’s show, Emily and Menace reveal why you might want to think twice about where you want to get frisky, and address some of your transitional trepidations.

Is your romantic trip with your long distance lover being hijacked by her friends? How do you go from casual sex to a committed relationship? Do you feel like you’re second-rate compared to your partner’s pornstar ex? Emily and Menace give advice on how to overcome these amorous anxieties, and even fess up to some of their raunchiest public sex experiences!

From inferior insecurities to imbibing girlfriends to friends with benefits, this podcast is the change-up you need to transform your love life!

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Swinging, Strap-On's & the "New Squirting" with Sportsheets

Tue, 13 Sep 2016 20:24:41 -0000

From a velcro wall to your bedroom, it’s no secret that Sportsheets has taken the sex world by storm. In today’s show, Emily and Menace are joined by CEO and founder of Sportsheets, Tom Stewart. With Tom as their guide, they unpack the evolution of the revolutionary bondage brand, in addition to providing you with you ample advice to satisfy all your carnal curiosities!

Is monogamy slowly becoming a thing of the past? Are you begging for a pegging, but aren’t sure how pull it off? How do you change your rollercoaster sex life into something more steady? Tom assists Emily and Menace in answering these questions, and gives us the lowdown on Sportsheets’ hottest bondage products, as well as all things pegging and prostate play.

Whether you want to be tethered, tied up, blindfolded or pegged, don’t restrain yourself from listening to this podcast!

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Shaming, Blaming & Somatic Sex Training

Fri, 09 Sep 2016 19:49:16 -0000

Ever wonder how the experts improve their own sex lives? In today’s show, Emily and Menace check in with Emily’s Somatica coaches Celeste & Danielle to reflect on her experiences with somatic sex therapy so far. Then it’s on to your emails!

How do you keep yourself from getting stuck in the friend zone with a new crush? What’s the best way to share your STI status with a new partner? What do you do when the source of your relationship insecurities also happens to be a good friend? Emily and Menace tackle these sex and dating difficulties, and Emily opens up about some of the most important things she’s discovering about herself as a lover—because everyone can still learn a thing or two!

From relationship revelations to lube etiquette to choosing “man’s best friend” over your girlfriend, this podcast is chock full of lessons to help you become a better lover (and friend).

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Sex Obsessed: The Biggest Myth We’re Not Buying

Tue, 06 Sep 2016 20:31:51 -0000

Does having a high sex drive equal sex obsessed? In today’s show, Emily and Anderson are busting through one of the biggest sex myths of our time—in addition to addressing your sexual confidence conundrums, of course!

Are you worried that your high libido may scare off your new beau? What do you do when you’re cohabitating AND uncoupling at the same time? Is your inexperience giving you a false start in the bedroom? Emily and Anderson answer these bedroom insecurities and more—plus, tell you the best way to deal with the age old question, “What’s your sex number?”

Whether you think you’re slightly sexually obsessed, you have a lower libido than average, or you’re quite content with your sexual appetite, this podcast may give you a new sense of self!

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Unconditionally Sexy with Elle Chase

Fri, 02 Sep 2016 19:49:20 -0000

It’s September, and instead of going “Back to School,” we’re taking it Back to Sexual Confidence! Emily and Anderson are joined by sex educator, author and body confidence pundit Elle Chase to kick off this month of self love and acceptance. Together, they tackle your most troubling anxieties, tear down your insecurities and help you find your “inner sexy.”

What are the best sex positions for curvier figures? Are you worried about the length of your labia? Where do you start when you’re rediscovering your sexuality? The trio give their tips on these issues as well as discuss just how long the ideal sex session lasts—it might be shorter (or longer) than you think.

Whether you’re a sexually confident stud, or you could use a pep talk or two, this podcast will have you feeling sexier than ever!

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Face-Sitting, Fetishes & Foreplay Foibles With Joanna Angel

Tue, 30 Aug 2016 22:37:26 -0000

We’re ending Anal Sex Month with a bang and revving you up for Back to Sexual Confidence Month! In today’s show, Emily is joined by punk rock porn darling Joanna Angel to give you tips on a plethora of sex and relationship predicaments.

