Love-ly: Exploring Modern Relationships

No Foreplay, Just Comedy: Salma Hindy on Ayahuasca, Vaginismus, and Dating Younger

Fri, 10 Apr 2026 09:00:00 -0000

"No foreplay. We're literally just going straight in."

That's how comedian Salma Hindy describes her experience on @subwaytakes. And honestly? It's the perfect way to kick off this week's episode.

Salma grew up the daughter of an imam in Toronto, enforcing the rules harder than anyone. Then, somewhere between removing her hijab, quitting engineering, moving to New York, and being disowned by her father, she had to figure out who she actually was and how to start dating.

This week, Mehak (@whathemehak) sits down with Salma (@salma.hindy) for one of those conversations that really just goes there. We get into:

Being estranged and disowned by her father
Two years of celibacy and what finally prompted it
Why vaginismus is NOT a vagina Christmas (it's quite the opposite)
How ayahuasca helped her heal her relationship with men
Why she always dates younger
What a "chuckle fucker" is
Her biggest pet peeve in modern dating
Living by design vs. living seeking permission

Connect with Salma

Website: salmahindy.com | Instagram: @salma.hindy | TikTok: @salma.hindy

Podcast: The Secret Sex Lives of Muslim Women

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Why Narcissism Feels Like Love with Dr. Joy Berkheimer

Fri, 03 Apr 2026 09:00:00 -0000

What if the love you grew up with wasn't love at all — it was control?

This week, Mehak (@whathemehak) sits down with Dr. Joy Berkheimer, licensed marriage and family therapist, for an honest and frankly, jaw-dropping conversation. Dr. Joy doesn't just talk about narcissism from behind a clipboard — she lived it. From growing up in a Caribbean-American household where perfectionism was survival, to marrying a narcissist without realizing it, to discovering an affair when her daughter was just seven months old.

In this episode:

The Summer House Amanda & Wes situation — instamacy or betrayal
What "instamacy" is and why it feels like a soulmate connection
What narcissism actually looks like in a family system
Why marriage has historically not benefited women
What sexual liberation actually looks like vs. performing confidence
Why modern dating feels so dry and what Dr. Joy required before saying yes to a date

Connect with Dr. Joy:

Website: joyberkheimer.com | Instagram: @glowyourgoddess

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Feed Drop: Decentering Men & Dating (Without Giving Up On Finding Love) w/ Allison Goldberg

Fri, 27 Mar 2026 09:00:00 -0000

This week's episode is a feed drop from Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships!

Have you ever felt so burnt out on dating that you wanted to give up? This may sound counterintuitive, but Dateable hosts Yue and Julie are talking about how decentering men and dating could be the key to removing this dating exhaustion – and ultimately finding your person. They talk with comedian Allison Goldberg about how she shifted her dating strategy to staying open to meeting someone but not making her whole life centered around it. They discuss the difference between decentering vs not trying at all, how to avoid slipping into the line of heterofatalism, and tangible ways you can build an incredible life that someone is only so lucky to join. Enjoy!

To learn more about Allison and to go to a Love Isn't Blind show near you, go to https://loveisntblind.com/

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Do Whatever Your Wife Tells You: A Comedian Converts to Islam with Tommy Mellor

Fri, 20 Mar 2026 09:00:00 -0000

This week, Mehak (@whathemehak) sits down with comedian Tommy Mellor (@tommymellor) for a conversation that's equal parts funny and surprisingly candid about love across cultures.

Tommy shares the story of how a one-kilometer Bumble radius led him to his now-wife, a Pakistani woman who initially agreed to the date, thinking a comedian might make for a good story to tell her friends. That story turned into a cross-cultural love story that took him all the way to Lahore for a three-day wedding — where he got his shoes stolen, was fed sweets by strangers, signed a marriage certificate behind a curtain, and somehow ended his first night as a married man sleeping next to his cousin.

Along the way, Tommy gets into converting to Islam twice — once at a comedy club, once at a mosque — navigating the early days of dating someone whose parents were simultaneously arranging meetings with engineers and Tesla-driving prospects, and what it's like to walk into a Pakistani restaurant as the only white guy in the room.

Plus: camel riding in Karachi, learning Urdu badly but earnestly, and why being 30 in Pakistan apparently makes you a very easy sell to future in-laws.

Connect with Tommy here.

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Are You Even Your Type’s Type? with Dear Baji (@leveluponepercent)

Fri, 13 Mar 2026 09:00:00 -0000

This week, Mehak (⁠⁠@whathemehak⁠⁠) sits down with Baji from Dear Baji (@leveluponepercent), a free Muslim matchmaking service, to ask the question nobody wants to answer honestly: are you even your type's type?

Baji breaks down what she actually sees running her matchmaking platform: people with lists of requirements who've never stopped to ask what they bring to the table or whether the person they want would even want them back. Baji reveals the patterns she sees as a matchmaker: how people get trapped by their own lists while ignoring the one thing that actually leads to compatibility—brutal, honest self-awareness.

They also revisit the age-old discussion about men as providers: what it means in Islam, how expectations have shifted, and whether it's a dealbreaker or just one piece of a bigger compatibility puzzle. Also, why looks matter more than people admit, what rigid height preferences actually reveal, and why your "non-negotiables" might be working against you. If you've ever wondered why dating feels so hard, this episode might have an uncomfortable but useful answer.

Connect with Baji @leveluponepercent on TikTok and Instagram.

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You're Not Unlucky in Love, You're Addicted to Intensity with Allie Zheng (@yourlocaltorontogirlie)

Fri, 06 Mar 2026 10:00:00 -0000

Mehak (⁠@whathemehak⁠) shares a Ramadan and dating update — including her hot take that divorce is actually chic — before sitting down with Toronto's own Allie Zheng (@itsyourlocaltorontogirlie) to talk all things love, heartbreak, and what it really means to be a lover girl.

Allie gets real about her dating patterns: falling too fast, chasing intensity, and taking shortcuts to intimacy — and what she's had to unlearn. She breaks down two relationships that had the internet talking: "Vancouver man," who she met at a Toronto speed-dating event, and whose lies about his age only came out after the breakup; and a four-month relationship that ended when his parents couldn't get on board with her openness about mental health, right as they were planning to move in together.

They also get into the questions every girl in her dating era is asking — how many dates is too many, what to do when a guy orders for you, and how to actually slow down when your whole personality is going all in. Plus: Allie's breakup healing routine, surviving Reddit and TikTok hate, and the lessons she's taking into her next chapter.

Connect with Allie @itsyourlocaltorontogirlie⁠ on TikTok.

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Feed Drop: These modern dating rules are keeping my friends single

Fri, 27 Feb 2026 10:00:00 -0000

This week, we're featuring an episode from Small Talk With Sheila. Imagine Bridget Jones had a self-help podcast, and you’re pretty close to the charming chaos that is Sheila’s world.

In this episode, Sheila gets candid about the dating rules that are keeping her friends single. From waiting to be pursued, to overanalyzing texts and emojis, to treating dating like a job interview, she breaks down the mistakes holding women back from finding real love. Sheila shares personal stories, playful rants, and a reminder that romance is meant to be messy, fun, and unpredictable. If you’ve been stuck in “single-ville,” this one is for you.

Where to Find Sheila:

IG: @smalltalkwith_sheila

YouTube: @SmallTalkWithSheila

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The Blue Checkmark of Dating: Is Love Just Social Proof? with Alexa Valavicius

Fri, 20 Feb 2026 10:00:00 -0000

Fresh off a wholesome, "emotionally regulated" Valentine’s Day with her friends, Mehak (@whathemehak) dives into a deep conversation about why romantic love has become a "performance of adulthood" and a "social status symbol" in 2026.

Joining the conversation is content creator Alexa Valavicius (@lifewithlex444), who discusses her decision to opt out of intentional dating in 2026. She opens up about her journey since being diagnosed with rumination OCD and shares a truly jaw-dropping dating horror story.

Together, they unpack the exhaustion of modern dating and the freedom found in choosing yourself over a societal timeline.

Connect with Alexa @lifewlex444 on Instagram and @lifewithlex444 on TikTok

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How to Date Intentionally: Politics, Patterns, and Planning with Talia Koren

Fri, 13 Feb 2026 10:00:00 -0000

It's Lovely's first anniversary! 🎉 To celebrate, Mehak (⁠⁠@whathemehak⁠⁠) sits down with Talia Koren, creator of the Dating Intentionally podcast, to discuss what it really means to date with purpose.

Talia shares her unconventional dating journey—150 dates with 64 people in 10 months—and the surprising patterns she discovered by tracking every single one in her Notes app. From navigating political alignment in today's climate to unlearning toxic dating advice, this episode rethinks common assumptions you thought you knew about dating.

In this episode:

How to ask about political values without turning dates into debates
Why tracking your dates can reveal your self-sabotaging patterns
The text-first debate: does it really matter who reaches out after the date?
Why expecting your partner to meet every need sets relationships up to fail

Whether you're actively dating, taking a break, or just curious about relationships, this conversation will make you rethink what "dating intentionally" actually means.

Connect with Talia: @datingintentionally on Instagram and at www.datingintentionallypod.com

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Are Women Outpacing Men? The Modern Dating Divide with Thomas Darya

Fri, 06 Feb 2026 10:00:00 -0000

What happens when a viral TikTok about Toronto’s "struggle" dating scene turns into a deep dive on the evolution of the modern man and woman?

In this episode of Love-ly, host Mehak (⁠@whathemehak⁠) brings actor Thomas Darya (@thomas_darya) into the studio to dissect the growing sentiment that women are rapidly outpacing men in both professional drive and personal growth. Thomas pulls from his experience as an immigrant and a creative to explain why the traditional roadmap for romance has been torn up, leaving a generation of daters wondering where they fit in.

The conversation gets raw as they explore "beauty currency" and the ripple effects of OnlyFans on how we value ourselves and our partners. Mehak and Thomas challenge the polarizing rhetoric seen online, instead focusing on the delicate balance of masculine and feminine energies and the pursuit of a life that is actually fulfilling, not just "aesthetic."

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Why Do We Watch Ourselves Live? with Julia Sunderland

Fri, 23 Jan 2026 10:00:00 -0000

Is your dating life a lived experience, or just a curated performance?

In this episode of Love-ly, Mehak (@whathemehak) sits down with somatic therapist and scholar Julia Sutherland (@JoyfullyJuliaa) to unpack the psychological toll of viewing ourselves from the "outside-in." Together, they unpack the concept of "self-objectification" and why women in particular tend to monitor their external appearances over their internal comfort.

From the influence of religious upbringings to the relentless gaze of social media, Julia explains why so many of us feel like we are observing our lives from the outside rather than living them from within. She shares the insights gained from her own 7-day mirror detox, revealing how our self-worth can transform when we stop scrutinizing our reflection and start feeling our existence.

Follow along Julia's somatic journey on TikTok and YouTube.

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Feed Drop: How to Date NATO (Not Attached To Outcome) with Erika Ettin

Fri, 16 Jan 2026 10:00:00 -0000

This week, we're featuring an episode from Dating Intentionally, a podcast dedicated to making dating more enjoyable.

Dating coach Erika Ettin joins Talia Koren to break down the mindset shifts that make dating feel calmer, clearer, and more intentional. You’ll learn about dating NATO (not attached to outcome), avoiding pen-pal dynamics, reading texting patterns, and staying open without over-investing too early. At the end, they dive into a text support question from a listener about a promising first date that turns into confusing texting, and how to handle it.