Is your partner’s delayed ejaculation giving you lock jaw? How do you get your lover to comfortably climb on (your face)? What do you do when your vanilla partner keeps your inner freak from shining? Emily and Joanna answer these sexual inquiries and more, plus tell you what France is doing to up their sexual education!

From face sitting to foot fetishes to all the anal, oral, and squirting tips you can ask for, this podcast covers it all!

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Virgins, Cuckolds, and Unicorns

Fri, 26 Aug 2016 19:42:28 -0000

Do men and women share the same fantasy when it comes to threesomes? According to science, definitely not. But that doesn’t mean they’re ruling them out…

In this show, Emily is joined by Menace and her San Francisco friend Stacy to traverse a range of love and sex topics. Are you perplexed by your lack of success in the dating world? Is your inexperience causing your lover to enjoy sex less? The triad lends their honest advice on all this and more, and Emily gets real about her recent transition from a past relationship to her dating present.

Whether you’re suffering from post-orgasm exhaustion, want to bring your bashful babe to bed without scaring her off, or are curious to know what factors produce a perfect threesome, this show will have you breaking out your notepads!

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Craiglist Crushes, Hand Jobs & Morning Wood(y)

Tue, 23 Aug 2016 21:35:21 -0000

In today’s show, Emily and Menace are joined by surprise guest Woody from the Woody Show! Together, the three tackle a range of sex and dating topics that are definitely NSFR: Not Safe For Radio.

Are you wondering how to turn your craigslist encounter into something more? Do you find yourself running out of steam mid-bj? How do you stop your relationship insecurities from becoming a self-fulfilling prophecy? Whatever your current struggle or strife, this show offers a variety of avenues to help you toward your solution. Emily, Menace and Woody also get into intimate dating details from their own personal lives and dissect the ever-changing millennial mindset.

Whether you’re unsure about the effectiveness of your handies, want tips to land your dream girl, or are wondering if Orlando’s penis is, in fact, in full Bloom, this show is sure to leave you more than satisfied.

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Modern Dating & Menage a Trois Mix-Ups

Fri, 19 Aug 2016 20:16:13 -0000

Are you struggling to navigate the minefield that is modern dating? Does the idea of true intimacy fill you with dread? If so, you’re not alone. Today’s show teaches you how to face those fears head on, whether you’re single and ready to mingle, or starting to settle down.

Are you caught between commitment and playing the field? What are the rules when it comes to dating a best friend’s past lover? What’s the best way to close the door on an open relationship? Emily and Menace respond to these dating dilemmas and discuss how PornHub is promoting sending items to the Olympics in the name of sexual health!

From free porn for self-loving Olympians to tips for making the most of your smaller-than-average member to an almost ménage à trois in Mexico, this podcast is packed with honest advice to put your sexual self-doubts at bay!

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Sexual Selection: How to Pick a Better Partner

Tue, 16 Aug 2016 23:00:04 -0000

Do you ever feel like you’re just not getting what you need, from your lovers to lubes to your masturbation routine? In today’s show, Emily gives you the tips you need to vamp up all of your sexual selections!

Has a string of unavailable men led you to question your dating type? How do you get back into your masturbation mindset when it seems you’ve lost your way? And how do you revive your lukewarm relationship after a recent infidelity? Emily and Menace share their thoughts on these debacles and discuss their top dating profile dealbreakers. Plus, Emily gives some handy tips to make your finger-foreplay faultless!

Whether your lube choices are less than stellar, your partner-picker is broken, or your online bragging is dragging you down, this podcast has the advice you need!

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Penises, Pineapples & Sex Life Revival

Fri, 12 Aug 2016 21:34:47 -0000

We’ve been talking about it for months and it’s finally here. In today’s show, Emily and Menace are answering not only your emails, but your voicemails too!

Are you perplexed by your partner’s refusal to reciprocate oral sex? Could your lack of sexual experience be considered a dating dealbreaker? How do you up the kink factor when your longtime lover is strictly vanilla? Emily and Menace help listeners navigate these predicaments with a mix of communication, literature & sexual confidence. They also discuss a new dating app that can help you steer clear of (or steer into) sausage fests at your local bars.

From tips for co-working with an ex-lover to coming clean about your bedroom insecurities to the first ever “Ask Emily” voicemails, this podcast is packed with moments you won’t want to miss.