Where to Find Talia:

IG: https://www.instagram.com/dating.intentionally

Podcast: https://pod.link/1645453880

Website: https://www.datingintentionallypod.com

Community: datingintentionallypod.com/community

Where to Find Erika:

IG: https://www.instagram.com/alittlenudge

Podcast: https://sowemetonline.com/

Website: https://www.alittlenudge.com/

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Friction-Maxxing & Finding Your 2026 Obsession

Fri, 09 Jan 2026 10:00:00 -0000

We’re officially in 2026, and the vibe is… intentional. After spending the holidays recovering from a flu-from-hell, Mehak (@whathemehak) is back in the studio for a solo deep dive into the trends and transitions defining the start of the year.

This episode covers everything from personal dating updates to the rise of "Friction-maxxing"—the radical art of choosing the inconvenient path for the sake of deeper relationships and a life that actually feels real. We also dissect why the internet is collectively losing it over Tamara’s 365 Buttons project and how a simple jar of crafts became the ultimate symbol of staying in your own lane.

To wrap it all up, Mehak explains why Heated Rivalry is the only thing on her FYP right now and why its portrayal of male intimacy is striking such a deep chord with everyone watching.

Equal parts reflective and lighthearted, this episode is your personal guide to finding your own 2026 obsession. Grab a drink, get cozy, and let’s get into the first real conversation of the year.

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A Holiday Yap Session: Dating, Discernment, and Delusion

Fri, 19 Dec 2025 10:00:00 -0000

In this holiday special, Love-ly closes out 2025 with a cozy, unfiltered yap session between three friends. Host Mehak (@whathemehak) is joined by former guests Erik (@erikhruszowy) and Waleed (@wearswali) to reflect on the year and share holiday hot takes—keeping things funny, warm, and very real.

The conversation ranges from holiday dating do’s and don’ts to how a double Gucci belt nearly brought Mehak to tears, Waleed’s hot takes on therapy, and Erik’s take on Santa capitalism. Along the way, they share holiday memories and encourage listeners—especially singles—to decenter others’ opinions and focus on what actually brings them fulfillment.

Equal parts reflective and lighthearted, this episode is perfect holiday listening for singles, offering laughter, comfort, and a thoughtful send-off as the trio sets intentional words and looks ahead to 2026.

Hosted by: Mehak ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@whathemehak⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ on TikTok and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@whathemehak_⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ on IG

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Trad Wives and the Myth of Domestic Perfection with Jo Piazza

Fri, 12 Dec 2025 17:11:00 -0000

What is a trad wife, really? What are they selling—and what are we not seeing?

This week on Love-ly, Mehak sits down with bestselling author, journalist, and podcaster Jo Piazza, widely considered one of America’s sharpest observers of women, motherhood, and the influencer economy. Together, they unpack the increasingly visible and controversial world of “trad wives”—women who embrace and promote full-time homemaking on social media. Mehak and Jo explore why the aesthetic is so magnetic, what’s intentionally left out of the picture-perfect narrative, and how domesticity is often repackaged as empowerment. Along the way, Mehak and Jo discuss a viral TikTok from @cortneygetsfit, a stay-at-home mom navigating life post-divorce after years of financial dependence on her husband.

Piazza opens up about the realities of feminist choice, financial independence, and how her own views on marriage and partnership have shifted over time. Pulling from her years of reporting and her latest book, Everyone Is Lying to You, the conversation gets into shifting gender roles, the pressure cooker of modern womanhood, and the glossy myths social media keeps feeding us.

Hosted by: Mehak ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@whathemehak⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ on TikTok and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@whathemehak_⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ on IG

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Pleasure in the Age of Aesthetic Capitalism with Danielle Bezalel

Fri, 05 Dec 2025 10:00:00 -0000

This week on Love-ly, Mehak sits down with sex educator and pleasure expert Danielle Bezalel—host of Sex Ed with DB. Together, they unpack the motifs that shape our earliest understandings of intimacy: immigrant households where sex was whispered, cultures that mistake silence for safety, and school systems that replace curiosity with misinformation.

From Danielle’s Afghan Jewish upbringing to Mehak’s own cultural reflections, this episode explores how identity, religion, shame, and generational expectations influence the way we date, desire, and perceive ourselves. Danielle also shares the turning point that led her into public health and sex education, the emotional stakes of bad sex ed in the U.S., and why pleasure still feels like a radical act—especially for women of color.

We end with a Love-ly signature: a modern dating detour into why everything—including romance—feels so aesthetic now, and what it would mean to return to our bodies instead of performing our lives for the camera.

This is an episode about unlearning, reclaiming, and finally giving ourselves permission to want what we truly desire.

Check out Sex Ed With DB @sexedwithdbpodcasts on IG and on the website, www.sexedwithdb.com

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Addiction and Sobriety: Healing, Relationships & Emotional Wellbeing with Kendall Bierman

Fri, 21 Nov 2025 10:00:00 -0000

How are substance addiction and love addiction connected?

In this episode of Love-ly, host ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Mehak⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ welcomes licensed therapist Kendall Bierman, who shares her personal journey through anxiety, substance addiction, and the path to sobriety. She reflects on the influence of her family dynamics, competitive upbringing, and the turning points that led her to pursue a career in therapy.

The discussion dives into dating while sober, attachment styles, and the cultural pressures that shape our choices. Kendall also offers professional insights on cultivating emotional resilience and overcoming self-sabotage.

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Feed Drop: Keeping Pleasure Alive in Long-term Monogamy with Dr. Lexx Brown-James

Fri, 14 Nov 2025 10:00:00 -0000

This week on Love-ly, we’re sharing some sage wisdom from Sex Ed with DB — your go-to show for smart, science-backed sex education. Each episode delivers trusted insights from top experts on sex, sexuality, and pleasure.

In this episode, DB talks with Dr. Lexx about the many different kinds of pleasure — and how to keep pleasure centered in a long-term monogamous relationship. It’s not always just about sex; pleasure can come from all parts of our lives, our senses, and our connections with others.

✨ Enjoy this convo, and tune in next week for a brand-new episode of Love-ly.

SEX ED WITH DB

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Parental Guilt, Digital Wellness, and Why AI Falls Short — with Israa Nasir

Fri, 07 Nov 2025 10:00:00 -0000

In this episode of Love-ly, ⁠⁠⁠⁠Mehak⁠⁠⁠⁠ sits down with psychotherapist and @well.guide founder Israa Nasir to discuss life as a third-culture kid and why she doesn’t feel guilty about not having children, despite parental expectations.

Their conversation also takes a turn into the future of digital mental health care, inspired by Israa’s essay, “Outsourcing Emotional Labor to ChatGPT,” and how we should be using AI for in therapy (hint: definitely not your Hinge replies).

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Have We Lost the Plot on Human Connection? with Aubrey Aust (Hint of Trauma)

Fri, 31 Oct 2025 09:00:00 -0000

Why is building human connection so difficult in modern dating? This week on Lovely, ⁠⁠Mehak⁠⁠ talks to Aubrey Aust, researcher and podcast host of Hint of Trauma, to decode the complexities of modern relationships. They explore how cultural norms have warped our perceptions of love (and boyfriends) and dive deep into the cycles of hyper-independence versus people-pleasing.

This episode is a masterclass on why vulnerability is the essential, non-negotiable key to building truly secure connections. Aubrey shares her personal journey of navigating non-traditional relationships, offering a path to finding fulfillment and relational trust in today's hyperconnected digital age. Don't miss this must-listen guide to understanding what human connection is actually all about.

Listen to Hint of Trauma and follow Aubrey's work at www.aubreyaust.com.

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Why I’m Not Rushing Love: The Power of the In-Between Era

Fri, 24 Oct 2025 09:00:00 -0000

In this week's episode, Mehak opens up about being in her “in-between era,” a space where she’s rediscovering herself. After a recent breakup, she reflects on emotional maturity, intuition, and the lessons that come with letting go. From unlearning survival habits to recognizing relationship patterns, Mehak shares what it means to stop romanticizing potential and start honoring her inner voice. She also gets candid about reentering the dating world — including her experience on the exclusive app Raya — and the performative side of modern dating. This episode is about slowing down, growing alone, and finding comfort in your own company before diving back into love.

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How Men Heal: Masculinity and Emotional Growth with Samir Mourani (Gent's Talk)

Fri, 17 Oct 2025 09:00:00 -0000

In this episode of Love-ly, Mehak sits down with Samir Mourani, host of Gent's Talk, to explore masculinity, men’s mental health, and emotional healing. Samir shares his personal journey breaking the stigma around male vulnerability, how his divorce reshaped his views on manhood, and the role of self-awareness and male friendships in his growth. Together, they unpack how men heal—and how women can support without taking on all the responsibility.

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Toronto Dating Chaos with Lara (Dumb Blonde Diary)

Fri, 03 Oct 2025 09:00:00 -0000

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What happens when TikTok’s Dumb Blonde Diary Lara Simonot brings her wildest dating stories to Love-ly? From Ukrainian roots to Toronto nightlife, Lara shares how she balances independence, music, and the chaos of modern dating. We delve into her "league" of men, her Bahamas love story, a concert first-kiss moment, and why being single can be a powerful experience. Additionally, we discuss confidence, cringe culture, and her brand new country single, Shoulda Been Mine

If you’ve ever laughed through a late-night debrief, questioned dating apps, or wondered how to spot a green flag in a partner, this episode is for you.

Stream now for relatable dating chaos, Toronto hot spots, and a reminder that being “too confident” is never too much.

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Decentering Parents Without Guilt: Finding Confidence & Independence with Shazmeera Qadri

Fri, 26 Sep 2025 09:00:00 -0000

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What does it take to walk away from cultural expectations and finally choose yourself? In this raw and empowering episode of Love-ly, host Mehak sits down with TikTok creator and confidence coach Shazmeera Qadri. From growing up in a Pakistani immigrant household to navigating a toxic marriage and reclaiming her independence, Shazmeera shares how she rebuilt her life with courage and self-respect. She unpacks the guilt immigrant daughters carry, why decentering family opinions isn’t disrespect—it’s self-respect—and the power of surrounding yourself with confident women.

If you’ve ever questioned whether you can rewrite your story, this conversation will show you that you can.

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The Upside of Conflict with Dr. Jen Fry

Fri, 19 Sep 2025 09:00:00 -0000

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Why do we shy away from conflict when it might actually bring us closer??

This week, Mehak (@whathemehak) sits down with conflict resolution expert Dr. Jen Fry (jenfrytalks.com) to explore how disagreements—whether in families, romantic relationships, or the workplace—can be powerful tools for growth and intimacy.

Dr. Fry shares personal stories from her upbringing that shaped her views on boundaries and communication, along with practical strategies for handling tough conversations in professional settings.

Through their conversation, Mehak and Dr. Fry reveal how conflict—when faced head-on—doesn’t have to pull us apart. Instead, it can deepen trust, spark transformation, and open the door to stronger relationships and authentic love.

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Should I Stay or Should I Go? Love, Breakups & Emotional Truths with Laura Caruso (June 2025)

Fri, 12 Sep 2025 11:54:00 -0000

Love-ly host Mehak sits down with relationship therapist and content creator Laura Caruso in one of the show’s most memorable conversations; it’s so powerful, it’s being re-released. Recorded while Laura was in the middle of a breakup, literally waiting on a text that could end her relationship, the episode captures the raw emotions behind the timeless question: Should I stay or should I go?