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Elevated Anal with Dr. Hernando Chaves

Tue, 09 Aug 2016 22:18:54 -0000

Anal sex month is officially upon us! In this show, Emily is joined by sex therapist and backdoor enthusiast Dr. Hernando Chaves to help you navigate the waters of anal exploration!

Emily and Hernando bust myths and quell fears surrounding the taboo sex act, discuss the best pre-anal preparation tactics and teach you exactly how to get the most pleasure possible out of your rear-end romp! Then, the two address your anal inquiries, with topics including pegging, polyamory, and pre-anal panic.

Whether you totally love it, aren’t really into it, or you’re just plain curious about the world of anal play, this podcast is packed full of tips to elevate your anal sex experience!

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Tinder Blunders & Threesome Dilemmas

Fri, 05 Aug 2016 21:27:16 -0000

Relationships can be tough, especially when your most dire dilemmas are bedroom related. Luckily, in today’s show Emily gives you the tips to keep your love and sex life alive and well!

Sick of always being the initiator? Want your partner to take the sexual reigns? What if your partner says “no-no” to a trip to the go-go bar? Will a threesome really reignite your passion? Emily and Menace tackle these tough debacles, and even give you an inside look at Emily’s Tinder messages.

Whether you’re having doggy-style difficulties, or want to know how to respark the flame when your partner’s fire has extinguished, this podcast has you covered!

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Taboo Sex Questions (You’re Too Shy to Ask)

Tue, 02 Aug 2016 21:48:02 -0000

Some sex questions are harder to ask than others, but have no fear! In today’s show, Emily tackles a few of your most taboo sex questions and provides judgement-free guidance to quell your concerns.

Is swinging really the best way to get out of a relationship funk? Should you take a step back from your grieving online match? What do you do when your partner cites a vaginal odor as the reason for not going down? Emily and Anderson debate the best way to work through these issues and examine a study that reveals the real secret to being an expert lover—It’s a lot more simple than you might think!

From unfulfilled fantasies to oral sex insecurities to a whole new kind of sexy stocking stuffer, this podcast makes your sexual satisfaction the #1 priority! Don’t miss it..

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Hot Bondage, Hygiene Hacks & Open Relationships

Fri, 29 Jul 2016 22:32:25 -0000

Today’s show is packed with advice for singles, couples & self-lovers alike! Whether you need help forming a strategy for dating online, guidelines for your kegel workouts or some sweet sex toy recs, Emily’s got the answers you’re looking for.

Emily and Menace discuss how drinking too much soda may be ruining your junk and answer your emails! How much is too much when it comes to Kegels? How do you get your partner on board with your masturbation needs? The two debate online dating dilemmas and discuss whether it’s better to be single in college than to be tied down by a long distance love.

From Netflix dealbreakers to open relationships to tricks for going down on your partner without rubbing her the wrong way, this podcast covers it all!

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Orgasms, Ghosting & Condom Confusion

Tue, 26 Jul 2016 22:53:40 -0000

Today’s show is packed with tips to help you solve a range of communication conundrums, from broaching the topic of new toys to concerns with STIs to unease surrounding your partner’s orgasmic abilities.

Finding it difficult to keep up with the hot new digital dating lingo? Emily and Menace go over a glossary of trending sex and dating terms, from ghosting to benching to haunting—Oh my! Then it’s right into your emails about how to get past your partner’s sexual history, confusion surrounding the female orgasm, and how to discuss bringing new sex toys into play.

Whether you’re unsure how to open up an uncomfortable sex conversation, are struggling to hold onto your condoms, or you just want your partner to tune in to Sex With Emily, this podcast will surely get you talking!

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Hot, Wet Summer Sex

Fri, 22 Jul 2016 21:13:16 -0000

Why waste the hottest season having sex at home? Today’s show is packed with tips to help take your summer lovin’ to the next level!

Emily and Anderson discuss the latest digital dating trend. Who knew that the outrageously popular Pokemon GO app could actually help you catch a date? Next, Emily proposes three ways to spice things up during these sizzling summer months, and answers your emails on post-sex cleanup and how much is too much when it comes to dirty talk.

From erotic ejaculation to successful car sex to finding love next to a Pikachu, this podcast will surely add a sexy spark to your summer heat.