This re-release offers listeners both vulnerability and hope, with an inspiring update on where Laura is now. For anyone navigating love, loss, or the messy process of healing, Mehak’s conversation with Laura is a reminder that endings can also be beginnings.

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The Secret to Lasting Friendships with Anna Goldfarb

Fri, 05 Sep 2025 09:00:00 -0000

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In this episode, host Mehak explores the complexities of adult friendships with journalist and author Anna Goldfarb, whose work has appeared in The New York Times, The Atlantic, Time, The Cut, and more. Anna’s latest book, “Modern Friendship: How to Nurture Our Most Valued Connections,” offers a practical toolkit for building stronger, more intentional relationships. Mehak and Anna discuss why friendships can feel so fragile, the tiers of intimacy that shape our social lives, and how to show up with more clarity and wholeheartedness for the people who matter most.

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Why Modern Dating Feels Broken (and How to Find Real Love in 2025)

Fri, 29 Aug 2025 13:33:00 -0000

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Dating in 2025 feels harder than ever; apps are exhausting, hookup culture dominates, and rejection is everywhere. In this episode of Love-ly, host Mehak sits down with her friend Eric, a former competitive figure skater turned entrepreneur, to talk about love, dating, and connection in today’s world.

Eric shares his journey growing up as an only child, coming out, navigating family expectations, and why he’s waited for the right relationship instead of settling. Together, Mehak and Eric unpack the complexities of hookup culture, the allure of long-distance sparks, self-awareness in love, and why saying hello to strangers feels nearly impossible in modern dating.

If you’ve ever felt like the dating bar is “in hell” but still crave authentic connection, this heartfelt and funny conversation will remind you what love can look like in 2025.

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Pedro Pascal, Hinge Nightmares And Why Choosing Yourself Is the Real Love Story

Fri, 22 Aug 2025 09:00:00 -0000

What do Pedro Pascal, a bad Hinge date, and the rom-com Materialists have in common? They all expose the messy math of modern love. In this solo episode of Love-ly, Mehak spills on the good, the cringe, and the downright bizarre of dating in 2025, from men asking for exclusivity after a single dinner to the exhausting cycle of deleting and redownloading apps.

Along the way, she breaks down Materialists (starring Pascal, Dakota Johnson, and Chris Evans) and why movies keep trapping women in false binaries between money and passion, stability and desire. Spoiler: the real power move isn’t choosing him, it’s choosing yourself.

Funny, raw, and painfully relatable, this episode is for anyone who’s ever thought “if he wanted to, he would” and then realized capacity matters more than desire.

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Confidence, Chemistry And Calling Out the BS: Yasmin Elhady Returns to Love-ly

Fri, 15 Aug 2025 09:00:00 -0000

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She’s back and she’s bringing the truth bombs! In her return to Love-ly, attorney, comedian, and Muslim Matchmaker star Yasmin Elhady sits down with Mehak for a hilarious, heartfelt, and brutally honest conversation about modern love. From dismantling silly dating “icks” to exposing overconfidence, Yasmin shares how self-trust, spirituality, and the “three A’s” attraction, admiration, and adoration shape healthy relationships. She opens up about protecting your energy, setting standards without closing your heart, and why confident women attract exactly the kind of partners they deserve. Whether you’re single, dating, or just here for the laughs, this one’s a must-listen.

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Izz on Faith, Dating And Defining Her Own Path

Fri, 08 Aug 2025 09:00:00 -0000

This week on Love-ly, Mehak sits down with Izz, a Haitian-born, Montreal-based Muslim woman with a story that’s anything but predictable. From growing up between cultures to converting to Islam in her 20s, Izz shares how embracing faith helped her redefine her self-worth, navigate heartbreak, and ultimately walk away from a year-long situationship.

They get into the messiness of dating while trying to honor their values, what it means to set real boundaries, and why choosing yourself is the most underrated love story of all.

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The Kind King Era: Unpacking Modern Masculinity in Dating with Kavitha Ajwani

Fri, 01 Aug 2025 09:00:00 -0000

Why do so many emotionally available men still feel lost in the dating world? This week on Love-ly, host Mehak sits down with Kavitha Ajwani, founder of Dashing Date, to unpack the myth of the “nice guy,” modern masculinity, and why emotional depth is the new dating currency. Kavitha shares her deeply personal story of love and loss — and how it shaped her powerful, purpose-driven coaching approach that helps men form genuine, lasting relationships.

Special Offer: Kavitha is gifting our listeners free access to her exclusive two-part masterclass, normally a paid program. You'll learn how to break out of Nice Guy Syndrome, embody “Kind King” energy, and confidently connect with women without the cringe. To access, DM our host’s name to @dashingdate on Instagram.

Tap play for an honest, heartfelt, and profoundly empowering conversation about dating, identity, and the courage to be seen.

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Breaking the Pleasure Taboo: How Audio Erotica is Reclaiming Desire

Fri, 25 Jul 2025 09:00:00 -0000

Why is female pleasure still a whisper topic? This week on Love-ly, host Mehak sits down with Anna and Meredith Sweet from Tempt, a female-focused audio erotica app designed to close the pleasure gap and normalize intimate storytelling. From closed-door romance to steamy werewolf fantasies, Tempt offers a judgment-free zone for women to explore their desires on their terms. They dive into immigrant identity, intergenerational shame, and how romance novels are helping women reconnect with themselves and their partners.

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Polyamory, Hierarchies & the Relationship Escalator: A Deep Dive with Leanne Yau

Fri, 18 Jul 2025 16:39:00 -0000

In this episode of Love-ly, host Mehak sits down with Leanne Yau, British sex and relationship educator and the voice behind @polyphiliablog, to unpack the nuances of polyamory.

From her first open relationship at 17 to living non-hierarchically with multiple partners, Leanne shares her journey, debunks common misconceptions (like “polyamory is just for people bad at monogamy”), and explains terms like relationship hierarchy, relationship escalator, and relationship anarchy.