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Intimacy Issues & Porn Pitfalls

Tue, 19 Jul 2016 22:39:06 -0000

On today’s show, Emily and Menace are here to help you through some of your most difficult sex and dating quandaries.

What do you do when you’ve found a great partner, but lost your orgasm in the process? How do you get the sex talk started with a shy lover? And what steps do you take to regain trust after a heartbreaking betrayal? From dating after divorce to issues with intimacy and everything in between, this show comes packed with solutions to a variety of relationship roadblocks.

Whether you’re having trouble managing your military marriage, or you’re dealing with lingering lingerie problems, Emily and Menace have got you covered in this podcast.

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Sex Slumps & Vibrating Tongues

Fri, 15 Jul 2016 20:34:08 -0000

Today’s show is all about YOU. From sex slumps to dating drawbacks and blow job tips for beginners, Emily and Menace are doling out answers to all your sex and relationship uncertainties.

Have your reproductive goals dulled your once-spicy sex life? What’s the best way to conquer oral sex anxieties? And how the heck do you meet someone real in the age of dating apps and bar hookups? Worry not— Emily sheds light on these common sex and love situations and shares advice to get you on the right track. Also discussed: does this generation’s social media proclivity lead to social awkwardness down the line?

Whether you’re hoping to find new love, repair a current relationship or just need a little jump start in your sex life, let this podcast be your guide.

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Pubic Hair, Porn Habits & Relationship Pasts

Tue, 12 Jul 2016 18:54:10 -0000

No matter where we’re at in our sex life, we could all use a push to be little better. Lucky for you, this show is packed with tips on how to grow, both as a lover and a dater. Emily and co-host Anderson help listeners navigate their most troubling coital concerns and drop some helpful sex tips along the way.

First, the two dissect the best and worst words men and women can include in their dating profiles and discuss how online dating has changed in the past 10 years. Then, they take to your emails, subjects including sexual inhibition after a change in your body, alarm over a partner’s porn habit and how to get back in the dating pool after a long break.

Whether you’re dealing with bedroom insecurities or are unsure how to date after a major life change, Emily has the answers you need to reach your sex and relationship potential in this podcast.

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Sexting, Cheating & Summer Flings

Fri, 08 Jul 2016 19:41:50 -0000

On this show, Emily and Menace are starting the summer celebration by letting us in on the many reasons why this season is the hottest—in more ways than one.

What’s different about summer in California, sex-wise? Does sunlight make people more attractive? How do you beat the heat when you’ve got a hot July date? These are just a few of the topics Emily and Menace touch on before getting to your emails! They address questions from listeners about expectations with an age difference, finding the courage to approach the opposite sex and how NOT to cheat when the opportunity presents itself.

So throw on a swimsuit, find a beach and make this summer your sexiest one yet by tuning in!

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Relationship Recovery: How to Survive a Breakup

Tue, 05 Jul 2016 20:18:46 -0000

You may recall my relationship spring cleaning show from earlier this year, about knowing when it’s time to call it quits. Well today’s podcast is all about what comes after the breakup!

Emily provides some rock solid tips to help you ease back into the single life, and shares some interesting uncoupling facts. Which gender is most likely to do the dumping? And what’s the average recovery time for a broken heart? Also, Emily and Anderson reminisce over their Loveline days, respond to your emails on clingy partners and female ejaculation, and weigh in on a study that reveals the real defining factor for why a guy chooses to wear a condom.

Whether you’re unsure if you’ve found that elusive g-spot orgasm, want to spend more time with your lover without being clingy, or you’re having trouble adjusting to life post-breakup, this show is chock full of advice to help you with your dating dilemmas

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Ditch the Drama for Better Sex

Fri, 01 Jul 2016 19:33:47 -0000

On this show, Emily and Menace take a call from Emily’s instructor and Somatica Institute founder, Celeste Hirschman to discuss the benefits of sensual intimacy training.

Emily talks with Celeste about her experience with somatica training so far, from the first lesson to homework assignments to her most vulnerable moments. The two discuss how this training can help increase your self-awareness, leading to amplified arousal and more pleasurable sex! Also, Emily and Menace divulge answers to your emails about whether your long-distance relationship is worth it and how to get past your porn habit.

From the power of breath to getting in touch with your inner child, this eye-opening podcast is sure to teach you something new!

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Oral Sex Hangups & Office Obsessions

Tue, 28 Jun 2016 21:53:26 -0000

On this show, Emily troubleshoots tricky topics that could either make you hot OR hold you back in the bedroom.

Are you crushing on your married boss? Having trouble getting a guy to go down? Maybe your partner has a fantasy that makes you a little uncomfortable. These issues are just the tip of the iceberg of advice that Emily is dishing out on this show. With Menace’s help, she tackles a plethora of sex and relationship problems and even shares some healthy break-up tips in the process.

From sex drives to penis size, real-estate porn and beyond, this podcast fires on all cylinders with love and sex advice for everyone!

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Best Of: Kinky Sex, Squirting & Bedroom Insecurities

Tue, 21 Jun 2016 19:46:09 -0000

Today’s throwback podcast comes at you straight from the Sex With Emily vault to address one of your favorite sex subjects. It was a mystery in 2015...and still is today. That’s right, we’re talking female ejaculation!

Emily and Anderson hammer out the details of this hot topic with the help of a less-than-scientific study and answer an email about a conscientious squirter. Plus, find out what sex position may just leave you with more pain than pleasure, how porn may be affecting your sex life, and how an innovative purse design is promoting safe sex.

Whether you’ve already chosen a side on the age old debate: to squirt or not to squirt, or you haven’t quite decided, this classic podcast is one you won’t want to miss.

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The Best Sex Of Your Life with The LadyFreaks

Fri, 17 Jun 2016 00:40:08 -0000

On this show, Emily is joined by the hosts of the UCB show LadyFreak, Grace Parra & Jen Bartels to talk sex, fantasies and what it’s like being a lady in the street but a freak in the sheets!

Along with Menace, the trio dissect the dating scene in L.A., discuss the different types of female orgasms and determine what exactly makes up the best sex of one’s life. They also answer listener emails on Facebook jealousy and office romances.

From the importance of penis size to what it really means to reach your sexual peak, this show is packed with hot sex talk from 3 hot ladies (and Menace.) No topic is too taboo, so don’t miss it!

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Dry Spells & Deep Throats

Tue, 14 Jun 2016 20:27:35 -0000

In honor of Adult Sex-Ed Month, this show is focused on expanding your sexual health knowledge. Emily gives a crash course on STD’s and STI’s, from causes to symptoms to the importance of keeping yourself protected.

She also answers emails on a range of sex topics, including when to get tested in a committed relationship, how to improve your deepthroating skills and what to do when your partner withholds sex. She even shares a fun masturbation story, as per a listener’s request.

Sure it’s not the sexiest subject, but the more you know about sexually transmitted diseases and infections, the safer, happier and healthier you’ll be! So do yourself (and your sex partners) a favor and tune in…

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Selfish Lovers & Unreturned "I Love You"s

Tue, 07 Jun 2016 22:20:25 -0000

On this show, Emily is joined by award-winning author, TV personality and podcaster Anna David. With the help of Menace, they address a slew of tricky topics, from bad sex to bad breakups and everything in between.

But first, the ladies recap their weekend get-a-way to Palm Springs and, in celebration of Anna’s newest podcast, open up about their most irritating issues and biggest pet peeves. Then they jump right into answering your emails! Anna, Emily and Menace share expert insight on what to do when you drop an unrequited ‘I love you,’ advise a listener about ejaculation etiquette, and give some step-by-step guidance on how to handle your hardest heartbreaks.

From selfish lovers to post breakup boundaries to finding the most polite place to “finish”, this podcast gives you real answers to the questions you have always been too afraid to ask!

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Sexy Submission with Skin Diamond & Ashlynn Yennie

Fri, 03 Jun 2016 22:30:54 -0000

Today’s show is all about exploring your deepest desires! Emily is joined by the stars of Showtime’s steamy new late night show Submission to discuss love, kink and the erotic nature of consent.

Skin Diamond and Ashlynn Yennie share some of their most intimate stories, both onscreen and off, and reveal what really goes on in a Dom/Sub relationship. The stars open up about their own love lives, divulge details about their sultry shared sex scene and even answer Emily’s Top 5 Sex Questions.

From puppy play to post-breakup vengeance to the truth behind the BDSM subculture, this podcast is chock full of fantasies you won’t want to miss out on!

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