Whether you’re monogamish, poly-curious, or somewhere in between, this conversation offers a thoughtful and judgment-free look at how we define love, connection, and commitment.

You can find Leanne's content on YouTube (@PolyPhilia) and Instagram (@polyphiliablog).

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Love-ly Letters: Burn Bright, Fade Fast

Fri, 11 Jul 2025 09:00:00 -0000

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This week’s Love-ly episode is a real one—like, voice-memo-real.
When listener and freelance podcast producer Teja Pallikonda reached out with a recent dating story, we knew we had to share it. It starts like a modern fairytale: hours-long phone calls, a dreamy first date, and the kind of potential that gets you hopeful. But then… came the slow ghost.
Excuses. Cancellations. Confusion.

Teja brings receipts — literally. She plays us the actual breakup voice memo she sent this Hinge man (yes, he heard it, and now so will you), and unpacks what it taught her about communication, self-worth, and managing dating anxiety.

Our host, Mehak, offers her hot takes on why she never gives strangers the benefit of the doubt, and what it means to set standards in the age of soft boys and disappearing acts.

Romance, realness, and voice notes? Hit play.

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Confessions, Confidence & Cringe Dates: A No Filter Chat with Uzi

Fri, 27 Jun 2025 09:00:00 -0000

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This week on Love-ly, Mehak sits down with the unapologetically charming Uzi for a wildly entertaining, refreshingly honest conversation about dating in the age of ghosting, rejection, and situationships. From chasing strangers by the waterfront to getting called out mid-flirt for shady texts, Uzi shares his unfiltered takes on confidence, emotional availability, and why being a “nice guy” sometimes backfires.

They get into the real stuff: what women often misunderstand about men, how to approach someone in real life without being weird, and whether liking bikini pics while cuffed is ever okay. Plus, Uzi opens up about immigrant identity, therapy, fake-it-till-you-make-it confidence, and why he’s pressing pause on dating for now.

If you've ever felt nervous shooting your shot or wondered if you’re too much or not enough, this episode is your sign to go for it.

Hit play. Share with your group chat. Maybe even send it to your situationship!

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Snapchat Isn’t a Love Language (and 9 More Summer Truths)

Fri, 20 Jun 2025 09:00:00 -0000

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Ready to romanticize your single summer without the drama? In this solo episode, Mehak drops 10 must-hear reminders for anyone navigating love, loneliness, and Love Island obsessions. From dodging red flags in warm weather to why Snapchat is not a love language (seriously, stop), this is your emotional reset button. Whether you're solo or boo’d up, it’s time to pick peace, wear the bikini, eat the fries, and live your main character moment. Let’s make this the summer of you.

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Should I Stay or Should I Go? Love, Breakups & Emotional Truths with Laura Caruso

Fri, 13 Jun 2025 09:00:00 -0000

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Therapist and writer Laura Caruso joins our host Mehak for a raw, real-time conversation about heartbreak, emotional regulation, and the hard question we’ve all faced in relationships: “Should I stay or should I go?” Mehak and Laura unpack the fear of commitment, the empathy gap in modern love, and how to process breakups with clarity and compassion. Plus, a sneak peek into Laura’s upcoming book, “The Empathy Deficit”. Whether you're deep in the feels or thriving solo, this one will hit home.

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Infidelity, Red Flags, and Dating App Survival Guide

Fri, 06 Jun 2025 09:00:00 -0000

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This one has it all. Hot air balloons, missing luggage, toxic exes, hinge horror stories, and cheating scandals that broke the internet. This week on Love-ly, Mehak sits down with dating coach Genny Diehl to break down everything from early-stage dating mistakes to the viral! Wizard Liz cheating drama. Why do people cheat? Can you really avoid getting cheated on? How do you set boundaries on dating apps without sounding "too much"? And how do you protect your peace in the era of love bombing? Whether you're swiping, healing, or thriving solo, this episode is your cheat code for navigating modern dating with confidence. Plus, Mehak spills the wild story of how she found out her ex was cheating (spoiler: it involves Crave passwords). If you've ever had a pit in your stomach before a date, this one's for you.

Tune in. Share with your besties. And always bet on yourself.

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Almost Relationships, Hinge Disasters, and Saying No Without Guilt

Fri, 23 May 2025 09:00:00 -0000

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On this episode of Love-ly, host Mehak sits down with TikTok creator and tech professional Jocelyn Chow for a refreshingly honest take on dating in NYC, from weird first dates and love bombing to why “almost relationships” can hurt more than real breakups. Jocelyn also opens up about growing up as the daughter of Burmese immigrants, unlearning people-pleasing, and how safety concerns often keep women from speaking up on dates. Together, Mehak and Jocelyn unpack how dating apps have changed, what to actually look for in a partner, and why third-wheeling your best friend might be the best relationship prep out there.

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Love, Trauma, and Sex: The Conversations We Are Not Having

Fri, 16 May 2025 09:00:00 -0000

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In this deeply personal episode of Love-ly, host Mehak reconnects with licensed marriage and family therapist Samar Haroon, founder and clinical director of Therapy in Colour, a mental health collective centering on BIPOC and South Asian clients. The two first met as teenagers in Karachi, and now they sit down for their first real conversation, diving into topics such as therapy, bicultural identity, and generational trauma, as well as why dating today feels more complicated than ever.

Samar shares how her upbringing, moving between the U.S. and Pakistan after 9/11, growing up in a single-parent household, and later navigating hyper-religious family dynamics informs her work. She and Mehak unpack the cultural shame around therapy in South Asian communities, the impact of the Me Too movement on gender dynamics, and why so many smart, accomplished women are struggling with connection, intimacy, and dating today.

This episode is for anyone navigating love, healing, and identity across borders and expectations.

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Why Is Misogyny Still So Normal?

Fri, 09 May 2025 09:00:00 -0000

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This week on Love-ly, Mehak sits down with Srijan Makkena, a psych student and content creator who’s been speaking out about the quiet (and not-so-quiet) ways misogyny shows up, especially in South Asian communities. They talk about everything from family double standards and emotional repression to childhood trauma, healing, and what real love looks like when you’ve done the work. It's raw, real, and full of moments that might hit closer to home than expected.

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Do We Really Need to Live Together? A Relationship Hot Take You Didn't See Coming

Fri, 02 May 2025 09:00:00 -0000

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Can you have a healthy, long-term relationship without ever living together? This week on Love-ly, Mehak sits down with her best friend, Waleed, for a vulnerable, hilarious, and thought-provoking conversation that flips traditional relationship norms on their head. From TD Bank interview shenanigans to deep reflections on immigrant identity, generational trauma, and personal healing, this episode dives into why space might just be the secret to sustainability. Waleed shares his unconventional but heartfelt take on why separate homes could lead to stronger love. Mehak opens up about her evolving ideas on intimacy, safety, and dating after a lifetime of being told what not to do.

If you've ever questioned marriage, cohabitation, or what "doing it right" even means in modern relationships—this one's for you.

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No Promposal, No Problem: Aidan Taylor on Dating Late & Owning It

Fri, 25 Apr 2025 09:00:00 -0000

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Is it ever too late to start dating? On this week’s episode of Love-ly, Mehak sits down with Aidan Taylor—host of Banterly—to unpack what it really means to be a “late bloomer” in the chaotic world of modern dating. From his first real date at 21 to navigating New York City’s intense queer dating scene, Aidan gets candid about identity, rejection, and learning to love yourself before anyone else does.

They talk about first dates, ghosting, gay bar drama (yes, including a bathroom incident), dating as a person of color in a hyper-curated app world, and what it's like to feel "behind" when everyone around you is getting engaged. It's funny, heartfelt, and full of the kind of real talk we all need more of.

If you're queer, single in your 20s, or just tired of dating timelines, this one's for you.

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Dr. Wendy Walsh on Coffee Dates, Chaos, and Choosing Better

Fri, 18 Apr 2025 09:00:00 -0000

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Ever dated someone and thought, “Wait… is this love, lust, or just emotionally expensive?” This week on Love-ly, host Mehak sits down with THE Dr. Wendy Walsh—America’s relationship expert, PhD in psychology, Time Magazine Person of the Year, and low-key TikTok therapist to unpack the mess and magic of modern dating.

From decoding avoidant attachment styles and calling out the myth of high-value men to understanding why "nice" guys might actually be the ultimate green flag, this episode is your crash course in dating with brains and boundaries. Oh, and yeah, Dr. Walsh proposed to her husband. On live radio. No big deal.

If you've ever wondered why your type is basically “walking red flag” or felt weird about liking someone who treats you well… this one’s for you. Hit play!

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Invisible Strings, Long Distance Flings & One Big Wedding in Spain

Fri, 11 Apr 2025 09:00:00 -0000

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What does it mean to truly live life on your own terms?

In this powerful episode of Love-ly, Mehak is joined by Natasha Chandel, comedian, TV writer, voice artist, and former host of the hit podcast “Kinda Dating,” for a candid conversation about commitment, cultural expectations, and rewriting the rules of love.

Natasha opens up about her journey from serially dating emotionally unavailable men to unexpectedly finding “the one” right before the COVID-19 lockdown. Through an honest conversation, they explore how immigrant identity shapes dating, why politics and values matter more than ever in relationships, and how self-worth plays a role in who we choose to love.

Whether you’re single, healing, or questioning your love life, this episode reminds you that it's okay to change your mind, and it's never too late to choose a life that actually feels like yours.

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Solo, Spicy, and So Real: My Unfiltered Take on Love-ly

Fri, 04 Apr 2025 09:00:00 -0000

In this heartfelt solo episode, Mehak takes the mic to reflect on her transformative journey through the first seven episodes of Love-ly. From navigating the highs and lows of her 2025 dating adventures to unpacking powerful lessons on boundaries, vulnerability, and healing, this is an unfiltered, introspective ride.

Mehak shares what each guest and story taught her about love, self-worth, and the art of letting go. Whether it’s the rule of three from matchmakers Huda and Yasmine, the quiet power of safe love with Justine Ang Fonte, or the emotional maturity of guests like Richard—this episode is packed with insights that hit home.

So whether you're walking, sipping coffee, or need a moment of connection, come along as Mehak opens up like never before.

Tune in for your weekly dose of vulnerability, laughter, and real talk. Don’t forget to subscribe, leave a review, and slide into the DMs on IG(@whattheheck_ or @immigrantlypods) to share your thoughts and future topic ideas!

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Manifesting a Rancher: Cross-Cultural Dating, Traditions & Non-Negotiables

Fri, 28 Mar 2025 09:00:00 -0000

This week on Love-ly, Mehak gets candid about dating outside the box and her culture. After calling off a budding long-distance romance, she reflects on the deeper reason: she's done settling for anything (or anyone) that doesn't align. Enter comedian Mariza Brussolo, who joins Mehak for an honest, hilarious, and profoundly relatable convo about cross-cultural dating, growing up with traditional values, and navigating love across borders—literal and emotional. From celibacy to cowboy fantasies (yes, she wants a rancher!), they unpack what it means to date with intention, how family and culture shape our "rules," and why finding a true gentleman in the age of dating apps is more complicated than ever.

Whether you're first-gen, cross-culturally curious, or just fed up with mediocre men and manicure-loving bros, this one's for you!

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I Took a Stranger On a Weekend Trip—Biggest Dating Fail Ever!

Fri, 21 Mar 2025 09:00:00 -0000

Have you ever been on a date that went so sideways that you wished there was a commercial break? In this hilarious and heartfelt episode of Lovely, host Mehak dives deep into love, relationships, and the dating trenches with comedian Richard Sarvate. From navigating family expectations to figuring out if we date people or their careers, Richard brings humor and insight into modern romance—plus shares some truly cringe-worthy dating disasters, including an ill-fated international trip.

Topics we cover:

How upbringing shapes our views on love
Why dating apps aren’t for everyone
When a romantic getaway turns into a survival challenge
The importance of humor in relationships
And why getting "the ick" might actually be your problem

Tune in for the laughs, the lessons, and the love!

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Mixed Signals, Male Friendships & Dating Shenanigans: Mehak Asks, Shareef Spills

Fri, 14 Mar 2025 09:00:00 -0000

Mehak is back with another Love-ly deep dive, and this time, we’re getting into the male mind, well, at least one of them! Actor, comedian, and self-proclaimed TikTok hopeful Shareef Taher joins the conversation to break down dating from a guy’s perspective. Why do some men come in strong and then vanish? Can men and women really be just friends? And what’s the deal with the “I’m bad at texting” excuse? Mehak asks hard-hitting questions, and Sharif does his best to keep up. It’s a fun, honest, and slightly chaotic episode you won’t want to miss!

Hosted by: Mehak @whathemehak on TikTok

Producer: Saadia Khan and Shei Yu | Content Writers: Mehak I Editorial Review: Saadia Khan I

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Other Music: Epidemic Sound | Cover art design: Josephine Chai | Executive Producer: Saadia Khan

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Under Lock & Key: Dating with Overprotective Parents

Fri, 07 Mar 2025 10:00:00 -0000

This week, our Love-ly host Mehak sits down with Genesis Sol, founder of the comedy variety show Witty Titties, to explore the impact of strict parenting, cultural identity, and growing up as a second-generation child of immigrants with a Venezuelan mother and Croatian father. Genesis shares hilarious and heartfelt stories of her mother’s overprotectiveness, how it shaped her social experiences, and the challenges and unexpected benefits of a conservative upbringing. They also dive into her experiences with her boyfriend’s daughters, her take on men’s social behaviors, and the deeper themes of immigrant family dynamics, gender biases, and the role of empathy in relationships.

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Dating In Your 20s Vs 30s: Lessons, Growth & Surprises

Fri, 28 Feb 2025 10:00:00 -0000

In this episode of Love-ly, host Mehak and her close friend Mikey explore the whirlwind of dating in the 20s versus 30s, where chaos meets clarity. They discuss personal growth, shifting priorities, and the journey from chasing red flags to embracing green ones.

Mikey opens up about coming out, navigating heartbreak, and the power of accountability in friendships, while Mehak shares her recent dating misadventures and hard-earned lessons. From self-validation to emotional maturity, they break down what really changes over the years and leave listeners with advice on building fulfilling and loving relationships.

Hosted by: Mehak

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What We Weren’t Taught About Intimacy: Love, Boundaries & Letting Go

Fri, 21 Feb 2025 20:15:00 -0000

What does real intimacy look like? And how often do we mistake control for care? This week on Lovely, Mehak gets personal about love, entitlement, and learning to walk away from relationships that don’t feel safe. She shares her own experiences with intimacy—both the kind that left her questioning herself and the kind that finally made her feel seen.

Then, she sits down with sexuality educator Justine Ang Fonte, a leading voice in consent and boundaries, to unpack how cultural expectations shape our understanding of love. Together, they explore the immigrant lens on intimacy, dating while unlearning, and what it truly means to choose yourself.

If you've ever felt love was something you had to earn, this episode is for you.

Hosted by: Mehak

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Love-ly Beginnings: Matchmaking & Modern Romance

Fri, 14 Feb 2025 10:00:00 -0000

Welcome to the very first episode of Love-ly, your new favorite podcast about the messy, funny, and painfully honest world of love and dating. Hosted by Mehak, a 30-something techie by day, aspiring TikTok star by night, and forever navigating the trenches of modern romance in downtown Toronto—this isn’t your typical advice podcast. Instead, it’s a mix of personal stories, hilarious mishaps, and heartwarming (or head-scratching) moments that’ll have you saying, “Wow, I feel so seen.”

Since it’s Valentine’s Day, we’re kicking things off with matchmaking, featuring two incredible guests: Hoda Abrahim, founder of Love, Inshallah, and Yasmin Elhady, lawyer and comedian. They are both the stars of Hulu’s Muslim Matchmaker. These modern-day fairy godmothers share their insights, personal dating stories, and what makes Muslim matchmaking different from the Sima Aunty school of "compromise, beta.”

Plus, Mehak spills the tea on her own matchmaking “success” story from Brat Summer blind dates to spotting red flags faster than a Taylor Swift lyric drop. Will this episode inspire her mom to stop texting her rishtas?

Probably not, but it’s worth a shot.

Tune in for laughs, lessons, and maybe a little love because on Love-ly, the journey is just as important as the destination.

Don’t forget to check out Muslim Matchmaker on Hulu, dropping February 11th!

Hosted by: Mehak

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Introducing Love-ly

Fri, 07 Feb 2025 10:00:00 -0000

Welcome to Love-ly! Hosted by Mehak, this isn't your typical advice show—no perfect love stories or sugar-coated romance here. Instead, Mehak takes you on a hilarious, brutally honest, and sometimes painfully awkward journey through the highs, lows, and "what was I even thinking?" moments of modern dating.

From dodging her mom's "When are you getting married?" interrogation to unpacking the chaos of dating apps, Mehak spills it all. And she's not alone—each week, she's joined by dating experts, friends, and guests who bring their own wild love stories to the mix.

So whether you're prepping for a date, nursing a heartbreak, or just avoiding your to-do list, Love-ly is your perfect companion. New episodes drop every Friday—tune in wherever you get your podcasts!

Hosted by: Mahek

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